Naughty questions to ask a female

How do you know which one it is? My sister and I were immensely close and she’s recently started being cold and distant. I looked through our text conversations and she hasn’t asked me a single question in over two months… like not even a “how are you?” She used to ask me something every time we messaged, so it’s a marked shift.
I have tried asking her twice now if something was bothering her, or if I had upset her in some way, and she says nothing is wrong. I feel hurt because we used to talk about everything and now she is quite cold and distant. It’s starting to feel like a one-sided relationship and I don’t know how to repair something if she won’t communicate with me.

Field report from community member of Game New York.
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(Fri night attempts field report)
Was supposed to meet this girl for first date at bar in greenwish vlg last night, but got stood up/ghosted. Stil hung out in the bar for about or so talked to bunch of ppl. Got insta from this australian chick who was about to leave when I was chatting w her. She said come meet my friends and i sat at the booth along them. Met her 2 friends. (My mind was like impress the friends thats most of challenge here) but I failed honestly. One was ‘meh’ to me the other was for some reason did not like me lol. Got the girl’s insta but dont think shes gona follow back.
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Walked around the block and saw this really cute girl sitting by herself on the bldg porch I went up to her with “can I ask you a question?” But before i could finish, i saw she was crying I was like are u ok what happen. Started talking sat next to her consoling n stuff. It was going alright, needed maybe 5-10 mins more w her to get her socials but her friends were passing by so she called them and left with them.(Not bcz she wanted to go away from me she was actually liking the support, prolly just too in her head and dipped out idk but i was bummed)
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Bar hopped around. Talked to couple chicks here n there. started talking to this swizz chick at a club-ish bar. Shes here on vacay for few more days. I suggested getting drink since her hand was empty shes like lets do a shot im like cool and took my wallet out but she was like no let me pay I was stunned for a second never happed before lmao but Im like ok if u want to. Took a shot back to dancing/talking her friends were leaving so she started to go followed her to the door got her insta she seemed interested to go out on weekend. She said message me while leaving. (Shes hasnt followed back yet)
any tips on converting this potential swizz chick into success? Lol

Idk if this belongs here, if there's a more suitable page, please let me know.
Basically, nothing I ever do is enough. I babysit my sister 3 days a week, from 8am to 8pm. She in herself is another whole issue, but that's due to my mother's coddling no doubt. During this time I need to get my sister ready for school, drop her off, pick her up, do a variety of chores, make dinner for everyone, and feed our outdoor pet.
I don't mind this, my mum works hard. But when I come home she complains about EVERYTHING. If my sister made a mess of something and I haven't noticed, if my sister touched the walls with greasy hands, if my shoes are in front of the door. Like nothing is good enough. She's constantly bitching about my sisters, which makes me anxious to do the same. When I'm around her I don't dare grab a coke, snack, or make pasta, because she's constantly dogging on them for this.
One of the worst parts is how she claims she's blunt but everything feels passive aggressive. She will address it to my little sister like "Oh what have I told you about doing this, where's your this, hope you haven't been on that TV all day, what did you eat, oh baby let me go get you another drink." Like I'm sorry your kid is a literal demon. Idk what happened after I left for university, but my sister was lovely and silly and she adored me, used to want to be me, and now she's horrifying. "If you don't do this I'll tell mum lies about you, if you don't then you'll ruin my childhood, I love mum and my other sisters more than you."
Besides nothing being good enough for my mother, I'm perfect. On social media I'm the best daughter, I'm so smart, and she's so proud and I'm so beautiful. She wonders why I have no self worth? Because I've never heard those things to my face. I hear her tell me I have a good figure, but never without hearing "you don't want to be like your sister, she's too skinny." Oh I have a nice face? Only because my sisters is so punchable.
She reminds me every day that she's a great mother, ill say well you can be a bit this or that, and she has an excuse for everything. Why you do it doesn't matter. If it hurts, it hurts. What's the point in parenting if the child doesn't find it effective.
I recently told her I think I might have something not quite right with me. A lot of people (mostly AuDHD) say they think I'm autistic or have adhd, and I've thought that for a long time. I have a lot off issues, I wouldn't be surprised if it's just a mixture of many of them that just seems like autism or adhd. But basically my mother said its a trend right now and an excuse to be lazy. It was really giving "were all depressed, just stop being a lazy victim" vibes. She also told me I was too normal as a child, and refutes all the instances of me being strange. Like when I had a no talking phase, when I told all my friends I didn't like them because they were too hard to talk to, when I cried to my mum basically explaining alexithymia to her because I didn't feel the emotions I expressed, all my various sensory issues I still have to this day that she said we're typical kid behaviour. It's all only gotten worse from there. I feel completely not normal, like I can't explain it.
There's so much more, like so much more. A lot of things she would say never happened. Like how she let my abusive bf take drugs to a holiday and kind of peer pressuring me to do them (I got SAd while I was sleeping that night by him). She said the whole time she didn't like him but didn't tell me in case I got upset. Or that time when I was getting pressured by my bf at 13, and she thought something was going on and just told me if I'm going to do anything I should just ask her for condoms instead of being an idiot. Reading this back, holy shit. One time she was crying and I went to give her a hug and she shooed me away and told me to leave her alone, and then seconds later my sisters aunt did the same thing and she broke down to her even more and hugging her. I was her emotional support child btw, so obviously this crushed me as that felt like my only value to her.
But yeah there's so much idk how to even get into it all. So it probably doesn't seem so bad because this is probably typical parent behaviour. Also yes, she is a single mother and I'm grateful, but she has never said sorry to me. Never. It's always sorry you feel that way but you're dramatic, victimising yourself, lazy, you'll thank me later. Like no I won't. Later you'll be estranged. She also has it in my head that no man is good. She keeps warning me of my bf who yes is a pos sometimes, but better than a druggy rpist? I'd fricking say so, yeah. I tried to OD after breaking up with him, she doesn't even know because if I told her she'd say I'm stupid and selfish. She also gets annoyed when I unblock my bf (as I broke up with him) to work things out. We're in a hard place and I'm having complex emotions and she just wants me to block him and spend time with family, and study well. Like let me grieve, jeez. She also tells me him mother is a psycho jealous bitch and his dad is a pdo. Like excuse me? You met them once, and know nothing about them.
I'm just writing this because I woke up to her complaining about a single cup and some pans that were left out last night (since the dishwasher was on) and saying how it's unfair as she wakes up early and has to deal with it. Why didn't you deal with it by cleaning it if it bothered you? Instead you wait till people are awake to criticise it and make them feel bad. Like we always do the dishwasher, that's one of my babysitting chores. Just ask me to do it nicely when I wake up, why all the backhanded comments and sparky remarks? Just communicate, you're 45, get a grip. She feigns perfection constantly and paints us as a perfect family when one child has cptsd, one has anxiety, I got a shit tonne of issues, and my little sister is an absolute entitled brat who will cry and scream and threaten if not given her way. Literally my sister said she would tell lies about me because I told her to wipe her own ass because I had chores to do (she's 8) and she said my mother would do it and that's why she doesn't love me. I want out of this house, but my mum will fault me for not babysitting as it costs money, and I do it for free.
Ask any questions you'd like. I understand there's not much to go off of, I'm happy to elaborate as I really need to vent I can't lie.

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Hi,
I’m in a bit of a pickle. I (27, F) met a guy (27, M) a while back through mutual friend during a group hangout. We were just introduced and that was it. Six months passed, and we saw each other again in a group setting around two weeks ago for a bonfire. We chatted a bit there, he seems like a really nice and genuine guy. When we were talking I was about to ask him a question but he interrupted me in the middle and answered. He thought I was about to ask him if he has a girlfriend, so he flat out said „girlfriend? No I don’t have a girlfriend”.
Two days later I got a notification on my phone and saw that he followed me on Instagram, I followed him back and thought that maybe he would message me, or do something.
It’s been a week, silence, at first I was adamant that I wait for him to do something that shows that at least he is interested in me and essentially make the first move. But nothing like this is happening. Last night I saw him again, unfortunately we didn’t get to talk as I was briefly with his friend group, but he seemed a little bit shy, we stole a few glances.
So it got me thinking - do I break the silence and barrier and actually message him first? Would that be weird? I have no confirmation that he is interested/into me, except for those few occasions and the fact he followed me on Instagram.
I want to ask him if he wanted to grab a coffee, but I’m not sure if I should just let things be and see how the situation evolves or just take the wheel and show him I’m interested. I’m not scared of rejection, I’m a grown woman and can handle it, just don’t know how it might be perceived and not sure if it’s a good idea. Any thoughts?
Thanks!

How do you know which one it is? My sister and I were immensely close and she’s recently started being cold and distant. I looked through our text conversations and she hasn’t asked me a single question in over two months… like not even a “how are you?” She used to ask me something every time we messaged, so it’s a marked shift.
I have tried asking her twice now if something was bothering her, or if I had upset her in some way, and she says nothing is wrong. I feel hurt because we used to talk about everything and now she is quite cold and distant. It’s starting to feel like a one-sided relationship and I don’t know how to repair something if she won’t communicate with me.

Ive been reading Punisher comics for a while now, trying to read them in order of publication. Up until Garth Ennis took the reigns with Vol 5.
I gotta say, his run is... Boring me to death. Up till now, mostly Punisher books were superb. Full of action, but had preparations, secret spying stuff (not exactly but lots of times Frank would go undercover for a time or assume fake identities to pass security or get info), he had Micro who added a lot and contrasted his personality and there was a deep human element.
With Ennis, it feels... Bland. No Micro. Soap is a miserable loser, unlikeable as they come and got worse and worse each time. Frank is just a killing machine, almost no inner monologue, war journals abandoned, moral questions out the window...
Yet whomever I ask, every one says the same - Garth Ennis' punisher is peak Punisher before and since. So, am I missing something here? Maybe another comic for context?

Hi all,
Just wanted to pop on here and ask if anyone else has had this exprience. I've been trying to make a nice tasting espresso for a while now, but I haven't had the best experience. I've pulled about 3-4 dozen shots now, and every single one of them has tasted off in some way: Very sour, very bitter, sometimes both.
I've been using 12g in, getting about 30g out in 25 seconds, using a light-medium roast, which from what I've seen online should taste nice, but it just doesn't. I've gone 2 clicks finer and coarser from this point and all shots just tasted soubitter. I feel like I can't really distinguish between the sourness and bitterness either, it feels like they're always both present.
I'm starting to question if I am doing something wrong, or if I actually just don't like espresso. It tastes nice when I drink it with milk, which is the way I've always drunk other coffee's.
I hear people talking about sweetness in espresso a lot, and I just haven't been able to get any of that. Am I just still doing something wrong?

Anybody has a Home Science (Bachelors) course experience? From DU or any College?
A cousin who has decide to have a career in SSC/Bank PO due to being weak in academics (67% in 12th, PCMB that to due to getting 82 in English) has decided to study home science as he says he wants to study something which will help him in real life as he is committed to getting a Govt. job and wants to study a B.Sc degree instead of BA or B.Com as he had science in 12th. I teased him saying that he only want to get into this course because it has higher female ratio.
My question is will this course really be helpful in real life, how difficult it is to pass with at least 60% and is there any easier B.Sc course?

I know I ask a lot of questions on this sub but listen pls. As I have stated here before, I was brought in the US as a minor, turned 18 and left over 180 days but less than one year. My mum (USC)wants me to come back in the US, can she do that ? How long will it take ? Thank you in advance

I've come across quite a few queries in the past few weeks where I am asked to list a few books my book is similar to. Has anyone else see this? Does anyone know what literary agents are looking for with this question? Are they wanting me to just list books without context, or to explain why each book is similar to mine and in what way?

Hello
Could I get some advice and guidance on what all these tests might mean and what I need to learn and know should my Endocrinologist head down the route of TRT, which is where she has indicated over the past couple of months whilst doing tests?
I apologise for the length, but I have tried to cover it as much as possible, as I accept nothing is simple. If more information is needed that I have missed, please ask.
Thanks

Stats

• Age: 45
• Height: 6ft 7
• Waist: 50 inches
• Weight: 25 stone / 159kg
• Body fat: 29.3% (using https://www.calculator.net/body-fat-calculator.html)
• BMI: 39.7

History
I was overweight for a good 20 years; we think this was when my thyroid started causing issues, and it took many years for the NHS to even consider that a problem. I also had no morning erections for a good ten years. I honestly cannot remember the last time I felt hungry, and that was after either an hour of weight lifting or hiking for a full day in the Austrian Alps (the longest one was a 10km round trip and a 1200m climb and then descent).
It took several years to sort the thyroid, and I was still unable to lose weight, although other things had resolved themselves. My GP refused to investigate further, saying simply I was too young. Plus, back in 2019, my Testosterone level was 17.1nmol/L, and now it is down to 7.5, and apart from being a few years older, nothing else has changed weight-wise or fitness, etc. I have had many Covid jabs as my father was extremely vulnerable, and I was his carer.
I am now under a different GP practice that started from scratch and said that, in their opinion, something underlying was causing the myriad of symptoms. They started testing and thought she knew what was wrong. It was agreed that, in computer terms, there was a tick box that needed ticking, but finding which one would take time.
However, their final idea saw her ask for guidance from Endocrinology; they said to do nothing and that they would take over. This was in 2023. However, Testosterone issues are an ultra-low priority in my area, so my expected appointment is in 2025.
For the past few months, I have seen an Endocrinologist privately with the agreement of my GP, who has done all the requested tests and agreed that if any prescriptions are needed, they will do it.
In addition to the above, dieticians have cleared me, having seen them privately and on the NHS.
I spent a year with a personal trainer at a bodybuilder gym, working out with him three times a week with no results and stopped through no results but with growing mental and physical fatigue. Walking 10,000 steps a day is not a problem for me.
I have had this all on hold for a while, what with COVID-19 and then a relative's very poor health. It is now time to focus back on myself, I think. I sleep a good 8 hours a night and get up feeling worse than going to bed – although randomly, I do have bouts of insomnia.
As mentioned to my GP and Endocrinologist, I have no problem putting in the hard work at the gym, but when that hard work does absolutely nothing for muscle mass or body shape, etc., it gets very depressing. I guess that does give me one direct question: How long do I need to leave it before going back if my Endocrinologist prescribes TRT—do I need to let my body recover a bit before stressing it by doing weights, etc.?
Tests (Using UK NHS Scales)
Testosterone has been done now 6 or 7 times, always within 0.2 or below and always done between 08:50 and 09:10 in the morning.
In addition, she requested an ultrasound, and the results came back as 29mm AP diameter and 19mm AP diameter, respectively, for the testes.

Test	Result	NHS Reference Range
Testosterone	7.5 nmol/L	8.6 – 29.0
Calculated Free Testosterone	180 pmol/L
SHBG	25 nmol/L	18.3 - 54.1
Free T4 level	21.7 pmol/L	11 - 23
TSH level	0.49 miu/L	0.27 - 4.5
Haematocrit	0.419	0.387 – 0.492
Creatinine level	71 umol/L	59 - 104
Urea level	3.9 mmol/L	2.5 - 7.8
Potassium level	4 mmol/L	3.5 - 5.3
Albumin level	39 g/L	35 - 50
Total Protein level	74	60 - 80
Sodium level	142 mmol/L	133 - 146
Insulin-like growth factor 1 level	11.5 nmol/L	11.1 - 27.7
Growth hormone level	0.1 ug/L
Prolactin level	241 mu/L	86 - 324
Cortisol level Dexamethasone suppression test	19 nmol/L
Cholesterol level	5.0 mmol/L
Triglyceride level	2.4 mmol/L
HDL	1.1 mmol/L
LDL	2.8 mmol/L
Cholesterol / HDL ratio	4.5 mmol
B12	63ng/l	197 – 771

Everyone needs to read this. Info on todays battle!! Seen this some Where else Not me. Not my post. Just trying to spread this information. Vote this up so everyone can see it!!!!!!
From another post (spread it around):
Are you asking yourself: "what now?" Here's an answer in "ape speak" for what we are waiting for. Please like and comment so others can see this post.
Okay so we held out with FFIE and ended the week nearly 2300% above what it was last week. This by itself is an amazing feat which accomplished 2 things:
We kept FFIE above 1 dollar, so it stays listed on NASDAQ (until it drops to 0.10 per share for 30 days which isn't likely for quite a while).
We made intentions for a short sale known to those who were betting it would be delisted, and eventually drop in price.
So what happens next?
Well, now the hedge funds have a decision to make:
They can cut their losses, and buy up the shares at current market value (this is the beginning of a cascade where we all get rich). Essentially, any share that a hedge fund purchases to mitigate their losses will increase the value of our shares.
They can continue to hold their shorted stock "loans" and hope the market drops again next week. If this is the case, we will need to continue to hold our shares until they crack (they pay a lot of money for each day they continue to short)
As of 1 h before market close, there were still 36 million shares being shorted.
What does this mean? It means that because Hedges believe our efforts are short lived, they didn't cancel their shorts and buy back their shorted stocks.
They are pretty much betting that the "meme" will die down soon and they can buy back their shorted stocks at a much lower price than it is right now.
Say, for example, the flame dies out, and people begin selling because they are scared or burnt out, and the share price on Monday (or aftermarket today) drops, they will be able to cover their shorts at a MUCH lower price.
This DOES NOT mean that the stock still wont jump up. But it does mean that it will jump up much less than it would've had we held out at 1 dollar. The higher the price per share, the more it will jump when the hedge funds are forced to buy back their shorts.
In the end, we only need to hold out long enough for the fees that they pay to become more expensive than it would be to just buy back their shares. Either way, they bleed. But one way, we take their money and get very wealthy.
Once one hedge fund cracks, and covers their shorts by purchasing shares, all of them will follow as it will become too expensive for all the hedge funds to hold out. This creates a "parabolic curve" as many have likely heard on various posts. Once the first hedge fund folds, this becomes officially known as a "squeeze." We hold until eventually all the hedge funds are either bankrupt (for not paying back their shorts), which will then be covered by the federal government, or until they all take MASSIVE losses and buy back their shorts.
Now, as for today, many people likely sold at peak, or once they started seeing red. Especially those who have never experienced a squeeze before (I was there in 2021 and sold out of fear). If this fits your description, please read the following:
The drop today was a maneuver known as a "SHORT LADDER."
This is a technique used by hedge funds to attempt to squash a short squeeze, and bring the price down of the stock. This is the hedge funds attempting to break you, using psychological warfare. Heres how they do it:
Step 1: They increase the share price (usually very quickly) to excite retail investors and make them think what we are doing is working. We saw this today starting about 1h after market opened this morning bringing price from 2.69 up to 3.87.
Step 2: Quickly sell every stock they bought to bring down the price to what it was before. This began approximately 2 hours after market opened today.
Now theoretically, this should only bring down the price to what it was before they bought right? Well with retail squeezers (us dumb apes), you see the shares dropping and start selling your shares in the hopes that you can still walk away with some earnings if you do it quickly enough. This is where they win.
If we all hold, the day ends at 2.69. But instead we ended at about 1.00. Meaning their ladder attack worked so well, that you monkeys got scared and sold your shares. Many of us (myself included) held out to give us another try next week and keep the flame alive.
Step 3: The hedge fund bears will try again, and again, and again (to look like a downwards staircase on the graph, hence the term "ladder") to make the fear worse, and worse, and worse, until there's nothing left and they can get away with shorting a company with very minimal losses.
Our solution, is to mimic exactly what DFV (AKA roaringkitty) did in 2021 with GameStop. We simply hold our shares. Will it put more pressure and make the spike come quicker if we buy more shares? Of course. But the reality is, at 2300% over what they shorted at, if we just even hold where we are at, eventually a hedge fund will fold and our shares will skyrocket.
Now to answer the big ticket question: When will we sell? The answer is as follows: after hedge funds crack, we will see the number of shorted shares decline dramatically. You cant base it off of the price of the share because they can manipulate those numbers to make it LOOK very promising.
Heres the link where you can check FFIE shorted shares numbers: https://fintel.io/ss/us/ffie
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As of right now, the exact number is 36, 342,623. It has hardly changed since we began our squeeze. Once this number begins dropping, we broke a hedge fund and the cascade has begun.
The only risk at this point, is if we sell. We will be our own worst enemies. They will use tricks to make us sell. They will manipulate us. They will flood media with articles describing how we failed. They will use every tool in their power to scare us. But in the end, if we HOLD OUR GOD DAMN SHARES, they cant win.
There will be red days. There will be shutdowns of subreddits (like wallstreetbets back in 2021). There will be news articles. (like the hundreds already published demeaning us). There might even be threats of legal action (like they did to DFV). However, short squeezes are 100% legal, and will make us rich + make billionaire cheaters bleed.
Good luck fellow FFIE advocates. Buy at the dips to get back in. Hold your shares to ensure profits. And no matter what, remember,
APES. TOGETHER. STRONG.

Why did the San-Ti reveal the existence of the Sophons and then go on to explain how they developed it to store the Petabytes of data in upper dimensions. Surely, this is a sure way of the earthly human race to figure out how to destroy it and the San-Ti?
I believe this was done for the purposes of making storytelling by the producers easier, but then I have not read the book and do not know how it happens in there. The other answer is that thee San-Ti are essentially giving the humans a chance and have told them they are being watched, in order for them to become better people and more worthy. I like my 2nd thought on this here. What are other opinions?
I have asked ChatGPT this very question, but the answers such as "Psychological Warfare" and "Show of Power" does not make sense because; now the humans know what they need to do and when. If they weren't told about the Sophons in the VTR headset, then the Sophons could of covertly stifled the Science and innovation until they arrive, with ease.
In general, I think this is one of the best TV shows and the way the story is written (probably thanks to the book). They set it up with a 400 year timegap of potential calamity happening. It has great real life references, something that a lot of TV shows are afraid to do, such as referring to Vodafone, Webb etc etc.

Hi all! I’m almost two weeks in, I change to my second set of trays on Tuesday! So far, I’ve learned a lot from this sub, but it has brought up a lot of questions for me.
I’ll start by saying that when I went in for getting the attachments on my teeth, as soon as I got there my ortho jumped right in. She didn’t explain how many attachments or where, or really anything about my treatment plan. I asked her if there would be an animation, and she kind of laughed and said no even though last time I was in for my scans I was told there would be one. So I pretty much have zero idea of what my end result may look like. As soon as she placed the attachments, she switched chairs to work on another patient and I didn’t get to ask her any questions.
I’ve seen a lot of people talking about their animations, I’ve seen some posted here too on cinechek or something like that. I guess I don’t know if it’s normal to not have an any animation or indication of your end result.
I’m supposed to have 30 trays changing every 2 weeks. I was only given trays 1-4 and they said they were keeping the rest for “record keeping,” which is fine I guess. I will have check in appointments where I will get the rest. I just feel like there are so many things I don’t know!
What is bonding for at the end of treatment? Is that common/why do people get it? Did you get an animation or some sort of representation of your end result? I have an overbite, I’m not sure how that will get fixed. I didn’t know you can get rubber bands with Invisalign until I came here, when do you usually find that out?
Thanks in advance! I’m still really excited to finally start feeling more confident with my teeth. I’ve waited for this for a long time, and while I am nervous since there are some people on here talking about issues I wasn’t aware of, like open bites and stuff, I’m just really excited to see where I can go from here.

For most of the dentists I have worked with, they all have billing problems. Wrong numbers/Did not file insurance claim correctly/Wrong item on the billing. Some of the financial ppl they hire don’t even take these numbers seriously. Last week I was asked to talk to this financial ppl for treatment plan after getting aligned with the doctor. However the financial plan and the numbers are so sketchy that the young man don’t have answer to most of my questions. He guessed around and corrected his own words all time. He also had to correct a few items when I asked about them. I trust the doctor but how could I trust his team who would handle my personal information like ssn/insurance/credit cards if they are not serious or detail oriented. I just don’t understand. And what was even worse is that this guy did not feel sorry at all. I emailed the doctor and he just explained to the doctor and not to me. I get it ppl make mistakes. What is unacceptable is the attitude. It usually takes thousands of dollars for dental treatment. Is that too little to be treated seriously? But I guess when it comes to business, reputation and trust does matter?

We (F31/M30) broke up two weeks ago. I caught him flirting, or liking a flirtatious message from a woman on instagram. This was after we'd just spoken a day ago and I'd asked him if he'd found someone new, if he'd lost interest, because for the past two weeks he'd just seemed less interested. He said he had doubts about us working out (long distance), that maybe we're just prolonging the inevitable. He'd never expressed such doubts before.
He gave a roundabout answer to my questions, that began with "I wouldn't say so". "Have you met someone new to talk to?" "I wouldn't say so", instead of a "no(, of course not)". Either way, I believed him, we agreed that we'd still like to meet, and then the very next day came across the photo with the flirty message, which he had liked back.
At this point I should've realised that I no longer trusted him, and should've ended it there on my own terms. Or at the very least asked him directly, told him what I saw was making me feel jealous and insecure. But instead I messaged her and asked if there was something between them. She never replied to me, just made her profile private. I assume she told him. I messaged him that I can't do this anymore, that I don't trust him and it's making me behave in an insane way. He made his profile private, too.
A day after that we talked. I apologised. He had a very lukewarm reply, which started with "There's things I want to say, but I won't". That he takes blame for my mental state, but it shouldn't have come to this and at this point it's best we end things where they are. We only said a couple paragraphs each, it wasn't aggressive, but not exactly friendly either. Just, distant, from his side. Neither of us blocked the other. We just stopped talking.
Now I'm wondering what it is that he didn't say. It's possible that he just wanted to call me names for contacting that other woman, for embarrassing him, but held back. I really don't know what it is.

• Is it reasonable to contact him and ask him to say what it is that he left unsaid?
• Have you ever been in a similar situation? Did talking things out clear the air or help at all? Did it make thngs worse, were they mad at you for contacting them, or didn't respond at all?
• When did you decide to talk/when did they contact you to talk?

When there’s a question asking to criticize the results from the table, sometimes you have to say inconsistent d.p and sometimes s.f. So does anyone know when to use which cuz I’m so confused😭