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TrueOffMyChest, a place for people who need to speak their mind

2013.10.21 08:59 chupacabra_whiskey TrueOffMyChest, a place for people who need to speak their mind

A place to get personal things off your chest. Not for opinions, not for relationship advice, and not for preaching.
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2012.02.22 05:31 DominicDom /r/ExposurePorn - Long Exposure Photography

/ExposurePorn is a Safe For Work subreddit in the Safe For Work (SFW) Porn Network. The main focus of /ExposurePorn is to feature photographs that use the long exposure technique at night or during the day to capture stars, the milky way, movements, lights and much more! Great place to find astrophotography, HDR, long-exposures, light photography, and night photography!
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2013.07.17 01:28 a_calder Workflow: Powerful Automation for iPhone and iPad

This subreddit is closed. The community has moved to /shortcuts [Workflow](http://my.workflow.is) automates the things you do every day. Discuss it here.
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2024.05.19 21:23 bleedinpin [A4A] Long Term Partner Search

Hello there! I am looking for some new roleplay partners to create amazing stories with. I am 20 years old so all partners and characters MUST be 18+. I am a second-year university student who lives in the UK. I identify as non-binary and use they/them pronouns. I am looking for semi-literate + roleplayers. I am literate myself and can mirror my partner's response length. Absolutely no one liners and a paragraph at the bare minimum. Since I am at university, my life can be rather unpredictable and hectic at times. I do try to send out one reply per day but it will vary depending on what is happening in my life. I aim to communicate if anything happens that will mean that I won't be able to respond for a few days. Please communicate with me as well. I do not enjoy being ghosted. If you cannot reply for a while or no longer want to roleplay then please just explain that in a message.
I am down to play any gender in any pairing. However, I do get quite tired of doing MxF pairings with me as the male. Usually, it takes a good plot for me to be interested in that pairing. The pairing that I want to do most at the moment is FxF. Themes I enjoy are: fantasy, romance, angst, drama, action, historical, and supernatural. Tropes I enjoy include opposites attract, soulmates, forbidden love, and enemies to lovers. I will often create a plot alongside my partner so we can both make something we will love. If you do have a plot in mind that you are eager to try out then please send it my way! If you're interested, please don't hesitate to send me a message. I prefer to roleplay over on discord but feel free to message me on here and we can discuss plot ideas etc. Hope you are having a lovely day x
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2024.05.19 21:22 Psychological_Can219 Any advice for dealing with transphobic parents?

I've been living with my mom because I don't have enough saved for an apartment and I'm worried about coming out to her. I'm mtf pre everything and I don't know what to say to her. She's expressed sympathy for the lgbtq community but she's always struggled with understanding trans people. I've always thought that she was just confused about the terminology but was accepting, but we were watching a show a few days ago and there was a trans character who was stated to be mtf and my mom started making weird jokes about the characters genitals and referring to her as "the tranny" and this led to us talking more about trans people, where she asked very enlightening questions such as "are girls who wanna be boys still called tranny?" And "Why are real women called cis women?" And after I tried my best to explain things and even citing fucking sources she still wasn't getting it. The conversation ended when I asked her if she really thought that trans women couldn't be real women and she said "Isn't it in the name though? They're called trans women, not real women." And I watched the rest of the episode before I told her I was gonna take my dog for a walk. But I just sat in the backyard with him and cried. Is there anything I could say to make her understand? I love her and she is very important to me. I'm just scared that I might lose her because of her beliefs.
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2024.05.19 21:21 zlakesmn1 What to do about a bad DBQ and filing my information

I going to make this as brief and to the point as I can. I paid for a Nexus letter and DBQ linking my Migraines as secondary to PTSD. My PTSD got in the way. I could not deal with the application and contracted with a Law firm and sent the letter and DBQ to the Law firm with all the usual information. The law firm has not been transparent so other than that they filed an HLR I do not know what is going on. I have requested my full case file. I received a letter from the VA stating that there was disagreement about Migraine as secondary to PTSD and I had a C&P review. VES Dr called, and the total call length was 7 minutes and 26 seconds. During which time she asked a few questions and cut me off If I tried to explain. Didn't ask for and did not check all of the symptoms. Her report denied a connection and cited “researches”, no specifics, in support of her decision. The nexus letter and DBQ I supplied cites facts and symptoms from my records, treatments received, time frames for migraines, and specific studies are named and referenced to support the link between migraines and PTSD in my case. Since the law firm is involved can I upload the positive information to ensure it is in my records? If so, how can I do it?
Thanks
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2024.05.19 21:21 DreamIn240p Am I tripping out or what

Disclaimer: I'm not an audiophile nor expert on anything sound-related.
I love wearing over ear headphones for the form factor (as opposed to IEMs), but not for the sound. I've tried several headphones over the years and were only left with disappointment. On the other hand IEMs have impressed me time and time again with their price to performance ratio, and for two-digit prices, no less.
The headphones I've had are Philips Fidelio X2, the rather "vintage" Audio-Technica ATH-AD2000X, and most recently Hifiman Edition XS.
The X2 initially I did not find the sound to be all that impressive. But it grew on me, and I love them for gaming the most out of all the pairs I own. At first I thought that the vocals sounded a bit recessed on them. And details not as good as the IEMs I own. But I still like them a lot because they are still the best headphones I've ever tried (even though at least half of my IEMs sound better to me), and that they are also the most comfortable pair that I own.
The 2000X I found them lacking in detail even compared to the X2. It's safe to say that I did not like them for sound. I got them because of how people say they sound great with female vocals. Being headphones I imagined they'd have amazing airy sound with very good soundstage. Turned out I wasn't at all impressed with the sound and went back to my IEMs seconds after trying them. I've already sold them now so I can't comment any further on the sound. Except maybe I remember them as almost as sibilant as the Edition XS which was not a pleasant experience. Comfort was good and very lightweight, but they weren't as "cozy" as the X2. The X2 feel like having two couch pillows on the head.
I recently just got a used pair of Edition XS for about 270 Canadian dollars (around 198-200 USD). It was in perfect condition and I thought I got a super good deal until I actually heard the headphones. They were super sibilant with most of the music I listened to. The Fidelio X2 might not be as detailed sounding and spacious as the XS, but at least music sounded smoother and more easy-going. XS also have weak clamping force and have an extension size tailored for Shrek heads. I thought I have a slightly larger than normal head size but turned out I could only wear them with the length extenders completely sheathed and untouched. Even without using the extenders (or whatever you call them), they still have a rather weak clamping force. I may keep them for a while considering the price I got them for, and that they are quite detailed (at least when ignoring the MSRP price). But I don't like the way they sound with the music I listen to. I much prefer my IEMs, and would rather listen on my Fidelio X2 if it has to be headphones.
Amps I've used: Apple USB-C dongle and Cayin C5 portable amp
Cayin C5 is an amp which adds to an immediately noticeable airy sound with pretty much any headphones/IEMs you use. I was not impressed with the Edition XS despite using a more powerful source than the Apple dongle. I was using my old Fiio X3 II as the player and also the DAC for my PC.
I'm thinking this can't possibly be the fault of the amps I'm using...? It's not like a more powerful amp would reduce sibilance...? I have several bright IEMs, and even compared to those, the XS is still more unbearable to listen to with the sibilance. I own the Chu 2 which time and time again ppl have commented on the sibilance being a bit harsh on them. I have absolutely zero problems with sibilance on the Chu 2. They don't sound all that sibilant to my ears.
Some IEMs I own: Moondrop Chu 2 with JVC Spiral Dot++ or Moondrop Spring Tips, Tanchjim Zero with JVC Spiral Dot regular, Simgot EW200 with Spinfit CP100+, Truthear Zero Red with stock silicone wide bore tips, KZ Castor Bass with stock tips. Previously owned Tangzu Wan'er S.G, but I got rid of them as they aren't my preferred sound. Still impressive for the price point, but they will be much more appreciated by others.
My conclusion from my experience is that headphones generally don't sound as good as IEMs, unless a substantial price is paid as in possibly above $800 MSRP (CAD or USD, doesn't matter) in order to outperform IEMs under $100 CAD. I know some of you will say I'm insane and needs to be locked up in the asylum, but that has been my experience since the day I got my Fidelio X2. I was simply not impressed with the way they sounded when compared to IEMs of identical or lower price range. I'm hoping someone would be able to explain to me why I'm having this experience.
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2024.05.19 21:20 honeyfocks PIP Denial Questions

Hi everyone, looking for some advice on my PIP claim.
I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis in 2019 after having joint pain since 2017. Been on medication since then, but have been suffering with a horrendous flare up since Sept 2023 so have been put on some additional medication (which has not helped much). During this period a few people advised me I would qualify for PIP which is why I put my claim through.
I applied for PIP in January 2024, had a face to face meeting with an assessor May 8th. I got a letter through over the weekend saying my claim had been denied.
I really felt like in my assessment I explained myself ok, and was clear that I had issues with most aspects of what their requirements are but I don’t believe this was reflected in their denial letter.
Couple questions:
I’m going to appeal. Is phone or letter best? I don’t necessarily feel I have any ‘new’ information but I do feel as though they’ve minimised the struggles I have.
If I’m denied a second time, can I appeal again? Or is there anything else I can do?
Sorry if this seems silly. Got myself a bit anxious and disheartened by it all tbh
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2024.05.19 21:20 Forward_Honey_8393 Lyrics to song I just wrote about OCD and feeling like it isn’t fair cuz you have to try so much harder than others

Apartment :
V1: Look at her, she’s so pretty Strutting down all through the city Living life without a fear What’s that like, cause it’s not here
And look at her, she’s on that stage Oh she’s a sight that will amaze Anyone who sees It’s her I wish to be
P1: I was given keys To what I thought would be that dream But it all just came crashing down Is her reality my fantasy now
C1: I’m stuck in this apartment Lost in memories that are haunted I try to escape but I lost all the keys
And the days here feel like nightmares While she lives my dreams, it’s not fair Is this all that life has in store for me She’s who I was supposed to be
V2: But look at me, I’m beautiful Though I don’t feel so good at all I’m living with a million fears But I’m pushing through, I’m standing here
Cause look at me, I’m on the stage I sing my truth, though I’m so afraid But still I choose to see That there’s so much good in me
P2: I was given keys To what I thought would be that dream But when it comes crashing down I find a love for reality now
C2: I’m stuck in this apartment Lost in memories that are haunted I tried to escape but I lost all the keys
And most days here feel like nightmares But the dreams are waiting somewhere This is what life has in store for me I’m who I am supposed to be
Bridge: I love me On the days when I feel so free And I love me When my thoughts suffocate, I can barely breathe
Oh I love me On the days where I just sleep Cause it’s the only way to escape this anxiety
Outro: Look at her, she’s so pretty Strutting down all through the city I gave her the key To Apartment B But for now it’s just me
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2024.05.19 21:20 freddiemercurial 45 [M4F] UK/Anywhere - There must be someone special out there for me. There has to be, right?

I miss having someone in my arms, having someone to hold and to be held by. I miss that connection, that bond that you can only have with someone special. I miss all of that. And it's killing me.
I’m after the relationship that goes the distance, the one that results in love and, when the time is right, the ‘m word’. I can’t think of anything I look forward to more than spending my life with the woman I love.
I love physical displays of affection, both public and otherwise. Gestures like holding, hugging, etc, are something I adore and would always welcome, especially because I love the excitement and warm feeling that come with being close to the one you love.
The person I am after is someone who is kind and caring, somebody that I can relaxed around. I don’t want the stress of being around someone who gets set off my the smallest thing. My sense of humour is varied, although it can best be described as something of a mix of Chandler Bing (RIP) and Edmund Blackadder.
When we’re together, my ideal night would involve spending our time at home, curled up on the sofa together and watching a film, or playing a game, although I’m not against the occasional day/night out if it’s just the two of us.I watch little in the way of current TV or films, and almost no sport. My main solo hobbies can be found on my friends post.
If we’re apart, as I presume we would be in the early days of our relationship, then, because I game a fair bit, I’d be open to you watching me play something, or vice versa if you game as well. We could also chat while we play our own individual games. We can also watch films, TV, etc, or whatever may bring us closer together.
I’m in the UK, so I would prefer to talk to someone who is also in the UK, as it would make things convenient for the both of us, and it would also make meeting up easier, and I would want to meet up if things progress well. However, I am open to talking to people who are overseas, as long as you’re moving to the UK in the near future, and that the move is, if not set in stone, then is at least guaranteed to happen or to be able to happen. Be aware that I am unable to travel overseas, although not for any nefarious reason.
I’m a vegetarian, though I don’t mind being around meat eaters as long as they’re respectful of how I feel. I don’t drink and, while I’m okay being with someone who does, it won’t work if you’re a person who drinks frequently. I’m non-religious and non-spiritual, and this will never change, and my views are generally what you’d call progressive and liberal. Disparate views are one thing, but if you use terms like ‘PC/PC culture’, ‘liberal’ or ‘woke’ as pejoratives, we will not get along. In addition, I do not smoke and will not be with a smoker.
I’m okay with either private messaging or Reddit chat, though I’d like to move off Reddit once we both feel comfortable doing so. Once we’ve moved to a different platform, exchanging pictures is then also something that would be done once we’re both comfortable, as would voice and video chat, especially because the best way to really get to know someone is through real-time communication.
Your opening message doesn’t have to be that long, just give me something to work with, something that can spark conversation. If you have any questions, queries, posers, then feel free to ask.
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2024.05.19 21:20 dartully The bagel deli review

So after being told to try Leven’s (thank you) i did and i was amazed, it was my first pastrami sandwich I’ve ever had! When I ordered take out the sandwich was perfectly wrapped, there was a lot of meat yet it was composed. After speaking with one of the lovely staffers they gave me a free additional cookie! This was 2-3 weeks ago.
Today, I had an additional $25 to spend so I wanted to try the bagel deli. It’s been on my food bucket list, today was the day. I ordered take out, really excited to try it. I open it and there’s a lot of pastrami. A lot of pastrami. And since they don’t wrap their sandwiches, it’s in a to-go box so there’s pastrami in the small pockets of the to go box, and just everywhere. I didn’t mind this, however I wish it was a little more neat instead of more meat
I appreciate them cutting the sandwich in half as well. As I pick it up there’s a bunch of meat hanging out my mouth and the texture is similar to bacon. But after 2-3 bites, I wasn’t really feeling it. It was really greasy, I also would’ve preferred for the side sauce to be placed on the sandwich for me.
The fries were okay really dry, the potato salad was good and the tossed salad was good.
I gave Leven’s a 9/10, I’d give this one a 6/10 not that it was bad it just wasn’t all that. It felt like I was eating a greasy meat sandwich not a pastrami sandwich. Would I order it again? No. But I will go back and try a different dish.
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2024.05.19 21:20 Han517 3 tickets for Detroit 5/20. FCFS message me and they are yours.

Grandmother is dying and I refuse to be away from family for the night. Third ticket was for a buddy but he doesn't want to go alone. First person to message me gets them for free. All I ask is you don't take them to resell. Let me pay it forward to someone who may not of had the money and would love to be there tomorrow night. I would absolutely love to give someone a night like we have had seeing them twice before. I won't respond for awhile because I will be with the family, but the first person in my inbox that's genuine will get them emailed over. I will respond before the end of the night.
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2024.05.19 21:18 Ill_Chicken6173 Daddy issues? New Father figure switched up on me. I’m so lost, disappointed, and depressed.

Background: I [F20] have a narcissistic father. He is well known and appreciated as a political power In my city, but he is so manipulative to everyone. I believe that he may be kind deep down and I know he loves me as his daughter. But since he has grown in popularity and fame, he wants me to fit into a mold of a person that I am not. He constantly talks about me in his podcasts and newsletters, portraying me as a “wild child” argumentative “bra burner” type. I can’t stand it bc ppl think I’m mean before I even meet them. He also got heat in 2020 which led to my car getting keyed by far right winged ppl and my family is also harassed constantly even though I have nothing to do with his political position. Our relationship completely fell apart during Covid. He never stood up for me when people were harassing me and said he couldn’t intervene bc of his power position. He also makes fun of anyone of my multitude of hobbies to my face, but brags about them to colleagues. He says all the right things that a dad should say, but it has never been sincere. When my brother and me made him mad as kids, he would give us the silent treatment for days at a time.
Current issue: So long story, but I loved far away out of state for college to a small lib arts school so I could get away. I got lonely, fell into the wrong group, and eventually got redzoned by a senior athlete who took me under his wing. it was pretty bad for me so I talked to a teachers assistant that I was comfortable with and treated like a sister. But later on she told me that she was a mandated reporter and had to tell her boss who happened to be my professor as well. when he found out he started crying and it was the first time that I had ever experienced genuine empathy over something that had happened to me. Later on he walked me to the title IX office and waited for me to fill out a complaint and meet with the administrator. As the process continued he constantly checked on me and met with me to see how I was doing. He was also the head coach of my college sport so I was basically seeing him every day for multiple hours. I have never experienced so much support in my lifetime emotionally and philosophically. He was the first person to genuinely support my interests and invest in my mental well-being. And I know that the father figure persona may come off as delusional however multiple people noticed this dynamic and some ppl on my team even upset that I was the favorite and treated like his daughter. The next year he had even made me his teachers assistant and constantly checked on me like before. And when I got a boyfriend he interrogated him just like a dad and I got embarrassed and my teammates took notice to it that he was acting like my dad. A couple months later he told me that he was going through a divorce from what I thought was a dream couple. I had even grown close with his soon to be ex wife and felt like I was part of the family. . Regardless I continue to walk his dog every day help with class assignments and talk to him like that I was his daughter. I wouldn’t be so upset if he didn’t reciprocate the energy that I was making up about him being a father figure but it was blatantly obvious And he most definitely played a role in it. Early in this fall semester it seemed like he completely abandoned this idea of being my father especially since he got a new girlfriend. It’s not like we were attracted to each other I genuinely saw him as a father so I’m not really sure why things got mixed up here at this point. Anyways since I was assaulted my freshman year I had developed a substance abuse problem and it had gotten way out of hand this semester. Before this I could be open with him about it and he’s very kind and understanding and offered resources that were personal and his friends not just the typical school resources. Anyways since I opened up that time he’s increasingly become more distant and people have noticed. I started to think that he hated me but I’m really not sure. I mainly think now that he realize that he had crossed a boundary and he had to go back on it However he did it so abruptly but I feel completely abandoned and useless and it seems like everything we’ve ever talked about before never even happened and in the end i just think it’s a shitty thing to do you know? I think it’s totally fine to set boundaries in the beginning to not take on the role as a father figure but to take them on And then completely leave has been so detrimental to my well-being. Since I don’t have a reliable dad to go back to at home I feel like I kind of have no one except my mom but I’d really like a father figure. My mom even acknowledge that this person would be a good father figure even though mine has been present every year of my life which I thought was strange. Anyways I feel like I was just filling the gap of his divorce and his emotional pain at the time and now I think he’s grown tired of me and I don’t really know what to do and all I can say is that I am never been this depressed before And I don’t realistically know any real person to talk to about it. If any of you in this sub Reddit have experience similar to this please please please tell me how you cope. I wish I never met him.
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2024.05.19 21:17 thatmemememeguy Recieve 25% off Pavlov Shack, Ghost of Tabor, Red Matter (1 & 2), The Walking Dead, Into the Radius, Blade and Sorcery, Assassin's Creed Nexus, Bonelab, Asgard's Wrath 2, Breachers, Arizona Sunshine 2, Vail and SO much more!

Hello gents,
I'm trying to save up to get me some games, I only started sending referral links recently so all of them are fresh, if you use my codes you'd be helping me out a lot and you'd be saving yourself 25%.
It's a win win. I'm going to write down my list of games feel free to pick, I wish I had known about these links earlier on. It'd have saved me a ton of money lol:
• £23 (UK) Device Referral (If you're a new user, feel free to send me a message and I'll happily help you setup your Quest and pick games) - https://www.meta.com/referrals/link/KFCisLIFE
• Bonelab - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/4215734068529064/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral (It has by far the largest modding community on the Quest platform.
Developers are porting entire games to Bonelab. Buying this is like an investment which keeps getting better. You get bored? Download some more mods. I can't rate it high enough)
• Blade and Scorcery - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/2031826350263349/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Breachers - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/5740397619319389/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral (Only recently just bought this, takes some time getting used to but it really is a fun game)
• Contractors - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/2436897736439055/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Into the Radius - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/5817243991680545/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral (Words cannot describe how much shit there is in my pants after playing this game, 10/10. Fallout if Fallout made you shit your pants.)
• Onward - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/2677344882310094/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Pavlov Shack - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/2443267419018232/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Red Matter 1 - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/2180753588712484/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Red Matter 2 - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/3682089508520212/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral (Playing this game should be a requirement for all Quest 3 players, the graphics are beautiful and the storytelling will leave a lasting impact afterwards.)
• Stride - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/4901911359882668/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• The Walking Saints and Sinners - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/2897337400373711/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Ghost of Tabor - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/7614022262006379/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=3&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Asgard's Wrath 2 - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/2603836099654226/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Vail - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/6625826934127580/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Assassin's Creed Nexus - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/5812519008825194/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Arizona Sunshine 2 - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/5245041552210029/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
This is all, if any of you gents wish to trade links for Sniper Elite VR: Winter, Resident Evil 4, Eleven table tennis, Espire 2 or Beat Saber I'd love to hear you out in my messages. I really want to get these games, and I will be using the credit I get from my codes to get them. I love referral codes, literally everyone wins!
I hope you enjoy your codes, and your discounts. Once the codes are used up I will edit them, please notify me in the comments about this as it will be helpful!
Also, Device Referrals are region locked. All games aren't however, if you need to get a Device referral link remember to pick ones with your countries name in it. Example, I live in the United Kingdom. So I picked a code that was in the UK!
Have a good day all,
• Memememeguy
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2024.05.19 21:17 DaemianHawk 22 M4F Malaysia(going to Brazil, Sao Paulo) - Looking for a chieftess to hopefully have a big family with

My name is Daemian Hawk, and I'm here looking for a romantic partner, a possible chieftess and, hopefully, my soulmate. I'll be honest, I am a Malaysian pagan who is currently in the broom closet but will soon be free once I leave my home-country. There may be better times to make such posts, but I feel like it's best to take my chances and start now, I hope any potential lovers will agree! after I leave, I'll be focused on settling down and making a village with my clan(found family) for many different reasons. One of the reasons is to have a family sharing a traditional way of life that is not restrictive.
I hope to meet someone who is understanding, loving, family-orientated, May have a sense of tradition but still open-minded. If you believe in a different religion than my belief that's still okay, I don't mind, I might even learn more about your religion/belief to respect you better.
My interests are fantasy (sci-fi included), philosophy, mystical practices, history, cultural studies and more (learn more personally).
I'm 5'7 tall, curly black hair, brown eyes, INFJ, Dyslexic, traditionalist but more open-minded, solarpunk, prefer green than concrete, dropped out from middle school, good at cooking, cuddle bug, gamer, a potential house husband, loves to garden in the rain and climb trees :3
My ambition is to create a solarpunk village with my clan(found family). If you are interested, you can help make the dream come true and we both can become it's leaders. Important note: I won't be accepting those from the USA due to my experience and advice given to me. Feel free to prove me wrong, but that's my only 'rule' for lack of a better word.
That's all for now. Thank you for taking the time to read this post, and may everyone have a blessed day.
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2024.05.19 21:16 thatmemememeguy Recieve 25% off Pavlov Shack, Ghost of Tabor, Red Matter (1 & 2), The Walking Dead, Into the Radius, Blade and Sorcery, Assassin's Creed Nexus, Bonelab, Asgard's Wrath 2, Breachers, Arizona Sunshine 2, Vail and SO much more!

Hello gents,
I'm trying to save up to get me some games, I only started sending referral links recently so all of them are fresh, if you use my codes you'd be helping me out a lot and you'd be saving yourself 25%.
It's a win win. I'm going to write down my list of games feel free to pick, I wish I had known about these links earlier on. It'd have saved me a ton of money lol:
• £23 (UK) Device Referral (If you're a new user, feel free to send me a message and I'll happily help you setup your Quest and pick games) - https://www.meta.com/referrals/link/KFCisLIFE
• Bonelab - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/4215734068529064/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral (It has by far the largest modding community on the Quest platform.
Developers are porting entire games to Bonelab. Buying this is like an investment which keeps getting better. You get bored? Download some more mods. I can't rate it high enough)
• Blade and Scorcery - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/2031826350263349/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Breachers - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/5740397619319389/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral (Only recently just bought this, takes some time getting used to but it really is a fun game)
• Contractors - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/2436897736439055/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Into the Radius - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/5817243991680545/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral (Words cannot describe how much shit there is in my pants after playing this game, 10/10. Fallout if Fallout made you shit your pants.)
• Onward - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/2677344882310094/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Pavlov Shack - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/2443267419018232/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Red Matter 1 - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/2180753588712484/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Red Matter 2 - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/3682089508520212/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral (Playing this game should be a requirement for all Quest 3 players, the graphics are beautiful and the storytelling will leave a lasting impact afterwards.)
• Stride - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/4901911359882668/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• The Walking Saints and Sinners - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/2897337400373711/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Ghost of Tabor - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/7614022262006379/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=3&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Asgard's Wrath 2 - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/2603836099654226/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Vail - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/6625826934127580/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Assassin's Creed Nexus - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/5812519008825194/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
• Arizona Sunshine 2 - https://www.oculus.com/appreferrals/KFCisLIFE/5245041552210029/?utm_source=oculus&utm_location=2&utm_parent=frl&utm_medium=app_referral
This is all, if any of you gents wish to trade links for Sniper Elite VR: Winter, Resident Evil 4, Eleven table tennis, Espire 2 or Beat Saber I'd love to hear you out in my messages. I really want to get these games, and I will be using the credit I get from my codes to get them. I love referral codes, literally everyone wins!
I hope you enjoy your codes, and your discounts. Once the codes are used up I will edit them, please notify me in the comments about this as it will be helpful!
Also, Device Referrals are region locked. All games aren't however, if you need to get a Device referral link remember to pick ones with your countries name in it. Example, I live in the United Kingdom. So I picked a code that was in the UK!
Have a good day all,
• Memememeguy
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2024.05.19 21:16 Key_Cup_4479 (M22) is lying to me (F23) what do I do?

I need advices
I don’t like my boyfriend watching girls in bikini (I have the right to have my boundaries, don’t come at me, I have the right to choose what I want and don’t want in a relationship, I don’t force ANY BODY). He already told me he was ok with that because he didn’t like that anyway. I told him « if you want to do it just tell me so we can find something that works for both of us ». The problem is that he lied to me. I found out myself because I needed his phone because mine didn’t have any battery anymore. I don’t know what to do with that, it’s about the trust, I don’t know How to rebuilt it. I’m open minded he could have told me. Respect is a big thing for me. I love him so bad but I’m hurt so bad too. Can you help me? Thank you.
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2024.05.19 21:15 SpecificLonely6509 I can’t catch feeling

I am really starting to worry about my emotional ability. I (19f) have never TRULY liked someone or been in love. I have had talking stages with people here and there, but I have never liked anyone enough to want to date them.
I am a very attractive woman and I have many options with men. I have lost many friends due to them developing feelings for me and I have not. A lot of these guys are also very attractive and respectable, I just cannot emotionally connect with anyone. I feel that this may stem from having too many options?
I never saw this as a problem but now that I am getting older and noticing more, it seems like I am the only one who cannot catch feelings. I don’t even want a boyfriend or a relationship, I just don’t really care for it. I think men are fun to have a good time with, but nothing more than that.
Anyways, this has been my whole life and I don’t really know what’s wrong with me.
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2024.05.19 21:15 arainri 25 [M4F] #Türkiye/Anywhere/Online - Muslim man looking for a Muslim lady

My chat and dm is open to muslim ladies all around the globe as I see beauty in all nations and races and flying is easy in our day and age. Im looking for muslim ladies preferably as Im also muslim and I feel warmth towards fellow muslims but if you are non muslim and if you are open to converting to islam, still hit me up !
Tell me your ASL and anything else you want to tell me about yourself, feel free to send long texts.
When it comes to me, I'm bearded, tall, Turkish man from Türkiye, Im good looking, romantic man. Loving, careful and protective.
I dont talk with women much outside, so, we can chat about your culture, country, gaming, anime, movies, religion, politics or if you want to get serious, we can talk about what are you looking for.
I like to make Tea and Turkish coffee, I like to watch movies, anime and gaming, also memes. I value honesty and I want to talk with a easygoing lady.
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2024.05.19 21:15 arainri 25 [M4F] - Muslim man looking for a Muslim lady

My chat and dm is open to muslim ladies all around the globe as I see beauty in all nations and races and flying is easy in our day and age. Im looking for muslim ladies preferably as Im also muslim and I feel warmth towards fellow muslims but if you are non muslim and if you are open to converting to islam, still hit me up !
Tell me your ASL and anything else you want to tell me about yourself, feel free to send long texts.
When it comes to me, I'm bearded, tall, Turkish man from Türkiye, Im good looking, romantic man. Loving, careful and protective.
I dont talk with women much outside, so, we can chat about your culture, country, gaming, anime, movies, religion, politics or if you want to get serious, we can talk about what are you looking for.
I like to make Tea and Turkish coffee, I like to watch movies, anime and gaming, also memes. I value honesty and I want to talk with a easygoing lady.
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2024.05.19 21:15 arainri 25m - Muslim man looking for a Muslim lady

My chat and dm is open to muslim ladies all around the globe as I see beauty in all nations and races and flying is easy in our day and age. Im looking for muslim ladies preferably as Im also muslim and I feel warmth towards fellow muslims but if you are non muslim and if you are open to converting to islam, still hit me up !
Tell me your ASL and anything else you want to tell me about yourself, feel free to send long texts.
When it comes to me, I'm bearded, tall, Turkish man from Türkiye, Im good looking, romantic man. Loving, careful and protective.
I dont talk with women much outside, so, we can chat about your culture, country, gaming, anime, movies, religion, politics or if you want to get serious, we can talk about what are you looking for.
I like to make Tea and Turkish coffee, I like to watch movies, anime and gaming, also memes. I value honesty and I want to talk with a easygoing lady.
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2024.05.19 21:13 DIY_Forever Aquila X3 Max PETG not sticking, again...

So I could NOT get PETG to stick to my build plate to save my life. Then ran accross the advice to wash the build plate with hot soapy water (Dawn dish soap) and a thorough HOT rinse, complete dry, and then wipe down with isopropyl alcohol. Which didn't work, but that procedure PLUS some purple glue stick seemed to do the trick. Let me clue you in a bit more to my method and tell me where I am buggered.
Model to be printed sliced using VoxelMaker as it is the only slicer I have figured out for the X3 Max... If anyone can help me figure out how to configure Prusa Slicer to work with my printer I would LOVE it as I want to go to using the Raspberry Pi closer to the printer instead of my laptop in the other room...
Using VoxelMaker accept the defaults, I have tried using a brim, and a raft. Brim never appears, raft works, but lets go after a while... Save .g file to micro SD card and pop card back into printer.
Wash build plate with Dawn dish soap and LOTS of HOT water, fully clear rinse.
Thoroughly dry build plate.
Reinstall build plate to the printer textured side up, wipe it down with alcohol wipes. May try IPA straight from the bottle and a lint free, well paper towel to get any residue off of the plate.
Apply a thin layer of disappearing purple school glue stick.
Power on printer.
Auto Home.
Auto Level.
Set Z offset using the paper sheet method once the hot end parks at home position. I typically go to where I start to feel dragging on the paper, then go another .02 to .03mm, I am trying to get the paper to drag but not tear. Maybe too close?
Attempt to print.
I have had ONE successful print using this method, a PETG case for my Raspberry Pi 5 / Pimoroni NVME base computer. And FWIW, if you have a Pi 5 / Pimoroni NVMe base setup, THIS is the case to print! Tried a couple other designs and the pi gets too warm / fan runs too much. The point behind the Pi in the first place is LOW energy usage...
https://www.printables.com/model/749469-raspberry-pi-5-case-for-pimoroni-nvme-ssd-remix
My latest attempted print is this apple model that I am upscaling 200% as a birthday gift to a teacher friend of mine that is about to hit the big 5-0... https://www.thingiverse.com/thing:135964/files
Filament is Polymaker transparent red PETG. I am going for being able to see status lights through the print after all... The apple if I could get a successful print was going to be slightly redesigned to allow for a small battery powered LED to have a red glowing apple for the teachers desk....
I have PEI build plate on my regular Aquila and PETG stuck too well, and the X3 Max build plate feels different, more slippery. Not sure what that is all about. But even so, after the glue stick, since the glue isn't going anywhere, the PETG should stick to the glue right?
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2024.05.19 21:13 sloan2001 Found screenshots on my gf's phone of old messages she had with a hookup

*title* and basically what I saw is what I wish I had with her. We dated for about a year, broke up for 8 months and we got back together about a month after this stuff happened (which went on for several months). He is a celebrity and they would meet up (once on my birthday based to the dates) to fuck each other's brains out. "We smashed like three times!" according to one of the messages. "you're adorable" "I miss you so much 🥺" she would say. "I'm in town until tomorrow, wanna meet up?" "I would love to but I just started my period ☹️" "Shit!"....etc.
I hate it. I can't talk to her like this because I have to be the understanding boyfriend (shaped by really conservative messages and culture on what that is). I wish I was this guy she was just sleeping with and admiring. What's wrong with me? or what's wrong with this situation? I'm not taking myself off the cross here but right now I just want to tell her "I love you, but I don't want this vanilla traditional courting stuff when I know you get up to more than that." I could rant on about how I'm struggling with self esteem escaping a life of indoctrination under tyrannical parents and church culture, but figuring all that in I'm just full of rage and regret and confusion.
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2024.05.19 21:13 MilesMit [WANT FREE GIFTS?] -- [ 5742 7266 2071 ] & [ 7668 5170 2400 ]

7668 5170 2400 - 5742 7266 2071
[LV 50 players] - [Active daily] - [Continental] - [Norway]
(03.03.24 New feature in POGO; you now get asked if you want to use a XP egg when someone else triggers the friendship level up. I don't know if everyone has it yet, but many do.) :D
You want free gifts and take advantage of the XP bonus? Well we'll try our best to make it happen:
We're 2 friends who send out gifts every time you open your gift. Due to having so many international friends the best time I've found to trigger the XP bonus is every sunday at 9 PM Central (Madrid/Paris/Oslo time).
Keep and eye on our buddy name. Only once in 3 years I've had to change the day. :)
When we are 1 gift away until our friendship levels up and the next upcoming sunday you (or us) will open the present.
Feel free to slow down the process if it's more suitable to pop the XP bonus next weekend (for instance), but please don't take too long, I'm constantly at 395/400 friends at this point, so if someone is inactive for many many weeks I will assume you've left the game. If you have been deleted, just re-add me/us and we will continue where we dropped off!! :D
I will keep sending gifts if you keep opening them ;D
We got 1 gift until we lv up in friendship and we've reached Sunday and what happens?
At 9 pm we will send you a gift, so you can open the gift, if you don't open the gift, around 9:25-9:30 pm we will open your gift to pop the XP bonus in case you have open max amount of gifts that day.
We will never open the present before 9:20 pm.
Afterwards, if I had to open it, send a new gift in return and we'll keep sending those free gifts.
I've been playing this game since it launched in 2016.
I do join remote raids,if you see me online or if you have a regional raid, don't hesitate to invite me, don't be discouraged if I don't join, I may not have been online nor got the notification.
Your benefit if you keep opening presents: +90 gifts
160 000 - 320 000 XP - (depends on if you use the XP egg)
In return we lv up our friendship at Sundays 9pm CET. :)
(I'd love to do it on comunity days etc for my sake as well, but due to having so many international friends, I find it the best way for most people)
I'm not often on Reddit, but feel free to send a msg, I usually get a notification.
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2024.05.19 21:13 hahahahastayinalive AITAH bc i want less to do with my sister who constantly criticises everything about who I am?

my sister (19F) and I (17F) have NEVER gotten along for long. we've argued our whole lives and we are the complete opposite of each other. if it helps, shes an INFJ and im an INFP.
so we'd argued all day, literally since I woke up we've been arguing. so things were already tense.
we had to go to my grandparents for a birthday thing for lunch and I don't eat at the table (I never do, this isn't new and no one cares). but ofc my sister takes it upon herself to tell me it's disrespectful. maybe if I was at some formal dinner but these r my grandparents, I stay at their place for weeks at a time (mostly to get away from my sister). I tell her that no one cares and I just wanna watch TV while I eat.
so I put a movie on (I also asked her earlier if she wanted to watch any in there from my collection of blu rays but she said I only have boy movies, bc thats another thing, she criticises my favourite things but whatever). as I'm setting up the movie she comes in and says shes gonna eat in here. I told her I like to eat alone (especially since she's been pissing me off all day) and she's stubborn as hell so I decided to leave and just eat somewhere else.
which is ridiculous, she doesnt even want to watch a movie she just hates our grandpa and our dad so she doesnt want to sit with them (I have great relationships with them too, she hates the ENTIRE family except mum and nana).
but when I left, she gets pissy bc she handles emotions as well as a 6 year old so she narcs to mum (which she does ALL THE TIME). so I don't wanna start anything so I come back and just deal with it but then she just says despicable me. I'm like what? she says I wanna watch despicable me. yeah no matter I'd just spent 5 minutes skipping the ads on this movie and my food is getting cold) but WHATEVER. I go to get it and im changing going thru the motions again, all the ads.
also the movie I'd put on before was hotel Transylvania but she didn't wanna watch it bc its "sad". she calls every family movie sad. I csnt even say the word WALL-E or god forbid fhe lion king. I'm an insanely emotional person, but the difference between us is I like to express sadness and I cry a lot when she expresses all her emotions in anger. she says im depressed all the time and makes fun and asks if I "forgot my anti-depressants". I don't even take them, and if I did she'd mock me and say that that im a bad person for taking mental heath drugs.
so movies on, I can finally eat and for a while we actuslly get along and since it's a background movie rly she's not forcing me to rewind every 3 minutes. that's y I stopped watching movies with her, she made me rewind and it's take a afternoon to watch ONE movie. she also didn't want to watch anything with me when our parents were home as if she's embarrassed to watch stuff with me. which feels GREAT. I think it's bc she doesn't want dad to see her watch a "kids" movie like beethoven.
so we laughing, it's okay. well except the part when she says i need to eat like a "lady" and that i need to be "ladylike". do u know how much that makes me want to burp in her face?im considered relatively "unladylike" i guess. i swear a lot and i make a lot of dirty jokes. its part of my charm lol. she hates it tho. and my sarcasm, REALLY hates it.
i finish eating snd after a while I get a little bored so I start playing temple run 2 on my phone. she HATES me reading, or looking st my phone if she's with me, she gets rly angry but I'd figured since its just a background movie it's fine. she says to me, very blunt, get off her ur phone. and I have this thing where I hate being told what to do, if it's unreasonable or how they say it. so I don't get off my phone. she then opens her phone and starts watching yt shorts very loudly. I think she expects this to annoy me but news flash, I don't give a shit what she does bc I don't obsess over what other ppl do like she does.
still tho, I don't wanna listen to her preachy, anti-feminism, homophobic bullshit on full blast. thats another thing, I'm a huge supporter of the feminist movement and equality and lgbt rights when shes dead against it. she thinks mothers csnt have careers and being lgbt is wrong. she uses her religion as an excuse for it too. I'm a nihilist as well so every time I say jesus or oh my god she freaks out at me. idc what her religion is, I don't tell her what to do but she tells me I'm being disrespectful. oh I csn get real disrespectful real fast but I don't bc thats her opinion and this is mine.
some thing thats ironic is that im super for lgbt and women rights even more bc of her. I hate seeing how hateful she is towards these groups and minorities so it's made me support them even more. also fhe fact that she's called me a lesbian and intersex and a boy snd countless other things bc of my interests. I'm straight and an lgbt ally who loves marvel and star wars and video games and shee sees those as reasons to call me a lesbian? she also says I dress like one but she dresses like strawberry fucking shortcake if she had no style whatsoever. I wear movie referenced t shirts and hoodies and I like to think I have some sense of style but she says I dress like a boy bc of ONE Simpson skeleton on my shirt. she also says fhe complete opposite if I wear my hair in pigtails, that I dress like a little girl. which is it, sister dearest? am I a boy or a little girl?
anyway, as I was saying she starts watching stuff at full blast, I don't say anything I just put my headphones on. then she starts getting mad. oh she HATES my headphones, she thinks its the most disrespectful thing. I have a lot of anxiety when I leave the house so I have my headphones on all the time, music calms me and I listen to music every day and it's just something i do but she hates it. I dont see y it's different for me to wear my headphones if I'm not gonna talk to anyone anyway. she feels the same when I read around her. I love books, I read a lot and its yet AHOTHER thing she hates about me.
so she starts getting angrier and telling me to take my headphones off but by this point I'm done with the movie anyway and I wanna be alone so I get up to leave. I say I'm not dealing with this shit. she then puts her feet up on the pouffe (which I let her use bc theres only one and she was complaining) to block me. I tell her to move and she says to stay and watch the movie with her. now it's her words that I understand what she rly means. she wants me to sit and watch the movie with her for some reason. but no, I'm not dealing with her bullshit. she keeps blocking me and then she gets up and im just trying to get past without hurting her but shes not ceasing.
bc forcing someone to sit with u and bossing them around is the best way to bond with ur little sister ofc.
eventually I start shouting at her bc ik she'll start to panic if our grandpa will hear. (She's so fake in front of him too, all smiley and happy when inside she hates him. shes like that with every human in the planet besides me mum, dad and nana. she just openly hates me and dad. it's interesting to me how she hates everyone and makes fun of ppl online but yet she still worries about hurting their feelings more than anyone ik. she can be empathetic in that sense at least. it's hard for someone who sees the world in black and white tho, as she does. I just see fifty Shades of grey (hah).
but my shouting isn't working so I'm done and I shove her out the way and ofc that rly ticks her off. I don't understand what she expects me to do, but she gets rly angry when it happens. she shouts for mum ofc. I grab all my stuff so she csnt do anything to it (she breaks my lego regularly and changes the bookmarked pages in my books a lot and searches thru my phone and texts if I leave anything around her). im just heading to the backyard so I'm away from her, I thought about leaving the house entirely but we were gonna leave soon anyway (or i was told).
I walk past mum on my way out and she asks what's wrong snd I'm just too pissed off to rly explain anything so I just say my sister js crazy or something like that. I sit outside listening to music and avoid my sister rhe rest of the afternoon. I knew she'd be talking to my mum about what I did and spinning it so I was the hateful sister who doesnt want to watch a movie with her which yeah is technically true but how is it fair that she treats me like that still? am I supposed to just let her walk all over me?
my mum thinks that. she tells me to give in and just agree to anything and just do whatever my sister says. my mum is my sisters slave too. she'll do anything to keep the peace and just agrees to whatever my sister wants. the countless times she gets whatever take away she wants and im left with the leftovers in the fridge bc im the "easy child". Or at least I used to be, fron my mums perspective. just bc im chill and not insanely entitled and demanding like my sister.
so later in the night when we all at home I go to the kitchen and my mums in tjere and my dads rhere too, just eating. little did the man know what he'd be in the middle of in a few minutes.
my mum hasn't spoken to me about what went down at my grandparents, hasn't gotten my perspective but whatever. she asks me what was so wrong with watching a movie with my sister. I didn't even stop watching the movie bc of my sister, I just had it on while I ate my dinner and I told her as much. they always do this, say "with ur sister" when it's just something we just happened to both be doing. they make it sound like I'm deliberately being a dick to her bc im hateful. then my mum starts going off and saying shit like "u watch movies with ur friends and ur father, y csnt u watch them with her?" I didn't wanna say that I csnt watch movies with her bc it gets on my nerves bc my sister csn hear everyrthing in the house, we all constantly aware of that as if she's always listening, its creepy as hell but she's too nosy.
I say that I was done with the movie and she started bossing me around so I left. That's the truth bur my mum was like NO DONT GIVE ME THAT SHIT, U DONT WANT TO WATCH MOVIES WITH HER BUT U DO WITH UR FRIENDS AND UR FATHER. U NEVER DO ANYTHING WITH HER, HOW DO U THINK THAT MAKES HER FEEL? UR NOT UNDERSTANDING HER SIDE
ya know what's even dumber, they use my OWN FUCKING ARGUMENTS against me. I always say to consider the others persons side and to understand everyone's perspective. and she has fhe GALL to say I don't get her side? OFC I DO BUT SHES TOO FUCKING UNBEARABLE
and I never do anything with her or watch movies with her bc she hates mt favourite movies and shows and vice versa. my favourite movies deadpool and j spend mt days watching marvel, star wars, Disney, musicals, sci fi, action, romance, dramas when she watches REALITY TV AND HORRORS.
PROBABLY THE ONLY 2 GENRES I DONT WATCH. I watch SO MANY DIFFERENT THINGS and she happens to watch the ones I HATE. how r we supposed to watch stuff together with all that, and her bloody rewinding and her criticisms? ITS IMPOSSIBLE.
we agree on very few movies and when we do she wants to watch them so much that she thrashes them. now I'm a person who's seen deadpool a million times and I rewatch everything, I've seen the office thousands of times but she still somehow manages to ruin things for me. she nearly ruined fawlty towers.
now on one hand, my sister has no friends and every one she's ever had has always betrayed or bullied her. thats true, mostly. ppl have been horrible to her forever, I understand she is damaged but she takes it out on me. and how can she ever make friends again if they ever make mistakes she never forgives them? I have a friend who ratted me out to the teacher on the first week I met her for swearing bur she's one if mt closest friends going on 5 years now. every friend I have has fucked up before obviously we human we mess up and learn. my sister won't accept any mistake outside of me or mum. my dad has suffered from that as has my aunt and my cousins. they messed up one too many times and instead of communicating with them, she ignored it so it continued and now she'll never forgive them. obviously that doesn't excuse their behavior but she has to forgive or else she'll be alone. this is the only reason y I still give her chances, bc I used to think maybe she'll learn and get better. but she still treats me worse than anyone I've ever known. but I dont want to give up on her like she's done.
when I move out (as fast as fucking possible) I'll still see her but just a lot less. She and I rly don't work well and she hates everyrthing and everyone important to me.
Still tho, perhaps I am the asshole here. Idk rly. I don't treat her perfectly either, I try tho. And I apologise and I mean it. When she apologises she just means she's sorry she's hurt me, not for what she djd. Bc she does it again and again and again.
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