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2024.05.15 11:51 Apart-Awareness-4594 How to do well in GP: Solution
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1. Unmasking the Deepfake Nightmare: When Tech Goes Too Far š»
So, you know how sometimes technology can be super cool? Well, sometimes itās not so cool. Take deepfake apps, for example. Teens are using these apps to make fake nude photos of their classmates and share them around. Not cool, right?šø
Whatās the Deal? At high schools in places like Washington and New Jersey, guys are using these apps to take photos of girls and make them look naked. Then they share these fake photos with everyone. Itās causing a lot of trouble. š±Why is it a Problem? Imagine someone using a fake photo of you without your permission. It's not just embarrassing; itās a type of sexual abuse. Thatās why people are trying to stop it. Laws have been passed in some places, and more are in the works.
But hereās the thing: some people think these laws arenāt enough. They say we need to crack down on the apps themselves. If we make it harder to use these apps, then there wonāt be as many fake photos floating around. What Can We Do? So, how do we stop this? ...( read more on our student newsletter)
2. Rioting Farmers Derail Europe's Green Dream šš„
Imagine this: Lyon, France, 2021. The mayor decides to take red meat off school menus, not just for fun, but because it's safer and saves time during a pandemic. But oh boy, did the farmers lose it! They rolled into the city with tractors and cows, yelling about ideology on kids' plates š±.
But Lyon was just the beginning. All over Europe, farmers revved up their engines, protesting against new eco-friendly rules and demanding more subsidies š°. From Paris to Brussels to the Netherlands, it was a tractor-tastic rebellion.Europe had big plans to fight climate change with a Green Deal š. But farmers weren't having it! They wanted all the perks of government help without any strings attached. And guess what? They got their way!
You see, for years, the EU has been giving farmers tons of money šø. But here's the twist: most of these farms aren't exactly eco-friendly š±. They guzzle water, spew greenhouse gases, and use a truckload of pesticides š±.
But despite their small economic footprint, farmers in Europe have a HUGE say in politics š. They've been getting away with demanding subsidies and blocking eco-friendly rules for ages! So when the EU proposed new laws to clean up farming, like using less pesticides and raising animals more humanely, farmers went ballistic! š„
And guess what? They won! Politicians caved...( read more on our student newsletter)
3. How AI is Cooking Up Food Innovation!
Hey foodies! Ever wondered how those tasty treats in your pantry get their delicious flavors? Well, buckle up because Unilever's spilling the beans on their secret ingredient: Artificial Intelligence!
Picture this: instead of chefs slaving away in the kitchen, Unilever's whipping up new recipes with the help of super-smart AI models. š©āš³ These digital wizards predict how new products will taste, feel, and even behave on factory linesāall without breaking a sweat! š”
But wait, there's more! Unilever's not just cooking up yummy snacks; they're also making them healthier, planet-friendly, and affordable! š With AI in their toolkit, they're cracking the code to create the perfect balance of taste and sustainability.
Take Knorr's Zero Salt Bouillon Cubes, for example. š² By harnessing the power of AI, Unilever crafted a sodium-free sensation that's just as tasty as the originalāno salt shaker required! š§ ...( read more on our student newsletter)
4. Crime and Perception: Are People Reacting to the Wrong Alarm?
Lawmakers have two main jobs: reducing crime and making people feel safe. But sometimes there's a big gap between what's happening with crime and how people feel about it.
For example, a Gallup poll showed that more Americans than everā63 percent in 2023āthink crime is a big problem, even though crime rates have actually been dropping. It's like thinking the house is on fire when it's just the toaster burning your toast.š This gap between reality and what people think is a big deal. It affects what laws get made. Lawmakers donāt always look at whatās really happening; they also look at what people believe is happening.
So, when people feel scared about crimeāmaybe because of news reports about a rise in crime that isn't really thereālawmakers often feel pressured to act. This has led to some places passing tough laws that bring back the harsh punishments of the 1980s and '90s. They're trying to fix a problem that's already getting better... (read more on our student newsletter)
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Here are some snippets from our stories :
1. Unmasking the Deepfake Nightmare: When Tech Goes Too Far š»
So, you know how sometimes technology can be super cool? Well, sometimes itās not so cool. Take deepfake apps, for example. Teens are using these apps to make fake nude photos of their classmates and share them around. Not cool, right?šø
Whatās the Deal? At high schools in places like Washington and New Jersey, guys are using these apps to take photos of girls and make them look naked. Then they share these fake photos with everyone. Itās causing a lot of trouble. š±Why is it a Problem? Imagine someone using a fake photo of you without your permission. It's not just embarrassing; itās a type of sexual abuse. Thatās why people are trying to stop it. Laws have been passed in some places, and more are in the works.
But hereās the thing: some people think these laws arenāt enough. They say we need to crack down on the apps themselves. If we make it harder to use these apps, then there wonāt be as many fake photos floating around. What Can We Do? So, how do we stop this? ...( read more on our student newsletter)
2. Rioting Farmers Derail Europe's Green Dream šš„
Imagine this: Lyon, France, 2021. The mayor decides to take red meat off school menus, not just for fun, but because it's safer and saves time during a pandemic. But oh boy, did the farmers lose it! They rolled into the city with tractors and cows, yelling about ideology on kids' plates š±.
But Lyon was just the beginning. All over Europe, farmers revved up their engines, protesting against new eco-friendly rules and demanding more subsidies š°. From Paris to Brussels to the Netherlands, it was a tractor-tastic rebellion.Europe had big plans to fight climate change with a Green Deal š. But farmers weren't having it! They wanted all the perks of government help without any strings attached. And guess what? They got their way!
You see, for years, the EU has been giving farmers tons of money šø. But here's the twist: most of these farms aren't exactly eco-friendly š±. They guzzle water, spew greenhouse gases, and use a truckload of pesticides š±.
But despite their small economic footprint, farmers in Europe have a HUGE say in politics š. They've been getting away with demanding subsidies and blocking eco-friendly rules for ages! So when the EU proposed new laws to clean up farming, like using less pesticides and raising animals more humanely, farmers went ballistic! š„
And guess what? They won! Politicians caved...( read more on our student newsletter)
3. How AI is Cooking Up Food Innovation!
Hey foodies! Ever wondered how those tasty treats in your pantry get their delicious flavors? Well, buckle up because Unilever's spilling the beans on their secret ingredient: Artificial Intelligence!
Picture this: instead of chefs slaving away in the kitchen, Unilever's whipping up new recipes with the help of super-smart AI models. š©āš³ These digital wizards predict how new products will taste, feel, and even behave on factory linesāall without breaking a sweat! š”
But wait, there's more! Unilever's not just cooking up yummy snacks; they're also making them healthier, planet-friendly, and affordable! š With AI in their toolkit, they're cracking the code to create the perfect balance of taste and sustainability.
Take Knorr's Zero Salt Bouillon Cubes, for example. š² By harnessing the power of AI, Unilever crafted a sodium-free sensation that's just as tasty as the originalāno salt shaker required! š§ ...( read more on our student newsletter)
4. Crime and Perception: Are People Reacting to the Wrong Alarm?
Lawmakers have two main jobs: reducing crime and making people feel safe. But sometimes there's a big gap between what's happening with crime and how people feel about it.
For example, a Gallup poll showed that more Americans than everā63 percent in 2023āthink crime is a big problem, even though crime rates have actually been dropping. It's like thinking the house is on fire when it's just the toaster burning your toast.š This gap between reality and what people think is a big deal. It affects what laws get made. Lawmakers donāt always look at whatās really happening; they also look at what people believe is happening.
So, when people feel scared about crimeāmaybe because of news reports about a rise in crime that isn't really thereālawmakers often feel pressured to act. This has led to some places passing tough laws that bring back the harsh punishments of the 1980s and '90s. They're trying to fix a problem that's already getting better... (read more on our student newsletter)
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2024.05.15 11:51 camiam118 My identical twin and I arenāt speaking for the first time in our lives
My (30m) twin is in a shitty, dangerous situation in his relationship and wants me and our family to just overlook the severity of it in hopes that everything will just be peachy.
He started talking to a girl over Instagram while living with my parents getting his life back together after a very messed up situation he put himself in with our older brother where he was in danger. My older brother is crazy, controlling, and can physically harm family but needed help and my twin thinks heās here to help everyone.
This girl (Sally) was verbally, mentally, emotionally abusive before they had even met in person. My mom got to hear them fighting constantly but heād defend her when anyone would ask or show concern. He shared many very worrying details with me like her telling him heās basically a loser, and many things she didnāt like about him. Heās already so into her at the time and believes itās a challenge to overcome that he wants to prove himself. Heās constantly sending these letters and flowers confessing his love.
They finally met where she lives multiple states away. Sheās told him multiple times since then in different ways if he didnāt do these trips he couldnāt afford, that she would stop talking to him and that happened any time sheād get mad at him.
She also got him to work for their family business for almost nothing, building their website, selling, communicating with customers online. She didnāt want to keep doing it because she has her own business in shitty art youāve seen on Instagram a thousand times. But people buy it so good for her, I guess.
When her parents and her happened to be going by where my parents live on a business trip, she asked him to get my parents to lie to hers about their relationship and pretend they were just business partners. My parents were obviously appalled and didnāt agree. They never met.
He eventually moved to her state after maybe 6 months of randomly meeting/dates and her parents being told a lie about the development of their relationship. She refused to stay at his apartment until he had furnished it. This whole time weāre warning him that these are serious red flags and sometimes he would tell her heās not ok with them. Sheād say she has trust issues and when he moved that would go away or some other insecurity or sheāll stop something, but she always got what she wanted.
His lease runs out and they end up getting a pretty expensive place together, plus heās put a bunch of furniture and a car on credit that he canāt afford because she also tells him if they donāt on enough dates sheāll leave him. She had him get the car because she didnāt drive. You name it. So heās drowning in debt constantly now for the first time in his life.
Then we start hearing really weird shit. He has to get a new work laptop because he spilled water on it. When my brother finally gets to see me, she tells him she doesnāt trust me and doesnāt leave him alone starting drama the entire trip. They break up and Iām getting verbally abusive messages about how Iām a loser and my relationship will never be as good as theirs. Then veiled threats through apology texts when they get back together. Turns out she poured water on his laptop. Sheās been verbally abusing him, calling him a ābeta cock loserāā¦she screamed that he was running her over when she wouldnāt let him drive away, threatened to tell police he was abusing her, he later told me theyāve become physically abusive towards each other.
One day he calls me and tells me to keep a recorded phone call he had with her. She was threatening him, telling him he needed to leave the apartment or something bad was going to happen to him. She threatened other things including using her brotherās connection with the cartel to hurt me and my girlfriendās family in Mexico where weāre living.
This was the final straw for me and my parents. Sheās been blocked everywhere and will never be near us again.
My brother, however, even forgave her for this and kept trying to work on the relationship. Later he did temporarily leave and stayed at my parents house but after she kept calling using different numbers and even emailing him telling him sheād bought self help books, he fell for it and went back.
I quit working with my brother and resigned from our company we started, and have since barely spoken to him except when he texts me he loves me. He thinks we can have a normal relationship and even forgive her too. He thinks everyone should believe her that sheās changing. They went to one therapy session. She barely started one of the audio books (I saw the progress on audible).
I feel like he has no self respect or respect for his family or my girlfriendās, who loves him by the way. I think heāll end up in jail, hurt, or continuing with her feeling like a loser and being abused. Weāve tried to help and been there for him countless times but he never chooses us. Thatās actually something heās been doing his whole life.
TLDR: My twin brother is being abused and is ruining his life but thinks heās in love.
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He started talking to a girl over Instagram while living with my parents getting his life back together after a very messed up situation he put himself in with our older brother where he was in danger. My older brother is crazy, controlling, and can physically harm family but needed help and my twin thinks heās here to help everyone.
This girl (Sally) was verbally, mentally, emotionally abusive before they had even met in person. My mom got to hear them fighting constantly but heād defend her when anyone would ask or show concern. He shared many very worrying details with me like her telling him heās basically a loser, and many things she didnāt like about him. Heās already so into her at the time and believes itās a challenge to overcome that he wants to prove himself. Heās constantly sending these letters and flowers confessing his love.
They finally met where she lives multiple states away. Sheās told him multiple times since then in different ways if he didnāt do these trips he couldnāt afford, that she would stop talking to him and that happened any time sheād get mad at him.
She also got him to work for their family business for almost nothing, building their website, selling, communicating with customers online. She didnāt want to keep doing it because she has her own business in shitty art youāve seen on Instagram a thousand times. But people buy it so good for her, I guess.
When her parents and her happened to be going by where my parents live on a business trip, she asked him to get my parents to lie to hers about their relationship and pretend they were just business partners. My parents were obviously appalled and didnāt agree. They never met.
He eventually moved to her state after maybe 6 months of randomly meeting/dates and her parents being told a lie about the development of their relationship. She refused to stay at his apartment until he had furnished it. This whole time weāre warning him that these are serious red flags and sometimes he would tell her heās not ok with them. Sheād say she has trust issues and when he moved that would go away or some other insecurity or sheāll stop something, but she always got what she wanted.
His lease runs out and they end up getting a pretty expensive place together, plus heās put a bunch of furniture and a car on credit that he canāt afford because she also tells him if they donāt on enough dates sheāll leave him. She had him get the car because she didnāt drive. You name it. So heās drowning in debt constantly now for the first time in his life.
Then we start hearing really weird shit. He has to get a new work laptop because he spilled water on it. When my brother finally gets to see me, she tells him she doesnāt trust me and doesnāt leave him alone starting drama the entire trip. They break up and Iām getting verbally abusive messages about how Iām a loser and my relationship will never be as good as theirs. Then veiled threats through apology texts when they get back together. Turns out she poured water on his laptop. Sheās been verbally abusing him, calling him a ābeta cock loserāā¦she screamed that he was running her over when she wouldnāt let him drive away, threatened to tell police he was abusing her, he later told me theyāve become physically abusive towards each other.
One day he calls me and tells me to keep a recorded phone call he had with her. She was threatening him, telling him he needed to leave the apartment or something bad was going to happen to him. She threatened other things including using her brotherās connection with the cartel to hurt me and my girlfriendās family in Mexico where weāre living.
This was the final straw for me and my parents. Sheās been blocked everywhere and will never be near us again.
My brother, however, even forgave her for this and kept trying to work on the relationship. Later he did temporarily leave and stayed at my parents house but after she kept calling using different numbers and even emailing him telling him sheād bought self help books, he fell for it and went back.
I quit working with my brother and resigned from our company we started, and have since barely spoken to him except when he texts me he loves me. He thinks we can have a normal relationship and even forgive her too. He thinks everyone should believe her that sheās changing. They went to one therapy session. She barely started one of the audio books (I saw the progress on audible).
I feel like he has no self respect or respect for his family or my girlfriendās, who loves him by the way. I think heāll end up in jail, hurt, or continuing with her feeling like a loser and being abused. Weāve tried to help and been there for him countless times but he never chooses us. Thatās actually something heās been doing his whole life.
TLDR: My twin brother is being abused and is ruining his life but thinks heās in love.
2024.05.15 11:49 Throwaway227834 Iām the only one who feels like our marriage is falling apart
I hate myself and I feel like such a cliche. I (f)got married young (21) to my husband who is a couple years older. I think a few things led to me personally making this life choice. My parents had a messy divorce which left me estranged from my father and feeling forgotten about/replaced by my mother and I was Obsessed with starting my own family. I even thought I wanted to be a young mom at the time. So we got married young after 4 years of dating. I was also brought up religious and that combined with my mental illness made me cling to purity culture beyond a healthy amount even after I stopped being christian. My husband was my first kiss (at 18), first everythingā¦ you get it.
heās known the whole time heās been with me that itās my life long dream to live in New York to pursue my dream career. heās always been supportive and honestly heās a great man. Heās honest and loving and so completely giving. Anyway, fast forward weāve been married 2 years and living in New York for a year. my whole life and self has changed. Im realizing all the things I want to with my life, Iām making friends, Iām going places, on trips with my friends. My husband does nothing at all besides play video games with his friends that are back in our home town. He never has to leave the couch because he works from home. So do I. So we are together at home all day. And I feel guilty building a life and living it. he hasnt tried making friends at all. Has no other hobbies. This man hasnāt left our tiny apartment for a year. I feel like his whole existence orbits around me and video games and itās making me crazy. Iāve seen a difference in him from before we moved and he agreed with me he wonāt stay happy long term. Iāve cried to him about this several times now but itās just like heās paralyzed or something. Heās not taking care of himself in any way. I feel like weāre holding each other back
i am trying to keep this short so Iām not going to go into every detail or other problems we have, like whether or not weāll be compatible parents, but thereās one thing we all know changes and determines everything: sex. Iām just gonna give it to you straight. Itās not good. It took me forever to realize because I had nothing to compare it to. I used to think I was not a sexual person but it turns out I think heās the one who isnāt. even today itās been almost two weeks and he hasnāt even mentioned it. I have tried asking to try new things a couple times in the past but heās not that receptive. Iāve been with him for 6 years total and Iāve never finished without ā¦ help. It gets to a point where when he finally does initiate Iāve already taken care of it myself or just donāt want to. And these days I just donāt feel attracted. The guilt is eating me alive. Thereās nothing anyone can say that I donāt think worse of myself. Not even the most woman hating incel lol(boy would they love this story fml) I would never ever cheat but I feel like a teenager any Mild attraction I have towards anyone else spirals into endless fantasizing and itās driving me literally crazy and again, makes me so guilty I want to die... I donāt know where to end this and its already pretty long so I guess Iāll leave it there for now. I feel Like the only person in the world with this problem. are these problems fixable? Iām left with a lot of moral questions which I guess arenāt allowed. What makes a marriage with big foundational problems salvageable? Am I being too selfish? I know certain things fade anyway but feeling like weāre already there in our early twenties isā¦ so depressing.
tl;dr: got married young. same bs cliche problems you expect arose and I just found out youre supposed to actually really enjoy sex. And I want to. but I donāt. Not sure where to go from here
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heās known the whole time heās been with me that itās my life long dream to live in New York to pursue my dream career. heās always been supportive and honestly heās a great man. Heās honest and loving and so completely giving. Anyway, fast forward weāve been married 2 years and living in New York for a year. my whole life and self has changed. Im realizing all the things I want to with my life, Iām making friends, Iām going places, on trips with my friends. My husband does nothing at all besides play video games with his friends that are back in our home town. He never has to leave the couch because he works from home. So do I. So we are together at home all day. And I feel guilty building a life and living it. he hasnt tried making friends at all. Has no other hobbies. This man hasnāt left our tiny apartment for a year. I feel like his whole existence orbits around me and video games and itās making me crazy. Iāve seen a difference in him from before we moved and he agreed with me he wonāt stay happy long term. Iāve cried to him about this several times now but itās just like heās paralyzed or something. Heās not taking care of himself in any way. I feel like weāre holding each other back
i am trying to keep this short so Iām not going to go into every detail or other problems we have, like whether or not weāll be compatible parents, but thereās one thing we all know changes and determines everything: sex. Iām just gonna give it to you straight. Itās not good. It took me forever to realize because I had nothing to compare it to. I used to think I was not a sexual person but it turns out I think heās the one who isnāt. even today itās been almost two weeks and he hasnāt even mentioned it. I have tried asking to try new things a couple times in the past but heās not that receptive. Iāve been with him for 6 years total and Iāve never finished without ā¦ help. It gets to a point where when he finally does initiate Iāve already taken care of it myself or just donāt want to. And these days I just donāt feel attracted. The guilt is eating me alive. Thereās nothing anyone can say that I donāt think worse of myself. Not even the most woman hating incel lol(boy would they love this story fml) I would never ever cheat but I feel like a teenager any Mild attraction I have towards anyone else spirals into endless fantasizing and itās driving me literally crazy and again, makes me so guilty I want to die... I donāt know where to end this and its already pretty long so I guess Iāll leave it there for now. I feel Like the only person in the world with this problem. are these problems fixable? Iām left with a lot of moral questions which I guess arenāt allowed. What makes a marriage with big foundational problems salvageable? Am I being too selfish? I know certain things fade anyway but feeling like weāre already there in our early twenties isā¦ so depressing.
tl;dr: got married young. same bs cliche problems you expect arose and I just found out youre supposed to actually really enjoy sex. And I want to. but I donāt. Not sure where to go from here
2024.05.15 11:49 fakeverfiedemail Official website of a list of cities / counties banned to foreigners?
As the title says - planning a trip around Western Sichuan and other areas near Tibet. I heard Tibet is banned to foreigners but also heard some Tibetan areas are banned to foreigners as well and was wondering if there's an official site where I can find a comprehensive list of such areas.
The last thing I'd want to do is make a whole plan, rent a car, drive there, just to find I can't enter - or worse get deported because I entered a restricted area by accident.
Thanks in advance!
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The last thing I'd want to do is make a whole plan, rent a car, drive there, just to find I can't enter - or worse get deported because I entered a restricted area by accident.
Thanks in advance!
2024.05.15 11:49 CoolLogarithm Look who's at the top and who drop lol
 | All was not bad until Melophile simps even said 'Smash' or something fucked up thing to IRL Melodie Cosplayer(they're minorš) 'But the simps stopped it after finding out they are minor-' OH MY GOD I DON'T FUCKING CARE, IF THEY WERE NOT MINOR THEY'RE STILL IRL PERSON YOU DON'T GET THE PROBLEM?? GO FUNGIFY YOURSELF submitted by CoolLogarithm to CordeliusSimps [link] [comments] And if you want to say 'you don't play the brawler just because the simps??' No. I play her in my alt. I'd admit she's fun to play because I'm not like dumb Melophile simps, But still I refuse to push her in my mainš |
2024.05.15 11:49 Reviewingremy How to make this character work mechaniclistically?
I've come up with a cool character concept but not sure how to make it work in an interesting way.
Yes. Before people say I would agree the idea with the DM first.
So my idea is I would be a high level. very evil character. A ruler of some sort. I've recently decided to not just repent but destroy my legacy. I'm not to pretend to not be the evil ruler and instead be a messenger defaming his evil nature.
So I would appear as a low lvl character. I'm thinking cleric or paladin to really drive home the holy messenger thing.
Mechanically, it means I would be the low level, with only access to the low level skills, hit points. Etc. And leveling up would be I choose to reveal more power.
What I'm not sure of is what classes work best.
I'm kinda picturing something like I'm really a paladin pretending to be a cleric. If that makes sense? But I'm not sure which classes work best with that in mind.
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Tldr: what class could best pretend to be another class long term.
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Yes. Before people say I would agree the idea with the DM first.
So my idea is I would be a high level. very evil character. A ruler of some sort. I've recently decided to not just repent but destroy my legacy. I'm not to pretend to not be the evil ruler and instead be a messenger defaming his evil nature.
So I would appear as a low lvl character. I'm thinking cleric or paladin to really drive home the holy messenger thing.
Mechanically, it means I would be the low level, with only access to the low level skills, hit points. Etc. And leveling up would be I choose to reveal more power.
What I'm not sure of is what classes work best.
I'm kinda picturing something like I'm really a paladin pretending to be a cleric. If that makes sense? But I'm not sure which classes work best with that in mind.
.
Tldr: what class could best pretend to be another class long term.
2024.05.15 11:49 snnacc What was your worst/funniest brain glitch, where you meant to say one thing, but something totally different came out of your mouth?
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2024.05.15 11:48 YoungCraxy The European Union must address the problem of androids' deteriorating image quality on social media
 | Due to the fear of the European Union, Apple now allows 3rd party stores to be installed on their phones, but I think we shouldn't give a fuck about this, when we upload pictures to many social media applications with android, the pictures get extremely bad, people buy iPhone just for instagram. This issue needs to be banned, those who use android are treated as 3rd class and I use iPhone but the truth is that Apple dickriders will not say these things. The European Union is the only organization that will fix this issue, we need to raise this issue guys. Everyone should hear it submitted by YoungCraxy to applesucks [link] [comments] |
2024.05.15 11:48 scopedbanana Why are guys going so low
First of all I want to start off with saying Iām absolutely not trying to kink shame in the slightest. we all have our questionable kinks, im just trying to figure it out a bit more
I keep seeing posts about guys hate jerking to all kinds of things, sending hundreds at once even though they canāt afford it, going in debt and just generally screwing yourself over in the biggest way possible
But why? This canāt just be about serving a woman because Iāve done that for years with multiple women and only recently started sending a girl with ā¬75 being the most Iāve ever send. And that was for a pair of socks, a worn string and her spicy page (which was a 1 time thing)
I get degrading yourself but why ruin yourself?
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I keep seeing posts about guys hate jerking to all kinds of things, sending hundreds at once even though they canāt afford it, going in debt and just generally screwing yourself over in the biggest way possible
But why? This canāt just be about serving a woman because Iāve done that for years with multiple women and only recently started sending a girl with ā¬75 being the most Iāve ever send. And that was for a pair of socks, a worn string and her spicy page (which was a 1 time thing)
I get degrading yourself but why ruin yourself?
2024.05.15 11:48 oliver_osuna I broke the golden rule
I hooked up with my coworker. Twice. The first time was Cinco de Mayo after a bunch of us servers went out after work to celebrate, the second time was after a birthday party of one of our coworkers. I'm not going to lie and say that I didn't want to do all that, of course I did, this girl is extremely beautiful but it all happened so fast and I don't know how to deal with it. So far we've only gone out with other coworkers and we've kept the fact that we're hooking up on the downlow, but tomorrow (wednesday may 15th) we're going on our official first date, a one on one dinner and drinks type of thing, i always hear that you should never hookup with a coworker, but what do you do when this coworker checks every box? I don't know it's a tough situation i find myself in tbh.
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2024.05.15 11:47 mystic_soul3 Landlord Withholding Security Deposit - Need Help Getting It Back
Hi, I'm hoping to get some advice on a situation with my previous landlord. My lease agreement ended in April, and I notified him well in advance (one month before) that I would be moving out and didn't require a renewal. I paid all my bills, including gas and electricity, before leaving the apartment.
On the last week of April, I let him know I had vacated the room. He said he would discuss things with me, but then went radio silent for a whole week. I followed up and asked when I could expect my security deposit back. He gave me the runaround, saying he needed to "check the bills" before finalizing anything.
Now, it's been weeks, and he keeps saying the same thing ā he'll "check the bills" and get back to me, but never does. The last time he responded, he promised to pay me back on May 10th, but that came and went with no deposit. I've messaged him again asking for a timeline, but he's seen the message and isn't replying. The deposit amount is only 300,000 which I wouldn't think is a big deal for him.
Can anyone offer any advice on how to get my security deposit back?
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On the last week of April, I let him know I had vacated the room. He said he would discuss things with me, but then went radio silent for a whole week. I followed up and asked when I could expect my security deposit back. He gave me the runaround, saying he needed to "check the bills" before finalizing anything.
Now, it's been weeks, and he keeps saying the same thing ā he'll "check the bills" and get back to me, but never does. The last time he responded, he promised to pay me back on May 10th, but that came and went with no deposit. I've messaged him again asking for a timeline, but he's seen the message and isn't replying. The deposit amount is only 300,000 which I wouldn't think is a big deal for him.
Can anyone offer any advice on how to get my security deposit back?
2024.05.15 11:46 its-leviosaa My bf(30m) calls other women hot in front of me(30f)
Iāve (30F) told him (30M) this bothers me, but he canāt seem to stop doing it (albeit it has lessened over the months). He says he doesnāt mean anything by it and I believe him because he came from a world where nobody has ever said this was a weird or bad thing to do.. but I still get so triggered and start comparing myself because Iām insecure and come from a world where a man saying this is bad form.
How do we meet in the middle? How do I stop resenting him for not being mindful about what he says?
TL;DR how do I stop being so jealous when my bf calls other women hot. How can he stop saying it
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How do we meet in the middle? How do I stop resenting him for not being mindful about what he says?
TL;DR how do I stop being so jealous when my bf calls other women hot. How can he stop saying it
2024.05.15 11:45 BigBallaBitty Reasonable to block? Thoughts?
I had quite the weird roommate experience. To preface, my situation wasnāt terrible, but did have a major impact on my mental health, academic performance, and socialization this past freshman year of college.
To start off, I met my roommate through a college bios page. What seemed great over the phone turned into a quick nightmare as soon as the end of august rolled around. The first day we were in a room together, you could feel the awkwardness and disconnect and it never went away, even at the end of the second semester. Basically my roommate became good friends with this girl down the hall, and started to treat me and the other girls roommate like garbage.
Long story short, I became friends with the other girls roommate who was in the same situation as me. There was a football game the one day and I was getting ready with my friend in my room, and my roommate was getting ready with my friendās roommate in her room (2 doors apart). My friend went to grab something from her room and prompted me to get out in the hallway. Not even a foot out of the door, they are blowing us up in that room to some random chick. Mind you, they had NO reason to be talking about us. Their reasoning was that my friend and I came home late and made ātoo much noise while they were sleeping.ā HELP ME NOW BC THEY WERENT EVEN SLEEPING, AS HER ROOMMATE WAS AT A PARTY THAT NIGHT AND I DIDNT EVEN SEE HER LMAO. As for my roommate, she was in her bed on her phone with the big light on. You werenāt sleeping. It was nearing 10pm on a Friday night.
I know this sounds ridiculous up to this point but itās just hypocritical, because she would have her friend in my room or would be in my friendās room all the time making noise. My roommate used to let her friend in early in the morning because we all had an early class together, and she would literally come and start socializing when i wasnāt even awake yet. Talk about disturbing someoneās sleep. Well anyway, this may have been wrong on my part as im being fully transparent here, but I muted her contact that day because my friend and I were about to go to the football game, and my roommate and her friend were going separately. I saw them in the lobby and glared at them when they smiled and waved because they had no clue ts I just heard them say. I partly muted her contact for the day so I didnāt have the urge to send her something nasty if Im gonna be honest. I had simply had enough of her.
Well come the next day, Iām laying in my bed feeling so alone. I wanted for the life of me to be able to be friends with my roommate, but after hearing what she said about me, it was pretty disheartening. I put a lot of work into our room. I was the only one who ever cleaned. I was the one to buy the fridge and microwave because she was out of state and I didnāt want her to have the hassle of transporting those things. I was just in a really bad headspace and missing home that I didnāt get out of bed that morning until late. Well, I start to hear fingers slamming the keypad. You donāt have to use the keypad unless youāre in a lock out situation. Here it comesā¦
This annihilation of a human being bursts into the room and goes, and I quote, āIs there a reason you fking blocked me?ā (Because I wasnāt getting her calls as she was still muted). And I straight up said, yeah there actually is, I heard all the st you said about me yesterday. The woman was too stunned to speak. But she spoke. āStill that isnāt a reason to not answer my calls. Iām not obligated to you. I swear if you touch any of my s**t, Iām gonna call the cops.ā
Runs out and slams the door
Gave me no room to talk whatsoever. And whatās funny about the last part is that my roommate and her friend, while they were talking about us, did in fact touch my friends stuff as her closet was rummaged through, her shoes were messed with, her mirror was broken. Not to mention my stuff was starting to be out of place too. She was really just reflecting herself. She helped herself to all of my food, ate an ENTIRE box of chips my mom had gotten me to take to college. This chick was loaded with money too, there was no reason she was eating my food when I could barely get by.
Thereās a lot of small things that happened after that. She apologized the same night but I never saw her the same after. What really burnt me was the fact I gave her a phone wallet for her student id and she never even put it on to this day. She had no reason to be locked out given the fact she wanted the wallet and never put it on. Thatās entirely her fault. And up to that point, Iām honestly glad I had her contact muted. This was her karma.
Another comical karma story was when it was a Sunday or something, and I went to the library that day for 6 hours. Thatās not terrible long for me for a weekend, but that day I was exhausted. I was heading back to my room when she texted me, āhow much longer will you be out of the room?ā because her boyfriend was there and she wanted time alone with him. He was also from out of state and would come see her. Mind you, at this point, they werenāt even in the room. They were at a sporting event. Iāve honestly had it up to this point because I would give them PLENTY of time alone all the time, whether they were on the phone together or in person. She never did the same for me, and my relationship is longer than hers.
I simply replied āwell I just got back but I guess I can leave againā which was honestly kind of passive aggressive but like atp I was so fed up with her garbage. On the way to the room she sprained her ankle and had to be taken to urgent care. Needless to say I got some sleep that day actually. But I walked into my room and her packages were thrown all over my desk, because my space was just hers i guess lmao.
Karma is real. Donāt be a terrible, inconsiderate roommate. Also here is a list of less explained occurrences that have happened throughout this unforgettable freshman year
-took multiple pictures of me while I slept -she got so sick and coughed all over everything, blew nose loudly all night but complained when I got sick to my face -bribed me with a stanley cup after threatening to call the cops on me for not answering her -flooded our room with water from the bathroom when i wasnāt there and posted about it on her instagram story without even texting me about it (the water was mostly on my side and she tried blaming in on someone else) -left old food in the fridge i bought -would call her bf for hours every day but not talk (he could just hear and see me and i wouldnāt even know he was on the phone) -offered me to live with her next year and oddly enough backed out last second (we were on semi good terms at this point) -would make me feel unwelcome in my own room -would look at me weirdly if I came in during one of her day and night long phone calls with her bf -would be loud asf while getting ready and then expected me to tip toe around her when I got ready -posted a picture of me on her instagram complaining about having a roommate because she couldnāt cry over her chem grades with me in the room, when she never even left the room for me to do so when I experienced 2 deaths in the span of a few months
Iām sure communication on my end could have helped some, but it came to the point where it was pointless. I didnāt care for her at all. What burnt me is that she started being super nice to me the last two weeks of school which made it hard to just block her like i originally had planned. Would I look like a bad person for doing so, or is this completely validated with my experiences with her. Iāve never met someone so oddly unaware of themselves. It makes me cringe DEEPLY whenever I think about her and what I had to put up with. I also want to mention I did go to my RA and Res Director about this early on, so itās not like I blatantly didnāt do anything about it.
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To start off, I met my roommate through a college bios page. What seemed great over the phone turned into a quick nightmare as soon as the end of august rolled around. The first day we were in a room together, you could feel the awkwardness and disconnect and it never went away, even at the end of the second semester. Basically my roommate became good friends with this girl down the hall, and started to treat me and the other girls roommate like garbage.
Long story short, I became friends with the other girls roommate who was in the same situation as me. There was a football game the one day and I was getting ready with my friend in my room, and my roommate was getting ready with my friendās roommate in her room (2 doors apart). My friend went to grab something from her room and prompted me to get out in the hallway. Not even a foot out of the door, they are blowing us up in that room to some random chick. Mind you, they had NO reason to be talking about us. Their reasoning was that my friend and I came home late and made ātoo much noise while they were sleeping.ā HELP ME NOW BC THEY WERENT EVEN SLEEPING, AS HER ROOMMATE WAS AT A PARTY THAT NIGHT AND I DIDNT EVEN SEE HER LMAO. As for my roommate, she was in her bed on her phone with the big light on. You werenāt sleeping. It was nearing 10pm on a Friday night.
I know this sounds ridiculous up to this point but itās just hypocritical, because she would have her friend in my room or would be in my friendās room all the time making noise. My roommate used to let her friend in early in the morning because we all had an early class together, and she would literally come and start socializing when i wasnāt even awake yet. Talk about disturbing someoneās sleep. Well anyway, this may have been wrong on my part as im being fully transparent here, but I muted her contact that day because my friend and I were about to go to the football game, and my roommate and her friend were going separately. I saw them in the lobby and glared at them when they smiled and waved because they had no clue ts I just heard them say. I partly muted her contact for the day so I didnāt have the urge to send her something nasty if Im gonna be honest. I had simply had enough of her.
Well come the next day, Iām laying in my bed feeling so alone. I wanted for the life of me to be able to be friends with my roommate, but after hearing what she said about me, it was pretty disheartening. I put a lot of work into our room. I was the only one who ever cleaned. I was the one to buy the fridge and microwave because she was out of state and I didnāt want her to have the hassle of transporting those things. I was just in a really bad headspace and missing home that I didnāt get out of bed that morning until late. Well, I start to hear fingers slamming the keypad. You donāt have to use the keypad unless youāre in a lock out situation. Here it comesā¦
This annihilation of a human being bursts into the room and goes, and I quote, āIs there a reason you fking blocked me?ā (Because I wasnāt getting her calls as she was still muted). And I straight up said, yeah there actually is, I heard all the st you said about me yesterday. The woman was too stunned to speak. But she spoke. āStill that isnāt a reason to not answer my calls. Iām not obligated to you. I swear if you touch any of my s**t, Iām gonna call the cops.ā
Runs out and slams the door
Gave me no room to talk whatsoever. And whatās funny about the last part is that my roommate and her friend, while they were talking about us, did in fact touch my friends stuff as her closet was rummaged through, her shoes were messed with, her mirror was broken. Not to mention my stuff was starting to be out of place too. She was really just reflecting herself. She helped herself to all of my food, ate an ENTIRE box of chips my mom had gotten me to take to college. This chick was loaded with money too, there was no reason she was eating my food when I could barely get by.
Thereās a lot of small things that happened after that. She apologized the same night but I never saw her the same after. What really burnt me was the fact I gave her a phone wallet for her student id and she never even put it on to this day. She had no reason to be locked out given the fact she wanted the wallet and never put it on. Thatās entirely her fault. And up to that point, Iām honestly glad I had her contact muted. This was her karma.
Another comical karma story was when it was a Sunday or something, and I went to the library that day for 6 hours. Thatās not terrible long for me for a weekend, but that day I was exhausted. I was heading back to my room when she texted me, āhow much longer will you be out of the room?ā because her boyfriend was there and she wanted time alone with him. He was also from out of state and would come see her. Mind you, at this point, they werenāt even in the room. They were at a sporting event. Iāve honestly had it up to this point because I would give them PLENTY of time alone all the time, whether they were on the phone together or in person. She never did the same for me, and my relationship is longer than hers.
I simply replied āwell I just got back but I guess I can leave againā which was honestly kind of passive aggressive but like atp I was so fed up with her garbage. On the way to the room she sprained her ankle and had to be taken to urgent care. Needless to say I got some sleep that day actually. But I walked into my room and her packages were thrown all over my desk, because my space was just hers i guess lmao.
Karma is real. Donāt be a terrible, inconsiderate roommate. Also here is a list of less explained occurrences that have happened throughout this unforgettable freshman year
-took multiple pictures of me while I slept -she got so sick and coughed all over everything, blew nose loudly all night but complained when I got sick to my face -bribed me with a stanley cup after threatening to call the cops on me for not answering her -flooded our room with water from the bathroom when i wasnāt there and posted about it on her instagram story without even texting me about it (the water was mostly on my side and she tried blaming in on someone else) -left old food in the fridge i bought -would call her bf for hours every day but not talk (he could just hear and see me and i wouldnāt even know he was on the phone) -offered me to live with her next year and oddly enough backed out last second (we were on semi good terms at this point) -would make me feel unwelcome in my own room -would look at me weirdly if I came in during one of her day and night long phone calls with her bf -would be loud asf while getting ready and then expected me to tip toe around her when I got ready -posted a picture of me on her instagram complaining about having a roommate because she couldnāt cry over her chem grades with me in the room, when she never even left the room for me to do so when I experienced 2 deaths in the span of a few months
Iām sure communication on my end could have helped some, but it came to the point where it was pointless. I didnāt care for her at all. What burnt me is that she started being super nice to me the last two weeks of school which made it hard to just block her like i originally had planned. Would I look like a bad person for doing so, or is this completely validated with my experiences with her. Iāve never met someone so oddly unaware of themselves. It makes me cringe DEEPLY whenever I think about her and what I had to put up with. I also want to mention I did go to my RA and Res Director about this early on, so itās not like I blatantly didnāt do anything about it.
2024.05.15 11:44 Klutzy-Internet7919 Am I crazy to think my boyfriend (m22) is hiding something from me (f22)?
For context, we have been dating for a little over a year. I have had boyfriends and partners in the past and I am my boyfriends first. Also my past is extensive to say the least. We had an issue that continues to grow where my past is always apart of our arguments which is why I think it plays into what I am feeling currently. About 7 months ago I found a reddit account of his that was full of porn accounts of various things, mainly of femme men. I still remember a post that had a femme man on top of another man and caption read āi wish this was meā. When I asked him he broke down and was completely embarrassed, saying he is bored of normal porn. I have personally never liked porn and see it as something that isnāt beneficial, looking at other people and fantasizing of others when in a committed relationship seems very wrong to me. I expressed this feeling and boundary to him and he then proceeded to unfollow people on instagram, tiktok and from what I knew delete his reddit account. But 2 weeks ago I found another reddit account created a week after we just had our fight. From which he said that āhe couldnāt delete it because he forgot the email linked to itā. Which I donāt know if that is true because when he goes on reddit normally that account isnāt on it which means he logs into it when he wants to use it. My main issue is why would he say he deleted the original porn account and create another one and say he deleted it. On the account I just found he also had a draft reddit post but to sum that post up it was basically how he can never get over my past and he doesnāt know if he can marry me (he is also Muslim which I also think this plays a part in it, heās not a traditional muslim hence our relationship but his family is very religious).
This whole new fight happened when we were both drunk, I ended up leaving his place because it was getting nowhere, we just kinda never resolved it and are acting like it is completely normal. It eats me alive every day because he is leaving to go back home for the summer and then off to grad school in another state. I donāt know where to go with this, I love him. Every fight I have it always ends up with me asking can you ever get over my past and he always answers I donāt know if you never had a past youād be the perfect girl. So I donāt know if Iām just going crazy over nothing or if he is hiding his true feelings and i donāt know if i should just get over the whole porn thing or what. I just feel defeated because I love him and feel as though iām heading towards a wall.
TL;DR! - I think my boyfriend is hiding something from me based on his porn habits and a draft post I found on his secret porn account stating that he didnāt know if he could marry me because of my past.
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This whole new fight happened when we were both drunk, I ended up leaving his place because it was getting nowhere, we just kinda never resolved it and are acting like it is completely normal. It eats me alive every day because he is leaving to go back home for the summer and then off to grad school in another state. I donāt know where to go with this, I love him. Every fight I have it always ends up with me asking can you ever get over my past and he always answers I donāt know if you never had a past youād be the perfect girl. So I donāt know if Iām just going crazy over nothing or if he is hiding his true feelings and i donāt know if i should just get over the whole porn thing or what. I just feel defeated because I love him and feel as though iām heading towards a wall.
TL;DR! - I think my boyfriend is hiding something from me based on his porn habits and a draft post I found on his secret porn account stating that he didnāt know if he could marry me because of my past.
2024.05.15 11:44 hardtocumby0909 Abyg for saying hurtful things and asking him leave repeatedly
Sorry. This will be so long.
BG: me (27) and my male bestfriend (30) were best friends since we were 2nd yr college. We graduated college & I had few serious relationship and afterwards explored and he had one failed serious relationship. I never saw him as someone special aside from the friendship we had. Come 25 and I got tired from exploring. I got in the same company as his, it's wfh. We both live alone so we were going to each other's places to stay so we could work together. Everything was alright until suddenly we found out we're sexually compatible, lol. Then the sex went on.
Plot twist: I got pregnant. Ik, very expensive lesson. But I had been prepared for this scenario when I entered my exploration stage.
We talked about this already, I asked him if he would want to know. He said yes. So I told him, and I was very clear to him that if he wants to run, he can. I don't mind. I love my child so I know I'll do everything I can to give her the best.
So fast forward to now, I'm on my 3rd trim. He insisted on living with me saying he wants to be there. We're co-parenting, i guess? We're not together. We're open if someone finds someone.
I'm good at finances and I earn more than him since I'm hustling ever since. He's not. I had to teach him how to save and properly manage his money which thankfully he finally learned to. I cook since he doesn't know. He cleans the house more since he's better at it. Some chores is whoever wants to do it/whose free. We've had fights before (I always ask him to leave since he's not really helpful at all but I wanted to give him a chance) but today it was my tipping point. I just asked him to fry something for me since I wanna eat it but he refused to do so saying it's so hot on our kitchen. He continued watching tiktok & playing mobile game then later on went out to wash the dishes but still didn't fry the food I wanted. I don't ask him much unless I don't feel good and mostly he's doesn't know how to or refuses to learn.
So i exploded inside and calmly told him I hate how selfish he is. (Everytime I do this, he never talks back saying I don't know how to listen, I already concluded in my head, and won't admit I'm wrong. I feel very disrespected since I feel like talking with air). I only asked him to fry something, not that hard but he refused to since it's hot. I said he's not helpful at all physically, mentally for me. We share 50-50 of all the living and baby expenses but if we're short I'll have to find a way since he's used to "whatever comes tom" and doesn't give an effort to find an extra income even if I push him to. I have to decide for everything-house things, baby, finances. He never even initiate anything for our baby. I have to tell him check ups, tell him everything, try to involve him... i wanted to gave him a chance since I knew he was really nonchalant on things even before we were just friends. He helps me emotionally bc i can be just myself since we knew each other from top to bottom.
It just that i feel like he's not really helping me on this pregnancy. He's just there going with the flow, with everything I decide on. I try to step up on everything since with or without him, I want to be ready for our baby as much as we can I asked him to leave several times since I'm very independent and he's very disappointing, imo. I'd rather raise the kid alone than be with him but feel no help at all, can't even depend on him on little things. He just won't leave insisting it's hard for me and I need help...and it's better for him to be with us. But I still feel alone on this pregnancy, I don't feel his effort and I feel like he's just pulling us down. I don't wanna settle for anything less.
Lol, I'm on my 7th month and I didn't receive any massage offer from him. Seriously hard to be pregnant. Very thankful I wfh and my work is not that stressful.
He have these little improvements and I commend him for that. But his flaws as a partner outweighs the good already. I tried several times to communicate what I expect him to do, but he just won't improve.
ABYG here? Am I being blinded by my hormones and should give him time to adjust?
Or he's being an a-hole insisting to be a dad but still a kid inside.
I'm done but he just won't leave. Any advice or insight would be appreciated also. I just want peace within me and my baby.
I didn't want to open up to my friends since they're very protective of me. I don't want a bias opinion...
I also want to vent and to know if somehow I am being too hard on him since I have a very dominant personality and he's submissive. He's very kind also, i just don't know why I feel like at times he doesn't apply his kindness to me and his child. Lol
Lesson: never have a child with your bestfriend. It's really hard to forget he's your bestfriend first and he's like this. Lol
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BG: me (27) and my male bestfriend (30) were best friends since we were 2nd yr college. We graduated college & I had few serious relationship and afterwards explored and he had one failed serious relationship. I never saw him as someone special aside from the friendship we had. Come 25 and I got tired from exploring. I got in the same company as his, it's wfh. We both live alone so we were going to each other's places to stay so we could work together. Everything was alright until suddenly we found out we're sexually compatible, lol. Then the sex went on.
Plot twist: I got pregnant. Ik, very expensive lesson. But I had been prepared for this scenario when I entered my exploration stage.
We talked about this already, I asked him if he would want to know. He said yes. So I told him, and I was very clear to him that if he wants to run, he can. I don't mind. I love my child so I know I'll do everything I can to give her the best.
So fast forward to now, I'm on my 3rd trim. He insisted on living with me saying he wants to be there. We're co-parenting, i guess? We're not together. We're open if someone finds someone.
I'm good at finances and I earn more than him since I'm hustling ever since. He's not. I had to teach him how to save and properly manage his money which thankfully he finally learned to. I cook since he doesn't know. He cleans the house more since he's better at it. Some chores is whoever wants to do it/whose free. We've had fights before (I always ask him to leave since he's not really helpful at all but I wanted to give him a chance) but today it was my tipping point. I just asked him to fry something for me since I wanna eat it but he refused to do so saying it's so hot on our kitchen. He continued watching tiktok & playing mobile game then later on went out to wash the dishes but still didn't fry the food I wanted. I don't ask him much unless I don't feel good and mostly he's doesn't know how to or refuses to learn.
So i exploded inside and calmly told him I hate how selfish he is. (Everytime I do this, he never talks back saying I don't know how to listen, I already concluded in my head, and won't admit I'm wrong. I feel very disrespected since I feel like talking with air). I only asked him to fry something, not that hard but he refused to since it's hot. I said he's not helpful at all physically, mentally for me. We share 50-50 of all the living and baby expenses but if we're short I'll have to find a way since he's used to "whatever comes tom" and doesn't give an effort to find an extra income even if I push him to. I have to decide for everything-house things, baby, finances. He never even initiate anything for our baby. I have to tell him check ups, tell him everything, try to involve him... i wanted to gave him a chance since I knew he was really nonchalant on things even before we were just friends. He helps me emotionally bc i can be just myself since we knew each other from top to bottom.
It just that i feel like he's not really helping me on this pregnancy. He's just there going with the flow, with everything I decide on. I try to step up on everything since with or without him, I want to be ready for our baby as much as we can I asked him to leave several times since I'm very independent and he's very disappointing, imo. I'd rather raise the kid alone than be with him but feel no help at all, can't even depend on him on little things. He just won't leave insisting it's hard for me and I need help...and it's better for him to be with us. But I still feel alone on this pregnancy, I don't feel his effort and I feel like he's just pulling us down. I don't wanna settle for anything less.
Lol, I'm on my 7th month and I didn't receive any massage offer from him. Seriously hard to be pregnant. Very thankful I wfh and my work is not that stressful.
He have these little improvements and I commend him for that. But his flaws as a partner outweighs the good already. I tried several times to communicate what I expect him to do, but he just won't improve.
ABYG here? Am I being blinded by my hormones and should give him time to adjust?
Or he's being an a-hole insisting to be a dad but still a kid inside.
I'm done but he just won't leave. Any advice or insight would be appreciated also. I just want peace within me and my baby.
I didn't want to open up to my friends since they're very protective of me. I don't want a bias opinion...
I also want to vent and to know if somehow I am being too hard on him since I have a very dominant personality and he's submissive. He's very kind also, i just don't know why I feel like at times he doesn't apply his kindness to me and his child. Lol
Lesson: never have a child with your bestfriend. It's really hard to forget he's your bestfriend first and he's like this. Lol
2024.05.15 11:44 Dramatic_Low_7752 Probably the most annoying experience
So today I ordered some alcohol and for some reason it was sent to my work, I messaged the dasher that it was the wrong address and that I'd give him an extra cash tip for the inconvenience ( it was about a 5 min driving difference) immediately he was stand offish, and had broken english so the language barrier was a thing. First off the bottle was 40, I tipped 10 and it's only 3 miles away and at night there is no traffic so usually when I order it takes under 15 mins to get here. When he got here I gave him an extra 20 and he says "that's it?" Already I'm like wtf but I said fuck it just scan my ID so I can get the hell out of there. Here comes the fun part, he didn't know how to scan my ID so we're outside for 5 mins while he's navigating through the app and I'm patient not saying anything. He finally calls support and I was the one talking to support and helping him with his job, after about being on the phone for 10 mins and the rep not knowing where to go to scan I asked if I canceled the order would the dasher get money out of it? He informed us that he'll receive half the pay and some benefits for a dasher, not really sure what he was talking about so I said cool, the dasher heard it all and didn't understand and I tried to tell him what his support said. After standing outside for nearly 30 mins I canceled it and I thought we had an understanding that he'll get compensation in the next 24 hours but no, he was just complaining about not getting tipped. I literally just gave you 20 and helped you with your job and you're demanding more? This piece of shit, who smelled like straight B.O and chewing his fucking gum like a horse had me about to punch him in the face but I kept my composure and gave him another 10 to go fuck off. So in reality I tipped this fuck 35 dollars for a 40 dollar bottle and the worst experience I had in nearly 8 years of ordering. Holy fuck, just had to vent.
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2024.05.15 11:43 Guardoffreedom Your favorite toxic Ace again
As with most things in life, it's lonely at the top š„± so I know I'm finna get down voted by you clowns. Hate never comes from above as they say... anyways
Today me and my old Ace buddy Kirishima decided to group up for "scouting day". It's where we find a hard-working ambitious gold to join our team. Kicking out all the lame ass bronzes and silvers ofc. We got caught up in a brawl and my buddy got cooked(3 v 1) across the map against Denki, AFO, and Dabi.
He did his part frfr and made sure to leave as soon as he got downed. AS HE SHOULD! I got downed right after leaving the gold Solo. on God I wanted to keep playing he was rezing me up n everything but I know it's law to leave after you down as an Ace so I left .2 seconds before he could revive me. He was getting blasted and everything too... it's tough but a heroes work is never done! š¤š
Scouting days are our favorite tho, we take an ambitious player and we break their spirit to make sure they never EVER become Ace. Stringing them along just leave em stranded. It's radš. YES we aces do group up and YES we are apart of the secret Ace society club! Only the ELITE get in! Tch, Losers. LMAOš¤£š¤£
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Today me and my old Ace buddy Kirishima decided to group up for "scouting day". It's where we find a hard-working ambitious gold to join our team. Kicking out all the lame ass bronzes and silvers ofc. We got caught up in a brawl and my buddy got cooked(3 v 1) across the map against Denki, AFO, and Dabi.
He did his part frfr and made sure to leave as soon as he got downed. AS HE SHOULD! I got downed right after leaving the gold Solo. on God I wanted to keep playing he was rezing me up n everything but I know it's law to leave after you down as an Ace so I left .2 seconds before he could revive me. He was getting blasted and everything too... it's tough but a heroes work is never done! š¤š
Scouting days are our favorite tho, we take an ambitious player and we break their spirit to make sure they never EVER become Ace. Stringing them along just leave em stranded. It's radš. YES we aces do group up and YES we are apart of the secret Ace society club! Only the ELITE get in! Tch, Losers. LMAOš¤£š¤£
2024.05.15 11:43 Available-Champion20 "He's just a serious person"
Marguerite Simpson in 1967 talking about the USC college campus.
"I love it.....it's like a resort.....it's beautiful"
Marguerite on OJ same interview.
"OJ is very serious.....he loves football......he's just a serious person".
Right at the start of the "Made in America" documentary, and 5 months into her marriage, look at the contrast between Marguerite's words about the campus ("love") and her newlywed husband ("serious" X2).
Faced with a television camera and asked about her husband, she doubles down on how "serious" he is. Adding that he "loves football". I think it's foreboding that these are the things she has to say about her husband and what "type of guy" he is. It's a refreshingly honest answer and portrayal. There is no hyperbole here, absolutely nothing about any love and care he provides at home or towards her. Just football and seriousness.
He's either away playing football, or he's being "serious" at home. I take this to mean everything had to be just as he liked it, and if it wasn't things could get serious. There was likely overarching control over Marguerite at home, which manifested itself in a "serious" countenance, perhaps a sternness, and resulting annoyance from OJ if things were not "just so".
Of course this being late 1967, perhaps this fits the culture of the time. Patriarchy. OJ was providing financially, and she should be thankful and submissive. But such an early revelation of this "serious" side he seemingly possessed at home, contrasts markedly from the public image he always generated. Where laughing and joking, outward friendliness and socialising and partying were the order of the day. I would doubt this was the case at home.
I think the submissiveness of Marguerite was something he expected in every woman. I believe she acquiesced with his control and accepted his Jekyll and Hyde nature. And much later, when Nicole wouldn't tolerate this behaviour, he instinctively resorted to violence, coercion and threats, culminating in her murder and the murder of Ron Goldman. Marguerite's one sentence description gives us an early insight into OJ's countenance when living with a wife who he sought to dominate and control.
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"I love it.....it's like a resort.....it's beautiful"
Marguerite on OJ same interview.
"OJ is very serious.....he loves football......he's just a serious person".
Right at the start of the "Made in America" documentary, and 5 months into her marriage, look at the contrast between Marguerite's words about the campus ("love") and her newlywed husband ("serious" X2).
Faced with a television camera and asked about her husband, she doubles down on how "serious" he is. Adding that he "loves football". I think it's foreboding that these are the things she has to say about her husband and what "type of guy" he is. It's a refreshingly honest answer and portrayal. There is no hyperbole here, absolutely nothing about any love and care he provides at home or towards her. Just football and seriousness.
He's either away playing football, or he's being "serious" at home. I take this to mean everything had to be just as he liked it, and if it wasn't things could get serious. There was likely overarching control over Marguerite at home, which manifested itself in a "serious" countenance, perhaps a sternness, and resulting annoyance from OJ if things were not "just so".
Of course this being late 1967, perhaps this fits the culture of the time. Patriarchy. OJ was providing financially, and she should be thankful and submissive. But such an early revelation of this "serious" side he seemingly possessed at home, contrasts markedly from the public image he always generated. Where laughing and joking, outward friendliness and socialising and partying were the order of the day. I would doubt this was the case at home.
I think the submissiveness of Marguerite was something he expected in every woman. I believe she acquiesced with his control and accepted his Jekyll and Hyde nature. And much later, when Nicole wouldn't tolerate this behaviour, he instinctively resorted to violence, coercion and threats, culminating in her murder and the murder of Ron Goldman. Marguerite's one sentence description gives us an early insight into OJ's countenance when living with a wife who he sought to dominate and control.
2024.05.15 11:42 Kindly-Cat-2507 My boyfriend of 5 years wants to break up with me out of the blue
My boyfriend (M35) and I (F30) have been together for 5 years. He has a daugther who is 8 years old and she is like my own - I love her very much and she loves me, we have a great friendship. When my boyfriend and I started dating, the mother of his child wasn't very happy about this and tried everything to break us up. My boyfriend at that time was overattached to this woman and did everything she said (he still does sometimes, but it has become so much better over time). She accused me of hurting the child physically (just because she was afraid of it, nothing like this ever happened), she shouted at me for taking the father away from the child by just being in their lives, she told my boyfriend when and where he can spend time with me and when he has to be with his daugther etc. We managed to keep our relationship and he has developed boundaries with his ex. However, this has caused us a lot of drama, damage and fights over the period of time that we have been together - mostly because of my jealousy, fear, insecurity and a feeling that I am not as important as the mother of his child. However, I have always taken care of my boyfriend and his child - they are the world to me. I pay the full rent of our apartment that we bought together, I also buy clothes and toys for his daughter (when she is with us - approximately 10 days in a month) and food. I have tried to be the best girlfriend even though I have had several setbacks - I am not an angel and I have my bad days and my insecurities. We have travelled a lot together - to Peru, Laos, USA, half of Europe etc. We talk a lot and share our problems and success. He is my best friend.
A few years ago I had a surgery on my stomach and didn't know that the baby pills do not have effect after this kind of surgery - I got pregnant. He told me that when his daugther was born he had a lot of problems and fights with his ex, because she cancelled the baby pills without telling him and got pregnant. He told me that because of that he he is not ready for another child right now and he wanted me to do an abortion. I was afraid of ending up alone with a child and I wasn't in a good place back then so I did it - the biggest mistake of my life that I deeply regret. This, also, has been a source of tension between us.
I have noticed some changes in our relationship for some time now. A month ago we had an argument over trivial things and he told me out of the blue that he wants to break up. I asked him for some time and to discuss it again when we are both calm. We did it couple of days later and decided to give each other a second chance - he told me that he needed to do some things alone without me (like riding a bike or going out with friends) and I acknowledged that. Everyone needs space. Two days ago I found out from his daughter that my boyfriend took flowers and cake for his ex (the mother of his child) for Mother's Day and I confronted him. The woman has caused so much unnecessary damage in our relationship and it hurt me. He has brought me flowers twice during our relationship and it seemed weird. He got pissed and then told me that he has thought about breaking up for two-three weeks now and wants to do it. It shocked me because I had tried to give him space, but at the same time to help him with his daughter and things at home. During those weeks, he had told me that everything is fine and assured me that I had nothing to worry about. I am devastated.
When I ask him questions he keeps responding me with three different answers every time and it confuses me. At one point he tells me that he is like 80% sure that he wants to break up with me, then again, 5 minutes later he is telling me that he will pack his things tomorrow, then he says that he wants to come and celebrate my father's birthday next day because he likes my family (even though he just said that he wanted to leave me)... I am so confused. We decided to take a break and agreed to talk about our relationship and what is going to happen in 4 days - he still keeps saying that he has made up his mind though. I am losing my mind and I am just in a shock. He is so calm and he seems like he does not care at all that he is going to lose me - I told him that I am not able to be friends with him right away because I still love him as my man. I don't know what to do. I am just so sad and feel like there is a big hole in my heart.
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A few years ago I had a surgery on my stomach and didn't know that the baby pills do not have effect after this kind of surgery - I got pregnant. He told me that when his daugther was born he had a lot of problems and fights with his ex, because she cancelled the baby pills without telling him and got pregnant. He told me that because of that he he is not ready for another child right now and he wanted me to do an abortion. I was afraid of ending up alone with a child and I wasn't in a good place back then so I did it - the biggest mistake of my life that I deeply regret. This, also, has been a source of tension between us.
I have noticed some changes in our relationship for some time now. A month ago we had an argument over trivial things and he told me out of the blue that he wants to break up. I asked him for some time and to discuss it again when we are both calm. We did it couple of days later and decided to give each other a second chance - he told me that he needed to do some things alone without me (like riding a bike or going out with friends) and I acknowledged that. Everyone needs space. Two days ago I found out from his daughter that my boyfriend took flowers and cake for his ex (the mother of his child) for Mother's Day and I confronted him. The woman has caused so much unnecessary damage in our relationship and it hurt me. He has brought me flowers twice during our relationship and it seemed weird. He got pissed and then told me that he has thought about breaking up for two-three weeks now and wants to do it. It shocked me because I had tried to give him space, but at the same time to help him with his daughter and things at home. During those weeks, he had told me that everything is fine and assured me that I had nothing to worry about. I am devastated.
When I ask him questions he keeps responding me with three different answers every time and it confuses me. At one point he tells me that he is like 80% sure that he wants to break up with me, then again, 5 minutes later he is telling me that he will pack his things tomorrow, then he says that he wants to come and celebrate my father's birthday next day because he likes my family (even though he just said that he wanted to leave me)... I am so confused. We decided to take a break and agreed to talk about our relationship and what is going to happen in 4 days - he still keeps saying that he has made up his mind though. I am losing my mind and I am just in a shock. He is so calm and he seems like he does not care at all that he is going to lose me - I told him that I am not able to be friends with him right away because I still love him as my man. I don't know what to do. I am just so sad and feel like there is a big hole in my heart.
2024.05.15 11:42 Prize_Blacksmith_939 I ruined by life
I was doing amazing in life, had a good banking Job was making pretty good money, bought a Mercedes, was getting all the girls, everything seemed like it was going right.
Surely after I gave myself more financial responsibilities everything started crashing down I started owing more and more money and now Iām about $30,000 Dollars in debt which in reality is not so much money and it something that with time you can payoff, but recently in November I lost my Job because Iām only allowed to work with a Work Authorization card and it expired, it normally takes 3-6 months to get it renewed and unfortunately for me in took 6 months to receive so my job had to let me go which I completely understood. I donāt blame anyone for my mistakes I take all the responsibility but now Iām stuck in a state of depression and even think about taking my life which I wouldāve never thought would ever cross my mind it being that in such an optimistic and happy person. everything seems to be going against me at the moment which makes things harder I recently was going to get my job back but now they require a credit check, which I also understand why thatās put in place specially for banking Jobs, but because I havenāt been working for 6 months I havenāt had extra money to pay my credit cards etcā¦ so now I know that even though I had an amazing interview and the manager loved me i wonāt be able to get a job because of poor credit history, itās very hard for me being in this moment because I lost the sense of whatās gonna become of my life. I truly hate disappointing and although I know itās not something that should hold so much weight for me, unfortunately it does because I know Iāve let my family down all over not being as responsible as i shouldāve been.
Right now I got The love of my life back in my life and we have been doing amazing, we both want the same things and confess our love for each other everyday , I havenāt told her any of whatās going on because i thought Iād get my job back and everything would go back to normal, Iām now afraid I might have to let her go :/ because I cannot give to her what she deserves at the current moment, itās hard for me to talk about my personal life and problems with people Iām closed with, I like keeping things to myself and dealing with my problems on my own, I guess you can say Iām afraid of being judged.
I hope I can find the courage to see things though, I think we should all be grateful to be here no matter what problems we might have, but for the first time in my life I can understand why people would want to take their own life.
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Surely after I gave myself more financial responsibilities everything started crashing down I started owing more and more money and now Iām about $30,000 Dollars in debt which in reality is not so much money and it something that with time you can payoff, but recently in November I lost my Job because Iām only allowed to work with a Work Authorization card and it expired, it normally takes 3-6 months to get it renewed and unfortunately for me in took 6 months to receive so my job had to let me go which I completely understood. I donāt blame anyone for my mistakes I take all the responsibility but now Iām stuck in a state of depression and even think about taking my life which I wouldāve never thought would ever cross my mind it being that in such an optimistic and happy person. everything seems to be going against me at the moment which makes things harder I recently was going to get my job back but now they require a credit check, which I also understand why thatās put in place specially for banking Jobs, but because I havenāt been working for 6 months I havenāt had extra money to pay my credit cards etcā¦ so now I know that even though I had an amazing interview and the manager loved me i wonāt be able to get a job because of poor credit history, itās very hard for me being in this moment because I lost the sense of whatās gonna become of my life. I truly hate disappointing and although I know itās not something that should hold so much weight for me, unfortunately it does because I know Iāve let my family down all over not being as responsible as i shouldāve been.
Right now I got The love of my life back in my life and we have been doing amazing, we both want the same things and confess our love for each other everyday , I havenāt told her any of whatās going on because i thought Iād get my job back and everything would go back to normal, Iām now afraid I might have to let her go :/ because I cannot give to her what she deserves at the current moment, itās hard for me to talk about my personal life and problems with people Iām closed with, I like keeping things to myself and dealing with my problems on my own, I guess you can say Iām afraid of being judged.
I hope I can find the courage to see things though, I think we should all be grateful to be here no matter what problems we might have, but for the first time in my life I can understand why people would want to take their own life.
2024.05.15 11:42 redacted_deluxe How would you deal with belittling in a relationship? (28F 33M)
Hi I (28F) am in a relationship with my bf (33M) and we have had some conflicts. During these arguments my bf would escalate to insulting and belittling me (saying I'm too sensitive, immature, doing stupid āgirlfriend shit" "loser shit" am "obsessed" with ātrash", or "feeble woman" and things of that kind.) Basically attacking my femininity for being too emotional.
This happens if I bring up issues in the relationship or express negative emotions. I do try to express these things respectfully and from a point of view of āI feel x, I would like it if xā rather than attacking him. The belittling seems to happen if a conversation goes on for longer than he would like and he just kind of snaps.
At the time I kind of ignored this and let it slide because I know that criticising him will only make it worse. When we don't have conflicts our relationship is really fun and enjoyable but if I have emotions or problems it leads to this.
How would you navigate this kind of behaviour and what do you think it stems from?
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This happens if I bring up issues in the relationship or express negative emotions. I do try to express these things respectfully and from a point of view of āI feel x, I would like it if xā rather than attacking him. The belittling seems to happen if a conversation goes on for longer than he would like and he just kind of snaps.
At the time I kind of ignored this and let it slide because I know that criticising him will only make it worse. When we don't have conflicts our relationship is really fun and enjoyable but if I have emotions or problems it leads to this.
How would you navigate this kind of behaviour and what do you think it stems from?
2024.05.15 11:42 Finance-Straight Starting to lose hope about ever getting married
Iām 23 turning 24 & i feel suuuupeeer old
I know there is a general marriage crisis going on but everyone around me (school friends, peers etc) seem to be getting alone just fine
I know comparison is the thief of joy & that Allah has blessed me in soo many other ways
However all the things i used to value (my education etc) i look at & think if does that even matter when no one even wants to marry me right now ?
Before anyone says you shouldnāt let a man pull your self-esteem down like that, itās only natural to feel incomplete when you havenāt hit such a huge milestone
Iāve studied deep into the islamic sciences so i know better than to have shaky tawakkul - but tawakkul doesnāt come from books it comes from real life experience
I have been making dua for the last couple years - ramadan, in tahajjud, in palestine - all the blessed times & places
But Allah hasnāt decreed it yetš¢
I know He is too generous to not give but iām feeling less optimistic as the years go on - my family around me arenāt doing a great job at helping but tthe one story thatās in my head right now is how Prophet Yusuf asked his fellow prisoner to mention his release to the king & the prisoner forgot & remembered after 7 years! Prophet Yusuf remained patient & look how God rewarded him
So that reminds me that time isnāt being āwastedā by my family being too slow with it all - itās all just written to happen this way
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I know there is a general marriage crisis going on but everyone around me (school friends, peers etc) seem to be getting alone just fine
I know comparison is the thief of joy & that Allah has blessed me in soo many other ways
However all the things i used to value (my education etc) i look at & think if does that even matter when no one even wants to marry me right now ?
Before anyone says you shouldnāt let a man pull your self-esteem down like that, itās only natural to feel incomplete when you havenāt hit such a huge milestone
Iāve studied deep into the islamic sciences so i know better than to have shaky tawakkul - but tawakkul doesnāt come from books it comes from real life experience
I have been making dua for the last couple years - ramadan, in tahajjud, in palestine - all the blessed times & places
But Allah hasnāt decreed it yetš¢
I know He is too generous to not give but iām feeling less optimistic as the years go on - my family around me arenāt doing a great job at helping but tthe one story thatās in my head right now is how Prophet Yusuf asked his fellow prisoner to mention his release to the king & the prisoner forgot & remembered after 7 years! Prophet Yusuf remained patient & look how God rewarded him
So that reminds me that time isnāt being āwastedā by my family being too slow with it all - itās all just written to happen this way