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2024.05.16 03:13 Authorrlee AITA for going full No Contact with my sister the same week as our grandmother’s funeral?
(I am SO sorry for the needed lengthy) Back Story & Context Leading To My Decision:
I (33F) have 1 sibling, “Sam” (36F). Although we share the same parents, our childhood & the way we were treated was incredibly different. Mainly because Sam had always been favored & treated far better than me. A fact that Sam refuses to acknowledge to this day.
Before & after my parents got married, it was agreed upon that they would not have children, until one day my mother “Susan” (66F) came up with the bright idea that if she gave her parents (“Norma & Gene”) a grand-baby they would finally love her. She went off the pill without telling my father, got pregnant, then had Sam. To no one’s surprise, Susan hated being a mom. So she would ship Sam across the country to Norma & Gene’s constantly, so much so, they saw her as THEIR child. And they showered her with love that Susan never even got a taste of. This led to Susan being aggressively jealous & resentful of her child.
Years later, my dad was tricked again into having me to “save their marriage.” They divorced when I was 3. All Sam ever knew from Susan was neglect, emotional & mental abuse from Susan, which only became worse when she could use “favoring” me as another way to hurt Sam. This was NOT a secret in my family, resulting in maltreatment towards me (either subconsciously or intentionally).
Abuse toward Sam turned physical. My father was given full custody of her when I was 8, and I was left with Susan for the next 2 years until she decided she wanted to move to San Francisco because she “deserved” a more glamorous life. I do not remember the years living with Susan, but recently one of my closest friends (of 25 years) said to me I practically lived at her house & she barely interacted with Susan throughout the entirety of our friendship.
To make up for Susan being an awful parent, Norma & Gene would dote on Sam & shell out a lot of $$$ to give her a very nice life (let me know if you want me to give a list of examples in an update), compare this to me when I barley received a kind word. Despite the obvious disparities and constant hurt they put me through, I was an active member of the family who mainly kept her mouth shut. I attended family events unless I could not afford to go, I sent holiday gifts, called between 1-2x per month for an 1 hour+ phone call in which I most often bit my tongue unless it was to defend Sam as Norma did not agree with her parenting.
Something to note, in May 2021 my father had an accident that would lead to his passing in December 2021. The disagreements & Sam’s nastiness toward me after the accident and then his death further strained our relationship.
Fast forward to March 2023. An explosive incident at Susan’s home in front of me she screamed at my sister to the point of Sam sobbing in ear shot of her 3 young kids, husband, and my step father resulted in me cutting ties with Susan for good. To be fair, she screamed in my face “I don’t want a relationship with you” with Sam as a witness. I made the family aware of my decision, and everyone, including Norma agreed to respect my decision.
By August 2023, my physical health that had been on a rapid decline since 2019 including 78% of my discs deteriorating without a known cause had become unbearable to manage I had to quit my corporate desk job. I had enough money saved to tide me over for some time, but as any US adult in their 20’s & 30’s know, it’s been rough the past few years, add in physical disabilities & limited mobility + regular migraines, I was running low on money & needed help. So at the end of December, at the encouragement & insistence of my aunt Elizabeth (Susan’s sister) who I had become quite close with over the past few years, I went to Norma & Gene to ask for a LOAN. They had donated $25,000 to Sam’s place of worship on her behalf a few months prior, offered to buy Sam & her husband a house the year prior, paid for Elizabeth’s bills & expensive lifestyle for the last year when she was soul searching on what line of work she wanted to do next, this was after putting a down payment on Elizabeth’s new $470,000 condo + $70,000 of renovations it needed, not to mention the literal hundreds of thousands of dollars that they have given Susan over the years just to pay off her credit card debt, she assured me they would absolutely loan their granddaughter with serious health issues money. Elizabeth would talk to them personally about it, just to seal the deal while Sam would help me find cheaper alternatives to my current necessities such as Medicaid.
I make the request, and to my surprise they are more than happy to help me with a loan. But one week later & their phone calls with Susan, they say by email they “love me but cannot continue to financially support my poor decisions.” I call Elizabeth who says, it was not in her best interest to talk to them about helping me as I am “worthless to this family and society while being disabled.” Then adds that she will not let her “mental health deteriorate just to emotionally support me.” I then immediately reach out to Sam who does not even have the guts to talk by phone only text, and says she called Susan to explain my circumstance but “wasn’t going to argue or pick a fight” to help me and that she is sorry that that she “can't show up for me the way I want her to because she needs to maintain her own mental health, relationships and boundaries.” She also threw in that I have “made up this narrative in my head” that they treat her & I different, that she is treated better.
That day I fully cut contact with Norma, Gene, and Elizabeth. I told them they will not be hearing from me again, and I will not be attending theirs or Susan’s funeral. And I stopped speaking with Sam for the time being. Ironically, what led us to speaking was last month (April 20224) I had begun working on an article about going No Contact with family members. I asked if I could discuss her childhood abuse in a few sentences as part of the article. She agreed and offered to give me quotes. I accepted then interviewed her. From there we began rebuilding our relationship.
Then last Wednesday, (May 8), Norma passes. I do not attend the funeral that happened on Friday, May 10. My two cousins who I have become very close with in the last 6 months understood why, and supported my decision. But even though I did not go, I continually checked in with them & Sam to ensure they were okay. Not once from Wednesday to yesterday (Tuesday) did Sam reply to a single message. As I am concerned about this, I reached out yesterday morning. She replied in the afternoon. I was incredibly hurt by her very lengthy message. Here are 2 excerpts that led me to full NC.
I work very hard to stay positive as it’s just me to lean on. When there is something eating at me emotionally, it will drain my energy & have me spiral until it is resolved. I did not want to waste another week feeling hurt. But with that said, AITA for cutting ties at this time & not waiting?
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I (33F) have 1 sibling, “Sam” (36F). Although we share the same parents, our childhood & the way we were treated was incredibly different. Mainly because Sam had always been favored & treated far better than me. A fact that Sam refuses to acknowledge to this day.
Before & after my parents got married, it was agreed upon that they would not have children, until one day my mother “Susan” (66F) came up with the bright idea that if she gave her parents (“Norma & Gene”) a grand-baby they would finally love her. She went off the pill without telling my father, got pregnant, then had Sam. To no one’s surprise, Susan hated being a mom. So she would ship Sam across the country to Norma & Gene’s constantly, so much so, they saw her as THEIR child. And they showered her with love that Susan never even got a taste of. This led to Susan being aggressively jealous & resentful of her child.
Years later, my dad was tricked again into having me to “save their marriage.” They divorced when I was 3. All Sam ever knew from Susan was neglect, emotional & mental abuse from Susan, which only became worse when she could use “favoring” me as another way to hurt Sam. This was NOT a secret in my family, resulting in maltreatment towards me (either subconsciously or intentionally).
Abuse toward Sam turned physical. My father was given full custody of her when I was 8, and I was left with Susan for the next 2 years until she decided she wanted to move to San Francisco because she “deserved” a more glamorous life. I do not remember the years living with Susan, but recently one of my closest friends (of 25 years) said to me I practically lived at her house & she barely interacted with Susan throughout the entirety of our friendship.
To make up for Susan being an awful parent, Norma & Gene would dote on Sam & shell out a lot of $$$ to give her a very nice life (let me know if you want me to give a list of examples in an update), compare this to me when I barley received a kind word. Despite the obvious disparities and constant hurt they put me through, I was an active member of the family who mainly kept her mouth shut. I attended family events unless I could not afford to go, I sent holiday gifts, called between 1-2x per month for an 1 hour+ phone call in which I most often bit my tongue unless it was to defend Sam as Norma did not agree with her parenting.
Something to note, in May 2021 my father had an accident that would lead to his passing in December 2021. The disagreements & Sam’s nastiness toward me after the accident and then his death further strained our relationship.
Fast forward to March 2023. An explosive incident at Susan’s home in front of me she screamed at my sister to the point of Sam sobbing in ear shot of her 3 young kids, husband, and my step father resulted in me cutting ties with Susan for good. To be fair, she screamed in my face “I don’t want a relationship with you” with Sam as a witness. I made the family aware of my decision, and everyone, including Norma agreed to respect my decision.
By August 2023, my physical health that had been on a rapid decline since 2019 including 78% of my discs deteriorating without a known cause had become unbearable to manage I had to quit my corporate desk job. I had enough money saved to tide me over for some time, but as any US adult in their 20’s & 30’s know, it’s been rough the past few years, add in physical disabilities & limited mobility + regular migraines, I was running low on money & needed help. So at the end of December, at the encouragement & insistence of my aunt Elizabeth (Susan’s sister) who I had become quite close with over the past few years, I went to Norma & Gene to ask for a LOAN. They had donated $25,000 to Sam’s place of worship on her behalf a few months prior, offered to buy Sam & her husband a house the year prior, paid for Elizabeth’s bills & expensive lifestyle for the last year when she was soul searching on what line of work she wanted to do next, this was after putting a down payment on Elizabeth’s new $470,000 condo + $70,000 of renovations it needed, not to mention the literal hundreds of thousands of dollars that they have given Susan over the years just to pay off her credit card debt, she assured me they would absolutely loan their granddaughter with serious health issues money. Elizabeth would talk to them personally about it, just to seal the deal while Sam would help me find cheaper alternatives to my current necessities such as Medicaid.
I make the request, and to my surprise they are more than happy to help me with a loan. But one week later & their phone calls with Susan, they say by email they “love me but cannot continue to financially support my poor decisions.” I call Elizabeth who says, it was not in her best interest to talk to them about helping me as I am “worthless to this family and society while being disabled.” Then adds that she will not let her “mental health deteriorate just to emotionally support me.” I then immediately reach out to Sam who does not even have the guts to talk by phone only text, and says she called Susan to explain my circumstance but “wasn’t going to argue or pick a fight” to help me and that she is sorry that that she “can't show up for me the way I want her to because she needs to maintain her own mental health, relationships and boundaries.” She also threw in that I have “made up this narrative in my head” that they treat her & I different, that she is treated better.
That day I fully cut contact with Norma, Gene, and Elizabeth. I told them they will not be hearing from me again, and I will not be attending theirs or Susan’s funeral. And I stopped speaking with Sam for the time being. Ironically, what led us to speaking was last month (April 20224) I had begun working on an article about going No Contact with family members. I asked if I could discuss her childhood abuse in a few sentences as part of the article. She agreed and offered to give me quotes. I accepted then interviewed her. From there we began rebuilding our relationship.
Then last Wednesday, (May 8), Norma passes. I do not attend the funeral that happened on Friday, May 10. My two cousins who I have become very close with in the last 6 months understood why, and supported my decision. But even though I did not go, I continually checked in with them & Sam to ensure they were okay. Not once from Wednesday to yesterday (Tuesday) did Sam reply to a single message. As I am concerned about this, I reached out yesterday morning. She replied in the afternoon. I was incredibly hurt by her very lengthy message. Here are 2 excerpts that led me to full NC.
- “Your perspective on the situation was clear, you werent coming to be with the family and you arent grieving [Norma’s] death at least in the conventional sense. I had to be the one to answer from most of the family why you werent there, it was incredibly awkward and uncomfortable for me.”
- “Since late January/Early February things have already been really strained between us. I know that most that comes from my point of view and actions were really hurtful to you. I hate that I hurt you and Its been difficult for me to reconcile that I can't show up for you the way you want me to while also maintaining my own mental health, relationships and boundaries.”
I work very hard to stay positive as it’s just me to lean on. When there is something eating at me emotionally, it will drain my energy & have me spiral until it is resolved. I did not want to waste another week feeling hurt. But with that said, AITA for cutting ties at this time & not waiting?
2024.05.16 03:11 New-Analyst-4962 Who is at fault, uncontrolled intersection car accident. this is a long one
So recently a few weeks ago, I had gotten to a total collision. There was an uncontrolled four-way intersection with only two stop signs. hoping you can follow along with picture. ☹️. I am yellow ⚠️and the person who hit me Is light orange 🔸and the Good Samaritan is in green❎. At this intersection, I have a stop sign and I am turning left so of course I have to yield to oncoming traffic, which is no problem. I’ve been through this intersection many times and it’s frightening because of how many accidents happen especially during busy hours which are traffic hours. It was a Friday and I was hoping my friend move and have a housewarming party. We were on the way back from unloading her furniture to her other house to just get the remaining things left for her housewarming party. Nothing major all the cars were emptied. I’m approaching this intersection and it’s so busy. The line where I was which was the yellow lane had barely moved and for good reason because the oncoming traffic with no stop signs would not let anybody in I was in that line since 4pm and I got hit around 5:25pm and it honestly took good Samaritans to actually let us in to move which is why it was moving so slow. I had no problem with this since I had AC and had nothing of urgency to do. It was my turn to be at the stop sign. I had waited there about five minutes at THE absolute least minimum. I kept looking both ways to see when it would be safe for me to cross. When left oncoming traffic going straight would let me in right oncoming traffic would not stop and then when left oncoming traffic would stop for me to let me in right oncoming traffic would not stop and this went on for what seemed like eternity finally from left oncoming traffic stopped there were four cars that were sped through and went straight and the other two were waiting to turn left. I kept looking to make sure that nobody was behind those two cars that were turning left, especially since they were taking their time to turn the Samaritan left oncoming was being patient to let me in to make sure I was safe to be able to make that turn since they had seen me sitting there for a long time, as both ways to make sure oncoming had decided to start my vehicle however it seems that the vehicle that hit me was behind the hill and was speeding by the time I was in the pretty much in the middle of the intersection about to make my FULL turn she collided and T-bone me head on and for reference she had nowhere to go because since she was going straight if she was moving to her left, she would’ve hit oncoming traffic. If she moved to her right, she would hit the railings and the cars waiting at the stop sign. She had no choice, but to keep going straight and T-bones me in the middle to back of my vehicle spinning me and completely my turn for me. I had mutiple eye witness say she sped and came out of nowhere that it was clear when I was making my turn. In the police report it SEEMS I’m at fault the officer stated I ran the stop sign. Speed limit was 55 I was going “40”. It’s uncontrolled and many people speed through there all the time bc it’s a dirt backroad/highway. I’ve never had a speeding ticket or anything of this nature only ticket I’ve ever gotten was turning on my blinker late. Who is at fault or can someone explain what I should’ve done since oncoming traffic literally NEVER lets the people at the stop signs in, you just get lucky if one side stops to let you in and waits for the other side of oncoming traffic with no yield to clear for you. This is how it ALWAYS works especially during busy hours .
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2024.05.16 03:11 Numerous_Oil_9438 S or N? (EXFP)
I've been having problems with finding my type and enneagram. I need help! (I'm pretty sure I'm an EXFP) - I can't really tell if I'm N or S. I've done alot of research and Im still not sure yet.
I'm pretty outgoing and fun once you get to know me, I love humour and I have really weird sense of humour. I love to laugh. I like to make people laugh.
I love art, dancing, acting , good music. I like to take pictures of anything (animals, people, food..) I don't do it always but often.
I like to experience things. Such as traveling. I like any type of rides (car rides, bus rides..riding my bike) I take pictures of my experiences so I can have beautiful memories of them.
Now, I can have anxiety problems, which I usually try to ignore, and just try to have fun. ( It's just around people my age, or being afraid to be embarrassed) I hate judgmental ppl.
Do I like taking risks? Yes and no. It can be fun but I don't like something that can get me into serious trouble.
There's been times where I would feel depressed and I wouldnt go out that much but I'm trying to get better!
Tell me what you think.
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I'm pretty outgoing and fun once you get to know me, I love humour and I have really weird sense of humour. I love to laugh. I like to make people laugh.
I love art, dancing, acting , good music. I like to take pictures of anything (animals, people, food..) I don't do it always but often.
I like to experience things. Such as traveling. I like any type of rides (car rides, bus rides..riding my bike) I take pictures of my experiences so I can have beautiful memories of them.
Now, I can have anxiety problems, which I usually try to ignore, and just try to have fun. ( It's just around people my age, or being afraid to be embarrassed) I hate judgmental ppl.
Do I like taking risks? Yes and no. It can be fun but I don't like something that can get me into serious trouble.
There's been times where I would feel depressed and I wouldnt go out that much but I'm trying to get better!
Tell me what you think.
2024.05.16 03:10 IllTransportation993 Just got the Moondrop MIAD01 phone/DAP, quick Pro/Con
 | Just got this for over 24 hours. Not had a whole lot of time on it but so far gets what i can say about it... submitted by IllTransportation993 to headphones [link] [comments] The good: At this price, you are getting a good deal, with Alex that should make it useful as an Android device for many years. Lots of RAM to keep all future apps happy. Battery life during my mostly idle 24 hours had been really good. I don't know why people make a big deal out of the plastic back case. Polycarbonate plastic is very very tough, virtually impossible to ding or crack(well, not before everything else in the phone had already shattered into a million pieces), it is textured nicely and pretty grippy. The sound is pretty good, haven't got too much critical listening on it, plan to let it burn in a bit on my MDR-Z7 on the balanced output. The bad: No way to turn off always on display. Your skin will turn it on through your shirt pocket. You will see like a million digits of l punched into your pin code entry field. Someone at Moondrop, just give us an "ALWAYS OFF" function for the screen after we hit the lock/power button. Built in music player seemed to sound very muddy in the bass region. I don't know why. Just loaded the neutron player from Google Play and was on my merry way. Some Google service framework seemed to be built in and can be turned on via a setting in the setup menu, but apps that use Google map service doesn't seem to be able to load maps(like chargepoint and flo for finding car charging services). Stuff that uses microg GMS services like YouTube Revanced will complain there's no such service, but when you tried to install such services, the package will say there are existing packages already installed, and the installation failed as soon as i got the install to update existing installation. Conclusion: Can't use it as my main phone, due to my reliance on Google services, if anyone know how to get the GMS services fully working, I'm all ears. Also would love to run YouTube Revanced on it. It is almost a great DAP, just need some software tweaks to fit the use case better. As my main phone... That would be a bit iffy. Compared to what i remembered my Fiio KA17 dongle. I remember it to be much more resolving, and having a sharp well defined bass compared to the less defined bass on MIAD01. However, it might still be subject to change after some burn-in time. |
2024.05.16 03:09 CloverDash9517 Car Shopping Stress. Manual vs DCT vs VB Wrx
It’s become inevitable that I need a car and I want something sporty. My heart screams for a manual but the prices of everything hurts right now. Right off the bat if I get a VB it will be a manual - no question about it, I have an inquiry on a ‘23 for 27500 but its in ISM (one of my last choices of color and my mind keeps coming back to the VN. I really like the VN and I think I’d also be leaning towards a manual in it but obviously the DCT is an excellent transmission from what I’ve heard.
I have yet to test drive any of these cars as it’s hard to find them in my area and would love some input. I think I am one of those people who may have buyers remorse no matter what (despite the fact that I will love and cherish whatever I buy). Help me make my choice and please share any experiences you have had with these three cars.
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I have yet to test drive any of these cars as it’s hard to find them in my area and would love some input. I think I am one of those people who may have buyers remorse no matter what (despite the fact that I will love and cherish whatever I buy). Help me make my choice and please share any experiences you have had with these three cars.
2024.05.16 03:09 triskadekta Retrofitting MCU2 into an early 2016 MS?
I haven’t been able to find a good answer for this… I recently bought an early 2016 MS. Is it possible to upgrade it to an MCU2? I’m not trying to get better self driving or add cameras or anything like that, I’ve just read that the MCU2 is night and day more responsive than the first gen. I’ve seen that Tesla will upgrade it for a pile of money if your car qualifies, but I don’t have it listed as an upgrade option, and I’m curious if it’s physically not possible, or if Tesla just doesn’t bother offering it for such elderly cars. The last software update for my car was 8/22, so that makes me think the latter?
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2024.05.16 03:08 fatcletorris Can i get my va payment early?
Just moved across the states, lost my job and got evicted so i decided to make the move back to my inlaws. Landed a job within a week but my phone got shut off and my car got towed on my first day lol could really use the money and i doubt they will but i was seeing if the va would send the payment early/advance so i can catch up on bills i wont get paid for another 12 days and my car is pilling up fees everyday and i wont be able to afford it when i get paid. Thanks.
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2024.05.16 03:08 ManualStop Best EV Car Lease deals right now?
Hey guys, I’m looking for a recommendation on a really good EV car lease deal.
I’m getting a lot of ads about lease deals right now but the fine print isn’t so great. Either it’s a big down payment or the miles are laughably low or require you to have a current lease with certain car makes.
I’ve seen a $7,500 and even $10,000 rebate that the dealer would get since I’d be leasing.
Have you gotten a recent great deal on a lease? If so where and what EV did you get?
I have good credit 750+, make decent money.
I don’t have a trade in.
Looking to spend $0-$1,500 down.
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I’m getting a lot of ads about lease deals right now but the fine print isn’t so great. Either it’s a big down payment or the miles are laughably low or require you to have a current lease with certain car makes.
I’ve seen a $7,500 and even $10,000 rebate that the dealer would get since I’d be leasing.
Have you gotten a recent great deal on a lease? If so where and what EV did you get?
I have good credit 750+, make decent money.
I don’t have a trade in.
Looking to spend $0-$1,500 down.
2024.05.16 03:08 _Doggie_ What is the most underrated or "hidden gem" roguelite you have played?
I have played alot of roguelites, but I always like seeing if there's any more hidden gems out there I should look at getting.
I'll start, I have 2.
Roundguard: Takes a bit of inspiration from something like peglin, while putting a very fun "game show" style (similar to dicey dungeons) take on the whole thing. It's honestly incredibly addicting and fun. All the classes play very differently, and there's enough variety between each run to make it very replayable, and something that is very easy to jump in and out of.
Unexplored: I will start off by saying that this game is a roguelite technically, but runs are a lot longer form then most so I debated not bringing it up. However, I truly believe this is one of the most well hidden gems I have ever played. I think it is CRIMINAL that I don't see ANYBODY talk about this game. Fantastic procedural generation, some of the best of its kind, I love how they incorporate rpg elements such as crafting, and enchanting. It's the type of game where it might turn a lot of people off based on the graphics, but if you do decide to dive in you will be absolutely hooked! (Also a very challenging game through and through, so for those that love a challenge this is a no brainer)
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I'll start, I have 2.
Roundguard: Takes a bit of inspiration from something like peglin, while putting a very fun "game show" style (similar to dicey dungeons) take on the whole thing. It's honestly incredibly addicting and fun. All the classes play very differently, and there's enough variety between each run to make it very replayable, and something that is very easy to jump in and out of.
Unexplored: I will start off by saying that this game is a roguelite technically, but runs are a lot longer form then most so I debated not bringing it up. However, I truly believe this is one of the most well hidden gems I have ever played. I think it is CRIMINAL that I don't see ANYBODY talk about this game. Fantastic procedural generation, some of the best of its kind, I love how they incorporate rpg elements such as crafting, and enchanting. It's the type of game where it might turn a lot of people off based on the graphics, but if you do decide to dive in you will be absolutely hooked! (Also a very challenging game through and through, so for those that love a challenge this is a no brainer)
2024.05.16 03:08 vinegarstrokes420 Questions about unlocking DME
After a year of ownership, I'm looking to tune my 2016 340i with a BM3 stage 1 tune. Unfortunately the app says I need a bench unlock (CarFax shows the software was update under previous ownership).
What are my best options to unlock? The closest authorized tuner PTF shows is 2 hours from me and the good shops I know closer will only unlock for their own tunes. Make sense to just take the 2 hour drive? Pull out DME and ship somewhere?
Looks like it's typically $250+ to unlock. Does that seem right?
Say I get an unexpected software update and DME gets locked... am I just screwed and have to pay for an unlock again? If so, is it worth it to get the MHD unlock tool so I can do it again for free?
Are there other better options I didn't list but should consider?
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What are my best options to unlock? The closest authorized tuner PTF shows is 2 hours from me and the good shops I know closer will only unlock for their own tunes. Make sense to just take the 2 hour drive? Pull out DME and ship somewhere?
Looks like it's typically $250+ to unlock. Does that seem right?
Say I get an unexpected software update and DME gets locked... am I just screwed and have to pay for an unlock again? If so, is it worth it to get the MHD unlock tool so I can do it again for free?
Are there other better options I didn't list but should consider?
2024.05.16 03:07 skibbity_bop_mm_dada My Boyfriend (20M) and I (23F) Have Been Thinking of Ending Our Long-Distance Relationship, Should I Keep Trying to Make Things Work?
My boyfriend (20M) and I (23F) have been dating long distance for nearly 2 years now, our anniversary is coming up soon and things have been very difficult recently between us.
I think it started about 2 months ago when he had been trying to convince me to move in with him and his family. I considered it for a while but I ultimately ended up choosing to stay with my family because I'm in college and need the stability that staying with my family offers, and staying with his family has significant challenges of its own. Then he tried to get me to come visit him, but I told him since he didn't have a car yet and we wouldn't be able to do anything on our own without his dad driving us that we should just wait a month or two and visit then. At that point, he said that he would not be moving in with me and my family (which was the original plan since the very beginning before he tried to get me to move in with him) because he didn't want to be around my family. I've told him about fights my family and I have had and he can't forgive them or at least move past it enough to move in anymore even though things are better with my family now than they ever were before. Since then, things haven't been the same.
We'll get into arguments all the time which will result in him threatening the relationship and me trying to piece things back together because it seems like all of this has come out of nowhere during the past two months. He will also be consistently rude to me and act like I'm an annoyance. I have always given him all the love and attention he could ever want, and previous issues he had with me in the beginning are no more now. I've given up on getting any love from him for the moment. But when he's rude to me, I do have to say something about it which is where the arguments are coming from. For example, I jokingly asked him if he liked being in a relationship with me as a way to tell him I wanted him to not do something (i.e. he asked if he should do something and I responded with "well, do you wanna be in a relationship with me?" I would give a specific example but I was so not serious about it, that I don't even remember what it was that he was asking about) and instead of asking for a clarification about my intentions with the statement he just said no. I waited for him to clarify, but he didn't. I ended the call and after a min or two asked him to clarify what he meant and to apologize. Apparently he said he was saying no to me "threatening the relationship", which I then clarified that I wasn't being serious and was just being sassy as a joke. But then he started talking about breaking up again which lead to me crying, trying to piece everything back together again. Things had been fine earlier that day.
Then when I start to accept it finally, he acts like he may have an "idea" that will save the relationship. Most recently he said he needs to lower me on his list of priorities. Which I don't understand because to me, it feels like he has already lowered me on his list of priorities. Apparently he values his recent part time retail job over me and for some reason he can't have both me and the job. He also will complain that he's tired and doesn't want to go to work but he'll accept when he's called in short notice to the point where he'll work all day. And then he'll claim that its me who's holding him back from doing other things he likes like doing yardwork or whatever else he wants to do. I want to be appreciated for my efforts and commitment and I've NEVER held him back from any of those things. I had been encouraging him to get his first job for over a YEAR before he got it. He also doesn't respect that I want him to have a car before I visit and still won't get the car that's been available to him for a while now through his grandpa. All he has to do is put himself on the insurance but he won't do it. He even let his learners permit expire so now he can't take a flight or even drive a car and there's even more steps for him to do at this point to get a car, better himself, and grow up. For the record, I am also not a nag. I haven't asked him to do ANYTHING other than just respect me as a human for 2 months.
When I ask him why he wants to break up its always a new reason and when I ask him to elaborate on the reason he says "I don't know". He doesn't know why he thinks we're not compatible anymore. He doesn't know why he wants to be single. He doesn't know what he learned from this relationship even though he claims that "maybe this was just a stepping stone for us to learn". He doesn't know anything but he still acts like he wants to go through with it.
I'm so tired of all of this, but it feels like such a waste to break up because this bad stuff hasn't been happening for very long. I feel like if he was more in touch with his emotions about moving in and visiting, he wouldn't be in this place mentally. Plus when we visit we're sooo happy together. We HAD been so happy together for the vast majority of the relationship up until around this time. But there's nothing I can do for him anymore to make him realize our relationship is worth saving. I've been holding onto the future of this relationship for SO long and have put a LOT into it, both emotionally and financially (long distance is expensive). I just don't want it to end because he can't deal with his emotions and can't treat me with respect just out of the blue. It doesn't make any sense to me and I'm having a really hard time accepting it. I worry he may end up regretting it down the line. I think that I'm a very good partner and have a lot of good qualities. I've improved myself a lot in this relationship too. I don't know why he'd want to be single instead. Literally everyone I've talked to has told me to break up with him. It's just so hard to divest my energy this quickly. I don't feel prepared. I don't think he's going to realize what he had until its gone for good. It's just so hard for me to give up on this. Please let me know what I should do about this terrible situation.
TLDR; My long-distance relationship of nearly 2 years hit a rough patch. Initially, our plan was for him to move in with me, then my boyfriend wanted me to move in, which I considered but backed out on for school and family reasons. Arguments and rudeness escalated. He's indecisive about breakup reasons. Despite advice from others, I'm struggling to accept a potential breakup. I've invested a lot emotionally and feel unprepared to end it.
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I think it started about 2 months ago when he had been trying to convince me to move in with him and his family. I considered it for a while but I ultimately ended up choosing to stay with my family because I'm in college and need the stability that staying with my family offers, and staying with his family has significant challenges of its own. Then he tried to get me to come visit him, but I told him since he didn't have a car yet and we wouldn't be able to do anything on our own without his dad driving us that we should just wait a month or two and visit then. At that point, he said that he would not be moving in with me and my family (which was the original plan since the very beginning before he tried to get me to move in with him) because he didn't want to be around my family. I've told him about fights my family and I have had and he can't forgive them or at least move past it enough to move in anymore even though things are better with my family now than they ever were before. Since then, things haven't been the same.
We'll get into arguments all the time which will result in him threatening the relationship and me trying to piece things back together because it seems like all of this has come out of nowhere during the past two months. He will also be consistently rude to me and act like I'm an annoyance. I have always given him all the love and attention he could ever want, and previous issues he had with me in the beginning are no more now. I've given up on getting any love from him for the moment. But when he's rude to me, I do have to say something about it which is where the arguments are coming from. For example, I jokingly asked him if he liked being in a relationship with me as a way to tell him I wanted him to not do something (i.e. he asked if he should do something and I responded with "well, do you wanna be in a relationship with me?" I would give a specific example but I was so not serious about it, that I don't even remember what it was that he was asking about) and instead of asking for a clarification about my intentions with the statement he just said no. I waited for him to clarify, but he didn't. I ended the call and after a min or two asked him to clarify what he meant and to apologize. Apparently he said he was saying no to me "threatening the relationship", which I then clarified that I wasn't being serious and was just being sassy as a joke. But then he started talking about breaking up again which lead to me crying, trying to piece everything back together again. Things had been fine earlier that day.
Then when I start to accept it finally, he acts like he may have an "idea" that will save the relationship. Most recently he said he needs to lower me on his list of priorities. Which I don't understand because to me, it feels like he has already lowered me on his list of priorities. Apparently he values his recent part time retail job over me and for some reason he can't have both me and the job. He also will complain that he's tired and doesn't want to go to work but he'll accept when he's called in short notice to the point where he'll work all day. And then he'll claim that its me who's holding him back from doing other things he likes like doing yardwork or whatever else he wants to do. I want to be appreciated for my efforts and commitment and I've NEVER held him back from any of those things. I had been encouraging him to get his first job for over a YEAR before he got it. He also doesn't respect that I want him to have a car before I visit and still won't get the car that's been available to him for a while now through his grandpa. All he has to do is put himself on the insurance but he won't do it. He even let his learners permit expire so now he can't take a flight or even drive a car and there's even more steps for him to do at this point to get a car, better himself, and grow up. For the record, I am also not a nag. I haven't asked him to do ANYTHING other than just respect me as a human for 2 months.
When I ask him why he wants to break up its always a new reason and when I ask him to elaborate on the reason he says "I don't know". He doesn't know why he thinks we're not compatible anymore. He doesn't know why he wants to be single. He doesn't know what he learned from this relationship even though he claims that "maybe this was just a stepping stone for us to learn". He doesn't know anything but he still acts like he wants to go through with it.
I'm so tired of all of this, but it feels like such a waste to break up because this bad stuff hasn't been happening for very long. I feel like if he was more in touch with his emotions about moving in and visiting, he wouldn't be in this place mentally. Plus when we visit we're sooo happy together. We HAD been so happy together for the vast majority of the relationship up until around this time. But there's nothing I can do for him anymore to make him realize our relationship is worth saving. I've been holding onto the future of this relationship for SO long and have put a LOT into it, both emotionally and financially (long distance is expensive). I just don't want it to end because he can't deal with his emotions and can't treat me with respect just out of the blue. It doesn't make any sense to me and I'm having a really hard time accepting it. I worry he may end up regretting it down the line. I think that I'm a very good partner and have a lot of good qualities. I've improved myself a lot in this relationship too. I don't know why he'd want to be single instead. Literally everyone I've talked to has told me to break up with him. It's just so hard to divest my energy this quickly. I don't feel prepared. I don't think he's going to realize what he had until its gone for good. It's just so hard for me to give up on this. Please let me know what I should do about this terrible situation.
TLDR; My long-distance relationship of nearly 2 years hit a rough patch. Initially, our plan was for him to move in with me, then my boyfriend wanted me to move in, which I considered but backed out on for school and family reasons. Arguments and rudeness escalated. He's indecisive about breakup reasons. Despite advice from others, I'm struggling to accept a potential breakup. I've invested a lot emotionally and feel unprepared to end it.
2024.05.16 03:05 BPeace1136 [Recruiting][A3][EST/PST][18+] 1st Recon Battalion Realism Unit. A Friendly, Fun, and Realistic Milsim. 5 Years of Realism!
![[Recruiting][A3][EST/PST][18+] 1st Recon Battalion Realism Unit. A Friendly, Fun, and Realistic Milsim. 5 Years of Realism!](https://external-preview.redd.it/bIyuRV6RZqZptAT_3nTNAN4RTomQHfDfQxp9CZNMsrw.jpg?width=320&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=f7e953c352024f82dace08157c3e3229f2d1608d "[Recruiting][A3][EST/PST][18+] 1st Recon Battalion Realism Unit. A Friendly, Fun, and Realistic Milsim. 5 Years of Realism!") | https://preview.redd.it/wvuqh8eeuo0d1.jpg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c15665d56950345d344912452862293117c83017 submitted by BPeace1136 to FindAUnit [link] [comments] Who Are We? The 1st Recon Battalion Realism Unit is the successor unit of the 1st Marine Detachment Team, a unit focused on realism while providing exciting and enjoyable missions to the players. We focus on providing story-tailored campaigns and open-ended missions so that the members craft their ending through their performance and the choices they make. What Makes Our Unit Different? Our consistency to remain loyal and transparent to the players, many unit changes are prompted through members' input.-Our leadership is hard-working. Our staff teams and NCOs are chosen based on their performance and how they stand out amongst the rest of the unit members. We remain vigilant against stagnation, and are constantly working towards projecting ourselves as a professional unit that members are proud to be part of.-Everyone is community oriented. Sometimes weekly operations aren't enough, and players are constantly interacting with one another outside of operations, not only in Arma, but in other games outside of milsim as well. What Are Our Operations Like? Our operations embody realistic missions that a Marine Corps Force Recon unit would conduct. Some of them are based on real-life conflicts, others may be fictional, but the missions themselves revolve around Direct Action Raids, COIN operations, Amphibious Warfare against both conventional and non-conventional entities, and other types of operations that may change depending on the story of the campaign itself. Unit Features And Information • Well explained, realistic campaign with a dynamic storyline • Established leadership structure with a clear chain of command • Modern tactics and procedures that add an aura of realism to the unit • A transparent command where the unit is consulted on major decisions • Dedicated Arma 3 and Teamspeak Servers • Operations on every Saturday at 9:00 PM EST, with training and meetings scattered throughout the week Requirements: In order to be considered eligble for enlistment, you must: • be 18 or older • have a legal copy of Arma 3, though no DLC is required • have a working microphone and proficient in English. • be willing to be mature and dedicated to the unit How do I join?: Simply join our discord (linked below) and a recruiter will contact you. Thanks for your time, and I hope you consider joining the 1st! As well, take a look at a video made by one of our community members! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ynQ8e46mwHY Discord: https://discord.gg/1streconbat |
2024.05.16 03:05 Pleasant_Reward1203 Biking-Rage Post
In the space of less than half a day yesterday I:
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- almost got run into by a biker running a red light on Bowen as I was walking across.
- had a biker almost hit me as he was riding on a sidewalk (that was next to a bike lane) and then yell at me that I should stop looking at my phone and look out for HIM.
- saw a biker cross two lanes of traffic on Uplands without looking and signalling and almost get hit by a car driving behind him
2024.05.16 03:05 Almost_Trilingual First "abandoned" car
 | This was my first attempt of trying to make an "abandoned car" look! I think they add some ambiance to the city, and I plan to add more of them as more mods come out that I can add! submitted by Almost_Trilingual to CitiesSkylines2 [link] [comments] I just used a BUNCH of bushes to try to make it look like moss. I think once I get some sort of surface painter I can create a more realistic result. I used a city car because it was the only dev mode car that was yellow. Does anyone know how to change the color of props? Is there a way to rotate objects to make them angled up in the air? Also looking for mod recommendations that you guys think could help! Only mods used: Anarchy, Move it |
2024.05.16 03:04 Combatarms_nx Looking for my first car, absolutely lost
As the title states, unfortunate circumstances have resulted in me needing to get my very first car as soon as possible. I have absolutely 0 clue on how to tackle this. I have tried to check Capital One's Auto Navigator but was declined.
Currently, I am ubering to work which is inefficient so I am looking to get a car as soon as possible. I have no specifics other than reliability which I heard Toyota and Honda are known for.
I have recently paid off all my debt and credit score is slowly climbing back up. (FICO: 660+, Vantage: 730+).
I am currently a college student, but do not have student loans yet (I will be applying for it for Fall 2024). Currently making around 33k annually, around 600/wk. I will be grinding more during summer to afford all expenses that I will be incurring at the moment.
Currently have around 2-3k saved up for down payment, potentially more once I sell my Macbooks. In terms of car, I have been looking at Toyota Priuses as I was suggested this by a friend as they are reliable.
I appreciate any advice as I am clueless.
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Currently, I am ubering to work which is inefficient so I am looking to get a car as soon as possible. I have no specifics other than reliability which I heard Toyota and Honda are known for.
I have recently paid off all my debt and credit score is slowly climbing back up. (FICO: 660+, Vantage: 730+).
I am currently a college student, but do not have student loans yet (I will be applying for it for Fall 2024). Currently making around 33k annually, around 600/wk. I will be grinding more during summer to afford all expenses that I will be incurring at the moment.
Currently have around 2-3k saved up for down payment, potentially more once I sell my Macbooks. In terms of car, I have been looking at Toyota Priuses as I was suggested this by a friend as they are reliable.
I appreciate any advice as I am clueless.
2024.05.16 03:04 skibbity_bop_mm_dada My Boyfriend (20M) and I (23F) Have Been Thinking of Ending Our Long-Distance Relationship, Should I Keep Trying to Make Things Work?
My boyfriend (20M) and I (23F) have been dating long distance for nearly 2 years now, our anniversary is coming up soon and things have been very difficult recently between us.
I think it started about 2 months ago when he had been trying to convince me to move in with him and his family. I considered it for a while but I ultimately ended up choosing to stay with my family because I'm in college and need the stability that staying with my family offers, and staying with his family has significant challenges of its own. Then he tried to get me to come visit him, but I told him since he didn't have a car yet and we wouldn't be able to do anything on our own without his dad driving us that we should just wait a month or two and visit then. At that point, he said that he would not be moving in with me and my family (which was the original plan since the very beginning before he tried to get me to move in with him) because he didn't want to be around my family. I've told him about fights my family and I have had and he can't forgive them or at least move past it enough to move in anymore even though things are better with my family now than they ever were before. Since then, things haven't been the same.
We'll get into arguments all the time which will result in him threatening the relationship and me trying to piece things back together because it seems like all of this has come out of nowhere during the past two months. He will also be consistently rude to me and act like I'm an annoyance. I have always given him all the love and attention he could ever want, and previous issues he had with me in the beginning are no more now. I've given up on getting any love from him for the moment. But when he's rude to me, I do have to say something about it which is where the arguments are coming from. For example, I jokingly asked him if he liked being in a relationship with me as a way to tell him I wanted him to not do something (i.e. he asked if he should do something and I responded with "well, do you wanna be in a relationship with me?" I would give a specific example but I was so not serious about it, that I don't even remember what it was that he was asking about) and instead of asking for a clarification about my intentions with the statement he just said no. I waited for him to clarify, but he didn't. I ended the call and after a min or two asked him to clarify what he meant and to apologize. Apparently he said he was saying no to me "threatening the relationship", which I then clarified that I wasn't being serious and was just being sassy as a joke. But then he started talking about breaking up again which lead to me crying, trying to piece everything back together again. Things had been fine earlier that day.
Then when I start to accept it finally, he acts like he may have an "idea" that will save the relationship. Most recently he said he needs to lower me on his list of priorities. Which I don't understand because to me, it feels like he has already lowered me on his list of priorities. Apparently he values his recent part time retail job over me and for some reason he can't have both me and the job. He also will complain that he's tired and doesn't want to go to work but he'll accept when he's called in short notice to the point where he'll work all day. And then he'll claim that its me who's holding him back from doing other things he likes like doing yardwork or whatever else he wants to do. I want to be appreciated for my efforts and commitment and I've NEVER held him back from any of those things. I had been encouraging him to get his first job for over a YEAR before he got it. He also doesn't respect that I want him to have a car before I visit and still won't get the car that's been available to him for a while now through his grandpa. All he has to do is put himself on the insurance but he won't do it. He even let his learners permit expire so now he can't take a flight or even drive a car and there's even more steps for him to do at this point to get a car, better himself, and grow up. For the record, I am also not a nag. I haven't asked him to do ANYTHING other than just respect me as a human for 2 months.
When I ask him why he wants to break up its always a new reason and when I ask him to elaborate on the reason he says "I don't know". He doesn't know why he thinks we're not compatible anymore. He doesn't know why he wants to be single. He doesn't know what he learned from this relationship even though he claims that "maybe this was just a stepping stone for us to learn". He doesn't know anything but he still acts like he wants to go through with it.
I'm so tired of all of this, but it feels like such a waste to break up because this bad stuff hasn't been happening for very long. I feel like if he was more in touch with his emotions about moving in and visiting, he wouldn't be in this place mentally. Plus when we visit we're sooo happy together. We HAD been so happy together for the vast majority of the relationship up until around this time. But there's nothing I can do for him anymore to make him realize our relationship is worth saving. I've been holding onto the future of this relationship for SO long and have put a LOT into it, both emotionally and financially (long distance is expensive). I just don't want it to end because he can't deal with his emotions and can't treat me with respect just out of the blue. It doesn't make any sense to me and I'm having a really hard time accepting it. I worry he may end up regretting it down the line. I think that I'm a very good partner and have a lot of good qualities. I've improved myself a lot in this relationship too. I don't know why he'd want to be single instead. Literally everyone I've talked to has told me to break up with him. It's just so hard to divest my energy this quickly. I don't feel prepared. I don't think he's going to realize what he had until its gone for good. It's just so hard for me to give up on this. Please let me know what I should do about this terrible situation.
TLDR; My long-distance relationship of nearly 2 years hit a rough patch. Initially, our plan was for him to move in with me, then my boyfriend wanted me to move in, which I considered but backed out on for school and family reasons. Arguments and rudeness escalated. He's indecisive about breakup reasons. Despite advice from others, I'm struggling to accept a potential breakup. I've invested a lot emotionally and feel unprepared to end it.
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I think it started about 2 months ago when he had been trying to convince me to move in with him and his family. I considered it for a while but I ultimately ended up choosing to stay with my family because I'm in college and need the stability that staying with my family offers, and staying with his family has significant challenges of its own. Then he tried to get me to come visit him, but I told him since he didn't have a car yet and we wouldn't be able to do anything on our own without his dad driving us that we should just wait a month or two and visit then. At that point, he said that he would not be moving in with me and my family (which was the original plan since the very beginning before he tried to get me to move in with him) because he didn't want to be around my family. I've told him about fights my family and I have had and he can't forgive them or at least move past it enough to move in anymore even though things are better with my family now than they ever were before. Since then, things haven't been the same.
We'll get into arguments all the time which will result in him threatening the relationship and me trying to piece things back together because it seems like all of this has come out of nowhere during the past two months. He will also be consistently rude to me and act like I'm an annoyance. I have always given him all the love and attention he could ever want, and previous issues he had with me in the beginning are no more now. I've given up on getting any love from him for the moment. But when he's rude to me, I do have to say something about it which is where the arguments are coming from. For example, I jokingly asked him if he liked being in a relationship with me as a way to tell him I wanted him to not do something (i.e. he asked if he should do something and I responded with "well, do you wanna be in a relationship with me?" I would give a specific example but I was so not serious about it, that I don't even remember what it was that he was asking about) and instead of asking for a clarification about my intentions with the statement he just said no. I waited for him to clarify, but he didn't. I ended the call and after a min or two asked him to clarify what he meant and to apologize. Apparently he said he was saying no to me "threatening the relationship", which I then clarified that I wasn't being serious and was just being sassy as a joke. But then he started talking about breaking up again which lead to me crying, trying to piece everything back together again. Things had been fine earlier that day.
Then when I start to accept it finally, he acts like he may have an "idea" that will save the relationship. Most recently he said he needs to lower me on his list of priorities. Which I don't understand because to me, it feels like he has already lowered me on his list of priorities. Apparently he values his recent part time retail job over me and for some reason he can't have both me and the job. He also will complain that he's tired and doesn't want to go to work but he'll accept when he's called in short notice to the point where he'll work all day. And then he'll claim that its me who's holding him back from doing other things he likes like doing yardwork or whatever else he wants to do. I want to be appreciated for my efforts and commitment and I've NEVER held him back from any of those things. I had been encouraging him to get his first job for over a YEAR before he got it. He also doesn't respect that I want him to have a car before I visit and still won't get the car that's been available to him for a while now through his grandpa. All he has to do is put himself on the insurance but he won't do it. He even let his learners permit expire so now he can't take a flight or even drive a car and there's even more steps for him to do at this point to get a car, better himself, and grow up. For the record, I am also not a nag. I haven't asked him to do ANYTHING other than just respect me as a human for 2 months.
When I ask him why he wants to break up its always a new reason and when I ask him to elaborate on the reason he says "I don't know". He doesn't know why he thinks we're not compatible anymore. He doesn't know why he wants to be single. He doesn't know what he learned from this relationship even though he claims that "maybe this was just a stepping stone for us to learn". He doesn't know anything but he still acts like he wants to go through with it.
I'm so tired of all of this, but it feels like such a waste to break up because this bad stuff hasn't been happening for very long. I feel like if he was more in touch with his emotions about moving in and visiting, he wouldn't be in this place mentally. Plus when we visit we're sooo happy together. We HAD been so happy together for the vast majority of the relationship up until around this time. But there's nothing I can do for him anymore to make him realize our relationship is worth saving. I've been holding onto the future of this relationship for SO long and have put a LOT into it, both emotionally and financially (long distance is expensive). I just don't want it to end because he can't deal with his emotions and can't treat me with respect just out of the blue. It doesn't make any sense to me and I'm having a really hard time accepting it. I worry he may end up regretting it down the line. I think that I'm a very good partner and have a lot of good qualities. I've improved myself a lot in this relationship too. I don't know why he'd want to be single instead. Literally everyone I've talked to has told me to break up with him. It's just so hard to divest my energy this quickly. I don't feel prepared. I don't think he's going to realize what he had until its gone for good. It's just so hard for me to give up on this. Please let me know what I should do about this terrible situation.
TLDR; My long-distance relationship of nearly 2 years hit a rough patch. Initially, our plan was for him to move in with me, then my boyfriend wanted me to move in, which I considered but backed out on for school and family reasons. Arguments and rudeness escalated. He's indecisive about breakup reasons. Despite advice from others, I'm struggling to accept a potential breakup. I've invested a lot emotionally and feel unprepared to end it.
2024.05.16 03:03 Motor_Drink_845 Rock solid payment???
Today I financed a car hauler trailer through rocksolid funding, which I recommend for recreational financing, as they were easy to work with.
I get everything home. Go to my computer to set up payments which I would assume would be on their website, but I am having trouble finding a payment portal. I haven’t given any of my bank or routing information and I wanna make sure the trailer is getting paid. Any of you have any direction on where to go to look for a payment portal or a place to set up automatic payments?
I’m sorry if this doesn’t belong here! I’m newish to regularly using Reddit! ✌️
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I get everything home. Go to my computer to set up payments which I would assume would be on their website, but I am having trouble finding a payment portal. I haven’t given any of my bank or routing information and I wanna make sure the trailer is getting paid. Any of you have any direction on where to go to look for a payment portal or a place to set up automatic payments?
I’m sorry if this doesn’t belong here! I’m newish to regularly using Reddit! ✌️
2024.05.16 03:03 Headfullofsin Sued by a debt collector for emergency dental work done by aspen.. advise on how to respond to summons?
My cousin is a first time mom; she just turned 24 & she had wisdom teeth removal and a root canal done years ago on credit because she was in excruciating pain and it just had to be done but her insurance did not cover dental and at the time she was financially stable(no kid, working a full time job & bartending) but she stopped making the payments because she is working 2 days a week (hours were cut due to her not having reliable childcare and the baby has health issues resulting in problems with just anybody watching the baby (the last baby sitter missed a medication dose that landed baby into hospital) point being she’s a good person, she doesn’t have rental assistance or barely any other benefits because they do not offer them in the area she lives and she is barely even making ends meet (she was in a car accident also) …now she received a summons to court over the unpaid debt from a debt collector. Is there anyway she can get out of this situation? Mind you she only had necessity type dental work, no cosmetic work that she only was able to pay a 3rd of before life got hard. If there some type of suit to this such as hippa violation or something to get her out of this situation? Samples response letters..est are welcome.
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2024.05.16 03:03 Kelpythegreat Hispanic mothers are so annoying
I’m 25 years old and for whatever reason, my mom still treats me like a child. After finishing my bachelors, I felt like I have the freedom to do whatever. I’m making a very good salary starting off at an entry level as a controls engineer. I help her pay the rent, pay my car insurance, help her go half on groceries, and pay for whatever bills on my own. Yet whenever I wanna go out and do whatever, she gets angry at me telling me I’m not saving my money, I’m not helping her. (Keep in mind , I’ve been saving at least 30% of my paychecks monthly.. I’ve been making a surplus in my savings every month) it’s like she doesn’t want me to have fun or do whatever because it doesn’t benefit her. She’s like “what’s the point of having a son if you’re not helping me”. I told her straight up that I’m not doing anything wrong . This all started because I told her I’m going to Tampa with my gf within two weeks. The only thing I don’t pay is the electric bill, that’s it. Anyway, I don’t think I’m doing anything wrong…. If I was jobless and not doing my part and just fucking around, then I get that.s
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2024.05.16 03:01 Sea-Insect7331 How can Carmy not know Mikey did drugs
After watching the series countless times , I have to side with Richie when he says to Carmy “ How could you not ? “ 1 Carmy was there at the disastrous seven fishes where Donna drove the car in the house . 2 Carmy witnessed Mikey making a scene fighting with Lee and Throwing the fork . ( Third time I believe he was defending Donna ) 3 ) Carmy heard Lee say to Mike “ I DONT KNOW WHAT YOURE ON. Now but if you can HEAR ME THROUGH THE FOG !! “ Why wouldn’t he put two and two together . He didn’t have to not see him . Or talk to him . Actions speak louder than words
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2024.05.16 03:01 Choice-Fig2623 Vwar S9 ULTRA 4G Android Smart Watch
 | buy link: https://vwar.fit/products/vwar-s9-ultra-4g-android-wifi-amoled-screen-camera submitted by Choice-Fig2623 to smartwatch [link] [comments] In the ever-evolving landscape of wearable technology, the VWAR Cellular Edition Ultra S9 emerges as a true game-changer, redefining the standards for smartwatches. With its innovative features and cutting-edge specifications, this device is poised to revolutionize the way we interact with our wrist-worn companions. Let's delve into what makes the VWAR Cellular Edition Ultra S9 stand out from the crowd:
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2024.05.16 02:59 itsmisspratt 21F with 14K in Debt. What Do I Do?
EDIT; I work 50 hours a week as nurse making $22.00/hr & have no car payment or rent as this seems to be important information for some reason.
I am a married 21F.
I, like many others I have seen here, did not really grasp how tough the world was going to be on me.
I as of right now have about 14k in debt. As many people have told me “ it’s not that bad “ for me it is. It’s preventing me from getting good credit card rates, good car payment rates, and even a mortgage.
I have the means to pay all of this off, now at least. But I want to know what going to happen to my credit score when I do.
Do I pay it all at once? Do I pay from least owed to most owed? Do I try to bargain with the debt collectors?
I have heard so much from so many different people my head is spinning. I just want to start my life.
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I am a married 21F.
I, like many others I have seen here, did not really grasp how tough the world was going to be on me.
I as of right now have about 14k in debt. As many people have told me “ it’s not that bad “ for me it is. It’s preventing me from getting good credit card rates, good car payment rates, and even a mortgage.
I have the means to pay all of this off, now at least. But I want to know what going to happen to my credit score when I do.
Do I pay it all at once? Do I pay from least owed to most owed? Do I try to bargain with the debt collectors?
I have heard so much from so many different people my head is spinning. I just want to start my life.