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I feel like I’m dying of a broken heart…

2024.05.19 07:43 idontlikecheesewtf I feel like I’m dying of a broken heart…

I tend to feel delayed grief consistently. I just left somewhat of an abusive relationship yes I was hit, threatened and tormented and spoken down on consistently but no he never left significant marks. Just hurt me just enough to scare me and make me cry then yell at me for crying… idk whatever. Point is it’s 1 am now, 2 weeks of no contact finally passed he’s finally given up calling and messaging me and threatening me from every single social app he knows and he can’t reach me anymore and have changed my number.
If it was so bad why do I miss him so much and literally feel this way now… I know the entire last few months with him I was miserable and kept telling him things like about how sad I was and how he just kept being a monster. The final straw was when he referred to his own mother as “this lady” and started calling her nasty names as he does to me bc she made him food but he didn’t like the smell of it and got mad bc she told him to eat some. Referred to her as “this stupid lady”. I called him out as I always do bc seeing that is disgusting especially as he’s a freaking felon I remind him his mother doesn’t owe him food at his grown age of 28 and to make his own food next time to avoid that issue. and that when he got out of jail she could have changed the locks and not let him live there rent free while he treated her terribly… so ofc instead of acknowledging it like he never does he brings up the one and only time I ever messed up 5 years ago (before we even started dating and we’re only talking but that’s an even longer story).
I feel like throwing up and I know going back in just disrespecting myself and feeling down again. I know I’d feel sad with him and just as sad now without him. I know I need to love myself but he really took me down thru the mud and I just go thru the days now like a zombie just trying to get to the next day. He never did anything for me he was never thoughtful or kind and never reciprocated then tormented me and made me suffer and he enjoyed it. Then apologize and make up. I’ve heard that’s the tactic these kind of people use, torment u then remedy it even tho the torment was never necessary in the first place. I was disrespected consistently thru phone text in person in my car in my own home… all while he got everything he wanted from me. Why was I so desperate to please him.
Now I find myself trying to latch onto any other person I meet. I met someone last week and kissed him and feel disgusting. I feel lost and I haven’t cried these past 2 weeks but today it’s really hitting me hard. I don’t have anyone to talk to and I just want this to pass so badly. Just venting. I haven’t eaten and am becoming addicted to how I look now just skinny and tired like a corpse. I sleep probably 3 hours at most and stay up the majority of the night until the morning and even when I can eat I. Just can’t ever finish anything - 3 bites and I’m nauseous. I regret kissing that person last week and initiating a sort of friendship bc now when their attention is not on me I feel extremely worse even tho I know they owe me nothing and know nothing about what I’m going thru. My home makes me feel sad I put everything he ever gave me ina closet today and the only way I can sort of see him is through his online store. And I feel horrible bc he use to updated his products everyday. Except maybe something happened to him or he’s sad too bc he hasn’t updated it in 5 days. I need to get rid of that app too it’s what’s hurting me most today that I can’t fully let go.
I thought we’d have children together and get married he is genuinely my other half but why does it feel so wrong leaving him when he hurt me so much. Loyalty wasn’t an issue it was EVERUTHING else. To the point that everyday something brought up an argument that escalated way past normal arguments into bullying and name calling territory and his ego so big he couldn’t just be a man he had to make sure he came out on top always while I had to make myself small and bow down.
I’m hurting so bad now. I think it hurts more bc it was that easy for him also to let it go. All the threats about showing up to my building and knocking my door down and nothing ever happened. This whole time I was just stupid foolish and dumb over a man who felt large just by threatening and scaring me constantly when he maybe never even truly cared. I feel so stupid I wish I could scrub my brain rn I can’t stop smoking these disgusting black and milds now either. I’ve been seeing my sisters more often now and it helps that my sis is also going thru a similar breakup not involving dv but just certain aspects that are similar to toxicity. I don’t want anyone to feel sad I hope no one feels as Sad as I do now.
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2024.05.19 07:39 i_just_read_this Horrific first trimester nausea from heartburn

All my pregnancies have caused a lot of heartburn in the first trimester. Each pregnancy has gotten worse. I've tried all the home remedies I can think of (more frequent but smaller meals, avoid trigger foods, don't lay down right away after eating, prop head up at night). Per my doctor I'm now on 40mg Prilosec in the morning before eating, 20-40mg Pepcid, as well as Tums and Zofran as needed. The medication had made it possible to not be confined to the couch in misery all day but I still feel pretty terrible. I have every single heartburn symptom but the nausea is one of the worst. I do think it is truly from the heartburn as opposed to morning sickness because when the heartburn is under control the nausea is better.
Does anyone have any weird random things they tried that helped?
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2024.05.19 07:17 SpillingSecrets2022 Cat Hasn’t Pooped In 2 Days

My Cat is female 4 years old , not Spayed but Vaccinated. She was in heat last week so it was constant yowling but i didn’t make anything out of it . Her vet has advised her to get spayed after this breeding cycle ends but since 2 days she hasn’t pooped and it’s not normal, she usually poops everytime after she is done eating. She wasn’t eating properly day before yesterday, usually a very picky eater so i changed her food and she ate yesterday. Is she just constipated or can it be something else ? Are there any home remedies to make her poop ?
Any help would be appreciated. Thanks ♥️
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2024.05.19 07:16 erlienbird Seeking Hope..eczema turned impetigo, urgent care, peds, and ER visit. Hard to see light at the end of the tunnel.

Last week we went to urgent care because our babies cheeks had two main eczema spots (seemingly irritated from drool on cheeks rubbing against a sleep sack) that began to weep after trying a few at home remedies. The urgent care doc prescribed a steroid (Des) and mupirocin topical antibacterial ointment. We were applying both as directed and coming up on five days and there was some improvement especially with the antibacterial, some redness as we continued to use the steroid and yet seemingly increased eczema appearing higher on the cheek.
A rash started on baby’s torso so I called our primary care to be seen and the pediatrician changed the steroid that we were applying to the two main sites at the bottom of the cheek to hydrocortisone saying the original one prescribed was too strong and not recommended. She also advised to lubricate with some cream or Vaseline.
That night we applied the hydrocortisone to the two main sites and some eucerine baby eczema cream to the rest of his face and body.
BAM-TOTAL INFLAMMATORY RESPONSE on face and body. By midnight that night baby’s face was swollen, pimply, red, and warm. I think the colloidal oatmeal is a trigger for his skin as this whole thing really blew up after first applying Tubby Todd ointment which caused increase irritation at the two main sites on his cheeks.
I went into pediatric ER that next morning and they told us to stop the steroid and started an oral antibiotic. They suggested giving the skin a break from anything but also apply Vaseline and topical antibacterial, yet we’ve waited 24 hours after the ER visit before we applied anything else to the skin.
We do see improvement within 20 minutes of the oral antibiotic but when we applied Vaseline, the skin on his face just seems to increase in pimples and redness.
The two main sites seems like their healing but it’s hard to look at because it’s not all the great looking—like when you really bust up your skin on a fall and the yellow pus/scab begins to form. There’s an eczema rash all over his arms right now. ER docs say the body rash is unrelated—that it looks viral??
We’ve gotten a few different forms of information and instructions from urgent care, our peds clinic, and the ER. It’s so hard watching my baby in pain, to be itching his face, and the tumultuous turns for these two intense sites on his cheeks.
My last resort is hoping and praying the oral meds kick this out. We’re day 2 of 7.
All this to say, I am gluten, dairy, soy, and egg free. This rash has intensified over the last two weeks and I’m losing my strength and it’s hard to feel like this is going to end or heal and I’ll be able to see my baby’s skin clear again.
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2024.05.19 06:59 ForsakenDoubt6533 says my sim is sick but won’t let me visit the dr? and when i traveled to the hospital no one was there……?

please help i don’t want him to die
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2024.05.19 06:52 Beautiful-Ad7549 5 effective home remedies to get rid of stretch marks on buttocks

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2024.05.19 06:44 Lucky_Newspaper7079 In California can a HOA levy a Special Assessment of $280K for a beautification project? This is a suburban area with 56 homes in the association. If they get the majority of the votes, what remedy is left for the homeowners that can’t afford it?

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2024.05.19 06:36 herbal0009 उच्च रक्तचाप के घरेलू उपचार home remedies for high blood pressure

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2024.05.19 06:07 Worth-Local-6233 Burst Pipe

Hi everyone,
I am not sure if I am in the right place or if this is the correct place to post so mods please take this post down if I am violating any rules.
We had an electrician out to our house yesterday (licensed and bonded) to add an electrical outlet for our new dishwasher. As he was working, he busted open the pipe near the sink. He didn’t turn the water off beforehand and water was everywhere. I came home to wet towels in the laundry room sink and was really confused about the situation.
We had a plumber come out today and he recommended to get a remediation company out as soon as possible because under the sink was drenched. He was worried about mold and asked if I was connected to our kitchen cupboards and started talking about the potential for a kitchen remodel due to the water damage.
I don’t know if I am in shock or what but it seemed a little extreme. I am wondering if insurance will cover this and how to go about it if there is truly water damage. We are in Washington state and have Allstate. Thank you so much in advance, guys!
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2024.05.19 05:30 Calm-Divide184 home remedies

hey folks, i’ve been lurking here for a while because my partners mom and i believe that my partner has addison’s. they have all the symptoms but don’t have the blood work because incompetent/negligent doctors refuse to take them seriously and test their cortisol. my partner is extremely resistant to hospitalization and testing because of medical trauma and because they’ve been dismissed and ignored by doctors so many times.
if there are beginning signs of a crisis (back pain, brain fog and bad memory, deep exhaustion even though they got enough sleep, all-day headache, too weary to cook dinner, nausea) is there anything i can do to stabilize them without calling an ambulance? i live an hour away but i begged them to eat something that might raise their blood pressure and sugar a bit, so they had a burger and said they felt a bit better. i’m so afraid to let them fall asleep tonight; i live in terror that they won’t wake up. are there other things that can help? they already take magnesium but i’ll try to convince them to take vitamin c as well.
because visits to a doctor are so mentally/emotionally taxing for them because of the negligence and medical racism they face, we’re considering ordering an at-home cortisol test so they have evidence to bring to a doctor so they’re not completely gaslit next time. has anyone had success with those self-tests?
i’m so terrified that they’ll die from a crisis before they even get a diagnosis. any practical advice at all would be deeply appreciated.
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2024.05.19 05:24 MoneyMatt09 **How I Cured My Toenail Fungus After 15 Years**

**How I Cured My Toenail Fungus After 15 Years**
How I Cured My Toenail Fungus After 15 Years
I've struggled with toenail fungus for over 15 years and have tried countless products with little to no improvement. After finally finding a solution that worked, I wanted to share my experience and hopefully help others dealing with the same issue.

My Journey

I tried various over-the-counter treatments and home remedies, including:
  • Kerasal Nail Renewal
  • Kerasal Multi-Purpose Nail Repair
  • Clear nail pills extra strength
  • Pure New Zealand Manuka Oil
Unfortunately, these treatments only provided temporary improvement and did not eliminate the fungus. I even purchased the Dermachom antifungal laser after seeing an ad on Instagram. While it brightened my nails a bit, the fungus persisted.

Doctor's Recommendations

My girlfriend suggested I see a doctor, so I set up a virtual appointment through my insurance. The doctor initially recommended KETOCONAZOLE 2% CREAM and TERBINAFINE HCL 250 MG TABLET, but neither provided significant results.

The Breakthrough

One of my instructors at the dojo mentioned he had success with Fluconazole, a medication he used after contracting toenail fungus on vacation. He said it cleared up his infection within a month. Encouraged by his experience, I scheduled another appointment and specifically requested Fluconazole.

Results

The doctor prescribed a generic version of Fluconazole 200 mg, and within 10 months, my toenail fungus was completely gone. I've attached before and after photos to show the progress.

Conclusion

I decided to share my story in the hope that it might be valuable to someone else. Dealing with toenail fungus for so long was embarrassing and affected my confidence, especially in social situations like going to the beach or wearing sandals in public.
If you're struggling with toenail fungus, I recommend consulting a doctor and asking about Fluconazole. It made a significant difference for me, and I hope it can help others too.
Here are my before and after photos from August 2023, showing the progress over a 10-month period.
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2024.05.19 05:08 Junior_Grocery_8099 Chances of getting accepted

Hey guys, I need some help in just seeing if I should retake my DAT. And if I don't what do you guys think are my chances of acceptance to a school?
So here is some information about me.
I went to a semester of medical school and hated it but still pushed through my first semester. I had to remediate an exam because I didnt pass above the threshold for that module. Came back home and had to take a MLOA. But Ive always wanted to pursue dentistry. So i decided that now is the my opportunity. So I took the DAT got a AA19 TS19 (21 bio, 19 chem &orgo, 20 RC, 16 PAT, 15 QR)
Now to explain my low scores, QR section my computer lagged and they are telling me that there nothing they can do to fix that so I lost out on a ton of time and couldn't properly get through the subsection. PAT im going to be honest I suck at it, so I knew I was going to do bad either a 16 or a 17.
I have >200 hours of shadowing and volunteering hours. Thousands of hours in the medical field. Ive also started a small business...etc. I have a lot of EC I can basically show off, but my main concern is my DAT score coming in my way of acceptance. I also have a 3.55 GPA and a 3.6 Science GPA. Also have research experience as well.
Any tips or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
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2024.05.19 04:34 75976345 Apparently I organised a student protest against a teacher.

I say "apparently" because... well... you'll see.
This happened decades ago now, back in primary school. I only remembered it because I was recently catching up with old friends from back then, and we got to laughing over old stories and then someone mentioned, "The wildest was when you organised that whole protest against our teacher."
"The time I did what?"
The consensus was I did, indeed, organise the entire class to rebel against our teacher that resulted in her being deposed and our class getting a "substitute" for the rest of the year. I almost fell out of my chair hearing this story from their mouths. It wasn't that I didn't remember it, of course I did--that year was awful. It was just that it existed very differently in my memory.
Two important pieces of background knowledge to understand here:
  1. I went to a very very small, very very rural school. How small? Each classroom was composed of the entire year level, and the largest had at most 30 kids in them. My class/year level was on the smallest in the entire school, with a piddling 14 kids in it altogether. While we still had our cliques and factions, our small size caused our class to be very tight knit and protective of each other. How rural? The school building itself was incredibly small, but one thing we were not short on was gigantic empty fields surrounding us on all sides. Great for sports, great for (it turns out) student protests.
  2. I was, at the time, undiagnosed autistic. I mean I still am autistic, I'm just formally diagnosed now. But back then I was just seen as being a very quirky kid. One of the ways this quirkiness manifested was that I really had trouble adapting to the rules and structure of grade school and how it differed from what I was used to. At home if I wanted to pee, I just went to the toilet. Now I have to put my hand up? Now I have to ask permission to piss? Then I went home and put my hand up to ask my mom for permission to pee and she told me I didn't need to! Madness! Chaos! I don't care what the rules are, please just be consistent!
But one of the main parts of my brain and the way it works is that sometimes my brain, separate from my will, would just make a decision about a course of action and I would very calmly commit to it come hell or high water. Like, it is vitally important that I stay true to this course of action. I can't explain it. It's like I set a rule for myself and if something disrupts that, I just shut down and stop functioning.
So when the school said, "Okay, when this bell rings during recess/lunch, that means you have to leave the playground and go back to class", I was a confused child already struggling with all these completely nonsensical limitations and guidelines imposed on me. So when that bell rang, I got that calm little voice in my head that said, "Hmm, no, I'm good out here actually. I don't think I will go back into class." So I would just continue to sit out on the playground, playing with my plastic spider toys or sitting on the swing. Teachers would realise what was going on and come out to get me and tell me I have to go back to class, and I would just very calmly hear them out and then smile at them and politely as possible tell them, "No thank you, I want to stay out here."
They really didn't know what to do with me. I wasn't getting upset, I wasn't throwing a tantrum, I wasn't yelling, I wasn't being rude in any way. I was incredibly docile and would let them explain things to me with endless patience and then just politely refute them and go back to what I was doing, like this was just a very normal and reasonable negotiation between two equal parties. I have memories of sitting on the swing while three very confused and flustered adult staff huddled around me trying to bribe me with candy to go back to class. It would take a whole lesson block to lure me back to the classroom, and then at lunch the whole thing would start over again. It took me three years at school to finally accept the status quo thanks to a religious nutter I got for a teacher, and finally went back to class when the bell rang (was never happy about it though).
I eventually settled into school life. Excelled at subjects I liked, at least passed subjects I didn't, followed the rules, was seen as intelligent and obedient and was often liked by my teachers. Until my final year, when we got the teacher I can only rudely monniker Mrs Bigmouth.
Mrs Bigmouth should not have been a teacher. She had a trigger temper and would explode into long, verbally abusive tirades against us if we ever did anything she felt was disrespectful behaviour. What was disrespectful behaviour? Damned if I know. It changed day by day, depending on mood. You could disrespect her to her face one day and she'd laugh and say you have such razor wit, and politely ask a question the next and she'd scream at you for ten nonstop minutes then give you a week of DT for talking back. The absolute peak moment of her boiling temper came when she threw a dictionary at a girl's head because she was whispering to me in class. When I tell you it missed her by half an inch...
But believe it or not, this wasn't what made her such an awful teacher. It was so hard to get teachers at rural schools back then, there was almost nothing you could do to get fired, so we had experience with teachers with nightmare tempers. What made her such an issue was her big mouth. She used us, her trapped audience, as free therapy. She would infodump, traumadump, about her very personal, very private life to us. All day. She'd be two words into a spelling list and launch into an extended story session about her marital issues with her husband. We'd be heads down doing fractions and, unprompted, she'd declare to the class that her adult daughter no longer talks to her and then diatribe to us about it until the bell rang. She had money issues, a contentious relationship with her parents, her marriage was on the rocks. She once pulled me aside after school and spoke with me, at length, about how she was thinking of having another child to try to repair her marriage. I was like, okay lady, I'm 11, about to miss my bus, and my house is a 4 hour walk on foot from here.
We weren't learning. We'd hadn't had a complete lesson since the first week of the school year. We were behind on the cirriculum and frustrated. One kid had brought a stopwatch into school and would time lessons vs her monologues and kept detailed lists, and we would come to school each morning and do betting pools on them. What subject would she interrupt, what would she talk about, and how long would it go.
But all that still wasn't the breaking point if you can believe it. No! Still not! The problem was it wasn't just her own private life she couldn't keep her mouth shut about. It was everyone else's. Because parents would make the reasonable assumption that she should be told things as our class teacher that would be important to know, and that she would understand these things were said in confidence. Instead she would veer randomly off in the middle of talking to us about her horrible weekend to let us know whatever private or traumatic thing was going on in a classmate's life that she had been made aware of. That was awful. That was what made that year hell. It wasn't even about when my secrets were shared with the entire class against my consent. It was watching the faces of my small, lovely, supportive class of 11 year old children go pale and scrunch up with held-back tears as things they never wanted to share were announced like morning news. God we hated her.
Then one day that voice came. The one I hadn't heard in years. The bell ring to go back into class and that voice said, "But I don't want to be in that classroom. I'm not even being taught there." So I just... didn't. I didn't go back to class. I just sat in the playground in a daze eating grass (don't eat grass, it's not good for your teeth). Despite how small my class was, I don't think Mrs Bigmouth even noticed I wasn't there. Others did though. Come lunch and everyone came out, my friends asked me where I was and I said, "Oh, I didn't go back to class."
"Why didn't you go back to class?"
"Why would I go back to class?"
Lightbulb moment for my schoolmates. Yeah, why would they go back to class? What was the point? From a practical standpoint, they weren't learning. From an emotional standpoint, it was horrible to be there. A friend who had had her family's dirty laundry aired to the entire class just last week, things even she didn't know because her parents tried to keep it from her, asked if she could sit with me rather than go back to class. I just stared at her, vacant and confused.
"Sure? I mean, I'm just eating grass though."
Over the next few days, two kids turned into four, turned into ten, turned into the whole class. The whole class was doing a sit-out protest on the field rather than go back to class. Of course Mrs Bigmouth tried to do something about it. She'd come out, screaming at us and threatening us with DT and internal suspension, but six months of that behaviour had totally vaccinated us against her. I'd become the de facto leader and spokesperson of the protest by merit of being the first to sit out and also because I was well known to not give a shit (autistic brain: I actually just frequently had trouble reading and reacting with the correct social behaviour but it gave me a cool and aloof bad boy mystique I guess). I gave her the exact same treatment from back in grade one. I would let her scream, let her holler, let her threaten, let her spittle rain down on me, and then I would give her a sweet and innocent smile and nod in acknowledgement and say, "No thank you, we're going to remain out here." And thirteen pairs of eyes would stare at her in total silence. No one, not even the most gobbermouthed little shite in the class, would volunteer a word. The unspoken agreement was all negotiations were my responsibility.
The thing about angry people is that they feed off conflict. They get you angry so they can respond with even more anger and it nourishes them. She had no absolutely no plan of action on how to deal with me patiently hearing her out then refuting her in the gentlest of terms.
Another thing that ended up helping down the line is that we made an attempt to conduct our own classes. I mean, they sucked and we didn't learn much because we were kids with no supervision, but it was really cute in retrospect. We'd have groups of people assigned to subjects, with some people bringing in words they found in a dictionary for spelling lists and others bringing in old 6th grade homework from older siblings. The heart was there and it served a purpose, if not educational.
"Okay, but how did no one else notice this was happening? Surely people would notice 14 kids sitting on the lawn, not in class?"
Rural school. Big. Empty. Fields. Even screaming at us, the most other classrooms would hear would be muffled voices, and everyone was used to hearing her yelling at us or taking us out onto the field abruptly to make us do laps as group punishment. Plus the way the school buildings were arranged was that it was actually all in one straight line of adjacent rooms, and ours happened to be at the very end of the building. No windows faced the field we all sat in except that of our own classroom. It was just a very lucky arrangement of coincidences and preconceived notions, at least for a couple weeks. I couldn't tell you the exact number, this was so long ago and as a kid I definitely had a more stretched idea of time. Minutes felt like hours, especially during that year. But there was definitely at least two weekends that passed by since the "sit-out protest" started.
Eventually someone cottoned on to what was happening, or maybe Mrs Bigmouth humbled herself and finally confessed to her boss that she had lost control of a bunch of 11-year-olds, so we were called into the principal's office to sort this out. As the representative of our class, I was of course chosen to attend the meeting, flanked by the girl who'd had the dictionary thrown at her head and my friend who was the first to sit out with me. Since I understood that this meeting was one where we were probably going to be yelled at for doing the wrong thing, a thing I had ample experience of, I felt like the easiest way to mitigate things (especially since I felt guilty for being the instigator) was to explain in a very rational and logical way the series of events that led up to our bad behaviour. As well, for my entire life my mother had always taught me that it was no good complaining about things unless you were also willing to think of solutions. "I'm hungry!" - "Well, what's a solution to that problem?" - "Uh, make myself a sandwich?" - "Great! Let's do that together!"
So what did I do? Of course, to make things as clean and concise as possible, I interviewed my class one by one to hear each individual story of why they didn't feel comfortable going to class anymore, itemised them under categories (Verbal Aggression; Interruptions of Lessons; Oversharing Student Life) for easier discussion because my little quirky brain loved itemising things, and then as a kind of olive branch came up with solutions (we wanted to finish lessons unhindered, we wanted our personal privacy to be respected, we wanted to be able to catch our bus on time rather than being held back with unfair DT or long "chats"). So many things sort of came together in this beautiful, wholly accidental way. We had months of records of timed rants and monologues, noted down to the millisecond thanks to that kid's stopwatch. We had records of us trying to teach ourselves during the protests, showing this wasn't us just not wanting to go to class but due to us feeling as though we did not have a class to go to. When the principal heard all this, her jaw it the floor. A lot of it was stuff she knew, peripherally, but things had just never been laid out so neatly before. Some of it was stuff we'd complained to parents about, but it was one kid coming home and telling one parent one time, weeks ago. There was no real sense, up until now, the sheer scope of her behaviour. She didn't even answer us. She just said, "Okay, I need to call your parents."
We got the rest of the week off school. That weekend, every parent of every student came to a meeting between them, Mrs Bigmouth, and the principal. Stories were swapped. My exercise book with my tidy little lists and the records of the betting pool and monologue times were confiscated and brought into the meeting. I don't know what went down, but when my mother came home she just told me that Mrs Bigmouth would not be our problem for the rest of the school year, and more importantly, that she was incredibly proud of me and that I did the right thing. Rarely in my childhood had my inability to integrate into normal society led me to doing the right thing, so I just remember crying and hugging and feeling vindicated about, I don't know, just existing or something.
So yeah. From the outside perspective here is what it looked like: I, the ringleader with a history of dismissing school rules, organised a sit-out strike amongst my class. I kept the protest peaceful and non-disruptive to other classes. When negotiations with the principal were finally arranged, as the representative I compiled a clear list of greivances, with evidence, and a list of reasonable demands. I mean, holy crap, yes, yes I clearly organised a student protest.
The actual results of it are mixed. We got a revolving door of substitute teachers of varying quality for the rest of the school year, occasionally being bundled into other classrooms entirely when they couldn't find someone. It wasn't a great learning environment and we continued to struggle a lot, but it was better than before. Mrs Bigmouth was not actually fired but put on leave for the rest of the school year, then returned and was put in charge of a different year level (which happened to be the class of the younger sister of a guy in my class: according to him, she was quiet as a church mouse that entire year so I hope at least she learned her lesson, or at least finally got divorced and went to actual therapy). The entire ordeal caused our already small and close class to become really really supportive and like family to each other and we all remain in touch until this day. And we became fierce about standing up for ourselves.
I kind of learned to parse the difference between when it was appropriate to go along with set societal rules even if I don't understand them, and when those rules were just straight up unreasonable and nobody should be required to follow them. I did, years alter, lead an actual (very small) strike at work but intentionally that time. My mother was proud of me then too. :)
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2024.05.19 04:14 MLS_Reddit_Bot Match Thread: Vancouver Whitecaps @ Seattle Sounders FC

Overview
Home Seattle Sounders FC 1
Away Vancouver Whitecaps 1
Status Full Time
Venue Lumen Field
City Seattle, Washington
Date Saturday May 18, 2024
Time 07:30 PM PDT
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Lineups
Seattle Sounders FC Pos Vancouver Whitecaps Pos
Stefan Frei, #24 G Yohei Takaoka, #1 G
Jackson Ragen, #25 CD-L Mathías Laborda, #2 CD
Yeimar Gómez, #28 CD-R Tristan Blackmon, #6 CD-L
Nouhou Tolo, #5 LB Javain Brown, #23 CD-R
Alex Roldan, #16 RB Pedro Vite, #45 CM-L
Albert Rusnák, #11 AM Adrián Cubas, #20 CM-R
João Paulo , #6 LM Ryan Raposo, #7 LM
Cristian Roldan, #7 RM Alessandro Schöpf, #8 RM
Raúl Ruidíaz, #9 F Brian White, #24 F
Jordan Morris, #13 AM-L Ryan Gauld, #25 CF-L
Obed Vargas, #18 AM-R Fafà Picault, #11 CF-R
Pedro de la Vega, #10 SUB Luís Martins, #14 SUB
Reed Baker-Whiting, #21 SUB Ali Ahmed, #22 SUB
Jonathan Bell, #15 SUB Ralph Priso-Mbongue, #13 SUB
Daniel Musovski, #17 SUB Ranko Veselinovic, #4 SUB
Paul Rothrock, #14 SUB Isaac Boehmer, #32 SUB
Cody Baker, #33 SUB Sebastian Berhalter, #16 SUB
Andrew Thomas, #26 SUB Levonte Johnson, #28 SUB
Daniel Leyva, #75 SUB Giuseppe Bovalina, #27 SUB
Dylan Teves, #99 SUB Belal Halbouni, #12 SUB
Match events via ESPN
  • First Half begins.
  • 8' ⚽ Goal! Seattle Sounders FC 1, Vancouver Whitecaps FC 0. Jordan Morris (Seattle Sounders FC) left footed shot from the left side of the six yard box to the bottom right corner.
  • 36' 🟨 Obed Vargas (Seattle Sounders FC) is shown the yellow card for a bad foul.
  • 43' 🟨 João Paulo (Seattle Sounders FC) is shown the yellow card for a bad foul.
  • 45'+3' Halftime
  • 45' Second Half begins Seattle Sounders FC 1, Vancouver Whitecaps FC 0.
  • 55' 🔄 Substitution, Vancouver Whitecaps FC. Sebastian Berhalter replaces Andrés Cubas.
  • 65' 🔄 Substitution, Vancouver Whitecaps FC. Ali Ahmed replaces Ryan Raposo.
  • 75' 🟨 Mathías Laborda (Vancouver Whitecaps FC) is shown the yellow card for a bad foul.
  • 76' 🔄 Substitution, Seattle Sounders FC. Pedro de la Vega replaces João Paulo.
  • 76' 🔄 Substitution, Vancouver Whitecaps FC. Levonte Johnson replaces Alessandro Schöpf.
  • 88' 🔄 Substitution, Seattle Sounders FC. Danny Musovski replaces Raúl Ruidíaz.
  • 88' 🔄 Substitution, Seattle Sounders FC. Reed Baker-Whiting replaces Albert Rusnák.
  • 89' 🟨 Nouhou Tolo (Seattle Sounders FC) is shown the yellow card for a bad foul.
  • 90'+4' 🟥 Second yellow card to Nouhou Tolo (Seattle Sounders FC) for hand ball.
  • 90'+4' ⚽ Goal! Seattle Sounders FC 1, Vancouver Whitecaps FC 1. Ryan Gauld (Vancouver Whitecaps FC) converts the penalty with a left footed shot to the top right corner.
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2024.05.19 04:14 MLS_Reddit_Bot Match Thread: Orlando City SC @ San Jose Earthquakes

Overview
Home San Jose Earthquakes 0
Away Orlando City SC 1
Status Full Time
Venue PayPal Park
City San Jose, California
Date Saturday May 18, 2024
Time 07:30 PM PDT
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Lineups
San Jose Earthquakes Pos Orlando City SC Pos
William Yarbrough, #25 G Pedro Gallese, #1 G
Rodrigues , #26 CD-L Wilder Cartagena, #16 CD
Bruno Wilson, #4 CD-R Rodrigo Schlegel, #15 CD-L
Vítor Costa, #94 LB David Brekalo, #4 CD-R
Carlos Akapo, #29 RB Felipe , #8 CM-L
Hernan Lopez, #23 AM Dagur Dan Thórhallsson, #17 CM-R
Carlos Gruezo, #7 LM Nicolás Lodeiro, #14 AM
Jackson Yueill, #14 RM Facundo Torres, #10 LM
Jeremy Ebobisse, #11 F Iván Angulo, #77 RM
Amahl Pellegrino, #9 AM-L Luis Muriel, #9 CF-L
Cristian Espinoza, #10 AM-R Duncan McGuire, #13 CF-R
Preston Judd, #19 SUB Mason Stajduhar, #31 SUB
Tanner Beason, #15 SUB Jack Lynn, #27 SUB
Daniel Munie, #24 SUB Abdi Salim, #28 SUB
Jacob Jackson, #98 SUB Yutaro Tsukada, #34 SUB
Paul Marie, #3 SUB Rafael Santos, #3 SUB
Jack Skahan, #16 SUB Favian Loyola, #95 SUB
Niko Tsakiris, #30 SUB Kyle Smith, #24 SUB
Benjamin Kikanovic, #28 SUB Martín Ojeda, #11 SUB
Alfredo Morales, #6 SUB Jeorgio Kocevski, #33 SUB
Match events via ESPN
  • Kickoff
  • 16' 🔄 Substitution, Orlando City SC. Jack Lynn replaces Duncan McGuire because of an injury.
  • 45'+5' First Half ends, San Jose Earthquakes 0, Orlando City SC 0.
  • 45' Start 2nd Half
  • 63' 🔄 Substitution, San Jose Earthquakes. Benjamin Kikanovic replaces Amahl Pellegrino.
  • 63' 🔄 Substitution, San Jose Earthquakes. Preston Judd replaces Jeremy Ebobisse.
  • 63' 🔄 Substitution, San Jose Earthquakes. Niko Tsakiris replaces Carlos Gruezo.
  • 70' 🟨 Vítor Costa (San Jose Earthquakes) is shown the yellow card for a bad foul.
  • 79' 🔄 Substitution, Orlando City SC. Rafael Santos replaces Facundo Torres.
  • 79' 🔄 Substitution, Orlando City SC. Martín Ojeda replaces Dagur Thórhallsson.
  • 83' 🔄 Substitution, San Jose Earthquakes. Paul Marie replaces Hernán López.
  • 83' 🔄 Substitution, San Jose Earthquakes. Jack Skahan replaces Vítor Costa.
  • 89' ⚽ Goal! San Jose Earthquakes 0, Orlando City SC 1. Jack Lynn (Orlando City SC) right footed shot from the centre of the box to the top right corner. Assisted by Martín Ojeda following a fast break.
  • 90'+2' 🔄 Substitution, Orlando City SC. Kyle Smith replaces Luis Muriel.
  • 90'+2' 🔄 Substitution, Orlando City SC. Jeorgio Kocevski replaces Jack Lynn.
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2024.05.19 04:10 mushupork8069 Tried cryo

Tried cryo
Had 3 treatments of cryotherapy and didn't help. Actually spread. What at home remedies have worked for yall?
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2024.05.19 03:51 Still-Acanthaceae-95 Nord of the greenpact. I finally got it!

If you read my previous posts, you probably know that I've been trying to do a playthrough that ended up becoming a project (well maybe that's a bit far but you get the idea lol.). After a while of trying to find the right mods and right way to do things I finally got it. Mostly because of you guys which I highly appreciate. So I wanted to share my character. His story, restrictions, and of course the mods.
Story: though he was born a nord, Randal was raised by bosmer who followed the green pact. He learned how to hunt and fight from a young age. He grew up with the green pact and ways of the bosmer. At a young age him and his adopted family learned of the uncle being a werewolf. The father tried to confront him but uncle chantir grew enraged. He grew tired of the family and their ways. He started destroying the house and grew violent. The kids (Randal included) tried to stop him but he knocked them back. That's when he transformed and tore their mother apart as a beast. He back handed Randal and sent him flying. When Randal woke up chantir was gone and his father and siblings were a little hurt, nothing fatal thankfully. Years have passed and someone with the ability to see into the future told Randal and his panther friend nargay of a destiny in skyrim. More was described to nargay as Randal must discover more on his own by heading to helgen. So with heartfelt farewells, Randals family and village wishes him a good journey in skyrim.
There's kind of 3 arcs I wanted to do and hopefully I'll remember to list the mods that aid these alongside them.
Arc 1, the main one, destiny: at first Randal would be afraid to go to helgen (starting the main questline). He fears it would be a destiny that keeps him away from valenwood for too long. (For visits to valenwood, I'm using elden root. Also it has the version of nargay I'm using as I heard the milandriel version has some issues.) He has a home away from home for if skyrim gets to be too much (milandriel as there doesn't seem to be much choices for bosmer style homes.) But it's not the same. He discovers early that he is called dragonborn (I used gray cowl of nocturnal, mostly because I wanted to revisit it and see if I can give it a more fair shot than I did last time. But honestly, if a quest mod doesn't require using plants and mentions you being dragonborn, you could probably use that instead.) After helgen and fighting his first dragon, he tries to understand what being dragonborn means. His biggest motivation for the main questline would probably be something along the lines of thinking of his family and home. (If you want, you can also include followers and say they were destined to fight alongside you. I'm of course using auri but also my man inigo.)
Arc 2, belonging: throughout most of the playthrough, Randal would wonder if he, as a nord, truly deserves his place in his family and home. They treat him as one of his own. But he wonders if he could ever truly consider himself a real part of the family and village. He may be treated by them like he's one of them. But he is not bosmer, even though he cares little for his race. At least not the hateful storm cloaks and their racist fanatics. (If you want to play the civil war questline, though I doubt he'd care much for the politics, he's more likely to side with imperials. But I'll try to remember to include quest choices later.)
Arc 3, fear and vengeance: Randal still fears his uncle. So hearing that he is in skyrim gave him quite a panic. But Randal knows if he doesn't fight chantir, he could provide further danger to his family and others. He can't take that chance. It has to end (for chantir, there's a little bonus boss in the mod bosmer armor pack, he's called the champion of the hunt. Just say he's you're evil uncle.) But he must be ready to take on him. (For giving an edge, I'm using the green pact armor set mod. It also has really good weapons. Be sure to search in the falkreath hold for ghost deer called spirits of yffre. The nature's incense items you get from them are used to get the stuff. Hopefully you'll also get yffres bones which are used to temper the items. Try to think of it as yffres test of worthiness. Speaking of yffre I'm also using wintersun ae edition and the bosmeri yffre patch for worship.)
Restrictions (oh boy): as a follower of the green pact and someone who is disgusted by the use of things like firewood. Randal refuses to touch anything made of wood (hunterborn and the auri mod are good for bone arrows. Using campfire to sleep outside of towns for refusal to sleep on wooden beds. Until you can find a way to get a non wooden bow though, you'll have to stick to melee. Unless you want to get the green pact set early on which should be fine.) Which also includes alchemy. Since Randal doesn't trust drinking potions he relies on his food and drink for health and stamina recovery (probably one of the most important mods for this playthrough for this reason is ineed. Be sure to use ineed continue and ineed extended. Turn on the cannibal option but also important is the restoration option. Don't worry though, if you harvest enough "meat" from your enemies you'll have more food than you know what to do with. So food as a substitute might not be as harsh as you think because of just how much you get. In fact, you should also go to hunterborn settings and choose scrawny meat and materials abundancy. Otherwise it gets too much. The combat mods I hope to list further down should help keep it from being trivial though.) Also since Randal is not the biggest fan of other nords, be sure not to use any bonuses given to nords. The frost resistance sadly can't be helped. But if you're using any racial overhauls that might provide some Nordic abilities, you can't use them.
Quest choices:
Daedric quests: as a worshipper of yffre. Randal is not likely to be so eager to aid the likes of molag bal, peyrite, or mehrunes degone, and especially not hircine after his traumatic experience. Which leads me to...
Companions: Randal can smell the werewolves on them. He does not want to join the companions. Not only because of his past but also because becoming a werewolf would violate the green pact (needed to do a bit of research to find that out. Figure I'd be honest, as embarrassing as it is. But if you want you can install the mod for joining the silver hand. I can't quite recall the name. If it's just join the silver hand or dawn of the silver hand I'm unsure. But I opted out of using it this time because I'm not yet sure if for me anyway, if Randal would choose to cure the companions or wipe them out.)
Dawnguard: seeing as to how becoming a vampire lord would probably violate the green pact as well and Randal would prefer to not go to coldharbour among other reasons, he is more likely to stay with the dawnguard. (If you don't want to use the auri mod, serana dialogue add on could be another option. She drinks her enemies sure. But you might still relate to that part of her and understand it more. I haven't used sda for this playthrough though so I'm not sure how well it'd work in this case.)
College of winterhold: Randal is not very skilled in magic. So although he'd likely enjoy learning and education, he'd probably just get the information on the elder scrolls and go. Hopefully the scrolls aren't actually made of paper, ew (if you do want to do the questline and have some magic though, make sure it is conjuration and illusion, no destruction or restoration and little alteration. Also for conjuration only use spells for summoning animals and other spells of that sort. The druid mod seems to work well for me so far though I didn't use the spells this playthrough. When you're done with the staff of magnus, store it somewhere immediately or give it to a follower if you wish. But don't keep it on you. Right after you become arch mage pray to yffre for forgiveness for using such a thing.)
Thieves guild: yes but only if you have the mod no to nocturnal or a mod where you don't have to swear yourself to her. If you have the mod, go for it. (Though not required, I recommend thieves night on the town so you don't spend an eternity doing the different jobs to become guild master. Just thought I'd save you the trouble.)
Also be sure to use true hunter so there isn't a wild animal to fight every 5 steps. For extra adventure I used caves of morrowind and train fight. I also have it beats for her. The quest mods I mentioned aren't a requirement. Just something to think about adding for more content for the playthrough. But true hunter is a must. If you use alternate start live another life, I recommend using the attacked and left for dead start. Especially if you have inigo installed. For animations I'm using gdbs impossible animations jh. But now for the meat and anything but potatoes...
Combat: trust me, it's necessary, otherwise without these mods gameplay is trivial, even when relying only on food to heal. Thanks again to those who helped me with these recommendations. So here it goes...
Skyrim revamped loot and encounter
Skyrim revamped loot and encounter summermyst patch (I currently have Summermyst plus)
Fatality
Fatality damage plugin
Fatality mage movement
Know your enemy aio
Know your enemy aio Fatality patch
Skyrim revamped complete enemy overhaul
Skyrim revamped rebalanced and releveled
Lawless lite
Randal prefers to use a bow but also dual wields daggers or short blades. He's not a fan of clunky and slow. So he'll also use light armor and avoid two handed. He can Smith well enough but he's no master. Enchanting I'll leave up to you. Obviously more points go to health and stamina than magicka.
There we have it I think. Anything I might have missed? Anything that can be improved? I look forward to reading what you have to say!
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2024.05.19 03:49 AnonymousAnticss Need advice: Should I proceed with buying this home? Estimated costs?

Need advice: Should I proceed with buying this home? Estimated costs?
Hi everyone, I recently found a home I’m considering buying, but there are some concerning issues that have cropped up during the inspection. House age is approx 100 years.
The major red flag is noticeable brickwork cracking, which might require significant remedial work or even replacement. There may be potential subsidence associated with the subfloor piers. Some of the ground material is clay and this may be a contributing factor.
Additionally, there are some minor defects like uneven/sloping floorboards, inadequate site drainage, and roof plumbing not properly connected to stormwater drainage. I'm unsure about the potential costs involved in fixing these issues. Any advice or estimates would be greatly appreciated before I make a final decision. Thank you!
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2024.05.19 03:14 MLS_Reddit_Bot Match Thread: Colorado Rapids @ Real Salt Lake

Overview
Home Real Salt Lake 5
Away Colorado Rapids 3
Status Full Time
Venue America First Field
City Sandy, Utah
Date Saturday May 18, 2024
Time 07:30 PM MDT
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Lineups
Real Salt Lake Pos Colorado Rapids Pos
Zac MacMath, #18 G Zack Steffen, #95 G
Brayan Vera, #4 CD-L Andreas Maxsø, #5 CD-L
Justen Glad, #15 CD-R Moise Bombito, #64 CD-R
Alexandros Katranis, #98 LB Sam Vines, #3 LB
Andrew Brody, #2 RB Keegan Rosenberry, #2 RB
Matt Crooks, #25 AM Djordje Mihailovic, #10 AM
Braian Ojeda, #6 LM Cole Bassett, #23 LM
Emeka Eneli, #14 RM Oliver Larraz, #18 RM
Cristian Arango, #9 F Rafael Navarro, #9 F
Diego Luna, #8 AM-L Omir Fernandez, #11 AM-L
Andres Gomez, #11 AM-R Calvin Harris, #14 AM-R
Philip Quinton, #26 SUB Jackson Travis, #99 SUB
Fidel Barajas, #17 SUB Darren Yapi, #77 SUB
Anderson Julio, #29 SUB Adam Beaudry, #31 SUB
Bryan Oviedo, #3 SUB Kevin Cabral, #91 SUB
Maikel Chang, #16 SUB Lalas Abubakar, #6 SUB
Bertin Jacquesson, #27 SUB Sebastian Anderson, #22 SUB
Nelson Palacio, #13 SUB Jasper Löeffelsend, #21 SUB
Gavin Beavers, #35 SUB Jonathan Lewis, #7 SUB
Connor Ronan, #20 SUB
Match events via ESPN
  • Kickoff
  • 5' ⚽ Goal! Real Salt Lake 0, Colorado Rapids 1. Cole Bassett (Colorado Rapids) left footed shot from more than 35 yards to the centre of the goal.
  • 19' ⚽ Goal! Real Salt Lake 0, Colorado Rapids 2. Rafael Navarro (Colorado Rapids) right footed shot from the centre of the box to the high centre of the goal.
  • 23' ⚽ Goal! Real Salt Lake 1, Colorado Rapids 2. Cristian Arango (Real Salt Lake) right footed shot from the centre of the box to the centre of the goal.
  • 32' 🟨 Zack Steffen (Colorado Rapids) is shown the yellow card.
  • 40' ⚽ Goal! Real Salt Lake 2, Colorado Rapids 2. Andrés Gómez (Real Salt Lake) left footed shot from the centre of the box to the high centre of the goal. Assisted by Diego Luna with a cross following a corner.
  • 45'+4' Halftime
  • 45' Start 2nd Half
  • 51' 🟨 Matt Crooks (Real Salt Lake) is shown the yellow card for a bad foul.
  • 56' ⚽ Goal! Real Salt Lake 2, Colorado Rapids 3. Djordje Mihailovic (Colorado Rapids) left footed shot from very close range to the bottom left corner.
  • 60' 🔄 Substitution, Real Salt Lake. Nelson Palacio replaces Braian Ojeda.
  • 60' 🔄 Substitution, Real Salt Lake. Anderson Julio replaces Matt Crooks.
  • 65' 🟨 Brayan Vera (Real Salt Lake) is shown the yellow card for a bad foul.
  • 67' 🔄 Substitution, Colorado Rapids. Kévin Cabral replaces Calvin Harris.
  • 67' 🔄 Substitution, Colorado Rapids. Connor Ronan replaces Omir Fernandez.
  • 71' 🔄 Substitution, Colorado Rapids. Jasper Löffelsend replaces Oliver Larraz.
  • 71' 🔄 Substitution, Colorado Rapids. Darren Yapi replaces Rafael Navarro.
  • 75' 🔄 Substitution, Real Salt Lake. Bryan Oviedo replaces Alexandros Katranis.
  • 78' 🟨 Emeka Eneli (Real Salt Lake) is shown the yellow card for a bad foul.
  • 83' 🔄 Substitution, Colorado Rapids. Lalas Abubakar replaces Djordje Mihailovic.
  • 85' ⚽ Goal! Real Salt Lake 3, Colorado Rapids 3. Cristian Arango (Real Salt Lake) header from very close range to the bottom right corner following a corner.
  • 88' ⚽ Goal! Real Salt Lake 4, Colorado Rapids 3. Andrés Gómez (Real Salt Lake) right footed shot from the right side of the six yard box to the centre of the goal. Assisted by Cristian Arango.
  • 90' 🟨 Andrés Gómez (Real Salt Lake) is shown the yellow card.
  • 90'+2' 🔄 Substitution, Real Salt Lake. Philip Quinton replaces Andrew Brody.
  • 90'+2' 🔄 Substitution, Real Salt Lake. Maikel Chang replaces Diego Luna.
  • 90'+6' ⚽ Goal! Real Salt Lake 5, Colorado Rapids 3. Anderson Julio (Real Salt Lake) right footed shot from outside the box to the bottom right corner. Assisted by Nelson Palacio following a fast break.
  • 90'+9' 🟨 Darren Yapi (Colorado Rapids) is shown the yellow card for a bad foul.
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2024.05.19 02:27 Royal_Use_5957 How do I help?

Hello everyone. I’ve come to Reddit as a resort to not knowing where else to go. For context, I’m a 25 year old college student living at home with a father who has prostate cancer. He was diagnosed about two years ago after prolonging his doctors visit for body pains after assuming it was pain from a prior car accident. By the time he finally went, he was already stage 4. I’ve had other family members who have had different forms of cancer, so, I’ve seen the physical and emotional toll that accompanies having a sick family member. However, I’ve never experienced something like this that’s this close to me, witnessing the decline in health day-by-day.
I’m writing this post because I feel absolutely helpless, and I’m not sure what more I can do. He’s currently a vegan, and we’ve tried herbal remedies (sea moss, black seed oil, sour soup leaves, etc, with no results. We’ve tried alkaline dieting but found that it’s hard to maintain, especially when he becomes deficient in nutrients. He’s lost 50+lbs in two months because he cannot keep any food down. And as we speak, he is in excruciating pain. The cancer spread to his bone and there’s multiple tumors in his spine and skull. The doctors have put him through multiple treatment’s and medicines like xtandi, pain killers, chemo, etc. Just seems like there’s nothing that’s keeping his psi levels down. I can’t help but to blame the overall American health care system when he’s taken all these treatments with no results, and the immunotherapy Keytruda treatment that could help save his life is denied by insurance.
I mentioned my age and that I was a student because I am not established with a career yet, and I have no clue on how to handle any of this emotionally and financially. I have a job that makes me about a little under 3k a month, it’s not much, but I can’t leave my job because it’s paying for my university tuition. After all expenses (rent, insurances, groceries,etc) I can’t help out any more financially. Ive cut back on useless spending, going out/eating out, and am starting to get into debt ($1.5k) after helping with family expense’s. I’ve thought about picking up another job, but I’ve been doing 15 credit semesters to try and hurry my graduation process (about 1 year left) so I can get a career to help my parents out. The workload is a lot, I shamefully admit that I have to abuse my ADHD medication just to keep up with work, caretaking, and school. I feel horrible even talking about my problems, but emotionally I cannot handle this. I don’t sleep often because of school and the anxiety over the possibility my father will passes. If he passes, I don’t even know how my mother and I will manage. My mother and step father just got married over a year ago, and after all my mother has gone through, for her to finally find her person and to lose him so soon breaks me.
This whole situation isn’t about me, so my problems are way less important compared to the life of my father. That’s why this feeling of helplessness is unbearable because it’s not a matter of wanting to do more, I need to do more for the sake of his life and my mom.
I ask for your advice and opinions on whether I should pause university, and strictly focus on a job that could sustain my family better, or continue with school and pick up a second job and just try to make it work? How does dealing with a sick family member manage emotionally? Also, if there’s any possible resources for prostate cancer treatments, and any sources that can help with the finances? Thank you so much in advance. I wish nothing but good health and a happy life to all of you regardless if you respond or not.
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2024.05.19 02:14 MLS_Reddit_Bot Match Thread: Portland Timbers @ Minnesota United FC

Overview
Home Minnesota United FC 2
Away Portland Timbers 1
Status Full Time
Venue Allianz Field
City Saint Paul, Minnesota
Date Saturday May 18, 2024
Time 07:30 PM CDT
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Lineups
Minnesota United FC Pos Portland Timbers Pos
Dayne St. Clair, #97 G Maxime Crépeau, #16 G
Miguel Tapias, #4 CD Dario Zuparic, #13 CD
Devin Padelford, #2 CD-L Kamal Miller, #4 CD-L
Michael Boxall, #15 CD-R Miguel Araujo, #2 CD-R
Joseph Rosales, #8 LB Evander, #10 CM-L
Caden Clark, #37 RB Cristhian Paredes, #22 CM-R
Carlos Harvey, #67 CM-L David Ayala, #24 AM
Wil Trapp, #20 CM-R Dairon Asprilla, #27 LM
Franco Fragapane, #7 LM Juan Mosquera, #29 RM
Bongokuhle Hlongwane, #21 RM Felipe Mora, #9 CF-L
Teemu Pukki, #22 F Jonathan Rodríguez, #14 CF-R
Alejandro Bran, #25 SUB Eric Miller, #15 SUB
Kervin Arriaga, #33 SUB James Pantemis, #41 SUB
Zarek Valentin, #3 SUB Eryk Williamson, #19 SUB
Tani Oluwaseyi, #14 SUB Nathan Fogaça, #99 SUB
Jeong Sang-Bin, #11 SUB Diego Chará, #21 SUB
Robin Lod, #17 SUB Zac McGraw, #18 SUB
Victor Eriksson, #40 SUB Antony, #11 SUB
Clint Irwin, #1 SUB
D.J. Taylor, #27 SUB
Match events via ESPN
  • First Half begins.
  • 17' ⚽ Goal! Minnesota United FC 0, Portland Timbers 1. Jonathan Rodríguez (Portland Timbers) right footed shot from the centre of the box to the bottom right corner. Assisted by David Ayala with a through ball.
  • 42' 🟨 Jonathan Rodríguez (Portland Timbers) is shown the yellow card.
  • 42' 🟨 Miguel Tapias (Minnesota United FC) is shown the yellow card.
  • 44' 🟨 Evander (Portland Timbers) is shown the yellow card.
  • 45'+3' First Half ends, Minnesota United FC 0, Portland Timbers 1.
  • 45' Start 2nd Half
  • 56' 🔄 Substitution, Minnesota United FC. Robin Lod replaces Carlos Harvey.
  • 56' 🔄 Substitution, Minnesota United FC. Jeong Sang-Bin replaces Franco Fragapane.
  • 56' 🔄 Substitution, Minnesota United FC. Kervin Arriaga replaces Caden Clark.
  • 56' 🔄 Substitution, Minnesota United FC. Tani Oluwaseyi replaces Bongokuhle Hlongwane.
  • 58' 🔄 Substitution, Portland Timbers. Diego Chará replaces Cristhian Paredes.
  • 60' 🔄 Substitution, Portland Timbers. Eric Miller replaces Felipe Mora.
  • 65' ⚽ Goal! Minnesota United FC 1, Portland Timbers 1. Robin Lod (Minnesota United FC) right footed shot from the left side of the six yard box to the centre of the goal. Assisted by Joseph Rosales.
  • 67' 🟨 Diego Chará (Portland Timbers) is shown the yellow card for a bad foul.
  • 67' 🟨 Miguel Araujo (Portland Timbers) is shown the yellow card.
  • 69' 🔄 Substitution, Portland Timbers. Antony replaces David Ayala.
  • 79' 🔄 Substitution, Minnesota United FC. DJ Taylor replaces Teemu Pukki because of an injury.
  • 82' 🟨 Dairon Asprilla (Portland Timbers) is shown the yellow card for a bad foul.
  • 82' ⚽ Goal! Minnesota United FC 2, Portland Timbers 1. Jeong Sang-Bin (Minnesota United FC) right footed shot from the centre of the box to the centre of the goal. Assisted by DJ Taylor.
  • 85' 🔄 Substitution, Portland Timbers. Eryk Williamson replaces Dairon Asprilla.
  • 85' 🔄 Substitution, Portland Timbers. Nathan Fogaça replaces Miguel Araujo.
  • 90'+1' 🟥 Second yellow card to Miguel Tapias (Minnesota United FC) for a bad foul.
  • 90'+8' 🟨 Jeong Sang-Bin (Minnesota United FC) is shown the yellow card for a bad foul.
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2024.05.19 02:14 MLS_Reddit_Bot Match Thread: FC Dallas @ Houston Dynamo FC

Overview
Home Houston Dynamo FC 1
Away FC Dallas 1
Status Full Time
Venue Shell Energy Stadium
City Houston, Texas
Date Saturday May 18, 2024
Time 07:30 PM CDT
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Lineups
Houston Dynamo FC Pos FC Dallas Pos
Steve Clark, #12 G Maarten Paes, #30 G
Micael, #31 CD-L Nkosi Tafari, #17 CD
Erik Sviatchenko, #28 CD-R Samuel Junqua, #29 CD-L
Daniel Steres, #5 LB Sebastien Ibeagha, #25 CD-R
Griffin Dorsey, #25 RB Patrickson Delgado, #6 CM-L
Amine Bassi, #8 AM Nolan Norris, #32 CM-R
Artur, #6 LM Marco Farfan, #4 LM
Héctor Herrera, #16 RM Ema Twumasi, #22 RM
Sebastian Kowalczyk, #27 F Petar Musa, #9 F
Ibrahim Aliyu, #18 AM-L Jesús Ferreira, #10 CF-L
Adalberto Carrasquilla, #20 AM-R Bernard Kamungo, #77 CF-R
Brad Smith, #3 SUB Omar González, #3 SUB
Gabriel Segal, #17 SUB Logan Farrington, #23 SUB
Jan Gregus, #21 SUB Sebastian Lletget, #8 SUB
Ethan Bartlow, #4 SUB Jimmy Maurer, #1 SUB
Brooklyn Raines, #35 SUB Herbert Endeley, #27 SUB
Tate Schmitt, #22 SUB Dante Sealy, #11 SUB
Latif Blessing, #15 SUB Eugene Ansah, #31 SUB
Andrew Tarbell, #13 SUB Tsiki Ntsabeleng, #16 SUB
McKinze Gaines, #14 SUB Carl-Fred Sainte, #12 SUB
Match events via ESPN
  • First Half begins.
  • 45'+6' ⚽ Goal! Houston Dynamo FC 1, FC Dallas 0. Amine Bassi (Houston Dynamo FC) left footed shot from the centre of the box to the bottom right corner. Assisted by Daniel Steres.
  • 45'+8' Halftime
  • 45' Second Half begins Houston Dynamo FC 1, FC Dallas 0.
  • 53' 🔄 Substitution, FC Dallas. Herbert Endeley replaces Ema Twumasi.
  • 54' 🟨 Sebastian Kowalczyk (Houston Dynamo FC) is shown the yellow card.
  • 57' 🟨 Nolan Norris (FC Dallas) is shown the yellow card.
  • 65' 🔄 Substitution, FC Dallas. Tsiki Ntsabeleng replaces Nolan Norris.
  • 65' 🔄 Substitution, FC Dallas. Carl Sainté replaces Patrickson Delgado.
  • 68' 🔄 Substitution, Houston Dynamo FC. Latif Blessing replaces Sebastian Kowalczyk.
  • 69' ⚽ Goal! Houston Dynamo FC 1, FC Dallas 1. Petar Musa (FC Dallas) left footed shot from the centre of the box to the bottom left corner. Assisted by Bernard Kamungo.
  • 73' 🔄 Substitution, Houston Dynamo FC. Andrew Tarbell replaces Steve Clark because of an injury.
  • 81' 🔄 Substitution, FC Dallas. Logan Farrington replaces Jesús Ferreira.
  • 81' 🔄 Substitution, FC Dallas. Sebastian Lletget replaces Petar Musa.
  • 83' 🔄 Substitution, Houston Dynamo FC. McKinze Gaines replaces Héctor Herrera.
  • 83' 🔄 Substitution, Houston Dynamo FC. Tate Schmitt replaces Daniel Steres.
  • 86' 🔄 Substitution, FC Dallas. Eugene Ansah replaces Bernard Kamungo.
  • 90' 🔄 Substitution, Houston Dynamo FC. Gabriel Segal replaces McKinze Gaines because of an injury.
  • 90'+3' 🟨 Gabriel Segal (Houston Dynamo FC) is shown the yellow card for a bad foul.
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