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2011.08.05 19:02 Slashur_8 QuotesPorn

Words. Beautiful, beautiful words.
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2014.05.22 06:32 BruceWillisWasAGhost Surgery Gifs

Gifs of surgeries and surgical animations.
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2011.11.22 17:00 seanx820 The FT86 Parking Garage

For owners, enthusiasts, and those who are simply interested in the FT86 platform: including the Scion FR-S, Subaru BRZ, and Toyota GT86/GR86.
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2024.05.21 21:59 nooklingsprincess Multiple Anime Fandoms (longterm Rp)

Hello šŸ©·
I Really want to write a longterm Rp with someone who loves rp as much as me. My English is not the best, but maybe I can improve myself. My native language is German. I am very sorry If I have a few mistakes while I'm writing.
I would love write oc x cc. I also have a few ideas for the Story. I'd write a Mix between the canon Story and Mix it with New events and Situations. Other characters could be Played by both of us. If you have Story ideas, feel free to write about them.
šŸ©· Demon Slayer - Looking for Tanjiro
ā¤ļø Jujutsu Kaisen - Looking for Yuuji
šŸ’™ Persona 3 - Looking for Makoto
šŸ’š Boku no Hero - Looking for Deku
šŸ’œ Genshin Impact - Looking for Scaramouche
Discord would be preferred because I never used Another Plattform. Something that I want to say: please dont Ghost me. If you feel uncomfortable with Something or you want to stop, just tell me. I write in the third person and in the novel style, but I don't expect anyone to write very long texts. Depending on the situation, that may not be possible, especially when our characters are talking. But we should make an effort to write a text that you can respond to. Since I live in Germany, our time zones might be different but I don't have a problem with that.
I also love Drama and romantic scenes. But also tragic scenes that could make me cry. Be passionate !
Thank you for reading ā™” If you are interested, feel Free to send a message to me. I'm always online and I try to reply as fast as i can
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2024.05.21 21:59 Delicious91 I love that picture with the little girl in the background she is the daughter of my ex. We were good friends. The text says: not the ex. The rest are my other pictures

I love that picture with the little girl in the background she is the daughter of my ex. We were good friends. The text says: not the ex. The rest are my other pictures submitted by Delicious91 to Tinder [link] [comments]


2024.05.21 21:58 RodjaJP Binding of major montana

Binding of major montana
My friends, it has often been said that I like The Binding of Isaac.
My friends, I like TBOI...
No, friends, I love TBOI!
I love hard mode.
I love challenges.
I love greed mode.
I love daily runs, normal mode.
I love alt path and victory laps.
Runs through the Basement, in the Cellar, in the Caves, in the Depths, in the Womb, through Sheol, in the Chest, on the Void, in the Corpse, I love every moment of gameplay that can occur in this game.
I love blasting enemies to bits with well-placed bombs that clear entire rooms.
My heart leaps with joy whenever a mini-boss is obliterated and drops a precious item. And there is nothing like a well-timed Brimstone laser carving through a horde of foes. And the feeling that comes when Isaac barely dodges a bullet storm, only to land the final blow on a boss, is such an exquisite feeling. Like when a fresh run picks up Polyphemus and steamrolls through enemies. It moves me deep within my heart to watch a newly unlocked character wrecking havoc in a room full of champions.
The sight of hearts, coins, and keys scattering across the floor is an irresistible pleasure. And there is nothing more thrilling than the sounds made by bosses as they explode into a shower of tears, blood, and treasure!
When a swarm of enemies makes their final stand in a 2x2 room, only to be vanquished by a well-aimed Momā€™s Knife... I'm in ecstasy.
I love it when my characters are overpowered by late-game. It's so exhilarating to see rooms that were supposed to be hard, becoming gauntlets of death, their monstrous inhabitants dying the moment I walk in.
I love to be challenged by the harshest difficulty levels and the toughest runs. The struggle as Isaac navigates through bullet hell, dodging shots and making every move count.
Gentlemen... All I ask for is a run, a run so intense as to make even the most seasoned players tremble. Gentlemen, I ask you as fellow ballers what is it that you really want? Do you wish for further challenge as I do? Do you wish for a merciless, agonizing run? A run whose difficulty is built with randomness, skill, and luck? Do you ask for a run to sweep in like a storm, leaving no room for error and demanding perfection!?
"We ball, we ball, we ball, we ball, we ball, we ball"
...Very well. Then a baller run is what you shall have. We are a dedicated community, ready to face all the horrors and joys this game throws at us.
But... After enduring countless hours in the depths of these floors, for us, a simple "ordinary" run will no longer be sufficient.
We need a MASSIVE challenge! A game beyond any other that the roguelike genre has ever known!
We are but a single community... The remnants of countless defeated runs numbering in the thousands. However, I believe that each of you seasoned players is equal to a thousand casual gamers! We represent a force that could easily tackle an army of lesser games!
It is time for them to awaken the ones who designed these challenges, and who now observe us from afar. Let's remind them of what we are! We will remind them of what it feels like to be immersed in true challenge. We will remind them of the joy our victories bring and the despair of our losses.
We will remind them that there are more challenges between the Basement and the Void than are dreamt of in their design documents.
Our community of dedicated players is going to conquer every challenge this game presents.
Yes, my friends! Soon, our synergies will illuminate the GPU!
I have brought you all together just as I promised I would. Back to our favorite game. Back to our beloved Isaac!
...At last, the real challenge begins. Attention, all fans of The Binding of Isaac! This is a message from your fellow player.
...Friends... letā€™s ball.
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2024.05.21 21:58 nooklingsprincess Multiple Anime Fandoms (longterm rp)

Hello šŸ©·
I Really want to write a longterm Rp with someone who loves rp as much as me. My English is not the best, but maybe I can improve myself. My native language is German. I am very sorry If I have a few mistakes while I'm writing.
I would love write oc x cc. I also have a few ideas for the Story. I'd write a Mix between the canon Story and Mix it with New events and Situations. Other characters could be Played by both of us. If you have Story ideas, feel free to write about them.
šŸ©· Demon Slayer - Looking for Tanjiro
ā¤ļø Jujutsu Kaisen - Looking for Yuuji
šŸ’™ Persona 3 - Looking for Makoto
šŸ’š Boku no Hero - Looking for Deku
šŸ’œ Genshin Impact - Looking for Scaramouche
Discord would be preferred because I never used Another Plattform. Something that I want to say: please dont Ghost me. If you feel uncomfortable with Something or you want to stop, just tell me. I write in the third person and in the novel style, but I don't expect anyone to write very long texts. Depending on the situation, that may not be possible, especially when our characters are talking. But we should make an effort to write a text that you can respond to. Since I live in Germany, our time zones might be different but I don't have a problem with that.
I also love Drama and romantic scenes. But also tragic scenes that could make me cry. Be passionate !
Thank you for reading ā™” If you are interested, feel Free to send a message to me. I'm always online and I try to reply as fast as i can
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2024.05.21 21:57 br1nsk What is probably one of far too many reddit posts discussing thoughts on NGE and EoE as a whole.

Just finished watching EoE and want to get some thoughts out.
First and foremost, both NGE and EoE are artistically phenomenal, if there is one thing to like about Eva it is in the music and visuals. The art design, cinematography, designs, and generally the whole direction of the show is across the board pretty inspired and it's my favourite part of the experience. I feel this is a fairly universally agreed upon take, so I don't want to go into detail about it, but yeah based on pure production value there is (quite surprisingly since it's been so long) nothing like it.
Moving beyond the surface level stuff, I decided pretty early on watching NGE that the show was something I was supposed to feel (like Tenet), but not necessarily understand (at least plot wise, I think you're maybe supposed to understand it on an emotional level), and whilst watching the show I felt I was doing a good job of that (at least until the last two episodes). Now, having finished EoE, I still maintain this to be the most optimal way to try and "enjoy" Eva, however, whilst I certainly did not understand EoE, I can't say I managed to truly "feel" it either. I think I kinda felt some of what what I was supposed to feel, and towards the end I was beginning to believe that the "message" was something along the lines of it being okay for us to not truly understand each other, and that we should strive to work together and love each other despite our differences, but then by the end I wasn't sure if that was the case at all. Overall, I am thoroughly confused.
I think the main issue is that there feels like something is missing between NGE and the events of EoE. I know that EoE takes place before the last two episodes of NGE, but it feels like a pretty big departure from the show. A lot of the characters suddenly feel quite different, as if their worst traits have been magnified. The biggest culprit here is Shinji, who right from the start is established to be "the worst". Whilst Shinji in the show is certainly troubled, I don't think he is ever this bad. I've seen it argued that it makes sense for him to suddenly become the most mentally fucked up child on the planet given what he went through in the last couple eps of eva, and I mean when you list what he went through it certainly does track that he'd go a little nuts, but my problem is that we don't actually see that in the show. He seems relatively okay, not that much different than usual, and then in EoE he's suddenly gone off the deep end. I feel like there needed to be a bridge between the show and the film, one which built towards the events and character development present in EoE, and because that doesn't exist I feel that EoE retroactively becomes more confusing, making it harder to "feel" what it is trying to say because I no longer understand the characters like I felt I did before. I can't help but feel like some of this is due to the film perhaps having a higher age rating (I'm assuming here), as it is significantly more explicit than the show, which I felt was somehow also applicable to the characters also becoming more "mature" in that they were just all more fucked up.
Also, I feel like the story and characters generally don't make much sense if you TRY to understand it. I came out of it unsure about what NERV or any of the big orgs were, why and how they knew what they knew, and how they operated. It felt like every character was clued in on something that another wasn't, to the point where I'm not even sure how the organisations functioned at all. It feels like everyone's plans were largely reliant on a shit ton of luck, yet by the end of EoE certain characters act as if everything going on was the logical endgame. Lots of focus is put on the children's mental health, Misato seems to care about the kids and want them to be okay, but nobody seems to think that maybe booking these kids some mandated therapy sessions could perhaps be beneficial? I just found it difficult to fully suspend my disbelief when it felt like the entire story hinged on our main characters just getting supremely lucky at every turn.
But fuck it I don't know. I'm sure there's a youtube video explaining stuff somewhere. Overall I enjoyed NGE a lot and found it pretty engaging, and whilst I can't say I enjoyed EoE the same amount I think it was artistically a lot bolder, and in some ways felt like a purer expression of what NGE was meant to be. I'll probably watch the other films at some point since I don't feel like I got much closure from the the show and the film, and am hoping the Rebuild films (I think that's what they're called) provide me with some of that.
Feel free to explain stuff to me if you want to, no presh though.
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2024.05.21 21:57 littleclayvases How to deal with a client with a very difficult personality?

For context, I work in social media marketing. I have my own clients, but I also work as a freelancer with a larger agency. Late last year, they took on a local chain of clothing stores as a client, and I agreed to being the main social media coordinator, but other team members would do other aspects. The price had seemed very good at the time.
The store has proved to be very difficult to work with - they expect us to work all hours, including nights and weekends. They're not organised, and always send last minute requests or assets to post. The assets are often full of mistakes (typos which I point out to them, but also wrong images and prices etc that I wouldn't have info on) so while they rush me to post them ASAP, they then call after to delete them and replace as they have mistakes. This of course wastes my time. We also do content creation for them, and it takes days or weeks for them to approve work, due to their hierarchy with many supervisors to go through. The holiday season was a nightmare - they were calling me about every 30 mins and sending emails throughout the day and night!
The biggest headache of all is the store's main point of contact - she has a VERY abrasive personality, and it seems as though she enjoys being difficult and condescending. She nitpicks at everything we produce, constantly moves goalposts, gets into snappy moods, and it honestly seems as though we're pandering more to her personal preferences than what perform bests on social media. She's also very sarcastic in her speech, saying things like "It shouldn't be this hard for you to understand, you seem intelligent". There was a time where I pushed back on a video that I edited for them and she clearly didn't like it and became even more unpleasant for weeks, including ignoring my calls and messages and pointing out if I hadn't replied to messages and comments quickly enough on the stores' pages. Most of the time with the messages/comments, I was waiting on the store to provide the info to then share with the person asking. She complains that we don't do things fast enough, but then takes ages to send over information. It feels as though you just can't win.
I've brought up with the agency how difficult they are to work with, and while they agree, they've not tried to address it, or ask how we can make the process easier for all involved. I know that the store is one of the agency's biggest clients, and that I'd only be getting a fraction of what they're charging, so the agency owner is probably just overlooking it for the money. Some of the other team members have told me that she often doesn't enforce boundaries with other clients or listen to their complaints, and she personally works almost 24/7, so this may be just how she operates.
This month, I decided that I had enough, and I told the agency owner that I'm not continuing with this client, and that I'll finish over the next few weeks. She said she understood, but she then made it seem as though the problem is that I have too many responsibilities to be able to provide the support needed, and not that the client is just too much. I thought it best not to argue with her, because she's always makes comments about how I'm too "sensitive" or "defensive", especially when I'm trying to address a client issue with her. Both she and the store contact woman are older than me, and it seems like they both dismiss me because of the age difference, which feels disrespectful.
So I'm just riding out the next few weeks, but unfortunately it seems as though the store contact has decided to make them as difficult as possible. She's been ultra picky and vocal about everything this past week, and with summer sales and events coming up, I know it'll get worse.
I'm basically asking for help or advice on how to not let these next few weeks get to me. I know that the end is coming up, but it feels almost unbearable to have to keep dealing with them - I'm sorry I didn't choose a closer end date.
I'm also wondering if I should ask for an "exit interview" of sorts with the agency on why it didn't work out with this client. I spoke with my friend who works in HR about this and she said it seems like a waste of time, especially if the agency owner has me painted in a certain way in her head. She said to just leave it for the next agency member to see how difficult the client is, and that maybe if the agency owner is honest, she'll see that the client is the problem.
Would love some advice on how to not get too frustrated over these next few weeks. Thanks!
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2024.05.21 21:57 nooklingsprincess Multiple Anime Fandoms (longterm RP)

Hello šŸ©·
I Really want to write a longterm Rp with someone who loves rp as much as me. My English is not the best, but maybe I can improve myself. My native language is German. I am very sorry If I have a few mistakes while I'm writing.
I would love write oc x cc. I also have a few ideas for the Story. I'd write a Mix between the canon Story and Mix it with New events and Situations. Other characters could be Played by both of us. If you have Story ideas, feel free to write about them .
šŸ©· Demon Slayer - Looking for Tanjiro
ā¤ļø Jujutsu Kaisen - Looking for Yuuji
šŸ’™ Persona 3 - Looking for Makoto
šŸ’š Boku no Hero - Looking for Deku
šŸ’œ Genshin Impact - Looking for Scaramouche
Discord would be preferred because I never used Another Plattform. Something that I want to say: please dont Ghost me. If you feel uncomfortable with Something or you want to stop, just tell me. I write in the third person and in the novel style, but I don't expect anyone to write very long texts. Depending on the situation, that may not be possible, especially when our characters are talking. But we should make an effort to write a text that you can respond to. Since I live in Germany, our time zones might be different but I don't have a problem with that.
I also love Drama and romantic scenes. But also tragic scenes that could make me cry. Be passionate !
Thank you for reading ā™” If you are interested, feel Free to send a message to me. I'm always online and I try to reply as fast as i can
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2024.05.21 21:57 meeserpeter Google Pixel 6 Cannot Log In To Tesla App [Help]

Hi all. My Google Pixel 6 will not allow me to log in to the Tesla app despite trying virtually every fix I've found on this site and across the internet. Not even the Tesla customer service rep I've been in contact with knows what to tell me. I'm hoping someone here can share a magic solution with me.
The issue is this: When I open the app (works fine), choose Sign In (works fine), enter my email (works fine), then enter my password and hit Enter, the page does a very brief loading animation and then refreshes that password page as if I hadn't just entered it. There is not an error message, alert, or anything else that pops up -- just the same password page from before. I try entering the password again, and the cycle continues.
Here are some facts about my situation:
Here are the troubleshooting fixes I've already tried (each one multiple times):
As I wait for another callback from the customer service team, I'd love to hear any more solutions folks can think of. Our vehicle is being delivered in a few days and I'd very much like to be able to use my app as intended. Thank you
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2024.05.21 21:56 TacitusKadari The pantheon of Amaria

Context is at the end of this post __________________________________________________
In the stormy northern seas lies the island of Amaria. Under the polar lights in cold forests live the descendants of the once great Varaki, who in turn followed the mammoth herds across the steppes for countless eons. These are the gods and spirits of this land. They live in every tree, every lake, every star, deep below the ocean and beyond the polar lights in four domains.
The underworld, a place of transition between life, death and rebirth. It was made after the creation of the material to help souls find their way back to life. The spirits of this domain all take the shape of dragons with red eyes and golden patterns.
The boundaries. This is the realm of souls and spirits, dreams and nightmares, the skies and oceans and all waters deep and shallow. This domain has existed before time even began. It is endless and timeless.
The world of the living. This is our material world.
Evil. This is not actually a domain, but a state of mind. A very lonely one.
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Context: I am currently working on a stone age fantasy novel and I'm sooo close to finishing it, but the last couple chapters are taking longer than expected. It's set on a forested island named Amaria\ at a time when people are making their first steps towards sedentary life and domestication** of plants and animals. Here is the pantheon I worked out for the Amarians.*
You can read my novel for free on Wattpad and Inkitt. I am planning to publish it on Royal Road too. If you know any other platform that might be good for fantasy stories, feel free to tell me.
\Amaria is short for "Amara Aria", which translates to "Gift of the gods/spirits". Aria means gift and Amara is the plural of Amar. The term Amar can not be literally translated into English. It's an umbrella term for all sorts of nature spirits, gods as well as entities one might compare to angels or saints. So it refers to a person with transcendent characteristics and always carries positive connotations.*
\*Dogs have been domesticated by the ancestors of the Amarians for tens of thousands of years already and are central to their culture. It is believed that they have the same souls as humans, so eating a dog would be considered cannibalism. So far the only other note on domestication I have in the books is the pruning of hazelnut trees to get more nuts. That's something I will change in later drafts. Nightshades will be far more important to the civilization emerging on Amaria in the coming millennia.*
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2024.05.21 21:56 thasnimbegum95 Hi, looking for pen pals , female only please!

Hi,
My name is Thasnim Begum (F). I'm twenty-eight and I live in England, near London. I love arts and crafts, days out, nature and the great outdoors. I'm a big bookworm, and absolutely love tea, rain and chocolate! I'm self-confessed shopaholic (shop till I drop, that's me!) and I love a good bargain and meeting new people! I love writing letters, with a wax seal of course with lots of goodies.
I'm an undergrad at The Open University and I graduate this year! I study an Open Degree where you can study a mix and match of subjects to make you a customised degree. Class of 2024, here I come! I'm beyond excited, cap and gown, here I come!
I'm also a proud Muslim and I am very accepting of people of other faiths and backgrounds and love to learn about different faiths and cultures.
All are welcome here :)
A stranger is a friend you haven't made yet, that's what I always say.
Message/comment if you're interested!
Can't wait to hear from all of you.
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2024.05.21 21:56 aereha Has anyone ever had something similar happen when trying to interview with Allied Universal?

Firstly, I know that I am supposed to beware this place, but money is money and I need a new job because my current position is being dissolved. Iā€™m trying to get my food in the door to eventually get my lvl3 licensing.
The entire scheduling process was a mess. I got multiple texts and emails from a bot. Some emails and texts would say it was a phone call or video call only to be followed up by an email and text that said it was an on site interview. I decided to just go in person because it made the most sense and if anything I can just take the call in my car if it was in fact a phone call.
We recently had a bad storm in my city so I left my home two hours before my interview because I knew the traffic was going to be bad despite whatever gps says. I made it to the supposed location twenty minutes before my start time. I wanted to check in early so I went in only to find that there are no way finding signs or maps for where offices were located in the building. The only signs were just laminated pieces of papers taped to the doors. Because of the storm the elevators were down I had to walk up the stairs and walk the each floor to find the company. Except it turns out that there are two building with the same street number and name half a mile apart.
Apparently when you search up that street address without the apartment/office number it reroutes it to the building I was in because the street was renamed or divided. I had to put Allied Universal directly into the gps search instead of the address I received via email. Because all the numbers I was given were bots who wouldnā€™t help me or redirect my call and no one would respond to my emails. I was told by the secretary when I got there that she also got lost when she first applied because the street numbers all are the same and you have to put in an office number to find the correct building.
By now I am 10 minutes late for my interview. I showed the secretary all the emails and texts that are giving me different instructions and locations. She apologizes and sends a message to my interviewer. They donā€™t respond. She asked if I emailed them. I told her I sent multiple emails and show her the email address I used. Thats when I realized that the email that the bot gave me had a typo in it. She makes me wait another 40 minutes just to say send an email to the correct address and text the number they were contacting me from, and a different number she gave me, to reschedule.
I donā€™t think I want to reschedule. Should I try again since now I know how to find the building or will this incident count against me? I feel like I was set up to fail.
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2024.05.21 21:55 YouNo4342 PLEASE add appear offline for bungie friends

ive got a couple friends that play pc, so appearing offline on my xbox wonā€™t work on them. now i love them dont get me wrong, but theyā€™re fucking terrible. I feel bad for airing them and theyā€™ll genuinely drop like 50 messages on my head to join them. I really canā€™t just turn around and tell them theyā€™re too bad to play with.
we tried to run 50 round onslaught one last time, just to do the final boss and get brave, and it was the biggest hard carry ive ever seen. literally clueless. we got to ROUND 49 THEN FUCKING DIED, making it quite possibly the biggest waste of an hour Iā€™ve ever had or will have. and donā€™t act like Iā€™m supposed to enjoy it, onslaughts a slogfest.
PLEASE tell me why this isnā€™t an option already.
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2024.05.21 21:55 helianthus48 I got an I-485 Receipt notice by text message, almost 4 months after receiving the mailed notice.

Hey all!
I just received a receipt notice by text message for my I-485, almost 4 months after submitting my package. I previously received receipt notices for I-130, I-131 and I-765 by text messages, but not for I-485. However, I did receive notices for all 4 in the mail. My I-485 has been under review since my biometrics in Feb. 2024. I'm wondering if this means someone is looking at my case or if it's been transferred somewhere, or if it doesn't mean anything at all. Did anyone have the same experience, or some insight as to what this could mean?
Timeline so far:
Jan. 26, 2024: AOS Package Delivered
Feb. 1, 2024: Received e-notification with the case ids by text
Feb. 3, 2024: Biometrics scheduled
Feb. 7, 2024: Got receipt notice in mail
Feb. 9, 2024: Got biometrics notice in mail
Feb. 12, 2024: Got access code in mail
Feb. 12, 2024: Biometrics appointment
Feb. 12, 2024: I-485 & I-765 case actively under review
May. 4, 2024: EAD approved (not travel document)
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2024.05.21 21:55 arckadventure Sue Doctor For Destroying My Life?

Tampa, Florida
32m 26f
Together 6 years, married 2
Incredible relationship. Everyone saw how happy we were.
Wife worked with said doctor for years. Became close. Talked about him a lot. Started texting a lot, throughout day/evening. Joined his practice and worked under him directly. I approached her, expressing how it was making me feel... not appropriate.. assured me it's nothing. He's old/married. She starting hiding phone. We get married.. she seemed hesitant during wedding ceremony, but everything else afterwards seemed wonderful. Needed procedure.. requests him. She moved hospitals. I forget about doctor.
One week she started acting off. One day she was very cold. I looked on laptop and saw messages stating she wanted a divorce. Loved a doctor, he loved her, he's married, but his wife is a lesbian.
I can't help but feel like this doctor groomed my wife, manipulated her, seduced her, etc...
So many red flags, long shifts, questionable things that took place.
He's 20 years older.. Is his wife actually a lesbian? None of this makes sense.
I fear he is lieing and using her.
I have been a complete mess.. feel like I'm going inside. Our families are so heartbroken and upset.
Do I have any options to make this man pay?
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2024.05.21 21:55 Particular_Speed_975 Thinking of independence from family?

For some background information, I am 19F Indian student going to my junior year of college. I moved to the United States, Pennsylvania for my college. Iā€™ve been here two years now.
My family, my stepmom, my dad and my stepsister have since also moved to the United States, Chicago last year, one year ago, quoting ā€œthey want to be closer to me to help me.ā€
Iā€™ve believed my family to be abusive, specifically my dad. I have since coming to college, tried to minimize contact with them, to no real avail. They get upset if I donā€™t call them everyday at least once, if I donā€™t visit on every break for the full duration of the break.
They have finance everything for me so far. Iā€™ve worked campus jobs and have managed to save almost 7k USD.
My dad has been admitted to the hospital for cancer and has been undergoing treatment since November 2023, last 7 months.
I was forced to fly to help with whatever my they needed for all this time, while also forcing me to fly over to Chicago every other week during my semester for additional help.
For more details: when I say they force me, I mean that my stepmom states everything that is currently going on being stressful, which Iā€™m sure it is, and using that as a reasoning to beat herself up and to not treat herself better until I come visit. I love my stepmom just as much as I do my biological mom and I donā€™t want to burden her, she also states my stepsister as wanting to see me and missing me as additional reasons for me to visit.
This last time that I intended to visit, I had told my stepmom that Iā€™m visiting for only 10 days as I have an internship during the summer. She lashed out at me, saying that Iā€™m selfish, donā€™t care about her or my sister and much less, my father. I was upset and had enough and said that Iā€™d no longer be visiting for said 10 days.
After that, my stepmom made a series of calls to me and went back and forth, in which she listed all the sacrifices she and my dad made to pay for my college in the United states. Which made me feel guilty for being mad at them and hence, I flew to Chicago.
Now that Iā€™m back at Chicago, my stepmom brought over my biological mom and my maternal grandmother. She yelled at me for overthinking all the times my father yelled and beat me, saying that itā€™s normal for an Indian family and that I should be grateful for them supporting me to study in the United States. (Which I am, but I also earned a majority of my college paid for by scholarships. My family can afford to send me to college as they have assets that are worth 2million USD now after theyā€™ve sold a house worth 120k usd to send me to college. They have so far spent a maximum of 60k usd on my college so far)
My biological mother supported these statements and also told me a couple of things that my father did for me.
She also yelled at me for not understanding that my father was only frustrated with his life and that he was never happy about yelling at me or beating me. And further told me to transfer schools so I can form a new social circle who wonā€™t ā€œpollute my mind with stupid ideas like not coming back.ā€
My stepmom has also said sheā€™ll contribute to the down payment of a car Iā€™m planning to buy as I mentioned it earlier to make me stay with them for longer as ā€œbeing with family is always a support. You cannot abandon or cut off your familyā€
I also have a fiance, 19M, that is in the United States and knows about this. My stepmom basically also said that I shouldnā€™t trust my fiance as he grew up in the United States and only after marriage can I trust anyone.
I just want to be financially independent so I donā€™t have to put up with my stepmom and my father yelling at me constantly and that I canā€™t trust my significant other and how they yell at me for talking to anyone but them.
I want to cut them off but itā€™s trust that itā€™s more financially beneficial to stay with them and to put up with everything.
What do I do?
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2024.05.21 21:54 itsNket A gift for Robert Evans and the BTB crew

There's a 5 year old post on this subreddit about how to mail something to Robert, but as it's 5 years old - I'm hesitant to send something there without some confirmation that the package will end up going to the right place.
I've tried reaching out via the CZM email and a couple PM's, but I imagine the gang gets kind of flooded over those avenues and either don't check, or some messages just get buried. So let's give a Reddit post a shot.

I recently inherited a pair of books, they're original souvenir photo books from the 1936 Olympics. Those Olympics.

I tried donating them to the University in my city, but they've already got a couple sets.

I'm not interested in selling them, because frankly I'd prefer not to deal with the kind of people who would seek out to purchase and collect Nazi propaganda.

SO
Robert. Mr Evans. I would love to send them to you, because I think you'd get a kick out of it as many of the bastards featured on your podcast are included in the photos, smiling and waving.
I uploaded this video to a new youtube channel because even unlisted or private I wouldn't want anything containing a Swastika to be on my own. https://youtu.be/77-ey9MsK1Y

Cheers

I love you. Go to hell.
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2024.05.21 21:54 Maximum-Froyo1788 What is this guy thinking after break up?

Me (30 y/o) and my boyfriend ( 33 y/o) had recently went thru a break up after a year in relationship because my boyfriend canā€™t take long distance anymore after we had been apart for 3 months. All the came so suddenly and I was in shocked when he proposed that.
Anyway, what got me thinking is I later found out that he immediately texted one of our mutual friend(who happened to be a GIRL) regarding our break up, he is drinking a lot bla bla.. after we breakup over the phone, and choose to not reply my message at the same time.
Iā€™m actually thinking that he is trying to get more ā€˜attentionā€™ from my friend, or try to play victim, is it just me overthinking or do you guys he have other reasons behind ?
TL;DR
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2024.05.21 21:53 Dull-Juggernaut1903 How worried should I be?

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2024.05.21 21:53 kmanju5683 My girlfriend being closer to my male friend than me

I (27M) and her (24F) have broken up and it's been more than 5 months now and we were in LDR for 3 years. 3 months before the break up, we went for a trip. We were in LDR and this meet was after 3 months and we both were pretty excited. The place we went was pretty touristic, beaches, aesthetics, vibes, chill etc.
My male friend (27M) lives in the same place where we planned our trip. Me and him know each other since 6 years through same college. At the end of the college we grew closer. He has met my girlfriend once when I made her meet my friends once 2 years ago. Since then they both are familiar with each other, follow each other on social media.
When we started planning the trip, we 3 we're involved in it. We thoroughly planned a 4 day trip, though mostly it was me who planned most of it. I was bearing all my girlfriend's expense as she hasn't started earning yet and still a student.
The trip happened. Throughout the trip, I observed that my girlfriend was hanging out more with him than me, talking more with him than me, was wearing short dresses whenever we 3 were there. I didn't really liked her attitude. According to the plan we were supposed to have drinks on beach side and I love that. But these two said they didn't want to go beach side and we ended up having drinks inside which I didn't really liked. Then the next day, i wanted to do water sports but these two were so drunk that they were not willing to wake up early in the morning. They both firmly said no when I told them we'll go for water sports early in the morning and I was so angry about it, I went to bed angrily. My gf, lying beside me on the bed, asked what's wrong and i sulked. She said are you gonna be okay and I just ignored. She fell asleep. Morning she had woken up early and I was asleep and I found them both talking, having fun conversations and i really felt left out.
My male friend asked her to wake me up and I was so angry about her behaviour I ended up throwing tantrums. And then when I confronted them both about how I badly wanted to do water sports, she told me if I wanted so badly you should have stated that at night so that we could have gone in the morning. After some talks, I let it go.
Then again the next day i found her showing more interest whenever he was involved compared to times when only two of us were there. We two were planning to go somewhere and she was so disinterested but then when I said we'll meet him there, she showed excitement.
Later on once the trip was over, when we talked about it, she told she was finding his vibes good and so she was hanging out more with him and didn't wanted him to make him feel left out by us being lovey dovey couple.
Really? Since when she started caring about his feelings more than mine? Later on she ended up cheating on me by showing interest in some guy in her college and we broke up.
Now am I the asshole for reacting the way I did? Boys, how close is your girlfriend with your guy friends? Do you get insecure or feel left out? I wanna talk about it so that I can have reality check on myself and the situation but we don't talk anymore. even though I can contact her on call, i don't trust her anymore and whatever she says, she'll make it look like she was the right person in all the situations.
So please help me. What do I do if any of my future partners do this again? Feel free to analyse the situation and guide me. Thank you in advance
Some things about my ex: 1. She cheated on me with her ex (basically she went for closure sex and made me believe it was him who tried to force on her the entire time) 2. She wanted an open relationship 3. She went out with a guy once but later dropped because I said I didn't like open relationship 4. I found some shady texts with guys on WhatsApp and snap during the same trip
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2024.05.21 21:53 BowlOfOlivia 24 [F4M] #Seattle - Looking to escape Seattle, someone save me?

So, Iā€™ve posted before but I realized it was time to write something new as my old post wasnā€™t detailed enough.
So about me, Iā€™m blonde, short, good shape. I work as a yoga instructor at the moment. Happy to swap photos privately, cute dog pics are also available upon request.
Iā€™m more of an outdoors type persona usually. I love hiking, went to Sedona recently with friends and it was amazing. I also workout regularly, swim when possible, love road trips, cooking and eating out. Still on the hunt for the perfect pizza. (Yes Iā€™ve been to Italy)
I do like lazy days in too, Iā€™m not much of a TV person but I like lazy conversations in bed, ordering takeout or cooking along with board games, but I get cabin fever fast so ideally youā€™re also more of an outdoors type.
Iā€™m Christian and conservative, I vote republican. While I donā€™t hate anyone who doesnā€™t share the same views, I donā€™t think Iā€™d work in a relationship with someone who isnā€™t also a conservative Christian so if you arenā€™t, please donā€™t reach out as it would waste both of our time.
Iā€™ve been single for two years now, I feel ready to change that. Ideally I want to find someone I can marry and grow old with, Iā€™m not really into the whole casual scene, isnā€™t my thing. So please only be looking for something serious.
I donā€™t have a physical ā€œtypeā€ but generally I prefer taller men more on the muscular side, not some bodybuilder, seen too many roided guys at the gym and itā€™s not for me, but I like masculine looking bigger guys generally Iā€™d say. No real preference on hair or skin color though.
Location also doesnā€™t matter to me too much, just be in the states or Canada please. Iā€™m ready to leave Washington now, I love rain and the nature here is beautiful, but Iā€™ve fallen out of love with Seattle and Iā€™m ready to leave now.
If youā€™ve gotten this far, please introduce yourself properly, effort is sexy, lazy introductions are not. Love me a paragraph intro guy.
Also if youā€™ve messaged me before and I havenā€™t replied, Reddit sometimes makes messages vanish for me, itā€™s super glitchy. Feel free to double text, there have been so many times where Iā€™ve had someone message and I realize they messaged me months ago and I never saw it, Reddit is just weird lol.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
Olivia ā¤ļø
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2024.05.21 21:52 lazy22345 Free Message from heaven

If you are looking for a way to connect with a loved one who has passed away, I can offer a psychic medium reading. To start, I will need their First name and your name .
Using my psychic abilities, I will establish a connection with the energy of your loved one, endeavoring to convey any messages or insights they share. It's essential to recognize that in some instances, especially if unresolved issues exist, there can be resistance from a loved one in coming through. Should this occur, I will inform you promptly.
During the reading, I may receive messages from your loved one .
NOTE : your chat request should include the first name of the decreased and your first name . Photo of the decreased and It should be clear in your message who is decreased and who is alive šŸ˜Š. I will reject those chat which does not come with information.
This reading is only for those who never have a reading with me .
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2024.05.21 21:52 Most-Zombie Searching for a quote from literature.

There's a quote from some novel that I remember from years back, in which a Russian nationalist says something like, "I believe in Holy Russia, I believe in her destiny, I believe in, etc. But God? I'm not sure I believe in God." Basically, someone who loves the earthly Russian Orthodox church, as well as Russia itself, yet isn't really a true Christian. I think it's probably from Dostoyevsky (but not sure). Searching Google turns up nothing - possibly I've forgotten key words.
Any help is appreciated.
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