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Hey guys, I honestly dont know where to go else...
I was never diagnosed with ADHD. But my parents had a suspicion, since I was 8 years old. (25 now) I could never concentrate or sit in one positon for longer than 10 minutes. In class I always daydreamed and i were hyper active in things I liked. Geography, writing and so on. Always class best, but the other classes, bruuuh.
So in the 2021 I founded my own publishing company. But here it struck me: Suddenly there was no forcing myself out of bed every morning because I could lose a job and so on. Again I couldnt concentrate for long. I tried to push myself read books about it (Deep Work, Atomic Habits) and I blamed Social Media for this lack of focus. I deinstalled all apps, threw my phone away until lunch and i could foucs... for like 30 minutes.
Today (and before sometimes) I just got kicked into hyper-focus. I have a lot of bad thoughts the past few months (company is getting f'd by google and AI). But I know where to go, just couldnt start on it somehow. To many routes, analysis paralysis and self doubt - many probably know the drill.
But today, these thoughts just couldnt kick in. I knew they were there, but they couldnt enter my brain during work. I just COULD NOT focus on those thoughts, only on the work. It felt great and I achieved more today than in the last 2 weeks combined... Is this how normal people do their work???
To bring this to an end. First: I dont claim to have ADHD. Second: You guys and girls maybe the best at learning strategies to conquer this syndrome. Do you have experience with these hyper-focus days and or can provide a strategy for me and others to how to enter this state of mind or train the ability to ignore all these distractions and thoughts? THANKS for reading and helping!

So I have posted in here before about a certain situation involving my wife and a close friend.
For back story about 2 months ago I was diagnosed with stage 4 testicular cancer. Had to have surgery to remove the infected testicle. Recovery is going well, least I think it is.
Anyway, wife and this “friend” seemed to be flirting shortly after my diagnosis. Planning meet ups and such, most of which are at our house. I have tried being subtle to let his wife know to check his phone and such, but she isn’t reading into what I’m saying.
I apparently pissed them both off by not being out of the house just a few days after surgery. They were planning to as the messages put it, finally see what chemistry they have. And I apparently spoiled their moment.
Now neither of them knows that I know about this. This is tearing me apart. Because on the one hand I know she likes him, on the other she’s my fucking wife and mother to 2 of my children.
Should I just let them sleep together and hope it gets it out of their system, or confront them?

I'm a cis woman and my girlfriend is trans. She's 30 and her egg cracked around 26-27, but she hasn't done any of the medical transitioning she'd like to do because she's afraid. And for good reason, we live in the rural southeastern US where people aren't really accepting of trans folks much at all. She could lose her job and most of her family and friends if she fully came out and started transitioning, so she masks (mascs?) in public for the most part and only really presents femme around me and some of our friends.
Because she has such little time to be her real self, I like to try to make the most of it whenever she does. I like to plan little events and surprise her with them, just things that she missed out on by not being allowed to grow up as a girl. For example, me, her, and two of our closest girlfriends are doing a sleepover movie night in a couple of weeks and we're planning on doing all of the sleepover traditions. Cute pajamas, scary stories, painting each other's nails, eating a ton of junk food, all of that.
Since I grew up as a girl I don't really know what she might or might not feel like she missed. I don't really have a frame of reference, you know? And of course I could talk to her about it (and I have, don't worry), but I also like to surprise her so I was hoping for some advice from some other trans ladies.
My question is this: What "girly things" do you wish you could've done or been part of when you were younger? If you ARE younger, what things do you do or participate in that make you feel more like "one of the girls"? Preferably things I can somehow recreate for her, but even if not I'd like to hear y'all's stories.

I (21F) have been fairly close with my aunt, uncle, and cousins most of my life. my siblings and I grew up with them and we’ve spent many hours with them.
My cousin (17 almost 18M) just graduated from high school. my aunt and uncle are very controlling to all their children and want to control him for the rest of his life. He was dating this girl and his parents loooove her and she got along well with them as well as some of his siblings. He really liked her and put a lot of work into their relationship. My aunt and uncle wanted him to go to fight school in her town and stay with her and her family after he graduated. This isnt a great idea as it would be good for him to go to college and experience the world. Also living with your girlfriend is not a good thing i think for him bc of what I’ll say next and j don’t want him to get her pregnant….so they dated for almost a year when he found out she was cheating on him and was sending nudes to different guys. It devastated him and at one point called her and was crying and she laughed at him. She was just a horrible person to him and he was in love. Even worse bc his girlfriend before him also cheated on him for no reason. They broke up and he began to think more about what he was going to do after high school. He visited a college near me with a good flight program and a good football team that he could get into. It seemed like he really liked it and was thinking about going there. I talked to his older sister, my other cousin, and she thinks being on a team would be really good for him since he thrives with teams. He was in football in high school and was really good. the school is also in a good location and not too expensive. Today, about a month after he visited the college, I saw him and he was with his ex girlfriend and theyre back together. He’s now planning on doing what my aunt and uncle wanted him to do and living with her and going to flight school. Before this though he’ll work and save up to go and I also assume, live at home while he’s working. I really love him and I dont want him to throw his life away for a girl who isnt good just because his parents like her. I want to talk to him but dont know how to… My sister (19F) is really close to him and has talked to him but she’s also very blunt and can be rude. Today she went up to his girlfriend and said ”i thought you were a cheater.” To which his girlfriend replied ”that was a mistake” and walked away. My cousin got sad at that so my sister decided to be nice the rest of the day.
Is there anything I can do? He has so much potential and I dont want him to waste his life.

For your information, my dog is a 2 year old dachshund.
It’s never been a big issue because she rarely barks when left alone but would let little barks out now n then. But we recently moved into a new house, I want to say like a month ago now? And at first we understood why she did it because it’s new environment etc. But now it’s getting too much, and yes we don’t reward bad behaviour. For example, when coming home I won’t give her attention until she calms down and stops barking. When she barks in general we immediately say “no, quiet” in a quiet voice and we will put her in her bed until she calms down, which does work.
But I’m completely lost on what to do to stop her barking when we aren’t here :/ ANY advice will be helpful!! 🫶🏻🫶🏻
She’s honestly my life support, I wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for her and I’m terrified if one of our neighbours complains and we will have to give her up WHICH I do not want to do!!

Ok so I just got leadership in my section along with 2 other people but I have a problem one of my section members hates me for some reason and I don’t know why. She’s hated me since last year and has always given me the cold shoulder and always been really rude and mean to me, we are the same grade and our freshman year we were kind of friends but for some reason she just started hating me, my question is how do I lead my section as well as her without causing drama, cause idk what I did and idk how to get through to her. I’m at a loss, I want to help her but I can’t

A Man's Cologne: An important backstory to this one: Prior to the 50's, men in New York did not wear cologne, only aftershave. This perfume hit the streets of New York in 1957 as an attempt to revolutionize what perfume meant for men, and became popular later on. It's safe to say that this perfume has stuck around for a long time - and that's what makes it (in my opinion) so beautiful. It's incredibly nostalgic, you can't smell this without being reminded of a dear male family member in your childhood. It's perfectly balanced and not at all offensive, you can wear it for any occasion. It isn't unbearably "macho" like most designer male fragrances today, it actually possesses a hint of sweetness because of the benzoin, making it a bit unisex. Aromatic and woody, a bit powdery. I love it and I root for its comeback.
Evolution: I am not exaggerating, at all, when I say that this smells exactly like a bar of soap, and not in a good way. The notes of aldehydes at the top overpower literally every other note in this perfume, EXCEPT the ambergris, which clashes really poorly with the clean vibe the perfumer was originally going for. It adds on a little bit of dirtiness in the dry down, and it's very off putting. I feel like people don't believe me when I say it smells like a dirty Dove bar soap, but please do before you purchase this.
American Dream: I wasn't too excited after seeing the notes, but this ended up being my favorite. I know for a fact Trey MacDougal from SATC wore this, it just makes perfect sense to me given the name and the nature of the fragrance. A rich gentleman's perfume, but could also smell amazing on women. The citrus at the top comes off a bit too sharp at first, probably because of the basil note, but the dry down is very attractive. Fresh, aromatic, and a bit sweet because of the lavender and Tonka, with a musky finish. I don't detect much moss.
Hudson River NY: The dry down is great on this one, but I'm not a big fan of the opening. The dry down is a fresh vanilla that is not edible, but very sensual, warm, and clean, with hints of lavender. The opening however, did not need that geranium note. It adds a bit of an unnecessary bite that is overpowering. As it develops on skin, you do get wafts of the vanilla and the cardamom all throughout, and it is the most unisex fragrance in the Gravel collection, IMO. A perfume meant for intimate moments during early autumn.
Across the Ocean: This one is sugary sweet. The cashmere note at the top comes off strong, so if you're not a big fan of it, stay away from this one. I'm enamored with the combination of Oud and citrus at the top, but I just wish it was stronger, because cashmere seems to take the spotlight. Develops into a musky, woody vanilla dry down with hints of rose here and there. The performance is strong. For some reason, I get hints of berry when I first spray it, but it's not listed in the notes. It's very feminine in my opinion, and if sprayed sparingly, it creates a beautiful cloud. 1-2 sprays is enough, just so it can wafts gently when people walk past you.
46th Street: My least favorite. No matter how much I let it dry down on my skin, I can't shake off the smell of cooking herbs and spices. The wild berries and birch at the top is a very interesting combination that had so much potential, just for it to be overpowered and murdered by the Cypriol Oil. The oud is undetectable, and the ambergris adds a hint of something unpleasant and pungent. I know they attempted to create something Oriental but I just don't see it. Leathery and smokey, but just not that impressive and could do without a few notes. Masculine in an old man way, I think a very small audience can rock this.

I am looking for a band and I've forgotten the name. One of their official video clips shows a woman acting crazy, running inside a cemetery and finally hangs herself with a rope. There are shots of the band too, like close ups to the guitar strings, the drummer's feet hitting the pedals etc.

1) Ramp Buggy, I’ve seen different colored buggies, is this done at LSC? Can this be called for like other personal vehicles? I see an option on the interaction menu but it doesn’t do anything for me? 2) Since we may be getting 2x hanger freight sales later this week, been thinking about picking one up, can you use your personal Phantom Wedge for hanger sales, can that be called like your personal vehicles?

Just curious what other people in my age range and YOE (~10) are doing to grow their careers. My compensation is about ~$200k with a ~10% bonus, which seems fantastic and I would have never dreamed of even a few years ago, but the problem is you get used to it and then after a few years of working hard and not being rewarded more (my salary is pretty much at the top end and not gonna increase much according to my employer), the motivation to work hard starts to drop and you start to look for the next thing. The field I work in is computer vision so it's somewhat niche and pays decent, although not super high end unless you do FAANG or more advanced deep learning. Anyway, the problem I'm facing right now is I don't see a path forward really in terms of career growth. What I've noticed is people my age generally either:
1) Start to transition into management, because theres more top end career growth (i.e. director, VP, president, etc...) and real equity compensation
2) Stay in engineering, although a lot of engineers I've seen do this become disgruntled and/or lazy, most likely because the compensation is stagnant and theres very little incentive to work hard. Most companies seem to top out early on compensation for engineers with the exception of FAANG.
So with these two options staring at me in the face 1) really isn't gonna happen just due to the fact that I'm introverted and not really management material. I also wouldn't enjoy the work as well. 2) doesn't seem like a great option either because you always wanna be on an upward trajectory.
So I've been mulling over other potential options that might fit with my skillset. The only options I can see are:
1) Try consulting, although most jobs are gonna be full time employment, so finding contracts might be difficult. Hourly consulting is also a pain with tracking hours and stuff.
2) Somehow start my own business, but starting an engineering business is gonna be incredibly difficult, just due to how complex things are now and the division of labor, you can't really have full expertise over anything and need to hire other people, which requires a good amount of capital
3) possibly try over employment. I think this would fit with my skillset the best but is a legal grey area. I actually wonder why this isn't more common as working multiple jobs is actually a way to ensure better financial security incase one employer has layoffs.
4) Possibly FAANG but this would require a fair bit of leetcoding preparation, also my field (computer vision) I think most of the interest would be in generative deep learning which isn't really my expertise.
Anyway long winded rant aside, wondering what other people are doing when they hit this age/YOE and similar-ish situation and what they did if they managed to find success.

I'm in love with an older man, and I'm tired of repressing it.
Hello people of Reddit. I think this is a safe place to express my feelings, all constructive opinions are welcome. I'm a woman and I'm 25, graduated, working and starting my master's degree. I try to repress and keep this urge, with some fear of society and life in general, but I'm suffocating myself. I've been talking to a 46-year-old man for almost 2 years, we live in different cities, he's never married or had children, mainly because of his profession, he works offshore in the middle of the oceans and spends very little time on land and when he saw the time had passed... we want the same things, to get married and have a family, but I've always held back. For some reason I've never been able to get my mind off this man and the same goes for him, when we met he was looking for a woman who was at least 36 and it's new for him too. I'm trying to leave him behind, I'm trying to get on with my life but there seems to be a magnet that leads me to him and vice versa. I'm meeting/dating a seemingly good man, he's 29 and has many plans similar to mine. I feel he likes me but I don't think I like him that much, my thoughts always lead me to the other guy and I don't want to hurt him. I believe that the choice of our life partner should be made logically and not with the heart, and they both seem like good bets. I promised myself to find a good husband and above all, an excellent father for the children I want so much, love and marriage may end one day, but this bond will not. I don't know what to do, I'm not even that afraid of my family's reaction if I show up with my eldest, a lot of it comes from the fact that I'm black and he's white, the uncertainty of the future, will he live long enough to see our children grow up? How long? He's an extremely well looked after man with a very active life...
Women who are/were in this situation, how do you deal with it? Is taking a risk the best thing?

This is a bit of an odd one, but I'm limited to VDSL2 and have a lot of traffic (relatively speaking) via bittorrent, gaming, VOIP (teams, google meet) as well as (sometimes) streaming when someone in the household is traveling. So you can imagine my 40mbit upstream being saturated like 80% of the day.
Currently, I run OpenWRT with Qosify (uses CAKE under the hood) on a Linksys E8450. I'm building my first rack anyway, so I was looking into alternatives, as the little ARM CPU in that thing struggles occasionally but the radios are so great I'd definitely keep it as a dumb AP either way.
Now I've read pretty much the entire QoS page for RouterOS as well as the CAKE docs available.
A lot of my traffic originates from a single server running a bunch of containers on Unraid, so I'm not really in the business of marking traffic for each Docker container. Using ports like in Qosify would solve that problem - but I couldn't find anything on how to do this in RouterOS. Marking bittorrent traffic and some video games would be easiest this way.
However, to also mark certain things lower (or higher) priority, like Teams, Meet, YouTube, Twitch, etc - I would kind of need to mark traffic according to DNS. In Qosify this is possible. If there's an alternative solution, I'm all ears. As far as I know, most services don't just cover an IP range, so DNS is the only reliable way.
Is this something, that can be achieved with Mikrotik/RouterOS? I kind of need to know what I'm getting into before pulling the trigger on any of the hardware.

Last year was a record year for me (not including my childhood reading because I didn't track my reading back then unless it was for the pizza hut program) and I read 25 books. This year I wanted to challenge myself by reading double that (50 books)
As of last night I have read 42 books, and we haven't even finished May yet. To celebrate, I thought it would be fun to share my current stats (tracked by The Storygraph and a spreadsheet I use).

• 32/42 books (76%) were loaned either from the library or a borrowing service like Kindle Unlimited and 10 books (24%) were books I owned
• My average rating so far this year is 4.62 stars
  • 33 books were rated 5 stars
• I DNFed 6 books (these did not count towards my 42 books)
• 9 books (22%) were read for one of the book clubs I'm in (either as a BOTM or a BR)
• February is currently my busiest reading month with 15 books during that month, and April is my lowest month so far with 4 books (I blame finals season for the massive dip that month).
• My most read author this year is Jennifer L Armentrout (5 books)
• About half (52%) of my books were between 350 and 499 pages in length. My longest book was 645 pages (The Crown of Gilded Bones by Jennifer L Armentrout) and my shortest book was 17 pages (novella with bonus content for the Blood and Ash series)
• The most common genre was Fantasy (34 books/80%)
• 17 books (40%) were ebooks, 16 books (38%) were audiobooks, and 9 books (21%) were print books
• A "new-to-me" author I fell in love with this year (April) was T Kingfisher, and I have read 2 books by her so far (I have more on my TBR for later this year)

I'm really glad I decided to challenge myself this year, and I've been having a lot of fun with the books I've been reading. A quick note about my average rating: I do not rate books I DNF, so my average rating is not impacted by those. I am pretty picky with books I choose to read, so most books I read end up in the 4-5 star range since I know what I like.

knowing whats normally dtb’s move was smart! also diamond i wanted her to do well she looks out of place so far. she seemed sober too thank god scotty gave this girl a shot. why was tinka crying bout the baddies chain and diamond didnt get one is natalie shading nttv girls

Inside every lootbox is a multi-kill waiting to happen!
Two nights ago me and some friends were running a level 7 against bots on Lesath, and someone popped a lootbox that was up on a rock above an advancing patrol column. Apparently there were a couple more within the explosion radius though, because one lootbox turned into three different mushroom clouds on a slight delay. I don't even know how many kills he got from that but it was one of the most visually impressive things I've seen so far in Helldivers 2.
And then in that same mission a tank rolled over the hellbomb I called in on a Sauron tower and deleted it. Democracy giveth, and communist robots taketh away.

i love billie so much and the new album is so insanely good. the thing is i want to go to her concert sooo bad (its pit or NOTHING) but the issue is that when she’s touring the states, im going to be studying abroad in europe and when she’s touring in europe, i have to be back in nyc working.
im considering going to her an abroad show next summer but i dont have anyone committed to go with as of now (because flying abroad is so expensive and no one i know loves her THAT much).
one of my friends said she might wanna go but it depends on her job since its so far in advance. but the thing is almost every show in the world is almost sold out (especially for pit/standing) except for this one that i found.
should i take the risk and buy it now and try to resale it later if i cant make it (it is resale eligible according to ticketmaster)?? would it be hard to resale tickets? im assuming it wouldnt bc the closer it gets, the more people would want to buy. should i do it? worst case, i just either lose to money or go myself lol (also a risk because bc im a girl traveling alone in that case)