Sino ang sumulat ng alamat ng pinya

hi! i applied to lasalle and so far, yung OR nalang kulang ko. when i sent my reqs, i also sent along a proof of payment pero need daw ng OR. i asked kung pano makakuha nun, sabi nila email ko lang daw ito: proofofpayment@dlsmhsi.edu.ph pero upon emailing, autogenerated message lang naman ang nireply nila abt payment system etc. what to do? pls HELP 🥹

hi! I'm a shs student na I can say living a comfortable life right now. I will say some things muna abt myself kasi I think relevant siya sa story? hehehe. I'm an achiever since I was a child and maganda talaga reputation ko sa kahit saang school ako nag-aaral. also, I think some of my colleagues and classmates ay mataas ang tingin sa akin because 'yun nga, overachiever and student leader. so, meron kasi akong friend na nagsabi sa akin na nakakainggit daw yung life ko. he said that I have a perfect family kasi buo and very supportive when it comes to my studies, we are financially stable, I'm an understanding and kind person, I'm pretty raw ( ik parang sobrang boastful pero sinasabi ko lang din yung sinabi niya) and academic achiever. sa mga sinabi niyang 'yon ay nagkaroon ako ng realizations and parang natawa ako kasi like wtf di naman ganyan yung life ko, they don't know that there's a large flaw in my life and nakakahiya 'yon sobra. katulad nga nung nabasa niyo sa title or header, I'm an illegitimate child and as the child of my parents is parang dala-dala ko yung bigat. baka napapaisip na kayo about doon sa buo na family, here's the catch, yung mom ko which is the mistress and yung dad ko na cheater ay nagsasama pa rin hanggang ngayon. It sucks right? I feel bad to the original wife and ayun na nga yung guilt na nasasabi ko kasi parang ako yung nakakafeel non, I treat myself as a product of a sin. Idk if my parents ever feel that thing (guilt) kasi they are living okay naman. tbh, I kinda loathe my mom kasi iniisip ko na may choice naman siya before kung nalaman niya na kabit pala siya, bakit di siya umalis or iniwan nalang si dad? but, pinakahate ko talaga yung dad ko kasi why the f, he is boating on two rivers?? they're good parents though. like super good talaga sila na parents, yun lang ang masasabi ko pero as a man and woman, hindi talaga e. yung mom ko, sobrang bait niya na mother sa akin and ginawa niya ang lahat talaga para maging maayos yung buhay ko and my dad, he is also a good father to me and my half siblings. even though cheater siya ay magbuti naman siyang ama and pati mga half siblings ko ay alam 'yon. pinagtapos niya sila sa magagandang school like sa big 3 school here in the ph and they're living a good life also rn.yung about naman sa fear ko as an illegitimate child, katulad nga nung nasabi ko kanina I'm like a golden child and a reputable person in my school, I'm actually scared na what if mabunyag yung deepest secret ng family namin and I know that will affect me nang sobrang laki. my dad wants me to be a lawyer pa naman tapos siya pa itong law breaker. I don't have a dream kasi and parang rinecommend niya sa akin na mag law nalang daw ako and siya naman yung magpapaaral kaya go lang. anw, sobrang haba na ng kwento pero marami pa akong sabihin if gusto niyo pa ng kadugtong sabihin niyo lang sa comments ba 'yon?
ps. I'm sorry for all the grammatical errors and please bear in mind that I'm not that familiar sa reddit kaya di ko pa alam kung paano gamitin 'to fully. If nakarating ka sa dulo ng story, thank you po sa pagbabasa. matagal ko na talaga 'tong gustong ilabas kaso I have trust issues kaya di ko kaya sa ibang tao. sorry na rin po kaagad if pangit or nakakalito yung pagkasulat ko and I accept criticism naman po pero pls do it gently. thank you po.

I’m planning to buy a house (not sure if this is really a good decision) and I’m a bit anxious na baka hindi ko mapanindigan 🥺
I’ve grown accustomed to a certain lifestyle na comfortable. Like I order food whenever I want, I like to travel a lot (local and international), gala almost every weekend, trying new activities, bili ng kape everyday, getting a massage once a week, etc
Pero with the new house, the monthly amort will consume more than half of my salary, and this means I need to cut some costs.
Any tips po para makatipid and para maovercome po yung nakasanayan na lifestyle?
May way po ba na makatipid pero maenjoy pa rin ang life?
Iniisip ko pa lang na need ko silang ilet go, I already feel miserable.
Thank you po sa inputs and help! 🙏

I saw sa news na pumalo na sa 58 pesos ang equivalent ng $1. Hindi ako maalam sa ganito, and I'm seeing mixed comments online.
As a freelancer, I like this because mas malaki yung makukuha kong sahod (I earn dollars). But how does this affect the country? The people earning peso? The OFWs sending money to their loved ones in PH? The PH economy?
Please explain to me like I'm 5yrs old. Thanks. ^{^}

Lagi nila sinasabi na when opportunity strikes, grab it.. eh parang nang uuto lang ang opportunity ehh. Pag ginagrab mo ung opportunity na yun laging di naman pala para sayo😢
Nakakapagod ng maging failure when all you want to do is to be financially stable for your family..

Hello po!
Gusto ko po bumili ng smart sim and magsubscribe to smart magic data 499 na no expiry since ang need ko lang naman is internet kapag lalabas at may wifi naman sa bahay, however sa isang phone ko siya iinsert para hindi madaling malowbat at masira yung mismong phone na ginagamit ko kaso may nabasa ako na yung smart magic data na 499 is not shareable? Ayaw ko po nung mga data na months lang kasi mga apat na beses lang ako lumabas ng bahay dahil sa onsite or siguro 7 days kapag may kasamang gala sa isang buwan so mas okay talaga sakin no expiry. Any reco po? Salamat po. Also tm na pala yung current sim ko kaya gusto ko sana ibang sim naman para sa mga lugar na mahina yung signal ng tm. Thank you!!

Good day everyone. Makakahingi insights regarding this situation if anong pwedeng actions ang gawin.
I am an online seller po and I have this 96k transaction with my supplier occured last February. This transaction was solely done online thru messenger which she acknowledge that she have received the payment for that product, but there is no contract signing na naganap. Matagal na din po kasi siyang nagsesell online and may mga vouches for her and talagang kilala na sa community also may previous transaction na ako sa kanya kaya malaki nalang po tiwala ko.
We have agreed po na idedeliver niya yung item last February 24, 2024 pero she failed to do so. After that po nakiusap siya na bigyan siya ng time to fix her problems and mag gather ng funds for the refund which I agreed. As few weeks and months go on madami siyang promises yet walang pa ding refund na naganap. And ngayon po na nagdedemand na ako ng refund ako pa po yung mukhang masama at nagagaslight also she choose to ignore my messages po despite regularly yung paghingi ko ng update sa kung anong status ng refund ko.
I hope you can enlighten me po if anong pwedeng gawin para maobliged siyang mag take actions sa responsibility niya. Thank you po.

Nakatira ako sa isang 3 bedroom apartment na may magina sa isang room. Ako ay nasa isang room. May isa pang roommate na sa isang room. Sinabi sa akin ng ina na ang kanyang anak na babae ay adult at pumapasok sa school. Pero nagtataka ako. Kinukulong niya yung anak siya sa kwarto na parang isang preso araw araw. Hindi niya pinababayaan na umalis ng bahay or kwarto. Hindi binubuksan ang pinto! Never ko siyang nakita lumabas ng bahay na siya lang mag isa. Never ko siyang nakitang nagluluto or naglilinis. Minsan kapag ang nanay ay nasa trabaho, naririnig ko yung anak nagwawala at sumisigaw at dumadabog.
One time lumalabas ako ng bahay at nagkita kaming lahat. Hindi ako pinakilala ng nanay sa kanyang anak at hindi rin ako binati ng anak at hindi siya tumingin sa akin. Tinutulungan niya yung kanyang anak na isuot ang kanyang sapatos.
Nagtataka ako. Bakit hindi nagtatrabaho yung anak? Bakit hindi siya pinapayagan lumabas ng bahay na siya lang mag isa? Bakit kailan pa ikulong niya yung anak niya sa kwarto? Bakit hindi siya nagluluto or naglilinis?

Ano pa ba inaantay mo, mag anak na kayo!
Normal na ba talaga sa matatanda na pag mag trenta na ang babae eh kung ano ano sinasabe. Kesyo tumatanda ka na, mag anak ka na ano pa inaantay mo?. sabi ng doctor ng mga anak ko hanggang trenta lang daw pwede mag anak ang babae.
Minsan nakakapuno at sarap sapakin eh.Lagi to sinasabi ng nanay ng sister in law ko(Asawa ng bayaw ko). I just hated it, like don't compare us to yourself na nabuntis at 21 or so. We know what we are doing , and we are trying to get stable jobs para masustain namin ang bata if magkaanak na kami. Di kami mag aanak na di okay finances. Ano papakain namin jan talbos ng kamote?
Gusto ko man umiwas pero minsan unavoidable talaga na makita namin sya every now and then. Minsan di ko alam paano ko nacocontrol ang sarili ko lalo pag nakikita kong naooffend asawa ko. Once I started moving, switching to attack mode, nasesense agad ng asawa ko at hinahawakan ang kamay ko. Parang sinasabi na agad sakin na "Pabayaan mo na lang. alam ko gagawin mo. mapapasama lang image naten"
Anyway, has anyone experienced the same?

Hello. I just want to seek advice if may nakaexperience na ba ng ganito. So scenario is last April 2024 nag email HR namin about my SSS Maternity Benefit about may previous maternity (Year 2021) that it was not approved or requirements were not submitted daw properly. I have a complete miscarriage and nung time na yun any kasagsagan ng Covid. So they told me to sent the colored scanned copy nung requirements. Btw, I already previously submitted the requirements last 2021 pa, all original copies. Good thing, I have the scanned copies pa on my laptop, which I sent to them.
Then, they submitted the application for the Maternity Benefit Reimbursement sa SSS. So I confirm the receipt on my end as the HR instructed me to. Just yesterday, I received an email from SSS that it was rejected and need ko daw pumunta sa SSS office with medical evaluation center and to bring all supporting documents as well.
So here's the question. Meaning ba nito hindi nasubmit yung previous documents ko sa SSS? Given na original copies and binigay ko like medical certificate, ultrasound report, saan ko uli kukunin ang mga yun? Nakakaloka lang na ngayon kasi ako kinulit ng HR namin, 2021 pa nangyari. Yung sa sumunod na pregnancy ko okay naman naging process. Nakaka-sad lang kasi, one of the most traumatic moment ko yun at until now sinisisi ko parin sarili ko sa nangyari pero ito, need ko balikan. Alam ko sa part ko na naipasa ko lahat sa HR namin yan noon. I have proofs naman. Sana noon pa. At ang hassle, dapat ako magleave para asikasuhin sa hindi ko naman kasalanan?
Haaays, twice na nangyari ito. Yung una naman is sa BIR. Pinasa ko rin yung 2316 ko nung pagkahire nila saken, yet hindi pala ako binabawasan ng tax noon. Ang rason nila namisplace daw document ko noon. Nagkakatrust issue na talaga ako sa galawan nila eh.

Hello po, especially to nurses here. i was a November 2023 NLE passer and I'm just starting to look for a job after having a break. I was planning to apply sa St. Paul hospital branch in our province. Baka may nakakaalam po if magkano ang starting salary nila for nurses. This will be a great help po para maconsider ko if sa kanila ako mag-apply or hanap ng other hospitals. Thank you po sa makakasagot!

It’s so crazy when you find out that half of all relationships (unconfirmed stat) have cheating partners, whether changed or not. i watch expecially for you all the time and 90% of the stories are from cheating experiences. i also read confessions here on reddit and on twitter and find it soo weird that people so casually cheat on their partners all the time! crazier when you find out a significant amount of active members on grindr have (1) partners, and (2) are straight with partners! “one-time-things” are of course harder to catch kasi mostly naman ng nahuhuli ay pag regular na or with the same person all the time.
makes me want to ask na ganon ba talaga ka-normal ang cheating? it’s scary. lalo na when you think na parang you really know a person pero it turns out they could do horrible things pala. when i look at partners parang “schrodinger’s cat” na yong tingin ko sa kanila but “cheatenot cheater” yong label.

Hello po, share ko po story ko. Isang taon na po nako naghahanap ng work only as VA pero di talaga ako pinapalad may anak rin akong baby minsan nawawalan na ng pag-asa. I'm licensed professional, may certificate as VA, may mga professional certificates din ako sa mga skills kk pero di parin makapasok sa VA world.
Sabi ng iba makakapasok ka lang pag referal. saan naman ako makakanap nun na from scratch talaga ako nag umpisa pinasok to na walang kakilala na VA. Para ang fail ko as a father.

I have a client na 1month makeover sa IG. So while discovery call, nakiusap sya na isali ko paggawa ng website. Simple lang naman sya, just a landing page. She bought the website builder sa domain dot com and it's just drag and drop. She already bought that even before pa kami nagdiscovery call. Pjnagawa nya sa kakilala pero di natapos kaya sa akin pinagawa (with additional payment sa akin)
The problem kasi eh halos linggo2x gusto nya ng meeting, umaabot ng 3hours. Parang nagiging business coach na ako. Even the decision kung gagamit ba ng calendly, paano magbo-book yung students nya ako pa magdedecide. I told her before na pwede namin ilagay sa website nya lahat ng way to book - in person, via Calendly, telephone etc. Then she'd ask paano daw magbabayad. Sabi ko may paypal, bank transfer, digital wallets. Sumasakit na ulo ko kasi I keep changing the info din sa website. How do I tell her gently na di na dapat yun kasali sa service ko? Supposedly dapat alam na nya ang system nya, then I'll just help her setup. At first, I'll try to help her kaso pabago-bago ng isip. I think she's in an online program kaso advanced yung program that she'll need a VA to maintain it kaso wala syang budget for retainer.
Sabi ko if she wants after the contract namin, she can pay me hourly, yung need lang ipapagawa para di masakit sa bulsa. Then she offered mag-exchange daw kami ng service. Example, 1hour yoga in exchange of my service. Sabi ko di pwede. 🙄 $15/hr rate ko, sya naman $70/yoga session so lugi ako kasi for 1hour yoga, 3hrs service ko na haha. Anyways, hinging advice + rant ko na din tong post.

Normal na ba talaga sa matatanda na pag mag trenta na ang babae eh kung ano ano sinasabe. Kesyo tumatanda ka na, mag anak ka na ano pa inaantay mo?. sabi ng doctor ng mga anak ko hanggang trenta lang daw pwede mag anak ang babae.
Minsan nakakapuno at sarap sapakin eh.Lagi to sinasabi ng nanay ng sister in law ko(Asawa ng bayaw ko). I just hated it, like don't compare us to yourself na nabuntis at 21 or so. We know what we are doing , and we are trying to get stable jobs para masustain namin ang bata if magkaanak na kami. Di kami mag aanak na di okay finances. Ano papakain namin jan talbos ng kamote?
Gusto ko man umiwas pero minsan unavoidable talaga na makita namin sya every now and then. Minsan di ko alam paano ko nacocontrol ang sarili ko lalo pag nakikita kong naooffend asawa ko. Once I started moving, switching to attack mode, nasesense agad ng asawa ko at hinahawakan ang kamay ko. Parang sinasabi na agad sakin na "Pabayaan mo na lang. alam ko gagawin mo. mapapasama lang image naten"
Anyway, has anyone experienced the same?

May tumatangkilik pa ba sa mga gawang nobelang tagalog? Almost lahat ng nakikita kong post dito is about foreign produced novels or books. Wondering lang kung may mga nakabasa na ba sa inyo ng tagalog na novel in different genres.
Nung nagpunta kami ng family ko sa NBS, parang ang mga tagalog na nobela na natitira na lang ay yung mga love stories genre. May napickup ako na book dun tungkol sa chickboy na habulin ng girls then yung girl ay weirdo at creepy. (Same cliche drama) Yung cover ay parang anime.

Hi! I am working for almost six years sa current company na pinagttrabahuhan ko. Last month, we had a team building but I was not able to attend due to medical reason. Akala ko normal lang na lilipas ang araw. Tapos one day, one of my coworkers told me na may nangyaring chismisan during the team building. And hindi sya simpleng chismis. Ako ang topic. I was branded as “favorite employee”, “pathological liar” and causing everyone a problem. Nung una, akala ko simple lang yon. But when I got to know the whole story, I was so angry to the point that I want to take legal action since hindi lang isang tao ang nakarinig but the whole Department.
Context. I had to take a long leave due to personal reasons. One of my loved ones got sick and I had to take care of her. I asked to resign but the management asked me to stay and offered a two weeks paid leave instead. Syempre I grabbed it. Since it was a paid leave, during my free time, I was able to join my friends and cousins sa isang travel. And hindi rin ako yung tipo ng tao na pala post sa socmed. Then ayun pala, one of my ate chona teammate, had the guts to tell everyone during the team building this,
“Sinungaling naman sya! Wala namang may sakit na kamag anak yun! Nakita ko yung tagged post nung friend nya! Kahit ihide nya yung story nya sakin, alam ko lahat! Naggala lang ang gaga!” - exact words from a recording na sinend sa akin nung officemate ko from a diff team.
And the ate chona does not stop there, she told everyone, “Ang hirap pagkatiwalaan nyan! Tayo naghihirap sa trabaho tapos sya sarap buhay lang! Kapal ng mukha!”
Marami pa syang sinabi. And ngayon, I am planning to file a complaint sa HR namin plus take legal action.
Gusto ko lang sana mag-ask for an advise if I can do that? Since one of my teammates told me not to since it will worsen the situation. But for me, I want to do it so ate chona will realize na may consequences lahat ng paninira nya sa akin.
Thank you in advance.

Totoo ba talaga ang jinx? Sorry I know ang stupid ng question ko. Pero di ko kasi na talaga alam. Sobrang natatakot ako. Malas ako sa lovelife ever since and never pa ako nagka-partner ever.
This time kasi masaya ako sa ka-talking stage ko. Like it gives me so much happiness pag kausap ko siya. And we have plans to travel sa Baguio. By the way I’m a trans and he’s straight. The thing is na kwento ko siya sa friends ko. Diba kasi daw pag kinukwento najijinx daw? Natatakot lang ako na baka ma-jinx at bigla siya mag cold feet at bigla siya mawala sakin. Kaya hindi ko maiwasan mag overthink.
Kaya gusto ko lang malaman if totoo ba ang jinx and what should I avoid para hindi ma-jinx. Thank you guys!!!

Sunod sunod mga nangyari sakin. Namatayan ako ng dad. Nakunan ako. Namatayan ako ng lola. Bumagsak ako sa isang subject. My mom is about to retire. Bunso ako, ako na lang hinihintay nila matapos. Abusive at a&&hole last relationship ko at kakawala ko lang sakanya.
Nakakadepress na nakakapressure.
Lahat naman ng magpapamilya nagtutulungan… pero bakit ako ayoko. Kahit sa mga simpleng bagay, para akong nahihiya na humingi ng tulong.
Kahit hindi ko ikwento sa iba kapag nakasama ako, ramdam na parang ang lungkot ng aura ko. Hindi ako suicidal, pero legit nakakalungkot. Nahihirapan ako imotivate ang sarili ko. Nahihirapan ako ibalik yung fire to pursue etong path na napili ko. I’m trying pero feeling ko yung body ko na mismo nagbebetray sakin. Active at conscious effort ginagawa ko. Pero ang bigat talaga.
akala ko umookay na ako. hindi pa pala. anong paglilibang ba ang dapat kong gawin. hindi ako pwede basta walwal na lang kasi ang daming aaralin.
nakakapagod pero gusto ko pa rin tong tapusin.