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So, I really enjoyed the stretches of this game where I could push the story forward, but after getting hard stuck for about five or six hours, I noticed that I quit on the game. Haven't played it for a few weeks now.
It's a good game, and people rave about the ending, so I'd like to un-giveup. Does anyone have any non-spoiler suggestions? From browsing this sub a bit before, I know that confused people are asked to upload their ship log, so here is mine.
It's so small I don't know how you can decipher it, lol. Anyway, the only "missed something" notifications I have are in Sunless City / High Energy lab, and I'm at my wits end for what to do there. Already explored Eye Shrine, found the lab, solved the angler fossil puzzle, etc. In the lab, there's the tablets, already did the black hole / white hole thing with the scout...
As I guess you can see, I'm stuck with these mysteries:
-Black Hole forge (I don't even see a way in, but also haven't made it to top floor of Hanging City).. have bounced off the side a bunch
-The lab in the core of Giant's Deep (partially spoiled, I know the jellyfish are somehow related but I haven't found the connecting clues yet so waiting)
-Dark Bramble (have found the obstructive teleports at the signal ground zeros but nothing else except lots and lots and lots of dying)

• Ash Twin Project (it's hard to find the teleport spots! the only one I know of is in Giant's Deep, which never works even when launched above atmosphere, and Ember Twin (the structure is obvious but can't find the warp spot) (not counting White Hole Station)
  
• Quantum moon / gravity cannon / Ancient Civ shuttle on the Black Hole Planet
  
• Comet (spoiled in that I know something is there)
  
• Sun station
  

-Lakebed cave (I swear I've found it - the north pole area of Ember Twin is only so big, but I wander around it and nothing happens and it fills up with sand and never gets marked complete)
Any help appreciated!!!
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Reminder that this stuff is all speculation and we're still waiting on evidence to be revealed, but we can still speculate about other things in the meantime
If it does become a worst case scenario do you see Nijisanji doing anything or trying to ride out the "drama"? I think it could potentially end like that one member who was terminated before his debut (for allegedly wanting to creep on/dox female talents) but I wouldn't put much faith in Niji.
They're desperate for anything that'll help soften the drop in profit the June report will likely show. I could definitely see them ignoring it and continue trying their bad method of throwing talents at the wall to see who beats Gawr Gura. Though they might try and make him another example and black stream him like Selen. Only this time they think it could win them back in some people's books since it's someone who people dislike. Either way the next few weeks are gonna be some interesting times!

I have had this same sucky ass feeling for 2 years now and I don't really have anyone to talk to about this so I guess I am posting this here. My (f21) have been with my boyfriend (m21) for 5 years now. For the last two years I cannot stop thinking about having a baby. I have never craved or wanted anything so badly in my life and unfortunately it has gotten SO much worse lately since we are at the stage of life where our older siblings/cousins/friends are having kids so we (mostly me) are constantly seeing and hearing about them which just keeps reminding me. It hurts so badly (both physically and mentally) that I have noticed that I've started avoiding social media/engaging in conversation with family/friends and have been on "autopilot" the last month. Having a baby with him is the only thing I think about and it's the only thing I want in life. Growing up I never really had any drive to do well in school or pursue anything after high school since all my life I have wanted to be a mother. I have struggled off and on with depression in my teens (like most girls in America I think) and I think my obsession with being childless is starting to pull me back down into that "funk" again. I hate myself. I hate the way I feel. I hate everything about myself at the moment down to the way I breathe. We have talked about this and my feelings but each time I express how it makes me feel I get hit with the same two responses. It's either "We're too young at the moment and we should be married first" which is very valid and I understand where he is coming from with this. I would NEVER think of forcing anything onto him which makes me feel crazy typing that out but I have read some WILD stories. The second response I receive is "It'll be your time soon" which after that he just similes at me like that fucking emoji. Him saying that makes me feel like I've just received a swift punch to the gut and I am trying to regain my breath. I am not sure how to stop this feeling or how to stop thinking about babies. For context purposes my boyfriend and I meet in high school and have been together since and we are not intimate (sex obvi) due to his religion and more conservative views. We have had the marriage discussion multiple times, but recently he has given me the timeline of him proposing within the next year so we can potentially be married within two but he also stated that ideally he would like for us to be 26/27 when we start trying. I am not sure if my heart can handle waiting that long. How do I stop this feeling? I feel so hurt, ashamed, resentful, and embarrassed all at the same time. I prolly sound like bitchy typing all of this out since he is the most amazing man and partner. I could not see myself with anyone else but I am hurting so much and I am afraid since it is taking such a toll on me mentally I may ruin this. PLEASE HELP!?!?!?!?

For THH I’d have to say Kyoko is my favorite character. I usually love detective characters in any piece of media and I also really like her relationship with Makoto
My least favorite has probably gotta be Hifumi or Junko. Hifumi was annoying asf and expressed borderline predatory behavior at multiple points in the game
Junko was a fine mastermind in the first game though I still thought the hope and despair thing was pretty dumb and kinda cringe even the first time but she just kept coming back and as a result overstayed her welcome
My favorite case in THH is with no competition 1-2. It had so many twists and turns and memorable moments. The genocider reveal, Byakuya messing with the crime scene which was the first time we experienced antagonistic behavior from one of the students in the series, Chihiro being a boy and Mondo’s sad backstory. I loved the antithesis between mondo and chihiro. Also this case is unique cause the murder was done on impulse and wasn’t pre meditated, in contrast to almost all other murders in the series, which made this case even more real to me.
Worst case was 1-3. Because Celeste is just retarded here and so is the rest of the cast. I mean why would the killer want to show which order they killed the victims in with the numbers of the hammers? Celeste is extremely obvious as the culprit and I am convinced she wasn’t even trying to hide it. Throughout that entire trial whenever the cast figures out something Celeste just outright lies and denies it AND THEN GETS PROVEN WRONG. It’s just her who does this, even if she wasn’t the culprit I probably would have still voted for her for acting so suspicious. The name coincidence with Yasuhiro was super dumb and contrived too. What’s most offending though is that the game is trying to convince you even before Celeste gets executed that she’s a good liar. No dude she’s not a good liar, Gonta would probably be a better liar than her. I don’t really mind the unsympathetic motive weirdly, but the rest was awful
For SDR2 my favorite character is Fuyuhiko with Hajime and Chiaki as close 2nds and 3rds respectively. Fuyuhiko had such great character development and a really emotional trial. Even though he was a Yakuza he debatably was one of the most ethical characters in the cast. We stan Fuyuhiko
My least favorite would have to be Akane. Akane is just a waste of a survivor spot. She’s not useful in class trials, she’s not that interesting (yes I’ve played her FTE I still don’t like her) and her being hungry all the time was not funny. The survivor spot should have been given to Hiyoko who really really sucks as well cause she got no development and died a hatable little bitch. What’s worse is that she was gonna get development. And no it was not worth it for Akane to live for the sake of Nekomaru’s memory cause we already have Sonia being a survivor in Gundham’s memory. I am sorry I really don’t like Akane 🙃
Favorite trial is 2-4 I loved learning how that funhouse worked it was really unique and interesting. Also Nagito’s personality shift in this trial was really good too. Gundham was great here, sacrificing himself for the rest of the group while putting on the mask of the villain so they wouldn’t feel sad plus his relationship with Sonia was really cute and seeing her beg Monokuma not to execute him was heartbreaking. Also this was the only murder in the series which was basically consensual besides V3-2 since both Nekomaru and Gundham were ready to sacrifice themselves for the group
Least favorite is 2-3. I- I don’t think I even wanna get into this. The despair disease is one of the worst things I’ve seen in a video game. Literally if anyone else got Mikan’s disease they’d have killed as well, she killed just because she was unlucky. Hiyoko’s murder isn’t even discussed, it’s like no one cares and everyone just assumes the same person killed them both. Mikan who is the clumsiest character in the game pulls inhumane shit that makes no sense and on top of that they assassinate her character by the end of the trial. This is the worst case in the series, fuck 2-3
For V3 my favorite character is Kokichi, he’s my favorite character in the series and one of my favorite fictional characters. He’s so darn complex and interesting and embodies the themes of the game perfectly. I really don’t like how a lot of the fan base seems to mischaracterise him as either some UwU boy or evil incarnate cause the truth is he is very much somewhere in the middle, probably in the grey area but I’d say he’s leaning towards the good side more. I can literally write a 500 word thesis on why this little lying bastard is peak but I won’t get into it here. I also love Shuichi, Kaito and Maki overall they are my 4 favorite in the franchise. I love v3 if you couldn’t telll
As for least favorite I really don’t think V3 has a single bad character imo they were all used extremely well and are all memorable and unique in their own way but if I had to pick one it’d be Tsumugi. I know she had to stick around for the Mastermind reveal but she’s just so boring throughout the entire game which I know is the point but I still would have much rather have had someone else in her place
For my favorite case I’d have to go with V3-5, it’s my favorite in the series actually. This is probably the most complex case in the entire franchise and it pulls it off really well without feeling too convuluted. There so are many twists and turns and great moments here like Maki confessing her love to Kaito, Monokuma teaming up with you and everyone having to come to terms with the fact that kaito was the one who died. Also the fact that the 2 characters who liked each other the least cooked up a plan to defeat the mastermind, really epic plus it was cool to see that Kokichi really wasn’t all that bad in the end and wanted to end the killing game his own way even if that meant he had to go to extreme lengths to do so.
I really don’t think V3 has a bad case I quite enjoyed them all but if I had to pick one as the least good it’d be V3-3. Crazy how all my least favorite cases are chapter 3’s. But unlike the other 2 this one is not as bad. Yes, Korekiyo’s motive is extremely odd and weird but to me it felt kinda refreshing to see a student that was completely mad and done well, looking at you Celeste. If you do Korekiyo’s FTE you’ll understand why he does the things he does and the fact that he mistook his abusive relationship with his sister as love and as a result became mad. It’s pretty interesting, Kork isn’t just funi seesaw dude. He also killed some the 2 most annoying character in the cast so good on you Kork. Other than that even though I didn’t like Tenko I think she went out in a great way passing down her wishes to Himiko and ultimately making her a better and much more interesting character worthy of being a survivor. There are a lot of great emotional moments with Himiko here. The reason why this is my least favorite trial is because of the missed opportunity of having 2 killers. Before we get to that it should also be noted that most of the trial is spent on tenko’s death which is kinda weird seeing as it’s not the one that matters for the entire cast to survive. The fact that the game gets your hopes up for there to be 2 blackends and the fact that they may have to live with a killer among them is so darn disappointing when you learned that Kork killed them both. Overall even though this trial isn’t on par with the rest of the V3 ones I still think it’s a good one despite a lot of people not liking it

They think they can say various things or act in ways that they know isn’t really how things should be… because people will feel guilty, feel terrible about concerns or issues, or feel bad about defending themselves. People can just pretend like it wasn’t that awful. That could go on for decades.

Let me start off by saying that I WILL pay for this favor, shipping, and any all other fees that come along with this. Recently went to C2E2 and they had a demo of Union arena and I enjoyed the game immensely. However, they only had demo decks ready at this point and they seemed to have saved the other goodies for certain other conventions.
So, that said, I was very disappointed that I wouldn't be able to get my hands on these products for such a fun game unless I went to the aftermarket. That doesn't bother me, however, we all know that a lot of people tend to take advantage of this and just scalp the product.
This is where one of you generous people come into play!
I'm looking to get 1 if not all 3 of the Union arena Playmats / boxes!
If you're interested in playing middle person for myself, please leave a message here as well as send me a message via Reddit.
They must be pre-ordered ahead of time (not on sale yet for GenCon) so that you can gain access to the special card they are giving out as a bonus, you will also receive a deck for demoing the game (which if you would like, you are more than welcome to keep and try the game for yourself).
Honestly, I'm only after 2 of the 3 play mats, but the third one would be for my friend just in case he can't get one and if he can, then I will donate it to my FLGS for them to possibly have them something to bring more people in!
Please let me know if you're interested and if you think we can work something out. We will work out all the details between each other and move on from there.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and have a lovely day!

I am new here and just want to get this off my chest! So i hope you can help me with some advice. Been with long term relationships, 3 to be exact longest was 4 yrs, minimum 2 yrs) so pretty much I can say that I handle relationships well. Reposting this from my other reddit acct. Also, never experienced any cheating from all those. Recently, I have been dating and the usual is pogi boys na have pretty decent followers sa somed. Until I met a guy that I like, nageffort pa nga sya after 2 days na nagusap to travel 2 hrs so we can meet and did the same effort to go to and visit him naman. There are some things that are new or maybe hindi ko lang narerealize pa. 1. What is it with them about posting tiktok or reels to show off their body, or even dance na may mga kaldag or even pacute cute lang na parangtrying to flirt ba. dont get me wrong I am all for it, but we have talked and agreed that we both are exclusive. One time minessage nya saken yun video na talagang kapag nakita online kulang na lang icomment ng mga tao na ang sarap mo or kaldagin mo din ako. So the overthinker in me, told him sana wag mo ipost okay na ako lang makakita, but he did it anyway and told me hindi naman ako nagrereply sa mga chats nila. He also said na this is the only outlet he has kapag stress ( sabe ko talk to me about it baka i can comfort you) and yet he continues to post stuff. One time i saw him always checking how many likes na yun stories nya or plays etc. i dont have issues abt it support ko sya, pero im afraid na syempre I trust him but i do not trust the people around him, syempre temptation is everywhere baka biglang me tempt.

1. He is a party person gusto nya umiinum. So one time we went out with my friends sa isang bar. Is it true na kapag kunware may nakita kang guy tapos nakipagtitigan ka na hindi ka aware na you did? Ganun kasi yun isa kong nakadate pero i couldnt absorb nun at maintindihan kar ako im aware palagi, just like veryone else kpg me pog lingon ka. But this guy, he said nakikipagtitigan daw yun isang friend ng friend ko tapos titingin din daw sya i asked why? Kasi curious daw sya kung magjowa sila nung isa. moved to another bar na puro sayawan. I can tell he is really drunk, so sa table namen may isang guy na pumoporma dun sa isang girl na kasama namen, naobserve ko 5 times he was always dancing close to the guy so hinila ko sya 3x dito ka sayaw with friends. Pero he finds his way back dun sa guy na malapit. Yun trigger ko na was he was dancing tapos tumitig na sya sa guy like it was more than 5 secs nakatingin and that was my when i walked out and nagpahangin. 30 mins nawala but he did not look for me. My friend then approached me saying na uy he asked if my other friend is str8 daw and when i went back sa bar kinakausap na nya yun isang friend ng friend ko na beks. I was devastated. So the morning i told him abt how i felt kasi paguwi namen lasing na lasing na sya and nakatulog agad. His response was hindi na nya maalala lahat ng ginawa nya after our first bar, and if it was flirting nakita ko daw ba na nagexchange sila numbers facebook or even naghawakan? Which is true, pero the fact na hindi sya makaalala ng anything kpg lasing how can i be so sure kpg ndi nya ako kasama? true din ba na kapag lasing na lasing you dont remember anything?
2. I dont demand time talaga but our setup is somehow LdR kasi malayo, both of us are new sa gantong setup. For me no matter how busy i am, i find time to update and message him, but for him either it will take 2-3 hrs to respond or kpg reply one liner. He tells me he is responding if not busy naman. Communication is impt for me the mere fact na kahit sabihan mo lang ako na im doing soemthign or office na ako i would appreciate kasi i respect your personal time. Pero sometimes i feel like ako lagi yun mageeffort to message and he is obliged to reply. Even sa mga. Calls ko ndibsya sasagot or kpg sasagot mabilisang usap lang, pero kpg sya na tatawag akobnaman sagot agad.

Sorry ang haba ng story. If youve reached this part sana you can advise me. TIA.

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In the dream we "fell" into a weird city. By we I mean me and a few family members including my grandparents.
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Anyway the city is exceptionally clean and the people there very religious with regular sermons.
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Now I instinctively hated it because everyone was smiling all the time and had this "be like everyone else" attitude. It was a bit creepy.
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Over time I got to know a few people there well enough to get invited to a wedding. Here's the odd part, for how religious they were the bride was practically naked! I tried to hint that the dress might not be appropriate for a church wedding but got laughed at since it was a TRADITIONAL wedding dress... it was a slip of see-through fabric with beading covering her privates...
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Then the brides entourage came in and yeah they confirmed it was a lovely traditional dress. Also why was I dressed like that? Clearly that was too much and the bride's aunt tried to take my bra off to match everyone. (one of us, one of us, one of us).
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When I refused she took of her own bra and offered to swap since it's smaller so will cover less. I managed to escape to the bathroom promising to practically strip in private.
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Well, not the bathroom, turned out to be a broom closet / storage area. but at least the crazy people were on the other side, thought I might be able to wait it out.
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Looking around the storage area I found something odd. There was "old" tech here. By that I mean from our day but the whole city was practically amish that I though we got teleported to the past. I found one device I didn't recognize so when the coast was clear I got out in the open and tried it out.
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It caused me to shoot through the sky. No literally up through the cloudish part only to discover this wasn't the sky, it was the waters surface. The whole city was under water but since we could breath and move normally we didn't notice! It explained why the sky never had a gradient, it was all one solid color depending on the time of day.
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On the "sky" two things were notable. First, two groups of golems were fighting and throwing rocks at each other. Rock golems (yellow-orange so maybe sand rock) & slab golems (grey rocks, very smooth). The debris fell to the city blew as gods judgement when it hit someone!
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Also here was another city. This one was old and basically a ruin over grown with vegetation. Looking through it I found a few people who were far more normal and reasonable.
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Going back a few time I was convinced something went wrong with our civilization, the city above was clearly one from our time now in ruins while the one underwater was more recently built. The ones living below had such a strong herd mentality that my own family was starting to get compliant and integrate. I tried to talk them into visiting the city in the sky, to see that this is all under water but they weren't interested, especially grandma that was feeling comfortable that grandpa was back in this world (died in 2012). Also wouldn't it be dangerous with the fighting golems? Solve that first then we'll see.
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Going up I asked the golems why they were fighting... it turned out that was because the sand golem leader had boobs and the slabs saw that as obscene... yeah really... I had them talk it over because the debris was hurting the people below.
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The sand golem shrugged and said they weren't people, just ants. When I asked about the people in the sky city they said "you don't know already?". As for who I was, well, they were going to talk to the slabs now so if I wanted an answer keep sailing towards the light in distance.
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This part I didn't mention, during my trips to the sky city I started to notice odd things. Yes it was a modern one now in ruins, yes it was full of plants so it was weird that the people that lived here acted and talked so civilized. But also another thing, witch symbols. Those were everywhere. Shrubs that were cut in the form of a witch's hat or pointy boots, statues of witches, magic symbols carved into the trees... etc. it was like a halloween set up in an ancient ruin. I kept trying to overlook it because the underwater city preached against witchcraft and heresy, clearly those were the nut jobs so anything they say should be disregarded... right? Also the people in the sky city were so normal & reasonable that no way they'd really be the bad guys. The undewater city had to be ignorant, that was totally it.
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The day I confronted the golems however was the day I found out the truth. While exploring the ruin I came across the communal kitchen. It was just a bunch of old fridges with forged food. One of them however contained a bag of blood. The girl showing me around said "Oh goody, there is one left" and snatched it from my hands sucking it up like capri sun. "Sorry but this is for our coven, Blood is how us witches get our knowledge and stay young after all. Can't share that without a price." Which is when it hit me that everyone here, while talking like an adult, looked so young and ageless. Also that they didn't know that me, and probably my family, would be considered food in a place like this, they thought I was a visiting witch hence the civility.
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The golem's words hit me hard. Yes, I knew. I just didn't want to acknowledge it because it meant I can't stay here. At the same time I didn't want to go back to the underwater city.
That only left sailing away into the unknown. My family refused to join, they were staying in the underwater city so... just me... Sailing into the light. Took awhile stuck between the two worlds, but in the end I made my own raft and set sail towards the light in the distance.

This is my second year teaching, but my first in this district. I was a late hire (started about a week into the school year) and split between two schools, one in the morning and one in the afternoon. From the very beginning, it has been an absolute comedy of errors—people dropped the ball at literally every turn from central office, admin, on down—literally everyone. And there has been so much either miscommunication and lack of communication you have to laugh to avoid crying. I have felt largely ignored and forgotten by the admin teams at both schools, and given my odd schedule pretty isolated from most of the staff at both schools as well. It has been a really tough year that has taken a significant toll on my mental health and left me feeling subhuman. Still, when morning school principal asked me in early April if I would be interested in a full time position next year, I was thrilled to not have to job hunt again (because that is always soul crushing), and hoped that next year I would at least be able to meet and work with the rest of my department and grade level teams, and I’d be able to spend the summer revising the lessons and units I had done this year.
And then on Friday I learned what they plan to have me teach next year. I currently teach 3 classes at morning school—2 sections of 7th grade GT ELA and one section of 8th grade GT ELA. I feel the year has gone well, all things considered. I’ve had no complaints from parents and have built a rapport with most of my students. Despite this, and despite my admin team not doing one single observation this year and literally have not set foot in my classroom since maybe November (when they finally got around to getting me my own desk in my classroom), they have decided that I will not be teaching those classes next year. Instead, they would like me to teach one section of on grade level 6th grade ELA and four sections of Readers Writers Workshop—which is a filler class, not aligned to any standards, not part of the ELA curriculum or team, and is based on an approach that has been so thoroughly debunked that the woman responsible for creating it has been placed on indefinite sabbatical at her university (she has tenure, so they can’t fire her).
They made the decision without talking to me. They made the decision despite my intentions form (which I filled out begrudgingly because they had yet to even tell me if I could stay next year) clearly stating that I am enjoying my current classes and would like to stay in a similar grade level. They made the decision despite the fact that they are also hiring a full time 8th grade ELA teacher for next year—a position that is currently being filled by a long term sub since the teacher became an AP at another school midyear—a position that I asked in December if I could apply for and was told no.
And I just…I’m done. That killed any and all optimism that I had that next year might be better. I can’t stay at a school that is treating me so poorly. My mental health already took a nosedive this year and I think another would destroy me. I’ve been told by a couple people that I probably have enough leverage, given how much of a shit show this year has been, to negotiate for different classes, but I just don’t see the point in fighting to stay at a school that is treating me with such a tremendous lack of consideration at literally every opportunity. So, now I get to spend my summer job hunting. Again.
I’m just feeling completely defeated at this point. I had different but equally terrible and unhelpful admin last year at my first school, and I never even met any of the admin team at the school I did my student teaching. Good admin teams exist, right? I’ve just been incredibly unlucky?
We have 17 school days left and I’m just trying to get through the end of the school year without crying in front of my students. Then I’ll figure out next steps, I guess.

AFAB nonbinary person seeking long-term monogamous relationship. Childfree, left-leaning, non-religious, etcetera. Autistic + suspected ADHD. My brain is truly braining. I have three cats, am 5’4”, and look like this.
I’ve always been a daydreamer. Sometimes even a daynightmarer. It might be nice to have someone to share a dream with. To hold hands and walk through life with. Maybe build a blanket fort with?
I like to keep houseplants, mostly succulents. The best plants are the ones I need to water the least. I like watching all sorts of animated stuff. Currently enthralled with Dungeon Meshi (my favorite is Senshi because he’s handsome). I also like reading when I have the space in my brain for it. I’m pretty of-and-on with it and mostly read fantasy romance novels or keep up with comic/manga series I like. My favorite music genres are indie pop and alt.
Things I do not like but do anyway include exercising regularly, cooking reasonably healthy food, and struggling with my addiction to a single cup of coffee a day (I did not know this could happen until I stopped drinking the one cup). I’m trying to find cardio that I can manage AND isn’t painfully boring. Tough. Therapy is also big in my life right now, considering that my brain brains. I’m also stuck between applying for disability and finding a job I can do until I get everything sorted out brainily. I’m also COVID-conscious and am learning how to do better with that. Fun stuff.
What I’m looking for in a man is genuine kindness and patience. I tend to get along best with more laid-back people. A nice sense of humor is a big plus. I love a good laugh. My usual type is big, burly, and bearded. My ideal first date is doing something fun together or trying something new. Maybe a museum or aquarium visit? A night in with board games?
Some important requirements: - male - 25-31 - living in the USA, the closer to VA the better - single, monogamous, and looking for a long-term relationship - does not have or want to have children in any way, ever - prepared to take things s l o w l y - non-smoking, not a drug user - good direct communication skills - COVID-conscious or genuinely willing to become so
Please give a description of yourself if you message. Include your age, location, what you’re looking for relationship-wise, a photo, and some more personal stuff about yourself. I will not answer otherwise.

20M 5’11 160lbs No medications or health conditions
Hello everyone! I’ve come on here to ask for my help for my situation. Doctors ents headache specialists neurologists and even just people who want to comment, I would really appreciate it if you shared your thoughts on what is going on and what course of action I should take. Basically the question is should I get surgery for the anatomical variants?( large right concha bullosa of middle turbinate and significant leftward deviated septum with a prominent bone spur on it). The concha bullosa is pretty big and hits both the septum and other side it’s not like a regular one. The deviated septum also hits the wall and blocks off the drainage pathways just like the concha bullosa.
Here is my symptoms: For about a year and half now I have had a constant fullness and pressure within my sinuses. It’s normally felt in my nose forehead and sometimes cheeks. It’s constant 24/7 from the moment I wake up to the moment I go to bed. It’s sometimes painful and usually gets worse as the day goes on. When I bend down it definitely gets worse. It’s always there in my head to some degree and it never feels like my head is fully clear. I do have a bit of trouble when breathing through my nose but it’s nothing crazy but I can’t get a full, clear, and refreshing breath. What’s weird is that when I cry or something and my mucus starts draining the pressure goes away. Even when an ent did an endoscopy and started moving around the camera in my nasal cavity, the mucus started draining and my symptoms went away for a split second. Sometimes I notice that my ear feels full and that the pressure sensation even goes to my throat. The pain is dull constant doesn’t throb and isn’t sharp. I don’t have any auras, visual or sound disturbances etc. It doesn’t come in waves either. If there is any other symptoms you would like to know if I am having please ask.
Testing: MRI, ct scan, endoscopy, and blood tests normal except for the anatomical variants I listed above. No signs of infection or inflammation. Nothing indicating headaches and nothing wrong with brain. No lesions, bone destruction, etc. My ent did notice a build up of mucus though when doing the endoscopy. Did flounase 2x a day, Claritin 1x and nasal rinse 2x a day but no significant improvement. I was referred to neurology by my ent because he said nothing I had indicated the symptoms I am saying. At neurology, we ran a course of amitriptyline and did a magnesium + riboflavin supplement but those did not help or maybe helped VERY minimally. Hot showers feel nice sometimes and advil sometimes helps ease the pain(only to a limited extent) when it hurts a lot. I also talked to an allergist and he said it’s probably not allergies, and I got a skin prick test that came back negative for everything a while ago.
My thoughts: I personally believe that the anatomical variants are responsible for my symptoms. I think what’s happening is that they are trapping the mucus and air flow and obstructing the sinus drainage pathways which can cause that pressure/ fullness sensation and why my head doesn’t feel fully clear. There is nuance here though and this is why the ent and other people are hesitant to recommend surgery. Concha bullosa is a normal anatomical variant found in a significant portion of the population (maybe even up to 54%) and is mostly asymptomatic. Deviated septum is also fairly common and is not normally responsible for pressure feelings within sinuses. Furthermore, up to 90% of cases where people think they have sinus problems, are actually migraines according to some studies. But my case is different because I am well educated in the symptoms of migraines and what I am experiencing does not add up to that. Also my anatomical variants are not like the normal population, especially my concha bullosa because it is really large and the mucus drainage thing like with endoscopy points to the anatomical variants.
Plan: I really only have two courses of action left that I can think of. I either go back to neurology and run through more cycles of medications to see if it’s migraines and if that doesn’t work go back to ent and discuss surgery. Or I don’t waste time and go straight back to my ent and talk about surgery and stuff. If there is other options or something else I should look into, please let me know.
I would really appreciate it if you guys shared your thoughts and what you think is going on and what I should do going forward I am getting pretty desperate and I know surgery is a big step. If there is any other information or questions you have, I would be more than happy to tell you!

My boyfriend (28) and I (24)have been or were dating for the past 9 months. With us being two guys it was a pretty significant relationship because this usually isn’t common for gay men.
Whole situation:
My boyfriend was straight when we first met each other and we hit it off pretty well. It felt natural considering we didn’t meet through an app and we weren’t looking for each other. I thought he was so pretty and later on did I find out he also thought the same thing about me. That night with our group of friends he continued to flirt and make jokes with me to the point where my friend was offended thinking he was gay baiting me. Sparing all the details of that night. Nothing sexual happened but we had good chemistry for barely knowing each other. Of course this confused him but after messaging some people to get my number he finally got in contact with me
My boyfriend made significantly less money than me considering I’m a veteran and also a medical professional and I think this caused a bit of insecurity with him even though I assured him I never cared. A few months into our relationship we were at dinner with some friends. We were all heavily drinking and I made a joke about being able to afford the car I have now. Just poking at him but it extremely hurt his feelings which I realized immediately. We went to his house and he was still visibly upset but I had to go home so I asked if he wanted to come over so that way I can be there for him since he was hurting.
This is where it gets complicated - I eventually asked him what was wrong after we made it to mine because he was sulking. He then told me how the joke was not funny and it hurt him so I apologized and assured him again that I did not mean to offend him. I promised I wouldn’t even make a joke or bring up financial topics again. He then became aggravated as (us both still intoxicated) he began getting loud and saying that we have nothing in common and the only thing I’ve done is made him miserable. He stated he felt trapped and then he said “what is even the point of us dating” he continue to yell at me as he was storming out. He ignored me as he waited for an Uber and declined to let me drive him home. He even walked down the street just so he wouldn’t be waiting in front of my apartment. At this time I continued to drink so much to the point where I was spilling wine everywhere. He wouldn’t respond to me over the phone. Not even to tell me he was safe.
I felt as if we had just broken up because of his aggravation and statements. (Sober me did not think this). I ended up downloading Grindr and convincing myself that he hated me and I drunkenly drove to a randos house to hook up. Which was extremely stupid. (I used to hook up with strangers during bad times in my life, of course this only hurt me. I think I was reverting back to my old ways of wanting to feel wanted). As I met the guy I began to sober up and realized I did not want to do this anymore but long story short, I was afraid to leave the hookup after he had been waiting and was aroused and I was also in his home, and I felt like he had a lot of potential to hurt me if wanted. So I just gave him a bj and left. As soon as I left I felt guilt in my life I had never felt before and I immediately deleted the app and vowed to tell my BF immediately.
The next day in the morning I told him what happened and assured him it was because of my immaturity that I did that and I never wanted to do anything like that again in my life as it hurt me so bad and this hurt him even more. He continued to tell me that he wanted to hurt me and that I can’t love him because I can’t even love my self. And some more stuff that extremely hurt my self esteem but at the time I thought I deserved it. Then he told me to get out of his house. He broke up with me via text 2 days later.
A few days passed and we decided to stay together as we both messed up. Me more than him though. I loved him and told him that my own actions caused me to cheat but I wasn’t thinking of the consequences and that in no way was it because I didn’t like him. But because I felt alone and hurt by how he treated me that night.
Our sex life was about once a month after this. He wanted to do something every day but I felt guilt every time he wanted to sleep with me. He also made a statement to me that hurt me so bad and I can’t put on here. He said he didn’t mean it but it made me ashamed to have sex at all ever again. He also stated a few months later that because I don’t have as much sex with him that it’s affecting his mental health and it doesn’t matter how I feel anymore but that I need to start putting out.
I’m also on SSRIs so it’s extremely hard for me to orgasm so every time we had sex it felt like it was just for him and I told him this. So when we weren’t together I would masterbate. He told me he does also but that I shouldn’t and that I should only be having satisfaction from him. I had sex toys before the relationship and he told me that they were disgusting and that I can’t use them. He even told me to throw some away. They were just regular phallic toys.
We continued to date for about 7 more months with resentment building up towards each other understandably.
Ending:
Last week I was already upset about our relationship and wanted to sit down and talk about it. But before I got the chance he hurt my feelings even more. I had just gotten my dream car, reasonably gonna talk about it. It also was 70k so I think it offended him that I could have the luxury of getting something so expensive. Last week I simply stated I wanted to get a modification done to the car and he told me he’s tired of hearing about the car and that I need to stop talking about it. He said I cared about the car more than him just because I talked about it. I also had a junk car before so I was just proud of myself. At this point I decided I can’t be happy anymore as he’s always getting upset with me. So we both agreed to split up. (Throughout our relationship he said “I love you” about 5 times for every time I said it just because I had a hard time showing I cared sometimes, at times I felt as him I didn’t love him enough because he loved me so much). I told him I want to remain friends and he agreed but now he stopped speaking to me altogether. I loved him and he “loved” me so how could he just drop me so fast. I know it takes time to heal from this but I feel like I just lost my best friend also and I don’t know what to do.

Sorry I lost the email attached to my old acc. but I used to post here a lil bit. I just wanted to let out some feelings of loneliness :/
Lately I've been getting sadder and sadder at the fact that I don't meet anyone around my age who shares the interest. I'm a young adult and I love to dress cutesy and do cutesy things. I just want a fellow agere friend to go to amusement parks with, have playdates, etc.
My friends accept me as I am but I'm constantly worried about embarrassing them (how I dress and how I am) and sometimes it hurts when I feel on a different wavelength than they are.
I refuse to hide who I am :c I tried that, but ever since I began to accept myself and be much more open I am so happy...but alone?
Today is so beautiful and I wanted to go to the beach after work. I've been wanting to buy one of those kids play tents (that look like a cute little house or smthn) and just hang in that, with a little/middle/etc. friend and just...chill with our plushies, then get ice cream after. That would be a dream. And just have regular playdates doing what my friend wants, and doing what I want, I wish :( I just have a lot of...y2k nostalgia ugh
Irl I haven't met anyone else like me, I don't think. I mean afaik anyways. I'm sure many people hide this aspect of themselves / don't wear it on their sleeves.
And like I GUESS I could try to look for meetup stuff in my area, but I'm worried about predatory people, and worried about people being too much older than I am, or worried about the space being male-dominated ://
And any time I try to connect w/people in this reddit (on my old acc) nothing ever went anywhere. Which is fine, I prefer stuff to happen naturally and not be forced but. Oof. Just stinks!!!
Anyways havea lovely day you all deserve it.

So a little back story about my exs lil sister, we’ll call her Anna, Anna is a year younger than her older brother less than a year younger than me. I met her from my ex I’ll call him Chad. We met when I was 13 and he was 14. I met Anna the following year when I was 14 and she was 13. Drama didn’t start right away, but she didn’t take school seriously her freshman year she ended the year with about 4 credits and next year her sophomore year only got 2 and after her sophomore year she dropped out saying for “mental health” even tho she was doing online school, no job, and was just trying to act like a bad ass. Anna was living with her father and step mom with her brother and half sister, she started getting rebellious smoking weed, smoking nic, having sex with a lot of guys and also going partying. She would run out of her house to go do whatever she wanted, one time I was even was on FaceTime with my ex as she was throwing a tantrum she locked herself in the bathroom screaming that she doesn’t care about her step mom or half sister because their not blood and she doesn’t care if they die, because they tried to take her phone away. She then ended up calling one of her boyfriends to pick her up and she ran out of the house and into his truck, her parents ended up calling the police and she texted her parents off a different phone and when her parents asked where she was her response was “it’s none of your business” she returned the next morning. It turned into a normal thing of her skipping school, sneaking off, breaking things in the house and going into her parent room to steal her phone. She then told her school she was being abused, which got debunked almost instantly since her brother testified and video recording from the neighbors driveway, because she claimed her dad staged her by her head and slammed her head into his truck door, her step mom had a video of her on the porch yanking out her own hair, no damage to the car and video shows her screaming at her house. Her mom locked her out because she didn’t feel safe with her being aggressive with a 2 year old in the house. Her father then put up cameras around the inside and outside of the house just to always have evidence of her lies. One time of her taking the bus to school she got in a fight with someone age 11 when she was 14 then posted on instagram bragging about getting charged with assault. She then made a claim that she wanted to kxxl herself so her family took her to a mental hospital the doctor told her parents she had no mental issues she’s just spoiled and will act out for people attention. Anna would constantly go to social media to complain about getting mistreated by her family. It got to the point her family knew there was not much they could do to help her, and they felt worried for their baby growing up around that. They ended up moving her into a family friends house where her parents stayed in contact with the parents of the other house and they gave money. There was parents and a daughter two years younger she became best friends with it was going well for the first few months but then Anna started to steal from the daughter I’ll call her Nat, they started to not get along and the friends Nat introduced her too she started talking shit about Nat to them. Anna was now 15 attempting to get jobs but couldn’t hold a job because of her bad attitude, well after 9 months Anna slept with Nats boyfriend, Nats boyfriend told Nat about what happened, the mom made Anna call her boyfriend and tell him how she cheated. The tension was too high and the parents told Anna parents they couldn’t take care of Anna anymore, Annas parents then talk to family, and Anna Uncle agreed to let her move in, she was 16 at this point and she moved in with her uncle and his girlfriend. She got a job at a sub place, but she kept smoking and having sex with random people. Well, she started getting into a lot of vocal arguments with his girlfriend and her uncle ended up texted my boyfriend asking if she can live with him. Her uncle said she was just selfish, and doesn’t like being told no. At this time her brother was living in a house with 3 guys with no extra room. I had my own two bedroom apartment, so I talked to her parents and they felt like I was a good choice and I asked Anna because even tho I wasn’t a fan of her I still felt like she needs her own room and she agreed. So her uncle drove her and her stuff to my place. Her family gave me some money to get her some furniture and they gave me a run down, also told me they’re are going to call to check up on her. I asked if she had any allergies or mental issues, she told me no but that she’s likely going to tell me a huge list of what’s wrong with her. So first day she moved in I took her to get fast food and asked some questions. She said she was abused by her parents Nats boyfriend pressured her to sleep with him and that her uncle was manipulative. Every story she told me she made herself a victim. She then asked me if I had any mental issues which I said I have PTSD and MDD and she asked me what MDD was, I explained it to her. I then asked her if she had any issues and she gave me a LIST she said anxiety, depression, borderline personality disorder , bi polar disorder, OCD, MDD, and PTSD. Even tho she had to ask me what MDD meant, but I didn’t confront her because her parents warned me that if I doubt her she will act out. So the first week, I got her a job where I work, started to teach her to drive and helped her set up a bank account went to the Apple Store so she could buy herself a new phone. Instantly I could tell why she kept getting fired, she was on her the entire time and everytime I looked over she was taking photos or videos of herself. She did not want to work so I did a lot of her work just so I didn’t get a bad rep. About day 4 she asked if she can invited a guy over that she knew on Snapchat. I said sure MY MISTAKE. This guy was a wanna be gangster, and he brought his friend, in front of him she acted awful, swore she was a fighter and badass, they ended up fucking and next day he was still there he did some Molly and drank a lot. My friend came over and Anna started to threaten her and say she could beat her ass in front of the guys. I took her into a room alone and told her to knock it off. We’ll later that night the guys wanted to bring over some girls, I was trying to sleep and my friend told me how, she told they guys she can drive them with my car. IVE ONLY TAKEN HER DRIVING TWICE. So I agreed to pick the girls up but told them I would be driving them back that night. It’s going good for a while until Anna starts talking shit about one of the girls and called her ghetto, this girl was 13 and Anna was 17. That girl confronted Anna, Anna swore up and down she didn’t say anything, then after 10 mins of pressing her Anna admitted she called her ghetto. This girl beat her ass. Anna started crying and this girl came up to her and said that wasn’t a fair fight, that she can get 5 mins to put her hair up and get some water but they were gonna run it again. Everyone is in my living room talking then they go outside and she gets her ass beat again, Anna then goes into my bathroom in my bedroom, anytime I went in she told me to kick them out. I told her she wanted them here she has to tell them to get out but I’ll have her back. It got to the point I tried to sleep on my couch, so the guys tried getting Anna to go to her room so I could sleep but she screamed at them. So the two girls went in and told her she needs to go to her room. Anna picked up a bunch of my stuff on the counter and threw it at the sink. The 16 year old girl got pissed and wanted to fight her, but I said she had enough and if she needed to get it off her chest we can fight, we ended up scrapping. It got late so I went to drive them home… pt 2?

Hey beautiful people,
well how to start off? I'm currently gaming, smoking some tasty hookah and writing this stuff down on my pc. Pretty rainy weather here in Germany.
I'm not looking for anything in special, just let’s see what happens, if we click well. Let’s just see where the journey will go.
You're tired of getting ghosted after just one day talking? Yeah?Well me too. You want to rant and vent about your day? Go for it. You need someone to tell the newest gossip? Damn, I'm your man! You want to talk to someone, who is really interested in your well-being? Finally hit the "message-button"!
Well, I'd say about myself I'm pretty empathetic guy with a good sense of humor and sarcasm (I guess no one who's actually funny, would write this down lol. You should find it out by yourself.)
I can be pretty smart but hella dumb in the same breath. Does that even make sense?
I'm 5'11 tall, am pretty fashionable I guess and rocking a man bun. I'm more of a stocky guy tbh.
My hobbies are pretty boring, I like video games a lot, I enjoy baking and try myself more into cooking! Of course I like to hang out with my friends as well.
I'd say about myself that I'm more into chubby/curvy women, but that doesn't matter if you're not dry in responses. I appreciate any type of women. All of you are beautiful, just the way you are. Keep that always in mind!
You shouldn't be dry in responses, be open-minded and up for someone who can talk very, very much! Even more as I'm on staycation the following week lol.
Do you appreciate my effort and you are ready for a journey? Show me and leave a message with a bit about yourself!

I thought I’d make character alignment charts for some of the characters. Eve, Adam, Lily, Raven and Mother Sphere. :)
I’d do more, but these were really the key players of the story.
Eve - Neutral Good (examples: Wonder Woman, Batman)
Neutral Good is one of the best character alignments because these characters do what is good without any bias for or against order. Eve doesn’t start out this way, but after spending time on Earth, she slowly opens up her mind to new perspectives and she values them all in her search for the truth.
In the end of the True Ending, she spends all night long fighting the Army, and she slips into Chaotic Good, which a willingness to “challenge authority” and break rules in order to achieve a positive change. So Eve sort of goes through all the stages of Good - Lawful, Neutral real and Chaotic. A character like Batman does the same thing.
She does what is necessary given the scenario.
Adam - Chaotic Neutral (examples: Catwoman, Jack Sparrow, Deadpool)
Chaotic Neutral characters don’t intentionally go out to create problems, but they often mistakenly cause them as they pursue their goals and interests. They’re also not super respectful of laws or rules. They basically just follow their own rules.
But they’re not intentionally malicious, either.
And when they do screw up, they usually regret it and try to make it right. They’re usually on the good side, but they’re also sort of unpredictable ‘wildcards’ and their errors make the story move forward. There’s normally at least one Chaotic Neutral per story, but not more. Since it’s too much mayhem.
Lily - Lawful Good (ex: Hermione Granger, Tails from Sonic lol)
Characters like this promote the greater good while strictly following rules and procedures.
They believe the best way to accomplish their work is to remain on the strict grounds of the orders they were given and not leaving those grounds. Not even questioning authority.
This can backfire on them, of course.
Raven - Neutral Evil (Gollum, Lord of the Rings)
While Chaotic Neutrals (like Adam) are good but selfish, Neutral Evils (like Raven) are cruel and selfish. Raven probably fell into the same moral category as Adam, at first, but then she lost her mind.
In her case, her “personal agenda” is Adam himself. Her obsession with him. She doesn’t think of the chaos she causes in order to eliminate Eve, because she’s jealous that he has chosen Eve over her. She sees Mother Sphere for who she is, but doesn’t particularly care for people who aren’t named Adam.
She falls into Neutral Evil since she turns Tachy into an Alpha Naytiba maliciously. The key word here is “maliciously.” As in she planned it out in advance and did it to torture Eve.
Raven is also being intentional when she attacks Xion. She’s doing it to “mock” Adam and Eve, according to her character files. So that is the kind of intent that lands her in this category.
Mother Sphere - Lawful Evil (example: Darth Vader.)
These types of characters are often tyrannical.
They follow a strict hierarchy, where they hold more power than anyone else in society. They are calculating and organized.
Unlike Chaotic Evil characters, Lawful Evil characters will tell you the truth when asked. Even if it’s something like “humans aren’t evolved enough, therefore I must wipe them out and replace them.”
This is evil, but it’s also truthful. Mother Sphere falls into this category.

Looked into stpd multiple times, and i think I experience some symptoms. I do have strange beliefs. I've been learning about quantum mechanics and the quantum multiverse, these topics really interest me. And I feel like I can see different realities sometimes. Whenever something scary happens, I can see all the other worlds in which I died from that event. Also I cant always tell dreams from reality, once had to think about a dream for a whole day to figure out that it was definitely a dream. I experience paranoia and magical thinking. I connect unrelated events all the time. I feel like I can know that something will happen a split second before it does. People have told we that the way I speak is strange. I can't seem to put emphasis on the correct part of sentences. I'm also very bad at picking words, but that might be because I know multiple languages. I talk to people often, I have friends, but I do have pretty bad social anxiety, I panick whenever someone calls me, even when it's people I'm comfortable around. Istg I keep forgetting where left and right is, this is something that has only been happening recently. The way I see things is weird too. Objects get stretched out or squished sometimes. I laugh when im not supposed to, even when nothing is funny. This is all I could think of of the top of my head. Are any of these concerning? Could it be stpd?