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Bonjour,
je me permets de poster ici car je ne sais pas où poster...
Voilà j'ai un PC avec tour depuis maintenant 2 ans. Il tourne très bien et je le nettoie avec bombe a air comprimé au moins une fois tous les deux mois.
Seulement voilà, depuis deux jours, mes jeux se ferment tous seuls...
Alors au début j'avais pensé que c'était parce que c'était Bethesda qui avait créé Fallout 4 (avec les bugs etc) donc je me disais "ok c'est peut etre normal".
Puis j'ai continué à jouer à Crusader Kings III et là a chaque partie, le jeu se ferme sans avertissement et je suis de retour au Bureau...
J'ai nettoyé le pc avec ma bombe a air comprimé mais rien n'y fait.
J'ai telechargé CoreTemp pour voir la température du PC mais ca n'atteint pas les 100 degrés donc ca devrait être bon...
Voilà ma config:
Processeur 12th Gen Intel(R) Core(TM) i5-12500 3.00 GHz
Mémoire RAM installée 16,0 Go (15,8 Go utilisable)
ID de périphérique F3336D1B-C615-40D9-AC0B-882F02ECC2F1
ID de produit 00326-03550-39556-AAOEM
Type du système Système d’exploitation 64 bits, processeur x64
Stylet et fonction tactile La fonctionnalité d’entrée tactile ou avec un stylet n’est pas disponible sur cet écran
Quelqu'un aurait il une idée? J'hésite à l'amener chez LDLC mais ça va me couter cher..

Pour résoudre mes problèmes de poils de chats, J'ai acheté un aspirateur robot (Roborock Q7 Max si ça vous intéresse), donc un modèle avec une cartographie et que je contrôle par téléphone. Quelques jours après l'avoir acheté j'ai mangé des biscuits a mon bureau en jouant avec mes potes comme le gros geek que je suis et pour enlever les miettes j'ai tout mis au sol avec une bombe d'air comprimé puis appelé mon aspirateur. Ils ont trouvé ça abusé mais pour moi c'est une habitude de nettoyer une table en mettant tout par terre avant de faire le sol, sûrement après avoir bossé en restauration, la robotique rend juste le lavage du sol anecdotique donc j'ai même pas a me poser la question . Pareil quand je me rase ou taille la barbe, pour ne pas salir le lavabo je le fais un ou deux pas derrière pour que tout tombe sur le carrelage, ben oui il y a un nettoyage programmé, quelques dizaines de minutes après mon départ.
Mais certains de mes potes disent que j'abuse et que je devrais faire "normalement", et je trouve ça con de me priver du confort que procure cet appareil.

Mauvaise experience du jour. Un restaurant asiatique me facture 3,80 euros le Coca zéro 33 cl sur place au lieu de 2 euros à emporter. Ok j ai pas vérifié le prix sur la carte à table, mais quand même, 4 euros au lieu de 2 euros! Est ce acceptable selon vous? Sur la carte à emporter (dépliant) il n est pas indiqué que ce sont les prix à emporter!

Each year the guys get together for the annual bro-out. Last year it was Vegas for a Raiders game, and this year it’ll be LA for a Rams game. It’s a once year a night away from responsibilities so we like to really ball out. We’ve got restaurants covered, but want to hit up a proper club with a good DJ. Bottle service, the whole 9. Last year in Vegas it was Lil Jon’s residency at Hakkasan, so we’re looking for a similar vibe and solid music - not just EDM, but Hip Hop / Pop as well.
I used to live out here, but my clubbing days are long over and I don’t know what the newest thing is today. I remember the days of Area and MI6 / Foxtail, Winston’s, etc., but moved away when these started to dwindle. Since moving back this year, and being a newish parent, clubs are not exactly something I keep up on, so any help would be appreciated.
Searching google gives me places like Avalon (I can’t believe it’s made it this long), Academy, and a few others.
What are your recommendations? Thanks in advance!

Husband and I (outdoorsy 30-somethings) just got back from the most magical 10 days of blitzing through Italy and I wanted to report back on how it all went! Itinerary report followed by general takeaways below. (:
May 5 (Rome) - Landed at Rome airport around 9AM, bought tickets for the Leonardo Express / validated in station and then hopped on a train around 10ish, got to Termini for around 11AM if I remember correctly. Wandered from Termini to our airbnb in Trastavere with our backpacks on, walked through/past a lot of the sites we'd be seeing later on. Part of the walk took us down the steps so we were walking along the bank of the Tiber and wowowowowow. We were more wiped out than expected after the walk and ended up napping at our airbnb after we checked in (lol) and then put ourselves back together, did Rick Steves' audio tour of Trastavere, found a place to get dinner, and just kind of wandered around the neighborhood stopping to sip wine and eat tiramisu in different spots. It was incredible.
May 6 (Rome) - Used IT.TAXI to call a car to bring us to the drop off point for our guided tour of the Vatican. I don't regret booking this because The Vatican is, ultimately, fucking insane in its offerings of art and history and whatnot, but this was easily the busiest/most crowded/suffocating thing we did the whole trip. There were so many people our tour ended up getting diverted from the Sistine chapel 2 or 3 times, which I actually liked because it meant we got to see EVERYTHING there was to see. I think we walked ~4 miles by the end of the tour. Tour started at 9:30 and we were walking out of St. Peter's at 13:00. Walked back to our bnb, passed out until 15:00, and then walked back into the heart of the city for our 17:45 Colosseum entry slot. Took our time getting there and let ourselves get distracted by any steps we wanted to run up or things we wanted to get closer to, etc. Waited behind maybe 5 people before getting our tickets checked for the colosseum, did Rick Steve's audio tour once inside, amazing. Originally we were planning on doing the forum afterwards but did not realize the forum closes early! Ended up spontaneously catching a bus to Appian Way and wandered around some of the park for sunset - not the part of the park we meant to wander around, but it was pretty nonetheless. Tried to catch a bus back but it never came, so we called another car via it.taxi back to our neighborhood. Grabbed dinner and gelato.
May 7 (Rome) - Hopped on a local bus to San Paolo train station, took a train out to Ostia Antica. Did the Rick Steve's audio tour (this is a running theme) and wandered the ruins for a couple of hours. The red poppies popping out of everything could make me cry, honestly. We were basically the only people there all morning. When we left around 11:00 there were hoards of schooltrips showing up, but we had the whole place to ourselves. Crazy. Hopped back on the train and took it to San Paolo, where we dipped into the metro and took a different train to the Colosseum area. Grabbed some street food and wandered - at midday this area is WAY more packed than in the late afternoon, like how it was the day before when we were there. The main line to the forum was stupid long, but there was no line at the Palatine Hill entrance just a little bit away from the Arch. We entered through there and wandered, did the Rick Steve's audio tour, wandered some more. Caught a bus to Campo d'fiori, and did most of Rick Steve's heart of rome walk. When we got to the pantheon we got in line to buy tickets - one of the machines was accepting money but was out of printer paper - we were able to snag one of the last printed tickets from the other machine around 17:00 and get inside the Pantheon. We ended up being two of like 10 people inside, this was a definite highlight. Did Rick Steve's pantheon audio tour and marveled at everything. Got kicked out around 17:45, continued the Heart of Rome walk and ended it ourselves at the Trevi Fountain. It was slammed but not hard to get close to the fountain itself. Walked back to Trastavere and watched sunset from one of the bridges over the Tiber. Wandered into a restaurant named something ending in "il massi" in trastevere - inadvertently one of the best meals of the whole trip. Hung out in Piazza Trilussa while a street performer played Bob Marley to a very happy crowd, went home, passed out.
May 8 (Rome -> Florence) - Grabbed coffee and pastries and ate them in Piazza Trilussa after checking out of our bnb. Trekked up Janiculum hill (with our bags) and hung out there for about an hour taking in the incredible view before walking down the other side (towards the Vatican?) and catching a bus to Termini, where we hopped on a pre-booked bullet train from Rome to Florence. Walked from the train station to our place in Oltrarno, close to Pitti and Ponte Vecchio - felt a kind of like, culture shock, I guess? Rome and Florence are so, so different. We stayed in a really cool airbnb on the top floor of what used to be a tower, I think? There was a plaque out front. A lot of stairs to go up but definitely worth it. Dropped our stuff off, grabbed some gelato, made it over for our 17:15 tour time of Accademia to see David. The line situation was NUTS but there was a method to the madness. The poster scammers were EVERYWHERE. Once we got inside it was very cool - David does not disappoint - we did the Rick Steves audio tour and wandered. Once that was over we made our way back towards Oltrarno and realized we were close to Gustapizza and like ~15 minutes out from it opening. I'm not about to wait in line for hours for food, but I can wait 30 minutes. Got in the to-go line, ordered two pizzas right after they opened (husband went out and bough a bottle of wine in the meantime), and we ate the pizzas and drank the wine in the nearby piazza. This was one of my favorite meals. I fucking love a piazza.
May 9 (Florence) - Slept in a bit! Did Rick Steve's Florence walk. Were originally going to do the duomo climb but changed our minds at the last minute - the amount of people waiting made it seem like it was going to be really claustrophobic - I don't regret this at all. Ended getting tickets to the Orsanmichele church / museum kind of on a whime (it was suggested in the Rick Steve's audio), I think 8 euros a pop. The church was beautiful, but the museum must be a state secret. We were the only 2 people in there, and the second floor is all HUGE windows with unobstructed views of the whole florence skyline, from within the skyline. It was dead quiet inside. No crowds. And incredible views. We soaked it up in here for a while, and then after the tour was done (around Palazza Vecchio), we wandered into San Frediano (I heard it was a cool area), got some of the best sandwiches from some random place, had Salciccia for the first time and didn't realize until we were like halfway through eating it (so good, omg), and hung out at a bar near a park for a while before catching a bus (I think 12) up to San Minianto. I read in a thread that this was a better viewpoint than the Piazzale Michelangelo with less crowds, and holy smokes. The view was insane. The monks closed the grounds right before sunset, but we were able to post up in one of the nooks in the wall right outside of the grounds and watch the sun go down. No crowd at all. Magical. Hiked back down on foot through Piazzale Michelangelo and stopped for a second to grab a beer and snap a photo, but it was SO so soooooooo crowded. Kept walking and wandered around Palazzo Vecchio area, grabbed dinner somewhere and headed home.
May 10 (Panzano) - Got our rental car and made our way to Panzano for a lunch reservation at Dario's. I was worried this was going to be hokey or full of old people or something, but this ended up being a huge highlight. We were sat at a table with a bunch of guys weekending together from Milan, a couple from Brazil, and some other folks from Northern Italy, and we all just chatted and ate together and drank way too much chianti and stayed until we basically were asked to leave. It was amazing. What was supposed to be a two hour lunch turned into a six hour hang out. The food was incredible, obviously, but making friends with such an assortment of strangers was really, really special. Wandered around Panzano a little bit after we all parted ways and then made our way to the carpark in Florence. We had reserved a spot at a place a week or so in advance and paid once we got there in person, it was great. Grabbed some more of the best sandwiches I've ever had in my life from some hole in the wall place in Oltrarno and hung out at our airbnb drinking wine until bedtime.
May 11 (Montepulciano) - Slept in a bit! Grabbed a capuccino at the local spot we'd found near our place, got our rental car, and set off for a day spent wandering around in Montepulciano. Didn't really have a set in stone plan for the day, but we parked for free near a bus station and then caught a cheap shuttle up to the top of the town. Hopped off at the top (the driver could tell we had no idea where "the top" was going to be and kindly flagged us when we were supposed to get off), and really spent the whole day just wandering up and down the town. The wine was all very good, everywhere. The food also. And catching the sunset from the top was probably one of the most incredible sunsets I've seen anywhere ever. Highly recommend. Drove back after dark and the highway was CLOSED so we spent most of the drive on a very, very small road carrying diverted highway traffic in both directions. It was a little scary because of the buses and trucks, but we lived. Dropped our car off at the return lot, caught a tram back to termini, and walked back to our place. Got in around 23:00. LONG, beautiful day.
May 12 (Florence -> Cinque Terre) - Got coffees at some third wave coffee shop instead of the usual spot because the usual spot was slammed and we had our bags with us - this place was fine but definitely geared towards Americans. And then walked to Termini and caught a train to Pisa, hopped out and switched platforms, and then caught a train to Monterosso Al Mare, landed around 15:00. Met up with our airbnb host, who was SO KIND, and walked up the 150 steps to the room we'd be staying in (not in the old side of town), it was amazing. Rooftop access. And tucked into the forested hill behind the other buildings. It was directly over the train but, surprisingly, that didn't bother us at all. We dropped our stuff off and wandered back out, got some foccaccia (holy shit) and walked into the old town. We wandered deep into the old town and up some road surrounded by vineyards and found some open but OLD woodsy staircase path that brought us up.... we did not know where we were going but did not care. Ended up popping out in the back of the cemetery at the top of the hill. Nobody was there, but if you walk ~50 meters or so away from the cemetery and down the road, there's an incredible panoramic viewpoint of the whole area. Wandered around here, then down an old-looking path around the cemetery that brought us to the front of the place, which is where the crowds (really not a lot of people) of people were. Wandered back down into the old town, bought some picnic-stuff from a local market (focaccia, pesto, olives, cheese, beer, limoncello) and then made our way home and picnicked on the rooftop while the sunset. Incredible day.
May 13 (Cinque Terre) - I think this was my favorite day. I don't know. I'm a sucker for large bodies of water and generally just being in nature. We got down for breakfast around 10AM, and droves of people were getting off of the train to start the hike that everyone does. Currently only the Monterosso -> Vernazza -> Corniglia sections are open. We were planning on doing the hike first thing, but really, really didn't want to deal with the crowds of it all. So we bought our trail pass ticket and then decided to change our plans around. We ended up catching the ferry from Monterosso Al Mare and taking it down to Riomaggiore, 45 minute trip total (15 euros a head and you get to see every town from the water... so worth it), where we ran around a little bit and split a cone of fried anchovies from Tutti Frutti (10/10). Hopped on the train and took it to Corniglia, wandered around here a bit and then hopped on the hiking trail and hiked Corniglia -> Vernazza. Definitely recommend. The views were stunning, and we only saw a couple of people in either direction since we started a bit later in the day / I assume a bunch of people only do the first chunk of the hike when starting in Monterosso. The portion we did took us about 65 minutes, and we stopped to re-apply sunscreen and gawk at the views a couple of times. Did a quick lap in Vernazza but were itchy to get to the beach at this point, so hopped on the train to Monterosso, used our trail passes to get free access to the train bathrooms and change into our swimsuits (we brought a small, roll-up-able hiking sling bag for this purpose), bought a towel for 10 euros from one of the stalls near the beach and hit the free section of the beach in Fegina. Some folks but nothing crazy. Laid our stuff down and spent the afternoon swimming in the sea. The locals said the water was cold but it was beautiful - 69 degrees Fahrenheit or so - much warmer than the ocean water we're used to in California lol. After hanging out here until around 18:00 or so, we made our way back up to our room (150 steps!!!!!), showered, put ourselves together, and made it back out for dinner around 21:00. We were able to get a table at a restaurant in the old part of town and if I recommend any place, it's this one: Tosca Bistrot. The chef was out and about helping the waitstaff, she stopped and chatted with us for a bit, and the food was the best food we had the whole trip. Anchovies in lemon and oil, trufie with pesto, poached sea bass, tiramisu and a pinoleta, which is a tart I've never heard of or had but now cannot stop thinking about. It was amazing and special and sweet. Walked out of here and sat on the beach in the dark for a little bit near some street performers before making our way home.
May 14 (Cinque Terre -> Milan) - I'm counting this as our last day even though technically we flew out of Milan on May 15. Initially we were going to spend two nights in Monterosso Al Mare but it felt dicey having to take a three hour train ride to a city where you then would have to catch a flight, so we opted to head to Milan to spend our last night before flying to limit any chance of craziness. We checked out of our bnb in the morning, spent a few hours wandering around with our bags, got some focaccia and ate it on the beach in the shade of the sidewalk overhand, and stopped at a local market to buy some fresh fruit for the train ride. This turned out to be a mistake. We bought two peaches, a nectarine, and some lemony cookies. Husband and I split the peaches and nectarine on the train ride, and just as we get to our hotel in Milan he starts complaining of nausea / upset stomach. He ended up having wild food poisoning. We washed the fruit before eating it but I guess something similar happened to him years ago when he was in Romania - something about his guts just not being familiar with the bacteria on the skin of the fruit or something. I was totally fine, but I historically have really strong guts. It ended up pouring rain the entire afternoon we were in Milan, anyway, so while it wasn't the most ideal way to end the trip it was also not the worst. Our hotel room was small enough that it was the perfect place for him to need to be close to a toilet, and we just opened the windows and listened to the rain and the locals being raucous into the night. Thankfully he was through it by morning and was able to get some sleep! But that was basically that!!!
BIGGEST TAKEAWAYS - I have to assume this applies to anywhere, but our favorite moments / things really ended up being the little everyday things as opposed to the big tourist attractions. Like the local cafes we ended up going to every morning, hanging out in piazzas with the birds, chatting with people, and letting ourselves wander down any weird little path that caught our attention. And the gelato. - We tried our best to not over-schedule things and really only book the attractions we wanted to see instead of what we felt we HAD to see. We're not huge art people so we felt the Uffizzi and such would have been lost on us, were more interested in eating and hanging out with people so we prioritized that, etc. - Public transit is so wildly easy to use here that you should absolutely lean into relying on it. The bus schedules were pretty easy to read wherever they were posted, google maps' routes were usually spot-on, and if the bus doesn't show up (in Rome this seems to happen sometimes) and you don't want to walk, it.taxi worked just like uber. - If you can book the BIG ATTRACTIONS towards the end of the day, do it. Crowds are thinner and you have a better chance of smaller numbers being inside. We booked Colosseum/Forum/Palatine Hill pass + Vatican (with a tour) + Accademia + time slot to Ostia Antica in advance and let ourselves sort of figure out the rest of the day-to-day as best we could. - Aside from lodgings and the car rental, the only other thing we booked in advance was the bullet train. It was pretty packed so I recommend you do the same, plus I think it's cheaper if you book it in advance. - Idk if Rick Steves gets a bad rap or whatever but as two people who didn't WANT to book tours to everything and also could not afford to book tours to everything, the guided Rick Steves walks were amazing. They give you so much context to wherever you are and there were absolutely some things we saw - a completely empty church with a beautiful rose garden and singing nuns comes to mind - that we never would have stumbled upon without them. Definitely recommend. Husband and I literally just split a pair of airpods, made sure to download the audio tours when we were on wifi, and listened and walked. In this vein, definitely bring a good portable charger.
I can honestly say this was a magical, life altering trip for me. I have never taken two weeks to just go have fun somewhere like I did with this, and it was amazing. Ultimately I think the most important thing is not letting yourself be too tied to a schedule, giving yourself some leeway/grace, figuring out specifically what's important for YOU to see, and just leaning in to living in wherever you are. It was amazing. I wish we had more time and I can't wait to go back.
If you want any specific recs (food, gelato, lodging, etc) in any of the places we were, feel free to message me!!
EDIT: additionally takeaway: forgot to explicitly mention this but husband and I each ONLY brought one backpack and I stand by this move 100000%. It made getting places on travel days way easier, made us pack smarter, and was honestly a great way to live. We did some sink laundry and I made sure to book a bnb midway through the trip (Florence) with laundry facilities. We brought some rope to hang our clothes. I felt awful for everyone I saw using rolling suitcases in Rome on the cobblestone. You need less than you think you do, I swear!

Bonjour, je (H35) met ça là pour avoir des avis qui pourraient me faire relativiser la situation ou en tout cas avancer dans ma réflexion.
Depuis que ma femme est enceinte de notre premier enfant, c'était il y a 4 ans (après 6 ans de relation, pendant COVID etc) c'est une nouvelle personne, déjà elle est centrée uniquement sur les enfants (nous en avons eu un second par la suite), nous n'avons plus aucune intimité et sommes comme des colocataires qui accomplissent leur mission de parents. En définitive, c'est peut être égoïste mais je n'éprouve que très peu de moments de plaisir en sa présence. Chaque moment qui devrait l'être s'accompagne très souvent d'une dispute qui a pour conséquence que chacun reste dans son coin et cela peut durer plusieurs jours. Il y a des périodes d'acalmies mais pour autant aucune excuses et chacun reste camper sur ses positions.
En gros elle est dévouée a nos enfants a 200% et ne s'accorde aucun moment pour elle (prendre soin d'elle, faire une activité agréable...etc), rien de fun. De mon côté je suis admiratif sur cette partie de sa personnalité mais c'est parfois poussé à l'extrême et je pense qu'on peut concilier les 2 dans la mesure du raisonnable. Par exemple elle refuse de confier nos enfants a une personne tierse donc cela ne laisse pas de moments a 2 pour prendre du recul. Les enfants sont couches très tôt donc impossible d'aller ensemble à un dîner chez des amis, restaurant etc. Même les vacances sont une contraintes et ma seule hâte et de retourner au boulot. Au niveau des tâches ménagères c'est l'enfer elle reste a la maison pour s'occuper des enfants mais rien n'est gérée et c'est frustrant de rentrer chaque jour et constater que c'est le bordel, que le repas n'est pas prêt etc... je fais mon maximum pour aider (repas, vaisselle, rangement, menage) mais on ne s'en sort pas. Je sais qu'elle se démène a fond et qu'elle ne se tourne pas les pouces durant la journée mais ça m'énerve quand même qu'on soit dans cette situation. J'ai proposé a plusieurs reprises de prendre une femme de ménage quelques heures par semaines mais elle ne veut pas. Concernant les enfants je fais aussi beaucoup de choses (mais ce n'est jamais assez pour elle) mais ce n'est pas comparable avec ce qu'elle fait comme elle reste a la maison + allaitement la nuit etc.
En bref quand je vois que 50% des couples aujourd'hui se séparent je me dis qu'on n'est pas les seuls dans cette situation mais aujourd'hui je n'oserais jamais franchir ce pas par peur de ne pas voir grandir mes enfants et de les déstabiliser pour le restant de leur vie ce qui me dechirerait le coeur. Je suis prêt à faire le sacrifice de rester dans cette situation pour eux mais j'ai peur d'avoir du mal à supporter au bout d'un moment et tout envoyer balader. D'un côté je me dis la vie est courte et ce n'est pas normal de rester dans une situation ou l'on n'est pas entièrement épanouie. D'un autre côté je me dis est ce qu'il existe des situations où tout va bien car peut être que j'ai juste l'impression que l'herbe est plus verte ailleurs. De plus je ne peux pas éluder le fait qu'on soit sur les rotules depuis plusieurs annees avec l'arrivée des 2 enfants et que c'est certainement la période la.plus difficile a passer. Néanmoins je rêve parfois de la vie de mes amis sans enfant ou célibataires même si je suis convaincu que au bout de 15 jours je serais rongé par la solitude et le regret.
Est ce quil y aurait parmis vous des personnes qui ont été dans cette situation et qui soit ont persévère et ont connu des jours meilleurs derrière ou bien ont tout envoyé balader et ne regrette d'aucune façon ou bien s'en mordent local les doigts maintenant ?
Merci pour votre lecture et vos conseils.

Bonjour, je (H35) met ça là pour avoir des avis qui pourraient me faire relativiser la situation ou en tout cas avancer dans ma réflexion.
Depuis que ma femme est enceinte de notre premier enfant, c'était il y a 4 ans (COVID etc) c'est une nouvelle personne, déjà elle est centrée uniquement sur les enfants (nous en avons eu un second par la suite), nous n'avons plus aucune intimité et sommes comme des colocataires qui accomplissent leur mission de parents. En définitive, c'est peut être égoïste mais je n'éprouve que très peu de moments de plaisir en sa présence. Chaque moment qui devrait l'être s'accompagne très souvent d'une dispute qui a pour conséquence que chacun reste dans son coin et cela peut durer plusieurs jours. Il y a des périodes d'acalmies mais pour autant aucune excuses et chacun reste camper sur ses positions.
En gros elle est dévouée a nos enfants a 200% et ne s'accorde aucun moment pour elle (prendre soin d'elle, faire une activité agréable...etc), rien de fun. De mon côté je suis admiratif sur cette partie de sa personnalité mais c'est parfois poussé à l'extrême et je pense qu'on peut concilier les 2 dans la mesure du raisonnable. Par exemple elle refuse de confier nos enfants a une personne tierse donc cela ne laisse pas de moments a 2 pour prendre du recul. Les enfants sont couches très tôt donc impossible d'aller ensemble à un dîner chez des amis, restaurant etc. Même les vacances sont une contraintes et ma seule hâte et de retourner au boulot. Au niveau des tâches ménagères c'est l'enfer elle reste a la maison pour s'occuper des enfants mais rien n'est gérée et c'est frustrant de rentrer chaque jour et constater que c'est le bordel, que le repas n'est pas prêt etc... je fais mon maximum pour aider (repas, vaisselle, rangement, menage) mais on ne s'en sort pas. Je sais qu'elle se démène a fond et qu'elle ne se tourne pas les pouces durant la journée mais ça m'énerve quand même qu'on soit dans cette situation. J'ai proposé a plusieurs reprises de prendre une femme de ménage quelques heures par semaines mais elle ne veut pas. Concernant les enfants je fais aussi beaucoup de choses (mais ce n'est jamais assez pour elle) mais ce n'est pas comparable avec ce qu'elle fait comme elle reste a la maison + allaitement la nuit etc.
En bref quand je vois que 50% des couples aujourd'hui se séparent je me dis qu'on n'est pas les seuls dans cette situation mais aujourd'hui je n'oserais jamais franchir ce pas par peur de ne pas voir grandir mes enfants et de les déstabiliser pour le restant de leur vie ce qui me dechirerait le coeur. Je suis prêt à faire le sacrifice de rester dans cette situation pour eux mais j'ai peur d'avoir du mal à supporter au bout d'un moment et tout envoyer balader. D'un côté je me dis la vie est courte et ce n'est pas normal de rester dans une situation ou l'on n'est pas entièrement épanouie. D'un autre côté je me dis est ce qu'il existe des situations où tout va bien car peut être que j'ai juste l'impression que l'herbe est plus verte ailleurs. De plus je ne peux pas éluder le fait qu'on soit sur les rotules depuis plusieurs annees avec l'arrivée des 2 enfants et que c'est certainement la période la.plus difficile a passer. Néanmoins je rêve parfois de la vie de mes amis sans enfant ou célibataires même si je suis convaincu que au bout de 15 jours je serais rongé par la solitude et le regret.
Est ce quil y aurait parmis vous des personnes qui ont été dans cette situation et qui soit ont persévère et ont connu des jours meilleurs derrière ou bien ont tout envoyé balader et ne regrette d'aucune façon ou bien s'en mordent local les doigts maintenant ?
Merci pour votre lecture et vos conseils.

I wanted to come on here and talk about my week long vacation w my bf. We’re both mid 20s and we stayed at an airbnb about 20ish minutes from the resort/beach area. This was a very intentional choice because we wanted to experience more of the local culture than stay in the resort bubble. This is my 2nd visit to MX (first visit was across the country) and my bf’s first visit to MX. Our airbnb had a private pool just for our room, free bikes, and a 24/7 onsite caretaker.
We flew into the Tulum airport and took the ADO bus from the airport to the centro, and then took a taxi from the ADO station to Fox to pick up the rental. Overall, a good experience at the airport as well as the ADO bus, and Fox upgraded our rental for free.
I also want to add that I’m fluent in spanish, but my bf is not. This really wasn’t a problem for him bc I could translate. One thing i’ve noticed a lot in this subreddit is that people come to Mexico and act very surprised that people there speak spanish. I would strongly encourage visitors to try to learn a bit of conversational spanish, especially if you plan on staying outside of the resort area. Also, treat the area with respect pls!!! Visiting a foreign country isn’t an excuse to act like a jackass.
Our first day/night in Tulum, we got settled into our airbnb and went to the supermarket to pickup a few groceries. We got dinner at Tropi Taco. AHHHHMAZINGGGG food. Everything was super delicious and we ended up eating there a total of 3 times during our 6 day stay. 10/10 recommended.
Our second day we biked around centro and ate lunch at Potheads. Super friendly service, cute restaurant/café, and the food was really good. We ate there 3 times as well lol. Later that evening we dined at IlIo’s, which is a greek restaurant!! On our way to dinner we were stopped by the police and they made my bf take a breathalyser. Not rlly off putting, more so strange but i also understand we were entering the resort area at night, and there have been some not-so-awesome things happening down there. Fun experience at dinner esp bc I’m greek/mexican and the food was also delicious. Very loud restaurant tho, as there was a DJ playing which we didn’t know was a thing there until we arrived. Stellar customer service. One of the managers came up and apologised for the delay for our entrées (which we didn’t think it took that long to come out) but they gave us a free dessert, free cookies, and the manager gave me a free evil eye bracelet!!!
Our third day, we went to have lunch at Potheads, followed by going Casa Tortuga for the cenote tour, where we explored four different cenotes and they added zip lining for free!!! Absolutely incredible experience and would do it all over again. Worth every penny imo. There was also a photographer that came along with our small tour group and photos were available for purchase. We got a steal of a price for all 37 pictures taken of us. The photographer was very sweet and he took really good pictures of my bf and I. We ate dinner at home bc our airbnb had a grill so my bf grilled some steaks!
Fourth day, we spent at free public beach, which is across the street from the Potheads in the resort area. We taxi’d over there and went bar hopping after our swim. They def watered down the drinks in the resort area but we had a blast at the beach. The tide was high and we weren’t bothered by the seaweed tbh it’s just a part of the beach.
On friday, our 5th day, we kinda stayed in but went to go get couples massages, 100000/100000. We did a relaxing with a deep tissue add on for a 60 min massage experience. Will def be doing that again in MX and in the states lol. Later that evening we dined at Arca, which was a PHENOMENAL experience. Everything was so good and the service was awesome. My partner and I are both well-versed in fine dining experiences and this was def on par with other restaurants we’ve been to in the US. Arca def deserves a Michelin Star for the food and service. The wagyu was our fave. Beautiful ambiance and being able to smoke during dinner was also nice lol. We taxi’d to and from dinner bc my bf and I were planning to drink at dinner.
Saturday was spent at the public beach. Obvi had a blast and the tide wasn’t as high as it was the other day. Had lunch beforehand at Tropi Taco. We planned to go visit the Mayan ruins but the lady at the information center was a bit off-putting and tried to tell us that all the beaches were closed when we told her that we decided to do something else 😭 gave us a good laugh tho!!
Sunday, we got lunch a new café, which i forgot the name of. Food was like objectively good but nothing exceptional. Service was awesome tho and the coffee was yummy. Drove to the airport and dropped off our rental without any issues.
TDLR: we will def be coming back to Tulum and MX in general🫶🏼 The hospitality, graciousness and kindness of the locals is something we will always remember and carry fondly in our hearts.

My wife and I are in Milan for one night only this weekend before we fly out of MXP for the States, and I have reservations at both restaurants. It's our (early) 10 year anniversary dinner! Anyways, I've been struggling with which one to visit for our big night out. It seems like reddit really likes Il Luogo, I've seen it recommended many times in this subreddit, while it's hard to ignore Michelin giving 3*s to Enrico. It seems like in terms of cuisine both are northern Italian, and perhaps Il Luogo is the more traditional one in that respect. I want something that's Italian, so both meet that criteria. We also aren't big drinkers, so wine selection or pairings isn't a factor in our decision. Importantly for us, we really don't want to spend 4+ hours sitting in a restaurant like I understand Enrico demands of its diners. We'll be sitting the entirety of the next day, and I once did 4.5 hours at Gramercy Tavern and by the end of it it felt like my back was going to give out.
Does anyone have any insight into what's a better option? What's a better fit for our circumstance? Or, does anyone have any recommendations outside of these two options that I can reasonably expect to score a table at?

Bonjour, avez-vous des recommandations pour des restaurants gastronomique de sushi ? Lors de mon derniers post, on m’avait recommandé okeya kyujiro qui m’a l’air super bien. Je voulais voir s’il y en a d’autre que vous connaissez pour comparer. Je compte inviter mon frère, pour son enterrement de vie de garçon, au meilleur sushi qu’il n’a jamais mangé de sa vie !
Merci par avance pour vos réponses