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2008.12.03 22:12 Online Dating

Everything about online dating - your amusing stores, advice, and encouragement when you need it.
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2023.08.09 15:41 dates_ai OnlineDatingApps

A place to discuss online dating without manipulation from Match Group Inc. Please keep it civil.
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2013.10.30 20:10 DatingCoachKK Dating advice for online daters

The place to ask ALL your online/mobile dating questions and get answers.
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2024.05.22 04:13 SincerelySinbad M26 Long distance relationship conservative family and hurting someone

I (26M) was engaged to someone, we'll call them Stan (26 FtM). grew up in a strict conservative Christian household where anything LGBTQ was sinful and forbidden. So Stan and had met online in 2019 and became friends through a mutual fandom space. Our friendship progressed and in 2021 we started dating online which kept a secret, and in 2022 we met in person at a comicon in Minneapolis wherel proposed becausel was in love and wanted to be with him. Towards the end of 2023 he gets an apartment away from his parents house with a couple friends. They open up the apartment to me and come around the end of 2023 to live with my fiance. didn't know how to tell my parents so said gonna go live with friends for a while and try something new. I dug a hole for myself by lying and eventually the truth came out because left a Valentine's card Stan got for me. And it became a daily argument over the phone with my parents eventually had an emergency medical situation happen earlier this year and told my brother because had to go under for surgery. When lawoke my mom and brother surprised me at the hospital and told me it was time come back home with them. This was already a point of contention between Stan and because my family didn't agree with our relationship. So he gave me the ultimatum it was my family or him, and chose my family and moved back home. I still love him just wasn't able to cut myself off from my family.
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2024.05.22 04:11 LetterLeast1003 Change in Marital Status...IRCC requesting docs.

I had updated my marital status and IRCC has requested some docs. My spouse is already PR( e-COPR inside Canada, awaiting PR card). I am pretty sure that I don't need to send docs or not apart from Marriage certificate, birth certificate and PR card
First Para of letter says, you only need to submit PR card, marriage certificate and Birth Cert if spouse is P Citizen
"Thank you for informing us of your change in marital status. If your spouse or common-law partner (CLP) is a Canadian citizen or if they have obtained permanent residence status in Canada, he or she does not need to be added to your application for Permanent Residence. However, you must provide our office with a proof of his/her status such as a copy of birth certificate, proof of citizenship or permanent residence card. If your spouse or common-law partner (CLP) is NOT a Canadian citizen or has NOT obtained Permanent Residence status in Canada, you will need to complete each of the following steps in order to have them added to your existing application and examined for compliance with admissibility requirements (medical, criminality and security). Unless otherwise stated, the following is mandatory, whether or not your spouse or CLP decides to accompany you to Canada. The following information/documents must be received within 30 days from the date of this correspondence. If this deadline is not met, your application will be assessed based on the information available and could be refused."
Also there is list of docs with a questionnaire. I am confused whether that questionnaire is required or not.
INCLUSION OF A SPOUSE/COMMON-LAW PARTNER ON AN ECONOMIC CLASS APPLICATION
QUESTIONS FOR THE PRINCIPAL APPLICANT << Provide a complete and precise response to each question in your own words. Failure to provide the information requested below will delay processing and could result in a refusal of your application. Make sure you have indicated your name, application number, the questionnaire title and the number or letter of the question you are answering. Please answer the following questions on a separate page and include the question number with your answer. DEVELOPMENT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP 1. Describe the development of your relationship, including the following details: a. First contact with your spouse/common-law partner (i.e., when and where) b. Provide timeline of dates, photos, and documentation of events in which you both participated in, such as trips and outings. c. Have you visited each other during your relationship? (i.e., when and where) d. How do you communicate when not together? (e.g., phone, email, online chats) e. Please provide dates of cohabitation, if applicable. 2. Was your relationship known to your close friends and family members? Yes/No If in common-law relationship skip to question #8 3. Was your marriage arranged? Please provide details on who arranged the marriage and when it was arranged. 4. Was there a formal ceremony to recognize/celebrate the engagement? Please provide details such as when, where, and who attended. 5. Was there a formal ceremony to recognize/celebrate the marriage? Please provide details such as when, where, who attended, and the religion in which the marriage was performed, if applicable. 6. Provide information regarding your religious beliefs. 7. Was there a reception? If so please provide details such as when, where, and who attended. 8. Did you have a honeymoon (a holiday or trip taken by you and your spouse after the marriage)? Provide details such as when and where. 9. If in a common-law relationship, was there a commitment ceremony? Please provide details such as when, where, and who attended. Applicant Signature: ___________________________________ Date: __________________________
INCLUSION OF A SPOUSE/COMMON-LAW PARTNER ON AN ECONOMIC CLASS APPLICATION
QUESTIONS FOR THE PRINCIPAL APPLICANT << Provide a complete and precise response to each question in your own words. Failure to provide the information requested below will delay processing and could result in a refusal of your application. Make sure you have indicated your name, application number, the questionnaire title and the number or letter of the question you are answering. Please answer the following questions on a separate page and include the question number with your answer. DEVELOPMENT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP 1. Describe the development of your relationship, including the following details: a. First contact with your spouse/common-law partner (i.e., when and where) b. Provide timeline of dates, photos, and documentation of events in which you both participated in, such as trips and outings. c. Have you visited each other during your relationship? (i.e., when and where) d. How do you communicate when not together? (e.g., phone, email, online chats) e. Please provide dates of cohabitation, if applicable. 2. Was your relationship known to your close friends and family members? Yes/No If in common-law relationship skip to question #8 3. Was your marriage arranged? Please provide details on who arranged the marriage and when it was arranged. 4. Was there a formal ceremony to recognize/celebrate the engagement? Please provide details such as when, where, and who attended. 5. Was there a formal ceremony to recognize/celebrate the marriage? Please provide details such as when, where, who attended, and the religion in which the marriage was performed, if applicable. 6. Provide information regarding your religious beliefs. 7. Was there a reception? If so please provide details such as when, where, and who attended. 8. Did you have a honeymoon (a holiday or trip taken by you and your spouse after the marriage)? Provide details such as when and where. 9. If in a common-law relationship, was there a commitment ceremony? Please provide details such as when, where, and who attended. Applicant Signature: ___________________________________ Date: __________________________
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2024.05.22 04:11 LetterLeast1003 Change in Marital Status...IRCC requesting docs.

I had updated my marital status and IRCC has requested some docs. My spouse is already PR( e-COPR inside Canada, awaiting PR card). I am pretty sure that I don't need to send docs or not apart from Marriage certificate, birth certificate and PR card
First Para of letter says, you only need to submit PR card, marriage certificate and Birth Cert if spouse is P Citizen
"Thank you for informing us of your change in marital status. If your spouse or common-law partner (CLP) is a Canadian citizen or if they have obtained permanent residence status in Canada, he or she does not need to be added to your application for Permanent Residence. However, you must provide our office with a proof of his/her status such as a copy of birth certificate, proof of citizenship or permanent residence card. If your spouse or common-law partner (CLP) is NOT a Canadian citizen or has NOT obtained Permanent Residence status in Canada, you will need to complete each of the following steps in order to have them added to your existing application and examined for compliance with admissibility requirements (medical, criminality and security). Unless otherwise stated, the following is mandatory, whether or not your spouse or CLP decides to accompany you to Canada. The following information/documents must be received within 30 days from the date of this correspondence. If this deadline is not met, your application will be assessed based on the information available and could be refused."
Also there is list of docs with a questionnaire. I am confused whether that questionnaire is required or not.
INCLUSION OF A SPOUSE/COMMON-LAW PARTNER ON AN ECONOMIC CLASS APPLICATION
QUESTIONS FOR THE PRINCIPAL APPLICANT << Provide a complete and precise response to each question in your own words. Failure to provide the information requested below will delay processing and could result in a refusal of your application. Make sure you have indicated your name, application number, the questionnaire title and the number or letter of the question you are answering. Please answer the following questions on a separate page and include the question number with your answer. DEVELOPMENT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP 1. Describe the development of your relationship, including the following details: a. First contact with your spouse/common-law partner (i.e., when and where) b. Provide timeline of dates, photos, and documentation of events in which you both participated in, such as trips and outings. c. Have you visited each other during your relationship? (i.e., when and where) d. How do you communicate when not together? (e.g., phone, email, online chats) e. Please provide dates of cohabitation, if applicable. 2. Was your relationship known to your close friends and family members? Yes/No If in common-law relationship skip to question #8 3. Was your marriage arranged? Please provide details on who arranged the marriage and when it was arranged. 4. Was there a formal ceremony to recognize/celebrate the engagement? Please provide details such as when, where, and who attended. 5. Was there a formal ceremony to recognize/celebrate the marriage? Please provide details such as when, where, who attended, and the religion in which the marriage was performed, if applicable. 6. Provide information regarding your religious beliefs. 7. Was there a reception? If so please provide details such as when, where, and who attended. 8. Did you have a honeymoon (a holiday or trip taken by you and your spouse after the marriage)? Provide details such as when and where. 9. If in a common-law relationship, was there a commitment ceremony? Please provide details such as when, where, and who attended. Applicant Signature: ___________________________________ Date: __________________________
INCLUSION OF A SPOUSE/COMMON-LAW PARTNER ON AN ECONOMIC CLASS APPLICATION
QUESTIONS FOR THE PRINCIPAL APPLICANT << Provide a complete and precise response to each question in your own words. Failure to provide the information requested below will delay processing and could result in a refusal of your application. Make sure you have indicated your name, application number, the questionnaire title and the number or letter of the question you are answering. Please answer the following questions on a separate page and include the question number with your answer. DEVELOPMENT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP 1. Describe the development of your relationship, including the following details: a. First contact with your spouse/common-law partner (i.e., when and where) b. Provide timeline of dates, photos, and documentation of events in which you both participated in, such as trips and outings. c. Have you visited each other during your relationship? (i.e., when and where) d. How do you communicate when not together? (e.g., phone, email, online chats) e. Please provide dates of cohabitation, if applicable. 2. Was your relationship known to your close friends and family members? Yes/No If in common-law relationship skip to question #8 3. Was your marriage arranged? Please provide details on who arranged the marriage and when it was arranged. 4. Was there a formal ceremony to recognize/celebrate the engagement? Please provide details such as when, where, and who attended. 5. Was there a formal ceremony to recognize/celebrate the marriage? Please provide details such as when, where, who attended, and the religion in which the marriage was performed, if applicable. 6. Provide information regarding your religious beliefs. 7. Was there a reception? If so please provide details such as when, where, and who attended. 8. Did you have a honeymoon (a holiday or trip taken by you and your spouse after the marriage)? Provide details such as when and where. 9. If in a common-law relationship, was there a commitment ceremony? Please provide details such as when, where, and who attended. Applicant Signature: ___________________________________ Date: __________________________
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2024.05.22 04:11 jimmymcgillapologist Single save with 2 consoles?

I’m thinking about getting a second Switch so my wife and I can play different games at the same time when it comes up. We would both still primarily use the current Switch 80% of the time.
That means I would want to be able to go back and forth between the two consoles easily. I have Nintendo Switch Online and both consoles would have constant access to wifi.
How do MK8D saves deal with multiple consoles? Would my trophies, time trials, and VR all keep up to date automatically across systems? Is it a local or cloud save?
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2024.05.22 04:05 Normal_Midnight_7203 I just need someone, anyone, to read this and understand.

Hi! This is my first time making a reddit account/post, please pardon any errors!
I’ve known I was ace since I was in middle school, when I was experiencing full on anxiety induced panic attacks and plugging my ears whenever my parents tried to give me the dreaded “talk”. I told people close to me about my aversion to sex and my overall feadisgust to it when I was in high school, and they simply called it a phase that I’d grow out of, or that I was just a late bloomer. Surprisingly, as a high schooler I didn’t feel that odd about my lack of sexuality or disinterest in dating.
However, now that I’m in college, just got out of my first relationship, and am realizing that “kids” my age are no longer kids, but fully functioning adults getting married, having children, and overall having lives seemingly revolving around sex, I feel so utterly alone. I bit the bullet and tried to “fix” myself by jumping into a relationship spontaneously and pursuing my first boyfriend myself a few months ago (as I felt more comfortable that way) and all it has done is affirmed my fears that sex is all people care about because for most people, sex = love, and there’s no point to life if you can’t experience it or don’t like it.
Realizing just how animalistic everyone truly is has thrown me into a depression I didn’t imagine I would ever experience. Everyday I’m more and more aware and bombarded by sexual content and innuendos online and in person, even in content made for younger people!
I’ve always known our world to be this way, I even make occasional dirty jokes here and there and would say otherwise do a great job “blending in” with allos, but deep down I find myself feeling more and more alone. I’ve never felt THIS alien.
The worst part is I’m hopelessly romantic, and the thought of finding someone like me out there to spend my life with is honestly one of the only things keeping me going. But I feel like that will never happen to me because of my discomfort with sex, my own family members have told me that sex is the closest deepest connection you can have with a person.
I know this rant is long and sad haha, but I straight up feel like maybe I’m just not built for this life in general with how sexually charged LITERALLY EVERYTHING is. I’m just hoping that getting these feelings out by posting this and knowing I’m reaching a like-minded community can provide some solace.
Thank you for reading, it means a lot.
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2024.05.22 04:03 figgnewt Second date 22f and 23m

hi everyone, so I’m going on a second date with a guy in a few days. First date, he took me out to eat and he paid (we hung out for a few hours after that). FYI, I’ve only ever been on one other date before this and I paid (I offered bc I was told that it’s good to do, but I had no problem paying:)
So for this date we both agreed to go to the movies bc I was telling him how excited I was to see a certain movie. My plan was to just buy the tickets online and just be like “hey, i got tickets for us” on the day of.
I just wanted to know if that’s weird? I don’t think it is but I like to make sure 😭 pls let me know, thanksss<3
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2024.05.22 04:02 Iashwb Online Pre-Calc Class?

Im a current high school senior, and have been admitted to a college under the condition that i complete a pre-calculus class over the summer and have the platform send my final score before a certain date. Would anyone be able to recommend some trustworthy online courses preferably free?
Also I know I should’ve taken pre-calc if anyone feels like reminding me, it just didn’t fit in my schedule 💔
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2024.05.22 04:01 ineffable_sherlock best way to use the hsk1 textbook/workbook

Hi everyone, I'm currently learning Mandarin at university and so since the semester is nearing its end I decided to go online and purchase the HSK1 textbook and workbook so that I could keep up to date with it during the 2 months before next semester. I know HSK is quite specific about vocab and what it teaches and shouldn't be used alone so I'm wondering if you guys have recommendations about other things that complement it well. I am only in my first year but I enjoy it and work on it every day, although sometimes that is just Duolingo that I like to do on the side.
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2024.05.22 03:59 HESHOD Ex contacted me in two days after the breakup after the no contact

My ex (22M) and I (20M) met 1year and about 3 months ago, we lived together(we rented a room outside the university) soon after even he said the had dated a lot of people whereas I had never dated a guy. At first I thought that doesn't matter as long as he would stop dating with other guys during our relationship and the thing was like this, he didn't date others we lived we laughed we had sex ,the days couldn't be better.
The turning point happened when I was diagnosed with HPV. At first I was panicked and asked various doctors for help online. Finally I bought some ointment and my condition gradually improved. We rarely had sex after that.
Then we had more arguments, but got on with it.
Soon after we moved into another rental, he became more inclined to hurt me physically and mentally, when we were flirting,he would gently touch my thighs at first and suddenly pinched, which made me very uncomfortable but he always did. Over time, we hardly had sex. On the one hand,because of his behavior, on the other hand,HPV. But he always asked to have sex, I comprised. I washed it in the bathroom for a long time, but when he inserted it, it was very sudden and hard, which made me particularly painful.I was so angry and yelled at him.
Since then we have not had sex and I told him that if he was looking for booty call, go, as long as he didn't take him to the house. (Think about it I feel I am so stupid)He did, he dated a lot of people which made me sad but I didn't say anything.
In the days that followed, he did nothing at home, except for his addiction to TikTok and stay up all night, I advised him not to do this several times, he just told me to leave him alone, which broke my heart. We we gone out together, he either yelled at me or ignored me, which made me always want to run away and I did this. We argued because of this. At the same time ,he had been developing new romance at school. After I found out at first, I begged him not to contact his male lover, let's live a good life. At first he agreed and said goodbye to that male lover. But in less than a week they reconnected. Then the relationship between them counties to heat up.(I didn't know this at the time )
We've been quarreling over trivial matters later ly and finally he admitted his secret relationship and asked to break up . I tried hard and begged him many times not to break up with me,but failed ,he insisted on starting a new relationship with his secret lover.
I moved back to the school dormitory three days ago and no contact with him. Even though I've blacklisted him,I still received a text message from him yesterday afternoon. He asked me if life in the dormitory was ok. At first I didn't know if I should reply because I still want him back. After thinking twice, I replied "Fine and U? "He replied that his sunglasses in our electric bike was stolen. I thought that was a joke his lover played on him, so I replied "Will come back".
That all our story, thanks for reading this monotony article written by a heart broken bird. I wanna know if I should reply him yesterday if I want him back. And I hope all lovers in the world will together forever. Thank again for reading this.
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2024.05.22 03:40 InitialBag9170 how do I work through the betrayal

This is my first reddit post, so it’ll probably be all over the place but basically my bf (20m) and I (20f) have been dating for three years now, and we are each others first love. Everything was honestly really perfect. We never really had an extreme honeymoon phase, it’s just been so smooth and loving and warm from the beginning. I found out around 2 months ago he was watching porn/saving videos of other women on tiktok/instagram/searching up other women online to jack off to. He even did it to 2 girls he knows in real life (only once when he was drunk but I mean still..). I feel so hurt and betrayed. I know he loves me but I don’t know how to continue in this relationship knowing he did what he did. Lusting over other men has never been a problem for me. Of course I can recognize if another man is attractive or unattractive but that’s where it stops. It never crosses sexualization and the feeling of lust just isn’t there. Everything just feels so unfair. 😕 I feel like my perception of love and men is just crashing all around me. I feel like I don’t even know the man I’m dating anymore. I’ve known him since middle school and honestly despite the apparent porn addiction, it really was out of character for him as a person. He’s never been the type to ogle at other girls, nor does he have the typical player personality. I’ve never questioned his love for me before because he’s always only been focused on me. The whole relationship just feels like a lie.
I told him if he relapses or does anything like that again, it’s an automatic break up because he knows how I feel about it. But basically my question is how do you get over the pain? I feel like my confidence is destroyed. I’ve always thought I was a slightly attractive person but now everything is shattered. I’m not exactly super flat in those areas, but I don’t have the over-exaggerated features he was lusting over online. I just feel so heartbroken. I don’t understand how he was ever satisfied with me if he was always looking at bigger online. I can’t imagine thinking of another man sexually like that because my bf is the one I love and no other man could compare in my eyes. How do you get through the pain and betrayal and learn to be on the track of forgiveness towards your partner? (Assuming they learn to become a better man and stop permanently)
Also- he is going through a lot of pain right now too and I think he is developing depression. This is unrelated to the d-day stuff because he lost a very close family member, but I just don’t know how to navigate any of this. I want him to be happy but I don’t want to sacrifice my own feelings and push all of them aside surrounding this topic.
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2024.05.22 03:38 ford40fordie 40th anniversary trading card release date?

Does anyone know a release date for the 40th anniversary trading cards from Dynamite? I can’t seem to find any details on when or even where I could buy a box online. Any tips?
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2024.05.22 03:29 Desperate-Age-8294 How normal is sexting and sending pics of you haven’t been on a first date?

So matched with a man on an app. Seemed like we both wanted the same thing. I asked him directly and we aligned.
We texted back and forth for a couple days and he immediately wanted a FaceTime call which is fair and so I did it. Initially the texts back and forth were about intentions and he said maybe once or twice that his love language is physical touch and that sex is important to him- all well and good, my love language is also physical touch and I prioritize sex too- after all it’s what sets apart a friendship from a romantic partnership.
We did a a FT call, and honestly I was just so exhausted from work and having my sister over (she’s going through a lot, and she’s younger than me and frankly I’ve had to mommy her because she was pretty unhinged) on top of that I had several work obligations and overall a lot on my plate.
Still, did the call. Mind you I prefer in person meetups but we live in opposite coasts. Also, this was my first FT ever in the online dating world and it has been sometime since I put myself out there. My ex of several years had passed and I only had another 6 month relationship after and a couple coffee dates but I’m not very experienced. There were also some technology glitches lol. I couldn’t hear him so well, his voice was pretty delayed and I was on my IPad and I definitely didn’t feel confident
Long story short- call went awful. He ended it and then unmatched me and disappeared.
I reached out after mostly because I was hoping to share that I just wanted to get to know him better mostly because I felt aligned with his values, beliefs and what he’s looking for.
We spoke a bit after but this time he fill in began sexting and saying I owed him photos. The ft we did he could probably only see my head lol. He wanted sexy photos too
I just didn’t feel Comfortable for several reasons- we’ve never met in person, he already unmatched me and now it just felt like I was in the sext category where it would quickly escalate to “send me nudes” and it all just felt depressing.
Question is - is this normal lol? Like is this dating now? Could I have done better or communicated better?
Do y’all have saving tips for me in general? I really hope to find my person and soulmate but it’s pretty rough out there it seems
I’m 30s he was much older btw . Thanks!
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2024.05.22 03:21 4yourpl3asur3 How do I stop hating everything?

I have so much hate that I don’t understand.
The last 2 years of my (m 22) life have changed me a lot. I went through a break up that ended in an abortion, I went back to an ex who ultimately broke my heart a second time, I lost a great job due to budget cuts and it took 5 months to find a new one that suited me (love my current job), my grandfather died, I moved into my own place, I began taking online classes, lost a lot of weight after being obese, became an alcoholic then quit drinking (2 months sober rn), quit smoking, and I recognize how much progress I’ve made and all the good things in my life, but lately, I just feel angry all the time.
I grew up poor and overweight, got bullied a lot as a kid, had to learn to take care of myself pretty young, a lot of emotional abuse growing up, and I had this constant feeling of not being enough. This resulted in a lot of insecurity as I grew into my teen years and now as an adult. But I did decide to make changes for the better because I didn’t want to be that person anymore. Losing weight, taking classes, finding a good job, researching politics to be up to date on the current state of things, etc; all things I decided I had to do in order to separate myself from the me that I was, and to be better. But I didn’t realize that it wasn’t just about being a better me, but rather wanting to be better than everyone else.
I don’t live in a wealthy area at all. My place is definitely on the nicer side but it’s mostly section 8 and a lot of homelessness. When I go to the store, I look around and I’m disgusted. I look at the overweight individuals and think “dear god, go to the gym”, I see the homeless and think “get a job, you stupid bum.” Or I see the junkies and think “why do this to yourself? Just stop this nonsense.”. I think this way and then have to ultimately remind myself that it’s not a choice for most of them, and that not everybody can simply change their habits and lifestyle on a whim. But even when I remind myself that life can be cruel and many of these people simply don’t have the resources or knowledge to fix their problems, I still feel so disgusted by them. I feel so disgusted by the idea that I was only a few years away from being one of them. Seeing those people, those strangers who are so similar to family members of my own; it drives me crazy.
I create conflict for the sake of being correct, and I can never seem to admit when I’m wrong until it’s too late. I hate letting emotions overcome my logic (I have autism) and will blatantly ignore someone’s feelings in order to be correct. “The facts don’t care about your feelings” is a phrase that pretty accurately describes my way of discussing important issues. Recently even possibly permanently damaging a friendship because I just had to be right about the Israel and Palestine situation, instead of acknowledging that her perspective was simply her own, and I haven’t even apologized yet because I feel like apologizing means admitting to being wrong (see what I’m saying?!).
I’m so determined to be better than everyone that I become the kind of person that nobody wants around. I can’t just let people be and move along. I have to have an opinion, and I have to be smarter, in better shape, better dressed, etc. I’ve become this pretentious person who looks down on everyone when I’m nothing special myself. I feel like I’m shooting myself in the foot by trying to be more than what I’ve always been surrounded by.
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2024.05.22 03:13 Specialist-Dig922 Hey im in a LDR and its freaking hard.

So first of all i never posted in reddit so idk what it will look like but yeah sorry.
I got with my girlfriend 1,5 year ago online, we talk everytime we can and we spend times together, we make food we watch movie...
and one day (7 month in the relationship) i got to see her on surprise cus she live in a different country and we both minors, she got muslim and strict parent so we see each other on secret, i already tried talking to her parent but im not muslim and her dad is really not someone normal.
the day i saw her i finally saw the life different, everything was colorful and pretty around me, i felt like i never saw the life like this she made every single moment happy and fun, i never felt that before im never showing any emotion unless im with her, i was so happy i was finally myself and she liked it, i offered her a ring and everything, it was perfect.
Until i had to go, i couldn't say goodbye to her due to her parent, i had to take the plane whitout a last goodbye in real life, this was so painfull and i started to see the world grey again, everything was borring and sad i dont feel right and i dont know why, i was thinking i will get used to it again but no, im in my room 24/7 alone waiting for a chance to see her... but guess what my parent tell me to wait my birthday and she is in vacation thoses dates so i need to wait 1 more year starting for now, when we will see each other 2 year would have passed.
i dont know how to not feel sad anymore.
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2024.05.22 03:10 runawaytilly Help! I need advice

Dealing with a breakup currently. My ex is now in Europe with his female "best friend", I think they are casually dating. He never posted anything about me in the 3 years we were together. While he's only been with her for 3 days she and him have posted countless photos together, ones where he is holding her and really couple-y. Beyond just blocking them and not looking at these photos what can I do to move on. I'm struggling as I really did love this person and find it heartbreaking that he basically acted like we weren't in a relationship online for 3 years and is being very lovey-dovey with her so publicly. (One of the reasons that lead to our breakup was me feeling like he always hid he was in a relationship with me. For 2 years he was "Single" on facebook and said he would never post about a girlfriend after his last breakup.)
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2024.05.22 03:09 Extreme-Bear-2166 He gave me something I was owed (ft deathly ever after by ethan bortnick)

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I am in the talking stage with this guy. We talk everyday but we are both busy with different schedules so we are never online at the same time. Some context:
During lockdown, I was in very deep depression. I was extremely lonely, I am an only child and I felt like everybody in my home had a ''person''.
My dad was working long hours and he would get annoyed if I asked him to sit to have lunch with me because I did not want to eat alone.
But if my aunt(joint family) would ask him to sit with her, he would gladly postpone his work and go.
My mom was (still is) cheating on my dad and she used to lock herself in her room to ''sleep'' immediately after coming home from work to talk to her bf
I felt like I was not a priority for anyone.
Now, present time. I was at a library and he was studying there too but we were sitting pretty far away. During lunch time I changed my place and shifted a little closer to where he was sitting and started eating. He got up and said he was going to buy juice, and if i want anything. I said no and started eating. He came back, picked up his lunch and juice, sat on the bench in front of me and turned around. That was the first time we ate lunch together and we talked the whole time. It healed a part of me. I felt like a priority for someone for once.
I know lunch sounds so small, but, it meant a lot to me. We are going to college and we are only going to date if we go to the same college but even if I dont end up dating him, Ill always remember this.
Incident 2 was yesterday:
His mother tongue is B and mine is A. We generally talk in B because I am fluent in it. He had previously told me he didnt want to learn A because it was too time taking. I did not mind because its not like were getting married. But yesterday he tried to speak to me in broken A language. He only got one word right in the entire sentence but, he tried. And for whatever period of time he came in my life,I am glad he did.
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2024.05.22 03:08 Busy-Afternoon-7163 Social Media and Media Screenings

Post to Media Research/Study Website
URL: https://www.businessnewsdaily.com/2377-social-media-hiring.html
Title: Keep It Clean: Social Media Screenings Gain in Popularity
Author: David Cotriss
Date: November 20, 2023
Personal profile or professional profile? Social media is a fun way to express yourself and interact with family, friends, and new faces all over the world. It can be used as a way to keep people you can not see as often updated on your life, as well as give you a chance to step into the personal moments of your friends lives. However, while social media may seem like a very personal media that you are only sharing with specific people, it can still serve as a public link to your entire social media history of posts, likes and comments for the entire world to see. As it turns out many companies in the modern day hiring process go through what is known as a media screening for both their new and existing employees. This calls for people to start keeping their social media profiles more professional rather than personal. These screenings can range across all social media sites along with any online presences across the internet.
First Media Key: Balance
The first media key is Balance which is known as the foundation for all of the other media keys and is vital to understanding how to use the remaining six of the media keys correctly. When job recruiters or interviewers look at social media platforms there is a chance they can be looking to see if the profile has good balance. This means they will be looking at the media provided on the profile from all angles to try and see who the user truly is as a person and what their personality and work ethic could be like. This means that when posting, you too need to understand your use of social media and how what you are doing may look from an outside perspective. The level of understanding you have on your personal profile’s outside image will be determined by your combined understanding of all seven of the media keys.
Second Media Key: Attitude Awareness
Every media creator has an attitude and it is up to the creature to project the attitude they want to portray. This continues to apply to social media profiles so people should be aware of the attitude they portray on social media and if it is a professional one or one that could possibly hurt their experience as an employee. Employers when looking at a candidate's social media page will be keeping a close eye out for if they express any values or project any messages. Values can be seen in both a positive and negative light in the hiring process depending on what the value is and the situation it is brought up in. Whether it is blown up and in your face or more subtle, every media maker also has an agenda. Job recruiters will of course be looking to see if the candidate’s agenda and values align or contradict with the agendas and values of the company.
Third Media Key: The Dignity of the Human Person
Another quality job recruiters may be looking out for is how you show dignity to the human person. They will often be looking to see if the candidate exemplifies dignity through how they interact with people online and how they talk about other human beings through both posts and comment sections. All media put onto a social media profile should always reflect, uphold and enhance human dignity. The profile should also promote that you both understand and are trying to help other people understand communities and the human person. Recruiters will be looking to see how you positively shed light on what makes humans unique and interesting all in their own special, God given ways. The main way to show understanding of human dignity is to treat people as humans and not as objects. A good way to show this is by portraying anti-suicide and anti-abortion values because it will show a true understanding of the value of human life and why it is so precious and needs to be protected.
Fourth Media Key: Truth-Filled
Something that job recruiters will always be looking to see is if your social media presence is truth filled or if you are spreading false truths and misinformation. Media can be a great outlet in helping to spread truths from humanity to God and everything in between. However, the media being an open outlet for free speech also leads to a plethora of misinformation, rumors, and lies that get spread across the internet. Job interviewers in this case will be heavily checking profiles for if the user can be seen spreading false information and trying to mislead or confuse others. It is also important to note that users should not tell lies about the human condition through their media and that it is possible for their media to be truthful without being one hundred percent accurate.
Fifth Media Key: Inspiring
Another way to look at a social media profile is to see if it inspires others positively or negatively. If a profile only talks about or shows what’s wrong with the world with a negative outlook on mankind, then there is a good chance that what you are putting out on social media is inspiring people negatively and causing them to see the world in a more negative and down sided way. A better way to direct your profile is by showing more of the positive outlooks on life with more happy tones that will inspire people in a positive way. Good goals to have when creating a positively inspiring profile is asking can this be used to help point the way toward Heaven and can this be used to help someone pursue virtue in a relationship with God. Media at its worst will point people in the wrong direction and towards a bad life, but media at its best can enlighten people, raise questions, help people grow in virtue, and inspire them to live better, more holy lifestyles.
Sixth Media Key: Skillfully Developed
One key that can really help set a profile apart from the crowd is if it is skillfully developed. Social media profiles are something people do for fun so the aesthetic, level of detail, and depth of the profile is not a requirement and completely up to the user. With that being said, making your profile professional and quality is a great way of showing companies that you are a person who applies effort and achieves quality in everything that you do. Media should always be produced well so our personal profiles are no different. Producing quality is essential if you want job recruiters to see your profile positively and especially if you want them to pay attention to what you post and create.
Seventh Media Key: Motivated by and Relevant to Experience
When trying to keep a profile professional it can be important to keep in mind what is relevant to the human experience. What you post on social media should be rooted in the realities of the world and through our own human experiences. Ways to keep your profile likable while still keeping it professional is by presenting messages which are relevant to your audience or following. If viewers are able to relate positively to what you post then they are more likely to have a positive perspective of you which gives you a better chance of being hired. However, it is important to remember to appeal to positive senses and emotions rather than one’s that can be seen more negatively. With all of this in mind, however, it is still important to express yourself and who you are, but also very important to make sure that who you are showing yourself as is a good, motivated person.
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2024.05.22 03:08 Methanoid Steamdeck - Simple Script for That's Not My Neighbor Game

So, i noticed a lot of people playing this "That's Not My Neighbor" game from itch io, there is however the option to play an online version which is always the most up to date version, the standalone version you download requires re-downloading when you notice a new version, I am lazy and dont wanna keep checking so i just rattled up a simple 1 line script that runs the online version through the default steam browser.
just go to desktop mode and create a new script called notmyneighbor.sh somewhere safe and copy/paste the following.
#!/bin/bash steam steam://openurl/https://thatsnotmyneighbor.online
thats it, save it, rightmouse it, check in properties the file is executable then rightmouse and add to steam, jump back to game mode and go to game properties, it will be named the name of the script so change that to "That's Not My Neighbor", when you do this and you happen to have the Decky SteamGridDB plugin then some legends have already made artwork for the game so just add it all and your ready to go.
All thats needed is to make a controller profile to your preference to control the mouse and your set (actually as it uses the default steam browser it should default to default deck controls, right stick and 1 of the right triggers for leftmouse), start the game, wait for it to do its online load, the text window on the right sticks around but vanishes when you either pick the language or start a game, go to the games options/accessibility and enable "Fixed Camera" to make everything fit to the screen otherwise it does some weird horizontal screen scroll thing.
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2024.05.22 03:08 pebbleguy1800 [WTS] Spyderco Spydiechef FLASHLIGHTS KNIVES Leatherman Emisar & Sofrin Victorinox ALOX Kershaw Launch 4 Bundle

Hello EDC People,
I have got some points for sale today. Shipping: Will be shipped with a USPS Priority box 1-3 days ETA. I will ship out from SoCal within a couple business days. Shipping is $11.
Shipping CONUS. CONUS = $11 Canada shipping = $62USD Other countries = $92
Payment: Payment: Paypal FF/GS. Zelle, other stuff too. I am more than happy to video chat, and send more pictures of specific angles. I have multiple transactions on watchexchange, knife_swap, and EDCexchange.
Buy multiple stuff and save on shipping! HMU for bundles
TAKE IT ALL FOR 600... SCRATCH THAT $599 shipped
OPEN TO BUNDLE OFFERS, priority is on bundles, thanks for understanding.
Timestamp: https://imgur.com/a/edc-5-21-24-dGR4MNt
The goods:
Leatherman Kick Black Oxide with Black Oxide Clip $65 reduced to $35
https://imgur.com/a/leatherman-kick-eTIhUbM
Never see these online in black, and with a matching clin. Date code is from 2010 believe. Fairly good condition considering the age. If anything breaks, warranty that a nice upgraded tool. I'd rate it a B.
Kershaw Launch 4 Blue Real & Black Fake $84 reduced to $74 $55
https://imgur.com/a/kershaw-launch-4-blue-is-gen-vteJyRc
Blue is a real Kershaw launch 4. Used condition, blade has not been sharpened. B condition is pretty fair. Some knicks in the aluminum body. Black is a fake I got to compare the two. The quality different is quite apparent. Black is best up more, I would say B- condition. They come as a bundle.
Spyderco Spydiechef $260 reduced to $249
https://imgur.com/a/spydiechef-78OhUUW
Has been pocketed for about a month. Never used to cut anything other than shave test. I was too scared. It has factory edge. Sharp enough to shave hairs off your arm. Super good condition A rating.
Emisar d18 - $95 w/batteries
Lightly used. Looks new. Comes with three nice 18650 high drain cells.
Sofrin IF23 - $28
Brand new in packaging. Never used. Bought two with intention to gift one, did not work out.
Olight M1T Raider Plus - $35 Reduced 30
Used with signs of wear. Solid light. Cosmetically C condition. Will come with rechargeable lithium battery.
Victorinox ALOX Classics - $47
One in silver and one in Night dive selling as bundle. They are new condition.
Leatherman Charge Plus - Black Alu Scales - $129
This is brand new. Goes for $160 plus tax.
CRKT Biwa SMKW Exclusive - $20
Very good condition, brand new looking. I never really used it.
OPEN TO BUNDLE OFFERS, priority is on bundles, thanks for understanding.
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2024.05.22 03:07 Femboy_Yugioh 26[M4M]USA/Femboy nerd looking for someone to nerd out with/Voice chat and hopefully more

I have had good and bad experiences off this forum but I won’t give up! So here’s me : Hiya! I’m just ust A femboy looking for a serious ltr , so I’ll get to the point 🤗. I’m not here for the games , or ghosting . I’m here for something long term. Dating apps don’t work for me sadly.
Located: Texas.
Willing to move to another state or have my future partner live with me .
Appearance :
A thick black femboy who loves dressing up sometimes . Height : 5’3. I wear glasses to read manga . My style is mostly goth/casual clothes from mostly anime shirts and chokers.
💙My hobbies:
🩷What im looking for in a Relationship🩷
▶️MY TYPE:
TALL (taller than my own height) , very communicative, masculine(mostly beards and body hair) gamers/anime nerds. These are just preferences not a deal breaker .
✅Ps: for compatibility reasons I’m a 100% bottom.
IMPORTANT : If you made it this far, please message me an introduction about yourself. This is extremely important as it tells me alot about you. I won’t respond to a simple message. If you can’t make the effort , I won’t waste my time honestly .
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2024.05.22 03:06 astronaut52 If I don't act on a section 21, are there any restrictions on issuing more down the line?

Summary: Issued a section 21, tenant begged for more time, if I don't follow through with it and do give them more time can I issue another one in 6 months/a year?
Hi everyone! I'm 26, I bought a house when I was 20 from a large insurance payout I got when my dad died. I lived in it for a few years, then I moved away for university in 2019 and decided to rent it out while I was away. I knew nothing about being a landlord so I chose to have it be fully managed by an estate agent. I want to move back into the house myself at this point in my life. The estate agents were pretty helpful, they told me they could issue a section 21 notice and what that means.
I gave them the date of Aug 5th. The tenant emailed me and basically begged for more time, his emails seem very anxious and genuine. They've essentially said they want to comply but they can't find any suitable places in the city as they get snapped up so quickly and asked for an extra year or even a few months.
My own tenancy ends in August, after which I have nothing lined up as I was planning on moving into my house. Thing is, I'm really torn up over this as I really don't want or intend to kick this man and his young son onto the street. If they genuinely don't have another place lined up, I don't think I'm okay with going through the courts and making them homeless.
Actual question: Me and my partner have been throwing around ideas of things we can do for 6 months/a year, but we do still want to come back and live in my house after. I also still want to issue the current section 21 (if they haven't issued it already) in case they do manage to leave on time and we can still move in when we planned.
Are there any restrictions on issuing another section 21 if I don't follow through with the first one? Do I have to wait a certain amount of time? Will it reflect badly on me at all if I have to go to court next time? I see a lot of info online about reissuing incorrect section 21's, but nothing much about reissuing valid ones if you choose to give them more time.
Any advice on any part of this is appreciated!
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2024.05.22 03:04 AscendedHobo Idk what's with me, I hate pretending to be super low maintenance

( M19-Peak Maturity lol) ~Rambling ensues~ I've been pretty introverted and alone (except for family) for most of my highschool experience ever since we moved and stuff. Im taking online college and I've started using dating apps (unholy combo) because I've been trying to get some non platonic intimacy lol.
Its like, when I meet a new girl or dude, Im always expecting some form of interaction pretty regularly and since i don't wanna seem like a needy person I just try and keep myself distracted but I always end up glancing at my phone waiting for a text back and what not.
Recently met this dude and we vibed together in real life in my car and talking with them has been a MASSIVE boost to my self esteem, to the point where he was shocked i never sent him any of my other selfies (I think i look corny and ugly in most of them).
Im the kind of person who texts back instantly when I can but also depsises double ot triple texting. This is the kinda person who doesn't text back for 2 hours or more every text and its fucking with me heavy. It also didn't help that I sat in a xbox party with his friends while they played games i didn't have.
Even right now they're playing game and Im still sitting here left on read and I don't want to join the party and go through what I went through yesterday. I don't wanna be that guy that gets inbetween a persons already established friends.
I know this is super pathetic haha, but my only solace is that atleast to them i seem like a super low energy person
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