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Eagle Scouts: present and future

2011.01.16 18:40 NZAllBlacks Eagle Scouts: present and future

*Once an Eagle, always an Eagle.* A place to connect with Eagle Scouts -- ask questions, post about your projects, meet each other, request advice, etc.
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2015.03.30 22:33 TerkRockerfeller Apk, and ye shall recieve

A community for Android enthusiasts and developers alike to request or build custom apps!
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2017.11.20 19:36 vitor_as Wiedźmin: Deep discussion about The Witcher

In-depth talk about The Witcher universe in general, either regarding Andrzej Sapkowski's works, CD Projekt Red's games, the Netflix show, the comics etc. (yes, even the old Polish show is welcome here), but preferably giving emphasis on the source material. This subreddit is also meant to be a bilingual place for English and Polish speaking audiences. Meaning that we encourage content in both idioms.
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2024.05.22 02:21 FlaxbopFleetfoot 29 [M4F] NC/USA - Seeking Fellow Adventurer for a Journey Through D&D Realms, Animal Shelters, and Hockey Stadiums!

Hello there! Welcome to what is likely going to be a long, rambly post. I'm going to structure this as though I were answering job interview questions, because let's face it, dating is a glorified job interview for a relationship/getting laid.
Oh, and to save some of you the time reading this (though I did spend a while writing it mind you), I'm 5'5, and it's perfectly fine if that doesn't work for you. I have preferences too! Anyway...
Tell me About Yourself.
Ah, this one is a classic to start off with, glad you asked (or told me to elaborate? Same idea)!
First and foremost, I am a nerd. My favorite day of the week is Sunday, because that's when my D&D game happens (It's actually Pathfinder, but I say D&D because most people are not into the hobby), and this account is named after the character I play in that very game! Feel free to ask for more details at the risk of an overly excited explanation. I also play video games, usually single-player CRPGs, but lately I've been playing Hades and I like being on voice call when I do that.
Professionally I'm... still in school. Here's a lengthy, detailed discussion as to why that is: anxiety sucks. Phew, that was so lengthy, glad that's over! Anyway, I'm a nuclear engineering major and plan to graduate in 4 semesters. In all seriousness, I don't mind going over the full story once we're talking.
What are Some of Your Hobbies?
Lists are helpful for this one! So here we go:
What do You Want in a Potential Partner?
Someone who's not an asshole, shares some interests with me, willing to do some basic stuff (sharing a picture, voice calling, video calling eventually) and treats me with respect. Honestly, not a long list. Physically, I would prefer someone who's of a thinner-average body type as that is what I am. I've made exceptions to this before though, so if you feel that I'm irresistible and not entirely obnoxious, feel free to reach out.
What I want the most though? Just intimacy. I think that's what we all want at the end. That is why this post is marked as NSFW because I am definitely not opposed to it going that way, but I also go at the pace of my partner and respect their boundaries.
What do You Look Like?
I'm 5'5 as mentioned before, 125 lbs, white, brown hair, green eyes, and have glasses that might as well be made of aquarium glass. Hopefully that gives you a vivid enough picture for now, but an actual picture is worth 1000 words so once we've exchanged a few messages I can share that.
And that, dear reader, is the end of my hopefully well-formatted and not-at-all-obnoxious wall of text. Hope you enjoyed reading it, and I hope to hear from you! If I don't, have a great whatever time of day it happens to be in your timezone!
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2024.05.22 02:18 kai2hig I 20(M) am being kicked out my parents house & now I have to enlist in the Army.

Why are you enlisting in the army?
Because my parents (Mother, Gen X) are not allowing a "20 year old Male that has been out of high school for "2" years & That is only working a part time job at Publix and is or not in any type of full time job (which i was but decided to quit *A connection job my parents put me on to by a friend *The Boss* which i immediately & automatically got but i burned the bridge by NCNS and ruined a reptation.) or in college (went twice, commuted Aug 2022, Stayed on campus Aug 2023) to live in there household as in "Adult". "The only people that can live for free and worry free are children" "We have NO more "Children". I have 2 older brothers (Oldest in his 30"s Married, 2 Children) , Middle (Late 20's pushing 30) No Kids, Living life & then there's me the Youngest (20 Years old, No type of motivation or idea of what i want in life sincerely, Hate how this is "Life" & how you really gotta feen for yourself as a person. I don't talk to my brothers fr we all got our own lives going on to the point its hard to have a update & that's just how its always been. Growing up they weren't around & i was the youngest so it was just me, they were already passed this stage of life when i was just coming up in my middle school - high school era. Today my parents found out that i no longer worked for the job (Warehouse $19 hour pay Full time) that they put me on too & that was definitely the dealbreaker. I was told as im typing this sentence at 5:32 PM "Tomorrow morning (May 22,2024) "We are going to the military requiting place and signing you up and that's your only option" or you have to go.. I was basically told that I can longer stay at my Parents home anymore & that now I have to depend on myself.
Why did you quit the FT $19 a HOUR warehouse Job?
Off rip on Day 1 i hated it, I knew i wasn't gon last long. Common sense would think $19 hourly pay as in MONEY (GOOD PAY) would be motivation to keep the job or to just deal with it but for me it was more then just money. Thats why from my perspective its different cuz i didn't care about the pay, I worked my 2 weeks and quit before i even saw how my pay check looked. it was just the job i did not like or feel a good fit for me itself. At 20 years old i was the youngest person in there. Everyone else were in there Late 30s , 40s & even 60s stating they have been there 27 years and more. That also was motivation for me because i was looking at it as like "I'm just trying to make money & build myself up, pay my bills, get me a new car, stack bread etc" but for everybody else yall got to "Pay bills, take care of yall family's, take care of yall kids & all these extra necessity that i don't have", so im looking at differently.
But as days went on and time started to progress i slowly felt irk. I slowly hated this lifestyle. The having to get up in morning at 5:20am Mon-Fri, Being in a loud hot ass warehouse all day, barley having breaks & just the environment in general. i just couldn't see myself doing that particular warehouse job for the rest of my life. (my first warehouse job).
During my 2nd week (last) Prolly Monday 5/13/24 The Connection "Friend" which was my boss that my parents put me on to said that one of the workers who was training me said i wasn't getting the job down pack correctly & my boss proceeded to tell me i have until Friday to get it down or they will have to let me go. i felt sum type of way cause i was seriously doing the job to the best of my capability and in the process i was still fairly new & learning. He also proceed behind closed doors to call my mother after our conversation we had and told her what was said as well.. I Only knew this because right after maybe 8 minutes after are convo i decided to take my 10 minute break & i get a message from my mom asking "Hey how's work going?" then i call her and she tells me...That he called. So in my head im frustrated because what does my Work business have to do with Personal life/ My mother being involve?? & Im not in middle school or high school, so why are we calling parents? Like Am im not a Young "Adult" in the "Real World" workforce?? I felt like that was weird to me off rip specially when i was told that "Work business is Work business.
I felt very Unentitled. Every time i would get off work i wouldn't know what to do after which I also always felt drained and foggy like i didn't have a life outside of going to work. I hated the way i felt.
Those were brief reasons on why i Ultimately made the decision to call it quits but in reality my reasons dont really matter its just the fact that i quit the job.
But now im back to square one figuring out what my next step is.. My plan
Either the service or being kicked out the choice is mine. I never was interested in any type of military role, it was never something i saw nor wanted to do. Since i was told that would be were i could be headed i did decided to do sum research on the process of how enlisting works and etc.. I didn't plan on taking that route personally. I know atp in my life the decision is indeed mine and i have to do whats right for and i think the military route is also not a fit for me. So now i have my 2nd option, Leave home.. Leave living with my parents just like college. Not having to worry about anything but myself, Having the independence lifestyle. It all sounds good but i know thats a huge step into the "Adult' life and just my life in general.
Im a 20 year old male, with no car, a part time job at publix, just got kicked out my parents house, & need guidance on what should i do?
open to all feedback please
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2024.05.22 02:17 FrenchStephy Kamen Rider 555 20th: Paradise Regained interviews part 2: Shinichiro Shirakura (Producer) and Ryuuta Tasaki (Director)

Kamen Rider 555 20th: Paradise Regained interviews part 2: Shinichiro Shirakura (Producer) and Ryuuta Tasaki (Director)
Part 1: Kento Handa (Takumi Inui) and Yuria Haga (Mari Sonoda)
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First of all, could you tell us about the background behind the planning of Kamen Rider 555?
Shirakura: Until the previous work, Kamen Rider Ryuki, I didn't think that the Kamen Rider series would continue as it has now. Following Moero!! Robocon, we aired Kamen Rider Kuuga and Kamen Rider Agito, but that time slot was originally the broadcast time slot for Metal Heroes. So at the time, I was thinking "we'll continue Kamen Rider for at least one more series, and then go back to Metal Heroes or Kabutack-type series". However, Ryuki became a hit, and I thought "maybe we should continue the Kamen Rider series in the future", so we created 555. So, with a focus on going back to basics, we set up a modern enemy organization called Smart Brain to replace Shocker, and the Kamen Rider side also became centered around "a very strong single protagonist".
Tasaki: It's true that at the time, I had a feeling that "this series will probably continue", something I hadn't felt up until Ryuki.
I think 555 had many aspects that set the standard for subsequent works, such as the close-up action direction of the item's gimmick.
Tasaki: 555 feels like a further evolution of Ryuki's directing of (focusing the camera on) setting the card and unleashing the special move.
Shirakura: It feels good to see the process of replacing the Mission Memory every time. I think that's a clever piece of direction.
How did you come up with the idea of creating a drama that transcends the good and evil with the three Kamen Riders and the three Orphnochs?
Shirakura: During a discussion with (Toshiki) Inoue-dai-sensei about "returning to basics", he said it was common knowledge that "the original first Kamen Rider was originally one of the Shocker monsters, but that isn't really portrayed in the series". He felt that the relationship between the many Shocker monsters and Kamen Rider, who's a grasshopper man, should've been depicted more in the drama. However, when Dai-sensei said "I'm going to write three Orphnochs as the other main characters", I thought "Are you sure you can do that?" (laughs)
Tasaki: Agito and Ryuki didn't really depict the story of kaijin, they were simply treated as monsters. Therefore, 555, which depicts the story of the monster side, was breaking new ground, and I personally looked forward to each script written by Inoue-san.
In the second half of 555, it was revealed that Takumi Inui was also an Orphnoch.
Tasaki: The first time we revealed this was in Kamen Rider 555: Paradise Lost, but the scene where Takumi transforms into the Wolf Orphnoch elicited actual screams of surprise from the audience. Even though the first Kamen Rider was also a cyborg of Shocker. I felt that the basics of Kamen Rider were forgotten because of the illusion that "justice is right and evil is wrong".
Shirakura: It was decided from the beginning that Takumi would be an Orphnoch, and hints were shown many times in the series from around the time Keitarou appeared. We made basic settings such as "only Orphnochs can use the (Faiz) transformation belt", and from my point of view, I was thinking "is it okay to spoil things like this?". But the people watching at the time didn't seem to notice much. Even in an interview back then, when I said "it was decided from the start", people didn't believe me and were asking me "Are you sure?" (laughs)
Tasaki: We were actually surprised that people were so surprised (laughs).
A large number of fans also participated as extras in Paradise Lost.
Shirakura: We decided that with 10,000 people, we could fill Saitama Super Arena, so we recruited extras from the general public. Before 555, we had to send round-trip postcards to apply for extras, but if we had to collect such a large number of extras, it would have taken a huge amount of money to send back the replies. But around the time of 555, I realized that I could use the Internet for recruitment. However, at that time there were no cloud servers like there are today, so we built our own powerful server within Toei.
Tasaki: The server often went down every time the broadcast ended, so I thought it would be difficult if there were a flood of applications.
Shirakura: We received over 90,000 applications and 11,000 people participated, despite the harsh condition of "9-hour endurance filming". Since that many people would gather at Saitama Super Arena, we went around to the nearby shops and other places to say hello in advance. We even asked JR (Japan Railways Group) if they could increase the number of trains, but they turned down the extra service (laughs).
Wasn't it difficult to shoot with such a large number of people?
Shirakura: We shot scenes that required a large number of people in the morning, assuming that some people might not be able to endure the long filming or might get bored and leave halfway through the shoot. However, most of them stayed until the end.
Tasaki: I think the announcement that there would be a greeting from the cast at the end was also effective. During filming, we had two cameramen enter the audience seats and take documentary-style shots of the extras' expressions. The result was an uplifting video reminiscent of the documentary film Festival of Nations about the Berlin Olympics.
The final episode of the TV series ended with the King of Orphnoch not completely destroyed, and a development that hinted at Takumi's death. Was this flow decided from the beginning?
Shirakura: It was decided from the beginning that Takumi would be an Orphnoch, so I didn't think of an ending where he would "wipe out the Orphnochs and everyone is happy". I think that in Dai-sensei's mind, the moment the character Keitarou Kikuchi was born, he was determined to make him the goal (of the story). Keitarou is an ordinary person among the Kamen Rider heroes, the heroine Mari, and the three Orphnochs. Depicting the story of "the most ordinary person being the greatest" with such depth that it's like completely devoid of mediocrity is Dai-sensei's aesthetic, and what makes him amazing.
In this issue, we also spoke to Kento Handa and Yuria Haga. What were your impressions of them back then?
Shirakura: Handa-kun was only 18 years old at the time, but he already was very dignified. Before filming started, he was still living in Kobe, so he came to Shinjuku and we met. As we walked through the streets of Shinjuku, he explained to me "That's the ○○ Building, and that's the XX Building, and it has such a history". When I asked him "You know a lot, have you already been here many times?", he replied "this is my first time in Shinjuku", which surprised me (laughs). Even back then, I was a huge building fanatic.
Tasaki: Yuria-chan has a huge fear of heights, and she was also afraid of going up to places even a little high. I remember it very well because I have never seen anyone else so afraid of heights.
Both of them said "Back then, Director Tasaki didn't get mad at us".
Tasaki: I certainly don't remember being angry at them. But the reason they don't think they've been scolded is because that time Go Ayano (Aki Sawada/Spider Orphnoch) was scolded by director (Hidenori) Ishida has become so famous that they probably were simply thinking "we're not getting scolded that much" (laughs).
Shirakura: In order to train his actors, Ishida-san is acting like he is "flying into a rage" in a very easy-to-understand way. But Director Tasaki doesn't get angry easily, so maybe they just didn't notice (laughs). In fact, when Director Tasaki's language becomes more polite on set, it's proof that he's angry. Something like "the director is ending his sentences with -desu! He's infuriated!!!" (laughs).
Tasaki: They were still teenagers at the time, so there was no point in getting angry at them. But I often got angry at (Mitsuru) Karahashi (Naoya Kaido). He's the type of person who wants to be scolded (laughs).
Toshiki Inoue also appeared in the final episode as a construction site supervisor.
Tasaki: He had an aura that ordinary people don't have, and he was good at acting. But we've had to do several retakes. When he appeared on Avatarou Sentai Donbrothers, he talked about his memories of appearing on 555.
Shirakura: He said "It's tough being an actor because you have to wait a long time" (laughs). He also said "Directors are on set longer than that, so you'd get even more bored, right?", so if he hadn't had that experience on set back then, he might have said "I want to be a director, too!" one day (laughs).
Now, let me ask you about the new work Kamen Rider 555 20th: Paradise Regained. What was the background behind this project?
Shirakura: It all started when I heard that Handa-kun, Haga-san, and (Kouhei) Murakami-kun wanted to do it. If they wanted to do it, there was no doubt that they would appear. What's more, Director Tasaki and Dai-sensei were both working on Donbrothers, so I didn't have to gather all the staff (laughs). After Donbrothers ended, I directly said (to Dai Sensei) "Next is 555!" However, I was worried about what would happen if he still had a Donbrothers feel in him, and that Takumi Inui became like Tarou Momoi (laughs). However, he flipped the switch perfectly and wrote a story that was truly 555-like. In fact, I might have had more of Donbrothers left in me (laughs).
Tasaki: No, this work was made possible because Shirakura-san had 555 in him. Personally, I went into Paradise Regained following the flow from Donbrothers, and I was able to get into the process smoothly because I was able to speak frankly with Inoue-san.
What were you conscious of as it was a sequel to a TV series?
Shirakura: Our goal is to create a work that satisfies those who have been fans since the beginning, while also being worth watching for those who have only recently discovered 555. Handa-kun and other cast members, as well as the people who watched the show on TV at the time, have aged 20 years. I also wanted to give meaning to that time. As long as it's a filmed work, there's no point in simply having a reunion. "xx years anniversary" or "the cast wants to do it" might be triggers, but they alone are not reasons to move forward with a project. In this case, it also has a meaning as a one-off work called Paradise Regained.
Tasaki: I thought about whether to make it an "encore after the final chapter", or an "entrance to a new chapter" like Kamen Rider OOO 10th: Resurrection Core Medal. Having said that, it's also boring to make people who watch it get it too early. I tried to make sure that the story unfolded in a certain way so that by the time you watched it to the end, you would know in which category this story falls into.
Shirakura: 555 is originally a story about boys and girls whose future as humans was cut off and who become Orphnochs, and boys and girls who continue to live through life without becoming Orphnochs. But now, 20 years later, they are no longer boys and girls. That's why this sequel to 555 wasn't just a rehash, but became a story about adults.
Tasaki: The "story of boys and girls" depicted in 555 is played by Rena (Kuruma) and the other new characters. Though writing them in was also to declare that "Takumi and co. are no longer boys and girls", thanks to them, the 555 identity was maintained.
The Faiz Phone and Faiz Driver have also been updated to match the times.
Shirakura: I've been told by various people, including Bandai, that if I were to make 555 now, the transformation item would be a smartphone. In that case, I felt like I had do a new 555 work before a brand-new Kamen Rider who transforms with a smartphone came out on Sundays (laughs).
Did Shirakura-san give any specific orders?
Shirakura: I left the story to Dai-sensei, so my orders were for the structure of the story. How to depict the 20 years. And I don't mean how many years after the story is set, but how to incorporate the fact that the actors and audience are 20 years older compared to back then.
How do you feel about the cast compared to 20 years ago?
Tasaki: As expected, everyone has grown, and each character has matured inside them like wine. That Handa-kun and co. took the initiative and said they wanted to do it means that they must have allowed Takumi, Mari, and Masato to live with them for the past 20 years. So when it came to preparing their roles, we didn't have much to ask them, and they were able to play the aged Takumi, Mari, and Masato in their own unique way. Karahashi also did some strange things behind the scenes, like making the T-shirts and aprons for the costumes himself (laughs).
Were any of the young cast members who appeared in this work fans of 555 back then?
Shirakura: Rui Yanagawa, who plays Hisao, has been watching the show since he was a child. He said that Delta was his favorite Kamen Rider.
Tasaki: You have to really like 555 to be a Delta fan (laughs).
Shirakura: Also, he wasn't a cast member, but there happened to be another drama being filmed nearby at the time of filming, and the actor who played the lead role in that drama came to watch. When I asked him about it, he said he was a big fan of 555 and was thrilled to see the real Takumi and Mari (laughs).
Why do you think 555 continues to be so popular?
Tasaki: I don't know why, because each work is like my own child to me.
Shirakura: I think the character of Takumi Inui, played by Kento Handa, was very appealing. And every character in the show was acting weird, either intentionally or unconsciously. In the first place, it's weird to write 555 and read it as Faiz (laughs). Despite these strange aspects, Bandai created extremely stylish toy packaging, made a special light-emitting suit made for filming, and was extremely particular about the opening video. I don't think this work would have been made under normal circumstances (laughs). There was a moment when I suddenly calmed down and thought "is this really going to be okay?" But when I saw the scene in the opening where Takumi started walking away after getting his hair cut by Mari, I felt the extraordinary aura of the main character. That's when I became confident that "this is going to work!!!"
Lastly, please give a message to the fans who are waiting for the new movie.
Tasaki: In addition to the cast and staff from the TV series, Action Director Sanshirou Wada and Kota Nakamura, who was in charge of filming extras for Paradise Lost as a camera assistant at the time, were in charge of cinematography. New powers have also been added. This is a work filmed by such members, so please look forward to it.
Shirakura: Rather than "please go watch", I want to say "you have to go watch". And the more you love 555, the more you may be unable to see the screen due to tears. I too lost the ability to see halfway through watching it. However, it was made so that you can enjoy it even if you don't know 555. I would be happy if you could watch the TV series or Paradise Lost after watching this movie.
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2024.05.22 02:17 LaineyBoy07 Mom just backed into garage door while texting on her phone.Blamed me for it

Old gen x mom(boomer mindset ) was about to.leave the house and I opened the garage door for her
She was texting (face buried in her phone)and pressed the garage door button in her car after that because she had no idea the door was already open and it closed as she was backing out
....love tapped the garage and blamed me for not opening it lol
Other siblings backed me up and told her I already opened it up for her and she would if known that if she wasn't so invested in her texting
She left very angry lol
Door was able to be fixed by us siblings .But she won't thank us
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2024.05.22 02:16 pikasuma No proof? Then fuck off.

About 3 months ago I (28) decided to go no contact with my mom.
Sick of the manipulation, the lack of care. I went no contact after trying (possibly for the millionth time) to get her to engage with me about my childhood. Her and my father were emotionally extremely neglecting, verbally and physically abusive, and manipulative to a disgusting extent. So much so that they deliberately derailed my plans for college and my career goals.
The last time I tried to bring any of it up, she did what she always does and said “That was such a stressful time for me. I must have just blocked all of that out. I remember you having a happy childhood.”
So I gave her an ultimatum: Do at least a year of therapy like I did. Whatever it takes to “remember” everything. Work on your own issues. Then we can talk again. If not, don’t try to talk to me ever again.
The very next week she sent me a text message letting me know that the dog she adopted (who was very old and in poor health when she adopted it) had to be put down. She went on for entire paragraphs about how upset she was about the dog dying and all the details of her getting it euthanized. Then she tacked on at the end “She was a good dog. I’ll miss her company. And I miss you too.”
Fast forward several weeks and a handful or similar subtly mean text messages to yesterday:
She sent me another text saying that she had “many” therapy sessions and had “uncovered things” and is “sorry for not getting me away from [my dad] sooner” (love the not so subtle denial of guilt) and is “ready to build the relationship that we both want.”
So I responded, “Great! Send me proof of the therapy appointments and we can start talking once a month for now.”
Absolute silence.
Because she wasn’t actually concerned with getting help or trying to be a better person. And she probably didn’t go to more than one therapy session, if at all.
Why do we give these people chances? What’s wrong with us that we refuse to believe that people who have hurt us our entire lives will suddenly stop?
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2024.05.22 02:14 anabananna1 I’m not sure if I’m overreacting about my boyfriend disappearing on me knowing we had plans?

My boyfriend and I had made plans a week ago to go out to the city yesterday and take cute couple photos, which was actually his idea to begin with. Our work schedules are pretty opposite. So, when we hang out any other day, it’s usually after work for me and it’s usually just dinner and hanging out for a couple of hours. I knew that this day with the photos would take a good chunk of our day and we both wanted to make sure we had plenty of time together. The only solution we could come up with would be to take the day off. I ended up taking the day off.
Well, yesterday morning, at 7am, he texts me saying he’s taking his sister to the ER and that we need to reschedule the original time we had planned. I responded saying “hope everything is okay, keep me updated”. And then I hadn’t heard from him all day. I called him, texted him and nothing. He then updates me, 9 hours later that his sister fell and hit her head. I expressed my concern and wished for her speedy recovery. I then asked him to call me when he had chance. He calls, and we talked for about 10 minutes. He said sorry for not saying anything and that his phone was on silent and didn’t want to talk to anyone and that he couldn’t focus on anything else.
I’m not mad that he couldn’t meet up, obviously his sister is injured, so he says. It’s the communication. He has actually used the ER excuse as a reason in the past when we had made plans. One time he claimed to have been in the ER for chest pain and didn’t tell me until midnight, claimed it’s too hard to think when you’re in that kind of situation. Another time, we were supposed to go on a birthday weekend getaway, he had gone to the ER and it had gotten canceled. One time he was supposed to see me, he claimed he needed to help his friend with something and couldn’t meet up. So, Idk, it seems weird something like this happens constantly when we have plans.
We actually broke up 3 months ago because of his communication problems. He didn’t talk to me for 10 days after losing his job, he basically acted like I didn’t exist to him and that he was dealing with his issues and that I shouldn’t be upset with him. I broke up with him for this. Then 2 months later, he reached out again, apologized for everything and promised to work on it and that he still loves me. I decided to give him another chance, and things were good, up until today.
What bothers me, is he knew I took the day off for us. I know technically it’s not a big deal, but I work in the medical field and hate taking days off unless absolutely necessary. He knows how I feel about my job. And then the whole disappearing act of not saying anything to me. Claimed to be not on his phone and was ignoring all calls. I’m sitting at home worried sick and he doesn’t even have the decency to take one minute out of his day to text me to update me. And considering the type of injury she had, he could’ve told me that I should go to work because he won’t be able to make it, but he basically had me sitting and waiting for him. This almost feels break up worthy for me. I’m not sure if I’m overreacting though.
Tldr: bf and I made plans to go take photos in the city then he proceeded to not say anything to me for an entire day. He had to take his sister to the hospital and said we would reschedule for a later time, making it seem like we would meet up, but he didn’t. He has used the ER excuse before and has had communication issues which upsets me so much whenever it occurs
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2024.05.22 02:13 mycupofearlgreytea My mom gave out my phone # after I told her no. How can I handle this? (23M/55F)

TL;DR: My mom gave my # out to one of my high school classmates after I explicitly asked her not to. How can I handle this?
I am from STL but recently moved to Kansas City for med school. One of my high school classmates, Angela (24F), also recently moved to KC. In high school, I was never close with Angela. While she seemed nice, she was always a little odd and hyper-religious. I am a Christian and go to church. However, I have toned it back a LOT over the last 3-4 years.
My mom called me and told me that Angela had recently moved to my city and that I should meet her for coffee. I told her no, as I am very busy and already have a great group of med school friends. Furthermore...I think Angela had a crush on me in high school. While I know it's been awhile since then, I just want to be cautious and not send any wrong messages.
Well, this morning, I got a text from Angela. In her text, she said my mom gave her my number over Facebook messenger. I called my mom and asked her why she did this and she said, "because you need good christian friends."
I'm not even sure where to go. I love my mom dearly and have always been close with her. She and my dad financially support me in medical school, which is a blessing. But this just feels like a complete disregard for my privacy.
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2024.05.22 02:13 doory321 21[M4F] Catholic from England searching for my life partner

Hi, I’m Max! I’m a 21 year old computer science graduate from England. I am white, 5’11”, with brown hair, blue eyes, and fairly skinny.
First and foremost, I’m a Catholic, my faith is the most important thing to me in my life and I try to love God in all that I do.
One of my biggest aspirations would be to meet a wonderful girl who I can love and care for, and with whom, I hope, through God’s loving providence, to start a beautiful and holy family with one day.
I believe that the strongest bonds are formed through common values, and so I think it is important that I seek a partner who shares my faith in Christ. So I’m hoping that through this I might find that special someone, God willing.
As for me I love travelling to new places, mountain hiking, nature walks, photography, reading, learning history, science, theology, philosophy, listening to podcasts, computer programming, video games, composing, and playing the piano.
Would prefer meeting someone around the age 18-21 within Europe who is a fellow Catholic, but I am open to all countries and faiths, just as long as you are open or at least slightly interested to learn about Catholicism, because I will definitely talk about it non-stop at times I’m afraid.
Please feel free to send me a message if interested! And if so a quick summary and picture of yourself would be greatly appreciated too if that's all ok, just so I have a good idea of who you are :)
To all out there I hope you have a wonderful day and God bless!
Pics of me:
https://i.imgur.com/UPlv3Z8.jpeg
https://imgur.com/HiraTQY.jpeg
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2024.05.22 02:10 doory321 21[M4F] Catholic from England searching for my life partner

Hi, I’m Max! I’m a 21 year old computer science graduate from England. I am white, 5’11”, with brown hair, blue eyes, and fairly skinny.
First and foremost, I’m a Catholic, my faith is the most important thing to me in my life and I try to love God in all that I do.
One of my biggest aspirations would be to meet a wonderful girl who I can love and care for, and with whom, I hope, through God’s loving providence, to start a beautiful and holy family with one day.
I believe that the strongest bonds are formed through common values, and so I think it is important that I seek a partner who shares my faith in Christ. So I’m hoping that through this I might find that special someone, God willing.
As for me I love travelling to new places, mountain hiking, nature walks, photography, reading, learning history, science, theology, philosophy, listening to podcasts, computer programming, video games, composing, and playing the piano.
Would prefer meeting someone around the age 18-21 within Europe who is a fellow Catholic, but I am open to all countries and faiths, just as long as you are open or at least slightly interested to learn about Catholicism, because I will definitely talk about it non-stop at times I’m afraid.
Please feel free to send me a message if interested! And if so a quick summary and picture of yourself would be greatly appreciated too if that's all ok, just so I have a good idea of who you are :)
To all out there I hope you have a wonderful day and God bless!
Pic of me
Pic of me
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2024.05.22 02:09 ninetimesthem Revenge on the ghoster

So i was talking to this guy couple months ago, went on a first date, then after the date we text a bit and he ghosted me.. a little over 3 weeks ago he contacts me back and asks me to go on a date again to make up for the last date, so i agree, the date was indeed better but there was alot of red flags about him, during the date my bracelet even broke, so it was telling that this connection was meant to break. After the date i messaged him saying thank you for the date and he messages me back and i ghosted him back. I really believe Karma came back around. But this time Karma was me.
It felt good, but he is a good looking dude, and it’s harder to ghost someone who is good looking, but i trust the universe got my back so i did what i had to do.
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2024.05.22 02:08 GradeAScrewup It's been 2 weeks

Dear D
It's been 2 weeks since you broke up with me. 2 weeks since you told me you didn't feel like you could be in a relationship anymore. 2 weeks since my world crashed down around me. 2 weeks since the hole appeared in my chest.
You said you felt like you were toxic in our relationship. I wish you had talked to me about it before deciding. You said I didn't want to be around your kids. But I was picturing school dances and graduations and being there for them. You said that you felt it was all because of your childhood trauma. Yet you never wanted to discuss it with me. Yes I didn't push the issue when you would get close and I noticed you shut down I just wanted you to be comfortable.
In these two weeks you have isolated me from you. The one I love more than anything I've experienced in life shut me out as if I was a stranger. It's not no contact because you've still responded at times but the coldness is palpable from the messages.
I watched video of us returning from our date night captured by the security cameras The smile on your face felt genuine. The way you pulled me in for a kiss and kissed me so passionately. Did you know at that time that that would be the last time you would kiss me? Or did you figure it out when you went to hang out with your friends afterwards.
I've been looking online and so many of these posts hit close enough to home that I wonder if they are you reaching out to me. But then I notice that they're not. I just want to have a real conversation with you. Not one where you shut me out and mask up so that way I can't see your emotions.
My biggest wish is that you're willing to talk to me and we can work on repairing our relationship. Near two years all gone in 1 hour 2 weeks ago.
My therapist says that I need to contact you and give you your stuff from the house back but I don't want to. To me that feels like admitting that we will never be back together. Even now as I have your stuff in a box it bothers me that it's not in its rightful place waiting for you to come use it.
My second biggest wish after being able to talk would be that we could get back together.
How is it you could say you still love me, that it's hard for you to text me because all you want to do is flirt, that seeing me miserable makes you miserable. Those are not things said by somebody who no longer loves you.
I know there is little to no chance you are here posting things. I know there is little to no chance You're going to see this message. But just know no matter what I am here for you. I love you Amore.
A
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2024.05.22 02:08 dippity_dip26 AITAH for “leading on” my friend??

I (21F) had a close friendship with another person (21F) that ended badly and I can’t tell if I’m in the wrong. We met during freshmen year of college, and immediately got really close. We meshed our friend groups into one, and we would all hang out at her place constantly. I even helped her figure out her sexuality (asexual and biromantic) as I would talk about my own sexuality (the same) and she realized she related a lot to what I was saying, esp the ace part in regards to her boyfriend of 5 years.
The issue comes in with her crush on me. I have this, not necessarily problem, but effect, I guess, in which most people I meet have a crush on me when they first meet me. I’m just a really good listener and people tend to pour their hearts out to me pretty fast as a result. When I’m kind in response they feel all warm inside and equate the feeling to me rather than the nice feeling of being treated kindly. Most people luckily get over it within a month or two, and it doesn’t cause much issue.
It was pretty clear to me that this friend was dealing with the same thing. I just kept acting like I normally do because she was my friend, figuring it would go away soon. It did not. If anything it got much more intense as our friendship went on, to the point where other people noticed. I loved her as a friend, but that was all. I’ve been in unrequited love before and I know it hurts - I didn’t want to her to hurt. But it wasn’t my place to say anything.
Then one day we had been hanging out with some of our friends and her roommate asked me if the two of us were into each other. I told her I’d text her since the friend was in the room, and when I got home later that night I did. I was super tired from class earlier, and had spent a lot of my social energy on the hangout so when I responded telling her that I didn’t have a crush but the friend did, I admit it was a tad curt and I didn’t take the message as seriously as I could have. Needless to say, the roommate showed the texts to my friend and they convinced themselves I was purposefully leading my friend on and had been since we met, and that I was actually in love with the friend but was denying myself. I learned all this from another friend who was in the room at the time who felt I should know.
I wanted to confront her about it because I didn’t want her to think I meant her any harm, and to know I still wanted to be her friend even if I didn’t feel anything romantic towards her . But since the info I got about that conversation was from a mutual friend I couldn’t throw him under the bus by letting her know he told me, so I just waited for my friend to bring it up because it was clearly something that bothered her. Only she never did. As finals came around we stopped talking to each other to focus, and we just sort of stopped talking all together after that. I haven’t spoken to her in a year but I feel so guilty about the whole thing, and can’t help but wonder if I was in the wrong.
AITA?
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2024.05.22 02:07 doory321 21M Catholic from the UK

21M Catholic from the UK
Hi, I’m Max! I’m a 21 year old computer science graduate from England. I am white, 5’11”, with brown hair, blue eyes, and fairly skinny.
First and foremost, I’m a Catholic, my faith is the most important thing to me in my life and I try to love God in all that I do.
One of my biggest aspirations would be to meet a wonderful girl who I can love and care for, and with whom, I hope, through God’s loving providence, to start a beautiful and holy family with one day.
I believe that the strongest bonds are formed through common values, and so I think it is important that I seek a partner who shares my faith in Christ. So I’m hoping that through this I might find that special someone, God willing.
As for me I love travelling to new places, mountain hiking, nature walks, photography, reading, learning history, science, theology, philosophy, listening to podcasts, computer programming, video games, composing, and playing the piano.
Would prefer meeting someone around the age 18-21 within Europe who is a fellow Catholic, but I am open to all countries and other Christians who would enjoy discussing faith differences!
Please feel free to send me a message if interested! And if so a quick summary and picture of yourself would be greatly appreciated too if that's all ok, just so I have a good idea of who you are :)
To all out there I hope you have a wonderful day and God bless!
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2024.05.22 02:07 ManTheMythThe- Who's your SCARIEST oc?

It can be in any way. Mentality, morality, concept, etc.
I've got an oc I'm trying to get an Analog Horror series put together for. He's (in universe(?)) the reason Amelia Earhart, D.B Cooper, and even flight 370. He doesn't have much for world building where he's from so far, but imagine thinking your BEST friend or CLOSEST FAMILY MEMBER just vanishes. Stops texting you for a week. From their perspective, their phone died or the wifi went out. All of a sudden it just happens to stay out for a bit longer than you're comfortable with, they don't contact you for a week and maybe two days. So what, you think they're missing right? Well, now thanks to you and your doubts, lack of information etc, they ARE missing. So for now I'd safely say them, it, whatever you'd want to call it.
Another idea I had was to contact targets by pretending to use the likeness (possibly not even the physical appearance. Imagine playing a video game and you meet a dude on Overwatch with the gamertag LarsMittank_69420. (Missing person, I wouldn't go down this rabbit hole unless you're strong willed and possibly intending to have nightmares) and you get to know them. But are they even real? What if you get OBSESSED with these disaapearances, break off from your friends and family. Once the majority stops keeping tabs on you, who'd care if you disaapeared?
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2024.05.22 02:07 GradeAScrewup It's been 2 weeks

Dear D
It's been 2 weeks since you broke up with me. 2 weeks since you told me you didn't feel like you could be in a relationship anymore. 2 weeks since my world crashed down around me. 2 weeks since the hole appeared in my chest.
You said you felt like you were toxic in our relationship. I wish you had talked to me about it before deciding. You said I didn't want to be around your kids. But I was picturing school dances and graduations and being there for them. You said that you felt it was all because of your childhood trauma. Yet you never wanted to discuss it with me. Yes I didn't push the issue when you would get close and I noticed you shut down I just wanted you to be comfortable.
In these two weeks you have isolated me from you. The one I love more than anything I've experienced in life shut me out as if I was a stranger. It's not no contact because you've still responded at times but the coldness is palpable from the messages.
I watched video of us returning from our date night captured by the security cameras The smile on your face felt genuine. The way you pulled me in for a kiss and kissed me so passionately. Did you know at that time that that would be the last time you would kiss me? Or did you figure it out when you went to hang out with your friends afterwards.
I've been looking online and so many of these posts hit close enough to home that I wonder if they are you reaching out to me. But then I notice that they're not. I just want to have a real conversation with you. Not one where you shut me out and mask up so that way I can't see your emotions.
My biggest wish is that you're willing to talk to me and we can work on repairing our relationship. Near two years all gone in 1 hour 2 weeks ago.
My therapist says that I need to contact you and give you your stuff from the house back but I don't want to. To me that feels like admitting that we will never be back together. Even now as I have your stuff in a box it bothers me that it's not in its rightful place waiting for you to come use it.
My second biggest wish after being able to talk would be that we could get back together.
How is it you could say you still love me, that it's hard for you to text me because all you want to do is flirt, that seeing me miserable makes you miserable. Those are not things said by somebody who no longer loves you.
I know there is little to no chance you are here posting things. I know there is little to no chance You're going to see this message. But just know no matter what I am here for you. I love you Amore.
A
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2024.05.22 02:06 GradeAScrewup It's been 2 weeks.

Dear D
It's been 2 weeks since you broke up with me. 2 weeks since you told me you didn't feel like you could be in a relationship anymore. 2 weeks since my world crashed down around me. 2 weeks since the hole appeared in my chest.
You said you felt like you were toxic in our relationship. I wish you had talked to me about it before deciding. You said I didn't want to be around your kids. But I was picturing school dances and graduations and being there for them. You said that you felt it was all because of your childhood trauma. Yet you never wanted to discuss it with me. Yes I didn't push the issue when you would get close and I noticed you shut down I just wanted you to be comfortable.
In these two weeks you have isolated me from you. The one I love more than anything I've experienced in life shut me out as if I was a stranger. It's not no contact because you've still responded at times but the coldness is palpable from the messages.
I watched video of us returning from our date night captured by the security cameras The smile on your face felt genuine. The way you pulled me in for a kiss and kissed me so passionately. Did you know at that time that that would be the last time you would kiss me? Or did you figure it out when you went to hang out with your friends afterwards.
I've been looking online and so many of these posts hit close enough to home that I wonder if they are you reaching out to me. But then I notice that they're not. I just want to have a real conversation with you. Not one where you shut me out and mask up so that way I can't see your emotions.
My biggest wish is that you're willing to talk to me and we can work on repairing our relationship. Near two years all gone in 1 hour 2 weeks ago.
My therapist says that I need to contact you and give you your stuff from the house back but I don't want to. To me that feels like admitting that we will never be back together. Even now as I have your stuff in a box it bothers me that it's not in its rightful place waiting for you to come use it.
My second biggest wish after being able to talk would be that we could get back together.
How is it you could say you still love me, that it's hard for you to text me because all you want to do is flirt, that seeing me miserable makes you miserable. Those are not things said by somebody who no longer loves you.
I know there is little to no chance you are here posting things. I know there is little to no chance You're going to see this message. But just know no matter what I am here for you. I love you Amore.
A
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2024.05.22 02:06 GradeAScrewup It's been 2 weeks.

Dear D
It's been 2 weeks since you broke up with me. 2 weeks since you told me you didn't feel like you could be in a relationship anymore. 2 weeks since my world crashed down around me. 2 weeks since the hole appeared in my chest.
You said you felt like you were toxic in our relationship. I wish you had talked to me about it before deciding. You said I didn't want to be around your kids. But I was picturing school dances and graduations and being there for them. You said that you felt it was all because of your childhood trauma. Yet you never wanted to discuss it with me. Yes I didn't push the issue when you would get close and I noticed you shut down I just wanted you to be comfortable.
In these two weeks you have isolated me from you. The one I love more than anything I've experienced in life shut me out as if I was a stranger. It's not no contact because you've still responded at times but the coldness is palpable from the messages.
I watched video of us returning from our date night captured by the security cameras The smile on your face felt genuine. The way you pulled me in for a kiss and kissed me so passionately. Did you know at that time that that would be the last time you would kiss me? Or did you figure it out when you went to hang out with your friends afterwards.
I've been looking online and so many of these posts hit close enough to home that I wonder if they are you reaching out to me. But then I notice that they're not. I just want to have a real conversation with you. Not one where you shut me out and mask up so that way I can't see your emotions.
My biggest wish is that you're willing to talk to me and we can work on repairing our relationship. Near two years all gone in 1 hour 2 weeks ago.
My therapist says that I need to contact you and give you your stuff from the house back but I don't want to. To me that feels like admitting that we will never be back together. Even now as I have your stuff in a box it bothers me that it's not in its rightful place waiting for you to come use it.
My second biggest wish after being able to talk would be that we could get back together.
How is it you could say you still love me, that it's hard for you to text me because all you want to do is flirt, that seeing me miserable makes you miserable. Those are not things said by somebody who no longer loves you.
I know there is little to no chance you are here posting things. I know there is little to no chance You're going to see this message. But just know no matter what I am here for you. I love you Amore.
A
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2024.05.22 02:05 SamanthaRainn Charging start/stop all night

Charging start/stop all night
I got the GT-Line in January, it has 3,400 miles. I charge at home 1x week in my garage with a level 2 Lectron cable plugged into NEMA 14-50 outlet.
My last 3-5 charges has started then stopped throughout the night. The ‘box’ on the cable has a message that says ‘waiting on vehicle’ when the charge stops.
Any ideas on what started causing this?
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2024.05.22 02:05 pure_chickenn344 Confusion and terrified to reach out

So I recently found out that I am probably the runner and not the chaser like I thought I was. I thought I was the chaser before because I want this relationship and want it to go right, and I think about him so much, but I am also scared of it. I am so terrified because I am the one that told him about twin flames, and he denied it completely and basically told me I was crazy. I was in such deep soul shock that ever since that day I’ve been really scared of him. I guess you could say I’m just generally so confused about what to do. I have this deep urge to reach out that will not go away no matter what I do. It seems like I can’t feel calm or cleansed because whenever I finally am, the thought creeps in to text him and then I’m overwhelmed by fear. To make it even worse he’s talking to another girl, and I have no idea if he actually believes in the twin flame stuff or spirituality. I don’t want him to tell me I’m crazy again. What should I do??
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2024.05.22 02:02 Small-Tip8482 What is the vibe here?

Guys, what should I take away from this?
Guys you met a girl went out with her (one which was a late date) but you opened up about past relationships and what you have been through, fears, travel all of that. You hook up it was a very sweet time together, there is a connection, she stays the night and you have her number. She messaged saying she had a great time. However you don't text very often (leavings hours upon hours between texts sometimes waiting to reply until the next day- he is Spanish) you reply to her texts but you are happy to leave her on read for a long time. Do you only see her as a hook up that isn't worth much of your time or respect or could it be something else, he was leaving for holidays a few days after but surely if you are interested in a girl you would be putting more effort in? What are your thoughts really need some advice!
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2024.05.22 02:02 JAM_Passive Apprentice of the Year

Apprentice of the Year
https://preview.redd.it/k3uwxljnwu1d1.jpg?width=1200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fa0120ed23e7338cbba776dee3e3245db1a5d0c6
Before getting to the award, I'd like to talk talk about my journey from open shop to the UA.
About 2 years or so ago, before I knew about unions, I was working for an open shop plumbing/HVAC company. $15/hr, mostly residential with the occasional commercial. I liked my co-workers, boss was cool, one of my supervisors was cool, the other was a toss up on any given day. Ladies in the office were cool too. Good all around. I was a helper or apprentice, that title changed whenever the boss wanted it to, made no difference in my pay or hours.
I went to a job with one of the guys, and it was to work on a tankless water heater. Long story short, the water heater was piped in backward. That's not important. What is, is the man we did the job for: Mr. Stevens. He was a retired pipefitter of about 30 years from a UA in Chicago. He had a bunch of union stickers from many different locals on the fridge in his garage where we were working. He asked me if I ever thought about joining the UA. I told him no, and I had no idea what that was. While my coworker was on the phone getting approval for the work from a warranty company, Mr. Stevens talked to me about how the UA gave him better wages, the good retirement that he's currently enjoying with his wife, health benefits, and everything he could advertise. I was listening intently because that sounded wonderful to me. He was describing everything I thought my at the time company was supposed to be.
Before we left, Mr. Stevens gave me his number. He told me if I had any more questions to call or text him, he'll be available. He also told me if I was interested in getting in the UA, he'd write me a letter of recommendation for the board members. I thanked him and we went on our way.
Over the next few months, I looked into unions, the UA specifically. I saw pro-union stuff, and anti-union stuff. I'm here, so as you can see, there was too much good for me to care about any of the anti-union stuff, which were mostly lies or exaggerations. Come March of 2023 when applications opened up, I speedran everything I could have. I called Local 43's office, got all the info I needed. Filled out my application, got my HS transcripts, did the Helmets to Hardhats, got with the VA to work out my GI Bill, smoked the ACT WorkKeys test.
My supervisors did eventually find out about me doing all that. One of the board members owned the plumbing company next to my boss's and I guess they're friends and talked to each other, and my boss talked to my supervisors. The cool one made a joke about the dues I'd have to pay (exaggerated the amount) and the other one was visibly not pleased and made a sly remark about it. Fortunately nothing negative came of it for me.
Anyway, finally, the interview. Easily the only thing I was stressed out about. I got a fresh cut, bought a nice (but cheap) blue suit, bought a nice pair of lowkey business casual shoes, bought a cheap black tie, even lightly put on cologne. I walked in to the waiting room and thought I fucked up. The other interviewees had on jeans, those nice dress(?) cowboy boots, and tucked in button-up long sleeve shirts. I make no exaggeration when I tell you, I was the ONLY one in a suit and tie. Internally I'm freaking out wondering "What was I thinking? It's the South, I should have dressed like them! The board is gonna see me an think I'm some prim & proper (derogatory) Yank!" An assumption I made based on the reaction I got when I joined a Fire Department and I told one of the Firefighters I'm from NY. Fortunately, this was not the case.
Nothing to be done about it at that point, I get called into the room. I've been through a board or two in the Army, so I knew I could fake it at least, but I'm still nervous. What I did do immediately that I'm still proud of to this day is I remembered to shake everyone's hand and look at them. Just like I've practiced, a nice firm handshake and eye contact. Sat up straight, hand positioning, made eye contact when answering, answered audibly and clearly, practiced it all beforehand and executed.
They did get Mr. Stevens' letter of recommendation and had me tell them about the work we did for him. And they wanted me to tell them about my time in the Army. That took up a large portion of time thankfully. No matter where you go, men love a good story. Around the last 5 -10 minutes, they had me tell them about my previous company. I didn't badmouth the company, I didn't have much negative to say about it anyway, aside from the hours being wonky occasionally and learning being difficult sometimes if they guy you're with didn't feel like teaching you that day. Sometimes, you really were just a helper. Hand them the tools and move back.
Before I left, one of the men stopped me at the door and told me he was glad I dressed like a professional. He said "Some of these guys come around here and dress like they're about go to the bar and not an interview. I know this is blue collar work, but we're still professionals. Just a blazer goes a long way, and we appreciate that you took this seriously."
All that work (and I'm not gonna lie, there's no doubt in my mind that me being a veteran damn near guaranteed me in) paid off as me and the rest if the 1st years swore in. And starting at $17.60 ain't too bad.
Fast forward to today. Today was the last day of class at my Local. They did awards, congratulations, and all the flair that comes with it. Among the awardees, was me. I haven't earned an academic award since elementary. By the time I got to HS, I realized schooling (at least traditional) isn't something I enjoy or care for, and my effort (or lack of it) reflected that. I stopped doing homework altogether as it was only 15% of our grades, I did well on tests and quizzes, and did classwork depending on length/difficulty and necessity. Graduated HS stress free and got the same diploma as everyone else.
This was not the case during this past school year. I put in the effort for this. I paid attention and asked for help. Especially with math, I asked for a lot of help with math. And I suppose that showed and reflected. I earned Apprentice of the Year for the 1st Year Class. I feel really good about it. I intend to put my ass into and try to earn it for the next 4 years. Joining the UA is one of the best decisions I've ever made. I fucking love the UA, and I love my Local Union 43.
Note: I still talk to Mr. Stevens to this day. I sent him a picture of my award and he's treating me to dinner this weekend.
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2024.05.22 02:02 Apprehensive-Way-494 my boyfriend completely shuts down on me

when something bad happens in his life, his first reaction is to immediately isolate himself from everybody, even when he’s just feeling depressed and needs space - he will not communicate this, i will not hear from him for days and this time it’s almost been a week. my messages won’t send on imessages (not blocked, his phone just seems to be shut off or he has no service.) the first 2 days, i’ll get annoyed with him and tell him that this is unfair for me, i blew up on him and out of anger told him to find somebody else to deal with his bullshit (i now regret this immensely) but this time he stood me up for a date we had planned, we’re long distance so i don’t really see him all that often so i was so excited to see him but absolutely gutted when i didn’t hear from him all day, 3rd day is like, okay well, maybe something is wrong or he’s just really not feeling like talking, but no answer in almost a week, im very emotional and sometimes i need reassurance - especially in situations like this, it worries me to hell and back and i don’t know what to do with myself, i’ll feel selfish for feeling so angry that i haven’t heard from him but then i just get so worried about him. this boy is everything to me and i hate to think he’s going through something awful because the last time this happened, he did experience something very traumatic. i feel a heavy feeling in my chest waiting for a phone call or a text, just anything to know he’s okay. i hate that he wont communicate things but i know it’s hard for him, i don’t know im just going back and forth
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