ok so like many on here, Ive been listening to subs but not really noticed much change. mentally I can say Im in a much better place tho. Abt 6 months ago I made about 14 subs and compiled them into 1 playlist, each targeting a diff desire. Ive basically been looping that thing every day since
I struggled to see where I was lacking mentally to not see change. Anyways fast forward to this month and I've really been into shifting reality and trying to get into the meditative state. Ive managed to get into this numb state for now and a few days ago, I woke up while I was still numb. my mind felt so relaxed and I impulsively decided to listen to my playlist while I slowly came fully back to the 3d
guys. Idk what it was but it feels like I'm getting so many results now. one sub in my playlist was a money one and I literally got deposited £50 today. I also have a language sub and suddenly I am able to read and speak desired language so fluently. Before I used to speak very broken and could read maybe 50%. But I was practicing speaking to myself yesterday and I swear I was so fluent for like 10 minutes. Can also read now like 90% and my mom even commented I have really improved. I have a glow up sub. And for the past few days ive managed to solve multiple insecurities on my body by finding the right products. E.g. I fixed my scalp smell and also my genetic dark circles
I'm gonna try repeat this method again because the results are coming in like crazy and I'm in disbelief tbh. i recommend giving this method a try since its the only thing that made my sublininals acc work after 6 months of listening

In viitorul mai indepartat vreau sa mi fac iubita, am mai avut iubita si a fost ok, dar acum sunt focusat pe cariera in proportie de 100% si nu vreau.
Totusi, sunt curios, cum alegi o fata "buna" adica sa nu te : insele, pacaleasca, fure, fie ca esti bogat, sarac, prost sa nu se foloseasca de tine .
Acum personal stiu ca cu cat esti mai.. urat , prost, sarac, e greu sa gasesti fete bune, nu mai zic si frumoase..

34F, 8 weeks postpartum, only takes a prenatal vitamin, exclusively breastfeeding. Since delivery, I have felt like complete garbage, welcome to motherhood. I gave birth vaginally- 4 hour 2nd stage, only first degree tear, 8 weeks ago. When we first got home, of course I was out of it. Very tired, newly breastfeeding, first child so freaking out about everything. Up all night, etc. Once I started getting used to the routine, really noticed how shitty I've been feeling. Prior to pregnancy, I was extremely active, runner, cyclist, weight lifting, 2 a day sessions in between a very active job. So, started to notice how dizzy I would get when standing up and how tired I would be just walking up the stairs. Thought ok, just exhausted. Started to get back into some suppppeeer easy bike riding and my HR spikes to 150 doing the easiest possible ride and I cannot breath. I wear a garmin and my HR would go from 50s at rest, up to 100 standing up and I would get pretty dizzy. So, go to the doctor and at rest, I have a low BP 95/55 and HR 55. My sodium level 133. My Creatine 0.84 and eGFR 93. Echo structurally looks good but because my BP and hr are low, my EF is 50-55%- it has got nothing to work with. She does a bunch of labs. BNP 17, ESR 1, CRP 0.7, troponin <4. D-Dimer 2,700! So, chest CT today and everything looks great in there, no clot, pulmonary arteries are non resisting to the dye, heart normal size, bones look good, lungs clear, no effusion, etc. "Tiny" hiatal hernia. So, what gives. Cardiologist is going to do a 2 week heart monitor, a stress echo. What could be causing this both low bp and hr and high ddimer? I'm instructed to rest and liberalize salt...

I am literally losing it. I've been better for a while, relatively a long time but I can feel the storm coming towards me, I can see drainage is about to happen and though I'm not suicidal I feel like it's not that far to feel like that again. I feel like I'm becoming a walking dead person: alive organs but dead soul. I can't manage to avoid it. I'm a mid eastern millennial, I belong to a low income family, have tried to chase my dreams but my life situation and my country situation and of course in e certain manner my own attitude lead me to failure. Deep inside I need a miracle. I want to wake up and vaguely remember the life I've had. I want a better life but I don't know what to do.
I don't know if anybody can help me, I'm almost sure it's not possible but I had to write this down to an audience - and people around me don't get it and even if they do, I'm tired of nagging to people. I'm scared and confused and sad and deep down I'm hopeless. I'm keeping myself alive waiting fir a change, a miracle, better days, but honestly, I don't see that in any perspective. 27 already, when is it going to be OK then?

Eu (26h) fico com minha melhor amiga (27m) há aproximadamente 4 meses. Começamos a ficar 1 semana depois de ela terminar um namoro de 5 anos. Muita coisa me estressava no nosso relacionamento. Eu dava 150% de mim pra ela, e ela não conseguia retornar o favor, falava que se arrependia de certas coisas e que não tinha superado o término do namoro.
Eu fiquei muito mal psicologicamente nos últimos tempos, a ponto de pensar em suicídio e me afastar com atestado médico do trabalho.
Ontem, estávamos conversando e disse que precisava conversar sobre nosso futuro. Ela disse que não queria namorar, pois só fazem 5 meses do término. Eu disse que ok, tudo bem, mas que então eu iria mudar meu comportamento com ela, não me fazia bem eu tratar ela como a única pessoa do universo e não receber algo parecido em troca.
Ela retrucou dizendo "então nunca foi amizade, sempre teve algo a mais?", e eu respondi que, nos últimos meses, sim. Mas que ela ainda poderia me considerar seu melhor amigo.
Sou babaca por ser honesto? Não quero ficar sendo gado e nem me desgastando com algo que não vai pra frente.

Dear community,
amateur coder here trying to get grip on scheduled actions.
Use Case:
When ever a partner has not placed an order after 30 or 90 days after last order date or sign up date, sales person shall be assigned an acitivity.
Here is what i have put together by now:
sales_orders = env['sale.order'].search([('date_order', '<', (fields.Date.today() - datetime.timedelta(days=60)).strftime('%Y-%m-%d'))])
activity_type = env.ref('mail.mail_activity_data_todo')
for order in sales_orders:
partner = order.partner_id
existing_activities = env['mail.activity'].search([
('res_model', '=', 'res.partner'),
('res_id', '=', partner.id),
('activity_type_id', '=', activity_type.id),
('summary', '=', 'LOD > 60')
])
if not existing_activities:
partner.activity_schedule(
activity_type_id=activity_type.id,
summary='LOD > 60',
user_id=order.user_id.id,
date_deadline=fields.Date.today()
)
I can save it but when I klick on run manually I get the below error message:

Traceback (most recent call last): File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/odoo/tools/safe_eval.py", line 390, in safe_eval return unsafe_eval(c, globals_dict, locals_dict) File "ir.actions.server(1047,)", line 1, in  NameError: name 'fields' is not defined During handling of the above exception, another exception occurred: Traceback (most recent call last): File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/odoo/http.py", line 1638, in _serve_db return service_model.retrying(self._serve_ir_http, self.env) File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/odoo/service/model.py", line 133, in retrying result = func() File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/odoo/http.py", line 1665, in _serve_ir_http response = self.dispatcher.dispatch(rule.endpoint, args) File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/odoo/http.py", line 1869, in dispatch result = self.request.registry['ir.http']._dispatch(endpoint) File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/addons/website/models/ir_http.py", line 237, in _dispatch response = super()._dispatch(endpoint) File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/odoo/addons/base/models/ir_http.py", line 154, in _dispatch result = endpoint(**request.params) File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/odoo/http.py", line 700, in route_wrapper result = endpoint(self, *args, **params_ok) File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/addons/web/controllers/dataset.py", line 46, in call_button action = self._call_kw(model, method, args, kwargs) File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/addons/web/controllers/dataset.py", line 33, in _call_kw return call_kw(request.env[model], method, args, kwargs) File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/odoo/api.py", line 468, in call_kw result = _call_kw_multi(method, model, args, kwargs) File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/odoo/api.py", line 453, in _call_kw_multi result = method(recs, *args, **kwargs) File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/odoo/addons/base/models/ir_cron.py", line 103, in method_direct_trigger cron.with_user(cron.user_id).with_context({'lastcall': cron.lastcall}).ir_actions_server_id.run() File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/odoo/addons/base/models/ir_actions.py", line 674, in run res = runner(run_self, eval_context=eval_context) File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/addons/website/models/ir_actions_server.py", line 61, in _run_action_code_multi res = super(ServerAction, self)._run_action_code_multi(eval_context) File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/odoo/addons/base/models/ir_actions.py", line 544, in _run_action_code_multi safe_eval(self.code.strip(), eval_context, mode="exec", nocopy=True, filename=str(self)) # nocopy allows to return 'action' File "/home/odoo/src/odoo/odoo/tools/safe_eval.py", line 404, in safe_eval raise ValueError('%s: "%s" while evaluating\n%r' % (ustr(type(e)), ustr(e), expr)) ValueError: : "name 'fields' is not defined" while evaluating "sales_orders = env['sale.order'].search([('date_order', '<', (fields.Date.today() - datetime.timedelta(days=60)).strftime('%Y-%m-%d'))])\nactivity_type = env.ref('mail.mail_activity_data_todo')\n\nfor order in sales_orders:\n partner = order.partner_id\n existing_activities = env['mail.activity'].search([\n ('res_model', '=', 'res.partner'),\n ('res_id', '=', partner.id),\n ('activity_type_id', '=', activity_type.id),\n ('summary', '=', 'LOD > 60')\n ])\n if not existing_activities:\n partner.activity_schedule(\n activity_type_id=activity_type.id,\n summary='LOD > 60',\n user_id=order.user_id.id,\n date_deadline=fields.Date.today()\n )" The above server error caused the following client error: RPC_ERROR: Odoo Server Error at makeErrorFromResponse (https://soedertest.odoo.com/web/assets/61219-1b71309/web.assets_backend.min.js:993:163) at XMLHttpRequest. (https://soedertest.odoo.com/web/assets/61219-1b71309/web.assets_backend.min.js:1001:13) 

How do I define "field" correctly or do I miss anything here?
Thanks for your hints!

TLDR

• CS graduate.
• Never worked in tech.
• But building web apps 7+ years as hobby and freelancer.
• Want to kick off my web dev career.
• What do I put on my resume?

I graduated in Computer Science in 2011, but instead of pursuing a career in tech I spent the next 7 years building and running a small travel agency with my brother. By 2018, I got burnt out, sold my shares, and with my savings decided to travel.
So with my savings, the privileged Westerner that I am, I relocated to Asia and Latin America where my Euro would go far, and went all-in on indiehacking.
My goal was essentially to build my own apps and make a living from that.
I was confident that within 2 years I'd be making a good living from this.
Well, 2 years pass. Still no money. Savings drying up. Picked up some freelance work on the side to pay the bills while continuing to indiehack..
2 years became 3, then 4, then 5... and now here I am 6 years later and I'm making less than $1k a month coding 50-60 hours a week.
Talk about sunk-cost fallacy...
The miserable money I am making is purely from my freelance work (which for the most part I hate... WordPress, or some frontend stuff, nothing backend heavy which is my real expertise).
So I've come to realise I suck at sales. I suck at marketing. And really all I want to do so is work on interesting technical problems.
And at the ripe age of 36, I can now understand why people get day jobs lol
And now to get to my question: How do I go about getting my first tech job?
I have 7+ years amateur experience (PHP, Python and JavaScript) But 0 years professional. So I understand I would need to start from the bottom as a Junior Developer.
I haven't applied for a job since I was 19. No idea how to go about writing a resume for someone in my circumstances.

Portfolio

I have a relatively large portfolio of personal projects (mostly apps and SaaS)
In terms of "real projects", my client work is either:

• not really relevant to the role I want (mostly WordPress, landing pages)
• something not so easily demonstratable
• under NDA and cannot disclose

Qualifications

• I hold a BSc Hons in Computer Science (graduated in 2011)

GitHub

• haven't contributed to open-source projects
• have 6+ years of commits (mostly Laravel) - more than happy to open-source a couple of big projects

Technologies

Laravel, Vue.js, SQL, Nginx, Docker, Ubuntu, Linux, git, Tailwind, JavaScript, PHP, HTML, CSS, Filament, Statamic, Alpine, Livewire, Nuxt, WordPress, Python, Django
Furthermore, I'm an EU national and open to relocating to a new country for work.
My biggest dilemma, is having no idea what to put in my resume since I have zero relevant work experience.
Should I just be upfront and say I have no professional work experience?
My gut feeling is that most employers aren't keen on hiring someone with my track record (i.e. being self-employed and freelance... ok fine... unemployed).
Furthermore, they might be concerned that I plan to open my own business in the future and go in competition with them. It's a reasonable concern.
So what to put on my resume as a 36 year old aspiring software/web developer with no relevant work experience?
No need to sugar-coat your answers. Be as blunt and direct as you want. I appreciate all advise.

Hey y'all...so this has to be one of the craziest things that's ever happened to me and I really wanted to share it. Buckle up cause it's a long one...sorry in advance lol.
It started in 2019 I (26f but back then 21) met this dude (23m at the time) on kik from the Netherlands, let's call him...butthole. So, me and butthole hit it off, we're vibing, we're flirting, all that shebang.
We decide to date online long distance (cause I still lived in America at the time) so we text every day and we call a lot and it's just sooo nice. He was really sweet and nice to me. Well, August of that year I went on a trip to Ireland and got SA'd while there we'd been dating for 3 months at this point.
Once I got back home I finally worked up the nerve to tell him cause I legit had PTSD from that shit and when I did, he got mad at me. He accused me of cheating...I was like wtf?? So we broke up and went no contact and that was that.
Until
2020 it's lockdown....my diddly dumbass was lonely and bored and decided to text him! Like girl wtf was I thinkin? So I text him and he ends up apologizing for accusing me of cheating. He realized he was wrong and just like that, we went back to vibing and flirting. We're also making low key plans for me to visit him once lockdown is lifted too. After a few days of this I'm thinkin we're gonna get back together. But he says to me "I have something to tell you and you're gonna get mad at me".
And I'm like....ok? I didn't even know what to think like no clue what it could be (cause I'm dumb lol) And he goes "so I'm actually living with a girl who is (and I quote) officially my girlfriend". Oh man I was pissed and really hurt...like that fucking hypocrite!! So he goes on to explain they'd been dating for 2 Y E A R S!!
Anyway, so I'm dumb and was so in love and had no self esteem and thought he was the best I could get so I ask if he wants to leave her. He was like yea but we have a house together and I recently lost my job because of the pandemic so it'd screw us both over if I left now. I should've run right then and there but nooooo.
So I was like "you want to leave her and be with me right? Like, you will right?" And he said yes, I want to be with you, I'll leave if I can, blah blah blah." After a couple weeks of us acting coupley, sexting, sending pics, flirting and shit I woke up one day and realized, he's never gonna leave her for me. Ever. So....I decided I have to find this girl and tell her cause this is bullshit.
Problem is...I know nothing about her and apparently barely anything about him. He wouldn't tell me her name or anything. And he told me back in 2019 that he doesn't have social media (I should've known that was a lie cause who doesn't at least have facebook?) So I have nothing except his first and last name (later I find out he lied about how his last name is spelled and he gave me his nickname instead of his actual first name!...bro is a pathological liar I s2g!)
I tried looking for him on social media (obviously I didn't find him) I would try to ask about her name, but like in a really chill way, obviously he wouldn't tell me. I got desperate and googled Netherlands chat sites, and got on one and legit asked each person if they knew butthole mcbuttface from Rotterdam...I knew it was a long shot but I had to try.
That ended in a flop (well not entirely but I'll get back to that later) So then I get real crafty. I decide that I'm gonna play an adult fun game with him. I ask a question, he answers it truthfully and he gets a "reward". So I made sure to write out all the questions, starting with super innocent ones and I put the really revealing ones later cause I figured he'd be thinking with his other head at that point so he'd answer anything I asked.
We didn't do this over video call, we texted and I sent videos doing the thing (that way I could write down his answers) I did a lot of shit I'm not proud of. But I got the answers I needed. So I went all FBI and I got the specific area he lived from him and I ended up finding roughly where his house is, I was hoping I could find her name somewhere with that but it was a bust.
I tried to use the other answers to find stuff but I got nothing. I then decide to confront him over one of the answers (his brother's name) cause I legit thought he lied, it didn't sound like a name a Dutch person would have. He told me it was the truth. It's a really weird name for someone in the Netherlands so I looked him up on Facebook and I FOUND THAT BITCH!
That's how I realized he gave me the wrong spelling of his last name. So through his brother I found butthole's page and through butthole's page I found her!!! It took me weeks to find her! I was so shooketh! I couldn't believe I actually did it! So I go and look through her profile for a bit and I see that a few days before we played that game he FUCKIN PROPOSED TO HER!!!
I literally screamed when I saw that...I was so pissed and upset that he did that to her..... So I take a shit ton of screenshots and send her a message basically telling her everything. And she responded like "omg thank you for telling me". Like she wasn't upset at me or anything and that made me so sad. We chit chatted a bit and she was telling me all this shit about how she heard he was only with her for her money and blah blah blah...and she asked me for a few more specific screenshots which I gladly sent.
Then she said that she was at work and would confront him when she was home. I was in full support mode and was like I'm here for you and I'm so sorry this happened. And she was in support mode and she said she was sorry it happened to me too. So we exchange numbers and start texting. Later she texted me saying that she was off work and she was almost home and I wished her luck. At that point I texted him saying something like bye bitch good luck and blocked him lol.
So then I waited to hear from her...I check an hour later and saw that she blocked my number....I was so confused. I genuinely wish I could know what he said to her cause y'all...she ended up staying with him and getting married.I saw the pics on Facebook lol but yea....she could do so much better like...idk how this gremlin lookin ass bitch pulled 2 girls cause he's ugly inside and out. Idk if they're still together. I haven't looked in on them since I saw the wedding pics.
So yea, that's my story...but I said I would come back to the chat site not being a complete flop. I met a dude on there and we became friends and he introduced me to a guy who is now my boyfriend of almost 4 years and I ended up moving to the Netherlands to be with him lolol....I'm nowhere near where butthole lives so I'll never run into him but yea thanks for reading!

1. Remote Customer Service Advisor

https://careers.conduent.com/us/en/job/1314/Remote-Customer-Service-Advisor
Starting Pay Rate is $17.31/Hour
Full time schedules between the hours of 7am – 12am CST.
As Customer Service Advisor, the customer service you will be providing is via phone and will help customers with a variety of questions. Some common questions that you could receive from your customers are:

• My delivery is late. Can you help?
• My delivery arrived damaged. What can I do?
• When will I see a charge for my purchase?

You will be working independently from home in your secured workspace and will be expected to collaborate with management and co-workers in a remote setting.

• Live in one of the following states AL, AR, AZ, CO, CT, DE, FL, GA, ID, IN, IA, KS, KY, LA, ME, MI, MS, MO, NE, NV, NH, NJ, NM, NC, ND, OH, OK, PA, RI, SC, SD, TN, TX, UT, VT, VA, WA, WV, WI, WY

1. Health Information Specialist I

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This is an entry level position responsible for processing all release of information (ROI), specifically medical record requests, in a timely and efficient manner ensuring accuracy and providing customers with the highest quality product and customer service.
$15.00 - $18.00
3.Associate - Claims Support
https://careers-carecentrix.icims.com/jobs/15768/job?mobile=false&width=1370&height=500&bga=true&needsRedirect=false&jan1offset=-360&jun1offset=-300
This position receives/responds to provider inquiries on claim issues. Researches information by reviewing plan, eligibility, and authorizations to determine appropriate resolution. Works with CSC or RCM to identify areas of opportunity and recommend solutions. Completes special assignments and analyzes provider requests. Assists other departments and interacts directly with providers

• High School Diploma or the equivalent required

4.Inbound Sales Rep
https://workforcenow.adp.com/mascsdefault/mdf/recruitment/recruitment.html?cid=6e37dac1-ff90-406c-a8a5-4bafdb684f37&ccId=19000101_000001&jobId=484202&source=IN&lang=en_US&ittk=A0V0UYFGWX
Training starts: June 6, 2024
Training Hours: 9:30 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. EST
Production Hours: Monday – Friday 9:00 a.m. – 8:00 p.m. EST
Schedule: Based on business need between 9a-8p EST M-F
NO WEEKENDS!
Location: Work at Home in the following 20 states:
Alabama, Florida, Georgia, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Maryland, Michigan, Mississippi, Missouri, Nevada, North Carolina, Ohio, Pennsylvania, South Carolina, Tennessee, Texas, Virginia, West Virginia, & Wisconsin.
5.CUSTOMER SERVICE REP-PART TIME POSITION
https://wsgc.applicantstack.com/x/detail/a2qgk7jaro5b
Applicants must reside from: Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, Colorado, Connecticut, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Kansas, Maryland, Minnesota, Mississippi, Nevada, North Carolina, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Tennessee, Utah, Virginia, or Wisconsin

• 40% Discount on most merchandise!
• Fun contests / rewards and recognition programs
• Paid Training from the comfort of your home
• Internal promotional opportunities. Based on position requirements and tenure, this can occur within the first 60 days if interested
• Pay = $15.00/hr \compensation may differ due to individual state wage requirements**

Essential Functions: The nuts and bolts

• Address customer questions and concerns regarding product and delivery information
• Provide product information, review alternative solutions if an item is out of stock and place orders for the customer.

Qualifications: What you need to apply

• High School diploma or GED
• 1 – 2 years previous customer service experience

Important Facts: MUST HAVE THESE FOR CONSIDERATION

• Ability to complete mandatory paid training for 4 weeks - 100% attendance is required
• Confirm that you have the equipment requirements listed below. This will be asked throughout the interview process and could affect employment status if not met

Technology Requirements Overview:
In order to work from home, our agents must have their own full-size or all-in-one desktop personal computer, or a traditional laptop personal computer that meets the minimum specifications listed in the sections below.

Devices not acceptable:

Tablet-based/convertible personal computers (i.e. – Microsoft Surface, Surface Book), Chromebooks, Steam Decks and mobile phones (unless needed for two-factor authentication) are not acceptable.

Operating Systems:

• Windows 10 Home, Windows 10 Pro, or Windows 10 Pro for Workstations
• Windows 11 Home, Windows 11 Pro, or Windows 11 Pro for Workstations
• Mac IOS 12 or newer
• Important Facts: MUST HAVE THESE FOR CONSIDERATION
  
• Ability to complete mandatory paid training for 4 weeks - 100% attendance is required
  
• Confirm that you have the equipment requirements listed below. This will be asked throughout the interview process and could affect employment status if not met
  

Hello everyone! I am looking for a good travel card to start building miles, but was getting a bit overwhelmed with options and so I thought I would ask you lovely people :)
Current cards: (list cards, limits, opening date) Discover IT Student, $1,500 limit, October 2023
FICO Score: 742 Oldest account age: 7 months Chase 5/24 status: e.g 2/24 Income: e.g. $20,000 Average monthly spend and categories: rent:$482 dining: $400 groceries: $200 gas: $125 travel: $100 other: $200 Open to Business Cards: No What's the purpose of your next card? Travel Do you have any cards you've been looking at? Discover Travel, Capital One Venture One Rewards Are you OK with category spending or do you want a general spending card? I’m okay with either. Would probably get more out of a general spending card

I'm 19, about to turn 20, and have an Ok card. My credit score is sitting at 766, however im going to university in about 4 months, which will progressively knock down my score, as its expensive to go to my university i'll be attending. As the title states, should i try and get a good card before that, and any recommendations?
CREDIT PROFILE
-primary cardholder of one card, BECU credit union visa, 16500 limit
-equifax score of 766

• my oldest card is about 4 months, im co-signed on a card thats 4 years old.

-2 credit cards total in the past 24 months
CATEGORIES

• im ok with category specific cards, ill be a student next year so cash back will be nice.
  
• im ok with rotating cards
  
• estimated spending
  

1. 200 in dining
2. I only buy from trader joes, whole foods, and PCC. 300 spend at trader joes, and about 100 spent at whole foods/PCC
3. 100 spent on gas a month from shell, or whatevers nearest.
4. not much traveling right now, i dont have that kind of money.
5. I dont plan on using my card to travel abroad
6. I spend a lot of money on my hobbies on e-comers sites like amazon, ranging betweek 150-300 max a month. I also pay about 80 dollars for my tmobile bill a month. next year I will be spending about 1.6 grand a month on an apartment for university.
7. I'm not sure if I can pay rent with a credit card, but I will be taking out a large loan for university. On estimate, once I figure out what loans ill need to take out, it'll probably be around 25k a year.

MEMBERSHIPS

1. im a member of amazon prime
2. not a verizon member
3. not a member at any store
4. not paying for disney
5. i'm a member of BECU credit union
6. Not military
7. no business cards

PURPOSE

1. Saving money
   1. because im going to be a college student, I want to save as much money as possible/ get rewards. I'm hoping for a relatively high credit amount.
2. I have not been looking at too many cards, because I do not know whats right for me.

I have an issue with Laurentiu Spilca's "Spring Start Here" book.
In the aforementioned book, in chapter 2, the author explains how to (direct quote):

• Add new beans to the Spring context (this is the name of subsection 2.2)

in the subsection 2.2 he says stuff like

• In this section, you’ll learn how to add new object instances (i.e., beans) to the Spring context. - so create new objects already in the context? ok

He then tells me to create a separate Parrot class that I'll put inside the context later, like this:

public class Parrot { private String name; } public class Main { public static void main(String[] args) { var context = new AnnotationConfigApplicationContext(); Parrot papa = new Parrot(); } } 

Ok, I have my Parrot papa object, how do I put it in the context now... right, I have to create a method that returns the object in the configuration class:

@Bean Parrot parrot(){ Parrot p = new Parrot(); p.setName("ParrotBean"); return p; } 

But wait... this creates a new object, so why was I led to believe I'll add my own "Parrot papa" object to the context? He even makes drawings that directly imply you create a separate object in main and THEN add it to the context!
Here are the images:

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Sempre questionei meu namorado sobre aliança que ele sempre disse que daria, quando fizemos aniversário de namoro ele me levou para comprar as alianças, quando pra minha surpresa ele resolveu comprar de ouro, e disse que iria me pedir em noivado. Eu perguntei se ele tinha certeza disso porque era algo muito sério, disse que poderiamos comprar depois a de noivado, disse para conversarmos em casa antes de comprar porque não é brincar de noivinhos. Enfim, ele bateu no peito e disse que tinha certeza e que iria fazer isso. Ok, fiquei feliz pois estavamos naquela fase que briga por qualquer bobeira, comecei a sentir que era uma nova fase, cheia de esperança e planos. Até que ele decidiu pedir a minha mão para minha mãe que sempre tratou ele bem, bajulava, pedia ate pro filho dele chamar ela de vó (sempre considerei ela narcisista, o casamento dela não é exemplo de nada) e ela humilhou ele de todas as formas possíveis e como se não bastasse começou a fazer a cabeça de um monte de gente da minha família para que eles virassem a cara pra ele (eu vi mensagens e tenhos prints que minhas primas me mandaram). Eu fiquei muito puta com a minha mãe porque ela acha que eu não sabia do noivado, e achou que ele não me contaria sobre tudo que ela disse pra ele, fiquei sem falar com ela e me afastei, disse pra ele que por ser minha mãe eu não deixaria de ter contato mas não obrigaria ele de forma alguma a conviver com ela porque entendo ele e oq ele sente. Já discuti varias vezes com ela e da ultima vez ela disse que: não quer contato comigo nem com os filhos que vou gerar dele, que amaldiçoa minha descendência Disse pra ele que to com ele, que bateria de frente ate o fim, que se ele quer casar cmg, ele é a minha família e eu lutaria por ele ate o fim. Mas agora, depois de 6 meses que ele comprou a aliança, disse que vai vender e desistiu do noivado. Disse que vai comprar uma de namoro e o resto vai comprar roupa pra ele. Fiquei mal pra caramba, porque parece que tretei atoa, me sinto iludida e não sei oq fazer, só sei que não quero mais aliança nenhuma, peguej birra ate da que eu escolhi (era minha aliança dos sonhos) e agora to me questionando se vale a pena continuar, porque eu desanimei demais. Como se tivesse dado 20 passos pra trás. Ele tbm n tem mais investido tempo cmg ou me dado atenção, oq me deixa mais desanimada ainda e fico me perguntando se talvez ele quer terminar e ta sem coragem.

Deixe aqui seu conselho, mas baseado em EXPERIÊNCIAS REAIS e que VOCÊ vivenciou.
Tenho 24 anos, programador sênior (sim o sênior de 5 anos kk) e já com experiência internacional, tentando sair da programação pra viver de Mercado Livre. Considerando que tenho uma base financeira ok pra começar continuaum negócio, o que acomselham abrir? Tenho preferência por trabalhar com produtos, pois venho trabalhando com prestação de serviço desde os 18 e digo que é uma m$%@ e nada escalonável (por n fatores).

What is your company's process/procedure when a user clicks on something they shouldn't have (i.e., an e-mail with a suspicious link)?
I know this sounds basic. Do you just run a scan and, if it comes back OK, be done with it...or do you go all the way and reformat their drive and reinstall the OS? Would it be overboard if you reformat even though scans come back as safe?

AITAH? Help please! Me 50 yof and fiancé 47 yof began dating in the fall of 2019. We emotionally connected night one. 2020 was the year of COVID so we couldn’t go out much and spent many days/nights together and every weekend alternating homes due to high school age children in her home and each our own home responsibilities. We live 1 hour 45 min apart but work some days in similar city. Later 2020 she had a stroke and I was there for her and the kids day and night. In the fall of 2020 she proposed. I’m was elated! Very early 2021 I was diagnosed with breast cancer and began the fight of life with treatments ending the end of that December which like an idiot I worked through as I wanted to keep my job. I learned that hard lesson not to ever do that again. We never left each others side and she took tremendous care of me but due to cancer treatment, my low immunity, and COVID still in swing we did spend more time in my home. She somehow maintained both places for us and took care of me. We enjoy the same things and loved spending enormous amounts of time together. Due to past experiences I was not the most open nor was I one to bring up past crap to discuss but she liked and needed that discussion. I began learning to trust and open up more and more with her. We never fought with the exception of a few of her drinking excessively episodes which would become very verbal and an attempt to be physical once but would not never remember any of it. This was obviously a red flag for me and I needed to know that I knew it wouldn’t keep happening so I became not excited about getting married just yet and shut down some. The drinking no doubt became way less but I was uneasy about it still. 2022 I was still dealing with my body, mind, emotions and everything that goes with cancer recovery. I wanted to recover yesterday and just wasn’t there. Also when I had returned to work I was given an extra heavy load which I wasn’t ready for. I was utterly exhausted day and night and found it hard to have a whole lot of conversation about much of anything. I just wanted rest. She would give me articles to read about dealing with cancer, recovery, and such but I didn’t find it relevant to the situation. I went into treatment with a strong fighter mentality and it was finally over! I just needed to feel better. I knew her emotional needs weren’t being met and said things like “please give me more time to heal” which turned into “I can’t heal fast enough for you but I want to badly.” We went on vacation for the first time that summer which we both needed greatly with all we had been through. A communication issue arose and each of us not feeling heard which drinking me decided to walk a long distance back to the hotel while trying not to interact with her. We finished the vacation and had some good times but there was still clearly some raw distance feelings going on. When we returned I left and later when I ask if she wanted all her things and did I returned them. We did continue to talk and were able to resume our relationship. We had talked of moving in together for a long time even before cancer but it was on hold due to one child still being at home and deciding to stay local for college for awhile. We began what we now know to be anxious, her, avoidant, me, vicious cycle. We both knew we were in a bad place but not understanding or knowing how to talk to and with one another which turned out to being me talked about more than with me I felt including strangers on vacation. November 2023 we went to a therapist returning also in December but hadn’t gotten very far with him just yet then with holidays didn’t fit in another session. To late sadly. There were more hurt feelings of her feeling dismissed and me being shut down, we weren’t able to communicate effectively and I didn’t feel safe doing so related to the anxious attachment behavior. She would have a few beers often and the thoughts of would it be to much again were always present for me. She didn’t but it didn’t take away my fear. The anxious attachment reaction to yell and all that goes with it would push me to shut down not feeling safe to talk and the more I shut down the more anxious she became. At the end of the first week of January 2024 I left again. We didn’t speak for 3 weeks until I began reaching out endlessly to reconnect and return to the therapist. We both said the first week apart was like a relief. The second and third week I spent researching any books I could find to understand what was going on and how to repair us which is were I learned about anxious avoidant attachment. I sent the audible book to her and she also went through it. We then reconnected face to face mid March, talking every day, attempting to heal our hurts, and spend time together again. It was so beautiful! I have worked extremely hard to understand my past behavior, take responsibility, ask for forgiveness and talk about how I should have and will now do things differently. We both have. In April she had a set back and withdrew saying her feelings for me weren’t there yet but we would continue talking and date. I am ok with that as it takes time to rebuild trust, heal hurts, and love again and I’m willing to give her all the time she needs. I did learn in April during the midst of our few weeks apart she had a rebound encounter which we talked about and I forgive and will forget because I love her so much and want a life with her. Next thing I know I’m thrown into the friends only zone with the desire to keep talking and texting and eventually spend time together doing things. A couple weeks ago I seen at her son’s graduation she had someone with her (different from the rebound I’m told but both rebounds UAF!) and was being affectionate with. I’m devastated. We have each continued with the therapist separately. I have dug deep within myself to learn and grow and have expressed everything I know to her. She has also made progress learning and growing but says she’s still hurt and can’t get past me leaving and while she acknowledges her anxious behavior and my avoidant cycle, it’s merely that I left. We were not in a healthy, productive place, no ability to effectively communicate before and now we can. I remain to have an unconditional love for her and desire us to be together. She didn’t like when I brought up the word unconditional. How can someone say they now understand, give and accept forgiveness, yet remain apart but desire to remain close friends and spend time together? I admit I’ve not seen or experienced a healthy love life but unconditional to me means just that, e figure it out and grow together. I’ve tried to me angry but I simply can not be that way, it’s not who I am, nor her. Here it is mid May and in a week we fly out of state together for my family’s graduation. She still wants family which I fully don’t understand and request she not plan on being part of family picture that are planned. I’m sure that hurt but shouldn’t we draw a line somewhere? She’s not comfort coming to other family events like baseball games and such saying she isn’t comfortable staying in the other room due to distance of work yet planning to stay in my hotel room next weekend. IF she even goes (me saying this not her). FYI the flight is non refundable. I’m an emotional wreck daily and don’t know how to move past her.

E ai, pessoal.
Seguinte, queria algumas dicas de como sobreviver como dev sem tomar um burnout na empresa.
Só contextualizando, já deve ser a minha terceira experiência que percebo os mesmo sinais: empresa desorganizada, nenhuma metodologia, sênior pior que pai ausente, dono inimigo dos direitos trabalhistas, etc. Sinceramente, eu quero muito me desenvolver profissionalmente a ponto de no futuro ocupar um cargo de tech lead ou gerente de projetos.
Sou proativo, muito comunicativo, sei fazer um trabalho muito bom e desde que entrei na empresa o projeto que estou atuando evoluiu muito por iniciativas que eu puxei. Mas puta que pariu, não queria me desenvolver levando chicotada todos os dias, eu não reclamaria se tivesse um salário condizente, beneficios bons, ambiente de trabalho flexivel e colaborativo, entre outros fatores que permitem a qualidade de vida.
Atualmente trabalho com prazos apertados, mudanças de escopo de última hora, tenho muito retrabalho porque a gerência não sabe priorizar atividades e acha que mudar algo no sistema é igual arrastar imagem no photoshop, features de última hora e trabalho fora do expediente. Pra vocês terem ideia, existem tomadas de decisões onde eu sugiro: "olha, não faz assim, não vai funcionar no futuro". E mesmo assim eles querem dessa forma e quem tem que se virar pra entregar sou eu. Logo depois acontece o que eu tanto falei e eles voltam atrás me dando razão.
Enfim, ninguém quer ser o cara chato que diz "eu te avisei". Já não tô com cabeça pra ficar lidando com a gestão como se fossem crianças em alfabetização, não quero ficar pegando na mão dos outros dev pra me ajudarem e não quero ficar cobrando mudanças ou mendigar pra sênior fazer o minimo.
Atualmente adotei algumas sugestões que encontrei por aqui como um "semi quiet quitting". Precisam de mim fora do expediente? Não contem comigo. Quer a feature desse jeito? Ok. Deu problema? Poxa, você pediu assim. Consertar bug de última hora? Vou tentar mas não estou conseguindo, amanhã no final do dia te entrego. Não tem arquitetura, regra de negócios e tudo mais? Beleza, se não tem então não faço. Feature pra ontem? Era pra ter me pedido anteontem,
Por favor, considerem que nem todos são um dev que ganha 20k por mês com alta qualificação e pode mudar de empresa a hora que quiser. A realidade pra grande maioria não é assim.
Aceito ideias e sugestões que me permitam me desenvolver profissionalmente mas também impor meus limites. Se é que isso é possível, dá última vez que impus algo fui tachado como antiético e antiprofissional