Kawan saya kena blackmail. Dia chat dengan orang di telegram. Hantar gambar full face nude, yg hilang selepas tengok. Tak tahu macam mana, phone orang yg dia chat tu kena hack, ada gambar dan history chat.
Hacker tu blackmail dia. Semalam dia dah bayar rm 2000 kat hacker. Hari ni dia mintak duit lagi... kawan saya sekarang tengah stress gila tak tahu nak buat...
Dia takde Reddit, so I tulis ni on his behalf. Harap ada orang yg boleh tolong apa yg patut buat. Any suggestions please?
Terima kasih.
Edit: Thanks guys. I share the link of this post to him and he really appreciated all the responses. He already blocked the blackmailer, delete all the chats. Korang semua are the best. 👍💪
Aku perlukan distraction ni coz sekarang ni aku tengah sakit gigi. So aku nak korang kongsi la pengalaman korang time korang sakit gigi. Apa yg korang buat? Terus ke klinik gigi or just ambil painkillers? Or just tahan sakit tu macam tu je?? Or korang ada petua sakit gigi yg korang boleh kongsi?
Sejak awal bulan Mac lagi aku dah mengalami masalah gigi yang teruk, sakit gigi dan kesakitan di sekeliling bahagian kanan rahang/muka , telinga dan leher aku. Masa awal bulan Mac tu, aku tak buat apa-apa sgt coz rasa sakit itu taklah terlalu teruk dan dapat diredakan dengan painkillers (Naproxen Sodium), dan aku jugak kunyah bawang putih tiap kali aku sakit sakit gigi and it really worked!
Sampaila sekarang ni, akhir bulan April and dah masuk bulan Mei, aku mula mengalami sakit gigi yang paling teruk sekali. Aku rasa sakit ini disebabkan oleh gigi atas aku yang retak and dah berlubang. Bahagian kanan rahang/muka, telinga dan leher aku sakit giler sampai berdenyut2. Kadang2 aku bimbang kalau2 jangkitan teruk ni dah sampai ke otak aku. Macam nak pecah kepala aku dibuatnya. Salah aku jugak sebab malas pergi klinik gigi utk check up😭. Padan muka aku.
Semalam, aku ambik masa lebih kurang 4 jam untuk tidur coz of sakit gigi yg teramat sangat! Aku try berkumur dengan air garam and kunyah bawang putih. Sakit tu hilang la sekejap sebelum pusingan ke-2 sakit tu start lagi. Aku ambik painkillers tapi tak berkesan sangat. Serius wei, aku rasa sakit gigi la sakit yang paling teruk sekali sampai tak boleh nak tidur, tak boleh nak buat pape pun. Rasa cam nak nangis je.
Esok aku nak try ke klinik gigi nak cabut terus gigi yg rosak ni. Harap2 semuanya dipermudahkan esok.
Thanks pada yg sudi baca cerita aku and thanks pada yg sudi kongsi cerita/pengalaman sakit gigi korang!
Edit: Aku baru je balik dari klinik (KKM) tadi. Alhamdulillah dah remove pun gigi yg rosak ni. Nasib baik tak sakit time doktor remove coz doktor bg ubat bius. Doktor ckp susah jugak nk remove coz gigi aku dah tinggal separuh 😬 tp Alhamdulillah, semuanya dah settle. Hrp2 lepas hilg kesan ubat bius ni xla sakit sgt.
Again, thanks sangat2 pada yg sudi baca story/experience aku and thanks juga pada yg sudi share story/pengalaman korang😁. Rupa2nya, ramai gak yg senasib dgn aku.
Sejujurnya aku rasa diri aku sgt tak berguna, aku m35..tahun 2021 lepas vaksin aku jatuh sakit yg sgt teruk, dan doktor sahkan aku gout, aku terlantar sampai 6 bln, satu bdn tak boleh nk gerak, kaki, tangan, lutut, bahu semua bengkak dlm masa yg sama, kepala rasa nk pecah dan aku rasa mcm nk mati je time tu.
Aku seorg technician laptop/komputer, sebelum sakit, pendapatan aku ok, aku takde pekerja, aku kerja berdua ngan bini aku, kedai kecik je, pendapatan takla sampai mampu nk gajikan pekerja, lepas terlantar 6 bln, aku pegi keje pakai tongkat kaki 4, sampai hujung tahun 2023 baru boleh jln tanpa tongkat. Waktu tu customer pun dah kurang sgt, ramai yg kol wasap tanya waktu aku terlantar tp aku mmg tak mampu nk keje lansung time tu.
Bila buka kedai mcm biasa pulak, customer tak ramai, kesihatan tak menentu, kadang tak larat nk bgn lansung, pg mkn painkiller dulu sebelum buat keje, sakit tetap tak henti2, buat keje dgn kaki tgn, lutut, bahu, peha semua sakit, mmg lain mcm penangan sakit ni, bertahun dah.
Customer pulak tiap kali aku bg harga msti ckp mahal, buka laptop sana, buka printer sini, buat keje dgn tgn bengkak2, ada sekali tu 3 hari aku tak mkn, aku puasa minum air je, bini aku pulak mkn nasi lemak biasa rm3 je sehari sekali, da la kurus kering, kesian dia..ada sekali tu aku betolkan laptop tak hidup, aku caj rm80 dan dia ckp mahal, serius aku down nk mampus dgn kelaparan, duit semua habis dah byr sewa kedai.
Kadang aku terfikir, dlm laman sosial punye la ramai org baik, komen isu itu ini, support org susah tp dlm dunia realiti aku tak rasa semua tu, walaupun ada customer yg baik bg upah walaupun aku tak caj, tp kebanyakan yg aku jumpa adalah yg menekan peniaga nk murah..dan bkn stail aku nk bgtau org yg aku sakit suruh support perniagaan aku.
Dan akhirnye tahun 2023 aku tak mampu meneruskan perniagaan aku dah..kesihatan aku tetap tak makin baik, bengkak je kurang lps dpt ubat allopurinol, tp tetap tak dpt jalan jauh, berdiri lama, lutut lembik, duduk lantai mmg tak boleh, solat kat kerusi, tgn nk buka penutup botol pun kadang tak boleh dia punye lembik.
Skrg aku duduk rumah je tumpang rumah mak berdua ngan bini aku, tp rumah mak pun rumah sewa, bkn rumah sendiri, mak masih keje tukang masak. Aku lansung tak dpt nk bg ape pun dkat keluarga aku, duit takde keje takde..kalau aku nk cari keje pun, aku mmg tak mampu lg buat masa ni..
Sebagai seorg abg yg dulu mak ayh aku hantar asrama (sekolah bdk pndai), tp skrg aku lah yg paling takde ape berbanding adk2 aku yg sekolah biasa je..dan aku gagal, aku muda lg tp aku dah tak mampu, sampai terpikir, kenapalah aku tak meninggal je waktu aku sakit tu????
Edit : Rumah aku tingkat 2, aku pegi pasar dgn mak aku, aku park kejap dkat dgn tangga nak bwk turun brg, lorong rumah tu jd sempit sikit, ada kereta nak lalu aku dah bg isyarat tangan kejap nk betolkan kereta, dah nak sampai pintu kereta, boleh pulak akak tu himpit bwk laju smpai kene side mirror kat perot dan langgar hujung jari kaki aku, apelah nasib badan, kejam betol dunia ni, rasa macam satu dunia nak aku mati kot.
Ehh boleh ke aku luahkan kat sini??mcm lain mcm je post yg lain2 tu..😳
Sori, panjang tulisan ni, mohon doakan aku sihat semula seperti dulu, dimurahkan rezeki dan boleh membahagiakan keluarga aku..
Hey everybody, I probably did something stupid, so I'm sorry for asking if it's straightforward. This isn't my first time modding. I have modded STALKER Anomaly, Fallout 4, & a few other games; however, this is my first time using MO2 for Skyrim. I will post my load order now. Also,
here is a link to a video showing my problem. I am going to bed after I post this, but I will check tomorrow afternoon to see if anyone has come up with a solution. I am stumped on this, so I would appreciate it if you could find anything or a direction to look in. I also use an ENB and NAT 3 with a patch, which makes the two play friendly. I suspect, however, that it may be an armor mod issue; however, none of the other armors are affected. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks!
Mod_Priority,#Mod_Status,#Mod_Name
"0000","+","Creation Club: ccBGSSSE001-Fish"
"0001","+","Creation Club: _ResourcePack"
"0002","+","Unmanaged: FNIS"
"0003","+","DLC: HearthFires"
"0004","+","DLC: Dragonborn"
"0005","+","DLC: Dawnguard"
"0006","+","Creation Club: ccQDRSSE001-SurvivalMode"
"0007","+","Creation Club: ccBGSSSE037-Curios"
"0008","+","Creation Club: ccBGSSSE025-AdvDSGS"
"0009","+","NAT.ENB - ESP WEATHER PLUGIN v3.1.1C - Fixed"
"0010","+","UIExtensions"
"0011","+","Alternate Perspective"
"0012","+","MfgFix"
"0013","+","Simplest Horses - Main File"
"0014","+","Animated Whistling FNIS Nemesis"
"0015","+","Simplest Horses - Animated Whistling Patch"
"0016","+","SkyUI_5_2_SE"
"0017","+","powerofthree's Papyrus Extender"
"0018","+","Spell Perk Item Distributor"
"0019","+","Unofficial Skyrim Special Edition Patch"
"0020","+","At Your Own Pace - College of Winterhold"
"0021","+","At Your Own Pace - Dark Brotherhood"
"0022","+","At Your Own Pace - Companions"
"0023","+","At Your Own Pace - Dawnguard"
"0024","+","At Your Own Pace - Dragonborn"
"0025","+","At Your Own Pace - Main Quest"
"0026","+","At Your Own Pace - Misc"
"0027","+","At Your Own Pace - Thieves Guild"
"0028","+","Northern Roads"
"0029","+","Unmarked Locations Pack"
"0030","+","Unmarked Locations Pack - Fixes"
"0031","+","Flat World Map Framework"
"0032","+","Immersive Paper Map SkyUI The Adventurer Theme Edition"
"0033","+","Immersive Armors 8.1 SSE Test"
"0034","+","Cannibal Draugr on Solstheim"
"0035","+","Train and Study 1.0 SSE"
"0036","+","Immersive Spell Learning"
"0037","+","Pumping Iron"
"0038","+","Mild Traps"
"0039","+","Crafting Requires Tools 1.1"
"0040","+","Immersion and Lore Continuity"
"0041","+","Loki_WadeInWater"
"0042","+","Wade In Water Redone"
"0043","+","Flying Crows SSE"
"0044","+","Better Jumping SE"
"0045","+","Vampire Lords Can Fly"
"0046","+","Crosshair-aligned Crossbow"
"0047","+","Dynamic Fus Ro Dah"
"0048","+","Powers Keyring"
"0049","+","JContainers SE"
"0050","+","Use Those Blankets"
"0051","+","Gotobed-se"
"0052","+","LazyRenamer 0.20.0"
"0053","+","College of Winterhold Bridge Fix"
"0054","+","Cult of the World Eater (SPID) 1.3"
"0055","+","Inquisition"
"0056","+","Fires Hurt SE"
"0057","+","Stylish Dwemer Blades Replacer 5.0"
"0058","+","Stylish Bronze Dwemer Replacer (1.0.0)"
"0059","+","Astronomer's Loft Main File Version 1.1 (OPEN CITIES)"
"0060","+","Lunar Weapons Replacer"
"0061","+","PuzzleVariations_1_1_2"
"0062","+","Horsemen Torch Wield Fix and Mount Tweaks SE"
"0063","+","AAR - Wabbajack"
"0064","+","Forget Spell"
"0065","+","Player Spell Lighting"
"0066","+","Immersive Spell Effects Emit Light"
"0067","+","Magic Sneak Attacks"
"0068","+","Unattuned - Immersive Spell Failure"
"0069","+","Gesture Animation Remix (OAR) - main archive"
"0070","+","Immersive Folded Hands (OAR)"
"0071","+","More to Say"
"0072","+","Relationship Dialogue Overhaul - RDO Final"
"0073","+","Immersive Citizens - AI Overhaul"
"0074","+","4K Vanilla"
"0075","+","DigitigradeKhajiit_ArgonianRaptor"
"0076","+","CoverKhajiits 4K"
"0077","+","RaceMenu Special Edition"
"0078","+","Expressive Facial Animation - Female Edition"
"0079","+","Expressive Facial Animation - Male Edition"
"0080","+","High Poly Vanilla Hair"
"0081","+","High Poly Head SE"
"0082","+","High Poly True To Vanilla NPC Overhaul"
"0083","+","Vampires Cast No Shadow"
"0084","+","Vampires Masquerade"
"0085","+","Vampires Have Claws"
"0086","+","Feral - Go for the Throat SSE"
"0087","+","Volkihar Knight SE 1.0.0"
"0088","+","Dusty Vampire Dust SE"
"0089","+","Vampire Lines Expansion"
"0090","+","Weapon Styles - DrawSheathe Animations for IED"
"0091","+","Read Or Take SKSE"
"0092","+","Use Telekinesis on Traps - po3's Papyrus Extender Version"
"0093","+","Security Overhaul SKSE - Lock Variations"
"0094","+","Horse Stamina HUD SE"
"0095","+","OxygenMeter2"
"0096","+","dMenu"
"0097","+","Better Third Person Selection (AE - SE)"
"0098","+","Super Fast Get Up Animation"
"0099","+","Tools not weapons DAR animations"
"0100","+","Don't sheat bound weapons"
"0101","+","Blind people DAR animations"
"0102","+","Assorted Animation Fixes"
"0103","+","Main file"
"0104","+","MCM Helper"
"0105","+","Beards of Power - BSA version"
"0106","+","BeastHHBB"
"0107","+","Lord of Coldharbour"
"0108","+","Dynamic Collision Adjustment"
"0109","+","Animation Motion Revolution"
"0110","+","Blade and Blunt - A Combat Overhaul"
"0111","+","Mysticism - A Magic Overhaul"
"0112","+","True Directional Movement"
"0113","+","Archery Locational Damage"
"0114","+","TrueHUD"
"0115","+","Precision"
"0116","+","Dual Casting Fix"
"0117","+","Vanilla hair remake SMP"
"0118","+","XP32 Maximum Skeleton Special Extended"
"0119","+","SMP-NPC crash fix"
"0120","+","FSMPV - FSMP-Validator - HDT-SMP XML Schema"
"0121","+","FSMPM - The FSMP MCM"
"0122","+","No ESP - SE"
"0123","+","ConsoleUtilSSE NG"
"0124","+","ConsoleUtilSSE"
"0125","+","SSE FPS Stabilizer ini file"
"0126","+","CrashLogger"
"0127","+","Race-Based Textures (RBT)"
"0128","+","Cities of the North - Falkreath Patch"
"0129","+","Cities of the North - Morthal"
"0130","+","Thuldor's Ivarstead Patch Collection"
"0131","+","SkyPatcher - SE"
"0132","+","Thuldor's Ivarstead"
"0133","+","The Great Town of Shor's Stone 1.04"
"0134","+","The Great Town of Karthwasten 1.2"
"0135","+","Rudy ENB NAT ADDONS and REQUiRED Files"
"0136","+","SSE Parallax Shader Fix (BETA)"
"0137","+","QW's Grass Patch 2"
"0138","+","Origins Of Forest - 3D Forest Grass"
"0139","+","Cathedral - 3D Pine Grass"
"0140","+","1fsse"
"0141","+","1DwemerArmorSE"
"0142","+","xavbio's meshes - 3BA"
"0143","+","Radzig - Johnskyrim"
"0144","+","ArteFakes"
"0145","+","Believable weapons"
"0146","+","Kynreeve Armor SSE"
"0147","+","Crafting Categories for SkyUI"
"0148","+","Rudy HQ - Miscellaneous SE"
"0149","+","Environs - Master Plugin"
"0150","+","Skill Based Dynamic Animations AIO"
"0151","+","Environs - Kolskeggr"
"0152","+","Scribes of Skyrim - a font extension"
"0153","+","Default Face NPCs Fixed"
"0154","+","COIN - Coins of Interesting Natures"
"0155","+","LockBash NG"
"0156","+","Suspicious City Guards"
"0157","+","Relic of Dawnstar"
"0158","+","Ryn's Azura's Shrine"
"0159","+","s6o6t Lore - Dark Anchors Ruins and Dolmens - no map markers"
"0160","+","Oblivion Gates Remade"
"0161","+","Racial Body Morphs - Extreme 2.1"
"0162","+","Karstaag - The Frost King Reborn"
"0163","+","Jiub - Morrowind Appearance"
"0164","+","Ancient Nord Stalhrim"
"0165","+","Bonemold Weapon Pack"
"0166","+","Tamrielic Distribution"
"0167","+","1DaedraSE"
"0168","+","1MorrowindCreaturesSE"
"0169","+","Oblivion Artifact Pack"
"0170","+","ESOImports 10 0 1"
"0171","+","VolcanicHeatHaze-by-fadingsignal.rar"
"0172","+","Rudification - Rudy Candles Expanded"
"0173","+","Smoking Torches and Candles SSE"
"0174","+","Immersive Death Cycle"
"0175","+","Gildergreen Regrown"
"0176","+","Blowing in the Wind"
"0177","+","Rainbows Remade - 4K Version"
"0178","+","Splashes Of Storms"
"0179","+","Environs - Abandoned Abodes - Patch Collection"
"0180","+","Environs - Abandoned Abodes"
"0181","+","Read the Room"
"0182","+","powerofthree's Tweaks"
"0183","+","Immersive Laundry - Animated"
"0184","+","Laundy Improvements 1.0"
"0185","+","Immersive Laundry 1.0d SSE"
"0186","+","NPCs React To Invisibility"
"0187","+","pigeons (se-ae) 1.2"
"0188","+","Better tomboys"
"0189","+","Riverwood Trader Is A Mess"
"0190","+","Store Entrance Doorbells"
"0191","+","Dirt and Blood"
"0192","+","After the Civil War - Siege Damage Repairs"
"0193","+","Simple Inn Bath - 10 Gold ESL-Flagged Version"
"0194","+","GG's Impoverished Whiterun (Parallax)"
"0195","+","HPP - High Poly Project 4K Textures.rar"
"0196","+","-Rodryk's Dragon Bridge (Parallax)"
"0197","+","Cities of the North - Dawnstar"
"0198","+","The Great City of Winterhold 4.1.1"
"0199","+","Faster HDT-SMP"
"0200","+","Folkvangr - Grass and Landscape Overhaul"
"0201","+","Happy Little Trees"
"0202","+","Dwemer Pipework Reworked 5"
"0203","+","Rudy HQ - Nordic Ruins SE version"
"0204","+","Hyperborean Snow 4K"
"0205","+","Northern Shores 4K"
"0206","+","Lux (patch hub)"
"0207","+","Resurgence Armory - Iron Weapons and Armor Overhaul"
"0208","+","Skyrim Remastered - Caves 4K Parallax"
"0209","+","Penobscot War Bow [SSE]"
"0210","+","Cave Parallax 4k"
"0211","+","Water for ENB"
"0212","+","1NDArmorSE"
"0213","+","Septentrional Landscapes 4K SE"
"0214","+","Injected Animated Armoury"
"0215","+","Fried's Male Skin Textures v2"
"0216","+","Fried's Female Skin Textures - Vanilla"
"0217","+","NAT Stand Alone - 0.4.2 c"
"0218","+","Inventory Interface Information Injector (SE)"
"0219","+","NAT-ENB GRIM PATCH"
"0220","+","Beyond Skyrim - DLC Integration Patch 1.6.2"
"0221","+","Beyond Skyrim - Assets"
"0222","+","The Great Cities Resources"
"0223","+","Beyond Skyrim - Bruma"
"0224","+","Static Mesh Improvement Mod"
"0225","+","Lux"
"0226","+","Lux - Via"
"0227","+","SRP Landscapes 4K - Complex Terrain Parallax"
"0228","+","Base Object Swapper"
"0229","+","Beyond Skyrim - Wares of Tamriel 1.5.2 SE"
"0230","+","PapyrusUtil AE SE - Scripting Utility Functions"
"0231","+","s6o6t LORE - DARaD AE ESPFE"
"0232","+","All in one Address Library (Anniversary Edition)"
"0233","+","(Part 1) SSE Engine Fixes for 1.6.1170 and newer"
"0234","+","Detection Meter v0.17 NG"
"0235","+","Bug Fixes SSE - Anniversary Edition (1.6.629.0 and later)"
"0236","+","Fuz Ro D'oh"
"0237","+","Immersive Equipment Displays for 1.6.629 and newer"
"0238","+","Soaking Wet for 1.6.629 and newer"
"0239","+","Scrambled Bugs - Anniversary Edition (1.6.629.0 and later)"
"0240","+","ENB Helper SE 2.2 for 1.6.629 and up"
That's my load order so far. I plan to add more, but please let me know if any conflicts are apparent that a first-time Skyrim modder like me would need help understanding. Anyway, goodnight, and see you in the afternoon.
(Probably around 5:00-6:00, so much later than afternoon now that I think about it.)
kisah yg nak aku bawakan kali ni dtgnya dari sorang member yg nak namanya dirahsiakan. takda apa2 persoalan dan pendapat pun diperlukan. kisah ni hanya sekadar luahan. semoga boleh jd iktibar dan pengajaran pada yg lain.
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Aku pernah bercinta dan i gave him something that I have kept for 28 years. Aku bagi sebab aku pun curious ttg benda2 ni. Dan part of me want him to stay.
Kata dia, aku jaga dia elok sangat2. Jaga dia mcm jaga suami. Time LDR pun aku update dia sana sini xpernah miss update apa2. Tiba2 aku tahu sebenarnya dia dah kahwin tapi separated. Aku tahu pun sbb aku terjumpa dalam satu official document pasal ni. Hancur luluh hati aku. Sbb prinsip aku mudah. Aku tak nak kacau laki orang. Dan semua org pun tahu aku mmg takkan kacau laki orang.
Dia janji dgn aku dia nak bercerai dgn ex dia sbb dah lama separated. Dia pun curang and makan luar, ex dia pun curang jugak. Bila aku confront dia, dia tak ada tarikh. And paling aku bengang, dorang still berjumpa, dia still layan ex dia special. Aku ni apa? Sampah? So aku push dia utk tarikh. Aku push dia buktikan aku ni penting.
Long story short ex dia start cyberbully aku. Dia pulak still nak protect ex dia dan aku jadi korban dan lauk kawan2 ex dia. Sampai ada ugut bunuh. Bila aku ambil tindakan undang2, dia kata aku agresif. Dah aku kena tipu, kena itu ini, aku nak toleh kat sapa?
Aku pernah luah benda ni kat subreddit lain. Sbb aku tak tahu nak turn to who. Parents? Kawan2? Aib kot. Aku tanya reddit sebab aku tak tahu nak buat apa. Aku tak boleh trust dia. Aku tak boleh nak move on dgn segala apa dia buat kat aku. Walhal dia kemain komen mintak nak jumpa "his precious" kat subreddit lain time we all masih together
Dan aku syak dia marah kaw2. Tapi at least, aku x mcm ex dia buat live tiktok malukan dia siap dedah benda2 kelamin. Aku still jaga air muka dia dpn family aku, dpn kawan2 aku.
Seminggu sebelum raya, aku randomly mintak nak cek phone dia. Dan dia blah sebab dia kata ada benda boleh abwa gaduh. Banyak dia sorok belakang aku. And dia confess dia install tinder and bumble sbb dia "lost spark" kata aku ni agresif sangat. And sebab dia belum kahwin tapi cakap we are in a committed relay. Korang rasa apa perasaan aku?
Aku campak barang dia keluar rumah sebab terlalu sakit (we stay together kat apartment aku). Ya mmg silap aku. Tapi aku terlalu sakit, tak mampu aku nak bersabar dah. Getting cheated on and on. We broke up sebab dia cakap aku agresif sangat. Walhal aku still nak repair relay dgn dia walaupun aku terlampau sakit dengan semua ni.
Now dia cakap, dia just nak guna body aku for sex. Sbb there is no relay lagi between us. And benda ni buat aku rasa kotor sangat. Yes. Sex is awesome when its only lust, but sakit tu lain. Aku rasa mcm aku ni tak ada harga diri sebab if that what makes him stay, so be it. And aku dah start rasa nak cari fwb, buat benda2 risky, but that is not me.
Sakit tu tak boleh bincang, hari2 aku nangis. Hari2 aku pendam. Banyak benda dia buat belakang aku. Aku diam. Dan at this point, walaupun aku x kisah pasal dara ke apa, aku still rasa mcm aku ni murah. And complicated lahai nak explain kalau kantoi if i ever get married.
Mcm tulah aku rasa. Dia masih lek and chill as if there is nothing happened. Dont get me wrong, dia baik, dia caring. Cuma gaslighting, cheating, aku mmg tak boleh. Aku silap sbb aku mengamuk. Tapi mudahnya dia walkaway sebab dia tak nak deal dgn amukkan aku.
Aku just berharap aku tak jadi slut and fuck around. Aku berharap whatever happens in the future, siapa pun yg hadir dlm hidup aku nanti terimalah aku seadanya.
Doakan aku geng.
Dah lama fikir pasal rumah impian. Apa yang nak, apa yang tak nak. Tapi salah satu benda yang terfikir adalah mengenai cooling system yang automatik.
Sekarang tengah tertarik nak buat rumah guna interlocking . Dalam tu boleh buat letak piping system dgn wiring. Terfikir nak letak pipe mati yang ada air dekat dalam. Air memang tinggi thermal conductivity, murah, readily available. maybe kena guna conductive pipe mcm copper utk lebih efficient heat transfer.
Cuma tak tahu efficient ke tidak. Ada jugak query caveat letak extensive piping system dalam dinding. Takut masalah humidity dgn condensation cecair dekat dinding brick. Takut rosak, crack etc. Kalau pipe pecah, jenuh nak bukak repair damage.
Ni cuma bayangan dgn angan². Good house design should be realiable and cheap to maintain. Semut dgn anai² buat sarang mampu buat kita kagum. Tinggal kita nak ambil manfaat je.
Aku tak tahu nk luah mana so aku luah secara anon. Aku (M20), dated dgn (F20). Relay kitorang dh hampir 18bulan mcmtu. Mula2 mmg okay and teruk at the same times. Gadoh memanjang. Bulan 3 2023, kitorang break for the first time tpi getback. Then break balik on April sebab dia tahu aku pernah "Plan" nk date classmate aku lepas aku "Break" dgn dia bulan 3 tu. Pastu getback balik secara okay. Bulan 6 break lak. Tpi getback after a few days. Pastu bulan 10 2023, break lak. Ni mmg last in la in aku punya side sebab aku couple breakup. Tpi ni lah break up paling mencabar.
So apa yg jadi sebab aku break bulan 10 ni? Dia afa tegur cara aku bergurau tpi jawapan aku lepas teguran dia mmg tak kena sebab dia expect jawapan lain. Katanya dia dh tak tahan so dia nk break. Aku pun agrees. The next day, dia ajak fix tpi aku taknak. Dia ni ada habit yg menggunakan "Breakup" as satu cara untuk sedarkan aku dri salah aku, tpi dia taknak fully break. Aku mmg amik "Breakup" as penggunaan asal dia, untuk putus smthing. So entire bulan october tu mmg gadoh besar. Dia report kawan baik aku, and kawan baik aku mmg masuk side dia and suruh dia left aku. Aku lak after "Breakup" nk move on and try orang baru. Dia tahu and dia label aku ni "Curang" while takde apa2 dah dgn dia.
Aku mmg tak kesah tpi bermasam muka la dgn kawan baik aku. Entire hujung October hingga hujung bulan November, dia mcm paksa aku cpl dgn dia. Aku mmg taknak sebab dh 4 kali break. So mmg penat. Dia ckp "couple lain byk je break dri kita tpi date jugak sampai kahwin". Aku mmg jenis taknak break byk kali sebab aku taknak waste masa aku. And tak healthy langsung setahun break 4 kali. So aku pun agrees atas kesian dkt dia. More like situationship lah. Tpi bulan 1 tu break lak sebab dia taknak dh dgn aku. So aku pun nk off start hidup baru. Kenal dgn sorang, mula talking stage tpi Ex aku tu dtg balik. Paksa aku date. Paksa siap blackmail mcm2 nk bgitahu parents aku apa yg aku wat. Kitorang pernah sexting lah and nk use it as evidence untuk buat parents aku benci aku.
Dia ada trouble parents. And dia pernah vape sebab katanya "stress" apa yg aku wat. And salahkan aku sebab dia vape. And kantoi apa dia wat. Pernah Kantoi jugak dgn parents dia sebab dia keluar malam kul 2-3pgi. Tpi mcm dia marah aku balik sebab tegur dia dgn keluar lambat. So mmg gado sebab benda tu yg buat kami break on May.
So back to the story, alasan dia nk bgitahu sebab nk tgk aku gadoh dgn parent aku mcm mana dia rasa, and nk tgk aku sakit mcm mana dia sakit. So aku counter lah. Everyday bangun tido gado non-stop sampai sekarang. Awek aku nk try tu left aku sebab tahu aku in contact dgn exgf aku. Ada satu waktu, dia ajak jadi kawan so aku agrees. Lepastu, dia marah sebab aku try balik dgn girl yg left aku. Dia marah. Aku ckp balik "kita kawan" tpi dia ckp "I agrees sebab untuk kebaikan you" So dia mcm nak salahkan aku untuk sebab benda yg jadi dkt diri dia. Aku ckp benda tu atas orang. Atas pilihan tpi dia cut aku.
So lately, gadoh balik. And dia paksa aku date. Alasan sama, dia nk blackmail aku. Aku mcm ckp nk situationship je. Dia agree tpi everyday gado. Dia mmg controlling, pegang ig smua kecuali Ws and Tele. Pastu nk aku wat benda sama. Dia suka tgk aku jeles tpi benda tu aku tak layan sgt.
So yes, skrng mmg frust gila. Tak tahu nk wat apa. Kepala aku mcm nk pecah, everyday gado non-stop. Gadoh benda sama and dia mmg blackmail aku non-stop if dia tak dpt apa dia nak. Aku mmg nk tarik diri relay tu sebab mmg toxic gila.
Aku suruh dia cari lain tpi dia taknak sebab aku taknak sebab dia sayang and nk jadikan apa yg aku plan dgn dia jdi realiti. Plan nk kawin apa semua. Aku ckp tu plan je klau Tuhan xbgi, tak bgi gak. So mmg aku frust. Mcm2 lah aku dh luah. Kawan aku, orang yg aku rapat dan percaya, adik2 aku. Sbab aku xtahu nk cari tolong dri sapa.
Dia marah aku sebab aku luah. Tpi dia luah lgi awal. Dkt adik aku, dkt sepupu aku. Luah tpi mcm nk suruh orang yg dia dgr luahan tu masuk side dia supaya dia ada advantage untuk counter aku.
Aku jenis yg nonchalant skit. Jenis tak amik peduli sgt. And byk kali dia suka sgt buat aku marah or try amik attention aku untuk engage borak dgn dia. Kadang post tiktok dkt status mcm menyindir aku tpi aku tak peduli apa.
Aku mmg taknak continue dgn dia. Sebab mmg dh tawar hati. Tpi date pun sebab blackmail tu. Ya aku faham dia apa rasa tpi atleast dia bleh change for the better. Tapi taknak. Dia tahu aku keep "sakitkan" dia tpi dia nak jugak dgn aku. Ibarat masuk kadang singa. Tpi marah singa tu untuk cuba nk makan kau. Sedangkan tahu singa tu makan orang.
Context: Aku dah ambil gambar sendiri, edit pastu print, last-last abang kat kaunter JPJ itu kata kena pakai gambar IC sebab sekarang lesen kan digital. Kalau korang dah update gambar IC in the future, dia akan update sekali dekat lesen, at least itu apa yang aku diberitahu lah. All in all, aku bersyukur aku dah ada lesen P. 👍🏻
I wanted to share my experience here, so that others will be aware. Please know that this is not meant to be a target on any party, but more about highlighting the injustice and unfairness towards the everyday road user in Malaysia. In this case, it happened to me, but someday, it could be you or your loved ones. So I hope this helps bring awareness.
On 18 February 2024, sometime after 5pm, a holiday tour bus (Apes Holidays) crashed into the back of my car on the Sungai Besi highway (somewhere after the Petronas station there) - he could not stop the bus on time as we had all slowed down at the front. The impact of the crash sent my car forward and hit another vehicle at the front. After inspecting the damages (a smashed front and back, along with the entire rear window breaking and falling off), taking pictures and exchanging details between the parties, everyone agreed to make a police report. Long story short, the police investigation concluded that the bus driver was in the wrong and he was charged accordingly.
From here on, I thought the natural steps forward was to claim insurance from Apes Holidays's insurance company, Allianz, for the bus. However, I was informed by my own insurance company, Tokio Marine, that the bus in question was a public registered vehicle and buses are not included in the Knock for Knock agreement between insurance companies. The Own Damage Knock for Knock (OD KfK) agreement basically says that insurance companies will handle the damages of their own customers and will not go after each other for damage claims, as long as the accident was between private vehicles. Also, if you're not in the wrong, then your no claim discount (NCD) will not be impacted.
However, buses, along with taxis, limousines, or hire and drive vehicles are excluded from this agreement. This means that if you, in your private vehicle, are hit by one of these vehicles listed here, they make it incredibly tough to claim damages from the insurance companies of these vehicles, even if they are in the wrong. You may go through the Third Party Claim option, but this involves a lengthy, complicated legal process - something which I, a common everyday citizen of Malaysia, cannot afford to go through.
As a result of this, I had to file an Own Damages claim with my insurance. Though I am grateful that my insurance is able to cover the damages of my car, my NCD has been reset, when I should be having a 55% discount in 2025. But because of this accident and that a bus hit me, I lose my NCD and will have to pay the full premium for my car insurance next year, even though I am not in the wrong whatsoever. And another stinging part is that the bus driver or the company that he was from was charged a mere RM300 as a summon. And just like that, they moved on like nothing happened.
Why are vehicles such as buses, taxis, etc. seemingly so protected by insurance companies here in Malaysia? If drivers of such vehicles cause accidents and they are indeed found to be guilty by the police, then our NCDs as regular road users should be protected instead of losing it for an accident that wasn't our fault.
I hope this serves as a PSA to all road users in Malaysia. Happy to clarify or answer any questions or respond to any recommendations.
Saya ingin berkongsi pengalaman saya di sini, supaya orang lain akan sedar tentang hal ini di Malaysia. Post ini bukan untuk mengutuk mana-mana pihak, tetapi lebih kepada menekankan ketidakadilan terhadap para pemandu di Malaysia. Saya berharap ini membantu meningkatkan kesedaran.
Pada 18 Februari 2024, kira-kira pukul 5 petang, sebuah bas pelancongan (Apes Holidays) langgar kereta saya di lebuhraya Sungai Besi (sesudah stesen Petronas di sana) - dia tak sempat brek on time, lalu langgar kat belakang kereta saya. Kereta saya pulak bergerak ke depan dan langgar kereta orang lain. Selepas memeriksa kerosakan (depan dan belakang hancur, berserta keseluruhan tingkap belakang pecah dan terjatuh), mengambil gambar dan exchange info, semua bersetuju untuk membuat laporan polis. Lepas itu, siasatan polis mendapati pemandu bas yang salah dan pihak bas yang kena saman.
Dari sini, saya ingat simple saje proses... hanya kena buat insurans claim dari syarikat insurans Apes Holidays, Allianz, untuk bas tersebut. Tetapi, saya diberitahu oleh syarikat insurans saya sendiri, Tokio Marine, bahawa bas adalah kenderaan berdaftar awam dan bas tidak termasuk dalam Own Damage Knock for Knock agreement (OD KfK) antara syarikat-syarikat insurans. Agreement ini mengatakan bahawa syarikat insurans tidak akan menuntut kerosakan antara satu sama lain, kalau kemalangan berlaku antara kenderaan persendirian (private car). Jika anda tidak bersalah dalam kemalangan tersebut, NCD anda tak akan hilang.
Dalam agreement ini, bas, teksi, limosin, atau kenderaan hire for drive dikecualikan. Ini bermakna jika kenderaan anda dilanggar oleh kenderaan disenaraikan di sini, proses nak tuntut kerosakan dari syarikat-syarikat insurans kenderaan tersebut adalah agak rumit dan susah, walaupun mereka bersalah. Anda mungkin boleh pilih Third Party Claim, tetapi ini melibatkan legal proses yang susah untuk rakyat biasa nak mampu buat.
Akhirnya, saya terpaksa buat tuntutan Own Damage dengan insurans saya. Walaupun saya bersyukur kerana insurans saya dapat menampung kerosakan kereta saya, NCD saya telah hilang, padahal sepatutnya saya memiliki diskaun 55% pada tahun 2025. Oleh sebab kemalangan ini melibatkan bas, saya kehilangan NCD saya dan terpaksa membayar premium penuh dengan insurans kereta saya tahun depan, walaupun saya langsung tidak bersalah. Selain itu, pemandu bas atau syarikat bas dikenakan denda RM300 saje. Rasanya mereka terus beroperasi macam takde apa-apa berlaku.
Kenapalah kenderaan seperti bas, teksi, dan lain-lain macam agak dilindungi oleh syarikat-syarikat insurans di Malaysia? Jika pemandu-pemandu kenderaan sedemikian menyebabkan kemalangan dan mereka memang didapati bersalah oleh pihak polis, insurans mereka patut bertanggungjawab dalam hal ini.
Saya berharap ini akan jadi PSA kepada semua pengguna jalan raya di Malaysia. Kalau sesiapa ada cadangan atau soalan, tolong beri comment kat post ini.
Cerita agak panjang dan ia berlaku pukul 8 tadi dan agak kelakar pun ada sebab hanya rokok di dalam premis makanan
Aku dan keluarga kecil pergi makan malam kedai shellout yg baru buka, tempat nya adalah ruang terbuka.
Pada waktu tu kami antara orang yg pertama lah datang dan menunggu makanan untuk sampai.
Nak dijadikan cerita ada beberapa keluarga yang ada anak kecil dan orang tua uzur datang duduk berhampiran dengan kami.
Selang beberapa minit ada satu lagi geng orang yang berlagak kaya dtg juga duduk didepan kami (serta family yang tua uzur dan ada anak kecil). Dan mereka agak kecoh sikit tapi biaslah kan.
Long story short 3 orang yang belagak kaya tu isap rokok sambil menyembang , dan aku perhati jer orang sekeliling aku mula dh bagi muka, bersin, batuk2 dan ada yang juga kena asma attack dan anak aku umur 11 bulan macam tercungap2, aku tgok perokok tu buat tak endah jer.
Aku tegur mereka "encik boleh isap rokok dekat tempat lain ?, sini ada family, baby dan orang2 tua risau saya tengok".
Sorang dari geng2 belagak kaya " sini tkda sign pun tulis jgn merokok jadi aku boleh isap lah" sambil isap dan hembus
Aku tegur "jangan lah ghitu sini tempat public dan kedai makan...." Terus dia marah aku ckp "public boleh isap rokok cakap kuat" aku pun terdiam dan ckp "buang masa cakap dengan orang bodoh".
Orang tua tu terus marah aku cakap kurang ajar , tak hormat orang tua, aku pun " saya tk hormat orang bodoh mcm kau ". Dan aku tengok semua kawan2 dia buang rokok dari tangan dan cuba tenangkan si kawan dia yg tengah maki aku.
"Kau tahu sapa aku? Kalau aku muda aku nk jer hempuk kau sebab tk reti hormat orang tua". aku dgn muka blur " tak tahu tk kenal, jum kite tengok tangan sapa yg cecah dulu malu jer anak bini tengok perangai pakcik. " Aku orang yang praktik seni beladiri dan just cuba untuk tidak diprovokasi.
Orang tua tu mula nak provoke aku smbil memaki hamun aku dan tangkap gambar aku " kau kerja kt mana? Orang mana? Ko tk kenal aku ker? Ko cakap lah knp diam jer!? "
Aku balas " kenapa nk kena tahu? " Dan kawan2 dia minta dia sabar dan ckp aku jgn kurang ajar dgn orang tua boleh?
Aku balas dengn nada biasa. " korang yang tiada adab datang tempat orang buat mcm rumah sendiri aku tegur jangn hisap rokok jer, korang yang bodoh penting kan diri "
Yang si laki tua tu macam " ish aku ni kalau bini ko tkder besepai dah aku buat kt ko" dan dia cuba nk pukul aku, tp di tahan oleh kawan dia.
Lalu makanan aku sampai dan tauke kedai tu marah geng2 kaya tu ckp apa yg aku buat ni betul nnti ada orang report sekali dengan kedai tu kena saman, dan tauke tu halau geng2 ni makN kt situ
So cerita dia camni,I was a prefect time form 4...a new prefect teacher replaced the previous teacher,this teacher is an Ustaz and he hates me smh...He calls up on students or prefects he doesn't like and yell at them for stupid reasons or prefect stuff..example he called me and ask me if I could go to the prefect camp,I replied with "Tidak boleh Ustaz" he asked why so I replied la "Parents saya balik kampung jadi saya kena jaga adik saya".He asked my parents to call him,my parents are strict parents so they refused to let me go to the camp and they refuse to call the Ustaz since that should be the ustaz's job to call upon the students parents regarding school/prefect problems and so on...Few weeks later I was told that I got kicked out of prefect because I didn't go to the camp?Ofc I was so pissed off cuz it was just a stupid camp,kononnya la "Nak mantapkan pengawas".Prefect camp once every year and I see no difference at all!Ofc as I was so angry towards the Ustaz I cried and opened up to my teachers and my friends,the story spread and sort off given him a bad name.Ofc some or most of the teachers are on his side since teachers have to stay together even if they're in the wrong smh.2 months later me and my classmate was in the library,suddenly the Ustaz entered the library for a meeting behind the library.My friend stupidly says out loud "Weh Zal,Ustaz favorite kau dah sampai" The Ustaz looks at him and said "Kau pahal?Kau kalau aku pecah muka kau satgi kau ngadu" like excuse me?Do all Ustaz do that?!The next day during recess he called my friend who was being sarcastic about the Ustaz.My friend mengadu kata Ustaz tu kata ini kata itu, threatening him and stuff,exactly what happened to me...
During class,The Ustaz came to my class asking for my class to go to the badminton court,He asked every student in my class if we have any problem with him,none of us do,he told my friend to "jaga mulut" then he stared at me and asked "kau ada masalah ngan aku ke?" I had enough of his attitude and replied "Ustaz punya ugutan apa semua ni dah melampau".Tahu tahu I got slapped 💀
Hilang semangat weh srs