Special birthday messages for boyfriend

hi everyone please read and consider gifting if you can i’m posting this list for a friend but if anyone gifts please please drop ur lists also and i’ll gift when i get paid but she could really use whatever you guys could gift please and thank you! she’s 17 about to be 18 with not a lot of family support and still in high school and cannot work currently because of mental health! please she’s going to a concert that her boyfriends mom paid for she needs to get out the house and have fun and a nice birthday ! please and thank you anything is really nice! https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2TW3YARSZI1YA?ref_=wl_share

I develop, manage, and scale online businesses.
I offer remote services (as lead front-end and back-end developer) for the following tasks/projects

• WordPress, and WooCommerce. I write lean and bespoke themes or utilize existing themes depending on your requirements and budget.
• Shopify
• Code your existing shop design to a fully working website that actually reach customers, and sell products/services
• Redesign, update existing websites, full auditing
• PHP shopping carts (Opencart, Prestashop etc)
• Multi vendor, SaaS and development of custom platforms
• Physical products/shipping/tracking or Digital products
• Booking/Membership/Subscription
• Custom Analytics/Reports
• Custom payment method and checkout
• Custom features for front-end (customers) or back-end (less management, more productivity) experience
• APIs/Payment gateway integration (ex. Stripe, Paypal, BTC/Crypto Wallets)
• Chat/Bot/AI integration
• Automation/Data Scraping requirements for your online shop
• Data conversion/Product entry (automated)
• Social media/Community management
• Small, mid-scale hosting included (you just need to provide a domain address)
• can work with Google cloud, AWS and other cloud services
• can work with any market or industry

I provide assistance throughout the entire lifecycle of your website, from planning, building, running, and maintaining. I specialize in managing the technical aspects of your shop and remain dedicated and reachable until your business achieves its first sale.
starts at $15/hr. accepted payments in Paypal/Wise/Crypto/Stablecoin
available for 20-40 hours/week
portfolio, email contact basmatix .netlify .app
email contact is hello_thomasino(@tuta .io) (better notification in email) the reddit chat/message can be buggy at times. please send your information direct to my email instead. it is a more reassuring method to be connected. You can also reach me via chat applications afterwards.
dm me for more in-depth details and discussion. please include a brief description of your job offer. If you are looking for a easy to work with guy and can carry all technical tasks for web then you’ve found the right place.

I’m about to turn 30 (tomorrow is my birthday) and I’m tired of dating men that don’t have any clue what they want. I’m hoping to find someone who already has an established career and wants to have a future that involves children.
I live on the West Coast, but I currently work remotely so I am open to possibilities all over the US and Canada as I can work remotely in either country.
I enjoy reading, listening to music and podcasts, art, being outdoors, cooking, and traveling. I am more introverted and enjoy quiet nights in. I would like to have children eventually, so if you would like to be child free, I’m not the woman for you.
I am Caucasian. I have long, light brown hair, green eyes, and I’m shorter (5’2) and I’m approx. 120 lbs. I’m not too picky when it comes to who I’m attracted to but I would like someone who is somewhat active and is a healthy weight. Also, I prefer someone between the ages of 29-35 and who is located within the US/Canada.
If you any of this appeals to you, please send me a message with your dream travel destination and a picture. Your picture will get mine.

Hello! I have never used Reddit before, and I wasn't quite sure what to title this post, or what subreddit to put it in.
I have a half sister, and recently it has been bothering me that I do not know anything about her at all. She in is pictures from when I was little, playing with me and my brother, however I do not remember her much but from photos she often played with us. If I had to guess, she was a teenager or in her 20s when I was a toddleyoung child (and now I am in my late teens). My parents have zero contact with her due to an unfortunate situation in which she had stolen from them and other members of my family (I think she was a little bit troubled growing up with a strange environment on her mother's side - she is my Dad's daughter - and it resulted in her doing bad things. I don't think I can fully blame her for much that happened for them to fall out as there are probably two sides to every story, but I know it was very upsetting for my Dad and apparently she was quite nasty to him). Additionally, I know that after everything happened my Dad tried to contact her / keep in contact with her which resulted in very little, and that her mother often tried to manipulate her against him or would not make her aware of his reaching out.
This is honestly all I know of the situation and it troubles me deeply that I know so little. I haven't asked my parents much about it as I know it upsets them (mainly my Dad, I truly cannot remember a time he has every mentioned her name) and that I haven't really cared at all about the fact I have a sister until the past couple of years. It didn't really hit me until around 2021/2022 that I should have a sister and I don't due to things that happened when I was too little to understand, now all I have of her are old photos and the knowledge that we would play hide and seek a lot.
I decided to search from her online a bit after I turned 18, sparked by a boy I knew who's own Dad reached out to tell him on his 18th birthday that he actually had a half brother which made me wonder for some reason why my sister has never reached out to me. When I turned 18 I felt a little as if someone owed it to me, as if she should message me since I'm an adult now. I found her Facebook and Instagram, but she was private on both / had no posts. I only knew it was definitely her as the accounts had the same profile picture and a few of my family members also followed her Instagram account. It shocked me seeing her face, I thought she was beautiful and looked nothing like me (except maybe the eyes) and it felt like there was this whole person that I deserved to know, apart from some photographs, that is now a grown woman. It hit me quite hard after that, like I finally understood she was a real person.
For some clarification, some of my Dad's side of the family are still in contact with her (I am assuming). I didn't know this until I was maybe 15, and my parents didn't exactly know it either. I don't think my Dad was upset his family were in contact and seeing her, more that he was not involved in the process (his family isn't the nicest/it's a weird situation that is too much too unpack here). It happened when we were at a cousin's birthday party and suddenly my parents were extremely uncomfortable, and after an hour or two we got my brother (who was it the other room) and left. Turns out, my Dad's side of the family had invited her to this party without telling him, and she was there in the other room. Sat next to my brother and my Nan, whilst my brother was completely unaware. He had no idea who she was, and none of our family had decided to tell him? That is a specific part I cannot get over.
Anyways. I've just found her LinkedIn profile, and I am honestly desperate to know anything about her as there isn't anything online at all other than her name and a few photos (most of which from the 2010's). The whole situation just upsets me deeply. Why hasn't she reached out at all? I get why she would have reserves, maybe she doesn't want to, but it still hurts me that I have zero connection with her, know nothing about her but her name, because I should have a sister!!! It also makes me angry, because she is a grown woman now and was so much older than me at the time and why would she not want to make me aware of her, and I now constantly find myself dwelling on if she even thinks about me at all.
I know I should ask my parents (probably my Mum) about the whole thing, maybe explain my upset about it, however I am currently at University and I feel like it is more of a face to face conversation. I also do not get to see my Dad's side of the family much at all, and I would really never go to one of them about it as it would feel like a betrayal to my parents instead of just asking them. There is also the fear at the back of my mind that I will somehow run into members of my Dad's side of the family and that they are with her, and I will be totally unprepared for it.
I don't know. I don't want to reach out myself. I don't even know if I am posting this in the right place. Just a bit of a vent (my friends vaguely know I have a half sister but I've never gotten into it much and don't want to drop the conversation on them), as well as asking for some advice or if anyone has ever had a similar situation. Thanks for reading if you have.
TLDR: I have a semi-estranged (?) half sister and I don't really know what to do about it

He's been a part of my life for 8 years, from a far. I've always felt him near me even when I'm in the privacy of my own home. I was 15 when I first met him, he would have been 18 going on 19. Nothing special happened between us in my mind, I liked him but I was young and needed to experience my life. He took that as I was denying him of his chance, I guess from that moment on he couldn't stop. Let's go to the beginning, I was 14 maybe 15 sitting in the school office waiting. He walks in to return some books, I'll never forget the day we locked eyes. He didn't pursue me until the next year or so, when I turned 16. We would chat speak online until one day, I decided to hangout with him. He picked me up, took me to his house. At the time (even now) he lived with his father but his area was the basement, that's where we entered in. I should have figured it was a bit off when he didn't take me through his front door but later on that day he introduced me to his father, after that I went home. Nothing happened, I went on with my life. Always having him in the corner of my eye, lurking through my social medias, always trying to find a way to reach out.
I would go out in public and he'd be there, just looking at me. I didn't think much of it, sure it was weird but we didn't speak. I'm now 24, still dealing with him in my life.
I recently posted on a public story on Snapchat (I really didn't understand how it worked) and that's when i discovered all the pictures he's been sending (it's not the first time either) but it's been for so long. He realized I read them and began callir shitty and asking why i wouldn't respond, thi proceeded to message me back to back off 3 other accounts. You may ask why I haven't blocked him, trust me i have. A million times, i can do 10 today he'll have 10 more with my stuff already in them tomorrow. I finally received a message saying " you realize im never going to give up right". After all this time I finally reached out to his family (that's a private conversation that i won't be talking about) but the jist of it is they had no idea he was like this and I learned he has an entire computer setup with multiple phones/extremely techy.
I should feel better knowing action is being taken but I feel worse. Not really scared, just confused why this is happening.

Me (29) and my mom have been low contact for over 2 years now. I send her a mother's day message, and a birthday message.
I sent her a mother's day message, which then went to her saying "I'd love to reconnect" to which I said "reaching out would be a great first step". It ended with me pointing out she didn't do anything to protect me from being groomed by older men all through my early teens (starting at 12) And she told me it was my fault, and to take accountability for it. She knew it was happening at the time (maybe not how early, but I know she knew when I was 13/14 ) and did nothing. She told me not to, but I was a child, I didn't understand.
I'm going no contact as soon as I get some paperwork sorted between her and I. I've been aching for a mother daughter relationship, and I'm not saying I got my hopes up, but any remaining hope was crushed.
Is there anything like "rent a mom" out there? Cause I'd love a hug and some loving advice :)

Okay so I just wanted some advice on this and sorry for any typos. me and my bestfriend recently stopped being friends me and her have been friends since 6th grade this year we have had some tension and some weirdness but my mom is the guardian on both of are cards and she locked both of are cards I got a new guardian (it takes anyone over 18) she didn’t and kept asking me about it I tried to fix it I didn’t know how she orders a new card but keeps it under my mom as the guardian then was mad it was locked and texted me about it this about 3 months give or take after my mom locked the card I told her to get a new guardian like I did I also told her this months about she proceeded to tell me I’m to busy with my boyfriend anyways (side note we have had talks about me not spending enough time with her) I tell her sorry I’m in a relationship but I cant hang out with her every weekend I had literally seen her the day before and we hung out 1 weekend before this I say I’m allowed to be in my relationship she decides to go deep and say all my boyfriend wanted me for is my body in the first place we have been together for 10 months.. then I kinda just cut off the conversation and the friendship a day or so later I ask for my AirPods I left at her house and whatever clothes she has of mine and I know she has because I had been asking for a few shirts she told me she didn’t know where the AirPods were and ignored me about the clothes then told a mutual friend that she’s not give me clothes back and I owe her from nail sets she’s done for me in the past that I pay for all most all of in way way or another maybe other then my birthday set a year ago.. yea a discount price but she was my best friend I just said whatever and put it behind me but I just want to know if I’m the asshole in the in some short of way or handle it different this is the short version so I can clarify things need be

I (35F) want to leave my abusive husband (32M combat veteran) so badly but I don't know the best way to do it. I'm sorry this is so long but I'm begging for help, insight, any reassurance...
He says he used to have major anger issues but I never thought he would take them out on me. He has PTSD and a traumatic brain injury which makes his moods unpredictable.
I talked to his ex two days ago and she said he shoved her once, put his hands around her neck during a flashback, and also had a gun pointed at her during a flashback. He said they were engaged but she insisted they never were. She also said he was supposed to pick her up from the airport one time but he texted back saying he couldn't, because he wasn't sure if he was going to do something bad to her.
His abuse started when we moved in together while we were still engaged. I found out he had been on Onlyfans at the beginning of our relationship and just shortly before we got married... I was angry but I downplayed it and thought I could get over it. All it did was cause massive trust issues that have never healed and never will. He was subscribed to one of his exes and he also messaged one of the girls asking to meet just shortly after I stayed the week at his place for my birthday.
I spiraled mentally once the anger phase passed (severe depression and anxiety) and told him what I saw. He tried to deny it but when I said I knew his "pictures" he caved and said he wished I never told him and punched the headboard of our bed. He's my only source of comfort so I went to him countless times telling him I was still struggling with my trust issues and worried about whether he was still looking at other women, because he is subscribed to tons of women like that on Instagram and Tiktok. I started snooping looking for any evidence I could get so I could finally convince myself to leave him.
Everytime I confronted him about what I saw he made excuses and flew into a rage at me for snooping, screamed in my face, threw objects and furniture around (including our wedding rings and he broke my engagement ring in the process), punched walls, threatened divorce, demanded me to leave, or walked out without saying where he was going which made me call the police one time to look for him. I blamed myself because I was the one snooping and I told myself how would I feel if my partner constantly snooped on me? I blamed myself for everything and still kind of do. But he says it's his fault I'm like this and he just has to deal with the consequences.
Other times he says he has changed and it's my fault for getting in my head all the time, that my lack of trust is always so hard on him, and that my depression and anxiety are constantly dragging him down even though he says he's doing everything right to make me feel better. When I come to him to talk he usually sighs or treats it like a chore.
He says he beats himself up everyday for what he did and has apologized multiple times. But I never see any true regret. He told me "everybody else gets over their problems, why can't you?" He says he went through so much worse in the military than I have ever gone through and he got over his problems, so why can't I? That I need to "unfuck" myself and "everybody has depression."
One day when he came home I was feeling very low but he was in a bad mood already and he came at me, screaming that he's getting tired of me always being down and threatened divorce. I asked if he hated me and he looked at me and said in a really frightening way "if I hated you you'd be dead." That crushed me. Another time I got mad and said I was this way because of what he did to break my trust and he screamed at me multiple times to STFU, "waaah waaah waaaah you're always a Debbie downer" and threw in my face "you have no friends." He said he was done with the marriage but I talked him into staying because he has me so convinced the problem is me.
Other things... rough/forceful/demeaning sex... always saying "fuck you baby" in a cutesy way as a way to interact when we're doing our own things separately... slamming a controller down on my knee accidentally because he flew into a rage over losing a game... continuing to yell and saying he wasn't allowed to express anger even when I said it was scaring me... telling me once "I don't THINK I'd ever hurt you" (physically)... almost never helping with house chores and shopping... using me for money even though he makes more than I do with his disability payments... insulting my mother who helps us financially... trying to kick my cat one night when he couldn't sleep.
He's always so mean and critical of complete strangers when we go out and he acts like a macho narcissist who has everything figured out and he knows the right way about everything, like someone who is super opinionated to an obnoxious extent.
There's more but this is the worst of it all.
I read Lundy Bancroft's book asking myself if he's really that bad because 90% of the time he's good and loving. I know what I'm involved in and I know how much I've trauma bonded with him. But I've reached the point where I wake up every day in panic and despair knowing I'm still here and I want to get out. I already tried to leave before with a go bag and my cat but he talked me back. Some days I still try to convince myself the good times are worth staying for because I'm exhausted and I just want a good day for once. I've been miserable for months but I'm a pressure cooker now just waiting to blow. I'm falling apart.
I know I'm going to talk to a divorce lawyer and at least see if I have a case to have him evicted through a PFA. In that case he would be moving back in with his dad but he'd be close by. I could get the locks changed but I wouldn't put it past him to stalk me and try to hurt me (PFA or not -- he is suicidal anyway and has a lot of contempt for laws and the police), vandalize my car, or try to break into the apartment to hurt me or my cat. I don't even know if I would still be happy here where all these bad memories happened. And I wouldn't feel safe for myself or my cat everytime if I left the apartment.
The only other option is moving back in with my alcoholic narcissistic mother (my abusive alcoholic scizophrenic brother lives with her too) who doesn't know how to provide emotional support and hasn't been supportive at all throughout this marriage except financially. I would have to live in her garage, trust her not to let my cat loose if I go out, and make multiple trips back to my abusive husband still in the apartment to get all my belongings and furniture. He doesn't work, he's on school break now for summer so he's always here. I know I can get a police escort but they're not going to wait around for me to pack up the entire place. Almost everything is mine.
My husband might even just volunteer to leave and move back in with his dad like he has done before. I might not even need a PFA. I'm more afraid he'll try to hurt me if I actually get one versus if he just left by himself. I also don't know if he would offer to leave then just try to come back and hurt me before I could get the locks changed. The landlords constantly ignore the residents so I'd have to wait days or weeks for a lock change. Our lease ends next March.
I don't know what to do. All I want is to be by myself again with my cat in a safe place and it seems like no place and no escape plan I can come up with is entirely safe or secure. I'm at a loss but I can't keep living like this.

I develop, manage, and scale online businesses.
I offer remote services (as lead front-end and back-end developer) for the following tasks/projects

• WordPress, and WooCommerce. I write lean and bespoke themes or utilize existing themes depending on your requirements and budget.
• Shopify
• Code your existing shop design to a fully working website that actually reach customers, and sell products/services
• Redesign, update existing websites, full auditing
• PHP shopping carts (Opencart, Prestashop etc)
• Multi vendor, SaaS and development of custom platforms
• Physical products/shipping/tracking or Digital products
• Booking/Membership/Subscription
• Custom Analytics/Reports
• Custom payment method and checkout
• Custom features for front-end (customers) or back-end (less management, more productivity) experience
• APIs/Payment gateway integration (ex. Stripe, Paypal, BTC/Crypto Wallets)
• Chat/Bot/AI integration
• Automation/Data Scraping requirements for your online shop
• Data conversion/Product entry (automated)
• Social media/Community management
• Small, mid-scale hosting included (you just need to provide a domain address)
• can work with Google cloud, AWS and other cloud services
• can work with any market or industry

I provide assistance throughout the entire lifecycle of your website, from planning, building, running, and maintaining. I specialize in managing the technical aspects of your shop and remain dedicated and reachable until your business achieves its first sale.
starts at $15/hr. accepted payments in Paypal/Wise/Crypto/Stablecoin
available for 20-40 hours/week
portfolio, email contact basmatix .netlify .app
email contact is hello_thomasino(@tuta .io) (better notification in email) the reddit chat/message can be buggy at times. please send your information direct to my email instead. it is a more reassuring method to be connected. You can also reach me via chat applications afterwards.
dm me for more in-depth details and discussion. please include a brief description of your job offer. If you are looking for a easy to work with guy and can carry all technical tasks for web then you’ve found the right place.

I develop, manage, and scale online businesses.
I offer remote services (as lead front-end and back-end developer) for the following tasks/projects

• WordPress, and WooCommerce. I write lean and bespoke themes or utilize existing themes depending on your requirements and budget.
• Shopify
• Code your existing shop design to a fully working website that actually reach customers, and sell products/services
• Redesign, update existing websites, full auditing
• PHP shopping carts (Opencart, Prestashop etc)
• Multi vendor, SaaS and development of custom platforms
• Physical products/shipping/tracking or Digital products
• Booking/Membership/Subscription
• Custom Analytics/Reports
• Custom payment method and checkout
• Custom features for front-end (customers) or back-end (less management, more productivity) experience
• APIs/Payment gateway integration (ex. Stripe, Paypal, BTC/Crypto Wallets)
• Chat/Bot/AI integration
• Automation/Data Scraping requirements for your online shop
• Data conversion/Product entry (automated)
• Social media/Community management
• Small, mid-scale hosting included (you just need to provide a domain address)
• can work with Google cloud, AWS and other cloud services
• can work with any market or industry

I provide assistance throughout the entire lifecycle of your website, from planning, building, running, and maintaining. I specialize in managing the technical aspects of your shop and remain dedicated and reachable until your business achieves its first sale.
starts at $15/hr. accepted payments in Paypal/Wise/Crypto/Stablecoin
available for 20-40 hours/week
portfolio, email contact basmatix .netlify .app
email contact is hello_thomasino(@tuta .io) (better notification in email) the reddit chat/message can be buggy at times. please send your information direct to my email instead. it is a more reassuring method to be connected. You can also reach me via chat applications afterwards.
dm me for more in-depth details and discussion. please include a brief description of your job offer. If you are looking for a easy to work with guy and can carry all technical tasks for web then you’ve found the right place.

I have a friend named Lily and her friend, let’s call him Alex, messaged me and we started talking and joking around. I joked that I was gonna touch Lily and he jokingly said he was gonna touch me. Alex is gay and had a boyfriend so I took this in a joking way but I didn’t say anything weird back and made some random joke back that I was spying out the window. Alex is mad and says that by responding, I encouraged him to flirt with when he already had a bf but I’m confused because I saw Alex in a friendly way and he’s gay so I thought he was joking. Was I being stupid for thinking that? He’s cut off contact with me. I apologized though for confusing him, but he’s still mad at me. AITA?

I am neha ( 26 f ) , I am here to vent and get some suggestions or maybe even a real friend . This is a story of how I ruined my love life and destroyed the man who meant everything to me . We grew up in Coimbatore , i first met my boyfriend when I was in 11th grade , I actually saw him in a video , it was a Facebook video made by his friends , one of his friend proposed a girl , so they made a video of it , he was there in it too . He is tall , above 6ft , he looked ok , normal , a bit weird too with his specs and curl hair . He didn’t stand out , after few days I saw in a local chat place , he was with his friend , all sweaty , they came from gym . I recognised him immediately though. I saw him sneakily , idk why , after going home I sent him a request to his Insta . We started talking the same night , he said he saw me too , we connected way too fast , he was very funny and practical, we became best friends very soon , we almost spoke daily , in that following year we became so close, there wasn’t anything sexual , we just talk about our day and our lives daily , then he got into a relationship with a girl , I liked her too , life was so easy and fun back then , after we got into college , I Started to date a guy in my college , but we didn’t stop talking , nothing changed between us , after going to college we started getting drunk and smoking up , it was all new and we all did it almost everyday in first year , it was pretty fun . The guy I was with that time , didn’t really smoke up that much , he got drunk but he didn’t smoke pot that much , but the rest of us gathered everyday to smoke pot and play carrom . We both even meet at night to just smoke up and listen to music . At the end of the first year , one day he called me one evening and told me that he wanted to meet me , he sounded very low , I was with my my boyfriend and his friends that time but I left there immediately,booked an auto and Met him at a usual place near an IT park , we drink coffee and smoke cigarettes there usually.he was already there when I went in , he saw me and smiled but that looked very sad , he told me that his girlfriend kissed someone , a distant cousin of her actually , she kissed him in a moment and texted her girlfriend about it , she mentioned that she regrets it very much , I can’t stand it , I don’t know what to do , I feel nauseous, stuff like that . He showed the screenshots , he didn’t talk much he just smiled but that killed me . I was so angry on her , I didn’t even know what to do to make him feel better at that moment, I said she is not worth it , don’t worry , things like that . He didn’t talk about it after that , he changed the topic and he just sat there for 30-40 mins just smoking thinking about something. We speak almost daily and I know everything about him , he told me when they first had sex , we speak about everything, just not anything sexual to each other , when I saw him like this , I was feeling only rage , I was so angry on her , I don’t understand why she kissed some other guy , after getting into that relationship he was very loyal , I know how loyal he was , he even got a tattoo of her initials , but when he knew about this kiss , it made him so sad I guess . After 2 hours , we went home . I called her as soon as I went home , i scolded her so much , she started crying and told me that it was a mistake, she sounded very regretful too , she cried so much , I couldn’t bring myself to be mean after that .but that night i couldn’t sleep , my ex called me all night but I didn’t pick his call , I kept texting him , we used to text in Snapchat daily , I kept sending him texts and he texted me back to , he said he is going to get drunk and pass out , I also felt that’s better , after some days she even cut her hand , like scratches with knife on wrists , she was very regretful too , then somehow they didn’t break up , he wanted to after that but she didn’t let him , but gradually it got ok , but after this we started to speak and meet more frequently than before , I started to drop him in my college , both of our colleges are in same road , we started going in one vehicle daily. Mostly I drove , we speak all the time about nothing , even when we were going on my scooty , we just make fun of people in road , we laughed , had fun . One day he even pressed my breasts accidentally, side of my breast . I started neglecting my ex , that guy I dated that time , after few months , people started to notice , but still we didn’t care . (I actually come off from a well doing family , my family has enough money but my parents have a very unsuccessful marriage, they don’t even speak to each other , I have a younger sister and elder sister . My elder sister is married , my younger sister difference is 3 years . My parents doesn’t speak to each other , my mom openly says that they are together only for the kids . ) I loved being with him , he made me feel safe , comfortable and it’s always warm when I’m with him . We smoked pot all the time though , it was so fun , we even bunked college went to room and just smoked pot and watched anime all day . One day my ex boyfriend and his friends were in Ooty and they wanted me to come , I said I’ll come with him , I can’t come alone , and I asked him to come . We rolled some joints and started to go in his bike , we went a beautiful ride , stopped and smoked up in between, after we reached there I went with my ex boyfriend. We all smoked up that night got drunk , he usually doesn’t talk that much , but all of us were drunk and it was chill , some of my friends like him some don’t , but it’s all chill . We stayed in a tent stay there , that night I was with my ex , he wanted to make out , we kissed and did some stuff but I just felt restless and distracted, I kept thinking about him and my ex was a drunk too , it didn’t turn me on , after some time he passed out . I went out and went to his tent to see him if he is asleep , but he wasn’t there , then I started to look for him and I found him near the fire place , he was smoking up there alone with a phone in his hand , he was just singing this song 7 years by Lucas I think , he was singing along with a joint in his hand , he saw me coming , smiled but he didn’t stop singing, I can see him feeling even little embarrassed, but he looked so happy and free . I sat down there started to smoke up with him . After sometime I asked him why haven’t even kissed even once , I just asked him in a fun way but he got all serious all of a sudden , he saw me straight in the eyes and told me that he would love to kiss me , I literally felt butterflies in my lower tummy , my hips felt all tight too , idk , I still remember everything though . I kissed him in an instant, I kinda rushed in and kissed him, it felt magical . We kissed for a long time , we just kissed , nothing else . But I loved it , after sometime we separated, he saw me smiled and said I tasted sweet and bitter with weed taste . But my heart was beating so fast that time , I wanted to make out with him right there , I’ve felt horny before but he was the only guy made me feel like this , I tried to kiss him again but he stopped me and told me im drunk and asked me to go sleep . Next morning they asked me to go with them but my mind was fully on that kiss , I came back to cbe in his bike , we didn’t talk anything for the first time I just hugged him on the way back , it was nice too . I thought about plans to break up with my ex , after he dropped me home I kept thinking about the kiss , things got normal after a few days , we were like before but we started to flirt a bit , I started to call him baby and it gradually became very intimate . One day in a movie I kissed him again and he kissed me back too , we started making out bit by bit , it developed into a place where he started to grope me while im driving , I enjoyed every bit of that , I broke up with that guy I was with but he was still with that girl . Around final year first semester end they broke up too . We had intercourse the next day , it was amazing , I loved everything about him and the best thing is he is my best friend too . We rented a place for us by college end , we had sex every single day , it was the best , I loved staying with him . After this there was covid and we had to stay in our place , for one whole year I lived with him happily, he never let me down even once , he was already very caring from beginning but after we got committed , he really did treated me like a princess . He didn’t speak much but his actions were most considerate , we both worked remotely and having the time of our life , two years went by , I was happy and fullfilled , at the end of third year he quit his job and tried to get a different better job with extra good pay , 3 months passed by , one day few friends of mine from my work visited our place , they told me about opportunity to work in chennai for a month , I took it and went to chennai for a month , he dropped me to bus and sent me off to chennai . We spoke daily but not that much , I went out with my friends daily got drunk , just having fun . Some of my friends think my boyfriend is beneath me , one even said that I deserve better , she said he didn’t even get a job in three months joked and asked me whether I am the one who’s paying rent , actually he never asked me rent or money , he always paid for everything , but that time when they were joking I didn’t defend him , I still couldn’t believe that I didn’t say anything . In that week I met a guy , he came with my friends , he flirted with me when I was there , after I went back to PG I got a text from this guy , he got my number from my friends it seems . After some texts I responded and we started texting ,i liked the attention I think idk , I was talking to my boyfriend daily too , but somehow he noticed that I am not ok , he asked me about it and I said it was work issue and I am tired , 3^rd weekend I met that guy alone , he wanted to have a drink and I went , I slept with him that night , to be honest the sex wasn’t good , when he got inside me I felt darkness , I swear . Idk why I did it , after sex that guy slept in a second , I saw him lying down and I felt like killing myself , I left to my pg in midnight , I booked a cab and went back . I saw my snap notifications from him but I couldn’t open it , I blocked that guy’s number , I went to pg , cried myself to sleep . Next morning I spoke to my boyfriend , told him that I got cold and resting today , he told me that he got a job as a business manager for a US IT firm , he sounded so happy and told me that he called yesterday night to tell me this . I was crying so hard when he was on the phone , at that moment I swear I even fogot the face of that I slept with , he asked me to get rest and I hung up . I couldn’t talk to him , I felt so guilty and ashamed , as I was thinking this I get a notification my swiggy that he placed order to my pg , he bought soup . I broke down , it was like everything is telling me how big mistake I made , suddenly my thought went to that day he told me about his ex’s kiss , I can see that sad smile . I decided not to tell him and love him more and more , he had his birthday in 15 days I wanted to do something for him . When I came back from chennai , he picked me , he was so happy to see me , he spoke about his new job to me on the way , he was like a child , maybe cause he missed me for a month , I can see that he is so happy like silly child just to see me , after going home I had sex with him , I even rimmed him and I kinda liked it , it was the best sex we had , I felt alive and also very guilty . I treated him better and better to ease my guilt , but this made him very happy , I arranged a small party with my sister ,his friends and my mom .the day before his birthday we got drunk he asked me why I am not being adamant like before , ‘enna kadhal ha ‘ (joking sayin I am so in love) he joked about how afetr five years we can get super rich and start a family , I melted hearing all this .i promised myself that I will never let him down . but ha ha This is why I think karma is a bitch , at the noon of his birthday I got a text from that guy saying that he is thinking about that night . He heard the notification took the phone to pass it to me , he just saw the phone simply , just a glance and he just stopped and opened the text , I was blowing up balloons opposite of him , I saw his face and my heart sank , he came closer and gave me the phone , he didn’t speak anything , I opened my phone in a panic , saw the text and I saw him , he asked me ‘ so you slept with some guy ? ‘ , I didn’t reply , my whole mind got blank , I felt like I was gonna faint , he just saw me and said why . Of all these years I knew him I never saw him cry , but now his voice was shaking , he just asked me ‘ yen ‘ (why in tamil) . I saw tears on his eyes , I can see his eyes becoming lifeless in a matter of minutes , I tried to hug him but he just moved away , no matter how much we fight , when I hug him , he gets all cute and lovely , but he just moved away in an instinct . He then came forward hugged me tightly , he said ‘ sorry ‘ . I still don’t know why he said sorry , but that sounded so weak to me , he is my everything and I hurt him , I know everything about him and I still fucked up . He hugged me for some more time , I knew this warmth might be the last thing . After few mins , he rubbed his eyes in my dress , saw me smiled the same way . But it felt more like he is laughing at himself , I watched my 6 ft man walking out of the room , I just stood there alone , and I felt very cold , I remember that cold everyday , evening people came for the party and he got ready and cut the cake , fed me the first piece , my mom and sister was there too , he behaved very good , spoke with my family , but I can see that he is broke , but he still made it through the night , I went to speak with him that night , but he said he can’t . he said ‘ please I can’t ‘ . I choked hearing his voice , he went to terrace , I didn’t sleep at all that night , I walked around our little one bhk apartment , I smoked two packs of cigs that night , I went to check on him in the terrace by 4 , he was sleeping there on the floor , he hugs himself in sleep and its so cold , I cried watching him , just one day ago he was being silly like a kid talking about future family , now he is there alone , heartbroken . Morning usually he makes coffee and rolls one , I made coffee and rolled one , waited for him to come down . He came down saw me and smiled , but its not the cheerful smile , it just hurt so bad watching him like that , he drank the coffee , smoked up with me , even told me its good. Then he got ready , I cooked but he said he can’t eat , he is not hungry , that morning was so silent , he cheers up with he sees me , he was my biggest fan , now he left home with just saying bye . I got a text from him that aftrn asking me to move back to my mom’s if possible , I was dead . I couldn’t say no , I hurt him , he didn’t even scold me , he even requested me , I can only say yes . I asked him that I want to stay one more night , he said ok like always . That night I asked him to cuddle with me , he said ok , he wanted that too it seems , we just hugged in silent , he slept off quickly , he always told me that when I sleep with him it makes him stressfree and he gets a good night sleep . He was asleep on my breasts , I saw him sleeping and I couldn’t stop my tears , realising that this is the last time , I made a stupid mistake , but everything felt unimportant now , I saw him sleeping and I kissed him on his cheek , must have whispered sorry a 100 times , our four years relationship came through my mind , I realize that he made sure I was happy in every way he knew , I proposed him , I made him fall for me , now I broke his heart . I didb’t sleep that night too , morning I dozed off , when I woke up he wasn’t there, he made juice for me and left for work . I packed some of my stuff and went to my mom’s . when I stepped out of our little home , I broke down and cried . I went home and cried , I told my mom we fought , but my sister knew something was up , she tried to ask him but he said it was a small fight , I confessed to her that night , I still remember seeing her confused look , she is a gen z kid , but even she gave me a look of confusion , she didn’t understand how I could do that , she liked my boyfriend very much , she was almost proud of him . But when she knew I cheated on him , she felt disgusted I think . Our sister bind kind of broke too that night . My life was dull , I missed him every second , I missed talking to him , I missed his smell , everything . I just focused on work , two months went by with no contact . I saw him near IT park at our spot one day, he looked like he was sick , he lost weight , his eyes are dry , he looked so pale . I saw him from a distance and I couldn’t believe my eyes , my baby looked so weak and sick , he was having a coffe and smoking a cig alone at the place we used to sit . My eyes teared up watching him , he looked so lonely . None of my friends knew we broke up because I cheated , he specifically asked me not to say anything to anyone . I didn’t speak to him that day , I couldn’t . I was full with guilt . After going home I called his friends and asked how he was and they said that they lost all contact with him and he is ghosting everybody . I broke him and also made him alone , I seriously considered killing myself but I was a coward . After a month , when I was in office , my mom got a diabities issue and fainted , my sister called him in a hurry , he came immediatiely and admitted mom in hospital , when I came there I saw him with a plastic cover with insulins for my mom . After my elder siter came , he left , he asked me to call with updates . Before leaving he asked me why I cheated , he said “ is it because I am not satisfying you “ or “ you wanted a emotial support “. when he said that , I just stood there , I can see his face , hiding a humiliation , I never had a sex issue with him , I loved being with him , but my baby asked me this , I felt ashamed . I couldn’t face him , I just stood there , he said never mind and left . I stood there seeing him leave ,but I didn’t give up , I started texting and snapping so much and somehow I made him talk to me normally , but his eyes has lost its color, he looks like he is tired of everything . After few days we both got drunk and alone , I kissed him as soon as I got the chance , he kissed me back too , usually when he kisses , he hold me ears , looks me in the eyes and kiss me , he did the same out of the habit , as soon as our eyes locked , he bursted out in tears , I truly felt how much this man loved me and how much I hurt him , he wanted to do more but he stopped himself , when he burst into tears, my heart completely broke , I hate myself so much , I hate my friends for fucking up my mind , I hate that guy . My man is gettting punished for giving everything to me , its been a year , he changed , he looks lean , unhealthy , I even think his hair is falling , almost like a zombie . I would glady kill myself for him , I just want him to be happy , I destroyed the only person I love , I see how devastating this can get for him, he looks so weak , I can’r accept it . I should’ve defended him when they joked about him . Its all my fault , its been a year and I still can;t go back to him , I can’t imagine another guy to raise my kids , I want him . Help me .

I develop, manage, and scale online businesses.
I offer remote services (as lead front-end and back-end developer) for the following tasks/projects

• WordPress, and WooCommerce. I write lean and bespoke themes or utilize existing themes depending on your requirements and budget.
• Shopify
• Code your existing shop design to a fully working website that actually reach customers, and sell products/services
• Redesign, update existing websites, full auditing
• PHP shopping carts (Opencart, Prestashop etc)
• Multi vendor, SaaS and development of custom platforms
• Physical products/shipping/tracking or Digital products
• Booking/Membership/Subscription
• Custom Analytics/Reports
• Custom payment method and checkout
• Custom features for front-end (customers) or back-end (less management, more productivity) experience
• APIs/Payment gateway integration (ex. Stripe, Paypal, BTC/Crypto Wallets)
• Chat/Bot/AI integration
• Automation/Data Scraping requirements for your online shop
• Data conversion/Product entry (automated)
• Social media/Community management
• Small, mid-scale hosting included (you just need to provide a domain address)
• can work with Google cloud, AWS and other cloud services
• can work with any market or industry

I provide assistance throughout the entire lifecycle of your website, from planning, building, running, and maintaining. I specialize in managing the technical aspects of your shop and remain dedicated and reachable until your business achieves its first sale.
starts at $15/hr. accepted payments in Paypal/Wise/Crypto/Stablecoin
available for 20-40 hours/week
portfolio, email contact basmatix .netlify .app
email contact is hello_thomasino(@tuta .io) (better notification in email) the reddit chat/message can be buggy at times. please send your information direct to my email instead. it is a more reassuring method to be connected. You can also reach me via chat applications afterwards.
dm me for more in-depth details and discussion. please include a brief description of your job offer. If you are looking for a easy to work with guy and can carry all technical tasks for web then you’ve found the right place.

I develop, manage, and scale online businesses.
I offer remote services (as lead front-end and back-end developer) for the following tasks/projects

• WordPress, and WooCommerce. I write lean and bespoke themes or utilize existing themes depending on your requirements and budget.
• Shopify
• Code your existing shop design to a fully working website that actually reach customers, and sell products/services
• Redesign, update existing websites, full auditing
• PHP shopping carts (Opencart, Prestashop etc)
• Multi vendor, SaaS and development of custom platforms
• Physical products/shipping/tracking or Digital products
• Booking/Membership/Subscription
• Custom Analytics/Reports
• Custom payment method and checkout
• Custom features for front-end (customers) or back-end (less management, more productivity) experience
• APIs/Payment gateway integration (ex. Stripe, Paypal, BTC/Crypto Wallets)
• Chat/Bot/AI integration
• Automation/Data Scraping requirements for your online shop
• Data conversion/Product entry (automated)
• Social media/Community management
• Small, mid-scale hosting included (you just need to provide a domain address)
• can work with Google cloud, AWS and other cloud services
• can work with any market or industry

I provide assistance throughout the entire lifecycle of your website, from planning, building, running, and maintaining. I specialize in managing the technical aspects of your shop and remain dedicated and reachable until your business achieves its first sale.
starts at $15/hr. accepted payments in Paypal/Wise/Crypto/Stablecoin
available for 20-40 hours/week
portfolio, email contact basmatix .netlify .app
email contact is hello_thomasino(@tuta .io) (better notification in email) the reddit chat/message can be buggy at times. please send your information direct to my email instead. it is a more reassuring method to be connected. You can also reach me via chat applications afterwards.
dm me for more in-depth details and discussion. please include a brief description of your job offer. If you are looking for a easy to work with guy and can carry all technical tasks for web then you’ve found the right place.

Throwaway account.
I (M 36) have been married to my wife (F 37) for 14 years. I have known her since I was eleven. We dated in high school, broke up, and found each other again in college. We have two wonderful children, 8 and 11. Grew up going to church in the US all our lives until the pandemic. I would say that I’m agnostic, for about a year now. Based on recent conversations, my wife feels similarly about her faith. My parents have in many ways treated me like I don’t exist unless I make the time to go visit them. I share that because it is adding to my current dilemma but I will get there later.
Prior to us getting back together while in college, she dated someone who emotionally, physically, and sexually abused her. Primarily it was emotional trauma, with him stealing her phone, telling her shouldn’t have any male friends, etc. Before this relationship, I would have described her as outgoing and extroverted. After the fact, it was clear she was deeply hurt by all of what happened to her. To this day, I don’t think she has processed the trauma and how it changed her and impacts her daily.
During college, we reconnected over the summer my junior year and it was clear we had chemistry despite both being very different from our high school selves. We dated and were engaged within 9 months and married in another nine. We have had a beautiful marriage. We only had sex 1-2x monthly since we got married but it never felt unusual; I have always believed that the abusive relationship altered her ability to want intimacy in that way. We are very close, snuggling, talking often, we spend much of our free time with each other and share many common interests in art, music, etc.
After our second child was born, it was a tough three years. My daughter rarely slept, not getting through the night until she was three and a half years old. During that time, my wife was burned by three different female friends in a short time frame. It felt like those two things almost broke her. But, after she got poison ivy one day and couldn’t get rid of it, she went to the doctor and got steroids. The insane amount of energy she had actually led to her becoming involved in and obsessed with triathlons. She transformed, physically and mentally over the next six months. I was extremely happy for her.
But, maybe seven months into this new her, I began to notice that her attention to her phone changed. She turned off messages from displaying in the front of the phone. We stopped having sex all together. It came to a head at the beach. I saw her dm’ing with a guy—a very successful graphic designer. My wife loves art and drawing so I wanted to assume it was that connection but for the first time in my marriage it felt like I was being lied to a lot. During this time she also acquired lingerie and toys that we never used together; I found them in the closet all the way in the back, hidden. We never had used that before in our marriage but she had also never felt sexy in the last ten years, especially for three since our kid was born so again I wanted to believe her. And honestly, she was glowing for the first time in a long time and is extremely beautiful. This situation evolved. I went in her phone. She had deleted everything everywhere. She was still talking to the guy from the summer on Instagram but the conversation was super innocuous and almost always just reels or sharing a post. We fought, she cried saying I violated her trust—I know how that looks. I restated that she lied to my face. We began sleeping in different rooms and things were not good.
Fast forward two months, I pulled phone records and found she had been messaging her ex from before our marriage for a week. I confronted her and she lied to my face and said she hadn’t been communicating with him. So I showed her the records and she for the first time in several months apologized to me and then began opening up. This guy was also the first person who really helped her recover her personhood after being abused. He holds a special place in her heart because of how he helped her. I actually do not think anything happened with him during our marriage ever. I won’t know though because she deleted everything. The way my wife reacted to me with the graphic designer indicated she was having some sort of emotional ptsd from her past trauma when I freaked out about it. She told me and her mom and her counselor (according to her) that nothing happened, emotionally or physically. The person was halfway across the country.
Now, at this point it is very obvious to me that everyone that reads this would only assume the worst. I get it. But my wife was abused and it deeply impacted her. Her father cheated on her mother and we only found out when he died (right before all this started). She deeply resented him for it and to this day speaks poorly of him for it. And I know that those things can seep into your psyche and you can find yourself doing the things you hate about your parents. But to summarize, I don’t know that anything happened. I know that she lost all her friends and was traumatized by our second kid. I know that she felt physically beautiful for the first time in years. I realize that could mean two things. Either this person meant something to her and it blossomed until I found it, or it is just something that all happened in the same time and the compounding complexity of prior abuse made it spiral down.
I went to counseling. She went to counseling. To this day she affirms that it was simply a connection around art and culture and nothing more. She says the toys and clothing was because she felt sexy for the first time in a long time and wanted to try them. I chose to believe her. But I never got to see her messages because everything was deleted. I never felt like I got closure. I chose to believe that she did nothing with this man and that he meant nothing. But the millions of coincidences still rattle my brain because I never got to see things and was asked to move forward. We reconnected meaningfully during Covid. I’ve never felt closer to her.
So why am I here? It popped up again in my brain lately and I cannot get away from the feeling that I didn’t get closure and I don’t know what to do. I can feel myself spiraling emotionally. I have had thoughts of killing myself. I won’t, though. I know I am loved and needed. I have only felt it maybe twice in my life and don’t suffer from depression. Mostly, I feel helpless and broken. I don’t have have any close friends other than my wife, which I know is also not good and I need to change it. I don’t believe in the god of the bible but haven’t told anyone other than my wife; it would be a big change for many who know me and so I am after I’d to really own it publicly but that is who I am, heart on my sleeve. And in the midst of all of that, I am feeling like I don’t know if I believe my wife from that five year ago incident. I feel super lost and it is suddenly making me feel like my marriage is going to end.
We’ve talked about it again lately and she seems hurt by me feeling that way but said it is ultimately her fault because for how she interacted with me during all of it. Recently she went and spent time with a couple friend and I later accused her of being there alone with the guy but she never was. I feel super distraught.
Just looking for help on how to get meaningful closure about five years ago and how to move forward, thanks.

3 days ago i found out my (now ex) boyfriend had a second account on here dedicated to porn. During my awful discovery, I came across messages as well that offered women to pay for their online services such as facetime, videos and pictures. I didnt even mean to find this out, he gave me access to his computer for whatever it is that i needed because we lived together and sometimes i just liked playing on his PC. So when my bestfriend facetimed me to ask if i could help her create a feetfinder account i gladly looked up some examples and decided to look on his computer where i came across a redd post of some girl promoting her account and thats when my nosy ass decided to look around for more and hit the search bar and then found everything.
When he was on his way home he called me and thats when he found out i packed and was moving back home. During one of the phone calls where he was panicking trying to get me to stay he said that the reason he did it was because i masturbated and used my rose toy. To which i feel i have to be VERY clear. I never watched porn and I only ever used it because he didnt have time in the morning before he left for work or we never had the energy to do it bc we were tired after work or because he just didnt want to sometimes. And sometimes sex to me was to much for me.
Every day since i broke things off and moved out (same day) he’s been begging for me to give him a chance to talk and get things off his chest. As well as saying EVERYTHING ive ever wanted to hear during our relationship. And i keep wanting to just tell him how much i love him and how much i want him back. But i know that if i do he wont ever respect my boundaries bc it just goes to show he’s more than welcome to walk all over me the way he has been. :/
Ive been feeling very depressed and just want to lay in bed and rot all day. But im not and i feel like im losing my mind!!
I just wish none of this had ever happened.

I just turned 21 last month, I spent my birthday alone as usual and it really wasn't a good day. I don't wanna spend another special day alone
I like art, nature, plants, animals, and music 🥹 I also love to cook and clean, I'm a very soft and sensitive person, but also very depressed due to being alone for so long 💖
I just want to belong for once, dating is hard, even harder when you're me it seems, but I keep looking anyway! I want someone I can give my love to and spend everyday doing my best to make as happy as possible 🥹
If you want a forever person, please DM me anytime! 💖

I develop, manage, and scale online businesses.
I offer remote services (as lead front-end and back-end developer) for the following tasks/projects

• WordPress, and WooCommerce. I write lean and bespoke themes or utilize existing themes depending on your requirements and budget.
• Shopify
• Code your existing shop design to a fully working website that actually reach customers, and sell products/services
• Redesign, update existing websites, full auditing
• PHP shopping carts (Opencart, Prestashop etc)
• Multi vendor, SaaS and development of custom platforms
• Physical products/shipping/tracking or Digital products
• Booking/Membership/Subscription
• Custom Analytics/Reports
• Custom payment method and checkout
• Custom features for front-end (customers) or back-end (less management, more productivity) experience
• APIs/Payment gateway integration (ex. Stripe, Paypal, BTC/Crypto Wallets)
• Chat/Bot/AI integration
• Automation/Data Scraping requirements for your online shop
• Data conversion/Product entry (automated)
• Social media/Community management
• Small, mid-scale hosting included (you just need to provide a domain address)
• can work with Google cloud, AWS and other cloud services
• can work with any market or industry

I provide assistance throughout the entire lifecycle of your website, from planning, building, running, and maintaining. I specialize in managing the technical aspects of your shop and remain dedicated and reachable until your business achieves its first sale.
starts at $15/hr. accepted payments in Paypal/Wise/Crypto/Stablecoin
available for 20-40 hours/week
portfolio, email contact basmatix .netlify .app
email contact is hello_thomasino(@tuta .io) (better notification in email) the reddit chat/message can be buggy at times. please send your information direct to my email instead. it is a more reassuring method to be connected. You can also reach me via chat applications afterwards.
dm me for more in-depth details and discussion. please include a brief description of your job offer. If you are looking for a easy to work with guy and can carry all technical tasks for web then you’ve found the right place.

My adult daughter's birthday is coming up and I'd like to get her something special that's related to her upcoming move to Ireland (from the U.S.) She has plenty of clothes and is prepared for the weather. She loves Ireland and all things Irish, she's a reader, loves music. I'd like something useful but also special. Something in the $150-$200 range would be idea. Any ideas would be most welcome!

I develop, manage, and scale online businesses.
I offer remote services (as lead front-end and back-end developer) for the following tasks/projects

• WordPress, and WooCommerce. I write lean and bespoke themes or utilize existing themes depending on your requirements and budget.
• Shopify
• Code your existing shop design to a fully working website that actually reach customers, and sell products/services
• Redesign, update existing websites, full auditing
• PHP shopping carts (Opencart, Prestashop etc)
• Multi vendor, SaaS and development of custom platforms
• Physical products/shipping/tracking or Digital products
• Booking/Membership/Subscription
• Custom Analytics/Reports
• Custom payment method and checkout
• Custom features for front-end (customers) or back-end (less management, more productivity) experience
• APIs/Payment gateway integration (ex. Stripe, Paypal, BTC/Crypto Wallets)
• Chat/Bot/AI integration
• Automation/Data Scraping requirements for your online shop
• Data conversion/Product entry (automated)
• Social media/Community management
• Small, mid-scale hosting included (you just need to provide a domain address)
• can work with Google cloud, AWS and other cloud services
• can work with any market or industry

I provide assistance throughout the entire lifecycle of your website, from planning, building, running, and maintaining. I specialize in managing the technical aspects of your shop and remain dedicated and reachable until your business achieves its first sale.
starts at $15/hr. accepted payments in Paypal/Wise/Crypto/Stablecoin
available for 20-40 hours/week
portfolio, email contact basmatix .netlify .app
email contact is hello_thomasino(@tuta .io) (better notification in email) the reddit chat/message can be buggy at times. please send your information direct to my email instead. it is a more reassuring method to be connected. You can also reach me via chat applications afterwards.
dm me for more in-depth details and discussion. please include a brief description of your job offer. If you are looking for a easy to work with guy and can carry all technical tasks for web then you’ve found the right place.

I develop, manage, and scale online businesses.
I offer remote services (as lead front-end and back-end developer) for the following tasks/projects

• WordPress, and WooCommerce. I write lean and bespoke themes or utilize existing themes depending on your requirements and budget.
• Shopify
• Code your existing shop design to a fully working website that actually reach customers, and sell products/services
• Redesign, update existing websites, full auditing
• PHP shopping carts (Opencart, Prestashop etc)
• Multi vendor, SaaS and development of custom platforms
• Physical products/shipping/tracking or Digital products
• Booking/Membership/Subscription
• Custom Analytics/Reports
• Custom payment method and checkout
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Hi, all. Throwaway acc here. Me and my boyfriend used to have sex almost everytime we saw each other. I moved in January on my 18th birthday and ever since then we have barely had sex. He says it is because of his new medication, which is okay, except for the fact that sometimes when I check his reddit account, he has commented on porn/hentai.
He specifically told me he didn't watch porn anymore. He said I'm the only one who he looks at like that. My thought is, "Why are you horny enough to look at porn but not fuck me?". It hurts my feelings. He knows I am insecure about my body, and he has said "I don't watch porn because I know youre insecure about things like that."
I feel very hurt and confused. Do i just not bring it up? Do i keep letting it hurt my feelings? It's getting to where I, who loves him and we have plans to get married, want to maybe take a break from him.
This is all too much and it makes me feel like my body and looks aren't good enough for him.
What do I do to solve this?