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I grew up with no baby front teeth and think it's affected the way I talk.
When I say my Ch sound and Sh sound, and my Juh sounds like in giraffe, my tongue touches my premolars whereas talking to my girlfriend, she says her tongue touches the roof of her mouth in the centre.
I can't even produce a Sh or Juh sound with my tongue touching the middle of my mouth roof.
Is this a common thing?

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I've been waitlisted for a biology class since about the beginning of April. I finally got an email today notifying me that I could register for it today (which I noticed a little late, but still within the timeframe) before 7 AM tomorrow.
I abandoned the waitlists of two other classes and almost dropped one of the classes I'm registered for, thinking that the swap would go smoothly. I go into PAWS to register for it and I can't. I call the admissions office 15 minutes before closing (I wish I noticed earlier) during which I was on hold for 99% of the time just for an otherwise kind receptionist to tell me I need to call a different department. When I tried to, all offices closed.
I don't know why GSU offices close at 5pm as if they're post offices during COVID when I'm expected to register for 8am classes and attend labs that conclude at 9pm 🙃 but I emailed the professor anyway and provided screenshots of my inability to register despite being in the timeframe of the wait-list notification. I'm sure they'll be really receptive and understanding of the one millionth override request email, if they even notice the email before 7 AM because, again, GSU - offices and professors - seemingly work on an 8-5pm mindset but students need to be in their email around the clock. But regardless, I'd have to call the offices back. I also tried submitting a ticket and surprisingly got a response, but it just reiterated to me how a waitlist works. It did not address my situation at all.
Idk if it's a system error or if one seat out of the 50 just disappeared. Or if someone skipped the waitlist but whatever
It could be because I'm a third-year student now - and I believe I have the latest registration ticket than other student types. But man. Summer registration this time around has been worse than ever. The fact that there's no wait-list positions displayed, professors seemingly picking up classes that they've never taught.. and I've heard of other students dropping other classes for other courses that have "3 seats" or 2 or whatever available, then they realize they can't register and they're out of the other class. The fact that it nearly happened to me - and that none if the offices care - is frustrating, as I would've been out of my scholarship refund and unable to take summer classes. They know so many things depend on them, finances and classes included.
GSU needs to offer more online classes tbh, idk if "if hurts their business," because they are actively hurting mine and y'all's pockets 😭
I'm sorry if I was like rude or stupid anywhere with what I'm saying
I hope everyone's registration is going moderately okay, even though things generally suck 🌷

I've been staying with him for about a week and I don't know how to read him. He always seems irritated with me and annoyed so I try to stay in the bedroom and stay away from him and not talk to him. I understand that he doesn't want me here. I went to my friends today and came home with some chocolate. My dad was in the bathroom and I guess he didn't know I came back. So then he came out and was standing by the window. I guess I snuck up on him because when I went to tell him I got him a chocolate bar, he got spooked because I didn't tell him I'm back and I scared him. So he started swearing at me and all I could say was I'm sorry. But sorry is all I ever say and yet I still keep fucking everyone's life up. I keep fucking his life up. And i fucking hate myself. I feel like I dont know how to be a good daughter or person. Nobody wants me around them. Whenever I try to do something nice for someone, it makes them annoyed or mad at me. I know it's only because I scared him, but I hate that I'm so fucking stupid and every single day there's something to prove to me that my family and the world is better off without me. This is just another small thing to add to that list. I'm only ever in the way and I wish I could just be brave enough to finally take my life so that my family wouldn't have to suffer anymore because of me. Every little thing I do is wrong and makes people stressed out and angry. The only thing there is that I'm able to do is remove myself completely. Staying in my room, being as small and quiet as possible clearly is not enough. I'm sorry to everyone who has the burden of having me in their lives. I wish I didn't exist as well.

This happened when I was like 9 or 8 maybe 7 I don't remember but I was in this daycare and the daycare lady had this son who was 2 years younger than me and everyone would ship us together and say we liked each other (I didn't) and we ended up doing things. I don't remember how it started or ended but stuff did happened and I just let it happened because I was convinced I liked him.
This one time I through the covers over myself and he just started kissing me, I don't know if I tempted him or something but I just let it happen.
Years later and I'm 17 and I find out about cocsa and I'm starting to put together that this is what I've experienced and I don't know how to help myself process it. The more I think on it I just feel empty, and the more I try to remember I just tear up and I feel myself screaming to stop trying to remembered. There's a lot of things I don't remember from my childhood but I want to know how to help myself.

When I was first diagnosed, I completely changed my diet, how I ate, read every ingredient on every shelf. It would take hours to grocery shop because very few things were "certified GF" back then, so it was Google and Guessing. I felt better immediately but I was always itchy or had random rashes, terrible dandruff/dry scalp. Fast forward a few months. I forgot my phone downstairs so had to read shampoo bottles like it was 1994 and noticed "wheat protein" in nearly every bath product that I was using. I felt SO stupid for not ever thinking of gluten ON my body. It was even in the Johnson's Baby Shampoo. My kids bought me a Lush care package for mother's day and it says "Vegan" but not GF. I'm a little apprehensive because I get these horrible tiny, itchy pimple-like blisters that take weeks to clear up, when I gluten my skin. Does anyone else get horrible skin reactions? (I have really fair and sensitive skin to begin with)

So hi, I am a teenager who wants to improve myself and gain some confidence. Lately, I become very depressed I thought I was already healed na eh. I had depression since the pandemic era, a year after I tried my best to do better by self-healing but still I lost interest in things again and I mostly focused on social media. My routine always repeats itself, I feel like dying every day. I almost committed suicide before eh but I am still trying to get up and move on, I don't know where to start. There are lots of things that happened to me this past few years, I was bullied before and I also made lots of mistakes that still hurt me. There are times na sobrang naprepressure na din ako since I am the oldest child and luckily nga naging top student ako so they keep expecting so much. I've been always compared with my cousin na ngayon may mga successful na saka mga magaganda pa yung trabaho, professional na nga ata eh(kaya yun gusto akong pag engineerin). My father has a mindset na yung pang cocompare is he's way to motivate me to be better? I don't think so it will help me, I am too disrespectful to say this but ang pangit ng mindset nila. Ayoko din namang sabihing naprepressure ako kasi ang sasabihin bat ba ganyan yung mga kabataan ngayon. I also can't confess anything to my parents because I once told them about my mental health issue but they think depression is just something na nararamdaman mo lang or wala lang yan ganun. I tried to explain naman but they keep bringing up on how they grow up na kesyo ako nga ganyan, ako nga nagkaganto. Like wala na ba akong karapatang magsalita? That's why I keep it to myself. I feel like I am too young for suffering things, I know I don't deserve to. So, can you guys help me by giving some advice?? THANKYOUUU PO (correct me if I am wrong din poo)

I'll try to make this as concise as possible. I was taking the same route I take every day, where I merge onto the freeway with a 65MPH speed limit. The onramp is over 1000ft (measured on google maps) and during that time runs fairly close to parallel to the highway (maybe a 20 degree angle).
The length of the ramp and the shallow angle allows a lot of time to speed up and also reasonably judge distances. I say this to add context, because I have never had an issue merging on this ramp before, and I would dare say this is probably one of, if not the easiest onramp I have ever driven on. Which is why I'm so perplexed with the situation below.
As I start on the long onramp, I check over my shoulder periodically to look at the traffic. There's not much, the closest vehicle to me is a silver pickup but he's in the middle lane, a couple car lengths behind me. A ways behind him (several car lengths) is a semi truck in the right lane. I continue checking over my shoulder as I get closer to the merge and am keeping pace in front of the silver pickup. Suddenly as I get onto the highway and look to start merging, the semi that was several car lengths back behind the silver pickup is now in front of the pickup and running faster than I am even (I was running about 70).
So, somehow the semi within about 5 seconds picked up enough speed to not only pass the silver truck but also get right up on me where his front wheelbase was in line with mine as I was about to begin my merge. I ended up making the decision to speed up in front to get ahead, rather than slam the brakes, and I had to get up to around 85 or 90 to actually overtake, which then put me in a dangerous position with the cars in front.
Like I said I am just perplexed, I've never really had a situation like this before where I am clearly far ahead of a vehicle, keeping speed with the rest of the group and then within a few seconds am getting run up on like that.
So, do you think I did something wrong here? My estimation is that the truck driver started speeding up rapidly as he saw me coming up on the merge and tried to block me, but my question is why, and how am I supposed to predict that? Is there something I could do better in the future if this situation happens again?
If I had hindsight, I think the play would have been to slow my acceleration to fall in behind the semi, but that's such a strange thing to do without knowing the situation, and I never would have predicted doing that. For a normal car, certainly, I have both sped up and slowed down to zipper in as the situation calls for, but with a semi that is so long, slowing down to let it pass while in front just makes no sense.

So I just read a post on here somewhere that got to me. I thought it had to be a troll, but I looked at the person's profile and the way they wrote was the same across there posts and even the replies to comments. I reported their post closed reddit. All's good. And then my brain was like "hey here's how you feel about it" so here I am
I've recently been accepting and wanting to express my femininity more. Which is good, I like that part of me. I'm also straight. I've experimented with guys but ultimately it's not for me. Also good, cause you know boundaries and shit. But this person's post has left me questioning whether it's okay to be a straight femboy, or straight and wear feminine clothes. And rationally I know it is. But fuck me, it really has rocked me and I thought I was pretty stable and okay with my self expression, self esteem, self worth
I fucking love this community. I'm allowed to be here. And I deserve to be here. And I'm not going to let anyone tell me I can't be. But I am questioning it and that shouldn't be a thing. So fuck anyone that says I or you reading this doesn't belong. I will fight for you and anyone who feels like they don't fit in
I feel really sad. I am also going to sleep right now but wanted to get this off my chest. I hate people sometimes

I am a 21 year old male, I’ve been with my girlfriend for 3 years, this last year in long distance for context.
I always thought me and my GF were the perfect match, I feel like she represents a lot of the characteristics I want to integrate into myself. She’s fun, outgoing and lives very much in reality. I however am much more introspective and passionate on an emotional level. But I feel like we even each other out very well, there are so many things I love about her yet I still feel unfulfilled in my relationship.
Last week in my philosophy class I met a girl who i was instantly attracted to. We spoke for an hour or so after class and just from this conversation I felt like we had a potential connection. From our conversation I could tell she was very different from my girlfriend, a lot more spiritually inclined and an inward thinker like myself.
Ever since I can’t stop thinking about her and I feel terrible for it.
How would you guys advise me on figuring out what I truly want from a partner?
For reference, I have only read man and his symbols from Jung. Sorry to put this on the Jung Reddit I just want to hear some thoughts by those well versed in his work.

I felt like Sam went for her came out of nowhere😂😂. But tbh I was growing to like Sam more but we can’t forget his reputation, and I think Emily as Yas’s friend when things come out is fair enough to say what the fuck is going on here… in my opinion it’s not spreading negativity when it’s already there
What are people’s thoughts on this I’m still watching the episode now

Hi, I've had a glowforge for a few years now, i've been paying for the premium subscription to be "in the fast lane" and i just realized it wasn't saying that anymore so i checked and my credit card had expired. So i have now reupped my subscription but it's still not saying i am "in the fast lane" and it's literally taken me almost an hour for the machine to home, center, and i've been uploading a very simple design for like 10 minutes. I'm losing my mind. i recently bought a new glowforge because i thought that the reason it was running so slow is because mine was old and needed to be sent in to get worked on. This is the new one! i'm using it for the first time! i should have been finished with this entire project hours ago and i am still waiting for simple things to upload to cut.
Does ANYONE have any advice, know what's going on? i am actually going insane at this point.
i know my internet is slow but this seems absolutely absurd.

I’ve struggled with mental health almost my whole life. Lately it’s been really bad and I have a LOT of trauma. I have every bpd symptom, uncontrollable anger, I constantly feel so empty inside, I’ll do any reckless thing imaginable when I get triggered ( reckless spending, drunk driving, lashing out, even cheating a few times which is horrible I know) it’s like something takes over and I can’t control it. I need constant re assurance and I trust nobody. I feel like a shell of a person walking around. Lately I don’t even feel like myself if that makes sense, I don’t even know who I am. I also struggle with maintaining my job, I manage but it’s so difficult. If someone says something even slightly rude at the wrong time I will lash out on them and not hold back. I feel like I’ve completely lost the person I used to be when I felt somewhat normal. I’m also just really scared to try and get help bc in my mind I think I’ll just be judged and belittled which will only make things worse. Do I just find a therapist and tell them outright I think I have bpd? I need help bc I can’t live like this and I’m heavily suicidal.

Hello! I'm migrating from the apple platform in order to save costs down the road.
Here's the system: https://pcpartpicker.com/list/TfGFkJ
I've assembled a system that I hope is compatible with the goal of being overkill so that I can completely update my workflow (I'm moving from an M2 Max Macbook with 32gb of Ram and 12/30 cores. I've identified key features I need for my workload as a composer for film and television.
-Thunderbolt Protocol/USB 4 for use with my Universal Audio Apollo interface, as well as to minimize the loading time for sample libraries
-Absurd amounts of RAM which will allow me to run my massive template (I'm currently on 32gb and need to have 70% of the tracks frozen)
-Dual networking ports, with one needing to be 10Gbp/s as I have a second machine that will link to this and run VEPro 7 as well as serve as my "picture" machine, running the film in pro-tools, synced to my Cubase session. It would be great to have a second 10Gbp/s port for use with my machine that I use for version control software
-As many M.2 NVME ports as possible, allowing me to store and run my projects quickly. Key software will also be stored within the machine
-A strong graphics card to run development builds of games I am working on, many of the clients I have worked with have sent me builds that I can't run on my mac due to compatibility, and they are usually poorly optimized
-As quiet as possible to keep the volume in my writing room low and eliminate the possibility of acoustic phenomenon reducing the transparency of my mixing environment
-While not a key feature, I HATE RGB, and have found parts that would fit the case nicely and make the system look aesthetically pleasing in my writing room which features wooden furniture (in particular, the graphics card which seems to be more expensive than other versions of the same thing- but I love the aesthetics of it!)
Sorry if any of the terminology is confusing! Let me know if I can clarify something. Thank you so much for the help! If you have any advice for some of the networking/data transfer features that would be awesome! I'm currently running most of my samples off of 7 2tb Samsung T7 drives, and that has been a huge hassle. I've been looking at getting an SSD dock, but haven't found anything that facilitates a fast enough transfer speed for me to be able to open up my projects in a reasonable amount of time (right now, it takes me around 8 minutes to open up my template)

This will probably get lost in new, but that's fine. I keep thinking about posting here and thought I might as well give it a go. It's not like I only get one post after all.
I'm an agnostic that lurks on here occasionally just to read Catholic takes on things. I never would have been even remotely interested in Christianity (let alone Catholicism) years ago, but here I am. Somehow I ended up becoming a Jimmy Akin fan too, and find listening to Catholic YouTubers... therapeutic? That's not to say I agree (I often feel exasperated with some takes and reasoning) even if I have plenty of reason to want to.
The truth is I've done some terrible things in my past that all the regret in the world can't undo. I feel the weight of sin, for lack of a better term, crushing me every day to the point where even the idea of a happy future seems out of reach. I look forward to sleep every night just so I can forget for a little while. I have nobody I can really talk to about anything serious about either. I wouldn't call this a cry for help, but it is a whimper at the very least.
I have always had a low opinion of myself, but after I realised the true magnitude of my past actions, that opinion hit rock bottom. I started to want Christianity to be true, so that I might have hope of God's forgiveness even if I can't forgive myself. How selfish is that? It's kind of funny really; I started learning about Catholicism (Protestantism is the reason I never too Christianity seriously in the first place) and started wanting it to be in line with reality so badly. There are times when it seems very reasonable, and times when it seems patently ridiculous. At the end of the day though, I don't want to buy into something that isn't true. If Catholicism is true, I'm interested, and if it isn't, I'm not. Even with my incentive to believe, I just can't quell the inner critic/sceptic. A burning bush would be awfully convenient, just sayin' God, if you're real.
Apologies for rambling, I just needed to get this off my chest. I have plenty of questions, but they can wait for another time. Thank you for listening to a lonely, broken autist, haha.

I was considering getting all three of the games. Fallout is the series that made me love the post-apocalyptic genre, and I've been playing all different minds of post-apocalyptic games since then to try get a similar feeling to what I get from Fallout. I think the thing I liked the most about Fallout is that we have an abundance of choices for quests all with different outcomes, and there is different factions we can choose from to rule the parts of the wasteland. I have played other post-apocalyptic games such as RAGE 1 & 2, Mars: War Logs, Metro (all three of the games), Terminator Resistance, World War Z, Mad Max and many more.
I wanted to know what it is that is special about this game that keeps it relevant after so long. It must be doing something right if it still has an active and popular fanbase.
I also just want to the play the first games before Stalker 2 comes out, just so I can say I played before the game came out and can form an opinion from the perspective of an "original" player so to speak. I did the same thing with Far Cry and Fallout. Started with the oldest games then worked my way up to the newer games (it got worse after New Vegas in my opinion)

I’ve struggled with mental health almost my whole life. Lately it’s been really bad and I have a LOT of trauma. I have every bpd symptom, uncontrollable anger, I constantly feel so empty inside, I’ll do any reckless thing imaginable when I get triggered ( reckless spending, drunk driving, lashing out, even cheating a few times which is horrible I know) it’s like something takes over and I can’t control it. I need constant re assurance and I trust nobody. I feel like a shell of a person walking around. Lately I don’t even feel like myself if that makes sense, I don’t even know who I am. I also struggle with maintaining my job, I manage but it’s so difficult. If someone says something even slightly rude at the wrong time I will lash out on them and not hold back. I feel like I’ve completely lost the person I used to be when I felt somewhat normal. I’m also just really scared to try and get help bc in my mind I think I’ll just be judged and belittled which will only make things worse. Do I just find a therapist and tell them outright I think I have bpd? I need help bc I can’t live like this and I’m heavily suicidal.

I have a small VMware environment, licensed for VSphere and vCenter. 2 ESXi hosts.
Last Friday, there was a technical issue and I had to call VMware, which is now Broadcom. I spoke To a really nice guy, who apologized about 7 times during our 45 minute conversation, as he told me the systems weren’t integrated between VMware and Broadcom, and the only thing he could find said our support contract expired In March, but I’m certain it was renewed.
I applied for a Site ID, but it’s been crickets since last Wednesday. I feel like I’m spinning my wheels, has Broadcom been getting back to people, And it’s just slow, do you keep calling, or is there something else I can do?

Hi all. Was wondering if you guys could help me here. I’m a 30F dating my boyfriend 32M of 6 months in what has been thus far the healthiest, happiest relationship I’ve ever been in. But we seem to have hit a huge wall in our sex life. Our physical chemistry is there but once in the bedroom we hit a weird plateau.
I have a big feeling in that it has to do with my bf getting too nervous/ in his head during sex which in turn effects his performance, and time after time of this happening, I think his confidence in the bed has taken a huge blow.
I have dated a few people in the past but my bf on the other hand has only had one serious relationship, and maybe a few random hook ups here and there in college. So I think we defer a lot in experience.
I am always the one to initiate vaginal intercourse which means I am the one on top which I have always hated. I have tried to playfully recommend different positions, like doggie and such, which he will oblige to but then will go soft and unable to perform. Sometimes I try to remain on too long enough for him to finish but I get too tired/ he goes soft. Me not wanting him to be embarrassed I end up giving him a blow job to get him off. It has gotten to the point in which I rarely initiate vaginal sex because I just don’t like being on top and it isn’t pleasurable for me.
At this point our only intercourse is oral sex with me giving it to him. He knows that I love being fingered so he will do that in return. But I feel like that is where we are stuck.
I feel like he is too embarrassed/ scared to initiate other things with in turn affects his erection and he just can’t perform. Me, on the other hand, am kind of frustrated and don’t know how to help him. I feel like this may need expert help but I don’t know. It is an embarrassing and vulnerable topic to talk about and I don’t know the best way to bring it up.
Thoughts?

First of all, I would like to apologize beforehand for my English writing skills, since I am not native to the English language.
Ever since my ex-girlfriend left me half a year ago before Christmas time, I feel empty.
I feel like there is no joy in everything I do and I completely forgot the feeling of euphoria.
Maybe its my very rational nature. I see in black or white. Wrong or right.
I rarely get sad about things. Because I know that, if there is nothing about it that can be changed, I shouldn’t waste any recourses being sad about it. But so am I rarely happy about things.
Of course, when I meet my friends and catch up with them, I might feel happy for the time being, but deep inside its still emptiness.
I miss knowing that there is someone waiting for me. Someone who’s overloading with joy just at the glance of me. Someone I can always rely on. Someone to fall back on.
For context: the relationship lasted 2.5 years and I am turning 20 very soon. She was my very first girlfriend as well.
I know this makes me very young and some of you may say „it’s normal to feel this way. You’re young. Let time heal your wounds.” Or “you already got a girlfriend. There won’t be any trouble finding another one” (which I am very certain about as well. I would rate my appearance at a good 7 or low 8)
But that’s the point. I don’t want my happiness depending on another person.
For all I can remember I did everything for our future. I worked throughout Highschool and saved 90% of everything to finance our vacations and maybe a house one day (these days you got to start early).
I consumed red/black pill content even before the break up. But always with caution and questioning the contents. I started working out. Because I wanted to be the best version of myself for her and for us.
I successfully applied for a dual study program at a big insurance company with high profile jobs in hopes of securing our financial prosperity.
I knew everything I did had a purpose.
Now I continue to do the same. I work. I work out. I prepare myself for the studies starting in August. That’s everything I do. I feel stuck like being on a treadmill. Knowing that all I do is objectively right. The optimal path for guaranteed success. But I feel like I’m still not moving forward.
All “fun” activities feel not the same anymore.
I really do like my friends. But going to a lake or to the swimming pool with anyone feels like a chore in order to keep my social life healthy and maintain friendships. I rather work and make money in the meantime.
Gaming doesn’t feel the way as it used to. Even tough I have a lot more time now.
I just wanted to tell this somebody who doesn’t know me with a completely new and unbiased point of view.

The reason I'm putting this up is because I can't cope with my mother anymore, I'm 13 and my mother is a single parent but it makes no excuses for the things she sais, she plays basketball with me, buy nice presents, and she tries, but she just isn't trying hard enough, every day it's, "fat,useless,lazy,waster,pathetic,my horrible uncle," and on top of all that she's one of the ones that would rather lose an arm than admit their wrong, and one of the ones that think everything to do with age and higherarchy, apparently if she sais black Is white then black is white because she's the parent, also expects perfection and constantly "well she's doing this for her exams, he wouldn't say that to his mother, look at them kids that's what you should be like" I'm a growing christian so honestly thats the only reason I refuse to say I hate her, I live her and she tries her best but her temper is horrible, her patience is non existent, her anger issues are through the roof, and the part of her calling me my horrible uncle, she is his female clone, and Im extremely stressed with exam revision and her constant insults, comparing, and pressure, if I moved out and told her why she wouldn't even change, she would just say"well to hell with you then [my uncle's name]"