2014.01.14 06:28 tabledresser [Table] Holy hotdog down a hallway! I'm SheilaStretch: unpaid [F]etish 'porn star' w/ 18 piercings, a "wrecked holes" fetish & a couple million video views. "A loose hole *is* a sexy hole!" AMA about Fisting, Fleshlight-in-vagina sex, Sharing embarrassing fetishes with your SO, or whatever, really!
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| Do you have a fetish you've not yet tried that you would like to? Or do you have a fetish that intimidates you to the point where you may not? | I still need to try pegging, an actual gang bang (so far I've only had the pleasure of two men at once, and a little swinging), gags, rope/Japanese bondage, penis in urethra sex, and e-stim. |
| I kind of like the idea of S&M, but I'm a complete pussy when it comes to pain, so I dunno... There's also breath play, and sensory deprivation play, which sound interesting, but also a little scary. | |
| Do you have any hard limits? You seem pretty open, how far would you go? | No necrophilia. No footing. No scat, and I don't like the thought of rimming (though Mr. S tried it on me once). Nothing that seems like it might get someone hurt. |
| I think that honestly depends on who I'm with, how I'm feeling, and overall safety. I'll say no to something I might enjoy if I don't feel it's a good time (anal fingering, for example). | |
| I'm willing to give almost anything a go once, though sometimes I do need to warm up to the idea first. | |
| Edit: Added footing to list. | |
| How was penis in urethra? Was it painful? Did it require lots of stretching or were you able to get there pretty quickly? | Oh, that hasn't happened yet. I'm still trying to get past the pen-sized rods. I can't even get a finger in there yet. |
| If it hurts I wont push myself, but will keep stretching and try again. My urethra is a lot more sensitive than my vagina, and will sometimes burn for a day or two when I pee if I stretch myself too quickly. Not fun. | |
| Fisting took about a year of dedication to accomplish, so I imagine urethral sex will be a pretty long way down the road too. | |
| (Edit for bad sentence making.) | |
| Interesting that you say that you're not a fan of pain. Surely you experience some pain when you push the physical limits of your stretchability? | Of course, but there's a big difference between cutting or needle play, and the slight ache or pushing my limits. When I'm stretching, I'll often push myself right to the edge of what I can stand, kind of like when you exercise till your muscles ache. It's the satisfying kind of ache. |
| Specifically my piercer and doctors have made comments about my oversensitivity. Mr. S has had to help hold me down for quite a few piercings while I scream and sometimes even cry (clarification: tears have only ever happened while moving piercings around while they're still healing to keep them cleaned. That part can hurt!) | |
| My question is how far do you plan to stretch yourself? | I specifically don't give myself goals if I can help it, since it kind of creates a downside to my hobby for the duration that I don't meet those goals (if that makes sense). Its far more fun if I can forget about the dildo I can' fit yet, and just have fun with my progression. |
| have you ever considered public stretching? | That said, I do fantasize about being so filled anally and vaginally that I look pregnant... Y'know, maybe 9 months with twins. But that's a really long way off, if possible at all. I certainly wouldn't mind if I was so loose that I could just bend over and anyone could see up inside me, even see my uterus maybe (that probably sounds weird, I know :p) |
| I don't really feel like there's much of an 'end goal' exactly, but when my hip bones stop me from stretching any wider, you better bet I'm going to be stretching deeper. I'd love for someone to be able to go elbow deep in me like Hot Kinky Jo :3. | |
| I guess that depends on how public you're talking. I've been fisted and stretched in front of a roomful of people on a few occasions, but I don't intend to do it anywhere I might get arrested :p. | |
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| HAve you heard of enema inflations? that can make you look really filled. I would LOVE to see you look like that and im sure many others will. Yea i have seen your public things. but stretched in front of people sounds awesome! Elbow deep in your pussy would be spectacular. | I thin Samantha Luvcox was the one who got me into enema inflations, though I haven't actually managed to do it yet. I tried using just a bulb syringe, but I need the proper equipment it seems. |
| Have you considered a vaccuum pump? | I have considered a pump, but I don't think it would work with how tiny and practically non-existant my clit is. I don't see how or what the pump would attach onto. We've been looking into topical DHT, which is supposed to be safer than steroids. |
| did you breastfeed afterward? If so, did you enjoy it? | I tried breast feeding the moment the baby was given back to me, but not successfully. In fact I felt pretty unsuccessful pretty much the whole time I tried to keep it up. |
| I loved how big and swollen my breasts got, and particularly how milk would squirt across the room at the slightest touch, before feeding time. The way the milk would dribble down the curve of my breasts and tickled before dripping down. | |
| My breasts started producing a small amount of milk since then, and I've been trying to keep up and even encourage more flow, but it's not nearly as good as it was back then. | |
| Thanks for doing this. Given your fetish, how do you feel about small penises? And how much does size matter? | No problem! |
| Size really doesn't matter to me (though I'm still not very deep so preferably not too long). Mr. S is average, so especially after a good stretch I can barely feel him. | |
| When we have sex (after fisting first) I usually either get him to put his hand, a fleshlight, or a collection of toys into me at the same time. | |
| We very rarely have 'normal' sex with just his penis for the entire sex session unless we're aiming for an ultra quickie. 'Regular' sex does work fine for the both of us, but I guess it's like vanilla vs. tripple chocolate fudge? | |
| So I guess if anything, smaller is just handy for getting more of my toys in along side it :p. | |
| What is it about a stretched/wrecked looking vagina that you find so sexy? Thanks for the AMA!! | I love how easily all my favorite toys slide into me. I've felt a deep sense of never being 'full enough' - whether masturbating or having sex -even when I'm being stretched to my absolute limits. Even when I was quite young I imagines being fucked my cocks as thick as a man's arm, and long enough to at least nudge my lungs... |
| For me it's more the idea and sensations that go along with having a big loose vagina, not to mention how much fun I have stuffing myself with toys till I can't take any more. The look is more of a "mission accomplished" sign. If I see another woman's stretched out vagina it makes me envious and wonder what we could fit in her if we got together to play- very inviting. | |
| How deep are you able to stretch? I've seen that you have had some large toys in you, but was wondering if you ever measured or if you are going for a goal of some sort. | I think we measured a while ago and made some interesting discoveries. When I'm not really aroused yet, I'm about 6in deep, but after I got my juices flowing it was a bit over 8in (might have been more, but I'm afraid to say since I can't find where I might have written it down). |
| There's no specific goal, but when I first started imagining a penis while masturbating, I'd imagine the cock nudging my lungs with each thrust... Sometimes I'd imagine something even bigger, but unfortunately that's not a real option no matter how much I practice. | |
| You mentioned clamping your muscles down or doing kegel's with large objects inserted as a way to go further. Is that helping with the progress of how big you can go when filling your hole? | I see someone's been reading my tumblr! Awesome! |
| So far I don't feel like I can say with 100% certainty, but maybe. | |
| I haven't been doing it as often as I was originally planning, because my muscles have been feeling kind of tender lately. I'll do it one day, not at all the next, then practice again the third day. Its kind of crazy how intense it feels when I'm trying to clench around a giant inflatable or Mr. S's wrist. | |
| We recently got two fists into me more easily than when we tried before I tried this kegel experiment, but that might also just be because we've been actively trying to stretch me more anyway. | |
| This isn't a very scientific experiment, so I'm sorry I can't give you a definite answer. | |
| How does it feel to walk around with the inflatable? | Its a very unique feeling. Before it's inflated it just feels like a rather small dildo that pokes at my cervix, so for comfort I always make sure it's inflated till its fairly round before I start walking around. Once it's filled up enough I can feel pressure pushing in all directions, particularly down on my pelvic area and pushing my organs up. If I need to pee at all the sensation is multiplied several times. As I continue pumping it up the sensations will get so strong and overwhelming that I'm forced to orgasm, but at that size I can't stand the stretch once my orgasm finishes and I have to deflate it pretty quickly or it becomes uncomfortable. |
| Have you ever tried inserting water balloons or other unusual / inflatable objects ? | No matter how inflated the toy is, I can always feel it holding my entrance open, and I can feel the end sticking out and rubbing between my thighs with every step. I can also feel the tube running rubbing against at least one leg. It makes me feel like a complete whore, especially in a nice short skirt. There's also a slight medical/alien science experiment feel that I get when I can feel the hose of the inflatable resting against my thigh. I kind of like to pretend that its part of some kind of sexual torture/control device that I'm secretly hooked up to. |
| Would you hate being a man, seeing as your stretching abilities would be severely limited? | We have tried playing with balloons, using various methods, and we definitely had some fun with that, but if I remember correctly I had trouble getting them a good size and inside me safely. Needless to say I feel a little extra jumpy when balloons are near my genitals :p. |
| Haha, I actually wished I was a guy for a really long time. In fact, when I very first started masturbating with the idea of genitals in mind, I used to pretend I had a cock and was fucking a chick. After a while I realized I was probably setting myself up for a bit of disappointment if I didn't try to think of sex from a female perspective (the idea of non-necessary surgery is just too scary for me), and that was when I started imagining being filled with giant cocks :D. | |
| I imagine if I was a guy I'd be heavily into sounding and would probably already be into anal fisting. I don't think I would have ever discovered the pleasure I can get from my nipples or belly button, nor about the difference between g-spot, clit, and vaginal orgasms. But at least I'd be able to stick my dick in someone and feel that warm wet feeling slide down my cock... Sorry, that just seems to cool to me. I really wish I knew what it felt like to spill a load <3. | |
| Don't you think the term 'porn star' is used too loosely? | I see what you did there! |
| I have been offered professional gigs, but I haven't taken anyone up on it yet, mostly related to school n' keeping my IRL identity hidden and such. Also, since a big goal of mine is the general spreading of kink openness, I figure people are waaay more likely to see it if I keep releasing for free, and it's not like I need the money, so... | |
| I mean, I'm the 'star' of my own videos, right? :p. | |
| I've got over an hour of video alone posted, and a decent chunk over 10,000 (I stopped counting after that) combined XHamsteTubmlect. 'followers' from posting original content alone. That's gotta count for something, right? | |
| african tribes practicing vulva stretching to prepare for birth, and/or labia stretching with weights to attract guys (two separate ethnographic examples). | On this note, I'd like to say that I wish more women knew that stretching out in preparation for child birth was an option. I didn't do any preparation and regretted it very much during and after. Unfortunately when I tell other women about it, I've almost universally gotten negative reactions for even suggesting it. |
| As for the labia stretching. My inner labia were uneven basically from the time I hit puberty. I waited for years for the short one to catch up, and was always glad that Mr. S never seemed to notice. It wasn't till someone told me about ladies from other cultures doing this practice that I even thought of doing such a thing. Now that my inner labia are even, I've been working to stretch out my labia major so that they wrap around their minor counterparts. | |
| 1 & 2) I specifically don't like the idea of having a prolapse, but I realize that with my hobby it might just have to be part of the package (fortunately my gyno tells me there's a ring and other options to help deal with such an occurrence). It might be a bit of paranoia, but sometimes I feel like I might be beginning to prolapse, and it does freak me out just a little, though not nearly as badly now that I've talked to a professional about it. | |
| I didn't know you could push out and retract the cervix, though I guess that would make sense, and I know which muscles would be involved in both actions... I guess at least now if I do get a prolapse, know how I should have fun with it :) | |
| Even since before I ever tried stretching, I've been trying to keep up with me kegels, though in all honesty I probably don't really do them enough. A lot of people, male and female, don't realize that if they neglect to do their kegels, they will end up suffering from incontinence later on in life. A few months ago I was speaking with a young guy (20s, possibly early 30s) who had lost basically all control of his bowls because he'd been doing fisting and large insertions without any kegels, and was finding it just about impossible to learn now that his muscles have been so neglected. The same muscles control urine, and even if you never put anything larger than a penis inside yourself, you are still at risk if you don't take care of your body now. | |
| In all honesty I cannot clamp down very well with my vaginal muscles, they are pretty weak, but I'll always try to do my kegels, and if I get seriously worried about prolapse I'll probably even try using my ben wa balls more often (well other than for sex that is). I will never encourage anyone to stop doing their kegels. I think its a pretty terrible idea, but as long as the women choosing to stop exercising know the risks, all I can do is wish them luck on their quests. I certainly can't criticize anyone's methods since, as and experiment, I recently started practicing my kegels specifically while we're stretching me wide. My hope is that I will end up looser and more ragged, but still keep my kegel strength (If anyone thinks this is a dumb idea, please speak up!). | |
| 3) I was completely uninterested for a few months, but I think shortly before Christmas I started pestering and teasing Mr. S about needing to be impregnated again. For the past few days in particular I've been feeling a noticeable empty feeling in my womb area and pregnancy has been right at the forefront of my mind. The only thing is we've been painting our place, so until I know we're done (for a while at least) I shouldn't give into any urges. We're definitely not planning on having any more kids of our own, but I would desperately like to find a friendly couple who need help. When we feel like its a good time I'll get better acquainted with the laws, procedures, and requirements, then I'll put out the word and see who's out there. | |
| We need more doctors/gynos informing the community really. | First we need the doctors and gynos to actually be informed about the subject themselves. |
| The thing that bothers me most about all this is the amount of uncertainty the medical professionals I've asked about this start giving off when the subject comes up. I guess maybe even the women who are into fisting don't usually feel comfortable talking to a doctor about it? | |
| I definitely intend to at least share photos as my belly grows, and would probably consider camming a little. Of course that's only if it works out. Fingers crossed! | |
| What was the weirdest/craziest thing youve ever put up there? | *7 hard boiled eggs (at once) |
| *an apple NSFW. | |
| *a giant cucumber NSFW. | |
| *a Fleshlight NSFW. | |
| *pee (just once so far- very messy) | |
| *large marbles | |
| What do you keep sniffing? Poppers? | Yep! |
| I can definitely have sex, fisting, etc. without poppers, but they really help to push me over the edge and stretch just that little bit more. | |
| Well, That's the difference between hungry and horny when it comes to cucumbers. | Since I'm a feedee, I find it a bit hard to differentiate sometimes :p. |
| Hate to ask. What are poppers? | Short version: they're a (in most places) legal sex enhancer that makes orgasms more intense and also makes stretching yourself even easiemore fun if you're into that sort of thing (but you don't have to be into stretching for them to enhance sex). |
| Longer version: here's a few posts I've made tagged 'poppers.' Some of them are just pictures, but there's a few posts at the top and bottom that go into more detail about effects and safety and whatnot Link to sheilastretch.tumblr.com | |
| Have enjoyed your blog for a while now. Can't wait til you get around to stretching out your asshole. Any new thoughts regarding that? | Its actually my New Years resolution to finally pick up an enema kit (thanks btw to the people who sent me advice and tips on what to look for!). |
| I've had a few more compulsions and fantasies about anal play these past few weeks, so that's probably a good sign, right? | |
| compulsions and fantasies about anal. | Nothing spectacular. Sometimes when I'm masturbating or planning to I feel the need to get some fingers or a dildo in my ass. I don't usually give in, since I don't lost the enema bulb I used to use in one of our moves, but I should be fixing that problem soon. |
| Anything in particular you care to share? | I can really intensify normal masturbation or sex by just imagining an extra person/alien fucking me from behind, forcing in and inflating a butt plug, or even giving me an unwilling enema and filling me up till my belly starts expanding and looking pregnant. |
| Any tips for getting started with fisting? | Sounds like you're almost there! If you haven't tried poppers you might want to; they really help loosen those muscles, as well as enhancing orgasms and just being an aphrodisiac. |
| Playing with her clit and breasts might help too (it's so easy to focus too much on the vagina at that point and forget the rest), since increased arousal increases vaginal elasticity. | |
| Oh, and make sure that you've got plenty of good quality lube. We didn't realize how different one lube can be from another till after we'd been fisting for some time. Astroglide and J-Lube are our favorites (though J-Lube had glucose and might cause yeast infections, particularly in women). | |
| You need to make sure the back of your hand is nicely lubed up, and don't be afraid to use a lot, then keep adding more while you play. We firmly believe that there's no such thing as too much lube! | |
| Would you do the prank again to a different person | Uh, that really depends. The guy I pulled the prank on has been a friend of ours for years, and we've been through some crazy shit with him, even spending a month abroad with him, so he wasn't just some random guy. |
| A bunch of people in the (many) /wtf threads posted about it seemed pretty disgusted that I'd just go and do that to someone, but then a ton of people also said they wished I'd done it to them too... | |
| So there's definitely a chance that that kind of thing will happen again if I think it was something I could get away with, but not if I think there's a chance it would actually upset them. | |
| Holy shit. Fleshlight in vagina sex? | Mr. S's friends started talking about their Fleshlights, and convinced more friends to get them, who also spoke pretty highly of them. Mr. S said he didn't feel like he needed one since he had the real thing, but I instantly knew that I wanted him to buy one to see if we could both fuck it together. I couldn't get the idea out of my head and was so excited when it finally showed up. It wasn't until some months later, after he lost the cap for the end of the Fleshlight case that we tried again, with just the insert. |
| How did you stumble across that one? | We got a free cock ring with an order of poppers from FortTroff (who don't sell poppers any more), which kind of sparked my interest, and I wondered allowed if Mr. S thought there might be longer version. He told me about cock sleeves, and we got one, which is OK, but I was pretty disappointed when I quickly outgrew it. |
| Have you acted that out with actual children's dolls? | I haven't, though I've bot a lot of requests for it. I honestly find most dolls, (particularly the baby ones) to be pretty creepy. If I ever find a baby doll that looks like it'd be flexible enough to fit in me, and not too creepy looking, I'll try making a video. |
| Have you ever tried stretching your cervix? | I have had fantasies of being fucked so deeply that even my cervix gets penetrated, and I've seen porn of people putting a sounding rod into a cervix, but it's really not safe. |
| I specifically talked to a doctor who is also very much into the idea, but warned me that it could lead to my reproductive organs getting infected and messed up. Since I am hoping to eventually be a surrogate, I really don't want to cause any unnecessary damage. | |
| A certain amount of stimulation around the entrance of my cervix can be really hot, but too much poking will quickly become really uncomfortable, so that's about my limit. | |
| My question is, with your SO, does it not take any of the intimacy away to know that his dinky little penis won't give either of you any stimulation or satisfaction at all unless accompanied by a bowling pin or something comparable? Obviously i get that it's a fetish and it's your thing but do you ever just want to have intimate and normal ol' boring sex or is that just not appealing to you at all? | I might tease Mr. S from time to time and tell him that he needs some dick enlargement for me to love him (to which he reminds me that, even if he did, I'd just be saying the same thing again in a few weeks anyway :p), but we're both really happy and comfortable with the growing size difference. I still pause before asking him if we can stop sex to put something else in along side him (and whatever else might be in me too) just because I feel a bit guilty pausing our fun, but he actually considers it a huge turn on. I don't feel like it does take away from the intimacy. People keep thinking that it would some how, but I guess I feel like I'm less happy and more distracted when the sex is less fulfilling (pun intended). I mean, we can do all the normal sex positions with a Fleshlight or a collection of toys in me, kiss and cuddle, I just feel more full and we both orgasm harder (it's definitely a huge kink for him). As for fisting, I actually find it particularly intimate. I love the way Mr. S can warp one arm around me while fisting with the other. At the same time he can play with my nipples, kiss and nibble on my belly, or give me oral. I've even got the benefit of orgasming if he touches or licks my belly button piercings. I love cradling his head and running my fingers through his hair while he plays me like an instrument from the inside. There's seriously nothing else like it. A penis alone will never be a match for a pianist's hand <3. |
| How is your peehole stretching progressing? | I had to run off to England for a while to visit family, and we just finished repainting our bedroom, so everything kind of got dropped for a while. I'm kinda starting over where we left off a while back, but now we can set the camera up again (I was kind of embarassed about the granny wallpaper in the room before :p) I'm going to get back to documenting my progress again. |
| What is your favorite brand of popers? | Iron Horse, Locker Room, and Amsterdam are our current favorites. |
| Thanks again for doing the AMA! | That could probably be arranged. I feel a bit nervous about releasing that kind of stuff, but if people are specifically asking for it, it helps me feel a bit less weird. So thanks :) |
| Is there any particular reason why you've pursued urethral stretching before anal stretching? | Technically I did start anal first, but urethal play ended up being a bit more of a favorite for the two of us. Sounding involves some diligent cleaning, but prep and the actual act is definitely easier for than anal. |
| I guess it probably doesn't hurt that Mr. S is also more into urethal play than anal, too. He's quite likely to ask me to sound while he watches, but I'm a lot less likely to stop sex midway to try adding anything anally (particularly since sometimes I'll go to fast, hurt myself, and end up being completely turned off sex for a while which doesn't seem very fair to him). | |
| Doesnt stretching lead to decreased sensitivity and difficult sexuality? | I think you could be right about the decreased sensitivity, but whenever I've mentioned it to Mr. S he'll usually point out that we happened to be using less toys or smaller toys that usual. So it might just seem like reduced sensitivity when compared to how hard I orgasm when I'm really full. (I don't think I ever used to orgasm anywhere near as hard as I do now, so...) |
| Putting a hand and penis into you sounds kind of tricky and awkward for the guy. Can you still derive pleasure from normal sex? | It would be pretty hard to determine the effect it has on sexuality. For both of us, our libidos go up and down all the time. Between periods, having a kid, general stress, and changing hormones as we age, it's almost impossible to say what affects come from where. We'll go from fucking like bunnies, several times a day till I have to tell him to give me a break for at least a day. Then one or both of us will have a dry spell and we just don't give a crap about sex, or one of us will try to lay off the other and just masturbate or whatever. I've noticed that sometimes I do find it very difficult to climax. Sometimes Mr. S just isn't hitting all my buttons just right, but usually its because I just can't get into a sexy mind frame. |
| How do you see it that makes stretching a constant fun thing to try? | When I think about it, I think the biggest threat to my ability to orgasm is desensitizing myself to all the weird filthy fantasies I have. |
| Is all stimulation similar, just with different sensitivities, or can you clarify the different feelings between the nipples, clit, vagina, anus, and urethra? | From what Mr. S tells me, once you get the trick its pretty easy to get everything in there. And yes, we can both orgasm really hard from normal sex. He finds the sensation of barely any pressure far more intense and stimulating than firm pressure (he actually found it harder to finish when I was tight). I on the other hand feel almost nothing as he's fucking me, except the intense spikes of pleasure as the tip of his dick pounds against my cervix (note: this is painful as hell if I'm not aroused, but once I'm worked up properly the sensation is absolutely mind blowing). |
| Well, my vagina might feel pretty loose to a penis or a hand, but when we're actively stretching me, it feels just as good, if not better now that I'm wider. Maybe I'm just used to it now, but back when we began, even with a normal sized penis, stretching was often kind of on the painful side. Now stretching sends me into wild, almost seizure-like orgasms where I completely lose control of my arms and legs. That absolutely never happened when my vagina was tight (though I don't think the piercings hurt either). | |
| Hmmm, that's a bit of a complicated thing to answer. I do specifically get different sensations from each area. Some are more similar than others. | |
| Vaginal (in and out sensation in my birthing canal) is pretty mellow and almost soothing. My g-spot is like firecrackers, but in a good way :p. | |
| My clit is like a lesser version of my g-spot, in an almost pin sized area if just a tongue is being used, but pinching the labia around my clit can make the area grow quite a bit. | |
| The impact of a cock or toy against my cervix (when aroused) is like lightning that climbs up inside me, about the same intensity as my g-spot. | |
| Anus feels pretty good, similar to vaginal, but I'm still pretty tight so there's often a little pain just on the edge of the pleasure. | |
| My labia outer labia are like a much less sensitive version of my vagina, the inner ones are quite a lot more sensitive, and I can feel a wonderful tugging sensation when Mr. S's lips around them, sucking them in. | |
| My nipples actually started out really insensitive, and I didn't really feel any pleasure till I got them pierced (before that I used to feel terribly guilty when Mr. S sucked on them, because I felt like I was just wasting his time). Now they feel pretty similar to my clit, with very concentrated sensations, but sometimes when they are sucked I get these electrical shocks of pleasure trace lightning like paths down to my clit. | |
| My belly button does the same thing, but since it's closer to my clit the orgasmy feeling it give my clit is way more intense. Mr. S laughs at me when he barely pokes my belly button and I end up having to rub my clit to deal with the residual orgasm it gets. Oddly enough though, I don't actually feel much in the way of distinct pleasure or sensation with my navel piercings. I'm honestly really confused about how I manage to orgasm so hard when I can't tell if I'm really feeling his touch there or not. | |
| My urethra is kind of like my belly button. There's an awful lot that I can't seem to feel at all, which is why it makes me kind of nervous and I'm so careful. It's really hard to tell what I'm feeling in there, or what's happening inside me, but there's just enough nerves that I get super intense sensations here and there, particularly while stretching. I'd say the orgasms and pleasure I get from sounding are the oddest, and I really can't think of any good ways to describe it. | |
| Are there any videos that you can't post on other sites that will appear there? | After getting tons of requests from people wanting to know how they could donate or send me things, I looked into posting HD videos on sites like Clips4Sale so fans could pay a few bucks for HD copies of their favorite freely released videos (a kind of bonus for the really big fans who want to contribute something to help us keep sharing), but it turns out that a lot of my favorite kinks (fisting, for one!) aren't allowed there. Stuff with poppers, choking, ect - none of that is allowed on places like C4S. |
| What are your plans for legitkink.net? | Surprisingly, fisting is actually considered banned content for being 'obscene' in porn, even in many major first world nations, so we have to keep country in mind when setting something like what we want to do up. |
| What sorts of reactions have you gotten from your obgyn regarding your stretching/filling activities? | Once we get our programmer to put together a properly secured website, we're planning to invite some of the friends we've made online and IRL to post their content too, and to allow them to sell their videos for a better percentage that I've seen offered at any of the 'mainstream' clip sites. From there, maybe we'll see about expanding to let other people post their own stuff if they want. |
| I was talking with a IRL friend of mine who worked as a camgirl a little while back, and she was telling me that the best place she'd ever worked through only paid the girls something like 40% of the profits! And she said that was the best rate she'd got. That seems a little ridiculous, and I sort of suspect those kind of rates are at least partially intended to keep participants a littler poorer so they keep coming back and offering their services on the site. | |
| If anyone shares anything through LegitKink, we want it to be freely shared by people who are sharing things they genuinely enjoy doing, and preferably not just because they need the money enough to do something they're not quite comfortable with. Ideally, we'd like to set up a sort of rating system that would allow users to rate a video as 'legit' or... I don't know- fantasy? (as in a video of legit kinks being documented by people who obviously love them vs. a more acted-out fantasy involving a kink) |