I'm (41m) currently sitting here wide awake at 3am, with less than 4 hours to go before work thinking about what I found on Facebook.
This might get long but...
Before all this I found tonight, several months back my wife was getting super pushy to see a band that had a player that was local to us. At first I didn't think anything of it, but she wanted to go see them. Ok cool, except I hate going to the city and wants really interested. But I went anyway because my wife wanted to go.
Anyway, fast forward to tonight and I'm scrolling Facebook and I see a react from my wife on a old high school friends post. Normally I wouldn't think anything of it, but I don't typically see this. She doesn't get on Facebook often so when she does, it's genuinely noticeable. So I dug a bit deeper and saw you commented on his post. Again, odd. Nothing bad, just commenting to a general discussion towards him. But because of her infrequency, it stood out again. So I began looking from my account side and only found comments/likes to his posts that seemingly were proactive.
To be clear, this dude is ripped. Used to be a scrawny dude in school but now he's not only jacked, but has 0 body fat which I could only imagine people on TRT/Steroids could do... Also he's out of state so there's no way they could have been physical
So of course, jealousy kicked in and I needed to know more. Well, she doesn't hide passwords from me and I figured, there's smoke here, so I better go investigate. Sure enough he contacted her late one night and they sort of started chatting about old times and school. However, I saw some comments that broke my heart. I don't remember the specifics, but she definitely made a comment about his looks and how he probably uses it to his advantage at his job.
He at one point later admitted to a crush back in the day, seemingly out of place in the Convo. The Convo continued on with each sharing kid photos. Then eventually a very emoji heavy goodnight. Again nothing sexual, but seemed flirtatious to me...
This was the only Convo she had but I noticed she actively searched him tonight, after seeing her reply to a post (about a pet bunny) at around midnight tonight.
It doesn't appear to have gone super far but I'm worried it may go there...
As I sit here, pondering what Im doing... Clearly tired... Waiting anxiously to see how she responds my text I sent about "us needing to talk"... Am I the asshole for doing any of this? Weve been together forever and I would hate to lose her if it's something we can work out and discuss..
She has no cheating history. Actually I have... We've worked through some tough things. I feel I've gotten better but I fear things may be sliding away from me here...

I have two Etsy stores, one is a handmade store that gives me a decent income, one is a supply store that used to be a good income but I've really, really neglected because my other store has taken priority. Basically as I grew my handmade store I opened wholesale accounts, and I used those wholesale accounts to also buy supplies to sell in my supply store.
I started my handmade store because I was already making items on commission in my community, and I needed an easy way to handle communications and sales. Since the end of 2017 I've grown year on year, and I'm now at the stage where I'm considering reducing my hours in my day job because I really would like more of a social life!
I wanted to post to talk about my experiences between the two shops.
My handmade store sells to a niche community of probably about ten thousand people in the UK. Some gurus will tell you that's too small to base a business on, but honestly it isn't. If you can discover a niche with an engaged community who all want to spend (decent) money on their hobby then it's more than possible. I am also a part of that community, and I can regularly be found being a part of the hobby (not just attending events to sell to participants).
In six or so years, and around 600 packages sent Royal Mail, I've had one parcel be reported missing in my handmade store. That was an international sale to Belgium.
By contrast my supply shop I've sent out about 550 packages by Royal Mail in three years. My supply shop is a much broader niche (it's a fabric store). I don't know my community, I'm just another face in a vast global hobby. I regularly have people report that their package hasn't arrived. I use the same packaging, the same labels, the same Royal Mail services, the same Post Office as my other business. The only difference is that I am in my community as a handmade seller, but not as a supply seller.
The marketing is different too.
For my handmade store I post sporadically on Instagram. That's basically my entire marketing strategy. But my community do my marketing for me. They tell each other about the amazing thing they bought, they show it off, they post pictures about it, they recommend me on Facebook posts. They come back too - a chunk of my buyers come back to me at least once a year. Often they order one thing, and then come back with a group order for ten or twenty more.
By contrast, I made good sales in my supply store when I was actively marketing my products. I spent a lot of time learning about social media marketing and how best to do it for my business. It was labour intensive. Nobody was referring me to their friends. Nobody was talking about me online. On top of that, the profit margins were low and it all just barely felt worth it.
Anyway, I'm not dissing supply stores, or POD, or anything like that. I'm just saying that if you're trying to work out your niche then maybe look at your own communities that you're in first. If you have a great product that your community wants, they'll do most of the hard (and boring) work for you.

More than 3000 accounts were created already and we have around 200 active players from different time zone. On average, we have 20-50 people online at any time of the day.
Here are some important infos about Frostforge;
Progressive 3.3.5 version, soft locked to 60 for a while, then 70, then 80. Crossfaction is ON.
Rates OF SERVER
XP x1-x4
Honor x0.5
Rep x2
Profession x2
Talent points x2
NPC Bot limited to 4 bots per player (you need around 15 players for 40man raid).
(BOT gears like Players!)

• Server is PvE, but many NPC Bots roam around PvP activated.
• You can learn all profession i
• Instant flight, instant mail, all flight path are discovered at level 1
• Server is PvE, but many NPC Bots roam around PvP activated.
• Instant BG - NPC Bots are smart and strong enough to not just turtle in the middle of WSG
• Original PvP titles reintroduced
• Defense/Weapon skills automatically learned upon leveling up
• Tier 1 to 6 are classless so you can get them for your bots
• Custom quests created so you can obtain Tier 3
• Scarab Lord / Atiesh / Onyxia chain quest fully working
• No run back upon wiping. You automatically rez at entrance
• TBC (maybe around mid-summer?)
• Customized attunements so people don't skip progression
• Defense/Weapon skills automatically learned upon leveling up
• Gold dump vendor; bags, mounts, pets, heirlooms, etc.
• Transmog any type of armoweapon
• Server events
• Since Onyxia and Naxxramas were moved to WOTLK;
• Onyxia's loot table has been added as an extra loot table to Ragnaros as a low % drop
• Every AQ40 bosses has a low % chance to drop splinters of Atiesh
• every AQ40 bosses has it's own extra loot table chance to drop Naxxramas loot. For example, Skeram has a low % chance to drop any items from Anub'Rekhan and Grand Widow Faerlina's loot table, etc.

All the details are in the changelog discord channel.
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We are looking forward to see you in-game. I hope this server will be a new home/niche for many of

So me and my lad play UT, he loves Bundesliga players, especially Xavi Simons. When the Bundesliga TOTS dropped I grinded player picks like a madman to get Simons, but couldn't get him. So, the weekend I saved up enough coins on my account, sold some my players and brought him. I brought Kowalski TOTS off my lad for 290k then he had enough to get Simons. He was over the moon! Now, EA have banned me using transfers.
Obviously I'm fuming, as I'm not a cheat, hacker or whatever, I was just doing a one off solid for my son. I've disputed, and been honest but they won't reinstate.
I'm gutted. I understand if someone was coin trading loads but a one off? It's not even like a soft ban! Don't suppose anyone knows of a way I can get it sorted?

its been 2 months but i haven't been able to connect my account to moonton as my account currently only connected to facebook i want to add moonton and email address into it as i have lost my old smartphone i had to use my other phone and now i am having issue to connect it as every time i tried it would trigger account protection and i would have to wait another month as it have been 2 month i don't want it to happen when i try the same thing this month so please help me fix it.

I broke up with a guy 3 months ago who was a covert narcissistic abuser, he did all those textbook manipulation tactics. Because the sitution between us was so toxic i took down my social media, then a month later i made a new reddit account and put a post up asking to meet new people, after a few days i got the feeling my ex who was a control freak was talking to me pretending to be other men because i know how how talks, he was saying things that were passive aggressive and made no sense, just like he did before when he was trying to control the way i felt and make me feel like crap all the time.
So after that i deleted my account and then the day after, one of the guys i was talking to, who hadnt messaged me in 7 days messaged me on a random app asking me why i didnt tell him i'd left reddit, even though he hadnt spoken to me for 7 days, so it was more likely my stalking ex because they suddenly reappear on other apps after you delete other social media. I confronted him on the app and said i thought it was him and if he didnt admit it i'd block him and for that he said i shouldnt be making him confess something because of the threat of blocking, if this was just a random guy, surely he would have just blocked me first for being so paranoid, so i think this was my ex lying again and making me feel like crap again. The post history/life story of the guy on the app matched up with my ex's as well which makes it more likely it was him.
This guy also admitted that he was lurking on my facebook page because of information he knew about me and that he'd recently deleted his 6 year old reddit profile just after i took screenshots as evidence to send to the cops which i told him about. Why would a random guy do that?
Does anyone else think that it was likely him or am i just being paranoid?

Hello everyone! For Filipino travellers here, I just have a question regarding a requirement. I know that if it’s my first time to apply for a Chinese visa, I need to submit a Bank Certificate of Deposit Balance and also the 6 months statement of account. Do I really need to have ₱100k in the bank account? The amount is not stated in the list in the official Chinese embassy site. Also, if I will be adding say for example a ₱40k into my bank account days before I request a Bank Certificate. Would it be a red flag to the embassy/will be a cause of my applicatjon being rejected or it doesn’t matter as long as the requirements submitted are complete.
Please let me know your experience or thoughts on this, please! I cannot find much info on facebook groups/youtube.

I (F31) got together with my bf (M34) in 2018 and have been living together for a year and a half. For a bit of back story, for the first year we were together he was clearly not over his ex, he said she had split up with him as she didn’t feel the same anymore and he said it “really screwed him up”.
There were loads of unnecessary things that he would bring up about her during this time, to name a few; on our first Valentine’s Day together he said “I might be in a bad mood tomorrow, it’s my ex’s birthday”. He said he was sad on what would have been their anniversary and said he had to turn off Facebook memories. There were films and series he wouldn’t watch with me as he said it was things him and his ex watched together and he “didn’t want those memories”. One time he said he couldn’t sleep as she was on holiday and he was worried about her as he had heard there had been earthquakes near where she was.
He would also tell me about the things he did for her and the things they did together and when I asked why we don’t do the same things he said “it was different with her” He said he doesn’t want kids or to get married but said when he was with her he thought maybe he could.
He also said he turned down a dream job abroad because she wouldn’t move abroad. But when we’d been together a year and a half he split up with me because he wanted to look at moving abroad for work, he then asked me to get back together with him because he didn’t end up moving and said he wanted to be with me.
He also didn’t want to tell anyone (including his mum and dad) about us being together for ages and to this day he’s never really taken any photos of us together or posted a single photo of us on social media (which I know doesn’t necessarily mean anything and isn’t the end of the world).
All of this had a pretty big effect on my self confidence as I always felt like I was never enough and would always compare myself and wonder why.
Fast forward to now, up until recently I’ve felt like his ex is finally in the past and he doesn’t think about her the same way anymore and it’s been a relief that I’m finally enough. A few months ago I noticed she had a new Instagram account and I looked to see if my bf had started following it, he hadn’t, and I felt like that was a bit of closure. However a few nights ago I had a gut feeling to look again and saw that he has started following her. I feel like this means he still thinks about her and she hasn’t even followed him back. It’s worth mentioning he doesn’t even follow me on Instagram.
Is this a massive red flag or am I overthinking it all?
TL;DR - Bf (M34) has started following his ex gf’s (who he was hung up on for ages) new Instagram account.

I thought I had done everything right - I purchased from a seller who appeared very legitimate, paid a very reasonable price, and yet I still got burned. While the device does work, it's obviously defective, and some components of the system aren't functioning as they should. The seller also had quite a popular eBay account and 86 five-star reviews on their Facebook page. Is there anything I can do at this point or am I essentially SOL? The device was listed as like new and "working perfect".

So my gf (22f) and I have been dating for almost 6 months and about 3 months ago we decided to get a apartment together bc we were both tired with living with our parents and now I know it was way to soon to move in together. She had a job at a hospital prior but quit bc she had issues with the doctors being jerks. Before we moved in together she got a job working at a urgent care but that lasted about 2 weeks bc she said she just didn't have the motivation to go back. Well I helped her get a job at the business my mom works at since she is one of the higher up people there. It was a good position as an assistant manager and she was making more then she was before, well about 3 weeks into the job she was complaining that the manager keeps giving her extra work, she told me she wants to quit but she's going to wait until she has another job lined up and she will do a 2 week notice, well I got home from work one day and she was home so I gave her a kiss and went to the bathroom and that's when she decided to text me that she quit her job. Of course I was upset bc now she has no income when she agreed when we first moved in that we would both pay half which is $730 each and I would cover the other bills since I do make more then her. I told her she should apply where I work bc we have different departments she could do that's easy but she has a medical assistant degree and refuses to do anything that doesn't have to do with her education. Now it's been almost 2 months since she quit so I'm paying all the bills and having to work a lot of overtime so make sure everything is paid and it's causing my anxiety it gets worse then it already is. When I told my girlfriend that I'm super stressed with everything her response to that was to say "just don't be" Things are getting weirder bc now she's always wanting to look at my phone and my messages and whenever my phone goes off she wants to know what it was. She was on my phone bc she was supposed to be getting us a discount on our Internet bill bc she had food stamps but instead she went thought all my Facebook messages. She goes up to me and says that she's concerned bc she knows I was texting my ex while we were talking, we weren't even dating at that point so I asked her to show my the messages so she scrolls all the way down my messenger and shows me a text exchange between my ex and I where it was me saying why I don't have feelings for her bc at the time my ex was trying to get back together but I was saying no. I asked my girlfriend if she even read the texts and she tells me "no I only looked at the date" so she didn't even care what the conversation was about, she just didn't like the fact that my ex and I talked at that point in time. She will get mad at me if I go to the store without her or if I decide I go for a drive alone she gets mad. She wants to be by my side all time time and even gets mad when I go on my computer on the weekends which is the only time I go on it. I made the mistake of making a joint bank account with her so she will buy something and just says "it's our money" I just don't know what to do at this point and when I do bring up my concerns to her she will either flip it to make me sound like the bad guy or if she says something that actually upsets me she just says "I was joking". What should I do?
TLDR: My gf won't get a job that isn't a medical assistant and now I'm stuck paying all the bills and having to work crazy hours just to survive.

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I’ve been a part of the War Thunder community for quite some time, racking up over 800 hours, mastering the German and Soviet tech trees, and climbing to BR 10 in each. My garage was sick, and my skills were sharp, or so I thought.
It started with a passion, then became a hobby, and somehow turned into an obsession, a problem. Over the months, I’ve poured around into the game, always chasing the next upgrade, the next tank, the next aircraft. But as I ascended the ranks, the gameplay began to change. The higher tiers felt less like skill and more like who had the better gear or, sadly, who could exploit the game’s mechanics the best.
Hackers became as common as clouds in an English summer. I’d find myself outmaneuvered by impossible shots through trees, combined with smoke from massive distances and scouted from minute one. I started seeing my opponents being scouted on large maps from the beginning of the round, impossible scouting mechanics. Frustration built up like pressure in a tank barrel. And what did I do? I threw more money at the game, thinking I could buy my way to invincibility.
But it didn’t help. I was still getting smoked. The final straw was when I met the dark side. In a moment of sheer frustration, I bought a monthly hack. I thought to myself, "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em," I thought. But that just made things worse. I wasn’t playing the game anymore; I was just part of the problem. It made the game boring and it actually made me even worse.
A week into my hacking adventure, I was permanently banned.
Sitting there, staring at the ban notice, I realized what I had become. Not a gamer enjoying a challenge, but a guy obsessed with winning at any cost (literally). That’s not who I want to be.
This ban, as harsh as it feels, is a blessing in disguise. I’m now refocused on the real world, where progress is measured not by digital tanks and planes but by personal growth and happiness. I have fallen out of Gaijins trap and it's bittersweet (No offence, Gaijin). I can now spend more time on myself, save money and do things that matter in life.
I learned a lot from War Thunder, about history, strategy, and myself. To anyone else feeling the burn of high-tier play: remember, it’s just a game. Don’t let it steer you off course in the real world.
Goodbye, War Thunder, I had a good time, with an empty account and lots of expensive digital tanks and planes that mean nothing.
*edit - Downvote me to oblivion, because I deserve it

Hola, quisiera ver si alguno de la comunidad puede ayudarme con este problema con el cual tengo mas de 6 meses...
Hace 6 meses mi cuenta fue hackeada, e hicieron varios gastos con mi tarjeta de crédito. Luego de pagar la "Meta Verified" me ayudaron devolviendome el dinero y mi business manager. No obstante hay un problema que no he resuelto y es esl siguiente:
El hacker cambio mi pagina a un business manager (Administrador comercial) que no reconozco y por mas casos que he abierto a Facebook nadie me ha podido ayudarme a recuperar mi pagina en mi administrador comercial ¿Alguno sabe como recuperar mi pagina y que la coloquen en mi business manager? Ya he tratado de varias maneras y sigo sin recuperar mi pagina, que aunque la tenga como administrador, no me deja colocarla en mi business manager. Gracias!