We met about 3 months ago, and started dating almost immedietly. We have no mutual friends, I have basically zero friends outside of online stuff and she is the same way. We have moved kind of quickly. Said I love you within the first few weeks, but haven't had sex yet. I'm a virgin and she isn't.
She invited me into a discord server with all her friends and all of them are weirdos. Spouting racial slurs, being edgelords, and one of them is like 22 years old.
I later learned that she and him met 5 years ago. She was 13 and he was 16. They fucking dated at one point. At one point he was 17 and she was 13. I could never imagine myself dating anyone even a year younger than me. Her best friend is a racist horrible person who's flirted with people when they were dating. She constantly says the n word despite being white as fuck and once said "I wonder how tight a newborn is". She has zero redeeming qualities and promotes cheating, dating people only for looks, and talks nonstop about dick size. My girlfriend is best friends with this scumbag???
About relationships, I've never been in a serious one. She's been in several. This is the first time she's ever actually loved someone she said.
I found out she was insanely sexual with her ex. Like, several times a day. I'm nervous to even do it once, and it's been months. She says she doesn't care and it's not that important but if it isn't why was it so important previously?
Now onto the other stuff. We don't really have anything in common. She only watches horror, I think the genre sucks ass. The only thing is dumb comedies with Adam Sandler and Seth Rogan and that's it. The only thing we like in common basically. She got bored when we tried to watch Star Wars, doesn't like any of the things I do like games or ANYTHING. I don't even know what we talk about. Basically nothing. I just try my hardest to be "entertaining" and we goof around and spend the rest of the time cuddling and stuff. I don't see us doing dumb fun stuff I would love to do, hanging out and doing stupid shit and talking about stuff like that. I know this all sounds very juvenile lol but having similar interests is important and I'm now realizing that.
She hates talking about her problems. She has eating issues and refuses to eat and I constantly stress about it. She just won't. I try to get her to and she won't. Some nights she'll be in a terrible mood and I can tell, but she just says she's fine. But I start to overthink it and assume the worst. She's always lying, I find out afterward. And I feel like shit she lied. And she just won't even try to talk about it. I don't blame her but it just doesn't work. Neither of us end up happy all night long.
And as for life? We both JUST graduated. She needs to move out of her parents house because of her horrible father and she's trying to figure out how to do that. We thought maybe she could move in with me, as I will be getting my own place (paid for by my grandparents) for college. It's not normal, but she has to get out asap and I think that can make an exception. After that? I don't know what I want to do in life. She wants to be an actress. She wants to move to another state and make a big name for herself. I just want to make ends meet and come home to someone I love.
I just don't see a future with her. Where we work. Where I'm happy. I've stopped talking to all of my friends to give her like all of my attention and it kind of sucks. I find myself enjoying talking to my friends more. We don't even call or text because we have nothing to talk about. I feel wrong saying I love you now. Feel wrong even typing it. It's not honest. We talked about it tonight and her responses only make me feel worse about it. She loves me a lot, she said I'm the love of her life, she said she kind of needs me and she has a history of self harm and suicide attempts. And I don't want her to do something. And I feel wrong leaving her. It feels so bad and wrong, all of it. I don't know what I should do.
hi dear reader, if you could please spare me a shilling of advice as for what to do
I don't know how to summarize this. You can't give an opinion with just a summary. I need some advice, maybe help from a third perspective please. I'll summarize it anyway so my post isn't deleted.
tl;dr: my girlfriend and I have nothing in common, her friends suck, we have different life goals, get into conflicts a lot recently, and now I need to make a decision before it's too late because we both graduated

Hi everybody, I’m interested in working at starbucks because of the ASU tuition coverage… but is it worth it? If someone could give me some info about what it was like to start, what was training like, what was your starting schedule like?

Hi! I am a 26 year old gamer who works in the tech field looking for a serious long term relationship.https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRwcsRcF
About me: I'm pretty nerdy, I love video games, anime, movies, shows, but also love doing things outdoors like hiking and skiing. I am 6'3 with an average build, and dark hair. I'm located on the easy coast in the US. I prefer talking on Discord rather than Reddit, so I'd prefer to move there after we DM for a bit.
What I am looking for: Someone with similar or the same interests as me is a huge plus. We will likely be long distance at first so I think having things in common to spend time doing online helps a ton. Looks wise I am not too picky as long as you have good hygiene and take care of yourself. I am a bit introverted at first, so having a great sense of humor and initiative goes a long way.
Thank you for your time, and DM if interested!

I (F23) have been dating my boyfriend (M25) for close to 3 years. I want to preface all this by saying that except the following problem, I truly love this man and he treats me well in every other aspect of our relationship. He’s empathetic, caring, and I do feel he loves me.
We moved in together a little under the 1 year mark. When we first moved in together, it was into my apartment, so he was always very careful and considerate about leaving things dirty or slacking on house chores, even though he was paying rent. I think he considered it “my space” so was cautious about letting himself go. A year and a half into our relationship, we moved into a house. I was very excited about this as it felt like we were starting to build something together. However, one of his childhood best friends (and previous roommate), let’s call him “Adam” was going through some apartment issues at the time and had to either find a place to stay ASAP or leave the state we were in. My boyfriend initially was against taking him in as he said Adam was irresponsible and erratic, but knowing he was his best friend I encouraged my boyfriend to let him stay with us for a few months, especially considering Adam was going through a rough breakup and other tumultuous life events. Well, that was a horrible decision. The next year Adam stayed with us till the lease was up. That house turned into me being the housekeeper because instead of my boyfriend having a good influence on Adam, it was the other way around. My every morning consisted of me picking up beer bottles and wiping down counters, clearing out the fridge of rotting fast food, etc. Now I will say to my boyfriends defense, 3 months into the new house I quit a very toxic job (which he had been encouraging me to for years) and struggled to find a equally paying job till the day we moved out. This meant that my boyfriend had to work 80 hour weeks to pick up my financial slack. Therefore, at that time, I didn’t mind doing the house chores because I understood I had more time and less stress on my hands than he did, and that was my way of showing appreciation.
Move on to now, my boyfriend and I moved into an apartment of our own. I got a job where I contribute equally to our finances, if not more so, but I still find myself doing 90% of the housework. And I say 90% because the 10% he does do only came after me being upset multiple times that I’m so overwhelmed having all the house work on my shoulders while also working a 60 hour job. It was one thing when I was working 30 hours, but to hold down a full time + job and still feel like I am the only one expected to do housework is exhausting. I’ve tried to express this to him, but it feels like he only does things for a few days and then “forgets”. Literally all I am asking him to do is not leave clothes on the floor, put them in the hamper, and I’ll do the laundry. Don’t leave dirty dishes lying around, put them in the dishwasher or sink and I’ll take care of them when I get home. If you’ve been working from home all day and I haven’t, ATLEAST make the bed.
I am the type of person who gets home after work and can’t relax until the house is clean, so all I ask is he makes that process easier for me by having me skip steps like collecting dirty dishes or clothes.
The reason this is turning to a head today is because: after weeks of expressing how neglected I feel when he doesn’t pick up after himself, knowing how stressed it makes me feel, the following happened:
He decided on a whim to buzz his hair at 10:00pm. I had work the next morning at 6AM. He asked me to help him buzz his hair and I said yes, but PLEASE, PLEASE clean the bathroom before you go to bed because hair gets everyyywhere. He said he will and don’t worry.
Next day I come home from working 7:30am - 7PM, and he has been home from work since 3pm. I arrive to dishes in the sink, bed is unmade. Whatever, I clean everything up and my only console in to take a long hot shower. I walk in the bathroom and there is hair everywhere. On the sink, the floor, the toilet, the towels. Imagine getting a haircut in a tiny bathroom and imagine the mess. So, I spent another hour cleaning it, because no way I’m taking a shower in that. He notices I’m cleaning it, sheepishly takes out the garbage (as though that makes up for it?) and never apologizes or mentions it all.
Am I crazy and being unfair? Is this reason to break off a relationship that is otherwise very happy? Someone please give me direction because I love this man, and I don’t know what to work through and what is a dealbreaker.

CAUTION: LONG!
So this has happened to me once before (over a decade ago) and the whole ordeal seriously left me with PTSD. Back then, a vitamin recommended to me by a physio to treat a pinched nerve broke out what was great skin so I made the mistake of throwing all kinds of things at the issue. I learned my lesson and have kept a gentle, simple, natural routine ever since. My skin has been lovely, calm and clear as a result - even downright glowy and dewy.
Ironically, it was an oil for a recent ear infection (when antibiotics failed) which dribbled onto my skin that I believe must've done this. First, it gave me clogs which I only massaged a bit of jojoba oil into and I exfoliated twice in, oh gee, two weeks rather than my usual 4-6 weeks because, twice-over, I noticed some skin peeling in the area where the oil would land (I would wipe it and/or wash it off, but would awaken to find more had come out and onto my temporary (used a different one while this was going on) pillow so my skin was resting against that stuff for hours). I haven't taken an antibiotic for 9 or 10 years prior to this. Indeed, I always get a little stinging blotch by my right eye, on-off, for awhile after taking them and this time was no different. I'm wondering if they even messed with my skin's microbiota, contributing to this some and for what?! They didn't even cure the infection (which I thought could be viral since it lead on from a cold)! I understand there are barrier creams which contain probiotics/prebiotics and these interest me.
For said exfoliation, I always use ground oats mixed with a hydrosol or spring water which I then gently massage over my skin. This is what I have done for years and which a Garden of Wisdom skin consultant who worked with me back during the first round of an impaired skin barrier, okayed. I usually only do this every 4-6 weeks - sometimes going for longer, I'm just not a strong believer in exfoliating the skin on the face often, ironically.
So, last week, after the second exfoliation followed by my usual (gentle!) skin routine, my face flipped out within hours. I use no acids, no other actives, no alcohol-containing products or harsh, stripping cleansers. Hell, I don't even use masks anymore! I wear no makeup and my sunscreen for my face is a solid 50 SPF hat and a little raspberry seed oil.
I have sensitive skin - mostly normal - but it can be prone to clogs when it comes to heavier stuff. Last time my barrier got nuked, I was recommended a moisturizer with beeswax and I knew better than to use it but was desperate. I then paid with 60 clogged pores all over my face and neck which led to a summer of broken out skin while the mess purged. Since entering perimenopause (I'm 46), I've had perioral dermatitis rashes which I've learned to control and heal up, wholistically, within a day or two (they're also usually pretty mild). But,, I know many of you are going to suggest I slather Vaseline or diaper cream on my face but with PD (which I'm more vulnerable to now with my messed up barrier), you can't use anything too occlusive and, frankly, I clog up and break out when it comes to heavy creams and ointments. Heck even light ones can break me out which is why a combo of oil ( SIBU Sea Buckthorn Seed Oil)+ Avene Thermale Water spray +Caudalie Grape Water + hydrosol (helichrysum or frankincense).
My hydrosols sting and sometimes also the pure aloe vera gel I have always cleansed my skin with (I also just use water now and then too) since the last time this happened sometimes burns, even plain water does and my favorite oil seems to be doing didley squat to help this (unlike last time). I am still using Avene and Caudalie sprays because they mostly soothe.
Before and in being an herbalist, I made certain herbal concoctions and they were a huge saving grace then but now - they either soothe me or, alternatively and oddly, make my skin itch in my lower cheeks. I hadn't needed to be on one for 9 or 10 years prior to this. Indeed, I always get a little blotch by my right eye on-off for awhile after taking them.
Right now, I'm using products from Garden of Wisdom's soothing line plus their ceramides serum, but I just don;'t know if they're helping or hurting. It's only been a week since I started and they really seemed to soothe me for a couple of days but now, I think a couple items could be irritating me - not sure. but they were suggested to me by their rep (who also suggested I use a product with friggin' tea tree and oregano oils for the zits I'm getting with this ordeal! She also didn't steer me in the direction of their ceramides serum which some reviewers say healed their barriers, or another barrier-healing serum which I was considering, but I got another she suggested (which I find sticky due to the inclusion of honey and possibly irritating).
I have an excellent whole foods diet, take certain skin-supportive nutrients (and have for years) and try and drink plenty of water every day. To make things even more complicated, I'm having hormonal night sweats which are, no, doubt, not helping this due to the loss of fluid and if I leave sweat on my face, I break out and here I'm trying to keep my face cleansing to one to two times a day (using just lukewarm water in the day, aloe vera gel or, occasionally the GoW cleanser at night). Normally, I go and give my face a quick rinse when this happens, but normally my moisture barrier isn't disrupted! I'm newly onto a wild yam cream which was a life-saver for me in my 20s so we will see how it works now.
Sorry this was a ramble, but I'm a writer and a worried one at that. I thank you all so much for any suggestions (and, yes,m I am open to not-so-natural things just to get this healed but I;m not open to stuff that is just gonna leave me with other problems like multiple clogs, zits and PD flare-ups). I do not want for this to take as long as it did last time so as to heal and even once it did, my skin was reactive for a few years thereafter. I'm hearing just a simple, gentle cleanser (am highly allergic to sulfates! I also cannot do denatured and other drying alcohols!) and a good barrier cream might heal the compromised barrier in 2-6 weeks. I am really going to miss my hydrosols...
This ordeal has me in a lot of pain, distress and I am mucho depressed as this is the 'straw that broke the camel's back' when it comes to my life at present. Frankly,, my whole head is a mess at this point: chronic eye and ear have (ETD since the infection now) issues, the return or migraines, three lost fillings in a few months and now my facial skin health!

Hi. I'm looking for my first electric scooter. I would only really be going a few miles at a time, so I don't need something with crazy range. It would be nice if it was foldable. I think I would be willing to spend about 1000 dollars, but I'm not one to complain about underspending. Any suggestions?

Hi everyone, Appreciate everyone’s stories here. So I’m 30 years old and I’ve racked up about 35k in cc debt. Long story short, I had to move out of my house in early adulthood due to bad living situation. So since then, roughly 10 years, I’ve been racking up debt. I was doing ok and got a consolidation loan last year that covered about 15k and transferred some balances to 0% APR but then I busted my Achilles and couldn’t work for 4 months late last year. Moved out of my expensive apartment into my boys place which is pretty isolated from the city and any opportunity to make more money. I’m back at work now and I’m on my feet for 10 hours a day.
I make roughly 700-1100 a week, depending on the week. Combined my cc bills alone are close to 1k a month. So what I’m wondering here; My aunt has an apartment ready for my next month. I’m considering filing for bankruptcy since I will have no credit checks to really be afraid of. I don’t own a car, nor do I plan on it. I don’t plan on owning a home any time soon.
Would chapter 7 be a good option in this situation? I feel like I’m drowning and being back at 0 would feel so good. Especially since I am still relatively young, I feel like I’d be able to set myself up for later on without worrying about 20 years worth of paying.
Appreciate any feedback. Thank you!

Hi there I’m Caleb I’m a introverted nerdy gamer who really likes lord of the rings Star Wars and Harry Potter I know sounds basic but will admit if I’m not working I’m home play games or playing either golf or bowling my main hobbies are golf bowling trading card games and video games Other details: I’m a picky eater I’m 420 and alcohol friendly but I don’t personally partake I have a dirty sense of humour Im skinny and about 5’9
About you: at least like 2 similar things I need to have something to talk about or I get quiet Willing to try my hobbies as I’ll be willing to try yours Is willing to push me when needed (sometimes I may need it) And lastly just be a kind soul
Hopefully I won’t have to make one of these again that’s the hope. Well hope to chat soon

Hi all! I have a 2010 Chevy Express about 156k miles built out camper and it is shaking pretty crazy at 40-50mph.
I just got new wheels and tires, replaced ball joints and piston arm, got a new gear box and replaced brake pads and rotors. I’m really not sure what else the problem could be. Any other help is appreciated im going to a mechanic tomorrow im supposed to drive from Florida to Colorado tomorrow but it just feels so unsafe. I’ve been at the shop the past month or so trying to figure it out but no one’s been able to get it.
Any and all help appreciated thank you!!

Hi everyone! I have a doctor parent whose office I've worked at for a while on the weekends. I was wondering if I can put these hours down in my activities statements? I've genuinely loved to help/work there as an employed person but I don't want this to seem like nepotism or favoring/fake hours because they are not. Please let me know if its preferrable that I just keep them off. I've worked in the ER as a scribe so I have different clinical hours to speak of as well. Thank you!

Hi everyone and Dr K.,
So when I was 19, I found out about the horrors of the animal agriculture industry. I had no idea how sentient and full of personality animals were, even chickens and pigs. I stumbled upon a short documentary that showed a lot of gory scenes of animal slaughter and torture (From Farm to Fridge if anyone is interested, though I recommend you don't watch it).
My worldview has gotten considerably worse since then. For starters, I have always been a pessimistic person. But I used to have some sense of optimism about the state of thr world and how things would improve as I get older. I used to feel great whenever I heard about new technology being developed and the level of awareness concerning things like pollution gettjng higher. I was somewhat religious at this time and I used to believe in god and that things would work out for the best eventually.
Over the years since I've found out more things about how we not only treat animals but other humans, my optimism has depleted to a minimum. I never used to watch the news a lot and maybe thats what shielded myself from feeling so terrible about everything. The god i used to believe in I now no longer trust, as I feel that someone so omnipotent and powerful would not allow so much horrors on his Earth, whether to animals or humans.
I try to do my best each and every day to make ethical choices concerning what I eat and buy, but unfortunately I'm just one person in a world full of people who think differently. Most people don't see eating meat as a bad thing, but the issue is I've seen the evidence claiming it is, and if you ask me its pretty damning. The number of animals killed per year for food is in the trillions, and when you take into account that animal agriculture is one of the main causes for climate change, I feel like its an imperative to not financially support it.
Its 2024 and we still havent figured out how to stop and prevent war, and now it turns out animals arr suffering en masse as well?
So basically, the knowledge that all of this is happening has made me feel miserable. Is there any way to feel happy again, Dr K?
Disclaimer: this is not an attack on anyone who does eat meat, most people haven't seen the evidence I've seen and come to the same conclusions I have.

Hey everyone so my current situation I’m renting about 1 hour away from home making 80 as a financial analyst roughly 7 months into role got offered senior accountant for 90 at home city would live with parents so save on gas rent and food etc. the role is work from home with few days in office. The only thing is I had a planned vacation for August nothing booked but would have liked to see family in Europe, should I just work out the contract and take the vacation after ? Also is it a bad look leaving the company after 7 months ? Thanks.

So I live with my younger sister (F20) and two dogs. One dog is my younger sister's name Jill and the other dog is Jack that is my older sister's dog. Jack lives with me and my younger sister because he was very ill and underweight when he lived with my older sister. For the one year he lived with my older sister he became severely underweight, he refused to eat to the point where his esophagus nearly collapsed, and he got kennel cough. He looked horrible and he looked like he aged 10 years because of how stressed he was. My older sister thinks it is because she lived in apartment. The thing is when he first lived with me and my younger sister we were also living in an apartment.
I think his health deteriorated because of her. At that time she was with her on/off again boyfriend and would spend hours having arguments on the phone like full on screaming matches. When he first started to live with me and my younger sister he would have a severe reactions if my sister or I raised our voice or had an argument. It took a year for him to stop having a bad reaction. My older sister's way of displine is spanking and Jack was terrified of that. He flinched if you raised your hand. She also never took Jack and her other dog on regular walks. She just made them use the balcanoy. She also regularly fed Jack and her other dog human food. Jack is very old. He is going 14 this year and at the time of living with her he was 12. He would regularly have diarrhea and have an upset stomach. Every since he started to live with me and my younger sister. His life has improved. He is back to a healthy weight. He eats every night. I have a set rotinue for him. I also want to say that I, our mom, and my younger sister have been covering any cost related to Jack and Jill that includes vet bills. I have not once ask her for money nor has she offered.
I feel guilty that I did not intervene sooner. I do not forgive her for making his health so bad. Now that she is in the process of getting a house. She is been bringing up a possible custody agreement. The thing is I do not want that. I do not want Jack and Jill in her care. I am willing to let her see the dogs more often but I do not want to interupped their routine especially because of their age. I do not want to stress them out. They are very happy and content with me and my sister. I work from home. So the dogs get a lot of attention from me.
I need advice to tell her that it is because her that his health was in decline not her housing. I also want to say her behavior has not changed. In fact I think it got worse. Her other dog is not allowed things like a squeaky toy because she "hates" the noise. I think it very sad to do that to a dog. Jack adores squeaky toys. He used to hunt rats and I use squeaky toys to simulate him and make sure he isn't bored. I am concerned that if I follow a custody agreement that Jack and Jill's health would deteriorate. I do not want to lose these dogs. They have been in my life since I was in middle school. I would not forgive her if they died because she stressed them out. I do not know how to tell her that I do not think it is a good idea for Jack to live with her.

Hello, hope you're doing well! I'm pretty bad about describing myself so please bear with me!
I'm 28, graduated in december 2023 in software engineering finally!!!
I was born in Montreal, Quebec, but I'm a brown dude(parents are from Bangladesh). I'm 5'8, about 76-78kg, but still working on it (in the pandemic I reached 99kg, that was fun!). I'm a bald dude thanks to my dad and have a beard. I also have ear lobe piercings, like to get them when I travel.
I have many hobbies like watching movies, tv shows, kdramas, animes, etc. I don't mind sharing my letterboxd, mydramalist and myanimelist accounts! We can talk about our favorite things to watch!
I love eating, one of the reason I have a hard time keeping my weight low! My favorite foods are probably korean fried chicken and sushi.
For sports, I love playing floostreet hockey, biking, working out at the gym and hiking(even though it's rare!).
Huge fan of traveling, try to travel at least once every year. My first trip was at Japan, and it was still my favorite trip. But, I loved all of my trips, none of them were disasters! Love gaming too, built a new pc recently so can enjoy the new games that are coming out! My favorite game is Witcher 3.
We can discuss and see what we have in common, I know my post was pretty basic! I can write/speak in french and english so we can do it in the language you are comfortable with! I chose strictly clean as flair, but we could talk about anything that you're comfortable with! Looking for a friend or more if we vibe! Looking forward to chat with you!

We met about 3 months ago, and started dating almost immedietly. We have no mutual friends, I have basically zero friends outside of online stuff and she is the same way. We have moved kind of quickly. Said I love you within the first few weeks, but haven't had sex yet. I'm a virgin and she isn't.
She invited me into a discord server with all her friends and all of them are weirdos. Spouting racial slurs, being edgelords, and one of them is like 22 years old.
I later learned that she and him met 5 years ago. She was 13 and he was 16. They fucking dated at one point. At one point he was 17 and she was 13. I could never imagine myself dating anyone even a year younger than me. Her best friend is a racist horrible person who's flirted with people when they were dating. She constantly says the n word despite being white as fuck and once said "I wonder how tight a newborn is". She has zero redeeming qualities and promotes cheating, dating people only for looks, and talks nonstop about dick size. My girlfriend is best friends with this scumbag???
About relationships, I've never been in a serious one. She's been in several. This is the first time she's ever actually loved someone she said.
I found out she was insanely sexual with her ex. Like, several times a day. I'm nervous to even do it once, and it's been months. She says she doesn't care and it's not that important but if it isn't why was it so important previously?
Now onto the other stuff. We don't really have anything in common. She only watches horror, I think the genre sucks ass. The only thing is dumb comedies with Adam Sandler and Seth Rogan and that's it. The only thing we like in common basically. She got bored when we tried to watch Star Wars, doesn't like any of the things I do like games or ANYTHING. I don't even know what we talk about. Basically nothing. I just try my hardest to be "entertaining" and we goof around and spend the rest of the time cuddling and stuff. I don't see us doing dumb fun stuff I would love to do, hanging out and doing stupid shit and talking about stuff like that. I know this all sounds very juvenile lol but having similar interests is important and I'm now realizing that.
She hates talking about her problems. She has eating issues and refuses to eat and I constantly stress about it. She just won't. I try to get her to and she won't. Some nights she'll be in a terrible mood and I can tell, but she just says she's fine. But I start to overthink it and assume the worst. She's always lying, I find out afterward. And I feel like shit she lied. And she just won't even try to talk about it. I don't blame her but it just doesn't work. Neither of us end up happy all night long.
And as for life? We both JUST graduated. She needs to move out of her parents house because of her horrible father and she's trying to figure out how to do that. We thought maybe she could move in with me, as I will be getting my own place (paid for by my grandparents) for college. It's not normal, but she has to get out asap and I think that can make an exception. After that? I don't know what I want to do in life. She wants to be an actress. She wants to move to another state and make a big name for herself. I just want to make ends meet and come home to someone I love.
I just don't see a future with her. Where we work. Where I'm happy. I've stopped talking to all of my friends to give her like all of my attention and it kind of sucks. I find myself enjoying talking to my friends more. We don't even call or text because we have nothing to talk about. I feel wrong saying I love you now. Feel wrong even typing it. It's not honest. We talked about it tonight and her responses only make me feel worse about it. She loves me a lot, she said I'm the love of her life, she said she kind of needs me and she has a history of self harm and suicide attempts. And I don't want her to do something. And I feel wrong leaving her. It feels so bad and wrong, all of it. I don't know what I should do.
hi dear reader, if you could please spare me a shilling of advice as for what to do
I don't know how to summarize this. You can't give an opinion with just a summary. I need some advice, maybe help from a third perspective please. I'll summarize it anyway so my post isn't deleted.
tl;dr: my girlfriend and I have nothing in common, her friends suck, we have different life goals, get into conflicts a lot recently, and now I need to make a decision before it's too late because we both graduated

Hi,
So I’ve not been attending the tutorials for one of my lectures because I’ve had some unforeseen circumstances come up- I’ve been living with an abusive housemate which has resulted in a decline in my mental health, more than I’ve allowed myself to realise (as well as logistical problems, like where to sleep/study). Tutorial attendance for this course is mandatory, as 10% of our grade is tutorial participation.
As I had not attended any, of course, I would not be awarded this 10%. I submitted an ECA application (failing to realise those only applied to assessment items 20% and over). I provided a letter from my GP attesting to my mental state. I was responded to being told of my 20% mistake, and that they couldn’t do anything.
So I emailed my course convenor explaining my situation, asking if there was any way I could make up for this 10% with an alternative assessment, or increase the weighting of my other assessment item/s. Losing this 10% won’t put me at risk of failing (as my marks for the other assessment items have been strong) but I explained that it was very important to me that my marks are a true reflection of my abilities, and that I would be upset to see them suffer due to circumstances out of my control. I offered to meet with him in person. I was very polite.
He (IMO) unsympathetically responded with a very short and blunt message saying there was nothing he could do. (Untrue).
What do I do? ANU is meant to support people with conditions/circumstances impacting their ability to perform, especially when such circumstances were unforeseen.
These last few months have been fucking hell for me, and I’ve worked really hard to keep up the best I can, in light of all the bullshit I’ve had to deal with. I’ll be unbelievably upset if my marks decline because of my cunt of a housemate. Please tell me who I can reach out to at ANU to rectify this.
TLDR: Course convenor refusing to make adjustments for genuinely unforeseen extenuating circumstances for tutorial participation assessment worth 10%.

Hi everyone, I’m a Dodger fan. I plan on catching a game on June 19. I got a long layover and plan on using the train to union station, which based on what I’ve read so far will give me plenty of time to catch the game and maybe a few beers after.
3 questions for you all. 1. I don’t to antagonize anyone so best section of seats to just enjoy a game respectfully, I will be wearing a jersey if possible. 2. Can’t miss food at Coors field. 3. Good bars to get a beer near the stadium/Union Station. Thanks everyone.

Hi there!
My name’s Sunny, I’m 24 and I’m from Canada! I love reading, gardening, playing video games (although I’m not the best), baking and spending time with my animals!
I’m looking for someone to talk with, someone I can build a connection with. I work a pretty demanding job so I can’t pursue anything irl or anything too committed, but being alone has really been getting to me lately. I’d love to just talk and get to know someone and maybe voice chat or play some video games together on the days that I’m home!
Please no one under 21, I’m not super comfortable with people too much younger than me, but I have no upper limit when it comes to age! I’m also 420 friendly and I try my best not to judge as long as you’re nice to me!
If any of this post interests you in the slightest, feel free to reach out!! Message something more than “hey” and chances are I’ll respond! You can ask me anything, I’m basically an open book! I marked the post SFW mainly to keep the people who are only looking for a “good time” at bay, but I’m not completely opposed to it once I get to know someone. Hope to hear from you 😊

Greetings to the community!
Selling Double Dragon for the NES and a Manual for $30 OBO. It is a pre-owned game purchased from New York via GameSale . ( from. Mr EddieWazoo :-) ) I had originally sought to own and Play with some friends, but have found that my lifestyle does not facilitate . Thus , I'm seeking to give this game a new home with someone interested in playing or owning this as a collectors item of sorts.
I will be shipping from my state via USPS of FedEx and will provide a tracking number as soon as I ship out.

As However, this Game is strictly for Sale, at least for now. Trades are not allowed on this sub, so I would like to refer you to my Gameswap thread ( will link)

As for the other Games and Consoles I'm Selling, Seeking (see below) [was dictatedin voice text - i apologizefor any and all tupis]:
For Sale: 1. NINTENDO SWITCH Litex2 - $140 or Best Offer - My Turquoise Made in was purchased directly from Amazon in 2012 2028 1 20 21? It's a very good condition but it's having a controller draft issue and I need to have it repaired. The second switch light is Gray. Add using very good condition. It is made in China and was bought used from another Reddit user. It works well. It is clean. 2. XBOX360 with accessories, wireless adapter and 2 controllers. Gas $70 for best offer shipping from California with protection 3 . PlayStation 3 Superslim (2013/4) with Accessories and 2 controllers - $80 for best offer. Bought used in 2019? Add in great condition. to offer good collection for for 50 more dollars for those interesting. [ dictated with voice to text. Apologies for any aesthetically) 4 . PlayStation 4 1 TB black - (purchased refurbished from gamestop but working) plus HD cord plus 2 USB controllers and their wires - $180 or best offer
Games/Consoles I'm seeking :
1.SHIN MEGAMI TENSEI 5 FOR THE NINTENDO SWITCH - Offering $25 2. Nintendo Switch or Switch OLED - Offering $200 or best offer ( post your offer, I'm willing buy higher) 3. Two (2) UNMODDED Nintendo Switch Lites - Offering $100 ( but willing to accept anything higher) - it is important they are NOT Modded, as I wish to use these for gaming, and wish to ensure they might qualify for support and resale if needed 4. 1. MODDED SWITCH, SWITCH Lite or Switch OLED - Offering $120 but willing to accept higher offers
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I work out regularly but not seeing any progress. Wondering if people take two or more protein shakes to meet the protein needs. I find it hard to have protein-rich food 3/4 times a day, but was hesitant to consume more than one protein shake. All the guys at the gym look muscular, wondering what’s the trick.

Hi everyone! I am currently an articling student in a personal injury law firm. I like the work and the people I work with. However since this area of practice is very specialized, I was wondering if at any point in future I would like to work elsewhere what would be my options? Am I only going to be limited to other personal injury firms and maybe in house for insurance companies? Could I practice civil litigation in other unrelated areas or those doors are completely closed since I wont have the expertise in those respective fields (for example commercial litigation)