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2013.08.21 16:37 TheJoePilato Buy low, sell high
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2024.05.16 11:56 Scared-Department-11 Am i 22F wrong for what I did to my 23M ex?
My ex cheated on me for 2 months, we have been dating for 1 year. He has been messaging girls, flirting, begging for nudes, etc. I broke up immediately after finding it out. Right after break up I followed new people because I wanted to meet new people and make friends so that I don’t think about him, since he also made delete my old friends. He found put I have been talking to guys too and not only women. I feel so guilty because I hurt him, he has been calling me btch because right after break up I started talking to others. I blocked him but he always comes back and texts me through new accounts making me feel bad for what I did. I wish we never broke up, it still hurts me that we did, I can’t get over him, he says only way he will take my back is by deleting every friend I have and I simply can’t do it. I feel bad every time he comes back, I feel like I ruined everything. Could you please give me an advice
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2024.05.16 11:55 RecentFrosting9042 Assessment stopped?
Hello, like in the title, I had my assessment 9am this morning, the lady on the phone asked me a question, and I broke down crying, since it was related to my trauma(I won’t get into detail on that, but I was severely abused by my ex, physically and mentally) the lady asked my support worker to pick up the phone, after which she asked me if I need a minute to myself. She told my support worker that she can see that I’m in severe distress and said that she doesn’t want me to go through this, after which she stopped the assessment. My support worker says it’s good in bad, I feel like I blew my chance to claim pip, but she said that my mental state has been acknowledged by the medical professional from capita and it boosts my case. I’m sorry if it’s a bit chaotic, I’m still a bit shaken. Do I have to worry?
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2024.05.16 11:54 z3pp89 Winning the Ekstraklasa after 7 seasons pt.3
 | Season 6: submitted by z3pp89 to footballmanagergames [link] [comments] After losing the league on head to head recruitment plan was to add better attacking players. My scouts had some good suggestions and DoF had a few interesting suggestions as well. Also new addition to recruitment was bringing Polish players from other European Leagues. I had a decent transfer budget of €3,000,000 and for the first time wage budget was not that good. That left me in a situation where I had to sell some players that were just average in last couple of seasons, but had high wages. Transfers out: Lawrence Ennali, (left winger) - €1,400,000 to Korona Kielce Iwo Kaczmarski, (defensive midfielder) - €800,000 to Gaziantep FK Lamine Correa, (striker) - free to Prostejov Kacper Chelmecki, (striker) - €1,000,000 to Piast Gliwice - winter With 3 high earnes leaving in summer, there was much more flexibility with wage budget so I got into the transfer market. Players in: Dawid Bugaj, (right back) - free transfer from US Lecce Filip Rozga, (left winger) - €2,500,000 from Legia David Kurminowski, (striker) - €1,000,000 from Kocaelispor Sebastian Jorgensen, (right winger) - €2,000,000 from Malmo FF Catalin Cirjan, (attacking midfielder) - loan from AEK Athens Junior, (defensive midfielder) - free from NK Kustosija Zagreb Talles Wander, (striker) - free transfer from Sao Paolo FC - winter Season started early with Europa League qualifiers. We destroyed KR from Iceland 11-1 on aggregate. In between those two game, we played Legia in Polish Super Cup. I was expecting a difficult game, but it was nothing like that. We beat them 4-0 and TSP got their second major trophy. Penalty, two goals from corners and well executed counter attack and that was it. Legia did made a lot of chances in last 15 minutes but we kept the clean sheet. Super cup In Europe qualifying rounds we beat FC U Craiova (Romania), TSV Hartberg (Austria) and, FC Zurich (Switzerland) to book our spot in league phase of Europa League. We had a tough schedule in Europe League, but despite that we managed to get through Knock Out play off round with the record of 3 wins, 3 draws and two losses. https://preview.redd.it/wlxalr8njq0d1.png?width=1920&format=png&auto=webp&s=5445ebcb41bc1ae9301943255e4db1875bbbbbf7 In the Knock Out round we faced SK Rapid from Austria and beat them. First game at home TSP won 3-0, going into the away game with lot of optimism. Away game proved to be tricky, we scored first in first half but by the end of the half Rapid was 2-1 up. Second half started good, as we scored for to tie the game 2-2, but then Rapid got into another gear. They were creating a lot of chances and scored two goals in 80's minutes. Last few minutes of the game were very nervy. We advanced with that result and were to face Tottenham Hotspurs in Round of 16. First leg was at home. We drew the game 2-2, which wasn't encouraging. Game in London was one of the toughest games in this save so far. They scored in first 10 minutes of the game and just kept attacking. Our goalie was having the game of his life. That's how the first half ended, going into second half they immediately scored for 2-0. We managed to get the one goal, but the final result was 2-1 for Tottenham. We were eliminated from Europa League. Polish Cup, with good additions in transfer window plan was to go for domestic treble. Cup was taken really seriously even in the early stages of it, while playing teams from lower leagues. In quarter finals we faced Wisla Plock. Even though they were in division below us they played amazing. We had to comeback twice to draw the game 2-2, only to win on penalties. In semifinals we faced Lechia, dominated the game and somehow only beat them 2-1. It was time for Final of Polish cup for two straight seasons. We played against KGHM Zaglebie. They were the favourites to win the game, but we played another amazing game and destroyed them 4-1. That was the second Polish Cup in a row, and one step closer to domestic treble. Polish Cup finals Ekstraklas campaign was quite successful, but no trophy again. Even though we had a strong squad that could potentially player in three different competitions simultaneously, somehow we still lacked quality to win the league. First part of the season was really successful, we only lost two games, which of course one of them was to Legia. Second part of season was more trickier, slump in March where we lost two games. Drawing 4 a wining 3 in our last seven games did not help. Legia was champions of Ekstraklasa once again. Signing from couple seasons ago Juan Carlos Arana broke the club record of most goals scored in one season, with 31 goals. New signing Sebastian Jorgense broke the club record of assist in one season with 15 assist. Despite whole squad scoring plenty of goals, Legia was still untouchable. Season 6 League Best XI for this season: https://preview.redd.it/16ywduwjoq0d1.png?width=1920&format=png&auto=webp&s=10aceae9a9705347ef1b8a90b88c502737d262c4 Season 7: This was it, now or never. I had a clear idea what needed to be done, who to sell and who to bring. With an good transfer budget of €5,500,000 and sales of few players, good wage budget, my DoF and I went shopping. Players out: Dawid Kurminowski, (striker) - €1,000,000 to Ruch Chorzow Marcel Krayewski, (right back) - €600,000 to Slask Wroclaw Ziga Lipuscek, (central back) - €1,000,000 to Al-Shabab FC Ben Lederman, (defensive midfielder) - €3,000,000 to Al-Markhiya SC Talles Wander, (striker) - €5,000,000 to Bristol City - winter Players in: Ilaix Moriba, (attacking midfielder) - free transfer from RB Leipzig Ronaldo Deacounu, (attacking midfielder) - free transfer from Korona Kielce Efe Sarikaya, (central back) - €2,200,000 from Cracovia Nicola Profeta, (defensive midfielder) - €900,000 from Deportivo Cali Petar Serdarski, (right back) - €2,500,000 from Lokomotiv Plovdiv Kacper Tobiasz, (goalkeeper) - €1,100,000 from HSV Karol Sakwa, (striker ***wonderkid***) - €2,000,000 from Lechia Gdansk Mamadou Doumbia, (striker) - €3,000,000 from Cracovia - winter Vadik Murria, (central defender) - free transfer from Prostejov - winter I went into this season with one goal, win Ekstraklasa. First part of the season went really well, two losses and couple of draws rest were wins. I was extremely optimistic that this is the season. There was a problem, even though we were winning, our strikers were struggling to score. A lot of mediocre performances from strikers, despite me thinking this is the best 3 strikers throughout the save. Talles Wander was particularly disappointing. Plan was to sell him and buy whoever was top scorer of Ekstraklasa at the time. Out goes Talles Wander in comes Mamadou Doumbia. With already 14 goals scored in first half of the season, I thought he was the answer. But he also struggled, missing some easy one-on-ones. On the other hand, new goalkeeper and new central back pairing Hoyo-Kowalski and Efe Sarikaya were on fire. Troughout the season we were battling Legia, but surprisingly Widzew Lodz came out of nowhere and at one point they were 1st with five points clear. Second part of the season, started with mixed results. First three games we had one loss and two wins, after that there was no stopping us. In last 12 games lost one and won 11. Most impressive thing was that Kacper Tobiasz kept 10 clean sheets in those 12 games. In fact he was so good that he broke previous cleen sheet record (held by Lukasz Fabianski with 19 cleans sheets) with his 22. We have finally won the Ekstraklasa. Champions! My favorite part of this was the fact last game of the season was against Legia, so they had to give as a a proper champions walk out (and we beat them 4-3). Here is a photo of this: Champions! Super Cup was played in beginning of the season and we faced Legia. Really tough game, 0-0 in full time and no goals in extra time. Not a lot of chances for either team, and low XG's. Penalties were deciding who would win. They missed two, we missed one and scored the rest and trophy was ours. Super cup Polish Cup, dream of domestic treble was looking more possible than ever. We went easy through first few rounds until we met Lech Poznan in semi finals. We were the better team, scored multiple clear cut chances, but as mentioned earlier our strikers weren't scoring. In the end TSP got FM'd and we lost on penalties. European football was back, we beat AaB (Denmark), Dnipro-1 (Ukraine) and SK Rapid (Austria) to book our place in Europa League - league stage. There we had some good performances. Four wins, two draws and 2 losses and we ended in 15th position to advance to Knock Out Play off round. There we met FC Utrecht (Holland). They were one of the teams the we won against in leagues stage. In first leg, away, our strikes couldn't score, on the other hand Utrecht scored almost every good chance they had. Game ended 3-0 and it was time to prepare for the home game. TSP dominated the game, 17 shots to their 2, but we only scored one. In the end they advanced to the next round. Europa league Best XI for this season: XI Bonus - Season 8: After winning the Ekstraklasa, my plan was to resign and find another long term project. Playing in champions league, and in back of my head fact that we could do domestic treble was really appealing. So, I decided to stay for one more season. Immediately I knew that team needed players who previously have played in Champions league. In my opinion team was good, but not Champions League good. So I dove in deep in scouting reports and asked DoF for suggestions. Transfers out: Nicola Profeta, (defensive midfielder) - €2,000,000 to Abha Club Kristoffer Velde, (left winger) - €2,000,000 to Vitesse Petar Serdarski, (right back) - €4,000,000 to ESTAC Troyes Camilo Mena, (right wing) - €3,000,000 to Standard de Liege Fernando Fonseca, (right back) - free transfer to Karvina Vadik Murria, (central back) - €200,000 to Slask Wroclaw Ronaldo Deaconu, (attacking midfielder) - free transfer to Aris Salonika Transfers in: Aljoscha Kemlein, (defensive midfielder) - free transfer from FC Augsburg Myron Van Brederode, (left wing) - free transfer from Panathinaikos Sadiou Sow, (central defender) - free transfer from Antwerp FC Frederik Nyheim, (right back) - €2,500,000 from Molde FK Miguel Maga, (right back) - free transfer from AGF Karol Borys, (attacking midfielder) - €2,500,000 from Legia All the players that were brought in played in Champions League at some point, I was still not happy with the quality of the squad. Even though I had clear target and money to buy new right winger, just to check with my buddy Artur Platek (DoF) to see if he has any suggestions for right winger and attacking midfielder. Here comes the fun part! He suggest the 33-year old Ousmane Dembele as a right wing and 34-year old Marco Asensio as targets. Both of them were out of contract, so I check the with their agents and surprisingly they were interested in joining TSP. Problem were wages, even though I had money in transfer budget it was not enough cover their wages. Hard decision needed to be made, sell someone for a lot of money and adjust budgets to bring these two. This made sense, both experienced, played and won Champions League, so I got to work. Only player who could generate a lot of money was 21-year old, former wonderkid, Damian Urbanik. After transfer listing him, best offer came from VfB Stuttgart. After negotiations final offer was €17 million upfront, €7 million after 20 games, and cheeky 20% sell on clause was included. With this money I definitely had enough to offer both Dembele and Asensio contracts. Also team needed another left back. Transfers out: (part two) Damian Urbanik, (left back) - €17,000,000 to VfB Stuttgart Transfers in: (part two) Ousmane Dembele, (right winger) - free transfer from PSG Marco Asensio, (attacking midfielder) - free transfer from FC Girondins de Bordeaux Kamil Pestka, (left back) - €3,000,000 frm FC Luzern Everything was set for the new season. First up were qualifications for Champions League, Paide LM (Estonia) were brushed away with 13-1 aggregate. Next team was Dinamo Batumi (Georgia), 13-0 on aggregate. Final obstacle before the league phase of Champions League were IF Elfsborg (Sweden). Home TSP won 2-0, and with 2-2 draw away we were official playing Champions League football. We did surprisingly well in the league phase. Four wins, three draws and 5-3 defeat at home versus PSG put us 11th place. Next up was Knock Out Play off round versus Olympique de Marseille. Tough draw, but I was optimistic. League phase Optimism didn't last long. First game was away, I played 5-4-1 formation. They easily scored 3 goals in first half in what was dreadful performance by whole TSP team. After adjusting the formation, making couple of subs, pressing more we started of second half really good. Scored two goals, but then Marseille started attacking, in last five minutes they scored their 4th goal and final score was 4-2. Second leg, we played really well, had better XG and made lot of chances. Unfortunatly best we could do is draw 1-1. That was the end of TSP campaign in Champions League. I was satisfied how it went, got lot of money for participating and wins during the league phase. I still dreamed of winning the domestic treble. After first game of domestic season (Polish Super Cup) that stayed just a dream. We played Cup winner Lech. Totally dominated the game, made great chances, had better XG. Full time it was 2-2, game went to extra time and then to penalties. Two of our players missed their penalties and Lech won the thropy. Super Cup Polish Cup was another heart break. We went all the way to finals where we played versus Widzew. After finishing 2nd last season, they had an horrible league campaign, they were in relegation zone most of it. Saved them selfs in last two games of the season. Cup final was a boring game, TSP played horrible and we couldn't do anything right. Widzew scored a goal from a free kick in 78th minute and that was the final score. Polish Cup finals After realizing that domestic treble is going to stay just a dream, I was totally focused on winning the Ekstraklasa. In first part of the season, we had one defeat, two draws and rest of the games were wins. Strikers were scoring goals again, and so did the wingers. Second part of season was a bit more complicated. Due to playing in 3 different competitions team had to be rotated, and sometimes players that would step in didn't perform well. With that being said, 4 defeats 3 draws and rest wins were enough for TSP win the Ekstraklasa second year in row. Radomiak, Piast and Legia came close few times to almost taking over the first place, but somehow we would score important goals and win the games. One thing that we had this season compared to previous years was consistency. Defenders and strikers were finally all producing some good performances. Wingers were lethal from wide areas. In the end, nine players had double figure goals and Sebastian Jorgensen broke his own record for assists by providing 18 to his teammates. Only player who stayed with the club during this whole save is Marcel Misztal. He went from playing in Polish second tier to playing Champions League football. League table Champions! Best XI season 8: Best XI Full squad - season 8 This is the end of this amazing save. Probably had most fun in last couple of years playing manager. With (self imposed) transfer and recruitment restrictions, it was quite challenging sometimes but thoroughly enjoyable. This post probably won't be seen by many people but I had to share this save with someone. Trophies won during this save:
One last thing that would maybe be interesting to share is Overall Best XI: Overall XI THE END! |
2024.05.16 11:53 ZealousidealWrap6573 D16Y8 issues
I’m having a problem with my 99 ex coupe d16y8. When I go to start it when cold it will crank and sound almost like It has no compression and make a whining noise. In order to it to start I have to press the gas a bit. Once it warms up If i shut it off it will start right back up. With no issue I haven’t done a compression test yet. Would it be my fuel filter or is the engine toast. Please give me your input on my situation. Starter is good ✅ Fuel pump is good✅ Fuel injectors are good✅ I’m getting spark✅
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2024.05.16 11:52 ZealousidealWrap6573 D16Y8 issues
I’m having a problem with my 99 ex coupe d16y8. When I go to start it when cold it will crank and sound almost like It has no compression and make a whining noise. In order to it to start I have to press the gas a bit. Once it warms up If i shut it off it will start right back up. With no issue I haven’t done a compression test yet. Would it be my fuel filter or is the engine toast. Please give me your input on my situation. Starter is good ✅ Fuel pump is good✅ Fuel injectors are good✅ I’m getting spark✅
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2024.05.16 11:52 Unfortunate-Son2024 Selling 2x Szitizen Prime Full Festival Pass
Hi all,
my wife and I cannot attend the festival as we were invited to the wedding that weekend :( We have put the tickets up for sale on ticketswap for 210 euros, which is lower then both the 3 day pass for the same weekend and the normal full festival pass:
https://www.ticketswap.com/listing/sziget-festival-2024/12568946/da8f071603
so, if someone needs tickets, please take them of our hands, it would be greatly appreciated :D
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my wife and I cannot attend the festival as we were invited to the wedding that weekend :( We have put the tickets up for sale on ticketswap for 210 euros, which is lower then both the 3 day pass for the same weekend and the normal full festival pass:
https://www.ticketswap.com/listing/sziget-festival-2024/12568946/da8f071603
so, if someone needs tickets, please take them of our hands, it would be greatly appreciated :D
2024.05.16 11:52 ZealousidealWrap6573 D16Y8 ISSUES!!
I’m having a problem with my 99 ex coupe d16y8. When I go to start it when cold it will crank and sound almost like It has no compression and make a whining noise. In order to it to start I have to press the gas a bit. Once it warms up If i shut it off it will start right back up. With no issue I haven’t done a compression test yet. Would it be my fuel filter or is the engine toast. Please give me your input on my situation. Starter is good ✅ Fuel pump is good✅ Fuel injectors are good✅ I’m getting spark✅
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2024.05.16 11:50 Independent_Try_7716 My Weirdest Tragic LDR Story
So almost 3 months ago, I had an anonymous Instagram account. Feeling desperate for love, I started commenting under posts, that I need someone to talk. One account (girl) replied to me. Had a little chat followed by sexchat. I thought it was just a one time thing. Got her text next day and we started chatting normally and flirting over next 3-4 days. Got to know that we belong to same caste. We started dating, exchanged photos and videos and eventually found each other compatible to each other. Some of you may think it could be a guy but I made sure that wasn't the case. Exchanged phone numbers also and used to talk for 3-4 hours a day on call. Experienced my first love and we were already thinking about our marriage.
But, how could everything go so smoothly? On Holi, she was having severe headache and went to doctor. Listening to symptoms, doctor said she has 95% chance of brain tumor. She told me this after 2 days. We both were shocked and she was almost broken from inside. Reports confirmed she had last stage of brain tumor and only few months left. Thinking about my future, she told me to break up, but I resisted saying I will be with her till the very last moment. We had disagreements over this, she started ignoring me so I get convinced to break up but I stayed with her. On 8th April, she got hospitalised and stayed there for about 4-5 days. I wasn't sure if I will talk to her again or not. For context, she lost her parents about 5 years back in a car accident. She only have her elder sister and her fiance in her family, and she was the one who kept updating me about her situation, through her phone only. During her stay in hospital, this condition really got her bad. She started forgetting stuffs but she remembered me. She came back home on 13th April. I really wanted to go meet her in her city but couldn't go due to some circumstances.
This wasn't the only problem she was dealing with. Another huge problem was her ex boyfriend. They both broke up about 1.5 years ago and it was his wish. She begged for her to stay but he left. I got to know from her cousin firstly and then from her, that her ex used to abuse her physically even during their relationship and even after that. And the most shocking part was she didn't even told her sister about that. My blood was boiling on hearing that but I couldn't do anything and felt so helpless. Eventually, I told her sister about this but this kept happening even after this. She tried to protect her but her ex found a way to still hurt her. Finally, I convinced her to talk about this to her sister and she talked but still they took no action. Then, one day she went to her ex's sister's function even after I told her not to, but she still did cuz she was invited. And the worst thing happened. He raped her there. She was broken inside. I was hurt too. In that moment of anger, I broke up immediately, but soon realised I shouldn't have done that and I was the only one she trusted. Told her we are not done yet and I am here for you. I don't want to remember that event but this really boiled my blood. She told her sister and finally they went to his home and told their family. He was beaten finally but that mf deserved much worse. Their family were apologising so they didn't took any legal action. Even after going through all this, she still talks normally.
Two days back, her sister told me to break up with her and it would be better for both. I couldn't understand how it would be better for her. I know she won't be able to live without me and hence, I didn't want to do. She said she wanted her sister to live this phase alone which is her best phase. She told if we won't do if ourselves, she will interfere and everyone will get hurt. Hearing all these, I decided to break up but still stay as a friend whom she can confide. For context, we broke up twice before but cuz of having short term memory loss, she forgot and I knowing her condition so convinced myself to be in relationship. I never had any problem to be with her. So we broke up that night. She got too sad, even I got. but we handled ourselves. But the next day her sister with her fiance went to goa leaving her alone at home. I don't know what she thinks and she even care about her or not. She don't feel like sleeping at night so I used to talk regularly so she don't feel alone and even talked yesterday. I don't know if she remember about our break up or not.
I feel like this incident will stay always with me and I don't know what will happen. Kitni bhi ziddi ho yrr but hai to my first love. I badly want her to stay forever. I want to marry her and give her all the love she deserves. I want her to be happy always. I want to feed her food from my own hands. I want to care for her. I want to make her sleep when she have headaches. I want to hug her, kiss her forehead. I just want to be with her forever. I LOVE HERR. I would have fought with the whole world for her, but this cancer and distance really fucked us😭😭
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But, how could everything go so smoothly? On Holi, she was having severe headache and went to doctor. Listening to symptoms, doctor said she has 95% chance of brain tumor. She told me this after 2 days. We both were shocked and she was almost broken from inside. Reports confirmed she had last stage of brain tumor and only few months left. Thinking about my future, she told me to break up, but I resisted saying I will be with her till the very last moment. We had disagreements over this, she started ignoring me so I get convinced to break up but I stayed with her. On 8th April, she got hospitalised and stayed there for about 4-5 days. I wasn't sure if I will talk to her again or not. For context, she lost her parents about 5 years back in a car accident. She only have her elder sister and her fiance in her family, and she was the one who kept updating me about her situation, through her phone only. During her stay in hospital, this condition really got her bad. She started forgetting stuffs but she remembered me. She came back home on 13th April. I really wanted to go meet her in her city but couldn't go due to some circumstances.
This wasn't the only problem she was dealing with. Another huge problem was her ex boyfriend. They both broke up about 1.5 years ago and it was his wish. She begged for her to stay but he left. I got to know from her cousin firstly and then from her, that her ex used to abuse her physically even during their relationship and even after that. And the most shocking part was she didn't even told her sister about that. My blood was boiling on hearing that but I couldn't do anything and felt so helpless. Eventually, I told her sister about this but this kept happening even after this. She tried to protect her but her ex found a way to still hurt her. Finally, I convinced her to talk about this to her sister and she talked but still they took no action. Then, one day she went to her ex's sister's function even after I told her not to, but she still did cuz she was invited. And the worst thing happened. He raped her there. She was broken inside. I was hurt too. In that moment of anger, I broke up immediately, but soon realised I shouldn't have done that and I was the only one she trusted. Told her we are not done yet and I am here for you. I don't want to remember that event but this really boiled my blood. She told her sister and finally they went to his home and told their family. He was beaten finally but that mf deserved much worse. Their family were apologising so they didn't took any legal action. Even after going through all this, she still talks normally.
Two days back, her sister told me to break up with her and it would be better for both. I couldn't understand how it would be better for her. I know she won't be able to live without me and hence, I didn't want to do. She said she wanted her sister to live this phase alone which is her best phase. She told if we won't do if ourselves, she will interfere and everyone will get hurt. Hearing all these, I decided to break up but still stay as a friend whom she can confide. For context, we broke up twice before but cuz of having short term memory loss, she forgot and I knowing her condition so convinced myself to be in relationship. I never had any problem to be with her. So we broke up that night. She got too sad, even I got. but we handled ourselves. But the next day her sister with her fiance went to goa leaving her alone at home. I don't know what she thinks and she even care about her or not. She don't feel like sleeping at night so I used to talk regularly so she don't feel alone and even talked yesterday. I don't know if she remember about our break up or not.
I feel like this incident will stay always with me and I don't know what will happen. Kitni bhi ziddi ho yrr but hai to my first love. I badly want her to stay forever. I want to marry her and give her all the love she deserves. I want her to be happy always. I want to feed her food from my own hands. I want to care for her. I want to make her sleep when she have headaches. I want to hug her, kiss her forehead. I just want to be with her forever. I LOVE HERR. I would have fought with the whole world for her, but this cancer and distance really fucked us😭😭
2024.05.16 11:49 Slow_Bed_9477 LDR relationship getting squeezed out
Hey, me and my ex girlfriend are in our twenties she’s a junior and I just graduated uni. I live on the west coast and she lives on the east coast. We were dating for 2 years happily with no issues and out of no where, she tells me she wants to break up because she’s losing feelings in the relationship. Like I understand this was built up over time.
I did a lot of asking and there were a lot of reasons like distance, her not being able to give me time, she doesn’t know where she would be, her feeling bad for making me travel, that I’m perfect and treasured her but she was feeling unsure about our future because she’s going to be going to med school. (That we’re on different parts of our lives because I just graduated and am no longer a student). Like these aren’t the root of the problem.
With her just starting at a 4 year, she also told me that she wanted to get involved more in school and clubs and social life which I don’t blame her and was ready to support her! Her last years of high school were spent in Covid and then spent some time at community college where she wasn’t part of clubs. Do you think this is what it is? That she’s in a new place discovering who she is and what she wants? I’m trying to understand the reason why she broke up with me so easily. 4 weeks of exams and hanging out a bunch with her friends gave her the doubt to throw a 2 year relationship. Like it just doesn’t make sense. I told her I still believed in the relationship and to give me a week to try but she refused. I said i could be flexiable to her schedule and close the distance but she insisted otherwise. She even said if I moved close to her, she wouldn’t want to date because shes in school but I’m not anymore (and she’d feel bad if we broke up because of her new doubts. are all excuses, it’s obvious she doesn’t want me in her life anymore.
At the start of this year, she didn’t like going out for the first half of the first semester and I would call her a lot to spend time with her, but half way made some good girlfriends who she started to go out more with. Additionally, she was really busy with exams and instead of her giving me 80%, she like instantly gave me 10% of her energy.
Like I’m graduated and discovered that she is who I want in my life. I know she’s in this completely new environment but I’m really confused why she suddenly changed her mind wanting to completely squeeze me out of her new life when I could give her room to grow.
Like the worst party is that she didn’t any to let me try to fix it which left me feel powerless. Additionally, her suggesting us breaking up came minutes after I expressed me wanting more attention because I let her know that feeling really lonely and wanted to spend more time with her and was hit with this. I feel like as a reward for telling her my true feelings, I was punished.
Shes discovering herself and what she wants, but to not even give me the chance. I wouldn’t be holding her back.
Should I move on and forget about her? I really love her and we were so compatible and we’re killing the long distance
I want to hold onto the hope that in discovering who she is and what she wants, shed discover that she regretted letting go of me because of how good I treated her
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I did a lot of asking and there were a lot of reasons like distance, her not being able to give me time, she doesn’t know where she would be, her feeling bad for making me travel, that I’m perfect and treasured her but she was feeling unsure about our future because she’s going to be going to med school. (That we’re on different parts of our lives because I just graduated and am no longer a student). Like these aren’t the root of the problem.
With her just starting at a 4 year, she also told me that she wanted to get involved more in school and clubs and social life which I don’t blame her and was ready to support her! Her last years of high school were spent in Covid and then spent some time at community college where she wasn’t part of clubs. Do you think this is what it is? That she’s in a new place discovering who she is and what she wants? I’m trying to understand the reason why she broke up with me so easily. 4 weeks of exams and hanging out a bunch with her friends gave her the doubt to throw a 2 year relationship. Like it just doesn’t make sense. I told her I still believed in the relationship and to give me a week to try but she refused. I said i could be flexiable to her schedule and close the distance but she insisted otherwise. She even said if I moved close to her, she wouldn’t want to date because shes in school but I’m not anymore (and she’d feel bad if we broke up because of her new doubts. are all excuses, it’s obvious she doesn’t want me in her life anymore.
At the start of this year, she didn’t like going out for the first half of the first semester and I would call her a lot to spend time with her, but half way made some good girlfriends who she started to go out more with. Additionally, she was really busy with exams and instead of her giving me 80%, she like instantly gave me 10% of her energy.
Like I’m graduated and discovered that she is who I want in my life. I know she’s in this completely new environment but I’m really confused why she suddenly changed her mind wanting to completely squeeze me out of her new life when I could give her room to grow.
Like the worst party is that she didn’t any to let me try to fix it which left me feel powerless. Additionally, her suggesting us breaking up came minutes after I expressed me wanting more attention because I let her know that feeling really lonely and wanted to spend more time with her and was hit with this. I feel like as a reward for telling her my true feelings, I was punished.
Shes discovering herself and what she wants, but to not even give me the chance. I wouldn’t be holding her back.
Should I move on and forget about her? I really love her and we were so compatible and we’re killing the long distance
I want to hold onto the hope that in discovering who she is and what she wants, shed discover that she regretted letting go of me because of how good I treated her
2024.05.16 11:48 tellietubbies_444 carson, bakit mo ako hinila sa patibong???
stated sa title, isa din akong tao na matagal nang mahal ang best friend niya. (close friend lang pala) 6 years na, naks malapit nang maka-tie yung pitong taon ni carson 🥰
little backstory: (let's call him j)
J was just an acquaintance at first, a friend of a friend. we met when we were in senior high school, fresh from break up ako noon from my biggest nightmare of an ex, iba kami ng school pero classmates niya childhood friends ko, kaya ayon naging close din kami. we meet up every fiesta dito samin, yes every fiesta lang kasi hindi ako pinapayagan gumala. we message every day tapos we do phone call every night. then, biglang hindi na niya ako kinausap, nalaman ko he was dating one of my closest friends. ayon, natigil. for more than a year, J and i didn't talk with each other. i had a little crush on him that time na talaga but i pushed that attraction away kasi nga syota niya isa sa mga kaibigan ko.
one day he reached out to me, begging me to help him reconcile with my friend kasi blinock siya, they broke up. he was in shambles that time, he did everything for her. as a concerned friend kinausap ko din yung kaibigan ko about him, ayaw na niya talaga. wala naman ako magagawa, he confided on me. and foolish din ako to help him, siya yung tipo na gagawin niyang mundo yung syota niya kaya he was friendless. i made urged him to go back skate boarding, play basketball and coninue playing ML kasi he enjoyed those things pero pinagbawalan siya ng kaibigan ko. i made him slowly reconcile with our friends, i help him sa school works niya kahit wala akong alam sa I.T hahahaha. i brought him food sa campus nila kahit na 1hr away siya from my place. he's funny, gentle, may depth and masipag, he'd usually tuck my hair behind my ear, pill shrimp for me, tie my schoelaces, punas pawis, its the littlest of things talaga. ewan, after a year of those things, he asked permission to court me pero ni-reject ko siya kahit hulog na ako kasi ex siya ng kaibigan ko.
don't get me wrong, my friend and him both confided in me when the break up happened, siguro kasi nurturer talaga akong type of person hahahaha kahit ako napapagod noon sa gitna nila hinayaan ko lang kasi break ups are hard. (tanga moments)
tapos after a few months he courted me again, hindi na siya nagpaalam kasi sabi niya he'll court me whether i say yes or no kasi he wants to prove himself. pero i was adamant na ayaw ko. kahit umiiyak ako everytime he told me he likes me, everytime i rejected him, my heart bleeds out for us. wala akong magawa but to say no dahil nirerespeto ko yung kaibigan ko. tapos nalaman ko pa na sinabihan niya si J na to never talk to me kasi iba daw ugali ko. i was hurt, kasi naiipit ako sa sitwasyon na hindi ko naman ginusto pero alam ko na pinili ko. after that rejection naging mailap na siya, sabi niya he needed space to cope with the heartbreak. hanggang sa ilang buwan na kaming hindi nagkausap kasi iniiwasan niya ako. tapos ayon, nalaman ko may girlfriend na siya. no apologies, i understand naman kasi he didn't owe me one. so i acted like nothing happened, we remained good friends. we still talk, we still hangout, we're still confidants of each other.
yesterday was his and his girl's 3 year anniversary. i congratulated him.
I'm a hypocrite, lagi ko sinasabi na reason ay dahil sa trauma ko sa last ex ko, o kaya naman ay hindi pa ako ready, o kaya naman ay i enjoy being single. pero ang totoo mahal ko parin siya. i still think of him whenever i eat kwek-kwek, remember his face when i listen to the songs he used to play on his guitar, i remember him from every laugh that i let out. he's everywhere from the very nook and crannies of my heart. mahal na mahal ko siya.
i don't cling to this love because of what ifs and the idea of him, but i love just love him. hindi ko wini-wish na maghiwalay sila ng jowa niya because nakikita ko naman na mahal niya yung tao. i can see the way his eyes lit up sa tuwing napag-uusapan o nababanggit niya yung pangalan ng mahal niya. i hope he knows he's loved, unknowingly. ayon lang shuta napahaba na, iiyakan ko nanaman 'to mamaya.
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little backstory: (let's call him j)
J was just an acquaintance at first, a friend of a friend. we met when we were in senior high school, fresh from break up ako noon from my biggest nightmare of an ex, iba kami ng school pero classmates niya childhood friends ko, kaya ayon naging close din kami. we meet up every fiesta dito samin, yes every fiesta lang kasi hindi ako pinapayagan gumala. we message every day tapos we do phone call every night. then, biglang hindi na niya ako kinausap, nalaman ko he was dating one of my closest friends. ayon, natigil. for more than a year, J and i didn't talk with each other. i had a little crush on him that time na talaga but i pushed that attraction away kasi nga syota niya isa sa mga kaibigan ko.
one day he reached out to me, begging me to help him reconcile with my friend kasi blinock siya, they broke up. he was in shambles that time, he did everything for her. as a concerned friend kinausap ko din yung kaibigan ko about him, ayaw na niya talaga. wala naman ako magagawa, he confided on me. and foolish din ako to help him, siya yung tipo na gagawin niyang mundo yung syota niya kaya he was friendless. i made urged him to go back skate boarding, play basketball and coninue playing ML kasi he enjoyed those things pero pinagbawalan siya ng kaibigan ko. i made him slowly reconcile with our friends, i help him sa school works niya kahit wala akong alam sa I.T hahahaha. i brought him food sa campus nila kahit na 1hr away siya from my place. he's funny, gentle, may depth and masipag, he'd usually tuck my hair behind my ear, pill shrimp for me, tie my schoelaces, punas pawis, its the littlest of things talaga. ewan, after a year of those things, he asked permission to court me pero ni-reject ko siya kahit hulog na ako kasi ex siya ng kaibigan ko.
don't get me wrong, my friend and him both confided in me when the break up happened, siguro kasi nurturer talaga akong type of person hahahaha kahit ako napapagod noon sa gitna nila hinayaan ko lang kasi break ups are hard. (tanga moments)
tapos after a few months he courted me again, hindi na siya nagpaalam kasi sabi niya he'll court me whether i say yes or no kasi he wants to prove himself. pero i was adamant na ayaw ko. kahit umiiyak ako everytime he told me he likes me, everytime i rejected him, my heart bleeds out for us. wala akong magawa but to say no dahil nirerespeto ko yung kaibigan ko. tapos nalaman ko pa na sinabihan niya si J na to never talk to me kasi iba daw ugali ko. i was hurt, kasi naiipit ako sa sitwasyon na hindi ko naman ginusto pero alam ko na pinili ko. after that rejection naging mailap na siya, sabi niya he needed space to cope with the heartbreak. hanggang sa ilang buwan na kaming hindi nagkausap kasi iniiwasan niya ako. tapos ayon, nalaman ko may girlfriend na siya. no apologies, i understand naman kasi he didn't owe me one. so i acted like nothing happened, we remained good friends. we still talk, we still hangout, we're still confidants of each other.
yesterday was his and his girl's 3 year anniversary. i congratulated him.
I'm a hypocrite, lagi ko sinasabi na reason ay dahil sa trauma ko sa last ex ko, o kaya naman ay hindi pa ako ready, o kaya naman ay i enjoy being single. pero ang totoo mahal ko parin siya. i still think of him whenever i eat kwek-kwek, remember his face when i listen to the songs he used to play on his guitar, i remember him from every laugh that i let out. he's everywhere from the very nook and crannies of my heart. mahal na mahal ko siya.
i don't cling to this love because of what ifs and the idea of him, but i love just love him. hindi ko wini-wish na maghiwalay sila ng jowa niya because nakikita ko naman na mahal niya yung tao. i can see the way his eyes lit up sa tuwing napag-uusapan o nababanggit niya yung pangalan ng mahal niya. i hope he knows he's loved, unknowingly. ayon lang shuta napahaba na, iiyakan ko nanaman 'to mamaya.
2024.05.16 11:48 Free-Lab1820 I’m getting stalked and harassed and police won’t do anything about it
I’ve been a private person all my life, online and in real life and I’m being stalked by girls who dated my ex’s and have teamed up together. They make hate accounts of me on every single platform and follow my family members on social media and tarnish my name. The lies they’ve made up are disgusting, they post my address and the worst part is I live in London and one of the girls drive all the way down from Manchester just to harass me. I’ve been back and forth at the police station to try and deal with this since October last year and they couldn’t help me because I didn’t have a phone number or address of the girls, therefore my case hasn’t gone anywhere. I feel helpless every single day. I wake up to something new and elaborate about myself online and I’m starting to feel myself slip away from reality. It’s tough trying to brave through all of this but I’m genuinely too burnt out. TikTok and instagram wont take down the accounts either and I don’t understand why when it’s clearly impersonating me and my home address is on there. Any advice or help would be really appreciated.
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2024.05.16 11:48 Independent_Try_7716 My Weirdest Tragic LDR Story
So almost 3 months ago, I had an anonymous Instagram account. Feeling desperate for love, I started commenting under posts, that I need someone to talk. One account (girl) replied to me. Had a little chat followed by sexchat. I thought it was just a one time thing. Got her text next day and we started chatting normally and flirting over next 3-4 days. Got to know that we belong to same caste. We started dating, exchanged photos and videos and eventually found each other compatible to each other. Some of you may think it could be a guy but I made sure that wasn't the case. Exchanged phone numbers also and used to talk for 3-4 hours a day on call. Experienced my first love and we were already thinking about our marriage.
But, how could everything go so smoothly? On Holi, she was having severe headache and went to doctor. Listening to symptoms, doctor said she has 95% chance of brain tumor. She told me this after 2 days. We both were shocked and she was almost broken from inside. Reports confirmed she had last stage of brain tumor and only few months left. Thinking about my future, she told me to break up, but I resisted saying I will be with her till the very last moment. We had disagreements over this, she started ignoring me so I get convinced to break up but I stayed with her. On 8th April, she got hospitalised and stayed there for about 4-5 days. I wasn't sure if I will talk to her again or not. For context, she lost her parents about 5 years back in a car accident. She only have her elder sister and her fiance in her family, and she was the one who kept updating me about her situation, through her phone only. During her stay in hospital, this condition really got her bad. She started forgetting stuffs but she remembered me. She came back home on 13th April. I really wanted to go meet her in her city but couldn't go due to some circumstances.
This wasn't the only problem she was dealing with. Another huge problem was her ex boyfriend. They both broke up about 1.5 years ago and it was his wish. She begged for her to stay but he left. I got to know from her cousin firstly and then from her, that her ex used to abuse her physically even during their relationship and even after that. And the most shocking part was she didn't even told her sister about that. My blood was boiling on hearing that but I couldn't do anything and felt so helpless. Eventually, I told her sister about this but this kept happening even after this. She tried to protect her but her ex found a way to still hurt her. Finally, I convinced her to talk about this to her sister and she talked but still they took no action. Then, one day she went to her ex's sister's function even after I told her not to, but she still did cuz she was invited. And the worst thing happened. He raped her there. She was broken inside. I was hurt too. In that moment of anger, I broke up immediately, but soon realised I shouldn't have done that and I was the only one she trusted. Told her we are not done yet and I am here for you. I don't want to remember that event but this really boiled my blood. She told her sister and finally they went to his home and told their family. He was beaten finally but that mf deserved much worse. Their family were apologising so they didn't took any legal action. Even after going through all this, she still talks normally.
Two days back, her sister told me to break up with her and it would be better for both. I couldn't understand how it would be better for her. I know she won't be able to live without me and hence, I didn't want to do. She said she wanted her sister to live this phase alone which is her best phase. She told if we won't do if ourselves, she will interfere and everyone will get hurt. Hearing all these, I decided to break up but still stay as a friend whom she can confide. For context, we broke up twice before but cuz of having short term memory loss, she forgot and I knowing her condition so convinced myself to be in relationship. I never had any problem to be with her. So we broke up that night. She got too sad, even I got. but we handled ourselves. But the next day her sister with her fiance went to goa leaving her alone at home. I don't know what she thinks and she even care about her or not. She don't feel like sleeping at night so I used to talk regularly so she don't feel alone and even talked yesterday. I don't know if she remember about our break up or not.
I feel like this incident will stay always with me and I don't know what will happen. Kitni bhi ziddi ho yrr but hai to my first love. I badly want her to stay forever. I want to marry her and give her all the love she deserves. I want her to be happy always. I want to feed her food from my own hands. I want to care for her. I want to make her sleep when she have headaches. I want to hug her, kiss her forehead. I just want to be with her forever. I LOVE HERR. I would have fought with the whole world for her, but this cancer and distance really fucked us😭😭
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But, how could everything go so smoothly? On Holi, she was having severe headache and went to doctor. Listening to symptoms, doctor said she has 95% chance of brain tumor. She told me this after 2 days. We both were shocked and she was almost broken from inside. Reports confirmed she had last stage of brain tumor and only few months left. Thinking about my future, she told me to break up, but I resisted saying I will be with her till the very last moment. We had disagreements over this, she started ignoring me so I get convinced to break up but I stayed with her. On 8th April, she got hospitalised and stayed there for about 4-5 days. I wasn't sure if I will talk to her again or not. For context, she lost her parents about 5 years back in a car accident. She only have her elder sister and her fiance in her family, and she was the one who kept updating me about her situation, through her phone only. During her stay in hospital, this condition really got her bad. She started forgetting stuffs but she remembered me. She came back home on 13th April. I really wanted to go meet her in her city but couldn't go due to some circumstances.
This wasn't the only problem she was dealing with. Another huge problem was her ex boyfriend. They both broke up about 1.5 years ago and it was his wish. She begged for her to stay but he left. I got to know from her cousin firstly and then from her, that her ex used to abuse her physically even during their relationship and even after that. And the most shocking part was she didn't even told her sister about that. My blood was boiling on hearing that but I couldn't do anything and felt so helpless. Eventually, I told her sister about this but this kept happening even after this. She tried to protect her but her ex found a way to still hurt her. Finally, I convinced her to talk about this to her sister and she talked but still they took no action. Then, one day she went to her ex's sister's function even after I told her not to, but she still did cuz she was invited. And the worst thing happened. He raped her there. She was broken inside. I was hurt too. In that moment of anger, I broke up immediately, but soon realised I shouldn't have done that and I was the only one she trusted. Told her we are not done yet and I am here for you. I don't want to remember that event but this really boiled my blood. She told her sister and finally they went to his home and told their family. He was beaten finally but that mf deserved much worse. Their family were apologising so they didn't took any legal action. Even after going through all this, she still talks normally.
Two days back, her sister told me to break up with her and it would be better for both. I couldn't understand how it would be better for her. I know she won't be able to live without me and hence, I didn't want to do. She said she wanted her sister to live this phase alone which is her best phase. She told if we won't do if ourselves, she will interfere and everyone will get hurt. Hearing all these, I decided to break up but still stay as a friend whom she can confide. For context, we broke up twice before but cuz of having short term memory loss, she forgot and I knowing her condition so convinced myself to be in relationship. I never had any problem to be with her. So we broke up that night. She got too sad, even I got. but we handled ourselves. But the next day her sister with her fiance went to goa leaving her alone at home. I don't know what she thinks and she even care about her or not. She don't feel like sleeping at night so I used to talk regularly so she don't feel alone and even talked yesterday. I don't know if she remember about our break up or not.
I feel like this incident will stay always with me and I don't know what will happen. Kitni bhi ziddi ho yrr but hai to my first love. I badly want her to stay forever. I want to marry her and give her all the love she deserves. I want her to be happy always. I want to feed her food from my own hands. I want to care for her. I want to make her sleep when she have headaches. I want to hug her, kiss her forehead. I just want to be with her forever. I LOVE HERR. I would have fought with the whole world for her, but this cancer and distance really fucked us😭😭
2024.05.16 11:47 Wrong_Preparation560 The decision regarding Yasuke is reasonable
Let me first state that I am not a native English speaker.
When I first saw in the trailer that Yasuke was the main character, I found this to be a very odd decision.
The reason being that previous series had employed two local characters who were almost interchangeable with each other, just with different genders.
Nor were those characters real people; Assassin's Creed Shadows clearly breaks with those conventions.
After thinking about why they made this decision, I came to the following conclusions.
First, the development of Assassin's Creed Shadows began about four years ago. Around those years, another game set in Japan, Sekiro (2019) and Ghost of tsushima (2020), were released.
Sekiro is a game featuring a male ninja and Ghost of Tsuhshima is a game featuring a male samurai (half ninja). Also, Nioh (2017), featuring a white, male samurai, was released a little earlier.
These games had a level of sales that would be considered successful. In other words, these games are famous.
If we create characters that overlap with these genders, professions, and races, comparisons to those games will be inevitable.
Also, when playing a game set in Japan, users naturally expect two things: a samurai and a ninja, and if a game of Ubisoft's scale lacks either, it will be considered a failure.
In other words, the character you control as the protagonist must either be a single character playing both samurai and ninja roles, or two characters playing one role each.
However, in Ghost of Tsushima, the protagonist already plays both the samurai and ninja roles. If we do the same thing, it will naturally be compared to Ghost of Tsushima.
So, what I am saying here is that if you are making a game set in Japan and you want to differentiate yourself from the protagonists of other well-known games set in Japan (which I think is a legitimate desire for developers), it is not such a strange idea to have a male black samurai and a female ninja. It means that the game will become more interesting.
People consider it odd that Yasuke was chosen, but to me it is more likely that there was no other character left who would have fit the bill as well as Yasuke.
Being male, Japanese, or Caucasian, while being a samurai or ninja, would mean overlap with the protagonists of other games. Therefore, when we find a black male in history who is similar to Oda Nobunaga, but not clearly known(which indicates room for adaptation), it seems reasonable to place him as the main character.
In other words, Yasuke was a real person, but because we don't know much about him, he is also very close to an imaginary person.
This is probably the reason for the decision to put a real person as the protagonist for the first time.
Rather than creating a protagonist similar to other games or making up an imaginary foreigner in the context of Japan at the time, they thought that Yasuke would be the best way to go about it.
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When I first saw in the trailer that Yasuke was the main character, I found this to be a very odd decision.
The reason being that previous series had employed two local characters who were almost interchangeable with each other, just with different genders.
Nor were those characters real people; Assassin's Creed Shadows clearly breaks with those conventions.
After thinking about why they made this decision, I came to the following conclusions.
First, the development of Assassin's Creed Shadows began about four years ago. Around those years, another game set in Japan, Sekiro (2019) and Ghost of tsushima (2020), were released.
Sekiro is a game featuring a male ninja and Ghost of Tsuhshima is a game featuring a male samurai (half ninja). Also, Nioh (2017), featuring a white, male samurai, was released a little earlier.
These games had a level of sales that would be considered successful. In other words, these games are famous.
If we create characters that overlap with these genders, professions, and races, comparisons to those games will be inevitable.
Also, when playing a game set in Japan, users naturally expect two things: a samurai and a ninja, and if a game of Ubisoft's scale lacks either, it will be considered a failure.
In other words, the character you control as the protagonist must either be a single character playing both samurai and ninja roles, or two characters playing one role each.
However, in Ghost of Tsushima, the protagonist already plays both the samurai and ninja roles. If we do the same thing, it will naturally be compared to Ghost of Tsushima.
So, what I am saying here is that if you are making a game set in Japan and you want to differentiate yourself from the protagonists of other well-known games set in Japan (which I think is a legitimate desire for developers), it is not such a strange idea to have a male black samurai and a female ninja. It means that the game will become more interesting.
People consider it odd that Yasuke was chosen, but to me it is more likely that there was no other character left who would have fit the bill as well as Yasuke.
Being male, Japanese, or Caucasian, while being a samurai or ninja, would mean overlap with the protagonists of other games. Therefore, when we find a black male in history who is similar to Oda Nobunaga, but not clearly known(which indicates room for adaptation), it seems reasonable to place him as the main character.
In other words, Yasuke was a real person, but because we don't know much about him, he is also very close to an imaginary person.
This is probably the reason for the decision to put a real person as the protagonist for the first time.
Rather than creating a protagonist similar to other games or making up an imaginary foreigner in the context of Japan at the time, they thought that Yasuke would be the best way to go about it.
2024.05.16 11:47 Independent_Try_7716 My weirdest tragic LDR story
So almost 3 months ago, I had an anonymous Instagram account. Feeling desperate for love, I started commenting under posts, that I need someone to talk. One account (girl) replied to me. Had a little chat followed by sexchat. I thought it was just a one time thing. Got her text next day and we started chatting normally and flirting over next 3-4 days. Got to know that we belong to same caste. We started dating, exchanged photos and videos and eventually found each other compatible to each other. Some of you may think it could be a guy but I made sure that wasn't the case. Exchanged phone numbers also and used to talk for 3-4 hours a day on call. Experienced my first love and we were already thinking about our marriage.
But, how could everything go so smoothly? On Holi, she was having severe headache and went to doctor. Listening to symptoms, doctor said she has 95% chance of brain tumor. She told me this after 2 days. We both were shocked and she was almost broken from inside. Reports confirmed she had last stage of brain tumor and only few months left. Thinking about my future, she told me to break up, but I resisted saying I will be with her till the very last moment. We had disagreements over this, she started ignoring me so I get convinced to break up but I stayed with her. On 8th April, she got hospitalised and stayed there for about 4-5 days. I wasn't sure if I will talk to her again or not. For context, she lost her parents about 5 years back in a car accident. She only have her elder sister and her fiance in her family, and she was the one who kept updating me about her situation, through her phone only. During her stay in hospital, this condition really got her bad. She started forgetting stuffs but she remembered me. She came back home on 13th April. I really wanted to go meet her in her city but couldn't go due to some circumstances.
This wasn't the only problem she was dealing with. Another huge problem was her ex boyfriend. They both broke up about 1.5 years ago and it was his wish. She begged for her to stay but he left. I got to know from her cousin firstly and then from her, that her ex used to abuse her physically even during their relationship and even after that. And the most shocking part was she didn't even told her sister about that. My blood was boiling on hearing that but I couldn't do anything and felt so helpless. Eventually, I told her sister about this but this kept happening even after this. She tried to protect her but her ex found a way to still hurt her. Finally, I convinced her to talk about this to her sister and she talked but still they took no action. Then, one day she went to her ex's sister's function even after I told her not to, but she still did cuz she was invited. And the worst thing happened. He raped her there. She was broken inside. I was hurt too. In that moment of anger, I broke up immediately, but soon realised I shouldn't have done that and I was the only one she trusted. Told her we are not done yet and I am here for you. I don't want to remember that event but this really boiled my blood. She told her sister and finally they went to his home and told their family. He was beaten finally but that mf deserved much worse. Their family were apologising so they didn't took any legal action. Even after going through all this, she still talks normally.
Two days back, her sister told me to break up with her and it would be better for both. I couldn't understand how it would be better for her. I know she won't be able to live without me and hence, I didn't want to do. She said she wanted her sister to live this phase alone which is her best phase. She told if we won't do if ourselves, she will interfere and everyone will get hurt. Hearing all these, I decided to break up but still stay as a friend whom she can confide. For context, we broke up twice before but cuz of having short term memory loss, she forgot and I knowing her condition so convinced myself to be in relationship. I never had any problem to be with her. So we broke up that night. She got too sad, even I got. but we handled ourselves. But the next day her sister with her fiance went to goa leaving her alone at home. I don't know what she thinks and she even care about her or not. She don't feel like sleeping at night so I used to talk regularly so she don't feel alone and even talked yesterday. I don't know if she remember about our break up or not.
I feel like this incident will stay always with me and I don't know what will happen. Kitni bhi ziddi ho yrr but hai to my first love. I badly want her to stay forever. I want to marry her and give her all the love she deserves. I want her to be happy always. I want to feed her food from my own hands. I want to care for her. I want to make her sleep when she have headaches. I want to hug her, kiss her forehead. I just want to be with her forever. I LOVE HERR. I would have fought with the whole world for her, but this cancer and distance really fucked us😭😭
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But, how could everything go so smoothly? On Holi, she was having severe headache and went to doctor. Listening to symptoms, doctor said she has 95% chance of brain tumor. She told me this after 2 days. We both were shocked and she was almost broken from inside. Reports confirmed she had last stage of brain tumor and only few months left. Thinking about my future, she told me to break up, but I resisted saying I will be with her till the very last moment. We had disagreements over this, she started ignoring me so I get convinced to break up but I stayed with her. On 8th April, she got hospitalised and stayed there for about 4-5 days. I wasn't sure if I will talk to her again or not. For context, she lost her parents about 5 years back in a car accident. She only have her elder sister and her fiance in her family, and she was the one who kept updating me about her situation, through her phone only. During her stay in hospital, this condition really got her bad. She started forgetting stuffs but she remembered me. She came back home on 13th April. I really wanted to go meet her in her city but couldn't go due to some circumstances.
This wasn't the only problem she was dealing with. Another huge problem was her ex boyfriend. They both broke up about 1.5 years ago and it was his wish. She begged for her to stay but he left. I got to know from her cousin firstly and then from her, that her ex used to abuse her physically even during their relationship and even after that. And the most shocking part was she didn't even told her sister about that. My blood was boiling on hearing that but I couldn't do anything and felt so helpless. Eventually, I told her sister about this but this kept happening even after this. She tried to protect her but her ex found a way to still hurt her. Finally, I convinced her to talk about this to her sister and she talked but still they took no action. Then, one day she went to her ex's sister's function even after I told her not to, but she still did cuz she was invited. And the worst thing happened. He raped her there. She was broken inside. I was hurt too. In that moment of anger, I broke up immediately, but soon realised I shouldn't have done that and I was the only one she trusted. Told her we are not done yet and I am here for you. I don't want to remember that event but this really boiled my blood. She told her sister and finally they went to his home and told their family. He was beaten finally but that mf deserved much worse. Their family were apologising so they didn't took any legal action. Even after going through all this, she still talks normally.
Two days back, her sister told me to break up with her and it would be better for both. I couldn't understand how it would be better for her. I know she won't be able to live without me and hence, I didn't want to do. She said she wanted her sister to live this phase alone which is her best phase. She told if we won't do if ourselves, she will interfere and everyone will get hurt. Hearing all these, I decided to break up but still stay as a friend whom she can confide. For context, we broke up twice before but cuz of having short term memory loss, she forgot and I knowing her condition so convinced myself to be in relationship. I never had any problem to be with her. So we broke up that night. She got too sad, even I got. but we handled ourselves. But the next day her sister with her fiance went to goa leaving her alone at home. I don't know what she thinks and she even care about her or not. She don't feel like sleeping at night so I used to talk regularly so she don't feel alone and even talked yesterday. I don't know if she remember about our break up or not.
I feel like this incident will stay always with me and I don't know what will happen. Kitni bhi ziddi ho yrr but hai to my first love. I badly want her to stay forever. I want to marry her and give her all the love she deserves. I want her to be happy always. I want to feed her food from my own hands. I want to care for her. I want to make her sleep when she have headaches. I want to hug her, kiss her forehead. I just want to be with her forever. I LOVE HERR. I would have fought with the whole world for her, but this cancer and distance really fucked us😭😭
2024.05.16 11:46 acrobaticenglishman Selling a DE LLC questions
Hey!
I'm a UK citizen with an LLC set up in Delaware, looking to sell the business to an Australian citizen.
Who should I find / what service should I look for in order to facilitate the sale? How straight forward is it likely to be? Just changing some names on some docs? Or more complex?
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I'm a UK citizen with an LLC set up in Delaware, looking to sell the business to an Australian citizen.
Who should I find / what service should I look for in order to facilitate the sale? How straight forward is it likely to be? Just changing some names on some docs? Or more complex?
2024.05.16 11:45 fairytaleresearch $GDHG - Bullish on SEC filling - Dont get fooled
 | Based on yesterdays SEC filling from $GDHG: submitted by fairytaleresearch to GDHG [link] [comments] CEO, CFO and one Director receive 1.6M class A shares! -> Good news! They wont make cash of it! -> Good news "We will not receive any proceeds from the sale of any of our Class A Ordinary Shares by the Selling Shareholders" They can over time issue up to 9.8M! -> NOT now, only the 1.6M now "This reoffer prospectus relates to 9,800,000 of our Class A ordinary shares, par value $0.0001 (“Class A Ordinary Shares”), that may be reoffered or resold, from time to time, by certain selling shareholders (the “Selling Shareholders”)" https://www.sec.gov/Archives/edgadata/1928340/000121390024043612/ea0205599-s8_golden.htm https://preview.redd.it/e7qw8b07fr0d1.png?width=1488&format=png&auto=webp&s=d88007e0fdc5399f8597b9815f200895fe1b3647 |
2024.05.16 11:44 EntireAd9229 Root cause and memory loss depression type
Hi,
I was wondering if some of you who have chronic depression since a long time with memory losses (short term, middle and long term) had found specific root cause associated with it?
I'm trying to find the root cause of my depression but I can only see a breakup that I have been dealing with (at least in the real world cause I still have dreams of my ex gf and still have little thoughts times to times of me trying to get back with her but not contacting her at all about this).
I think I have been a really impulsive person life's choices related (for example breaking-up with my ex gf and going no contact was absolutely a compulsive thing not really mature but I thought at this time it could help me about my depression ultimately it didn't help at all), but I'm trying to get better with this behavior and don't know if it could be related to my depression and memory losses issues (only things I remember of me are very vague it's like I only remember cause I know it has existed very vague visuals, no emotions, no sounds and it's more likely traumas with a little t not big traumas, like stressful events I have been dealing with and tried to understand and cleared out recently with EMDR but didn't seem to work at all or at least affect my present depression).
It's like all started with this breakup but I spoke everything I thought was important and necessary to my ex gf at the time of the breakup really specifically and it didn't improve anything at all even it seems that all things are cleared out for both of about this breakup.
Or maybe it's more about my parents breakup but it seems that it didn't affect me at all, I was prepared for it during a long time before it happened, I have no memories of this event as the rest of my life (school, driving license, holidays, anything, ...).
I already talked a lot about all these things with therapists but it didn't help or improved ever (at least my current symptoms and situation).
Any thoughts about my situation? Any advices except going to a Dr?
Thank you for your help and time.
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I was wondering if some of you who have chronic depression since a long time with memory losses (short term, middle and long term) had found specific root cause associated with it?
I'm trying to find the root cause of my depression but I can only see a breakup that I have been dealing with (at least in the real world cause I still have dreams of my ex gf and still have little thoughts times to times of me trying to get back with her but not contacting her at all about this).
I think I have been a really impulsive person life's choices related (for example breaking-up with my ex gf and going no contact was absolutely a compulsive thing not really mature but I thought at this time it could help me about my depression ultimately it didn't help at all), but I'm trying to get better with this behavior and don't know if it could be related to my depression and memory losses issues (only things I remember of me are very vague it's like I only remember cause I know it has existed very vague visuals, no emotions, no sounds and it's more likely traumas with a little t not big traumas, like stressful events I have been dealing with and tried to understand and cleared out recently with EMDR but didn't seem to work at all or at least affect my present depression).
It's like all started with this breakup but I spoke everything I thought was important and necessary to my ex gf at the time of the breakup really specifically and it didn't improve anything at all even it seems that all things are cleared out for both of about this breakup.
Or maybe it's more about my parents breakup but it seems that it didn't affect me at all, I was prepared for it during a long time before it happened, I have no memories of this event as the rest of my life (school, driving license, holidays, anything, ...).
I already talked a lot about all these things with therapists but it didn't help or improved ever (at least my current symptoms and situation).
Any thoughts about my situation? Any advices except going to a Dr?
Thank you for your help and time.
2024.05.16 11:43 Honest_Service_8702 Carrot cake bars free
 | Hello, I bake and give it away. I am in Kennewick and am pick up only. If you see this post at least one of the items are available to pick up. submitted by Honest_Service_8702 to TriCitiesWA [link] [comments] I accept donated ingredients, but it's not necessary to pick up something. If you donate expired/rotting food I will block you. I do not do special requests, bake sales, and non profits, so don't ask. If you see something posted you want to pick up to give to a charity that would be great. But do not try to arrange something for me to make things for a specific reason. My anxiety cannot handle it. Please do not come here and suggest I take a class, or sell baked goods. That is ablist, unsupportive, and upsetting. I am autistic, and am the only one doing this, so please be kind. Today, I have carrot cake bars to give away. They have coconut in them, grated carrots, walnuts, and raisins. Also cinnamon, nutmeg, and ginger. And the cream cheese frosting leftover from the cupcakes. It's one pan for one household. Recipe for reddit: https://eazypeazydesserts.com/carrot-cake-bars-recipe/ |
2024.05.16 11:43 underscoresrule Motorbike garages are weird
I get it's a busy time of year, but the bloke at my local place seemed genuinely fuming I'd brought my bike down to have some work done on it.
Wasn't like I just turned up in a van with a Cat N bike in pieces that needed rebuilding, I rang up yesterday and he told me to bring it down!
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Wasn't like I just turned up in a van with a Cat N bike in pieces that needed rebuilding, I rang up yesterday and he told me to bring it down!
2024.05.16 11:41 troavai666 finally broke up
i [m22] broke up with my girlfriend [f22] after one year together.
she only had three previous partners but one of them is a person that i hate so much i couldn't see my girlfriend the same anymore. how could she give herself to someone like that? now it's ruined everything. she was perfect otherwise. i just couldn't get past it.
i feel ashamed of breaking up with her because of this. it feels like i gave him leverage over my life. but on the other hand when we were together i felt like he still had something over me as he had slept with my girlfriend.
i'm mad at my ex, i'm mad at this guy, i'm mad at myself. i'm never committing again.
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she only had three previous partners but one of them is a person that i hate so much i couldn't see my girlfriend the same anymore. how could she give herself to someone like that? now it's ruined everything. she was perfect otherwise. i just couldn't get past it.
i feel ashamed of breaking up with her because of this. it feels like i gave him leverage over my life. but on the other hand when we were together i felt like he still had something over me as he had slept with my girlfriend.
i'm mad at my ex, i'm mad at this guy, i'm mad at myself. i'm never committing again.