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2019.05.16 18:30 EastMeetEastOfficial AsianDatingSuccess

A lively forum for Asian diaspora in the West (Asian American etc) to share their successes in dating via story/photo posts. Check out fun & inspiring posts. Hosted by https://www.eastmeeteast.com/stories.
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2016.08.25 06:02 Divtya_Budhlya Single by 30

During their Senior year of high school, Peter and Joanna made a pact to get married if they were still single by 30. After losing touch for 12 years, Joanna re-enters Peter’s life coincidentally at his 30th birthday party. Confronted with the unsettled reality of their lives, they decide to reinstate the pact to help each other improve their dating lives.
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2024.06.01 14:08 Scarface573 Do religious Israeli's still view Samaritans as Kutim?

The Samaritan belief is that are "Bene Israel" whilst Orthodox Jewish tradition views them as Kutim from modern day Iraq. In interviews with modern Samaritans I noticed that many of them find the "Kutim" label to be upsetting and a denial of their history.
Modern genetic studies seem to support the Samaritan narrative about their origins
The Samaritans are a group of some 750 indigenous Middle Eastern people, about half of whom live in Holon, a suburb of Tel Aviv, and the other half near Nablus. The Samaritan population is believed to have numbered more than a million in late Roman times but less than 150 in 1917. The ancestry of the Samaritans has been subject to controversy from late Biblical times to the present. In this study, liquid chromatography/electrospray ionization/quadrupole ion trap mass spectrometry was used to allelotype 13 Y-chromosomal and 15 autosomal microsatellites in a sample of 12 Samaritans chosen to have as low a level of relationship as possible, and 461 Jews and non-Jews. Estimation of genetic distances between the Samaritans and seven Jewish and three non-Jewish populations from Israel, as well as populations from Africa, Pakistan, Turkey, and Europe, revealed that the Samaritans were closely related to Cohanim.This result supports the position of the Samaritans that they are descendants from the tribes of Israel dating to before the Assyrian exile in 722-720 BCE. In concordance with previously published single-nucleotide polymorphism haplotypes, each Samaritan family, with the exception of the Samaritan Cohen lineage, was observed to carry a distinctive Y-chromosome short tandem repeat haplotype that was not more than one mutation removed from the six-marker Cohen modal haplotype.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25079122/
Modern genetic studies support the Samaritan narrative that they descend from indigenous Israelites. Shen et al. (2004) formerly speculated that outmarriage with foreign women may have taken place. Most recently the same group came up with genetic evidence that Samaritans are closely linked to Cohanim, and therefore can be traced back to an Israelite population prior to the Assyrian invasion. This correlates with expectations from the fact that the Samaritans retained endogamous and biblical patrilineal marriage customs, and that they remained a genetically isolated population.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Samaritans#Origins
Questions:
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2024.06.01 14:07 Stefanpkh 32 [M4F] Europe - Supportive and Loving Man from Iceland Looking for a wife

Gamer Boy 🤝 Book Girl
Hello there,
I’m a nearly 32-year-old man from Iceland, living with a physical disability that means I use a wheelchair most of the time, though I can walk indoors. I'm writing this post from the heart, hoping to find a meaningful connection.
I've tried both local and international dating sites with little success, so perhaps Reddit can be my last hope. For a long time, I felt undeserving of love because of my disability, but I've come to realize that love transcends physical limitations. I’m a hopeless romantic who cherishes staying awake with my partner until they drift off to sleep.
Here’s what brings me joy:
Who am I? I am loyal, patient, passionate about my interests, and eager to share yours. I consider myself caring, nice, and humorous—but you'll have to be the judge of that.
While I'm content on my own, life feels more fulfilling with someone special. It’s not just about living, but living meaningfully and sharing that with someone. I want to explore the world and cherish those experiences with a loved one.
About you: Ideally aged 24-38, you should value kindness, understanding, and a good sense of humor. A penchant for dark humor is a plus. Physical traits aren’t my main focus, but I do find a soft voice and a shorter stature charming. (Lines up well with the height of the wheelchair)
Ultimately, I’m searching for someone who can laugh at life and themselves. Looks matter, but personality resonates more deeply with me.
I'm still defining my ideal partner; maybe it’s you. If you want a glimpse of me, just ask. I prefer chatting on platforms like Discord, given Reddit’s clunky messaging.
If you’ve read this far, thank you—you’re already a hero in my eyes. Let’s see where this could go?
Thanks for reading, and have a wonderful evening! I’m curious to see what this post might bring.
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2024.06.01 14:07 Stefanpkh 32 [M4F] Europe - Supportive and Loving Man from Iceland Looking for a partner

Gamer Boy 🤝 Book Girl
Hello there,
I’m a nearly 32-year-old man from Iceland, living with a physical disability that means I use a wheelchair most of the time, though I can walk indoors. I'm writing this post from the heart, hoping to find a meaningful connection.
I've tried both local and international dating sites with little success, so perhaps Reddit can be my last hope. For a long time, I felt undeserving of love because of my disability, but I've come to realize that love transcends physical limitations. I’m a hopeless romantic who cherishes staying awake with my partner until they drift off to sleep.
Here’s what brings me joy:
Who am I? I am loyal, patient, passionate about my interests, and eager to share yours. I consider myself caring, nice, and humorous—but you'll have to be the judge of that.
While I'm content on my own, life feels more fulfilling with someone special. It’s not just about living, but living meaningfully and sharing that with someone. I want to explore the world and cherish those experiences with a loved one.
About you: Ideally aged 24-38, you should value kindness, understanding, and a good sense of humor. A penchant for dark humor is a plus. Physical traits aren’t my main focus, but I do find a soft voice and a shorter stature charming. (Lines up well with the height of the wheelchair)
Ultimately, I’m searching for someone who can laugh at life and themselves. Looks matter, but personality resonates more deeply with me.
I'm still defining my ideal partner; maybe it’s you. If you want a glimpse of me, just ask. I prefer chatting on platforms like Discord, given Reddit’s clunky messaging.
If you’ve read this far, thank you—you’re already a hero in my eyes. Let’s see where this could go?
Thanks for reading, and have a wonderful evening! I’m curious to see what this post might bring.
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2024.06.01 14:07 Stefanpkh 32 [M4F] Europe - Supportive and Loving Man from Iceland Looking for a wife

Gamer Boy 🤝 Book Girl
Hello there,
I’m a nearly 32-year-old man from Iceland, living with a physical disability that means I use a wheelchair most of the time, though I can walk indoors. I'm writing this post from the heart, hoping to find a meaningful connection.
I've tried both local and international dating sites with little success, so perhaps Reddit can be my last hope. For a long time, I felt undeserving of love because of my disability, but I've come to realize that love transcends physical limitations. I’m a hopeless romantic who cherishes staying awake with my partner until they drift off to sleep.
Here’s what brings me joy:
Who am I? I am loyal, patient, passionate about my interests, and eager to share yours. I consider myself caring, nice, and humorous—but you'll have to be the judge of that.
While I'm content on my own, life feels more fulfilling with someone special. It’s not just about living, but living meaningfully and sharing that with someone. I want to explore the world and cherish those experiences with a loved one.
About you: Ideally aged 24-38, you should value kindness, understanding, and a good sense of humor. A penchant for dark humor is a plus. Physical traits aren’t my main focus, but I do find a soft voice and a shorter stature charming. (Lines up well with the height of the wheelchair)
Ultimately, I’m searching for someone who can laugh at life and themselves. Looks matter, but personality resonates more deeply with me.
I'm still defining my ideal partner; maybe it’s you. If you want a glimpse of me, just ask. I prefer chatting on platforms like Discord, given Reddit’s clunky messaging.
If you’ve read this far, thank you—you’re already a hero in my eyes. Let’s see where this could go?
Thanks for reading, and have a wonderful evening! I’m curious to see what this post might bring.
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2024.06.01 14:04 alleybetwixt This Week In KPOP - June 1, 2024

Welcome to This Week In KPOP, a collection of everything you may have missed during the past week on kpop.

May 25, 2024 - May 31, 2024

TOP 10 STORIES

# Votes Thread Comments
1 (+2446) The 13 original members of Super Junior reunite at Ryeowook's wedding 167 comments
2 (+2252) Kep1er will continue promotions as a 7 member group after the project term has expired. Mashiro and Yeseo will be leaving 277 comments
3 (+1704) fromis_9 Confirmed To Be Preparing For August Comeback 97 comments
4 (+1389) aespa Karina to guest on LE SSERAFIM Eunchae's Star Diary 69 comments
5 (+1325) EXID’s Hani To Reportedly Tie The Knot With Boyfriend Yang Jae Woong; Agency Briefly Comments 64 comments
6 (+1237) 3rd Gen Idol Revealed to be Daughter of SM C&C CEO, Friend-like Relationship with Dad 53 comments
7 (+1083) NewJeans To Donate All Profits From University Festival Performances 66 comments
8 (+1026) SQU4D releases statement confirming the NMIXX sound issue incident at Shinhan University’s festival was planned 291 comments
9 (+955) (G)I-DLE SOYEON to go on a temporary hiatus from current promotions schedule to focus on her health 60 comments
10 (+758) K-pop agency HYBE asks US court to help unmask X account in defamation case 168 comments

HYBE vs. ADOR

Votes Thread Comments
(+518) Megathread 7: HYBE vs. ADOR - Post-Injunction Hearing Statements, Breach of Trust Investigation proceeds, and More 7580 comments
(+443) Megathread 8: HYBE vs. ADOR - Petitions filed, Injunction ruling and Shareholders' Meeting ahead 7546 comments
(+446) Min Hee Jin (ADOR CEO) holds a 2nd Press Conference - Live Discussion 2054 comments
(+235) Megathread 9: HYBE vs. ADOR - Shareholders' Meeting recap, Min Hee Jin Press Conference pt.2, and More 2717 comments

TOP ANNIVERSARIES

# Votes Thread Comments
1 (+725) Happy 9th Anniversary to SEVENTEEN! 33 comments
2 (+300) Happy 7th anniversary to ALICE! 8 comments
3 (+265) Happy 1st Anniversary to BOYNEXTDOOR! 8 comments

TOP 10 PERFORMANCES

# Votes Thread Comments
1 (+636) [Dance Practice] aespa - Armageddon (Dance Practice) 46 comments
2 (+568) [Performance] BABYMONSTER - LIKE THAT (Performance Video) 117 comments
3 (+536) [Live] aespa Ningning (Host: Lee Mujin) - Thirsty, Be Natural (S.E.S. / Red Velvet), Paper Hearts (Tori Kelly), Breath (S.M. THE BALLAD) @ Leemujin Service Episode 116 (240528) [ENG SUB] 32 comments
4 (+521) [Live] Comeback Stage: aespa - Armageddon @ Mnet M Countdown (240530) 34 comments
5 (+317) [Live] Solo Debut Stage: Yves - LOOP (feat. Lil Cherry) @ Mnet M Countdown (240530) 9 comments
6 (+271) [Live] Comeback Stage: XG - WOKE UP @ Mnet M Countdown (240530) 16 comments
7 (+270) [Performance] aespa - Supernova (M2 Relay Dance) 3 comments
8 (+208) [Live] NMIXX - Love Me Like This + DICE + Roller Coaster + Soñar (Breaker) + DASH (Official Stage Cam) @ Korea University Festival: KUtopia (240523) 5 comments
9 (+199) [Live] Debut Stage: Soojin - MONA LISA @ MBC M Show Champion (240529) 7 comments
10 (+187) [Dance Practice] tripleS - Girls Never Die (Official Dance Practice) 5 comments

TOP 5 DANCE CHALLENGES

# Votes Thread Comments
1 (+128) tripleS Seoyeon & Kotone (with ARTMS Heejin & Choerry) - Girls Never Die (Dance Challenge) (240527) 2 comments
2 (+87) tripleS Jiwoo (with H1-KEY Hwiseo) - Girls Never Die (Dance Challenge) (240528) 1 comments
3 (+64) ME:I Miu (With Kep1er Mashiro) - Click (Dance Challenge) (240524) 0 comments
4 (+61) ARTMS Haseul & Jinsoul (with tripleS Hyerin, Lynn, Hayeon) - Virtual Angel (Dance Challenge) (240531) 0 comments
5 (+55) aespa NINGNING & Girls' Generation (SNSD) HYOYEON - Armageddon (Dance Challenge) (240529) 3 comments

TOP DISCUSSIONS / FEATURES

# Votes Thread Comments
1 (+58) Throwback: VIXX released "ETERNITY" this week in 2014 1 comments
2 (+44) /kpop Top Ten Tuesdays Results: Seventeen (2024) 15 comments
3 (+28) JTBC Girls On Fire - Episode 7 (Post-Episode Discussion + Preliminary Ranking + Rival Death Match Performances Part 3 + 60-minute Sudden Death Performances + 3rd Elimination) (240528) 17 comments
4 (+19) What Are You Listening To? - May 29, 2024 21 comments

MUSIC SHOWS

Date Performances Discussion Thread Winner
20240525 Music Core Thread aespa
20240526 Inkigayo Thread aespa
20240528 The Show Thread ZEROBASEONE
20240529 Show Champion Thread NewJeans
20240530 M!Countdown Thread aespa
20240531 Music Bank Thread NewJeans
 

NEW RELEASES

Day Artist Album Title Type Music Video Streaming
25th FL1X Two Of Us digital single Two Of Us Spotify / Apple Music
Gabby Onme 멸망 Doom mini album Diamonds Spotify / Apple Music
26th CATtTRIEVER Wedding Ceremony digital single Ordinary days
Wooseok (PENTAGON), Taka Perry YOU digital single YOU
27th NIKA (ex-BADKIZ Monika) Easy to please me digital single Easy to please me
aespa Armageddon full-length album Supernova / Armageddon
28th Sejin (ex-ANS Lina) Lean On Me solo debut digital single Lean On Me
Taeho (IMFACT) FOR YOUR BRILLIANT DAY single album FOR YOUR BRILLIANT DAY
YUL2 Starry night digital single Starry night
Chen (EXO) DOOR mini album Empty
Jay Park Jay Park Season 2 Jay Park Season project single Taxi Blurr (feat. Natty (KISS OF LIFE))
TREASURE KING KONG digital single KING KONG
29th GLAY whodunit / Share anniversary single album whodunit-GLAY x JAY(ENHYPEN)- / Share
JO1 HITCHHIKER Japanese single album Love seeker
Huh Swear digital single Swear
Yves (LOONA) LOOP solo debut mini album LOOP
30th UKISS Beautiful you are pre-release single Beautiful you are
WATERFIRE POSSIBLE debut single album POSSIBLE
31st Taeha (ex-Berry Good) SATELLITE digital single SATELLITE
ARTMS Dall debut full-length album Virtual Angel
ATEEZ GOLDEN HOUR : Part.1 mini album WORK
A.C.E Supernatural special single Supernatural
Suho (EXO) 1 to 3 mini album 1 to 3 / Cheese (feat. Wendy (Red Velvet))
NEXTU OOPSY DAISY debut digital single

"This Week in KPOP" Archive

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2024.06.01 14:03 NetLiving8895 Told it'll be "too much work" during interview when my child was mentioned

For context- my child is 18 months old. He lives in a 2 parent household and has a set daycare.
I live in nyc and have been looking to interview for schools with a start date in August. I truly came with high hopes as this job has a high turnover rate. I did enough research and felt as if I could handle the hours and expectations. The thing is, I was ready and willing to make the commitment. I sat down with the principal for the interview, and we got along well enough. He asked me what my goal was, and I stated that I wished for my child to be proud of me. Well, he asked the age of my son, sharing he had two children and soon after began to tell me that the job is probably, "too much work for me."
I was so taken a back that I tried to ensure him that my child had daycare and my commitment was to the school. Not only that, but I brought up how he had two children and very obviously got the work done. Even between me trying to be clear that he was discriminating against me based on having a child, I could feel the real reason is because he thought I was a single mom. I am not, but so what if I was! I could have family that helps me or a nanny. I never thought I'd experience such bigotry, and he didn't even try to blame it on a lack of experience or "Not a good fit." Just that I couldn't complete the work and believed I'd leave mid school year. Not only does it suck that he feels he can just do that, but I would like to know why he stereotyped me as if we aren't trained not to be implicitly or explicitly be biased. What a show. I'm grateful I didn't lose my cool or anything, but I'm assuming any luck of working with that company is off the table, and better for me that I know now they prioritize over working than family oriented and committed individuals.
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2024.06.01 14:02 chohls [WTS] Busted Phone Fire Sale! 😭 Beautiful World Crowns (UK, Japan, South Africa) Crusader Silver, Fantasy Issues, Charles X rare LMU silver)

Proof + Gallery https://imgur.com/a/fIpLrrK
Zelle and Venmo accepted, add $5 for GA shipping.
Thank you guys for stopping by, got some fun stuff on offer. Motivated to sell because my phone just died on me last night, and now I need a new one 😭 Make me an offer on anything (or everything) you see here!
🇯🇵 Japanese 1 Yen Crowns 🇯🇵
🔸️$159 each, 1901, 1904 available, Lovely dark blue/purple toning on both examples. $310 shipped for both!
🇿🇦 South Africa 1948 5 Shillings 🇿🇦
🔸️$40, great condition, nice dark toning throughout.
🇬🇧 UK William IV 1837 Dated Crown 🇬🇧
🔸️$90 (Fantasy issue from the 1980's struck in sterling silver with a proof finish. Same size and weight as a standard UK .925 crown, but without spending $500K at auction for an original William IV crown)
🇦🇺 Edward the 8th 1937 dated Fantasy Issue Sterling Threepence and Sixpence 🇦🇺
🔸️$40 for the pair (Fantasy issue stuck in sterling silver to the same weight as a regular threepence and sixpence, with a proof finish from the 80's, in a similar manner to the William IV crown. Almost no coins were issued in 1937 during Edward VIII's brief and scandalous reign, and none bearing his portrait.)
⚔✝️ Crusader States, Principality of Antioch, Bohemond III Silver Denier ☦ ⚔
🔸️$59 (Take the Cross with this gorgeous silver denier! From the short-lived Crusader State of Antioch. Hammered coin with crisp, well centered details, despite being over 800 years old.)
🇫🇷 Charles X Silver 1/2 Franc and 1 Franc Set 🇫🇷
🔸️$79 (Scarce small denominations from the brief reign of Charles X of France.)
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2024.06.01 14:02 Legitimate-Factor791 Amazing partner no connection anymore?

Weve been together for 15 years. Married for 11. 3 kids. Beautiful home, make good money, life literally looks perfect for us. But the connection is gone. He doesn’t seek affection from me in the morning. Mopes around the house. Easily triggered (not like yelling, just bad mood triggered) we don’t go on dates. Don’t even sleep together bc our 3 year old sleeps in my bed. We just pour into the family and household, not each other.
I’m craving connection so bad. But I’m so tired of looking for it in the same place that I’m pulling my feelings back and I’m just getting to the point I don’t care. Like I don’t even want his affection anymore. He’s an amazing partner with the kids and home and he isn’t lazy, super reliable, he just doesn’t pour into ME romantically. Like we’re just really good room mates.
Here’s the thing though, I have zero interest in separating or us living in different homes and splitting our family up. I love our family. It’s just, me and him are not really connecting anymore. It feels like just friendship. Am I just co dependent on the relationship and family roles? We’ve been together my whole adult life so it’s all I know. I have no interest in starting over with someone else but I find myself so jealous of people who are insanely in love and obsessed with each other. That’s just not what we have. Or is this what all relationships become eventually 😔
TL;DR- am I lucky to have an equal partner and just over reacting over the little stuff?
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2024.06.01 14:02 RLEsportsMods Best of r/RocketLeagueEsports - May 2024

Hello everyone. Action on and off the pitch battled for headlines as the Major 2 qualifiers rolled on This is the Best of RocketLeagueEsports for May 2024

What is this?

These monthly posts will serve two purposes throughout the year:
The hope is that come the Year End Subreddit Awards, the material curated here both by the moderators and the community itself can be useful during the nominations process, as it's easier for users to recall remarkable posts/comments from January in the first week of February, instead of the last week of December.
And if the subreddit awards don't interest you, at least these posts can serve to be a nice time capsule for this community going forward!

How is stuff curated here?

While we're open to changing what us mods curate here, initially we will curate the following:

Best of RocketLeagueEsports - May 2024

The Top Submissions:
  1. All POVs of NiP's absurd kickoff strategy vs Complexity
  2. Following the clip of NWPO being racist in a Discord call, R1 release their roster.
  3. Arsenal on nwpo's apology.
  4. Retals' Day 1 Open Qualifier Heatmap
  5. G2 freestyling in a RLCS match like its a plat lobby
The Best General/Discussions Threads:
  1. Werty pleads to Psyonix on the current state of SSA RLCS
  2. Squishy's view on RLCS format after *spoilers* in EU Open Qualifier 5
  3. This weekend‘s discussions in a nutshell
  4. With online play (mostly) over and 107 days until the world championship begins, Feer questions if teams can maintain their form shown thus far in the season
  5. LGs Broadcast Producer tweets out a thread talking about the current RLCS format and bringing back league play
Top Goals/Plays of the Month
  1. All POVs of NiP's absurd kickoff strategy vs Complexity
  2. G2 freestyling in a RLCS match like its a plat lobby
  3. 2 of the goals Dark scored this weekend in the RLCS MENA
  4. Beastmode keeps getting away with it
  5. Kofyr uses two flip resets to turn an unscorable angle into an insane goal for Lil Step Bros
Top Comments of the Month
  1. u/GrowImonDrgnButt points out the flaws in NWPO's apology
  2. u/spooki_boogey expresses sympathy for Rule One
  3. u/vivst0r is offended because they are in fact perfect
  4. u/woliwoliwoli speculates on a potential 2 time ban
  5. u/WhatIsSentience appreciates the rise off kickoff strategies
  6. u/coolcole93 makes it into a meme and goes on a date
  7. u/caronfirenodriver on VKSailen trash talking Atow
  8. u/s_mkt comments on Marc_by_8's chair
  9. u/_should_not_post lists the most disrespectful moments in RLEsports history
  10. u/SilverSage16 summarizes Karmine Corp's major odds
Best Live Event Thread Comments of the Month
  1. u/Zinedine_Tzigane with an appropriate assessment of the early stages of the EU Qualifier
  2. u/TheRetroCrowe takes aim at the "Joyo is overrated" narrative
  3. u/Waterpalolegend predicts Johnnyboi's power rankings after KC lose
  4. u/S_h_u_n with an appropriate reaction to Suhhh's record vs KCorp
  5. u/Candyyyyyyy shares a legitimate graph of Retals' accolades

How You Can Contribute!

The posts and comments linked above are not meant to act like the actual best of the best this month, just a guide based on upvotes. The actual best of RocketLeagueEsports is where you guys come in.
Be sure to comment below your standout and memorable posts and comments from February. Discussion prompts, shitposts, image comments, standout predictions, memes, or even appreciation for certain users, anything that would fit into the year-end subreddit awards we want to see it below, or even just a discussion about the past month on this subreddit.
-RocketLeagueEsports Mods
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2024.06.01 14:02 Alternative-Annual-6 I'm having some trouble with the language change, I need help

Hello there!
First and foremost, sorry if I f*** up my explanation as english ain't my mother tongue.
I've been trying for some time now to play Fallout 4 with the storywealth mods from nexus, I had no trouble on that part except for the language part. The mods are (obviously) full english and I have no trouble with that, having a good (for a french) understanding of it. Problem is that when I first installed the game, it was in French (yes the VA is shit). I tried turning it into english after that (while mods where installed) but it seems to only work partially, I get the pre launch menu in english when I start the game normally (the one with graphics option, not the main one allowing you to start the game), but when I go to to the main one and to the game after that (using storywealth or launching it naturally), Everything is back to french and the voicelines from the beginning of the game are absent (codesworth in the living room, baby crate and all of those, I have the news journal tho and after that everything is back to normal). My problem is that it seems to cause minor but very frustrating waypoint bugs at random quests (from the original game or from the Storywealth mod), causing them to simply not appear anywhere else but the pip-boy map. I've tried with or without the mods, I tried reinstalling the game after having deleted it, I tried deleting, flushing the remaining files and reinstalling, but that problem persist, I've even destroyed all my save files (not a problem since I intended in doing a new game from scratch) and nothing worked.
If someone has a solution, I'd be glad to know because I couldn't find anything on the internet.
Some intell if that can help:
-I have the game on steam, with cloud sync activated and up to date
-Before reinstalling the game recently, I hadn't played it since a short while after the nuka world expansion
-The bug is present with or without the mods
Feel free to ask me questions if I forgot something, I really need the help as the game doesn't want to cooperate properly wich kinda ruins the expertience tbh
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2024.06.01 14:01 AutoModerator Vechain Daily Discussion - June 01, 2024

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2024.06.01 14:01 Secret-Property5498 Breaking free from your narcissistic parent as an adult child (long)

Hello Dr. K and the HealthyGamer community,
I am seeking advice, support, and insights on how to emotionally separate and individuate from my parents later in life, which I should have done much earlier. The adult part of me knows what I need to do, but there's also a part of me that is frightened. Let me give you a snapshot of my life trajectory. The story is long, but I want to provide as much context as possible. If you prefer a short summary of my dilemma, please skip to the last paragraph. Otherwise, here is my life story:
I grew up in a well-to-do family in an East Asian country. My parents had me in their early 20s, just as their business began to flourish during the 'boom years.' Both came from very broken families. My mother experienced poverty, abuse, and neglect from her parents (she did not speak to her dad until he died and almost never acknowledges her mother). My father was the least favorite child in his family of three, dropped out of high school, ended up on the streets, and, as I learned a few years ago, was later imprisoned for fighting. My parents met when my mother was 19 and my father 21, ran away together, and built a very successful business in their early to mid-20s, becoming incredibly wealthy in a generally poor society.
Although we were affluent, my parents were never around. I started boarding at age 3 and spent most of my time outside school with my paternal grandparents and occasionally my maternal grandmother. My parents fought a lot. My mother once threatened to take me away and drove off with me with no specific destination. At one point, she told me she was divorcing my father, and we moved into another apartment for a day before returning home. She emotionally smothered me, saying she would die for me and that no one would love me as much as she did. She also hit me often over small things, sometimes in public. I thought she was better than my father, who, according to her, would remarry quickly if she left or died, subjecting me to abuse from an evil stepmother.
Despite our wealth, my mother took me out of an international school after six months and sent me to a state school known for being strict and militant. I was a 'good, smart kid' in primary school, but around age 12 or 13, I became very depressed and felt life had no purpose. I failed almost all my subjects except History and started drinking, influenced by my father's heavy drinking and a culture that tolerated alcoholism.
Then something happened that saved me in retrospect. My family emigrated to an Anglophone New World country, and I went to another boarding school. Despite experiencing racism and feeling self-conscious about my appearance, I improved academically and, by years 12 and 13, was among the best students. Between ages 13-18, I saw my father rarely, perhaps once or twice a year. My mother visited periodically, and they bought a house near the school, where I lived mostly alone. Like many first-generation immigrant kids, I handled most family matters because my parents couldn't speak English.
When it was time for university, I wanted to study law and politics at the local public university, but my father insisted I go to the UK or the US, believing a degree from the local university would not lead to a good job. He also prevented me from taking a gap year. I regret not leaving home to get a job. I applied to many universities and chose the worst-ranked one in London because I wanted to be in the city.
University was eye-opening. I discovered Europe and realized the world was much bigger than the conformist, conservative East Asian country and backwater suburbs I knew. However, my degree didn't prepare me for life, and my emotionally underdeveloped state made me miserable in adult relationships. I chose emotionally distant or abusive friends, hurt people who liked me, and did no internships or travel because I was expected to help my family during holidays. I wanted to stay in London, looked for random jobs, but had no life skills or work experience. Eventually, I returned to East Asia.
By then, my father had moved to a more cosmopolitan East Asian city, living extravagantly. I interned at a fancy company for almost a year, hoping for a job offer that never came. I soon found a job in brand consulting and finally started earning money at 23. I had a relationship with an older woman, but I was still emotionally detached. I tried freelancing, learned to impress others, and almost made enough to support myself, but I was fundamentally lost and unhappy. I experienced my first depressive episode and decided to return to London for a Master's degree. My father agreed to fund my education.
That year was the happiest of my life. I loved university, research, and being with smart, nerdy people. I met an intelligent, caring, and beautiful woman, and we moved in together. I discovered more fulfilling ways to live and found that success didn't mean working for an investment bank or being rich. I wanted to be an academic, applied for a PhD, and got in after two attempts.
Academia wasn't all rosy. The work conditions were awful, and the publish-or-perish mentality sucked the joy out of research. I loved teaching but quickly learned it mattered little at a 'research university.' I gained weight, my relationship deteriorated, arguments turned physical, and I felt worthless. The pandemic made things worse, and I felt I needed to radically change my life. My solution was to become the person my family wanted: filial, loyal, and rich. I was ready to abandon my life in London and move back to East Asia to 'stop being a loser.'
I returned home, trying to fix my family and shower them with love. I interned at a VC firm, but it clashed with my values, and I cried every day at work. I broke up with my girlfriend for someone with no emotional attachment, leading to great sex but zero intimacy. Within three months, I was broke, living in a short-term rental, and eating unhealthily. Fortunately, I had a therapist, a good friend in Shanghai, and my girlfriend gave me a second chance. I realized my family's emotional neglect contributed to my unhappiness and depression. I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and medicated, which helped me move out of paralysis. I confronted my family about their past actions and my diagnosis. My mother reacted poorly, calling me names and accusing me of being a horrible son. This ordeal made me realize I needed to break away from them. What I threw away in London was actually the most valuable: a career, a family, my identity.
After confronting my mother that year, she vowed never to see me again. However, 6-8 months later, she sent me a large sum of money for my birthday. I let her back into my life, partly for financial help but also seeking proof of their love and acceptance. Things improved initially, but soon she started complaining about mistreatment by my partner. Then, my parents promised to buy me a flat and pressured me to get married. I accepted the flat for stability and freedom, ignoring their past behavior. Predictably, the flat became a tool for my mother to control me. She threatened to sue me if my girlfriend moved in and disputed the flat's ownership just weeks before the move-in date. I have a demanding job and spend much of my day dealing with this situation, processing the emotional toll of my mother's actions. I feel unsafe, violated, and confused. I hear a voice telling me this is all my fault and that I'm too weak. I know what I need to do cognitively, but emotionally I'm paralyzed. Do you understand what I mean? What would you do?
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2024.06.01 14:00 romanoffmyself My little brother found the family photo album

I don't even know where to start with this one. I (17M) live with my mom (42F) and dad (45M) as well as my little brother (7M) who we'll call Chris.
Chris is adopted. His mom was my mom's best friend, and her and her husband passed away not long after he was born due to a car accident. My mom was his godmother, and took him in as her own. This was known to me since I was old enough to remember when he got adopted, but Chris wasn't, and he still isn't aware.
I was doing my homework the other night, and realised I was hungry. It was around midnight so I thought no one would be up, and decided to head to the kitchen. To my surprise, Chris was sitting on the floor reading a book in the living room. I came over and asked what he was doing up, and he looked up at me and told me he found a photo album in mom's drawers while looking for his sleeping gummies. He'd had a nightmare and didn't want to wake her, so thought he'd just grab some of his gummies and try and head back to sleep. He begged me not to tell mom or dad he was awake, and asked if he could look at the photos for just a little longer. I felt a little guilty, since I don't get a lot of time with him, so I selfishly let him stay up a while. I figured the photos would give him some positive memories and would give him something better to think about when he went back to bed.
We went to a random page in the book and it was a little before I was born, and they were photos of my mom. She looked beautiful, but I noticed she wasn't showing very much of a bump. Considering my mom is Korean and I know her mother didn't show much either, I figured it must've just been the photo and the dress she was wearing, or maybe the way she was turned from the camera. She was painting something and smiling at the camera, and the photo had a date from a few months before I was born. However, the further I looked, the more it seemed like she just wasn't pregnant at all. She never started showing, even days before I was born. Not only that, but there were no signs of her being pregnant in a celebratory sense, no baby showers, no artistic photos of my dad holding her stomach, nothing. This is bizarre because my parents are both quite artistic and expressive, my mom's a painter and my dad's an ex musician, so I assumed there would be pretty expressive photos of her pregnancy. But nope, nothing. Okay, so I'm adopted. Honestly not an awful surprise but still bizarre that this is how I found out. I got to the day of my birth in the album and I felt my jaw drop.
It was my mom in the hospital. She was holding me in a bundle of blankets, smiling cheerfully. Okay, so I'm not adopted, then what's the deal? But then I notice something. My mom is fully dressed, in her favourite sundress with her makeup and hair done. She doesn't look like a woman who's just given birth at all! However, as I go further through the photos I notice something stranger. There's a photo of another man holding me, right above another photo of a woman laying down, holding me with a smile. It's my aunt and uncle.
For a little backstory, my aunt, who we'll call Mina (46F) and my uncle, Gabriel (44M) are from my dad's side of the family. Gabriel is my dad's brother, and Mina's his wife. When I was 15, we met with my aunt and uncle, as well as my dad's parents, for Chuseok, a Korean holiday (My dad is Korean too). My parents told me this would be my first time meeting my aunt and uncle. However, when they walked in the room, I realised I had seen my aunt before. I couldn't really place it, but I brought it up to them. They all tried to brush it off and not talk about it, and my aunt kept giving me this weird, sad look. And she gave someone else the same sort of look: my mom.
I was in shock. My aunt was clearly the one in the photo who had given birth. The next few photos were of my parents with Mina and I, holding her close and cooing at me, etc. I kept going through and Mina and Gabriel seemed to be so present. They were there all the way until I was about 5, at which point they seemed to disappear from the photos. After a while my mom came in and I shoved the album under the coffee table. I told her to go back to bed and that I'd settle Chris down myself. She sleepily agreed and didn't argue, and went off to bed without another word. I put my brother to bed, and when I came out to the living room, my dad was there. He said he had just come home from my Uncle Gabriel's, that he'd had to stop by work to drop one of the keys off that he accidentally pocketed, and that my Uncle had texted that he was up and wanted to see if my dad wanted to stop on by. This isn't uncommon. My dad and I talked. I didn't mention what I'd found, but I implied he and mom hid a lot of things from me. He seemed to catch on that I'd found something, telling me we can discuss it over lunch tomorrow before his meeting, and then he went to bed. I'm so confused! Why would my parents hide this from me? Are they my parents? Are they actually my aunt and uncle? I don't know what to do! I guess I'll update this when I talk to my dad, but I'm still so confused. Thanks for letting me vent, and sorry if this is a mess.
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2024.06.01 13:57 SubstantialTale4012 Sarah Sherman announces tour dates.

The tour starts June 8th and goes until August 24th. No word on whether or not Chucky will appear.https://www.nbc.com/nbc-insidesarah-sherman-tour-dates-live-in-the-flesh-tickets
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2024.06.01 13:57 BestKirby How do you even start to heal?

These days I have shit days and almost ok days though those are a lot more rare. Today is a shit day and I need to get this out of my head.
Everyone tells me to move on and that I'll meet someone new eventually but how am I ever meant to move on from things when her reason for ending it was that she didn't want a relationship right now? We'd met on a dating app and both wanted a long term relationship at the time. I'd honestly rather she'd said something hurtful, something critical, something I can understand as a reason for not wanting someone anymore. Tell me you hate me, tell me it's me, tell me I'm not good enough. Don't tell me we would be a great couple but it's not what you want right now.
For the first time in 32 years I felt like I had found someone that I could actually connect with. She knew me well enough in 6 months to read me like a book, better than anyone I'd been "close friends with" for over 2 decades. For the first time in my entire life I felt seen, understood and most importantly wanted. I didnt come from a wonderful home so I didn't even feel that from my own family.
How can I imagine ever moving on when I don't even have any negative feelings towards her? There was nothing I didn't like. Sure she had her own issues but they made her who she is. I saw them and they didn't matter to me. None of them were "deal breakers" or things I couldn't see passed. Everyone has flaws, hers were part of what made her beautiful.
We shared every interest I have and now that she no longer wants to be with me I can't even escape the thoughts of her no matter what I try.
We gamed together. We played boardgames together, we played tabletop games together, she read the same novels, she used to be involved in publishing and writing while living in the UK. She lived in Japan and enjoyed anime. She watched the same series, enjoyed the same memes. I feel like I can't do anything to escape the thought of her and it just hurts. I feel like I have nothing anymore. She even worked in IT. Mental health? She had similar diagnoses to me so I can't even involve myself with that without thinking about her.
The social activities and geeky things around town that I felt comfortable enough to engage with and start dipping my toes into the water in the social scene? Guess who is already a big part of that?
Now I get to live with feeling that someone that understood me to that degree rejected that, that understood so much about who I really am and decided that wasn't what they wanted "right now".
How do I move on when every part of who I am/was just reminds me of her? One of the last things she said to me when we broke up was "If I could feel what you feel, I would. We’d be such a great couple. I hate that I don’t." How do you move on when someone you were falling in love with acknowledges that you'd be great together but doesn't want you anymore? Maybe she was just trying to be kind and let me down easier but this isn't working for me. I honestly feel like the only way forward is to change who I fundamentally am. How am I ever meant to deal with this pain if everything I enjoy that should take my mind off her just reminds me of what I lost?
When people tell me I'll heal in time, maybe, but why would I ever think that this kind of thing won't just happen again? I feel discarded and unwanted. I feel hopeless. Why should I continue to fight this when it's just going to happen again? If the only person that I connected with to that degree doesn't want to be with me then how am I ever meant to believe that it won't just be exactly the same with "the next" person if I'm even ever able to get there?
Everytime I get a notification I hope it's her, even though I know it's not and that I was the one that said I needed to go no contact as I can't handle just being friends and watching from the sidelines. I want her to be happy more than anything else but it would legitimately kill me to see her flourishing in a relationship with someone else. I know she probably will and I hope she finds happiness but I can't be around to see it. I see her smile everytime I close my eyes. I remember how happy it made me to make her laugh. I remember supporting her when she was going through tough times and her telling me how lovely it was to not feel judged and that she didn't have to mask around me.
My world has been crumbling around me and those I thought I was close to before have shown me that the other connections I thought I had are shallow and superficial. In the weeks I've been like this, only one person has actually reached out and tried to be supportive. I know that it's a two way street but I just can't deal with this much longer. I feel so absolutely alone and trapped with my thoughts with no outlet that doesn't just amplify the pain. I feel like I have no real connections and only came to realise that now. When friends tell me that things like I'll heal or it will be ok all I can see is hallow platitudes meant to make them feel like they're helping.
I'm not ok. Don't tell me it will be ok.
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2024.06.01 13:56 Katladi25 My (30F) Mom (46) boyfriend since 2019, who we’ve never met is moving in.

Just as the title says. I want to start out by saying I do live with my mom along with one of my brothers (19). My mom and I split the bills evenly and I work full time. My mom got divorced back in 2013 to my step dad, before then my mom and I never had a healthy relationship, she always chose her husband and their sons( half brothers) over me. I was in and out of the house living with either friends or grandparents. After the divorce we reconnected and have been getting along since then. Fast forward to now, last night after I got off work she told me she was going out with her boyfriend. I was like okay cool have fun then she told me he was going back to Mexico( where he’s from) & when he gets back she’s going to get married and move her boyfriend and his son in. I was shocked but didn’t say anything after. I want to add that since they’ve been dating my brothers and I never met him not once. We know his name and that’s it. He’s been invited to many dinners and family functions and will ghost my mom or say he’s scared of my brothers “beating him up.” They also NEVER spend time together, maybe like once every five months and they live in the same town. I told her that was weird and she replies “that’s an adult relationship.” I disagree. I know that yes, I can move out, which will take a bit of time for me to gather money to do so but I will do it. I also know one of my brothers (19) that lives with me and my mom will want to leave as well and I’m more than happy for him to live with me & before I get any hate in living with my mom in my 30s, I want to add we’re Mexican and living with parents until marriage is the norm, along with other reasons I chose to stay. The other two brothers (26) & (28) live on their own. I spoke with them and they also said it was very odd but that I can’t do anything about it. I want my mom to be happy but I just find this very odd and I have bad feelings about this.. even if I was on my own I’d still have these feelings. Despite her being independent when she’s with a man she always follows the man’s lead even at the cost of her children, atleast that’s how it was for me growing up. He has three more children he wants to bring and move in with my mom. We don’t have enough room for them, we live in a three bedroom two bath single wide. Years ago she mentioned this when we lived in another house and wanted to move him and all his children in and my brother was still in highschool so she didn’t do that but know that’s their goal. I just want to know if I’m over reacting? I want her to be happy but there’s so many red flags, atleast to me. How do I bring this up to her without sounding like I’m being selfish?
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2024.06.01 13:56 genericusername1904 H.G. WELLS’S, THE SHAPE OF THINGS TO COME (1933) VS. 1984 AND BRAVE NEW WORLD

H.G. WELLS’S, THE SHAPE OF THINGS TO COME (1933) VS. 1984 AND BRAVE NEW WORLD

ID, IX. MAIORES. V, CAL. IUNI. FORTUNA PRIMIGENIA.

I discovered this book by complete chance last year – a very old hardback copy was given to me as gift (in a situation which was certainly weighted with the most unlikely of synchronicities), “huh,” I thought, “it’s a first edition of H.G. Wells,” the book itself almost cannot be opened because it is so old and falling apart so I procured a text and audio file of the thing relatively easily and began to read. In hindsight not only for myself but I fancy for the generations of the last fifty years - in all totality, it is deeply strange that this book has not been more widely recognized or taught in schools, as like 1984 and Brave New World, as being the third contender (although technically the second, published one year after Huxley – seemingly written at the same time interestingly enough) in “visions of dystopia” – except that the book is not so much a vision of dystopia tomorrow but a vision of dystopia ‘today’ or rather ‘life as we know it’ of the 19th, 20th and 21st Centuries (endless war, endless pandemics, economic and logistic chaos), narrated from the comfortable and reassuring position of a society far far in the future who have long since revised their culture and solved all of the causes of the problems and become a society of genius polymaths “with (every Man and Woman) the intellectual equal of the polymaths of the ancient world.”
Now, I do not mean here to seem to ‘sweet-talk’ the reader into rushing out and buying this book or to hold it up in the manner of those other books as if it were some ideological blueprint but instead to assay the thing in the natural context which seems to me to be universally unrealized and which presents itself to us as a thing which is plainly self-evident, that is: that in the depressing and miserable dichotomy of 1984 and Brave New World; two extremely atomizing and miserable narratives, that there is also – far more empowering – The Shape Of Things To Come wherein the miserable protagony and antagony of both 1984 and Brave New World might read as merely a footnote somewhere in the middle of the book as an example of the witless measures mankinds old master undertook to preserve their power in an untenable circumstance. In other words, we know all about 1984 as children; we have this drummed into our heads and we glean our cultural comprehension that dictators cannot be cliques of business people but only lone individuals, usually in military uniform, and then we graduate from that to Brave New World to gain a more sophisticated comprehension of the feckless consumerism and ‘passive egoism’ by which our society actually operates, but then we do not – as I argue we ought – continue along in our education with this third book which actually addresses the matters at hand at a more adult level.
For instance, here, from ‘The Breakdown Of Finance And Social Morale After Versailles’ (Book One, Chapter Twelve) addresses in a single paragraph the cause of our continual economic chaos (of which all crime and poverty and war originates from) and highlights the problem from which this chaos cannot be resolved yet could easily be resolved, “adjustment was left to blind and ill-estimated forces,” “manifestly, a dramatic revision of the liberties of enterprise was necessary, but the enterprising people who controlled politics (would be) the very last people to undertake such a revision,”

…the expansion of productive energy was being accompanied by a positive contraction of the distributive arrangements which determined consumption. The more efficient the output, the fewer were the wages-earners. The more stuff there was, the fewer consumers there were. The fewer the consumers, the smaller the trading profits, and the less the gross spending power of the shareholders and individual entrepreneurs. So buying dwindled at both ends of the process and the common investor suffered with the wages- earner. This was the "Paradox of Overproduction" which so troubled the writers and journalists of the third decade of the twentieth century.

It is easy for the young student to-day to ask "Why did they not adjust?" But let him ask himself who there was to adjust. Our modern superstructure of applied economic science, the David Lubin Bureau and the General Directors' Board, with its vast recording organization, its hundreds of thousands of stations and observers, directing, adjusting, apportioning and distributing, had not even begun to exist. Adjustment was left to blind and ill-estimated forces. It was the general interest of mankind to be prosperous, but it was nobody's particular interest to keep affairs in a frame of prosperity. Manifestly a dramatic revision of the liberties of enterprise was necessary, but the enterprising people who controlled politics, so far as political life was controlled, were the very last people to undertake such a revision.

There is a clever metaphor I fancy that Wells worked in to this for the ‘actual’ defacto controlling class of things, that is: not really the politicians (sorry to disappoint the Orwell and conspiracy fans) but instead the ‘Dictatorship of the Air’ which might easily read as the ‘Dictatorship of the Airwaves’ – in colloquial language, that being radio and then television. Certainly we might imagine Rupert Murdoch or Ted Turner or Sumner Redstone (of yesterday) entering into honourable retirement as like the ‘dictators of the air’ of the very last days before the establishment of a one world state – in any case that is how things would work out, as the power of, say, Ted Turner to eradicate a political party in the United States – at any time he wishes – by simply green-lighting coverage of their bad actions relentlessly for months until revolution occurs is a real power of which no other institution possesses nor possesses any means of defence against, i.e. the ‘real power’ in our world to end a war or begin or war or end this or begin that is that power held by the organized press. This metaphor is somewhat of a more mature view, I think, than Wells earlier conception of the press in The Sleeper Awakes (1899) where the press of a dystopian future is visualized as a “babble machine” spreading circular nonsense to preoccupy the citizenry (although this is arguably a true representation of the mental processes of the Twitter and Facebook user, or of the general baby-speak and extremely infantile form of the news reports on the front page of the BBC News website) which is more or less what the press depicted as being in Brave New World also.
However the construction of sudden new realities (or sudden ‘actualities’) presented by the equation of interdependent technological innovations (i.e. the radio and the television in this instance) is mentioned early on in The Shape Of Things To Come in ‘How The Idea And Hope Of The Modern World State First Appeared’ (Book One, Chapter Two),

The fruitlessness of all these premature inventions is very easily explained. First in the case of the Transatlantic passage; either the earlier navigators who got to America never got back, or, if they did get back, they were unable to find the necessary support and means to go again before they died, or they had had enough of hardship, or they perished in a second attempt. Their stories were distorted into fantastic legends and substantially disbelieved. It was, indeed, a quite futile adventure to get to America until the keeled sailing ship, the science of navigation, and the mariner's compass had been added to human resources. (Then), in the matter of printing, it was only when the Chinese had developed the systematic manufacture of abundant cheap paper sheets in standard sizes that the printed book—and its consequent release of knowledge—became practically possible. Finally the delay in the attainment of flying was inevitable because before men could progress beyond precarious gliding it was necessary for metallurgy to reach a point at which the internal combustion engine could be made. Until then they could build nothing strong enough and light enough to battle with the eddies of the air.

In an exactly parallel manner, the conception of one single human community organized for collective service to the common weal had to wait until the rapid evolution of the means of communication could arrest and promise to defeat the disintegrative influence of geographical separation. That rapid evolution came at last in the nineteenth century, and it has been described already in a preceding chapter of this world history. Steam power, oil power, electric power, the railway, the steamship, the aeroplane, transmission by wire and aerial transmission followed each other very rapidly. They knit together the human species as it had never been knit before. Insensibly, in less than a century, the utterly impracticable became not merely a possible adjustment but an urgently necessary adjustment if civilization was to continue.

In other words, then, a global state (or, rather, such power in general held by the press as I see the analogy extending to them as being the ‘Dictatorship of the Airwaves’) was impossible to imagine and completely laughable before the technologies had stacked together to reveal as like in a simple piece of arithmetic which produced a single outcome of the equation; that no sooner had the technologies existed then the thing had become an actual reality – in that 1) unassailable political power had been unthinkingly dropped into the lap of the owners of the press, but that more importantly as consequence that therefore 2) mankind was subject to that power, that is: the situation existed the moment the technologies did – and this whether any living person had even realized it, as I think quite naturally all the time Men and Women invent things that they really have no notion of the fullest or most optimal uses of (“nothing is needed by fools, for: they do not understand how to use anything but are in want of everything,” Chrysippus), e.g. in no metaphor the television was quite literally invented as a ‘ghost box’ to commune with ghosts imagined to reveal themselves by manipulating the black and white of the static until someone else had the idea that there was at least one other use for that contraption.
It is quite strange, also, that in contemporary times we have for ages been heavily propagandized ‘against’ the idea of a “one world state” as if, say, all the crimes and fecklessness that have gone on in our lifetimes are somehow secretly building towards the creation of such a thing – not a thing you would naturally conclude from an observation of those events nor a thing advocated for by anybody (insofar as I have ever heard) but it is a thing which would be the first logical response to ‘preventing’ such crimes from ever occurring again – such as like the already widely practiced concept of a Senate-Style Federation of Sovereign States rather than a hundred or so mutually antagonistic polities capable of bombing themselves or screwing up their economies and creating waves of refugees or mass starvation or pandemics, and so on. For instance, All Egypt is dependent on the flow of the Nile which originates in what is today another country, that other country recently decimated the flow of the Nile by gumming up the Nile with a Hydroelectric Dam; such an outcome would not occur if the total mass of the land itself was governed as the single interconnected economic and environmental system that it is in physical reality of which, when divided along arbitrary borderlines, there is no means to govern the entirety of the region in an amicable and prosperous manner for all as a whole and no recourse to the otherwise intolerable situation but War which is unlikely to occur – as most Nations are comprised of civilized peoples who rightly loath the concept of War – but it is the single and unavoidable outcome to resolve such a situation until that situation has dragged on for decades, causing immense suffering, until it reaches that point of desperation – the matter of Palestine and Israel, fresh to my mind in these days, raises itself also.
Of the matter of War itself, in ‘The Direct Action Of The Armament Industries In Maintaining War Stresses’ (Book One, Chapter Eleven), Wells relays in 1933 what United States President Eisenhower would later remark in 1961 in his farewell address of the dangers of the Military Industrial Complex; albeit far more analytically on Wells part, that: it is not so much the ‘desire to harm’ on the part of the armament industries which sees them engage in unnecessary build-up of weapons stockpiles but that it is simply their business to produce, to stockpile, produce more deadly variants and stockpile the more deadly variants and sell off their old stockpiles to whomsoever rings their doorbell; for instance the on-going War in Ukraine is no different in this regard to the Viet Cong and NATO Warfare in Vietnam in that massive quantiles of cheap munitions were necessary for the war to be fought in the first place and massive quantities of munitions happened to exist as a by-product of the Armaments Industries to be dumped onto the warring parties in order to facilitate their macabre impulses at the expense of the citizenry; both at their cost in terms of the debt taken on to procure the weaponry on the part of their governments and in terms of their lives when the weaponry was unused to the outcome of massive loss of life of a single peoples within a bordered space – a thing of no value to themselves. Simply put, albeit in a very simplistic reduction to the bare basics: the War would not reached such catastrophic inhuman proportions without massive quantities of cheap Armaments that otherwise sat taking up warehouse space for more valuable Armaments on the part of the producer and seller.

In a perpetual progress in the size and range of great guns, in a vast expansion of battleships that were continually scrapped in favour of larger or more elaborate models, (Armament Firms) found a most important and inexhaustible field of profit. The governments of the world were taken unawares, and in a little while the industry, by sound and accepted methods of salesmanship, was able to impose its novelties upon these ancient institutions with their tradition of implacable mutual antagonism. It was realized very soon that any decay of patriotism and loyalty would be inimical to this great system of profits, and the selling branch of the industry either bought directly or contrived to control most of the great newspapers of the time, and exercised a watchful vigilance on the teaching of belligerence in schools. Following the established rules and usages for a marketing industrialism, and with little thought of any consequences but profits, the directors of these huge concerns built up the new warfare that found its first exposition in the Great War of 1914-18, and gave its last desperate and frightful convulsions in the Polish wars of 1940 and the subsequent decades.

Even at its outset in 1914-18 this new warfare was extraordinarily uncongenial to humanity. It did not even satisfy man's normal combative instincts. What an angry man wants to do is to beat and bash another living being, not to be shot at from ten miles distance or poisoned in a hole. Instead of drinking delight of battle with their peers, men tasted all the indiscriminating terror of an earthquake. The war literature stored at Atacama, to which we have already referred, is full of futile protest against the horror, the unsportsmanlike quality, the casual filthiness and indecency, the mechanical disregard of human dignity of the new tactics. But such protest itself was necessarily futile, because it did not go on to a clear indictment of the forces that were making, sustaining and distorting war. The child howled and wept and they did not even attempt to see what it was had tormented it.

To us nowadays it seems insane that profit-making individuals and companies should have been allowed to manufacture weapons and sell the apparatus of murder to all comers. But to the man of the late nineteenth and early twentieth centuries it seemed the most natural thing in the world. It had grown up in an entirely logical and necessary way, without any restraint upon the normal marketing methods of peace-time commerce, from the continually more extensive application of new industrial products to warfare. Even after the World War catastrophe, after that complete demonstration of the futility of war, men still allowed themselves to be herded like sheep into the barracks, to be trained to consume, and be consumed, by new lines of slaughter goods produced and marketed by the still active armament traders. And the accumulation of a still greater and still more dangerous mass of war material continued.

The book is, if the reader has likely already gathered from the excerpts, not written in the style of a protagonal narrative; i.e. not as a story, i.e. no hero and no villain, but as a sort of a Historia Augusta – that is really the most fitting comparison I think of when trying to describe this to a new reader (or perhaps J.J. Scarisbrick’s Henry VIII), that is to say it is written ‘as’ a History in the classical style we are familiar with from the better of the ancient writers, as like Appian or Cassius Dio, but unlike Suetonius or Tacitus it is absent of the sloppy hinging of all bad things on the highly personalized propaganda ad hominem (i.e. blame the fall of empire on one guy) that goes in those narrative works as we are typically familiar with them.
It is, of course, a work a fiction; although Wells did predict World War Two beginning in late 1939-1940 (although he had Poland putting up much better and longer of a fight against the Germans) and various other innovations, beginning from his own day with a true account of events prior to his own day – giving us a valuable account of affairs and actors prior to 1933 which would otherwise not come easily to any of us to discover. But the book, ultimately, is vehicle for the transmission and discussion of these societal (i.e. social, economic, industrial, logistic) matters presented to the audience of the day fresh, in their own minds, from the abject horror recently witnessed in World War One – and the economic catastrophes of which Roosevelts reforms had not yet come into tangible reality (i.e. relief for the poor, public works projects such as the motorways across America) as is discussed in that other seemingly little known H.G. Wells literary offering in his face-to-face interview with Josef Stalin the following year in 1934 (something which I think is of far more historical value than say, Nixon and Frost or Prince Andrew and Emily Maitlis), so as to ‘avert’ another crisis and pluck from the ether a seemingly alternate trajectory of where Mankind might at last get its act together. This ‘novel’ (thought it seems strange to call it that) ought be read, I would advise, in conjunction with ‘The Sleeper Awakes’ (1899) and also the (actually very depressing – I would not advise it) short-story prequel ‘A Story Of The Days To Come’ (1897) – set in that same universe – which, perhaps it is because I am English, seems to me to be a black horror show of the reality that we actually find ourselves living in this far into an actually dystopic future – or perhaps yet with the ‘strange windmills’ powering the mega cities that this a future yet to come (no pun intended); the broken speech, the babble machines, the miserable condition of the Working Class and their consumption of pre-packaged soft bread, the desire to flee the urban sprawl into the dilapidated countryside and make a little life in a run-down house with tacky wallpaper peeling away … ah, forgive me, my point is that ‘our condition’; i.e. those of us literate in English, is quite analogous to the condition of the central characters in those two stories; a culture dulled intellectually to the point that they can barely speak or think, being appraised and assayed by ourselves; those of us simply literate, as to render our commentary stuck as to seem as mutually alien as like Caesar in Gaul. However, it is in the context of the frame given to us in ‘The Shape Of Things To Come’ that we might gain a degree of sanity about this self-same situation; to study and lean into that dispassionate quality as to discern the nature of things as they are and recognize how important this quality is in relation to Well’s ultimate outcome for the best possible position of Humankind far far future, that is: that of Humankind’s vital intellectual capacity, and that the most striking message of STC, beyond all we have mentioned in this little overview, is that intellectual capacity in and of itself.
For example, when we consider the ‘actuality’ of the power of Turner or perhaps Zuckerberg in his heyday, for instance, we consider a power fallen into a Mans lap by an accidental stacking of disparate technologies created not by himself but of which possess a power utterly dependent in that same equation upon on a population being ‘witless’ in the first place and so led slavishly by the “babble machines”. However you cut it, reader, the great uplifting of Humankind to a standard of autonomy and intellectual prowess – not held by an elite but possessed by All People – is a thing both intrinsically self-sufficient within our grasp for our own selves and is certainly the prerequisite for political matters in that intellectual capacity of the voting public determines entirely whether a public is tricked or foolish and gets themselves into trouble by undertaking some obvious error or whether they are immune to such trickery and foolishness in the first place and that their energies and time are spent on more valuable pursuits. It seems to me that our contemporary society has done away with the notion of good character through intellect and that we live with the outcome of this; being shepherded by emotional manipulation and brute force because our society at large is treated as if we lacked the verbal and intellectual toolsets to understand anything else – moreover possessing no means to discern whether or not what is forced onto us is right or wrong; truth or lies, and so on. Such a society as this, again it seems plain to me, is ‘any’ dystopia because it is the baseline composition for ‘all’ dystopia; as like the foolish dogma of an out-dated ideology for example rests itself upon a large enough contingent of the public being either treated as if they were or in fact are “too foolish” to discuss or think a thing through, so a dogma is poured over them like concrete creating, in turn, intolerable circumstances as the dogma, tomorrow, becomes out-dated and suddenly instructs them to do foolish things, as like in the “Banality Of Evil” (read: Hannah Arendt) as the character in all serious perpetrators of inhumanity who insist, with a confused expression on their faces, that they were just doing their job – and this ‘quality’, of extreme ignorance, is the composition of the culture where such ‘evil actions’ occur.
I mean here that in STC we have on one hand a very in-depth account, very serious reading, to graduate the reader out of the depressive, atomizing, disempowering, conspiratorial milieu and mire of ‘life’ presented to us in 1984 and Brave New World, but that we have at the same time the very resonant harmonics that one does not need to “wait around for a distant future utopia” to “solve all the problems” but that the tools to do so are well within our grasp at any time we so choose and of which such an undertaking constitutes the foundation stones and tapestries of that future utopia which, I think, could be said to “meet us half-way” in many of these matters, as like we reach forward and they reach back and then those in the past reach forward and we in the resent reach back; that is anyway what it is to learn from the past and anyway the answer to “why the Grandfather sews the seeds for trees from whose fruits he will never eat.”
Valete.

ID, IX. MAIORES. V, CAL. IUNI. FORTUNA PRIMIGENIA.

FULL TEXT ON GUTENBERG OF H.G. WELLS ‘THE SHAPE OF THINGS TO COME’ (1933)
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2024.06.01 13:55 Imaginary-Mirrorball VIP merch pickup Edinburgh

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2024.06.01 13:52 Dechegonca Problems with mom’s new bf

My mom (F36) is dating this guy (M55) since December. Lately he has been living with us. The problem is, he is very creepy and weird towards my sisters (F13 and F15). He compliments them in a inappropriate way and my sisters get uncomfortable. He also says that girls of their age are very hot but he says that he is joking. I think whatever its a joke or not, its very weird and wrong to say that. I already caught him staring at them in a predatory look and its so uncomfortable. I already talked about it with my mom and she got mad at me for thinking that way. Im scared that he would hurt them in the future somehow. I dont know what to do and i need advices
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2024.06.01 13:50 Environmental-Bee509 She yelled at me after I called my mom when she broke up with me cuz it'd ruin our future

When I told a friend all shit I went through she said "wow you lived all kind of toxic relationships in only one"
I think that is good summary.
One of the things that I cannot forget is how absurd was the end of it. She was treating me bad the whole month while I was away, and I was too blind to know better.
In the first day I had returned after a long travel, she wanted to go out without me to a party. When I arrived she left me in the rainy night because she smoked weed and slept.
One day later was already tired as shit from everything and after I said loved her, she started crying said she wanted a break, and wanted to date other people. Fuck that was the breakpoint. I just cried and said fine, let's break up.
Then after she went out, I called my bestfriend and my mom to tell the news and received some support. When she suddenly returned, I turned off but she saw I was talking with my mom. Immediately she yelled at me saying it would ruin our future marriage and now my parents would hate her, and it was our problem and should be kept between us.
Like bro?? She really thought we would marry after all that? I was dumbstrucked. And then she started crying saying she didnt want to lose me and was doing the best for us.
man... One month after I left I was still going through grief and decided to text her, she told me she was planning to kill herself. I instantly regretted texting her, and just warned a friend of her about it. Since then I never more texted her.
It has been 8 months. Now I am seeing another girl but dont know when I will feel ready to date her seriously. It feels like I am done with love for some time.
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