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Hai! As a straight feminine boy, i've found it suuuuper hard/difficult to find other platonic feminine boy friends to talk about cute things with. Ever since I was a kid, i've felt a bit different than all of my other friends (especially since we're all straight, but I was clearly more feminine than they are) so I'm hoping to find a feminine friend or two that I can click with :3. I prefer discord if possible!

Hi all,
I feel kind of embarrassed for writing this and not sure how to word it... or even if this is the right subbreddit to ask this on. I'm a 21 year old trans guy.
So when I was 15ish years old, I didn't really have a huge amount of self confidence, no self esteem, not a huge amount of friends. Was a very imaginative teenager. I created an imaginary friend, his name was Tom. He was the more confident version of me, the one who encouraged me to do this thing that I was scared of.
A year or later, I was introduced to a guy. His name was Tom also. He was practically identical to the imaginary friend I created in my head. Boosted my confidence and self esteem etc. I'm not even joking when I say this.
I've always wondered if there was some deeper meaning as to why my imagination friend came to life the way he did.
Thanks for your help and I hope this makes sense.

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My name is Rain and im 17, looking for guy friends abt 16-19 give or take a year, currently really interested in The Magnus Archives, lookin for long term friends who I can talk to and vent if needed, if you're interested dm me with an intro :>

Hai! As a straight feminine boy, i've found it suuuuper hard/difficult to find other platonic feminine boy friends to talk about cute things with. Ever since I was a kid, i've felt a bit different than all of my other friends (especially since we're all straight, but I was clearly more feminine than they are) so I'm hoping to find a feminine friend or two that I can click with :3. I prefer discord if possible!

Hindi na ako makakaganti sa biro mo na mag-asawa na ako kasi natapos na ugnayan natin. Naisip ko sanang banatan ka nun kapag nakauwi ka nanaman ng gabi na dahil sa traffic at gutom na tapos di ka pa sure kung kakain o magluluto ka pa ba. Mag-asawa ka na kasi para may nag-aalaga sayo pag-uwi mo ng bahay. Para di ka malipasan ng gutom.
Hindi ko na rin masisilayan si mingming mo na gusto ko sana kaibiganin at makayap. Sabi mo cat treats lang katapat para maging friends kami kaya bumili na ako in advance para ready na. Gusto ko ako magpakain sa kanya kasi ang cute niya tingnan parang baby na nagbobottle feed pa. Pero wala na. Di na matutuloy yun. I don't know what to do with the cat treats now. I'll find a way to dispose this nalang.
Andami pa nating napag-usapan na hindi na matutuloy pa. Okay lang. Siguro hanggang salita nalang mga yun. It was nice thinking about it.
Siguro kung ready lang sana ako, mas mature na, at kung minahal ko lang sana sarili ko para maiparamdam ko rin yun sa iba, siguro iba ang naging kahinatnan natin.
Bakit ba kita kinonfront at inaway that day. Actually I was already having a bad start of the day before I talked to you. My bad I let my frustration and negativity snowball and reach you. Hindi ko na dapat inoverthink at inungkat ulit yung past kasi tapos na yun eh. But I allowed it to bother my thoughts again that time and took action. Ang impulsive. It was a mistake. I should have thought it through instead of ruining the peace between us.
I was thinking at that time na bahala na. I wanted to get it off my chest anyway and find answers. Kahit ang panget ng approach na ginawa ko. Could have put it in a better way.
But at the same time I thought if that confrontation will drive you away from me, it's for the better na rin for you. Because I don't wanna see you make some sacrifices and be so good to me. Nung nalaman kong ang layo2x pa ng panggagalingan mo just to see me, tapos baka pagdating mo pagod ka na physically at mentally sa byahe, at mapupuyat ka pa just to keep me company or help me out. Kahit sabihin mong worth it naman, ayaw ko. Alagaan mo sarili mo. Don't compromise your health. Ayokong may mapasama dahil sakin.
You said ako lang sumisira sa sarili ko. Alam kong may ganitong side ako matagal na. But up until now I haven't fully figured out why I'm like this. Why I tend to refuse the good and nice things life is offering me. Is it to protect myself kasi may trust issues ako? Maybe. But another thing I've realized is that siguro ganito ako dahil nasanay na ako makaranas ng mga unfortunate events sa buhay ko. Nasanay na ako sa bad treatment na natatanggap ko. Getting rejected, forgotten, ignored. Kaya kapag nakaka encounter ako ng mga positive na pakikitungo sa akin, parang mali. Deserve ko ba yun? Baka hindi. Baka di naman ata totoo. Baka napipilitan lang siya. Baka may ulterior motive. Baka kasinungalingan lang ulit lahat. Grabe pag dedeny ko sa kindness at good intentions ng ibang tao.
It's for the better nang lumayo ka sakin. Kasi andami ko pang dapat ayusin sa sarili ko. I thought I was better now pero di pa pala ako fully healed sa lahat ng pinagdaanan ko sa buhay. Whenever I reminisce on some, naluluha pa rin ako. I still feed bad.
I hope that someday I can completely lift out this microscope I put over myself. To stop being overly critical about the small details. Matutong magchill. Iwas iwasan pagiging strikta. I know full well anong problema sakin. Pero ang hirap magbago. I feel like I'm restraining myself. I want to be a healthy and mature adult but I tend to steer away and want to do things that are bad for me.
I'm glad I met you kahit online lang. I got to understand myself better and found some answers to reflect on. Baka yun ang dahilan kaya tayo pinagtagpo. Life lesson pala hatid mo sakin. I hope you found our meeting meaningful in some way. Kahit dun sa happy and good times nalang.
I believe you truly wished me well and have no ill intentions. Ako lang yung nega mag isip. I think you deserve better. And I can see na pinalaki ka ng parents mo into someone na solid as a person. I'm sure you'll do well in life and have luck on your side. Kahit na di ko na yun masubaybayan.
Sana mahanap mo ang purpose at direction mo sa buhay. End goal kumbaga. Sakin I have already decided on it. Nasabi ko na rin sayo dati. Tanggap ko na talaga na yun nalang ang bagay para sakin. Marami na akong pangarap na ibinaon sa limot. Maybe not in this lifetime pa mga yun. Pero kung may next life man, sana hindi na ako maging tao. Kasi ang sakit. Nakakapagod. Iba nalang.
Pero sa totoo lang, suntok sa buwan na siguro to. I'm a fool for wishing this. Na sana magbago isip mo at maging willing ka na ayusin natin lahat. My mind wants to be open to the possibility na we can talk things out pa. Pero eto nanaman negative thoughts ko. Na sabihin nating nagkaayos nga, but will things ever be the same again? I doubt. Will it be for better or for worse? I'm afraid to find out. I don't want to beg because it will just give the opposite effect. Kailangan ko pa ring magtira para sa sarili ko.
Anyway, I'm sorry. And thank you. Ingat ka.

Students segregate themselves. Am I the only one who noticed that? Am I segregating myself from others?
Especially in the US, I noticed that a lot (not saying all!) Black, White, Asian, students tend to stay with the same race / nationality. I’ve rarely seen mixed friend groups.
As an immigrant who lived in 5 different countries, I don’t label myself…yeah I might have my Eastern European mindset/manners/ because I was born there speaking Russian (native speaker) and was raised by USSR parents, but I’m still far away from being a “stereotypical Eastern European” lol I don’t know if you get it!
M22. I Don’t smoke, I don’t drink, and I don’t go clubbing. Already cuts me off from a lot of college students!
I’ve NEVER had the chance to become friends with White Americans…I don’t know how…you guys (White Americans) have your own social circle and your rich parents paying your college tuition won’t let any outsiders in to your family…it’s the truth. Don’t pretend that foreigners with completely different lifestyle, culture, food, etc. will truly get along with Americans. Which is a pity. Your parents seemed to have accomplished the American dream while we only just got here haha. Every time that I talk to Americans…i feel like I’m being mocked. Military / retired veteran parents made fun of my dad working 2+ jobs, how we never use AC in summer, how we never go out to eat, how we don’t consume all the same media…I don’t know…
I knew many Asians (Vietnamese girls)…I guess the language barrier ruined everything because they seemed like the only motivated, funny, and caring friends. I even invited a girl for a walk which was very cute but she is moving to another state and she was interested in another guy. I’m still genuinely interested in their culture, family and country but…god knows what they are going through with their parents forcing them to study in the US.
My Russian speaking acquaintances don’t hang out with me. They go clubbing, drinking, doing other stupid things… they actually used me for their English homework and I was helping them because I was desperate to make friends (I know it’s dumb lol). I took them out to eat on campus for my OWN money and I even invited them to my house…they never invited me anywhere. Never.
It’s still a weird and hard topic for me…

I am EXHAUSTED after my shift today, so here are a few of the gems of the day:
Boomer dude walks in and comes straight through the store to the pharmacy, says "HEY" loudly at me until I look up at him (I was counting), and then says, "Are there any heating pads in the heating pad aisle?" I just told him "I don't know? Go look?" Then I went back to counting while he stared daggers at the side of my head for a while, then he let out a HUGE sigh and went to look in the aisle himself.
Boomer lady on the phone talks over my greeting demanding her opioid. I start confirm her info and she interrupts me to demand my name (which she'd already have heard if she hadn't talked over me in the first place). I eventually get around to explaining that the doctor put a "do not fill before" date on it for tomorrow and she interrupts me yet again to say she KNOWS THAT but she wants to be SURE it'll be filled FIRST THING. I have to tell her like 3 times that I'll leave tomorrow's pharmacist a note because she's talking over me so much. I finally print out her info and give it to the pharmacist, and he gives me a puzzled look and holds up another copy of the same printout. She'd already called once to make the same demands.
Yet another Boomer lady is walking up to the gate one minute after we're supposed to close for lunch. Our pharmacist is checking out some other lady who spent the whole 15 minutes before we closed chatting to her friend right in front of the pharmacy and is only now getting around to picking up. I tell the new woman, "I'm sorry we're closed" as I clock out. She demands we serve her anyway, and I tell her she can come back in half an hour. She says "Well why can't you help me now?" Because I only get 30 minutes to eat, and I've already clocked out. She leans over her cart and YELLS at me, "YOU KNOW WHAT YOU NEED? YOU NEED TO LEARN SOME BETTER CUSTOMER SERVICE!"
Had a toddler start to come into the pharmacy through the swing gate and I stepped in front of her and shooed her back, and her mom glared at me and said "It's fine if she goes through, she'll come out again when I call her." Uh... no?
Millennial guy who has had major attitude issues with me before called to demand his Trulicity because he needs it, and when I explained that there's unfortunately a shortage and no one within at least 20 miles has any, he started in with the kind of language that makes me feel perfectly justified in hanging up the phone. He was actually the second person today to hold me personally responsible for a backorder, so that's fun.
I also couldn't help but note today that every SINGLE person who asked me "How are you?" then immediately started in with telling me what they wanted without giving me a chance to answer. I don't care if you ask, but thanks for making it clear that you see me as an automaton!
Anyway, I had a super fun day full of absolutely exhausting humans. Hope your shifts went better!

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3 years ago I met a man on tinder who I crushed on. We first met at target, went to the movies & then hung out at my friends place for a couple hours or so.
(I was out of state to hangout with a friend planning to stay for a couple weeks or so)
But yeah I invited him after the movies with my friends permission of course because I was so happy around him. He was cute, funny & kind. We hit it off really nicely.
He lived around 40-50 minutes away from my friends but still made the time to hangout with me frequently. But he was so sweet, always getting me Starbucks. Making me lunch from scratch. Really affectionate & complimentary.
When I went back to my actual home we missed each other a lot, face timed all the time.
I’m from Maine, my friend & him lived in Colorado. He was living with his brother at the time but they got in a fight where he was kicked out making him homeless.
I had pity for him & since I missed him + had enough money to go back I did. We hung out frequently, almost daily. But one day my friend had to travel to a different state to visit her close friend because she was having a lot of struggle in her life. & apparently that meant I had to leave her house? I didn’t have enough money yet to actually travel back to my hometown (I work remote so I was going to make money to eventually travel back).
She asked where I’d stay which obviously implies she doesn’t want me to stay at her house or maybe her partner didn’t.
Either way that meant I was homeless with my boyfriend (we eventually made it official after a 3-4 weeks).
At this point we’ve been dating for maybe 2 or 3 months and it was June. We found an apartment to rent & naturally moved in together. One of the most exciting times of my life. After settling we went to a gym together & he convinced me to get a membership together. We worked out now and then together which was fun!
One day on the weekend he told me he was gonna work out with a friend. I thought it was off he didn’t invite me so asked if he planned on just them hanging out or could I come? He told me he was planning just them but I could come. Which I thought was super fucking weird but told myself I’m maybe being paranoid.
Anyway, he was a great partner but as time progressed I started to pick up narcissistic tendencies.
He’d randomly say the most outta pocket things such as “ I feel bad for you that your parents don’t seem to care about you, they never call” to which I explained my parents know I call them frequently & don’t need to. But he would say this frequently almost like he wanted a rise outta me bc wtf that’s hurtful? And when I mention it being hurtful tell me I’m taking things the wrong way or being really sensitive which only got me more pissed which made him pissed.
Or back handed compliment as “you’re so lucky you get to sit all day for your job”.
He was also a bit controlling. He worked night shifts and if he called me to where I didn’t answer his first call he would scream at me such as “ why didn’t you answer??? You trying to ignore me?? That’s actually so rude and messed up. What are you doing?” He reeked insecurity.
And when I even mentioned visiting my family again he seemed upset at the idea of me going to visit them without him.
Anyway, this is a couple examples out of 100. I’m trying not to make this a novel.
Fast foward 3 months we were drinking a ton with the neighbors. We drank out in the back of our shared yard together. He asked me to charge his phone. He always asked me to do things for him like that which is fine whatever. But I thought to look thru his phone. Had a lucky guess with his passcode found out it was his PIN number lol.
Anyway, looked through his snap only to find that he cheated on me 2-4 times with his friend. The one he worked out with and he did during his night shifts. Broke my heart. I didn’t mention anything to him. The next day I told his sister that I’m moving back to my home town because of this while he was at work. She told him. He called me. Begging me not to go. Insisting he’ll go to therapy, he’ll talk to my parents, that he’s sorry. That it’s a dumb decision.
I asked him why to which he gave reasonings but he lied somewhat about the story. Cheating part didn’t hurt me, planning on not telling me hurt me. I caved in because his tears seemed to be real and he was in a state of severe depression for like a month. In any instance it’s hard for me not to have empathy for someone who’s sad. But I was too.
I found out he was subscribed to some of people too & watched porn!! Which honestly porn I wouldn’t care about if in the beginning of our relationship he didn’t tell me it was a deal breaker because it affected his dad horribly. And as for or paying to see someone nude in a relationship? Gross.
Fast foward a few months we’re still together but the relationship doesn’t feel the same as it used to. When we started dating he was the ONLY person I found attractive. But after finding out he did why should my eyes only be on him if he’s had eyes on others? Anyway I missed my family so much and friends. I couldn’t stand being with only him. I let him know that I need to visit my family, still he was scared of me being alone without him. So I told him well I’m either visiting them or you’re moving with me there. Couple months pass by he caved in on moving there with me. Which is obviously a huge decision to make leaving his good job and family. Surely he loves me and I convinced myself everything would be okay.
I don’t believe he’s ever cheated again. He’s grown so much mentally & emotionally even if he has bipolar.
Does a much better job at managing & discussing his emotions & thoughts. We’ve lived in Maine together for around 2 years. Which means it’s almost been 2 years 4 months since I found out he cheated on me at one point.
Every dang day I have anxiety about it. I just want to heal, man. I can’t stop thinking about missed opportunities of dates I could’ve had. People I didn’t give a chance to. And I can’t stop thinking what if he does it again when we’re 30? I wasted a decade of my life for nothing?
But thing is all his belongings are in my state. We’re not rich, moving is hard. He doesn’t want to ever let me go either. Plus I’ve grown attachment to his dogs which feel like mine at this point😭. One of his dogs comes to me every night as soon as I lay down just to cuddle me. Plus my partner provides so much for me financially and we have such a fun time being in each others presence. Not only does he work around 10-12 hours a day 5 days a week. He also usually cooks dinners for me as well.
I’m not asking for tips on how to leave. There’s no escape for me at this point. I’m depressed without him, I’m depressed with him. Some days are good but for the most part I live life in constant anxiety of being hurt again. I just want to know about others experience if they’ve dealt a similar situation. Does it get better?
I might’ve left some details out so if you have any questions just ask.

I was on a solo trip to Mata Vaishno Devi. Everything went fine on the way to the Dhaam, but when i reached back to Katra, i decided to get myself a room because i was tired. So everybody denied to gave me a room because i was alone. But, 'unfortunately' a person allowed me to stay in his guest house. So the owner gave some gesture to one of his staff to take me to the room. I was following that man and he took me on the 4th floor, two floors in between had no rooms, it was like ruins, scary, and more scary was the 4th floor, which had 2 rooms and both of the rooms were in really poor state, it was looking like "nashediyo ka adda" or a haunted house, i was having strong gut feelings that something is wrong here, still my stupid a*s ignored the red flags and i went inside the room. As soon as i put my bag on the bed, that man closed the door and put a lock on it, as soon as i realised what he had done, he was gone. I shouted and called him but nobody came. I screamed loudly for help from the windows but nobody listened as it is a crowded place and i was on the 4th floor, i was terrified and my mouth went really dry. I reached out to katra police and they asked me to share my location, then they said to me that they are coming. The gate had many clear deep spots(way too many of them) on the inner side, you could easily guess that somebody had tried opening and breaking that door with something heavy or sharp, after about 20 minutes i recieved a call from a police officer and he told me that he is reaching and after 2-3 minutes the staff person came back and opened the lock, i thought now they are going to kill me, but i still opened the door, thinking it might be the police too, then i saw it was the same person who had locked me inside, i asked him why he did it, he said 'pata nhi', i shouted at him alot, then we both went downstairs, then i asked the owner about this and he started to abuse me and threatened to kill me, if I don't go out of his hotel, he was telling me that I'm making up things because I'm mad or i didn't have 500rs to pay himl, i was alone and an outsider so i thought it's best if i get out, i called the police officer and told him that I'm out safely so he doesn't need to come, i told him that because i thought that maybe the police is somehow connected and they must have alerted the hotel owner that's why he came to open the door right after my call with the officer ended. There were also spots of blood on the floor, i noticed that right after i entered the room, i thought I'm just overthinking as it could be just paint or something, but now i knew it wasn't. The hotel is just in front of Parchi counter katra, there is Enaya communication maybe on the same building of the hotel, i don't remember the hotel name but maybe it was JDS guest house or just the neighborhood one to JDS, I don't remember. God knows what they could have done to me. I know i was a fool to ignore all the signs and still went for that room.
The purpose of my post is to aware those who travel solo. Please don't go alone to these places, and incase you do, then please stay in a 4 or 5 star hotel. If your family is not coming with you then take a friend atleast.
My Kedarnath trip was better in comparison to this, there were lots of police officers there, but maybe just one or two in katra, when this thing happened, i couldn't see a single policeman in that whole area. When i returned to Haridwar from kedarnath, a person gave me a room when others had denied, that idiot tried to molest me sexually, i wanted to break his bones but i let it go because i was already depressed at that time. So guys PLEASE don't travel alone.

Hello everyone. My boyfriend (M23) and I (F20) have been together for over 2 years. He is my first serious boyfriend, and he treats me so well. He has so many great qualities, and he is my exact type. We moved in together one year ago, and it’s been going well. We live in a very expensive area, which we are able to afford due to his well-paying job. He got me out of a bad situation with my family, where I wasn’t being fed properly and was emotionally abused daily. I have a better relationship with my parents now that I am out of that house, but I still need distance from them. My dad and I used to be extremely close, but now we rarely talk to one another. My mom and I talk weekly, so I’m glad I have that with her. My boyfriend has an amazing family. They are the family that I wish I was a part of while growing up. His parents are so sweet and supportive of us. His mom and I are like best friends, and I love talking to her. His dad is so helpful and always gives me good life advice.
My boyfriend introduced his uncle to me when we were one year into dating. I will call him Ned. I remember the first time I met Ned. I came over to say hello, and we made eye contact, and my heart was racing. I thought he was one of the most handsome men I had ever seen in my life. He and my boyfriend look so much alike. Ned has such a confident and attractive demeanor. He has a high-paying job and loves traveling and doing adventurous things. He has always been friendly to me, greeting me with hugs. He calls me cute and was making lots of eye contact the first time we met. Flash forward to a year later, and my boyfriend and I decided to move in together, and the area we live in is about an hour's drive away from Ned and his family. So when my boyfriend and I drove down with all our belongings in our cars, Ned offered for us to spend the weekend at his house and for me to meet his family. They live in a mansion and are very well off.
Ned has a pretty and cool wife, whom I believe is in her 30s, who is hardworking and has an amazing business. He also has two beautiful children under the age of ten that I adore. I hit it off with his family; they immediately reminded me of the family I want to have one day. The entire weekend, his uncle was making eye contact with me, calling me beautiful and cute. Flash forward to six months later. Ned visits my boyfriend and I at our place, where my boyfriend and I smoke with him and just relax and banter with one another. Ned kept going off about how much my boyfriend’s family loves me and how beautiful I am. Ned also brought up how big his thing is compared to my boyfriend, to which I gasped and looked over at my boyfriend, who was dying of laughter.
Flash forward to six months later. My boyfriend's entire family comes over to Ned’s house to have a boat day. Everyone was there except Ned's wife, and the entire time he was touching me by the shoulder and hand again, giving me alcohol, making lots of eye contact, and I even caught him looking at me, to which he looked away. He always comes up to me to start a conversation and get to know me better. He hands me glasses filled to the brim with wine and touches my hand so caressingly. I don’t think much of it, and while this happens, The morning of the boat ride, we get on the boat, and Ned introduces me to friends of his and once again gives me alcohol. My boyfriend is very close with his uncle, and they get along so well. Ned made a joke about how many fingers it takes to get inside a woman, to which my boyfriend just laughed.
I’m playing with his kids the entire time, and Ned comments that I would be an amazing mom and that I am so good with them. He took lots of pictures of me and the kids, as well as pictures of me when I wasn't looking. We get back to the house to eat, and I catch him constantly staring at me once again. My boyfriend and I then leave. A week later, Ned texted my boyfriend to go have sex with me so that he could use our streaming service to watch a game since we were using it, and this caught me by surprise. We went to visit Ned and his family a week later to watch a game, and Ned’s wife was there. Whenever she is around, Ned is not flirtatious with me at all and tries to cut conversations short. He still makes lots of eye contact with me, asks for my age, and gives me plenty of alcohol.
I think Ned’s wife notices him staring at me and laughing with me, to which she gives me dirty looks and makes rude remarks. I made an inside joke with my boyfriend, asking if he recognized some songs that were playing "in the streets," to which Ned's wife replied, saying I was trying to act "ghetto" and giving me dirty looks, which made me pause and go silent the rest of the night. We finally leave, and my boyfriend tells me that Ned was married three times and that his wife is not affectionate towards him and the kids that much, and she can’t relax. Ever since then, I can’t stop thinking about Ned. He is on my mind 24/7. He is twice my age, and I dream about him constantly and have sexual thoughts about him. I would never hurt my boyfriend and his family, whom I adore. But I can’t get Ned out of my head. What do I do?
TL;DR: I love my boyfriend, but I cannot stop thinking about his uncle, and I have a massive crush on him. What do I do?

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👥Now, let me tell you about the current roomies – they're a pretty cool group! Super clean, share space and chores equally, and they're as laid-back as they come. Two are students hustling through their coursework, and we've got one with the sweetest mini aussidoodle named Max. 🐾 He's a bundle of joy and a regular at the local kennel where the third roomie works!
🐶 Oh, and speaking of pets, the apartment is pet-friendly (yay!), but we gotta keep it dog-only due to a resident allergy. So, if you've got a pup, we'll need to arrange a meet and greet with Max to make sure everyone gets along famously!
Let me spill the beans on what makes this place awesome:
🛜Amenities Galore: We're talking pool, hot tub, clubhouse (with fitness area, business center, and hangout spots with a pool table), free WiFi all around, indoor and outdoor half basketball courts, and even a fenced-in dog park. Location: It's a quick 8-minute drive to campus, or hop on the bus that swings by every 20 minutes. Apartment Perks: The spot itself is pretty sweet - furnished, over 1,600 square feet, dishwasher, in-unit washedryer and the room has everything you need, like a built-in desk, stackable dressers, a huge closet and your very own private bathroom. ❇️Bonus Storage: Don't worry about cramming all your stuff in - there's a spacious 4x6 storage closet with an extra pole for hanging clothes. Oh, and maintenance here? They're pretty on the ball. We've even snagged some brand new appliances in the past few years (including a dishwasher and washedryer).
So, if you're looking for a laid-back spot with chill roomies and a ton of perks, hit me up! Let's chat and see if this could be your new apartment. 🏡✨

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This is a follow-up to my My previous post Thank you for your feedback. I appreciate both the positive and constructive comments. Yesterday, my friend and I reviewed several websites, including "Law in a Minute," and we have a few questions for your expert opinion.
To give a brief overview of her situation: she has been working for a government-affiliated organization for almost nine years. Her contract was renewed in 2021 and is valid until 2026. However, due to the economic downturn, her company is undergoing restructuring. Her department head informed her that her job might be at risk. Notably, she has not received any official communication from HR, and no one else in her department or the company seems aware of this potential job loss, which raises some concerns.
According to her department head, she appears to have two options:

1. Accept severance pay, which according to labor law should be equivalent to nine months' salary plus one additional month and her social contributions/pension. She can also request to stay in China for an extra month or so to arrange her move to another destination.
2. Transfer to a newly established department with a significantly lower salary, even less than what she earned when she started nine years ago.

Our questions are:

1. If she chooses the first option, can she negotiate for a higher severance package given that she now has to make sudden arrangements and her planned departure in 2026 is being expedited?
2. If she opts for the second option and works for a few more months at a reduced salary, is this legal? Wouldn't this constitute a breach of her original contract which specifies her current salary?
3. Given that her company has automated the payroll and salary slips, what hard copies should she collect from HR to protect her interests?

Thank you for your advice.

Spending a week on the island with the dogs soon! We haven’t been since pre pandemic and we have never brought our small dogs.
We were happy to find a dog friendly house to rent!
As far as I can tell, after Memorial Day, dogs are a no on the beach itself (or they aren’t allowed to walk on the beach? Not so sure about just chilling in the beach like inside one of those tents they make for babies haha we’ve used that other places, but not sure if dogs or tents are okay?), at least during certain hours or maybe all the time? But they should be fine leashed on the boardwalk and anywhere that has outdoor dining?
Anything else to be aware of, any dog rules or local customs we need to know, beyond the usual be a good dog owner? Our dogs are small and chill, usually in their spoiled bags anyway lol.
Would love names of any dog friendly spots you’ve found :)
And yes they are up to date on all preventatives and we will be hyper vigilant about ticks and keeping them cool and hydrated :) thanks in advance!

I am 24 F from UK looking for a new friends and chat also , I love cute pets.i have a cat and dog and I really love them . let's chat