Is good to send thank you letter if you didn t get the job
Can’t wait for summer break
2024.05.20 00:03 Silly_Translator_262 Can’t wait for summer break
It’s not that my high school is particularly good or bad it’s that I am sick of 7 hours (plus a total transportation time of 1 hour 30 minutes to 2 hours) being tossed into the void. I don’t feel like what I do at my school is helping me become a better person. By the time I get back I am fairly exhausted plus some homework. Doing the things I love/need to do to improve as a person is difficult(trying meditation, workouts, reading, writing, art) I say this to everyone but I would take a extra weekend day off each school week even if you had to subtract that from summer break. I just have constant anxiety of sorts when I think of it. Same as last year this is around the time when I get to a breaking point. I just want more time to myself. Damn evolution needing me to be comatose for a third of my life.
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2024.05.19 22:01 BasketBackground6516 AITAH for not inviting my entire 'friend group' to a event I was planning
So for some context, I am in my last years of high school, and at lunch, there are around 15 girls who sit at the lunch table we usually sit at, and one guy. Over the past few years, the so-called friend groups we have have gotten bigger, with different friend groups linking into one. Inside it, there are separate close groups.
Well, for my birthday, I was planning on doing something meaningful by having my closest friends in the group and around school come to the beach for a few hours after school and then finish the day off with my family. At first, it started off with my closest friends, then I realised there would be backlash, so I invited a few more, which ended up being 16ish (not only people from the friend group) when it had started with 7. One day one of the girls who was invited blurted it out in front of the entire table. I reacted by shushing her, which I really regret as it was rude, and then I put my head in my hands to shield myself from the confrontation. The girls who weren't invited had walked away as it was the end of our lunch break, and they were upset.
I confided in my friend if what I did was wrong, and she said 'it was quite shitty' since one of the girls Lucia had overheard and previously invited me to stay in her house in my mountains along with 20 other girls 5 months ago. We were really close in the beginning when she first came to the school. I had taken her under my wing because I know what it's like to be the new girl and I didn't want her to be left out. Eventually, she found her own group in the school, and we weren't close anymore besides the occasional talk in class. My friend told me afterwards that Lucia was upset that I hadn't invited her. I felt really bad, so when I got home, the first thing I did was apologize. In the message, I said I was still figuring out the details since there were still some details I hadn't planned out because the birthday thing was getting bigger and bigger and that maybe in the end I would host something at my house. She told me it was okay. So then I invited the final girls I had in mind to invite, which Lucia was going to be included in. After that, I thought everything was okay.
Until my friends told me that the girls who hadn't yet been invited and those who had been invited were talking sh*t about me, they were saying how I am a mean person to have done what I did, and some were talking about how I am going to be blacklisted from invites now for my sh*t actions. Which I wasn't too upset about because our current social events are not fun; it's always the same thing: people getting drunk, vomiting, destroying households, and making out in front of everyone. Typical high school parties', basically. Either way, it did get into my head, so I just cancelled all my plans for my birthday because I really couldn't handle the stress of petty high school drama. Which was a bad move because it caught more attention and made me look weak. but I didn't care because it is currently exam season and I suffer a lot with my learning disabilities as they are quite strong, which really interfere with my school work, and drama would just be the cheery on top.
The reason why I am trying to make it small is because last year my birthday was such a great day as I spent half of it with some really special people in my life. It was all very spontaneous, and those who weren't part of the plan weren't offended as they knew it wasn't anything significant.
I have tried to seek guidance from my actual close friends, and some have suggested that I should be upfront and conquer my confrontation by not hiding what I am deciding to do.
Now I've decided to just stick to my old plans, as I shouldn't stop my plans for people who don't deserve my attention by doing a really, really small thing with the people I value the most, as my little circle of friends is so much fun and honestly some of the best people in my life who have supported me through some very hard times, and I am honestly truly grateful to have them, but I am worried about the consequences as it could damage everything.
So, reddit, am I the culprit for not inviting the entire friend group (the people I sit with at lunch who are most likely not my friends) to a birthday thing, which could be interpreted as a party but isn't?
I am open to any feedback; honestly, I really don't know where I should stand.
All the names stated aren't real names.
Thank you!
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Well, for my birthday, I was planning on doing something meaningful by having my closest friends in the group and around school come to the beach for a few hours after school and then finish the day off with my family. At first, it started off with my closest friends, then I realised there would be backlash, so I invited a few more, which ended up being 16ish (not only people from the friend group) when it had started with 7. One day one of the girls who was invited blurted it out in front of the entire table. I reacted by shushing her, which I really regret as it was rude, and then I put my head in my hands to shield myself from the confrontation. The girls who weren't invited had walked away as it was the end of our lunch break, and they were upset.
I confided in my friend if what I did was wrong, and she said 'it was quite shitty' since one of the girls Lucia had overheard and previously invited me to stay in her house in my mountains along with 20 other girls 5 months ago. We were really close in the beginning when she first came to the school. I had taken her under my wing because I know what it's like to be the new girl and I didn't want her to be left out. Eventually, she found her own group in the school, and we weren't close anymore besides the occasional talk in class. My friend told me afterwards that Lucia was upset that I hadn't invited her. I felt really bad, so when I got home, the first thing I did was apologize. In the message, I said I was still figuring out the details since there were still some details I hadn't planned out because the birthday thing was getting bigger and bigger and that maybe in the end I would host something at my house. She told me it was okay. So then I invited the final girls I had in mind to invite, which Lucia was going to be included in. After that, I thought everything was okay.
Until my friends told me that the girls who hadn't yet been invited and those who had been invited were talking sh*t about me, they were saying how I am a mean person to have done what I did, and some were talking about how I am going to be blacklisted from invites now for my sh*t actions. Which I wasn't too upset about because our current social events are not fun; it's always the same thing: people getting drunk, vomiting, destroying households, and making out in front of everyone. Typical high school parties', basically. Either way, it did get into my head, so I just cancelled all my plans for my birthday because I really couldn't handle the stress of petty high school drama. Which was a bad move because it caught more attention and made me look weak. but I didn't care because it is currently exam season and I suffer a lot with my learning disabilities as they are quite strong, which really interfere with my school work, and drama would just be the cheery on top.
The reason why I am trying to make it small is because last year my birthday was such a great day as I spent half of it with some really special people in my life. It was all very spontaneous, and those who weren't part of the plan weren't offended as they knew it wasn't anything significant.
I have tried to seek guidance from my actual close friends, and some have suggested that I should be upfront and conquer my confrontation by not hiding what I am deciding to do.
Now I've decided to just stick to my old plans, as I shouldn't stop my plans for people who don't deserve my attention by doing a really, really small thing with the people I value the most, as my little circle of friends is so much fun and honestly some of the best people in my life who have supported me through some very hard times, and I am honestly truly grateful to have them, but I am worried about the consequences as it could damage everything.
So, reddit, am I the culprit for not inviting the entire friend group (the people I sit with at lunch who are most likely not my friends) to a birthday thing, which could be interpreted as a party but isn't?
I am open to any feedback; honestly, I really don't know where I should stand.
All the names stated aren't real names.
Thank you!
2024.05.19 20:19 CashTheRedditor studying advice?
hi everyone! I’m a first year CS major who needs some help and advice.
I want to start this by saying I am NOT looking for any kind of grade grubbing or handouts from my professors; I have three weeks until my finals, and I want to get myself back on track.
high school was always quite easy for me, even when I did 11 APs; so, when people told me college would be a slap in the face, I didn’t believe them. I was very wrong. because my education has only become difficult in the past few months or so, I haven’t really developed too many good study habits, and I feel very lost and worried for finals week. I know what I should be doing, I just don’t fully know the means to get there.
I’m taking a stats class, intro to DSA, and an assembly programming course (and a history class I’m not worried about). I’ve found that I’m simply not retaining information like I used to, and my performance on the quizzes and midterms has been declining. how do/did y’all study for these sorts of exams? practice? studying notes from lectures and reading?
I really, really hope this doesn’t come across as too juvenile or that I’m somehow trying to make a pity party. I know CS will be difficult, but it’s hard to make good preparations when you don’t fully understand just how difficult it will be. right now, I’m cruising at around a high B or low A level, and I would like to keep it that way. I want to plant the seeds for a good and productive education.
thank you!
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I want to start this by saying I am NOT looking for any kind of grade grubbing or handouts from my professors; I have three weeks until my finals, and I want to get myself back on track.
high school was always quite easy for me, even when I did 11 APs; so, when people told me college would be a slap in the face, I didn’t believe them. I was very wrong. because my education has only become difficult in the past few months or so, I haven’t really developed too many good study habits, and I feel very lost and worried for finals week. I know what I should be doing, I just don’t fully know the means to get there.
I’m taking a stats class, intro to DSA, and an assembly programming course (and a history class I’m not worried about). I’ve found that I’m simply not retaining information like I used to, and my performance on the quizzes and midterms has been declining. how do/did y’all study for these sorts of exams? practice? studying notes from lectures and reading?
I really, really hope this doesn’t come across as too juvenile or that I’m somehow trying to make a pity party. I know CS will be difficult, but it’s hard to make good preparations when you don’t fully understand just how difficult it will be. right now, I’m cruising at around a high B or low A level, and I would like to keep it that way. I want to plant the seeds for a good and productive education.
thank you!
2024.05.19 19:45 Acceptable-Street709 I’m 18 and i think i’m pregnant… how to go about things.
clarification: we are both trans. I’m ftm (18m) and she’s mtf (20f) so no one gets confused. refrain from responding if you’re transphobic…
i just need some input on my plans encouragement or something this was not planned at all but i want to take responsibility and go about things the best way i can.
She’s fully on board with keeping it and i’m 90% i want to too but she says she will support if i decide to get an abortion. She works full time, and im in school full time. ( Online self pace high school ) Also going to an online self paced university after i finish. I had already been planning on finishing my accounting degree in 6 months so i think my career plans fit well into things. I live with my sister and her and my partner don’t want me to work while pregnant. If my sister buys her home in the next 9 months i’ll stay there with her and my partner. If she doesn’t then i’ll move in with my partner at her moms which is an hour away from me. Aside from my sisters support i will more than likely have support from my nana and my dad.
things have been so good between me and her since day one. I am so glad that she’s the one that this is happening with. Am i crazy for thinking about marriage? we had already been talking about future plans and wanting to be married in the future before this. We also will be starting therapy. what are some other things i need to think about?
sorry if this was all over the place i don’t even know what im asking im in shock.
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i just need some input on my plans encouragement or something this was not planned at all but i want to take responsibility and go about things the best way i can.
She’s fully on board with keeping it and i’m 90% i want to too but she says she will support if i decide to get an abortion. She works full time, and im in school full time. ( Online self pace high school ) Also going to an online self paced university after i finish. I had already been planning on finishing my accounting degree in 6 months so i think my career plans fit well into things. I live with my sister and her and my partner don’t want me to work while pregnant. If my sister buys her home in the next 9 months i’ll stay there with her and my partner. If she doesn’t then i’ll move in with my partner at her moms which is an hour away from me. Aside from my sisters support i will more than likely have support from my nana and my dad.
things have been so good between me and her since day one. I am so glad that she’s the one that this is happening with. Am i crazy for thinking about marriage? we had already been talking about future plans and wanting to be married in the future before this. We also will be starting therapy. what are some other things i need to think about?
sorry if this was all over the place i don’t even know what im asking im in shock.
2024.05.19 19:33 PrestigiousLimee Just want to put my thoughts out there
I (25M) been feeling down most of the time since the past few years. I’m from a family na magulo, like as in magulo. I grew up without my parents, dad (eldest child) died when i was still months old out of the womb and my mom left me sa family ng dad ko. So I basically grew up with my lolo. (First grandchild)
My lolo is good naman but he has anger issues, if you can call it that. He gets angry most of the time even with the most smallest things, during those moments na he is angry he says things that really hurt you. We all experience this, family namin and even mga people na who works with him. Parang common thing na siya and accepted na ng tao around him.
Si lolo meron siyang 4 children, not including my dad and other aunt who passed away na. They all have their own problems that we, people around them(me and my cousins), have to deal with.
The 2nd eldest sa mag siblings was a former addict. Leeching off sa status ni lolo. Very pangit ang ugali. Mayabang. Most toxic traits na you can think off he probably have those. (All of them have) And most of my cousins are his children from different partners he had and we still have some cousins na we don’t know of or di lang namin kasama cos he has a lot of children. He currently is living with his partner, they have 2 kids but of course meron siyang another partner on the side, he even brought the other girl with us during our family vacation. Has 5 kids that i am close to but has more na we aren’t with
3rd eldest nothing much but has anger issues as well and that causes them to fight with each other most of the time. Has 2 kids
4th eldest well known from where i am living, has lots of issues and such that people from here know. I sometimes hear things that she did from other people that i get embarrassed about being associated with her. No kids
Their youngest has anger issues too but not that much. Chill siya sa amin ng mga cousins ko but of course toxic traits as well, i guess it runs in the family. No kids
Mga ugali nila causes them to fight with each other most of then time and we get caught in the crossfire. We listen to them badmouth each other and we can’t do anything about it. There’s one thing they get along with each other though, hating our lola. Not their birth mother. They even say bad things about her in front of us or even our relatives. Lola just doesn’t mind thm cos she doesn’t want to go down their level.
Basically this family is real fucked up and it’s really taking a toll on me. I wont list everything cos it will take a while if i do. Basta it really is fucked up. Whenever i hear something from them or they get mentioned I automatically feel sad and anxious. I live with my mom na now btw so i am not with them na everyday.
They even ask my mom why I don’t go to see them or even magparamdam man lang. I can’t even say the truth kasi i know they’ll get really pissed and might do something to me. This just happened kanina lang.
Also, it’s been 5 years since I graduated and still no job. I tried to study again during pandemic but online classes sucked so i stop and has since been looking for a job. I have a degree but its not something you can find a job right away with. It’s one of those uncommon degrees.
The thing is i just want to have a job so i can have an excuse like a legit one para i cant go whenever they want to gather or something. I just want to earn money too so i can get away from here so they won’t meddle with anything i want to do. I’ve followed what my lolo wanted all my life. Finished studying the right time. No vices. Studied again.
Now i just want to do what i want and don’t want then gorcing things on me anymore. They want me to work with them or study again and things like that.
It makes me sad that i can’t get the opportunity for me to start my own life after applying so many times. It feels like things are gonna go well for me, that i just have to suck it up and do what they want.
Thanks for letting me vent out.
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My lolo is good naman but he has anger issues, if you can call it that. He gets angry most of the time even with the most smallest things, during those moments na he is angry he says things that really hurt you. We all experience this, family namin and even mga people na who works with him. Parang common thing na siya and accepted na ng tao around him.
Si lolo meron siyang 4 children, not including my dad and other aunt who passed away na. They all have their own problems that we, people around them(me and my cousins), have to deal with.
The 2nd eldest sa mag siblings was a former addict. Leeching off sa status ni lolo. Very pangit ang ugali. Mayabang. Most toxic traits na you can think off he probably have those. (All of them have) And most of my cousins are his children from different partners he had and we still have some cousins na we don’t know of or di lang namin kasama cos he has a lot of children. He currently is living with his partner, they have 2 kids but of course meron siyang another partner on the side, he even brought the other girl with us during our family vacation. Has 5 kids that i am close to but has more na we aren’t with
3rd eldest nothing much but has anger issues as well and that causes them to fight with each other most of the time. Has 2 kids
4th eldest well known from where i am living, has lots of issues and such that people from here know. I sometimes hear things that she did from other people that i get embarrassed about being associated with her. No kids
Their youngest has anger issues too but not that much. Chill siya sa amin ng mga cousins ko but of course toxic traits as well, i guess it runs in the family. No kids
Mga ugali nila causes them to fight with each other most of then time and we get caught in the crossfire. We listen to them badmouth each other and we can’t do anything about it. There’s one thing they get along with each other though, hating our lola. Not their birth mother. They even say bad things about her in front of us or even our relatives. Lola just doesn’t mind thm cos she doesn’t want to go down their level.
Basically this family is real fucked up and it’s really taking a toll on me. I wont list everything cos it will take a while if i do. Basta it really is fucked up. Whenever i hear something from them or they get mentioned I automatically feel sad and anxious. I live with my mom na now btw so i am not with them na everyday.
They even ask my mom why I don’t go to see them or even magparamdam man lang. I can’t even say the truth kasi i know they’ll get really pissed and might do something to me. This just happened kanina lang.
Also, it’s been 5 years since I graduated and still no job. I tried to study again during pandemic but online classes sucked so i stop and has since been looking for a job. I have a degree but its not something you can find a job right away with. It’s one of those uncommon degrees.
The thing is i just want to have a job so i can have an excuse like a legit one para i cant go whenever they want to gather or something. I just want to earn money too so i can get away from here so they won’t meddle with anything i want to do. I’ve followed what my lolo wanted all my life. Finished studying the right time. No vices. Studied again.
Now i just want to do what i want and don’t want then gorcing things on me anymore. They want me to work with them or study again and things like that.
It makes me sad that i can’t get the opportunity for me to start my own life after applying so many times. It feels like things are gonna go well for me, that i just have to suck it up and do what they want.
Thanks for letting me vent out.
2024.05.19 19:10 casadega How to revamp bed that have mulch and weed prevention?
 | From the pictures you can see what I’m dealing with. I moved in with my partner at this house a year ago so missed any planting time. Now that I’ve been going crazy with the back yard he asked why I hadn’t don’t anything with these beds. (I am very amateur, just generally do things the way my grandmother showed me in 90’s) submitted by casadega to gardening [link] [comments] I didn’t want to take over completely but now I feel I have the go ahead…also, I told him that it was going to be a lot of work to get these useable: rake up the old mulch (from previous owners, he hasn’t touched this in the 5ish years he’s lived here) and then pull up the old weed barrier. He said “just dump dirt on top!” With my limited knowledge, doing that: maybe some seasonal flowers with shallow roots might grow AND it’s late in the season…which concerns me…so experienced gardeners: HELP! What would you do that is the not going to kill me to vamp up these beds a little bit? Or do I need to go the full nuclear option? And what would you plant?I have some late bachelor buttons I started from seed and am not ashamed to go to my local garden center and grab more flowers (or veggies you think I could sneak in this late). Also region is North Georgia in the US if that helps. |
2024.05.19 18:17 HylianHopes I (30sF) want on advice on two relationship patterns I need help breaking: Grass is Greener Syndrome and recently Attracting Creeps.
Yesterday my ex from 2021 wrote a lovely introspective about our breakup. It was a long message, but essentially said that when I was reciprocating his effort every step of the way, he began to try to max out his life and was envisioning every other partner out there that might be a better match. That I was encouraging and adored him so much that maybe, he thought, that he could do better. But that he's ashamed of thinking that and he's sorry for breaking up with me out of the blue and I had deserved better. Thankfully, he left it at saying he'd always think I'm a tremendous and attractive human, without trying to get back together. I think I would have cut him as a friend if he had asked about that possibility.
It wasn't surprising though because he's the fourth ex to do this. Which means I'm 4/4 out of all my exboyfriends coming back months or years later saying they were blind to how good we had it. They admit they were still looking toward greener pastures. That they shouldn't have because I'm so sweet, so smart, so affectionate, so cute, so sexy, so good at communication, so logical, so easy to resolve conflict with, so... everything lined up with their checkbox of what they want (but how does that make sense? They left because they wanted more so I'm not everything they wanted). 3 out of 4 have attempted to rekindle and give the relationship another try.
I've asked them about any blindspots I might have had, and they say that I was great through and through along with the relationship we had. That they wouldn't change a thing about me, except one joked it would be nice if I were an heiress, and another that said he had lied about his feelings on family planning and actually struggled with the idea of meeting my kids and becoming a stepdad but was ready now. I appreciated the candor from him and we tried again, but I ultimately didn't feel like he really wanted to date me and was settling. He was talking about engagement and delaying proposing and then fully back to being uncertain.
So I've learned that you should never go back to an ex. It'll only cause you pain. So that's not an issue or anything I need to learn.
However, how do I stop dating men who don't appreciate what they have and are going to breakup with me even when the relationship is going well? Or how can I combat their growing feeling that really good isn't enough?
And because it's reddit, I feel like I need to include that I'm not chasing the top 10%. I swipe on guys based on the bio they've written.
I've dated a range of everything. I've been down to date people as long as they've been kind, respectful, and share some of my mostly nerdy interests/hobbies. Men who are ambitious/chill, oldeyounger, attractive/not attractive (but attractive in my subjective view), paycheck to paycheck or have retirement all figured out , single dads/divorced/never married/never dated before because of social anxiety, shy/gregorious --- and you get the idea.
Even if I were stuck on someone ideal to my specifications for shallow traits it's still realistic: They'd be the type that enjoys food a little too much and would be fun to go to the gym with, so they're mostly healthy, strong, but also has a bit of a gut. Great eyes and a warm smile. I love short guys and anyone in a range around 5'3" is perfect. But height is only a preference and I've dated tall too. I'm happy dating outside my ideal as long as they're kind, respectful, and gentle.
Then the second issue, attracting creeps. I spent a year intentionally single because I felt emotionally unavailable. I hopped back into dating apps in earnest starting in January and was fine until April. April/May has been unreal. It's completely worse than anything I've encountered before. I've never dealt with anything too creepy or severe sexual harassment before, but it's everywhere I go now.
-First dates have groped me after I said no.
-Flashed their penis and rubbed it on me while in public. (Police report submitted)
-Pressured me for sex right away and this guy, a salesman by trade, was not accepting no for an answer, so I said I would next date but couldn't go to his place that night - just to get away. But messaged him after and told him that I had lied to get away, wrote 100 no's and 1 yes doesn't mean yes, and blocked him.
-I found out another was a sex offender who was convicted of digital voyeurism of a kid under 14 (and preferred Stars Wars over Star Trek, doubly troubling, just kidding 😜)
-Another man anonymously called my work, could have been a prior date or completely random, and the recording of that could be used as the start of a horror film. He wouldn't tell me who he was, but acted like he knew who I was, and then lewdly asked about my bathroom usage...
-A guy I had barely met, but was not a date with nor interested in, must have hid my phone, then sent me to grab something, got into my phone, I caught him, and listened to him justify that he liked me and just needed to know what kind of person I was before getting attached. I just said it wasn't going to happen and left. He ended up sort of stalking me for a few days before mutual friends out the kibosh on him.
I'm sick of it. I've never felt unsafe meeting people in public, I figured public places were enough protection until this month.
I don't know what I'm doing differently to suddenly be preyed on by a bunch of creeps. I think I'm acting like I always have, but I have gained weight and maybe that's why? But why only now and not in January? Is it all coincidental?
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It wasn't surprising though because he's the fourth ex to do this. Which means I'm 4/4 out of all my exboyfriends coming back months or years later saying they were blind to how good we had it. They admit they were still looking toward greener pastures. That they shouldn't have because I'm so sweet, so smart, so affectionate, so cute, so sexy, so good at communication, so logical, so easy to resolve conflict with, so... everything lined up with their checkbox of what they want (but how does that make sense? They left because they wanted more so I'm not everything they wanted). 3 out of 4 have attempted to rekindle and give the relationship another try.
I've asked them about any blindspots I might have had, and they say that I was great through and through along with the relationship we had. That they wouldn't change a thing about me, except one joked it would be nice if I were an heiress, and another that said he had lied about his feelings on family planning and actually struggled with the idea of meeting my kids and becoming a stepdad but was ready now. I appreciated the candor from him and we tried again, but I ultimately didn't feel like he really wanted to date me and was settling. He was talking about engagement and delaying proposing and then fully back to being uncertain.
So I've learned that you should never go back to an ex. It'll only cause you pain. So that's not an issue or anything I need to learn.
However, how do I stop dating men who don't appreciate what they have and are going to breakup with me even when the relationship is going well? Or how can I combat their growing feeling that really good isn't enough?
And because it's reddit, I feel like I need to include that I'm not chasing the top 10%. I swipe on guys based on the bio they've written.
I've dated a range of everything. I've been down to date people as long as they've been kind, respectful, and share some of my mostly nerdy interests/hobbies. Men who are ambitious/chill, oldeyounger, attractive/not attractive (but attractive in my subjective view), paycheck to paycheck or have retirement all figured out , single dads/divorced/never married/never dated before because of social anxiety, shy/gregorious --- and you get the idea.
Even if I were stuck on someone ideal to my specifications for shallow traits it's still realistic: They'd be the type that enjoys food a little too much and would be fun to go to the gym with, so they're mostly healthy, strong, but also has a bit of a gut. Great eyes and a warm smile. I love short guys and anyone in a range around 5'3" is perfect. But height is only a preference and I've dated tall too. I'm happy dating outside my ideal as long as they're kind, respectful, and gentle.
Then the second issue, attracting creeps. I spent a year intentionally single because I felt emotionally unavailable. I hopped back into dating apps in earnest starting in January and was fine until April. April/May has been unreal. It's completely worse than anything I've encountered before. I've never dealt with anything too creepy or severe sexual harassment before, but it's everywhere I go now.
-First dates have groped me after I said no.
-Flashed their penis and rubbed it on me while in public. (Police report submitted)
-Pressured me for sex right away and this guy, a salesman by trade, was not accepting no for an answer, so I said I would next date but couldn't go to his place that night - just to get away. But messaged him after and told him that I had lied to get away, wrote 100 no's and 1 yes doesn't mean yes, and blocked him.
-I found out another was a sex offender who was convicted of digital voyeurism of a kid under 14 (and preferred Stars Wars over Star Trek, doubly troubling, just kidding 😜)
-Another man anonymously called my work, could have been a prior date or completely random, and the recording of that could be used as the start of a horror film. He wouldn't tell me who he was, but acted like he knew who I was, and then lewdly asked about my bathroom usage...
-A guy I had barely met, but was not a date with nor interested in, must have hid my phone, then sent me to grab something, got into my phone, I caught him, and listened to him justify that he liked me and just needed to know what kind of person I was before getting attached. I just said it wasn't going to happen and left. He ended up sort of stalking me for a few days before mutual friends out the kibosh on him.
I'm sick of it. I've never felt unsafe meeting people in public, I figured public places were enough protection until this month.
I don't know what I'm doing differently to suddenly be preyed on by a bunch of creeps. I think I'm acting like I always have, but I have gained weight and maybe that's why? But why only now and not in January? Is it all coincidental?
2024.05.19 18:06 Aware-Ad-2654 Beechers hope
Am I alone in thinking that the chores in beechers hope could have been much better? What I mean by this is that once you finish some chores you can sell stuff but you don’t actually see it get sold you just press a button see a Timelapse and get money. This mechanic could have been better if you got to actually drive the goods into town and sell them (this would help immersion and also help with rp). Also, other than the chores there’s nothing much to do at beechers except for the thing with the squirrel dressed as John, eat dinner, and talk to people, when playing as Arthur and you were in camp not only were there actual conversations you could have with some of the women in camp ( the little question mark on the mini map) but you could also gamble, and get different items for your fellow camp members.
Anyway that’s all I can think of today so that’s my rant over. (Btw when talking about beechers I was entirely talking about after completing the main story)
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Anyway that’s all I can think of today so that’s my rant over. (Btw when talking about beechers I was entirely talking about after completing the main story)
2024.05.19 17:59 Informal-Okra2281 AITAH for not inviting my dad to my high-school graduation ?
First of all congrats to all 2024 graduates.
This is a long one so yea. My dad has always been a pretty much absent father. Especially financially, with my mom buying us everything we’ve needed , we being my sister and I. I have vivid memories of my dad calling and saying he’s come pick us up for us to spend time with him, only for him to arrive at 10 PM to give us a $10 bill and kiss good bye. we saw him occasionally. We’ve maybe been with a total of 10-20 times throughout the entirety our lives. But as we got older we realized that we weren’t a priority of his.
Right around when COVID hit though my dad began to come around a lot more. But not in the way u may be thinking. See my dad got into hard drugs, with his then gf. Lost my baby brother to CPS, and was basically homeless. So he invited himself to our home, sleeping in my moms car at night and sometimes my mom being the god send that she is was nice enough to let him come in and eat when it got colder out. This was the worst time of my life concerning my father . I saw him in a completely different light and thought very little of him. It just completely stunned me that the only way my dad would come to see his kids is if he had nowhere else to go. He , as most drug addicts was in and out of jail, until one time when he had to stay for a few months longer , and then spent a few months in a halfway house. All throughout this and before my mom never really spoke ill of my father , unless she was arguing with him about some bull shit he was doing while being a druggy and hanging around our house, like doing drugs in our basement. But she always encouraged or even forced us to communicate with him, and try to forgive/ build a relationship with him. Aswell as countless times of my mom helping this man. Giving him money, rides, clothes, and wtv else he asked for.
Well after my dad went to jail that last time and was in the halfway house, he came out a new man. He kicked his drug habit, got his CDL license and was doing great. My sister and I were very proud of him and wanted to give him another chance. We spent 4th of July with him, and hung out with him a couple more times just driving around in his car. And just in general we’re a little closer and more communicative.
Fast forward to the 2 main incidents that led to him not being invited to my graduation . So as I was heading over to a friends house one day my car cut out. My mom was at work with a client (she’s a hairdresser) so I naively thought I could call my dad. He showed up took a look under my hood and realized that id need to get it towed. So I took the initiative to start calling tow companies and try to find the cheapest one. I luckily manage to find a guy that would do it for only $65 . Which if you’re an adult you know how much of an insanely good deal that is. Whilst I’m calling tow companies my dad has spent this time complaining about my moms choice in cars , and basically blaming her for my car cutting out. And also trying to call his sister so he could borrow a tool she had to just hitch my car to her truck and tow it himself. He can’t get ahold of her so I bring up the $65 tow guy. This man starts complaining saying he can do it for free and just wait for his sister to pick it up. Anothe 30 minutes go by and nothing. So i call my mom, and ask her can she cashapp me. Of course she says yes. So I call the tow man myself to get my car towed. The entire time this man is complaining about paying $65 fucking dollars, complaining about my mom buying the car , and complaining saying I hope she doesn’t expect me to pay for this. Mind you he has a CDL license, so he’s making good money and can more then afford to pay it . He paid $30,000 for his car cash and was able to save this money up for it in only a few months, so u do that math for how much he makes. At first I was ignoring him letting him talk shit. But he just kept going on and on and on, and I finally snapped and told him to stop talking about my mom and began defending her. We got into a heated argument that ended with him saying don’t ask him for anything, and me assuring him that I won’t. I had started crying because of how frustrated I was at the situation . I was asking something so little of him and this is how he acted? And he made fun of that saying “I’m not going to cry about it either” this was the last straw and I vowed to never reach out to him again.
I kept that vow despite my moms continuous efforts to get me to talk to him/ unblock him/ forgive him , but I was done. My 18th birthday roles around a few months later. And I decided to be nice and invite him, my thought process was I’m going to college soon , and won’t see him for probably the 4 yrs that id be gone away to school. So why not just try. I didn’t ask this man for anything and just told him where the place of my party was. The time comes and my mom and I are a little late to my party about 10-15 minutes late to getting to the place. He begins texting me asking where we are , and I say we’re a few minutes late, but otw and just resend the address . He starts making excuses saying oh he has work he has to go and wtv else. I say ok that’s fine . He says oh I have a gift I wanted to give you. I say oh you could bring it later when ur off or we could meet somewhere for me to get it tmrw. The next day roles around and I ask him if he worked today and when I could meet him to get the gift. Then he starts talking bs saying, oh I already gave it to ur mom, with the child support card. I’m thinkin oh maybe he can put more money on it and did that for me , for my bday. But no he was referring to the money he is mandated to pay by the state , which he just began paying for the last year or he so he’d been driving trucks. So once I realized this I decided to tell him how bad of a father he was, and yes I did disrespect him and curse him out and I didn’t care. This was really the final straw and I wanted to give him a piece of my mind. And that I did. This is where he really fucked up though. He texted my mom saying to give me the childsupprt card for my bday. My mom uses the $400/ month he pays for our utilities and has them on autopay. And idrc what anyone thinks about that I think it’s a very appropriate use of it. Especially since she pays for wtv else we need and want with no complaints . So she tells him it’s sad that has nothing to give his daughter on her 18th birthday and not to text her phone with the bs telling her what to do with the money. Ig this upsets him because he brings up something’s of my moms past , during a time that was really hard for her. And that was it for my mom. She cut him off too, and though she has not hate for him, she says she’s done allowing people in her life that do nothing but take advantage of and disrespect her. I was relieved to finally have my mother stop pressuring me to spend time with my father, and happy to be done with the stress and pain that he usually causes when he’s around.
Fast forward to now , my Graduation was last week. I only had 8 tickets . And I had already decided to give tickets to my grandma , her 5 kids (my mom , aunts , and uncles) my sister and my favorite cousin. A few days before the graduation whilst at school, a teacher pulls me aside and asks me did Ik my dad tried to come up to my school to get a graduation ticket . I laughed this off. The day of my graduation comes and I find out he was at the place of the graduation trying to find me. I was relieved that we didn’t bump into one another because I truthfully don’t want to see him. But later I felt a little bad when thinking about how he tried to come to the school then still came to the graduation despite not being let in obviously for the lack of a ticket. I don’t know why but my mom is in the same boat feeling guilty that he wasn’t let in on such a big moment. And has began some of her old antics of saying oh can he come to ur graduation party (not the ceremony but a family celebration) my guilt however doesn’t extend this far, and I just can’t give this man yet another opportunity to disappoint me. So what do you think Reddit , am I the asshole?
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This is a long one so yea. My dad has always been a pretty much absent father. Especially financially, with my mom buying us everything we’ve needed , we being my sister and I. I have vivid memories of my dad calling and saying he’s come pick us up for us to spend time with him, only for him to arrive at 10 PM to give us a $10 bill and kiss good bye. we saw him occasionally. We’ve maybe been with a total of 10-20 times throughout the entirety our lives. But as we got older we realized that we weren’t a priority of his.
Right around when COVID hit though my dad began to come around a lot more. But not in the way u may be thinking. See my dad got into hard drugs, with his then gf. Lost my baby brother to CPS, and was basically homeless. So he invited himself to our home, sleeping in my moms car at night and sometimes my mom being the god send that she is was nice enough to let him come in and eat when it got colder out. This was the worst time of my life concerning my father . I saw him in a completely different light and thought very little of him. It just completely stunned me that the only way my dad would come to see his kids is if he had nowhere else to go. He , as most drug addicts was in and out of jail, until one time when he had to stay for a few months longer , and then spent a few months in a halfway house. All throughout this and before my mom never really spoke ill of my father , unless she was arguing with him about some bull shit he was doing while being a druggy and hanging around our house, like doing drugs in our basement. But she always encouraged or even forced us to communicate with him, and try to forgive/ build a relationship with him. Aswell as countless times of my mom helping this man. Giving him money, rides, clothes, and wtv else he asked for.
Well after my dad went to jail that last time and was in the halfway house, he came out a new man. He kicked his drug habit, got his CDL license and was doing great. My sister and I were very proud of him and wanted to give him another chance. We spent 4th of July with him, and hung out with him a couple more times just driving around in his car. And just in general we’re a little closer and more communicative.
Fast forward to the 2 main incidents that led to him not being invited to my graduation . So as I was heading over to a friends house one day my car cut out. My mom was at work with a client (she’s a hairdresser) so I naively thought I could call my dad. He showed up took a look under my hood and realized that id need to get it towed. So I took the initiative to start calling tow companies and try to find the cheapest one. I luckily manage to find a guy that would do it for only $65 . Which if you’re an adult you know how much of an insanely good deal that is. Whilst I’m calling tow companies my dad has spent this time complaining about my moms choice in cars , and basically blaming her for my car cutting out. And also trying to call his sister so he could borrow a tool she had to just hitch my car to her truck and tow it himself. He can’t get ahold of her so I bring up the $65 tow guy. This man starts complaining saying he can do it for free and just wait for his sister to pick it up. Anothe 30 minutes go by and nothing. So i call my mom, and ask her can she cashapp me. Of course she says yes. So I call the tow man myself to get my car towed. The entire time this man is complaining about paying $65 fucking dollars, complaining about my mom buying the car , and complaining saying I hope she doesn’t expect me to pay for this. Mind you he has a CDL license, so he’s making good money and can more then afford to pay it . He paid $30,000 for his car cash and was able to save this money up for it in only a few months, so u do that math for how much he makes. At first I was ignoring him letting him talk shit. But he just kept going on and on and on, and I finally snapped and told him to stop talking about my mom and began defending her. We got into a heated argument that ended with him saying don’t ask him for anything, and me assuring him that I won’t. I had started crying because of how frustrated I was at the situation . I was asking something so little of him and this is how he acted? And he made fun of that saying “I’m not going to cry about it either” this was the last straw and I vowed to never reach out to him again.
I kept that vow despite my moms continuous efforts to get me to talk to him/ unblock him/ forgive him , but I was done. My 18th birthday roles around a few months later. And I decided to be nice and invite him, my thought process was I’m going to college soon , and won’t see him for probably the 4 yrs that id be gone away to school. So why not just try. I didn’t ask this man for anything and just told him where the place of my party was. The time comes and my mom and I are a little late to my party about 10-15 minutes late to getting to the place. He begins texting me asking where we are , and I say we’re a few minutes late, but otw and just resend the address . He starts making excuses saying oh he has work he has to go and wtv else. I say ok that’s fine . He says oh I have a gift I wanted to give you. I say oh you could bring it later when ur off or we could meet somewhere for me to get it tmrw. The next day roles around and I ask him if he worked today and when I could meet him to get the gift. Then he starts talking bs saying, oh I already gave it to ur mom, with the child support card. I’m thinkin oh maybe he can put more money on it and did that for me , for my bday. But no he was referring to the money he is mandated to pay by the state , which he just began paying for the last year or he so he’d been driving trucks. So once I realized this I decided to tell him how bad of a father he was, and yes I did disrespect him and curse him out and I didn’t care. This was really the final straw and I wanted to give him a piece of my mind. And that I did. This is where he really fucked up though. He texted my mom saying to give me the childsupprt card for my bday. My mom uses the $400/ month he pays for our utilities and has them on autopay. And idrc what anyone thinks about that I think it’s a very appropriate use of it. Especially since she pays for wtv else we need and want with no complaints . So she tells him it’s sad that has nothing to give his daughter on her 18th birthday and not to text her phone with the bs telling her what to do with the money. Ig this upsets him because he brings up something’s of my moms past , during a time that was really hard for her. And that was it for my mom. She cut him off too, and though she has not hate for him, she says she’s done allowing people in her life that do nothing but take advantage of and disrespect her. I was relieved to finally have my mother stop pressuring me to spend time with my father, and happy to be done with the stress and pain that he usually causes when he’s around.
Fast forward to now , my Graduation was last week. I only had 8 tickets . And I had already decided to give tickets to my grandma , her 5 kids (my mom , aunts , and uncles) my sister and my favorite cousin. A few days before the graduation whilst at school, a teacher pulls me aside and asks me did Ik my dad tried to come up to my school to get a graduation ticket . I laughed this off. The day of my graduation comes and I find out he was at the place of the graduation trying to find me. I was relieved that we didn’t bump into one another because I truthfully don’t want to see him. But later I felt a little bad when thinking about how he tried to come to the school then still came to the graduation despite not being let in obviously for the lack of a ticket. I don’t know why but my mom is in the same boat feeling guilty that he wasn’t let in on such a big moment. And has began some of her old antics of saying oh can he come to ur graduation party (not the ceremony but a family celebration) my guilt however doesn’t extend this far, and I just can’t give this man yet another opportunity to disappoint me. So what do you think Reddit , am I the asshole?
2024.05.19 17:41 Sweet-Count2557 Spain Weather In March 2024
 | Spain Weather In March 2024 submitted by Sweet-Count2557 to worldkidstravel [link] [comments] March is an ideal month to visit Spain. The weather is mild, and the days are long and sunny. We'll explore the average temperatures, hours of daylight, rainfall, sunsets, and activities you can enjoy during your stay. We'll also provide a packing list and safety tips so you can experience Spain with confidence. Spain in March is a great time to enjoy the outdoors. The days are getting longer and the temperatures are mild, making it perfect for activities such as hiking and exploring the countryside. The average temperature in March in Spain is around 15°C, with the warmer temperatures in the south and cooler temperatures in the north. Daylight hours range from 10-12 hours per day, with the longest days in the south and the shortest in the north. Rainfall is relatively low in March, with only a few days of rainfall. The sunsets are spectacular, with the sun setting around 8 pm in the north and 9 pm in the south. Average Temperatures You can expect pleasant temperatures throughout the month, on average. In March, the average temperature in Spain is a comfortable 12°C (53°F) with highs of 16°C (61°F) and lows of 7°C (45°F). The temperatures vary slightly depending on the region. For instance, in Barcelona, the temperature is an average of 12°C (54°F) and in Madrid it is 13°C (55°F). Traveling around Spain in March is a great time to explore cities and famous sites without having to deal with the scorching heat of the summer months. Even though days are warm, Spain can experience some chilly days in March. It's important to bring along layers of clothing, such as a light jacket or sweater. Additionally, Spain experiences a considerable amount of rain this month, so it's a good idea to bring rain gear. It's also a good idea to check the weather forecast for the locations you plan to visit. The weather in Spain in March is generally mild and comfortable. Although there can be some rain and chillier days, overall it's a great time to visit and explore the country. Pack accordingly and enjoy all that Spain has to offer this time of year. Hours of Daylight At this time of year, you'll experience plenty of sunshine, with daylight lasting into the late evening hours. In March, the average amount of daylight hours in Spain is 11 to 13 hours per day. The amount of daylight hours is influenced by the latitude of the location. For example, Madrid has the highest number of daylight hours at 13 hours per day, while cities located on the coast, such as Barcelona and Valencia, have around 11 hours of daylight a day. In Spain, daylight hours begin to increase in March. This makes it an ideal time to plan sightseeing trips or beachwear activities. Spain's Mediterranean coastline offers a wide array of activities that can be enjoyed in these longer hours of daylight. From exploring the country's many historical monuments to beachfront activities such as swimming, kayaking, and snorkelling, there is something for everyone. The daylight hours in Spain in March are perfect for outdoor activities. You can enjoy the warm sun during the day and explore the nightlife in the later hours of the day. The extended daylight hours also provide the opportunity to take in the beauty of the Spanish countryside and beaches. With a little planning, you can maximize your time and experience all that Spain has to offer in March. Rainfall As March progresses, you'll find yourself in the midst of a wetter season, with rain often falling throughout the day. The dampness levels in Spain during this time are higher than average and you may find yourself soaked in rain more often than not. Sun protection is key during this time, as the rainy weather may be unexpected or abundant in some areas. Make sure to bring an umbrella and raincoat if you're traveling in Spain during March. The average amount of rainfall in Spain during March is about 85 mm. While this is low compared to other countries, it's still higher than the average for other months of the year. The rain can be quite heavy and short-lived, often accompanied by thunderstorms. The northern part of Spain can experience more rainfall than the southern part. In Spain, March marks the beginning of the wet season and is typically one of the rainiest months of the year. It's important to be prepared for the rain and the sudden changes in weather. Make sure to check the weather forecast ahead of time to ensure that you're prepared for the wet and rainy days that come with March. Sunsets Gaze out at the horizon and marvel at the beautiful sunsets during this time of year; they're sure to leave you feeling relaxed and content. During the month of March in Spain, the sunsets take on a unique character. The sun will dip below the horizon, creating a deep orange-yellow color that will fill the sky and light up the countryside. This is the perfect time to take a stroll along the beach, visiting beach bars or swimming spots and soaking in the atmosphere. The colors of the sunset will be enhanced by the reflection of the sun on the ocean. This creates a dazzling effect that will captivate all onlookers. The sky will become a mix of deep oranges, blues, and purples. It's a sight to behold and one that will leave you feeling relaxed and inspired. As the sun sets, the air will become cooler and the night will begin to set in. The beauty of the Spanish sunset in March is something that is hard to describe. The warm colors, the cool breeze, and the feeling of being surrounded by nature are all part of the experience. Whether you're out for a walk or just sitting and watching the sunset, you'll find yourself captivated by the beauty of the sky. Activities to Enjoy Sunsets in March offer plenty of activities to enjoy, with many beach bars and swimming spots to explore. On average, the sun sets at 8:00 PM in the evening, providing plenty of time to take in the stunning views. A great way to explore the beauty of the Spanish coast is to take a leisurely beach walk or explore some of the many hiking trails in the area. The Mediterranean climate in Spain makes March an ideal time for outdoor activities, and the warm, sunny days provide perfect conditions for a relaxing stroll or challenging hike. A variety of beach bars line the coastline, offering a chance to enjoy a refreshing drink while watching the sun set over the horizon. Many of these bars offer evening entertainment, with live music, comedy shows and other events, providing a great chance to mingle with locals and enjoy the atmosphere of the Spanish coast. For those looking for something a bit more active, many swimming spots are available along the coast, offering a chance to cool down after a long day of exploring. The stunning sunsets in March in Spain provide an unforgettable experience that can be enjoyed in a variety of ways. Whether you choose to explore the coastline on foot, take a dip in the Mediterranean Sea, or just relax with a drink at a beach bar, you're sure to create lasting memories of your time in Spain. Clothing to Pack When packing for your trip to Spain in March, it's important to bring clothing that can keep you comfortable in the warm Mediterranean climate. The daytime temperatures are generally quite mild, ranging from highs of around 18 degrees Celsius (64 degrees Fahrenheit) to lows of around 11 degrees Celsius (52 degrees Fahrenheit). However, for daytime sightseeing and beach walks, it's best to bring light, breathable clothing like shorts, t-shirts, and sandals, as well as a light jacket or sweater for cooler days. Rain is also a factor to consider when packing for a trip to Spain in March. The amount of rain varies depending on the region, but it's generally light, with most areas receiving just a few centimeters of rain each month. A waterproof jacket or raincoat is a must, as well as a pair of waterproof shoes, just in case you're caught in a sudden shower. It's also important to bring a hat and sunglasses to protect yourself from the sun. The sun in Spain is quite strong, even in March, so it's best to be prepared to protect yourself from it. Light, breathable fabrics are ideal for protection from the sun, and a wide-brimmed hat can help keep the sun off your face. Safety Tips To ensure you have a safe and enjoyable trip to Spain in March, it's important to keep safety in mind. With longer days and changing tides, there are a few safety tips to keep in mind while visiting Spain in March: Familiarize yourself with the local language. Knowing some basic phrases like 'Please,' 'Thank You,' and 'Where is the nearest hospital/police station?' can help you get around more easily and understand the culture better. Avoid walking alone at night. If you're out late, it's best to stay in a group and be aware of your surroundings. Do your research before visiting a new city or area. Knowing the local laws and customs can help you avoid any potential trouble. Be mindful of pick-pockets. Be aware of your belongings and keep your wallet and other valuable items close to you. This is especially important when taking public transportation or visiting crowded places. It's also wise to keep your documents and passport in a safe place, such as a hotel safe or locker. By following these safety tips, you can make sure that your trip to Spain in March is both safe and enjoyable. Frequently Asked Questions What is the best time of day to enjoy the outdoors in Spain in March? We recommend visiting Spain in March for the perfect outdoor experience. Whether you're looking to ski at one of the many resorts or tour a winery, the best time of day to enjoy the outdoors is just after sunrise. The crisp morning air and natural beauty of the countryside create a stunning backdrop for any outdoor activity. Plus, you'll beat the crowds and the midday heat, making for a more enjoyable experience. Are there any popular festivals or events taking place in Spain in March? March is a great time to visit Spain, as it's the month of many festivals and events. Food markets come alive with local produce and traditional Spanish dishes, while music festivals showcase the vibrant culture and sounds of the country. Whether you're looking for a traditional experience or something a little different, there's something for everyone. From Flamenco in Seville to the Guggenheim Museum in Bilbao, you can explore a range of attractions and events. Spain is also the perfect place to enjoy the outdoors, with warm weather and clear blue skies making it a great destination for sightseeing and relaxation. If you're planning a trip, March is definitely the time to go! Are there any popular beaches or coastal towns to visit in March? We've all heard of the Mediterranean climate that Spain enjoys, but what about its beaches and coastal towns in March? With an anachronistic blend of sun and showers, there's plenty to explore. Rainfall levels can vary, so it pays to be prepared with appropriate clothing, but that doesn't mean you can't have a great day at the beach. Whether you're looking for a quiet stroll along the beach or a wild night out, there are plenty of stunning coastal towns to explore in Spain. With plenty of research and knowledge, you can choose the perfect spot for your March getaway. Is the Spanish cuisine different in March than other months? When it comes to the traditional Spanish cuisine, March is an interesting month. Many local ingredients are in season, such as artichoke, asparagus, and strawberries. This makes for a unique variety of dishes that may not be available in other months. Additionally, March is a great time for wine tasting in Spain. The mild temperatures make it the perfect season to try some of the country's best wines. With the right local ingredients and delicious beverages, there's no doubt that Spanish cuisine in March is a truly rewarding experience. Are there any special discounts or deals for tourists in March? We've got some great news for travelers looking to visit Spain in March! There are a number of discounts and package offers to be had, so you can enjoy the country without breaking the bank. Airlines often have special airfare deals during this time of the year, so be sure to keep an eye out for those. If you're looking for a package offer, there are plenty of hotels and tour companies that provide discounts, so it pays to do your research. To sweeten the pot, you can also find plenty of idiom-filled experiences that are unique to this season, so don't miss out! Conclusion We've learned that March in Spain is a great time to visit. The average temperatures are comfortable, there's plenty of hours of daylight, and the sunsets are breathtaking. The rainfall is minimal, so you can make the most of the activities available. You'll want to pack light clothing and remember a few safety tips to ensure your trip is enjoyable. Overall, March in Spain is an experience you won't want to miss. It's a magical month that will leave you feeling awe-struck and wanting more. From the beauty of the sunsets to the comfort of the temperatures, it's an experience that will stay with you forever. Truly, it's an unforgettable journey that will make you feel like you're living in a fairytale. |
2024.05.19 12:29 whatever6728 Airtel Fiber Scam
I requested for Airtel Fiber connection and within a day received a call from one of their guys asking for my address so that he can come and check feasibility.
He comes and checks and informs me that it is not possible because my society has not granted permission or something but says that he can set up the connection from a neighboring building but it would take a few days. I was really frustrated with my internet connection at that time and asked him if he could do it sooner, he says not possible and it will take 4-5 days.
4 days later he calls me, says he is coming to my house to complete KYC and collect payment and the connection will start in few hours. I give him my ID and make the payment of Rs. 2679 + 1000 (refundable). My biggest mistake was I made the payment to a UPI ID that he shared with me. He says he will generate the order id and return with a guy who will do the installation.
Few hours later I receive messages from Airtel that Fiber installation process has started. I also shared OTP they sent to me with him. Another hour passes by, he calls me says that there is some issue and installation will complete in a day or 2. First signs of trouble. I ask him for invoice, instead he shares a screenshot that has my name and payment amount. It looked legit.
2 days later I get a message from Airtel that your Fiber installation has been cancelled (wtf?) and refund will be processed soon. I immediately message him about this, he says he will inquire. Hours pass, annoyed I message him again and he says don't worry if your installation does not get active you will get a refund. By this time my internet issues were resolved and I was not too intent on getting Airtel, also because after researching got to know Airtel's live TV channels were not as good.
2 days later, I message him about not getting refund, he says within 7 days you will get it. I question him that "I made the payment to you how will I get the refund?". He says "tension mat liljiye Sir aapka payment Airtel me hi jama hai".
5 days later, I question him and keep emphasizing the point that how will Airtel refund me when you have done the payment. MF sends me amount of Rs. 2679 within 10 mins! and says remaining Rs. 1000 will be refunded within 2-3 days. I knew something was fishy but gave him benefit of the doubt thinking he did not notice that Airtel refunded him.
3 days later, I tell him can we complain to Airtel. He says complain karke "koi matlab nahi hoga" (red flag). I ask him why but he does not reply. Keeps saying "tension mat lo, Rs. 2679 ka refund hua na Sir ji" (wtf?)
2 days later, it's a Sunday and my suspicions are high, I am annoyed and I have all the time to grill him. I keep asking him to share the invoice and not any screenshot, who has made the payment and how, why was the installation cancelled. He dodges them giving stupid examples, I swear some of his replies made my blood boil.
I told him that I will raise a complaint. He says go ahead and that he has done nothing wrong. I then ask him why didn't he pay the 2679 immediately instead of waiting for me to ask. He dodges it giving bullshit reply like "Cancel your current connection and see if they give you refund immediately". I say "as soon as I pressurized you for the refund, I get the 2679 within 10 mins how is that possible?"
Lo and behold! Rs. 1000 gets credited in my account and all his messages start getting deleted!!. His last message was "Sorry Sir aapko connection ke liye bola maine.". That slimy MF
I did not bother taunting him because he knows my address lol. In hindsight the UPI id I paid to had a completely different name. Though the screenshot he shared is legit. I did not think of taking screenshot but that idiot has not deleted the message where I ask him for refund and he refunds it within 10mins. noob lol. I really think I was his first victim.
I know I am the idiot for paying directly but I was convinced by the messages received from Airtel and his attitude. smh
I will probably delete this post, just needed to vent out and if it helps raise awareness so much better.
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He comes and checks and informs me that it is not possible because my society has not granted permission or something but says that he can set up the connection from a neighboring building but it would take a few days. I was really frustrated with my internet connection at that time and asked him if he could do it sooner, he says not possible and it will take 4-5 days.
4 days later he calls me, says he is coming to my house to complete KYC and collect payment and the connection will start in few hours. I give him my ID and make the payment of Rs. 2679 + 1000 (refundable). My biggest mistake was I made the payment to a UPI ID that he shared with me. He says he will generate the order id and return with a guy who will do the installation.
Few hours later I receive messages from Airtel that Fiber installation process has started. I also shared OTP they sent to me with him. Another hour passes by, he calls me says that there is some issue and installation will complete in a day or 2. First signs of trouble. I ask him for invoice, instead he shares a screenshot that has my name and payment amount. It looked legit.
2 days later I get a message from Airtel that your Fiber installation has been cancelled (wtf?) and refund will be processed soon. I immediately message him about this, he says he will inquire. Hours pass, annoyed I message him again and he says don't worry if your installation does not get active you will get a refund. By this time my internet issues were resolved and I was not too intent on getting Airtel, also because after researching got to know Airtel's live TV channels were not as good.
2 days later, I message him about not getting refund, he says within 7 days you will get it. I question him that "I made the payment to you how will I get the refund?". He says "tension mat liljiye Sir aapka payment Airtel me hi jama hai".
5 days later, I question him and keep emphasizing the point that how will Airtel refund me when you have done the payment. MF sends me amount of Rs. 2679 within 10 mins! and says remaining Rs. 1000 will be refunded within 2-3 days. I knew something was fishy but gave him benefit of the doubt thinking he did not notice that Airtel refunded him.
3 days later, I tell him can we complain to Airtel. He says complain karke "koi matlab nahi hoga" (red flag). I ask him why but he does not reply. Keeps saying "tension mat lo, Rs. 2679 ka refund hua na Sir ji" (wtf?)
2 days later, it's a Sunday and my suspicions are high, I am annoyed and I have all the time to grill him. I keep asking him to share the invoice and not any screenshot, who has made the payment and how, why was the installation cancelled. He dodges them giving stupid examples, I swear some of his replies made my blood boil.
I told him that I will raise a complaint. He says go ahead and that he has done nothing wrong. I then ask him why didn't he pay the 2679 immediately instead of waiting for me to ask. He dodges it giving bullshit reply like "Cancel your current connection and see if they give you refund immediately". I say "as soon as I pressurized you for the refund, I get the 2679 within 10 mins how is that possible?"
Lo and behold! Rs. 1000 gets credited in my account and all his messages start getting deleted!!. His last message was "Sorry Sir aapko connection ke liye bola maine.". That slimy MF
I did not bother taunting him because he knows my address lol. In hindsight the UPI id I paid to had a completely different name. Though the screenshot he shared is legit. I did not think of taking screenshot but that idiot has not deleted the message where I ask him for refund and he refunds it within 10mins. noob lol. I really think I was his first victim.
I know I am the idiot for paying directly but I was convinced by the messages received from Airtel and his attitude. smh
I will probably delete this post, just needed to vent out and if it helps raise awareness so much better.
2024.05.19 12:20 Count-Daring243 Best Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls
 | submitted by Count-Daring243 to u/Count-Daring243 [link] [comments] https://preview.redd.it/hdr3bhquzc1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c02d81b93288424c354cacf1cf52a9c85f28d248 Welcome to our roundup of the rugged and durable Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls! These coveralls will never cease to amaze us with their toughness and versatility. Whether you're facing harsh weather conditions, working in a demanding environment, or simply need a reliable pair of coveralls for any task, we've got you covered with this comprehensive review. The Top 8 Best Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls
Reviews🔗Carhartt Men's Yukon Extremes Insulated Active Jacket - Blackhttps://preview.redd.it/79aq073vzc1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=88dc636ef07e48879b53811e61808dd2d2626db8 Recently, I purchased the Carhartt Men's Yukon Extremes Insulated Active Jacket, and I'm quite satisfied with its performance. As someone who spends a lot of time outdoors, it's important for me to have a jacket that's not only durable but also well-insulated and wind-resistant. This active jacket did not disappoint. The first thing that caught my attention when I received the jacket was the 3M Thinsulate insulation, which provides excellent warmth without feeling too bulky. I'm particularly fond of the hood design, featuring a drawcord and reflective Carhartt patch. The hood not only keeps me protected from rain and snow but also ensures visibility during nighttime activities. However, one area where the jacket could be improved is its zipper quality. While the plastic zipper works fine, I'm more accustomed to metal zippers, which are generally more reliable and durable. In addition, the jacket can be somewhat noisy when walking due to the swishy fabric sound - not ideal for hunting purposes. Despite these minor drawbacks, I believe the Carhartt Men's Yukon Extremes Insulated Active Jacket is a fantastic choice for anyone looking for a reliable and well-insulated winter coat. Its attractive design, variety of pockets, and comfortable fit make it a versatile option for both recreational activities and daily life. Overall, I'm pleased with my purchase and believe many others will be too. 🔗Carhartt Washed Duck Insulated Coverall: Tough, Warm, and Versatile Workwearhttps://preview.redd.it/yoxguolvzc1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1836acb7dfc9081f0d20f7467bb1db1475b091fb These Carhartt Washed Duck Insulated Coveralls provided a comfortable and practical solution for my work needs. The quilted nylon lining and midweight polyester insulation kept me warm on chilly days without causing me to overheat. The heavyweight cotton duck fabric was durable and had a broken-in feel, well-suited for outdoor construction tasks. The ankle-to-waist zippers and full front zipper made it easy to put on and take off, while the nine pockets and reinforced kick panels offered ample storage and protection. The ribbed storm cuffs, comfortflex waistband, bi-swing back, and pleated elbows ensured a comfortable fit and easy movement. Although it was a bit difficult to get to the pants' pockets without reaching through, overall, I found these coveralls to be of great quality, durability, and warmth. 🔗Carhartt Flame-Resistant Twill Coveralls with Comfort Flex Waistband - Belt Loopshttps://preview.redd.it/3hh0d7vvzc1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5ea1213388ced50fce1453b82347c288f6fcb618 As someone who's tried these Carhartt Flame-Resistant Loose Fit Twill coveralls out in the field, I must say, they truly shine when it comes to safety and comfort. These coveralls, equipped with flame-resistant twill, offer the perfect balance of style and function for those working with arcs and flames. One of the standout features is the two-way zip front, featuring a storm flap and high-temperature resistant FR zipper tape. It effortlessly opens up to reveal a comfortable loose fit, accentuated by a stretchy comfort flex waistband. The adjustable waistband not only ensures a snug fit but also allows for ease of movement with the back yoke featuring pleats. The added element of safety is taken into consideration with the chest pockets, which are both secure and convenient. They come with flaps and a hook & loop closure that keeps valuable items safe without compromising on accessibility. And don't forget about the UL classification to NFPA 2112 – it's a testament to the coveralls' commitment to keeping its wearers safe from potential hazards. While there are a few minor issues, such as the occasional need for adjusting sizes based on inseam lengths, overall, these Carhartt coveralls have been a reliable addition to my work wardrobe. From their practical design to their emphasis on safety, they have proven to be a worthy investment in the long run. 🔗Superior Insulated Coveralls for Extreme Weatherhttps://preview.redd.it/84luir7wzc1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f2e8e0b78e4153f1d02c77870a3d13b856741124 As a reviewer who recently tried the Carhartt Men's Yukon Extremes Insulated Coveralls, I was impressed by the level of warmth they provide. Working in chilly conditions, I found the 3M Thinsulate insulation to be a game-changer, keeping me toasty even on the coldest days. The wind resistance and waterproofing also proved effective, as I dealt with harsh gusts and rain. However, one downside was the fit; I had to size up to get the extra room I needed for layering underneath. Despite this minor inconvenience, I would recommend this coverall to anyone working in extreme cold conditions and seeking reliable protection. 🔗Carhartt Men's Yukon Insulated Biberall: Thinsulate Insulation and Reflective Tape for Cold Weather Comforthttps://preview.redd.it/bg24fhjwzc1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f5f3862f20f801711829627fac09084d35729c7f Windy days used to mean a chilly workplace, but now, thanks to the Carhartt Yukon Extremes, I'm snug and cozy even when the wind is howling. The Thinsulate insulation was a game-changer. One day, I was working in the freezing cold, and I was amazed that I didn't feel the chill. The water-repellent construction has also been my savior. One day, I accidentally splash some water during my work, and to my delight, my bib didn't soak it up. My visibility was also boosted by the reflective taping, making my outdoor activities a lot safer. The Wind Fighter technology did an excellent job keeping the wind at bay, even in the harshest conditions. However, I felt that the Rain Defender wasn't living up to its name. On one occasion, I encountered some heavy rain, and to my disappointment, some water seeped in through the bib. I appreciate the adjustable elastic suspenders for their convenience, but I noticed they weren't as sturdy as I would have liked. Overall, the Carhartt Yukon Extremes bib is a reliable choice for those who need a combination of warmth and protection. Despite the minor drawbacks, it has been my go-to for outdoor tasks on chilly days. 🔗Carhartt Women's Yukon Insulated Coverall: Ultimate Cold Weather Protectionhttps://preview.redd.it/awe5dvwwzc1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5540659e89bc3eed1b4cd7be75c87775ec58033f As a cold weather enthusiast, I've tried the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls and let me tell you, they are an absolute game-changer in the winter season! The first thing I noticed was their sleek design, perfect for those who need a practical yet stylish outfit to face the cold. The zipper closure was a breeze to use, and the 6.5-ounce, 500-denier Cordura nylon shell offered a robust protection from harsh weather conditions. One of the features that truly stood out to me was the 150g 3M Thinsulate insulation, ensuring that I could confidently venture into the heart of winter without shivering. The 3M Scotchlite Carbon Black reflective taping on the center back and double front also provided extra safety when I was out in low-light conditions. The Wind Fighter technology and Rain Defender durable water repellent (DWR) gave me the peace of mind that I could withstand some light rain without feeling soaked. The triple-stitched main seams, center front zipper, and rib-knit storm cuffs provided all the reinforcements needed to shield me from the wind. However, there were a couple of cons that I couldn't overlook. Firstly, the coveralls were a bit restrictive in terms of movement, making it difficult to perform certain tasks. Secondly, the sizing seemed a bit off, and finding the perfect fit was quite the challenge. Overall, the Carhartt Yukon Insulated Coverall is a fantastic option for anyone looking for protection from the chilliest weather. It may not be perfect, but it undeniably gets the job done and makes me feel like a winter warrior out on the field. 🔗Workrite Coveralls - Lightweight, Breathable, and Flame Resistanthttps://preview.redd.it/gy1cfdaxzc1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=948280e288f730c9a77e1ec51a580f378bc78177 I recently had the opportunity to wear the Carhartt Men's Flame Resistant Force Loose Fit Lightweight Coverall on a typical workday. Firstly, its distinctive Breathable honeycomb weave fabric stood out, offering me great all-day comfort. This lightweight coverall also passed crucial performance requirements and was classified to NFPA 2112, showcasing its effectiveness at protecting wearers against hazards. The Force technology was particularly impressive, as it efficiently wicked away sweat and helped the garment dry fast, preventing any unpleasant odors from sticking around. Moreover, this coverall kept me cool throughout the day thanks to the FastDry technology, which I found extremely convenient. In terms of construction, this coverall was built with an anti-static, colorfast fabric that was wrinkle-resistant and conveniently featured a two-way front zipper with a secure storm flap. It also had two secure chest pockets perfect for storing small essentials. The comfort flex waistband provided increased comfort, and the back yoke with pleats ensured ease of movement. This versatile workwear also boasted multiple utility pockets for added storage, an adjustable sleeve cuff with snap closure, and ankle-to-knee leg openings that fit nicely over boots. However, after a long day in the Carhartt Coverall, I realized it wasn't as convenient as I hoped when it came to ledge pockets. Accessing the lower-front ledge pockets was slightly challenging with a side-entry pass-through. Nonetheless, I appreciated the attention to detail through the addition of NFPA 2112 and FR labels on the left-chest pocket. In conclusion, the Carhartt Men's Flame Resistant Force Loose Fit Lightweight Coverall proved to be a reliable garment in providing essential protection and functionality at work. Despite the slight drawback with the ledge pockets, overall it's a practical and comfortable choice for those looking for top-notch flame-resistant workwear. 🔗Flame Resistant Carhartt Coveralls for Comfort and Protectionhttps://preview.redd.it/l6imufrxzc1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a2a17d084d9f1bdac724232778c9aa2c80277ccb I've been using these Carhartt flame resistant coveralls for quite some time, and I must say, they've proven to be incredibly durable and comfortable. One of my favorite features is their 100% cotton material, which makes them perfect for a variety of outdoor tasks. However, I've noticed that they can be a bit warm during the summer months. Despite this little inconvenience, the coveralls' overall quality is top-notch. The spread collar and multiple pockets have made it convenient for me to carry my tools while on the go. The zipper closure ensures a secure fit, while the machine wash feature makes cleaning a breeze. What truly sets these coveralls apart is their Carhartt FR label, which guarantees compliance with NFPA 70 E standards and UL Classification to NFPA 2112. This additional layer of safety is something I appreciate when working on high-risk projects. In all honesty, I'm really happy with my experience using these Carhartt coveralls, and I'm confident they'll continue to serve me well in the future. If you're in the market for a high-quality, comfortable, and functional piece of workwear, I would definitely recommend giving these a try. Buyer's GuideWhen it comes to cold weather gear, Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls are a popular choice for many consumers. These high-quality, durable coveralls offer excellent protection against harsh winter conditions, making them an ideal choice for outdoor enthusiasts, construction workers, and anyone who needs to stay warm and comfortable during colder months. In this buyer's guide, we will discuss the important features, considerations, and advice for Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls, ensuring that you make an informed purchase decision. Let's dive in!Material and InsulationThe Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls are made from a combination of materials designed to provide superior insulation and durability. The coveralls feature a heavyweight, double-backed Polyester-Fleece fabric that is both breathable and comfortable, while offering excellent insulation. This ensures that the wearer stays warm even in extremely cold temperatures. Additionally, the coveralls are equipped with Thinsulate insulation, which is specifically designed to provide optimum warmth and breathability in extreme cold conditions. So, when considering the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls, make sure to look for these insulation features.https://preview.redd.it/ti5vfq6yzc1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=debc5c4ccfd554e22ef76ce5086219aa32fad985 Fit and ComfortOne of the most important factors to consider when purchasing coveralls is fit and comfort. Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls are available in various sizes and have an elastic waist and adjustable cuffs to ensure a proper fit. It is crucial to choose a size that suits your body snugly, without being too tight, to allow for ease of movement and maximum comfort throughout the day.Durability and LongevityCarhartt is recognized for its high-quality, durable products, and the Yukon Extreme Coveralls are no exception. These coveralls are designed to withstand the wear and tear of everyday use. The heavy-duty, reinforced seams, and industrial-strength zippers ensure that the coveralls maintain their shape and functionality over time. With proper care, the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls can last for years, making them a smart investment in cold weather gear.Weather Resistance and WaterproofingAnother critical aspect to consider when purchasing cold weather gear is weather resistance and waterproofing. The Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls feature a durable, water-resistant coating that helps keep moisture out, ensuring that the wearer stays dry and warm even in wet, snowy conditions. Make sure to look for this feature when purchasing the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls, as it contributes to the overall effectiveness of the coveralls in harsh weather conditions. https://preview.redd.it/894p7qsyzc1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f98992a60912bdd547a4f15e785d5633eef3f254 Additional Features and AccessoriesCarhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls come with various features and accessories that enhance their functionality and performance. These may include multiple pockets for storage, reflective tape for increased visibility, and adjustable cuffs and waist for a proper fit. Make sure to consider all these features when shopping for the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls to ensure you get the best value for your money.Care and MaintenanceTo maintain the quality and performance of your Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls, it is essential to follow proper care and maintenance instructions. This could include washing the coveralls using the recommended laundry detergent, avoiding harsh chemicals or high-heat drying, and storing them in a cool, dry place. By taking good care of your coveralls, you will ensure they last long and continue to provide excellent protection against the elements.In conclusion, when shopping for Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls, it's essential to consider the material and insulation, fit and comfort, durability and longevity, weather resistance and waterproofing, additional features and accessories, and care and maintenance. By taking these factors into account, you will ensure that you get the best quality and performance out of your investment. Happy shopping! FAQhttps://preview.redd.it/8bj0i95zzc1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0ef45551fd9d1929deec327c1acc0c4eb97cc035 What makes the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls stand out?The Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls are designed for extreme cold weather protection. They are made with a waterproof, windproof, and insulated fabric that keeps the wearer warm in freezing temperatures. Additionally, the coveralls feature multiple pockets for storage and adjustable cuffs to seal out the cold.What is the insulation level of the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls?The Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls have an insulation level of 120 grams. This insulation provides the necessary warmth to keep the wearer comfortable in extremely cold conditions.Are the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls waterproof?'Yes, the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls are designed to be waterproof. The fabric is coated with a water-repellent finish that helps keep the wearer dry and comfortable in wet or snowy conditions. https://preview.redd.it/zg5coapzzc1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=183a096d8000c31f33302021e5313492bf0224a1 Do the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls have adjustable cuffs?'Yes, the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls feature adjustable cuffs that help seal out the cold. The cuffs can be tightened or loosened depending on the wearer's preference and the weather conditions.What colors are the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls available in?'The Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls are available in several colors, including camo, navy, and olive green.What size range do the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls come in?'The Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls come in a range of sizes, from S up to 3X. This ensures that the coveralls can accommodate a wide range of users.What kind of fabric are the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls made of?'The Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls are made of a waterproof, windproof, and insulated fabric that provides warmth and protection in extreme cold weather conditions.What is the weight of the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls?'The Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls weigh approximately 3.5 pounds, making them light enough to wear comfortably without sacrificing warmth or durability.Do the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls have any pockets?'Yes, the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls feature multiple pockets that provide convenient storage for tools, equipment, and other items needed while working in extreme weather conditions.How durable are the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls?'The Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls are designed to be durable and long-lasting. They are made with high-quality materials and construction, ensuring that they can withstand the demands of extreme weather conditions and heavy use.Are the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls safe to use in electrical work?'No, the Carhartt Yukon Extreme Coveralls are not safe to use in electrical work. They are designed for extreme weather protection and not for electrical hazard protection. If you need protection for electrical work, you should use specialized coveralls or suits designed for that purpose.As an Amazon™ Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. |
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2024.05.19 11:11 hazyindi 21F anyone wanna play horror games?
Hello lovely people. I’m looking for someone to play horror games with me at this odd hour (it is currently 4am as I’m typing this)~ please send me an introduction to yourself. I won’t respond to zero effort. I’d love to text for a bit first to see if we’ll actually click. I have anxiety so it’s important I feel comfortable with you. Ideally I would love for a long term best friend to come out of this!
Here’s some quick things about me: • I can be super chatty when I become comfortable. • I have AuDHD, depression, anxiety (obviously). I love talking about mental health and having personal, deep discussions. • Things I enjoy would include occasional gaming, watching shows with others, listening to true crime, anything and everything crafty and artsy, I have some odd pets, I just love learning new things and getting into new hobbies.
Some horror games I have: lethal company, forewarned, the forest, labyrinthine, the outlast trials, and we could also play through BOKURA since I started it with my ex but never got to finish it :c
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Here’s some quick things about me: • I can be super chatty when I become comfortable. • I have AuDHD, depression, anxiety (obviously). I love talking about mental health and having personal, deep discussions. • Things I enjoy would include occasional gaming, watching shows with others, listening to true crime, anything and everything crafty and artsy, I have some odd pets, I just love learning new things and getting into new hobbies.
Some horror games I have: lethal company, forewarned, the forest, labyrinthine, the outlast trials, and we could also play through BOKURA since I started it with my ex but never got to finish it :c
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2024.05.19 10:21 NotYourDadsRobot I’ve broken the heart of someone who didn’t deserve it
The whole thing is my fault. We had been together 5 years. I knew a year or year and a half ago that it wasn’t going to work out but I didn’t know how to do it. My hand was finally forced since we were going to move soon. I had actually agreed to the move until I realized she meant it to be permanent in that city. It shouldn’t have taken that to make it happen though. Hell I broke up with her roughly 3 years ago and she convinced me to stay and try to make it work. I should have stayed with my gut then. I was to weak.
I have hurt her so much. I’ve shattered her. Probably caused scars that will last into future relationships. All because I was to weak. Because I wanted to keep the peace. I blindsided her because I always said what she wanted to hear. To try and make her happy. To keep the peace so I could do what I wanted or not get in a fight. My weakness has caused her so much more unnecessary pain. Wasted so much of her time.
Why couldn’t I do it? I do love her but I think long term this wasn’t going to work. I couldn’t see us being married and living happily ever after. I couldn’t see raising kids with her. But I couldn’t tell her that. She’s a wonderful beautiful kind person. We have so many good memories but my last memory will be her tears and the pain in her voice. Because I was too weak. She could be healed and likely forgotten me by now.
She begged me not to do it, was willing to give up so much to stay together. I can’t take that though. I can’t take away everything she wants in life to be with me. I can’t hold that gun to her head that I may break up if she ever wants to move. I can’t hold her back.
I stand by the decision that breaking up is the right move but the pain on her face made me want to go back on it. She doesn’t deserve what I did to her.
We lived together, had a dog, furniture, a joint card. Now I’ve blown it all up because I knew when I started it that it wasn’t going to last. She kept saying it doesn’t make sense and how could it? How do my actions make any sense. The only thing that came of them is more pain than if I had been honest to start.
That’s all gone now. The dog is hers. The dog won’t understand why I’m not there anymore. Why I can’t play or cuddle.
She’s going to think it’s her fault when it’s all mine. There’s no way to convince her of that though.
My family and friends keep saying they’re sorry to me like how? After what I’ve done how?
I knelt my head to God tonight for the first time in awhile and didn’t even pray for me but just for her to find all the happiness she deserves.
I’m sitting in a gas station parking lot at 4am after losing $400 at the casino. I can’t sleep or distract myself anymore. I think this is the worst thing I’ve ever done which probably isn’t all that bad it’s not violent or anything.
Idk just needed to vent all that out. Thanks for reading.
Edit: just to be clear, I’m not suicidal and I have some place to go but I’m choosing to stay out to try and process.
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I have hurt her so much. I’ve shattered her. Probably caused scars that will last into future relationships. All because I was to weak. Because I wanted to keep the peace. I blindsided her because I always said what she wanted to hear. To try and make her happy. To keep the peace so I could do what I wanted or not get in a fight. My weakness has caused her so much more unnecessary pain. Wasted so much of her time.
Why couldn’t I do it? I do love her but I think long term this wasn’t going to work. I couldn’t see us being married and living happily ever after. I couldn’t see raising kids with her. But I couldn’t tell her that. She’s a wonderful beautiful kind person. We have so many good memories but my last memory will be her tears and the pain in her voice. Because I was too weak. She could be healed and likely forgotten me by now.
She begged me not to do it, was willing to give up so much to stay together. I can’t take that though. I can’t take away everything she wants in life to be with me. I can’t hold that gun to her head that I may break up if she ever wants to move. I can’t hold her back.
I stand by the decision that breaking up is the right move but the pain on her face made me want to go back on it. She doesn’t deserve what I did to her.
We lived together, had a dog, furniture, a joint card. Now I’ve blown it all up because I knew when I started it that it wasn’t going to last. She kept saying it doesn’t make sense and how could it? How do my actions make any sense. The only thing that came of them is more pain than if I had been honest to start.
That’s all gone now. The dog is hers. The dog won’t understand why I’m not there anymore. Why I can’t play or cuddle.
She’s going to think it’s her fault when it’s all mine. There’s no way to convince her of that though.
My family and friends keep saying they’re sorry to me like how? After what I’ve done how?
I knelt my head to God tonight for the first time in awhile and didn’t even pray for me but just for her to find all the happiness she deserves.
I’m sitting in a gas station parking lot at 4am after losing $400 at the casino. I can’t sleep or distract myself anymore. I think this is the worst thing I’ve ever done which probably isn’t all that bad it’s not violent or anything.
Idk just needed to vent all that out. Thanks for reading.
Edit: just to be clear, I’m not suicidal and I have some place to go but I’m choosing to stay out to try and process.
2024.05.19 09:38 houston313 20 [M4F] military firefighter looking for the right one
Sooooo I’m 20 name is Houston, I am 5’11 190lbs, pretty fit as the job requires it. I’m in the military my job is a firefighter ( I love it) I’m currently serving overseas in Japan. I love my job especially being able to help others. I am recently tatted ( it’s my first tattoo but it’s a full sleeve) When I’m back in the US my home is Arizona, so far I’ve traveled to Korea, Guam and I have more on the horizon with the time zones and my VERY hectic job do not take it personally if i struggle to text back at times, I’m not doing it intentionally I swear. I have what most will call golden retriever energy, I’m always in a pretty decent mood and it does NOT take much at all to get me in a great mood. One short nap or one snack and I’m happy 😂. Some of my hobbies include driving around and singing my soul out. Cooking baking. Taking things apart and fixing them. I also wrestled for all 4 years and am applying to be a coach I also do MMA on my free time ( mostly BJJ) I also do Airsoft.
I don’t bite ( unless you’re into that) so just shoot me a text already!
( P.S have a SUPER SILLY SUNDAY) ☺️
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I don’t bite ( unless you’re into that) so just shoot me a text already!
( P.S have a SUPER SILLY SUNDAY) ☺️
2024.05.19 09:33 Moonshademyth Everything is overwhelming.
I am self diagnosed-ish, trying to get a professional diagnosis. My PCP is all but certain I have ASD and she delivered me when I was born so she’s been my PCP for 22 years. She brought it up to my parents once when I was a kid but thanks to that great immigrant “no mental health issues” mentality they have, it was ignored and never brought up again.
Then I was excelling in school. In 8th grade I had these tics one day, my friend had just passed and I was still trucking on. I flung a pencil during one of them and hurt someone else. The school made my dad take me to the ER, he was told stress, anxiety and see someone about it. But nothing. Then I was excelling in my first full time job as a parapro for a STAR classroom. As a kid I volunteered in these classes a lot, my mom even taught one. Yeah, taught one. The adults were awful, but I was used to that. I started having meltdowns from overstimulation. At this point, I’d moved out and was living with my now husband, I was in a safe place for the first time in my life. I didn’t understand what my body was doing and why my brain was doing what it did. And then I was regressing. A lot and quickly. And now I’m realizing my entire life has been this huge lie. I come from a traumatic household, but have always been highly aware of it and have managed to process it myself. A year of talk therapy got me told “talk therapy doesn’t work for you, you have it all figured out.”
And I started a relationship pre-regression. I made friends pre-regression. Now I feel alone. My husband doesn’t understand really, he tries and all the time we’re growing together and he’s learning more and more about me and how to help me. But I have a lot of needs and I know I take up a lot of space in our lives because of it and so it feels like when I’m pushing through, knowing it’ll end in a complete meltdown, people are attentive, him included because I’m being helpful. But then I really need help, because I’ve been so focused on everyone else I need someone to focus on me. But there isn’t anyone to be attentive toward me. I feel like I’m treated like a burden when I really need the assistance.
I know I need to be the one to focus on me, but how do I do that? When people have surgeries and shitty husbands and need care, people have problems and ask for my help and I can help them. My brother is having a hard time at school. My husband works to support us because I can barely handle 14 hours a week. He met me when I worked three jobs, when I was surviving my childhood household. He fell in love with me because of my ambition and now I’m a dependent.
I’ve been battling myself to accept that I’m disabled. That before, that wasn’t me. That was a shell. I was a body. But now I have no clue who I am and it’s becoming terrifying. I feel like if I can’t just bounce back soon I’ll lose everything. Or someday I’ll become too much and just get abandoned.
I feel like my body and my brain are disconnected, I feel like I’ve got no hope. Like a diagnosis will never come, help will never be found. I just needed to speak at a community I knew would understand.
Thanks.
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Then I was excelling in school. In 8th grade I had these tics one day, my friend had just passed and I was still trucking on. I flung a pencil during one of them and hurt someone else. The school made my dad take me to the ER, he was told stress, anxiety and see someone about it. But nothing. Then I was excelling in my first full time job as a parapro for a STAR classroom. As a kid I volunteered in these classes a lot, my mom even taught one. Yeah, taught one. The adults were awful, but I was used to that. I started having meltdowns from overstimulation. At this point, I’d moved out and was living with my now husband, I was in a safe place for the first time in my life. I didn’t understand what my body was doing and why my brain was doing what it did. And then I was regressing. A lot and quickly. And now I’m realizing my entire life has been this huge lie. I come from a traumatic household, but have always been highly aware of it and have managed to process it myself. A year of talk therapy got me told “talk therapy doesn’t work for you, you have it all figured out.”
And I started a relationship pre-regression. I made friends pre-regression. Now I feel alone. My husband doesn’t understand really, he tries and all the time we’re growing together and he’s learning more and more about me and how to help me. But I have a lot of needs and I know I take up a lot of space in our lives because of it and so it feels like when I’m pushing through, knowing it’ll end in a complete meltdown, people are attentive, him included because I’m being helpful. But then I really need help, because I’ve been so focused on everyone else I need someone to focus on me. But there isn’t anyone to be attentive toward me. I feel like I’m treated like a burden when I really need the assistance.
I know I need to be the one to focus on me, but how do I do that? When people have surgeries and shitty husbands and need care, people have problems and ask for my help and I can help them. My brother is having a hard time at school. My husband works to support us because I can barely handle 14 hours a week. He met me when I worked three jobs, when I was surviving my childhood household. He fell in love with me because of my ambition and now I’m a dependent.
I’ve been battling myself to accept that I’m disabled. That before, that wasn’t me. That was a shell. I was a body. But now I have no clue who I am and it’s becoming terrifying. I feel like if I can’t just bounce back soon I’ll lose everything. Or someday I’ll become too much and just get abandoned.
I feel like my body and my brain are disconnected, I feel like I’ve got no hope. Like a diagnosis will never come, help will never be found. I just needed to speak at a community I knew would understand.
Thanks.
2024.05.19 09:17 No-Resort-4693 Gf/Baby Momma Problems
My gf and I have been together for almost 7 years, we have a 3 year old together and live together, I work she doesn’t. Of course being with the baby is work but I work a 40+ hour job as well. We got into an argument today about her tone with me sometimes and then sex was brought up, keep in mind we have sex maybe half a time (because she can’t get wet from me) every 4-6 weeks, most over the time she just sticks her ass up in the air for me to look at while I finish, and no she will not try to talk sexy or anything of the sort, during the argument she brings up the fact that as I ask her for sex (yes i am the only one who initiates) she remembers times when I fall asleep before them on accident and can’t wake up to help (even though she chooses not to wake me if it happens), or when some times I forget to take the trash up to the front but I still left it outside the door, or small not crazy things, and always comes to the conclusion that I do not deserve it, i was left speechless and didn’t know what to say. What do you all think?
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2024.05.19 08:57 SharpAmphibian3114 Overheating Problems Nikon Z6II with external monitor
Hello everybody,
as I can´t find any help online I'd thought it is a good idea to go onto reddit and seek for help here.
I am running a Nikon Z6II for video, mostly with the Kit 24-70 f/4. As a video creator I need to use an external monitor, currently the Atomos Ninja (2023 model).
I constantly run into the issue of the camera overheating, mostly in occasions where I really don't need it (when do you...). For example yesterday at a wedding it was giving up on me twice - luckily in situations where it was mostly for b-roll. Sometimes it shows the message of overheating, sometimes it just turns black and I need to remove the battery. However due to the lack of NP-F batteries I then started shooting without my monitor for the party (also it´s not as prominent without it) and I did not have any issues afterwards.
My first thought was, that my cards were not fast enough so I rented out 2 960GB CFexpress B Sony tough cards. They performed well but it did not fix the issue.
Anybody here got advice if I am doing something wrong with my setup or have the same issue of overheating? Please mind, the overheating did not occur in direct sunlight, rather indoors at night where the AC was running...I just feel like my gear gives up on me and it´s only a matter of time until it happens in an important moment...
Any help is welcome! Thank you very much :)
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as I can´t find any help online I'd thought it is a good idea to go onto reddit and seek for help here.
I am running a Nikon Z6II for video, mostly with the Kit 24-70 f/4. As a video creator I need to use an external monitor, currently the Atomos Ninja (2023 model).
I constantly run into the issue of the camera overheating, mostly in occasions where I really don't need it (when do you...). For example yesterday at a wedding it was giving up on me twice - luckily in situations where it was mostly for b-roll. Sometimes it shows the message of overheating, sometimes it just turns black and I need to remove the battery. However due to the lack of NP-F batteries I then started shooting without my monitor for the party (also it´s not as prominent without it) and I did not have any issues afterwards.
My first thought was, that my cards were not fast enough so I rented out 2 960GB CFexpress B Sony tough cards. They performed well but it did not fix the issue.
Anybody here got advice if I am doing something wrong with my setup or have the same issue of overheating? Please mind, the overheating did not occur in direct sunlight, rather indoors at night where the AC was running...I just feel like my gear gives up on me and it´s only a matter of time until it happens in an important moment...
Any help is welcome! Thank you very much :)
2024.05.19 08:24 GasMaskBunny18 AITA for hanging up on my best friend after she gave me a lecture for “never listening to her”?
Just a quick warning I’m putting it all out here about our friendship, i just want to tell the truth.
I 19f had a messy relationship with my ex best friend who I’ll call Tina because she was tiny.
We met in our 7th grade math class after she was having a panic attack because of multiple things going on in her life. I comforted her and helped her escape a toxic friendship and introduced her to my group of friends. We called every night and gave each other ther the support we both needed as I was sheltered and new to everything and she was coming out of some serious mental tolls.
I was there for her even though she wasn’t always for me. I helped her through when her dad nearly died and his entire personality changed, when her mom became a single mother and Tina felt the need to step up as the other parent, and fully supported her in everything she did.
Everything was great until we hit high school. She demanded we talked everyday at school and at least an hour on the phone. I don’t mean to say she told me outright but she definitely forced my hand to keep the friendship. She would guilt trip me with fake panic attacks and swear I was being terrible to her. She also pretty much had to approve every friend I had not to mention boyfriends. The first two, granted, were asses to say the least. However, she’d look for reasons for me not to explore friendships outside of our little group.
I talked to several friends about how much this time affected my grades, love life, and other friendships and they all said the same thing, I went from cheerful and playful, to scared and there being no light in my eyes when Tina was around.
A couple years into high school I met my now boyfriend and we hit it off big time. She did everything to chase him away and even convinced me to break things off. Luckily he and I never grew apart and decided that we’d try again, but help make each other better and to keep a more open line of communication.
She tried to use the same tactic on my other friend from theater but didn’t succeed.
To add insult to injury, I wrote a children’s book and it went to a national competition and all she cared about is that she became a published author in a poetry book before I even started binding my book. I told her about my success in the hallway of a hotel while my club members celebrated all our national placements and all she had to say, “that’s cool but I won that poetry contest and I’m published now! I’m getting copies of the book on Saturday, aren’t you proud of me!”
When I confronted her about this, she said she was also proud of me but she felt I was being selfish. I won a trip to Florida and get to present the book I worked so hard on. But apparently, that’s not as important.
Now for the big conflict, in the summer of 2023, I left my parents house the night before my college orientation. I’ll do a separate story on that. The point is, I left.
She herself yes was there for me holding me as I cried about leaving my sister and helping me but what I need to couch surf for a while.
She had a plan, move me from the campus I was registered for to the one she was going to and have me split door-dash money with her and hopefully not have to live out of her car. She also wanted me to pull a hearty loan from the bank her mom worked for to pay for all this. I personally cannot do that as I’m in the middle of getting a name change and it was hard for me to even get a driving permit.
A couple months pass and the house I had stayed at for that time kicked me out. From the stress of college and getting a job I’ll admit, I wasn’t the nicest.
The day before I was told I needed to find another place to stay I got a call from Tina. She called me crying because she was worried I was going to commit suicide and I talked to her about my feelings and future. How I have so much left to do and see. Including marrying the man I love, my boyfriend. She cried about that and said I should have listened to her. I pretty much ignored it as we talked about it serval times.
I was served my eviction notice, apologized to my friends parents, and began packing my things. I get a FaceTime from her and I’m thinking that my best friend might have some words of comfort or something.
I answer the call and with my friend in the back, she starts in on me saying that no matter what, I never listen. I only don’t when it happens that I can’t or it goes against my wishes and boundaries I’ve set. She went on yelling after what seemed like hours as I zoned out and packed with shaky hands and blurry eyes. I couldn’t take it anymore so I hung up with saying, “we can talk about this when I’m sure where my next meal is coming from and I’m not scared I’ll be on the streets.”
From what my friend told me she blocked me immediately and never wanted to speak to me again. She’s blocked me everywhere even tiktok and it makes me feel bad.
It’s been months and I’ve been told that I’m not the a-hole however, I think I need an outside opinion.
AITA??
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I 19f had a messy relationship with my ex best friend who I’ll call Tina because she was tiny.
We met in our 7th grade math class after she was having a panic attack because of multiple things going on in her life. I comforted her and helped her escape a toxic friendship and introduced her to my group of friends. We called every night and gave each other ther the support we both needed as I was sheltered and new to everything and she was coming out of some serious mental tolls.
I was there for her even though she wasn’t always for me. I helped her through when her dad nearly died and his entire personality changed, when her mom became a single mother and Tina felt the need to step up as the other parent, and fully supported her in everything she did.
Everything was great until we hit high school. She demanded we talked everyday at school and at least an hour on the phone. I don’t mean to say she told me outright but she definitely forced my hand to keep the friendship. She would guilt trip me with fake panic attacks and swear I was being terrible to her. She also pretty much had to approve every friend I had not to mention boyfriends. The first two, granted, were asses to say the least. However, she’d look for reasons for me not to explore friendships outside of our little group.
I talked to several friends about how much this time affected my grades, love life, and other friendships and they all said the same thing, I went from cheerful and playful, to scared and there being no light in my eyes when Tina was around.
A couple years into high school I met my now boyfriend and we hit it off big time. She did everything to chase him away and even convinced me to break things off. Luckily he and I never grew apart and decided that we’d try again, but help make each other better and to keep a more open line of communication.
She tried to use the same tactic on my other friend from theater but didn’t succeed.
To add insult to injury, I wrote a children’s book and it went to a national competition and all she cared about is that she became a published author in a poetry book before I even started binding my book. I told her about my success in the hallway of a hotel while my club members celebrated all our national placements and all she had to say, “that’s cool but I won that poetry contest and I’m published now! I’m getting copies of the book on Saturday, aren’t you proud of me!”
When I confronted her about this, she said she was also proud of me but she felt I was being selfish. I won a trip to Florida and get to present the book I worked so hard on. But apparently, that’s not as important.
Now for the big conflict, in the summer of 2023, I left my parents house the night before my college orientation. I’ll do a separate story on that. The point is, I left.
She herself yes was there for me holding me as I cried about leaving my sister and helping me but what I need to couch surf for a while.
She had a plan, move me from the campus I was registered for to the one she was going to and have me split door-dash money with her and hopefully not have to live out of her car. She also wanted me to pull a hearty loan from the bank her mom worked for to pay for all this. I personally cannot do that as I’m in the middle of getting a name change and it was hard for me to even get a driving permit.
A couple months pass and the house I had stayed at for that time kicked me out. From the stress of college and getting a job I’ll admit, I wasn’t the nicest.
The day before I was told I needed to find another place to stay I got a call from Tina. She called me crying because she was worried I was going to commit suicide and I talked to her about my feelings and future. How I have so much left to do and see. Including marrying the man I love, my boyfriend. She cried about that and said I should have listened to her. I pretty much ignored it as we talked about it serval times.
I was served my eviction notice, apologized to my friends parents, and began packing my things. I get a FaceTime from her and I’m thinking that my best friend might have some words of comfort or something.
I answer the call and with my friend in the back, she starts in on me saying that no matter what, I never listen. I only don’t when it happens that I can’t or it goes against my wishes and boundaries I’ve set. She went on yelling after what seemed like hours as I zoned out and packed with shaky hands and blurry eyes. I couldn’t take it anymore so I hung up with saying, “we can talk about this when I’m sure where my next meal is coming from and I’m not scared I’ll be on the streets.”
From what my friend told me she blocked me immediately and never wanted to speak to me again. She’s blocked me everywhere even tiktok and it makes me feel bad.
It’s been months and I’ve been told that I’m not the a-hole however, I think I need an outside opinion.
AITA??
2024.05.19 08:15 WittyManner0 How am I able to earn more
Long story short:
I work in the medical field, even though I did my basic study. And finished it with a university master, I earn not that much… I would like some advice on what to do.
Earnings: So currently I earn around €3k a month for 30 hours. I am going to work for 38 hours and expect to earn €3.8k. I am 24 now so I still earn much for my age, but the future isn’t bright.
Because I am quite good (not to brag about) in my specific field I am going up fast. I could earn between €4-5k within 1-2 years. However this is the maximal, after this specific number I haven’t seen people earn more in my field. I don’t want to work till 50-60 with this future ahead.
Option 1: Starting for my self, even though it cost much money. I know I make around 120k a year for my job, so if I fully start for myself I could earn around 120k a year. The plan is to do this asap.
Option 2: I did quite a few coding courses and am quite good with it. I was wondering maybe to do something in the IT as part time job and keep my medical job, because I like to do this work aswell.
Option 3: Starting my own practice with workers. I could start my own practice and hire workers. There is no limit to what you earn then.
Option 4: Maybe advice from you guys ??
Sorry English isn’t my first language. I am looking forward to all responses.
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I work in the medical field, even though I did my basic study. And finished it with a university master, I earn not that much… I would like some advice on what to do.
Earnings: So currently I earn around €3k a month for 30 hours. I am going to work for 38 hours and expect to earn €3.8k. I am 24 now so I still earn much for my age, but the future isn’t bright.
Because I am quite good (not to brag about) in my specific field I am going up fast. I could earn between €4-5k within 1-2 years. However this is the maximal, after this specific number I haven’t seen people earn more in my field. I don’t want to work till 50-60 with this future ahead.
Option 1: Starting for my self, even though it cost much money. I know I make around 120k a year for my job, so if I fully start for myself I could earn around 120k a year. The plan is to do this asap.
Option 2: I did quite a few coding courses and am quite good with it. I was wondering maybe to do something in the IT as part time job and keep my medical job, because I like to do this work aswell.
Option 3: Starting my own practice with workers. I could start my own practice and hire workers. There is no limit to what you earn then.
Option 4: Maybe advice from you guys ??
Sorry English isn’t my first language. I am looking forward to all responses.