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2024.05.21 23:48 Current_Theme_9815 Is low white blood count always something troubling?

35m, 5’8”, 150lbs, no major health issues or daily medications other than a multivitamin and probiotic.
I had some routine bloodwork done the other day, and my doctor called me back afterwards and said everything looked good except for a low white blood cell count. It’s the only time this has happened. He didn’t really tell me anything else other than that and I’m supposed to go back in a week to have it rechecked. Now of course, I’ve gone down the rabbit hole and looked up what it could be and gotten myself worked up.
How often is a low white blood cell count without any other symptom actually concerning?
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2024.05.21 23:43 Matt_Sportsnaut Family says Hornets star LaMelo Ball drove over her son’s foot, sues player and team

Family says Hornets star LaMelo Ball drove over her son’s foot, sues player and team
“The family's attorney says they would have filed a claim with Ball's insurance to pay his medical bills but the police report is missing information on Ball's insurer.”
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2024.05.21 23:35 sneedsformerlychucks I get uncomfortable when aspie / autistic people online talk about what good parents they think they are, and I feel like an asshole

It is a small fraction of the number of parents who proudly identify as autistic who will talk openly about how they think their disability adversely affects their ability to parent and how they try to compensate for these things. Far more seem to either claim, to the contrary, that doesn't affect their parenting skills, that it simply makes it "different" or just don't talk about it. And as a result, honestly the first thing that comes to mind when I hear these people talk about parenting on the spectrum or whatever is that they must be coming up short in some ways. Not that they're necessarily terrible or awful or should have their children taken away, but that they're not engaging with a lot of elements of emotional attunement that they should be engaging because of their condition, but are also completely unaware of the fact that they should be engaging with these things for the same reason.
There is also, of course, no point in telling them any of this because they won't get it for the same reason. Even though I don't voice these thoughts I feel like a bitch for having them, though, for a variety of reasons: 1) I'm a stranger making blanket assumptions about people based on things I read on the internet and have no place whatsoever making this kind of presumption about their life or parenting skills, 2) it's possible they are in fact very self-aware and just don't demonstrate this in their writing, 3) since autism is at this point so broad a diagnostic category as to be medically incoherent, it's possible that their unique manifestation of autism actually doesn't detract from their parenting ability at all. These are all very legitimate reasons.
However, on the other hand, there's Occam's razor, which points me in one direction, and I really can't help but think, am I wrong? I'd love to be wrong, I just don't think I am. We're all here because to whatever extent we've been hurt by our parent because of their disability. And where are our parents? In most cases, not in support groups talking about how hard it is for their children and how hard they're working to overcome their problems. Most of our parents think they're doing just fine, and the kids are just "weird" or "bad" for some reason because they won't do the things they want the way they want. Or "good" because they are doing the things they want the way they want. But either way, our parents don't really see their kids as people. It's not their fault. We know that. But pain doesn't have to be intended to be felt. Unless they show otherwise, what reason do I have to think these people are different, that they're not like our parents?
This is not even exclusively the case for the ones who identify as high-functioning or aspies, as you'd imagine, it's the case across the spectrum. There are a pretty shocking number of women are diagnosed with level 2 or 3 autism who are also mothers but in my experience, for whatever reason, they tend not to reflect on how their disorder has adversely affected their parenting when you'd think it would in fact have profound effects. I recall this one person (whose username I will not mention) who talks about how extensively and profoundly her autism has affected her life: she says she stims constantly and her eyes always dart around the room, she has a major speech impediment, is not supposed to be unsupervised for any length of time, cannot cross the street on her own, often loses the ability to speak or has violent meltdowns where caregivers have to restrain her for some time before she calms down (I suspect a lot of this is due to trauma rather than autism exclusively but that's neither here nor there I guess). Despite her challenges, though, she says she managed to have a daughter and raise her effectively, despite having such issues with self-care prior to her diagnosis that she was nearly taken by child services at one point: "I read lots of books on parenting and apparently I did a pretty good job." And when I read this, God strike me down for saying this, but I thought "how could that even be possible?" Maternal attunement and reciprocal conversational interchange between mother and infant is the means by which an infant learns to understand who they are; if you understand absolutely nothing of this normal conversation and are physically incapable of making eye contact even with your own baby, won't that have lasting effects on your child? It's not something you can just learn by reading a book; it is something any parenting book, at least for a lay audience, would simply assume you know. Add in the fact that she apparently functions at a 5-6-year-old level in everything other than intellectual capacity and I realize that some people find it easier to care for another person than themselves, but fuck! Her adult daughter may have told her she did a good job out of love, knowing she did her best with her limited means and capacity, but that does not mean she was actually raised well, and because of her autism obviously she wouldn't realize in the first place that this was a lie. When I saw her post this AMA thread about herself I had to fight off an almost overwhelming urge to ask pointed questions about this and force myself to leave her alone. Some consolation seems to be that she wasn't the only caregiver as she talked about the father and his family being very involved.
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2024.05.21 23:30 Sufficient_Market226 How to deal when your totally out of patience?

Hi peeps
(Rant)
So, summing up, I'm about to start throwing things around (not at anyone or anything in specific)
I'm tired of just seeing the calendar advance both on work and at school, and it seems like the amount of stuff I have done is still the same
I'm doing a group assignment that it seems like the closer I get to it's delivery date the less stuff I see working, I'm about to ask my teacher tomorrow to just see if it's possible to just add my colleague to another group so he doesn't get thrown under the bus because of the major screw up I've managed to make of our assignment, so I can just say f*ck it and do this damn subject next year so i can try to keep myself from going mental
I've made a small analysis of this year so far, and it seems like the only thing I've seen go well is when I went for vacation for a few days with the missus h
My mom needs to retire medically? Yeah, everyone seems to agree with that except the people that need to make that decision, and of course we had to go around to tons of places and make tons of phonecalls trying to do that
Need paperwork for school? Sure let's have to ask someone for that every single week and only get it after a few months
Need some schedules for work so you can do your tasks, sure get them a few months late, and have triple the work because of it
Need stuff to make the work magazine, yup, get the things at the last minute and it seems like this year it's everyone's last worry so it's gonna end up being the same person having to speed run everything
And etc etc
Man, I just feel like laying down one weekend on Friday evening and just sleep off the entire weekend
Sorry for the rant, I just needed to vent a little 🤷🏻‍♂️
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2024.05.21 23:30 PralineRoyal8196 How do people comment on your anxiety/triggered state?

I was in a situation that contextually gave me 110% right to feel anxious. Pretty much anyone would be anxious in this situation. However, in my case, it does seem when I get anxious/triggered I am not able to control how it comes across. Sometimes my hands even tremble. I feel like I come across as being a bit psychotic. (I'm not. I'm just super-super stressed and unable to hide that.)
This person said to me, "you seem like someone who should be on medication, and like you missed a dose this morning."
WTF?
He was trying to be helpful, I think, by the way. Or more like it, just trying to be really honest.
What's painful for me is that during moments of extreme stress (I am not that stressed 100% of the time, like I said, just a bit unable to manage it when I'm in a situation that seems to trigger that) people have occasionally remarked on my state in that way. And I have tried medications--about a dozen different medications over the course of my life--and none of them have helped me that much, if at all.
Obviously, if I knew of a medication that could really help me, I would take it. I've never found anything that has really helped me. I'm still looking for alternative tools. I already go to therapy and that helps. Reducing stress helps. Limiting contact with my family of origin, sadly, that helps. I'm looking into doing yoga, and even doing ketamine. Can you tell I'm doing my best here?
How often do people make these kinds of comments towards you? Do they sting? I try not to let these comments get to me, but it's hard not to.
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2024.05.21 23:27 Psychological-Egg153 Threesome gone wrong leads to cheating

I am the OP and this is going to be a long and unique story.
Last year me 21M and my gf 20F both jokingly brought up the idea of a threesome. We have been together for almost 5 years and our relationship has always had a little of trust and respect. We never call each other names and we literally never fight or argue, it was perfect. Fast forward to the threesome, my gf ends up picking the 3rd girl to join us. The boundaries we set were to communicate if we didn’t feel comfortable with something and making sure that we both felt respected still with another person in the bedroom. We end up “hanging out” with this girl 3-4 times and of those times we had sex multiple times. It was mostly me fucking the girl and I wasn’t giving my gf much. My gf and the girl only really gave each other oral, I will admit that I did not handle this correctly and let a “shiny new toy” steal all my attention. I did not have any feelings at all towards the girl, purely just saw her as something that I don’t normally have and got too excited? I will admit that I was definitely too friendly and almost treating the girl like my own gf. My gf didn’t really express herself until everything had happened and multiple times at that. I put a stop to the threesome thing immediately. Over the course of the last year till now, my gf acted as if she was just hurt and was trying to heal. She said she felt cheated on, felt like the 2nd option, she felt like I threw her to the side for a new girl we just met. When I’d ask her about it I could tell she was hurt but she made it seem like she would be ok and just needed time. I always apologized but I now know that I never made it seem sincere because I truly didn’t feel like I had crossed any lines since we had discussed our ground rules before anything happened. Our life continued pretty normally or so I thought. I did everything I could to make it up to her.
Fast forward to this year, my gf tells me that she wants to take some time apart so that she can work on her mental health and heal because it hurt to look at me sometimes (she is mentally unstable and has had depression in the past/still does). I know I shouldn’t have let the threesome happen knowing that she’s not stable but I can’t turn back time now. I decided to snoop thru her MacBook last month and I find out that shes been texting a bunch of other guys. This is not like her at all which really shocked me.
This is where it gets interesting because it all unfolds in a week. I find out that she cheated on me behind my back. She downloaded dating apps early April 2024 and didn’t tell me she wanted some space until mid April. I didn’t think much of it, just not spending as much time together. In her mind she was trying to break up, it was not clear at all and those words never came up. She cheated on me Sunday, April 21. While I was at home taking her Biology Final Exam for her (I’ll get to more about this in next paragraph) on Tuesday April 23rd, I try to talk to her to see how she’s feeling and also bring her clean laundry as I wash and fold her clothes. It was on this day that she made it a little more clear that she wanted a clean full break and not just “some time”. On Friday April 26, I wrote her a very heartfelt letter about how sorry I was because I didn’t know how much damage I had actually done to her. I went to her place to drop it off and this was the same night I looked thru her MacBook and found her texts. I confronted her after she got off work, we had a very heartfelt conversation with lots of tears. The next morning was when she revealed to me that she cheated. She had cheated seeking revenge and to satisfy her emotions. At first I was upset but was willing to accept it because I had already brought up the idea a few times to even the score so long as she told me everything beforehand. What made me go crazy was the following weeks worth of lies. She told me she didn’t do anything at first when I first found the texts, then once she admitted she did something, she said she used protection, I just found out this week she lied and we had unprotected sex afterwards as well. She told me her friends that are bad influences, drove her there and they all went like it was some kind of road trip. She eventually confessed that her friends did not take part in it after I texted her friends. There were at least 6-7 major lies in the story and for something this serious, I think it’s just plain messed up to be lying. If I gave you a chance after finding out, why not just keep it straight.
Now some very important details. Our relationship is very much one sided and I don’t mind. I pretty much do EVERYTHING for her. I cook, I clean, do her laundry, I manage 4 companies, I take her places, she is absolutely spoiled beyond belief. When we first met at 16-17 years old, her relationship with her parents was not great and I spoke up for her which was scary asf for a 17 year old. I helped her gain so much freedom within her own Hispanic household. I gave her so many opportunities within my companies where she was making $40/hr doing 1/2 the work of a fast food worker. After the threesome incident, she was very upset and depressed and we are both in school so I picked up some of her slack and helped her get A’s in multiple classes. I took her to Japan, she bought so much stuff and we had a great time. I don’t know how else to say it but I literally do everything for her, if you can name it, I’ve done it. From my pov, I’ve given her my life. So many opportunities. I come from a little bit of money, upper middle class Asian family. We have a lot of resources and I always provide her what she needs whether it’s food or financial support. She comes from a lower class Hispanic family. I feel so betrayed that she would do this behind my back after I’ve done so much to change her life. I called her selfish, useless, and ungrateful. The only thing I ever asked from her was loyalty and respect, she can’t give me that anymore.
The situation currently: 3 weeks ago she was begging me to not leave and that she will work on herself to be better for me. She said I can do whatever I want, even sleep with other girls. I told her to kick rocks, I would not give up my body and dignity to my own emotions. I’m not as stupid as her. As of this week May 19, 2024. She is back on medication to control her emotion and she still doesn’t want me to leave, she keeps telling me that she still loves me so much and does not want anyone else. I wanted to wait a bit to see if she was begging out of panic and distress. Now she is much more calm and isn’t breaking down quite as bad, still crying and the feelings seem more real and painful rather than out of terror and panic. Here’s the kicker, over the last year since the threesome, she became very rude and mean towards me. I’ll spare the details but it was like if I bought her flowers, she’d throw them on the floor and stomp them out. I knew it was because of what happened and she was bottling her emotions. But this took a tremendous toll on me especially since I work a lot and my time outside of work is all with her. I sleep only 2-3 hours a night. I cheated on her twice with 2 different girls over the last year out of sheer stress and trying to cope with the treatment I was getting from her. You may ask why didn’t I just leave, why cheat. How would it have looked if the threesome incident happened, she became depressed and I just left? The alternative would be to stay and just suffer thru her verbal and emotional abuse. I felt trapped
If you read this far I appreciate you and hope you can give me some feedback. Let me know if I need to clarify anything or give more detail
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2024.05.21 23:25 ThatOrange_ Jewel of the Big Muddy: Louisiana Election of 1850

Jewel of the Big Muddy: Louisiana Election of 1850
New Orleans, pearl of the great river itself.
Times are good for Louisiana, a beacon of calm in a region increasingly chaotic. With the victory of the Progress Party in 1845, a third term for Archon Longchambon began, made even sweeter by the continued decline of the Natural Conservatives and United Democrats at the ballot box. Something of a partnership emerged in the weeks following the election, as the tenuous understanding between PP interests and those of the National League held firm. With the economy deemed sufficiently robust after the tapering of a long malaise, the National Bank proceeded to fully end its policy of austerity, and as promised, Longchambon eventually cut most of the new taxes, or eliminated them. The old Franc, largely decried, was successfully replaced over the next few years with the Fleurin.
More confident than ever, the Archon's senatorial coalition successfully pushed forth the full repeal of the Prosperity and Truth Act, after much debate in that body. The press, and public speech, for the first time in many years was truly free, although whether this would prove to be a mixed blessing remained to be seen. Further successes followed. With the power of the planter class as an institution in politics slowly declining, the Archon, working with Senator Augustin Robillard of the National League, and Ex-Archon Oscar Bernadotte, would see the passage of the Slave Transport and Territorial Act of 1847, which banned new immigrants from bringing their slaves with them into Louisiana, and also heavily regulating, to the extent of effectively crippling, the bringing of slaves into future territories where the institution did not already exist. The controversial "12%" tax was also raised to 18%. Further, Robillard's dream of a New Orleans to St. Louis Railroad would finally break ground, albeit in an altered form. A largely private initiative with a small degree of federal oversight, it nevertheless promises to be a proud idea. The republic is a huge country, and while river travel is enormously popular, it can truly be said that we are now in an age of steam and rail industry, at last.
Another major domestic pledge by the PP was a renewed attempt to reign in the military, and slowly, at a snail's pace, this would eventually be accomplished. Bereft of support after three consecutive PP wins, further attempts at mutiny were stillborn. After much negotiation, military procurements were sliced by almost half, over the objections of numerous defense hawks and old military hands. Critics charge this has left Louisiana vulnerable to attack.
However, not everyone is so happy with this era of good feelings. Events overseas have resulted in the spread of new ideas to Louisiana, and old forces hope for a comeback as well.
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Centralist troops on the march in Mexico
After years of savage, internecine conflict, the Great Centralist War has seemingly come to an end, leaving a land in ruin. It has had mixed results for all involved. While Santa Anna, in a display of his old military skill would go on to crush the Anti-Centralist rebels decisively, the lack of priority given to the Rio Grande theater would prove ill advised. There, the anti-government forces would prevail. The Rio Grande Republic, an entity compromising Nuevo Leon, Coahuila, Tamaulipas, and most of Tejas, would be de facto recognized. Attitudes toward this new neighbor are mixed, as it is has been criticized as little more than an alliance of angry warlords, despite their professed values of "freedom." Many have their doubts that this is a lasting peace however, and with Comanche raids an ever present threat, the new government has been unable to effectively respond to squatters from Louisiana, known as Filibusterers. A brief attempt was even made to proclaim California an independent state, in 1848, but this attempt quickly fell apart. With the conflict in Yucatan also seemingly coming to an end, it does appear that Santa Anna has managed to salvage most of Mexico for himself, and no doubt plans revenge against the Riograndese.
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British forces on the outskirts of Boston, in 1848.
1848 would prove to be a year of titanic proportions. The old order was challenged in Europe, as across the continent, liberal and nationalist revolutions swept the land. Slowly, eventually, it became clear that many of these daring ventures would fail, either petering out on their own being appeased by half-hearted promises, or crushed with brute force.
But The Year of Revolutions was not merely confined to Europe.
The Federal Republic of New England was often regarded as one of the most stable and steady of the Successor States, having emerged from the collapse of the United States of America to throw itself under the comforting gaze of the British Empire. The partnership was natural, many merchants and upper class figures felt a natural bond with the Mother Country regardless of the events of the Revolutionary War. New England would ossify into increasingly oligarchical rule, however, its government being seen as increasingly lofty and out of touch. Opponents of the "Grandee Rule" failed to gain much power despite occasional flare ups. In 1828, Vermont had even revolted, seeking to regain old freedom, only to be defeated. Then from 1841-1842, a radical liberal insurrection had rocked Rhode Island and Connecticut, only to be suppressed with British aid. The stage was set. Following the failure of a series of reform bills, and a violent riot in Boston, President King called out the militia, who instead joined the riot, which soon became a revolt. The government fled Boston, as a coalition of radical leaders proclaimed the New England Union, lifting a tricolor inspired by their ideological brothers from across the sea. Within weeks, the chaos had spread, and all order had broken down. Fighting was general across New England. Seeing this void, and perhaps anticipating the other, both the Atlantic Republic and Britain soon intervened. Atlantic troops soon occupied part of Connecticut and Vermont, while the British, in a two pronged assault, began a campaign to reclaim the rest. With aid from local anti-rebel elements, the British fought their way into Boston. By late 1849, it was clear that the end was near. The Providence Accord, a rough truce outlining certain terms, was soon in place. Britain would occupy the lion's share of New England, but the Atlantics would receive all Connecticut land west of the Housatonic River, as well as 2/3rds of Vermont.
It remains unclear what exactly long term British policy in the region even is, although some suspect they may plan to roll New England into Canada. This remains speculation.
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With the 1850 election coming up, everyone is curious as to how Louisiana will handle matters, although some surprises certainly promise to emerge. Recent events have shown that the old political forces must find new tactics, and a younger party also makes its cause known, hoping to rise to power. In response to the shocking unification of the opposition, several blocs have emerged.
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La Ligue du Progrès National:
(The League of National Progress)
Senator Augustin Robillard
Chosen after much debate, can he unite the common ticket?
It was originally thought that there would be, yet again, a spirited contest between the League and Progress Party in this election. However, a number of factors have complicated this. The three term tenure of the PP, the solidification of the opposition, and a factional rebellion from the left has made a pact necessary. Agreeing to stand as a united front for the purposes of the election, the Ligue du Progrès National has been formed. Longchambon, citing declining health, played little part in proceedings except to sign his name, and thus Robillard was able to acquire the candidacy. Not everyone is happy with this, but certainly he is an able figure. There is some lingering anger that Bassot, the Foreign Minister, was overlooked, but this is surely just noise? The LPN has pledged a continuation of the railroad program, a "judicious" tariff, and "betterment" for society. Internal factional lines are rather clear, so perhaps this vagueness was warranted. Some serious disagreements remain within the alliance, on matters such as military spending, size of government etc, but they will certainly enter the ace with a strong apparatus.
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Les Républicains Alliés
(The Allied Republicans)
Governor Robert Marais
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Summoned from relative obscurity, to bear the flag of Alliance
It might seem thoroughly and completely bizarre for the spiritual heirs of the Green and Blue movements to find themselves in commo cause, but this indeed is what has happened. Having faired badly, the United Democrats and Natural Conservatives have struck a bargain. Calling upon an obscure Governor of the northwestern marches, Robert Marais, they throw dice with fate. Marais himself is an effective administrator, having overseen what limited infrastructure and white settlement exist in that distant region, along the border with British Canada. Marais owns no slaves and has no philosophical love of the institution, but he also believes that the PP have overstepped their bounds repeatedly in terms of government power, and favors a more classical conservative-liberal view of the state. A moderate with moderate to conservative views on many issues, he is a known Anglophile, favoring closer relations with London. The RA is being mocked by some as a quixotic venture, and its true there are contradictions in their platform. On tariffs for instance, the party iss eemingly being pulled in two directions, with some adherents arguing for high tariffs and others for low, often based on region and locale. While the bank issue is widely regarded as dead at this point, they still call for some revisions, in addition to reigning in state spending. The question of slavery of course looms large, and the party has taken a stance of "no further restriction", though it has pledged to honor current laws, despite a push from some ultra-conservatives. The classical Blue quest for a two-term limit has also been put forth, as well as a firm stance on further opening the far north for settlement.
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Le Parti Radical Libre
(The Free Radical Party)
Colonel Francois Dupoy
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\"I have been called a Jacobin, I wear this name with pride\"
A veteran of the Army, the son of a cobbler, Francois Dupoy stands as the newly infamous voice of the Free Radical Party. Having served in the military first as a drummer boy and working his way up to Colonel, Dupoy was exposed to the poor treatment of black enlistees, and the lower classes in general. Combined with a talent for speaking and a fiery demeanor, and it made for an explosive mix once he left the service to pursue politics. Following the Boston Revolution in 1848, Dupoy's neo-jacobin newspaper, the New Orleans Sun, began selling like hotcakes, with acidic and damning articles blasting "British hypocrisy" and praising the rebels as true republicans. Viewing Longchambon as an appeaser, Dupoy declared a "revolt by ballot box", forming a new party. Outraged, PP outlets heaped attacks upon him, which he responded to in with scorn. Dupoy is an open and radical abolitionist, proclaiming slavery incompatible with human liberty, and has called also for free trade, black suffrage, and for church-owned land to be turned over to the state. To say the least, these are explosive demands, and alongside charges by the League/PP forces that he is staging a "childish mutiny", promises to make the campaign an unexpectedly sharp one.
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2024.05.21 23:23 Ok_Transition4568 Being treated for Epilepsy

So I’ve had a very long history of seizures, I was medicated wen I was very young but was taken off after 4 yrs, I’ve had seizures come and go throughout my life though recently they have come back with a very high intensity, and they are beginning to look more epileptic in nature. I had a neurologist appointment today and felt like I was finally listened too, a official diagnosis has not been reached however I’ve been started on medication to see if it has any affect while I’m on the 2month waiting list for a at home EEG. I’ve been put on Lamotrigine this was the same medication I was on between the ages of 2-5 of course being that young I don’t remember anything about being on the medication so I was just wondering if anyone else has had experiences on this drug and what they were? I get very anxious trying any new type of medication for anything so I like to do as much research as I can but at the same time I’m desperate for it to work, my seizures have completely ruled my life reccently, I’ve been signed off work for the 3rd time and it’s been devastating, I’am so relived that after yrs and reccently months I’m finally being listened too.
I’m thankful for the NHS and everything that it is but the amount of medical gaslight img that goes on in the system is so upsetting, I have a diagnosis of Autism so explaining symptoms can be very difficult at times and because of this I’ve been dismissed multiple times, to finally be listened too despite it only being the beginning is so validating I just hope that I continue to find the answers that I’m seeking and that this medication is able to give me my life back.
Any advice on either medication, a at home EEG and even just shared experiences on being medically gaslit and fighting for a diagnosis is so welcomed.
Thank you.
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2024.05.21 23:23 Xplo85 Injured at work, is there really anything I could sue for?

Good evening, I live in Georgia, US, but I have no idea how to handle what's currently going on as it's absolutely insane and it doesn't help that I have a mother whose bothering the absolute last of my mental capacity trying to get me to pursue anything related to what happened.
On March 31st, Easter Sunday, I was attacked by a coworker while on the job. It resulted after almost an hour of small but not irate back and forth disagreements, them yelling at my kitchen manager and supervisor about me, me yelling back for the first time, they then turned and grappled me into a cooling rack while the supervisor and manager pulled him off. I did not retaliate at all. After the grappling was done, I realized my pinky finger was crooked, purple, and swollen.
The aggressor was immediately terminated after being sent home. I forgot to make a police report until later, from what I heard from coworkers, the aggressor has had many written complaints about him and instances like this before. I know I have given a written complaint about him as well, but I cannot confirm other employees complaints. My manager and I thought the pinky might just be a jammed since it was only on the last digit of the pinky that seem affected. We duct taped it to my ring finger as a splint, and I finished my shift. When I removed the duct tape after, the pinky was much darker, much more swollen and not looking the best, so I asked for worker's comp to cover getting it checked out.
Workers comp was approved, and same day the 31st, I was sent to an urgent care to receive an x-ray. X-ray confirmed that the last digit was fractured and displaced next to the joint. They gave me a reference for an orthopedic, and I filed a police report that evening for the attack. The aggressor now has a warrant for a misdemeanor that could be upgraded to a felony from what I understood, but he still hasn't been picked up yet.
The company I work for gave me a final written warning for yelling, and it later took another 3 weeks to get an appointment for an orthopedic through my company's workers comp insurer. After the appointment, the doctor confirmed I would need surgery on the pinky, and two pins placed in it to keep the healing aligned. The surgery took place on April 29th, and I have been out of work since as I cannot cook with pins in my left hand and large bandages preventing gloves.
I was sent a VascuTherm to help with swelling and pain, plenty of pain killers, and asked to return on the 9th for checkup. Check up told me I'd have the pins in for another 2 to 4 weeks but overall was healing well. On May 13th, one of the pins was accidentally ripped out of my finger just by closing a microwave door. I saw the doctor the following day on the 14th, who confirmed the arc of the joint still looks alright but that he doesn't think I'd need another pin. Will find out more on the next check up on the 23rd. I will have to have physical therapy once the pins are removed.
The workers comp insurance company sent me a check in the mail yesterday for the 29th through the 19th, but it really equals to roughly 2 weeks worth of hours pre-tax. I would like the cash the check since this months bills are already behind from missing work, but wanted to reach out for advice before hand. I have not heard anything from the county about the aggressor in the mean time. Despite it being just a pinky digit, I have lost roughly 50% of my dexterity in my left hand, I wish I was kidding, turns out you need your pinky for a fist and grip. I do like the company, my coworkers, etc. and I want to work there for a few years minimum, but I always don't want to shoot myself in the foot and lose my job with no back up because I looked into legals. I also just have a TON of anxiety, so that hasn't helped the situation.
Any advice is appreciated, sorry for the wall.
TL;DR: Coworker attacked and broke one of my fingers, everything seems fine but everybody is bothering me to pursue legal, but I'm scared for my job and jobs of my coworkers who helped me because the place is really that great.
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2024.05.21 23:17 ErikaEarthling AITA for asking neighbor to re-home an aggressive cat?

I live in a duplex in a rural area and share a yard with the downstairs tenants. One of the downstairs neighbors has a cat that has attacked my two cats on several occasions. Most of the attacks have been witnessed by either myself or partner and every time my cats try to run inside while her cat chases them. The first few attacks only resulted in minor scratches. However, on one occasion I had to take one of my cats to the vet because she had a severe bite on her back leg; the bill came to $600. I initially thought the injury wasn't that severe, and Downstairs Neighbor offered to pay the vet bill, if needed. Once she discovered we did have to go to the vet, she backtracked and said she shouldn't have to pay. After sitting down and having a conversation, we agreed to split the cost of the bill, with the guarantee that her cat wouldn't be allowed outside anymore so as to prevent further skirmishes.
In addition to the aggression and violence, her cat has entered my unit twice through the patio door which I sometimes leave open for fresh air (I have a separate patio), has sprayed pee on the patio screen door, has regularly vomited on my patio furniture (yes, I'm positive it wasn't my cats since the vomit was left overnight and my cats are never outside at night), and has also scratched and climbed up my other screen doors while taunting my cats on the other side.
Although we agreed the downstairs cat wouldn't go outside anymore, that lasted maybe a month or two and then the cat was regularly outside again. I texted my neighbor about the continued problems (there was another attack on my cat that resulted in a bleeding scratch on her nose), but she never responded (she was subleasing her room for several months, but her cat stayed behind). I asked our property manager for advice, and he emailed all tenants saying all cats must remain indoors, and failure to do so will result in immediate termination of lease for the offending tenants. Since then, in 6 weeks the cat has been outside at least three times. I realize stuff happens and I gave them a couple of passes to get into a new routine of inside only, but after the third time I suggested to my neighbor it's time for her cat to find a new home. Of course she refuses, and I greatly sympathize as an avid cat lover. But I'm also sick of having to deal with the consequences of her aggressive cat, especially since she won't accept financial responsibility. And my cats would love to go back outside themselves.
I don't want to tattle to the property manager and get everyone downstairs kicked out, since it's only one of the housemates' cat, so I suggested to the cat's owner that it's time for the cat to find a new place to live. Since she refused, I told her she has three options: 1) re-home the cat 2) move out herself with the cat 3) I tell the property manager and everyone gets kicked out. AITA for asking for the cat to move out and threatening to tell the property manager?
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2024.05.21 23:16 delliamcool Debating what I should do about school next semester: I could either go to a second community college, or transfer to a university. Looking for advice

I am a community college student in Michigan. As of last week I am in my fourth semester at my school. There are still two more courses I could take at community college that count towards my intended major (elementary education) before transferring and I’d really like to take as many credits at CC as possible to save as much money as possible. These classes are Intro to Education and Math for Elementary School Teachers 2.
However right now I attend a urban community college district with 5 different campuses all across my city, and the only time they are offering intro to education in the fall is Tuesday/Thursday mornings at the campus furthest away from where I live/work (like 30+ minutes), and I work full time as a nanny from 8 AM-4PM every weekday and have been taking night classes and weekend classes so that time really doesn’t work for me. They’re also only offering math for elementary school teachers 2 online and I know myself and taking a math class online would be a disaster so that’s really not ideal either.
There’s another community college in a suburb like 15 minutes away from my apartment that’s in the same county I live in so I’d still be in district for financial aid, and they have many more class slots and times that I can make work into my schedule much easier. Is it possible to transfer to the different community college just for one last semester to take two classes and a couple electives so I can have full time status for financial aid and is it with doing so? Should I look at just transferring to a local university without having taken those two credits and take them at the university ? I’m reliant on financial aid, I’m a Pell grant recipient and I could not go to school without it so I really don’t want to do anything that would mess that up. Thank you in advance for any advice!
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2024.05.21 23:15 Low_Gas_2845 Help with licensing in TX

I've been trying to contact DSHS about what I need to do to work as an EMT in Texas. However, I haven't gotten an actual response. I'm hoping someone can actually give me some guidance here.
I completed my EMT-B course in San Diego county. I do not have a California drivers license. I passed the NREMT the first time. When I went to go apply for the county license (it goes by county in California), the Livescan lady said it might not be approved with my Virginia DL. I said okay. It's worth a shot anyways. I guess I got rejected because I've heard nothing back from San Diego's EMS department.
Now I'm moving to Texas because of a scholarship. To clarify, I only have my NREMT done. I do not have a EMT license from a county in California. What do I need to do to be able to work as an EMT in Texas? I plan on getting my Texas DL there as soon as I arrive. What other steps do I need to do?
Thank you
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2024.05.21 23:12 NotoriousPengu Married, no sex drive. What is it like being asexual?

How do people start these things? Hello all, hi Reddit! This is my very first post, and it's been hard on my mind. I am a 26(f) married to a 31(m), we have been married for 2 years, and together for 4 years. When we met, I was 60 pounds lighter and a lot more "happier" if you will. Over the past year and a half, I have made strives to find out what is wrong with my mental health. I tried therapy, and I finally got comfortable with the term depression and was on Wellbutrin for a short stent (around 5 months). Didn't work for me; I was still tired all the time, had no interest in anything, and my sleep got worse. So I talked with my doctor and found out I have ADHD and am currently, now on Adderall. During this time (after wellbutrin), my sleep was terrible, and I got a sleep study, and boom, I have OSA (sleep apnea). So for the past 3 months, I finally feel like the things that are "wrong" with me are fixed or at least getting better. I'm not tired all the time. I'm not binge eating, and I am a lot more focused and find myself doing things I used to enjoy. l like yard work and reading. Here comes the no sex drive thing, I promise. My husband is amazing. We rarely fight, we understand one another, and we can admit our faults when disagreements do arise. We have so much in common, and I truly love him a lot. I was in and out of relationships after my first long-term relationship that ended in 2018 after almost 4 years. I moved out of my home state in 2020 and really enjoy where I am at in life physically. Our first year together, we had sex of course, daily/weekly, you name it, I was his first and also his first relationship as well for him at 27. Over time, I just didn't desire sex, and I thought as being a 23-24 year old woman that wouldn't happen to me. My husband is very kind. He doesn't push it on me or force me to do anything I don't feel comfortable about, but it does take its toll on my mental health. Because I love my husband, and I want to provide him with something he wants, but I just can't. I know this is all over the place, but this is the first time I'm putting these thoughts down, and I'm trying to make sure everyone gets the context here. So fast forward to now, I am treating my sleep issues. I am treating my overactive brain issues. And I truly feel "more awake" than I have in the last 4 years. But, I have no sex drive. I want to be near my husband, I want hugs/kisses. But I have no interest in having sex. In a previous long-term relationship, this did happen where I just lost interest in sex, but that relationship wasn't healthy, so I attributed it to that. During that relationship, I threw around the idea of being asexual but I didn't truly know what that meant. For me, for my relationships, etc. I know stimulant medications like Adderall can mess with your sex drive, but this feeling was prior to that. So I don't know what to think. It makes me question if I'm lying to myself about loving me husband, and if I'm in the right place in life. It makes me question my sexuality, and I truly don't know what to do.
tldr; treated my health issues that could be attributing to little/no sex drive at 26, but still have no sex drive. Asexual??
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2024.05.21 23:08 turnedtosilverglass Trapped and Trying to Escape

[Note: Living in western NY state, since I'm sure that's relevant.]

The Situation

Married for over 20 years, abused by my wife (emotionally, financially, escalating to physically) over the majority of that time. She's also been cheating with numerous men over the past several years, but I'm not sure how far back that goes. Family friends, random truckers, you name it.
I have long-term chronic health problems, and after she tried to throw me down a flight of stairs after the last time I found out about her stealing from and cheating on me, I knew it was time to get out. I've been the Dad/Mom for our two kids for the entirety of my daughter's life, and most of my son's. She doesn't do anything to them except complete neglect, so they're safe by virtue of a single parent who is tanking the damage and making sure they get everything they need. It's the best I could do.
I come from a religious fundamentalist family, so there's little to no support for any kind of divorce or getting us out of the situation. The best I've gotten was that this is the result of not following God. No resources to be had there.
My health situation means the only work I can do is writing. Fortunately, I'm good at it. Unfortunately, I don't have a degree or means of getting one, so I'm stuck scratching for freelance work that wouldn't even come close to paying any bills, in a highly competitive market full of people who aren't ~40 and perpetually sick with two kids to care for.
The kids are old enough (youngest just turned 13) that it seems like custody won't be an issue. Both of them avoid her on the rare occasions she's around when they are, and both also want out of this situation. Both break my heart promising me when they get old enough they'll get big jobs and we'll all escape together, but I don't know if I have that long due to the aforementioned medical conditions.
I am currently very malnourished and severely underweight. My psychiatrist, therapist, and doctor are all saying I won't live much longer if I don't get out, but none of them are offering ways. I can't move us into a shelter; right now our neighborhood is safe, the school is good, and I've done enough volunteer work with abused kids (I was one, so I am compelled to give back when I can) to know how those places are.
So I need a plan, and I need one who a diagnosed severely bipolar woman with what have been described by my psychiatrist as "strong psychopathic traits" will agree to, since she's the only one who earns enough money to hold the family above water.

My Only Idea

My best idea: I offer to not file any charges against her, sue, or any of that, in exchange for her agreeing not to contest the divorce and pay whatever is the maximum allowable alimony. She avoid criminal and civil prosecution, she never has to deal with being a mom again, and I can have the closure of not needing to monitor what's going on with her or fear for my safety. Maybe we don't move out right away -- that would depend on a lot of other factors -- but it's my best idea.

The Problem

I just don't know how to navigate any of this, I have almost no money, and she makes just enough to keep us stable paycheck-to-paycheck, so there's no money in a settlement to get or use to pay for a lawyer. Is there a way I could draft a legally viable document like that?
Right now her primary motivation is to maintain appearances for her family, and keep everything the way it is. (She does whatever she wants, she thinks I don't know she's cheating and such because I play dumb for my own safety and keeping things stable while I try to figure this out) so I think she has motivation to sign the agreement.
We couldn't move out right away, so she'd basically have what she wanted, I'd have ensured security of some sort to figure out our next steps, and there would be some closure so when there was an opportunity to move out and move on, we could without the divorce further traumatizing the kids.
I don't know how all of this works. I don't know if this idea makes any sense. I don't know how to do it or who would help us. So here I am, hoping there's a lawyer with the time and kindness to point me in the right direction, since I can't find one.
Please help. I don't know how many years I have left, but I don't want to spend them afraid anymore.
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2024.05.21 23:07 Zealousideal_Put3989 Over 9 years old

Today, June 21st, 2024, I received a medical bill for a collection agency in NV. It is for a medical bill dated January 12th, 2015 for Ortho Indy. I have not heard from Ortho Indy or anyone about this medical bill in many years. Am I responsible for this after 9 plus years? Any help is appreciated!
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2024.05.21 23:05 double_pink_eye Managing friendships and boundaries post infidelity

I’m going to try to be brief here. I’ll provide details if asked in comments, but at the core I’m curious what is a reasonable way to manage boundaries with friends who were/are mutually friends with your ex-spouse who cheated?
For background, in 2020 my ex-husband left our 11-year relationship and 6-year marriage ABRUPTLY. No one else knows a private relationship of course, but it was an absolute shock to me and the rest of our community/friends/family. He was a loving husband one day and then brought up divorce the next. Within a month he left our home and then in three months we were divorced. Little explanation, circular rationale when I asked what was going on. I was traumatized and confused, and treated pretty shitty throughout his departure (again, sparing details unless asked).
I never got an apology. I learned about two months after our divorce of his presumed (he never admitted it) affair and new relationship. They moved out of state, married, are pregnant, and moved back home in my parent’s town. There’s been no communication since 2020 apart from some aggressive and accusatory letters from his current partner since (somehow a toll bill was sent to his address and she sent it to my family member’s home with a scribbled angry note, etc.)
Anyway, since he’s come home, he’s rekindled some friendships with just a couple mutual friends. These aren’t my closest friends but they’re dear to me. While I’m okay with that, my friend keeps posting him on his social media. So I come home from work to scroll to see my ex-husband’s face.
I’m happy and in a relationship and I KNOW IT’S BEEN FOUR YEARS, but the trauma of my ex falling off the face of the planet with no apology or explanation doesn’t exactly fade away. While I don’t want to make others feel bad, I don’t really get why he needs to post my ex-husband. Like?
Is it unreasonable to be bothered and slightly hurt? I muted his account for now but is it extreme to even question if this person means well for me? Sometimes I just wonder if people don’t understand, or if it’s still unresolved pain lingering.
Thanks all!
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2024.05.21 23:01 ditsidaisi I'm in a situation

Hi I'm needing some guidance/advice on a situation that has me feeling extremely helpless clueless and has affected my mental health like nothing ever has in my life. Because of it all its been hard for me to have a complete thought. In a way it's like my brain is going 100000mph but at the same time is completely blank. I'm going to summarize best I can and I apologize if anything gets confusing. Please if you are able to guide me in the right direction or advise me on what my rights are I will be extremely grateful for it. My partner who I will call B and I have been together for 12 years and we live in New Mexico. B has always been the breadwinner and I am a homemaker. Throughout the years we have acquired quite a bit of things, property, vehicles, animals (horse dogs ducks chickens) tools etc together. Quite a bit of things. Everything is in his name but we have never had any problems or had any reason to worry otherwise. Ive always just used his card and/or acct to pay bills etc. Through the years we have distanced ourselves from the majority of our families because of their lifestyles and because we enjoy the simple things and try to avoid the drama our families are always stirring up.His son who lives in texas will call about once a week which usually ends up in B sending him hundreds and at times thousands of dollars at least a couple times a month if not more which B makes good money so it's never been a problem. The end of February B had a hemorrhaging stroke and was airlifted to Texas. For a month and a half I was there 24/ 7 doing everything I could for him. He and I are very close. Its been just us two for so long. His son was still asking for money while we were up there and I told him due to the circumstances we couldn't until we knew what all was gonna happen. Long story short he wasn't happy about it and everything seemed to go downhill from there A couple weeks into being in texas our home in new mexico got broken into and so I ended up having to drive back to check it out. I was gone for two days. When I got back his son came up there and told me he had power of attorney that his dad had personally signed himself (which his father is not medically competent at this point because of the severity of the stroke. He has very little left side function and his speech was non existent to everyone except for me which was only about 5 words because he was frustrated trying to talk and not being able to so he only would try when it was us two alone ) and had me removed from the hospital and also literally grabbed my keys from my hand and took our truck leaving me stranded in the parking lot. Our truck is under Bs name. It used to be under Bs and my grandmother's both but she's now deceased so no longer on title. I'm not on title but I am on the insurance as a driver of the vehicle. His son is no where on it. All my money and keys and clothes and a lot of important things were in the truck. I have asked multiple times to see the power of attorney papers but nothing. They have a privacy thing on B so I can't get any info. I was lucky enough to have a friend help me with an old vehicle that has no ac or heater but at least runs. I have been sleeping in the Walmart parking lot for over a month now with door dashing to maintain. It is one of the hardest most low times of my life but I have nothing and nowhere to go. His son and their family knowing i have nothing and my current mental state to intimidate and bully me and won't let me go to our home in new mexico which doesnt have much left that hasnt been taken or destroyed at thos point sadly but I haven't pushed too much because idk who I can talk to with us being from and our home being in New mexico but him being in texas currently in the hospital and also texas where his son took our truck from me. I'm not sure of what legal rights I have because even though we've been together 12 years I'm not on any paperwork. My license says our address but idk if that matters and I don't want to do something that could get me in trouble and maybe effect something in the future but also his son has had all of our animals removed and are all gone from the property. I have no idea where any of them are and have heard that he has done bad things to them. His son is not a good person and very sneaky and malicious. I have no money. I have no home anymore I miss my partner more than life itself and every moment i wonder what he thinks because its been just him and i and we were best friends and does he think i just abandoned him and what has his son told him if he knew the truth of what was going on this would just kill him. I am backed up against a wall and don't know what to do or what rights I have and my mental state is getting so low I have thoughts about giving up and they are starting to scare me. Thank you ahead of time for any help.
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2024.05.21 22:58 Late_Switch1390 i live in the rural country (no stores to walk/bike to) and I do not have a car. How can i find a way to support myself when i have no way of phyeically getting to a job or interview?

Basically title. I am 25 and I have no work experience outside of 4ish days at mcdonald's like 4 years ago.
I have depression and anxiety (diagnosed) and i suspect autism and adhd as well. I've been trying to find a way to earn money since i was 13. for 12 years I've struggled just getting more depressed in the process. I've decided i really would rather die than spend decades working for some corporation just to survive.
I live with my mother, but we are technically homeless. we sleep in my great grandmother's living room. our car broke down shortly after moving here and we only have my mom's disability that's around 800 a month to live on, but between bills and little treats to keep us alive we haven't been able to save up much, and I recently got hit with a court issued payment for an old credit card that's now taking up an extra $100 of my mom's money every month.
i don't want to die and leave my mother in this shitty situation alone. she's tried so hard my entire life just for me to not be able to meet expectations. I started college courses in high school but i was too depressed so i dropped out in 10th grade and really just kinda dissociated until graduation thinking I'd end up killing myself before then, so i didn't make any actual plans for life. i ended up accidentally sleeping through my SAT timeslot so i just never applied to any colleges. I wanted to get a working certificate but it was like $600 when i graduated and i had no job and no way of getting one, and my mom was at the time struggling to pay our $350 rent cause she herself was disabled with no disability back then.
I'm pretty creative so for a few years i made money doing whatever i could from home, trying to be patient about the "starting a business takes years" thing, but after about 3 years in the most successful thing i tried, the pandemic started and many people started businesses from home in my niche which basically took away the ability for me to stand out and do numbers that had helped me get that far. i kept trying for another year but sales were pretty much nonexistent and i got burnt out trying to keep up the work with no money.
since then I've kinda just been drifting by in life. after burning out while working at home i tried to get a job at mcdonald's which everyone said was a great starter job, but after a week i was left even more burnt out. I hate being around people and having to speak, ehich was so draining. customers are so vile to fast food workers, the bosses treated us like kids (even the ones that had long graduated high school), I am not good being watched or timed so i kept messing up, my bosses would pressure me to take early breaks and on my last day i didn't get a break at all, and every day after work my legs would hurt so bad I'd just sit and cry. i struggled even walking to the bathroom for a month after i quit, i genuinely thought i had done permanent damage to my legs and i had only worked for 4 days (not including the training which i never even got to finish). it was a nightmare and i never want to do that again.
I know I've listed probably way more information than necessary but I'm so desperate. i don't want to die, but if my options are work the rest of my life or end it early, I'm choosing the latter. but before i do that i just want to get my mom into a more stable situation. my grandmother is 91 and once she dies my mom will be on the streets. i don't want that for her. i just don't see any actual solutions.
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2024.05.21 22:57 purpleninjaknitter Help! AAC Materials Wishlist

Hi everyone! I’ve recently started a new role as the “AAC Coordinator” for a preschool special education program. I was just told we received grant funding and I can create an “AAC wishlist” of materials to support the program for next year. I am so excited for this! I was hoping to get some ideas for what is on everyone’s dream AAC wishlist.
Right now we have iPads for all SLPs to trial in sessions. The iPads are equipped with TouchChat and Proloquo apps. Once we determine a student would benefit from AAC we submit a request to their school district to have a device provided by district and added to their IEP. This is important because we are preschool only and we want to make sure our students AAC devices follow them to elementary school- our students typically return to their local district. My biggest priority is to request more devices (iPads) so that we can have “loaner” devices assigned to students while we are waiting for district approval.
I’d love to include some other resources as well though! I wasn’t given a budget- I plan to ask for the moon and see what gets approved… Any other material recommendations? AAC software recommendations? Curriculum programs you like (like a core word of the week program)? Even continuing education courses for staff would be helpful!
So far I’m thinking of possibly asking for LAMP words for life and maybe some key guards to help with easier access. Our students are all ages 3-4, early communicators, and many of our students are autistic. We don’t have many students with complex medical/physical needs aside from ASD. I think our biggest challenge has been gaining buy in from teachers/classroom staff and incorporating AAC into classroom lessons. We’re focusing on that for next year. Maybe some large core word posters for classroom use but I’m not sure how often they’d be used.
I appreciate any ideas and feedback!!
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