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I want out of this life and I don't know how.

2024.05.19 17:32 DroppedOffHere I want out of this life and I don't know how.

Ever since I can remember I have fought depression because I have been poor. I'm tired of it. I'm tired of looking for that idea to get me out of poverty and into a life where I can afford to live and enjoy. I lost family because they are all capable of making so much money their ability to do whatever they want while I sit at home struggling to pay rent sucks. I took them off my IG and stopped opening it because I become more depressed seeing them jetset around the world on constant vacations while I work practically 2 jobs just to pay rent and groceries. I try on my own to figure something out and I'm done. I tried to make investments and got nowhere. I try to reach out to my extended family for help making investments and ideas to increase my income and I feel the rich don't want to associate with the poor because it is contagious. I have the drive to make something of my life but I don't have the smarts. I have the hunger to work everyday but not the smarts to figure out how to make more out of my labor. If I was a deadbeat I wouldn't be able to hold down 2 jobs. It's just not enough and I don't want to struggle anymore. I yearn for a person to save me from being poor by seeing my drive to dedicate my life to working for something better..not working for struggling. I don't want to live this way anymore and sometimes I wish I could just let go and leave but I don't have the guts too. I keep thinking if I stay, somehow, someway..my life will change if a miracle happens. Waiting for a miracle sucks. I want to do good if I have a good source of income and money in my pocket. I want to help my parents get out of poverty and let them enjoy life. They worked all their lives for no enjoyment out of it. I want them to enjoy their eldery years for all their work. Seems like a scam.
I don't know what to do anymore but just live in my lifelong depression. Sometimes it is more bliss to just accept a life of poverty than to fight for no hope.
I'm not suicidal but being scammed out of a life makes you wonder why should I have it.
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2024.05.19 17:30 Happyhenry312 [WTS] Store Credit at 58%-62%

Hello! I want to sell $1220 in store credit at a varying percentage. I have aurora lns ready to upgrade. Would prefer to sell ships Constellation Taurus price and up. But I could sell you a freelancer at 65% if that's the amount you want.
Price is calculated as: (Ship Value - $20(Aurora)) * (.575) + $20
So essentially, credit is sold at 57.5% and you pay for the Aurora.
For example, this works out as: Constellation Taurus - Melt $200 - Price $123.50 - 61.75%
Aegis Reclaimer - Melt $400 - Price $238.50 - 59.62%
RSI Polaris - Melt $750 - Price 439.75 - 58.63%
So feel free to pick any ship that is currently available for sale, and I will be happy to sell you store credit at an amount of your choosing.
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2024.05.19 17:11 Advanced_Eye634 ACCA Practical Training Queries

I have been really interested in going with acca after doing my bcom. I found out I am entitled to 5 exemptions after I complete my bcom on the acca exemptions calculator. I noticed the costs of doing acca and also how you need 36 months of practical training requirement in order to become an acca member. So I have been having some questions and google is of no use. Could you start the practical training before you complete all your exams? Can you pay for the exams fees (and also other fees I see on the fees and charges site which I am not able to comprehend) from the money you receive from practical training or does it have to come from your own pocket?
Also I have been thinking of directly going for acca without pursuing a degree from a uni. Would you recommend directly going for acca by attempting all the 13 papers skipping college and solely relying on coaching and self-study?
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2024.05.19 17:09 AmbitionRight8913 500$/Month Work at Home Jobs for Moms in 2024

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2024.05.19 17:01 thatotherchicka April 2021 - Question #37

April 2021 - Question #37
“37. The drawback entry is to be filed through a CBP-authorized electronic system and must include all of the following EXCEPT:
A. Claimant identification number
B. Port code for the drawback office where the claim is being filed
C. Drawback entry number and provision(s) under which drawback is claimed
D. The 8-digit HTSUS classification, of each item being exported
E. Amount of refund claimed for each of relevant duties, taxes, and fees”
Let’s go to our table of contents for modernized drawback and see if we can find information on how to submit the drawback claim:
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Let’s go to 190.51:
§ 190.51 Completion of drawback claims.
(a) General —
(1) Complete claim. Unless otherwise specified, a complete drawback claim under this part will consist of the successful electronic transmission to CBP of the drawback entry (as described in paragraph (a)(2) of this section), applicable Notice(s) of Intent to Export, Destroy, or Return Merchandise for Purposes of Drawback on CBP Form 7553, applicable import entry data, and evidence of exportation or destruction as provided for under subpart G of this part.
(2) Drawback entry. The drawback entry is to be filed through a CBP-authorized electronic system and must include the following:
(i) Claimant identification number;
(ii) Broker identification number (if applicable);
(iii) If requesting accelerated payment under § 190.92, surety code and bond type (and, for single transaction bonds, also the bond number and amount of bond);
(iv) Port code for the drawback office where the claim is being filed;
(v) Drawback entry number and provision(s) under which drawback is claimed;
(vi) Statement of eligibility for applicable privileges (as provided for in subpart I of this part);
(vii) Amount of refund claimed for each of relevant duties, taxes, and fees (calculated to two decimal places);
(viii) For each designated import entry line item, the entry number and the line item number designating the merchandise, a description of the merchandise, a unique import tracing identification number(s) (ITIN) (used to associate the imported merchandise and any substituted merchandise with any intermediate products (if applicable) and the drawback-eligible exported or destroyed merchandise or finished article(s)), as well as the following information for the merchandise designated as the basis for the drawback claim: The 10-digit HTSUS classification, amount of duties paid, applicable entered value (see 19 CFR 190.11(a)), quantity, and unit of measure (using the unit(s) of measure required under the HTSUS for substitution manufacturing and substitution unused merchandise drawback claims), as well as the types and amounts of any other duties, taxes, or fees for which a refund is requested;
(ix) For manufacturing claims under 19 U.S.C. 1313(a) or (b), each associated ruling number, along with the following information: Corresponding information for the factory location, the basis of the claim (as provided for in § 190.23), the date(s) of use of the imported and/or substituted merchandise in manufacturing or processing (or drawback product containing the imported or substituted merchandise), a description of and the 10-digit HTSUS classification for the drawback product or finished article that is manufactured or produced, the quantity and unit of measure for the drawback product or finished article that is manufactured or produced, the disposition of the drawback product or finished article that is manufactured or produced (transferred, exported, or destroyed), unique manufacture tracing identification number(s) (MTIN) (used to associate the manufactured merchandise, including any intermediate products, with the drawback-eligible exported or destroyed finished article(s)), and a certification from the claimant that provides as follows: “The article(s) described above were manufactured or produced and disposed of as stated herein in accordance with the drawback ruling on file with CBP and in compliance with applicable laws and regulations.”;
(x) Indicate whether the designated imported merchandise, other substituted merchandise, or finished article (for manufacturing claims) was transferred to the drawback claimant prior to the exportation or destruction of the eligible merchandise, and for unused merchandise drawback claims under 19 U.S.C. 1313(j), provide a certification from the client that provides as follows: “The undersigned hereby certifies that the exported or destroyed merchandise herein described is unused in the United States and further certifies that this merchandise was not subjected to any process of manufacture or other operation except the allowable operations as provided for by regulation.”;
(xi) Indicate whether the eligible merchandise was exported or destroyed and provide the applicable 10-digit HTSUS or Department of Commerce Schedule B classification, quantity, and unit of measure (the unit of measure specified must be the same as that which was required under the HTSUS for the designated imported merchandise in paragraph (viii) for substitution unused merchandise drawback claims) and, for claims under 19 U.S.C. 1313(c), specify the basis as one of the following:
(A) Merchandise does not conform to sample or specifications;
(B) Merchandise was defective at time of importation;
(C) Merchandise was shipped without consent of the consignee; or
(D) Merchandise sold at retail and returned to the importer or the person who received the merchandise from the importer;
(xii) For eligible merchandise that was exported, the unique export identifier (the number used to associate the export transaction with the appropriate documentary evidence of exportation), export destination, name of exporter, the applicable comparative value pursuant to § 190.11(b) (see § 190.22(a)(1)(ii), § 190.22(a)(2)(ii), or § 190.32(b)) for substitution claims, and a certification from the claimant that provides as follows: “I declare, to the best of my knowledge and belief, that all of the statements in this document are correct and that the exported article is not to be relanded in the United States or any of its possessions without paying duty.”;
(xiii) For eligible merchandise that was destroyed, the name of the destroyer and, if substituted, the applicable comparative value pursuant to § 190.11(c) (see § 190.22(a)(1)(ii), § 190.22(a)(2)(ii), or § 190.32(b)), and a certification from the claimant, if applicable, that provides as follows: “The undersigned hereby certifies that, for the destroyed merchandise herein described, the value of recovered materials (including the value of any tax benefit or royalty payment) that accrues to the drawback claimant has been deducted from the value of the imported (or substituted) merchandise designated by the claimant, in accordance with 19 U.S.C. 1313(x).”;
(xiv) For substitution unused merchandise drawback claims under 19 U.S.C. 1313(j)(2), a certification from the claimant that provides as follows: “The undersigned hereby certifies that the substituted merchandise is unused in the United States and that the substituted merchandise was in our possession prior to exportation or destruction.”;
(xv) For NAFTA and USMCA drawback claims provided for in subpart E of parts 181 and 182, the foreign entry number and date of entry, the HTSUS classification for the foreign entry, the amount of duties paid for the foreign entry and the applicable exchange rate, and, if applicable, a certification from the claimant that provides as follows: “Same condition—The undersigned certifies that the merchandise herein described is in the same condition as when it was imported under the above import entry(s) and further certifies that this merchandise was not subjected to any process of manufacture or other operation except the allowable operations as provided for by regulation.”; and
(xvi) All certifications required in this part and as otherwise deemed necessary by CBP to establish compliance with the applicable laws and regulations, as well as the following declaration: “The undersigned acknowledges statutory requirements that all records supporting the information on this document are to be retained by the issuing party for a period of 3 years from the date of liquidation of the drawback claim. All required documentation that must be uploaded in accordance with 19 CFR 190.51 will be provided to CBP within 24 hours of the filing of the drawback claim. The undersigned acknowledges that a false certification of the foregoing renders the drawback claim incomplete and subject to denial. The undersigned is fully aware of the sanctions provided in 18 U.S.C. 1001, and 18 U.S.C. 550, and 19 U.S.C. 1593a.”
(3) Election of line item designation for imported merchandise. Merchandise on a specific line on an entry summary may be designated for either direct identification or substitution claims but a single line on an entry summary may not be split for purposes of claiming drawback under both direct identification and substitution claims. The first complete drawback claim accepted by CBP which designates merchandise on a line on an entry summary establishes this designation for any remaining merchandise on that same line.
(4) Limitation on line item eligibility for imported merchandise. Claimants filing substitution drawback claims under part 190 for imported merchandise associated with a line item on an entry summary if any other merchandise covered on that entry summary has been designated as the basis of a claim under part 191 must provide additional information enabling CBP to verify the availability of drawback for the indicated merchandise and associated line item within 30 days of claim submission. The information to be provided will include, but is not limited to: summary document specifying the lines used and unused on the import entry; the import entry summary, corresponding commercial invoices, and copies of all drawback claims that previously designated the import entry summary; and post summary/liquidation changes (for imports or drawback claims, if applicable).
No where in there does it say you need to provide the 8 digit HTS code. The answer is D.
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2024.05.19 16:50 DragonHeartForever AITAH for trying to help someone with their pets?

Hi everyone, this may turn into a long post as I write this out and (admittedly) vent some frustrations I currently have (sorry in advance if that's not allowed).
To start off, between my SO and I we have 2 dogs, 3 cats, and a bunny. Someone at work stated a family member of theirs couldn't hold on to their two cats, so they were looking to re-home them, or they be sent off to the shelter by the end of last week. I felt bad, as I wouldn't want to give up my animals if I was put in the position that this person is in (basically they moved, but due to certain life events they had to move in with their parents who said no to the cats). So I offered to hold on to them so they wouldn't end up in the shelter, and they would be returned to their owner once they find a place they can stay at that will allow them to have cats.
The issue at hand is that my GF really doesn't want them here, claiming they could have some issue like a disease or something, which to q degree is understandable, but I'm keeping them separated from our other animals for the time being (even though the owner has stated they are healthy and is trying to send paperwork). She stated she also feels disrespected (more on this further down) that I would go forward with this without her approval (I did mention a few times about the cats, so it wasn't completely out of the blue). As such, she is threatening to break up with me over this if they are not removed from the home (she's also threatened throwing them outside and making them street cats, which obviously isn't good).
I'm upset that I'm trying to be a good person but am being forced to not be allowed to do so (I figured since we already have 3 cats, what's 2 more for some time, considering cats are low effort in my opinion).
Now for some juicy details that you redditors may enjoy reading. As I've stated earlier, she feels disrespected that I would move forward with this decision, without talking to her more about it. I honestly didn't think it would be a big issue since we both love animals. Growing up, whenever I visit my home country, if there was an animal that needed to take care of, I'd end up giving away a good portion of my vacation looking after said animal. And if I couldn't look after it for some time for whatever reason, a portion of my mind was constantly preoccupied wondering if they were ok. For my gf, as an example, she guilt trip me into taking in a pet rat that we we unprepared to take in (this was the only reason why I was against it, as neither of us had the money to buy a proper enclosure), as she was concerned that someone would end up buying it as snake food. This obviously made me feel bad, and we ended up getting the rat (ended up passing away, so it's currently not in the picture). She's has also stated that she wanted chickens, which I also don't mind, as roosters crowing and hens clucking remind me of my grandparents' farm. I'm hesitant on that only because I'd need to put in the time, energy, and money into making an enclosure for them (can't just have them running around in the backyard). So you can see why I thought she wouldn't mind looking after 2 cats who we are indirectly ready to take in due to having our cats. I have my suspicions thay she's jealous/insecure about it being another female's cats, as she asked a question or two about the scenario that in my opinion didn't pertain to the cats directly (more on this layer)
The issue I have with her claiming she feels disrespected is I feel like I bend over backwards for her, while also letting her walk all over me, to the point where she claimed I have/had sex with my mom (she did not say this directly to me, she stated it to certain family members who have relayed it back to me) which such a thing has never occurred. She also believes I have done something to the our animals. The first time she stated that if she found out I ever did something to the animals, she'd find someplace to go and take all the animals and I'd never find her. Another time my dog was pooping, and she asked why his rectum looked like that (again, pretty much claiming I did something to my dog). The most recent claim she's made is I went out to walk my dog, and ended up talking to one of our "neighbors" (they live behind the house that's directly across the street from us) and I admittedly stayed for a very long time. She tried calling me, but my phone was on silent for some reason, and I ended up missing her call. She sent me a few messages, the first 2 claiming she was going to call the police and file a missing person report (understandable considering how long I've been gone, and the fact it was around 11 at night), but then the following messages claimed she hopes my dog doesn't come back raped, and the message after that asked if I was "getting fucked by Dan" (I don't even a Dan where we live). She's also claimed I did something to her dog, as she thought her puppy looked prolapsed during her period. So as you can see, there's been a lot of claims by her of me supposedly sodomizing the animals which I want to make clear has not happened.
To make matters worse, and possibly the cherry on top, she claims to have taken some photos that pertain to me that she claims she will post online if we ever break up so people know the real me (I won't get into too much detail, but it is of a sexual nature that luckily doesn't have me directly in it, but nonetheless wouldn't be a good thing to be put online if she goes through with it). I haven't seen these photos directly, but I'm going to assume the worse and believe they exist. I believe this falls under the category of blackmail, bit I'm not sure, as she hasn't used it as leverage to get me to buy her things or do things for her, etc.
I'll admit that I maybe haven't been her perfect boyfriend. I did try however I could, even going above my means to try to please her, which I am am now literally paying for (something I'm currently working on). I also will admit that I have spoken about her to my family members behind her back, although they claim that I'm not speaking ill of her if what she does/says is true (they have witnessed how she is first hand, so they know I'm not talking out my ass about certain things). Am I crazy/in the wrong to think "the audacity of the bitch" when she says she feels disrespected, when she has claimed all the things above?
For some chocolate drizzle: I had a surgery a few months back that I was healing from, and I was laying in the bath tub letting the shower head hit me, just trying to relax a bit, when she comes into the bath to rinse off her dirty feet almost right above my incision (it was basically an open wound with some glue over it).
This is all excluding the constant accusations I get from her about cheating on her. She wants access to my phone (I have somehow managed to stick to my giluns and not give it to her) and I have shown her my text messages a handful of times, and she never finds anything because, well, I'm not cheating on her. I'll admit that I have some sensitive information on my phone that I don't want her to have access to the primary one being bank accounts, and I don't want her seeing my degeneracy on reddit (thank you anonymous browsing lol)
That's it for now. Again, sorry for the long post that turned into a venting/advice session. I have the right of mind to either move into an apartment by myself for some time and letting her figure out what to with her animals and try to get away from this mess. Or better yet, let her be mad over the cats, and break up with me for wanting to help someone out, and potentially take her to the cleaners legally if she goes through with posting the photos about me. I don't want to take legal action against her and potentially ruin her future, as I understand she hasn't had the best life growing up, but I'm also tired of letting her get away with whatever she wants.
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2024.05.19 16:47 TeeTheHBIC Landlord — surrender agreement

Landlord — surrender agreement
Hello all!
I need some advice on an issue. My family and I live in a private apartment building. The landlady and her son came and dropped off a Surrender Agreement (attached) and told us to vacate by August 31st, 2024. Is this valid? Are they able to do this legally? We haven’t signed the agreement so they left it with us.
For some background insight, my father has lived in the building since the early 90s. He leased an apartment with his friend first from “92 to “03 (landlord has put in other tenets there now) and from “03 to present, we have been leasing another apartment.
Our rent is low compared to the others in the area, I think mostly in part due to my father being a tenant for more than 30 years. Half of the tenants got this and the other half did not. The building hasn’t had any work done unless out of complete necessity.
Can anyone please direct me to anyone that can offer some advice?
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2024.05.19 16:45 TeeTheHBIC Landlord — surrender agreement

Landlord — surrender agreement
Hello all!
I need some advice on an issue. My family and I live in a private apartment building. The landlady and her son came and dropped off a Surrender Agreement (attached) and told us to vacate by August 31st, 2024. Is this valid? Are they able to do this legally? We haven’t signed the agreement so they left it with us.
For some background insight, my father has lived in the building since the early 90s. He leased an apartment with his friend first from “92 to “03 (landlord has put in other tenets there now) and from “03 to present, we have been leasing another apartment.
Our rent is low compared to the others in the area, I think mostly in part due to my father being a tenant for more than 30 years. Half of the tenants got this and the other half did not. The building hasn’t had any work done unless out of complete necessity.
Can anyone please direct me to anyone that can offer some advice?
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2024.05.19 16:39 leora_loves_creation AITA for blowing up at my friend twice in one day?

Ok, there is a lot of back story to this. This is also my first reddit post so have patience. My friend and I meet at work and we got along very well. When I was struggling to get out of a relationship she was there and offered me a place to live. I took it thinking this friendship was going to be amazing. Boy, was I wrong. I broke up with my bf and moved into the house she was living in. Her and I are the only girls in the house. She has her bf with her at the time. I thought she had broken up with him because she was constantly flirting with the landlord. Now I'm just plain confused. Sleeping with two different men? She eventually breaks up with her bf and he moves out. Instantly, she starts dating the landlord. Also, I forgot to mention, she had her bf pay most of her rent. Now rent is practically free for her cuz of dating the landlord. I'm even more boggled when she tells me she's been talking to another guy!!! She wants to move this new guy into the house as her roommate. She told her bf (the landlord) that they were just friends. Once she goes home for a mini vacation, she tells me that her and the landlord broke up and she's been dating the new guy for about 3 days. Thought out all the relationship drama, I was there for her. I got appointments for our nails and hair even tho I couldn't afford it very well. I scheduled for us to get tattoos. I let her borrow my only nice pair of pants and she takes them home with her for two weeks! When she come back from vacation, she comes into my room and tells me that the landlord wants her out. He had found out she was dating the new guy and decided to kick her out. She never signed a lease for May and didn't pay rent so he wanted her out. He also realized that she wasn't going to tell him about dating the new guy! He was pissed! The landlord even called the cops the night she had him try to come into the house. Things were getting crazy. The next day ahead asks me to ask the landlord something for her. At this point I'm done doing things for her. I tell her I'll stand next to her as she talks to the landlord. I kid you not, when I say she whined like a five year old not getting their way, I yelled at her. Screamed I was tired of being the middle man for her and she need to do things herself. She stormed off and so did I. That was the first blow up I had on her. Later that same day, she had the audacity to ask me when I ever did anything for her. And I gave her a huge paragraph in text. She had lied to me and made me do everything for her almost. She didn't do a thing for me. I was done. After leaving me on read for almost and hour, she told me I owed her alcohol. I had two small drinks while she was gone. The bottle was half empty. She said she didn't like it before she left. So I had some. Then she claims I drank the whole thing! I told her I owe her maybe five shots and blocked her. Am I the a hole in this situation? Was I wrong to be tired of being used by her? Also this all happened since April! It's only been a couple months of this crap. But seriously, am I the a hole?
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2024.05.19 16:37 Hey_86thatnow Story-what one dBPD father is like and how I survive

Story-what one dBPD father is like and how I survive
Thank goodness for this community. Reading such common experiences helps me immensely, so I wanted to share mine and see if it resonates with you all.
Dad was diagnosed about 20 years ago by a marriage counselor. She then “fired” him from her practice, saying his marriage was beyond help because of it. Apparently, this rejection is common among BPD patients…implying it's unfixable, Since then, the ICD-11 has added a category called “difficult personalities disorder” probably to umbrella in the people who don’t fit neatly into the “5 of 9 traits” required for complete BPD diagnosis. Interestingly, he’s not unfaithful or suicidal, he kept the same job for decades, he can be fun and loving. But he rants, he overeats, he splits and denies, he isolates, he ruminates and fears, he blames and attacks and projects his self-esteem issues onto others...mostly me.
First, he was a very loving father when we were kids, attentive and supportive. And then a fantastic grandfather to my sons-loving, etc.. keeping his worst traits in check most of the time with all of us when we were young. (Not with Mom, however.) It’s as if because his childhood was tough, he sees all children as underdogs who need special care. I will always be thankful for my childhood, for it laid the ground work for my self-esteem. However, he was rougher on my brother as a kid than on me, pushing, verbally abusing, etc.. This swapped as we both reached puberty. I realize this has something to do with his view of women, his wife and his own mother.
As I became a woman, I became threatening, which appears common among BPD fathers. He then let my brother off the hook, where I got the laser focused judgment and anger. This is not to say he never loses his temper with my brother, he just tends to wait until the situation is severe (like brother getting arrested for DUI.) whereas I got attacked because I had 4 framed pictures of one son and 5 of our other son displayed in my den. Dad went on a level ten verbal attack. “What kind of a mother…rantrantrant” jamming the extra picture in my face. Walking around counting them sounds irrational doesn’t it? I met a visiting high school friend at Chili’s for dinner, and asked Mom to babysit, and I hear, “What kind of a mother goes to a bar and leaves her kids, rantrantrant.” Chili’s? Meanwhile, my brother can brag about sexual conquests, even when married. I have three college degrees—Dad never says a word. My brother flunked out of college, but Dad lies to everyone bro won a free ride to a prestigious university in our state. He paints my brother with all the best traits of my mother, but projects all his worst traits onto me. The irony is, I am very like my mother; my brother is not. But I am the scapegoat now, and brother is the golden child.
This behavior and thinking is called splitting, or black and white thinking. It is so bad, that my father bought my brother a house when bro struggled financially. He has not had rent or a mortgage or land tax for over ten years. Me? Different story; everything I have, I earned and paid for. Mom kept a list of money they gave my brother over the years for cars or lawyers, etc. Not counting the free house, his column equals $64k. My column? Zero. (And I’m the “good” kid, responsible, there for my parents.) It’s taken a very long time for me to grasp that no matter how illogical or unfair it is, it won’t change—it is part of the disorder. I tell myself to be proud that I can make my own way without help.
Dad’s impulsive, hair trigger temper over things that wouldn’t bother anyone else is profound. I’m exhausted from walking on eggshells, though avoiding conflict is so much better than entering it. He never hit us, but throws things, breaks our valuables (like Mom’s great-great grandmother’s rocker), curses, yells, screams. As a kid, I watched him fracture his wrist punching the wall when angry at Mom. He has had security remove him 3 times from my hospital room (two surgeries, one illness.) once because I told my mother about Christmas present ideas for my brother (and apparently should have been discussing my niece instead.) Who cares I had just had an 8 level spinal surgery the day before; Dad jumped out of his chair, livid, “You are forgetting someone aren’t you! Aren’t you.” He lost his cool the time I’d had surgery after a bike wreck, screaming he’d never let me see my mother again, and he’d write me out of the will. All I had done was interrupt him while he was talking. Security escorted him out. It was so ugly, one son refused to talk to him for months, shocked after witnessing it. My father told him that it was no big deal—that was just how he and I related, it was just our dynamic. My son said, "My mother never behaves that way and did nothing wrong," and hung up on him.
Dad begged me to call my son and take some of the blame. IOW Dad cannot see his part in things. He sees reactions as proof that his anger is justified. Who cares how he causes these reactions. (Who cares that I was lying disabled in a hospital bed.) He is angered by the oddest things, the most innocuous things.
He once followed a woman around at a party and purposefully interrupted her everytime she opened her mouth, then bragged later that he did this. He felt she was always cutting him off at past functions. Being interrupted is his hottest button. He wants everyone to listen to every last detail of whatever he has to say. And if you listen, but look like you aren’t, that’s as bad as interrupting him. But does he interrupt you? Of course he does, all the time, bored with what you want to say.
He loves to get people’s goats, saying or doing very calculated things that he knows will annoy Mom or me or whomever. He has never physically hurt anyone, but mock something embarrassing from your past? He’s all over that. You can watch his face when he says provocative things on purpose—he’s just hoping you will ignite. When I wrecked my bike, instead of helping me up, he literally took pictures of me on the ground. Then showed the pictures to my brother, saying “What kind of an idiot rides a bike when she’s had spinal surgery” (8 years before). BPDs triangulate, and often lack compassion.
When it comes to me and Mom, his favorite hostile line is “What kind of a___________does__________”
When I went to take my mother to see my aunt and uncle, Dad tried to tag along, and my relatives said, "Please, if he wants to come, we'll have to disinvite you. We can't take anymore." he had been so hostile the last time they say him and made my aunt cry. He has no idea his behavior has this effect on people.
He talks all about himself, and if he asks you a rare question about you, it is so he can then talk about himself. It’s like he thinks the type of lunch the kid ate (whom he sat next to in the third grade) is talk-show-worthy chitchat. But will cut you off in a second if you have something more pressing or recent to discuss. He’s very emotional and affectionate verbally and physically, but if you try to share your deeper thoughts or concerns, he gets very awkward and uncomfortable, and dismissive. BPDs struggle with intimacy and bonds.
His narcissism is so bad, that when Mom died last year, he wrote her obituary, but 60% of it was about himself. When the newspaper edited out all the stuff about Dad, Dad called me fuming, accusing me of calling the paper to edit it. He still believes that. He also refused to let anyone have a memorial service/funeral-her ashes are still in the box from the crematory-- but later that summer, he started telling me what he wants me to do for his funeral. (We did a small family dinner in honor of Mom without him.)
He is mistrustful and suspicious. He tends to take the other person’s side in regards to me, never trusting my perspective. If someone is offensive to me (like a boss who was angry when I refused to work from home while I was taking FMLA/disability pay after childbirth, or my ex who wasn’t paying child support) Dad took their side. I had to be the problem. When my husband was sent to a job site out of town, Dad thinks he asked to be assigned there to get away from me. (But says, “I just worry, and want you to be happy.”) When I get a text sent by a male friend to both me and my hubby’s phone inviting us both to dinner, he thinks there’s something fishy going on there with me and the man (and funny enough, I am certain Dad never cheated on Mom.)
He throws cash around as presents, especially to the grandchildren, but even to people the rest of us wouldn’t include (ie. my husband’s brother-in-law’s niece-whom we barely know, my mother’s distant relatives whom no one has met, or my ex who hasn’t talked to him in decades, etc) It seems like a way to get their admiration or attention. He is always writing me in and out of the will, as if he’s the czar of millions. People with personality disorders are very manipulative or odd with gifts.
He has zero friends, but talks all the time about people he knew as a kid. Where are they now? I’ve never met anyone from his childhood other than family- no cards, no messages, nothing. And no one from his life as an adult is close to him. My parents’ friendships came through Mom. I can sadly say, in a crisis, if Dad really needed to call someone and talk, only family is there (and that is only because we are compassionate, forgiving people). But funny enough, when he is in a social setting, he is not shy but wants to talk and entertain and be the center of the party.
He loves to take people to task, often loudly and cruelly. Waitresses, nurses, cashiers all get dressed down and confronted for any perceived mistake. More than one doctor or service provider has hung up on him or yelled back at him. I witnessed this again in just the past two weeks, for Dad had a minor heart procedure. He wanted to tell each doctor and nurse the most irrelevant stuff, starting from the beginning of time…and would get mad if they didn’t let him. His cardiologist snapped at one point, “I need you to just give me quick answers!” so Dad yelled, and the guy walked out.
Interestingly, I found an article, advice for doctors and nurses on how to handle illnesses when the patient also suffers from BPD. The descriptions were my father, to a T. One of piece of advice said something like beware of compliments and ignore criticism. Dad has been tossing the compliments around like confetti, “OH, Nurse, so and so, YOU are my number one.” But when his demands are not met immediately, he acts like a baby. And he keeps insulting me infront of doctors or nurses, applying his faults to me; “She’s stubborn, she has nasty temper.” I can be just standing there silently, and he says this.
He said, to one doctor, “Don’t mind her, she’s very overbearing and headstrong…but in a good way.” I’d had enough, so I said, “There’s no reason to insult me, Dad.” He argued, “Oh, you didn’t hear my compliment. That was a compliment!” The doctor said, “If that was a compliment, it was a backhanded compliment." I could have hugged her.
The worst part of being raised by a BPD? If I report any of this back to him, he will swear none of it is true. Gaslighting is their favorite manipulation, suggesting my perceptions are wrong. Either that, or he is in some sort of fugue when he acts so badly.
How do I deal with all this? Often I don’t. Mom used to be a good buffer, til she developed ALZ and then Dad forced me to go through him, never allowing me to be alone with her. This hurt. Mom and I were very close, and before she lost her mind, we had many discussions about whether she should live with me instead. But BPD men get fixated on their mates, and he saw her as only his, not important to me or my brother or her grandchildren. (He even resented their dogs, because Mom "loved them more.")
Even much younger, if I called to talk to Mom, Dad would rush the phone so I would have to talk to him first. So often I’d wait til she called me first. And now that he is all alone and his son mostly ignores him, My husband and our sons are the only ones really watching out for him. I use as much compassionate thinking as I can and remember that he got this way because he had a rough childhood (and I think the disorder runs in families—I really do.) His father died when Dad was 7. His immigrant mother could not read or write and she was raising 4 young kids by herself. Neglect, food insecurity and possible social rejection made a deep scar. I know that at the bottom of all this, Dad cannot, because of BPS, really ever trust that anyone loves him. So I do what I can, take long breaks, bite my tongue as much as possible, set boundaries, and leave when need to. To help, I come here and read very similar experiences in order to remember, IT’s NOT ME.
But still, with this hospitalizing where he's milking the attention for all it's worth, I want to explode. I'm going to have a stroke if I have to spend this much time with him for much longer. During his surgery I was totally torn, hoping he would die, but very sad that he might. That’s some sucky head space. It was easier when Mom was alive and sane...
Right now, I’m finding him assisted living, but he keeps threatening to rip out his IVs and go home. He can’t. He used to say, whoever took him in when he was old, would get all the money, and I’d say, “Have fun living with my brother.” But of course, none of that is true. I’m so resentful that I’m the one solving his health crisis. But also, in honor of Mom and my childhood, I love him and won’t dump him. I won't let him live with me, but I won't dump him.
Thank you all, for totally understanding this dichotomy. Can you relate? What would you do?
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2024.05.19 16:35 RagnarokRosie CPP Help

Hello Everyone,
I work for a big payroll company (not going to name names because I have seen how some of you go in on it. 😅)
I have taken the CPP on 4.20 and unfortunately, I didn't pass. My company purchased Paytrain for the 23-24 season and of course, the limits changed. With self study I missed it by 34 points. Employer doesn't know if they are going to purchase the 24-25 version.
I am thinking I want to do the bootcamp because I need a classroom-esque setting and a teacher that will answer some of the calculation questions I have.
My question- could I apply for FAFSA and pay for the bootcamp? If not the bootcamp- what are other items that I can use?
I passed my FPC because my employer literally had a class and paytrain. The ability to ask questions and dive into deeper understanding was critical to me.
Thank you for your time!
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2024.05.19 16:24 Safe-Climate-9041 Young & Dumb

It’s so cringey that these couples think they are big and bad but all I see is a bunch of young, stupid and immature teeny boppers?
No ring, TikTok, house, apartment, vacation could ever convince me that they are match made in heaven or in love.
Look at the guys: NONE of them have jobs. None of them are even attractive. They all look like they just graduated high school.
The girls are skanky and insecure, selling their body online for validation. Posting over the top content for more validation to further confirm how “perfect” they are with their spouses. New age “you’re so happy, glowing and HEALED” bullshit. Hahahaha. Come on. What a fuckin train wreck.
Secondhand embarrassment. I know I’ll always sound like a hater and they will just think I’m “jealous” but I’m being dead serious when I say how absolutely cringey & weird they all look. Social media / TikTok has truly changed people and not for the better. You could not pay me enough to showcase my life like that.
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2024.05.19 16:21 Bsilv2325 To buy or not to buy?

We bought our house back in 2015. Current balance is around $92,500 at 3.325%. I really don’t like living here. It’s a town I always swore I would move away from but being young and dumb I bought a house here. It’s 2 bedroom 1.5 bath, 1204 sqft (850sqft above grade). Small lot.
I am currently a stay at home mom, no plans of that changing in the future. Husband works. No car loans, no student loans, no debt other than the house.
We found a house we love and have to decide if we want to make an offer, but we’re stuck. We’re used to having a lot left over and could pay our current house off in 2 years.
Current house could sell for 275k+, walk away with 164k. Put 100k down on the next house. Have 47k left after closing closets.
Current budget:
Mortgage $624
Phones: $50
529: $100
Netflix: $12.71
Internet: $69.96
Credit card $2,000 ($500 weekly)
Therapy: $300 ($210 reimbursed when submitted)
Massages: $264
Roth: $100 (he has other retirement accounts through work)
Taxes/Insurance/1 utility: $600
Money market: $200 (30k total in account)
$30 per person per week spending money: $240
Vacation/Day trips: $200
= $4736.67 + $809 preschool (ending August) = $5,545.67
Possible new (adding only changed amounts): 387k at 6.625% (with points)
Mortgage: $1,838
Tax, ins, 1 utility: $845
(No preschool) = $6,219.67
These are my husbands checks (take home) since starting at his new company. Varies based on what he’s working on, where, OT, on call, etc. can possibly increase by $12 an hour all the time in a year or 2.
June: $8,092.08
July: $6,823.62
Aug: $7,629.88
Sept: $7,605.63
Oct: $6,367.84
Nov: $7,331.78
Dec: $9,958.49
Jan: $7,140
Feb: $7,022
March: $8,608
April: $6,800
Currently, we have about $2,000 a month left over (not including preschool). If we bought this house it could vary from $500-$900+ at the end of the month.
Would we crazy for selling our super affordable house in a town we hate living in to move somewhere we actually want to be with less financial freedom?
ETA: pre approved for 450k. Would not spend that, would like to be under 400k.
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2024.05.19 16:18 BigDillyDozer AITA for refusing to babysit my sister’s kids after she planned a last-minute vacation?

Last week, my sister and her husband decided they needed a spontaneous getaway and booked a week-long vacation. The catch? They informed me just two days before their departure that they expected me to babysit their three young children. I work from home and have a flexible schedule, but I also have deadlines and meetings, and suddenly taking on full-time childcare was not feasible.
I suggested they look into a professional babysitter or a short-term daycare, but my sister insisted that family should help family and that paying for childcare wasn't in their budget. She reminded me of the times she’d helped me in the past, like when she looked after my cat over a weekend last year. However, I felt that taking care of three kids under 10 for a full week was not comparable to watching a low-maintenance pet.
When I stood my ground and said I couldn't do it, my sister got upset and told our parents, who think I am being unreasonable and selfish, especially since I work from home. They believe I should support her in having some respite as she is a stay-at-home mom and rarely gets a break.
So, AITA for not agreeing to babysit on such short notice, despite the pressure from my family to accommodate her plans?
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2024.05.19 16:17 Smarti_Pi_314 Blown Glass

What days/times is the make your own glass ornaments available? Is there any option to pre-pay and schedule an appointment?
My husband and I are going to the theme park for the day tomorrow. We both work in the service industry, so we love that we're able to come on a Monday or Tuesday. We never do things on weekends.
Our first vacation was to Sevier County. We returned for every anniversary. It's where we got engaged. It's where we got married! My first trip to Dollywood was for our first wedding anniversary and I immediately got our season passes!
All this to say, it would mean so much to us to make a blown glass ornament in our wedding colors. But every time we've been, no craftsman have been active at that shop. Any information or advice would be greatly appreciated!
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2024.05.19 16:07 Lowchie33 Savings/investing

After all your bills and expenses are paid each month, how much do you have left over? Do you throw it in a HYSA? Invest it? Save / plan for a vacation? Pay off mortgage? Or all of the above? My wife & I are 25 and are about two years into our careers. We take home 11500, and have zero Debt besides our new mortgage. After all bills & expenses we save around 5500 a month into a joint savings.
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2024.05.19 16:04 ProfessionalText6776 I’m sick and tired of these lies!!! 70% my ass. How is this fair!!!! No wonder why they won’t tip look how much they’re charging vs what I’m getting.

I’m sick and tired of these lies!!! 70% my ass. How is this fair!!!! No wonder why they won’t tip look how much they’re charging vs what I’m getting. submitted by ProfessionalText6776 to lyftdrivers [link] [comments]


2024.05.19 16:00 edma23 Race Report: The 24-Hour 5K Ultra (Or how never to underestimate the perineum)

The Lead-Up:
After months of gruelling training including the requisite time spent napping, curating the perfect Spotify playlist, photographing flat-lays of my kit, balancing chia-seed count to GU consumption, and sticking to zone 0.7, I was finally ready to tackle the infamous 5K Ultra. Thanks to my legendary Strava art skills, I had already been approached by several manufacturers to test their kit in the field and under gruelling conditions. Nike hooked me up with their Alphafly 17 prototypes. They claimed these shoes were so fast, they could propel a snail to a world record. Challenge accepted, Nike.
Garmin, those time-bending wizards, bestowed upon me the Garmin 1080p (p for "prototype”). This isn't just a GPS watch. It is a chronometer designed to measure the subtle fluctuations in spacetime that occur when one operates at my pace.
GU understood the need for fuel that could sustain not just the body, but also provide the energy needed to keep my mind from bending under pressure. Their prototype gel, a symphony of liquified Achilles tendons and distilled gazelle sweat, promised to unlock the latent antelope within me, or at least the fraction thereof required for this monumental endeavour.
My feet, those tragically unsung heroes of endurance, were adorned with "anti-blistering pace" socks. These are engineered by [REDACTED] to deliver a delicate balance between progress and preservation. Their integrated rate-limiter ensured my pace remained within the optimal range for completing a 5K in 24 hours while never reaching a pace that can be considered ‘blistering’.
Keeping me (barely) road legal were the Nike shorts. Engineered with space-worthy precision, their brevity is not a fashion statement, but a calculated strategy to optmise perineal airflow. After all, in the pursuit of greatness, every millisecond counts.
And then there was the singlet. A gossamer-thin weave of moon dust and unicorn tears that shimmered with an ethereal glow as a symbol of my otherworldly connection to the cosmos, a testament to the fact that my running transcended the mundane constraints of gravity and time. Nike really pulled out all the stops with this one.
In the eight weeks before the race, I began my taper in earnest and was pulling 18-step days in the last week. I didn’t sleep for three days and three nights leading up to the race but it’s ok - I have been trained for this is what I kept telling myself so that my self-talk fell just shy of being forbidden by AIMS regulations.
Starting Line Serenity:
As I stood at the starting line, looking absolutely spiffing in my celestial singlet and Alphafly 14s, a wave of reverence washed over the crowd. This was the hushed anticipation of a scientific breakthrough. The gun fired and I embarked on my journey, each step a deliberate calculation and a calibrated multiplication of stride brevity multiplied by cadence.
0 - 200m: Swiss fucking clock
The Garmin 1080p hummed with satisfaction as my pace aligned perfectly with its arcane algorithms. The world around me seemed to speed up, the sun's rays bending to my will. GU flowed through my veins. Everything was according to plan.
200m-800m: Shoes make the runner
I started to pay attention to my shoes. These Alphaflys are significantly better than version 12 (which only I happen to know are a direct descendant of version 9 with a more cushioned upper and a more breathable midsole). Their energy return is abysmal all the way until toe-off, when they absorb about 99.8% of your stride energy. I was suitably impressed.
800m -1.2km: Disaster
Disaster struck. The Garmin beeped loudly and engaged panic mode, vibrating my wrist so hard that I felt tendons in my shoulder start to part ways with my arm. I had entered Zone 1. I was only 4 hours in and already in danger of overcooking this race. But I have trained for this. More GU, tighten the shoelaces. Breathe with the famous 14-8-21 pattern, think of all the people I hate…
1.2km - 3.8km: Eyes wide shut
I have very little to report. This middle section of any race is where I lose concentration and focus. I closed my eyes for most of this stretch and just counted the hours. I kept repeating my mantra that the only hour of the race that matters is this hour. I was burping Achilles tendon from the GU and made a mental note to tell GU something about this. I don’t remember what that something was but it was one of the toughest times of my life.
3.8 - 4.2km: Perineal Optimization (& Cosmic Alignment)
The Nike shorts, those aerodynamic marvels, whispered sweet nothings to my meticulously streamlined perineum. With each stride, I could feel the very fabric of reality bending to my will, the stars aligning in perfect harmony with my stride and Mercury simply sipping on the Gatorade. I was fading in and out of a shimmering and glimmering and sparkling hallucination that I decided to succumb to. If I made it through the night, all would be fine.
The Finish Line Triumph: 24:00:07 (twenty four seven)
As I crossed the finish line, 24 hours and 7 seconds after I began, the crowd simply stared in a hushed awe. This wasn't just a finish. It was one of those defining moments in sports. It was Pheidippides breaking the 4-minute mile, Usain Bolt breaking the 4-hour marathon, Michael Phelps jumping a 3-yard long-jump - a paradigm shift in the world of running. The Garmin 1080p, its mission accomplished, succumbed to the temporal distortions it had so diligently recorded and vanishing from my wrist, lost to time and space. The GU that was left in my backpack, its energy fully expended, evaporated into a puff of magical purple smoke. The soles of my Alphaflys were melted into a soothing, aloe-vera goo that I applied to my sunburned perineum.
Key Conclusions:
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2024.05.19 15:47 MisterSirDG How do you imagine your Dynasty continued based on your campaign's results.

So, this is a bit of a roleplay question. How do you all imagine your Von Valancius Dynasty faired under your character based on the results of your game? Here is my take on my end.

Annals of the First Lord Koronus Darius Von Valancius.

These I base on my faction approval and the story choices.
My Rogue Trader was a calculating ex-crime lord that finised as Iconoclast Votary with a Marazhai romance. He played as an Operative Assassine with a Sniper.
Darrius Von Valancius was a logisitical genius and as such his protectorate's economic, political and military might was unparalleled in the Koronus Expanse.
Due to the very unfortunate Fall of Incendia Chorda in Football, killed by the Liege Tocara and his rebells the Chorda dynasty never recovered from the constant rebellions on their worlds caused by the deceased Rogue Trader's violent purges. The Successor of the Chorda Dynasty ruled but a shadow of what was their domain in the past. Likewise the old lord Winterscale was forever lost in Queza Temper and his heir Evayne Winterscale was bound by an oath of gratitude to the Von Valancius House, seeing as Darrius rushed to save the Winterscale head. Sadly, he was never found in the jungle... little did Evayne know that Caligos had been slain by the Eldari and Darrius himself. Both Houses were in disarray and could not bring any worthwile challenge to the Von Valancius Dynasty, whose head was declared Lord Koronus after the events of the Epitaph.
Regarding the factions. Darrius Von Valancius lead an economical powerhouse through his combined treaties with the Explorator Fleet and the Kasballica Mission. Footfall had announced that Darrius Von Valancius was the protector of the trade hub and many unique trinkets and subtances were sold on the pleasure world of Janus to vapid nobles. On the other hand, the explorator fleet gracius that the Rogue Trader has rebuild Kiavva Gamma into the biggest Plasma Energium and that he had helped the Messiah of Discontinuation signed binding treaties on the behest of several Fabricator-Generals who needed the plasma weapons and energy cores produced in Giavva Gamma. Meanwhile, on the world of Foulstone the newly christened Cardinal World St.Drusus and St.Cognatius were fervently worshipped. The fat Cardinals of the world quickly started preaching that Darrius Von Valancius ruled by decree of the Emperor himself, after all it was he who has turned a small monastery in a Catherdal Hive City and the Eccliarchy was more that pleased to laud the Lord Koronus.

These I base on what buildings I had on the planets.
Dargonus, the Capital of the Koronus Expanse. The capital of the Koronus Expanse and jewel of the North had become the main hub of the Adeptus Administratum and the Navis Imperialis. A massive orbital shipwyard surrounded the planet created as a result of the massive Drukhari raid that devastated Dargonus before the Rogue Trader's Magnae Accessio. Likewise the Administratum palace licensed the Lord Koronus to build the first Schola Progenium of the Expanse. Many a great officer were taught on the Dargonus Progenium.
Janus, the Paradise world. After the Aeldari left Janus it became the main food producer for the whole expanse. The beaty of the green agri fields and the flowting pleasure palaces were famous in the whole Calixis Sector. It was also a common secret that the Kasballica had many of their drug factories and xenos labs in the great paradise world. The Imperium though was very reluctant to investigate, after all who wants their vacation planet under inquisitorial lockdown? It also helped that the Maw made such visits very scarce.
Foulstone, Cardinal Wolrd of Saint Drusus and Cognatus. This world now housing the Eccliarchal Palace of the Expanse started as a simple colony with a Monastery to St.Drusus. The Rogue Trader seeing a chance to invest his rule in the mantle of holiness poured an ungodly amount of resources into making this world the Paragon of Faith it is now. Darrius Von Valancius is worshipped as a Warden of Faith and it doesn't bother him the least. It was this world and the ardent stance of the Adeptus Ministorum that Darius is a loyal servant of the Emperor that stopped a civil war with the Greater Imperium after the events on the Epitaph.
Kiavva Gamma, The Great Forge World of the Omnissiah. After the Purge of Kiavva Gamma it was slowly rebuild by the Adeptus Mechanicus. The Rogue Trader held a genuine respect for the Cult Mechanicus and let the Priets of Mars rebuild the planet. He provided all resources available into turing the destroyed Mechanicus Cathedral into a Plasma Energium. The production of plasma weapons and energy cores was a very valuable tithe to the Imperium.

Argenta- She build the Order of the One Star, based around the ship of St. Argenta. Many a sister were taugh of the Dargonus Progenium and the Lord Koronus kept a very good relationship with the order.
Abelard- He Became the leader of is House and was proclaimed Lord Admiral of the Koronus Expanse by the Rogue Trader.
Marazhai- Controversially his relationship with the Dracon of the Reaving Tempest was perhaps one of the few black spots in the Lord Koronus's history. The tortures Darius suffered in Commoragh changed him in a subtle way that no one could understand apart from Marazhai. The Dracon visited the Rogue Trader ofter and it was no coincidence that his raiders always targeted his enemies but never the trade routes of the Von Valancius Dynasty.
Nomos- He absorbed the Shard of the Void Dragon. Tech Magi and Archmagos Amaranth made a Binaric Techno-Oublitte inside the Rogue Trader's ship Calculum Mortis. The C'tan Shard was kept there dormant. All who knew of its existence made binaric oaths never to speak of it. The Shard was almost never used. It was only called upon to strike the enemies of the Dynasty in the most dire times.

Sorry for the wall of text, I was just inspired to write it all down having finished my first run yesterday.

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2024.05.19 15:46 Creativeescapes2024 Reason 3!

Reason 3!
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2024.05.19 15:41 JulioFoolio013 From an SM’s point of view…

Hello all you DG people! After scrolling and reading, I have decided to make my own post.
To all you new hires: I wish you good luck, there are good stores(still pretty shitty though) and there are terrible stores. I say hold the job till you find something better, but don’t forget to document all that goes on in your store when it comes to your higher ups.
To the customers who are a part of this sub Reddit: hi there! As you can see, there’s a dark side to the store that tries to promote being there for the community. I hope you don’t take this to heart as we employees are trying our best to help and get things done to make the store look better
Onto the main event: I’ve been an SM for 3 months(May not seem like much but it has felt like 6) and I completely skipped the ASM position to be put into this one, as I’ve been with DG a little less than a year. As I’ve finally been in this position of authority, it’s also broadened my perspective of the company. I work with a good team, and our store does pretty well for itself. I see that most people quit, for fair reasonings, and even I’m looking at different opportunities because of the way they set their priorities. I was never taught how salary works, but after realizing what it’s like, I now see why people don’t like salary unless they’re in a better position with better pay. Their training program for the SM position was pretty much a two day CBL nightmare, and barely any hands on training. I basically taught myself on everything besides what the CBL’s highlighted and I believe I’m doing it right(I have no idea and I haven’t been chewed out by higher ups yet) but we will see. One thing I must add, is that if you’re sick, or ill, go home. They’ll try to have you stay and work even if you’re sick to “save face” and look good in front of others, but there’s only so much one can take when they’re sicker than a dog. I only know this because my significant other had gotten me sick, and I tried pushing myself to work, but I nearly didn’t make it to close with the fever I had(102 something degrees) and they still didn’t care. I had to use vacation hours to get an extra day off for recovery, but they wanted me to try and make up the hours two days before payroll was supposed to be done, which was never explained to me until the week after. This company wants to work you like no tomorrow, and not really pay you. If you complain or whine or moan, they’ll give you a bunch of empty promises to keep you on board. The more “childish”you act(mainly looking out for yourself), there’s two ways it can go either 1: you get special treatment because either the SM or the DM believes you’re valuable or 2: you get shitcanned because they don’t see you as someone they want to keep. So my DG people, I give you this hint of advice. Two weeks is “customary” but not required if you’re looking to never return, so for those At Will employment state workers, you can terminate yourself and you don’t have to give them a reason(but I bet you knew that already) BUT your employer could do the same thing to you and that’s usually what’s highlighted when you look it up. My best advice on if you should stay or go? Stay if you’re beginning to see improvement within the workplace. Go if you know that it isn’t worth staying. You’re only human, and there’s only so much you can do on any particular day or even week. Get out while you still can, and don’t hesitate to go over an SM’s head when it comes to internal conflicts. Remember to document it all, keep your clock in/out sheets, and take screenshots of your schedule changes especially if they’re way too late. I wish you all luck, even if you decide to stay, but there’s always going to be a better opportunity for you guys if you take the step towards it, mainly that step is out the door of a DG, to never return, and be happy for once.
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2024.05.19 15:41 DigNo4410 Getting a “second home” mortgage

My partner and I are looking at purchasing property in Karuizawa to build a home where we can raise our family in the long term. As neither of us want to significantly reduce our investment holdings to pay for the property and construction, we believe getting a loan will be the best mid-to-long-term option. We have been exploring all sorts of options and have seen a few banks, such as Aeon Financial and Hachijuni Bank, offering large (up to 200 million JPY) loans for this purpose at low-ish rates (0.75~1.3%). Also, we understand that a Flat-35 loan can also be used for a vacation home purchase, so that possibility exists too, though the amount that can be borrowed seems to be much lower. Is there anyone out there with a similar loan that could shed some light onto the process, whether it was difficult to meet your own expectations, and how you made out after everything was prepared?
Long term the idea is to move out of our place in Tokyo and live in Karuizawa full-time, thankfully we both have jobs that allow remote work with visits to Tokyo a couple times a week. But we don’t want to sell our current Tokyo place, because it is pretty nice and we have confidence in its long-term prospects as population continues to rise in the city here. We will probably still use it for the short term and then have to decide what to do with it.
We are aware land prices in Karuizawa are kind of crazy compared to even just a few years ago, and construction costs are still going up. We don’t really see either trend reversing soon, but would really appreciate any differing viewpoints on that as well. Thank you!
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