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2016.08.04 19:59 WYLD_STALLYNS Awful Taste But Great Execution
Awful Taste But Great Execution For everything that displays quality craftsmanship in the least elegant way possible. All things gaudy, tacky, overdone, and otherwise tasteless. Work done so well, you won't know whether to love it or hate it.
2019.06.03 17:17 imLoss Cute meme
Post cute memes like the ones with hearts around them and cute sayings or the cute twitter post.
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2024.05.15 01:01 Kauaiishbino AIW? I [F/18] was talking to a guy [M/20] about how I felt about him friendzoning me after leading me on knowing I wanted a relationship. He blocked me because I screenshotted our message talking about it. If I am, is there anything I can do about it? How may he have possibly felt?
I just had things ended because a guy I was talking to finally told me today that he didn't want me and that I wasn't for him, but it ended up going way worse than I wanted.
Everything started with me reconnecting with him in Walmart. I knew him prior to this because we used to go to the same high school together but never really talked. I gave him my instagram and we were talking about our exes cause that is how we even knew each other. While I was texting him, he asked me for my number then we started texting on imessages. He would text me, send me pigeon games, and call me every now and then.
There was one day where he called me and he wanted to ask me sexual questions, I was cool with it cause we had been friends for 2 weeks and plus I don't really have anything to hide. I didn't think much about it while telling him and asking him stuff cause we were friends, he had started talking about how he wanted someone to be friends with benefits with that it wouldn't end up ruining the friendship and I told him I could never do that stuff cause I want to be in a relationship with those that I am sexual with, plus I get clingy with them cause I tend to actually like them.
At some point of talking, he even asked for me to send and I told him that I wanted to do all of that stuff when I get married because my last ex (the ex he knew about) had taken my virginity to get his ex (the guy i was talking to's ex) jealous. I don't know exactly what he said but he said something like "Well it would suck to wait for someone during the relationship just to realize that they aren't good at sex", which made me feel like I was waiting for no reason because after that ex, I never was sexually active with anyone (about 2-3 years counting). I ended up sending some old nudes because I thought it wouldn't matter anymore and that he was kind of cute. After that, the more we talked the more the sexual tension got heavy, he was talking about how he liked my body and how he wanted to fuck me, and I was eating it up cause he was making me feel pretty and wanted. He ended up jerking off to my picture when I let him take the time to (cause I really didn't want to do e-sex cause I've always felt unfulfilled doing it) and when he came back everything was fine.
After some days, we had gotten into this habit of me sending him nudes, taking them how he wanted them to look, with him complimenting me and jerking off to them, there was only one time where we did e-sex, everything else was sending. The sending nudes ended up making me feel how I did in my previous relationship which was like a whore, not an actual person, and like a porn magazine, so I talked to him about it and he told me to just tell him to stop when he does ask. Time passed some more and he would still asked so I talked to him again about it because everytime we would have a sweet moment he would ask me for nudes or say something sexual, but this time he was still entertaining the idea, I assume he was thinking I was playing hard to get, I really don't know, but this time I told him, "I don't think you'll get to the point of actually liking me" because during this time he made it seem like we were leaning into a relationship while I always said that I wanted a relationship, he had backed off when I said that but he replied saying "(my name) don't be like that". After that, the only time that we would be sexual was whenever I initiated it, which would be about once every 2-3 weeks.
During that I would treat him like a boyfriend, but he was still being plain towards me, (he even told me that he liked the way I treated him) the only time he would compliment me was when I dressed up, so I asked him about how he was rarely lovey dovey towards me and he told me that he needed more time to get to like me even more than he did cause he wanted to take things slow, I got salty and told him that sexting me and wanting me to send nudes wasn't take it slow, he didn't say anything about that but smirked and change the topic. Every now and then, I'd make slick comments about stuff that didn't make sense. We had gotten to a point where he told me that he wasn't going to be texting and calling as much because he wants to start his business up, which I had no problem with that, I told him that I would always be there for him and when needed me, if there was anything I could do to just let me know, and I even told him if he felt like he needed to not pursue a relationship right now that we could stop or cut ties for now. He agreed with him not pursuing a relationship, again stating that he wants to put all of his focus in the business, and that there was nothing wrong with me, just that he wanted to focus on himself. I told him that I didn't know if I was cool being just friends because I was actually trying to pursue a relationship with him and that if I figured out how I felt about it I would let him know so that things didn't get toxic between us.
6 days later (5/10/2024),
At night, I told him the way everything is right now is making me confused and overwhelmed because I didn't really understand what our status was, and it wasn't somewhere I wanted to be especially after sending him pictures of my body using a voice message. I also told him that I was regretting showing him my body cause of how I felt I was being used but didn't want to assume and was hoping that he just needed time, he replied the next day during the afternoon telling me that I was a good person just that he couldn't see a future with me, that he thought he made his want of being only friends clear, that we would go different directions if we did get together. I got confused about that part because everytime I would try and talk to him about us meeting up and how we would maintain the relationship, he would tell me that it was too soon to talk about it, so i got a bit mad and asked him how he came to that conclusion knowing that we didn't talk about it at all, how he knew my boundaries but didn't straight up tell me that he didn't want me so I could save my time, and how he didn't make anything clear cause I thought we were on pause for now and going to attempt to try again once the business started up. He then told me that I was trying to guilt him, to not be mad at him because he didn't want a relationship, that he didn't want me, that I wasn't for him, and to not get mad at him for something he couldn't control.
I told him that I wasn't meaning to guilt him (cause I wasn't, I was just being transparent and honest on how I felt) and that I wanted to call instead of texting cause i didn't like it, I felt more miscommunication was happening, he told me he didn't want to call because he didn't want me to call him an asshole and how my problems are his fault, I told him i never said it was his fault but he corrected me by reminding me i said it in the voice message i sent last night (I was really high when I made it, so i didn't remember much when I woke up), so i listened to it and I literally told him that it was half of his fault that I'm confused about our status and how I needed more stability from him, so I told him that just adding that I was also at fault to for not knocking him down when he first came at me. After that, I started screenshotting the messages for my notion journal to dissect more on how I feel about it to try to understand more on how i felt and to help me move on, but he gets PISSED, he texted me on imessage.
him: "yeah no, fuck your screenshots"
me: "why you don't even know what i'm going to do with them?"
him: "1 screenshot. Sure. 3??? Nahhh. You trynna catch me up. I one you and screenshots and I don't fuck with it. That drew the line for me. You right. We shouldn't talk."
THEN HE FUCKING BLOCKS ME ON EVERYTHING EVEN GETTING A MUTUAL FRIEND OF OURS TO BLOCK ME. So i start racing to talk to him because I didn't think it was a big ass deal, so i text him on discord and he's telling me to fuck off and blocks me. I kept finding ways to contact him trying to explain to him and apologizing that I'm keeping it to myself and that its nothing more but he tells me to fuck off even more to the point where he even threatens to report me. I gave up and I sent my last message to him telling him that he basically sucks, doesn't reciprocate any mercy I've given to him or treat me as if I mattered to him, how it was unfair how stubborn he was to not even try to understand how i felt, how i still, despite, the entirety of the situation, love him, and hopes his life goes well.
I do want to add that I understand constantly texting him and calling him about it was a bad move, I truly was just acting on my emotions instead of calming down then making a choice. I am obviously at fault for it
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Everything started with me reconnecting with him in Walmart. I knew him prior to this because we used to go to the same high school together but never really talked. I gave him my instagram and we were talking about our exes cause that is how we even knew each other. While I was texting him, he asked me for my number then we started texting on imessages. He would text me, send me pigeon games, and call me every now and then.
There was one day where he called me and he wanted to ask me sexual questions, I was cool with it cause we had been friends for 2 weeks and plus I don't really have anything to hide. I didn't think much about it while telling him and asking him stuff cause we were friends, he had started talking about how he wanted someone to be friends with benefits with that it wouldn't end up ruining the friendship and I told him I could never do that stuff cause I want to be in a relationship with those that I am sexual with, plus I get clingy with them cause I tend to actually like them.
At some point of talking, he even asked for me to send and I told him that I wanted to do all of that stuff when I get married because my last ex (the ex he knew about) had taken my virginity to get his ex (the guy i was talking to's ex) jealous. I don't know exactly what he said but he said something like "Well it would suck to wait for someone during the relationship just to realize that they aren't good at sex", which made me feel like I was waiting for no reason because after that ex, I never was sexually active with anyone (about 2-3 years counting). I ended up sending some old nudes because I thought it wouldn't matter anymore and that he was kind of cute. After that, the more we talked the more the sexual tension got heavy, he was talking about how he liked my body and how he wanted to fuck me, and I was eating it up cause he was making me feel pretty and wanted. He ended up jerking off to my picture when I let him take the time to (cause I really didn't want to do e-sex cause I've always felt unfulfilled doing it) and when he came back everything was fine.
After some days, we had gotten into this habit of me sending him nudes, taking them how he wanted them to look, with him complimenting me and jerking off to them, there was only one time where we did e-sex, everything else was sending. The sending nudes ended up making me feel how I did in my previous relationship which was like a whore, not an actual person, and like a porn magazine, so I talked to him about it and he told me to just tell him to stop when he does ask. Time passed some more and he would still asked so I talked to him again about it because everytime we would have a sweet moment he would ask me for nudes or say something sexual, but this time he was still entertaining the idea, I assume he was thinking I was playing hard to get, I really don't know, but this time I told him, "I don't think you'll get to the point of actually liking me" because during this time he made it seem like we were leaning into a relationship while I always said that I wanted a relationship, he had backed off when I said that but he replied saying "(my name) don't be like that". After that, the only time that we would be sexual was whenever I initiated it, which would be about once every 2-3 weeks.
During that I would treat him like a boyfriend, but he was still being plain towards me, (he even told me that he liked the way I treated him) the only time he would compliment me was when I dressed up, so I asked him about how he was rarely lovey dovey towards me and he told me that he needed more time to get to like me even more than he did cause he wanted to take things slow, I got salty and told him that sexting me and wanting me to send nudes wasn't take it slow, he didn't say anything about that but smirked and change the topic. Every now and then, I'd make slick comments about stuff that didn't make sense. We had gotten to a point where he told me that he wasn't going to be texting and calling as much because he wants to start his business up, which I had no problem with that, I told him that I would always be there for him and when needed me, if there was anything I could do to just let me know, and I even told him if he felt like he needed to not pursue a relationship right now that we could stop or cut ties for now. He agreed with him not pursuing a relationship, again stating that he wants to put all of his focus in the business, and that there was nothing wrong with me, just that he wanted to focus on himself. I told him that I didn't know if I was cool being just friends because I was actually trying to pursue a relationship with him and that if I figured out how I felt about it I would let him know so that things didn't get toxic between us.
6 days later (5/10/2024),
At night, I told him the way everything is right now is making me confused and overwhelmed because I didn't really understand what our status was, and it wasn't somewhere I wanted to be especially after sending him pictures of my body using a voice message. I also told him that I was regretting showing him my body cause of how I felt I was being used but didn't want to assume and was hoping that he just needed time, he replied the next day during the afternoon telling me that I was a good person just that he couldn't see a future with me, that he thought he made his want of being only friends clear, that we would go different directions if we did get together. I got confused about that part because everytime I would try and talk to him about us meeting up and how we would maintain the relationship, he would tell me that it was too soon to talk about it, so i got a bit mad and asked him how he came to that conclusion knowing that we didn't talk about it at all, how he knew my boundaries but didn't straight up tell me that he didn't want me so I could save my time, and how he didn't make anything clear cause I thought we were on pause for now and going to attempt to try again once the business started up. He then told me that I was trying to guilt him, to not be mad at him because he didn't want a relationship, that he didn't want me, that I wasn't for him, and to not get mad at him for something he couldn't control.
I told him that I wasn't meaning to guilt him (cause I wasn't, I was just being transparent and honest on how I felt) and that I wanted to call instead of texting cause i didn't like it, I felt more miscommunication was happening, he told me he didn't want to call because he didn't want me to call him an asshole and how my problems are his fault, I told him i never said it was his fault but he corrected me by reminding me i said it in the voice message i sent last night (I was really high when I made it, so i didn't remember much when I woke up), so i listened to it and I literally told him that it was half of his fault that I'm confused about our status and how I needed more stability from him, so I told him that just adding that I was also at fault to for not knocking him down when he first came at me. After that, I started screenshotting the messages for my notion journal to dissect more on how I feel about it to try to understand more on how i felt and to help me move on, but he gets PISSED, he texted me on imessage.
him: "yeah no, fuck your screenshots"
me: "why you don't even know what i'm going to do with them?"
him: "1 screenshot. Sure. 3??? Nahhh. You trynna catch me up. I one you and screenshots and I don't fuck with it. That drew the line for me. You right. We shouldn't talk."
THEN HE FUCKING BLOCKS ME ON EVERYTHING EVEN GETTING A MUTUAL FRIEND OF OURS TO BLOCK ME. So i start racing to talk to him because I didn't think it was a big ass deal, so i text him on discord and he's telling me to fuck off and blocks me. I kept finding ways to contact him trying to explain to him and apologizing that I'm keeping it to myself and that its nothing more but he tells me to fuck off even more to the point where he even threatens to report me. I gave up and I sent my last message to him telling him that he basically sucks, doesn't reciprocate any mercy I've given to him or treat me as if I mattered to him, how it was unfair how stubborn he was to not even try to understand how i felt, how i still, despite, the entirety of the situation, love him, and hopes his life goes well.
I do want to add that I understand constantly texting him and calling him about it was a bad move, I truly was just acting on my emotions instead of calming down then making a choice. I am obviously at fault for it
2024.05.15 00:59 feckarseinc AITAH For complimenting a young lady's weight loss at the gym?
I was at the gym one time. I saw this cute young lady who had been going there for a while and noticed that she had really slimmed down a good bit.
I was on a stair climber machine beside her. She finishes and gets off and take out my earphones and grab her attentions by saying "hey".
I smile at her "I've noticed you around. You look like you've lost a lot of weight. You should be really proud of yourself".
She just said 'thanks' back, unenthusiastically and just walked away to another area of the gym.
In the days after she just never used that machine again and appeared to be walking the long way around to deliberately avoid me.
Another day, I happen to run into her again in another weights machines area of the gym. I got on the machine beside her and awkwardly said "eh....Hi". She just said hi back without making eye contact or talking further.
AITAH for trying to talk to her?
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I was on a stair climber machine beside her. She finishes and gets off and take out my earphones and grab her attentions by saying "hey".
I smile at her "I've noticed you around. You look like you've lost a lot of weight. You should be really proud of yourself".
She just said 'thanks' back, unenthusiastically and just walked away to another area of the gym.
In the days after she just never used that machine again and appeared to be walking the long way around to deliberately avoid me.
Another day, I happen to run into her again in another weights machines area of the gym. I got on the machine beside her and awkwardly said "eh....Hi". She just said hi back without making eye contact or talking further.
AITAH for trying to talk to her?
2024.05.15 00:56 fact-fisher My bf (30m) gets extra frustrated with me(26f) because my friends always somehow get me into trouble. What should I do?
TLDR - I should have stayed home and now every dude is gonna say "this is why you can't trust girls" š¤¦š¼āāļø & I probably read too far into this lol
My bf (he's 30) and I (26) have the same group of friends. My bf and I have been together for 4 years & one of his other friends has been in a committed relationship with my friend Angelina, but the rest of our friend group couples are less committed and more on and off dating. (I am the youngest of our friends and the rest are 26-31)
Well first off, these other girls can be sort of "wild" & not in a sexy way that our bf's appreciate, so generally me and Angelina just hang out with the boys while the other gf's go out because they usually stay out pretty late & idk we love our bf's.
Last weekend my one friend was out of town and the boys were going golfing and they just drink beer and it's boring w/out my one friend so I just told my bf I was going to go with the girls to dinner and then there was some trivia thing at the place we were eating so the boys just dropped us off and said they would come back to get us at 12 once it was over.
Well things went not as planned and I definitely wish I just stayed back. After dinner they were bored of the Trivia so they wanted to walk to this other arcade thing but it does have a bar in it, it was just still only like 8pm and I thought we were just walking back so I didn't text my bf. Well fast forward one of the girls had my phone because she said she was going to text her bf who was the one driving to come get us so I let her but then she started saying we're getting a ride home with this person who then actually took us to this party. She drained my phone texting some other guy so it was dead. So as soon as this dude takes us to his friends house and the other girls were trashed (I wasn't drinking) I found a phone charger at this random house and called my bf and he told me to share my location. Which all the girls were pissed at me for because they weren't ready to leave. Well then they go with all these other people (mostly dudes) and they leave so I just stayed and waited on my bf to come, which our bf's were obviously already all pissed and then had to drive around trying to figure out where the girls went. My bf was just moody af and annoyed but the other ones were pissed & mad at me asking like where tf they went or if they went off with dudes etc my bf asked me if the dudes were just hitting on us and I said not really just like drunk and I mean idk I just didn't like all the tension so I didn't mention that one of the girls was texting some guy on my phone.
Well now this dude starts texting me yesterday asking what I'm doing this weekend so I just said that he's trying to text the other girl not me. And this dude has called like idk 20x and is texting me telling me to tell the other girls to hang etc and then he starts like hitting on me saying I missed out on fun with them last weekend š¤¦š¼āāļø so I just blocked him. I didn't delete the messages and I can't decide if I need to tell my bf that the one girl was actually texting some dude on my phone, he definitely would tell his friend & the girl might hate me but I'm not as worried about that as much as my bf being mad some dudes texting me & that I lied about not knowing last weekend that she was on my phone etc. He was just already pretty irritated I was somehow in the situation but he was pretty forgiving and I already got fucked super hard for it lol I'm sore and not looking to start anymore fights even if the sex was type 2 fun (it was rough lol), it was also because I pissed him off and disappointed him but he knows those girls are trouble. Anyways, do you think it is in the past and I could just let it go or do you think I need to bring up that the guy was texting me, which I'll then have to bring up that he only had my number from texting her on my phone which then will lead to me showing him the texts which then will lead to him reading that one dude telling the girl using my phone how sexy she was and all her friends & other horrible things, like one of his texts to her last weekend he told her his friend likes MY ass/needs pussyš ah oh no. I didn't read the texts until today when this dude texted me now, but that was why I just waited for my bf last weekend - the dudes were a lil too eagethirsty at that party. You can tell it's my friend texting because she texted the dude that it was her. But I still feel really bad about it all and ya I just don't want this fight now, my bf isn't controlling but he'd not be too happy about the things the guy was saying about me or like the wording was a bit much. If the dude had texted that girl like "oh your friend is cute" ya my bf would be like "you are" but if he sees its more like "is her pussy tight...would she ride it with u" š¬š³ he's probably gonna b like "this jdjrjdakwnd cocksucker needs his ass whooped god damn skajcbeiwisb" and I do not want that at all soooo do I not say more? Oh & when that guy texted me I told him I have a bf, but when I texted that he said "ya I have a goldfish" back š¤ and then kept calling, so like I said I blocked him but my bf would probably say the dude is asking for shit.
I did apologize to my bf & took responsibility after it all last weekend. I've never cheated and I would never support it or anything so I don't want it to seem like I'm helping her hide it or I was hiding that they were hitting on me because I really was outside vaping most of the time and Idk why I lied other than i was overwhelmed by the situation and mad bfs everywhere idk but I should have just told him and let him be mad last weekend so I'm not here stuck now.
My bf won't think I cheated or anything, he knows no one else gets me in the bedroom & we have trust, which is why I care so much about not compromising that.
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My bf (he's 30) and I (26) have the same group of friends. My bf and I have been together for 4 years & one of his other friends has been in a committed relationship with my friend Angelina, but the rest of our friend group couples are less committed and more on and off dating. (I am the youngest of our friends and the rest are 26-31)
Well first off, these other girls can be sort of "wild" & not in a sexy way that our bf's appreciate, so generally me and Angelina just hang out with the boys while the other gf's go out because they usually stay out pretty late & idk we love our bf's.
Last weekend my one friend was out of town and the boys were going golfing and they just drink beer and it's boring w/out my one friend so I just told my bf I was going to go with the girls to dinner and then there was some trivia thing at the place we were eating so the boys just dropped us off and said they would come back to get us at 12 once it was over.
Well things went not as planned and I definitely wish I just stayed back. After dinner they were bored of the Trivia so they wanted to walk to this other arcade thing but it does have a bar in it, it was just still only like 8pm and I thought we were just walking back so I didn't text my bf. Well fast forward one of the girls had my phone because she said she was going to text her bf who was the one driving to come get us so I let her but then she started saying we're getting a ride home with this person who then actually took us to this party. She drained my phone texting some other guy so it was dead. So as soon as this dude takes us to his friends house and the other girls were trashed (I wasn't drinking) I found a phone charger at this random house and called my bf and he told me to share my location. Which all the girls were pissed at me for because they weren't ready to leave. Well then they go with all these other people (mostly dudes) and they leave so I just stayed and waited on my bf to come, which our bf's were obviously already all pissed and then had to drive around trying to figure out where the girls went. My bf was just moody af and annoyed but the other ones were pissed & mad at me asking like where tf they went or if they went off with dudes etc my bf asked me if the dudes were just hitting on us and I said not really just like drunk and I mean idk I just didn't like all the tension so I didn't mention that one of the girls was texting some guy on my phone.
Well now this dude starts texting me yesterday asking what I'm doing this weekend so I just said that he's trying to text the other girl not me. And this dude has called like idk 20x and is texting me telling me to tell the other girls to hang etc and then he starts like hitting on me saying I missed out on fun with them last weekend š¤¦š¼āāļø so I just blocked him. I didn't delete the messages and I can't decide if I need to tell my bf that the one girl was actually texting some dude on my phone, he definitely would tell his friend & the girl might hate me but I'm not as worried about that as much as my bf being mad some dudes texting me & that I lied about not knowing last weekend that she was on my phone etc. He was just already pretty irritated I was somehow in the situation but he was pretty forgiving and I already got fucked super hard for it lol I'm sore and not looking to start anymore fights even if the sex was type 2 fun (it was rough lol), it was also because I pissed him off and disappointed him but he knows those girls are trouble. Anyways, do you think it is in the past and I could just let it go or do you think I need to bring up that the guy was texting me, which I'll then have to bring up that he only had my number from texting her on my phone which then will lead to me showing him the texts which then will lead to him reading that one dude telling the girl using my phone how sexy she was and all her friends & other horrible things, like one of his texts to her last weekend he told her his friend likes MY ass/needs pussyš ah oh no. I didn't read the texts until today when this dude texted me now, but that was why I just waited for my bf last weekend - the dudes were a lil too eagethirsty at that party. You can tell it's my friend texting because she texted the dude that it was her. But I still feel really bad about it all and ya I just don't want this fight now, my bf isn't controlling but he'd not be too happy about the things the guy was saying about me or like the wording was a bit much. If the dude had texted that girl like "oh your friend is cute" ya my bf would be like "you are" but if he sees its more like "is her pussy tight...would she ride it with u" š¬š³ he's probably gonna b like "this jdjrjdakwnd cocksucker needs his ass whooped god damn skajcbeiwisb" and I do not want that at all soooo do I not say more? Oh & when that guy texted me I told him I have a bf, but when I texted that he said "ya I have a goldfish" back š¤ and then kept calling, so like I said I blocked him but my bf would probably say the dude is asking for shit.
I did apologize to my bf & took responsibility after it all last weekend. I've never cheated and I would never support it or anything so I don't want it to seem like I'm helping her hide it or I was hiding that they were hitting on me because I really was outside vaping most of the time and Idk why I lied other than i was overwhelmed by the situation and mad bfs everywhere idk but I should have just told him and let him be mad last weekend so I'm not here stuck now.
My bf won't think I cheated or anything, he knows no one else gets me in the bedroom & we have trust, which is why I care so much about not compromising that.
2024.05.15 00:51 Accomplished-Sail583 23 [M4F] #US/FL/online: what if we did something funny like skip the small talk and started ādatingā?š¤Ŗ
Hey! Iām a 23y/o soon-to-be college graduate! Iām here looking for someone to form a good genuine connection with. I attend school in FL, so itād be nice to meet ppl in FL but idc where you are as long as the connection we make is good :)
Some of my interests consists of playing video games (just got a pc so Iāll take any recommendations), listening to music, watching/playing basketball, and photography/videography. I hope one day to share these interests with you! (I know my interests are very vague but we can get to know each other more in DMās)
I would describe myself as an introverted extrovert. I speak Spanish. Iām pretty Athletic. Iām funny conversationally. And I know how to solve a Rubikās cube in about a minute or less
My looks: I have wavy black hair, brown eyes, some piercings, some tattoos, and I have a pretty average build
I want to find someone whoās as interested in me as much as I am in them. Iām a very flirtatious guy, so Iām kinda hoping you are too. Iām looking for that flirtationship to lovers type vibe. I would eventually like to know what you look like because I believe physical attraction is as important as emotional attraction. also PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help carry a conversation. Im a pretty busy person but if you show me that you ACTUALLY like talking to me and I see the effort, I will always ALWAYS make time for you. ā¤ļøāš„
(Donāt just say āheyā or āhiā tell me a juicy secret or something. Send me a brief intro and face pic plsš«£)
Alright love you bye (say it back plsš«)
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Some of my interests consists of playing video games (just got a pc so Iāll take any recommendations), listening to music, watching/playing basketball, and photography/videography. I hope one day to share these interests with you! (I know my interests are very vague but we can get to know each other more in DMās)
I would describe myself as an introverted extrovert. I speak Spanish. Iām pretty Athletic. Iām funny conversationally. And I know how to solve a Rubikās cube in about a minute or less
My looks: I have wavy black hair, brown eyes, some piercings, some tattoos, and I have a pretty average build
I want to find someone whoās as interested in me as much as I am in them. Iām a very flirtatious guy, so Iām kinda hoping you are too. Iām looking for that flirtationship to lovers type vibe. I would eventually like to know what you look like because I believe physical attraction is as important as emotional attraction. also PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help carry a conversation. Im a pretty busy person but if you show me that you ACTUALLY like talking to me and I see the effort, I will always ALWAYS make time for you. ā¤ļøāš„
(Donāt just say āheyā or āhiā tell me a juicy secret or something. Send me a brief intro and face pic plsš«£)
Alright love you bye (say it back plsš«)
2024.05.15 00:45 slumberingdreams 22[M4F] California/Anywhere - Nerd looking for plus size
Hey there, I'm looking for someone new to talk to with the possibility of it becoming something more! (as the title says, I do prefer much larger body types as they're cute to me, but please know I'm not looking for sexual chat!) I really love learning about people, and would love to learn about someone new, about their passions and interests, and have someone who loves doing the same in return! I ideally would like to talk on discord eventually!
As the title says, I'm definitely more of a nerd than anything, haha. I love reading, cooking and baking, video games, and generally more homebody hobbies. I currently live in California and I'm going to start my first year of College this fall! To describe myself, I'm around 5'10, dark brown hair, hazel eyes, and I'm on the chubby side myself (although I'm losing weight, down 10 pounds and counting!). I'm also asexual, so I'd like someone who's okay with that!
For a partner, I'd ideally want someone genuine and caring, and while not required, it'd really help if you shared some of my hobbies! I don't have many appearance preferences, tbh!
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As the title says, I'm definitely more of a nerd than anything, haha. I love reading, cooking and baking, video games, and generally more homebody hobbies. I currently live in California and I'm going to start my first year of College this fall! To describe myself, I'm around 5'10, dark brown hair, hazel eyes, and I'm on the chubby side myself (although I'm losing weight, down 10 pounds and counting!). I'm also asexual, so I'd like someone who's okay with that!
For a partner, I'd ideally want someone genuine and caring, and while not required, it'd really help if you shared some of my hobbies! I don't have many appearance preferences, tbh!
2024.05.15 00:43 IndependenceSalty83 Iām (23F) scared to end things after 6yrs with my BF (25M)
TLDR: Im scared to make the jump of ending things. I love him but I donāt think Iām in love with him anymore. Im scared itās the wrong decision. Im scared to start over. Im worried financially. Im worried about our pets.
If you can do math Iām sure you can see that my boyfriend and I started dating pretty young, if anything Iād say he is my first love. I thought he was my true love. Backstory: We moved in together after about 7mo of dating (with roommates) then a few months later just the two of us. Things were great, we were working on our careers and got two dogs. It felt like we had a little family and happy life. Fast forward three years: we go on a trip with his family. His dad flips his shit on us about finances in an airport but is primarily yelling at me because my partner was being submissive and not questioning or trying to discuss this with his dad. His dad also brought our relationship into his yelling, saying things like I donāt make my BF happy, he doesnāt support our relationship. It was really shocking and ārandomā for me to see this display. It honestly sent me into a depression to be broken down like that publicly, with no warning, by my boyfriendās dad and him not even sticking up for me or our relationship. My bf telling me the entire trip home and at home that thatās how his dad is, that heās sorry, and he doesnāt know why his dad said those things. That heās happy with me. Three months later I catch him texting other girls talking about meeting up. I already had a girls trip planned coming up and told him I needed time to sort through all of this given that I feel like I was dealt blow after blow. I came back from the trip and we talked about it more, I asked numerous times if thereās something Iām not doing right or if I do truly make him unhappy. He denies, says that he doesnāt know why he reached out to other women and that it was a stupid mistake that will never happen again. Of course for awhile I was on edge and wary but I loved him and wanted to make this work. A few more months later I was trying to find a tattoo artist he follows and showed me on instagram. But instead I found him following a lot of explicit female pages. I told him that this made me uncomfortable especially given our recent issues and set a boundary to not continue following/looking at these women. For the past year I feel as though things have been good and my trust is back for him. Hereās the but: 1) I donāt feel like I enjoy his conversation anymore or itās gotten less. I feel like I have to initiate every conversation, find things to talk about. 2) I feel like I almost have to mom him or be his parent. Having to help him file his taxes, figure out his car insurance, his doctors appointments, cleaning etc. 3) Heās not romantic. Weāve had numerous conversations about how I want to surprise occasionally, I want him to do something romantic for me. Iāve quite literally almost begged him to. He always says heāll try harder and heās sorry. I know everyone has different love languages giving and receiving but I feel as though weāve both communicated ours and itās feeling one sided. Some anniversaries or valentines we took it easy and just did a cute dinner together. Some I planned trips for us. One year I did a surprise beach trip. For our 5yr anniversary I did a spa resort since neither of us had gone and well itās our big 5 year anniversary! I donāt want to degrade him and say heās never done anything for me but I just donāt feel like weāre on the same level. We just got back from a week long trip to the PNW weāve been wanting to do for years. He didnāt put any effort into planning so I made the entire itinerary including finding where to eat at during the trip. I feel like this trip really snapped for me. Our 6yr anniversary is next month and I almost want to just not bother and see what he does, if anything. I know I shouldnāt expect things but I thought he was going to propose during our 5yr anniversary because he occasionally would ask what kind of wedding rings I liked. When he didnāt, I thought maybe he was waiting for a romantic trip like the PNW since we always talk about where we would and wouldnāt want to be proposed at. He didnāt. I know it sound silly to expect a ring when Iām sitting here questioning staying with him. Because Iām usually a logically person and clearly a planner and mentally made a pros and cons list.. and the reasons I kept coming back to for not leaving him is 1) we have long history together 2) I love him and I donāt want to hurt him 3) the stress of having to decide moving out and furniture 4) we have two dogs together 5) financially 6) Iām scared to start over.
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If you can do math Iām sure you can see that my boyfriend and I started dating pretty young, if anything Iād say he is my first love. I thought he was my true love. Backstory: We moved in together after about 7mo of dating (with roommates) then a few months later just the two of us. Things were great, we were working on our careers and got two dogs. It felt like we had a little family and happy life. Fast forward three years: we go on a trip with his family. His dad flips his shit on us about finances in an airport but is primarily yelling at me because my partner was being submissive and not questioning or trying to discuss this with his dad. His dad also brought our relationship into his yelling, saying things like I donāt make my BF happy, he doesnāt support our relationship. It was really shocking and ārandomā for me to see this display. It honestly sent me into a depression to be broken down like that publicly, with no warning, by my boyfriendās dad and him not even sticking up for me or our relationship. My bf telling me the entire trip home and at home that thatās how his dad is, that heās sorry, and he doesnāt know why his dad said those things. That heās happy with me. Three months later I catch him texting other girls talking about meeting up. I already had a girls trip planned coming up and told him I needed time to sort through all of this given that I feel like I was dealt blow after blow. I came back from the trip and we talked about it more, I asked numerous times if thereās something Iām not doing right or if I do truly make him unhappy. He denies, says that he doesnāt know why he reached out to other women and that it was a stupid mistake that will never happen again. Of course for awhile I was on edge and wary but I loved him and wanted to make this work. A few more months later I was trying to find a tattoo artist he follows and showed me on instagram. But instead I found him following a lot of explicit female pages. I told him that this made me uncomfortable especially given our recent issues and set a boundary to not continue following/looking at these women. For the past year I feel as though things have been good and my trust is back for him. Hereās the but: 1) I donāt feel like I enjoy his conversation anymore or itās gotten less. I feel like I have to initiate every conversation, find things to talk about. 2) I feel like I almost have to mom him or be his parent. Having to help him file his taxes, figure out his car insurance, his doctors appointments, cleaning etc. 3) Heās not romantic. Weāve had numerous conversations about how I want to surprise occasionally, I want him to do something romantic for me. Iāve quite literally almost begged him to. He always says heāll try harder and heās sorry. I know everyone has different love languages giving and receiving but I feel as though weāve both communicated ours and itās feeling one sided. Some anniversaries or valentines we took it easy and just did a cute dinner together. Some I planned trips for us. One year I did a surprise beach trip. For our 5yr anniversary I did a spa resort since neither of us had gone and well itās our big 5 year anniversary! I donāt want to degrade him and say heās never done anything for me but I just donāt feel like weāre on the same level. We just got back from a week long trip to the PNW weāve been wanting to do for years. He didnāt put any effort into planning so I made the entire itinerary including finding where to eat at during the trip. I feel like this trip really snapped for me. Our 6yr anniversary is next month and I almost want to just not bother and see what he does, if anything. I know I shouldnāt expect things but I thought he was going to propose during our 5yr anniversary because he occasionally would ask what kind of wedding rings I liked. When he didnāt, I thought maybe he was waiting for a romantic trip like the PNW since we always talk about where we would and wouldnāt want to be proposed at. He didnāt. I know it sound silly to expect a ring when Iām sitting here questioning staying with him. Because Iām usually a logically person and clearly a planner and mentally made a pros and cons list.. and the reasons I kept coming back to for not leaving him is 1) we have long history together 2) I love him and I donāt want to hurt him 3) the stress of having to decide moving out and furniture 4) we have two dogs together 5) financially 6) Iām scared to start over.
2024.05.15 00:40 Rqanov Why can't I get an honest rejection?
Now this one's kinda funny, I(20M) have tried my luck over the years with a few girls, with no success as of yet. Today I was talking to a co-worker of mine, cute girl and a really fun personality, we had a really nice conversation and all, then it got to the topic of bars and clubs. We both agreeds pubs are better, we both seemed to be into the same things, so I very casually shot my shot and said "hey I know this really nice bar in X, I can take you there, my treat". And then she proceeded to come up with a barrage of excuses as to why she was "too busy"(oh yeah btw she just finished her exams/disseration), litteraly all the way into the summer. Now I'm not gullible enough to not know the consequences of saying "No" to the wrong guy and the associated wrisks with it but still, why? It seemed like we had alot in common and we both enjoyed eachothers' company, if it was me I'd have atleast went along with it or asked to clarify her intentions but whatever, I guess some female perspective would be really appreciated, thank you!!
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2024.05.15 00:38 Snugfles1988 What are some silly things to say to toddlers?
I live in the US and I speak Spanish okay-ish - basically Spanish class Spanish. Iām part of a momās group at my church with a number of native Spanish speakers from all different countries. They have similar cute toddlers that generally only speak Spanish. Anything I would normally say to a toddler, I have no idea how to say in Spanish.
For example, in English, my go to is telling babies theyāre cute or a āsilly goose.ā CĆ³mo se dice āsilly goose?ā lol
Any recommendations for nonsense things people say to babies greatly appreciated!
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For example, in English, my go to is telling babies theyāre cute or a āsilly goose.ā CĆ³mo se dice āsilly goose?ā lol
Any recommendations for nonsense things people say to babies greatly appreciated!
2024.05.15 00:35 SamuraiUX The Emperor's New Clothes in Modern Society
Psychoanalytic/psychodynamic psychotherapy may be one of the last bastions of honest inquiry left to us, and I worry that society will "social justice" us out of it.
There are so many physical and behavioral outcomes that a psychodynamic therapist might be curious about that we are no longer encouraged to examine. And let's be clear, before I elaborate, that I do not mean it is our job to JUDGE people and most certainly not to look down upon them! But the idea seems to be that many things a psychologist might be interested in the underpinnings or root causes of are things that are allowed no investigation whatsoever, else youāre labeled an -ist and a -phobic (racist, sexist, fatphobic, homophobic, transphobic, etc., etc.).
I went to a CE event last year about the BDSM community, and it was enforced upon us multiple times that there was nothing psychological about any of it, that the CE was about acceptance and not questioning it. It was, as you can imagine, a very boring event. Is it impossible to imagine that for some members of this community, there may have been events earlier in their lives that affected their thinking around sex/relationships/attachment that might help them to understand the way they think, feel, and behave today? No; we are simply to accept, lest we are invalidating and not supporting the BDSM/polyamory community.
On a reality TV competition, an overweight, conventionally unattractive person made themselves stand out with tall, strangely-coiffed bright hair, covered in piercings and tattoos, and wearing unconventional clothing. Part of me might wonder what it means for them to stand out this way, and why they've chosen as they have. But nothing about their choices or appearance is examinable; if one does not accept them as they are with no thought, we are seen as invalidating and not supporting them.
About sexual orientation or gender identity I will only say that all the research seems to indicate both are probably caused by a deeply nuanced interplay of genetics and environment -- not 100% genetics. However, we are strongly discouraged from talking about or thinking about the environment piece.
The goal of psychodynamic therapy is exploration, inquiry, and deeper understanding. We of all people should never be silenced or shamed in the questions we are allowed to ask, either as researchers or in session with our clients (up to a point, and of course prioritizing our clientās well-being). However, I think we are not protected in society against the rules that are put in place (understandably!) to cope with abusive, invalidating, hurtful laypeople. ā¦But I feel we should be.
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There are so many physical and behavioral outcomes that a psychodynamic therapist might be curious about that we are no longer encouraged to examine. And let's be clear, before I elaborate, that I do not mean it is our job to JUDGE people and most certainly not to look down upon them! But the idea seems to be that many things a psychologist might be interested in the underpinnings or root causes of are things that are allowed no investigation whatsoever, else youāre labeled an -ist and a -phobic (racist, sexist, fatphobic, homophobic, transphobic, etc., etc.).
I went to a CE event last year about the BDSM community, and it was enforced upon us multiple times that there was nothing psychological about any of it, that the CE was about acceptance and not questioning it. It was, as you can imagine, a very boring event. Is it impossible to imagine that for some members of this community, there may have been events earlier in their lives that affected their thinking around sex/relationships/attachment that might help them to understand the way they think, feel, and behave today? No; we are simply to accept, lest we are invalidating and not supporting the BDSM/polyamory community.
On a reality TV competition, an overweight, conventionally unattractive person made themselves stand out with tall, strangely-coiffed bright hair, covered in piercings and tattoos, and wearing unconventional clothing. Part of me might wonder what it means for them to stand out this way, and why they've chosen as they have. But nothing about their choices or appearance is examinable; if one does not accept them as they are with no thought, we are seen as invalidating and not supporting them.
About sexual orientation or gender identity I will only say that all the research seems to indicate both are probably caused by a deeply nuanced interplay of genetics and environment -- not 100% genetics. However, we are strongly discouraged from talking about or thinking about the environment piece.
The goal of psychodynamic therapy is exploration, inquiry, and deeper understanding. We of all people should never be silenced or shamed in the questions we are allowed to ask, either as researchers or in session with our clients (up to a point, and of course prioritizing our clientās well-being). However, I think we are not protected in society against the rules that are put in place (understandably!) to cope with abusive, invalidating, hurtful laypeople. ā¦But I feel we should be.
2024.05.15 00:35 idkwat2pick69 Why can't I [20M] find a girlfriend ?
Hi !back on reddit after 3 years. last time i was in high school and searching for help to cure loneliness and social anxiety. I'm better now. I remembered people were nice to me to i'm back :) .
This is not a super-sad post like i used to post about my loneliness. But something isn't working with girls. I'm at university, don't go out very often but i have friends,. I don't have a main friend groups but rather multiples friends (some are creally close one). if you people consider that post i'll be really grateful
I have girl-friends, and have good relationships with woman in general (saying that cuz I used to be affraid of their perception of me), discussions with them. However, whenever i meet a girl i really like get so uncomfy and completely unable to have normal interations. I'm 20 and feel like this is a "teen-age" social behavior. I'm kinda good looking, kinda funny and normal dude, used to be shy but not anymore.
So, to put context : my mother asked me if i was gay since i've never had a serious relation with a woman. I said no. (i don't take it as an an offence actually that was kinda funny to ask me that(i'm lying that was kinda an offence) )
But i litteraly can't have a girlfriend. When i meet a girl that I found good-looking i'm getting unatural. I know some girls find me cute (not being narcissic) but I CANT .This week i had 2 parties (post-exams parties) where i met a girl i found cute. I'm unable to talk normally. I told a dude that i liked that girl at the first party (good friend i trust him + i was drunk, he told me he'll help me out since he's a friend of her).. The next day i saw that girl at the second party. She looked at me multiples times. I think (maybe i'm crazy) it was the "come and talk to me i know what u said last day" eye contact.
This was also a problem sexually. Even if i've picked up girls in high school, i had my first sexual relationship only this year at 20, with a long-time friend, even if there's no real love feelings behind it and she live in another country. And i'd prefer beeing friend with her anyway even if she lived there.
Last week i saw couple's sending each other cute message and I litteraly cried. I need that cuddles, that deep connection, someone to think of all day, someone to share food, travels, laughs. Sex sucks when there's nothing behind it. Its like eating but not tasting anything. I feel like i'm missing the purpose of life. I mean... friendship is good, but my HEART tell me I need that.
I spoke to that to people and some told me i'm scared to be loved. I felt that but not sure if that's really the point. So I thought random people on a weird website could help me out. Yeah i don't really know why i'm writing that here, but if only 2-3 people could give their opinions it would be nice.
I'd be grateful to anybody answering that so you can be "brutal honest"
Have a nice one !
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This is not a super-sad post like i used to post about my loneliness. But something isn't working with girls. I'm at university, don't go out very often but i have friends,. I don't have a main friend groups but rather multiples friends (some are creally close one). if you people consider that post i'll be really grateful
I have girl-friends, and have good relationships with woman in general (saying that cuz I used to be affraid of their perception of me), discussions with them. However, whenever i meet a girl i really like get so uncomfy and completely unable to have normal interations. I'm 20 and feel like this is a "teen-age" social behavior. I'm kinda good looking, kinda funny and normal dude, used to be shy but not anymore.
So, to put context : my mother asked me if i was gay since i've never had a serious relation with a woman. I said no. (i don't take it as an an offence actually that was kinda funny to ask me that(i'm lying that was kinda an offence) )
But i litteraly can't have a girlfriend. When i meet a girl that I found good-looking i'm getting unatural. I know some girls find me cute (not being narcissic) but I CANT .This week i had 2 parties (post-exams parties) where i met a girl i found cute. I'm unable to talk normally. I told a dude that i liked that girl at the first party (good friend i trust him + i was drunk, he told me he'll help me out since he's a friend of her).. The next day i saw that girl at the second party. She looked at me multiples times. I think (maybe i'm crazy) it was the "come and talk to me i know what u said last day" eye contact.
This was also a problem sexually. Even if i've picked up girls in high school, i had my first sexual relationship only this year at 20, with a long-time friend, even if there's no real love feelings behind it and she live in another country. And i'd prefer beeing friend with her anyway even if she lived there.
Last week i saw couple's sending each other cute message and I litteraly cried. I need that cuddles, that deep connection, someone to think of all day, someone to share food, travels, laughs. Sex sucks when there's nothing behind it. Its like eating but not tasting anything. I feel like i'm missing the purpose of life. I mean... friendship is good, but my HEART tell me I need that.
I spoke to that to people and some told me i'm scared to be loved. I felt that but not sure if that's really the point. So I thought random people on a weird website could help me out. Yeah i don't really know why i'm writing that here, but if only 2-3 people could give their opinions it would be nice.
I'd be grateful to anybody answering that so you can be "brutal honest"
Have a nice one !
2024.05.15 00:27 Kauaiishbino AITAH? I [F/18] was talking to a guy [M/20] about how I felt about him friendzoning me after leading me on knowing I wanted a relationship. He blocked me because I screenshotted our message talking about it. If I am, is there anything I can do about it? How may he have possibly felt?
I just had things ended because a guy I was talking to finally told me today that he didn't want me and that I wasn't for him, but it ended up going way worse than I wanted.
Everything started with me reconnecting with him in Walmart. I knew him prior to this because we used to go to the same high school together but never really talked. I gave him my instagram and we were talking about our exes cause that is how we even knew each other. While I was texting him, he asked me for my number then we started texting on imessages. He would text me, send me pigeon games, and call me every now and then.
There was one day where he called me and he wanted to ask me sexual questions, I was cool with it cause we had been friends for 2 weeks and plus I don't really have anything to hide. I didn't think much about it while telling him and asking him stuff cause we were friends, he had started talking about how he wanted someone to be friends with benefits with that it wouldn't end up ruining the friendship and I told him I could never do that stuff cause I want to be in a relationship with those that I am sexual with, plus I get clingy with them cause I tend to actually like them.
At some point of talking, he even asked for me to send and I told him that I wanted to do all of that stuff when I get married because my last ex (the ex he knew about) had taken my virginity to get his ex (the guy i was talking to's ex) jealous. I don't know exactly what he said but he said something like "Well it would suck to wait for someone during the relationship just to realize that they aren't good at sex", which made me feel like I was waiting for no reason because after that ex, I never was sexually active with anyone (about 2-3 years counting). I ended up sending some old nudes because I thought it wouldn't matter anymore and that he was kind of cute. After that, the more we talked the more the sexual tension got heavy, he was talking about how he liked my body and how he wanted to fuck me, and I was eating it up cause he was making me feel pretty and wanted. He ended up jerking off to my picture when I let him take the time to (cause I really didn't want to do e-sex cause I've always felt unfulfilled doing it) and when he came back everything was fine.
After some days, we had gotten into this habit of me sending him nudes, taking them how he wanted them to look, with him complimenting me and jerking off to them, there was only one time where we did e-sex, everything else was sending. The sending nudes ended up making me feel how I did in my previous relationship which was like a whore, not an actual person, and like a porn magazine, so I talked to him about it and he told me to just tell him to stop when he does ask. Time passed some more and he would still asked so I talked to him again about it because everytime we would have a sweet moment he would ask me for nudes or say something sexual, but this time he was still entertaining the idea, I assume he was thinking I was playing hard to get, I really don't know, but this time I told him, "I don't think you'll get to the point of actually liking me" because during this time he made it seem like we were leaning into a relationship while I always said that I wanted a relationship, he had backed off when I said that but he replied saying "(my name) don't be like that". After that, the only time that we would be sexual was whenever I initiated it, which would be about once every 2-3 weeks.
During that I would treat him like a boyfriend, but he was still being plain towards me, (he even told me that he liked the way I treated him) the only time he would compliment me was when I dressed up, so I asked him about how he was rarely lovey dovey towards me and he told me that he needed more time to get to like me even more than he did cause he wanted to take things slow, I got salty and told him that sexting me and wanting me to send nudes wasn't take it slow, he didn't say anything about that but smirked and change the topic. Every now and then, I'd make slick comments about stuff that didn't make sense. We had gotten to a point where he told me that he wasn't going to be texting and calling as much because he wants to start his business up, which I had no problem with that, I told him that I would always be there for him and when needed me, if there was anything I could do to just let me know, and I even told him if he felt like he needed to not pursue a relationship right now that we could stop or cut ties for now. He agreed with him not pursuing a relationship, again stating that he wants to put all of his focus in the business, and that there was nothing wrong with me, just that he wanted to focus on himself. I told him that I didn't know if I was cool being just friends because I was actually trying to pursue a relationship with him and that if I figured out how I felt about it I would let him know so that things didn't get toxic between us.
6 days later (5/10/2024),
At night, I told him the way everything is right now is making me confused and overwhelmed because I didn't really understand what our status was, and it wasn't somewhere I wanted to be especially after sending him pictures of my body using a voice message. I also told him that I was regretting showing him my body cause of how I felt I was being used but didn't want to assume and was hoping that he just needed time, he replied the next day during the afternoon telling me that I was a good person just that he couldn't see a future with me, that he thought he made his want of being only friends clear, that we would go different directions if we did get together. I got confused about that part because everytime I would try and talk to him about us meeting up and how we would maintain the relationship, he would tell me that it was too soon to talk about it, so i got a bit mad and asked him how he came to that conclusion knowing that we didn't talk about it at all, how he knew my boundaries but didn't straight up tell me that he didn't want me so I could save my time, and how he didn't make anything clear cause I thought we were on pause for now and going to attempt to try again once the business started up. He then told me that I was trying to guilt him, to not be mad at him because he didn't want a relationship, that he didn't want me, that I wasn't for him, and to not get mad at him for something he couldn't control.
I told him that I wasn't meaning to guilt him (cause I wasn't, I was just being transparent and honest on how I felt) and that I wanted to call instead of texting cause i didn't like it, I felt more miscommunication was happening, he told me he didn't want to call because he didn't want me to call him an asshole and how my problems are his fault, I told him i never said it was his fault but he corrected me by reminding me i said it in the voice message i sent last night (I was really high when I made it, so i didn't remember much when I woke up), so i listened to it and I literally told him that it was half of his fault that I'm confused about our status and how I needed more stability from him, so I told him that just adding that I was also at fault to for not knocking him down when he first came at me. After that, I started screenshotting the messages for my notion journal to dissect more on how I feel about it to try to understand more on how i felt and to help me move on, but he gets PISSED, he texted me on imessage.
him: "yeah no, fuck your screenshots"
me: "why you don't even know what i'm going to do with them?"
him: "1 screenshot. Sure. 3??? Nahhh. You trynna catch me up. I one you and screenshots and I don't fuck with it. That drew the line for me. You right. We shouldn't talk."
THEN HE FUCKING BLOCKS ME ON EVERYTHING EVEN GETTING A MUTUAL FRIEND OF OURS TO BLOCK ME. So i start racing to talk to him because I didn't think it was a big ass deal, so i text him on discord and he's telling me to fuck off and blocks me. I kept finding ways to contact him trying to explain to him and apologizing that I'm keeping it to myself and that its nothing more but he tells me to fuck off even more to the point where he even threatens to report me. I gave up and I sent my last message to him telling him that he basically sucks, doesn't reciprocate any mercy I've given to him or treat me as if I mattered to him, how it was unfair how stubborn he was to not even try to understand how i felt, how i still, despite, the entirety of the situation, love him, and hopes his life goes well.
I do want to add that I understand constantly texting him and calling him about it was a bad move, I truly was just acting on my emotions instead of calming down then making a choice.
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Everything started with me reconnecting with him in Walmart. I knew him prior to this because we used to go to the same high school together but never really talked. I gave him my instagram and we were talking about our exes cause that is how we even knew each other. While I was texting him, he asked me for my number then we started texting on imessages. He would text me, send me pigeon games, and call me every now and then.
There was one day where he called me and he wanted to ask me sexual questions, I was cool with it cause we had been friends for 2 weeks and plus I don't really have anything to hide. I didn't think much about it while telling him and asking him stuff cause we were friends, he had started talking about how he wanted someone to be friends with benefits with that it wouldn't end up ruining the friendship and I told him I could never do that stuff cause I want to be in a relationship with those that I am sexual with, plus I get clingy with them cause I tend to actually like them.
At some point of talking, he even asked for me to send and I told him that I wanted to do all of that stuff when I get married because my last ex (the ex he knew about) had taken my virginity to get his ex (the guy i was talking to's ex) jealous. I don't know exactly what he said but he said something like "Well it would suck to wait for someone during the relationship just to realize that they aren't good at sex", which made me feel like I was waiting for no reason because after that ex, I never was sexually active with anyone (about 2-3 years counting). I ended up sending some old nudes because I thought it wouldn't matter anymore and that he was kind of cute. After that, the more we talked the more the sexual tension got heavy, he was talking about how he liked my body and how he wanted to fuck me, and I was eating it up cause he was making me feel pretty and wanted. He ended up jerking off to my picture when I let him take the time to (cause I really didn't want to do e-sex cause I've always felt unfulfilled doing it) and when he came back everything was fine.
After some days, we had gotten into this habit of me sending him nudes, taking them how he wanted them to look, with him complimenting me and jerking off to them, there was only one time where we did e-sex, everything else was sending. The sending nudes ended up making me feel how I did in my previous relationship which was like a whore, not an actual person, and like a porn magazine, so I talked to him about it and he told me to just tell him to stop when he does ask. Time passed some more and he would still asked so I talked to him again about it because everytime we would have a sweet moment he would ask me for nudes or say something sexual, but this time he was still entertaining the idea, I assume he was thinking I was playing hard to get, I really don't know, but this time I told him, "I don't think you'll get to the point of actually liking me" because during this time he made it seem like we were leaning into a relationship while I always said that I wanted a relationship, he had backed off when I said that but he replied saying "(my name) don't be like that". After that, the only time that we would be sexual was whenever I initiated it, which would be about once every 2-3 weeks.
During that I would treat him like a boyfriend, but he was still being plain towards me, (he even told me that he liked the way I treated him) the only time he would compliment me was when I dressed up, so I asked him about how he was rarely lovey dovey towards me and he told me that he needed more time to get to like me even more than he did cause he wanted to take things slow, I got salty and told him that sexting me and wanting me to send nudes wasn't take it slow, he didn't say anything about that but smirked and change the topic. Every now and then, I'd make slick comments about stuff that didn't make sense. We had gotten to a point where he told me that he wasn't going to be texting and calling as much because he wants to start his business up, which I had no problem with that, I told him that I would always be there for him and when needed me, if there was anything I could do to just let me know, and I even told him if he felt like he needed to not pursue a relationship right now that we could stop or cut ties for now. He agreed with him not pursuing a relationship, again stating that he wants to put all of his focus in the business, and that there was nothing wrong with me, just that he wanted to focus on himself. I told him that I didn't know if I was cool being just friends because I was actually trying to pursue a relationship with him and that if I figured out how I felt about it I would let him know so that things didn't get toxic between us.
6 days later (5/10/2024),
At night, I told him the way everything is right now is making me confused and overwhelmed because I didn't really understand what our status was, and it wasn't somewhere I wanted to be especially after sending him pictures of my body using a voice message. I also told him that I was regretting showing him my body cause of how I felt I was being used but didn't want to assume and was hoping that he just needed time, he replied the next day during the afternoon telling me that I was a good person just that he couldn't see a future with me, that he thought he made his want of being only friends clear, that we would go different directions if we did get together. I got confused about that part because everytime I would try and talk to him about us meeting up and how we would maintain the relationship, he would tell me that it was too soon to talk about it, so i got a bit mad and asked him how he came to that conclusion knowing that we didn't talk about it at all, how he knew my boundaries but didn't straight up tell me that he didn't want me so I could save my time, and how he didn't make anything clear cause I thought we were on pause for now and going to attempt to try again once the business started up. He then told me that I was trying to guilt him, to not be mad at him because he didn't want a relationship, that he didn't want me, that I wasn't for him, and to not get mad at him for something he couldn't control.
I told him that I wasn't meaning to guilt him (cause I wasn't, I was just being transparent and honest on how I felt) and that I wanted to call instead of texting cause i didn't like it, I felt more miscommunication was happening, he told me he didn't want to call because he didn't want me to call him an asshole and how my problems are his fault, I told him i never said it was his fault but he corrected me by reminding me i said it in the voice message i sent last night (I was really high when I made it, so i didn't remember much when I woke up), so i listened to it and I literally told him that it was half of his fault that I'm confused about our status and how I needed more stability from him, so I told him that just adding that I was also at fault to for not knocking him down when he first came at me. After that, I started screenshotting the messages for my notion journal to dissect more on how I feel about it to try to understand more on how i felt and to help me move on, but he gets PISSED, he texted me on imessage.
him: "yeah no, fuck your screenshots"
me: "why you don't even know what i'm going to do with them?"
him: "1 screenshot. Sure. 3??? Nahhh. You trynna catch me up. I one you and screenshots and I don't fuck with it. That drew the line for me. You right. We shouldn't talk."
THEN HE FUCKING BLOCKS ME ON EVERYTHING EVEN GETTING A MUTUAL FRIEND OF OURS TO BLOCK ME. So i start racing to talk to him because I didn't think it was a big ass deal, so i text him on discord and he's telling me to fuck off and blocks me. I kept finding ways to contact him trying to explain to him and apologizing that I'm keeping it to myself and that its nothing more but he tells me to fuck off even more to the point where he even threatens to report me. I gave up and I sent my last message to him telling him that he basically sucks, doesn't reciprocate any mercy I've given to him or treat me as if I mattered to him, how it was unfair how stubborn he was to not even try to understand how i felt, how i still, despite, the entirety of the situation, love him, and hopes his life goes well.
I do want to add that I understand constantly texting him and calling him about it was a bad move, I truly was just acting on my emotions instead of calming down then making a choice.
2024.05.15 00:26 Horror_fan98 AITAH for saying no to cover my tattoos for a wedding?
My best friend is getting married in October. I have a lot of tattoos and one of them are on my neck. She said I have to cover that one and a SpongeBob one I have for her and her pictures or I canāt be her bridesmaid. She said they are to bold and ruin her photos. Am I in the wrong to say no to that big request? I get it, itās her day I understand that but this is my body and my way of expressing myself. I think itās a big ask. Sheās my best friend and I donāt want to not be her bridesmaid but at the same time I feel like itās wrong of her to want me to cover my tattoos because she doesnāt like them. Thatās who I am and what I like to do. I love her to death and if this was my wedding I would never ask someone to do such a thing especially if they are my best friend because I love them for who they are. I donāt care about that shit. Please let me know if Iām in the wrong.
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2024.05.15 00:24 throwRAsadsadsaddddd I(23F) broke up with my bf(23M). doubting my choice, need advice navigating this situation?
hello, hope everyone is doing good! long story short, i broke up with my bf a few weeks back. what happened was: he was extremely cold and uncaring JUST with me (he said he was going through a rough patch in his life so he couldnt be as affectionate, however, when he was with his friends, he was completely normal, attentive, chatty and happy); he made 0 effort to talk to me (i came home from work everyday wanting to chat and be with him and he never talked and wanted to be alone); whenever i tried to talk to him, i felt like i was talking to a brick wall, i was the only one talking.
he had always been chatty and very curious about my day and always asked questions, he was very present but became very distant. this lasted for around 3 weeks. i felt like my presence wasnt wanted nor needed.
at the same time this was happening, i always saw his status appearing as Online on instagram, at the time he was supposed to be asleep, while i was away at work (i work very early mornings). i say 'as he was supposed to be asleep' bc he would text me back( like 5 hours after) saying 'good morning, just woke up'.
i know apps can bug and can be faulty, but this has never happened before in the 7 months we were dating, and it kept happening EVERYDAY for 3 whole weeks.
him texting and talking to another girl honestly didnt even cross my mind bc idk if he'd be the type to do that, but i got a little insecure bc the first thing he used to do when he woke up was text me, it was a little cute thing we had, our dynamic. we texted a lot! i really used to feel like i was the first thing on his mind whenevrr he woke up, and i had gotten a little sad thinking he now was waking up, spending hours alone, and lying about his waking hours just so he doesnt have to text me back. this + him being so distant carved a little hole in my heart and i began to think he really didnt like my presence that much.
so i decided to talk to him about it, to let him know i had been feeling a bit uncared for and a little insecure; i explained how i always saw him online for hours and i also mentioned how he wasnt the way he was with me with his friends, and if he could please show me he still cared through reassuring me or something.
i didnt think this problem would escalate and i never even considered breaking up with him, to me it was just an 'asking for reassurance' type of thing; however, he got super defensive and lashed out at me.
he told me the app is wrong and hes never online, and that i dont know what im talking about. he said i was essentially accusing him of lying and he was super pissed at me.
he didnt reassure me at all; and his way of fixing this situation? he turned off his status activity so i couldnt see him online anymore, and said: 'there, now u cant see shit'.
i felt disrespected bc to me it showed he was more concerned over being seen as a 'liar', than to actually reassure me and than to make sure i felt loved, and so i broke up with him. he saw me very nervous and crying my eyes out while i was being vulnerable and sharing my feelings (i struggle a bit with that as i tend to bottle things up) and all he did was defend himself while being rude and insensitive. this was a few weeks back. i dont know if i overreacted but at the time it felt like the right thing to do.
i wanted a third person view on this whole thing to really figure out if i actually overreacted and if i should reach out to him to try and talk things through, since now im doubting my own choices. thank you for reading. sorry if my english isnt great, not a native speaker. was it an overreaction on my part?
tl;dr: i broke up with my bf since he didnt reassure me when i asked due to his recently distant personality and constantly appearing online in apps when he was allegedly asleep.
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he had always been chatty and very curious about my day and always asked questions, he was very present but became very distant. this lasted for around 3 weeks. i felt like my presence wasnt wanted nor needed.
at the same time this was happening, i always saw his status appearing as Online on instagram, at the time he was supposed to be asleep, while i was away at work (i work very early mornings). i say 'as he was supposed to be asleep' bc he would text me back( like 5 hours after) saying 'good morning, just woke up'.
i know apps can bug and can be faulty, but this has never happened before in the 7 months we were dating, and it kept happening EVERYDAY for 3 whole weeks.
him texting and talking to another girl honestly didnt even cross my mind bc idk if he'd be the type to do that, but i got a little insecure bc the first thing he used to do when he woke up was text me, it was a little cute thing we had, our dynamic. we texted a lot! i really used to feel like i was the first thing on his mind whenevrr he woke up, and i had gotten a little sad thinking he now was waking up, spending hours alone, and lying about his waking hours just so he doesnt have to text me back. this + him being so distant carved a little hole in my heart and i began to think he really didnt like my presence that much.
so i decided to talk to him about it, to let him know i had been feeling a bit uncared for and a little insecure; i explained how i always saw him online for hours and i also mentioned how he wasnt the way he was with me with his friends, and if he could please show me he still cared through reassuring me or something.
i didnt think this problem would escalate and i never even considered breaking up with him, to me it was just an 'asking for reassurance' type of thing; however, he got super defensive and lashed out at me.
he told me the app is wrong and hes never online, and that i dont know what im talking about. he said i was essentially accusing him of lying and he was super pissed at me.
he didnt reassure me at all; and his way of fixing this situation? he turned off his status activity so i couldnt see him online anymore, and said: 'there, now u cant see shit'.
i felt disrespected bc to me it showed he was more concerned over being seen as a 'liar', than to actually reassure me and than to make sure i felt loved, and so i broke up with him. he saw me very nervous and crying my eyes out while i was being vulnerable and sharing my feelings (i struggle a bit with that as i tend to bottle things up) and all he did was defend himself while being rude and insensitive. this was a few weeks back. i dont know if i overreacted but at the time it felt like the right thing to do.
i wanted a third person view on this whole thing to really figure out if i actually overreacted and if i should reach out to him to try and talk things through, since now im doubting my own choices. thank you for reading. sorry if my english isnt great, not a native speaker. was it an overreaction on my part?
tl;dr: i broke up with my bf since he didnt reassure me when i asked due to his recently distant personality and constantly appearing online in apps when he was allegedly asleep.
2024.05.15 00:23 Majestic_Lie7483 Friend zone stereotypes
Keeping it short and simple I met this cute girl in college, after 2 years of studying and hanging out together, i asked her if she liked me, not only she said that she didnāt, on top of that said she had a boyfriend and didnāt expect this from me, (since when did politely confessing love to someone became offensive), I didnāt knew she had a boyfriend and after this encounter didnāt spoke to her for a straight month. When i did join our friend circle (you canāt survive studying alone, you will need a group for projects), this girl had told her best friend that i was trying out on her even though she had a boyfriend and is disappointed on me, no matter how many times i tell her i did not know of her boyfriend (i donāt give 2 fucks about your stupid boyfriend whoever he is) she just goes around saying that i tried to hit on her knowing well she had a boyfriend. Now i only stay in her group for group projects and because rest of the class is kinda rude to an introvert guy like me. So our group is my only option and her face just keeps reminding me of how much i used to love her and depression both at the same time. Although we are good friends she now thinks after rejecting me, it is a good idea to stop me from being friends with some other guys in college who drink and smoke (stoners are the chill guys in college never forced me to do anything rash, just wanted help in assignments and you can have great chat with them any point of time, not like fake friends who copy your assignments and then block you or insult you in class) if any other person would have said i was making friends who are bad influence, I would not have found it as irksome as she telling me this after rejecting me and spreading fake rumours about my ill intent (what are you except being my friend? A girlfriend i never had?)so you guys do the justice and give tips for me in this situation, remember, our marks depend on this friend zoned relationship. I have to stay a friend for projects. Also if i ever had a girlfriend, i would not want her to be nagging and put her nose in my matters type. One advice is that i only meet her for work related matters otherwise i avoid her. Ask in comments for more of the backstory, whether i still like her or not.
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2024.05.15 00:19 Notactuallyashark Ragnar Zion Trail: Review and Recap
 | Iāve seen some posts over time regarding Ragnar trail races and thought Iād give an overview of my experience! My team and I just finished the Ragnar Trail relay race outside of Zion National Park this past weekend. This was my first Ragnar. Warning: this post is going to be very long. submitted by Notactuallyashark to trailrunning [link] [comments] Basic Race Overview: Ragnar trails are relay races in which a team of 8 (or 4, if you want to do double the amount of loops with half the time of breaks in between) runs from a central campsite through a series of loops. After start, one runner is always out on the course until everyone has done all of their loops. For Ragnar Zion, we each ran 15 miles (for a team total of 120 miles). Each one of us had to run three loops: - Green Loop: 4 miles, ~300 ft gain - Yellow Loop: 4 miles, ~650 ft gain - Red Loop: 7 miles, ~ 950 ft gain Each loop begins from same location which is close to the campsite. Preparation : Full disclosure, I was not team captain so I donāt have specific logistics of the sign up process. 8 of us signed up January. We had members from 3 different states and 1 from Canada. Some of us were avid runners, others ran a few 5ks before the race. I am a frequent runner and was running 15-20 miles per week mostly on trails. I didnāt do any specific training plan, but I never have even when prepping for a half marathon, etc. I donāt consider myself very competitive and all of us really just wanted to finish and have fun. Getting there/setting up: for this race Ragnar rented out Zion Ponderosa Ranch Resort. The race begins on Friday morning, but the campsite opened at noon Thursday. Our car got there around 4:30pm Thursday which Iām very thankful for: there were very few campsites left in the trees. There was also a āfieldā area without shade coverage at the ranch but we wanted the more authentic camping experience in the trees. You dropped your stuff off and were able to load it into a carriage of sorts (meant for horses) to pull up to your campsite while the driver took the car to the parking lot and took a shuttle back. I will say this process was EXTREMELY streamlined and easy, which was a definite theme the entire time during this race. I should note there was also a āglampingā option in which there was already tents set up for you with electricity, etc. but our group didnāt go for that as most of us were very happy to be camping. The Resort: Zion Ponderosa Ranch was beautiful and extremely well maintained. There was a pool and a hottub available for use and neither were ever very crowded. There was a couple actual restroom facilities that were extremely well maintained, both near each area to camp. Showers were in the same buildings and warm and free. It was advertised that there was rock climbing but nobody appeared to be doing it all weekend. There were a multitude of food options; we tried the Mexican food truck and it was legitimately the worst Mexican food Iāve had in my life, but had burgers that were being grilled outside and they were decent. My friends had the pizza inside the lodge once and it took forever to get to them but it was also good. Beer was available from the lodge and also they had a brewery with a stand with draught beer that was awesome, but I forget the name. The Expo: Tons of awesomeness here! Lots of free swag including nutrition, insole demos, physical therapy assessments and free taping, massages, chirp wheels, hot water and coffee, sāmoresā¦live music, movies. The village was small but definitely effective. There wasnāt campfires allowed in campgrounds however there were bonfires scattered around the resort. Unfortunately no show demos this race though Iāve heard at others there are. Also a store selling Ragnar swag and Zion stuff available to purchase at the lodge. Race Logistics: And now to the good stuff!! In order to get an accurate estimate of time, the team submitted our 10k road race paces. We ranged from 7:00 to 11:30 miles, most of us clustered around 10:00. Ragnar calculates that pace, bumped up due to trail conditions, to give you a start time for runner #1 and about when each consecutive runner will start. I will say we ended an hour and 45 minutes early so we had to actively estimate when to be ready ourselves! We started at 10:30 AM but the slowest teams started around 6:30 AM I believe and the fastest at 5:00 PM! When your teamās current runner is a quarter mile from the end of the loop, your team name will be displayed on a screen near the start line to alert you to send your next runner to the transition tent to exchange the bib and belt. This was a very streamlined process also. The Course: The course was made up of 3 loops. I was assigned as runner #6 of 8, because I wanted to do red-yellow-green. All three loops zigzagged through rocks, sand, and dirt with a couple road crossings. No water crossings. Mostly rocky not a lot of roots, but some. EXTREMELY well marked even in the dark. The trails never felt congested though you always saw other runners. Single tracks in spots, dirt roads in others. Everyone was extremely polite and encouraging. There were photographers posted during the daytime in spots.
The Finish Line: This part was cute. Most teams ducked into the course at the last moment to finish with their last runner. The medals they gave were wooden plaques and pretty cool, and the backs of them lined up together among your team to say ā120 ish miles together, a relay good timeā. We also got cotton tshirts included that had a cool Ragnar Zion graphic. A bit bummed we didnāt get athletic shirts as my captain had said she got at a different race before. I was able to exchange my small shirt for a larger one. Overall Impression: I mean, I LOVED doing this. The vibes were absolutely immaculate; it was truly an all-ages, all-sobrieties, all-abilities type event. The grounds were kept extremely clean and everyone was respectful at camp, and super friendly out on trail. It truly was a well oiled machine, you can tell Ragnar has the experience to put on this type of event successfully. It was exhausting and exhilarating. The only cons were how cold it was, particularly at night (around 40 degrees) and I wish the scenery reflected the beauty of the area a bit more. I would 10/10 do another Ragnar Trail, but I donāt think Iād do this one again (generally not a repeat course runner though). If you read all that hopefully you got some good information! Feel free to ask any questions! |
2024.05.15 00:14 ThoroughlyOrange 31[F4M] NJ/NY/PA- How do birds learn to fly?
They wing it!
Hi Iām Kim. Kimberly for long. Met someone on here a few months ago, really liked them, was online dating them, got completely ghosted. So Iām looking for some sort of distraction since it doesnāt seem like Iāll get an explanation. Screw you, Matt.
Iām 31, please also be at least 31. I live in NJ. Thatās in the USA. We definitely need to click. If I like you, we definitely need to video chat and we definitely need to be able to meet.
A bit about me, you ask? Certainly! I have 2 cats and one dog. I enjoy theatre, and Iām a decent singer. Iām mellow, kind, and caring. Sarcastic. Also humble (this is a joke). Love some lively banter and quick wit. I love listening to people, especially when they speak of their passions. I love learning! Iām sure I can learn a lot from here!
Iām 5ā8 (and I like being able to look up at my partner). My hair is naturally blonde, though currently itās bright red. Blue eyes. 17 tattoos. Music and concerts are fun. I love theatre. I love performing. I like other people to cook for me. Please also be around my age.
Hopefully this is enough to at least pique your interest! Please reach out on dm or chat. If you send me a joke and a nice intro about yourself, Iāll probably respond. Iām open to photos after we talk. If you just say āhiā, I definitely wonāt.
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Hi Iām Kim. Kimberly for long. Met someone on here a few months ago, really liked them, was online dating them, got completely ghosted. So Iām looking for some sort of distraction since it doesnāt seem like Iāll get an explanation. Screw you, Matt.
Iām 31, please also be at least 31. I live in NJ. Thatās in the USA. We definitely need to click. If I like you, we definitely need to video chat and we definitely need to be able to meet.
A bit about me, you ask? Certainly! I have 2 cats and one dog. I enjoy theatre, and Iām a decent singer. Iām mellow, kind, and caring. Sarcastic. Also humble (this is a joke). Love some lively banter and quick wit. I love listening to people, especially when they speak of their passions. I love learning! Iām sure I can learn a lot from here!
Iām 5ā8 (and I like being able to look up at my partner). My hair is naturally blonde, though currently itās bright red. Blue eyes. 17 tattoos. Music and concerts are fun. I love theatre. I love performing. I like other people to cook for me. Please also be around my age.
Hopefully this is enough to at least pique your interest! Please reach out on dm or chat. If you send me a joke and a nice intro about yourself, Iāll probably respond. Iām open to photos after we talk. If you just say āhiā, I definitely wonāt.
2024.05.15 00:13 Mindless_Bike4599 How long did your moral waiver take?
I began the process of joining the army reserves in February. Since then Iāve had to have a tattoo waiver, parenting plan waiver, took the asvab, got medically cleared at MEPS, and the worst part, gathering all the documents needed for a DMPM level waiver. I say it was the worst part because (not his fault) but my recruiter just didnāt know what was going to be needed for the waiver so I was a constant submit, kick back, back and forth.
Tomorrow makes week #3 since initiating the Suitability Review for 1 of the charges that was dismissed. According to my recruiter the SR needs to be approved by USAREC then it automatically changes to a Moral waiver for DMPM and from what he says, we should have it all done in 30 days (next week will be week 4)
I know I still have some time to wait so to pass the time Iām curious if other people have had the same experience as me. If so how long did your waiver take from initiation to decision made?
You donāt have to give detail to the charges if you donāt want to but Iām wondering if what my recruiter says is accurate as far as time. Plus the waiting game is killing me so I need something to keep my mind off it lol
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Tomorrow makes week #3 since initiating the Suitability Review for 1 of the charges that was dismissed. According to my recruiter the SR needs to be approved by USAREC then it automatically changes to a Moral waiver for DMPM and from what he says, we should have it all done in 30 days (next week will be week 4)
I know I still have some time to wait so to pass the time Iām curious if other people have had the same experience as me. If so how long did your waiver take from initiation to decision made?
You donāt have to give detail to the charges if you donāt want to but Iām wondering if what my recruiter says is accurate as far as time. Plus the waiting game is killing me so I need something to keep my mind off it lol
2024.05.15 00:13 Cewy67 how do I tell my ex I want him back?
(Burner account) Before I start I wanna say that this is a long one and Iām not the best at writing how I feel so sorry if this sounds all confusing now for some context I (f) have this ex letās call Liam. Me and Liam dated for a few months and back in December he broke up with me because I had been down that week. Around the holidays I always tend to get sad because thatās around the time when I lost my grand pap, childhood cat and my long time best friend. Also during that week my mother was in the hospital for a brain problem. Me and Liam had an amazing relationship he was my first kiss first love first everything , we hung out all the time my family loved him and his family loved me, we were planning on going to his moms family Christmas party. I was begging him for around an hour but to no avail. Now a few hours after that I was laying on the floor falling alseep in my best friends arms when she told me he was texting her and told me to check my phone. When I checked my phone I saw him texting me how regretted everything and how sorry he was and how we needed me so the next morning we got back together. THEN the day after that we dumped me again AFTER I found out the day we broke up he liked this girl letās call Paige. Then that Monday we came to school and he was telling everyone how sad he is but thatās whatever now this was the week of Christmas break and we were doing fun things all week so one day Iām in a study hall while everyone is watching a movie and I get an email from him saying how heās sorry and how Iām so prefect and he wants one more chance. And me being the desperate girl I am take him back. The day after he dumps me again. Now back to my point itās now may and I thought I was over him but today something happened and I miss him. I miss our long calls, our hang outs , sitting together at lunch, our cute little side jokes , making each other things and just him in general. When we broke up I started SHing and I was just depressed. I tried dated but nobody was like him. How do I tell him I miss him anything will help but Iām just scared that if he doesnāt want me back that heāll make my life even more miserable. Iām so stubborn and pride heavy so thatās why Iām coming to Reddit please someone help me thank you for reading Iāll update if anything happened
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2024.05.15 00:12 Zoeee2006 [17/F] - In the UK, looking to meet someone great nearby
Okay first off, goes without saying. If youāre like 35, please donāt message me. Iām sure youāre lovely but Iām not interested in that. Also if your post history is filled with loads of sexual stuff, also please donāt message me, sorry lol but that puts me off.
So, now thatās out the way lol. Iām Zoe, Iām 17, live in England. Iām in college, doing history, psychology and English lit. I hate it so much and cannot wait to be done with it. Iām also a gymnast, nearly made it to team GB before but I got injured and lost my chance. Hopefully will get back there this year though š
Gymnastics keeps me pretty busy, I have a lot of two a days and when Iām not training, Iām in the gym but I do try and have a life outside of that. I have two dogs who need a lot of cuddles and walks, I also like to go out a lot. I go clubbing sometimes (yes mr bouncer that ID saying Iām 20 is real I promise) and I go out with friends a lot too.
Looks wise I donāt know how to describe myself, Iām happy to just send pics but Iām like 5ā2. Blonde, good shape. I donāt know š¤·āāļø I have three tattoos too lol, yes not very legal but one of my friends is a tattoo artist so he did it for me lol.
I donāt know exactly what sorta guy Iām looking for, would prefer someone confident and active I guess, as most of what I do is outside. Also donāt be younger than me please lol. Outside of that I donāt mind.
Also, please say more than hey š effort is really attractive so please introduce yourself properly! :)
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So, now thatās out the way lol. Iām Zoe, Iām 17, live in England. Iām in college, doing history, psychology and English lit. I hate it so much and cannot wait to be done with it. Iām also a gymnast, nearly made it to team GB before but I got injured and lost my chance. Hopefully will get back there this year though š
Gymnastics keeps me pretty busy, I have a lot of two a days and when Iām not training, Iām in the gym but I do try and have a life outside of that. I have two dogs who need a lot of cuddles and walks, I also like to go out a lot. I go clubbing sometimes (yes mr bouncer that ID saying Iām 20 is real I promise) and I go out with friends a lot too.
Looks wise I donāt know how to describe myself, Iām happy to just send pics but Iām like 5ā2. Blonde, good shape. I donāt know š¤·āāļø I have three tattoos too lol, yes not very legal but one of my friends is a tattoo artist so he did it for me lol.
I donāt know exactly what sorta guy Iām looking for, would prefer someone confident and active I guess, as most of what I do is outside. Also donāt be younger than me please lol. Outside of that I donāt mind.
Also, please say more than hey š effort is really attractive so please introduce yourself properly! :)
2024.05.15 00:11 KFRodrig My 4 yr old daughter says she made Hua Cheng š„¹
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2024.05.15 00:09 Confident_Nature_511 Help translating tattoo?
 | Hi everyone! submitted by Confident_Nature_511 to tibetanlanguage [link] [comments] My husband has a tattoo of what we think might be in tibetan script. He had this tattoo done when he was young and drunk, and doesn't really remember how he came about to getting this particular writing as a tattoo. Is our theory about the language right and if so, could anyone help us translating what it says - if it even says anything? Thank you very much in advance! |
2024.05.15 00:03 CustomerSalt9098 Are my parents narcissists? Pls help !
I am not sure but i think my parents are very narcissistic. My dad told me once laughing together with my mom that he noticed my teeth were yellow due to smoking when i started hanging with my drug addicted friends....he then laughed again and said that i was "gone" exactly as they were./// I felt so ridiculed but it was a miracle i left that friendgroup. My parents reaction was so weird though. The second instance was when i told my mom about a stalker i had and that i was afraid he had photos of my body(its a complicated story). I explained that i became afraid of men and had a general fear of my body. My mom very callously said that everyone has seen us sometimes naked so its not a big thing. The third instance was when we went at my mother 's family side on holiday. She used to brag about what a cute girl i was and would go on to tell everyone at the table how she would pinch me with a needle as a baby anytime i used to touch things she did not want me to. Her eyes shined. She was also the first to say that you need to slapp the children until their eyes sparkle. I am going crazy ! There are many other stuff but these instances just trigger me the most.They are nice sometimes but something doesnt feel right about them. Who are they?
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