Medical office resume for graduates

I'm 19F and doing Articleship in mid sized firm. I joined the firm in March 2024 so till now it was mostly learning phase. My firm has litigation work and mostly tax audit and one internal audit and one stat audit and tds. So the thing is we have two CAs under one principal and articles are divided into them. So the things is one(let's call her S) of the CAs have good cliental base( has big clients and stat audit and internal audit) but the other(her N) has not of that great(has only tax audit and no stat audit). We are not allowed to do other teams work.
And the biggest L is I'm in N team so I don't get any great work to do. I have learnt doing litigation work but idk how to do tds or audit work. I was assigned a big tax audit client but since there were no seniors and the work was not that urgent, I didn't get to learn anything from that audit and I had to take medical leave for 4 weeks from 6 may.
Idk what to do anymore. I feel like I'm not learning anything and I feel like I'll miss the peak season where u get to learn many things. The other girl who got in S team got very big stat audit Client and she is learning a lot.
I do try to sit with her and learn but my principal doesn't like that I'm not doing any work (instead I'm learning something).
I had to take leave because of medical reason and idk when will be back to office. I really want to learn many things and go for industrial training but now I'm not sure if I'll be able to do this.
Seniors please give me suggestions as i feel like I'm missing out on important things which is going to be important in future.

For context, I am a PHRN with a 1 year clinical/bedside experience. I finally got tired of being overworked and underpaid I decided to switch careers. When I started looking for BPO/VA/Medical related office jobs, I found one that stated it was a non-voice PHRN account. It was also a hybrid/wfh position and the location was near where I reside so I applied for it. Eventually, I got in but during my orientation and training, It was then revealed it's a voice account. During my interview, I did inquire about it but the interviewer kind of dodged it and asked me another question so I got sidetracked. He did say I'd also partake calls in the job but I thought it meant taking some calls only like 20% of the shift not the entirety of the job.
Currently, I am still in the company for a probationary period as I am still under training but I am also looking for other jobs as I train. I am a bit anxious about being under a voice account since I do not know what to expect and I don't know how the actual job goes.
PROS ABOUT THE JOB:

• Good financial compensation
• WFH after training

CONS ABOUT THE JOB:

• Voice account

I am planning to resign after the 3 month mark if I find another job but I do wonder if it's worth staying for the experience? Or should I focus on job hunting?

A person is going through identity theft and medical fraud. This is leading to the person not being able to receive proper medical attention (urgent care is needed) due to someone else claiming their medical insurance. They have gone through steps to rectify this issue, they have made police reports, have gone to the medical office to report the medical fraud, have gone through the social security office and have not been able to resolve the issue at all. The insurance office obtained proof that the person's identity was illegally being used to obtain free insurance but were not able to stop the other person from reclaiming the insurance. As far as I am aware the other person is using the victim's full legal name and social.
The victim was been able to obtain medical insurance for a brief period of time, however, it was later denied thus they cannot continue treatment.
What else can be done? Are there other professionals that can be sought out to resolve this issue from the root problem?

Final year student here, doing internships ie being worked like a house officer without any pay before graduating. Have been enjoying the work thus far but the learning curve is really really steep, sometimes feeling out of my depth especially when rounds are really fast. Not helping that my partner, fellow classmate seems to be able to keep up with the speed of orders. Then the breaking point came today, had a senior doctor straight up tell me I did not have a good attitude because I gave off “playful” vibes. In actuality, I just laugh nervously a lot because of how anxious I am all the time. I reach the hospitals before the doctors do, and leave together with them. I step up to every single opportunity to learn, I do my very best to observe and ask questions. In all my years of medical school, I have never ever been told I’ve a bad attitude. The only other time I’ve been scolded badly was when I was a year 2 student, and was told by the consultant that I lacked knowledge. But she also added that I had a really good learning attitude and she was sure I’d be able to bridge that gap in no time. It really really stings when this senior doctor I’ve barely worked with says this to me. I feel maligned, I feel indignant, and a small part of me is also worried that she’s right.
I’m wondering how people who have been in similar situations deal with these emotions. I’ll be happy to know that I’m not the only one.

im sorry for the long post. i had to get it out.
I had never had a panic attack in my life. I'm 34. I woke up on Mother's Day and my whole right side felt strange. Tingling, numb. I felt this sense of dread. I don't usually go to the ER for anything, but I felt like I had to. My partner drove me. As we drove the 30 or so minutes to the ER, the symptoms got worse. The tingling, but now a tightening in my chest and a pain when I breathed in too much. I began hyperventilating and I was 100 percent sure I was having a stroke. I'm telling my poor partner I'm dying. It's happening rn and I'm so sorry. I'm telling them I love them. By this point, my wholw body is vibrating, like I was turned to the static channel. And then my hands cramped up and my feet too. My mouth drooped and my speech began slurring. I was dry heaving. it was the most intense and terrifying experience of my life.
We get to the hospital and he runs inside and tells them he thinks I'm having a stroke. Everyone inside looks bored....or not concerned. I get back pretty quickly and the nurses rip my shirt off and start sticking shit on me. One of the nurses told me I was panicking and I needed to breathe. I wasn't having a stroke, it was a panic attack. After some time my hands uncramped. The doctor tells me it's a panic attack but they were still going to do tests.
everything came back normal. my blood pressure was 180/110. They gave me BP meds and sent me home with literature on blood pressure.
I worked the next day against doctors orders. My Jon informed me it would be okay as my job isn't "strenuous" (I work as a behavioral specialist in a group home for girls). Everything was fine with my shift. I knew I had to eventually follow up with a primary but my insurance had not kicked in at work yet. I was just waiting it out.
Turns out, I was not fine. The next day I had off and I relaxed and bed rotted as much as I could. I hadn't slept much since Sunday. I was so scared of it happening again. Wednesday was a treatment meeting with all the staff. As I'm sitting there, that fucking tingling started. I had done some reading in case this happened. I said my ABCs, I sang the lyrics to, "I saw the signs" in my head, tried to engage with people, but by this point I looked absolutely insane, I'm sure. my head was covered in sweat. I managed to get up and ask my boss to step outside with me. she escorted me to her office and I just let it all out. I'm crying and shaking and trying to explain what's happening. she's talking to me and asking questions but I can barely keep up.
I'm told I need to go to the walk in clinic and get anxiety meds immediately (by my boss). she told me to call. I call and they tell me I can't do a walk in, I need mental health help. they transfer me to another person. that person is very confused as to why I was given blood pressure meds for a panic attack. she tells me I'm having an emergency event and need to go to the er and I needed to call an ambulance. I tell her I can't afford that. My mom was on her way. I was not alone. All this while I'm crying shaking and feeling very out of control. it was definitely nowhere near the first, though. That was insane.
I get to the ER and this time, they get a health history, they give me something for anxiety, they give me resources for trauma, they are much more understanding and helpful than the first time. I'm really very grateful for then.
But now I'm on medical leave until I "sort this out" as my boss says. I have an appointment on the 30th for a primary follow up followed by a meeting with a therapist. I'm very confused. Why? Why out of nowhere? I do not want to talk about my feelings and trauma. I don't remember much of the details anymore. I just want to be okay. I'm scared I'm still going to die. I feel like a loser for having a panic attack in the middle of a fucking meeting. I'm embarrassed. I'm just sitting at home with nothing to do until the 30th.
How are you guys doing?

I’m 55, happily married and a mother to 2 daughters, 20F and 23F. While they’ve both had their fair share of struggles, my 20 year old is in excelling at school, has a wonderful boyfriend and many friends, and has goals and is on track to get her Masters degree.
My 23 year old, however is struggling. She graduated with her bachelor’s last year and found an internship and work right away, however, neither of these were ideal environments and her job eventually ended up firing her after 6 months. She still has a part time job she does a few hours a couple times a week, and recently she did find a job but quit after one day because she alleged the staff was being bigoted to clients. I don’t feel that she is trying hard enough to find a full time job she likes and I have encouraged her to apply to work from home with my company, but she refuses to apply to the job postings I send her 90% of the time and sometimes makes up silly excuses not to. She also does not pull her weight around the house whatsoever and lies around all day claiming she’s cleaning her room or applying for jobs. She does neither, her room is a disaster, and I am starting to feel put upon.
On top of that, she is absolutely obsessed with K-Pop. It started with the band BTS a couple years ago during the pandemic and I thought it would end when she told me they went into the military for 2 years, but she has now moved on to another band. This wouldn’t be a problem since I love how it has given her friends since she’s always struggled with that in school due to her shyness and anxiety, but I recently found out she has paid over a grand for 2 VIP concerts tickets to see them this summer and was furious. She also spends a lot of money on albums and trading cards. I also worry for her safety as despite her anxiety with other things she has risked camping out for shows in major cities overnight with internet strangers and plans to do so again for the shows this summer, and has expressed several times that she wants to fly out across the country for special events that take place there and gets very overemotional when there is something happening she cannot attend, or I discourage her. Her new band was playing at a music festival across the country a few months ago and she wanted to fly out last minute with a friend she had only met once, and of course I told her I would not support that type of risky behavior in my household and she conceded.
She also has not had a boyfriend since a brief attempt at a relationship in early 2020 and a longer term one 2017-2019 that ended when both guys had to move away, and recently expressed me she doesn’t think she is attracted to men, and I worry it’s because this obsession has completely engulfed her romantic and sex life. I don’t think she is gay, because of the way I see her and her friends talk about these boy bands, but she claims many of her friends are. I thought she expressed mild interest in a coworker at her internship and they set up a date to hang out, but she was very nervous and kept saying she didn’t want the hang out to be a date. He turned out to be gay, and she exclaimed how relieved she was about this to me. I just don’t want her to be lonely and to have a partner in life.
Finally, at the root of the problem she has severe anxiety she refuses to treat. She was also diagnosed ADD as a child and claims she doesn’t think she has it but has Aspergers/autism spectrum instead. She has a severe medical phobia and has been fighting us on taking her wisdom teeth out for the past 6 years after the first attempt traumatized her, and has expressed she would rather live with a severe illness and let it run it’s course than decide to have a needed surgery. I have encouraged her to seek therapy or hypnosis to no avail. It’s like she would rather suffer than get adequate help, and I believe this is where all of her issues stem from. I am at the end of my rope with her and I have expressed fear that she will end up homeless, broke and alone when her father and I are no longer around and cannot afford to accommodate her in our home anymore. I know this is a long one, but any advice is appreciated.
TL;DR adult daughter is unemployed, socially stunted and irresponsible and refuses to get help from me.

I have ADD Inattentive and currently working as an illustrator (in office). I have loads of deadlines to meet and I don't usually take my medication (because migraines). For the life of me, I have taken my medication as last resort and still cannot focus and stay on task.
My usual go to when I feel paralyzed like this is to write a bunch of task lists (small step by step for each big task) but even that has been a no go today.
I cannot go home because I was just recently very sick for 3 weeks and I don't want to use more sick leave. My boss is very understanding but I don't want to worry her. She knows that I have ADD and understands as her daughter has it, too.
I don't want to give up. Any suggestions, please? Thank you so much! I really appreciate it.🌈

I (26F) have been having employment issues for over a year despite having a masters degree in public administration/certificate in health administration and top grades (long story short I had two job that I was not qualified for and they hired me anyways, only for them to fire me afterwards a few months later leading to a gap).
I got to the point that I was applying to ANY job just to get the skills/references. And then I sent a general application to a religious elementary school I used to go to.
I had an initial call with them and it all went well, I am going for a trial day next Thursday to see if I am the right fit . There were no administrative positions but there were open spots for assistant teachers in the Early Childhood Department for Pre-K.
Now this didn't bother me because:

1. I am close friends with someone who works in the department
2. My capstone was about children's education during distance learning and future economic prospects
3. I have extensive volunteer experience working in my local temples children's program and very good references
4. Salary (which can be $19 according to the school's Glassdoor) is not my biggest concern at the moment, my concern is getting work/references.

5)Schedule is flexible aside from departmental meetings
6) Doesn't require me to get any teaching degrees, only certifications in the state (NY) that I'm currently in.
However I am worried about the future as well because I hope to eventually move to Washington DC in a couple years, which will mean I have to leave the job eventually and find a new one. And I'm worried by taking this position as a Pre-K assistant teacher I'm nuking any chances of ever working directly within the policy world or for local communities.
My questions really are then:

1. Should I take the job if offered? Most likely I won't be starting until the 2024-2025 semester which starts in September. Which gives me three months not looking for a job in anticipation of working there. I live with my parents so rent and food is not an issue for now but it'll be a hard stop on spending. If so....
2. Should I take the job if offered but let them know if I get a position in my field by the summer more relevant I have to decline it?
3. If I take the job, how can I leverage it for work I want to do, especially since its an assistant teacher job for Pre-K? Just searching around I could get involved in my local religious community more when it comes to work but they also require office experience. What about writing samples? How could I realistically leverage this position for other teaching jobs with better pay in the future?Another option could be local community centers?

My main issue regarding it all is that I mainly have internship experience currently on my resume for the more administrative jobs which may tank other prospects in the future for me.

I (26F) have been having employment issues for over a year despite having a masters degree in public administration/certificate in health administration and top grades (long story short I had two job that I was not qualified for and they hired me anyways, only for them to fire me afterwards a few months later leading to a gap).
I got to the point that I was applying to ANY job just to get the skills/references. And then I sent a general application to a religious elementary school I used to go to.
I had an initial call with them and it all went well, I am going for a trial day next Thursday to see if I am the right fit There were no administrative positions but there were open spots for assistant teachers in the Early Childhood Department for Pre-K.
Now this didn't bother me because:

1. I am close friends with someone who works in the department
2. My capstone was about children's education during distance learning and future economic prospects
3. I have extensive volunteer experience working in my local temples children's program and very good references
4. Salary (which can be $19 according to the school's Glassdoor) is not my biggest concern at the moment, my concern is getting work/references.

5)Schedule is flexible aside from departmental meetings
6) Doesn't require me to get any teaching degrees, only certifications in the state (NY) that I'm currently in.
However I am worried about the future as well because I hope to eventually move to Washington DC in a couple years, which will mean I have to leave the job eventually and find a new one. And I'm worried by taking this position as a Pre-K assistant teacher I'm nuking any chances of ever working directly within the policy world or for local communities.
My questions really are then:

1. Should I take the job if offered? Most likely I won't be starting until the 2024-2025 semester which starts in September. Which gives me three months not looking for a job in anticipation of working there. I live with my parents so rent and food is not an issue for now but it'll be a hard stop on spending. If so....
2. Should I take the job if offered but let them know if I get a position in my field by the summer more relevant I have to decline it?
3. If I take the job, how can I leverage it for work I want to do, especially since its an assistant teacher job for Pre-K? Just searching around I could get involved in my local religious community more when it comes to work but they also require office experience. What about writing samples? How could I realistically leverage this position for other teaching jobs with better pay in the future?Another option could be local community centers?

My main issue regarding it all is that I mainly have internship experience currently on my resume for the more administrative jobs which may tank other prospects in the future for me.

21M, just graduated from college. I have a job lined up at one of the biggest banks but it's for a rotational program that takes you through roles like financial analysis, project management, etc. (aka back office, slightly middle office). I'd really like to break into an asset/wealth management role that is front office, aka meeting with and talking to clients to manage their money.
Any advice on how to transition from a financial analyst type role to something like this? My program is two years and I do plan to network as much as possible to hopefully shift within my bank to an AWM role. I also plan on getting my CFA Level 1 license asap and then working towards level 2 as well. I was even considering getting a CPA but idk if that's actually worth it. And possibly getting securities licenses as well.
Any advice/success stories are appreciated!

I (26F) have been having employment issues for over a year despite having a masters degree in public administration/certificate in health administration and top grades (long story short I had two job that I was not qualified for and they hired me anyways, only for them to fire me afterwards a few months later leading to a gap).
I got to the point that I was applying to ANY job just to get the skills/references. And then I sent a general application to a religious elementary school I used to go to.
I had an initial call with them and it all went well, I am going for a trial day next Thursday to see if I am the right fitThere were no administrative positions but there were open spots for assistant teachers in the Early Childhood Department for Pre-K.
Now this didn't bother me because:

1. I am close friends with someone who works in the department
2. My capstone was about children's education during distance learning and future economic prospects
3. I have extensive volunteer experience working in my local temples children's program and very good references
4. Salary (which can be $19 according to the school's Glassdoor) is not my biggest concern at the moment, my concern is getting work/references.

5)Schedule is flexible aside from departmental meetings
6) Doesn't require me to get any teaching degrees, only certifications in the state (NY) that I'm currently in.
However I am worried about the future as well because I hope to eventually move to Washington DC in a couple years, which will mean I have to leave the job eventually and find a new one. And I'm worried by taking this position as a Pre-K assistant teacher I'm nuking any chances of ever working directly within the policy world or for local communities.
My questions really are then:

1. Should I take the job if offered? Most likely I won't be starting until the 2024-2025 semester which starts in September. Which gives me three months not looking for a job in anticipation of working there. I live with my parents so rent and food is not an issue for now but it'll be a hard stop on spending. If so....
2. Should I take the job if offered but let them know if I get a position in my field by the summer more relevant I have to decline it?
3. If I take the job, how can I leverage it for work I want to do, especially since its an assistant teacher job for Pre-K? Just searching around I could get involved in my local religious community more when it comes to work but they also require office experience. What about writing samples? How could I realistically leverage this position for other teaching jobs with better pay in the future?Another option could be local community centers?

My main issue regarding it all is that I mainly have internship experience currently on my resume for the more administrative jobs which may tank other prospects in the future for me.

Long story short, six months ago I thought I had my dream job. For a variety of reasons, I’ve had to resign and return to my home city (Leeds) and now I’m back into job hunting. I am actually clueless on where to start, I have a degree unfortunately in International Relations with half a year in France (meant to be a year but 2020 lmao) and a post graduate diploma in the same subject. Now a good ol’ five months of experience in a NHS office job, and two years working as a supervisoradio operator for an events company.
I’m just wondering if anyone actually has any career ideas that I could look into who have also done a degree in politics or international relations. Am I too old to look at graduate schemes now? Or apprenticeships. I’ve been denied already for a few for being overqualified I’ve already began to spam apply for jobs in every field possible but I’m worried I’m at the awful point where I’m overqualified for some jobs but under qualified for everything else. I’m luckily in a financially sound position currently so I’m happy to take a job cut, I just want to find a career that I can progress into. Or at least hold the reins until I can learn how to drive.
Any advice would be great as I’m clueless and on like application number 50

Hey folks,
Looking for some friendly advice from the techy folks here!
YOE: ~6
Studies: Btech CSE from a tier 3 college
Working as: Presales/Delivery
Monthly Salary: 1.5L
Mode: Working from office
TLDR; Wanting to switch to a tech role to meet my long-term career and financial goals and want some guidance to kick-start my learning journey. 6 YOE in Presales/Delivery and Product Management and now rethinking career choices. Need help to select the next career path, should I think about becoming a full stack developer, cloud engineer or something else.
So, here's the scoop: I've been cruising through the semi-tech world for about 6 years now after getting my B.Tech in CS from a not-so-glamorous college in MP. My college was more about CS theory than actual coding and I was also interested in semi-tech roles like presales/ customer success etc.
Started off as a Presales engineer (semi-tech role) in a big shot Storage MNC in Bengaluru, doing all sorts of fancy(haha !) stuff like quoting, sizing, and drawing data of data centres. Got a few certifications along the way like ISM, but I soon realized I was stuck in a bubble of boredom and no learning. So, I took a leap into a startup, hoping for some SaaS/Cloud action. Turned out, it was more like a secret society with a proprietary solution – cue the NDA! Which I did not sign as my role didn’t require knowing the core solution.

Fast forward I asked to be moved into product management (where I was pretty much self-taught) and boy was it a roller coaster ride, I delivered multiple products from scratch which are now live in the market. My ride stopped after one day a new director of products came and wanted to bring his old PM pals with him.

and now I'm back in the presales/delivery support grind. It's not exactly thrilling, and I can't help but envy my friends who started with tech roles while I was busy preaching against the likes of CTS and TCS (Karma!). They all are settled in their roles and have solid skills whereas all I have is a bunch of soft skills like client communication, project management etc :P

Now, with the company hitting financial potholes, it's time for me to dust off the ol' resume and start hunting. But here's the kicker: I'm terrified of interviews! I feel like I'm still living under a rock, clueless about what's happening outside my bubble.
If I make a switch now, I will get in to similar role and this story above might repeat again.

So, here I am, seeking your wisdom. Where do I even begin? I want to transition in to a tech role to have better freedom and flexibility like a hybrid working model and freelancing.
What can I look into, Full-stack developer? Cloud engineer? Or is there something else out there that's worth looking into?
Hit me up with your best advice, or just a virtual high-five if you have reached till here.
Thanks and Cheers!

Hi, I'm an international graduate student and have some questions about marketplace insurance. My program started on Fall 2021, I was single back then and on the school's insurance plan. I got married May 2022 with my wife back home and for Fall 2022 she already had her F-2 visa and was coming to the US. The school's family insurance got incredibly expensive when you added one more person, to the point that I would have had 10$ or so for groceries. This freaked me out, so a lady at the school's insurance office refered me to a former student who runs an insurance business and he helped us get a marketplace insurance which was super comfortable. We paid like 40$ a month the first full year (2023) and this year we were paying less than a dollar a month. We've used the service two or three times and haven't been charged at the healthcare facilities.
For my 2022 taxes (I had insurance for that Fall), the insurance broker sent me to an accountant and said they would handle everything. I went, got charged 75$ for their service and paid like 150$ in taxes. This year for my 2023 taxes I decided to try avoiding the 75$ fee and go to a local place called Centro Hispano, over there I showed the lady my paperwork for the previous year and she started asking me about a 600$ penalty I needed to have paid (to the IRS?) the year before because my F-2 wife is covered by the plan. First time I heard about this and it freaked me out a bit. Although 600$ (+ low monthly fee) is not a bad deal for the insurance we've been having, I wans't looking forward to losing 600-1200$ I "thought I had saved". I asked my insurance broker about this and he said I just needed to file my taxes with the accountant that he recommended me last year and that they knew how to handle this. So I went to the same place I went the year before, had to pay over twice what I paid the year before on taxes and asked about this penalty and the accountant didn't seem to know what I was talking about.
This week I received an online document from the insurance guy which stated among other things, that they were not responsible for any penalties or fees that I didn't pay. I've been asking this guy about this fee, and he has either insisted that he mentioned it or saying that "he thought the accountant would handle it". I don't care about blaming anyone, it's not like if I have money to pay attornees, my big concern is that the government thinks that I've "been getting away" with having a good insurance for me and my wife while avoiding paying the penalties. Back when we first heard about the penalty, we did some online research, and it might be that I as an F-1 student also need to pay this penalty because I haven't been living 5 years or more in the US.
At this point, I just want to know whether I owe money to anyone, how much, how to pay, who to ask for help....? Thanks to you all for sharing your experiences.

Hi all, been in the workforce for a year now. Started my career as an Insurance Broker after graduation last year but, always wanted to get in Finance/wealth management. I recently got offered a role where I would be a Private Client Associate at a large Wealth Management firm, where to company would provide me with the opportunity to persue all licenses (SIE, Series 7, 66). And eventually grow into a wealth manager where I was told that I would manage accounts in 2-3 years since much of the office is older. My only concern is the daily commute that I would have of 1.5 hours each way. Yes, I could relocate but rent prices are crazy by the area. Has anyone had this experience of being in this role? And if wealth management isn’t for me can this role help landing other roles? Such as equity research, analyst, etc? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks so much.

Hello. I graduated from undergrad in may 2022 with 25k in federal loans (mix of subsidized and unsub) as well as an 18k private loan at 9%APR. I began repayment in December 2023. I am currently working full time before starting medical school in July. The federal loans are all about 5-7% APR.
I had a few questions about my best coarse of action:
I currently have about 30k cash saved up from working, and want to make the most of it.

1. Im currently planning to pay off the private loan entirely, as from what I understand private education loans are not eligible for PSLF. (the servicer is collegeave)
   
2. Since I am currently in repayment, can I apply for the SAVE plan for my undergrad loans before starting medical school? My income based off 2023 tax returns was high, however, I was hoping that I could appeal it with a letter from my employer that my employment has ended etc. As you know, my income from july onward will be $0. I want to do this in hope to minimize interest accrual during med school.
   
3. For the remainder of my income, I wanted to open a SoFi high interest savings account.
   

Do these ideas all sound solid? or is there something that would be more wise?

• How old are you? What's your gender? Give us a general description of yourself.
I'm 17 years old about to be 18 this year. I'm a female, about to enter college in a few months but still unsure of the path I want to take. I don have a lot of hobbies a side from reading and dancing.
• Is there a medical diagnosis that may impact your mental stability somehow?
I was diagnosed with GAD. These past month I have been having a lot of panics attacks and now, depression. One of the effects of how I cope with depression is Maladative daydreaming.
• Describe your upbringing. Did it have any kind of religious or structured influence? How did you respond to it?
I grew up in a well-off household, but was taken care of by a caretaker instead of my parents. I never took my parents as religious nor did I felt our household was religious. I remember my grandmother praying every night with the rosary but she's not very imposive of religious practices. That's why I was at awe when I told my mother I don't really belive there's a god and she got really angry at me. I'm agnostic now, I don't really care if there's a god or not, I have more important things to focus on than that.
• What do you do as a job or as a career (if you have one)? Do you like it? Why or why not?
I'm currently in my final year of high school (or in my country, SHS). I'm thinking of getting in the field of biomedical engineering. I've always knew I wanted to be in the field of medicine, but I have realized that I was not meant for the "service" part of it, rather more of the research and how to apply biology in medicine.
• If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?
I would feel refreshed. Maybe, a bit used to it? Though, there would probably be points where I feel lonely or scared, but then I'll realize that I enjoy more being alone when people are constantly around me. Especially, when I'm focusing on something.
• What kinds of activities do you prefer? Do you like, and are you good at sports? Do you enjoy any other outdoor or indoor activities?
I'm not very good at sports, the only sport I play was golf and I was okay at it. I definitely enjoy indoor activities for the most part, but I do love eating outside and exploring new restaurants.
• How curious are you? Do you have more ideas then you can execute? What are your curiosities about? What are your ideas about - is it environmental or conceptual, and can you please elaborate?
I feel like in a horror movie, once you leave me alone and I hear a sound, I'll definitely check it lol.
I think I like bringing my ideas to life. In a practical sense of having an idea to go somewhere to having a crazy idea on "what will happen if I do this and this?", and you'll definitely see me do it.
Well, my ideas ranges to anything that I find interesting really. I do have a huge interest biology and most specifically, medical biology and health physics.
• Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?
I avoid leadership as much as possible, or all the time basically. Even though I probably should lead the group I usually just stay quiet and support the one leading the group if they need help.
I don't think I would be good at it, I'm not a decisive person at all, and on top of that I get easily anxious and think that I'm doing is wrong. Unless, I'm very confident of my ideas.
• Are you coordinated? Why do you feel as if you are or are not? Do you enjoy working with your hands in some form? Describe your activity?
I'm very clumsy, and I often feel a bit detached from what is happening around me. I do enjoy working with my hands, currently, I'm making an arts and craft object for my friend for her upcoming graduation and a gift. And I just feel at peace I guess when at some point I'm doing the same thing over and over again and I can space out for a bit.
• Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art? If you are not particular artistic but can appreciate art please likewise describe what forums of art you enjoy. Please explain your answer.
That's the one thing I am absolutely sure I am not. I do enjoy theater and music. I grew up with the influence of ballet when I was younger and everyone's dream around me is to be in theater. I guess, being surrounded by those influence and made me appreciate the little technicalities I see in those shows.
• What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?
My past is a mess, present is fine, and future is scary.
I always deeply regret that I could have done something more in the past, but present me is surviving and I consider that as fine. On the subject of the future, I'm scared of it, I'm scared of failing.
• How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?
I'll definitely help them ASAP, I feel a bit responsible as someone they confided in for help.
• Do you need logical consistency in your life?
I'd say, I definitely do.
• How important is efficiency and productivity to you?
I do get satisfaction when something is done. Efficiency is of course very important for me, especially, in the things I need to do. Productivity is something that I feel good about, but there are days where I don't mind that it's not there.
• Do you control others, even if indirectly? How and why do you do that?
At some point, yes? I feel like I do control them in a sense if that something affects me and if I don't want to do something or for them do to something, I do meddle in.
• What are your hobbies? Why do you like them?
Reading, it feels like an escape from everything that's going on around me. While dancing is the same thing although more frustrating.
• What is your learning style? What kind of learning environments do you struggle with most? Why do you like/struggle with these learning styles? Do you prefer classes involving memorization, logic, creativity, or your physical senses?
I struggle the most with creativity, I feel like aside from I'm not a creative person, I feel like I'm doing something wrong. I do like logic and the application of it's theories, and memorization too.
• How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?
I'd say I'm okay at it? Not an expert at it. I like to do things as I go. So, if I feel like this is a task I should do, everything else follows.
• What are your aspirations in life, professionally and personally?
To finish my degree, get a scholarship from an another country for my masters, work in a lab, and make a good living.
• What are your fears? What makes you uncomfortable? What do you hate? Why?
I hate the dark, I hate what's in them. I'm also scared to fail, I don't want other people to pity me.
• What do the "highs" in your life look like?
Doing well academically, socially active, organized, and contented.
• What do the "lows" in your life look like?
Escaping reality, trying to off myself, and withdrawing from everyone.
• How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what's around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?
When I daydream often, for me, it's a sign that things aren't doing well mentally. I try not to pay attention to the people around me, almost like it's intentional that I do that.
• Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about?
What will happen to me in this room? And I need to figure out why I am here.
• How long do you take to make an important decision? And do you change your mind once you've made it?
I am an indecisive person, but I do often change my mind on something if the other decisions start making sense for me.
• How long do you take to process your emotions? How important are emotions in your life?
It does take a while, I usually brush my feelings until I realize that it's on it's final leg. I do think emotion is needed, but too much is a burden.
• Do you ever catch yourself agreeing with others just to appease them and keep the conversation going? How often? Why?
It really depends on the topic. If it's just a non-serious or trivial topics, I just nod and don't bother replying at all to them, but if it's a serious one, I try to set my opinions and facts straight.
• Do you break rules often? Do you think authority should be challenged, or that they know better? If you do break rules, why?
At some point you're going to break rules in an institution. I don't actively or seek to break rules, but if the time comes and it's for the better, I will. Also, if the rules don't make sense, I don't even even try to follow it. I think authority should be challenged if there are people suffering or having a hard time under those rules.

I am a 23 year old female living in Massachusetts, USA. I got pregnant about 6-7 months ago, and I had my abortion at 12-14 weeks. I had the Paraguard IUD, which they found out after I received a positive pregnancy test that the IUD was misplaced (I had just gotten it in about 4 months prior).
Being pregnant was incredibly uncomfortable and brought on a major depressive episode. The choice to get an abortion was not easy but I am in graduate school and work full time and do not have to financial ability to raise a child at this time.
I was under anesthesia for the abortion and it went fine with no complications. However, the mental toll it took on me before the procedure was immense. Immediately after the procedure, it felt like the whole thing was a dream and it never happened. I am in school for psychology so I am well aware the experience I am having is trauma, and I am in therapy at this time.
I have absolutely no sex drive now, and it has been almost 6 months since the abortion. I am on 37.5mg of Effexor which does lower sex drive, but i was on this medication before my abortion and still had slightly less than "normal" libido. I believe my already slightly low sex drive and the trauma of my abortion has completely gotten rid of my libido. I do not have the urge to masturbate, have sex with my boyfriend, or even perform sexual acts on my boyfriend. The idea of sex makes me incredibly anxious and scared.
My boyfriend is a big support for me, but he is not the best at the subject of abortions or trauma. He was "pro-life" before this happened to us, even though he acted very pro-choice. He was nothing but supportive and gentle during the process and allowed me to make the decision on my own with no pressure. I believe he's pro-choice now, even if he has a hard time accepting that his views have changed now that it happened to him and someone he loves. (Usually how it goes lol).
All of this has really worsened my depression and anxiety. I feel like this will never go away, and I do not know how to begin to heal from this.
If anyone has similar experiences, tips, or just kind words, please share. I feel really alone with all of this.

• RANT/ VENT*

For all my ppl who only want men or only want women medical providers, please stop. REALLY. STOP. This is the stupidest thing I've had to deal this week. Are ppl not aware that a lot of Dr's are men? That there are male nurses? I'm tired of being overloaded because granny would rather clutch her pearls than take her medical care seriously. If you can afford to be that picky, go find someone you want and stop being sexist. Stop making our jobs harder. If its serious and you need help, you really don't care where it's coming from. All you're telling me, is you really don't need me and you can afford to actually go to the dr office. I do this as requested and I don't argue because I can't. But I don't think this should be allowed anymore. You need care or you don't.

My mom has done this my entire life. I would do x and then she would get angry and sulk all day. She would give me the silent treatment or she would be passive- aggressive with me. She's doing it again and I'm not sure why. Here's how it started:
My parents and I went to my brother's graduation this weekend at an elite university. My mom and I sat next to each other during the graduation while my dad and my bro's boyfriend took photos and bonded over photography gear. My mom patted my back, and said "I'm proud of the both of you. Your father and I never thought we could raise two lawyers. Today is your day too." I responded, "Thanks mom, but today is my brother's day, not mine." I love my brother and I was careful to make sure my bro's day doesn't get ruined. He said he wanted to be taller than me in photos so I wore flats instead of heels.
Then my mom showed me the photos she took of my graduation and the likes and comments she received after she posted on Facebook. I noticed that she didn't use my name, only my initials. I'm a trans woman and my initials stayed the same. I told her, "That's not my name." During the reception, my parents took some food, but they kept chewing and talking with their mouths open, so I very discreetly nudged them to refrain from doing so. They seemed to have taken it okay. My brother wanted to introduce our parents to his professors, but my parents were shy, and possibly insecure about their 8th grade education. I still tried to nudge them over to meet them because I knew it meant a lot to my brother. My parents ended up not meeting his professors.
During dinner prep that night at my bro's apartment, my mom tasked me with washing the gailan (vegetables). Before I even started, my mom came over and said briskly, "That's not how you wash vegetables!" I responded, "Okay, you do it then." Then she yells at me, "I've tolerated you long enough!" I was taken aback by her sheer anger. I waited a bit and washed the vegetables my own way, upset that my mom couldn't trust me to wash vegetables. I cooked the vegetables myself. When my mom tried it, she forced out a "these are quite good." Of course it's good, I taught her the current method she uses to cook gailan. Throughout the weekend, my dad and brother commented on how mean she sounded. I called my partner holding back tears. I feel like I was unwanted, since I was only tolerated. It's odd because I try to move out and my mom keeps pressuring me to remain living with her.
That Sunday, I told my mom "Happy Mother's Day." She just looked away and said "thanks." When my brother woke up, he took the flowers that I bought for his graduation to my mom and said "Happy Mother's Day." She laughed and smiled.
When we got home, she laughed and said "Oh, I forgot my medications, that's why I was in such a bad mood." I figured thing were fine. I'm housesitting this week so I got to be away from my parents, but I went home to pick something up last night and she remained upset. She just sulked and directed her anger at me. I ask her what's wrong. She said "You always look down on me, like I'm not your mom. Look how you treated me all weekend!" I ask her if it was because of the gailan issue. She said she was angry at me before then. I asked her if it was because I told her not to open her mouth while she's chewing. She said it wasn't.
At that point, I was tired and just went off on her. "I don't know why you're angry. We have a communication problem in this family. No one talks about their issues. If you don't tell me your problems, it's only your problem, not mine. If you can tell me what your problems are, then maybe I can help. Honestly, I think you just like being angry. It's as if you're afraid that if you're not angry, you don't know how to be a person. I want you to think about what I said. I'm not going to think about why you're angry." (Ironically, I am wondering, but she doesn't need to know that.)
Then I left. My dad came outside with me and said "don't worry, I'll work on her."
So, I cried to my partner. It's so ridiculous, all my life I feel like I'm dealing with this big scary authority figure. But I'm dealing with someone who would tell an 8 year old daughter that she would throw her out in the street because her grades weren't great. I'm dealing with someone who wouldn't listen to her attorney daughter's legal advice, which is simply, "As a spectator, don't say anything in the courtroom." (She got thrown out of the courtroom because she kept interrupting.) I'm dealing with someone who kept discouraging their daughter from practicing law because "I'm too weak" and someone who said "shame on you" when I said I aspired to become a judge.
I'm just so damn tired. I already gave up my inheritance. I don't want it anymore. Besides, I don't care about its material value. I only see it as a symbol of their love. Anyways, I decided I'm going to move out, no matter what she says.

Hi, looking for advice about how to approach my boss about going remote. Will try to give as much context as I can while still staying anonymous.
I have been at this F500 company for >5 years and have been performing well and been promoted twice. We are currently working in a hybrid dynamic, but there’s always talks of corporate mandating us to be fully back in office. I have been in my latest role for almost 1 year, and have received very good feedback since starting it. I’ve gotten a couple of small bonus awards, and a nice % raise when it came time for merit increases; more than the standard amount. My boss has given me very positive feedback, my teammates like me, and I think I am a valuable contributor. I like my team, I like my boss, and I like my job.
So if all this is so dandy, then why am I thinking of asking to be remote? If you guessed love, you would be right. My partner of 2+ years lives >3 hours away from me. They are doing a residency program in the medical field, so neither remote work nor relocating is a possibility for them. We have been making long distance work, but with multiple years still left in their program, I don’t want to tough it out anymore.
My plan has been (and still is) to be a kick- ass employee in this new role and wait until the 1 year mark to have the remote conversation with my boss. I have been trying to learn as much as I can and have been pursuing external professional certifications to level myself up and really be an asset. My question is what kind of approach should I take for this conversation? Are there certain things I should consider that I may be missing?
Here is some additional context:

1. Changing roles/changing companies is technically a possibility, but it would be tough. The fully remote roles at my company have really dwindled, and I’m not sure if they are even posting fully remote positions anymore. In addition to this, I’m in an expensive grad school program that my company has been paying for. The agreement is to stay with the company 1 year post graduation, otherwise the money (>$100K) needs to be paid back. So changing companies is not really an option either. I can pretend to play hard ball, but I don’t really have any leverage.
   
2. When my manager started, he hired me along with 2 other individuals,both of whom are fully remote. Their jobs are different than mine, but my point here is that it doesn’t seem my boss has an aversion to remote work. But I’m not sure how much his hands are tied from the powers that be.
   
3. I have not been saying “fully remote” because my job does require me to be in person for customer meetings that happen every so often, maybe 1 week every 2 months or so. I plan to make it clear to my boss that I will still be in person for those meetings. It’s really the consistent Tuesday/Thursday in office regardless of what’s going on that I’m wanting to get rid of.
   
4. I’m a bit concerned that if I have this conversation with my boss and remote is not a possibility, they will forever after be worried about me leaving, think I’m not committed, not want to invest in me, etc. Their personality has not indicated that they would ever act with any malice, and I don’t believer they ever would, but they might from then on think that I always have 1 foot out of the door. Things might feel awkward.
   

Hi my name is Mariah I'm 23 years old I'm looking for someone to role play with me I prefer that we play in first person, I have several scenarios that you can pick from I have two requirements. 1. I prefer that we play in first person, 2. Just be patient with me because I don’t type that fast but I am starting to write a lot more detail during my role-play, so just be patient with me please .3. I accept experienced role-play players.only Please write a lot of detail during the role-play if you can. If you are interested in role-playing with me, just message me I roleplay comfort to dark roleplay I prefer role-playing in Reddit chat because it's easier for me but if you cannot role-play on,Reddit I do Role-play on Twitter,. I hope to chat with you soon, here's a list of the scenarios that you can pick from Let me know what scenario you would like to do with me please do not ghost me a lot of people do that because they don’t like the way I role-play ….please pick a scenario from the list please be 18+. Here the scenarios that we can do
1st scenario
Here’s the scenario You come home from work and your partner tells you that her parents are having a family gathering at their house and she wants to go. She tells you that she was diagnosed with a fainting disorder so you could be aware of it
2nd scenario
Here’s the scenario You come home from work you don’t see your partner in the living room with all the family and you go upstairs to look for them
3rd scenario
Here’s the scenario You come home from work you don’t see me in the living room and you start looking around for me you find me in the corner in our bedroom having a panic attack
4th scenario
Here’s the scenario You are at the store you receive a text message from your partner that they are having another bad mingran and they ask you to bring medication from the store
5th scenario
Here’s the scenario You come home from work and you don’t find me anywhere in the house and you start looking everywhere and you find me in the kitchen having mental breakdown because I am stressed out about everything that’s happening in my life
6th scenario
Here’s the scenario You got home from work and you don’t see your partner in the living room you check everywhere for them you finally find them in the bathroom in the bedroom next to toilet
7th scenario
Here’s the scenario You are at home relaxing from your busy day at work you receive a phone call from your partner and she is crying hysterically on the phone and she tells you that her dad and her got into another argument but it ended bad and she asks you to go get her from her house and take her back to your place.
8th scenario
Here’s the scenario You get home from work and you don’t see your partner in the living room you checked everywhere for them and you finally find them in the bedroom having a autism episode because people are bullying them at work
9th scenario
Here’s the scenario You are at work and you are working as a paramedic and you are driving on the street with your coworker and you stop at a gas station and when you are in the gas station call comes in on the radio and says your home address and you come back to the ambulance and your coworker said they just said they just said your address on the radio and you start panicking because I am home alone and you know I have a couple medical conditions that they are aware of you call me but you don’t get an answer from me rush with your coworker and you go inside the house and you don’t find me anywhere but then your coworker find me in the basement unconscious
10th scenario
Here’s the scenario You are at work and your partner called you from work.they tell you that they are going to go hang out with their friends from college at the club. you told them to be careful and you tell them to have a good time you get home from work and it’s late and you notice that your partner is not home yet and you called their phone no answer and then you get a call from Your partners phone and you answer it and you recognize it not your partner, voice the person told you that your partner was drug at the club and that your partner is on the way to the hospital
11th Scenario
Here’s the scenario You are at work and your partner calls you and tell you they are going to go swimming at a party with friends from college and you get home from work and it’s very late and you tried calling your partner and they don’t answer and get a call from the hospital, saying that your partner has been admitted to the hospital for being drugged and abuse and assaulted
12th Scenario
Here’s the scenario you are on your lunch break at work and you get a phone call from your partners parents and they tell you that your partner is having a Tourette episode and this one is bad and they cannot handle it and they need you to come help them with your partner you know that your partner has a really hard time coming out of these episodes and they pass out after having an episode.
13th Scenario Here’s the scenario you are in a long distance, relationship with your partner and you decide to fly them out to see you and meet your royalty family after your partner meets your family your family that they don’t like your partner and they do everything especially the mother get rid of your partner and you are a prince of England trying to find his queen
14th Scenario Here’s the scenario you are at work and your partner call you and tell you that they are gonna go to the store to get some stuff for the house and when you get home you are parked in the driveway and you get off the car and you go inside and you see them on the floor in the living room unconscious with all their clothes off and you see them beaten up and you see them with the rope around their neck
15th Scenario Here’s the scenario you come home from work early because you have to do a lot of stuff around the house and you call your partner to let them know that you’re coming home early from work you get home and you see your partner in the living room with the lights off and everything and you know that they are having a hard time with being abused, verbally emotionally and mentally and you see them crying hysterically in the living room
16thScenario
Here’s the scenario you are at working at the EMT station and you are doing paperwork and you receive a call from the dispatcher that there was a shooting at the high school they say the name of the school and you start freaking out because your partner works at the school and you get in the car and you start driving over to the school and you see your police officers helping everybody out and you go inside and you find me in the classroom unresponsive with the student on top of me and you can tell that they are unresponsive as well
17th Scenario
Here’s the scenario you come home from work and you let your partner know that you’re home from work and you tell your partner that we are going to go to your parents house because we were invited to a family gathering and we go to your parents house and all your family and greet us and when you are not in the area, they all treat me bad except for your mom
18th scenario
Here’s the scenario You are at work You are doing report because you are a detective you receive a case that someone has been kidnapped and when you get the information on the computer and you realize it’s your partner and you start calling them and they don’t answer their phone
19th scenario
Heres the scenario You are on deployment for two years and you get home from being away for two years and you don’t tell your partner that you’re coming home and you go to the living room and you find them unconscious on the floor
20th scenario
Here’s the scenario you are working a late shift at the fire station and you are working on paperwork with all your coworkers and the captain comes in and says we got a call for a fire at the apartment complex on Hollywood Boulevard 1604 on the third Floor and we need everybody to go help put out the fire, do your coworkers get into the firetruck and get to the scene and realize that the fire is coming from your apartment and you remember that your partner is in the building
21st scenario
Here’s the scenario You are at your parents house after a late shift at the hospital and you stop by to see how your parents are doing and you receive a call the hospital and they tell you that they need you right away and you get back to the hospital and they tell you we have three casualties coming in and when the patients are brought into the hospital, you go up to one of the patient and you see it’s your partner
22nd scenario
Here’s the scenario you are at your parents house helping them clean the house and you are doing spring cleaning with them and you check your phone and you see that you had missed calls and a lot of messages from your partners mother and you call back and your partners mother says I’m worried about my daughter because I think she’s having one of her suicidal episodes and she looked herself in the room and I can’t get a hold of her father because he’s at work so can you come help me please.
23rd scenario
Here’s the scenario you are out home and you receive a call from your partner and they tell you that they are running away from home and they tell you they are running to your house when they get to your house. They are bleeding from their face and you can tell that they been beaten up and they are freaking out and screaming because they are scared
24th scenario
Here’s the scenario you are working as a secret agent for a big company you are on break and your leader calls out to everyone and says I need everybody’s help we are missing our medical team and when you hear that the medical team is missing you start freaking out because your partner works for the medical team of the company that you work for you’re leader says everybody has been kidnapped on the medical team and you are just freaking out because you don’t know what kind of condition your partner is in