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2024.05.19 07:09 codename_e The WACE server [SMP] [Semi-vanilla] {Whitelist} {No resets planned} {1.20.4} {Australia}
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WACESMP! I'm or GoneVegan, one of the members of this Australian Minecraft server. We are currently running 1.20.4.
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V I S I O N The WACESMP is a place for people who love survival Minecraft. Ideally, we can use this to plan out and create some amazing areas and builds. If you like to spend time in the details, or enjoy large scale building, or just want to spend some time playing good old survival; this might be the place for you š
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I have been a fan of Minecraft for about as long as i was a child, and it's been pretty much the only game I've played growing up. As a player, I really enjoy taking my time and enjoying each moment of a game, which is why I decided to set up this long-term server with no planned world resets.
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2024.05.19 07:08 seekingsnow_2005 I think I have chosen a wrong laptop
I will be going to college this year so I was searching for a productivity in 50-55 k price range and found asus vivobook was a good laptop. Found a good deal offline in chandni with ryzen 7 5800h and 16gb ram + integrated graphics under 48 k and I was also getting a laptop bag . Online the price was above 57k so it was the best deal I was getting in the price range .
Few days Ago amazon summer sale was going on and there was a i5 asus vivobook which was there for 48k same price and with credit card discount it would be 43k. But my father doesn't use credit card as he was once scammed so I told him we better buy it offline and he agreed . So yesterday I went with my father to buy it and at that moment he asked him if there was a laptop in 40-41 and there was a hp and dell i3 ig but I was u series. I told him performance was not better and better to buy the ryzen 7 and it was h series also but he told me to buy the u one only . So my father asked him how much would the series processor in hp cost and he said there is a hp victus gaming laptop and I did not want to buy that as it would hv A low battery life and I have heard several cases of hp hinge breaking and other issues . My father told me to finalize it as He was a hp fan and he believed asus was a bad laptop . I said him to give me 30 mjn to think abt it and the shop owner was also making us hurry so he didn't even give me time to compare the specs properly and it was finalized within 4 min .
After coming home when I compared the specs and saw the reviews asus seemed better and . Hp one had 8gb ram + people said it had heating issues and it was double the weight of the asus one whereas asus had ryzen 7 and 16 gb ram + It had ms office 21 for completely free + it had a premium feel too and both were of the same price and people were saying the graphics difference was also slight in both of these. So now I am a bit sad that I should have chosen the asus one. I do not regret it as even asus he gave me the best he could and many people do not get that even . So was it a good decision and will it last long like 5 years ? And if you use any of these 2 please give a review .
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2024.05.19 07:05 starlightkissesrain SOSSubs has released their English subtitles of the Johto arc
Not sure if this is the best place for it, but I figure people would be interested to know.
They note on the page that Hoenn and Sinnoh will be coming but don't give a date or time.
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2024.05.19 07:04 ThreeMonthsTooLate [Marvel Comics] Nightcrawler is the Winding Way - Revised
So, I posted this theory a while back but it seems that most people didnāt read through it due to it being too long. So here I am back again with my best to briefly summarize the theory with the major points of evidence from the comics that I have found. Itās still going to be a lot but, hopefully, this will help get the broad idea across. Then if you have any specific points you can hopefully find them answered in the sections beneath it.
For context, you only need to read the Basic Premise section to get the basic gist of the theory, all the remaining sections are where I outline the evidence to support it.
~Basic Premise~ Nightcrawler is the Winding Way is basically the idea that X-Menās Nightcrawler got his soul ripped in half when he was a child by his adopted mother ā Margali Szardos ā who used the magical half of Kurtās soul to form the source of her power, the Winding Way.
Nightcrawler would have inherited this magical power from Azazel, who he is still technically biologically related to, as well as potentially the combination of genes from Mystique, Destiny, and Baron Wagner.
Amanda Sefton ā after seeing Margali use Illyanaās Soul-Sword to obtain power in the Winding Way, took over Limbo to study it before fusing it with Kurtās soul in the hopes of being able to use the Soul-Sword to undo her motherās work and restore Kurt to being whole again.
Ultimately, Destiny gave the baby Kurt to Margali knowing full well she would do this to him to hide his true power from Enigma (the Nathaniel Essex that became a Dominion), who she had Kurt concieved in order to defeat.
Additionally, she told Margali of a prophecy about a Soul-Sword falling into Margaliās hands knowing that Margali would attempt to steal Belascoās Soul-Sword, that Belasco would turn his attention to Nightcrawler to steal that magical power for herself which would result in Illyana being kidnapped by Belasco after he gave up trying to steal the power from Kurt and thus create said Soul-Sword as well as ā eventually ā the Hope-sword.
~Part 1 ā Margali Szardos is the Worst Adoptive Mother of All Time~ Margali Szardos is a powerful witch in Marvel comics who has shown being particularly hungry for magical power ā doing everything from manipulating her daughter, Amanda Sefton, into getting her Illyanaās Soul-Sword so that she could use it in a killing spree to obtain magical power from her victims (Excalibur #85), to attempting to steal the power of a demon living under London nearly destroying it in the process (Excalibur #100), to forcibly mind-swapping with her daughter to save herself leaving Amanda to be tortured by Belasco (revealed X-Men: Unlimited #19), opening a magical rift to the World Beyond to obtain its power which forced her daughter to sacrifice herself to close it (4
th Nightcrawler series #1-4), to finally selling Nightcrawler out to ORCHIS to obtain the Hope-sword that was lodged in Kurtās chest (Legion of X #7-10).
All of these villainous actions raise an important question ā why did Margali adopt Nightcrawler? After all, itās not like Margali went around adopting children ā only Nightcrawler. In fact, outside of Kurt, the only other child that Margali has ever displayed an interest in obtaining was a young Scarlet Witch (Mystic Arcanum: Scarlet Witch) which is concerning given just how magically powerful Scarlet Witch is.
This all points to the idea that Margali only took Kurt in because she got something out of it ā very likely magical power. This wouldnāt be nearly so concerning if Margali Szardos wasnāt also the Sorceress Supreme of one of the most mysterious and unexplained magical systems in all of Marvel.
~Part 2 ā The Winding Way is WIERD~ So, Iām just going to come out and say it - the Winding Way makes no sense in the current understanding of magic in Marvel Comics. Even characters like Dr. Strange ā one of Marvelās masters of magic ā has basically no idea how the Winding Way actually operates. There is a data page in Legion of X #9 that outlines the basics of what the Winding Way is and how it operates.
According to the data page, the Winding Way is an exocentric magic system ā that is to say a form of magic that is powered by an external source to the user ā which its various wielders experience cycles of power and powerlessness. As far as characters like Strange are aware, it remains unclear if there is a physical āWayā or if that is simply metaphor.
The strange thing about the Winding Way is that there is no other magical system in Marvel where this cycle of users having powers and being powerless is even a thing. Whenever an exocentrically powered sorcerer loses their powers, it is always a form of punishment. This is true with Dr. Strange when he lost 99% of his powers back during the War of the Seven Spheres story. This is true with Juggernaut who loses his powers whenever he and Cyttorak ā the entity that powers the crimson gem that Juggernaut uses for his powers. Itās even true for someone like Thor and his hammer. No where else in Marvel is there a system of magic where cycles of power is a thing.
All of this raises the question of whether the fluctuating cycles of power the Winding Way are actually a natural part of the Winding Way or whether they due to something else ā like, say the power source of the Winding Way trying to continuously punish the various practitioners but being unable to due to their attention being split up.
Ultimately, the only truth that we can glean about the Winding Way is that nobody but the practitioners of the Winding Way ultimately know how it works and even then, characters like Margali and Amanda have proven time and again that their word cannot be trusted.
~Part 3 ā the Szardos Family, Cthon, & Wundagore Mountain~ Interestingly, a different Sorcerer Supreme Sgt. Sebastian Szardos ā the Sorcerer Supreme of World War II ā has his own insights about the Winding Way, though they are rather vague. Firstly, in the 8
th series of Avengers #50, Sebastian claims that the Winding Way has ties with Mt. Wundagore ā which was famously the tomb of Cthon before Scarlet Witch absorbed him. This seems to suggest that the Winding Way originates either via Cthon or his creation ā the Darkhold.
What is more interesting is that the Winding Way doesnāt seem to be practiced during the time of the Second World War as Sgt. Szardos states that only his great grandmother on his mothers side even knew about the Winding Way ā Sebastian himself clearly wasnāt a practicing member. This is peculiar as Margali Szardos demonstrates an unusual amount of familiarity with the position of Sorcerer Supreme in Uncanny X-Men Annual #4 when she stole the Eye of Agamotto off of Dr. Strange with a mere gesture. Given that Sebastian and Margali share the last name and Sebastian was a known former Sorcerer Supreme while Margali ā as far as I can tell ā has never been, this would seem to suggest that there is some sort of familial connection between Margali and Sebastian. This in turn seems to suggest that the Winding Way experienced some sort of revival with Margali.
My theory is that the Winding Way started out as a sort of ritual that originated with the Darkhold and was initially practiced by the Szardos family over the centuries to siphon power off of Cthon to keep him in check and imprisoned - hence why there are other Szardos clan members such as Theodosia as shown in that run of Avengers. This would mean that if my theory of Nightcrawler being the Winding Way is true, then it would mean that he is only the current source of the Winding Way.
~Part 4 ā Nightcrawler is still related to Azazel (and Azazel is a demon)~ Now a major aspect in this is that Nightcrawler is where exactly would Nightcrawlerās magical powers come from? After all, heās the son of Mystique and Destiny ā two mutants with no sort of magical capabilities, right? Well, thatāsā¦ complicated.
Firstly, itās important to note that the X-Men Origins: Blue retcon isā¦ frankly, not very well thought out. There are a bunch of things that it just gets plain wrong and contradict a bunch of previously established X-Men lore ā everything from the fact that Destiny would have been too old to give birth to Nightcrawler, to Rogueās age being way too young (she was adopted by D&M when she was 13 not 5), to the fact that Mystique canonically cannot mimic mutant x-genes - meaning Nightcrawler shouldnāt have teleportation with this retcon, and much, much more. On top of all that, the fact that the only evidence supporting the idea that it ever even happened is from Mystique and Destiny ā two of Marvelās most notorious liars ā and you got yourself an extremely messy and rather dubious retcon.
Putting all that aside, going based on what the retcon has established there are a few ways in which Kurt might have inherited some sort of magical power.
Primarily, Kurt is still technically related to Azazel ā yes, Mystique āmimickedā Azazelās DNA in Kurtās conception but given that in genetics it is the sequence of DNA that matters and not the source of that sequence, Mystiqueās āMimickedā DNA is still ostensibly Azazelās DNA. Azazel is an established master of dark magic ā specifically soul magic ā and used to rule over a legit Hell Dimension during the time of Kurtās birth ā making him a legit hell lord similar to Mephisto or Dormammu. Given that Hell Lords are also considered the Sorcerer Supremes (as in the strongest) of their respective dimension, this would suggest that Azazel once held some major power, regardless of if heās a demon or not. And as it has been established, magic is inheritable as shown with Clea (the daughter of Umar), Daimon Hellstrom (son of Marduk Kurios), and at least half the cast of Strange Academy, it would stand to reason that Nightcrawler could also inherit magical power from him.
Now, I know what you are saying ā āBut, Azazel isnāt a demon! Chuck Austen said so!ā And while, yes, Chuck Austen has clearly gone on record to say that Azazel is only a demonic looking mutant instead of an actual demon, itās been kind of invalidated by the thing that every other writer for Azazel ā including the likes of Chris Claremont ā have referred to Azazel as a demon at least once either on-panel or in interviews. And frankly, thereās nothing in the lore that says that Azazel cannot be both a demon and a mutant ā after all, Magik is both a demon and a mutant at the same time. And letās be real here, Chuck Austen doesnāt deserve nice things when it comes to the X-Men.
However, Azazel is not the only DNA that Mystique apparently mimicked ā Baron Christian Wagner was also added onto that list for some reason. This is odd as why would Destiny and Mystique feel the need to include Baron Wagner at all in the genetic makeup of Nightcrawler unless there was something special about the Baron. However, the only uniquely genetic thing we learn about him is that heās seemingly infertile ā which may suggest that there is some sort of genetic anomaly going on with him, such as maybe a repressed X-gene.
~Part 5 ā Amanda Sefton/Jimaine Szardos history in Marvel Comics~ Another aspect of this theory is that ā if it is true ā it suddenly explains a lot of what Kurtās ex, Amanda Sefton has been doing in comics since she was first introduced in 1976. You see, Amanda Sefton followed Kurt back from Germany and began dating him under a different name ā which Kurt was not aware of. She only reveals the truth after the events of Uncanny X-Men Annual #4. This unfortunately supports Kurtās accusation in Uncanny X-Men #206 that Amanda used a spell to make Kurt fall in love with her to begin with ā an accusation which Amanda has never confirmed nor denied.
Amandaās peculiar behavior continued into Excalibur where she was manipulated by Margali into obtaining Illyanaās Soul-Sword from Kitty Pryde ā who had previously given the Soul-Sword to Dr. Doom and then Darkoth, with it returning to her both times. Upon obtaining the Soul-Sword, Margali then used it to go on a killing spree against the other members of the Winding Way to obtain their power for herself. Following this, Margaliās failed attempt to steal the power of a demon beneath London, and Kurt and Margali rescuing Amanda from Belasco after Margali body-swapped with her daughter to save her own skin ā Amanda ended up taking over Limbo, supposedly in the name of protecting earth.
However, then we have the smoking gun of Amandaās meddling ā during the 3
rd Nightcrawler solo series, it is revealed that Amanda fused the Soul-Sword with Nightcrawler without telling him. Her reason for doing so? āTo protect the Soul-Sword from falling into the wrong hands.ā This lie is so glaringly bad that not even Nightcrawler buys it and he calls Amanda out for not being honest with him.
~Part 6 ā Amandaās Bad Lie and What it Means~ And frankly why would anyone believe Amandaās claim? Amanda is a sorceress ā which means that she is infinitely more qualified than Nightcrawler to keep the Soul-Sword safe than he is. Even if she couldnāt do so, why didnāt she take the Soul-Sword to someone like Dr. Strange?
On top of that, Amanda took the Soul-Sword away from Kitty Pryde claiming that Kitty wasnāt qualified to keep the Soul-Sword safe due to her not being a trained sorceress. Well, guess whoās also not trained in sorcery and thus ā by Amandaās own logic - would not be able to keep the Soul-Sword safe? Nightcrawler.
Except, Kitty technically was able to keep the Soul-Sword out of the wrong hands ā back during Excalibur #37 she phased the Soul-Sword into a rock which even Rachel Summers channeling the power of the Phoenix Force was not able to remove it from ā it wasnāt removed until Doom came knocking and got Kitty to willingly remove it for him. So why couldnāt Amanda do something similar? Why fuse it with Kurt and endanger him?
And to top it all off, Amanda still needed the Soul-Sword. She was ruling over Limbo ā a dangerous hell dimension full of power-hungry demons. Her magical powers are of the Winding Way ā meaning that they wax and wane. So quite literally, Amanda needs the Soul-Sword ā a weapon which every demon in Limbo fears ā to keep herself in power; something which was proven in New X-Men #37 when Belasco walked back into Limbo and ousted her.
~Part 7 ā Amanda took over Limbo to learn about the Soul-Sword~ So, what was Amanda really up to? Well, to understand Amandaās actions in the 3
rd Nightcrawler series, we first need to go back to Amandaās actions in previous series. Whatās interesting is that Amandaās interest in the Soul-Sword was first manifest through Margali ā who reveals in Excalibur: Minus One that there is a prophecy that the Soul-Sword would pass first into Margaliās hands and then into Amandaās hands but would result in both of their dooms.
However, Amanda doesnāt really demonstrate any sort of interest in the Soul-Sword until after Margali used it to obtain power in the Winding Way during Excalibur. While she didnāt get the opportunity to act after the events of Margaliās failed London project due to her mother mind-swapping with her, Amandaās actions in taking over Limbo after X-Men: Unlimited #19 was more likely due to Amanda wanting to obtain and learn more about the Soul-Sword than about her trying to protect earth.
You see, as Limbo was in no position to even threaten earth until Belasco had obtained the Soul-Sword following Margali ending up there ā meaning that if Amanda had simply obtained the Soul-Sword and left Limbo, Limbo would not have been able to endanger Earth. Instead, Amanda stayed. Why? Because if there was anywhere in the universe where you wanted to learn about a Soul-Sword and how it works, Limbo is the dimension to do so.
~Part 8 ā Nightcrawler and Magik areā¦ Soulmates?~ So, why did Amanda fuse the Soul-Sword with Nightcrawler? Well, ultimately because a major function of the Soul-Sword is that it can be used as a countercharm which can undo other spells ā potentially meaning that Amanda could use it to undo the Winding Way and restore the two halves of Kurtās soul back together again.
However, another aspect of the Soul-Sword is that it is dangerous to magical creatures and Kurtās magical soul would already be weakened after years of being separated. Amanda must have figured that if she bonded the non-magical half of Kurtās soul to the Soul-Sword would allow for her to bypass the more dangerous aspects of the Soul-Sword and allow her to restore Kurt.
And as a result of Amandaās meddling, when a demonically possessed Pixie ripped the Soul-Sword out of Nightcrawler during X-Infernus, it left behind a void in Kurtās Soul as established in Legion of X #10, which allowed for the Hopesword to later form. This also seemingly gave Illyanaās Soul-Sword a new ability to damage Techno-Organic beings which it did not possess before. This also means that Nightcrawler and Magik areā¦ soul-mates(?) for the lack of a better term, as they are both bound together through the Soul-Sword after Amanda undid Illyanaās bond with Kitty, though this fact has never been established or confirmed in the comics.
~Part 9 ā Destiny caused Magik to be kidnapped by Belasco~ Now, I noted in an earlier section that Margaliās fascination with the Soul-Sword was as a result of a prophecy ā one that has at least partially come true. The prophecy as laid out during a flashback in Exalibur: Minus One was that the Soul-Sword would pass from into Margaliās hands and then Amandaās but would result in both of their dooms. Illyanaās Soul-Sword was indeed obtained by Margali back in Excalibur #85 before she lost it to Belasco after falling to Limbo and the Soul-Sword was obtained again by Amanda after taking Limbo over in X-Men: Unlimited #19.
Now, this whole situation is peculiar as Margali herself is not a precog ā outside of this one time, we never even hear her do anything similar ever again. However, we know that Destiny is a precog and we also know that she was the one who gave Kurt to Margali, as per the X-Men Origins: Blue retcon, meaning that this prophecy more than likely originates with Destiny. And really, this shouldnāt be a surprise ā Mystique hinted at having some sort of a connection with Margali as far back as UXM #142 when she first met Nightcrawler, it was just never clarified what that connection was.
However, this prophecy would have been given to Margali before the Soul-Sword was ever made and before Illyana was even born, which means that either Destiny could predict Illyana being kidnapped by Belasco and creating the Soul-Sword as a resultā¦ or she caused Belasco to kidnap Illyana and create the Soul-Sword as a result.
Now, you may question how thatās even possible? After all, how could Destiny cause someone like Belasco to do something when the two havenāt even canonically met?
Well, for this, I would like to point out the unexplained animosity going on between Margali Szardos and Belasco. This is a rivalry that has been mentioned quite a few times ā such as back in Excalibur: Minus One, X-Men: Unlimited #19, and the 3
rd Nightcrawler series. For some unexplained reason, Margali Szardos and Belasco have a lot of enmity for one another.
So, whatās the cause of this rivalry? Well, during the Dark Web event, Mary Jane Watson and Black Cat were captured by Belasco and sent to retrieve his Soul-Sword ā which, as it is explained in the story is something that Belasco could not potentially use up until the events of Dark Web.
So hereās an idea ā what if Destiny didnāt specify which Soul-Sword would end up in Margaliās hands, causing Margali to immediately assume that she was talking about Belascoās (as that would have been the only one in existence at that point) and try to steal it from him.
This then drew Belascoās attention and caused him to realize that Nightcrawler was somehow the source of Margaliās powers. This would be why Belasco even had his eyes on the X-Men to begin with and why there was a soulless Nightcrawler back in the original Magik series ā Kurt was Belascoās original target. However, the soulless Nightcrawler and Belascoās obvious shift in attention to Illyana clearly points to the idea that whatever experiments Belasco tried to use to obtain that magical power from Kurt, it only ended in disaster ā causing him to turn to Illyana as a replacement.
~Part 10 ā the Big Pictureā¦ stopping Enigma~ So, if Destiny was ultimately the cause behind all of this ā from orchestrating Kurtās birth, to handing him off to Margali, to telling Margali the prophecy about the Soul-Sword, what is it all ultimately for?
Well, what it is almost certainly not for is the given answer of defeating Azazel. Simply put, Azazel has never been so major of a threat that creating a super special prophecy child was needed. Heck, he was killed in Dark X-Men by the demonic version of Nightcrawler, so how difficult would it have been for Mystique and Destiny to do it? No, Azazelās defeat was a bonus that Irene used to justify Kurtās birth to Raven, not the focus.
Ultimately, thereās only one answer as to who Kurt was conceived to stop ā Enigma. The original Nathaniel Essex who transcended space and time and who Irene knew to be an existential threat to all Mutantkind.
This answer even explains some of Ireneās other past actions, such as why she was involved with the Black Womb project ā yes, she was keeping an eye on Sinister, but she was also learning as much about the mutant x-gene in preparation for Kurtās birth.
It also explains why she handed Kurt over to Margali at all ā the Winding Way is described in the datapages of Legion of X as being something akin to a No-Place ā something that Enigma and other Dominions famously have trouble seeing into. Thus, by hiding Kurtās magical half in the No-place until the time was right and creating the means by which to release him from that prison, Destiny ensures Enigmaās defeat.
Or does she? Because as far as the current X-Men comics have been going, there is nowhere near the development needed to have my theory take place. At this point, only the Hopesword is established which begs the question of whether the Winding Way is meant to be the thing to stop Enigma or if the Hopesword is. As of this point in X-Men Forever (2024) #4, the Hopesword is what was needed to stop Enigmaā¦ for some reason. So far, all that the sword has accomplished is being handed off from Kurt to Exodus to Hopeā¦ who was then killed by the Phoenix and sent the Hopesword back to Kurt. Weāll have to wait and see if anything else comes of it.
Personally though, I kind of like the idea that everything Destiny did in orchestrating the creation of the Hopesword and/or the Winding Way was kind of a pointless thing in the end. Itās kind of poignant for Destinyās character ā being the same woman who thought that killing Senator Kelly would prevent the Days of Futureās Past Timeline when she was in fact going to cause that very timeline to happen ā to have all her manipulations and schemes to create this weapon against the existential threat that Enigma presentedā¦ only to have that threat be dealt with in some other way, leaving Irene to deal with the consequences of her own actions and question whether it was worth putting Kurt through all of that. Maybe thatās just me though.
Conclusion
So yeah, thatās most of the evidence supporting this theory. There are a few other things ā such as Margali potentially being the reason why Kurt was killed during Second Coming and potentially causing his mental break down during the Extraordinary X-Men story, but those are more auxiliary to these major points.
But yeah, let me know what you guys think down below. Do you think this theory is onto something or is it way off base?
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2024.05.19 07:00 FiedenFreecss I think this is the end
Iām 23. In my culture, at this age, elders arrange blind dates for us. I didnāt really want to participate, but my parents insisted that I do. So, I went along and met her. Over the next few months, we chatted online almost every day, and I realized we had a lot in common. I fell in love with her. However, recently she told me she doesnāt really like me. I already knew it; the whole thing was just my wishful thinking. Iāve prepared her birthday presents, but I donāt want to continue. I think I should tell her that Iām over it. I mean, now that she said she doesnāt love me, why should I persevere? Iāve been through a lot, and my heart is already broken. Iām more afraid of getting hurt than falling in love. Before she broke my heart, I thought I should run away from this situation. So, Iāve decided to give her the birthday present and tell her weāre done. For the past few months, Iāve tried my best to make her happy, care about her emotions, and talk to her when sheās sick. Iāve told her that everything will be okay. But sheās never done the same for me. Throughout my life, Iāve longed for someone who could say, āDonāt worry, everything will be okay.ā Even my parents never said this to me. I realize that no one can truly take care of my feelings, so Iāve become an introverted person. Maybe someday, when I look back on this, I hope I can say, āYeah, I tried my best, and I donāt regret it.ā And when she recalls this, sheāll say, āHeās a good person, but we just donāt fit.ā. Maybe after this Iāll never love anyone again, Iām afraid that someday I wonāt love her anymore and also afraid someday she wonāt love me anymore. Not matter what, I think itās all my fault, canāt to trust, canāt to love, canāt to persevere, thatās me.
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2024.05.19 07:00 minnel567 Want to talk about this Isekai that is underrated but is actually good
https://ncode.syosetu.com/n5534co/ https://www.novelupdates.com/series/re-tale-of-a-hero/ https://forums.animesuki.com/showthread.php?t=141085 I don't really post much but I just want to know if someone in this sub already read about this isekai which for me one of the decent ones out there unfortunately it's not much translated.
It's a WN and have more than 2k chapters of main story and 1k+ chapters of sidestory back in earth.
Genre:Isekai,Harem,Fantasy,Scifi,Tragedy?(Flash back),PoV,Mystery
Main plot A whole school is transported to another world with our mc in it. Surprisingly enough all amenities are still working including water, electricity and sewage. People don't just get powers yhough amd yhey need to learn things to survive. The twist is the MC actually already get isekaid in this world , he even brought the former demon lord with him and is disguising as a student(she's his lover and she's not the only one)and is thinking of going back after creating the magic to do so, he thought it's a little bit early but surprised that he is transported back 500 years in the future. He now plans on guiding the whole school to survive in the background while hiding his powers, that mind you he doesn't really mind if discovered but it's easier for him if they don't know much about it( chaos will ensue if they think he can bring them home just because his op)
Characters: You can check the characters here but I'll mainly talk about MC Kaito Amane, the MC, normaly is a chill dude and level headed his your typical normal black haired mc the only difference is his been describe to be handsome instead of the usual loser mc has a circle of friends but is not one of those every body in school knows him type of popular. That is until he stops restricting his magic then he becomes brash and a little bit arrogant but not the douche type arrogant, just the confident one , he also is a battle maniac even if he doesn't want to admit it, and surprisingly this is actually his real personality the reason for him being so calm and collected type or quite type in his suppressed state is because mana is directly link to the psyche and suppressing it also suppresses his emotions or atleast lessen it.
Socially the guy know how to make friends, he hates slavers to his core (because of past experience) and think owning a slave is one of the worst thing a human can do(depending on how the slave state though , he understood that slaves can only survive as slave sometimes). On the Harem aspect of the story the guy is a chad , no rape (there's just that one time when schatach rape him because she's stronger that time), he don't engage sexual activities with minor(his older than he looks but there's a reason why he still go to highschool) and he does his best to givr time to each other harem mems(going on date and hanging out not just sex) and most of his relationships are actually just natural. Aside from that his a solid homie and us actually wingmans some other guy friends too.
The Story Story is freaking long, and slow burn fights Don't happened much but interactions are gold, when there's fights though it's actually epic and the power system is
mwah frech kiss( I won't spoil this because this is one of the best parts although the different power systems are laid slowly). It has different PoVs and The MC don't just steam roll the problems and it make sense, the characters are very distinct to each other and have their own personalities. This WN have other guys not just the MC and not just MC harem and not everyone falls inlove with the mc. Something funny is that one classmate has his own unwanted harem and Kaito gets a feeling of comraderie( Kaito is not supposed to have a harem at first but the other worlds sense of value and sense of duty leads him to having one). Andy favorite part of the story os unveiling Kaitos past because every new thing we learned about Kaito new questions pops up. The story is also linked to earth which is cool. The PoV changes is one thing I enjoyed to here the PoVs are not meant to show the mcs opness (only sometimes) but to build the world to others eyes or just to show their daily life. The tone can change from a drop of a dime at one time it's fun and all and yhe next time you know theres death. The world itself is intriguing and the history for the 500 years that has beem skip is one of the biggest mystery in the story.
I think that's the point I caan think for now. I love it and the author is releasing regularly theres even a yime that he releases 3 chaps a day. It's a solid story that every isekai lover will love( I think ?)so give it a try.
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2024.05.19 06:59 -thimbl how do i get rid of my collection?
| i collected for years, but now they just sit in my drawers. i want to get rid of most of my crystals, but i never get them sold online. these are just a few glimpses, i have drawers full of crystals. where is the best place to sell these? id like at least a little bit of profit. otherwise im just gonna throw it all away. it takes up so much space.. submitted by -thimbl to Crystals [link] [comments] |
2024.05.19 06:59 evilwizardlewzar Dating and Dating Apps as FTM
Looking for advice for navigating dating apps as a transman interested in ciswomen only. Iām completely stealth, transitioned 5 years ago and the only people in my life that know are my family who lives across the country and the handful of people where I live who knew me pre-transition.
I dated a girl I met on hinge for 5 months. She said she was bi/questioning in her profile, and had no idea I wasnāt cis until I told her on the 3rd date (when I was sure we were both serious about each other, but if I could do it again I would have told her after the 1st date). It ended up not working out, and we broke up a while ago. One of the reasons being sheās actually lesbian and hoped dating a transman would give her the ābest of both worldsā. ie to her parents and family it looked like she was dating a guy, but behind closed doors/in the bedroom she wanted to treat me like a woman. When she realized I was āreally a guyā, she ended things. But in the end we werenāt compatible in a lot of ways. Really shitty all around, but it is what it is.
Now I am back on hinge, but having difficulty getting matches. I think and worry that I got lucky the first time, as there arenāt as many bi women and Iām not sure how accepting most women are that have straight in their profile or donāt mention sexuality in their profile. Sometimes it feels like Iām too straight for bi women but donāt have the plumbing of a cis-man for straight cis-women to accept. My ex and I are still friends and sheās offered to take me with her to some gay/lesbian bars and clubs, but thatās not really my crowd and I donāt know how much luck I would have given I am cis-passing and straight. Looking for any advice or anyoneās experiences with this.
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2024.05.19 06:59 AdvertisingFree3968 My marriage is over.
But even typing this, it doesnāt feel real. I still have hope tonight that he can change. I feel so stupid.
I am 38F and he is 39M.
I am devastated. I would do anything and everything to be married forever, but itās no longer an option and hasnāt been since the fourth month of our marriage. I was 8 weeks pregnant with his child and he assaulted me with a metal cup in the car while he was driving on the freeway because I wouldnāt stop saying why he was upsetting me. The fight continued when we got home and he had called the police, lied to them and had me arrested. Eight weeks pregnant. With bruises up and down my body. I got arrested. I spent the night in jail and had to listen to my babyās heartbeat for the first time from a county jail exam table.
Somehow, through that, we stayed married. Abuse makes you do wild things. It changes your brain. Abusers purposely make you confused. Through counseling, I am coming out of the confusion now, though.
I could go on and on about the abuse I have suffered. I am here today because typing this makes it real that I am leaving. And I am here today because I need support in understanding that he is not going to change.
This morning things escalated by 8am. This is typical weekend behavior. I discovered that he has been smoking cigarettes in one of the vehicles that is in my name and that I pay for, and that I have asked him not to smoke in repeatedly. I do not smoke. I think itās gross. And it has ruined the interior of this vehicle that is expensive. Not only that, but our child has asthma. Most likely because he IS a smoker. Anyway, I grabbed something out of the vehicle for his 6yo and I came back in and simply said āplease donāt smoke in the truck anymore. Please donāt tell me that you havenāt been either.ā This sent him into a spiral. He called me names and said that I am controlling. He started following me around the house screaming behind my head. He is nearly a foot taller than me and this is physically intimidating to me. So much so that my hands start to shake, my heart races and my thoughts become blurry when he does this. I knew at this point it was best for me to get our child and leave. So I was doing that. But this morning he would not let me leave the bedroom and was blocking me from leaving with our child with his body in the doorway. I told him I was going to call non-emergency if he didnāt move. And he would not. So I was trying to figure out how to call but my hands were shaking so bad and my brain was so jumbled I gave up and called my sister on speaker. I asked her to call the police. As soon as he saw her name on my phone he moved and let me leave. He yelled at me and our child out the door and to the neighborhood āsee - Iām so scary - Iām letting you leaveā. I got our child in the backseat and drove down the street to park and get them dressed. They were only in a pull up. I saw the officer coming down the road and flagged him down. I told him what happened and he went and talked with him. I left with our child and went to my sisters. Eventually we came home and he has been upstairs ever since. This is also typical. He will have an outburst. And then go upstairs and not speak to me for a week. And then one morning heāll just wake up and decide that itās time to be normal again. And generally comes to me and says āhave you calmed downā. Which, as you can imagine, perpetuates the situation further. And drags it on. He does not understand accountability.
We have been married 3.5 years, together for 5 total. We have one child together (2yo) and he has two other children (6yo and 14yo).
We moved in together after 9 months of dating. That is when the abuse started. The first time he was physically abusive, he broke through our bedroom door. Broke. The entire door - down. Somehow, I decided to continue.
From the start, Iāve known it was never going to last. He is unstable. He has a long and dark history of mental illness (both himself and his immediate maternal and paternal family). In addition to struggling with substance abuse his entire life. His childhood is tragic and full of heartache. It shaped the man he is today, and not for the better.
He is in the trades industry and has a GED. I am a director level professional and have a college degree. His father was in prison for the last half of his childhood and eventually took his life when he was released. My father is a retired architect, Vietnam vet. We grew up completely different. Both of our parents divorced. He then suffered verbal and emotional abuse from his step father. I suffered verbal, emotional, and physical abuse from my mother.
I believe my mother is a narcissist and undiagnosed. And I believe my husband has narcissistic tendencies and/or is one. But I am not a medical professional. I am going on what Iāve experienced with both of them.
When we first met, he was 34 and I was 33. He was unemployed and really not doing well. Drinking in access. A lot. Everyday. But I did not know. I was doing very well. I had spent my 20s creating a fulfilling and financially successful career. He spent his 20s job hopping and, quite honestly, messing around. But we had fun together. But having fun together is not real life.
Here is where the manipulation began. He was upfront about his upbringing and past. And was genuinely making steps towards a better life. He is a born again Christian. And as an educated person, I believe he has grabbed on to what is actually important in the Bible. However, he is unable to abide by what a husband biblically should be. He does not love, protect or provide for me or our child. We joined a church, I became involved and made friends, and we went there as a family for multiple years. Until one night he showed up drunk, and I never went back.
I am the breadwinner. I pay for ev. ry. thing. He keeps his entire paycheck and will not give me money to pay bills. He will also not physically pay the bills. I manage and pay all bills. But not because I donāt want him to. I have begged, cried, and tried a million different systems (both digital and analog) to make him involved. And he flat out refuses. He abused our shared checking by taking money out to āpay billsā from his personal checking account and then did not pay those bills and spent the money. So I would then have to pay multiple months and late fees to catch up. Many. Many. Times.
In addition to not contributing financially, he does not contribute to the household upkeep or yard maintenance. Literally nothing. If I want the yard kept, I do it, or I pay someone to do it. If something on a vehicle goes out, I make the appointment and consult with the technician. But again, not because I want to, but because he will not participate. Or if he does, itās half assed and more work for me. He does not grocery shop or cook. He has never cooked one meal for me. I think heās maybe gotten a bowl of ice cream for me a couple times? He does not clean. He has cleaned the bathroom in our home two times. We have lived here 4 years. We live in separate bedrooms because he wonāt pickup after himself. His room is squalor. Clothes on every square inch. Fast food wrappers. No sheet on mattress. I have cleaned it for him many times in hopes that we could make a drastic change and start sleepin next to each other again. But he refuses. I know this sounds insane that I have stayed married. It sounds insane to me.
He verbally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, sexually and financially abuses me. Maybe not all at once, everyday. But one of them most likely daily now. Or a couple. Itās been a very long time since there has been a long stretch of stability or peace.
However, I am changing all of that this year. I have hired an attorney and am climbing through the paperwork right now.
On Christmas morning last year, before we hosted family that day, he threw a (heavy) laundry basket full of dirty clothes at me as I was going down the stairs because I asked him for help with something. And after the first one hit me, I sat down and covered my head so I wouldnāt fall, and he threw another one at me. I donāt know how I masked my raw emotions through the rest of the day with family over. I ate not one bite. I pushed my food around my plate and tried to make my face contort into normal emotions for the day.
But I stayed. Again.
Motherās Day morning this year. Just one week ago - I spent it locked in my bedroom with our child paying the divorce attorney retainer fee on the laptop as he screamed at me what a piece of shit mother and wife I am. I honestly donāt even know what I did or remember why it escalated. Most likely because it was a holiday - and not about him.
I am exhausted. I have lost close to 30lbs since January. People are beginning to notice.
I wanted a family more than anything. I adore my child. I spend my days and nights dreaming up ways to enrich their life. I wanted family vacations and world travel. I wanted to host, big, extended family holiday gatherings. I wanted my little baby to know what it felt like to have a mom and dad at home together every night. But not at this cost. The very worst part of my parenting is staying married. I am a bad parent every day that I stay here.
I wish I could file the petition and fast forward a year. I know Iāll be okay. Itās ripping off the bandaid that hurts.
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2024.05.19 06:59 evilwizardlewzar Dating and Dating Apps as FTM
Looking for advice for navigating dating apps as a transman interested in ciswomen only. Iām completely stealth, transitioned 5 years ago and the only people in my life that know are my family who lives across the country and the handful of people where I live who knew me pre-transition.
I dated a girl I met on hinge for 5 months. She said she was bi/questioning in her profile, and had no idea I wasnāt cis until I told her on the 3rd date (when I was sure we were both serious about each other, but if I could do it again I would have told her after the 1st date). It ended up not working out, and we broke up a while ago. One of the reasons being sheās actually lesbian and hoped dating a transman would give her the ābest of both worldsā. ie to her parents and family it looked like she was dating a guy, but behind closed doors/in the bedroom she wanted to treat me like a woman. When she realized I was āreally a guyā, she ended things. But in the end we werenāt compatible in a lot of ways. Really shitty all around, but it is what it is.
Now I am back on hinge, but having difficulty getting matches. I think and worry that I got lucky the first time, as there arenāt as many bi women and Iām not sure how accepting most women are that have straight in their profile or donāt mention sexuality in their profile. Sometimes it feels like Iām too straight for bi women but donāt have the plumbing of a cis-man for straight cis-women to accept. My ex and I are still friends and sheās offered to take me with her to some gay/lesbian bars and clubs, but thatās not really my crowd and I donāt know how much luck I would have given I am cis-passing and straight. Looking for any advice or anyoneās experiences with this.
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2024.05.19 06:59 leeleebiiiird I blame myself for getting groomed sometimes
Warning: this post includes explicit inappropriate and sexual topics as well as triggering topics about grooming and pedos.
Alright, I got a tablet at like late 9, maybe 10 years old. After a bit I quickly downloaded online social media apps. I had some fun things come from it like finding YouTubers I liked, finding bands I liked, finding out new fashion styles, totally harmless stuff. But also things that I really regret like online dating lots of people and like now that I'm thinking of it many of them were way too old for me and pedos and also rude and toxic, and used me for my body. And damn it, it ruined my mental health. I don't know why I wanted a bf at 10 but apparently I did cuz I dated, flirted with, and was inappropriate with like 100 people online, some of which strangers, by the age of 14. Most of them were either meaningless, toxic, or straight up abusive and horrible people. And damn I regret it so much. I wish I didn't download that app. If I didn't I probably wouldn't have been groomed by pedos, my literal first orgasm I can remember was because a pedo told me to touch myself, I was so young and uneducated I didn't even know what an orgasm was, I literally thought I was gonna pee. God damn it and the worst part is that I blame myself because I joined the dating group in the first place. But to be honest I think I just wanted someone to like me because before that none of my crushes IRL at school ever liked me back.
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2024.05.19 06:58 Think_Comfort_4093 SIL thinks she's entitled to late Brother's property.
So to start off this isn't my story but one of my best friend's (Alyssa) but I was there when it happened. It's something that happened a years ago but we were reminiscing about the past & then after seeing a couple other posts similar to this situation, got talking about it. I have been given permission to talk/post about it.
My best friend, who we'll call, James, met the love of his life, Alyssa when we were teenagers. Unfortunately they ended up breaking up over a misunderstanding. A few years later they ended up meeting again through a mutual friend of ours, Alan, who was her cousin at his birthday party. After reconnecting, they fell back in love & got back together. When they wanted to get married not even a year after dating, his family (mainly parents) thought they were moving too fast along with the fact they thought she was only after his money. Which wasn't true because she had her own money as she was doing very well in her career just as he was. And when his family realized that they apologized & warmed up to her. Unfortunately roughly 4 years after they were married, he died in a car accident. The house (which he bought not even a month before they got back together) was in his will to go to her and the daughter they shared together.
Roughly 6 months after his funeral, his sister, who we'll call Josie, showed up at the house. (Alyssa has allowed & still does allow James family to see their daughter along with letting them have her for occasional holidays or almost anytime they want or the daughter wants to go over)
When Josie said that she, her husband & 2 children needed a place, Alyssa was quick to offer them a place to stay until they got back on their feet. (The house is a 3 bedroom with a finished walk-out basement) Here's where it gets amusing in our eyes. Josie, started going off on her, saying how Alyssa needs to move out & find somewhere else to live. That it was only right for Josie & her family to be the one that has her brother's house. She even said that Alyssa only had it because of him and now that he's gone, there's no reason for her to be still living there.
Josie even went as far as saying James would be rolling in his grave Knowing there's "lesbian lovers" living in his house. (I wasn't living there but was there quite a bit to help out) That it was wrong because she (Alyssa) was cheating on James even before he died with me & Josie didn't know why he even stuck with her. Which surprised us both to hear her say cause she always appeared that she liked us both. After they argued more Alyssa tried multiple times to get her to leave but of course Josie said she wasn't going to until "the house was given to her like it should have been all along." Alyssa eventually called Josie's parents & had asked them to come remove their daughter from the house & if they couldn't she'd be forced to get the authorities involved. Thankfully they did but unfortunately over the next month Josie showed up & tried multiple times arguing with Alyssa more over who should be living in the house until her parents threatened to take her out of the will.
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2024.05.19 06:58 Jealous_Criticism_68 I feel lonely and today I cried a lot out of nowhere.
A bit of context, I'm currently alone, and my partner (honestly, my best friend) is out on a trip.
We live outside of our home country, so we only have a few friends, no family, but I've got a dog (my rock tbh).
So, today I was reading some histories online (my hobby) and in such history a mother was picture protecting her child, then the OP said the word "mother" and I suddenly started crying hard out of nowhere, my dog came to me and helped me calmed down.
1) The thing is that I know why I cried... I feel lonely and powerless, we are changing countries (I don't know the language of such country). I'm young 22, but I also feel that I crashed my partners feeling by telling her that she needed to figure her life out, if she wanted to be a mother and she needed to work for that goal financially.
But, she likes to travel and has a job related to it. I never liked it. This job has no future, and people retire in the same position as her with low, very low pay. So, I always told her that if she wanted to travel, she could work into a better field with better pay, so the flight benefits would be just meaningless.
She refuses and insists that this is her dream job ( I know, it isn't she wanted something else, but settle for less since she can't have it (residency status issue))
I've been telling her for years that she has to work for the goal of being a mother and provide financially, and having a better career with a higher salary/future is better.
She kept saying later later that it's been 3 years of this. The plan was to have a kid at 25 (her age, next year), but I told her bringing a child into our situation is a selfish decision, and we can't.
I was pretty mad and said hurtful things, this is because I know what its to have parents that struggle and do their best so their kids can eat, study, have good cloth, etc. (I want to clarify, I apologized for my behavior).
She also sees children and traveling not possible together.tbh I think with a good plan it can work just fine. But she doesn't it.
For this reason, she said later into the conversation that she won't have children. I was sad when i heard it, because I saw her face, it looked destroyed like something died inside.
Later, we talked more, and I finally convinced her to not give up on the idea but to work for it. (She said she'll take a break of the topic this year and next year. She will invest fully in it) I'm very happy with this outcome.
However, seeing her face when she said those words was horrible, I just felt bad, like my shiny rock wasn't radiant anymore.
It's also the moving it's very stressful and annoying because I don't know the language and it's my fault for not studying it. I feel frustrated, now I'm studying it, and I'm trying to build a habit of it.
Anyway, I think that today, when I read that word, I just cried so badly because I remembered the hardships my mom endured and the face my partner made. I just felt useless and impotent.
A few more things:
I don't mind having children, it will be nice, but it's not the most in my life.
However, I am trying since that's her goal. So, I signed up for university and set up a saving goal. Currently have 30k (after paying the U in full, very proud tbh).
Thanks for reading my rambling!
Edit: some grammar corrections
To add:
I'm not a saint. I have a lot of issues, too, so this is not intended to portray my partner as bad. She is by far the funniest person I've ever met after me, and she is caring and understanding and shows her appreciation a lot and constantly.
This is just my current view of this situation and how it made me feel and comments are appreciated.
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2024.05.19 06:56 NeuronsToNirvana Figures; Conclusions; Future directions Hypothesis and Theory: Chronic pain as an emergent property of a complex system and the potential roles of psychedelic therapies Frontiers in Pain Research: Non-Pharmacological Treatment of Pain [Apr 2024]
| Despite research advances and urgent calls by national and global health organizations, clinical outcomes for millions of people suffering with chronic pain remain poor. We suggest bringing the lens of complexity science to this problem, conceptualizing chronic pain as an emergent property of a complex biopsychosocial system. We frame pain-related physiology, neuroscience, developmental psychology, learning, and epigenetics as components and mini-systems that interact together and with changing socioenvironmental conditions, as an overarching complex system that gives rise to the emergent phenomenon of chronic pain. We postulate that the behavior of complex systems may help to explain persistence of chronic pain despite current treatments. From this perspective, chronic pain may benefit from therapies that can be both disruptive and adaptive at higher orders within the complex system. We explore psychedelic-assisted therapies and how these may overlap with and complement mindfulness-based approaches to this end. Both mindfulness and psychedelic therapies have been shown to have transdiagnostic value, due in part to disruptive effects on rigid cognitive, emotional, and behavioral patterns as well their ability to promote neuroplasticity. Psychedelic therapies may hold unique promise for the management of chronic pain. Figure 1 https://preview.redd.it/zgpjyihsdb1d1.jpg?width=945&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6ec6f8e4cab44213aa6330998ba8febd85f5315a Proposed schematic representing interacting components and mini-systems. Central arrows represent multidirectional interactions among internal components. As incoming data are processed, their influence and interpretation are affected by many system components, including others not depicted in this simple graphic. The brain's predictive processes are depicted as the dashed line encircling the other components, because these predictive processes not only affect interpretation of internal signals but also perception of and attention to incoming data from the environment. Figure 2 https://preview.redd.it/e9g8b5stdb1d1.jpg?width=1056&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=83febb37a610bb6b01c5cec42be127b1dd72d7b3 Proposed mechanisms for acute and long-term effects of psychedelic and mindfulness therapies on chronic pain syndromes. Adapted from Heuschkel and Kuypers: Frontiers in Psychiatry 2020 Mar 31, 11:224; DOI: 10.3389/fpsyt.2020.00224. 5 Conclusions While conventional reductionist approaches may continue to be of value in understanding specific mechanisms that operate within any complex system, chronic pain may deserve a more complexāyet not necessarily complicatedāapproach to understanding and treatment. Psychedelics have multiple mechanisms of action that are only partly understood, and most likely many other actions are yet to be discovered. Many such mechanisms identified to date come from their interaction with the 5-HT2A receptor, whose endogenous ligand, serotonin, is a molecule that is involved in many processes that are central not only to human life but also to most life forms, including microorganisms, plants, and fungi (261). There is a growing body of research related to the anti-nociceptive and anti-inflammatory properties of classic psychedelics and non-classic compounds such as ketamine and MDMA. These mechanisms may vary depending on the compound and the context within which the compound is administered. The subjective psychedelic experience itself, with its relationship to modulating internal and external factors (often discussed as āset and settingā) also seems to fit the definition of an emergent property of a complex system (216). Perhaps a direction of inquiry on psychedelicsā benefits in chronic pain might emerge from studying the effects of mindfulness meditation in similar populations. Fadel Zeidan, who heads the Brain Mechanisms of Pain, Health, and Mindfulness Laboratory at the University of California in San Diego, has proposed that the relationship between mindfulness meditation and the pain experience is complex, likely engaging āmultiple brain networks and neurochemical mechanismsā¦ [including] executive shifts in attention and nonjudgmental reappraisal of noxious sensationsā (322). This description mirrors those by Robin Carhart-Harris and others regarding the therapeutic effects of psychedelics (81, 216, 326, 340). We propose both modalities, with their complex (and potentially complementary) mechanisms of action, may be particularly beneficial for individuals affected by chronic pain. When partnered with pain neuroscience education, movement- or somatic-based therapies, self-compassion, sleep hygiene, and/or nutritional counseling, patients may begin to make important lifestyle changes, improve their pain experience, and expand the scope of their daily lives in ways they had long deemed impossible. Indeed, the potential for PAT to enhance the adoption of health-promoting behaviors could have the potential to improve a wide array of chronic conditions (341). The growing list of proposed actions of classic psychedelics that may have therapeutic implications for individuals experiencing chronic pain may be grouped into acute, subacute, and longer-term effects. Acute and subacute effects include both anti-inflammatory and analgesic effects (peripheral and central), some of which may not require a psychedelic experience. However, the acute psychedelic experience appears to reduce the influence of overweighted priors, relaxing limiting beliefs, and softening or eliminating pathologic canalization that may drive the chronicity of these syndromesāat least temporarily (81, 164, 216). The acute/subacute phase of the psychedelic experience may affect memory reconsolidation [as seen with MDMA therapies (342, 343)], with implications not only for traumatic events related to injury but also to one's āpain story.ā Finally, a window of increased neuroplasticity appears to open after treatment with psychedelics. This neuroplasticity has been proposed to be responsible for many of the known longer lasting effects, such as trait openness and decreased depression and anxiety, both relevant in pain, and which likely influence learning and perhaps epigenetic changes. Throughout this process and continuing after a formal intervention, mindfulness-based interventions and other therapies may complement, enhance, and extend the benefits achieved with psychedelic-assisted therapies. 6 Future directions Psychedelic-assisted therapy research is at an early stage. A great deal remains to be learned about potential therapeutic benefits as well as risks associated with these compounds. Mechanisms such as those related to inflammation, which appear to be independent of the subjective psychedelic effects, suggest activity beyond the 5HT2A receptor and point to a need for research to further characterize how psychedelic compounds interact with different receptors and affect various components of the pain neuraxis. This and other mechanistic aspects may best be studied with animal models. High-quality clinical data are desperately needed to help shape emerging therapies, reduce risks, and optimize clinical and functional outcomes. In particular, given the apparent importance of contextual factors (so-called āset and settingā) to outcomes, the field is in need of well-designed research to clarify the influence of various contextual elements and how those elements may be personalized to patient needs and desired outcomes. Furthermore, to truly maximize benefit, interventions likely need to capitalize on the context-dependent neuroplasticity that is stimulated by psychedelic therapies. To improve efficacy and durability of effects, psychedelic experiences almost certainly need to be followed by reinforcement via integration of experiences, emotions, and insights revealed during the psychedelic session. There is much research to be done to determine what kinds of therapies, when paired within a carefully designed protocol with psychedelic medicines may be optimal. An important goal is the coordination of a personalized treatment plan into an organized wholeāan approach that already is recommended in chronic pain but seldom achieved. The value of PAT is that not only is it inherently biopsychosocial but, when implemented well, it can be therapeutic at all three domains: biologic, psychologic, and interpersonal. As more clinical and preclinical studies are undertaken, we ought to keep in mind the complexity of chronic pain conditions and frame study design and outcome measurements to understand how they may fit into a broader biopsychosocial approach. In closing, we argue that we must remain steadfast rather than become overwhelmed when confronted with the complexity of pain syndromes. We must appreciate and even embrace this complex biopsychosocial system. In so doing, novel approaches, such as PAT, that emphasize meeting complexity with complexity may be developed and refined. This could lead to meaningful improvements for millions of people who suffer with chronic pain. More broadly, this could also support a shift in medicine that transcends the confines of a predominantly materialist-reductionist approachāone that may extend to the many other complex chronic illnesses that comprise the burden of suffering and cost in modern-day healthcare. Original Source submitted by NeuronsToNirvana to NeuronsToNirvana [link] [comments] |
2024.05.19 06:55 Thedepravedsoul I found out my (19M) girlfriend (18F) cheated on me months ago
It was 6 months ago when I caught my girlfriend holding hands with her male best friend who openly had a crush on her and I asked her to lessen contact with him. Well clearly she didn't and the day I caught caught her, I also found out there were intimate texts between them. She even told her other friend that she couldn't talk to me because I sucked at communication, and she had to go to her male best friend for comfort instead. Her family also really doesn't like me and constantly invites that guy to come to her house and spend time with them and my girlfriend has never objected until I confronted her. I don't know for sure if she cheated on me sexually, but I wouldn't be surprised.
Well only after 6 months did she finally cut him off and got her family to stop inviting him over, but during those months she was very quiet about the whole situation and I've always had to ask her about it to know if she finally did it. I begged and pleaded but she didn't seem to care. Well six months of that shitshow later, I don't trust that she had really cut him off. I'm not sure if she's telling me the truth or if she's lying to me again. She also didn't put much effort into our relationship when she promised she would be more proactive in building this trust again.
I broke up with her when I found out back then, but we got back together and now I feel like an idiot for taking her back. I should have known that she wasn't going to make me feel more secure and I am once again dealing with the anxiety alone. She gaslights me for being mad about the cheating and we have arguments all the time about her infidelity. I also feel like an idiot for entering a relationship with her when her family clearly wants her to date her male "best friend". I gotta say I am never dating a girl with a male best friend again. I am so close to breaking up with her again, I just can't take this anymore.
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2024.05.19 06:54 evilwizardlewzar Dating and Dating Apps as FTM
Looking for advice for navigating dating apps as a transman interested in ciswomen only. Iām completely stealth, transitioned 5 years ago and the only people in my life that know are my family who lives across the country and the handful of people where I live who knew me pre-transition.
I dated a girl I met on hinge for 5 months. She said she was bi/questioning in her profile, and had no idea I wasnāt cis until I told her on the 3rd date (when I was sure we were both serious about each other, but if I could do it again I would have told her after the 1st date). It ended up not working out, and we broke up a while ago. One of the reasons being sheās actually lesbian and hoped dating a transman would give her the ābest of both worldsā. ie to her parents and family it looked like she was dating a guy, but behind closed doors/in the bedroom she wanted to treat me like a woman. When she realized I was āreally a guyā, she ended things. But in the end we werenāt compatible in a lot of ways. Really shitty all around, but it is what it is.
Now I am back on hinge, but having difficulty getting matches. I think and worry that I got lucky the first time, as there arenāt as many bi women and Iām not sure how accepting most women are that have straight in their profile or donāt mention sexuality in their profile. Sometimes it feels like Iām too straight for bi women but donāt have the plumbing of a cis-man for straight cis-women to accept. My ex and I are still friends and sheās offered to take me with her to some gay/lesbian bars and clubs, but thatās not really my crowd and I donāt know how much luck I would have given I am cis-passing and straight. Looking for any advice or anyoneās experiences with this.
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2024.05.19 06:54 Cherryrose442 Iām so scared
Iāve been lonely lately despite hanging out more with my mom and sister. I literally have only one friend, weāre online friends, but I want to have In real life friends & a boyfriend. Iām stuck in a city I hate so I rarely leave home to meet anyone, plus I have really bad anxiety, and Iām embarrassed to go on any dating apps. Iāll be leaving Detroit in a few months, and Iām really happy about it because itās holding me back and Iāll get out more once Iām out of here. Til then, Iāll say dream about having a boyfriend.
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2024.05.19 06:53 esInvests 2023 was my best trading year to date
| Tldr: consider integrating uncapped profit style trades in your broader portfolio. I started trading in 2007 while in high school. I grew up poor with a single parent in a relatively high crime area (actually was stabbed in my hand in high school). I started primarily as a vertical spread seller and quickly moved away from them when I realized how little they did for the portfolio. 2023 marked the first year I crossed a triple digit portfolio return, coming in at 118%. Markets have unequivocally changed my life. This is a screenshot of an article business insider did on me, I include this simply because they reviewed my return statements. There are a lot of ways to approach trading, but something I want to share with those in this community is to strongly consider integrating uncapped upside potential trades. As I look at my performance most years, while short premium strategies are a staple of what I do, they generate a smaller portion of my returns than capital gains. Most of my directional trades include short premium components - Ratio Diagonals, where I use long options as the base long (calls) or short (puts) that I sell options at a ratio against. However, I am sure to keep the upside potential in the trade. The vast majority of what I trade has short option components (Covered strangles and ratio diagonals) or even strictly short options (short straddles and strangles for earnings releases, 0DTE SPX, etc) but still the majority of my returns stem from the unlimited profit potential positions. Of note, this is ALL one anecdote from my personal experience. This by no means is āthe only wayā to do things. However for those traders specifically in this community, I share this as a consideration as itās something I genuinely wish I personally found out earlier. Good luck! submitted by esInvests to thetagang [link] [comments] |
2024.05.19 06:52 calvin-_- My thoughts on improving Starting 5 after going 147-5 in season 6
- Keep track of our record. Itās crazy how I have to manually keep track of my record on a whiteboard in the year 2024
- Have games affect color plate. I shouldnāt have 100+ wins and still be a black plate just cause I havenāt stepped into rec, park, or theater on a new build
- Donāt make the AI shoot just because I press X. So many times Iām pressing X to dive for a loose ball, but my AI teammate gets it first then launches a full court shot that makes zero sense.
- Give players control over the active freelance set
- Stop letting AI ignore me if Iām calling for the ball. Thereās been plenty of times Iāve got 37 of our 40 points, and AI will ignore me for a possession as they take a horrible contested shot.
- Let us turn off the option to auto foul in crunch time
- Let us turn off auto timeouts
- There should be better positional matchmaking. I think 1-3 matchmaking should be separated from 4-5 matchmaking
- There should be separate matchmaking doors for All time teams, regular teams, and historic teams. Choosing a regular team then rolling my eyes and having to pivot to an All time team to compete with the all time lakers is annoying.
- Make the game mode green or miss. Iāve lost a 4 point game where the other guy hit 4 contested whites. (He couldāve been cheating) Iāve hit a fair share of lucky whites too, but itās usually on a layup once every 10 games.
- Let us modify the starting lineup (within reason). All time Rockets would be more fun if I could have Harden at the 1 instead of Calvin Murphy
This has easily been my favorite game mode, outside of rec with my squad, and the best online solo experience Iāve had on 2k in years. Do yāall have any other ideas that could help improve this mode?
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