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Hands on plot

2013.08.14 03:00 Hands on plot

A place to appreciate and discuss plot in video games. 2D, 3D, male, female, SFW, NSFW, all kinds of video game plot are welcome here.
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2012.04.24 23:25 BlockoManWINS Unexpected calm from the most unexpected places

Welcome! Here, we provide a space to discover and share those unsuspecting moments that send tingles down our spines. Whether it's the sound of someone gently tapping their nails or the soft whispers of a video, this community is all about embracing the unintentional triggers that calm our minds. Feel free to share your own experiences, videos, and stories, and let's celebrate unintentional ASMR!
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2012.12.28 06:52 thedeafpoliceman Whiteknighting

Saving Damsels In Distress One Keyboard At A Time
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2024.05.19 07:43 nomorelandfills San Diego Humane Society declares state of emergency as over-capacity issues hits 150-200% as they cling to no-kill policies including feline return to field

San Diego Humane Society declares state of emergency as over-capacity issues hits 150-200% as they cling to no-kill policies including feline return to field
San Diego Humane Society is the contracted animal control, open-admission shelter for the city of San Diego and 12 other cities in San Diego County.
Warm climate. Huge land area. High cost of living. A humane community that has prioritized adoption and virtually abandoned sterilization for decades. Throw in a pandemic frenzy of
Lots and lots and lots of animals.
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SAN DIEGO (FOX 5/KUSI) — The San Diego Humane Society is facing a state of emergency as facilities are maxed out by record numbers of dogs in care.
Those numbers are expected to triple as the summer months arrive.
Last year, the Humane Society had 540 dogs in their care every day.
“Today in 2024 we have 640 dogs per day in our animal shelters,” a spokesperson with the organization announced.
The Humane Society is offering and urgent plea as the number of dogs coming in is on track to reach catastrophic levels in the just a few months.
““Our dogs are the issue right now. We are at 150 to 200% capacity for our dogs throughout this county,” said the Humane Society.
Unwanted litters are the biggest reason they are receiving so many animals.
“In 6 years, two unaltered dogs, un-spayed and unneutered male and female and their offspring, can be responsible for over 60,000 K9s,” another representative explained.
The Humane Society is urging people to spay and neuter their pets, and adopt from a shelter. For those who can’t adopt, the shelter is asking the public to consider fostering.
Taking a quick look at their dogs for adoption reveals a key reason they're overwhelmed - they're refusing to triage.
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So Blue is a fearful, 57lb adult pit bull who requires a behavior consult to adopt.
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So Mother Gothel is a 69lb adult pit bull who is "a bit sensitive" about being touched or restrained.
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So a 68lb adult pit/shepherd? mix that is so fearful he's needed behavior rehab and needs more.
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When you have empty kennels, you might tinker with these dogs. When you're overcrowded and running to the media to tell the public to come in and adopt? You're supposed to be euthanizing for behavior issues that require behavior rehab and unicorn adopters.
They're also refusing to euthanize for length of stay, even when that stay stretches to nearly a year.
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In April, SDHS noted National Dog Bite Prevention Week by released a video which essentially demands we normalize their refusal to euthanize iffy, marginal and dangerous dogs - by blaming humans for interacting with dogs. They also did this in 2023. Because that's why dogs bite - humans interact with them. Nothing to do with the dog.
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Other interesting SDHS behavior - foregoing an investigation into a serious dog attack on an elderly woman. Instead, sympathetically warns dog owner that to surrender the attacker means they'll euthanize her due to the bite history.
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Their ongoing legal trouble over return to field, currently pending as Pet Assistance Foundation v. San Diego Humane.
See the Cliftons article for more info
Cat control "trial of the century" cleared to proceed in San Diego - Animals 24-7
And let's not forget their disaster last year while swapping pocket pets with a 'rescue partner.'
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2024.05.19 07:25 No-Transition-4912 [TOMT] Japanese rock band - YouTube music video

I just rediscovered girugamesh randomly on YouTube and now I’m trying to remember another band I found and listened to back in like 2008-2010. The band may have been older than that time but.. the problem is I don’t remember any lyrics. I remember they’re a rock band that may have some screaming. The lead singer and guitarist were male but wore dresses and heavy makeup and maybe wigs in the music video. It was a music video where they are playing in front of and or running through like 2D drawings and I think I remember seeing dragon eggs in it at one point lol. Any chance anyone knows?
Edit update: I just remembered the opening word: “itsumademo~” where the mo trails off higher almost into a yell in the next word
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2024.05.19 07:17 xXBoredxLoverXx How do I read? Gender+age range?

How do I read? Gender+age range?
I’ve made a post here before but I’ve changed slightly and wanted to know if people see me as the way I identify (male) and do I also look younger than I am? (15 going on 16 in a few months) I can’t share videos with sucks bc I usually only show my face in videos but these pictures are the best I have since I don’t necessarily take selfies or let people take pictures of me too much. I know you can’t see me well so if you can’t imagine how I’d pass in person;if you were to just see a post containing somewhat or all of my face would you read it as male? I’ve been getting gendered correctly a lot in public recently so maybe I’ve been doing smth right. I’m also getting a haircut soon hopefully! Any recommendations ?
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2024.05.19 07:16 thnnewsc TORONTO PEARSON AIRPORT - CBSA OFFICER STOLEN A BAG

Hello Everyone,
Sharing my worst experience with Canadian authority at Mr My name is ABC, and I arrived in Canada on April 24th from Flight AC 841 (Frankfurt to Toronto) at 11:50 AM as an international student. While collecting my study permit at the immigration area (a hall where all students were sitting and waiting to collect their study permits) between 2 PM to 4 PM, one of the male officers took my black backpack (laptop bag) with him downstairs without my consent or informing me. I, along with other students present, witnessed this incident. Two other officers, Mr Kashyap (his last name) and Mr Parminder, were also in the area. Unfortunately, I did not catch the name of the officer who took my bag, as I only saw his backside when he walked away. He was in proper uniform. CCTV footage should capture the entire incident. There are so many cameras.
Upon receiving my study permit, I discovered that my bag was missing. Despite hours of searching at the airport, I was unable to locate the officer who took my backpack. Despite assistance from several other officers, we were unable to locate my bag. This experience was frustrating, annoying, and highly unprofessional.
On April 29th 2024, I visited Toronto Pearson Airport to inquire about my bag, but I did not receive assistance from any department. I spoke with border services, CBSA, CATSA, and Peel Police, but no one assisted in locating my bag. I’m mentally, emotionally and physically exhausted right now. I feel like people are discriminating here. As a new arrival to this beautiful country, I did not expect such treatment.
What was my fault in this situation? Why was my bag taken by the officer? Was he authorised to do so? Is it normal for Toronto Pearson Airport or CBSA staff to pick up anyone’s bag without even informing them? It appears that my bag may have been stolen by the officer. That’s why my bag has not reached to lost and found department, after 7 days. It is unacceptable for an officer to take someone's bag without reason. If there was any reason, please show the proof and let me know.
How can an officer steal? someone’s bag. I’ve never seen or heard anything like this in my lifetime. Is it normal?
This is pure HARRESEMENT against an international student who came here to study after paying a significant amount. It is disheartening to experience such treatment.
The bag contains critical documents, including educational records in a black file, an Asus laptop with my data, clients' data, private photos and videos, Samsung mobile phone cables, a Tissot watch, clothes, and other personal accessories. With my identifiable documents now potentially in the possession of someone else, I feel vulnerable to various threats. If anything happens to me as a result, the airport management will be held responsible.
Who will be responsible for the financial losses incurred by me because of this mistake? My classes on started 6th May’24. How will I study without my laptop? What if someone leaks my private photos on the internet? Who will be responsible?
-----Should I keep any hope from Peel Police or the Toronto Pearson Airport authority to locate my bag??? Peel police are incapable of finding stuff. They can't even stop car stealing or catch thieves.
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2024.05.19 07:12 thnnewsc Toronto Pearson Airport Case - BAG STOLEN BY CBSA OFFICER

Hello Everyone,
Sharing my worst experience with Canadian authority at Mr My name is ABC, and I arrived in Canada on April 24th from Flight AC 841 (Frankfurt to Toronto) at 11:50 AM as an international student. While collecting my study permit at the immigration area (a hall where all students were sitting and waiting to collect their study permits) between 2 PM to 4 PM, one of the male officers took my black backpack (laptop bag) with him downstairs without my consent or informing me. I, along with other students present, witnessed this incident. Two other officers, Mr Kashyap (his last name) and Mr Parminder, were also in the area. Unfortunately, I did not catch the name of the officer who took my bag, as I only saw his backside when he walked away. He was in proper uniform. CCTV footage should capture the entire incident. There are so many cameras.
Upon receiving my study permit, I discovered that my bag was missing. Despite hours of searching at the airport, I was unable to locate the officer who took my backpack. Despite assistance from several other officers, we were unable to locate my bag. This experience was frustrating, annoying, and highly unprofessional.
On April 29th 2024, I visited Toronto Pearson Airport to inquire about my bag, but I did not receive assistance from any department. I spoke with border services, CBSA, CATSA, and Peel Police, but no one assisted in locating my bag. I’m mentally, emotionally and physically exhausted right now. I feel like people are discriminating here. As a new arrival to this beautiful country, I did not expect such treatment.
What was my fault in this situation? Why was my bag taken by the officer? Was he authorised to do so? Is it normal for Toronto Pearson Airport or CBSA staff to pick up anyone’s bag without even informing them? It appears that my bag may have been stolen by the officer. That’s why my bag has not reached to lost and found department, after 7 days. It is unacceptable for an officer to take someone's bag without reason. If there was any reason, please show the proof and let me know.
How can an officer steal? someone’s bag. I’ve never seen or heard anything like this in my lifetime. Is it normal?
This is pure HARRESEMENT against an international student who came here to study after paying a significant amount. It is disheartening to experience such treatment.
The bag contains critical documents, including educational records in a black file, an Asus laptop with my data, clients' data, private photos and videos, Samsung mobile phone cables, a Tissot watch, clothes, and other personal accessories. With my identifiable documents now potentially in the possession of someone else, I feel vulnerable to various threats. If anything happens to me as a result, the airport management will be held responsible.
Who will be responsible for the financial losses incurred by me because of this mistake? My classes on started 6th May’24. How will I study without my laptop? What if someone leaks my private photos on the internet? Who will be responsible?
-----Should I keep any hope from Peel Police or the Toronto Pearson Airport authority to locate my bag??? Peel police are incapable of finding stuff. They can't even stop car stealing or catch thieves.
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2024.05.19 07:03 HugeIndependence2861 Forever alone because of mental barriers :/

Preface: I know how much harder it is for guys to find love w/ societal expectations of 'masculinity' and all. My heart goes out to you guys. I feel like it's definitely harder for males to be alone than it is women
I'm 21 and have never had a boyfriend. Have never even held hands with a guy. It's so shocking when my college friends hear this and people are sort of condescending when I tell them. I have no male friends and my interactions with males is awkward. I think there is something actually wrong with me because when I find out a guy likes me I'm disgusted.. not with them.. but with myself. The idea of a man perceiving me as attractive makes him less attractive to me because I have such a low opinion of myself. I can't talk to guys at all btw, but steadfastly make friends w/ other women. Not being able to interact with the opposite sex is going to be a problem in the long-run since I want to become a physician in the future... and oh boy, it's just going to be harder to get in a relationship from here.
I can only make friendships with guys online... its so easy.. like in video games where the stakes are low. IRL I'm just too self-conscious. The one and only time I fell 'in love' (was never explicitly mentioned by me bc I kept it friendly/professional) was with a foreign guy that I met on a language exchange app. He was just so smart and kind, and he was the only guy I'd ever really told my true opinions about things.. but I was catching feelings for someone across the globe with completely different dreams from a completely different culture so I just told him I was taking a break from the app ..
Besides that, I think female friendships are just better and we have more to talk about.
I'd rather be alone forever than be in bad company. I want to find THE ONE. not just someone.. but my whole perception of romance is f'ed up. I also have unrealistic standards for a man... It's not like I want him to make 6 figures and be 6'5. no.. i just want him to be smart, ambitious and morally outstanding. Like, the idea of having a husband/bf watching porn.. an immediate ick to me and would ruin my perception of that person. Moreover, even though I'm feminine appearing my mindset is extraordinarily masculine, which I feel would cause a clash if I were with a really masculine guy. It's weird, but I desire to be the one protecting my husband. I wouldn't be the type to be turned off by the guy being vulnerable. I'm pretty pragmatic.
What I want from a man more than anything is not even sexual attraction but respect. I just have so much love to give but Im afraid I won't find someone truly compatible with me. I know that if I married someone, so long as that person did not change out of their own choice, I would never leave them. Im sorry for this rant lol, idk what I'm even getting at, but I can't tell any of this to my friends because they simply wouldn't understand. Maybe I just take myself too seriously.
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2024.05.19 07:00 8ruh_don [H] Go Stamped Shiny Celebi in Home, Shinies Still in Go, Shiny Go Stamped Pokemon in Home, Non-Shiny Go Stamped Legendaries/Mythicals in Home. [W] Paypal

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Howdy Everyone Hope all is well. : )
Shiny Go Stamped Celebi in Home.
Hello I have a Shiny Celebi that is Go Stamped sitting in home. This Pokemon was not Self-Caught but was Obtained from a trade done in PokemonHome. (Here.) The OT is Tresorkup and the TID is 190826. The Language tag is German. I have Video Proof of the trade the trade being made in Home. Price: $10 +Fees. : )
Shiny Pokemon Still in GO.
Pokemon Level Ball Gender OT TID
Registeel 20 Premier N Brandon 582083
Kartana 20 Premier N Brandon 582083
Tapu Fini 20 Premier N Brandon 582083
Latias 15 Ultra Female Brandon 582083
Guzzlord 20 Premier N Brandon 582083
Wimpod 15 Poke Male Brandon 582083
Pansage 23 Poke Male Brandon 582083
Piplup 17 Poke Male Brandon 582083
Snivy 15 Ultra Male Brandon 582083
These Pokemon were all Self-Caught from Raids, Random Encounters, and Timed Research. Can Evolve Pansage, Piplup and Snivy if asked. Will do Custom OT, but if not wanted it Will be Brandon. Price: $5 +Fees Each. : )
Shiny GO Stamped Pokemon in Home.
Pokemon Level Ball Gender OT TID
Fennekin 26 Poke Male Brandon 582083
Mareep 17 Poke Male Brandon 582083
Litwick 19 Ultra Male Brandon 582083
Charizard 23 Poke Male Brandon 582083
Litleo 24 Poke Female Brandon 582083
Greninja 28 Poke Male Brandon 582083
Froakie 7 Poke Male Brandon 582083
Clamperl 7 Poke Female Brandon 582083
Blastoise 28 Poke Female Brandon 582083
Wartortle 15 Poke Female Brandon 582083
Haxorus 8 Poke Female Brandon 582083
Chespin 19 Ultra Male Brandon 582083
Salamence 15 Poke Female Brandon 582083
Arcanine 18 Great Male Brandon 582083
These Pokemon Were all Self-Caught in Pokemon GO. The OT and the TID are not Customizable. Price: $1.50 +Fees Each. : )
Non-Shiny GO Stamped Legendaries/Mythicals in Home.
Pokemon Level Ball Gender OT TID
Reshiram 25 Premier N Brandon 582083
Darkrai 20 Premier N Brandon 582083
Cobalion 20 Premier N Brandon 582083
Regieleki 22 Premier N Brandon 582083
Virizion 25 Premier N Brandon 582083
Darkrai 20 Premier N Brandon 582083
Shaymin 15 Poke N Brandon 582083
Jirachi 15 Poke N Brandon 582083
Moltres 25 Premier N Brandon 582083
Articuno 20 Premier N Brandon 582083
Cresselia 20 Premier Female Brandon 582083
Regidrago 25 Premier N Brandon 582083
Genesect 20 Premier N Brandon 582083
Latios 25 Premier Male Brandon 582083
Dialga 22 Premier N Brandon 582083
Regieleki 20 Premier N Brandon 582083
Regieleki 20 Premier N Brandon 582083
Regieleki 25 Premier N Brandon 582083
Regigigas 20 Premier N Brandon 582083
Ho-oh 20 Premier N Brandon 582083
Meloetta 15 Poke N Brandon 582083
Deoxys 20 Premier N Brandon 582083
Mew 15 Poke N Brandon 582083
These Pokemon were all Self-Caught in Pokemon GO. The OT and TID are not Customizable. Price: $1 Each. : )
Thanks for Reading all of this. : )
(https://www.reddit.com/pokemonexchangeref/comments/1b7wt2i/u8ruh_don_exchange_reference/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
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2024.05.19 06:25 Relative_Mistake4237 Underrated fan-made series that I think deserves a even just a little bit of attention 💁

Underrated fan-made series that I think deserves a even just a little bit of attention 💁
This is another “HEAR ME OUT!!” type of yandere media 😭. You guys should check out this fan-made AU series made by @Mawliet on Youtube! It’s Spanish dubbed, but you can turn on the English subtitles. Also, get ready for my yapping down here:
For anyone who’s not familiar with the video game that the series is based on, I’ll spare you the details of the game to make sense so the fan-made plot doesn’t get confusing. Basically, it’s about ‘Ayano’, a girl who is deeply obsessed with a guy named ‘Taro’. She’s your typical female yandere, she kills her rivals.
In this fan-made AU, Ayano fails to kill one of her rivals and hence loses Taro over to another girl. Ayano begins to accept her loss and slowly begins to let her obsession with him dissolve. She eventually moves on with other people who have taken an interest in her…But WAIT!! Where’s the male yandere in question🤨?
It’s Taro. He subtly starts to realize that Ayano has stopped “liking him” and has set her eyes onto other guys. Taro is now considering getting rid of his little ‘competitors’.
(Review + My own personal thoughts in comment section if you’re interested )
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2024.05.19 06:19 Check828 I just want to run away from everything

Probably going to get lost on this sub and thats ok i just need to get this off my chest more than anything TLDR at the end. I also apologize for the bad sentence structure.
Preface information: Gay 23 Year old male living in a rural/small town area diagnosed with Depression Anxiety Asthma and ADHD (ADHD was not diagnosed as a child)
Exactly as the titles says i just want to run away and start over but i can't. Is it healthy no but I just don't know what else to do at this point. Compared to most people probably has a decent life with a supportive family, but I am unhappy with all of it and haven't been happy since I was 16.
I have been to multiple therapists but have yet to have a consistent one and currently my newest one I see maybe once a month due to high demand in my area. And we have not even begun to actually begin helping my issues. (Have been seeing her for 2 months now. I believe I am being properly medicated however I forget even with alarms set to take my meds (and lost my depression meds which yes I know is not helping).
I just got hired for a 3rd shift job making decent pay and hopefully can start a decent saving so i can eventually move away. I also have a prior commitment working for someone during the day watching their storefront while they are out with a trailer at different places. This is not every day but more like every other weekend for now until summer when i am excreted to watch the store more frequently. This will have me working 10pm-6am and 11am-6pm some days which I know won't work. I need to tell the store owner I can't do it but I don't want them to get mad and screw them over as they won't be able to find someone to cover their store if I don't. (And yes that's their problem not mine but still)
I have aging grandparents and my mom/dad doesn't have the time to help them or spend a lot of time with them nor does my sister make an effort to most of the time either. My grandfather on my dad's side is more worse off than my grandmother on my mom's side due to his age and having a stroke (but not telling anyone he had one). He constantly answers obvious scam calls and orders stuff off the TV or elsewhere and when we try to help him he fights with us because he doesn't want to be the steotypical old person (which he is) my dad's brothers still live at home mooch off him and do not acknowledge his existence 99% of the time as well.
I have tried to go to college twice couldn't get into the institution I wanted and flunked out both times due to the pressure, teachers insulting me, and my mental issues that were the colleges refused to acknowledge even with my attempting to give them the paperwork to do so through proper channels. This is to the point where I don't even know if it is worth going back as everyone I graduated with for the most part is either graduated already, have great careers, have kids, or just are overall very happy and content with their lives.
One of my best friends also died in early 2022 and I could not attend the funeral as I was working and had moved away for college (or attempted to) and everyone back home completely forgot I even existed as a friend to him. I had to beg and plead to get something to remember him by (one of his deckboxes for card games) and I'm still not even over his death as he and I spent almost every night playing video games together and I can't even touch those games without being reminded of him. This also includes the card games I play too mainly Yu-Gi-Oh as he played that slong with my other best friend but it's just not the same.
Most of my issues stemmed from high school where I feel my life just ended. I was diagnosed with asthma at 16 after having a lot of issues with cross country and swimming and subsequently diagnosed with Depression and anxiety a couple of months later due to constantly bullying from teammates and one of the cross country coaches that I was either faking it or that asthma is not real. I was one of the star swimmers in our school until our original coach left and one of the cross country coaches took over. Because of my asthma my mental illness and non supportive coaching staff I just drifted to a point where I was basically one of the worst on the team and had no idea what I was doing with my life and still don't to this day. I was the gifted kid growing up but once I got to high school and asked for help I was told I would just figure it out like I always do I was a smart kid so my cries for help were always ignored.
EDIT: almost forgot but I have 0 love life no one around me wants to date and I have very little options where I live one guy I went to school with moved to a big city close by and seems to have no trouble finding guys who actually want to date so I guess I'm just also jealous of that and want the same options he has.
TLDR: I want to run away and start over because of 1. No consistent mental health 2. I don't like people depending on me 3. I have too many commitments and I don't know to say no 4. Aging grandparents that expect me to be at their beck and call 5. Issues with School feeling left out/behind 6. Death of a close friend and not being able to get over it 7. Issues stemming from High school where I feel my life ended. 8. Issues with lack of love life.
If anyone has any advice I'm all ears otherwise just needed to air it out to someone/people that wasn't someone I know basically. Thanks.
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2024.05.19 05:55 NobodiesBoy 17 year old lonely lesbian

I never had friends growing up. I went to a private school from K-8, and I was tomboyish and never that religious. So, I protested a lot about things like "you should have children!" "no opposite-gender friends," "need to get married," and stuff like that. This just made me a target, and I was outcast a lot.
Fast forward to high school, a public one, but I still don't fit in. I thought it would be better since the general area I'm in is accepting. Yet, accepting doesn't necessarily mean I'll fit in. I won't be bullied, but I won't fit in with others.
Most girls are still overwhelmingly feminine, and I stick out. I'm a massive nerd as well. I like computers, video games, and anime, and that space is overwhelmingly male, so I once again don't fit in.
The girls who do like those things don't relate to me either. For example, a girl I know who likes anime mainly likes romances. I don't care for them, as I'm not into straight romances, simple as that.
Same with video games, lots of jokes about "Valorant boyfriends" or "egirls with their eboys" (corny and probably glad I don't relate, but still wish I had something to relate to).
Since I am more tomboyish, most of the few friends I actually have are male, and they're lovely. The issue is I don't really think they understand a lot of my issues
They'll make fun of me for being single or being meek about talking to girls I'm interested in or simply that I'm a virgin, yet they don't understand that my issue is A. them being straight and B. me being afraid of them being weirded out.
While my school is accepting, I don't want to just be known as "the lesbian." A guy at my school was cheated on with a girl, and all his friends make fun of him relentlessly and call him a lesbian. The few other gay girls are very much so "the lesbians."
Maybe it's not inherently bad, but I can assure you that it's not positive. My friends say I just shouldn't care, and if they're not harming me, who cares? I don't know, but it's still tough for me since I just want to be seen as normal, and having your sexuality mentioned like your name most certainly doesn't feel like I'm being treated like I'm normal.
Lastly, of course, my family. They sent me to a religious school after all, so they're naturally religious. I'll never have their support and think there's a good chance I go no contact when I'm older. It just hurts that I don't really have a family. It sucks I've never been able to talk about relationships or my future with them. I was always envious of the "cool moms" in movies that were so casual with their kids, yet I'll never have that since they'll never accept me.
It all just kind of sucks. My loneliness stems from me just not fitting in. I've always desperately wanted to be normal, to assimilate, yet I can't have that. On top of being gay, I'm not traditionally feminine, so that's just an extra barrier for me, adding to me being seen as 'weird'
I've been feeling extra low lately for whatever reason. I've noticed more and more how outcast I am. I hate sticking out. I just want to feel normal, but I don't, and other people aren't helping me feel any differently than I do
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2024.05.19 05:52 Fickle-Violinist-624 Looking for this song I only remember by the mv!!

I only remember this song from the music video and it was maybe made early 2010s in the pop genre.
It starts off with the singer, a white male, watching a song performance on an old antennae television on the couch and he falls asleep then wakes up INSIDE the tv as the performer on stage. Everything is black and white (mv was probably based in the 60s or sum), they have those old microphones and he had three backup singers on the stage with him while he sings the song.
Everybody in the crowd is also in black until he starts interacting with some of the girls and everything he touched slowly turns into colour. Everything else slowly turns into colour and i think hes wearing a blue teal suit???
I have absolutely no idea if any of this is accurate as I am simply going off my bad memory but this song popped up in my mind because I was listening to Hey Ya by the Outkast and thought of this song that had a very similar music video but theyre not the same.
Please leave any random songs you think it resembles because Im desperate atp
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2024.05.19 04:59 aayushhh_ Need help and some genuine advice !!

Hey everyone so I was a CAT23 aspirant with a 9/8/8 engineer male (EWS)and scored around 94.01 percentile although I got some good amount of calls at this percentile but couldn’t convert any of them and have been waitlisted at almost every call of mine. Just a little bit of background I am a final year student of Computer science and will be completing my BTech this year only . I genuinely want some advice on wether I should look for job or prepare just for CAT24 although not in a mood to risk it all given the competition and uncertainty related to the whole process but due to this CAT prep and all I skipped my placement and I am really in favour of building some Workex alongside preparation so if anyone got some leads do help . I have a good overall profile with extra curricular and have a good experience in video content creation and brand marketing .
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2024.05.19 04:56 talkingtimmy3 Have you ever been pulled over and did you ever get away with just a warning?

I’ve been driving for 10 years and got pulled over for the first time ever by a white male cop for going 42 in a 30. I had never been pulled over before so I was hoping that he’d see that I have a clean record and let me off with a warning. But instead I got a $250 citation and have to deal with the stress of getting this ticket off my record so it won’t raise my insurance.
I often come across videos of white social media personalities getting pulled over and they almost always just get a verbal warning. The most recent was a white guy with fake plates, excessively loud engine, illegal tint, and bald tires. But got off with a verbal warning. It makes me wonder how often black people get away with just a warning.
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2024.05.19 04:50 Alex_Winters [TOMT] [Music Video] [late 70's early 80's] Cheesy song by European Male & Female in the style of the Musical/Film 'Grease' set on some kind of space ship

The song is actually mildly catchy but the video (especially viewed today) is cheese-factor 10.0. I don't know what language they are singing in but it's most likely a European language as all of the people in it are white.
The male singer has big beautiful blond-ish hair and is wearing a shirt that is unbuttoned down to at least half way to his belly button. The female is many years his junior in age and is wearing (from what I remember) a skirt with a poodle on it.
They are clearly mimicing the musical/film Grease (1978) but are on what appears to be some kind of space station. There are about a dozen male and female dancers that perform a highly choreographed routine. At the end of the video, the couple departs the space station in some sort of 50's convertable (in space ... yeah it's weird) and can be seen waving goodbye to the people on the space station who are watching them depart .
The duo had other songs together (I did some online research at the time but I don't remember much of anything that I learned). There was controversy because of the large age gap and as it turns out the two were romantically involved even though the guy was already married.
I remember in my research seeing a picture of the guy at the gravesite of the woman as she died young. The guy apparently made promises to her about leaving his marriage and being with her but never did. It's a sad ending to what I thought was just a mildly catchy but cheesy video.
I don't think it will be too difficult to solve if the right person reads this. I believe that it somehow came up on one of my social media feeds because it was re-discovered and went viral.
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2024.05.19 04:25 Personal_Drama309 Male singer song 202X, indie side, cant even remember the melody, only the video

Hi guys, im really desesperated at this point, i been searching this song for hours and i cant remember anything about it, just the video.
Its a man playing the piano, i dont remember the lyrics but i know they were about someone who was really controlling of the person life, or something similar to abuse. While he was playing the piano, black hand were trying to get him and consuming him.
Something important i know, the singer is BILINGUAL and i remember there were songs in another language (italian?) in the channel.
Also, i know he has another song, where he was singing on the roof and another one where he talked about "girls beautiful"??? something like that, he had a really angelic soft voice and there were always sadness in his melodies.


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2024.05.19 03:31 AbdoulayeTarnagda Minimize Internet Usage On Self Improvement

If you're on self improvement, it's likely that all of your addictions are online.
Because no one who's been on self improvement for a couple months/years, is hooking up with girls, doing drugs, drinking alcohol, smoking weed, vaping or doing physical bad habits.
It's at least uncommon.
Most of our addictions aren't physical in the real world, they're on the internet.
Porn, internet articles, the news, youtube shorts, instagram reels, video games, netflix, that TV show or anime you're coping is "productive", twitter, tiktok, ai bots, Omegle, Monkey, wikipedia articles, web-surfing.
I constantly have seen myself in the past, pull back to the internet, and that's the last addiction I would say I still have to a degree, and it's likely you have it too. You're probably addicted to at least one part of the internet. Probably not video games anymore, I haven't played a video game since Summer break, July 2023, but you still see yourself relapsing on porn occasionally, you still see yourself unconsciously strolling sigma male shorts, or researching something that's a complete waste of time, you see a twitter tweet which references nazism, then an hour later, you wonder why you were reading wikipedia articles on the holocaust (true story a few days ago).
The internet is designed to be addictive, because most of the modern addictions are on the internet. Social media is on the internet, porn is on the internet, distracting web articles, click here, click there, and the solution is minimialism. This is what I've been trying to implement in my life recently.
Making it harder to use the internet because I don't want to get distracted by it. Even if you have willpower, it sneakily, gets to you, like a Genjutsu you don't realize you're in. You don't even realize that you're scrolling youtube shorts.
(These sound like boomer rules, but genuinely believe you should follow them. You should try to remove as much opportunities for internet addiction to seep in, because it will seep in. If you don't sleep with your phone far away from you, you're going to end up scrolling in bed.)
Technology and the internet is obviously needed for work, but you should in a sense, have an inclination to stay away from it, and use it as little as possible, only if it's needed. Because it's designed to be addictive and suck in your time.
I'm going to log out of discord even now, because I want to reduce the chance of the addictive powers of the internet affecting me. Maybe if I don't log off, I'll waste 2 hours fooling around in another server. My phone's powered off, because what if in 30 minutes I have to use the bathroom, in 30 minutes I could bring my phone with me and scroll motivational shorts for an hour in the bathroom, which paradoxically sucks away all of my motivation.
The internet is a place where you can develop and achieve financial freedom, but it's also a haven for multiple addictive platforms (porn, instagram, youtube, tiktok, twitter, video games, netflix, web articles), so try to minimize it. Have a genuine inclination to not use the internet unless absolutely needed. That's at least my current stance.
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2024.05.19 03:09 Able-Guarantee970 thrown into peri deep end this year; mourning my youth; young guy at work

Please be kind and indulge me in my pity party, set to the beat of the death-rattles of my ego:
I used to do alright. I was maybe a 6/10 - cute/nerdy. But in the tech field, almost devoid of females... well, on that deserted island I was a 10. Guys were impressed I could hold my own in tech talk, politics, whatever, I gave them a bit of sh*t, drank them under the table, and before you know it I had them wrapped around my finger. It was fun.
These days, though, I'm a mess: noone looks surprised anymore when i say my age (49), hair's thinning, wrinkles galore, dry skin that itches like mad but also soaking in night sweats, terrible sleep, completely dried up down there, no zest for life, massive brain fog, fatigue, frozen shoulder, saggy bits everywhere, moody and short-tempered. I hate my husband for only 50% valid reasons. He hates the recent me for 100% valid reasons (we'll get through it, though, we're good). I've been scouring this sub lately, and I've decided it's time to get on HRT. Meanwhile...
There's this young guy at work. Just recently we started working on a project together for the first time. He keeps video calling me when he doesn't absolutely have to. We discuss math stuff FOR AN HOUR. He does not ever try to end the call - I do. Make no mistake, he does absolutely nothing beyond being completely professional and simply friendly. Still. You guys, A MALE UNDER 35 ISN'T ACTIVELY AVOIDING ME and I'm like... catching myself thinking he could maybe enjoy talking to me and kinda like me? Like it used to be. 20 years ago it would be. Like maybe he can't see my turkey neck through Teams and it's possible, possibly possible, that with the smoothing filter I could just pass for 35 if he really wanted to believe it? Maybe he's kind of into the cougar thing! Please have a laugh at my expense because I'm old enough to be his mother and he literally has the same name as my son so HOW PATHETIC AM I ?!!?!
And remember (because I barely did) that I listed brain fog? Ya, that hour of math stuff is him running circles around me and me getting him to repeat stuff and barely keeping up. He must think I'm such a ditz, because I would. It's so embarrassing. I cannot possibly be impressing him. So I've lost my looks, sexual power, and now my brain.
All this cougar thought resides strictly in the realm of my pitiful delusions, of course. I don't even know what state this guy lives in; odds are it's not mine. He probably calls me because I'm non-threatening, friendly and remind him of his mother or something. I have (so many) kids and in the real world, am completely devoted to my family. I'm so sad at the loss of my old self, though, and this situation really slapped me in the face with that. but on the other hand... wow! my goodness! you'll have to excuse me, ladies, I think I need to adjust my pessary... seems I'm not completely dead yet!
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2024.05.19 02:19 chronicallydez Have you guys seen this?

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2024.05.19 01:52 MagniBear980512 Beyond the Skin Deep: a short essay on cultural colonialism and Asian male exclusion

The excitement surrounding a new Assassin's Creed title can quickly turn to disappointment when it reinforces harmful tropes. Assassin's Creed Shadows presents a problematic case of cultural appropriation and neo-colonial fantasy.
I’ve been a fan of the Assassin's Creed franchise; however, I couldn't help but feel silenced and suppressed when I saw the trailer. I’m sure many share this frustration.That being said, I’ve seen little argument on the internet that represents the asian community.
The core issue lies in prioritising a superficial diversity as a metric of cultural authenticity. However, it’s not difficult to see that the insertion is wrong on many levels.
Firstly, demoting and excluding Asian male characters in a setting steeped in Asian culture is a missed opportunity. Rich historical periods abound in Asia, offering a chance to explore diverse Asian cultures through the lens of an Asian protagonist. Sengoku period boasts a vibrant tapestry of history, brimming with potential for an Asian protagonist's journey. Tales of countless Japanese samurai have been passed down through the ages. Shunting them aside in favour of a character from a different ethnicity undermines the very cultural immersion the game strives for. Subsequently, this so-called cultural product has been reduced to a mere puppet show.
Western media, including video games, has a poor track record of portraying Asian men as strong, masculine and heroic figures. They're often demoted to comedic sidekicks or one-dimensional villains. Assassin's Creed's decision to seemingly bypass an Asian male samurai protagonist in a Japanese setting is an intentional mistake, and some might see it as a cynical ploy for "diversity points", under the guise of cultural exchange.
Having to insert an African man as a figure of diversity, while losing touch with the context of Asian cultural backgrounds is a form of ignorant racism by itself. It suggests that there’s not enough racial diversity on the continent. Especially when it comes to Celebrating diversity within Asia, few seem to care enough to populate fictional worlds with characters from various Asian ethnicities.
Not having the fundamental respect for the indigenous people that inhabited these islands proves how egocentric and narcissistic Ubisoft and the group it represents have become. The “Asians all look the same” stereotype touting homogeneity should also be prevented and combated, adding fuel to it is counterintuitive and against the cause.
Secondly, depicting a black character as the central figure enacting over-glorified violence in a Japanese setting is insensitive and potentially reinforces a cultural neo-colonial narrative demoting and excluding Asian men. Whether it's historically accurate is besides the point, although it remains questionable, forcing a character of colour into a role that perpetuates negative stereotypes is disrespectful, to both Asians and Africans.
There is enough cultural background for a game to be set in Africa,so I can't help but question whether it's really about diversity and minority representation. Forcing a black character in Japanese culture shows the lack of confidence the studio has in selling African cultural heritage in pop art products. Just to entertain the thought, a game set in Ethiopia would have existed if they wanted it to, since the historical and cultural landscape is just as rich and vibrant. Assassin's Creed Shadows has the potential to be an immersive experience, but it should strive for cultural sensitivity. By featuring authentic Asian heroes and delving deeper into the chosen historical period, the game can avoid accusations of appropriation and create a narrative that's both respectful and engaging for a global audience.
@ycbr creatives
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2024.05.19 01:52 Angelweiss2000 Looking for friends from anywhere to learn about

Hey all,
So a bit about me, I'm a 24 year old male from the USA. I'm a bit of a nerd, liking reading books (love philosophy like Hegel, I like to read Kafka and Kierkegaard as well) a bit of crime stories, some horror, some scientific non fiction books and I have a few atlases as well. I love geography. :) As of late, I haven't been as invested in my interested due to a bit of depression but I am improving quite a bit.
I love video games. I'm currently working on a few, including Black Mesa, Dark Souls III, and an unhealthy addiction to Warframe at the moment.
I also have a blog I've been working on as a bit of a passion project where I work on video games and write about them, take screenshots along the way, write out reviews and updates and so on. Would love to share if I connect with anyone :) Even just something for you to read out
I like all things astronomy as well - albeit only a casual knowledge of it. I like to build Legos, Finished the Saturn V rocket and working on the Discovery space shuttle at the moment.
I love television and movies, some of which being Seinfeld (huge nerd for that show), The Sopranos, movies like JAWS, 2001, Inception, Interstellar.
Music may be most important and closest to my heart. I love alternative music, shoegaze, classic rock, classical (classical guitar in particular <3), jazz, some metal.
I hope to hear from some friends soon! Only looking for something casual as I haven't been on this site in a long time and I'm not looking to shy away from coming back so soon.
Feel free to send a message even just to say hi, take care :)
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2024.05.19 01:48 merle-long-hair-pitt My RARE LONG HAIR MERLE PITTIE

My RARE LONG HAIR MERLE PITTIE
Meet Ruby Red. She is the daughter to my male Dogo Argentino/Pitbull who was also merle in color and my female American pitbull terrier which happens to be reverse Brindle. They had a litter of 10 togeather. 6 where merle in color like dad and the other 4 where reverse Brindle like the mom. 2 of the merle puppies had longer hair. At first we where like that's weird. Lol. The older they got the hair grew longer. So I started to do some research on it. Because I know this family of dogs very well dating back to great grandparents of my male and female Aka mom and dad.. no where in the bloodline have I seen or heard of a long haired puppy from any litter. (That I know of). Turns out it's a super rare ressesive long hair gene and it makes your puppy super fluffy. Lol.. it's so adorable. We wasn't going to keep any of the puppies but we have fallen for this puppy and I think our minds have changed lol.. here she is. I do plan on making more videos and pictures of her as well.. hope u enjoy as much as my family does!!
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