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Great kingdoms are born from conquest; there are no exceptions. The ruler merely needs to obtain physical control over the lands. So theoretically, a bandit conqueror could be crowned as the king of the lands if he and his men have the forces to maintain their rule.
Alternatively, a puppet could be crowned by the bandit conqueror if the puppet is the rightful heir to the throne. Sadly, the puppet king would still have zero power against the bandit conqueror. This method is known as the Kingmaker Method.
Three times, the Kou Family played the role of Kingmaker within the State of Chu. We'll be exploring how the Kou Family rose up to be the most powerful family in China, only to fall to their demise to the Han Dynasty.

[Part 1: Kingdom of Shouheikun (224-223 B.C.) ]

After Ousen captured the Chu capital city along with its king, the State of Chu was in turmoil with a power vacuum. In the Year 224 B.C, General Kouen stepped in and crowned a new King of Chu.

荊將項燕立昌平君為荊王，反秦於淮南。
(Shiji: Chapter 6: Chronicles of Qin Shi Huang)
The Chu general Kou En crowned Shouheikun as the last king of Chu and held the region south of the Huai River in revolt against Qin.

Kouen, the Tiger of Chu, found a rogue Qin minister, but then he crowned the minister as King of Chu. This twisted turn of events calls into question.
In this new State of Chu, who held more power: Kouen or Shouheikun? Perhaps the better question is: Whose allegiance do the lords of Chu swear loyalty to?
The answer is up to interpretation as there is no real confirmation. However, with enough knowledge in political science, the answer should be easy enough to find out.
The throne and crown are not what give rulers their power.

[Part 2: New State of Chu under the Kou Family’s Dictatorship (208 B.C.) ]

Long after the death of Kouen, Xiang Liang took over as the head of the Kou Family. Xiang Liang is the son of Kouen, and he would lead a revolution within Chu as a response to the tyrannical Qin Dynasty.
Note: The Japanese transliteration of Xiang Liang is Kou Ryou.

All the Warlords of Chu Swear Allegiance to the Kou Family

「今君起江東，楚蜂午之將皆爭附君者，以君世世楚將，為能復立楚之後也。」
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
“After you rose in revolt from east of the Yangtze, all the commanders across the length and breadth of Chu strove to attach themselves to you. This was because they thought My Lord (Xiang Liang), as a member of a family which for generations served Chu as generals, could reestablish the royal lineage of Chu.”

The bandit conqueror cannot rule alone. All rulers must have the backing of powerful nobles and ministers to assist his rule. Without this political coalition, the kingdom crumbles. When the warlords of Chu bow to the Kou Family, it was because they all chose the Kou Family to reestablish the royal lineage of Chu. The Kou Family had the legal right to do so.
Just like Kouen, the Kou Family played kingmaker and crowned another as King of Chu. This time, a peasant shepherd was crowned as king because of his royal lineage. The State of Chu was reborn.

於是項梁然其言，乃求楚懷王孫心民閒，為人牧羊，立以為楚懷王，從民所望也。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Xiang Liang thought his suggestion correct and sought out from among the common people a grandson of the late King Huai of Chu, named Xin, who was herding sheep for someone. Xiang Liang crowned Xin as King Huai of Chu to comply with the wishes of the people.

In this new State of Chu, who held more power: Xiang Liang the War-Ruler of Chu or the shepherd crowned as king? Clearly, one of them is a puppet.

What are Kingmakers?

Kingmakers are powerful ministers who choose a candidate to sit on the throne. This ability derives from the Kingmaker’s great influence and power. They have the money, connections, and resources to create a kingdom.
However, kingmakers cannot become kings because they are missing the legal right to be crowned. Puppet kings are needed for this reason. Unlike the kingmaker, the chosen puppets are the rightful heir to the throne. If Kingmakers are said to create kingdoms, then rightful kings keep them alive through the support of the people.
An European example is Richard Neville the Earl of Warwick. He was infamous for influencing the crowning of two kings during the War of the Roses. A Chinese Example would include Dong Zhuo who crowned the puppet Liu Xie by killing Emperor Shao. Another example is Cao Cao who took in Emperor Xian as a hostage while Cao Cao held true power.
No matter how rich and powerful they are, Kingmakers will NEVER get the support of the common people. Though, some exceptions may exist.

[Part 3: The Hegemon of Western Chu (206 B.C.) ]

After Xiang Liang died, his nephew, Xiang Yu, took over as the new head of the Kou Family. Xiang Yu is the grandson of Kouen, and Xiang Yu would later be infamous for destroying the Qin Dynasty.
Note: The Japanese transliteration of Xiang Yu is Kou’u.

The Double Pupil Eyes of Xiang Yu

太史公曰：吾聞之周生曰「舜目蓋重瞳子」，又聞項羽亦重瞳子。羽豈其苗裔邪？何興之暴也！
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
The Taishi Gong remarks: I have heard Master Zhou say that Emperor Shun had eyes with double pupils. I have also heard that Xiang Yu, too, had eyes with double pupils. Could it be that Xiang Yu was a descendant of Emperor Shun? How sudden was his rise to power!

The peak of the Kou Family’s power was when Xiang Yu crowned himself Hegemon-King and ruled all of China. The author of the Shiji took note of Xiang Yu’s character, but the very first thing he commented on was Xiang Yu’s eyes. It is suggested Xiang Yu may have Polycoria.
The Shiji theorizes that the eyes of Xiang Yu are evidence that he is the descendant of an ancient god.
The author’s commentary suggests Xiang Yu held both a royal pedigree and divine power, while also admitting and admiring his uniqueness. Xiang Yu, in Sima Qian’s eyes, was a king like no other.

After the Fall of the Qin Dynasty, the Kou Family Crowns the Eighteen Kings

The Kou Family established the balance of power in China after they transformed the State of Chu into a superpower among the 18 kingdoms. Xiang Yu was crowned Hegemon-King of Western Chu.
Hegemon-King is essentially the King of kings. This role serves as an “international policeman” of the 18 kingdoms. They play a dominant role in shaping the military outcomes in every kingdom of China through mighty campaigns. This is what it means to be a superpower.
Xiang Yu the King of Kings

項王自立為西楚霸王，王九郡，都彭城。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
King Xiang crowned himself as Hegemon-King of West Chu, ruling over nine commanderies, with Pengcheng as his capital.

The Crowning of the Puppet Emperor

乃尊懷王為義帝。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Thus Xiang Yu honored King Huai as Emperor Yi.

Xiang Yu Crowns the King of Han

故立沛公為漢王，王巴、蜀、漢中，都南鄭。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
King Xiang crowned the Magistrate of Pei (Liu Bang) as the King of Han to rule over Ba, Shu, and Han, with Nanzheng as his capital.

Then He Crowns the King of Yong

項王乃立章邯為雍王，王咸陽以西，都廢丘。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
King Xiang thus crowned Zhang Han as the King of Yong to rule over the land west of Kanyou, with Feiqiu as his capital.

The King of Sai

故立司馬欣為塞王，王咸陽以東至河，都櫟陽。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Thus King Xiang crowned Sima Xin as the King of Sai to rule over the land east of Kanyou up to the Yellow River, with Yueyang as his capital.

The King of Di

立董翳為翟王，王上郡，都高奴。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
King Xiang crowned Dong Yi as the King of Di to rule over Shang Province with Gaonu as his capital.

The King of Hengshan

鄱君吳芮率百越佐諸侯，又從入關，故立芮為衡山王，都邾。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Wu Rui the Lord of Po, had led the Baiyue peoples to aid the feudal lords and, moreover, followed King Xiang to enter the Pass, therefore King Xiang crowned him as the King of Hengshan with Zhu as his capital.

The King of Hann

韓王成因故都，都陽翟。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Cheng, King of Hann, made Yangdi his capital since it had been the former capital of Hann.

The King of Dai

徙趙王歇為代王。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Xie, King of Zhao, was moved and made King of Dai.

The King of Henan

瑕丘申陽者，張耳嬖臣也，先下河南（郡），迎楚河上，故立申陽為河南王，都雒陽。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Zhang Er's favorite vassal, Shen Yang of Xiaqiu, first conquered Henan and met Chu's army on the banks of the Yellow River, therefore King Xiang crowned him as the King of Henan with Luoyang his capital.

The King of Changshan

趙相張耳素賢，又從入關，故立耳為常山王，王趙地，都襄國。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Zhang Er, the Prime Minister of Zhao, had always been worthy and, moreover, had followed King Xiang to enter the Pass, therefore King Xiang crowned him as the King of Changshan to rule over the territory of Zhao with Xiangguo as his capital.

The King of Yin

趙將司馬卬定河內，數有功，故立卬為殷王，王河內，都朝歌。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Sima Ang, the commander of Zhao, pacified Henei and had several times achieved merit, therefore King Xiang crowned him as the King of Yin to rule over Henei with Zhaoge as his capital.

The King of Western Wei

徙魏王豹為西魏王，王河東，都平陽。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Bao, King of Wei, was moved and made King of West Wei, to rule Hedong with Pingyang as his capital.

The King of Jiujiang

當陽君黥布為楚將，常冠軍，故立布為九江王，都六。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Qing Bu, the Lord of Dangyang, was a commander of Chu whose merit always topped the whole army, therefore King Xiang crowned him as the King of Jiujiang with Liu as his capital.

The King of Linjiang

義帝柱國共敖將兵擊南郡，功多，因立敖為臨江王，都江陵。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Gong Ao, Chief Minister to Emperor Yi, had led troops to attack Nan Province and won much merit, therefore King Xiang crowned him as the King of Linjiang with Jiangling as his capital.

The King of Yan

燕將臧荼從楚救趙，因從入關，故立荼為燕王，都薊。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Zang Tu, the commander of Yan, had gone with Chu to rescue Zhao and subsequently followed King Xiang to enter the pass, therefore King Xiang crowned him as the King of Yan with Ji as his capital.

The King of Liaodong

徙燕王韓廣為遼東王。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Han Guang, the King of Yan, was moved and made King of Liaodong.

The King of Qi

齊將田都從共救趙，因從入關，故立都為齊王，都臨菑。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Tian Du, general of Qi, had joined with Chu to rescue Zhao and subsequently followed King Xiang to enter the Pass, therefore King Xiang crowned him as the King of Qi with Linzi as his capital.

The King of Jiaodong

徙齊王田市為膠東王。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
Tian Shi, the King of Qi, was moved and made King of Jiaodong.

The King of Jibei

故秦所滅齊王建孫田安，項羽方渡河救趙，田安下濟北數城，引其兵降項羽，故立安為濟北王，都博陽。
(Shiji: Chapter 7: Chronicles of Xiang Yu)
When King Xiang crossed the Yellow River to rescue Zhao, Tian An, the grandson of King Ou Ken, the King of Qi who had been killed by the former Qin ruler, subdued many cities north of Qi and surrendered with his troops to King Xiang, therefore King Xiang crowned him as the King of Jibei with Boyang as his capital.

The Peak of the Kou Family's Reign

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Hi all - I am traveling to China with my parents later this year. The itinerary is going to be 5 days in Beijing, 4 days in Shanghai, and 4 days in Guangzhou. I'm already eyeing this flight ticket that will cost me USD$1,200 for a multi-city (Arriving in Beijing and departing from Guangzhou). I plan on taking the HSR from Beijing to Shanghai (which takes ~4-5 hours) and Shanghai to Guangzhou (~8-9 hours!!). My question is: does it make sense to take the HSR from Shanghai to Guangzhou? I feel like I'm losing travel time. Is it cheaper to just book the flight ticket there from China Southern, which I think takes 2-3 hours?
Any other tips is appreciated!
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Beijing (5 Days)

Day 1

• Breakfast: Quanjude Roast Duck Restaurant (for a traditional Beijing breakfast)
• Morning: Visit the Forbidden City
• Lunch: Dali Courtyard (Yunnan cuisine)
• Afternoon: Tiananmen Square
• Dinner: Da Dong Roast Duck (Peking duck)

Day 2

• Breakfast: Yonghe King (a popular local fast-food chain serving soy milk and youtiao)
• Morning: Temple of Heaven
• Lunch: TRB Hutong (contemporary European cuisine in a historic setting)
• Afternoon: Lama Temple and Confucius Temple
• Dinner: Jing Yaa Tang (Beijing-style hot pot)

Day 3

• Breakfast: Liangpi Shop (for traditional Shaanxi cold noodles)
• Morning: Summer Palace
• Lunch: Baoyuan Dumplings (famous for colorful dumplings)
• Afternoon: 798 Art District
• Dinner: Huajia Yiyuan (traditional Beijing cuisine in a courtyard setting)

Day 4

• Breakfast: Nai Lao (a traditional Beijing yogurt shop)
• Morning: Visit the Great Wall (Mutianyu section)
• Lunch: Brickyard Retreat (near the Great Wall)
• Afternoon: Return to Beijing, rest at hotel
• Dinner: Black Sesame Kitchen (private kitchen experience)

Day 5

• Breakfast: Little Yunnan (Yunnan-style breakfast)
• Morning: Beihai Park
• Lunch: King’s Joy (vegetarian fine dining)
• Afternoon: Hutong Tour (explore the old alleyways of Beijing)
• Dinner: Siji Minfu (another excellent Peking duck option)

Shanghai (4 Days)

Day 1

• Breakfast: Jia Jia Tang Bao (for Shanghai-style soup dumplings)
• Morning: The Bund
• Lunch: Lost Heaven (Yunnan cuisine with a view of the Bund)
• Afternoon: Yu Garden
• Dinner: Din Tai Fung (famous for xiaolongbao, soup dumplings)

Day 2

• Breakfast: Shanghai Grandmother (local breakfast dishes)
• Morning: Shanghai Museum
• Lunch: M on the Bund (European cuisine with a Bund view)
• Afternoon: Nanjing Road
• Dinner: Hai Di Lao Hot Pot (a popular hot pot chain)

Day 3

• Breakfast: Wagas (Western-style breakfast)
• Morning: Shanghai Tower (visit the observation deck)
• Lunch: Fu 1088 (upscale Shanghainese cuisine)
• Afternoon: Tianzifang (explore the artsy district)
• Dinner: Old Jesse (authentic Shanghainese dishes)

Day 4

• Breakfast: Element Fresh (healthy breakfast options)
• Morning: Jade Buddha Temple
• Lunch: Ultraviolet by Paul Pairet (unique multi-sensory dining experience)
• Afternoon: French Concession
• Dinner: Char Bar & Grill (steakhouse with a view of the Bund)

Guangzhou (4 Days)

Day 1

• Breakfast: Tao Tao Ju (traditional Cantonese dim sum)
• Morning: Chen Clan Ancestral Hall
• Lunch: Guangzhou Restaurant (one of the oldest Cantonese restaurants)
• Afternoon: Shamian Island
• Dinner: Bingsheng Taste (Cantonese cuisine)

Day 2

• Breakfast: Pan Xi Restaurant (dim sum)
• Morning: Yuexiu Park and the Five Rams Statue
• Lunch: Dongfang Jiayuan Restaurant (Guangdong cuisine)
• Afternoon: Guangzhou Museum in Zhenhai Tower
• Dinner: Daoxiang (Cantonese seafood)

Day 3

• Breakfast: Xiang Qun Restaurant (Cantonese breakfast)
• Morning: Sun Yat-sen Memorial Hall
• Lunch: Dian Dou De (famous for dim sum)
• Afternoon: Beijing Road Pedestrian Street
• Dinner: Guangzhou Hotel Cantonese Restaurant (excellent views and food)

Day 4

• Breakfast: Silver Waves (hotel breakfast with a view)
• Morning: Canton Tower
• Lunch: Sky No. 1 (restaurant in Canton Tower)
• Afternoon: Haixinsha Island
• Dinner: Jade River Restaurant (upscale Cantonese cuisine)

Hi everyone. I'm 24F. Currently living out of pulau Jawa. Anak pertama, dan punya adik 14M.
Backstory: Right after high school, i took a gap year mainly because my family's finance was not good at all. Mom had numerous debt after my step dad passing in 2015. So i worked ever since i was 18, dari serabutan sampe akhirnya gue bisa dpt corporate job thn 2019. Kuliah sambil kerja (awal masih dibantu nyokap untuk bayar UKT, tapi semester 3 sampai gue lulus it was all me). Dan dari kerjaan serabutan gue pertama, sampai sekarang, I have always tried to give something to my mom. Dari nominal kecil sampe lumayan gede gue selalu share as my thank you.
Singkat cerita, setelah sekian lama enduring all the passive agressive from my family (mom and brother), gue dpt offer di luar pulau untuk kerja dan gue ambil tanpa mikir panjang karena gue udah segatahan itu dirumah. Giving money is one thing, being eldest daughter is another thing. Nyokap gue dititik kalo ngobrol sama gue gajauh-jauh dari duit. I could talk about the anything with her it will end up to her lacking of money. Even gue udh jauh dari rumah, isi chat kita garing, gada tuh nanya kabar gue gmn/kerjaan gue dan ujung2nya bakal ngomongin duit. And because I know her, that's her way of asking money. She never explicitly 'asking' for money from me, rather she will be passive agressive, atau kode2 gitu loh. Gue pernah blg sm dia, kalo memang butuh, ngomong, gausah gaenakan, dan sebisa mungkin jika gue mampu gue akan bantu.
Tapi tetep aja, masih dengan kode2 itu, ditambah omongan dia yang selalu terngiang "Mama gabutuh uang dari kamu, ka. Mama cuma butuh kamu berbakti aja sama mama, cukup kok. Mama masih bisa sendiri kalo uang." Tapi gue gapernah dengerin dan gue ngerasa selama gue masih tinggal dirumah dia, gue harus bantu. Sampai akhirnya gue memutuskan untuk move out. I thought, this way it would be easier to say no, incase i do not want to give her any money (sorry gada uang/uang lg mepet abis). Ternyata engga cuy lol
Saat gue pindah, gaji gue memang naik, tapi gue jg merasa gue harus bayar rent + cost of living dll yang dimana walau bukan pulau jawa, gue juga harus nabung untuk masa depan gue. Gue tetep ngasih setiap bulannya, tapi nominal gue turunin sedikti demi sedikit. Tapi ternyata diluar allowance bulanan yang gue kasih ke dia, gue juga tetep ngasih ke adek gue. Lama-lama banyak yang dia minta, entah dari isi topup e-wallet. Belum lg adek gue minta.Januari kemarin, adek gue dengan bodohnya nabrak orang. Iya umur 14 tahun dikasih motor dan diberi izin, nabrak anak kecil. Untung korbannya cm luka ga sampe meninggal. Nyokap gue nelfon gue, laporan. Salahnya gue disini trauma takut dimintain uang, gue ada omongan bahwa maaf, gue gabisa bantu karena pengeluaran lg memang banyak dan gue baru aja kasih duit bulanan dia juga. Gue saat itu worry tp juga bener2 gabisa bantu + gue ngerasa ini jg kelalaian dia sbg ortu ngasih izin adek bawa motor. Dia sakit hati merasa dia cm pgn lapor tp gue malah bales gitu. Had a whole fight, sampai dimana dia ada omongan yang super nyakitin, kemungkinan gue tidak akan bisa memaafkan dia sampai gue mati nanti.
> She said and I quote "Kamu tidak malu sudah mengambil jatah kasih sayang papa adek kamu? Dia anak yatim kasian gada yang sayang. Kamu dulu saat kecil dapat kasih sayang dari papa dia harusnya kamu malu. Kamu baru bisa ngasih yang tidak seberapa itu jangan harap bisa membayar pengorbanan yang sudah diberikan oleh ibu kamu ini."
(Context: never met my bio father, grew up with my step dad, im grateful he was a decent kind man. Step dad died when I was 15 and my brother was 5. Knp gue harus kesannya ambil jatah? Dan gue tau, gue blm bisa kasih a whole house, tp pengorbanan dan pemberian gue 0 aja gitu dimata dia selama ini? Whew.)
Bulan ini, gue ga ngasih bulanan ke nyokap, karena sejujurnya gue sempet travel tanpa bilang ke mereka. Karena gamau dianggap gue ada uang banyak dan mereka minta lebih. Karena dimata mereka kalo gue bisa jalan2, ada uang lebih untuk mereka dong. Gue gamau ngasih kalo ga ikhlas. Tapi gue dikejar-kejar seakan gue ada hutang sm mereka. Sampe dikirim video tentang anak durhaka halus karena mereka anggep gue ada uang tapi gamau ngasih. Padahal uang gue beneran abis dan gue udh blg ke mereka tanpa konteks gue abis jalan2. But they still kode2 pasif agresif.
I've had enough, gue tau mungkin yang gue tulis disini ga cover beberapa tahun gue menjadi sandwich generation di keluarga gue. All the mental I've had to go through. And I know I sound so selfish to have a desire to cut them off completely over this matter. But truth is, ini resentment built up dari dulu yang memang baru meledak sekarang. P.S Nyokap gue gamau remarry lg krn dia males, gue udh kasih restu kalau memang dia mau nikah biar ada yang provide untuk dia selain gue. Karena gue juga cm anak, bukan the man of the family.

1. Apakah wise kalau memang gue truly go NC?
2. Karena posisi gue ga dirumah, gue cm ada foto KK dan copy KK. Is this possible untuk pecah KK
3. Are there other necessary steps if I'm going to NC with them?

All the help and comment will be appreciated. Thank you.

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Komodos,
Secara ni ya kita bebas visa di bbrp negara -stan, ane ada pertanyaan nih, sambil googling itinerary, rencana pengennya liat2 nature disana

• yg bebas visa dan lumayan well known infrastructure-nya, kayaknya uzbek sama kazakh aja ya? Enaknya berapa hari disana, uzbek sama kazakh?
  
• kalo nyewa mobil bisa driving cross border ga? Misal start di Tashkent balikin mobil di Almaty. Bahaya ya nyetir disana?
  

Gitu aja, kalau ada blog/content ttg trip ini, share dongs
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