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2020.07.30 02:33 China_Gypsy China Job Central

This sub is a job board for expats with university degrees to work full or part time in China on a contractual basis (1 year minimum). All employers who post here have agreed to provide new hires with a work visa (Z visa) and a signed/sealed hard copy of your employment agreement BEFORE you depart for China.
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2024.05.21 13:28 ThrowRAdingf I [24M] have been overthinking about something my girlfriend said and need second hand advice [22F]. What should I do?

Hello,
First I'd like to give you some context to better understand the situation.
Me [24M] and my [22F] girlfriend have been in a relationship for the last 1 year and a half, we don't live together, but plan on moving together in a few months. We both have jobs, she works as a pharmacist technician and I work as an informatics engineer. I make significantly more than she does and that is also why I'm always the one offering to pay for activities we do together (she'll pay for an ice cream or a meal from time to time), but it's mostly me paying for everything, this is important as you'll see in the follow up.
Last weekend we were talking and I jokingly said that I'm feeling too stressed at my current job, which I actually am (I was hoping for a little bit of emotional support), and that I'll change my career to become a McDonald's worker. She took my joke seriously and the first thing she said was "will you be able to afford a girlfriend with minimal wage McDonald's salary", with girlfriend she obviously meant her. I ignored it at the time and didn't talk to her about it yet.
Well as I returned from her place yesterday, and as I was parking in my driveway the thought of what she said the day before started creeping into my mind, and I have been thinking about it ever since. I even started remembering past events when I brought up saving my money with her and how she was very against it, because we should experience things together, and because that was at the beginning of our relationship and I was still blindly in love, I didn't think much about it at the time, but now all of those thoughts started creeping back into my mind and its killing me. I'm currently at work and can't even focus on my tasks because this is all I'm thinking about.
What would you do in this situation? What should I do?
TL/DR: My girlfriend questioned my ability to "afford" her if I switched my career to a less stressful minimum wage job .
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2024.05.21 13:25 Throwitahtdawizzy I’m 40 and will never recover from this toxic habit my parents and family had when growing up.

As a grown man, I hate blaming my parents for issues I have. Compared to so many horror stories, my childhood, parents and family were wonderful. In general, I try to believe that people do the best they can with the resources they have and rarely have true malicious intent. Unfortunately, there is one “childhood trauma” that I am stuck with and I don’t see any way to get over it.
For as long as I can remember, my boomer parents and gen x siblings would absolutely torture me about girls. Like every girl I ever came into contact with from preschool on I would get the “oh that’s your giiiirrrrlllfrieend” crap. I was a sensitive, people-pleasing kid and this really bothered me. To make matters worse, My family had the awful habit of “making fun” of, quite literally, anyone on the planet. Too rich, too poor, imperfect physical features, race, ethnicity, religion, different style clothes, different interests or hobbies, nobody was safe.
I went through adolecence and young adulthood mostly terrified to interact with women. Just now am I getting to the point where I have actual platonic female friends. School dances and prom were major sources of stress. I had whole relationships in high school and college that I kept secret from my family, including a 3 year relationship with who I now consider to be the “love of my life.” How awful must these young women have felt that I was hiding them from my family? I’ll never forgive myself.
After college, I moved back home (see people pleaser comment above). A month later my longterm girlfriend broke up with me. Why? Because I was still hiding her from my family. I certainly can’t blame her and I hope she is living the life she deserves.
A hazy, drunken, depressed and miserable 7 or 8 years then ensued that frankly I’m lucky I survived. I was a total wreck on the inside but put together enough on the outside so as to not worry anyone. Good job, remained in shape, outwardly I was just a fun, drunk, party guy in his 20’s. No relationships. Any dates were to a bar. Very rare sexual encounters were risky, drunken, one or few night stand situations.
At 29 I started dating my now wife. After a few months of secret dating I fought through and introduced her to my family. I’m grateful that my wife pulled me out of the abyss. After a few months of dating I finally got my own apartment and started to live as an actual adult. We got engaged at a year and a half and married at two years. We’ve been married for 10 years. We have a house and two wonderful children. My thirties were far better than my 20s and 40’s are looking great so far. Except…..
Lately, I have not been able to shake feelings of regret or what might have been. While we get along, our marriage is like a business agreement. It works. We’re busy, the kids are busy, we don’t or can’t take time for ourselves, we are both constantly engaged in jobs, cooking, dishes, laundry, cleaning, kids activities, etc. We both tackle everything and neither of us is ever sitting or relaxing. It never seems like we can get ahead of things. My wife is totally codependent and cannot handle anything on her own. She also may be a hoarder in the making. She was diagnosed with OCD as a child and is probably somewhere else on spectrum, terrible anxiety, too. I’ve made all adjustments to accommodate her needs. New, self-employed job so I can control the schedule, no hobbies or friends, I am always available for her needs. She refuses to get any outside help with her mental health. It’s all on me. She’s miserable, always mad at something or somebody(her family tells me this is her historic personality and she’s just like other family members), always sick, she has gained well over 100lbs and the health issues that go with that are starting to creep in. More for me to deal with! Sex life is dead. Totally vanilla when it does happen-missionary with shirts and socks on. Multiple times over the past 5 years we have gone 8-12 months without intimacy. Any attempts to discuss these issues as adults are met with rage and blaming everyone else. Her position is basically that I married her and just have to live with whatever. She also knows I’ll never leave the kids(I’m not saying that’s the right call for everyone but it’s the right call for me).
Here’s the thing- I can handle a lot with a smile on my face. I am longing for those relationships I had in early adulthood where my SO actually wanted me to be happy sometimes instead of only living to serve her needs. I can’t get these ghosts of girlfriends past out of my head. Every single night I am having vivid dreams about them sexual and otherwise. Marriage with kids is a lot different than college relationships so who knows what could have been. For me, the unknown is what haunts me.
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2024.05.21 13:23 Gloomy-Forever-7702 Asking for a salary increase

I am contemplating asking my employer for a salary increase of about 10k. I am currently on 42k but from reading online and speaking to others in similar roles they are all earning above 50k base salary.
I am with this company over 11 years and have taken on a much bigger work load and responsibility over that time. I have never had any issues and am very happy working for them. The company has grown massively from when I started and is doing very well.
There is usually an annual salary review and the last few years there was a 2k increase per annum, however I would prefer to get a 10k increase now and review it in 5 years instead. The way I see it I am just getting what's going to be given over the next 5 years ahead of time anyway. Even if they deny my request I am happy working for them and I am a loyal employee which is something I take pride in, but I think it's a conversation worth having.
Would anyone have any advice on how to go about asking for a 10k increase? And if you think it would be a realistic request to make?
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2024.05.21 13:20 Nova__Terra I think my boyfriend is purposely triggering me

Lately, we had been fighting over his female friend of 5 years. I don’t usually have jealousy issues and I always support friendships no matter what gender as long as they are respectful towards me and my relationship.
I’ve been dating Ray for 6 months and every-time we have a fight he just leaves me for a day or two. Doesn’t break up just doesn’t text/call/see me.
I explained that I am very logical and fair and I don’t require much but when I get triggered my resentment comes out and I am manic, angry, needy, just overall too much and I wouldn’t make points or talk logically like I usually do.
We never had a single fight where he didn’t up and leave - that triggers my fear of abandonment and I spiral and text him to break up or block him or tell him i never want to see him again. This is not behaviour I want for myself. I know why I do these things and it hurts so much I can’t control them on my own in those moments. It is very toxic of me.
We had a conversation where I told him that I well tell him when I feel like I am splitting and that everything needs to drop and that he needs to console me and assure me he is there for me no matter the fight. He agreed and we practiced fake scenarios and it was so consoling for me I cried as I never heard him be like that with me - gentle and supportive during fights.
The issues we are having are regarding his female friend. To make the story short she thinks it is appropriate to share a bed with a guy best friend that has feelings for her but she doesn’t have feelings for him. She did the same with my partner, Ray. She leans on him while they watch TV. She is quite petite and feminine and wears crop tops and skin tight close when hanging out with my partner and the other best friend who has feelings for her. This wouldn’t be an issue for me but she doesn’t wear that kind of clothing at all with her close female friends, just with them. When I hanged out with the three of them they all ignored me and did an activity that excluded me. My partner sat next to her and left me all alone as the guy friend also sat with them. They had three donuts I bought (she came unannounced so I bought only 3 for the 3 of us). Ray gave her a donut first and he and guy friend took the other two. They just ignored me the whole time so I excused myself and left as I started to cry.
When we parted ways she told me how she forgot how big I was. I’ve gained some stress weight and I told Ray he needs to address the comment as it was very weird to say that.
He approached her gently and said Hey K my partner is insecure that comment was weird. She said how she never said that and that I am twisting her words, how she will avoid hanging out with me if I am that sensitive. He calls her little one and consoles her how no one is mad he just wanted to highlight it.
Ray and I talked and I said I am starting to compare myself to here too much as she is getting empathy and gentleness that I am not getting from him and due to us looking differently it is going to my head.
I told him I needed to feel like I am more important to him than her, for a short period of time so I can adjust to their friendship. That he needs to put my needs/feelings first instead of hers and it hurts me very deeply and I cry so much due to these events lately.
The day after he asked me about getting her a specific anime bag, he remembered all the little details about the bag we saw as he knew she would like it (i told him to get it for her before I met her and was ignored). He wanted to get her a bag to show her there is no hard feelings (he wanted to make sure she is okay after he had to ask her to be more mindful about such comments towards me and she got defensive). When I asked him where is my bag, my feelings are hurt quite a bit more he said he would buy me that book I wanted. He couldnt remember the book name or colour but remembered everything about the bag.
Anyways we got into a big fight and I told him, I need to feel like his number 1 priority for sometime so I am ok with that friendship. He said he understood why and how I felt. But returned back to telling me I am making an issue where there is no issue and my reality is not true. I just told him I am uncomfortable with the friendship (more his attitude towards her) and I need him to take a break from it for my own sanity. He said he doesn’t like that.
My BPD got triggered and Idk why I said that as I knew his choice, I acted like a child and asked him to make a choice. Nothing will happen I just need him to make a choice K or me. And I reminded him I just need to feel safe in this relationship and I will be okay with their friendship.
He choose K.
I begged him that I just needed to hear him say my name just so I can control the splitting.
He refused and said don’t make me say it as I will hate myself.
I begged and begged and I was pathetic as I was losing all grip I had on my controlled emotions.
He said the I choose you and left me again.
I am so heartbroken and I did it to myself and I’m so tired of being like this and having these extreme emotions. When I am calm I validate everyones side and be supportive and forgiving and apologetic.
I called him and asked him to pick up as I was not feeling safe on my own ( I never asked him or told him something like this) it was 4 am and my friends and brother are not responding and my mental health was. Very dark.
I’m all alone now and I don’t know how to fix this.
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2024.05.21 13:16 AcceptableMail2684 Digital Marketing Course in Chennai

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2024.05.21 13:15 Even-Many702 Dhruv Piplani: Age, Net Worth, and Salary Unveiled

Explore the intriguing life and achievements of Dhruv Piplani, a prominent Indian entrepreneur and telecom consultant. Discover his age, net worth, salary, and the impact he has made in the business world.

Introduction

In the bustling world of entrepreneurship and telecom, one name continues to captivate the industry: Dhruv Piplani. This Indian visionary has built an empire spanning multiple sectors, leaving an indelible mark on the business landscape. But what lies behind the success? How does this remarkable individual command such impressive wealth and influence? Prepare to delve into the intriguing life and achievements of Dhruv Piplani.

Key Takeaways

Introduction to Dhruv Piplani

Dhruv Piplani is an Indian entrepreneur and investor who has built a remarkable career in the business world, Piplani's entrepreneurial journey began at a young age, fueled by his passion for innovation and a keen eye for identifying industry opportunities.

Early Life and Background

Piplani's early life and background have played a significant role in shaping his entrepreneurial mindset. Hailing from a family with a strong business acumen, he was exposed to the intricacies of the corporate world from a young age. He grew up in a household that encouraged risk-taking, problem-solving, and the pursuit of ambitious goals. These foundational experiences instilled in him a deep understanding of the challenges and rewards associated with entrepreneurship.

Career Beginnings

After completing his education, Dhruv Piplani wasted no time in embarking on his entrepreneurial journey. He recognized the rapidly evolving telecom industry as a promising avenue and began exploring opportunities within this sector. His keen analytical skills, coupled with his ability to identify gaps in the market, led him to found his first successful venture.

Business Ventures

Dhruv Piplani has been a driving force in the telecom industry, leveraging his expertise to establish successful companies that have made a lasting impact. His unwavering commitment to innovation and strategic thinking has led him to found two prominent entities in the sector: My Country Mobile and CallMama.
Complementing his work in the mobile space, Piplani also founded CallMama, a telecom company focused on providing high-quality landline services. With its advanced infrastructure and dedication to reliable connectivity, CallMama has become a trusted provider for businesses and individuals alike.

Consulting and Entrepreneurship: Groomit

Piplani's entrepreneurial spirit extends beyond the telecom sector, as evidenced by his involvement in the consulting and grooming industry. He established Groomit, a successful consulting firm that specializes in helping businesses optimize their operations, streamline processes, and unlock their full potential. Groomit's comprehensive services, combined with Piplani's strategic expertise, have made it a sought-after partner for organizations seeking to gain a competitive edge.

Net Worth

As the founder and driving force behind several successful business ventures, Piplani's net worth has been steadily growing over the years, thanks to his diverse sources of income and strategic entrepreneurial endeavors.

Sources of Income

Piplani's primary sources of income are closely tied to his business activities. and his consulting firm, provides specialized services that contribute significantly to his overall earnings. Beyond his telecom and consulting ventures, Piplani has explored other entrepreneurial opportunities, diversifying his income streams and further bolstering his wealth.

Estimated Net Worth

While the exact figure of Piplani's net worth is not publicly disclosed, industry analysts and financial experts have provided estimates based on available information. It is believed that his net worth is in the range of several million dollars, reflecting the success and scale of his business operations.

Age

Piplani, the prominent Indian entrepreneur and telecom consultant, is currently 38 years old. Starting his entrepreneurial journey in his early 20s, his age has played a significant role in shaping his remarkable career trajectory. His youthful energy, coupled with his extensive industry knowledge and strategic acumen, has enabled him to stay ahead of the curve and capitalize on emerging market trends.

Salary

As a successful entrepreneur and telecom consultant, Piplani's salary is a topic of significant interest. His impressive earnings can be attributed to the diverse revenue streams generated by his various business ventures.

Earnings from Business Ventures

Piplani's primary sources of income stem from his involvement in the telecom and consulting sectors, contributing significantly to his overall salary. Additionally, his consulting firm provides lucrative advisory services to clients in the telecom and technology sectors, further enhancing his earnings.

Wedding

Piplani's wedding was a highly anticipated event, known for its extravagance and grandeur. The lavish celebration took place at a renowned hotel in the heart of the city, with an impressive guest list that included industry leaders, celebrities, and close friends and family. The venue was adorned with breathtaking floral arrangements, intricate lighting displays, and a magnificent stage that set the stage for the festivities.

Charitable Contributions and Philanthropy

Piplani's success as an entrepreneur extends beyond his business ventures; he is also known for his philanthropic efforts and charitable contributions. As a socially conscious leader, he has dedicated a significant portion of his resources to supporting various causes that align with his values and vision for positive change.

Supporting Causes

Piplani's charitable contributions have made a notable impact on the communities he serves. He has actively supported causes such as education, healthcare, and environmental conservation, demonstrating his commitment to philanthropy and making a lasting difference.

Personal Life

While Piplani's professional accomplishments have earned him widespread recognition, his personal life has largely remained out of the public eye. However, this section delves into the more intimate aspects of his life, shedding light on his family dynamics and relationships.

Family and Relationships

Piplani comes from a close-knit family, and his personal life revolves around the strong bonds he shares with his loved ones. He maintains close relationships with his extended family, including his parents, siblings, and other relatives. He is known to be a family-oriented individual, often involving his loved ones in important business decisions and celebrations.

Controversies and Criticisms

While Piplani's entrepreneurial journey has been marked by numerous successes, it has not been without its fair share of controversies and criticisms. As a prominent figure in the telecom and consulting industries, his actions and decisions have come under scrutiny from various stakeholders, including industry peers, regulators, and the media.
Despite these challenges, Piplani has demonstrated his resilience and adaptability, navigating the complexities of the business landscape with a steady hand. He has remained focused on driving innovation, forging strategic partnerships, and delivering value to his clients and stakeholders.

Influence and Impact

Piplani's remarkable journey has not only led to his own resounding success but has also had a significant impact on the industry and those around him. His influence and the recognition he has received within the telecom, consulting, and entrepreneurial communities are a testament to his transformative impact.

Industry Recognition

Piplani's innovative approach and groundbreaking contributions in the telecom sector have earned him widespread industry recognition. He has been honored with numerous prestigious awards and accolades, including the "Telecom Innovator of the Year" award and the "Entrepreneur of the Year" title.

Inspirational Figure

Beyond his professional accomplishments, Piplani has emerged as an inspirational figure for aspiring entrepreneurs and business leaders. His unwavering determination, strategic vision, and ability to navigate complex challenges have made him a role model for those seeking to emulate his success.

Future Plans and Ambitions

As an accomplished entrepreneur, Piplani's sights are set firmly on the future, with a multitude of ambitious plans and goals in the works. Driven by his insatiable thirst for innovation and a relentless pursuit of expansion, he is poised to embark on a new chapter that will solidify his position as a leading force within the telecom and consulting industries.
One of his future plans is to further diversify his business portfolio, exploring new avenues that align with his vision and expertise. He is actively exploring opportunities to venture into emerging technologies, such as 5G infrastructure and IoT (Internet of Things) solutions, capitalizing on the rapid digital transformation sweeping across industries.
Moreover, Piplani's ambitions extend beyond the boundaries of his current enterprises. He is actively scouting for strategic acquisitions and partnerships that will bolster his presence and market share, both domestically and internationally. By strategically aligning with complementary businesses, he aims to create a synergistic ecosystem that amplifies his impact and solidifies his standing as a formidable player in the global marketplace.

Lessons from Piplani's Journey

Piplani's remarkable rise to success offers a wealth of insights for aspiring entrepreneurs and business leaders.
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2024.05.21 13:09 ThrowRA2906 How can I (24F) accept my boyfriend's (27M) misogynistic friends?

So.. i've been with my boyfriend for little over 2 years. It is the first time im in a long term relationship..For the most part, I've enjoyed it a lot. It was really magical at times. But there were breaches of loyalty and respect from my boyfriend constantly the first year. Not exactly cheating physically (from what i can prove), but a lot of emotional cheating. Although I do have evidence of him possibly cheating physically as well, but what do I know. It affected me so badly. It still affects me horribly. At the time, I ignored a lot of it (idiot), because I just didnt want it to end. Eventually I confessed to him about how its hurting me, all of it, we talked through it, cried through it, threw stuff over it, and he seemed to understand, apologize and adjust his behavior. But I've always wondered why someone who looks to be an absolute angel, madly in love with me, would do it at the first place (most naive sentence you've read, maybe ever huh)
Well this brought up horrendous trust issues in me, no matter how much we've discussed these problems. It just didnt bring enough clarity, and left me confused, and feeling pathetic. So I decided to start a conquest, with a goal to understand who am I really in a relationship with. I had suspicions (it was ungodly clear) that my boyfriend's friend group are the biggest, most pathetic manchild, self-reflection lacking assholes. They've made a few mildly misogynistic remarks in front of me, but I, as always, brushed it off. But its that type of people you just feel would say the most heinous stuff if you weren't there.
They have this whatsapp groupchat, with 3 more friends. This groupchat, I knew for a long while, would break my heart if I ever peaked into it. So I internally concluded looking into it is way past the line 2 years ago. But I, unfortunately, given the circumstances, broke my own promise (which I am ashamed about, although I personally wouldn't care, I truly think going through someone's stuff is shitty). And what I saw was beyond repulsive, as expected. Talking about women as nothing but sexual objects - suggesting my boyfriend shouldnt fuck european bitches, but find a latina that would squat on his face, he would finally experience a real woman, he would cook for her all day every day if he had a chick like that (my bf is known for being a good cook), i beat that pussy up this and that, cityboy shiiiii, i hate when chicks dont know we in an open relationship (talking about their long term girlfriends which are all sweet girls), my boyfriend suggesting he wants a "big tiddy goth chick" (which is like, the opposite of what I am), talking about their exes and my boyfriends exes like they are absolute dirt, my boyfriend saying that "denying him fucking models would be culturally insensitive since he is French", and that "post nut clarity makes him want to be a monk" (which broke my heart the most, as our sex frequency did lessen, especially from his side. I asked him about it, was upset about it, he told me he just feels like shit cause he gained weight, because of work, whatever whatever, and of course told me im not initiating as well, but who wants to initiate on someone who doesnt show any sexual desire) (edit: I must note that most of these guys are in their early 30s, not 16)
Well yesterday, I told him that I did this, what I saw, I packed my things and left to my parents house to be alone for a couple of days, and to decide what to do next. He barely told me anything, he told me he's not in the mood for this, that he cannot believe im leaving for some banter with the boys, that he is disappointed i treat his stuff like its a public library, but that he still loves me. yuck...
Barely texted me since I left, only that he is sorry that it had to come to this, that there was a better way to deal with this, and that he hopes we will talk soon, and that he loves me.
So... I understand this is perhaps a take it or leave it situation. How can I ever come to terms this is how my boyfriend talks about me? A lot of people told me to break up and run, but its way more nuanced than that, and also I believe in commitment with its dark and ugly sides, and believe in trying everything in my power to make it work before leaving. What can I do here
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2024.05.21 13:08 existentiallettuce New house mortgage question

Hello Irishpersonalfinance. I have a quandary and don't really have any other avenues to go for for advice.
My partner and I have inherited a house which we are living in. It's finished to a high standard but is already starting to feel crowded with our children. An opportunity arose to purchase a house which is 15 minutes away and ticks all our boxes.
The new place needs work but once finished would be our forever home. It's in a perfect location for us and has been on our dream location since we were teens. Our options are either:
  1. to sell our current home, which would more than cover the purchase of the new house and we would need an additonal 100k to cover renovations to the new place + whatever rent we would need for the time between selling and moving in to a renovated place. Or alternatively dip into our savings to cover renovations + rent. Result is 1 house, small mortgage.
  2. To take a larger mortgage out which we would combine with our savings to purchase the new house outright, continue to live in our current house while it's being done up. Holding on to a rainy day fund to keep us secure for a few months if needs be. Result is 2 houses, large mortgage which is covered by the rent from property 1.
I'm leaning towards option 2 but I don't know how sound an idea is. Our household salary is good, combined just above 100k and we expect that to jump by 20k when my partner completes a course they have been working on for the past while, realistically in September.
Our current house is in an Irish city and realistically will be easy to rent. Even with a reasonable (not planning to gouge anybody) rent we could cover the mortgage of the new place.
Is there a fast and quick rule to follow? On paper it seems that if we can cover our mortgage with rent and end up with two assets that's the logical thing to do with the current tax laws. Is it crazy to burn our savings on our dream home? Financially, should we try to make our savings work for us through investments + ETFs rather than becoming landlords and just sell our current house? We're first time buyers if that helps and ultimately we'll need to move in the coming 3 years. We've already gone sale agreed on 2 other places which fell through so I'm interested in pushing this along.
Thanks for taking the time to read all this, if nothing else.
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2024.05.21 13:07 goosedude117 New Job.

So after three years and not as much of a new grad, I had started looking for a new job. I can from a level one trauma/burn/stroke center in the ED. After some traumatizing events, perimortem C-section, pulling a GSW victim out of a car with no security, pulling off said persons clothes and gun plopping onto the cart as the trauma team were cracking open the chest still security didn’t respond till 4 minutes after that. An ED doc secure the gun and pointed it into the corner of the trauma bay., being constantly attacked by patients, being yelled at for the tiniest thing , and being the most underpaid hospital because it’s “prestigious”; I left. I got a Job at the VA 6.2 miles from there and I’m making 30k more salary plus the benefits. I’m Monday - Friday, no weekends no holidays. I’ve been there over 2 months and I don’t feel guilty for putting in some time off. I work outpatient specialty clinics. I’ve never been less stressed, less pain in my back, or had more energy than I do now. As a Vet myself, I love taking care of my brothers and sisters. I really think I’ve hit the jackpot. Wanted to let those who feel stuck, sometimes it is greener out there. Sending love to all of us Nurses.
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2024.05.21 13:01 apps-1 Accomplishing Digital Transformation with Low-Code

Accomplishing digital transformation with low-code development involves leveraging the capabilities of low-code platforms to streamline and enhance the entire process of digitization. Here are key steps and strategies for effectively using low-code to achieve digital transformation:

1. Identify Key Areas for Transformation

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3. Empower Citizen Developers

4. Start with Pilot Projects

5. Integrate with Existing Systems

6. Focus on User Experience

7. Measure and Optimize

8. Ensure Governance and Compliance

9. Scale and Expand

10. Foster a Culture of Innovation

By following these steps and strategies, organizations can effectively leverage low-code platforms to accelerate their digital transformation journey, enabling them to stay competitive and responsive in an ever-evolving digital landscape.
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2024.05.21 12:38 infofilms Thinking of studying XR (AR/VR/MR) in America - Worth it? Need advice from industry folks!

Hey everyone,
I've been super fascinated with XR (AR, VR, MR) for a while now and am seriously considering studying it at a university in the US. I've got a ton of questions and would love to hear from anyone in the industry or who has studied it.
Market and Employment:
Studying in the US:
General Questions:
User Base and Adoption:
I'd really appreciate any insights or advice you can offer! Thanks in advance for your help!
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2024.05.21 12:36 infofilms Thinking of studying XR (AR/VR/MR) in America - Worth it? Need advice from industry folks!

Hey everyone,
I've been super fascinated with XR (AR, VR, MR) for a while now and am seriously considering studying it at a university in the US. I've got a ton of questions and would love to hear from anyone in the industry or who has studied it.
Market and Employment:
Studying in the US:
General Questions:
User Base and Adoption:
I'd really appreciate any insights or advice you can offer! Thanks in advance for your help!
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2024.05.21 12:34 infofilms Thinking of studying XR (AR/VR/MR) in America - Worth it? Need advice from industry folks!

Hey everyone,
I've been super fascinated with XR (AR, VR, MR) for a while now and am seriously considering studying it at a university in the US. I've got a ton of questions and would love to hear from anyone in the industry or who has studied it.
Market and Employment:
Studying in the US:
General Questions:
User Base and Adoption:
I'd really appreciate any insights or advice you can offer! Thanks in advance for your help!
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2024.05.21 12:32 infofilms Thinking of studying XR (AR/VR/MR) in America - Worth it? Need advice from industry folks!

Hey everyone,
I've been super fascinated with XR (AR, VR, MR) for a while now and am seriously considering studying it at a university in the US. I've got a ton of questions and would love to hear from anyone in the industry or who has studied it.
Market and Employment:
Studying in the US:
General Questions:
User Base and Adoption:
I'd really appreciate any insights or advice you can offer! Thanks in advance for your help!
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2024.05.21 12:32 infofilms Thinking of studying XR (AR/VR/MR) in America - Worth it? Need advice from industry folks!

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Hey everyone,
I've been super fascinated with XR (AR, VR, MR) for a while now and am seriously considering studying it at a university in the US. I've got a ton of questions and would love to hear from anyone in the industry or who has studied it.
Market and Employment:
Studying in the US:
General Questions:
User Base and Adoption:
I'd really appreciate any insights or advice you can offer! Thanks in advance for your help!
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2024.05.21 12:31 infofilms Thinking of studying XR (AR/VR/MR) in America - Worth it? Need advice from industry folks!

Hey everyone,
I've been super fascinated with XR (AR, VR, MR) for a while now and am seriously considering studying it at a university in the US. I've got a ton of questions and would love to hear from anyone in the industry or who has studied it.
Market and Employment:
Studying in the US:
General Questions:
User Base and Adoption:
I'd really appreciate any insights or advice you can offer! Thanks in advance for your help!
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2024.05.21 12:28 infofilms Thinking of studying XR (AR/VR/MR) in America - Worth it? Need advice from industry folks!

Hey everyone,
I've been super fascinated with XR (AR, VR, MR) for a while now and am seriously considering studying it at a university in the US. I've got a ton of questions and would love to hear from anyone in the industry or who has studied it.
Market and Employment:
Studying in the US:
General Questions:
User Base and Adoption:
I'd really appreciate any insights or advice you can offer! Thanks in advance for your help!
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2024.05.21 12:28 infofilms Thinking of studying XR (AR/VR/MR) in America - Worth it? Need advice from industry folks!

Hey everyone,
I've been super fascinated with XR (AR, VR, MR) for a while now and am seriously considering studying it at a university in the US. I've got a ton of questions and would love to hear from anyone in the industry or who has studied it.
Market and Employment:
Studying in the US:
General Questions:
User Base and Adoption:
I'd really appreciate any insights or advice you can offer! Thanks in advance for your help!
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2024.05.21 12:27 infofilms Thinking of studying XR (AR/VR/MR) in America - Worth it? Need advice from industry folks!

Hey everyone,
I've been super fascinated with XR (AR, VR, MR) for a while now and am seriously considering studying it at a university in the US. I've got a ton of questions and would love to hear from anyone in the industry or who has studied it.
Market and Employment:
Studying in the US:
General Questions:
User Base and Adoption:
I'd really appreciate any insights or advice you can offer! Thanks in advance for your help!
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2024.05.21 12:25 infofilms Thinking of studying XR (AR/VR/MR) in America - Worth it? Need advice from industry folks!

Hey everyone,
I've been super fascinated with XR (AR, VR, MR) for a while now and am seriously considering studying it at a university in the US. I've got a ton of questions and would love to hear from anyone in the industry or who has studied it.
Market and Employment:
Studying in the US:
General Questions:
User Base and Adoption:
I'd really appreciate any insights or advice you can offer! Thanks in advance for your help!
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2024.05.21 12:23 infofilms Thinking of studying XR (AR/VR/MR) in America - Worth it? Need advice from industry folks!

Hey everyone,
I've been super fascinated with XR (AR, VR, MR) for a while now and am seriously considering studying it at a university in the US. I've got a ton of questions and would love to hear from anyone in the industry or who has studied it.
Market and Employment:
Studying in the US:
General Questions:
User Base and Adoption:
I'd really appreciate any insights or advice you can offer! Thanks in advance for your help!
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2024.05.21 12:23 infofilms Thinking of studying XR (AR/VR/MR) in America - Worth it? Need advice from industry folks!

Hey everyone,
I've been super fascinated with XR (AR, VR, MR) for a while now and am seriously considering studying it at a university in the US. I've got a ton of questions and would love to hear from anyone in the industry or who has studied it.
Market and Employment:
Studying in the US:
General Questions:
User Base and Adoption:
I'd really appreciate any insights or advice you can offer! Thanks in advance for your help!
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