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2015.10.14 05:35 morganeisenberg One pot recipes & meals
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2010.11.03 18:01 mmmyum Slowcooking: Slow and Steady Wins the Race
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2024.05.21 15:43 MartyParty48 Thinking about rehoming puppy - looking for perspective and advice
I'm having some heart breaking thoughts and wondering what to do with my puppy.
My dog passed away last summer. I had her her whole life, from 16 weeks to 12 years. She was a lab greyhound mix, and she loved nothing more than to just lounge in the sun or on the couch, her entire life. I took her everywhere with me.
In the fall, I contacted a rescue about adopting. I was interested in a puppy again, but they didn't think the one I liked would be a good match for me (urban apartment). I said I was looking for a low, maybe medium energy dog who would be a good companion for the many dog-friendly places around here. They recommended a 6 month old puppy. I did a visit with the Foster family, and they also said they thought he would be a really good fit. 
I have now had this dog for 7 months. There are a lot of times that I absolutely love him. But there are a few big issues making me have doubts that I'm the best forever home for him:
First, he is not at all low to medium energy like the rescue described. And that may not be their fault! I'm sure he was probably nervous in his foster home. But it didn't take long for me to realize this is a dog that needs an incredible amount of exercise/stimulation. We walk 5 miles a day, and I send him to daycare twice a week. We also do a lot of training and brain games because exercise alone would never wear him out. I did a DNA test, and it turns out he's not the lab mix that was assumed, he is a coonhound and German shorthair pointer, which explains all of the high strung energy that he has.
He has tried to bite me multiple times now. A few times were definitely resource guarding, but it is always completely random. Sometimes a toy is safe for me to grab, sometimes it's not, even if it's the same toy. He was shaking his head and I know that means he needs his ears cleaned, but he tried to bite me.  I have tried moving very slowly over several days, I've tried positive reinforcement, but even getting the cloth near his face causes him to snap.
I have hired two behaviorists already (one of which the rescue recommended when I reached out about the aggression) and while we've made progress in some areas, I get sad thinking that I'm going to have to drug him forever anytime I have to groom him. At the vet, they have to fully sedate him to do his nails, or to draw blood, and he's tried to bite them as well. A muzzle protects them from him biting, but he's so frantic that it doesn't make a difference in terms of being able to work on him. 
And then there's the reality that the dog I imagined having is just not the dog that I got. And I'm so conflicted. I've always been a believer that once you get a dog, that's your dog. And that you work through things. But this is a super high energy, super alert dog. I had a friend in my 20s who had a German shorthair pointer, and that dog was just a lot, and always told myself no way would I ever have a dog like that. Well, now I have one. I can't see myself ever being able to bring him places with me, because he's always tracking, howling if he smelled something good, on edge, etc. I have mostly taught him to relax in the house, but once he's outside his nose hits the ground in his ears turn off.
So yeah, I just don't know. In his foster home, he had two other dogs to play with in a fenced in yard, and I just keep imagining that wall he obviously loves me, and I love him, that he is better suited for either someone really active who runs or hikes or a family with other dogs that he can run around with.
I'm just not sure what to do. I know this will probably be a divisive thread and I might get down voted to hell. I feel so incredibly guilty even thinking about giving him back to the rescue. 
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My dog passed away last summer. I had her her whole life, from 16 weeks to 12 years. She was a lab greyhound mix, and she loved nothing more than to just lounge in the sun or on the couch, her entire life. I took her everywhere with me.
In the fall, I contacted a rescue about adopting. I was interested in a puppy again, but they didn't think the one I liked would be a good match for me (urban apartment). I said I was looking for a low, maybe medium energy dog who would be a good companion for the many dog-friendly places around here. They recommended a 6 month old puppy. I did a visit with the Foster family, and they also said they thought he would be a really good fit. 
I have now had this dog for 7 months. There are a lot of times that I absolutely love him. But there are a few big issues making me have doubts that I'm the best forever home for him:
First, he is not at all low to medium energy like the rescue described. And that may not be their fault! I'm sure he was probably nervous in his foster home. But it didn't take long for me to realize this is a dog that needs an incredible amount of exercise/stimulation. We walk 5 miles a day, and I send him to daycare twice a week. We also do a lot of training and brain games because exercise alone would never wear him out. I did a DNA test, and it turns out he's not the lab mix that was assumed, he is a coonhound and German shorthair pointer, which explains all of the high strung energy that he has.
He has tried to bite me multiple times now. A few times were definitely resource guarding, but it is always completely random. Sometimes a toy is safe for me to grab, sometimes it's not, even if it's the same toy. He was shaking his head and I know that means he needs his ears cleaned, but he tried to bite me.  I have tried moving very slowly over several days, I've tried positive reinforcement, but even getting the cloth near his face causes him to snap.
I have hired two behaviorists already (one of which the rescue recommended when I reached out about the aggression) and while we've made progress in some areas, I get sad thinking that I'm going to have to drug him forever anytime I have to groom him. At the vet, they have to fully sedate him to do his nails, or to draw blood, and he's tried to bite them as well. A muzzle protects them from him biting, but he's so frantic that it doesn't make a difference in terms of being able to work on him. 
And then there's the reality that the dog I imagined having is just not the dog that I got. And I'm so conflicted. I've always been a believer that once you get a dog, that's your dog. And that you work through things. But this is a super high energy, super alert dog. I had a friend in my 20s who had a German shorthair pointer, and that dog was just a lot, and always told myself no way would I ever have a dog like that. Well, now I have one. I can't see myself ever being able to bring him places with me, because he's always tracking, howling if he smelled something good, on edge, etc. I have mostly taught him to relax in the house, but once he's outside his nose hits the ground in his ears turn off.
So yeah, I just don't know. In his foster home, he had two other dogs to play with in a fenced in yard, and I just keep imagining that wall he obviously loves me, and I love him, that he is better suited for either someone really active who runs or hikes or a family with other dogs that he can run around with.
I'm just not sure what to do. I know this will probably be a divisive thread and I might get down voted to hell. I feel so incredibly guilty even thinking about giving him back to the rescue. 
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2024.05.21 15:42 jethro4days Has anyone ridden one style of bike then switched to a completely style bike?
This might ve a dumb question but I'm just curious of people's experiences. Has anyone only ridden one type of bike mostly then switched to a completely different style bike and regretted/satisfied with their decision? Example, riding sport bikes your whole life then switched to a cruiser. Or ridden cruisers your whole life then switched to an adventure bike. In my adult life I've pretty much only ridden HD dynas for the exception of a drz400 supermoto and a ftr1200 RR. I think I'm ready to make the jump to something at the other end of the spectrum as far as bikes go. Just looking to hear people's opinions. Thanks, happy riding.
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2024.05.21 15:41 beigers Employer changing their “unwritten” flex time policy, but only for the lowest level workers who I manage. Everyone else seems to be taking flex time. How would you handle this?
I’m a middle manager - I’m 2nd from the bottom in my department and manage a small team.
I was told today after my team worked a conference this weekend that I couldn’t provide them flex time to make up for the extra 12 hours they each worked, despite that being the policy every time I worked an event since I’ve started in February. They’ll also be working another conference this weekend. Our work at these conferences is very important to our bottom line and is VERY external, so being in good spirits and not completely burnt out is actually very important from a business perspective, which is why I encouraged them to take time off this week.
I think that’s utter bullshit personally because every other place I’ve worked offered flex time in exchange for these kind of events. Even the stingiest places did and my current workplace is big on advertising “work/life balance.”
I’ve tried making that argument but was somewhat shut down by being told that as exempt employees sometimes the expectation is for them to work over 40 hours and that it is the “nature of our work.” There is absolutely nothing on fire this week that anyone on my team needs to address and flex time would have only a positive business outcome. It’s also bizarre because my boss has been obsessed with retaining my team despite their low pay and has been on me to make sure they’re 100% happy. I’m also afraid that with so many of these conferences being “voluntold” situations, they’re going to start saying no to attending them if they’re expected to work mulitiple 6 day weeks with no extra pay or time off. I mean, I would if I were them.
It’s also worth noting that I, unlike my team, was encouraged to take flex time by my boss after this weekend and was told that taking flex time after working a conference was considered business as usual. Now it’s a sudden 180…except that later in the conversation, I mentioned having to do something at my son’s school tomorrow and I was told “oh, don’t bother logging that, just take the time.” She’s also taking flex time this week. So for us, it’s fine, but for some strange reason she’s throwing down the gauntlet on the idea of the team taking that same time. I’m wondering if one of my employees told someone in another department that’s stingier with flex time that they were taking time and it got back to my boss so she’s doing her due diligence by telling me they don’t officially have flex time.
There’s also a weird element here where myself, my boss and everyone my boss manages (who she has allowed this privilege to) are white while I manage a team that includes people of color. So beyond just being blatantly unfair and a poor business decision, it’s also absolutely terrible optics and one of my employees is very active in racial equity initiatives, so it could really turn out badly if they notice the injustice of the inconsistent policy.
Thoughts on what you would do? So far I’ve encouraged my team to at least work remote this week and if they don’t do shit while remote, I don’t care. I’m planning to talk to each of them in 1:1s about how they should just take the time they need between conferences for laundry, errands, etc. and just don’t advertise to anyone that they’re doing so since I imagine that’s what put it on my boss’s radar in the first place.
Any other ideas/feedback?
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I was told today after my team worked a conference this weekend that I couldn’t provide them flex time to make up for the extra 12 hours they each worked, despite that being the policy every time I worked an event since I’ve started in February. They’ll also be working another conference this weekend. Our work at these conferences is very important to our bottom line and is VERY external, so being in good spirits and not completely burnt out is actually very important from a business perspective, which is why I encouraged them to take time off this week.
I think that’s utter bullshit personally because every other place I’ve worked offered flex time in exchange for these kind of events. Even the stingiest places did and my current workplace is big on advertising “work/life balance.”
I’ve tried making that argument but was somewhat shut down by being told that as exempt employees sometimes the expectation is for them to work over 40 hours and that it is the “nature of our work.” There is absolutely nothing on fire this week that anyone on my team needs to address and flex time would have only a positive business outcome. It’s also bizarre because my boss has been obsessed with retaining my team despite their low pay and has been on me to make sure they’re 100% happy. I’m also afraid that with so many of these conferences being “voluntold” situations, they’re going to start saying no to attending them if they’re expected to work mulitiple 6 day weeks with no extra pay or time off. I mean, I would if I were them.
It’s also worth noting that I, unlike my team, was encouraged to take flex time by my boss after this weekend and was told that taking flex time after working a conference was considered business as usual. Now it’s a sudden 180…except that later in the conversation, I mentioned having to do something at my son’s school tomorrow and I was told “oh, don’t bother logging that, just take the time.” She’s also taking flex time this week. So for us, it’s fine, but for some strange reason she’s throwing down the gauntlet on the idea of the team taking that same time. I’m wondering if one of my employees told someone in another department that’s stingier with flex time that they were taking time and it got back to my boss so she’s doing her due diligence by telling me they don’t officially have flex time.
There’s also a weird element here where myself, my boss and everyone my boss manages (who she has allowed this privilege to) are white while I manage a team that includes people of color. So beyond just being blatantly unfair and a poor business decision, it’s also absolutely terrible optics and one of my employees is very active in racial equity initiatives, so it could really turn out badly if they notice the injustice of the inconsistent policy.
Thoughts on what you would do? So far I’ve encouraged my team to at least work remote this week and if they don’t do shit while remote, I don’t care. I’m planning to talk to each of them in 1:1s about how they should just take the time they need between conferences for laundry, errands, etc. and just don’t advertise to anyone that they’re doing so since I imagine that’s what put it on my boss’s radar in the first place.
Any other ideas/feedback?
2024.05.21 15:41 Fuzzbutt-Enthusiast Stuck at Platinum
Has anyone else gotten literally STUCK at Platinum? A few days ago I was 10pts (one order) away from Diamond. It says the whole "complete one more order to reach diamond status through September 30th" Yada Yada. I was like...awesome! I finally get to see if Diamond actually makes a difference or of its all bs 😂 I did 3 more orders that day, several the next, and yesterday was a holiday. I am still STUCK at 10pts to go!
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2024.05.21 15:41 Linuxologue VFIO success: Linux host, Windows or MacOS guest with NVMe+Ethernet+GPU passthrough
After much work, I finally got a system running without issue (knock on wood) where I can pass a GPU, Ethernet device and NVMe disk to the guest. Obviously, the tricky part was to pass the GPU as everything else went pretty easily. All defvices are released to the host when the VM is not running it.
Hardware: - Z790 AORUS Elite AX - 14900K intel with integrated GPU - Radeon 6600 - I also have an NVidia card but it's not passed through
Host: - Linux Debian testing - Wayland (running on the Intel GPU) - Kernel 6.7.12 - None of the devices are managed through the vfio-pci driver, they are managed by the native NVMe/realtek/amdgpu drivers. Libvirt takes care of disconnecting the devices before the VM is started, and reconnects them after the VM shuts off. - I have set up internet through wireless and wired. Both are available to the host but one of them is disconnected when passed through to the guest. This is transparent as Linux will fall back on Wifi when the ethernet card is unbound.
I have two monitors and they are connected to the Intel GPU. I use the Intel GPU to drive the desktop (Plasma 5). The same monitors are also connected to the AMD GPU so I can switch from the host to the VM by switching monitor input. When no VM is running, everything runs from the Intel GPU, which means the dedicated graphic cards consume very very little (the AMDGPU driver reports 3W, the NVidia driver reports 7W), fans are not running and the computer temperature is below 40 degrees (Celsius)
I can use the AMD card on the host by using DRI_PRIME=pci-0000_0a_00_0 %command% for OpenGL applications. I can use the NVidia card by running __NV_PRIME_RENDER_OFFLOAD=1 __GLX_VENDOR_LIBRARY_NAME=nvidia %command% . Vulkan, OpenCL and Cuda also see the card without setting any environment variable (there might be env variables to set the prefered device though)
WINDOWS:
This was quite a lot of trial and error. I made a lot of changes to make this work so I can't be sure everything in there is necessary, but here is how I finally got macOS to use the passed through GPU: - I have the GPU on host bus 0a:00.0 and pass it on address 00:0a.0 (notice bus 0 again, otherwise the card is not visible) - Audio is also captured from 0a:00.1 to 00:0a.1 - I dumped the vbios from the Windows guest, sent it to the host through ssh (kind of ironic) so I can pass it to the host - Debian uses apparmor and the KVM processes are quite shielded, so I moved the vbios to a directory that is allowlisted (/usshare/OVMF/) kind of dirty but works. - In the host BIOS, it seems I had to disable resizable BAR, above 4G decoding and above 4G MMIO. I am not 100% sure that was necessary, will reboot soon to test. - the Linux dumped vbios didn't work, I have no idea why. The vbios dumped from Linux didn't have the same size at all, so I am not sure what happened. - macOS device type is set to iMacPro1,1 - The QXL card needs to be deleted (and the spice viewer too) otherwise macOS is confused. macOS is very easily confused. - I had to disable some things in the config.plist: I removed all Brcm Kexts (fro broadcom devices) but added the Realtek kext instead, disabled the AGPMInjector. Added agdpmod=pikera in boot-args.
After a lot of issues, macOS finally showed up on the dedicated card.
AMDGPU FIX:
When passing through the AMD gpu to the guest, I ran into a multitude of issues: - the host Wayland crashes (kwin in my case) when the device is unbound. Seems to be a KWin bug (at least KWin5) since the crash did not happen under wayfire. That does not prevent the VM from running anyway, but kind of annoying as KWin takes all programs with it when it dies. - Since I have cables connected, kwin seems to want to use those screens which is silly, they are the same as the ones connected to the intel GPU - When reattaching the device to the host, I often had kernel errors ( https://www.reddit.com/NobaraProject/comments/10p2yr9/single_gpu_passthrough_not_returning_to_host/ ) which means the host needs to be rebooted (makes it very easy to find what's wrong with macOS passthrough...)
All of that can be fixed by forcing the AMD card to be bound to the vfio-pci driver at boot, which has several downsides: - The host cannot see the card - The host cannot put the card in D3cold mode - The host uses more power (and higher temperature) than the native amdgpu driver I did not want to do that as it'd increase power consumption.
I did find a fix for all of that though: - add export KWIN_DRM_DEVICES=/dev/dri/card0 in /etc/environment to force kwin to ignore the other cards (OpenGL, Vulkan and OpenCL still work, it's just KWin that is ignoring them). That fixes the kwin crash. - pass the following arguments on the command line: video=efifb:off video=DP-3:d video=DP-4:d (replace DP-x with whatever outputs are connected on the AMD card, use for p in /sys/class/drm/*/status; do con=${p%/status}; echo -n "${con#*/card?-}: "; cat $p; done to discover them) - ensure everything is applied by updating the initrd/initramfs and grub or systemd-boot. - The kernel gives new errors: [ 524.030841] [drm:drm_helper_probe_single_connector_modes [drm_kms_helper]] *ERROR* No EDID found on connector: DP-3. but that does not sound alarming at all.
After rebooting, make sure the AMD gpu is absolutely not used by running lsmod grep amdgpu . Also, sensors is showing me the power consumption is 3W and the temperature is very low. Boot a guest, shut it down, and the AMD gpu should be safely returned to the host.
WHAT DOES NOT WORK: due to the KWin crash and the AMDGPU crash, it's unfortunately not possible to use a screen on the host then pass that screen to the guest (Wayland/Kwin is ALMOST able to do that). In case you have dual monitors, it'd be really cool to have the right screen connected to the host then passed to the guest through the AMDGPU. But nope. It seems very important that all outputs of the GPU are disabled on the host.
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Hardware: - Z790 AORUS Elite AX - 14900K intel with integrated GPU - Radeon 6600 - I also have an NVidia card but it's not passed through
Host: - Linux Debian testing - Wayland (running on the Intel GPU) - Kernel 6.7.12 - None of the devices are managed through the vfio-pci driver, they are managed by the native NVMe/realtek/amdgpu drivers. Libvirt takes care of disconnecting the devices before the VM is started, and reconnects them after the VM shuts off. - I have set up internet through wireless and wired. Both are available to the host but one of them is disconnected when passed through to the guest. This is transparent as Linux will fall back on Wifi when the ethernet card is unbound.
I have two monitors and they are connected to the Intel GPU. I use the Intel GPU to drive the desktop (Plasma 5). The same monitors are also connected to the AMD GPU so I can switch from the host to the VM by switching monitor input. When no VM is running, everything runs from the Intel GPU, which means the dedicated graphic cards consume very very little (the AMDGPU driver reports 3W, the NVidia driver reports 7W), fans are not running and the computer temperature is below 40 degrees (Celsius)
I can use the AMD card on the host by using DRI_PRIME=pci-0000_0a_00_0 %command% for OpenGL applications. I can use the NVidia card by running __NV_PRIME_RENDER_OFFLOAD=1 __GLX_VENDOR_LIBRARY_NAME=nvidia %command% . Vulkan, OpenCL and Cuda also see the card without setting any environment variable (there might be env variables to set the prefered device though)
WINDOWS:
- I created a regular Windows VM, on the NVMe disk (completely blank) when passing through all devices. The guest installation went smooth. Windows recognized all devices easily and the install was fast. Windows install created an EFI partition on the NVMe disk.
- I shrank the partition under Windows to make space for MacOS.
- I use input redirection (see guide at https://wiki.archlinux.org/title/PCI_passthrough_via_OVMF#Passing_keyboard/mouse_via_Evdev )
- the whole thing was setup in less than 1h
- But I got AMDGPU driver errors when releasing the GPU to the host, see below for the fix
- followed most of the guide at https://github.com/kholia/OSX-KVM and used the OpenCore boot
- I tried to reproduce the setup in virt-manager, but the whole thing was a pain
- installed using the QXL graphics and I added passthrough after macOS was installed
- I have discovered macOS does not see devices on bus other than bus 0 so all hardware that virt-manager put on Bus 1 and above are invisible to macOS
- Installing macOS after discovering this was rather easy. I repartitioned the hard disk from the terminal directly in the installer, and everything installed OK
- Things to pay attention to: * Add USB mouse and USB keyboards on top of the PS/2 mouse an keyboards (the PS/2 devices can't be removed, for some reason) * Double/triple check that the USB controllers are (all) on Bus 0. virt-manager has a tendency to put the USB3 controller on another Bus which means macOS won't see the keyboard and mouse. The installer refuses to carry on if there's no keyboard or mouse. * virtio mouse and keyboards don't seem to work, I didn't investigate much and just moved those to bus 2 so macOS does not see them. * Realtek ethernet requires some hackintosh driver which can easily be found.
This was quite a lot of trial and error. I made a lot of changes to make this work so I can't be sure everything in there is necessary, but here is how I finally got macOS to use the passed through GPU: - I have the GPU on host bus 0a:00.0 and pass it on address 00:0a.0 (notice bus 0 again, otherwise the card is not visible) - Audio is also captured from 0a:00.1 to 00:0a.1 - I dumped the vbios from the Windows guest, sent it to the host through ssh (kind of ironic) so I can pass it to the host - Debian uses apparmor and the KVM processes are quite shielded, so I moved the vbios to a directory that is allowlisted (/usshare/OVMF/) kind of dirty but works. - In the host BIOS, it seems I had to disable resizable BAR, above 4G decoding and above 4G MMIO. I am not 100% sure that was necessary, will reboot soon to test. - the Linux dumped vbios didn't work, I have no idea why. The vbios dumped from Linux didn't have the same size at all, so I am not sure what happened. - macOS device type is set to iMacPro1,1 - The QXL card needs to be deleted (and the spice viewer too) otherwise macOS is confused. macOS is very easily confused. - I had to disable some things in the config.plist: I removed all Brcm Kexts (fro broadcom devices) but added the Realtek kext instead, disabled the AGPMInjector. Added agdpmod=pikera in boot-args.
After a lot of issues, macOS finally showed up on the dedicated card.
AMDGPU FIX:
When passing through the AMD gpu to the guest, I ran into a multitude of issues: - the host Wayland crashes (kwin in my case) when the device is unbound. Seems to be a KWin bug (at least KWin5) since the crash did not happen under wayfire. That does not prevent the VM from running anyway, but kind of annoying as KWin takes all programs with it when it dies. - Since I have cables connected, kwin seems to want to use those screens which is silly, they are the same as the ones connected to the intel GPU - When reattaching the device to the host, I often had kernel errors ( https://www.reddit.com/NobaraProject/comments/10p2yr9/single_gpu_passthrough_not_returning_to_host/ ) which means the host needs to be rebooted (makes it very easy to find what's wrong with macOS passthrough...)
All of that can be fixed by forcing the AMD card to be bound to the vfio-pci driver at boot, which has several downsides: - The host cannot see the card - The host cannot put the card in D3cold mode - The host uses more power (and higher temperature) than the native amdgpu driver I did not want to do that as it'd increase power consumption.
I did find a fix for all of that though: - add export KWIN_DRM_DEVICES=/dev/dri/card0 in /etc/environment to force kwin to ignore the other cards (OpenGL, Vulkan and OpenCL still work, it's just KWin that is ignoring them). That fixes the kwin crash. - pass the following arguments on the command line: video=efifb:off video=DP-3:d video=DP-4:d (replace DP-x with whatever outputs are connected on the AMD card, use for p in /sys/class/drm/*/status; do con=${p%/status}; echo -n "${con#*/card?-}: "; cat $p; done to discover them) - ensure everything is applied by updating the initrd/initramfs and grub or systemd-boot. - The kernel gives new errors: [ 524.030841] [drm:drm_helper_probe_single_connector_modes [drm_kms_helper]] *ERROR* No EDID found on connector: DP-3. but that does not sound alarming at all.
After rebooting, make sure the AMD gpu is absolutely not used by running lsmod grep amdgpu . Also, sensors is showing me the power consumption is 3W and the temperature is very low. Boot a guest, shut it down, and the AMD gpu should be safely returned to the host.
WHAT DOES NOT WORK: due to the KWin crash and the AMDGPU crash, it's unfortunately not possible to use a screen on the host then pass that screen to the guest (Wayland/Kwin is ALMOST able to do that). In case you have dual monitors, it'd be really cool to have the right screen connected to the host then passed to the guest through the AMDGPU. But nope. It seems very important that all outputs of the GPU are disabled on the host.
2024.05.21 15:41 Gold-Blacksmith3175 Have Vs Need. Willing to send two 4 star cards for a 5 star. Really want to complete set 16!!
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2024.05.21 15:41 Least_Morning2698 Isn't MBTI draining?
I wonder if someone on this sub have similar thoughts about it, but i find mbti more and more psychically draining for couple of reasons and some are connected strictly to our personality type, so it seems more comfortable and proper to write about it on INFP sub, cause i think we might carry this burden together.
Firstly it is how some users take mbti tests to their hearts despite of its low scientific credibility and try their hardest to fit into the stereotype of their type to not be called "fake" or smth. Sometimes it follows entitlement over other types that are not as "powerful" personas as them, which is bananas, i have no other words for it. When it comes to this i tried to ignore it and don't care+didn't ask, but when you see it often, it gives just irritation and cringe.
I know it's not a great discovery to tell, but how limiting it is to see other people as types, when everyone is a complex being? It may seem helpful at first, cause someone from the outside suggests who you are and who are you compatible with, but it's still just a stereotype based on a theory, a bubble. You're not your functions, others aren't either. Some time ago i've seen a post from mbti, that speaks about it in more detailed way, i will link it here: https://www.reddit.com/mbti/comments/6ut8wwhy_i_quit_using_mbti/
Other reason is how the INFPs are portrayed online and this is our burden to carry, like i mentioned in the beginning. Every type sucks when it's unhealthy but i have the impression that our type and ESTJ type are the most demonized ones when it comes to the topic of unhealthiness, like people have no pity over us like they have for other types and although it can sound like a victim mentality on my part, cause well, i'M aN iNfP, it's really not the case. I'm concious about my flaws, most INFPs i know are also concious of theirs and well, we take the responsibility like mature people, it's basic societal norm i would say. But from what i've seen on reddit, instagram and quora it's just a lot of people writing stereotypical and straight up offensive shit about a whole type, because of one or two INFPs that had made a mess in their lives. The stereotyping is a different topic but it's also irritating, that on many posts or memes we are portrayed as shy, lazy crybabies, unambitious, dumb or boring, like it's easier for others to find our negative traits than the positive ones, cause from the description of stereotypical INFP we might be seen as a perfect black sheep for venting frustration from someone's life. Also the portrayal of someone as "an artist driven by emotions" is super limiting and depressing for a person who has an ambition to f.e. find a good paid scheduled job or try to master new skills like programming, but it's also connected to my former ramblings about seing people as types and the bubble it creates.
Ok, the last thing i want to mention are golden pairs. I have a problem with golden pairs and tbh any compatibility suggestions, it's kinda personal, but maybe someone has similar observations. I woudn't be in a relationship with someone who is said to have completely different values, what i've seen for my entire life is that similar values and goals are what connects people to each other. And then i open app like Boo and see that they show me the biggest compatibility with ENTJ - i know it can be explained with functions, but THE WHOLE THEORY IS INVALID. So these ships doesn't make any sense outside of this bubble and only thing they do is romanticising pairs of stereotypical people that don't exist for others who define themselves as they mbti type to just end up heartbroken, cause they have discovered the person they're dating is not this stereotype they were into- and on the stage of dating they would probably supplement their lack of knowledge of a person with stereotype, cause f.e. they have met on Boo or other MBTI dating site, so the idealization might be hard to ignore for anyone who meets people that way. Or to think that the other person owes them some form of relationship cause they could be a golden pair....
Wow, it was a lot. If someone read all this angry stream of conciousness, i'm thankful but also sorry, cause it was a lot of negativity here. I'm curious if someone will agree on this or maybe show me other side of MBTI that i missed here, but i just wanted to vent. Probably will take a break from MBTI for some time and tbh i totally recommend it if you feel similar way with mbti community.
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Firstly it is how some users take mbti tests to their hearts despite of its low scientific credibility and try their hardest to fit into the stereotype of their type to not be called "fake" or smth. Sometimes it follows entitlement over other types that are not as "powerful" personas as them, which is bananas, i have no other words for it. When it comes to this i tried to ignore it and don't care+didn't ask, but when you see it often, it gives just irritation and cringe.
I know it's not a great discovery to tell, but how limiting it is to see other people as types, when everyone is a complex being? It may seem helpful at first, cause someone from the outside suggests who you are and who are you compatible with, but it's still just a stereotype based on a theory, a bubble. You're not your functions, others aren't either. Some time ago i've seen a post from mbti, that speaks about it in more detailed way, i will link it here: https://www.reddit.com/mbti/comments/6ut8wwhy_i_quit_using_mbti/
Other reason is how the INFPs are portrayed online and this is our burden to carry, like i mentioned in the beginning. Every type sucks when it's unhealthy but i have the impression that our type and ESTJ type are the most demonized ones when it comes to the topic of unhealthiness, like people have no pity over us like they have for other types and although it can sound like a victim mentality on my part, cause well, i'M aN iNfP, it's really not the case. I'm concious about my flaws, most INFPs i know are also concious of theirs and well, we take the responsibility like mature people, it's basic societal norm i would say. But from what i've seen on reddit, instagram and quora it's just a lot of people writing stereotypical and straight up offensive shit about a whole type, because of one or two INFPs that had made a mess in their lives. The stereotyping is a different topic but it's also irritating, that on many posts or memes we are portrayed as shy, lazy crybabies, unambitious, dumb or boring, like it's easier for others to find our negative traits than the positive ones, cause from the description of stereotypical INFP we might be seen as a perfect black sheep for venting frustration from someone's life. Also the portrayal of someone as "an artist driven by emotions" is super limiting and depressing for a person who has an ambition to f.e. find a good paid scheduled job or try to master new skills like programming, but it's also connected to my former ramblings about seing people as types and the bubble it creates.
Ok, the last thing i want to mention are golden pairs. I have a problem with golden pairs and tbh any compatibility suggestions, it's kinda personal, but maybe someone has similar observations. I woudn't be in a relationship with someone who is said to have completely different values, what i've seen for my entire life is that similar values and goals are what connects people to each other. And then i open app like Boo and see that they show me the biggest compatibility with ENTJ - i know it can be explained with functions, but THE WHOLE THEORY IS INVALID. So these ships doesn't make any sense outside of this bubble and only thing they do is romanticising pairs of stereotypical people that don't exist for others who define themselves as they mbti type to just end up heartbroken, cause they have discovered the person they're dating is not this stereotype they were into- and on the stage of dating they would probably supplement their lack of knowledge of a person with stereotype, cause f.e. they have met on Boo or other MBTI dating site, so the idealization might be hard to ignore for anyone who meets people that way. Or to think that the other person owes them some form of relationship cause they could be a golden pair....
Wow, it was a lot. If someone read all this angry stream of conciousness, i'm thankful but also sorry, cause it was a lot of negativity here. I'm curious if someone will agree on this or maybe show me other side of MBTI that i missed here, but i just wanted to vent. Probably will take a break from MBTI for some time and tbh i totally recommend it if you feel similar way with mbti community.
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🌟 Join GalaxyGaming - The Ultimate Escape from Tarkov Discord Community! 🌟
Calling all Escape from Tarkov enthusiasts in North America, Canada, and South America! If you're looking for an incredible Discord server to connect with like-minded Timmys and Chads, your search ends here! GalaxyGaming is the top-notch community you've been seeking, where everyone plays together, no matter their skill level or experience!
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✅ Quest Help: Stuck on a challenging quest? Don't worry; we've got your back!
✅ A Safe & Cheater-Free Environment: Enjoy the game without any worries about unfair advantages or exploits with our verified role we prevent team killing and cheating!
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✅ Various Roles: Choose the role that suits your playstyle best and team up with players who complement your strengths.
✅ Feature-Packed Server: Enjoy various bots and server features, including Music and Polls, for a truly engaging experience.
✅ Boosted Discord: Experience high-quality streaming, file uploads, custom emojis, audio quality, and more!
✅ Personal Coaching Sessions and Sherpa program for New Players: Elevate your skills with one-on-one coaching sessions tailored to your specific needs and a chat full of tips and tricks.
✅ Cash Pot Events: Participate in thrilling cash pot events where your skills translate into real rewards. Compete against fellow players in intense battles, completing challenges and objectives to earn your share of the prize pool.
🤝 All Are Welcome: Whether you're a newbie just starting or a seasoned alpha player, our doors are open for you! Find your perfect squad and embark on thrilling raids together!
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Join our epic Tarkov Night event, where the action never stops! Engage in intense battles on labs, reserve, and even indulge in rogue hunting! Take part in private matches that test your skills and teamwork in the Arena and you might even win a cash prize!
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2024.05.21 15:40 NietotchkaNiezvanova Absolute lack of self-criticism
I thought something while watching some Jen content — though we can all agree she is completely delusional, many other influencers share the same kind of lack of self analysis and criticism and it absolutely baffles me.
How can people who where very recently in and out of hospitals, nearly dying of a mental disorder, be so fucking sure that they’re absolutely right about what they say while giving out advice on physical and mental health??? And when they’re called out they stand their ground as if they weren’t the ones who barely could think their way out of a deadly eating disorder.
Not to be cruel or whatever, I’m saying this because I KNOW how sneaky EDs can be and how we constantly have to remind ourselves of it. And if any of us was so 100% right about what’s healthy and what isn’t, well……we wouldn’t have to be going through ED recovery right now because we wouldn’t have gotten sick in the first place.
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How can people who where very recently in and out of hospitals, nearly dying of a mental disorder, be so fucking sure that they’re absolutely right about what they say while giving out advice on physical and mental health??? And when they’re called out they stand their ground as if they weren’t the ones who barely could think their way out of a deadly eating disorder.
Not to be cruel or whatever, I’m saying this because I KNOW how sneaky EDs can be and how we constantly have to remind ourselves of it. And if any of us was so 100% right about what’s healthy and what isn’t, well……we wouldn’t have to be going through ED recovery right now because we wouldn’t have gotten sick in the first place.
2024.05.21 15:40 This_Rub4353 Isn't it crazy how people you consider one of the most important people in your life can turn into complete strangers?
After going through a breakup with my girlfriend a few months ago, I found myself passing through the city where she lives. It's important to note that she lives far, about 300 km away from where I reside. While there, I visited some friends I had met during our time together and ended up seeing her working at the bar where she always used to work. The experience left me with a realization about relationships, prompting me to reflect on their significance and authenticity.
There was a time when our love felt unbreakable, filled with both tears and laughter. But now, in her presence, our connection felt fake and insubstantial, a mere shadow of what it once was. It's a strange feeling, watching someone who once knew you so intimately from a distance, now a stranger you barely recognize.
Of course, we'll both move on with our lives and find new paths. But the image of her, working away in that dimly lit bar, will forever be etched in my mind. It's a reminder of how easily love can come and go, how quickly things can change, and how we must cherish those we love while we can.
Has anyone have something similar happen to them before?
Here is a little poem I wrote, basically immediately after I saw her again:
In a foreign land I roamed, Passing, by familiar streets I called my own, Amidst my journey, an unexpected slight, My lost love, now a mere barkeep, out of sight.
Once our love was strong, pure, and true, But now, in her presence, I feel so blue, Our connection, once a steadfast bond, reduced to nothingness, all gone.
I am but a mere mortal, insignificant, In this world, where love is transient, The time we shared now a distant memory, our once shared life, now a mystery.
Despite the pain, I move on, But the image of her remains etched upon, A reminder of what once was, A love lost, a forgotten cause.
Perhaps this is just my post-breakup sorrow, But it has made me ponder for tomorrow, Are relationships mere facades we adorn, Or is true love ever born? Has making love overpowered the real love? Can I trust anyone more than my life, ever?
Sometimes I feel, it's my destiny to think as luckily or unluckily it's my profession too. Sigh!!
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There was a time when our love felt unbreakable, filled with both tears and laughter. But now, in her presence, our connection felt fake and insubstantial, a mere shadow of what it once was. It's a strange feeling, watching someone who once knew you so intimately from a distance, now a stranger you barely recognize.
Of course, we'll both move on with our lives and find new paths. But the image of her, working away in that dimly lit bar, will forever be etched in my mind. It's a reminder of how easily love can come and go, how quickly things can change, and how we must cherish those we love while we can.
Has anyone have something similar happen to them before?
Here is a little poem I wrote, basically immediately after I saw her again:
In a foreign land I roamed, Passing, by familiar streets I called my own, Amidst my journey, an unexpected slight, My lost love, now a mere barkeep, out of sight.
Once our love was strong, pure, and true, But now, in her presence, I feel so blue, Our connection, once a steadfast bond, reduced to nothingness, all gone.
I am but a mere mortal, insignificant, In this world, where love is transient, The time we shared now a distant memory, our once shared life, now a mystery.
Despite the pain, I move on, But the image of her remains etched upon, A reminder of what once was, A love lost, a forgotten cause.
Perhaps this is just my post-breakup sorrow, But it has made me ponder for tomorrow, Are relationships mere facades we adorn, Or is true love ever born? Has making love overpowered the real love? Can I trust anyone more than my life, ever?
Sometimes I feel, it's my destiny to think as luckily or unluckily it's my profession too. Sigh!!
2024.05.21 15:40 blossomsandblooms 1746 coin - estimated value?
My son was given this coin in a pot of old coins by my grandad. It’s a 1746 coin - not in great condition admittedly. Does anyone know what the value of this one would be? The first two pictures are the coin we have and the second two are what it would look like in mint condition.
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2024.05.21 15:39 Mocha-Apollo I need to rant about a situation I was in that I’m always thinking of.
So I met a guy on a dating app last year he was visiting an area around me but with a conflicting schedule I was working and he was getting ready to leave, we didn’t meet. He lived in a different state than me and so we continued talking and planned to meet. Things went very wrong on my end and I was unable to make it meet him. We continued talking and work got in the way and meeting him was becoming less and less of a priority for me. He ghosted me (rightfully so!) in January. I was sad for awhile I really liked him, but I understood. With distance and life happening and the last we had talked we were both very busy with other things.
Anyway we have each other on only one social media platform we used it occasionally as a form of communication, but I didn’t think of removing or blocking him. He began watching my stories months later after we had already stopped speaking and it was becoming a very consistent occurrence. Whenever I posted he was there in the viewers; so as it was pretty much an every day thing I had decided to post a photo in a shirt of his favorite sports team (just for shits and giggles) I know an awful move! But he ended up swiping up and said “are your trying to get a wedding ring on your hand? And how cute I was and how I am wearing his favorite team” he then apologized for not talking to me and we ended up having a nice catch up conversation. He then disappeared again completely and well he came back later that month and he’s been consistently watching my stories once again. It’s such a whiplash of emotions and I often find myself thinking of our conversation we had a month ago. It was such a crazy span of emotions I felt in such a short span of time and now I find myself again going through phases of missing his presence in my life and forgetting him.
It’s confusing and doesn’t mean anything, but I find I overthink everything.
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Anyway we have each other on only one social media platform we used it occasionally as a form of communication, but I didn’t think of removing or blocking him. He began watching my stories months later after we had already stopped speaking and it was becoming a very consistent occurrence. Whenever I posted he was there in the viewers; so as it was pretty much an every day thing I had decided to post a photo in a shirt of his favorite sports team (just for shits and giggles) I know an awful move! But he ended up swiping up and said “are your trying to get a wedding ring on your hand? And how cute I was and how I am wearing his favorite team” he then apologized for not talking to me and we ended up having a nice catch up conversation. He then disappeared again completely and well he came back later that month and he’s been consistently watching my stories once again. It’s such a whiplash of emotions and I often find myself thinking of our conversation we had a month ago. It was such a crazy span of emotions I felt in such a short span of time and now I find myself again going through phases of missing his presence in my life and forgetting him.
It’s confusing and doesn’t mean anything, but I find I overthink everything.
2024.05.21 15:37 uglyunicorn99 What have I grown?
 | This pot held at one point a tomato plant. It died and was thrown out (not by me). Then this grew in its place. I have my suspicions but I’d like to see if anyone can confirm. submitted by uglyunicorn99 to whatsthisplant [link] [comments] |
2024.05.21 15:37 Upstairs_Chapter_984 Smile and wave, boys, smile and wave
Each time people demands to me more that I can pretend. Independence is an ilusion, at the end of time you will need from the others for something, your mere survival depends of the approval of your group.
I'm being ostracized due to my extreme introversion. My strategy has simply been to increase my physical attractiveness, I go to the gym and I'm already gaining a proportionate shape, I have masculinized my voice and my way of acting. Why? Because at first glance it seems like the best way to enhace your social status. According to evolutionary psychology, more sexually attractive specimens receive better treatment from their groups since their genes are beneficial to the group, so group members protect them to ensure that their genes are passed.
I should emphasize that I'm not looking for sexual or romantic relationships due to my orientation, but what evo psych says makes a lot of sense. I have a gene which makes me don't want to reproduce, it is not a surprise they treated me even worse since I came out.
Although I have gotten them to talk to me a little more, this does not seem to satisfy them. There is a subject in my study plan that will have its final evaluation in two days, in the form of a team exposure. For me it is a disaster to do team activities. It works like this: one member does all the work, the others go to party and get drunk and dance, I don't like it. I wrote to the team chief on WhatsApp asking what part I have to complete and it seems he blocked me.
I'm not hateful, nor rude, nor hurtful, I do not understand why this hatred in droves.
I have concluded that they treat me badly because I am quiet, reflective and do not express emotions. Counterintuitively, men who do not express emotions are perceived as more attractive, according to evo psych, which makes this even more difficult to understand. Sometimes I think that I might have some degree of SPD because this approval that I'm seeking is not because it comes from me, it is not because I want to relate, but because this hermit life is starting to harm me now that I've reached adulthood and circumstances are pushing me to interact socially even if I don't want to. In fact, every time I imagined my future it was living alone and doing solo activities, and I like it.
From what age do people mature? I always related a little better to adults, even from early childhood. The adults I have seen are not like that, and they do not impose mandatory extroversion. It's unfortunate that the venting tag doesn't exist in this sub, because this is a venting post.
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I'm being ostracized due to my extreme introversion. My strategy has simply been to increase my physical attractiveness, I go to the gym and I'm already gaining a proportionate shape, I have masculinized my voice and my way of acting. Why? Because at first glance it seems like the best way to enhace your social status. According to evolutionary psychology, more sexually attractive specimens receive better treatment from their groups since their genes are beneficial to the group, so group members protect them to ensure that their genes are passed.
I should emphasize that I'm not looking for sexual or romantic relationships due to my orientation, but what evo psych says makes a lot of sense. I have a gene which makes me don't want to reproduce, it is not a surprise they treated me even worse since I came out.
Although I have gotten them to talk to me a little more, this does not seem to satisfy them. There is a subject in my study plan that will have its final evaluation in two days, in the form of a team exposure. For me it is a disaster to do team activities. It works like this: one member does all the work, the others go to party and get drunk and dance, I don't like it. I wrote to the team chief on WhatsApp asking what part I have to complete and it seems he blocked me.
I'm not hateful, nor rude, nor hurtful, I do not understand why this hatred in droves.
I have concluded that they treat me badly because I am quiet, reflective and do not express emotions. Counterintuitively, men who do not express emotions are perceived as more attractive, according to evo psych, which makes this even more difficult to understand. Sometimes I think that I might have some degree of SPD because this approval that I'm seeking is not because it comes from me, it is not because I want to relate, but because this hermit life is starting to harm me now that I've reached adulthood and circumstances are pushing me to interact socially even if I don't want to. In fact, every time I imagined my future it was living alone and doing solo activities, and I like it.
From what age do people mature? I always related a little better to adults, even from early childhood. The adults I have seen are not like that, and they do not impose mandatory extroversion. It's unfortunate that the venting tag doesn't exist in this sub, because this is a venting post.
2024.05.21 15:37 MysteriousResult2172 Any help much appreciate can trade stickers or stars
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2024.05.21 15:36 ItsPronouncedBouquet [PubQ] Yet another agent lets me down. Now what?
I posted a rant in the monthly update and wasn't going to make a post as I'm now feeling humiliated but then last night I accidentally came across my first query from May 2017 and now I'm in a crisis (not literally).
But, I want to work with the big 5s.
Long story short, agent 1 was new and too green. She didn't get the support she should have had and after round one of subs all but lost interest in me. Whenever I brought up book 2 she ignored me. Cut ties.
Agent 2 reps book 2 that previous agent ignored. This agent is experienced. She has ALL the connections. She makes lots of deals. She also has been my agent since last summer and we are STILL NOT ON SUB. There were no edits made during this time so it isn't like we went back and forth for six months first. No, she signed me and I didn't hear another word from her until like a month later when I emailed her and was like "ok...so.....now what?"
And that's what it's been for almost a year now. I keep following up, she makes apologies or tells me a deadline for something and then misses it, more apologies, repeat. There hasn't been anything like illness or death in the family, I would completely understand if that was the case. I am obviously zero priority to her. It doesn't matter how much I follow up, nothing happens. Why she signed me, I have no clue.
I know the advice is going to be to contact her. I've done that. I've been doing that since last summer. Nothing is happening, and I don't see the point of contacting her anymore. She doesn't follow through. But the thought of querying again...that's a two year set back. The only thing I have left is to tell her straight up that it seems like I'm zero priority and does she even want me as a client anymore? I do have confidence she will eventually get around to it (she has with everything so far ie sub list, just several months after the deadline she gives me), she is just extremely slow for whatever reason. Which is why I don't know what to do. Leave? Stay? She won't speed up and I won't get an honest answer from her about when we'll actually go on sub.
How do I find an agent that gives the minutest of fucks about my career? Like, just a smidge? That's all I'm asking for, the bare minimum.
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- 17. And I've barely moved forward.
But, I want to work with the big 5s.
Long story short, agent 1 was new and too green. She didn't get the support she should have had and after round one of subs all but lost interest in me. Whenever I brought up book 2 she ignored me. Cut ties.
Agent 2 reps book 2 that previous agent ignored. This agent is experienced. She has ALL the connections. She makes lots of deals. She also has been my agent since last summer and we are STILL NOT ON SUB. There were no edits made during this time so it isn't like we went back and forth for six months first. No, she signed me and I didn't hear another word from her until like a month later when I emailed her and was like "ok...so.....now what?"
And that's what it's been for almost a year now. I keep following up, she makes apologies or tells me a deadline for something and then misses it, more apologies, repeat. There hasn't been anything like illness or death in the family, I would completely understand if that was the case. I am obviously zero priority to her. It doesn't matter how much I follow up, nothing happens. Why she signed me, I have no clue.
I know the advice is going to be to contact her. I've done that. I've been doing that since last summer. Nothing is happening, and I don't see the point of contacting her anymore. She doesn't follow through. But the thought of querying again...that's a two year set back. The only thing I have left is to tell her straight up that it seems like I'm zero priority and does she even want me as a client anymore? I do have confidence she will eventually get around to it (she has with everything so far ie sub list, just several months after the deadline she gives me), she is just extremely slow for whatever reason. Which is why I don't know what to do. Leave? Stay? She won't speed up and I won't get an honest answer from her about when we'll actually go on sub.
How do I find an agent that gives the minutest of fucks about my career? Like, just a smidge? That's all I'm asking for, the bare minimum.
2024.05.21 15:36 No-Management-2735 Possum 😬
Okay so I know this is an old movie but I couldn’t remember it so I went back to watch it and now I remember why I tried to forget it because what in the actual….. Am I the only one that experienced a wild ride of emotions watching that movie? Like it’s creepy as all get out and that puppet is a thing of nightmares but it’s way bigger fish to fry than the puppet as we find out. Then there’s the missing boy in the background and the animosity our main character gets and gives to his gross uncle. It’s all like this creepy unhinged fever dream until then end then boom I’m damn near ready to cry! It was like incident in a ghost land all over again. Completely different plots but it’s that feeling of finding out the call was coming from inside the house the whole time.
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2024.05.21 15:35 Secret-Necessary-934 3:1 (you get three, I get one) five star trade to complete my album
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2024.05.21 15:35 EnvironmentalRole708 Scholarship and Fee information
Hey there everyone, I hope you all will be doing great. I recently completed my 2nd year exams and now I'm preparing entrance tests. Can anyone please tell me about the need based scholarships at pieas? And whats their probability that one will get it? Or are these need based scholarships are very low.
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2024.05.21 15:35 Definety PA I work for says she went to medical school
For context I’m currently working as a medical assistant for a private practice, and one of the providers there is a PA.
Recently, when we were seeing a patient the topic of what my future plans for the practice was came up, and I told then I got into medical school so I wouldn’t be staying long or maybe they could find a way to let me work a day or two. Anyways, somewhere along the conversation the PA, who is one of the providers at the practice, mentions she also went to medical school since she completed her Masters (PA program) at the medical school. The patient appeared quite confused, and this irked me a little bit to be honest, but I didn’t say anything and let the conversation continue/transition into whatever else topic to keep the patient’s mind off from the procedure we were performing on him.
Anyways, this isn’t a post to bash on PAs. I recognize in this changing landscape of healthcare I’ll be working alongside a lot of PAs in the future as peers and colleagues. But I just wanted to gain more insight on what an appropriate response would be
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Recently, when we were seeing a patient the topic of what my future plans for the practice was came up, and I told then I got into medical school so I wouldn’t be staying long or maybe they could find a way to let me work a day or two. Anyways, somewhere along the conversation the PA, who is one of the providers at the practice, mentions she also went to medical school since she completed her Masters (PA program) at the medical school. The patient appeared quite confused, and this irked me a little bit to be honest, but I didn’t say anything and let the conversation continue/transition into whatever else topic to keep the patient’s mind off from the procedure we were performing on him.
Anyways, this isn’t a post to bash on PAs. I recognize in this changing landscape of healthcare I’ll be working alongside a lot of PAs in the future as peers and colleagues. But I just wanted to gain more insight on what an appropriate response would be
2024.05.21 15:35 Either-Style7389 i need closure from a friendship
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i 20M have this friend 21M and we have been really great friends for the past 3 years and it was really fun and intelligent conversations. aside from that we have also had a lot of down and bad times in our friendship. i’ll give you all a short summary.
we found each other in a really bad time in his life, he was going thru depression and a lot of other mental health problems, i was a good friend and i loved and still love him and wish him well, when he got better in this regard our relationships shifted and i realized we don’t have much in common except that love for each other and care.
i decided to try to get to know him better but i was always met with excuses or phrases like ”i don’t want to change u so i will like u, i already like u as a friend”. however deep down even during our one and one hangout time i would always open conversations and try to relate and make him join a convo which for a introvert like me is really difficult already.
due to these reasons we found ourselves really fighting a lot , he started no caring in action but telling me he cares which confused me mentally. i decided to cut back on our interactions until he figures this stuff out. i texted him a little less and make convos more normal and i confronted him a lot about this and told me how i felt and how his inaction and basically avoidant friendship style with me btw and solely me is making me feeling alone and like i am fighting for a lost cause.
he promised to put more of an effort and i believed him, he like any other person in life has periods where he doesn’t wanna talk, usually i try to talk to him about it or thru it but in one conversation he told me that he just doesn’t want that, so i respected his wishes.
around 3 months ago, i saw he was entering that level and i remembered what he said so i decided to give him space, i decided he will talk to me once he is ready, until now he didn’t even text or ask about me, completely ignoring me and not communicating, i know from our mutual friends he is texting hanging out and enjoying life and i am still stuck here.
i really did love him like family and it feels like i lost my brother and dear confidant. i grappled a lot with these emotions and i can’t just drop him the way he dropped me, i want closure and i don’t know if i should confront him or just ignore him or have a conversation but i feel it would be really bad looking in my part to communicate with someone who wants nothing to do with me.or atleast showing me that.
i really need help, i don’t like how all my love turned into anger and hatred and i don’t like hating people i don’t like having to deal with this and i can’t have this stress anymore.
i just need closure and i don’t know what to do.
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i 20M have this friend 21M and we have been really great friends for the past 3 years and it was really fun and intelligent conversations. aside from that we have also had a lot of down and bad times in our friendship. i’ll give you all a short summary.
we found each other in a really bad time in his life, he was going thru depression and a lot of other mental health problems, i was a good friend and i loved and still love him and wish him well, when he got better in this regard our relationships shifted and i realized we don’t have much in common except that love for each other and care.
i decided to try to get to know him better but i was always met with excuses or phrases like ”i don’t want to change u so i will like u, i already like u as a friend”. however deep down even during our one and one hangout time i would always open conversations and try to relate and make him join a convo which for a introvert like me is really difficult already.
due to these reasons we found ourselves really fighting a lot , he started no caring in action but telling me he cares which confused me mentally. i decided to cut back on our interactions until he figures this stuff out. i texted him a little less and make convos more normal and i confronted him a lot about this and told me how i felt and how his inaction and basically avoidant friendship style with me btw and solely me is making me feeling alone and like i am fighting for a lost cause.
he promised to put more of an effort and i believed him, he like any other person in life has periods where he doesn’t wanna talk, usually i try to talk to him about it or thru it but in one conversation he told me that he just doesn’t want that, so i respected his wishes.
around 3 months ago, i saw he was entering that level and i remembered what he said so i decided to give him space, i decided he will talk to me once he is ready, until now he didn’t even text or ask about me, completely ignoring me and not communicating, i know from our mutual friends he is texting hanging out and enjoying life and i am still stuck here.
i really did love him like family and it feels like i lost my brother and dear confidant. i grappled a lot with these emotions and i can’t just drop him the way he dropped me, i want closure and i don’t know if i should confront him or just ignore him or have a conversation but i feel it would be really bad looking in my part to communicate with someone who wants nothing to do with me.or atleast showing me that.
i really need help, i don’t like how all my love turned into anger and hatred and i don’t like hating people i don’t like having to deal with this and i can’t have this stress anymore.
i just need closure and i don’t know what to do.