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2024.05.21 15:03 hangtenbro 24, marketing grad but uninspired - how do I get started?

I am a 24-year-old autistic dude living on the Thames Estuary. In 2022, I graduated with a 2:1 Bachelors of Science degree in Marketing, but owing to personal circumstances, I've spent most of the time between then and now not working. I'm also not really interested in my area of study anymore and would like to pursue something different.
There was a short period of time for just under three months where my father had invited me to work as an intern for the fintech company he worked at as a Market Data Intern. My job was to ensure that we had the correct data in our database for various financial securities. It was very challenging at first - I felt very far out of my comfort zone - but it did feel a bit easier in time. However, I was told that it was possible that my time at the company would be cut short as they had little work for me; decidedly, I chose to leave on my own terms.
Since then, I went on a UX design bootcamp, and after that, I hit the books and learnt some coding fundamentals (HTML/CSS, JavaScript, and PHP in particular), and was optimistic that, in time, I would be able to form a worthy portfolio of projects to use as a foundation for starting a career as a web designer and developer... until I realised that the job market for tech is - to understate - not great right now.
Currently, I occupy my time volunteering for a political party in my area, sending leaflets, canvassing households, and inputting the data we obtain from those canvasses into the party's voter database. I find it rewarding for its own sake - naturally, I want the party I represent to get into power this year - but indeed, I feel it has helped me regain my confidence after my time at university. Likewise, my work has been recognised by others in the local party, with the local party chair describing me as their most reliable volunteer. I've also done two much more short-term volunteering positions: helping to clean up the local woodlands and stewarding at a street art festival.
Throughout the last few months, I've been considering some other alleyways into a career. I've applied for administrative jobs in the logistics sector - quite large where I live - because of my special interest in passenger transport, and the possibility that I could convert my interest in that to cargo. However, I have had trouble with this, because I don't have a driving licence and would much prefer not driving - apparently, driving is important for even a backroom position. In the last few days, I've considered recruitment consultant roles because they could consolidate many of the skills I've picked up over the years and because the job has a sense of genuine utility, but many job descriptions ask for someone who is particularly "money-hungry" for commissions and I don't really feel that I am that? Indeed, part of me feels I could take an administrative job anywhere, try and climb the ladder, and see where the heck I end up? And indeed, part of me has thought about doing a Master's in something like political communications or town and country planning (a leap, I know!), but I don't think it's the right time for me just yet.
Does anyone have any advice? Thank you in advance.
Mostly AI-Generated TL;DR: 24, autistic, living near London. With a marketing degree in hand, I'm seeking a career that ignites my passion. Web design seemed promising, but the job market gives me pause. Currently, volunteering for a political party fuels my sense of purpose (they even call me their most reliable volunteer!). Logistics appealed to my love for public transport, but my lack of a driver's license hinders that path. Recruitment consulting feels like a good fit for my skills, but the focus on sales isn't a great match. An administrative role with growth potential sounds ideal. Maybe I could even pursue a Master's in a field like political communications someday, but for now, I'm focused on finding the perfect fit.
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2024.05.21 15:02 kalps_0804_ TRENDS IN P1 PAPERS

I noticed in igcse, about 15-20 questions out of 40 were repeated from past papers or were atleast extremely similar,
from your idea, whats the pattern in AS for repeating? Chemistry and physics strictly.
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2024.05.21 15:01 Sigma_02496 My dad annoys me so fucking much and I am on the verge of rage.

Hi, I am 13 years old, and my dad is very strict.
I was wearing a crop top, and my dad got mad. He said "don't clench your fists" and don't text your mom about this. My dad is a borderline pervert and it feels like he checks me out before we leave for school. My dad doesn't want anyone to know this, but I don't listen to dickhead requests.
Any tips? Should I hide clothes? Should I cut clothes shorter? Should I do something else?
Remember: He is close-minded so we can eliminate talking to him from the list.
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2024.05.21 15:01 Dry-Awareness-6403 AITAH for hanging out with friends without one friend?

i (18) made plans on monday night to hang out with two other friends (P, 18, and L, 17) on the tuesday (april 2nd). we only were going over to P's house and to dye my hair. when we stopped in the shop on the way we bumped into another friend (Y, 17) who was there with his mum. we invited him to join us but he said no. we didn't think anything of it and said bye and went our separate ways. then at like 10pm that night after everyone got home we found out Y had left all the groupchats with the four of us and some others, some of these gc's hadnt even been used in about a year. we all messaged him asking if he was okay, thinking that he may have been upset that he saw us all without him. we all repeatedly messaged Y checking on him. he didnt respond to anyone but we could even see that he was online and tweeting. we were really confused on what was going on. then on maybe thursday i think L had heard back from him. i dont know if this is relevant background info but i considered all 3 of them my best friends but i recognised that ive known P and are closer with her than i am with the other, like L and Y are closer with each other. L had spoken to Y and they had patched things up, but Y had still not spoken to me nor P. he didn't speak to me until i had asked him in his server where he was speaking to L like normal for him to message me back when i asked if he had a problem with me. he told me that it's nothing against me personally and that i wasn't the only one he wasn't speaking to, and i told him honestly that i felt like it was and that i was starting to get annoyed (because at this point it had been almost 2 weeks with no explanation from him) but he then ignored me again. i admit i may have no right to be annoyed at him but he was actively ignoring just me and P but acted fine whenever we were in college and i didnt have the courage to bring it up to him face to face. even when the four of us and some others went out because of plans that were made months prior, he messaged P (for the first time since the 2nd and this was the 13th after she had messaged him apologising for not inviting him and she explained she had almost cancelled the plans the day of because nothing was really planned). after a few more weeks there was still no explanation and Y still actively ignored P and i. admittedly in my anger i sent him some passive aggressive messages where i asked him to speak to us and explain this because it cant be solved with 0 communication and i dont want to move on like nothing has happened. he claimed that he didnt want to speak on things when he hadnt fully sorted out his emotions, which i completely empathise with but i wished he had simply messaged us saying that he needed some time alone rather than ghosting us for a month at this point. he said he doesnt know how to speak on things hes already spoken on, when i asked him to explain this he didn't really explain it. i asked if it was about how about 2 ish months before this happened he had messaged his server with everyone in (the four of us plus some others) saying how he felt as if the friendships were one-sided and that people weren't putting in the amount of effort he was, and that every hang out was organised by him and no one else. we all messaged him and spoke to him to explain that we do care for him and that we're sorry we made him feel that way. he said it was kinda about this but didnt give any further explanation. he says that it upsets him that people wont think about him before the fact, and that hes struggling with how everyone is telling him he is justified in this situation. i asked if this is cause we hung out without him and then he ghosted me again. its all really upset me because i considered him a best friend but the way hes constantly ignoring me feels as though he doesnt actually care for our friendship and everything we had before ? he had told L privately that im being rude to him and that i have no right to be upset at him, when i feel as though i have all the right because he ignored me for no reason for an entire month. and maybe it's just how i'm seeing things but i feel as though he needs a bit of 'tough love' in this situation ? (please tell me if im TA for this). Y, L and Ps bf arranged to have a private talk about everything that has happened. P and I believe that we should’ve been involved because we’re the people he has an issue with, so we should be there to talk with him. they spoke about his side of the story and established that there was no right or wrong to the situation. Y said that he was not going to reach out first and P and I won’t reach out either because we believe that we shouldn’t have to as we have numerous times before. also P said that after the talk when she went to meet up with her bf and L, Y had his back to her and completely ignored her. a few days after the talk he had messaged L individually and told her how he is thinking about cutting off P and i. he then told L that we were bullying him because we said we didn’t like once piece, we were selfish, and that i was being ‘weird’. L asked for clarification on what we’ve done but he didn’t give any. at this point i dont really care if he does because i feel like theres nothing to cut us off from. P and i are both exhausted of this situation and are tired of him painting us out to be some big bullies because we are 'stealing L off of him' because we spoke to her in college and not him when the four of us were together and Y was turned completely with his back towards P and i. we're tired from constantly trying to speak to him to sort it out and receiving nothing from him despite us all being adults and able to communicate.
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2024.05.21 15:01 KyriosCristophoros How do you cut off people from your life to reduce your chance of sinning while forgiving them and loving them.

I have a small group of friends, that I have known for a very long time, university friends, some are milder friends and a few others are like brothers to me.
We joke and midly bully one another as banter, usually things are really good. There is one person in the group chat however who I don't know how but loves to push my buttons, and when i mean buttons, I mean really deep.
He has been constantly using my past mistakes and experiences which I particularly have gone through that are painful to bully and belittle me. I have told him please don't bring this up because it upsets me and it's traumatic many times and he ignores it. He knows I'm an anxious person and I have taken the bait quite a few times in arguments in the past and has threaten (unsure if joking) to contact my job to get me sacked because of some minor things i have said 6 years ago and stupid views I used to hold just to hit my buttons.
Recently he started again, bullying me and even started to use my faith against me. This person never interacts with me but to point my faults and mistakes. And my other friends never stand up for me when he belittles me like this which makes me feel even worse. Two of them are like brothers to me, good friends, I just don't get why they don't stand up for me but I know this is not a good thought to have.
I realised that i actually need to cut this GC off my life because I'm getting angry and defensive which i don't want. I want peace and tranquility. How can I square distancing from him and unfortunately partly my friends who hang out with him to reduce my sinning while also loving and forgiving this person.
I'd welcome to hear any experiences on how you squared this.
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2024.05.21 15:01 JujoBearston Warehouse 31

Warehouse 31
~Jamesport Mornings~ (This is an original image that I generated and claim ownership of for this story.)
Lighting rips across the dark, cloudy skies as thunder booms and rolls behind. It rains often in ~Jamesport~, so far be it for a measly storm to keep the busy residents of this industrial city down; especially not down at the docks. Locally known as '~The Brine~'; the South East district of Jamesport is it's lifeblood. A good portion of the social structure in Jamesport resides here as well. Product brings profit, and profit brings bigger business. With ships coming and going at all hours, numerous factories and many businesses scattered about, most residents find themselves within The Brine for one reason or another.
A younger man with short, messy brown hair sits in a cold steel chair behind a large research table. Dozens of scientists and engineers operating large machines scurry throughout the room. "Not exactly the ancient ruins or dusty tombs I'm used to., but for the pay this job is offering, it must be something worth researching." Geoffrey thought to himself as he flipped through an old leather bound book. It's been nearly thirty minutes since he arrived, other than the burly, suited doorman that escorted him within the building, nobody has even looked in his direction.
The Jamesport Museum of Ancient Arts had recently put out an urgent request amongst various newspapers and criers all across the city for any mythologists, historians, really any researchers with enough knowledge and credentials to pass a formal exam to qualify for the job offer. The letter he received said Geoffrey was one of three who was accepted as a candidate and to meet at a large warehouse in the Dock Ward marked 'Building 31'. "Only two other possible candidates for this offer?" Geoffrey thought to himself as his head swiveled around the room, "I wonder if this is to be a team project or if they are looking for an independent researcher? Well I suppose I'll just have to be extra charming to whomever comes to collect me."
Setting Information -OP Time Zone is EST -Early Years of Steam and Electricity -Any Romantic/Intimate Scenes will be Fade-To-Black -Fantasy Rules Applicable (magic, supernatural, monsters, etc) -Usage of Adult Themes Allowed (drugs, violence, death, betrayal, etc) As of 05/21/24 at 9:00am EST, 0/3 Player Character Slots Available, Play Can Start At Any Time
OP's Player Character Name: Geoffrey Windmoon Occupation: Archaeologist Father- William Windoon, Historian. Mother- Cassandra Windmoon, Librarian. Age: 27 // Gender Identity: Male // Race: Human
Character Inspiration As Shown Below:
Character Art is from Google Image Search Results (I do not own nor did I commission or create this design)
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2024.05.21 15:01 FelicitySmoak_ Tuesday, May 21, 2013 - Jackson v. AEG Live Day 15

Tuesday, May 21, 2013 - Jackson v. AEG Live Day 15
Trial Day 15
Katherine, Rebbie and Trent Jackson are at court.
LA Times reported that the Jacksons offered a settlement.
Kevin Boyle , a lawyer for Katherine Jackson and Michael's kids , said they offered to settle the lawsuit against AEG, but that they never got an answer. Kevin Boyle said the family made the offers in January & March. Boyle would not provide details but said AEG's insurance would have paid, which means they could have settled the case without them paying a dime of their money. He said AEG has never offered to settle & they haven't apologized.
Marvin Putnam, an attorney for AEG, said it was inappropriate to discuss settlement discussions:
"We don't settle matters that are utterly baseless. We believe that is the case in this matter. I can't see why we would consider a settlement as anything other than a shakedown"
CNN Reports there was a snack controversy during trial: AEG lawyers gave a bag of peppermint candy to the bailiff to hand out to the jury this week. Even Katherine Jackson enjoyed the treat but Jackson's lawyer raised an objection, suggesting jurors might be influenced if they realized the source of the sweets. A compromise was reached. Each side can provide snacks for jurors, but they'll be placed at the bailiff's desk before jurors enter court so they have no clue who brought it.
Shawn Trell Testimony
Jackson direct
AEG Live General Counsel, Shawn Trell, told jurors that he had forgotten that Kenny Ortega was working under a signed contract.
Trell said he met with his attorneys last night and reviewed one doc -- Kenny Ortega's contract.
"He had a written contract," Trell said. "I remember the email dynamic. I'm not too proud to admit that I didn't recall the cover contract," Trell said he was changing his previous testimony to add that Ortega had a written contract, not only emails between him and AEG
Next topic was Insurance: Cancellation/Non-Appearance/Sickness. Trell said he started working on insurance for the tour in November of 2008. Panish showed several chains of emails where the parties talked about the insurance for the tour
Email from Bob Taylor insurance broker to Trell on 1/7/09:
"Prior to speaking with carriers we ask the artist to attend medical with a doctor...A full medical with both blood/urine tests. The doctor also wants to review the medical records over the last 5 years to ensure full disclosure. Insurers require further medical examination to be carried out by their nominated doctor. They may restrict illness coverage or death from illness coverage until this examination has taken place"
Email from 4/30/09 - Wooley to Trell :
"We have no coverage against Michael sickness unless and until he submits to another medical in London
Email from 5/28/09 - Trell to Taylor:
"We really need to get that medical done"
Email from 6/23/09 - Trell to Taylor :
"Any update on the availability of Term insurance?" (life insurance)
Trell said if they secured life insurance, they would get money if Michael died.
"We would get the money owed to us, yes," Trell testified.
Trell also said he continued discussions with an insurance broker about additional coverage to recoup AEG Live's investment if the tour had to be canceled.
Email from 6/24/09 -Taylor to Trell :
"Insurers have refused to move on this. Huge amount of speculation in the media regarding artist's health. They feel if they're to consider providing illness to cover this particular artist, they must have very through medical report"
Email from 6/25/09 - Gongaware to Taylor :
"If we don't get sickness coverage, we are dropping this policy"
Email from 6/25/09 - Taylor to Gongaware :
"The consultation in London is critical. The doctor is holding the afternoon of the 6th July open at Harley St. But keep in mind the visit could take 2 hours plus"
Next topic: Budget/Costs. Panish showed an email from AEG's Rick Webking to Michael's estate with 1st report of artist advances/expenses. This was a letter sent to the estate containing the expenses incurred, Trell said.
"It seems to me we submitted this report for their review, I don't see any request for payment," Trell said.
Trell said he spoke with Randy Phillips and Paul Gongaware about Michael's physical condition prior to coming to testify.
"I had heard about rehearsals in which Mr. Jackson was fantastic," Trell said
Trell said he's aware of email from Ortega saying doctor was not allowing Michael to attend rehearsal on June 14, 2009.
"I was aware of the doctor not allowing him to attend rehearsal," Trell said
Email from 6/17/09 from Phillips:
"...Ortega, Gongaware, Dileo, and his doctor Conrad from Vegas and I have an intervention with him to get him to focus and come to rehearsal"
Email from 6/17/09 from Gongaware to Phillip's assistant:
"We need a physical therapist and a nutritionist"
Email from Production Manager - Gongaware/Phillips on 6/19/09 :
"Paul/Randy I'm not bring a drama queen here. Kenny asked me to notify you both Michael was sent home without stepping foot on stage. He was a basket case and Kenny was concerned he would embarrass himself on stage, or worse yet, be hurt. The company is rehearsing right now, but the DOUBT is pervasive"
Email from Randy Phillips to Tim Leiweke on 6/19/09 :
"We have a huge problem here."
"I think he recognized there was a problem on the 19th," Trell said. "I would take it seriously, as I believe Mr. Phillips did."
Trell agreed with a statement by plaintiff's attorney, Brian Panish, that company executives knew by then there was a "deep issue" with Jackson
Does Trell consider that exchange a "red flag" that AEG Live should have noticed, Panish asked.
"I would take it seriously, as I believe Mr. Phillips did," Trell answered. "I don't know I would use the word 'red flag'
One of the emails shown to the jury was from Jackson estate co-executor John Branca, sent 5 days before Jackson's death & marked 'confidential':
"I have the right therapist/spiritual advisosubstance abuse counselor who could help (recently helped Mike Tyson get sober and paroled) Do we know whether there is a substance issue involved (perhaps better discussed on the phone)
The email was sent the same day that a meeting was held at Jackson's home with Murray. No further info given to jury.
Trell said Mr. Phillips never told him about this email
Email from Ortega to Randy Phillips on 6/20/09: (chain of emails)
"I honestly don't think he is ready for this based on his continued physical weakening and deepening emotional state"
Trell said he didn't see these emails. He said he spoke with Randy Phillips about Phillips' perception of Michael, in order to prepare for testifying, but not about specific emails. Trell has been designated as the most qualified person to speak on behalf of AEG
Email from Phillips to Gongaware on 6/20/09 at 1:52 am :
"Tim and I are going to see him tomorrow, however, I'm not sure what the problem is Chemical or Physiological?"
From Gongaware to Phillips, on 6/20/09 at 5:59 am :
"Take the doctor with you. Why wasn't he there last night?"
From Phillips to Gongaware, on 6/20/09 at 2:01 pm :
"He is not a psychiatrist so I'm not sure how effective he can be at this point obviously, getting him there is not the issue. It is much deeper"
Trell said Randy Phillips went to a handful of rehearsals, three at the Forum and two at Staples Center. The head of the marketing department attended rehearsal on June 23, 2009.
"She was blown away by it," Trell testified.
He said he was unaware of issues with Jackson at rehearsals.
"I knew of no problems with Michael Jackson at all",Trell testified.
Trell said he never saw the emails from Phillips directing people to exclude images from This Is It of Michael looking "skeletal" while rehearsing.
"What were his observations of Michael's physical condition during rehearsal," Trell said. "I asked for his (Phillips) personal opinion."
Next line of questioning is about human resources and background checks. Trell said they can be valuable and useful tools when hiring. Background check costs around $40 to $125. Trell said AEG Live could afford this fee. "We don't do background checks on independent contractors," Trell said. Trell said he was involved in the hiring by AEG Live for the This Is It tour. His department was responsible for retaining independent contractors. Trell said he is not familiar with background check process for hiring.
"I am not familiar with the process of doing background checks," Trell said. "No training."

Panish: "There was no hiring criteria for the This Is It tour, correct?"
Trell: "Not to my knowledge"
Trell testified that when it comes to independent contractors, they have either worked with the artists, AEG or known in the industry. Trell agreed that no background check was done on anyone working on the This Is It tour. AEG Live General Counsel Shawn Trell told jurors that no legal or financial checks were done involving Conrad Murray or anyone else who worked as an independent contractor on the This Is It shows.
Depending on the nature of the position, a background could be done, Trell said, like for potential employees in the financial area. Trell said he thought a background check would be appropriate for people working in financial roles, but not tour personnel who weren't employees of AEG
As to independent contractors, Trell said there's no supervision and monitoring like there's for employees
Panish: "You don't do anything to check into background, supervise or protect the artist?"
Trell: "No, safety is a concern"
Trell said that AEG did not hire Murray, that the doctor was like many independent contractors,
"When they leave the environment, what they do on their own time is their own business"
Trell testified he doesn't believe the artist is more at risk because AEG Live doesn't do background checks
"We did nothing to monitor Dr. Murray," Trell said. "We did not monitor whatever it was that he was doing, no."
"It called for Michael Jackson being able to terminate Dr. Murray at will," Trell said about the contract. "If the concerts didn't go forward, and he was terminated under this provision, Dr. Murray would not be paid going forward," Trell explained
As to Dr Murray being under dire financial straits, Trell said that he doesn't know if he agrees with it, everyone's perception is different
Trell: "I certainly wasn't aware of it at the time"
Panish: "Because you didn't check, right?"
Trell: "That's right"
"I don't think conflict of interests are a good thing, and we would want to prevent it," Trell said
Email from Kathy Jorie to Shawn Trell on 6/24/09 at 12:54 am:
Subject: Revised agreement with GCA Holdings/Dr. MurrayIt had two attachments Attachments: Revised Michael Jackson -AEG GCA Holdings Murray Agreement 6-18-09 Final MJ -- AEG GCA Holdings Agreement (Dr. Murray) 6-23-09
Email chain from 6/23/09, 5:39pm from Jorrie to Wooley, Murray
Subject: RE: Michael Jackson - Revised Agreement with GCA Holdings/Dr. Murray Email:
"I have redlined the Word version so that you can see all of the revisions. In addition, I've attached clean PDF version for execution" (The email says that if Dr. Murray approved it, he was to print it, sign and send it back to Jorrie)

Panish: "Did Ms. Jorrie call this contract a draft?"
Trell: "She called it a Final Version"
"Every document is a draft until it is executed," Trell said.
Panish showed emails exchanged among AEG executives that contained drafts of Murray's contract. Although Murray had signed a contract with the company, neither Jackson nor anyone from AEG had added their signatures. Trell testified that a copy of the contract had never been sent to Jackson
With Trell on the stand, Panish played part of an interview that AEG Live President Randy Phillips gave to Sky News television soon after Michael's death.
"This guy was willing to leave his practice for a very large sum of money, so we hired him," Phillips said.
Panish also showed jurors an e-mail between AEG lawyers suggesting that Phillips told other interviewers AEG Live "hired" Murray.
Panish: "Isn't it true that Randy Phillips made numerous comments that AEG Live hired Dr. Murray?"
Trell: "I know he has made that statement"
Panish said AEG higher-ups became concerned after Phillips made such admission. Trell said he didn't know if that was true. Bruce Black is the General Counsel for parent company of AEG and AEG Live. Michael Roth is AEG's media relations
Email from Kathy Jorrie to Bruce Black and Michael Roth on 8/25/09:
Subject: AEG Live president says AEG Live hired Dr. Conrad Murray
Panish shows Trell a deposition, under oath, given by insurance broker Bob Taylor on another case. Trell said he has never seen or read it. Trell denied having a telephone conversation with Mr. Taylor where Trell asked him if a doctor's compensation was covered in the insurance.
Panish: "Does that refresh your recollection that AEG was employing Dr. Murray?"
Trell: "Mr. Taylor has this completely wrong"
After lunch break, Brian Panish asked if Shawn Trell wanted to change anything else in his testimony, to which he said "No"
Bruce Black, attorney for Anschutz, was present in the meeting with LAPD. Trell met with the police on 1/12/10. Trell told the police that day that Dr. Murray would receive $150,000 compensation per month. Trell also said that Dr. Murray requested and AEG would provide necessary medical equipment and a nurse. More than five months after Jackson's death, Trell said, he informed LAPD detectives that Murray initially requested $5 million to join the tour but eventually agreed to a salary of $150,000 a month for 10 months.
Panish: "As far as you know, all the agreements written for TII tour was done under AEG Live Productions, right?"
Trell: "Yes"
Panish: "Was Dr. Murray trying to help AEG get insurance?"
Trell: "The policy was in both names, so he was helping both parties"
Trell said Dennis Hawk, who represented Michael, was in touch with Taylor regarding the insurance
Panish: "As of June 2009, you don't even know whether Mr. Jackson had a personal manager
working for him, right?"
Trell: "Well, my understanding at the time there were a couple of people acting in that capacity"
Email on 6/2/09 from Randy Phillips to Jeff Wald:
"Jeff, remember getting Michael to focus is not the easiest thing in the world and we still have no lawyer, business manager, or, even real manager in place. It is a nightmare!"
Trell said the only time he saw an artist's signature required to retain an independent contractor was for Dr. Murray. Trell said his understanding was that Dr. Murray worked for Michael for 3 years; didn't know how many times MJ saw Dr. Murray.
"I've never spoken with Dr. Murray ever. And I met/spoke with Mr. Jackson once," Trell said.

"He was a significant expense," Trell testified about Dr. Murray.
Trell said AEG Live didn't do anything to check Dr. Murray's competency as doctor, other than checking his physician license. Trell said AEG didn't do anything to determine Dr. Murray's financial conditions in 2009.
Jury was shown an email that Phillips sent to Kenny Ortega on night of June 20, 2009. It was email urging Ortega to stand down.
Email on 6/20/09 Phillips to Ortega :
"Kenny it's critical that neither you, me, anyone around this show become amateur psychiatrist/physicians. I had a lengthy conversation with Dr. Murray, who I am gaining immense respect for as I get to deal with him more. He said that Michael is not only physically equipped to perform & discouraging him to will hasten his decline instead of stopping it. Dr. Murray also reiterated that he is mentally able to and was speaking to me from the house where he had spent the morning with Michael. This doctor is extremely successful (we check everyone out) and does not need this gig so he is totally unbiased and ethical"
Panish asked Trell whether Phillips "characterization to Ortega, given no background check was done, was a lie". Trell responded that he didn't know what Phillips knew or was thinking when he wrote that email to Ortega. Trell also said he expected Randy Phillips to testify at some point during the trial, so he could address the email himself
Panish then asked Trell, "Sir, you never checked out one single thing about Dr. Murray -- you've already told me that, correct?"
"As of the date of the email, that would've been correct",Trell said.
When pressed by Panish, Trell said that Phillips' statement that Murray had been checked out, along with the executive's claim that the doctor 'does not need this gig' were inaccurate.
"I don't know where Randy's understanding or impression comes from", Trell said.
Trell testified that Phillips might have been "misinformed" or simply was stating his impression of the Las Vegas cardiologist
Panish: "But no one at AEG checked Dr. Murray to see if he was successful or not, isn't that true?"
Trell: "Yes"
Panish then asked several pointed questions about whether Shawn Trell agreed with Phillips telling Ortega they'd checked Murray out. One of Panish's questions was whether Trell thought Phillips' email was 'acceptable conduct'
Panish called Phillips' statement "a flat out lie" and asked Trell whether he agreed with it or if it signified how AEG did business. Trell said he didn't know what Phillips thought he knew when he wrote the message.
"I know this statement is not accurate, but you'd have to speak with Mr. Phillips about what he thought or meant in saying it," Trell said.

Panish: "That's a flat out lie, isn't it sir?"
Trell: "I don't know what Mr. Phillips intended to say, this should be a question to him"
Panish: "You don't know if he was successful or facing bankruptcy, did you?"
Trell: "No"
Trell: "I know the statement is not accurate. You have to speak with Mr. Phillips about what he meant to say"
Panish: "Do you agree with the CEO of your company making untrue statements?"
Trell: "I don't know that he didn't know it wasn't true when he said it"
Trell said Phillips never told him that he checked Dr. Murray out. As to reference in Phillips' email about Dr. Murray being unbiased, ethical, not needing this gig, Trell said it was Phillips' impressions. He said AEG typically only runs background checks on candidates applying for full-time jobs with AEG, not independent contractors.
Panish: "Isn't it true AEG Live does not do background check on independent contractors?"
Trell: "That's true"
Trell said that no one from AEG interviewed Dr. Murray because he was an independent contractor.
"Did anyone from AEG ever at any time interview Dr. Murray", asked Brian Panish
"No", Trell replied.
Panish showed a document used by AEG entitled "Disclosure and Authorization to Conduct Background Check". Doc is used for employment, promotion, retention, contingent or the rate staffing, consulting, sub-contract work, or volunteer work. Panish asked if there was any reason why Dr. Murray was not given a background check.
"He wasn't an employee, he wasn't applying for a full time position with the company," Trell explained.
Trell said theoretically they could've asked to check Dr. Murray's background and credit.
AEG Cross
Jessica Bina began her examination by showing the letter submitted by AEG's CFO to the Estate of Michael Jackson for their review. She asked Shawn Trell about the estimate presented to Jackson's estate that included Murray's $300k fees. She asked why it was prepared. Shawn Trell said it was done at the request of the estate. He said Jackson's estate wanted to know state of tour finances when Jackson died. Trell said the report was requested by the Estate after a series of meetings after Michael's death.
"The purpose of the meeting was to wind up the business affairs of the tour due to Michael's death", Trell said. "It was my understating in June Tohme was back in the picture in some capacity. I'm not sure which, Mr. DiLeo was in it too," Trell said
Bina: "Is there any request for payment?"
Trell: "No, there's no demand for payment, it's for review"
Stebbins Bina asked about the inclusion of Murray's fee in the document. Bina showed the report that was attached to the letter. Murray's fee on the document had a footnote. Trell read what that footnote said, and explained why estate wasn't asked for Murray's fee. Next to "Management Medical" there's a reference to footnote 3.
Note 3: 'Contract is not signed by Michael Jackson and such signature was condition precedent to any payment obligation' - Footnote on Murray fee.
Trell testified Webking, the CFO for AEG, did not ask Michael's Estate for payment of Dr. Murray's salary
"You testified you were somewhat confused (by the inclusion of the $300,000)?", Bina asked Trell as she projected the list, dated July 17, 2009, on a screen for jurors.
"Do you see there's something in parentheses?', Stebbins Bina asked, zooming in to blow up a footnote from AEG CFO Frederick Webking that stated Michael Jackson never signed Murray's contract, so its terms were not enforceable.
"Is Mr. Webking asking the estate to pay?", Stebbins Bina asked Trell. "No", he replied, explaining that upon reflection he believed Mr. Webking was just being 'thorough' by including the $300,000 as a budgeted cost.
"Did Mr. Webking make a mistake as you thought yesterday?",she asked.
"No, he did not", Trell answered
Second report made to the Estate on 9/18/09, there was no amount next to management medical. Stebbins Bina then showed a Sept. 2009 report of This Is It's finances to Michael Jackson's estate. Murray's fee is not listed in that document
Trell went through his job description with AEG. He said he has five lawyers in his department and has worked on thousands of agreements. Trell explained what PMK is -- Person Most Knowledgeable, identified by the company to testify on its behalf. Trell said he didn't know about all the topics he was designated, so he had to do some studying and interviews with people
As to Ortega's contract, Trell said he was aware of a string of emails being at least a part of the original agreement with Kenny.
"When we were done here yesterday, I looked at Kenny Ortega's original agreement," Trell said.
Trell noted he hadn't looked at Ortega's agreement since it was entered into in 2009. Before the afternoon break, Trell and jury were shown Kenny Ortega's tour agreement. It was signed in April 2009. The agreement was three pages of legalese, with several pages of emails attached that confirmed the terms. The first three pages included some paragraphs that described who owned the rights to This Is It content. A large number of emails are part of the agreement as exhibits. Trell said he recalled the emails exchange and admitted again not being proud of forgetting the cover contract portion. Bina showed Ortega's executed contract with everyone's signature on it. Trell said Kenny Ortega was paid after his contract was signed.
Trell, Phillips and Kathy Jorrie were involved in drafting and negotiating the contract with Michael Jackson. For MJ, Trell said Dr. Tohme Tohme and attorneys Dennis Hawk and Peter Lopez represented him. He said there were multiple drafts.
"It's my understanding they were talking to, or at least receiving offers from, a competitive of ours, Live Nation," Trell said.
Trell also said that before signing an agreement with AEG, Jackson had been considering a tour offer from its main competitor, Live Nation.
Bina showed the jury the final tour agreement. Trell said he went to MJ's home at Carolwood to sign it. Upon arrival, Trell said Mr. Jackson got up from where he was seated, and said 'Hi, welcome, I'm Michael." Trell said it was pretty funny, since he was a very distinct person. Trell said they shook hands, he had a good firm handshake and his voice was not what people think
"He popped up, came over, introduced himself, was very cordial, there was a real positive energy, good vibe in the room," Trell said. "He seemed genuinely enthused," Trell added. "He had the contract in front of him, said he read every page, seemed very enthused." Trell said they all signed it and Mr. Jackson was really keen on the 3-D stuff, that he was already down the road in his mind. "I was probably there just a little less than an hour. And that was the only time I met him," Trell recalled.
Bina discussed the contract for the tour agreement:
A first class performance by Artist at each show on each of the approved itineraries. Contract:
Artist shall perform no less than 80 minutes at each show, and the maximum show length for each show shall be 3.5 hours. Artist shall approve a sufficient number of shows on itineraries proposed by promoter or producer as to recoup the advances made.
Trell said compensation was agreed on 90-10 split. Artist received 90% of what's defined contingent compensation.
Trell explained to jury how concerts get paid for. One scenario is artist pays for production up front. A second scenario is that the promoter gives artist an advance, and then they use the money to put together the show. The third option, Trell said, is the artist pays someone like AEG Live to produce and promote the show, with costs to come out of their pay. Trell called the second and third option like an interest-free loan. In Jackson's case, AEG agreed to a 90/10 split of show's proceeds. Jackson would have received the 90% portion, Trell said. Jackson was also on the hook for a 5% production fee
AEG Live was promoter & producer.
"We advanced the money necessary to mount the tour," Trell explained. "It's interest free money".
Trell testified that Jackson's advance, which covered his $100,000-a-month rent on his mansion and a $3-million payment to settle a lawsuit that would free up his performance rights, was considered a loan to be paid back to AEG.
Part of the advance was to pay off the settlement agreement of $3 million in London court. The underlying dispute was that a company owned the rights for Jackson's live performance.
"The rights needed to be freed up," Trell said.
The advances were to be paid back to AEG Live before the split of revenue. Production Advances were capped to $7.5 million. Contract:
Artist was responsible for all the production costs in excess of the cap and had to reimburse promoter.
"Michael Jackson was known to have very elaborate productions," Trell said. "Production values can get significant, for lack of a better word, it really depends on how many bells and whistles they want," Trell said.
Trell said AEG would not advance money without the artist requesting it.
Trell said it's not only typical and customary, but standard and artist needs to secure either non-appearance or cancellation insurance. Their interest in the policy, Trell said, was to cover the advances and production costs incurred with the production of the show.
"If the were no obligations to AEG, the payout would go back to the artist", Trell explained, "It just recoups our loan made to the artist."
Trell was also asked about elements of tour insurance policies and an agreement with former manager Tohme Tohme. Jackson's contract called for him to represent to AEG that he didn't have any health conditions that would keep him from performing.
Contract:
Artistco hereby represents and warrants that artist does not possess any known health conditions, injuries or ailments that would reasonable be expected to interfere with Artist's first class performance at each of the shows during the term
Oh Tohme's $100k per month agreement, Trell was shown a January contract that Jackson signed to pay that amount. However, Trell said Tohme's agreement was predicated on Jackson getting tour cancellation insurance by a certain date. Deadline passed and by that point Tohme was no longer Jackson's manager, so he wasn't entitled to be paid his monthly fee.
January 24, 2009 -- agreement entered with Dr. Tohme Tohme. Trell said Michael was involved and signed this agreement. "This agreement was entered into January 26, Trell testified.
"There are conditions that needed to be met before any payment could be made."
One of the the conditions was placement of non-appearance insurance, Trell said. That placement was done in late April, early May. In May, AEG received letter from MJ saying Tohme didn't rep him anymore.
"No payments were ever made under this agreement," Trell explained.
Court Transcript
Rebbie Jackson attending court
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2024.05.21 15:01 wisdomperception The Six Elements Inquiring into the presupposition of 'I Am' (MN 140)

The Six Elements Inquiring into the presupposition of 'I Am' (MN 140)
Once, the Buddha had a chance encounter with a young bhikkhu Pukkusāti who had gone forth with faith in the Buddha but had never met him. Mistaking the Buddha for an ordinary bhikkhu, Pukkusāti welcomed him. This led to an intriguing exchange with the Buddha sharing a teaching focusing on the nature of the six elements, the six bases of contact, and the eighteen explorations of the mind.
Meditator in a tranquil landscape in an impressionist style
Thus have I heard — Once, the Blessed One was wandering in the land of the Magadhans and arrived at Rājagaha; he went to where Bhaggava the potter was. Having approached, the Blessed One said to Bhaggava the potter, "If it's not inconvenient for you, Bhaggava, may we stay in your workshop for one night?"
"It's not inconvenient for me, venerable sir. There is an ascetic who arrived first. If he permits it, then stay, venerable sir, as you like," Bhaggava replied.
At that time, a young man named Pukkusāti, out of faith in the Blessed One, had gone forth from home into homelessness. He was the one who had arrived first at the potter's workshop. Then, the Blessed One approached where Venerable Pukkusāti was; having approached, he said to Venerable Pukkusāti, "If it's not inconvenient for you, bhikkhu, may we stay in your workshop for one night?"
"The workshop is spacious, friend. Please stay, Venerable, as you like," replied Venerable Pukkusāti.
Then, the Blessed One entered the potter's workshop and, after preparing a seat of grass at one side, sat down, folding his legs crosswise, setting his body erect, and establishing mindfulness in front of him. The Blessed One spent much of the night seated in meditation. Venerable Pukkusāti too spent much of the night seated in meditation.
Then, it occurred to the Blessed One, "This young man conducts himself well. Perhaps I should question him."
So, the Blessed One asked Venerable Pukkusāti, "For whom, bhikkhu, have you gone forth? Who is your teacher? Whose Dhamma do you profess?"
"Friend, there is the ascetic Gotama, the son of the Sakyans, who went forth from the Sakyan clan. And about the Blessed One Gotama, such a splendid reputation has spread: 'Indeed, he is the Blessed One, an Arahant, a Fully Enlightened One, accomplished in knowledge and conduct, well-gone, a knower of the worlds, an unsurpassed trainer of persons to be tamed, a teacher of gods and humans, the Enlightened One, the Blessed One.' I have gone forth inspired by the Blessed One Gotama. He is my teacher, and it is his Dhamma that I profess."
"And where is that Blessed One, the Arahant, the Fully Enlightened One now residing?" the Blessed One asked.
"Friend, in the northern country there is a city named Sāvatthi. There the Blessed One, the Arahant, the Fully Enlightened One, is now residing," replied Venerable Pukkusāti.
"Have you ever seen that Blessed One before, bhikkhu? Would you recognize him if you saw him?" the Blessed One inquired.
"No, friend, I have not seen that Blessed One before; and I would not recognize him if I saw him," Venerable Pukkusāti replied.
Then, it occurred to the Blessed One, "This young man has gone forth out of faith in me. Perhaps I should teach him the Dhamma."
Then, the Blessed One addressed Venerable Pukkusāti, "I will teach you the Dhamma, bhikkhu. Listen and pay close attention; I will speak."
"As you say, friend," Venerable Pukkusāti responded to the Blessed One. The Blessed One said:
"This person, bhikkhu, is made of six elements, six bases of contact, eighteen explorations of mind, and is established in four ways; where standing, the notions of 'I am' do not proceed, and in whom, when these notions do not proceed, is called a sage at peace. One should not be negligent in wisdom, should guard the truth, should cultivate relinquishment, and should train for peace itself — this is the essence of the Analysis of the Elements.
'This person, bhikkhu, is made of six elements' — thus it has been said. Why has it been said? There are these six elements, bhikkhu: the earth element, the water element, the fire element, the air element, the space element, and the consciousness element. 'This person, bhikkhu, is made of six elements' — it has been said with reference to this.
'This person, bhikkhu, has six bases of contact' — thus it has been said. Why has it been said? The eye-contact base, the ear-contact base, the nose-contact base, the tongue-contact base, the body-contact base, the mind-contact base. 'This person, bhikkhu, has six bases of contact' — it has been said with reference to this.
'This person, bhikkhu, engages in eighteen explorations of mind' — thus it has been said. Why has it been said? On seeing a form with the eye, one explores a form that gives rise to pleasure, a form that gives rise to displeasure, and a form that gives rise to equanimity; on hearing a sound with the ear ... on smelling an odor with the nose ... on tasting a flavor with the tongue ...
on touching a tactile object with the body ... on cognizing a mental object (arisen from a mental quality) with the mind, one explores a mental object that gives rise to pleasure, a mental object that gives rise to displeasure, and a mental object that gives rise to equanimity. 'This person, bhikkhu, engages in eighteen explorations of mind' — it has been said with reference to this.
'This person, bhikkhu, is established in four ways' — thus it has been said. Why has it been said? The establishment of wisdom, the establishment of truth, the establishment of relinquishment, the establishment of peace. 'This person, bhikkhu, is established in four ways' — it has been said with reference to this.
'One should not be negligent in wisdom, should guard the truth, should cultivate relinquishment, and should train for peace itself'
— thus it has been said. Why has it been said?

The Six Elements

And how, bhikkhu, does one not neglect wisdom? There are these six elements, bhikkhu: the earth element, the water element, the fire element, the air element, the space element, and the consciousness element.
And what, bhikkhu, is the earth element? The earth element may be internal or external. And what, bhikkhu, is the internal earth element? Whatever internally, belonging to oneself, is solid, solidified, and clung to, that is, hair of the head, hair of the body, nails, teeth, skin, flesh, sinews, bones, bone marrow, kidneys, heart, liver, diaphragm, spleen, lungs, intestines, mesentery, contents of the stomach, feces, or whatever else internally, belonging to oneself, is solid, solidified, and clung to — this is called the internal earth element. Both the internal earth element and the external earth element are simply earth elements. 'This is not mine, this I am not, this is not my self' — thus should it be seen with proper wisdom as it really is. Having seen it thus with proper wisdom, one becomes disenchanted with the earth element and makes the mind dispassionate towards the earth element.
And what, bhikkhu, is the water element? The water element may be internal or external. And what, bhikkhu, is the internal water element? Whatever internally, belonging to oneself, is liquid, liquefied, and clung to, that is, bile, phlegm, pus, blood, sweat, fat, tears, grease, spit, snot, oil of the joints, urine, or whatever else internally, belonging to oneself, is liquid, liquefied, and clung to — this is called the internal water element. Both the internal water element and the external water element are simply water elements. 'This is not mine, this I am not, this is not my self' — thus should it be seen with proper wisdom as it really is. Having seen it thus with proper wisdom, one becomes disenchanted with the water element and makes the mind dispassionate towards the water element.
And what, bhikkhu, is the fire element? The fire element may be internal or external. And what, bhikkhu, is the internal fire element? Whatever internally, belonging to oneself, is fire, fiery, and clung to, that is, by which one is warmed, ages, and is consumed, and by which what is eaten, drunk, chewed, and tasted gets fully digested, or whatever else internally, belonging to oneself, is fire, fiery, and clung to — this is called the internal fire element. Both the internal fire element and the external fire element are simply fire elements. 'This is not mine, this I am not, this is not my self' — thus should it be seen with proper wisdom as it really is. Having seen it thus with proper wisdom, one becomes disenchanted with the fire element and makes the mind dispassionate towards the fire element.
And what, bhikkhu, is the air element? The air element may be internal or external. And what, bhikkhu, is the internal air element? Whatever internally, belonging to oneself, is air, airy, and clung to, that is, up-going winds, down-going winds, winds in the belly, winds in the bowels, winds that course through the limbs, in-breathing and out-breathing, or whatever else internally, belonging to oneself, is air, airy, and clung to — this is called the internal air element. Both the internal air element and the external air element are simply air elements. 'This is not mine, this I am not, this is not my self' — thus should it be seen with proper wisdom as it really is. Having seen it thus with proper wisdom, one becomes disenchanted with the air element and makes the mind dispassionate towards the air element.
And what, bhikkhu, is the space element? The space element may be internal or external. And what, bhikkhu, is the internal space element? Whatever internally, belonging to oneself, is space, spatial, and clung to, that is, the holes of the ears, the nostrils, the door of the mouth, and where whatever is eaten, drunk, chewed, and tasted is swallowed, where it stands, where it is stored, and where it is excreted from below, or whatever else internally, belonging to oneself, is space, spatial, and clung to — this is called the internal space element. Both the internal space element and the external space element are simply space elements. 'This is not mine, this I am not, this is not my self' — thus should it be seen with proper wisdom as it really is. Having seen it thus with proper wisdom, one becomes disenchanted with the space element and makes the mind dispassionate towards the space element.
Then, only consciousness remains, pure and bright. And with that consciousness, what does one cognize? One cognizes 'pleasant', one cognizes 'painful', and one cognizes 'neither-painful-nor-pleasant'.

The Eighteen Explorations of Mind

  • Pleasant feeling, bhikkhu, arises dependent on contact. Experiencing that pleasant feeling, one understands 'I experience a pleasant feeling'. 'With the cessation of that very contact that is pleasant to experience, the pleasant feeling that arose dependent on that pleasant contact ceases and subsides' — this one understands.
  • Painful feeling, bhikkhu, arises dependent on contact. Experiencing that painful feeling, one understands 'I experience a painful feeling'. 'With the cessation of that very contact that is painful to experience, the painful feeling that arose dependent on that painful contact ceases and subsides' — this one understands.
  • A neither-painful-nor-pleasant feeling, bhikkhu, arises dependent on contact. Experiencing that neither-painful-nor-pleasant feeling, one understands 'I experience a neither-painful-nor-pleasant feeling'. 'With the cessation of that very contact that is neither painful nor pleasant to experience, the neither-painful-nor-pleasant feeling that arose dependent on that contact ceases and subsides' — this one understands.
Just as, bhikkhu, with the friction of two pieces of wood, heat is generated and fire arises, and with the separation and scattering of those two pieces of wood, the heat generated by their contact ceases and subsides;
  • Similarly, bhikkhu, pleasant feeling arises dependent on contact. Experiencing that pleasant feeling, one understands 'I experience a pleasant feeling'. 'With the cessation of that very contact that is pleasant to experience, the pleasant feeling that arose dependent on that contact ceases and subsides' — this one understands.
  • Painful feeling, bhikkhu, arises dependent on contact. Experiencing that painful feeling, one understands 'I experience a painful feeling'. 'With the cessation of that very contact that is painful to experience, the painful feeling that arose dependent on that contact ceases and subsides' — this one understands.
  • A neither-painful-nor-pleasant feeling, bhikkhu, arises dependent on contact. Experiencing that neither-painful-nor-pleasant feeling, one understands 'I experience a neither-painful-nor-pleasant feeling'. 'With the cessation of that very contact that is neither painful nor pleasant to experience, the neither-painful-nor-pleasant feeling that arose dependent on that contact ceases and subsides' — this one understands.
Then, only equanimity remains, pure, bright, gentle, workable, and radiant. Just as, bhikkhu, a skilled goldsmith or goldsmith's apprentice might prepare a furnace, light the fire, and place gold in the crucible. By blowing on it from time to time, sprinkling water over it from time to time, and observing it from time to time, the gold becomes refined, well refined, thoroughly refined, faultless, pliable, workable, and radiant. It could be made into whatever form he wishes — whether a bracelet, earrings, a necklace, or a golden chain—and it would serve its purpose. Similarly, bhikkhu, then only equanimity remains, pure, bright, gentle, workable, and radiant.
One thus understands: 'If I were to direct this equanimity so pure and so bright towards the sphere of infinite space (dissolution of distinctions of form element) and develop my mind accordingly, this equanimity, relying on that, clinging (grasping) to that, would last for a long time. If I were to direct this equanimity so pure and so bright towards the sphere of infinite consciousness (boundless awareness)... towards the sphere of nothingness (emptiness and absence)... towards the sphere of neither perception nor non-perception and develop my mind accordingly, this equanimity, relying on that, clinging to that, would last for a long time.'
One thus understands: 'If I were to direct this equanimity, so pure and bright, towards the sphere of infinite space (dissolution of distinctions of form element) and develop my mind accordingly, this is conditioned. If I were to direct this equanimity, so pure and bright, towards the sphere of infinite consciousness... towards the sphere of nothingness... towards the sphere of neither perception nor non-perception and develop my mind accordingly, this is conditioned.'
Thus, one does not form any volitional formations for either existence or non-existence. Not forming any volitions for either, one does not cling to anything in the world. Not clinging, one does not worry. Without worry, one personally attains Nibbāna.
'Re-birth is exhausted, the holy life has been lived, what had to be done has been done, there is no more coming to any state of being,' one understands.
Whether experiencing a pleasant feeling, one understands 'it is impermanent', 'I am not involved with it', 'I do not delight in it'. Whether experiencing a painful feeling or a neither-painful-nor-pleasant feeling, one understands the same.
Experiencing a pleasant feeling, one experiences it unattached; experiencing a painful feeling, one experiences it unattached; experiencing a neither-painful-nor-pleasant feeling, one experiences it unattached. Experiencing a feeling limited to the body, one understands 'I experience a feeling limited to the body'; experiencing a feeling limited to life, one understands 'I experience a feeling limited to life', 'With the break-up of the body, following death, all that is felt, not being delighted in, will become cool right here.'
Just as, bhikkhu, an oil lamp burns dependent on oil and a wick, and with the exhaustion of the oil and wick, it is extinguished due to lack of fuel; similarly, experiencing a feeling limited to the body, one understands 'I experience a feeling limited to the body'; experiencing a feeling limited to life, one understands 'I experience a feeling limited to life', 'With the break-up of the body, following death, all that is felt, not being delighted in, will become cool right here.'

Established in Four Ways

  1. Therefore, a bhikkhu equipped in this way possesses the highest foundation of wisdom. For, bhikkhu, this is the highest noble wisdom, that is, the knowledge of the cessation of all suffering.
  2. His release, being founded on truth, is unshakeable. For that is false, bhikkhu, which is delusory, and that is true which is Nibbāna, the un-delusory. Therefore, a bhikkhu equipped in this way possesses the highest foundation of truth. For, bhikkhu, this is the ultimate noble truth, that is, Nibbāna, which is un-delusory.
  3. For him, previously not having wisdom, attachments (possessions, identification) were fully taken up and embraced. But for him, they are abandoned, cut off at the root, made like a palm stump, obliterated so that they are no more subject to future arising. Therefore, a bhikkhu equipped in this way possesses the highest foundation of relinquishment. For, bhikkhu, this is the supreme noble relinquishment, that is, the relinquishment of all attachments.
    1. For him, previously not having wisdom, there was craving, desire, passion. But for him, it is abandoned, cut off at the root, made like a palm stump, obliterated so that craving is no more subject to future arising.
    2. For him, previously not having wisdom, there was irritation, ill-will, fault-finding. But for him, it is abandoned, cut off at the root, made like a palm stump, obliterated so that irritation is no more subject to future arising.
  4. For him, previously not having wisdom, there was ignorance (misapprehension of true reality) and delusion (assumption making tendencies, absence of close examination and verification). But for him, it is abandoned, cut off at the root, made like a palm stump, obliterated so that it is no more subject to future arising. Therefore, a bhikkhu equipped in this way possesses the highest foundation of peace. For, bhikkhu, this is the supreme noble peace, that is, the pacification of lust, aversion, and confusion.
"One should not neglect wisdom, should protect the truth, should cultivate relinquishment, and should train for peace itself"
— thus has it been said. This has been said on account of this.

Notions of 'I am'

"Where standing, the notions of 'I am' do not proceed, and in whom, when these notions do not proceed, he is called a sage at peace" — thus indeed has it been said. What was this said on account of?
"It is 'I am,' bhikkhu, that is a presumption.
  • 'This I am' is a presumption.
  • 'I will be' is a presumption.
  • 'I will not be' is a presumption.
  • 'I will have form' is a presumption.
  • 'I will be formless' is a presumption.
  • 'I will be conscious' is a presumption.
  • 'I will be unconscious' is a presumption.
  • 'I will be neither conscious nor unconscious' is a presumption.
Presumption, bhikkhu, is a disease, presumption is a boil, presumption is a dart. Overcoming all presumptions, bhikkhu, one is called a sage at peace. Indeed, a sage at peace, bhikkhu, does not get born, does not age, does not die, does not get agitated, does not yearn. For him, bhikkhu, there is nothing by which he might be born; not being born, how could he age? Not aging, how could he die? Not dying, how could he get agitated? Not getting agitated, for what could he yearn?
"Where standing, the notions of 'I am' do not proceed, and in whom, when these notions do not proceed, he is called a sage at peace"
— thus has it been said. This has been said on account of this.
"You should remember this brief exposition of the six elements from me, bhikkhu."
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In this teaching, the Buddha gets mistaken for an ordinary bhikkhu by a young bhikkhu who had gone forth with faith in the Buddha. It is indicative that the Buddha conducted himself with an outward appearance indistinguishable from that of other bhikkhus that trained under him.
Seeing the young bhikkhu conducting himself well, the Buddha shares with him this teaching of the six elements of earth, water, fire, wind, space and consciousness - which when practiced allows for establishing oneself in mindfulness, freed from craving and grief for the world.
The Buddha further shares on the eighteen explorations of the mind through the three kinds of feelings: pleasant, painful and neither-painful-nor-pleasant born from the six sense contacts (form meeting the eye, along with arising of eye-consciousness, ... , mental object meeting the mind, along with arising of the mind-consciousness). He shares these as a way to understand the consciousness element and how it cognizes.
The Buddha then describes the gradual steps from there that lead to the realization of Nibbāna, leading to being established in the four ways of wisdom, truth, relinquishment, and peace.
The Buddha finally shares on the letting go of the 'I am' presumption and any subsequent presumptions that emerge from this, which form the core of what leads one to experience discontentment through worry, agitation, and dissatisfaction.
Closely examining the presumption of 'I am' inherent in René Descartes's "Cogito, ergo sum" ("I think, therefore I am"), which has underpinned modern philosophy, scientific and rational investigations, individualism, literature and pop culture, psychology, and technology (including debates on machine consciousness), reveals how deeply the world we find ourselves in today is influenced by this concept.
Realizing the truth of "I am" then individually opens up new possibilities and frontiers to be explored across all of these domains.
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2024.05.21 15:01 aireal77 First time mom to be

I’m about 5 to 6 weeks pregnant- has anyone felt like they were dreaming?? I don’t mean it in a “pinch me, I must be dreaming” type of way… I’m super thrilled about it, but I genuinely feel like I’m in a daze… is this pregnancy brain? I feel mentally stuffy lol I’ve also cut out so much stuff so I don’t know if it’s hormones or what… also, are minor (not painful) yet consistent cramps normal?
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2024.05.21 15:01 -BennyAdeline- Kitchen cleaver prototype. Inspired by a Japanese pruning tool.

Kitchen cleaver prototype. Inspired by a Japanese pruning tool.
Forged 52100, weighs a tad under 1lb without the handle. It’s mean and capable. Proteins, bones, and cartridge beware!
The cut out provides a really interesting balance that lends its self to aggressive yet precise chopping.
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2024.05.21 15:01 rgreen192 Deck Lattice and Paint/Stain Help

Deck Lattice and Paint/Stain Help
Deck Stain/Paint and Lattice Questions
Planning on putting some lattice around my deck to keep the dog/cat from under it and give me somewhere to store a low trailer and wheelbarrow out of the HOA’s sight.
The 3 2x12s joined together to support the deck come right to the face of the deck apron. Would it be possible to take a jigsaw and cut the thickness of vinyl lattice off the edge of those boards so the lattice can be flush with the apron, or is that too structural?
The stain on the deck right now is terrible, and I’m going to re-do it tomorrow, and my wife wants the apron of the deck white, along with white lattice under the deck. I know paint is a no-no for the deck boards, but what about the apron? My wife also wants me to paint the support beams since she doesn’t like the unpainted look and wants those white as well
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2024.05.21 15:00 hellopriyasharma Use Your Creativity with English Worksheets for Nursery Class

Use Your Creativity with English Worksheets for Nursery Class
The English Worksheet for Nursery Class is a crucial tool for developing young learners' language foundations and should be included in the early education curriculum. Worksheets with imaginative designs have the power to pique kids' curiosity and increase their desire to learn English. This resource looks at creative ways to use English worksheets in early childhood education so that teachers may create a language-loving atmosphere that is enjoyable and stimulating. The objective is to successfully introduce basic English ideas while making learning as engaging and participatory as possible.
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Engaging Young Minds with English Worksheets
The use of English Worksheet for Nursery should be more than a mere paper-pencil activity. It should ignite curiosity, encourage exploration, and support cognitive development in young learners.
Story-Based Worksheets: Incorporate worksheets that are based on simple stories or familiar nursery rhymes. These can include sequencing activities, picture matching, or fill-in-the-blanks with words from the story.
Interactive Language Games: Convert traditional worksheets into interactive games. For example, a worksheet with pictures and words can be turned into a matching game where children match words to the correct pictures.
Art and Craft Integration: Merge art with language learning by including coloring, drawing, or cutting activities related to the words or letters being learned. This approach not only reinforces the learning objective but also supports fine motor skill development.
Use of Digital Platforms: Integrate technology by using a school parent app to share digital versions of English worksheets or interactive language games. This can also facilitate parental involvement in their child's learning process.

Themes and Topics for English Worksheets

Selecting themes and topics relevant to the children's experiences and interests can significantly enhance engagement and learning outcomes.
Daily Routines and Activities: Worksheets focusing on daily routines, such as meals, playtime, or getting ready for school, can help children relate their learning to their everyday life.
Nature and Environment: Worksheets that explore the natural world, including animals, plants, and weather, can spark curiosity about the environment while building vocabulary.
Festivals and Celebrations: Incorporating themes related to festivals, holidays, and celebrations introduces children to cultural diversity through language.

Skills Development Through English Worksheets

Effective Pre school Nursery English Worksheets target a variety of skills that are fundamental to language acquisition and overall development.
  • Vocabulary Building: Introduce new words in a thematic context, enhancing comprehension and expressive skills.
  • Phonemic Awareness: Activities focusing on sounds, rhymes, and initial phonics lay the groundwork for reading skills.
  • Listening and Comprehension: Worksheets that require following instructions or answering simple questions about a story improve listening skills and comprehension.
  • Writing and Fine Motor Skills: Tracing letters, writing names, or drawing lines between related items fosters early writing skills and fine motor control.

Tips for Maximizing the Impact of English Worksheets

Tailor Activities to Individual Needs: Customize worksheets to match the developmental level and interests of each child, ensuring that every learner finds the activities accessible and engaging.
  • Encourage Exploration and Discussion: Use worksheets as a starting point for discussions, encouraging children to ask questions and express their ideas related to the worksheet's theme.
  • Positive Reinforcement: Celebrate completion and effort, regardless of accuracy. Positive feedback encourages a love for learning and boosts confidence.
  • Incorporate Feedback and Reflection: Regularly assess the effectiveness of worksheets in achieving learning objectives and make adjustments based on observations and child feedback.

Conclusion

The English Worksheet for Nursery Class serves as an essential tool in early childhood education, offering diverse opportunities for language development, creativity, and cognitive growth. By adopting a creative and interactive approach, educators can transform the use of worksheets from a mundane task to an exciting learning adventure. Incorporating themes, integrating technology through tools like the school parent app, and focusing on a holistic skill set are key strategies for making English worksheets a valuable component of the nursery curriculum. As we move forward, the imaginative use of worksheets will continue to play a crucial role in nurturing proficient, enthusiastic young learners.
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2024.05.21 15:00 Apple_Discord I lost my dad

I’m not really sure if this belongs in grief support so if it doesn’t I can remove it
He passed in November, he’s had been sick since Covid. My parents marriage had been rocky as long as I can remember, to the point I had been asking them to divorce during my late high school years. My dad had been abusive to myself and the youngest of my older siblings, the other two older siblings didn’t experience the same father we did. I cut my dad off after my parents separated some time in 2021 and the last time I saw him was the day before I left for college, and I didn’t say anything to him then. About 2 years later, and he’s gone. His unhealthy lifestyle caught up to him faster than anyone thought it would. All of my siblings are responding differently and they were quick to point out that I was apathetic about the whole thing. I don’t talk to the older two so most of my questions about what happened I asked through my sister closest to me. Now that a couple months have passed my siblings for the most part are doing okay. I still feel this residual anger towards my dad. I feel guilty for not mourning this man like everyone else but I don’t know if I’m capable of that. Thanks to everyone who read this.
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2024.05.21 15:00 DogsAndPickles COUNTED OUT BY EVERYONE: Being dyslexic or “3D “learning disabled” — I taught myself to perceive “see” the dimensions using … a graph and a piece of paper and Khan Academy and visual math proofs. It was the school, psych & parents who labeled me and less than.

COUNTED OUT BY EVERYONE: Being dyslexic or “3D “learning disabled” — I taught myself to perceive “see” the dimensions using … a graph and a piece of paper and Khan Academy and visual math proofs. It was the school, psych & parents who labeled me and less than. submitted by DogsAndPickles to StoriesForMyTherapist [link] [comments]


2024.05.21 15:00 Preston_Reddit Am I cooked?

In the unseen section for lit paper 2 I wrote the entire essay referring to the the poet as a she only to find out he was, in fact, a male. Now my friends have told me a may be considered a sexist and deducted 10 marks for a assuming a woman was doing the washing. Am I cooked?
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2024.05.21 15:00 Prestigious_Crab6256 Editing in 'The Last Jedi'

Finished a rewatch of The Last Jedi last night in anticipation of a podcast discussion I'm having, and just had to admire the way this film is edited. Three sequences really stand out.
The first can be seen in this YouTube video. I love the way the editor matches Luke's dialogue with respective character beats:
"The Rebellion is reborn today," cut to Poe, who has emerged from this crisis as a wiser, more measured leader for the next generation.
"The war is just beginning," cut to Finn, newly devoted to the cause and committed to fighting for the Resistance.
"And I will not be the last Jedi," cut to Rey, who has rejected the need to seek validation from others and has accepted the responsibility of the Skywalker saber rather than attempt to pawn it onto another.
The other two instances are the opening bombing run and Holdo's gambit. I've got to admire the way time lengthens during Paige's struggle to grab the bomb remote -- truthfully, I hold my breath every time that remote falls down the shaft. It feels like it falls further every time I watch it! Makes it that much more satisfying when she snatches it from midair and activates the bombs.
And I love the way three separate plotlines intersect during the "Holdo maneuver" -- Finn & Rose's imminent execution onboard the Supremacy, Kylo Ren & Rey's tug-of-war with the legacy Skywalker saber, and Poe/Leia/Holdo's story with Holdo making a desperate move to save the last of the Resistance (sort of a mini-arc for a character who, in Leia's words, "was more interested in protecting the light than she was seeming like a hero.")
Anyway, just wanted to share my appreciation of a technical aspect of the film that sometimes gets overlooked. It's a dense picture with a lot of moving parts, and getting these parts to intersect and pay-off like this -- while still finding time for the kind of suspense a Star Wars film requires -- is an impressive feat of filmmaking.
What are some impressive examples of editing you've noticed in this film or other Star Wars films?
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2024.05.21 14:58 sharesclaim1 How to Find Lost Shares in India- A Comprehensive Guide to Recovery

How to Find Lost Shares in India- A Comprehensive Guide to Recovery
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Introduction to Lost Shares

In today’s fast-paced financial world, it is not uncommon for individuals to lose track of their investments. If you’re wondering how to find lost shares in India or seeking assistance in the recovery of lost shares, you’re not alone. SharesClaim is here to guide you through the process and help you reclaim your valuable investments.

Steps to Find Lost Shares in India

1. Check Old Documents

Start by sifting through old documents, such as share certificates, investment records, and correspondence with companies. Often, valuable information about your shares can be found in these papers.

2. Contact the Company

Reach out to the company where you originally purchased the shares. Provide them with any details you have, such as share certificate numbers or investor IDs. They can assist in tracking your shares.

3. Use Investor Services

Many companies offer investor services to help locate lost shares. Utilize these services to get professional assistance in your search.

4. Approach the Registrar and Transfer Agent (RTA)

RTAs maintain records of shareholders for companies. Contact the relevant RTA with your details to inquire about your lost shares. They can provide you with the necessary information to recover them.

5. Check with Depositories

In India, shares can be held in electronic form with depositories like NSDL and CDSL. Check your demat account statements and contact your depository participant for assistance.

Recovery of Lost Shares

1. Apply for Duplicate Share Certificates

If your share certificates are physically lost, you can apply for duplicate certificates. This involves submitting an indemnity bond and other required documents to the company.

2. Transmission of Shares

In case of the shareholder’s demise, the legal heirs can apply for the transmission of shares. This process requires submitting legal documents such as a death certificate, probate, or succession certificate.

3. Unclaimed Dividend Search

Unclaimed dividends often indicate unclaimed shares. Check for any unclaimed dividends on company websites or through investor service portals.

Conclusion

Finding and recovery of lost shares in India can be a meticulous process, but with the right steps and guidance, it is entirely achievable. SharesClaim is dedicated to helping you navigate this journey, ensuring that you reclaim your investments successfully. Follow these steps to recover your lost shares and secure your financial future.
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2024.05.21 14:58 Fistinthestink How to repair a relationship

Hi
So i (M32) recently met an old friend (F36) and colleague of mine, since 12 years back. We have always been good and very close friends, that have supported each other through the roughest and worst times. Even helped each other through crises we've had with our exes.
We finally met for a drink at a restaurant when i was on a visit another friend of mine. Since that day, which is about 2,5 months ago, we've been struck by love. We just both felt that twin flame-thing, or that we belong to each other in a soul-form of way.
We got so up in each other and things went too fast, so we had no idea about our recent past. Things just got out of hand and we got mad ad each other, and ended up leaving the relationship.
Now i want to repair it, both as friends but also the partnership. Is it possible to do? Or is it too complex to get together again?
I know she loves me, and i love her. In many ways, i would say every way possible. We said stupid things to each other that didn't mean anything, but she still talks about that. Should i give her time and space for it?
I also had old textmessages and emails from my ex that she reacted on, but that was before we two got along and started something. So she got jealous in things that she never was involved in.
I want some tips from you guys how to move on. Should i build a plan for how we can get together for her, and present it?
She wants us to cut our connection for now. Not forever, but just for a while. Could that make it worse, or is it possible that it makes it better in the end?
I don't know what to do, and i can't ask any of my friends either. It's just too personal, and odd in a way that no one else understands. Because of the friendship we had before. And it hurts me even more, because it's so much more than just a girlfriend to me.
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2024.05.21 14:58 MasterBaitingBoy Still depressed and hopeless

It’s very hard for me not to fall into depression, hopelessness and be triggered into sadness and dejected mood when I hear stories about heartbreak. I feel a lot of hurt sometimes. I feel pain in my stomach and chest, sensitivity and kind of a numbed out trauma state. Been like a year and a half like this. It’s endless. That lingering feeling of pain and alertness in my body hasn’t gone away.
Every time I hear about people talking about how they ended their relationship of years or how they were lovebombed and then cut off, it makes me think how I was also lovebombed but I didn’t even get to live a moment where the girl that broke my heart was my official girlfriend.
I never got to live any of that happiness. I’ve been struggling so hard with mental health three years, and I swear heartbreak is a 100 times worse when you’re already depressed, depersonalized and have OCD.
I feel so destined for doom and like this shit only happens to me. I have a lot of pain and wish I could cry but I can’t. This past year has been suffering everyday, living out the same curse. Thinking death is a better fate than keep on living in hell, in a reality where nothing improves and I see myself become a failure and all of my worst expectations coming true.
This isn’t even about her all that much anymore. I don’t care that she’s gone. It’s just what this says about my life and how it’s just another tragedy piling up after another. I did often think that the appropriate ending would be death. There’s literally no thing left for reality to take away from me other than my life. I did have the fantasy of closing my eyes and not waking up again.
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2024.05.21 14:58 ProfessionalWalk3370 opened onlyfans on work wifi

So I was on Instagram 4 hours ago in the bathroom and saw a model on it who's name I wanted to remember whilst forgetting im connected to work wifi on my personal device. When the the link opened it was a blocked site and the dread inside me ensued. I've had that come up before for opening gambling websites multiple times before and never have had a someone talk to me, although this is different. For starters its a open wifi (only workers can be in range for, im not sure how many actually use it) and from memory I never had to put a username/password in (even if I did I would've just spammed letters) I work in a 24hour warehouse with over 900 employees (if found out ill be a social pariah if not fired), is it possible this could be traced back to me via ip address or phone blah blah blah? There is multiple different wifis available some are locked by passwords im presuming for those on the computers in logistics and IT Currently having a panic attack. (I know this has been asked before im just stressing, and to those before me this has happened too on Reddit did the people end up updating with never being caught)
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2024.05.21 14:58 Lillolsy UK Issue with neighbour?

Hey, thanks for reading and for any advice you guys can offer.
So, my partner and I moved in to a new house recently, our landlord seems lovely and the letting agents have been great too, the house itself has no issues and my boyfriend is an mechanic and there's a garage so, it's been ideal for us and for keeping car bits out of the house!
Although, the house we've moved into is a four in a block (for anyone that doesn't know, basically a semi detached house with an upstairs flat and a downstairs flat on either side) and our upstairs neighbour has been a bit of a nightmare. For context, the walls and floors of the house are paper thin, we can hear every word she says on the phone and we can tell where she is in her flat by the sounds the floorboards make.
When we moved in, my bf was building some furniture at like maybe 1pm-2pm on a Saturday, the usual IKEA flat pack stuff and she (the upstairs neighbour) started banging on the ceiling. So, he walked away from it and instead went out to the garage to fix a few things there. Me and a friend were sitting inside talking and she started shouting, telling us to shut up. We reported it to our letting agent and they contacted the council (shes a council tenant) and reported it to them, they then must have contacted her to tell her to stop as we overheard her crying on the phone to someone, presumably a parent, about how much noise we make and how were constantly distubing her, however, she's now purposely stomping around her flat whenever she knows we're home and honestly, sometimes feels like she's following us through the ceiling as whenever we leave the living room and go somewhere else in the flat, her footsteps upstairs seem to follow us, we also had a gas engineer in to sort the boiler and she banged 3 times when him and I were just discussing the issue.
We don't particularly care if she's stomping about, everyone's entitled to live at the end of the day and so long as she's not disrupting us at like 4am, she can talk as loud as she likes and make as much noise as she likes, she doesn't seem to work as I sometimes work from home and ill hear her on the phone complaining all through the day so she's never NOT home and it's left us in a tricky situation.
Our landlord and letting agent told us just to live the way we normally would and try and ignore it as best we can, my BF isn't bothered by her banging and shouting but because of it, I'm kinda struggling to settle in and my BF isn't doing the things he usually would, working in the garage or gaming because he's worried she'll start banging again or shouting and it'll make me feel more anxious.
Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with her? I don't want my partner feeling like he can't actually do the things he enjoys and I don't want to feel like I can't bring my friends over out of fear the neighbour upstairs is going to throw a hissy fit over us having conversations and just generally living!
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2024.05.21 14:57 Yaya646 Legal studies and MHCET

These are my two remaining papers and legal studies lMFAO I know absolutely nothing. MHCET has gk and math which is just not happening for me and tmrw SLS Results would be out. And my dad still wants me to pick the “best” when here I am worrying if I’d even get into ANY college
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