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2024.05.22 02:30 Terrible_Push6880 What should I think of this

And finally, the mark of the beast can indeed be removed, for it is not a seal, but a mere ā€œmarkā€, which symbolizes a sin. Which is the possession of paper money and fiat currency. Which is an offense to God. And by removing this offense then you remove the mark of the beast and lift the curse from upon your own head. Which can be done in either of two ways. By burning every last remnant of paper money and fiat currency, like the sons of Israel did when they smashed their idols and the believers in the book of Acts burned their books of witchcraft. Or by simply exchanging it for things you need. Like food, clothing, goods, laptop, cell phone, tools, solar panels, water reserves, pre pay for rent, pre pay for utilities, pre pay for internet, pre pay for cell phone service, purchase a house, purchase gold, or purchase silver. Anything you need. For it is not the will of God that we be left with nothing and naked and out on the street. For even the people of Israel took gold and silver and clothes with them when they left Egypt to wander the desert. Which is the time we are in figuratively. In the desert approaching the time we will receive our inheritance. And just like the Torah permitted the sons of Israel to sell unclean animals to foreigners that they themselves were forbidden to eat, so in likewise manner we can give unbelievers and torahless people their own paper money and fiat currency that they already have in exchange for the things we need so that we can set ourselves apart in obedience. Which also relates to, ā€œrender unto Caesar what is Caesarā€™sā€. In a cunning way, but as gentle as doves. And ultimately the prophecy of Revelation does say ā€œpay her back as she has paidā€, which includes returning back her own worthless paper money and fiat currency. And if you are able to work for food or gold or silver, then excellent, otherwise you are not permitted to receive any paper money and fiat currency directly or indirectly going forward. And if you have much, remember to share with others and especially with fellow believers in the Mashiach that are also leaving the financial system. For this is indeed also an opportunity for us as believers to show our love one for the other by helping each other. And if you have little, seek help from other like minded believers or reach out to me. And if you purchase gold and silver in the USA I recommend you purchase from Apmex. And if you purchase gold from them I recommend you purchase it by the gram, either 1 gram Valcambi, or 20 gram Valcambi Combibar, or 50 gram Valcambi Combibar, or 100 gram Valcambi Combibar. And if you purchase silver from them, I recommend you purchase it by the troy ounce, which can be 1 oz Perth Mint Silver Bar or 1 oz Geiger Edelmetalle Silver Bar. And if you are in Colombia, I recommend you purchase from Firenze by the gram. And you can visit their website by clicking here to contact them.
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2024.05.22 02:29 trader_asic OTM Put SPY, Expecting a 50% Decline by the end of 2024

Hello, Been trading crypto for a while now, I am well aware of the traditional financial markets like SPX, NASDAQ, DJIA though i never invested into those, always Been a bitcoin trader, however this year I have a thesis we are heading towards a global deflationary bust, with a crash similar to 1929 and my targets are atleast 50% decline in SPY by the end of the year, I am totally new to the options and I want to buy a deep out of the money put for SPY, Can someone please explain, the greeks, Volume, Contracts and all the other stuff makes sense to make this bet/trade? I am planning to buy this put worth of 36720 $, which will give me 180 contracts i believe.
Hypothetically lets say I am right and the SPY goes around 350$ before my expiration and i close the trade, I will be making a profit of $863,280. " If " it happens is that it or there is more that i am missing?
premium 2.01$, Bid 1062 X 2.01 $, Ask 2527 X 2.04 $, Breakeven 397.98 $, Strike 400$, Mid 2.03 $, open interest 1893, Volume 0, Low 0.00 $, High 0.00 $
The Greeks. Imp Volatility 15.19%, Theta -0.0012. Delta -0.0035, Vega 0.0438, Gamma 0.0002, Rho -0.0118
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2024.05.22 02:28 jayonnaiser Nearly 41yo. Can't believe this is my life

I've been "shy" my whole life. Parents were alcoholics and one has major mental health issues. I was made fun of in school, called fat, the "ugliest guy in school," etc. Had a really bad teacher in grade 3 who berated me for talking in class and it messed me up quite a bit. At 13 I started abusing weed and that did me no favors developmentally and social anxiety wise. I was diagnosed with SAD about 16 or 17 maybe. The diagnosis made the effects worse in a way. I eventually went on meds. I believe it was Effexor but maybe not.
I never got a job when my teenage peers were getting them. My Mom was very lax about it and just told me to focus on school for now. Then we received an inheritance and the need for me to work was diminished even further. Of course I wanted to work in order to fit in but I was too scared to really try anything. I never thought about my future. I dropped out of school in the middle of high school.
I've had some close calls with jobs over the years. Nothing ever panned out or I'd quit my first day. I'm 40 years old and haven't had what I would consider a real job. I'm grateful to say I've managed to continue on financially over the years through a few chance means which I won't get into, but those funds are going to be gone in 6-12 months. I live with my Mom (well technically she lives in my house but same thing) and I can't stand it anymore. My life is just the same thing day after day. I don't hang out with old friends I lost touch with because I'm so ashamed of my life. But I need to...
I'm on meds and currently working through "The Shyness & Social Anxiety Workbook" and hoping with some effort it will help give me some relief from this horrible condition. I'm thinking of going to school to become an MDRT (Medical Device Reprocessing Technician) as it was the only short term course I could find that sounded doable with this condition, but even still I'm not so sure I can handle it. I just want change and GROWTH. I see everyone else around me actually experiencing life and I'm so tired of thinking about money all the time. I don't even care about money, it's just a tool.
If you're young, DON'T let yourself end up like me. Get therapy, read, expose yourself to the things life has to offer, try medication, hold on to the friends you may have, WORK whatever job you can and KEEP IT for as long as possible.
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2024.05.22 02:28 Background-Island-34 Can someone be proud of me?

Just as the title says, I want to hear someone acknowledge what I've done and be proud of me.
I (18F) moved out to another country on the other side of the globe to study. I have no close family or friends when I came here, and I live alone too. It was actually not as scary as I thought, but a part of me think maybe I'm just not really processing the whole experience.
I think I'm doing well, honestly. I took care of my visa alone (most stressful part tbh), made many many mistakes but it ended in a success. I maintain my room all by myself, I cook every day, I manage to figure things out all on my own, and I'm doing well in studies. I think I'm good at managing money and take pride in spending as little as I can without sacrificing the things I really want. Once I'm allowed to work I'll get to that too for sure. I do almost everything with minimum help save for finances since everything still comes from my dad.
Sometimes it hits me that I still feel as empty as when I was back in my homeland. Even after such a drastic change in my life, I'm still the same person. There's no one I can talk about this currently except for one friend but I feel like I need someone else.
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2024.05.22 02:27 xgpm My roomate / coworker is charging me with assault and uttering threats over an argument and itā€™s ruined my life - what can I do going forward

Short background, but me and my roomate of 1 year would get in frequent arguments and yelling matches over things - we both got hot headed and were stubborn. In the past she threatened to get her dad to come and ā€œbeat the fuck out of meā€ amongst other things, but we were also friends and these kinds of things would usually be apologized for and forgotten the next day and we would move on with our lives. We were actually fairly close - I would hang out in her room daily, we would watch tv, smoke a joint, go on trips together, do chores, do each other favours etc etc. this was only a platonic friendship as well.
2 weeks ago, we got into a yelling match again and she brought my mom into the argument, calling her an extremely rude word. I got really upset with that, and stormed over to her and said ā€œif you ever say something about my mom again Iā€™ll kill youā€. Not a great thing but I obviously had/have no intentions of this as a heated moment wasnā€™t something new for us.
That evening, police showed up and said Iā€™m being charged with assault and uttering threats. Since then, Iā€™ve left my apartment and relocated.
To make things more complicated, we are also co-workers, and the police went to my job and spoke with my work about it. I have had to quit my job since she also has a restraining order against me. We work in an industry thatā€™s pretty tight knit, and have / know hundreds of mutual co-workers, and my reputation is easily going to be ruined within our work circle going forward.
We had another roomate who was there to witness the entire thing, and he gave a statement to the police, basically saying that I had no intentions of doing anything, and there was nothing physical involved. We are very close friends, and he said he would be willing to testify that there was nothing physical, I had no intent nor would I follow through with anything said, and that it was a heated argument at most.
I have hired a defence lawyer and am just stuck in limbo now. So far Iā€™m out of a job, my home, thousands for lawyer fees, and along with my job Iā€™m essentially out of a career now, as my place of employment currently is investigating that I broke their bullying and harassment code. I refused to give them a statement and a copy of my charges when they asked as I did not give a statement to the police. They are now also expecting me to repay them my relocation expenses, as I didnā€™t complete my contract with them - this could be as high as $5k.
Is there anything I can do moving forward beside hope for a peace bond? Iā€™ve lost basically everything over an argument, and have to re-start my life, and have already faced massive financial and personal loss as a result of this, and I have not even been charged with anything yet. I was an asshole but I donā€™t think Iā€™m a criminal. If the case goes my way is there any way to recoup some of my financial losses?
I can clarify more if needed on anything.
Thanks for the help
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2024.05.22 02:26 Extreme_Sprinkles429 AITBA for taking away the tip of my Uber eats driver?

always tip at least 15-20% whether that's for delivery or restaurants, etc.
However, the other day I was surprised when my order wasn't at the front of my door. I looked closely at the picture and realized that the driver placed my order in front of a different residence! I was kind of annoyed so I contacted customer support, told them I never received my food, and they issued me a refund only for the order. Then I went back and took away the tip I left the driver. I understand it could have been an honest mistake, but why should I pay them out of my pocket when they didn't do their job correctly?
I was telling my friend about this, and he said that I was terrible for taking away the tip. He elaborated, saying that since I've grown up privileged and never had to work a customer service job that I don't know how hard it is to survive on tips, and that it was a scummy move for me to take it away since I don't know what the driver must be going through. He also pointed out that it was most likely just an honest mistake, because why on Earth would the driver intentionally mess up an order when that's their livelihood?
Listen, I'm well aware that I've had a financially privileged life. And I sympathize with people who are struggling financially. However, I've also worked before, and the bottom line is if you don't do your job correctly, there is a consequence. Like for example, if I clock in late to work then I would take a pay cut. It doesn't matter if it was an honest mistake, there is still the consequence. So logically it makes sense in my head to take away the tip when the driver didn't do the job I paid them to do correctly. I'm also a student so I'm not in a position to be giving away free money to people.
However, a part of me still does feel a little uneasy about it, just because I've quite literally never been one of those people who doesn't tip. This is actually the first time I've not tipped. Part of me felt wrong to go back and remove it. And after my friend's comments, it has got me wondering, AITBA?
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2024.05.22 02:26 OkSea4017 Hello! I recently wrote an essay about the Troubled Teen Industry for my high school Capstone project. I was wondering if you all would be willing to read it and give me feedback! It doesnā€™t have to be much, just any general comments or suggestions are appreciated. Thank you!

I hope this letter finds you well. To begin, I was drawn to this topic through social media posts that shared dozens of records detailing the abuse and deaths of hundreds of children in these therapy programs. I have often wondered, how can these programs be allowed to cause this amount of trauma to teens and children? This inspired me to look deeper into the troubled teen industry and understand why paid ā€œcaregiversā€ have put so many in danger. If we want to protect the wellbeing of these teens, we must find a solution to regulating these industries. Without increased laws and regulations we continue to place Americaā€™s children into potential death traps. Now what is a wilderness therapy program? Wilderness therapy programs, on the surface, seem like a promising solution for troubled teens, offering a blend of nature immersion and psychiatric support. However, the roots of the troubled teen industry date back to the 1970s, with reports of abuse surfacing early on. Shockingly, despite decades of outcry and documentation of fatalities, political inertia persists, and federal oversight remains lacking. It is understandable that parents want their children to be happy, respectful, and well-mannered. However, in an attempt to do what is right for their struggling child, parents may turn to the troubled teen industry. Currently, according to the American Bar Association, there are thousands of teenagers in these programs within the U.S, programs that often induce trauma and abuse, even causing the deaths of their children. So, why do parents continue to put their children into these programs? Is the fear of losing the ā€œperfectā€ family leading parents to enrolling their children into these troubled teensā€™ wilderness programs? So why do parents enroll their children in these awful facilities? Simple answer: manipulation. The troubled teen industry (TTI) often manipulates parents through a series of insidious tactics. For instance, leveraging fear by exaggerating the risks associated with a child's behavior and creating a sense of imminent danger. Isolation tactics further reinforce this urgency, convincing parents that the facility is their sole recourse. These industries hire workers framed as ā€œeducation consultantsā€ that utilize high-pressure sales strategies to exploit parental anxiety, and present their TTI program as the only viable option. In an article by USAtoday, reporters held interviews of parents and teens who experienced a TTI program at Evoke, a Utah facility. "I was just an anxious mom. I loved (Katelyn) to death," Tessie, Katelynā€™s mom, says, "I was so desperate and desperately wanting to save my child from herself" (USAtoday). Programs offer promises of rapid transformation and they prey on parental desperation for quick, easy fixes. Emotional manipulation adds another layer, playing on a parents guilt and insecurity. By showcasing selective success stories and controlling information flow, they obscure potential risks and alternatives. Stigmatizing the child's behavior further pressures parents into compliance, painting their facility as the sole refuge from societal judgment. "ā€™[Evoke] just made it seem like (she was) such a rotten kid and that she couldn't come home after the wilderness program,ā€™ Tessie says, instead [Evoke suggested] Katelyn go to an aftercare programā€ (USAtoday). In this web of manipulation, parents often find themselves coerced into decisions they later regret, unaware of the nuanced realities obscured by these tactics. In an article from the ā€œCafemomsā€ blog titled My Daughter Was a Victim of the 'Troubled Teen' Industry & It Haunts Me to This Day, a mother recounts her perspective of the tactics used by Island View (IV) treatment center to send her sixteen year old daughter to their facilities. ā€œWe trusted the [education consultant] when he said IV was the best program in the country and the best fit for Colleen. What the [education consultant] didnā€™t tell us was that the reason so many IV grads did so well after graduation is because nearly all of them went straight from IV to another residential treatmentā€(Cafemoms). Despite this, there is still hope for change. Imprint News wrote an article that focused on recent protests and youth advocates who were pushing congress to introduce new laws. Specifically, they discussed the Stop Institutional Child Abuse Act. A main advocacy group aiming at these lawmakers is Breaking Code Silence, a group dedicated to advocating for young people who had experienced harm in a youth treatment center (Imprint News). Their main goal is to pass a Bill of Rights for all children in youth treatment centers (Imprint News). The article also mentions that Breaking Code Silence wants children to have guaranteed protection from physical restraint and monitored phone calls. They further require that children are provided with all the basic necessities (Imprint News). Paris Hilton, a well-known celebrity, discussed in a Washington post article when she was 16 years old when she was taken from her home by two men. This was a result of her parents signing her up for a teen wilderness program (Hilton). Hilton describes that she was beaten and malnourished throughout her time at a Utah Facility. In October 2021, she partnered with Breaking Code Silence and pushed for a reform that was signed into law last April (Hilton). In Utah, it is now mandatory for treatment centers to document any time that staff used physical restraint (Hilton). Immediately following they have to submit these reports to the Utah Office of Licensing (Hilton). It also prohibits programs from sedating residents or using mechanical restraints, such as handcuffs and chains (Hilton). Therefore, this proves that reforms can be implemented and that it is important to continue the fight for more. Without regulations these programs can run rampant and place hundreds of children in danger. Continuing to protest, collaborate with government officials, and raise awareness can, and will, eventually stop the persistence of these programs. Enforcing reports and proper care through the law is the only way to give teens struggling with mental illnesses in these programs a fighting chance to recover. On the other hand, supporters of the troubled teen industry have used studies and research to prove the effectiveness of these programs, one example being RedCliff Ascent. RedCliff Ascent is a wilderness therapy program that claims the effectiveness of wilderness therapy. In 2005, this company hired a researcher to study families and adolescents 2 years after the program. The results found that over 90% of adolescents found wilderness therapy as effective and 83% of adolescents were doing better. In another study by Dr. Steve Aldana, it was found that 91.4% of children experienced clinically significant improvement six months post program. The counter argument presented by RedCliff Ascent is not only biased as the research was initiated from a wilderness therapy company, but they do not provide a sample size. This is important because when making conclusive statements such as ā€œOver 90% of adolescents contacted perceived wilderness therapy as effectiveā€ they could be talking about six out of seven children or two hundred out of two hundred twenty (RedCliff Ascent). Through further research, the same results can be presented without the use of wilderness therapy. An article by the American Psychology Association (APA) titled ā€œBetter options for troubled teensā€ presents a series of studies and programs that was created to help adolescents. These programs focus on community-based activities, activities to help connect teenagers with their parents, and activities that align with the teens interests. This includes computer labs, dance studios, and machine shops. These programs have found significant success in decreasing the amount of juvenile offenders from 50% to 4% in an area of Connecticut (APA). It did this by helping teens take accountability and understand their actions. It utilized role play, writing assignments, and guided discussions between the teens. Overall, the troubled teen industry has caused abuse, trauma, and death to many children across the United States. It is a trap for children and a trick for desperate parents. Through the personal stories from teens and parents, reports of mistreatment, and protests it can easily be seen the impact and the importance of preventing this industry from expanding, instead increasing regulations and transparency to protect Americaā€™s children. To keep these children safe it is imperative that everyone works together to enact legislation. Your support matters to keep Americaā€™s children protected.
Sincerely, A high school student trying to make positive change
Works Cited Brennan, Caleb, et al. ā€œYouth Advocates Again Push Congress to Crack Down on ā€˜Troubled Teenā€™ Industry.ā€ The Imprint, 19 Aug. 2022, Date Accessed Mar. 2 imprintnews.org/top-stories/youth-advocates-congress-troubled-teen-industry/67243.
DeAngelis, Tori. ā€œBetter Options for Troubled Teens.ā€ https://www.apa.org, www.apa.org/monito2011/12/troubled-teens. Accessed Feb. 19
Hilton, Paris. ā€œAmericaā€™s ā€˜Troubled Teen Industryā€™ Needs Reform so Kids Can Avoid the Abuse I Endured.ā€ Washington Post, 22 Oct. 2021, Date Accessed Feb. 5 www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2021/10/18/paris-hilton-child-care-facilities-a Buse-reform.
Krebs, Catherine E. Five Facts About the Troubled Teen Industry. 22 Oct. 2021 Date Accessed Apr. 23 www.americanbar.org/groups/litigation/resources/newsletters/childrens-rights/five-facts-about-troubled-teen-industry.
Moniuszko, Sara M. ā€œWilderness therapy was supposed to help these ā€˜troubled teens.ā€™ It traumatized them instead.ā€ UsaToday, 8 Dec. 2022, Date Accessed Apr. 15 www.usatoday.com/in-depth/life/health-wellness/2022/12/08/wilderness-therapy-troubled-teen-industry/9890694002.
Parenting, baby names, celebrities, and royal news CafeMom.com. 14 Oct. 2022, Date Accessed Apr. 19 https://cafemom.com/parenting/troubled-teen-industry-island-view
RedCliff Ascent. ā€œDoes Wilderness Therapy Work?ā€ Wilderness Therapy for Teens Needing Mental Health Treatment RedCliff Ascent, 10 Jan. 2023, Date Acessed Feb. 21 www.redcliffascent.com/wilderness-therapy-program/does-wilderness-therapy-work
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2024.05.22 02:25 tillman_b Thoughts on gear change

About a month ago I decided to purchase a used 80d, 24mm ef-s stm, and 15-85mm. Money was a factor, i could have gone with a 6d and 40mm, which would likely cover the majority of my photography. I also have a Nikon D700 and a couple lenses for it that are nothing special but work ok. My thought with the 80d was to have a more compact camera than the D700, and with a more functional live view for those odd angled shots. Also my D700 is old and gets cranky sometimes and refuses to let the mirror back down if its cold.
Well...I think I f-cked up. Multiple reviews and comments led me to believe high iso performance would be sufficient for my comfort level at say 3200iso abd in a pinch maaaaaybe 6400. Welp, It's not great. I get past 2000iso and things start getting noisy quickly. P mode with auto ISO turned on is also weird, like it will crank the iso and drop the shutter speed, but leave the lens stopped down quite a bit. I've played with settings but I'm just setting iso manually since it will always max it out indoors.
This was all disappointing, but i got that sweet 15-85 so it's not all bad news... except the thing is like a heavier, more versatile mediocre kit zoom. The image quality, even stopped down a bit, is unimpressive. Not completely bonkers like there's something wrong, just not on par with my expectations for the cost of it, even used. The 24mm is ok, not spectacular but definitely works.
So now I'm thinking I should have gone with a 6d. The shit part is that if I trade all this in, I'm losing about $150. I know, I can sell on Craigslist or Facebook marketplace or something like that, but I have no interest in dealing with that crowd. I looked at eBay, which is barely better than the aforementioned local options, abd with fees and everything it's not worth the hassle.
So I'm thinking my options are:
1) trade the 80d and lenses in for a 6d and 40mm.
2) trade everything in for a Nikon D600 (I know about the oil spots) and maybe a 35mm prime. With my current inventory of Nikon lenses I'd have some more options.
3) trade in only the lenses for something with a much larger maximum aperture, such as a Sigma 30mm 1.4 or Canon 28mm 1.8 usm.
What are your thoughts about how I can make the best out of a bad situation?
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2024.05.22 02:24 Gullible_Boot181 Desperate need of break up sdvice

I am in need of some advice on breaking up. I've never had to break up with someone before and am unsure of how to hopefully go through this process. For reference, I (M28) and my partner (F26) have been together for 7 Ā½ years and reside in Texas.
I'm not sure how much detail I need to go into, but I am willing to answer any questions for advice.
I bought a house (without her) about 3 years ago. She moved in the same day I did, along with her friends, animals, and kids (not per my permission). They've since left but have left a considerable amount of damage to the house along with the damage my partner's animals have done. Probably will end up costing me 15-20k to repair.
Ever since her friends moved out, I've noticed inconsistencies with how she talks about her and the stuff she does around the house. It's honestly nerve-wracking, then she will treat and speak about me like I don't do most of the cooking, cleaning, and bill paying.
Since she had moved in, we have had several conversations about helping out around the house. I used to clean every week, but it would return to the state it was in the next couple of days. Now, I don't mind helping pick up after her, but not if I'm doing the cleaning by myself a majority of the time.
During our conversations, I discussed how I was not content with how little she helps out. I would 50-60 hours a week to her 40 or less. I don't expect her to do everything, but to just help or just pick up after herself. However, within these 3 years, we've had about 5 conversations about her cleanliness and lack of help. She showers maybe once a week and wears the same underwear (I only know because I do the laundry on my 1 day off) brushes her teeth only if she is going out which is about twice a week or less. We had agreed on splitting/alternating chores for it to only fall on me. Now, I will say that after the conversations, she will improve for a week or two just to fall back into her normal habit. She also leaves food out. As much as I hate, I've even let the sink fill up when it is her turn, but I end up doing it. I'm fighting a battle with cockroaches since a few weeks after she moved in because of this.
Also during our conversations we have talked about our bedroom life. She used to give me head just because saying she enjoyed seeing me get off. Since she has stopped, and since she has moved in, I've also stopped going down on her because of the.. well, I think you can imagine. She has complained about it when I would ask for a head, and I would respond with that she needs to shower more before I do that. For reference I shower every day after work because of my job. I also brought up that she would get mad when I would decline intimacy because she does it a couple hours before, but need to get up in a couple hours for work (4-5am), but I wasn't allowed to complain that she always tells me no when I tried to initiate during the day. Not to mention, the duration between acts has increased to about 1-2 months imbetween acts.
I guess in all, I'm tired of paying most of the bills, doing most of the chores/cooking on a constant basis while also working 50-60 hours and trying to start a business. I feel like she is holding me back. Not to mention pur decor style, money management, and child wants are complete opposite.she is into old stuff and is a maximalist. She constantly spends her money as soon as she gets it (generally on Amazon), which generally leaves me with the bills. She also wants to have kids (4+), adopt, force exchange, and foster care on top of the kids, and I'm not even sure if I want kids, let alone with her.
We live in Texas (as stated above), and we aren't common lawed. She tells everyone that we are married, but when they call me her husband, I shoot it down. Her name is not on the title, nor did she put any money towards the initial payment process.
I know I want to do this now. It's been on my mind for a while (other circumstances that made me think she just may not be the one). I am just unsure how to go about it.
She has 2 cats and 4 dogs (1 dog I would probably keep because she only listens to me). I don't think she has anywhere else to go, let alone a place to put her animals. I don't think she could find a place to rent that would a) allow all the animals to be in her price range c) because of her poor money management.
I hate to be the dick in this relationship, but I can't take this anymore. Especially with her gaslighting and manipulation that has taken me 7 yeats to recognize as what it is.
Please, any advice would be great. Im desperate..
TLDR: Relationship of 7 years (28m 26f) in Texas. She is very unhygienic with poor money management and lots of animals (that have left me with about 15-20k in repairs). I'm not sure if she has any other place to go, but I need her gone for my sanity and well-being. Please advise.
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2024.05.22 02:24 kai2hig I 20(M) am being kicked out my parents house & making me enlist in the Army.

Why are you enlisting in the army?
Because my parents (Mother, Gen X) are not allowing a "20 year old Male that has been out of high school for "2" years & That is only working a part time job at Publix and is or not in any type of full time job (which i was but decided to quit *A connection job my parents put me on to by a friend *The Boss* which i immediately & automatically got but i burned the bridge by NCNS and ruined a reptation.) or in college (went twice, commuted Aug 2022, Stayed on campus Aug 2023) to live in there household as in "Adult". "The only people that can live for free and worry free are children" "We have NO more "Children". I have 2 older brothers (Oldest in his 30"s Married, 2 Children) , Middle (Late 20's pushing 30) No Kids, Living life & then there's me the Youngest (20 Years old, No type of motivation or idea of what i want in life sincerely, Hate how this is "Life" & how you really gotta feen for yourself as a person. I don't talk to my brothers fr we all got our own lives going on to the point its hard to have a update & that's just how its always been. Growing up they weren't around & i was the youngest so it was just me, they were already passed this stage of life when i was just coming up in my middle school - high school era. Today my parents found out that i no longer worked for the job (Warehouse $19 hour pay Full time) that they put me on too & that was definitely the dealbreaker. I was told as im typing this sentence at 5:32 PM "Tomorrow morning (May 22,2024) "We are going to the military requiting place and signing you up and that's your only option" or you have to go.. I was basically told that I can longer stay at my Parents home anymore & that now I have to depend on myself.
Why did you quit the FT $19 a HOUR warehouse Job?
Off rip on Day 1 i hated it, I knew i wasn't gon last long. Common sense would think $19 hourly pay as in MONEY (GOOD PAY) would be motivation to keep the job or to just deal with it but for me it was more then just money. Thats why from my perspective its different cuz i didn't care about the pay, I worked my 2 weeks and quit before i even saw how my pay check looked. it was just the job i did not like or feel a good fit for me itself. At 20 years old i was the youngest person in there. Everyone else were in there Late 30s , 40s & even 60s stating they have been there 27 years and more. That also was motivation for me because i was looking at it as like "I'm just trying to make money & build myself up, pay my bills, get me a new car, stack bread etc" but for everybody else yall got to "Pay bills, take care of yall family's, take care of yall kids & all these extra necessity that i don't have", so im looking at differently.
But as days went on and time started to progress i slowly felt irk. I slowly hated this lifestyle. The having to get up in morning at 5:20am Mon-Fri, Being in a loud hot ass warehouse all day, barley having breaks & just the environment in general. i just couldn't see myself doing that particular warehouse job for the rest of my life. (my first warehouse job).
During my 2nd week (last) Prolly Monday 5/13/24 The Connection "Friend" which was my boss that my parents put me on to said that one of the workers who was training me said i wasn't getting the job down pack correctly & my boss proceeded to tell me i have until Friday to get it down or they will have to let me go. i felt sum type of way cause i was seriously doing the job to the best of my capability and in the process i was still fairly new & learning. He also proceed behind closed doors to call my mother after our conversation we had and told her what was said as well.. I Only knew this because right after maybe 8 minutes after are convo i decided to take my 10 minute break & i get a message from my mom asking "Hey how's work going?" then i call her and she tells me...That he called. So in my head im frustrated because what does my Work business have to do with Personal life/ My mother being involve?? & Im not in middle school or high school, so why are we calling parents? Like Am im not a Young "Adult" in the "Real World" workforce?? I felt like that was weird to me off rip specially when i was told that "Work business is Work business.
I felt very Unentitled. Every time i would get off work i wouldn't know what to do after which I also always felt drained and foggy like i didn't have a life outside of going to work. I hated the way i felt.
Those were brief reasons on why i Ultimately made the decision to call it quits but in reality my reasons dont really matter its just the fact that i quit the job.
But now im back to square one figuring out what my next step is.. My plan
Either the service or being kicked out the choice is mine. I never was interested in any type of military role, it was never something i saw nor wanted to do. Since i was told that would be were i could be headed i did decided to do sum research on the process of how enlisting works and etc.. I didn't plan on taking that route personally. I know atp in my life the decision is indeed mine and i have to do whats right for and i think the military route is also not a fit for me. So now i have my 2nd option, Leave home.. Leave living with my parents just like college. Not having to worry about anything but myself, Having the independence lifestyle. It all sounds good but i know thats a huge step into the "Adult' life and just my life in general.
Im a 20 year old male, with no car, a part time job at publix, just got kicked out my parents house, & need guidance on what should i do?
open to all feedback please
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2024.05.22 02:24 TheFlyingORE0 Avoid This Roofing Company in New Jersey

I will give a real experience with hiring Arber, the owner, of Landstar Construction. We initially contacted him to do a roof repair. After some discussion we agreed to a new roof. We agreed to do it cash as he assured us that it would be much cheaper since I stated to him MULTIPLE times that we did not have much money and obtaining a loan would be very difficult. Well the day comes and they start tearing the roof apart. Halfway through Arber contacts me stating that all the plywood would have to be replaced because it was too thin otherwise we would not get the warranty (I looked it up and the boards that were on the roof initially were 100% ok to have). Not once in the initial estimate was there ever any mention of him stating that our boards were too thin (we needed to get a few replaced so he knew beforehand). So he shows the ā€œnewā€ estimate which is more than double the original estimate. Keep in mind we were doing this in cash for it to be on the ā€œcheaper sideā€ (I guess cheaper for him not us). He also started mentioning a ton of other things that were NEVER mentioned in the initial estimate (new gutters, roof ridge vent, etc). Now we obviously could not say no as the entire roof was taken apart and the fan that was initially in the attic to cool it off was already thrown into the yard. When he gave me the second paper with what else he was doing, 9/10 of them were on the initial estimate and whenever I brought it up he would say it was different but when asked to explain how he would try changing the subject. The entire time he would say ā€œthis will make your house 60k more valuableā€ which of course is bs. The entire time I told him I would see what I could do with getting a loan but there would be no guarantees. At first he would call 2 times a week asking how things were going and I would always respond with still working on it and I would call him which he never seemed to have understood. Well the end of the second week comes along and this is when the harassment starts. He would ask what time we would be done with work and when we would be home. He would try guilt tripping me and my mother (which never worked) saying he had to pay the dumpster which he decided to leave in our driveway 3 weeks after the job was done for some reason. It wasnā€™t until the third week when he called my mother and started cussing at here and stating he would start recorded every phone call. A day later he texted me and my mother he would ā€œtear the roof down.ā€ Like I stated initially to him we did not have much money. He knew this and still decided to proceed. I called him the end of that week and recorded our phone call since he claimed he was going to record us. I have recorded him claiming I never paid him the downpayment in cash (which I have the receipts and proof of) and him claiming he would ā€œdrag me out of my house, beat me up, and tear my roof down.ā€ He knew he was being recorded and still said it anyways. If you would like to hear the recording feel free to reach out but do not hire this fraud. We got prices from other roofers and they were half the price of this scam of a company. If you thing his price is good, he will end up doubling it when the roof is taken apart.
If this is against TOS take it down but I felt like I had to post it incase anyone here has ever felt the need to hire this company, they will see this and go with any other company.
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2024.05.22 02:21 ShortReason1763 am i (25f) wasting my time with my unemployed partner (29m) of four years?

TD;LR my (25f) partner (29m) has been unemployed for nine months and relies on me financially but has given no indication of marriage or leveling himself up.
my partner and i have been together for almost four years (four years in june). our relationship this past year has been horrible. bad fights, him leaving etc. heā€™s been laid off three times since weā€™ve been together and for the past nine months iā€™ve paid 100% of all living expenses.
in the beginning of our relationship he definitely paid for most things but i always helped with groceries dates smaller bills etc. so itā€™s never been completely on him. iā€™m at my breaking point right now. iā€™m very serious about money and i also want to be someoneā€™s wife. he has a gambling problem (used to be casinos, then sports betting, now itā€™s trading memecoins) where he can and has lost thousands of dollars at a time. heā€™s also made thousands of dollars at a time. that said, in NINE months he hasnā€™t paid a dollar towards any of our shared living expenses. iā€™ve sent him so many job recs, offered to make intros with my network, etc and he hasnā€™t done any of it. i work at a startup so sometimes im literally working 12 hour days; ive brought up how it feels like i have no support and that it could also just be him cleaning or cooking because i do all of that too (and honestly i would prefer me doing this if he had a literal job :/) and he gets angry and says heā€™s carried the load for so longā€¦. i genuinely feel like itā€™s sexist and he refuses to see the effort and the monetary constraints im under. when heā€™s left i feel like heā€™s only come back because heā€™s broke. heā€™s asked me to pay for his vapes and i even paid off his overdraft on top of our regular living expenses this matters because well he made 10k last night and hasnā€™t expressed how he intends to help at all. i feel taken advantage of and like i canā€™t bring up money without him redirecting to another time i got upset or overreacted about something in the past or heā€™ll make jokes about bankruptcy etc which i find frustrating. he doesnā€™t come on to me either and is literally just on the computer 24/7.
how do i approach this??? am i wasting my time??? he literally never talks about the future and i just feel sick giving my literal dollars and effort to someone im not married to and like im a placeholder being taken advantage of by an adult child. what do you recommend? am i not being supportive which heā€™s said?
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2024.05.22 02:21 Roses_n_Water If you're a Canvas Creator, You SHOULD apply for Reward Ads!

Webtoons has done another update and I'd like to touch on it from a Canvas creators perspective. Rewards Ads is a way for creators to get money from readers watching video ads before reading individual episodes. For Webtoon's own info about Reward ads, you can read HERE.
And here's why if you make the threshold, you should DEFINITELY apply:
Webtoons is lowering its minimum threshold from 200k views to 100k views. While yes, 100k is still a hard threshold to make, the reason why I want more creators to know about this is because it's ACTUALLY good for creators.
Webtoons has done a lot of shady things so I think it's important to make a distinction when they actually offer something good with *practically no string attached.
Yes, webtoon will take its portion of the money you get from the ads (I have no idea what this percentage is).
Yes, your comic will have to be viewed critically to make sure it's complying with Webtoons rules. So if you've been just squeaking by, you'll be putting webtoon's direct attention on your comic.
Yes, the system of how to post the videos and how to post them at a standard time every week is harder because you have to submit them ahead of time to be analyzed.
BUT, it's totally free for readers to support creators by watching the ads, and depending on what your viewership is like you can make a decent amount of money from it.
The reason for this is because webtoon's user base is so high, it's a little like youtube in that they can generate LOTS of views.
In April I made about 200$ USD from Rewards Ads because readers watched the video before each episode. It's not enough to survive on but for posting a couple episodes early every month, it's pretty good!
The reason webtoons is lowering the threshold is because they make money from your episodes as well, BUT I genuinely believe (unlike superlikes) this is a GOOD sustainable way to earn money from posting to webtoons without having to be an originals creator or having to resort to superlikes.
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2024.05.22 02:21 mydixkisverybig My boyfriend's mom makes us schizophrenic

We opened an online store, me, my boyfriend, his mother and her boss (who provides goods for the online store, he has a physical store). There were supposed to be 4 people in the business, in fact, my mother-in-law now says that I should do everything myself, my boyfriend helps, but he has to do his job, because his business is not doing well because of the market crisis. We opened without being prepared at all, without a base, even without boxes, although we talked about it and it was a must (my boyfriend and I said it was fucking elementary logic), my mother-in-law has been in business for many years and did so fucking many mistakes, so I was like a fool taking everything into account manually, but she doesn't listen to us at all. I would like to add that I have never worked before, I have no experience, I am not hardworking, I cannot sit for 8 hours, although I try very hard and in fact I work 12 to 20 hours a day, but I have a feeling of the work algorithm, that everything must be clear, because otherwise I do not understand how and what to do. For the sake of completeness, I should also add that we don't even have purchase prices to calculate profit. We are not given the base of the owner of the physical store, because we are kinda nothing for that store (although the owner is very happy to take a percentage of the profit for himself, but we are not allowed to). So I have to wait for several days to be told the price of a product while my mother-in-law is away in another country. At the same time, they both need the exact numbers of profit and goods immediately. Also, because of this, there are situations when the goods were sold at the old (lowered) price, that is, not even at 0, but in the minus (who's to blame again?)) So now I have to do everything myself, my boyfriend defends me and says he wants to help. Also, my boyfriend and I are to blame for the fact that the store has not yet brought each of us 1k dollars in 2 months of work. I should add that we were given goods that are available even at the local stores. But people don't go to online stores like physical stores every day. And no one gives money for advertising. I have to run an Instagram with 1 subscriber (my mom), it's just a cringe. You can't sleep, there are no days off. The manager threatens to come and take the goods anyway (... he'd better take them). The shit is that it's physically impossible to leave it all, to move out of the house (where his mother comes every 2 months, she rented it through the garage as a place to keep goods at, and we just live in a cunt in a forgotten village without a car and at her expense), because the boyfriend's job market is a mess, he can't afford to take us both. For 2 months we both earned less than the minimum wage and every day we are getting blamed for selling poorly (have I call as a call center and say "buy our mustard that is available in your local supermarket only for 5 dollars more???"). A little further, my bf was still studying, we went to another city for 4 days for an exam before graduation, while his mom was in the country and could keep the store (spoiler alert, she did nothing). We came back, spent a couple of days, and now we're leaving again, because he has a master's degree. Why did I go with him? Because I'm his only fucking support, I love him and I'll fucking destroy everything for him, I help him, without me he would have already been at war (his words). So now it's my fault that I had to stay and do everything in the store... even though his mom and the boss said to go, everything is fine (when we don't have the goods, but they are in the physical store, they send them from there, just like when we are away for a couple of days, and everything was fine and now suddenly it's not fine). Should I have left my boyfriend all alone with the brain fucked up? It's about our relationship, I would have gone with him anyway, I don't want to be like his mom and get a divorce with her husband at 50. I'm really grateful to her for what she does for us and supports us financially, for paying for our trips to another city (well, actually, because of her and those expenses, because my boyfriend doesn't need to study, but his mom is fucking his mind, so he can't do his job, and because of that she tells him that he doesn't get money because he takes on too much (yes, she contradicts herself all the time) I feel like I have schizophrenia, I don't know what to do, how to protect my and my boyfriend's mental health?Before all this, we were living perfectly together in an apartment, without a store. Every day we are told something different, and when my mother-in-law comes, we are also the loaders for the physical fucking store (what the fuck?)
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