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We live in different states. He (27M) visited me (25F) one weekend last year and we chatted here and there after. We saw each other one more time while I visited my hometown in the summer and then we texted a bit after but that was about it. Nothing crazy happened, me and him seemed friendly enough with each other.
Our last convo in the summer was about his new apartment he had recently moved into and he said he'd send pics of it after he's settled in and I said "ya go for it!" and that was it. This was all the way back in July and he just reached out to me this weekend and texted "Helloo". We made a bit of small talk over text and I asked him about things went with his new apartment and all and he said he loves it and that he "needs to show me around when I'm back in town next time".
I replied back "yess for sure!" (I don't have finalized plans/dates on when I'll be in town next but I'm planning for July/August). I want to talk to him and depending on when I'm back in town next, I'd love to meet him again but I don't know.

It's hard, I gotta tell you that. Just when you're having a nice conversation, you both seem to have a bit of chemistry going on, then comes the dreaded question: "what's your insta?"
Then I say I don't have it but we can keep chatting on whatsapp or whatever, then that chemistry simply goes away. Vanishes. No more messages. Well, onto the next one, I guess.
I hate taking pictures of myself and hate even more posting these pictures to other people.
I do have my updated photos on my dating apps profiles so that should be enough right??
No, women wanna see if you reaaaally are as attractive as in your profile, if you travel, if you have friends, family, children, if you're not married, if you are a normal human being.
Fugg that. We didn't need social media until the 2000s and it just distorts our views of society and the people around us. It's counterproductive and mentally harmful. How are we still required to use this shiddy app???
Anyway, anybody at the 20-40 age range having trouble with this as well?

Hi everyone,
American born Chinese here. My parents and I are looking to move from a major U.S. city to Singapore in the next 1-2 years. My background is in venture capital and investments and currently manage our personal assets as a small family office of sorts . Happy to chat investments/venture investing/etc.
I was hoping to connect with any other fellow American expats to chat about moving abroad, the visa process, and the investment industry in Singapore particularly the family office funds. Thanks!

Idk how im gonna type this its a long story so i’ll cut it short nd i went onto a random account so spare me a lil bit😭hope this is the right flair, i do also want advice.
Also, when we were dating i wasnt diagnosed with bpd yet so i was spiraling 24/7,but i feel like she likely wont care to hear that explanation because yk…. She does also have bipolar II and autism.
Me and her are in the same friendgroup and we started dating after a month of knowing eachother, though at the beginning of this year problems with her started to happen and she ended up ignoring me a bunch. This ended up with me being weirdly desperate and obsessed with her i kinda created that “shes the lord and savior” idea to keep myself ‘inlove’ with her because she was my only hope (and because she wasnt talking to me i couldn’t handle that), some other physical self harming stuff including the idea of her but thats a bit longer and weirder and i dont want to get into it. We started to finally chat a lil again before she broke up with me. We havent talked ever since then, which was 2 months ago.
Up to now shes gone anonymous somewhere saying that i (not literally my name but it was obvious that it was targeted to me) was manipulative. That i babied her, used her and that i would “use her when i pleased and toss her like a doll” allat. There was some other stuff that hit harder but im doing this quick. idk i really dont want to try and explain i just need help my minds literally racing inbetween killing her or killing myself rn i cant even handle the fact that i was hurting someone
i had assumed EVERYTHING she was thinking in our relationship at every given moment i thought she was gonna leave me blah blah blah . There was this one new girl that high key didnt like me or at least didnt talk to me well and she was very “bubbly”with her and it started to take a huge toll on me so i went to tell her what was happening once i calmed down about it, it ended up turning into shit talking and I took that as “i dont like to communicate”. We only communicated 1 or 2 times in our 8 month relationship which is goals for such a long time but, if you take away the 3 months we stopped talking then it would be 6 months so🤷‍♀️.
anyway idk i dont really remember this feels so much i really dont know hwo to explain it. Theres a part of me trying to deicide if i should leave so she can have peace and not reminders of me since i know how that feels, but the other part doesn’t want me to leave because if i do i’ll be alone. This is the only friendgroup i had/have and i swear i tried my best not to hurt her whenever i’d split i would go straight to my other friend at the time just so she wouldn’t see it. I know that was probably a shit idea since that girl also ended up leaving me a few days after our break up but still. Like i stayed this year when she was going through her episodes because i wanted go through it with her. i made myself go lonely FOR HER and right after that i ended up going insane and she didnt even care. In one of our last calls i told her a bad explanation of that and she said that “she didnt notice”. But to give her the benefit of the doubt during those times i did ignore her back because i was ashamed and thought she wanted me dead but whatever
I’ve been trying to convince myself that i was in the wrong but my mind cant comprehend being seen as toxic i didnt even know half was going on i was desensitized to my actions, i just wanted to be loved by someone who i ended up hating too soon. I wouldve left in december because by that point i ended up kind of “spirality breaking up with her” (?) like i just couldnt view her as a person but she was my last hope into knowing that i COULD be loved. I needed to know that feeling and i still didnt see it. I really wanted to seem worthy to her
I wrote a whole “unsent letter”type apology and explanation so i know i feel bad but ohmy god am i actually abusive i feel like im never gonna get healthier. Theres a lot more to it so it might not make sense sorry my minds more focused on what the fuck im gonna do if i should leave or stay. i literally feel like everythings collapsing like the world is gonna end and its my fucking fault

TLDR: How do I (24M) bring this situation up to my good friend and ex? (25F) She immediately started dating and sleeping with another guy the day after we broke up and hid it from me. I unintentionally found out and feel very hurt. Even though I found out in a way I shouldn't have, how do I talk to her about this?
Context: We have been friends since July and have been dating since February. A few weeks ago we mutually (her idea but I mostly agreed) decided to take a break from dating. A big piece in this is that we're long distance. On opposite sides of the country.
About two weeks ago, her and I decided to take a break from dating to focus on ourselves and handle our own individual stress and other things mostly outside of our relationship. We've been friends much longer than we dated, so we agreed to still talk and be friendly during this undetermined amount of time. She didn't text me that entire weekend. I was thinking about her a lot and hoping she was doing well and making progress. She texted me a few days later and told me she was with a friend out of town and had a nice time unwinding. I was happy for her and encouraged her to continue making self improvements.
Then the next couple weeks happened. We barely talked at all; which was expected to a certain extent, but things felt more different than I expected and a bit off. I had noticed she was no longer on my following list on Reddit. I thought maybe she deleted her account but our chat was still open and I could still view her profile. It was just completely empty. I thought about asking her about this but I didn't. Instead, I was in a bad headspace at 3am and decided to be a bad person and snoop. I logged into my burner account and searched her profile. Sure enough, she had not deleted her account. She blocked me. I thought maybe she made a post about me or our relationship and didn't want me to see it.
What I did find was absolutely unexpected and made my heart sink. She had a post about this guy she met on a dating app and how excited she was about all the time they spent together doing things and having incredible sex for a weekend. I just read the title and skimmed the post for two seconds. I couldn't bear it. She must have immediately downloaded the dating app and met him the same night we broke up or the next morning. Then proceeds to block me on Reddit so I don't see the post she made about it.
I am not mad at her. She technically never lied to me and didn't cheat on me. I wouldn't even be upset if we had a discussion first about expectations and then a few weeks later she did this. It's the fact that she IMMEDIATELY met this guy the same day or day after we broke up and went out with him and fucked him the whole weekend. While I'm all alone worrying and hoping she's doing well. And thinking about how our relationship will progress. I'm working on improving myself in part to have a better relationship with her while she IMMEDIATLEY finds a dude to spend the weekend with and fuck before presumably trying to improve herself. And acts as if nothing has happened.
The way I found this out is not the way I should have. I know I should have asked her about things and not have found this on my own. I know she didn't intend to, but she hurt me. And I guess I'm not sure how to approach this? Do I just bring this up directly and tell her what I did and what I know? Do I wait to see if she brings this up on her own? Or give her an opportunity to do it to see if she's truthful? And how do I handle things moving forward? We've always said the foundation of our relationship is honesty and communication. This doesn't seem to be the case anymore with this situation so I don't feel bad about making this post. We have always said no matter what happens we'll always be friends and have each other in some capacity. I guess I never thought a scenario like this would happen.

I'm 31 years old, live in NJ. 5'9", 165 lbs (fit/athletic build) 3rd generation Chinese American (my family immigrated here in the 1900s). My family identifies as American as we tend to eat more pasta than rice and my generation has not learned the language. College educated with a Bachelor's in Biomedical Science (switched from an Engineering major...turns out I don't like theoretical math); currently working in the pharmaceutical industry and pretty much love the industry as there isn't any work drama and it's relatively straightforward yet challenging.
I've tried a few long distance relationships and they're quite difficult to manage...they were great when we able to meet in person and I didn't mind putting in the extra work. I'd be willing to try one if the distance is reasonable and the there is a definite spark between us. I am pretty sure I fit the definition of a demisexual, so I'll be strictly trying to form a connection first. I REALLY need the emotional connection before there is a sexual attraction, mentally I can't do hook ups (they're just really hard for me to handle and I have turned people down).
Personality wise I've been told that I tend to bring people together and keep things fun. I have a few different groups of friends and communities I am often with...and they can vary from the youngsters (21 to 30) to the old guys (60+) to the group that's around my age. I would say I'm pretty good at conversing and I try to stay on top of most current events. Mentally I'm an old man and feel more comfortable in that setting, so much that I literally hang out with 60+ years olds at the gym after a workout in the hot tub. I call them the hot tub gang and it's always a set of regulars where we might talk about the same thing every single day until someone newer to the group says that we talked about it yesterday.
I would say fitness is a major player in my life. I started out hating swimming as a kid, but here I am almost 27 years later...I made it through the lessons at the YMCA, joined a club team, swam in high school, swam in college and now I'm a swim coach and instructor as a hobby/side job in my free time. There's something about being a part of coaching people and watching them grow up and succeed that makes me smile.
My free time in the cold months usually consists of planning DIY projects or working on them. I tend to work on all the cars in the family and am the one that fixes them up or finds replacements for them. Or planning my next road trip to somewhere nicer. Whereas in the warm months I love going down to the beach to go for a swim and have a nice relaxing breakfast outdoors. I do have a few kayaks that I'll bring out to go with friends or if I feel it's safe a nice solo paddle to clear my mind. When I think about it, too many of my hobbies involve water. But I do enjoy things on dry land I promise!
I'm really looking for someone I can grow together with, a long term or forever relationship. I want a relationship where both of us put 100% in all the time and if we don't, we can talk to each other about our concerns and work it out. Honestly what I've realized is that maybe I am altruistic...I miss making someone feel happy and loved, miss the good morning texts, the waiting around all day just to see their texts, I miss spoiling someone and the feeling of that feeling of seeing that look that you get when someone truly loves you. I would love to slowly get to know you by having some conversations where the time just flies, then to a point where we talk nonstop, maybe some in person dates and then maybe eventually settle down together and enjoy life together.
Important stuff: Although I enjoy interacting with kids and it's a major part of my life...I don't want any of my own so...sorry if this is a dealbreaker for anyone. I don't drink (except for maybe wine at special occasions....I get really bad Asian Flush so I'll turn bright red if I smell alcohol essentially lol), not into smoking/drugs (Bad asthma and I'm just not into any of that stuff). I don't judge anyone that's into drinking or recreational drugs, it's just not for me personally. Religion wise, I'm Agnostic. Politically I lean relatively to the left.
I'm really searching for that genuine connection; voice calls are definitely a plus and would love to get to know you. It's alright if we end up just as friends that talk here and there.
If it sounds like you could be the one send me a chat or DM and tell me a bit about yourself. My name is Kevin and I'd love to know about you.

So background details, back in November 2022, I texted this Girl on IG, who was the 10th grade "topper" of this school I joined, it was something instantly clicked between us that night. It kept on going for two more days and the butterfly kept, bumbling in my guy. Before I was about to sent into friendzone, I clear my intention that, I want to date her, not be a random friend on the internet, she blushed, saying, she wants to date too but it was 11th and both were JEE aspirants (mein self study/YouTube and she Fitjee student sochlo kiska nikla hoga issal , anyway) so she wants time.
As days went by our bonding become so strong but around 8 months into this "situationship" we also met once , I will never forget that day. A month later she told she can't date me cause, she becames toxic and annoying when ever she in a relationship (it's not you its me type shit) My heart sunk deep into oceans, I couldn't think straight for two days everything felt falling apart all my friends we happy for me ki Bhai ko finally uska pyaar mil gaya, the bolly and holly defination of teenage love was deeply embedded in my mind, after a few more nights of arguments and fights (over text ofc) I came to a decision we will not date but jaisa chal raha hai hamare bich chalne do college mein jaake dekhenge jab ek saath time spent karenge offline. She agreed to some extent but agaye Jee Mains ke registration ka month and she told me she is going offline for few months to study tab, phone sab le liya jayega by parents, I was sad nahi milega baat karne ko but somehow managed for a month then uska samne se text ata hai, "Live feels so dull without you, tere Bina Mann nahi lagta" I was on the 9th cloud and hope ki leher se mere Seene se takra gai, we again chat till Jan 15 uske baad Milne ka plan banaya again, some how arrange "the date" but last moment I had to cancel cause ghar mein jaane nahi diye, kismat kharab, ladte jhagadte Ghar walo se cough mummy cough, mein pohocha rendevous but wo chaligai, kitna calls laga nahi uthai, mayus sa Dil aur ankh mein aansu liye Ghar ja raha tha tabhi uska call aya "abhi aasakta hai, papa se extra time mangi"hun utsav aur thoda ghumne ke liye (hamare town ka ek local festival hota hai har saal jan mein), I reach again with hope of meeting her but nahi mil paya due to traffic, uss din bohot gali di khudko, kismat ko aur usse bhi, which hurt her tabse uska mere taraf Jo affection ya thoda bohot soft spot tha chalaga, then boards aye she again went underground, for few more months now she tells me, and I quote "This friendship isn't working anymore, our personalities are aligned, tu irritate karne laga hai" 2 saal tak ka intezar aur yeh natija Nahi chahiye mujhe uska pyar, nahi karni uske saath life spent, I pray she finds someone she actually intrested in romantically, but yeh jo special bond tha hamare bich atleast vo toh chhod deti mere liye

So I don’t really have much to talk about, but this is really interesting, considering the strict nature of my culture…
Dating is of course absurdly difficult , not really possible for that matter, considering gender segregation…
But ever since apps were becoming a thing , I’ve honestly been experimenting with them…
I’ve had a chat with a girl , (she of course) comes from my culture… we were chatting in tinder of all places lol and we struck up a conversation…
It really wasn’t really all that special, but really felt nice to talk to a girl get to know how she feels about certain things…
It’s also nice to know that men weren’t the only horny people on the planet lol…
We talked about our cultural norms, and how absurdly difficult things are how we wished there better alternatives than arranged marriages…
She also opened up about sex what she hoped to do on the first night when she gets married. ( which was kinda hot not gonnal lie) and we chatted about various things…
Don’t really know what she looks like, because also, that’s kind of a strict thing we have about women sharing their photos or exposing they look like on the Internet….
Man, sometimes I just wish there were more options to get to know people rather than relying on parents to do the communicating for us, which they are definitely ass and barely useful…
To be honest , i’m looking forward to the day, when dating would become a thing, and I feel like it might happen in the future.lol.

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Young lady seeking a life partner to love and be loved in return . Dating apps are long and exhausting so I'd rather get straight to the point and be direct.
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I'm black , 5'3 , born and raised in Montréal , Introverted, Demisexual. Healthcare worker .
I'm kind , loyal , supportive and looking for the same in a partner who also values honesty , communication, commitment.
I want to go through life with someone that's willing to grow , heal , learn , openminded , We accept each other for who we are but are open to criticism and respect, love , kindness is the center of our relationship.
Location: Montréal Canada
Interests : working out , concerts , hockey fan, romance novels .
Looking for : life partner 28-40 Someone willing to take things slow , open minded , emotional available and can communicate must be a good texter, phone calls , video call is a must
Religious beliefs : Christian but mostly spiritual / liberal views .I believe in God
Deal-breaker: I can't date someone without a job , doesn't take accountability, doesn't apologize, any form of abuse will not be tolerated . Men with children unfortunately.
Likes : Beards, sense of humor, family oriented, liberal views , British accents . Puts 100% in all aspects of their life ( friendships, job , Relationships, mental health , self care )
I take pride in communicating effectively, effort being reciprocated so I expect the same in my partner.
I don't see myself living anywhere else so if you're open to long distance relationship keep in mind I'm not moving and if you aren't either then there's no point in us talking .

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Hi just made this acc to talk about something that happened like a year ago but I still feel bad about, it’s kinda long so I apologize if it doesn’t make much sense but if u have questions please let me know Tw: SH
Basically I used to play a game called roblox. I friended a person back in like 2022 when I was 14 and that person I friended chatted for a bit about their mental health to me but we later stopped talking. A year later, 2023 (just turned 15), that person had begun chatting with me again because of the avatar I used for my character for a fandom I was in, and I asked them if they wanted to be in a group chat with other people who liked that same fandom (me and two other people), so they agreed. I had thought that these people was my age as they talked about shows (ex: South Park) that were more for an older audience). We all joined a roleplay game and one of them asked to “be together” which from that I thought they meant like in a rp story way since we were in a rp game and we were dressed up as the characters we like. I said no initially but they kept asking so I said “uh sure I guess?” (I’m Aroace and I never intended to actually be with anyone) (and in that rp, I kept things family friendly but that person kept saying things like hugs but still made me a bit uncomfortable) and looking back on that I should have said no and left but I was being dumb. The group later created a discord server and I joined. But then that’s when these people had begun talking about topics that were not family friendly which made me uncomfortable and I did not join in those type of convos. Later on I find out that these people were younger than me (the person I talked to 11) and I felt very uncomfortable and wanted to leave that group (I had told these people that I was older than them but they didn’t care) That person would tell me things about their mental health and I did not know how to comfort them so I would just copy and paste stuff from google. Everytime I was about to leave (because I did not like the age gaps+the convos these people had) that person would say stuff like “your just gonna leave me like everyone else” and they kept talking about self harm and then they told me about their “death date/date they were gonna be dead” which put pressure on me to leave/not talk to them but I felt like a terrible person so I stayed in that server for a lil bit longer but then brought the courage and told them that I did not feel comfortable being friends with them or anyone in that gc because of the age gap between all the people. They said it was ok and they understood but I feel like a bad person for agreeing on that rp and for even chatting with these people in the first place since I was older than them.. am I a bad person? Cuz I feel like I did something wrong. I am now 16 and I don’t even play that game anymore because of what happened but I feel at fault 🙁 please give me advice

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Context: this is copied from my boyfriend’s phone, a black screen which looks like a tinder dating app. Supposedly this is the girl he is messaging and on chat GTP he wrote make a flirty reply to this… I confronted him and he said he did all of this for a friend who needed help getting a girl… so any guys out there. Would you go out of your way like this to help your friend get a girl? Or is he lying out of his ass…

Mods might remove this post because this girl isn’t my MIL, but I find it fitting because she is a mother and also my in law. I don’t know what other sub this would go in so if it isn’t approved please direct me towards a place, and tbh I just need to rant to some like minded people.
This in law is my fiancés first cousin that he grew up with like a sister. Literally next door to each other, together every day pre-18, she’s in all of his pictures growing up. He’s always warned me about her being a major see you next Tuesday, but we never interacted much and when we did she was always okay so I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt. We started to get closer when I got pregnant for the first time because she and her friends all have kids. I started hanging out with her best friend and their other cousin they grew up with too. I felt like I was finally part of the girl group in his family after 3 years of being on the outside. Long story short, I miscarried and her best friend kept checking in on me, but she practically abandoned me. Sent an obligatory “I’m here if you need anything” text and then I didn’t hear from her for months until my birthday dinner that her friend planned. After hanging out at least twice a week prior. At that point I kind of felt like maybe she didn’t actually like me, but I didn’t think too much on it because I didn’t have any proof, she was nice enough, and she truly had NO reason to dislike me that I’m aware of. I’ve held this girl’s baby, crocheted her a custom baby blanket, given gifts, checked in on holidays, and always tried to be nice because I WANTED her to like me.
Well recently I got pregnant again and she’s been acting fish since. First of all, we announced to fiancés extended family via a group chat that about 20 of his family members are in, including her. I’m not in it. Immediately after announcing, she texts my MIL congratulations on being a grandma (I know this because MIL was in the room). She didn’t message me for almost 3 days. Didn’t respond to my response. Two days later asked if I was going to the family Memorial Day lunch on Saturday. I said I wasn’t because fiancé wanted to work on a project, and left my message open for a conversational response. All she said was gotcha and I haven’t heard from her since. Weird. At this point I really think she doesn’t like me for some reason, but I’m not going to press the issue or confront her on it over text. I still have no proof.
Today her best friend invited me over for Memorial Day for some BBQ and swimming. She was supposed to be there but claimed she was sick and didn’t want to go. I’m a blunt person, so when her friend and I had a private moment, I asked “Is there any reason that Sally doesn’t like me? I just kind of get the vibe that she doesn’t and I have no idea why” Friend asked why and I basically repeated the paragraph above. I was kind of expecting her to say no, but wasn’t surprised when she gave me a reason. And the reason is literally a non reason. Apparently she “doesn’t respect the way that (my fiancé) treats me” LOL WHAT? The irony, but I’ll get there. I want to defend my fiancé first. We’ve been together for 4 mostly wonderful years. Never broken up. Obviously our relationship isn’t picture perfect, but we’ve never argued in front of other people, we always work our issues out peacefully, he never puts his hands on me, we are each other’s best friend and confidant, he takes care of me and his unborn child financially, he spoils me, and is overall a sweet and amazing partner. There’s nothing to not respect about our relationship tbh. Especially about the way he treats me. His whole family and most people that we meet say we will be together forever and it’s a match made in heaven. He’s an only child and his mother WANTS me to marry her son.
So I find it incredibly ironic considering her baby father has cheated on her pre and during pregnancy, been caught on dating apps, has beat her and literally choked her out, thrown her car keys in a field when she tried to leave, kicked her parents from out of state out of their home with nowhere to go for defending their child, made her climb an 8 ft fence at 8 months pregnant, and done god knows what else she’s probably too embarrassed to tell people. But she tries to tell people that “the baby really changed him” (lol yeah, okay). Idk, it reads as jealousy to me. And apparently she’s been trying to force him to propose to her, virtually trying on rings, and constantly bringing it up towards him even though this man clearly has no intention of marrying her. With or without a baby. According to her friend. Again, reads as jealousy. But our relationship is the non respectable one. And the funny thing is, I’ve never treated her any differently despite all that shit because her shitty relationship should not define her. But this shit does.
Also, her baby father came to grab a plate of food today for before work and hugged everyone else at the party and didn’t even acknowledge my presence. Something is up with them and I’m over it. I think everyone else is noticing it too because after he left there was a collective “well that was rude as fuck”. Lol.
Any advice, theories, and/or requests for further context will be appreciated because I’m honestly mostly at a loss here. Kind of hurt, kind of enraged, kind of hormonal.

Crap: (First of all, sorry if I have grammawriting mistakes, english is not my first language. The title is not really descriptive, but I think Im in a complex situation and I cant think of other way to portray it. I also wont be giving details such us gender of the people involved or my own. I know this is a difficult topic where I should be the one to chose, but I would apreciate more points of view.)
The problem: So, I have been dating this person (will name it 1 from now on) for two years, we have had our ups and downs but 1 has always shown love towards me. We are both the first relationship the other has had so we have been unexperienced. Im not going to sugarcoat it, within these years we have broken up plenty of times, we have had big arguments and lots of problems but we always came back together and solved the problems. 1.5 year ago, 1 and I started to have a long distancie relationship which would have ended in a couple of months when 1 returned, but due to some of the things 1 has done while being outside, I decided to break up with 1 until we are together (no distance) again so we can fix those problems. I know this is not a healthy situation but I really love 1 and have grown used to being with 1, and I cant think of a life without contact with 1.
Problem is not long ago another person (2) who I met not long ago, and I concur in a party, and 2 started flirting with me, I had a really great time and eventhough I didnt try anything more than just talking I now feel attracted to 2. I tried talking to 2 but it turns out 2 just wanted to flirt with me in the party (got told this by 2 friends) but is not interested in talking with me (ignored me when tried to chat with 2) the thing is some of my friends have told me that if I try flirting with 2 in another party, I might get a chance. I dont know why but I just feel so "atached" and atracted to 2, in a physical and in a personal way (2, in the party, told me about some really serious and personal problems 2 had, thing that has made me feel closer to 2) and I find trying to have a relationship with 2 really appealing.
The problem is that 1 has always loved me, and I feel I owe 1 staying in the relationship (Im also still attached to 1). I also would not be able to try anything with 2 and if it goes wrong going back to 1, I feel that would be disrespectful and just wrong, I prefer trying, failing and staying single rather than trying and having 1 as a plan b.
What would you do in my situation? Thanks (and sorry for the long story and probably horrible writing/puntuation)

Warning: This post mentions heavy topics like abuse, SA, discrimination, violence, etc. These topics are listed and not discussed extensively, but if it's a sensitive topic go ahead and skip this post.
A couple months ago I got started on a project to collect as many LGBT remote resources (mainly helplines and places that can provide support online) by country as possible. Here's what I found put in a table alphabetized by country.
Notes/Disclaimers

Some of the restrictions may say "Trans specific" or something similar. That means the services are specifically aimed towards that group, not that they are excluded. Same goes for location specific notes.
Some of these services are only open at specific times. I didn't list these times since I'm bad at understanding local time zones and didn't want say something is open at hours when it's closed.
I distinguish between support and crisis because some resources are able to answer questions and/or provide emotional support, but are not made to handle an immediate mental health crisis.
A few resources may say they are for women but in their description mention serving women and the LGBTQ community. I don't know why some services seem to lump the two together.
Since this took so long, some links that worked a month ago may no longer work now. I've tried to fix this, but if any links go bad feel free to let me know.
Finally, I'm just one person trying my best and I only speak English and a smidge of Spanish. I also couldn't email/call most of the organizations listed since it would have been even more time consuming and the international calls would be expensive for the sheer amount of places. Therefore, I recommend if something from the list catches your eye I recommend to vet it yourself. Polite feedback on any sources that you think should be added or removed is appreciated.

Country	Name	Link	Help Type 1	Help Type 2 (if applicable)	Restrictions/Notes
Argentina	Line 144	https://www.argentina.gob.aaplicaciones/linea-144-atencion-mujeres-y-LGBTI	Abuse	Sexual Assault
Australia	Rainbow Sexual, Domestic and Family Violence Helpline	https://fullstop.org.au/get-help/our-services/rainbowviolenceandabusesupport	Abuse/ Sexual Assault
Australia	Q Life	https://qlife.org.au/	Support
Australia	Rainbow Door	https://www.rainbowdoor.org.au/	Support	Abuse	Victoria Specific
Austria	WAST	https://www.wien.gv.at/sozialinfo/content/en/10/InstitutionDetail.do?it_1=2099501	Discrimination	Support
Austria	Türkis Rosa Lila Tipp	https://dievilla.at/beratung-gruppen-bildung/	Support	Violence
Belgium	Lumi	https://www.lumi.be/	Support
Belgium	Transgender Infopoint	https://www.transgenderinfo.be/nl	Support		Trans Specific
Brazil	LGBT reference center	https://prefeitura.pbh.gov.bsmasac/sudc/equipamentos/crlgbt	Discrimination		Belohorizante area
Brazil	SOMOS	https://www.somos.org.boquefazemos	Support	Discrimination
Bulgaria	Single Step	https://singlestep.bg/get-help/	Crisis	Support	Online Chat Only/Only available 3 hours daily
Canada	Youthline	https://www.youthline.ca/our-programs/peer-support/	Support		Ontario specific and LGBT teens and young adults
Canada and U.S	LGBT Hotline	https://lgbthotline.org/	Support
Canada and U.S	Trans Lifeline	https://translifeline.org/hotline/	Support	Crisis	Trans and Questioning specific
Chile	Todo Mejora	https://www.todomejora.org/que-hacemos/hora-segura	Support		Focused on LGBTQ+ people under 30 and through app chat only
Colombia	It Gets Better Colombia (Hora Segura)	https://www.facebook.com/ItGetsBetterColombia/	Support		Only through Facebook Messenger and Instagram on Wednesdays and Thursdays 6-8pm
Colombia	Linea Diversia	al.gov.co/index.php/noticias/97-noticias-lgbti/3770-linea-diversa-intensifica-atencion-psicosocial-para-comunidad-lgbti-durante-cuarentena	Support	Crisis
Colombia	Sergio Urrego Foundation	https://www.sergiourrego.org/quienes-somos/	Crisis
Cyprus	Queer Cyprus Solidarity Line	https://www.queercyprus.org/en/solidarity-line/	Support	Redirects to psychological, social, and legal experts if needed.
Denmark	LGBT+ Denmark	https://lgbt.dk/en/lgbt-counselling/	Support
Dominican Republic	It Gets Better Dominicana	http://itgetsbetterdominicana.org/	Support	Crisis	24 hour line through Whatsapp
Ecuador	Linea de Apoyo a Mujeres	https://findahelpline.com/organizations/linea-de-apoyo-a-mujeres-para-enfrentar-la-violencia-no-estamos-solas	support/crisis	Violence/Abuse
Egypt	Bedayaa	https://bedayaa.org/programs/health-program/	Support		not immediate support. Requires form.
Finland	Sinuiksi	https://www.sinuiksi.fi/tuki/	Support
Finland	Sateenkaari-ihmisten perhe- ja läheissuhteet -chat	https://www.hyvakysymys.fi/paivystyschatti/sateenkaarevatsuhteet/	Support
Finland	Helenski Pride Center	https://pride.fi/tietoa-tukea/tukea-neuvoa/	Support
France	SOS homophobie	https://www.sos-homophobie.org/ligne-ecoute	Discrimination	Violence
France	Fondation Le Refuge	https://le-refuge.org/la-ligne-decoute/	Abuse	Support	LGBT youth focused
France	ligne Azur	https://www.ligneazur.org/	Crisis	Support
Germany	Diversity Münech (Queer to Queer)	https://diversity-muenchen.de/en/counseling-education/queer-to-quee	Support		focused on LGBT youth
Germany	mhc Beratung	https://www.mhc-hh.de/psychosoziale-beratung/	Support	Crisis
Greece	Next To You	https://11528.ggrammi/	Support	Maybe Crisis
Hong Kong	Rainbow of Hong Kong	https://www.rainbowhk.org/hotline	Support		Whatsapp only
Hungary	Hatter Society	https://en.hatter.hu/what-we-do/information-and-counselling-hotline	Support	Abuse/Discrimination
India	NGO Space Helpline	https://findahelpline.com/organizations/ngo-space-helpline-for-lgbt-and-queer-communities	Crisis
India	The Humsafar Helpline	https://humsafar.org/help/	Support
India	Pride Place - Transgender (LGBQIA+) Persons Protection Cell	https://womensafetywing.telangana.gov.in/pride-place/	Abuse	Sexual Assault	Telangana
India	Naz Foundation	https://www.nazindia.org/lgbtqia/	Support
Ireland	LGBT Ireland	https://lgbt.ie/our-services/	Support
Israel	Association for LGBT Israel Attention Line	https://www.lgbt.org.il/yesh	Support		24 Pieta Line (non LGBT specific) or free LGBT youth counseling in person(
Italy	Gay Helpline	https://gayhelpline.it/numero-verde/	violence/discrimination	Support
Italy	Cassero Friendly Phone	https://cassero.it/telefono-amico-cassero/	discrimination	Support
Italy	Rainbow line	https://www.mariomieli.net/servizi/welcome4rainbow/rainbow-line/	discrimination	Support
Japan	Rainbow Hotline	https://proudlife.org/hotline	Support
Japan	Yorisoi Hotline	https://www.since2011.net/yorisoi/n4/	Support
Kenya	National Gay & Lesbian Human Rights Commission	https://nglhrc.com/contact-us/	Support (?)	Crisis (?)	has a phone number for an in house psychologist, but support availability is unknown
Kenya	Jinsiagu	https://jinsiangu.org/contact	Crisis		Trans, Intersex and Gender Nonconforming Specific
Lebanon	Helem Helpline	https://www.helem.net/contact	Emergency Situation s
Malaysia	PT Foundation (Malaysia)	https://findahelpline.com/organizations/pt-foundation-s-peer-listening-helpline	Support
Malta	Rainbow Support Service	https://maltagayrights.org/category/rainbow-support-service/social-work-service/	Support
Mauritius	Collectif Arc-En-Ciel	https://collectifarcenciel.org/contactez-nous/	Emergency
Mexico	It Gets Better (Mexico)	https://itgetsbettermx.org/programas/horasegura/	Support	Crisis	Youth focused
Mexico	Diversidad Segura (LGBTTTIQA+)	https://consejociudadanomx.org/asi-te-ayudamos/diversidad-segura-626c27e847758	Support(?)	Discrimination(?)
Mexico	Trevor Project (Mexico)	https://www.thetrevorproject.mx/ayuda/	Support	Crisis	Online chat only. Youth Focused
Mexico	Cuenta Conmigo	https://cuentaconmigo.org.mx/servicios/	Support
Mongolia	LGBT Centre Mongolia	http://lgbtcentre.mn/en/home/			Allows calls for appointments but no longer operates helpline. Though I should include it since it's the only LGBT organization I could find in this country.
Morocco	Trans Dynamics (Urgent/Sensitive Line)	https://dynamiquetrans.org/			Trans, nonbinary, and gender Nonconforming Specific
Nepal	Mitinin	https://mitininepal.org.np/			Support Type Unknown
Netherlands	Switchboard (Netherlands)	https://www.switchboard.nl/s/	Support
Netherlands	Genderpraatjes	https://genderpraatjes.nl/	Support		Focused on trans youth
New Zealand	Gender Minorities Aotearoa	https://genderminorities.com/peer-support/	Support		Trans and intersex specific
New Zealand	Outline New Zealand	https://outline.org.nz/	Support
Northern Ireland	Cara-Friend	https://cara-friend.org.uk/lgbt-switchboard-ni/	Support
Norway	Skievchat	https://www.helseutvalget.no/en/youchat	Support		Focused on LGBTQ youth
Norway	Skiev Ungdom/Ungdomstelefonen	https://skeivungdom.no/prosjekteungdomstelefonen/	Support		Focused on LGBTQ youth
Norway	Stiftelsen Stensveen	https://www.stensveen.no/kontakttelefoner-17102s.html	Support		Gender Diverse Specific
Palestine	alKhat	https://alkhat.org/	Support	Crisis
Paraguay	Rohendu	https://www.aireana.org.py/tomando-fuerza/ro-hendu/	Discrimination	Violence
Peru	It Gets Better (Peru)/	https://itgetsbetterperu.org/apoyo-psicologico/	Support	Crisis	LGBT youth focused
Peru	Más Igualidad/More Equality	https://www.masigualdad.pe/botiquin	Support	Crisis
Portugal	Casa Qui	https://www.casa-qui.pt/	Abuse	Homelessness
Portugal	Centro Gis	https://www.portogaycircuit.com/centro-gis/	Abuse/Violence
Russia	LGBT Net	https://lgbtnet.org/activities/programma_psikhologicheskoy_pomoshchi/	Support	Crisis
Scotland	LGBT Health and Wellbeing	https://www.lgbthealth.org.uk/services-support/lgbt-helpline-scotland/	Support
Serbia	De Se Zna	https://dasezna.lgbt/blog/prijavi-nasilje/	Discrimination/violence	Support
Singapore	Brave Helpline	https://bravespace.org/brave-helpline/	Support	Crisis	Focused on both LGBTQ women and gender diverse people (trans women, trans men, intersex, etc.)
Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia & Brunei	Oogachaga	https://oogachaga.com/whatsapp-counselling	Support		Only WhatsApp and Email
South Africa	Triangle Project	https://triangle.org.za/contact/	Support	Crisis (?)
South Korea	Chingusai	https://chingusai.net/xe/quick	Support
South Korea	Ddingdong	https://www.ddingdong.kxe/introduce#eng	Crisis	homelessness	Teen focused
Spain	FELGBTI	https://felgtbi.org/que-hacemos/consulta/linea-arcoiris/#:~:text=La%20L%C3%ADnea%20Arco%C3%ADris%20es%20totalmente,al%20676%2078%2058%2030	Support	Violence
Spain	028 ARCOÍRIS (028 Rainbow)	https://www.igualdad.gob.es/ministerio/dglgtbi/	Violence
Spain	Teléfono SOS Homofobia	https://cogam.es/stop-lgtbfobia/	Violence/Discrimination
Sweden	Regnbågslinje/Rainbow line	https://kyrkanssos.se/hitta-hjalp/regnbagslinjen/	Support
Sweden	RFSL Support Service	https://www.rfsl.se/verksamhet/stod/stodmottagning/	Violence/harassment
Switzerland	LGBTIQ Helpline	https://www.lgbtiq-helpline.ch/de	Support
Taiwan	Taiwan Tongzhi LGBT hotline association	https://hotline.org.tw/services/115	Support
Turkey	SPoD LGBTI+ Helpline	https://spod.org.tlgbti-helpline/	Support
Turkey	LISTAG Advisory Line	https://listag.org/2023/03/25/danisma-hatti/	Support		For LGBT children and families of LGBT people
United States	Trevor Project	https://www.thetrevorproject.org/	Crisis	Support	For teens and young adults
United Kingdom	Switchboard (UK)	https://switchboard.lgbt/	Support
United Kingdom	LGBT Foundation	https://lgbt.foundation/help/helpline-email-support/	Support
United Kingdom	Galop	https://galop.org.uk/get-help/helplines/	Abuse/Sexual Assault	Violence
United Kingdom	Mind Out	https://mindout.org.uk/get-support/mindout-online/	Support		Online Only
United Kingdom	Intercom Trust	https://www.intercomtrust.org.uk/helpline/	Support		Southwest only
Uruguay	El Servicio de Atención Psicológica-Colonia Diversia	https://coloniadiversa.org/sap.html	Support		Colonia area
Uruguay	Servicio de Atención y Orientación a personas lesbianas, gays, bisexuales, trans e intersex (LGBTI)	https://guiaderecursos.mides.gub.uy/69525/crc32	Support		Montevideo area only