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2024.05.07 10:01 sasalek Here are all the laws MPs are voting on this week, explained in plain English!
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
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The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
TUESDAY 7 MAY
Motor Vehicles (Driving Licences) (New Drivers) Bill Introduces a graduated driving licence (GDL) for drivers, similar to what exists for motorcyclists. It could prevent drivers from doing certain things, such as driving after a certain time or with more than a certain number of passengers, within the first six months of having a licence. Aims to reduce the disproportionate number of new drivers who have road accidents. Ten minute rule motion presented by Kim Leadbeater.WEDNESDAY 8 MAY
Assistance Dogs and Pavement Parking Bill Removes exemptions to providing access or services to people with guide dogs. Requires taxi and private hire vehicle drivers to do disability equality training before they can have a licence. Bans the parking of vehicles on pavements and footpaths. Ten minute rule motion presented by Bill Wiggin.Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
THURSDAY 9 MAY
No votes scheduledFRIDAY 10 MAY
No votes scheduledClick here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
2024.05.07 10:01 sasalek Here are all the laws MPs are voting on this week, explained in plain English!
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
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The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
TUESDAY 7 MAY
Motor Vehicles (Driving Licences) (New Drivers) Bill Introduces a graduated driving licence (GDL) for drivers, similar to what exists for motorcyclists. It could prevent drivers from doing certain things, such as driving after a certain time or with more than a certain number of passengers, within the first six months of having a licence. Aims to reduce the disproportionate number of new drivers who have road accidents. Ten minute rule motion presented by Kim Leadbeater.WEDNESDAY 8 MAY
Assistance Dogs and Pavement Parking Bill Removes exemptions to providing access or services to people with guide dogs. Requires taxi and private hire vehicle drivers to do disability equality training before they can have a licence. Bans the parking of vehicles on pavements and footpaths. Ten minute rule motion presented by Bill Wiggin.Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
THURSDAY 9 MAY
No votes scheduledFRIDAY 10 MAY
No votes scheduledClick here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
2024.05.07 10:01 sasalek Here are all the laws MPs are voting on this week, explained in plain English!
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
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The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
TUESDAY 7 MAY
Motor Vehicles (Driving Licences) (New Drivers) Bill Introduces a graduated driving licence (GDL) for drivers, similar to what exists for motorcyclists. It could prevent drivers from doing certain things, such as driving after a certain time or with more than a certain number of passengers, within the first six months of having a licence. Aims to reduce the disproportionate number of new drivers who have road accidents. Ten minute rule motion presented by Kim Leadbeater.WEDNESDAY 8 MAY
Assistance Dogs and Pavement Parking Bill Removes exemptions to providing access or services to people with guide dogs. Requires taxi and private hire vehicle drivers to do disability equality training before they can have a licence. Bans the parking of vehicles on pavements and footpaths. Ten minute rule motion presented by Bill Wiggin.Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
THURSDAY 9 MAY
No votes scheduledFRIDAY 10 MAY
No votes scheduledClick here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
2024.05.07 10:01 sasalek Here are all the laws MPs are voting on this week, explained in plain English!
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
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The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
TUESDAY 7 MAY
Motor Vehicles (Driving Licences) (New Drivers) Bill Introduces a graduated driving licence (GDL) for drivers, similar to what exists for motorcyclists. It could prevent drivers from doing certain things, such as driving after a certain time or with more than a certain number of passengers, within the first six months of having a licence. Aims to reduce the disproportionate number of new drivers who have road accidents. Ten minute rule motion presented by Kim Leadbeater.WEDNESDAY 8 MAY
Assistance Dogs and Pavement Parking Bill Removes exemptions to providing access or services to people with guide dogs. Requires taxi and private hire vehicle drivers to do disability equality training before they can have a licence. Bans the parking of vehicles on pavements and footpaths. Ten minute rule motion presented by Bill Wiggin.Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
THURSDAY 9 MAY
No votes scheduledFRIDAY 10 MAY
No votes scheduledClick here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
2024.05.07 10:01 sasalek Here are all the laws MPs are voting on this week, explained in plain English!
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
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The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
TUESDAY 7 MAY
Motor Vehicles (Driving Licences) (New Drivers) Bill Introduces a graduated driving licence (GDL) for drivers, similar to what exists for motorcyclists. It could prevent drivers from doing certain things, such as driving after a certain time or with more than a certain number of passengers, within the first six months of having a licence. Aims to reduce the disproportionate number of new drivers who have road accidents. Ten minute rule motion presented by Kim Leadbeater.WEDNESDAY 8 MAY
Assistance Dogs and Pavement Parking Bill Removes exemptions to providing access or services to people with guide dogs. Requires taxi and private hire vehicle drivers to do disability equality training before they can have a licence. Bans the parking of vehicles on pavements and footpaths. Ten minute rule motion presented by Bill Wiggin.Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
THURSDAY 9 MAY
No votes scheduledFRIDAY 10 MAY
No votes scheduledClick here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
2024.05.07 10:01 sasalek Here are all the laws MPs are voting on this week, explained in plain English!
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
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The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
TUESDAY 7 MAY
Motor Vehicles (Driving Licences) (New Drivers) Bill Introduces a graduated driving licence (GDL) for drivers, similar to what exists for motorcyclists. It could prevent drivers from doing certain things, such as driving after a certain time or with more than a certain number of passengers, within the first six monthso of having a licence. Aims to reduce the disproportionate number of new drivers who have road accidents. Ten minute rule motion presented by Kim Leadbeater.WEDNESDAY 8 MAY
Assistance Dogs and Pavement Parking Bill Removes exemptions to providing access or services to people with guide dogs. Requires taxi and private hire vehicle drivers to do disability equality training before they can have a licence. Bans the parking of vehicles on pavements and footpaths. Ten minute rule motion presented by Bill Wiggin.Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
THURSDAY 9 MAY
No votes scheduledFRIDAY 10 MAY
No votes scheduledClick here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
2024.05.07 10:01 sasalek Here are all the laws MPs are voting on this week, explained in plain English!
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
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The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
TUESDAY 7 MAY
Motor Vehicles (Driving Licences) (New Drivers) Bill Introduces a graduated driving licence (GDL) for drivers, similar to what exists for motorcyclists. It could prevent drivers from doing certain things, such as driving after a certain time or with more than a certain number of passengers, within the first six monthso of having a licence. Aims to reduce the disproportionate number of new drivers who have road accidents. Ten minute rule motion presented by Kim Leadbeater.WEDNESDAY 8 MAY
Assistance Dogs and Pavement Parking Bill Removes exemptions to providing access or services to people with guide dogs. Requires taxi and private hire vehicle drivers to do disability equality training before they can have a licence. Bans the parking of vehicles on pavements and footpaths. Ten minute rule motion presented by Bill Wiggin.Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
THURSDAY 9 MAY
No votes scheduledFRIDAY 10 MAY
No votes scheduledClick here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
2024.05.07 10:01 sasalek Here are all the laws MPs are voting on this week, explained in plain English!
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
Click here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
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The prime minister will be reeling from last week's local elections.
The government took a beating, losing 470 council seats all but one mayoral race. The mood among Tory MPs is gloomy, to say the least.
It's a short week as MPs return from May Day recess.
The main event is the Finance (No. 2) Bill, which will be taken as a committee of the whole House because it's about the Budget. That means all MPs will take part in the debate rather than a small group.
And we have a couple of ten minute rule motions from backbenchers.
Kim Leadbeater is trying to introduce graduated driving licences for drivers, while Bill Wiggin is aiming to make life easier for the visually impaired.
TUESDAY 7 MAY
Motor Vehicles (Driving Licences) (New Drivers) Bill Introduces a graduated driving licence (GDL) for drivers, similar to what exists for motorcyclists. It could prevent drivers from doing certain things, such as driving after a certain time or with more than a certain number of passengers, within the first six monthso of having a licence. Aims to reduce the disproportionate number of new drivers who have road accidents. Ten minute rule motion presented by Kim Leadbeater.WEDNESDAY 8 MAY
Assistance Dogs and Pavement Parking Bill Removes exemptions to providing access or services to people with guide dogs. Requires taxi and private hire vehicle drivers to do disability equality training before they can have a licence. Bans the parking of vehicles on pavements and footpaths. Ten minute rule motion presented by Bill Wiggin.Finance (No. 2) Bill – committee stage Implements the measures outlined in the Budget.
THURSDAY 9 MAY
No votes scheduledFRIDAY 10 MAY
No votes scheduledClick here to join more than 5,000 people and get this in your email inbox for free every Sunday.
2024.05.07 10:01 ITmistic Hide rows very easily in large data in Excel !!
Learn how to effortlessly hide rows in large datasets with the method demonstrated in the video. Whether the text is a fragment or part of a larger text, you can still hide these rows without the need for sorting to group similar text together.
This technique is applicable to both small and large datasets, especially in scenarios where sorting is not feasible. Watch the video to explore this handy method!
Watch it here: https://youtu.be/3fK_0JCX8lY
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This technique is applicable to both small and large datasets, especially in scenarios where sorting is not feasible. Watch the video to explore this handy method!
Watch it here: https://youtu.be/3fK_0JCX8lY
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2024.05.07 10:00 AutoModerator Weekly Game Questions and Help Thread + Megathread Listing
 | submitted by AutoModerator to PSO2NGS [link] [comments] Weekly Game Questions and Help Thread Greetings all new, returning, and existing ARKS defenders! The "Weekly Game Questions and Help Thread" thread is posted every Wednesday on this subreddit for all your PSO2:NGS-related questions, technical support needs and general help requests. This is the place to ask any question, no matter how simple, obscure or repeatedly asked. New to NGS?The official website has an overview for new players as well as a game guide. Make sure to use this obscure drop-down menu if you're on mobile to access more pages.If you like watching a video, SEGA recently released a new trailer for the game that gives a good overview. It can be found here. Official Discord serverSEGA run an official Discord server for the Global version of PSO2. You can join it at https://discord.gg/pso2ngsGuidesThe Phantasy Star Fleet Discord server has a channel dedicated to guides for NGS, including a beginner guide and class guides! Check out the #en-ngs-guides-n-info channel for those.In addition, Leziony has put together a Progression Guide for Novices. Whether you're new to the game or need a refresher, this guide may help you!Note: this uses terminology from the JP fan translation by Arks-Layer, so some terms may not match up with their Global equivilents. Community WikiThe Arks-Visiphone is a wiki maintained by Arks-Layer and several contributors. You can find the Global version here. There you can find details on equipment, quests, enemies and more!Please check out the resources below:
Please start your question with "Global:" or "JP:" to better differentiate what region you are seeking help for. (Click here for previous Game Questions and Help threads) Megathreads/PSO2NGS has several Megathreads that are posted on a schedule or as major events such as NGS Headlines occur. Below are links to these. |
2024.05.07 10:00 blueseeker31 I lost my chances to die for other and im not sure if im happy or not about it
This is a rant as im losing my mind right now so maybe the title wont fit by the end of it. I've felt empty for years. Ive gotten used to think of it as a rotting dread, just the feeling crawling at the back of my mind all the time, that i have to actively distract myself to get it to shut up. I remember when i was a teenager, i was sad yeah, i was typically suicidal only in show, whatever i felt back then i feel is puny and wasnt worth the suicidal thoughts or attempts, but sometimes i wake up wishing i did make it back then, even if whatever broken heart or mean joke wasnt worth enough in my eyes to kill myself at least then i would have been more up to do it than now. I had frienfs with problems, with real problems, woth real suicidal thoughts with real reasons that even i found hard to argue against. So i shut down any attempt i foolishly tried to have back then just to support them, to lie thek and tell them we could do it together. I kept doing that for years, ive got hurt when they did get better, specially when getting better also meant getting far from me. Because some just didnt want to be around someone saf, because some just drifted away, and in the worst cases cuz i grew resentful and posessive the more my frustration grew and i damaged some. Its been 14 years since the last time i cut myself because i made a promise with a friend that if she hurt herself i would too. I made my life since then to try help the people i cared while trying to get them to throw their pains at me and have some peace. Im happy for her, she did get better, she will get married. But i feek so jealous. Ive became so jealous of everyone, cuz the brighter they became the bleaker the world became to me. Ive always been smart so i never failed academically even when i tried. Ive had connections so even if i wanted i couldnt be jobless. My anxiety makes me quite social for some reason so its easy to talk to others and make superficial friends. But the world. The world became so pointless over the years. All the people i helped became better, why am i worse. I feel like mask. I dont remember what i originally desired, only know the ideal i became to help others, to feel good with myself. I feel everything i am is lies. I feel everything i do is pretending. And it was fine. Until i broke. The rot at the back of my mind started becoming louder and louder and i became worse at helping, worse at talking, worse at finding good things to say, to think, to distract me with. I found myself finding doing anything harder and harder, just moving by a sense of responsibility. Ive found me falling while going upstairs because myself suddenly gives up on finding a point to move. I tried pills. I got to the doc and got checked and got some antidepressants hoping it was just something bad with my brain but when the incesant noise dissapeared with them i still felt empty. Funnily enough while being on them, as i became calmer and more rational, i almost killed myself. I had everything planned and prepared, the only reason i didnt is becase ny uncle died of sickness. I just rationally thought "two deaths so close are too much, ill postpone it". But them the bleakness invaded even that. Death sounds pointless now. As bleak as anything else. At least the noise keeps me entertained, be it short lives joy with friends i will never open to again or nights alone tormented by whatever dark thought i have in my mind. They somehow feel better than the emptyness. But even them are starting to fall down recently. I feel it crawling and ruining my mind more often. I find everything so pointless, every step such a burden every fake smile so useless. I know that when i die of natural causes i will be loved, but i feel im getting stuck, that i will become a burden. That i will fail to look like someone that makes others want to try to love life, because i do believe they can, because i do believe they have dreams anf hopes contrary to me. And it annoys me, it vexes me. All my effort thrown to shit because this incredible sense of dreadness and emptyness. If it was gonna be like this, i wish i would have just killed me when i had the drive even if my reason was not worth it. Ive already disappointed eveyoeenh unable to cherish life, that now i cant even properly act as a fake for it, when i always took pride on my abilitiy to lie, its so vexing. How worthless can i be.
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2024.05.07 10:00 AutoModerator LOSS Community Thread - Tue May 07
** This thread is for CONFIRMED losses only. If you suspect a loss and/or have not received confirmation from your RE, then you must post in the Weekly Results Thread until confirmed **
This thread is a dedicated space for members of infertility experiencing a confirmed loss – be it a blighted ovum/anembryonic pregnancy, chemical, ectopic, molar, miscarriage, stillbirth, TFMR, or infant death. This is the space to come together and find support as you grieve, away from the maelstrom of treatment. This is not to imply that these discussions are not allowed in the treatment thread, but is a focused effort to give an additional space to our members grieving a loss. We have many spaces you can discuss a confirmed loss, but we created this space so you don't have to post where it might be hard to.
Please use this space to vent, cry, talk about how you’re coping, share your loss experience, and ask specific questions pertaining to your loss (either resolved or ongoing). Our rules around mentions of pregnancy, children, and prior success still apply in this thread.
Above all - Science minded perspective and respect for others is important here. Please treat your fellow peers with compassion.
If you are looking for further specialized support, we recommend you explore the following communities (their wikis include helpful posts on resolving your loss via multiple methods, coping with your loss, ways for you to honor your grief, and much more):
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ttcafterloss
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/TFMR_support
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This thread is a dedicated space for members of infertility experiencing a confirmed loss – be it a blighted ovum/anembryonic pregnancy, chemical, ectopic, molar, miscarriage, stillbirth, TFMR, or infant death. This is the space to come together and find support as you grieve, away from the maelstrom of treatment. This is not to imply that these discussions are not allowed in the treatment thread, but is a focused effort to give an additional space to our members grieving a loss. We have many spaces you can discuss a confirmed loss, but we created this space so you don't have to post where it might be hard to.
Please use this space to vent, cry, talk about how you’re coping, share your loss experience, and ask specific questions pertaining to your loss (either resolved or ongoing). Our rules around mentions of pregnancy, children, and prior success still apply in this thread.
Above all - Science minded perspective and respect for others is important here. Please treat your fellow peers with compassion.
If you are looking for further specialized support, we recommend you explore the following communities (their wikis include helpful posts on resolving your loss via multiple methods, coping with your loss, ways for you to honor your grief, and much more):
Miscarriage
ttcafterloss
babyloss
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2024.05.07 10:00 A-Roar-Ah How my RP turned out to be my soulmate
I've been RPing 25 years, longer than most new RPers have been alive. 15 years ago, I met a partner and we built an amazing world together. We played for 3-5 hrs almost every night for 14 years, the word doc is 4,460 pages in 10 point font. We met offline and has a whirlwind relationship. Despite our long distance, I literally never thought I'd need anyone else. He was my rock, and I imagined us being together well into our 80s, still working on this story and on our relationship.
What a gift to find someone who is intelligent, funny, creative, gives good advice, loves you unconditionally and has amazing bedroom chemistry with you.
Well, he passed away a year ago. He was only 45. And it shattered me. I lost my best friend, and a whole world that we created. People expect me to finish our story and I can't. I'm so grateful for the time I had...and can't help but regret that I took time for granted and always thought I had more with him. 💔
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What a gift to find someone who is intelligent, funny, creative, gives good advice, loves you unconditionally and has amazing bedroom chemistry with you.
Well, he passed away a year ago. He was only 45. And it shattered me. I lost my best friend, and a whole world that we created. People expect me to finish our story and I can't. I'm so grateful for the time I had...and can't help but regret that I took time for granted and always thought I had more with him. 💔
2024.05.07 09:58 Specialist-Set987 I dream about my ex all the time!
I (25f) am in a long term relationship with my boyfriend (26m), for almost two years know. But i dream about my ex (24m) all the time. Mine relationship with my boyfriend is really great, we understand each other and we going to move together next month. I Love him. My ex and i, we were the perfect relationship. Our connection was just something else. We watched together animes ( i really adore them since i was a child, but my boyfriend know hate it and tells me all the time) we really talked through everything, he showed me the bright side of the life. We were together for a year and a half but that was my happiest time. He was my type tottaly, i don't have much standards, but black hair with black eyes are my weakness.
Our families hated each other, and they wanted us to break up. They said that we cant meet at their houses. So it was extreme but we planned everything, and i tought that he is going to be my husband, i was ready to throw away my family for him. But he broke up with me. He didn't tell me that he had to broke up with me, but is felt in his actions. He told me that if i miss him just look up to the sky, because he is going to watch me and lot of personal stuff, but he said that he don't love me anymore. After that his one friend asked me out and i thought that why not, we just went to a fast food restaurant to dinner, no kiss or something else, but he called me that night to ask me if his friend and i a couple know. I burst in to tears and told him that no one can replace him, and we talked 5 ours. And than he met his current girlfriend. And i met my now boyfriend. I am happy with my boyfriend, but i often get deja vu, but my boyfriend is not like him at all. He is blonde and has blue eyes, and he is energetic and sporty he is a real extroverted person. My ex hated sports and he was introverted (so am i). I got worse when a year ago he wrote a message to me. He said that he still loves me and sorry for everything, and that he is not happy with his girl. Since then i dream about him all the time and it is breaks my heart, that i dream about him but i wake up with my boyfriend. I feel horrible.
Please reddit help me, how can i get rid of this? (sorry because my grammar English is not my first language)
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Our families hated each other, and they wanted us to break up. They said that we cant meet at their houses. So it was extreme but we planned everything, and i tought that he is going to be my husband, i was ready to throw away my family for him. But he broke up with me. He didn't tell me that he had to broke up with me, but is felt in his actions. He told me that if i miss him just look up to the sky, because he is going to watch me and lot of personal stuff, but he said that he don't love me anymore. After that his one friend asked me out and i thought that why not, we just went to a fast food restaurant to dinner, no kiss or something else, but he called me that night to ask me if his friend and i a couple know. I burst in to tears and told him that no one can replace him, and we talked 5 ours. And than he met his current girlfriend. And i met my now boyfriend. I am happy with my boyfriend, but i often get deja vu, but my boyfriend is not like him at all. He is blonde and has blue eyes, and he is energetic and sporty he is a real extroverted person. My ex hated sports and he was introverted (so am i). I got worse when a year ago he wrote a message to me. He said that he still loves me and sorry for everything, and that he is not happy with his girl. Since then i dream about him all the time and it is breaks my heart, that i dream about him but i wake up with my boyfriend. I feel horrible.
Please reddit help me, how can i get rid of this? (sorry because my grammar English is not my first language)
2024.05.07 09:57 Lifesucks098 I hate my life
Lately, I am living such a melancholic life. Nothing excites me. I am 25 and i feel like i am missing out lots of things. I feel sad all the time. I try to be productive but i just end of doing nothing. I feel so suffocated and lonely. I feel like i failed at everything. I can’t get my shit together. My career is mess i don’t know what to do. I can’t even vent out with anyone. I hardly have anyone to talk to. I just want to disappear and never come back.
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2024.05.07 09:57 PurchaseLumpy1630 28F/28M: How do you walk away from a 5 year friendship that is draining?
So I am a bit of a spiral and in need of some word of encouragement from people with similar experiences or just maybe a sounding board on how to walk away from a friend, who is not good for me, but I still deeply care about.
I have this 28M friend who I have known for 5 years now, I always knew he has some demons and deals with mental health issues (which he refuses to get therapy for), now I don't know what they are and I have learned to not ask as it was met with silence in that first year. But I have come to the realisation that he treats me like absolute shit and I always justify it because I tie it to whatever episode he's going through at the time, or when he was unemployed or broke up with someone (which now typing this out, I realise is also just life). Behaviours include:
I know what you're thinking if you've read this so far, crazy woman, what are you still doing. But like he can really be a wonderful friend and human (in those hot moments) and it makes me forget all the bad times and because I know he's been dealing with extra heavy things in his personal life, I always cut him slack for that.
I am secure in all my other friendships and I never question whether someone loves (or tolerates me) and this friendship makes me feel sad and has had a toll on my self-esteem, but I feel like i can't walk away because of the good times we share and the obligation to be there for someone in their dark days - I realise I can't fix or solve things but just being there in the general space. So how does one walk away from draining friendships like this and deals with all the guilt of leaving someone who is on some level suffering?
Please be nice, I am not in a good headspace.
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I have this 28M friend who I have known for 5 years now, I always knew he has some demons and deals with mental health issues (which he refuses to get therapy for), now I don't know what they are and I have learned to not ask as it was met with silence in that first year. But I have come to the realisation that he treats me like absolute shit and I always justify it because I tie it to whatever episode he's going through at the time, or when he was unemployed or broke up with someone (which now typing this out, I realise is also just life). Behaviours include:
- Being hot and cold, I genuinely and without exaggeration never know what version of him is going to show up when we meet. Some days he's just normal and affectionate and we have a great time and chat about everything under the sun. Others, he becomes super cold, it's almost like you can feel the distance even physically in terms of body language. He will just make snide comments and belittle me *as a joke* usually around one of my insecurities, which he knows about. Additional background: We have dipped in and out of fwb i.e. hooking up every couple of months, which sometimes is fine and other times, he just goes extra cold the next day after hooking up. Like he would not reply or if I saw him with other friends, make it a point to flirt in front of me or if we were walking together somewhere, he would speed ahead and refuse to slow down. Once, I saw him after a week where we hooked up and I came over to give him a hug (which is how we always greet everyone), and he just asked me not to touch him and recoiled away. I was just frozen and fumbled away and just said nothing. But I honestly felt like absolute trash. Like I don't know if that is his way of "reminding me of my place" like in case I had any romance ideas (which I don't), all I really want is respect and communication, especially when engaging in fwb. I just can't help but feel degraded and sad when I reflect on this, with or without the fwb stuff. Like the anxiety of it all, not knowing what version of him will walk through the door and how it affects me. Then how stupid I feel to let it all happen. I realise I enable this behaviour and play part but I don't know, the good days when we hang out are so fun and feel so safe and warm that I always forget and had to start writing down a list on my phone to remind me. Like some days I genuinely sit there thinking does he even like me as a human because he looks so repulsed by me and I'm just thinking, why show up.
- He has a problem replying to logistic texts, like one of us would suggest meeting and I would follow up with okay time and place, but he wouldn't reply even though he's online until it's too late in the day to meet even when he's made a plan. And when we do agree on a plan, sometimes he hasn't shown up (excuse: overslept) or shows up late because he thought the time was 6 instead of 8 or something like that. I just hate that whenever we have plans, I have to chase him to remind him, even like half an hour before. For all my other friends, we are all secure in communication, we make a plan even if it;s a month away, I message them in the morning off to just make sure nothing has came up and they're like all good or excuse themselves and bam. He is just so much effort that I feel like I am begging him to confirm, even when it's his plan.
- He like randomly compares me with other women we pass by or one of our friends, like why can't you be as kind as x or look see, this woman here can do this x, learn from her. It's so weird and feels demeaning, but I always brushed it off, I don't know, he always called it tough love but it always dimmed something inside me.
I know what you're thinking if you've read this so far, crazy woman, what are you still doing. But like he can really be a wonderful friend and human (in those hot moments) and it makes me forget all the bad times and because I know he's been dealing with extra heavy things in his personal life, I always cut him slack for that.
I am secure in all my other friendships and I never question whether someone loves (or tolerates me) and this friendship makes me feel sad and has had a toll on my self-esteem, but I feel like i can't walk away because of the good times we share and the obligation to be there for someone in their dark days - I realise I can't fix or solve things but just being there in the general space. So how does one walk away from draining friendships like this and deals with all the guilt of leaving someone who is on some level suffering?
Please be nice, I am not in a good headspace.
2024.05.07 09:57 No_Transition_5552 I bit my boyfriend during a blackout
My boyfriend and I are both 19 and have been together for 3 years. We have had a beautiful and smooth relationship; he is the sweetest, most selfless person I have ever known. We are in college together, so we drink/party almost every weekend. My entire freshman year we had a lot of fun with no problems, but since starting a heavy dosage of SSRIs following a breakdown I had last summer, I’ve been much more prone to blackouts. I have been very careful to pace myself and not overdo but it does still happen. Normally I just do the usual college girl embarrassing stuff, but a few months ago I had an absolutely detrimental blackout where my boyfriend and I got into a fight that ended with me leaving his dorm to go to a friends’ to get away. I lose my memory here in the Uber but my friend tells me that I kept and kept taking shots well into the morning. By the time my boyfriend came to pick me up and take me back to his, I was completely delirious, talking nonsense, thinking people were there when they weren’t, etc. From what he and my friend have told me I was very angry at him and adamant about not wanting to leave and not wanting to see him. He repeatedly tried to pick me up and carry me out and down the stairs and I was very combative. He says I kept biting his arms and hands in an attempt to free myself and run away from him, which only made him more scared for my safety (in case I ran into the street or something) & try to hold me down harder. When I was sober I was absolutely horrified to hear about my behavior and I couldn’t eat for weeks. I left many bite marks on him. He is an absolute angel and we have talked about the incident many times over and he swears that he has forgiven me and that I shouldn’t beat myself up. I even tried breaking up with him multiple times because i was scared that I am somehow trapping him or abusing him or manipulating him into staying with me but he keeps saying that he knows his limits and knows that it was just a mistake brought on by my medication and the blackout. He’s even said that it would be evil of me to pull a “I’m doing this for your own safety” and leave because I think he can’t or something. He says I owe it to him to do what he wants and what he wants is to be together. We have continued our relationship like normal and things have been wonderful and loving with no incident but I still cannot relax. It’s like there’s a knot in my stomach that won’t go away. I can never forgive myself and not an hour goes by where I don’t think about it and how horrible of a person I am. I’ve stop apologizing to him over and over because I know that even that can be manipulative since he doesn’t owe it to me to console me or make me feel better for my actions. I’ve spend hours researching domestic abuse and have considered turning myself into the police. I just need advice on what to do, I feel like I’m trapped in a living hell. it was brought about by my own actions too, so I feel like I can’t even talk to anyone about it because I’m just so scared that they will confirm I’m an evil person.
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2024.05.07 09:56 No_Transition_5552 I bit my boyfriend during a blackout
My boyfriend and I are both 19 and have been together for 3 years. We have had a beautiful and smooth relationship; he is the sweetest, most selfless person I have ever known. We are in college together, so we drink/party almost every weekend. My entire freshman year we had a lot of fun with no problems, but since starting a heavy dosage of SSRIs following a breakdown I had last summer, I’ve been much more prone to blackouts. I have been very careful to pace myself and not overdo but it does still happen. Normally I just do the usual college girl embarrassing stuff, but a few months ago I had an absolutely detrimental blackout where my boyfriend and I got into a fight that ended with me leaving his dorm to go to a friends’ to get away. I lose my memory here in the Uber but my friend tells me that I kept and kept taking shots well into the morning. By the time my boyfriend came to pick me up and take me back to his, I was completely delirious, talking nonsense, thinking people were there when they weren’t, etc. From what he and my friend have told me I was very angry at him and adamant about not wanting to leave and not wanting to see him. He repeatedly tried to pick me up and carry me out and down the stairs and I was very combative. He says I kept biting his arms and hands in an attempt to free myself and run away from him, which only made him more scared for my safety (in case I ran into the street or something) & try to hold me down harder. When I was sober I was absolutely horrified to hear about my behavior and I couldn’t eat for weeks. I left many bite marks on him. He is an absolute angel and we have talked about the incident many times over and he swears that he has forgiven me and that I shouldn’t beat myself up. I even tried breaking up with him multiple times because i was scared that I am somehow trapping him or abusing him or manipulating him into staying with me but he keeps saying that he knows his limits and knows that it was just a mistake brought on by my medication and the blackout. He’s even said that it would be evil of me to pull a “I’m doing this for your own safety” and leave because I think he can’t or something. He says I owe it to him to do what he wants and what he wants is to be together. We have continued our relationship like normal and things have been wonderful and loving with no incident but I still cannot relax. It’s like there’s a knot in my stomach that won’t go away. I can never forgive myself and not an hour goes by where I don’t think about it and how horrible of a person I am. I’ve stop apologizing to him over and over because I know that even that can be manipulative since he doesn’t owe it to me to console me or make me feel better for my actions. I’ve spend hours researching domestic abuse and have considered turning myself into the police. I just need advice on what to do, I feel like I’m trapped in a living hell. it was brought about by my own actions too, so I feel like I can’t even talk to anyone about it because I’m just so scared that they will confirm I’m an evil person.
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2024.05.07 09:55 Yurii_S_Kh Archpastoral Message of His Beatitude Metropolitan Tikhon. Pascha 2024
 | submitted by Yurii_S_Kh to SophiaWisdomOfGod [link] [comments] https://preview.redd.it/7mx4tkf5nyyc1.png?width=300&format=png&auto=webp&s=636d9c8ae602868645c27f9b0842fe2874958c09 To the Clergy, Monastics, and Faithful of the Orthodox Church in America, My Beloved Children in the Lord, CHRIST IS RISEN! INDEED HE IS RISEN! Now all is filled with light: heaven and earth and the lower regions. Let all creation celebrate the rising of Christ: in him we are established. (St. John of Damascus, Paschal Canon, Ode Three) Today we greet the most radiant feast of feasts, the king and lord of days, the Pascha of Christ our true God. Standing in the light of the Resurrection, we glimpse the true and unfading joy of the life to come. To be sure, even on this chosen and holy day of light-bearing festival, my own heart remains heavy as I look out upon the world and behold wars and terrorism, unjust imprisonment and persecution, civil strife and political divisions. Indeed, “the dark places of the earth are full of the habitations of iniquity” (Ps. 73:20). The world and its troubles present a threefold temptation to Christians who behold this multitude of “dark places”: we are tempted to despair; we are tempted to indifference; and we are tempted to conform and subordinate our holy Orthodox Christian faith to some worldly political program or ideology. However, with his Pascha, Christ offers us a different response: a hope beyond this world, yet already present in this world. As we sing in the Paschal Canon of St. John of Damascus, everything is filled with the light of the Resurrection, even the lower regions. Life has burst forth from the grave; a light has shone in darkness (Jn. 1:5). We dwell in a world of real trouble, real sorrow, real pain. The Lord came down into this world and became a man of sorrows, acquainted with grief, and he felt pain in his heart—on the night in which he was given up, his soul was “exceedingly sorrowful, even unto death”—and pain in his flesh (Is. 53:3; Mt. 26:38). But out of pain, the Lord has brought forth healing; out of sorrow, he has wrought an incorruptible source of joy. He died, but now he lives forever, and he offers us the same hope: eternal life. And the eternal life that he offers is not just an extension of life in this world, with its ups and downs, sorrows and joys, sins and foibles and accidents. Rather he offers us abundant life, true life, by restoring our communion with God, who is the Source of life. This true and incorruptible life, a life of constant trust and love and joy, is not only available in the world to come. Whenever we believe in Christ and his Resurrection and accept the joy of his Pascha, we are already, through faith and hope, getting a foretaste of that life—a life without fear of suffering or death, that sees sorrow as a source of joy, since even in sorrow, Christ, the Man of Sorrows, is there, ready to draw near to us in a union of love. It is because of this that the holy Psalmist could write: “If I go up into heaven, thou art there; if I go down into hell, thou art present. If I take up my wings at dawn and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea, even there shall thy hand guide me, and thy right hand shall hold me” (Ps. 138:8–10). Wherever we are, whatever troubles we experience in our lives, whatever troubles we behold in this world, Christ is there with us, suffering with us in our suffering and offering us the hope of the unfailing happiness of his Pascha, inviting us to be in the world and not of the world, storing up all our hope and all the treasure of our hearts with him, in the kingdom that has no end, where neither moth nor rust can destroy and where no thief can break in and steal (Mt. 6:20). May he who rose from the dead on the third day, kindling the light of hope for all the world, always shine upon our hearts with Paschal light, filling us with a joy-making desire for the good things to come and changing all our troubles and cares into opportunities to hope and trust. To him, the Risen Lord, be all glory and adoration, together with his Father and his All-holy Spirit, now and ever and unto ages of ages! Yours in the Risen Christ, + TIKHON Archbishop of Washington Metropolitan of All America and Canada The Orthodox Church in America |
2024.05.07 09:55 ApprehensiveBuddy126 Seeking for Pokemon fans for online chess club
Hello everyone,
My name is Nathan and I am seeking people to join my chess club. This can be for Pokemon fans and anyone else, so to be accurate, everyone is invited! We will also have lots of vote chess seasons so we can keep in touch and have fun. If you want to join, please press this link
https://www.chess.com/club/pokemon-fans-for-evejoin
Hope we can have fun together and see you soon😊
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My name is Nathan and I am seeking people to join my chess club. This can be for Pokemon fans and anyone else, so to be accurate, everyone is invited! We will also have lots of vote chess seasons so we can keep in touch and have fun. If you want to join, please press this link
https://www.chess.com/club/pokemon-fans-for-evejoin
Hope we can have fun together and see you soon😊
2024.05.07 09:55 FlirtyHousewife MIL acting crazy after news of my pregnancy
I’m curious if anyone else has had experience with their MIL acting insane when they found out of their pregnancy, let me tell yall how she has behaved so far…
Last Sunday I went to a family dinner at my fiancés uncles house with all the fam there (including MIL).
At this point I had only taken an at home test that said I was pregnant and only began the process of going to an actual doctor. This is why I didn’t want to tell anyone the news until it was confirmed by blood work (which I think is very reasonable) but apparently my fiance jumped the gun and told his uncle and his mother even though I asked him to wait till the blood work confirmed it. (Oh well…)
This family dinner was only a day or two after my fiance told her and his uncle about my positive preg test, so by then (you guessed it) pretty much everyone knew by then. Mother in law has been acting strange since she found out, I caught her staring at my stomach not just a few times, but more than 10 times, and not just glancing, full on 2 minute stares that didn’t waver even when I would look up and smile and make eye contact (she wouldn’t even look in my eyes just continued to stare at my belly like I don’t exist) it was honestly super creepy and uncomfortable to be stared at and just my body…
As soon as we sat down with our plates at the table the first thing my MIL said was “I’m moving back to hometown area” this was crazy thing to say honestly because she has no support system there anymore and all her family is here where they all help take care of her (and she lives with family here so not sure where she would even live??) I chalked this outburst up to her wanting attention and drama like usual, because she always needs the attention on her. Fine by me, because I hate the attention being on me 🤣 But what she said pissed several people off at the table to say the least.
Now she’s been crying on the phone to my fiance for the past two days about some drama about who told who about my pregnancy. We already sent a text to the group chat saying it was fine that word got out, and I texted her to let her know nobody was acusing her of spreading the news and that we just wanted the fighting and drama to stop.
Apparently she doesn’t care about what I said, because she’s been crying and having a meltdown for the past two days about it. The last thing my fiance needs is two women acting hormonal and crazy in his life right now and I’m the pregnant one last time I checked, I think I deserve to take that slot and not her. I don’t know why she can’t just be happy for us and not act like this? Constant phone calls to my fiance about it, talking his ear off about this seemingly made up drama that we don’t even care about and said was fine. I have a feeling my whole pregnancy will be filled with craziness from her and I want to rip my hair out already….
This isn’t even the end of the crazies when it comes to finance’s family, his uncles wife gave me a gift of 3 onesies and a baby book THE DAY the blood work came back saying I’m definitely super pregnant (today) and around 6 or 7 weeks along. She keeps texting me about wanting to hold the baby and be the first one to do so, when I was never close to her before this and honestly never liked her due to other past issues. I get she was trying to be nice but I would have liked to be the first one to buy my own damn baby a onesie, and it’s also way too early for that!!
This family is stressing me out already ! Anyone else deal with crazy MIL’s around their pregnancy?
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Last Sunday I went to a family dinner at my fiancés uncles house with all the fam there (including MIL).
At this point I had only taken an at home test that said I was pregnant and only began the process of going to an actual doctor. This is why I didn’t want to tell anyone the news until it was confirmed by blood work (which I think is very reasonable) but apparently my fiance jumped the gun and told his uncle and his mother even though I asked him to wait till the blood work confirmed it. (Oh well…)
This family dinner was only a day or two after my fiance told her and his uncle about my positive preg test, so by then (you guessed it) pretty much everyone knew by then. Mother in law has been acting strange since she found out, I caught her staring at my stomach not just a few times, but more than 10 times, and not just glancing, full on 2 minute stares that didn’t waver even when I would look up and smile and make eye contact (she wouldn’t even look in my eyes just continued to stare at my belly like I don’t exist) it was honestly super creepy and uncomfortable to be stared at and just my body…
As soon as we sat down with our plates at the table the first thing my MIL said was “I’m moving back to hometown area” this was crazy thing to say honestly because she has no support system there anymore and all her family is here where they all help take care of her (and she lives with family here so not sure where she would even live??) I chalked this outburst up to her wanting attention and drama like usual, because she always needs the attention on her. Fine by me, because I hate the attention being on me 🤣 But what she said pissed several people off at the table to say the least.
Now she’s been crying on the phone to my fiance for the past two days about some drama about who told who about my pregnancy. We already sent a text to the group chat saying it was fine that word got out, and I texted her to let her know nobody was acusing her of spreading the news and that we just wanted the fighting and drama to stop.
Apparently she doesn’t care about what I said, because she’s been crying and having a meltdown for the past two days about it. The last thing my fiance needs is two women acting hormonal and crazy in his life right now and I’m the pregnant one last time I checked, I think I deserve to take that slot and not her. I don’t know why she can’t just be happy for us and not act like this? Constant phone calls to my fiance about it, talking his ear off about this seemingly made up drama that we don’t even care about and said was fine. I have a feeling my whole pregnancy will be filled with craziness from her and I want to rip my hair out already….
This isn’t even the end of the crazies when it comes to finance’s family, his uncles wife gave me a gift of 3 onesies and a baby book THE DAY the blood work came back saying I’m definitely super pregnant (today) and around 6 or 7 weeks along. She keeps texting me about wanting to hold the baby and be the first one to do so, when I was never close to her before this and honestly never liked her due to other past issues. I get she was trying to be nice but I would have liked to be the first one to buy my own damn baby a onesie, and it’s also way too early for that!!
This family is stressing me out already ! Anyone else deal with crazy MIL’s around their pregnancy?
2024.05.07 09:55 blu_from_euphoria i think my dad was going to kill me.
i don’t know exactly why i’m posting this but i feel that i need to get it out somehow.
for context, my dad is a recovering addict from literally every drug you could think of and still struggles with alcoholism. i recently moved in with him and my amazing step mom due to issues with my moms side of the family, and it was going great. i knew he drank a lot but he would usually just drink himself to sleep so i didn’t really have a problem with it.
it was a regular sunday night the day this happened. my step mom was driving her kids back to their dads house which is about 2 hours away, and she did this every sunday so again, i wasn’t worried about anything. i was in my room when she called, asking where my dad was because he wasn’t answering his phone. i told her i didn’t know but i would go check on him. so i went into our living room and he was passed out on the couch with a can of beer in his hand. my step mom was still on the phone with me and when i told her he was asleep she asked if i could wake him up and hand him the phone so she could talk to him. i woke up my dad and said that she wanted to talk to him. he took the phone and immediately got hostile with me for waking him up. he then looked at me when my step mom asked why he wasn’t answering his phone and hung up on her. it was like something changed in his eyes and i could feel his anger but i didn’t understand why he was angry with me. he started yelling at me and accusing me of telling my step mom that he was drinking. i denied that i did, but he didn’t believe me. when he stood up, i took a step back and i guess he took that as a disrespectful action. he started telling me i need to get my shit together and then backed me into the hallway while yelling in my face. i know i shouldn’t of talked back to him, but i did. this is where all hell broke loose.
he had me up against a wall, pointing at me in my face and yelling like i never heard him yell before. i was starting to get scared at this point so i just tried to get away from him. i went into my room once he finally walked away and locked my door to cry. a few minutes go by, i’m sitting on my bed and i start to hear my dad stomping down the hallway towards my room. then, he busts down my door. i immediately start crying harder and admitting to him that he was scaring me and being aggressive. he pinned me to my bed by my shoulders and continued yelling, this time telling me i ruined his life and that he was going to lose his wife and children because of me. i tried telling him that wasn’t true and that my step mom was on her way back home. he wouldn’t reason with me no matter what i said. he had let go of my shoulders for a few seconds so i stood up, and he pushed me so hard that i basically flew across my room. i hit my head and my arms on the wall trying to catch myself. i was genuinely scared because i’ve seen him put hands on other people, but now that is was happening to me i needed to call my step mom. i got back up and tried to get my phone off my bed, where he was sitting. he took it and threw it somewhere i didn’t see it go. he asked if was trying to call the police and didn’t believe me when i said no. this is when he started to threaten my life by saying “i should kill you and myself right now. i hate you, you ruin everything.” i was basically begging him to stop and he told me if i didn’t leave the house right then and there he was going to kill me. i heard that and started running towards the front door. he followed behind me and when i got the door open he closed it from above my head. i didn’t know what to do, i was asking him to just please let me leave and he wouldn’t. then, his phone started ringing so he went to grab it while staring me down the whole time. when he picked it up it was my grandma calling to check on us because my step mom called her worried when i didn’t call her back. i took the chance to go to my room and find my phone so i would have it in case i really needed to call the police. i could hear him yelling to her about how much he hated me and how i ruined his life. he kept saying he should just kill me and himself. i guess she was trying to talk him down and he didn’t like that because he hung up and went downstairs. i was so terrified because i knew that’s where his gun was and my door didn’t lock anymore. even if it did, it obviously couldn’t stop him. i thought my life was going to end. i still couldn’t find my phone and i didnt know what to do. thank god, my step mom came home at just the right time. she walked in the house and immediately went downstairs where my dad was. i could hear her yelling at him and telling him to stop and “put it down”. which i assume was his gun. all i could do was cry, i sat there and cried for what felt like forever until my step mom came back upstairs and made sure i was okay. obviously i wasn’t, but i was alive.
i remember this night so vividly. i have dreams about it, i hear him threatening to kill me replaying in my head, and i even pray about it despite not being a very religious person. i love my dad so much, nothing like this has happened since but i see him differently and he knows. everyone but me kind of moved past it. telling me “we have to forgive your father he’s been through a lot and would never hurt you”. i try to move on, but it literally haunts me. i wonder every day what would’ve happened if my step mom hadn’t come home, or if she hadn’t even left that night.
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for context, my dad is a recovering addict from literally every drug you could think of and still struggles with alcoholism. i recently moved in with him and my amazing step mom due to issues with my moms side of the family, and it was going great. i knew he drank a lot but he would usually just drink himself to sleep so i didn’t really have a problem with it.
it was a regular sunday night the day this happened. my step mom was driving her kids back to their dads house which is about 2 hours away, and she did this every sunday so again, i wasn’t worried about anything. i was in my room when she called, asking where my dad was because he wasn’t answering his phone. i told her i didn’t know but i would go check on him. so i went into our living room and he was passed out on the couch with a can of beer in his hand. my step mom was still on the phone with me and when i told her he was asleep she asked if i could wake him up and hand him the phone so she could talk to him. i woke up my dad and said that she wanted to talk to him. he took the phone and immediately got hostile with me for waking him up. he then looked at me when my step mom asked why he wasn’t answering his phone and hung up on her. it was like something changed in his eyes and i could feel his anger but i didn’t understand why he was angry with me. he started yelling at me and accusing me of telling my step mom that he was drinking. i denied that i did, but he didn’t believe me. when he stood up, i took a step back and i guess he took that as a disrespectful action. he started telling me i need to get my shit together and then backed me into the hallway while yelling in my face. i know i shouldn’t of talked back to him, but i did. this is where all hell broke loose.
he had me up against a wall, pointing at me in my face and yelling like i never heard him yell before. i was starting to get scared at this point so i just tried to get away from him. i went into my room once he finally walked away and locked my door to cry. a few minutes go by, i’m sitting on my bed and i start to hear my dad stomping down the hallway towards my room. then, he busts down my door. i immediately start crying harder and admitting to him that he was scaring me and being aggressive. he pinned me to my bed by my shoulders and continued yelling, this time telling me i ruined his life and that he was going to lose his wife and children because of me. i tried telling him that wasn’t true and that my step mom was on her way back home. he wouldn’t reason with me no matter what i said. he had let go of my shoulders for a few seconds so i stood up, and he pushed me so hard that i basically flew across my room. i hit my head and my arms on the wall trying to catch myself. i was genuinely scared because i’ve seen him put hands on other people, but now that is was happening to me i needed to call my step mom. i got back up and tried to get my phone off my bed, where he was sitting. he took it and threw it somewhere i didn’t see it go. he asked if was trying to call the police and didn’t believe me when i said no. this is when he started to threaten my life by saying “i should kill you and myself right now. i hate you, you ruin everything.” i was basically begging him to stop and he told me if i didn’t leave the house right then and there he was going to kill me. i heard that and started running towards the front door. he followed behind me and when i got the door open he closed it from above my head. i didn’t know what to do, i was asking him to just please let me leave and he wouldn’t. then, his phone started ringing so he went to grab it while staring me down the whole time. when he picked it up it was my grandma calling to check on us because my step mom called her worried when i didn’t call her back. i took the chance to go to my room and find my phone so i would have it in case i really needed to call the police. i could hear him yelling to her about how much he hated me and how i ruined his life. he kept saying he should just kill me and himself. i guess she was trying to talk him down and he didn’t like that because he hung up and went downstairs. i was so terrified because i knew that’s where his gun was and my door didn’t lock anymore. even if it did, it obviously couldn’t stop him. i thought my life was going to end. i still couldn’t find my phone and i didnt know what to do. thank god, my step mom came home at just the right time. she walked in the house and immediately went downstairs where my dad was. i could hear her yelling at him and telling him to stop and “put it down”. which i assume was his gun. all i could do was cry, i sat there and cried for what felt like forever until my step mom came back upstairs and made sure i was okay. obviously i wasn’t, but i was alive.
i remember this night so vividly. i have dreams about it, i hear him threatening to kill me replaying in my head, and i even pray about it despite not being a very religious person. i love my dad so much, nothing like this has happened since but i see him differently and he knows. everyone but me kind of moved past it. telling me “we have to forgive your father he’s been through a lot and would never hurt you”. i try to move on, but it literally haunts me. i wonder every day what would’ve happened if my step mom hadn’t come home, or if she hadn’t even left that night.