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2024.05.14 18:01 ipurpleyou Chances / school list (low stats) ??
I know this subreddit gets oversaturated with these posts but I was really hoping to get some honest feedback on what I should do for this cycle :( I just got my MCAT retake score back and unfortunately it’s not as good as I was hoping it would be, but I still plan on applying this cycle to both DO and MD schools.
For context: I'm an ORM; I majored in biomedical sciences & minored in psychology, graduated in 2022 with a 3.35 cGPA and a 3.2 sGPA with a slight upward trend. Latest MCAT score is a 507 (125/128/126/128) which is not as high as I was hoping to get but 🤷🏾♀️
I feel like I have a pretty strong theme of communication/language, interpersonal relationships, & community involvement in my app. I'm also very confident in my writing skills, so I'm not too worried about writing a good personal statement. If it helps, one of my LOR writers is a prof whose class I ended up having to retake since I got a much lower grade the first time.
I guess my 3 main questions are: 1) Should I retake the MCAT for a 3rd time? 2) Is it worth trying to do a postbacc or SMP to improve my gpa before applying? 3) What MD schools would be good fits for my gpa/mcat range? For context, here are my stats:
Research experience
-16 hours primary care (DO)
School List [so far]
I used admit.org to start building a school list and out of what they gave me, I’m for sure applying to these schools (and my in-state MD schools):
-Chicago College of Osteopathic Medicine
-NYIT-COM
-LECOM
-Touro COM
-PCOM
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For context: I'm an ORM; I majored in biomedical sciences & minored in psychology, graduated in 2022 with a 3.35 cGPA and a 3.2 sGPA with a slight upward trend. Latest MCAT score is a 507 (125/128/126/128) which is not as high as I was hoping to get but 🤷🏾♀️
I feel like I have a pretty strong theme of communication/language, interpersonal relationships, & community involvement in my app. I'm also very confident in my writing skills, so I'm not too worried about writing a good personal statement. If it helps, one of my LOR writers is a prof whose class I ended up having to retake since I got a much lower grade the first time.
I guess my 3 main questions are: 1) Should I retake the MCAT for a 3rd time? 2) Is it worth trying to do a postbacc or SMP to improve my gpa before applying? 3) What MD schools would be good fits for my gpa/mcat range? For context, here are my stats:
Research experience
- 3500+ hours working full-time in a neuroscience research lab at one of my state's medical schools; 1 pub as a middle author & at least 1 more pub coming probably in the middle of application season. During the cycle I hope to submit an abstract / present a poster to an upcoming conference!
- 900 hours working as a medical assistant in a psychiatric clinic; I helped administer TMS therapy to patients! I quit this job to work as a research tech, but I really loved this job so once apps are submitted I'm planning to start working here again part-time while also doing my research job part-time.
- 400 hours volunteering in our hospital's post-anesthesia care unit
- 300 hours volunteering at a free clinic that works with underserved populations
- 200 hours volunteering in hospice with dementia/Alzheimer's patients
- Volunteering at my temple (~200ish hours)
- E-board member for one of my undergrad's mental health awareness clubs (~100ish hours)
- Social media chair for my undergrad's pre-health fraternity (~50ish hours)
- Website manageevents coordinator for my undergrad's TEDx chapter (~50ish hours)
- Co-captain of one of my undergrad's dance teams (~500ish hours).
- I also took classical dance lessons growing up for about 6 years and since "graduating" out of the school, I've helped teach classes for the younger kids. (no idea how to calculate the hours for this)
- 32 hours neurosurgery (MD)
- 32 hours anesthesiology (MD)
- 20 hours dermatology (MD)
-16 hours primary care (DO)
School List [so far]
I used admit.org to start building a school list and out of what they gave me, I’m for sure applying to these schools (and my in-state MD schools):
-Chicago College of Osteopathic Medicine
-NYIT-COM
-LECOM
-Touro COM
-PCOM
2024.05.14 17:53 leifsprout Should I break up with my boyfriend after finding out he has a secret IG account where he likes sexy pictures and j*rks off to them
TL;DR my boyfriend likes and masturbates to other girls sexy pictures on his secret IG account since he doesn’t get sexually turned on by me anymore after moving in together
I (27F) just found out my boyfriend (24M) has a secret instagram account where he likes other girl’s pictures on. And they’re not even OF models or celebrities, just regular accounts of girls who posts sexy pictures and thirst traps. I feel so betrayed and disrespected. He even hid the instagram app on his phone so it wont appear on his homescreen to ensure I wouldn’t see that he even has it installed.
For context, I looked through everything on the account and he wasn’t following anyone or had any followers at all. There were also no chats, no comments. There were only likes and the most recent one was a 44 week old post. I would say in total there would have been around 30 liked posts of girls either in bikinis or revealing outfits. Looked through the account and log in history and I was able to sum up that he recently just installed it again yesterday and previous to that he used it around 7 weeks ago. I also saw that he created the account September 2023 which would have been around the time we first moved in together but when I confronted him about it he said he’s had the account even before we were together and just recently reactivated it at that time which I don’t even know if it’s true because I don’t use instagram but that was the very first account history I saw that it was created last year.
We’ve been together 3 years now and been living together since September. I work in a call center and moved to a new city last year in July which was also the time he graduated and he visited me here before visiting his grandma and cousins and he stayed there for a month because he also wanted to enjoy his free time first before thinking about finding work.
I’ve always wanted us to live together because I hated needing to go home separately after spending the day together. We weren’t at the situation where we could do it because he was still in school and relying on his parents and I also was still living with my family. I would have moved out much earlier but I didn’t wanna be far away from him and it would have been a very long discussion with my family if I were to move out but still be in the same town (I’m asian) since it was also a fairly small town. I didn’t plan on getting a job from a different city right at the time he graduated. I actually quit my previous job earlier that year and it was just the best option I had during that time even though it did require me to be far away from him but I also really wanted to move away and just be independent. And in my head it all fell into place because I though he could just stay with me after his vacation and find a job in the same city. He was at a place in his life where he’s still trying to figure out what he wants to do and he still is. It also doesn’t help that he’s not sure if he wants to pursue a career with his degree. He was just really lost and he told me he wanted to start earning already because he wanted to help his family. So I told him he can try working in a call center for the meantime because where were from it’s basically the only job you can get that isn’t that picky with your educational background and doesn’t require any previous experience. The pay is also significantly higher than what he would get compared to an entry level position in other jobs. He wasn’t that thrilled because it would require a lot of talking and he’s the type to get stressed easily but I told him to just try it because I know it would give him some sense of accomplishment and would also boost his confidence and take some of his shyness away. Honestly I wanted him to get out of his bubble because I know it would help him in the long run. We’ve recently been having some fights these last few months because I noticed he kept getting short with me and was not that affectionate anymore and he wasn’t like that before. He said he’s just really stressed at work and sometimes when he comes home he just wants some alone time but he can’t because I’m always clinging onto him. But we’ve resolved that and compromised. I promised to check myself and not depend on him for everything and he promised he’ll be more attentive. It’s just that I’m also stressed from work and I tend to cling onto him because that’s where I find comfort but I understand that he also needs his alone time. And it’s been working we’ve actually been fine these past few weeks, he’s been more affectionate and I’ve been giving him space. But it all crumbled this morning when I saw his secret instagram. And it doesn’t help that our sex life ever since we moved in together had really took a turn. We used to have sex daily when we first started dating and at least 3-4 times a week over the years. But after we moved in it went from once a week to only once a month now. I admit that even my sex drive dwindled down because I have no energy after work and just wanna cuddle. It did make me a bit insecure that he wasn’t all that touchy anymore compared to before but I didn’t wanna make it an issue because I know I was feeling the same way although we were still affectionate like kissing, cuddles and hugging just no sexual advances. But I at least try to initiate sometimes not because I want to but because I feel like we need to be intimate at least especially if it’s been too long. And yeah maybe for some validation on my part that he still finds me attractive. When I confronted him about the secret account and the liking sexy pictures stuff he said it’s because he doesn’t really feel sexually turned on by me anymore because we’re together all the time and he needs to miss me a little for him to feel that way just like before. I did notice that whenever he leaves and visits his mom on his day off and when he comes back he initiates sexy time because he missed me even though he was only gone 2 days. He also said we moved in way too fast and he wasn’t ready yet but he did it for me because I wanted to. Essentially blaming me and making it out that I forced him because if he didn’t agree I would have been sad. And yeah he’s right I would have been sad and hurt but after that initial reaction I still would have understood. It’s not like I’m forcing him to stay although that’s how he feels just because whenever the topic of him leaving at some point makes me sad. I’m not emotionally blackmailing him but I can’t help it if that’s how I really feel and again I wouldn’t stop him when that time comes but of course I would still be sad. I knew he was gonna leave when he saved up enough and had time to figure out what he wants to pursue so I always knew it was coming. Part of me did want him here with me but it wasn’t just for that sole reason. I wanted to help him start somewhere earning money because he also said he didn’t wanna be a burden to his mom anymore like adding to the expenses when he could be helping. He said he feels trapped like he can’t leave because I wouldn’t approve or it’s not what I want even though I’ve never once said that I wouldn’t allow him to but for some reason that’s what he gets from my emotions as if I’m not allowed to feel sad about it. Going back to his secret account thing so he says it’s his way of fulfilling his needs since he’s not able to get it from me since he’s not turned on by me anymore. He wasn’t even defending himself and making excuses about it because he knew it was wrong. He even said that although he would never cheat on me with an actual person but there’s still no excuse with what he’s doing which is jerking off to pictures because he said it’s still somewhat cheating. I just can’t understand why he needs to resort to that when he could have just told me and we could have tried to work something out. When I told him that he said it’s because he knows I would have been emotional and hurt if I knew that’s how he felt that’s why he hid it from me in the first place. But it’s just so much worse finding out this way. I don’t know if it’s just me but if it were porn videos it wouldn’t have been an issue. It just really hits all my insecurities that he’s liking pictures of just regular girls wearing sexy clothes. And not even sl*tty outfits. Literally just regular clothes but revealing and posing in a sexy way. He always assures me that he still finds me beautiful no matter how I look after a stressful day but after what I just found out and him not sexually attracted to me anymore I just don’t know what to believe. Am I crazy that even after all that I still don’t wanna leave him? When I confronted him he was the one who was even telling me to fully realize what is happening and to not make excuses for what he did because that’s what I was doing. He wasn’t even defending himself and said I deserved a better guy who wants the same things I do. He said he still loves me but he feels stressed and trapped with our current situation and that I should stop being in denial and making excuses for what he did like I need to have some boundaries for myself and not be blinded by how much I love him. I’m just so confused and even after typing all this out I don’t know why I can’t let go
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I (27F) just found out my boyfriend (24M) has a secret instagram account where he likes other girl’s pictures on. And they’re not even OF models or celebrities, just regular accounts of girls who posts sexy pictures and thirst traps. I feel so betrayed and disrespected. He even hid the instagram app on his phone so it wont appear on his homescreen to ensure I wouldn’t see that he even has it installed.
For context, I looked through everything on the account and he wasn’t following anyone or had any followers at all. There were also no chats, no comments. There were only likes and the most recent one was a 44 week old post. I would say in total there would have been around 30 liked posts of girls either in bikinis or revealing outfits. Looked through the account and log in history and I was able to sum up that he recently just installed it again yesterday and previous to that he used it around 7 weeks ago. I also saw that he created the account September 2023 which would have been around the time we first moved in together but when I confronted him about it he said he’s had the account even before we were together and just recently reactivated it at that time which I don’t even know if it’s true because I don’t use instagram but that was the very first account history I saw that it was created last year.
We’ve been together 3 years now and been living together since September. I work in a call center and moved to a new city last year in July which was also the time he graduated and he visited me here before visiting his grandma and cousins and he stayed there for a month because he also wanted to enjoy his free time first before thinking about finding work.
I’ve always wanted us to live together because I hated needing to go home separately after spending the day together. We weren’t at the situation where we could do it because he was still in school and relying on his parents and I also was still living with my family. I would have moved out much earlier but I didn’t wanna be far away from him and it would have been a very long discussion with my family if I were to move out but still be in the same town (I’m asian) since it was also a fairly small town. I didn’t plan on getting a job from a different city right at the time he graduated. I actually quit my previous job earlier that year and it was just the best option I had during that time even though it did require me to be far away from him but I also really wanted to move away and just be independent. And in my head it all fell into place because I though he could just stay with me after his vacation and find a job in the same city. He was at a place in his life where he’s still trying to figure out what he wants to do and he still is. It also doesn’t help that he’s not sure if he wants to pursue a career with his degree. He was just really lost and he told me he wanted to start earning already because he wanted to help his family. So I told him he can try working in a call center for the meantime because where were from it’s basically the only job you can get that isn’t that picky with your educational background and doesn’t require any previous experience. The pay is also significantly higher than what he would get compared to an entry level position in other jobs. He wasn’t that thrilled because it would require a lot of talking and he’s the type to get stressed easily but I told him to just try it because I know it would give him some sense of accomplishment and would also boost his confidence and take some of his shyness away. Honestly I wanted him to get out of his bubble because I know it would help him in the long run. We’ve recently been having some fights these last few months because I noticed he kept getting short with me and was not that affectionate anymore and he wasn’t like that before. He said he’s just really stressed at work and sometimes when he comes home he just wants some alone time but he can’t because I’m always clinging onto him. But we’ve resolved that and compromised. I promised to check myself and not depend on him for everything and he promised he’ll be more attentive. It’s just that I’m also stressed from work and I tend to cling onto him because that’s where I find comfort but I understand that he also needs his alone time. And it’s been working we’ve actually been fine these past few weeks, he’s been more affectionate and I’ve been giving him space. But it all crumbled this morning when I saw his secret instagram. And it doesn’t help that our sex life ever since we moved in together had really took a turn. We used to have sex daily when we first started dating and at least 3-4 times a week over the years. But after we moved in it went from once a week to only once a month now. I admit that even my sex drive dwindled down because I have no energy after work and just wanna cuddle. It did make me a bit insecure that he wasn’t all that touchy anymore compared to before but I didn’t wanna make it an issue because I know I was feeling the same way although we were still affectionate like kissing, cuddles and hugging just no sexual advances. But I at least try to initiate sometimes not because I want to but because I feel like we need to be intimate at least especially if it’s been too long. And yeah maybe for some validation on my part that he still finds me attractive. When I confronted him about the secret account and the liking sexy pictures stuff he said it’s because he doesn’t really feel sexually turned on by me anymore because we’re together all the time and he needs to miss me a little for him to feel that way just like before. I did notice that whenever he leaves and visits his mom on his day off and when he comes back he initiates sexy time because he missed me even though he was only gone 2 days. He also said we moved in way too fast and he wasn’t ready yet but he did it for me because I wanted to. Essentially blaming me and making it out that I forced him because if he didn’t agree I would have been sad. And yeah he’s right I would have been sad and hurt but after that initial reaction I still would have understood. It’s not like I’m forcing him to stay although that’s how he feels just because whenever the topic of him leaving at some point makes me sad. I’m not emotionally blackmailing him but I can’t help it if that’s how I really feel and again I wouldn’t stop him when that time comes but of course I would still be sad. I knew he was gonna leave when he saved up enough and had time to figure out what he wants to pursue so I always knew it was coming. Part of me did want him here with me but it wasn’t just for that sole reason. I wanted to help him start somewhere earning money because he also said he didn’t wanna be a burden to his mom anymore like adding to the expenses when he could be helping. He said he feels trapped like he can’t leave because I wouldn’t approve or it’s not what I want even though I’ve never once said that I wouldn’t allow him to but for some reason that’s what he gets from my emotions as if I’m not allowed to feel sad about it. Going back to his secret account thing so he says it’s his way of fulfilling his needs since he’s not able to get it from me since he’s not turned on by me anymore. He wasn’t even defending himself and making excuses about it because he knew it was wrong. He even said that although he would never cheat on me with an actual person but there’s still no excuse with what he’s doing which is jerking off to pictures because he said it’s still somewhat cheating. I just can’t understand why he needs to resort to that when he could have just told me and we could have tried to work something out. When I told him that he said it’s because he knows I would have been emotional and hurt if I knew that’s how he felt that’s why he hid it from me in the first place. But it’s just so much worse finding out this way. I don’t know if it’s just me but if it were porn videos it wouldn’t have been an issue. It just really hits all my insecurities that he’s liking pictures of just regular girls wearing sexy clothes. And not even sl*tty outfits. Literally just regular clothes but revealing and posing in a sexy way. He always assures me that he still finds me beautiful no matter how I look after a stressful day but after what I just found out and him not sexually attracted to me anymore I just don’t know what to believe. Am I crazy that even after all that I still don’t wanna leave him? When I confronted him he was the one who was even telling me to fully realize what is happening and to not make excuses for what he did because that’s what I was doing. He wasn’t even defending himself and said I deserved a better guy who wants the same things I do. He said he still loves me but he feels stressed and trapped with our current situation and that I should stop being in denial and making excuses for what he did like I need to have some boundaries for myself and not be blinded by how much I love him. I’m just so confused and even after typing all this out I don’t know why I can’t let go
2024.05.14 17:52 AntipatheticDating Best way to save or grow a small sum I got?
Hey all! Long time no see! I quit Reddit for a bit for my mental health, but I'm back to get some advice!
I went through a flood that destroyed my life last year, made a fundraiser, and after buying my absolute basic needs (a new bed, some clothes, etc.) I had $3K leftover.
I want to put this money away and just live really frugally, since I don't have a penny to my name outside of it. I'd rather live with absolute basic necessities than waste this money since it's more than I've ever seen at once in a really long time.
I put it in a tax-free savings account with my bank back in December, and since then the interest has only gotten me $38. Which feels kind of abysmal. I'm a student right now, and I have a roof over my head while I try to find a job, so there's some stability there. Since some friends thankfully are letting me stay with them to get back on my feet, I don't need to worry exceptionally hard about rent, food, etc. I've also already set aside and budgeted how much I need in a month for my own bills, toiletries, and whatnot. So I'm okay there!
I have excellent credit, and I have no debt. I've been really good about that thankfully since I was a teen. I'm 30 now, and single if that helps, so it's just me. I'm not sure what to do with this money, and I don't want to squander or make a bad decision that future me will regret (or thank me for) so I wanted to ask now!
I appreciate it so much, thanks all!
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I went through a flood that destroyed my life last year, made a fundraiser, and after buying my absolute basic needs (a new bed, some clothes, etc.) I had $3K leftover.
I want to put this money away and just live really frugally, since I don't have a penny to my name outside of it. I'd rather live with absolute basic necessities than waste this money since it's more than I've ever seen at once in a really long time.
I put it in a tax-free savings account with my bank back in December, and since then the interest has only gotten me $38. Which feels kind of abysmal. I'm a student right now, and I have a roof over my head while I try to find a job, so there's some stability there. Since some friends thankfully are letting me stay with them to get back on my feet, I don't need to worry exceptionally hard about rent, food, etc. I've also already set aside and budgeted how much I need in a month for my own bills, toiletries, and whatnot. So I'm okay there!
I have excellent credit, and I have no debt. I've been really good about that thankfully since I was a teen. I'm 30 now, and single if that helps, so it's just me. I'm not sure what to do with this money, and I don't want to squander or make a bad decision that future me will regret (or thank me for) so I wanted to ask now!
I appreciate it so much, thanks all!
2024.05.14 17:46 TheFreeTimeDriver I did a 3 month AR experiment. Here are the results.
I decided to do a 3 month experiment to try and get my AR above 50% so I could receive high paying offers. I decided to do this after having a slow day and realizing my AR was at 28%. DD displays messages saying if you are above 50%, you will receive priority to get higher paying offers. Some have said AR doesn't matter and others believe it does. I had to put it to the test!
Started on January 27, 2024 with an AR of 28%. I got my AR above 50% on February 11, 2024. My peak AR was 95% on March 24, 2024.
I made a spreadsheet documenting almost everything. The day, date, AR at the beginning of the day, AR at the end of the day, Active time, Dash time, How much made on DD, how much made on other apps, miles driven, Offers, deliveries, Customer tips, DD pay, Gas cost, Gast cost per gallon and how many high paying offers I received.
Screenshots were taken on most of my offers before I took them and after (a couple times I would forget but I got most of them).
Here is the story of my journey.
I DD and use other apps like UE and GH as a side gig for almost two years and work only on Saturday and Sunday (6ish hours Saturday, 8 hours Sunday). Monday-Friday I have another full time job. Since I was cherry picking offers, that tanked my AR below 50% but the pay was still pretty decent as I was still getting good offers. I make most my money on DD because UE and GH isn't doing that well in my market but occasionally I'll get good offers. It's a slow market where I'm at and there's a lot of other drivers. I do live in the biggest city in my state but it's not like NY, Cali or Florida.
One week I noticed it was pretty slow on DD and the following week was also slow. I've had a couple slow days before but not too bad and not two days in a row. It was unusual to have both Saturday and Sundays back to back not getting many offers and the same thing happening the next week. I didn't know if it was because of Winter or the beginning of a new year where people are trying to lose weight.
I kept seeing these messages from DD saying if I get my AR above 50%, I'd get priority over high paying offers and was thinking if I got my AR high enough, I'd start making good money again. On January 27 I took almost every single offer DD sent me and refused to multi-app so I could focus only on DD. There were only a couple offers I didn't take that were like $2.25 to go 14+ miles. Without a doubt I declined those but still took many horrible offers like $5 to go 7 miles, $3 to go 2 miles, $7 to go 12 miles, etc.
I was able to get my AR to 50% in about a month and peaked at 95% in 3 months. I could've raised it sooner if I did this full time instead of two days a week. I was making more money but not by much (I've made more with a very low AR below 50% and cherry picking). Since I was taking most offers, I drove more miles and of course that means more gas I had to pay. DD was sending me more high paying offers, which many were actually good pay for low distance. However, some of those 'high paying offers' were $4 to go 2 miles. Occasionally I would get offers like $7 to go 2 miles and DD didn't flag it as a 'high pay offer'.
I received the most high paying offers when I was at 83-85% AR. Within the 90% AR range I received a good amount of high paying offers but one day I never received a high paying offer. It was a slow day.
The day I received the most high paying offers was when my AR was between 80-85% (11 high pay offers). The day where I received no high paying offers was when my AR was between 88-90% (0 high pay offers but it was a slow day). Here are a couple more days where I didn't receive many high paying offers:
How am I doing Today? My AR is currently at 23%. I still make pretty good money cherry picking. Not as much as when I was above 50% but psychology wise, I'm mentally healthier. I'm not paranoid and stressing to keep above 50%. Even when I my AR was above 50%, the pay wasn't that much greater and since I was taking a bunch of crappy offers to keep my AR high, I had to buy more gas to travel for low pay. I'm now back to multi-apping.
In my opinion and the type of market I'm in, it's not worth being above 50% AR. Can you make more money? Sure. You will get more high paying offers. Are there drawbacks? Yes. You will still need to take more crappy offers and travel further for low pay to keep the AR from dropping and in return, DD will also send you more high paying offers.
My experience may not reflect the same as others in good markets. This is all coming from someone in a slow market where DD is dominate above UE and GH. I know all these delivery apps are playing a mental game with all of us. They'll do anything to manipulate us into taking offers and punishing us at the same time.
If anyone has any questions let me know.
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Started on January 27, 2024 with an AR of 28%. I got my AR above 50% on February 11, 2024. My peak AR was 95% on March 24, 2024.
I made a spreadsheet documenting almost everything. The day, date, AR at the beginning of the day, AR at the end of the day, Active time, Dash time, How much made on DD, how much made on other apps, miles driven, Offers, deliveries, Customer tips, DD pay, Gas cost, Gast cost per gallon and how many high paying offers I received.
Screenshots were taken on most of my offers before I took them and after (a couple times I would forget but I got most of them).
Here is the story of my journey.
I DD and use other apps like UE and GH as a side gig for almost two years and work only on Saturday and Sunday (6ish hours Saturday, 8 hours Sunday). Monday-Friday I have another full time job. Since I was cherry picking offers, that tanked my AR below 50% but the pay was still pretty decent as I was still getting good offers. I make most my money on DD because UE and GH isn't doing that well in my market but occasionally I'll get good offers. It's a slow market where I'm at and there's a lot of other drivers. I do live in the biggest city in my state but it's not like NY, Cali or Florida.
One week I noticed it was pretty slow on DD and the following week was also slow. I've had a couple slow days before but not too bad and not two days in a row. It was unusual to have both Saturday and Sundays back to back not getting many offers and the same thing happening the next week. I didn't know if it was because of Winter or the beginning of a new year where people are trying to lose weight.
I kept seeing these messages from DD saying if I get my AR above 50%, I'd get priority over high paying offers and was thinking if I got my AR high enough, I'd start making good money again. On January 27 I took almost every single offer DD sent me and refused to multi-app so I could focus only on DD. There were only a couple offers I didn't take that were like $2.25 to go 14+ miles. Without a doubt I declined those but still took many horrible offers like $5 to go 7 miles, $3 to go 2 miles, $7 to go 12 miles, etc.
I was able to get my AR to 50% in about a month and peaked at 95% in 3 months. I could've raised it sooner if I did this full time instead of two days a week. I was making more money but not by much (I've made more with a very low AR below 50% and cherry picking). Since I was taking most offers, I drove more miles and of course that means more gas I had to pay. DD was sending me more high paying offers, which many were actually good pay for low distance. However, some of those 'high paying offers' were $4 to go 2 miles. Occasionally I would get offers like $7 to go 2 miles and DD didn't flag it as a 'high pay offer'.
I received the most high paying offers when I was at 83-85% AR. Within the 90% AR range I received a good amount of high paying offers but one day I never received a high paying offer. It was a slow day.
The day I received the most high paying offers was when my AR was between 80-85% (11 high pay offers). The day where I received no high paying offers was when my AR was between 88-90% (0 high pay offers but it was a slow day). Here are a couple more days where I didn't receive many high paying offers:
- March 16, AR was at 87% and only got 2 high pay offers
- March 31, AR was at 93% and only got 3 high pay offers.
How am I doing Today? My AR is currently at 23%. I still make pretty good money cherry picking. Not as much as when I was above 50% but psychology wise, I'm mentally healthier. I'm not paranoid and stressing to keep above 50%. Even when I my AR was above 50%, the pay wasn't that much greater and since I was taking a bunch of crappy offers to keep my AR high, I had to buy more gas to travel for low pay. I'm now back to multi-apping.
In my opinion and the type of market I'm in, it's not worth being above 50% AR. Can you make more money? Sure. You will get more high paying offers. Are there drawbacks? Yes. You will still need to take more crappy offers and travel further for low pay to keep the AR from dropping and in return, DD will also send you more high paying offers.
My experience may not reflect the same as others in good markets. This is all coming from someone in a slow market where DD is dominate above UE and GH. I know all these delivery apps are playing a mental game with all of us. They'll do anything to manipulate us into taking offers and punishing us at the same time.
If anyone has any questions let me know.
2024.05.14 17:37 newgreyarea Writers, Artists help
So T Mobile is always trying to get me to buy an iPad and I’m finally tempted to. Though I’ll probably get it elsewhere. There are too many models!! I want to draw with Procreate, would like to be able to write using a pencil and do a little more of the general reading/internet on a larger screen than my phone.
Does the iPad with Apple Pencil do a solid job of writing? I’ve kinda lusted after that Remarkable tablet for years but could not justify it. I’m a songwriter so I’m constantly writing and even though it’s cool to have stacks of notebooks full of writing, it’s damn near impossible to go back and find a thing. Can we search what we’ve written? What app would I use? Is there a better one that I should purchase?
So I guess my overall Q’s are: Which iPad will give me the best writing and drawing experience for the price? Which pencil? Which writing app? I have a smaller iPad that the kid uses and we have procreate on there and I really like it but feel the Apple Pencil will do more than the Logitech Crayon that she uses. Plus I don’t like the way the crayon feels in my hand.
There are too many options. I wish Apple understood the idea choice paralysis! 😂
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Does the iPad with Apple Pencil do a solid job of writing? I’ve kinda lusted after that Remarkable tablet for years but could not justify it. I’m a songwriter so I’m constantly writing and even though it’s cool to have stacks of notebooks full of writing, it’s damn near impossible to go back and find a thing. Can we search what we’ve written? What app would I use? Is there a better one that I should purchase?
So I guess my overall Q’s are: Which iPad will give me the best writing and drawing experience for the price? Which pencil? Which writing app? I have a smaller iPad that the kid uses and we have procreate on there and I really like it but feel the Apple Pencil will do more than the Logitech Crayon that she uses. Plus I don’t like the way the crayon feels in my hand.
There are too many options. I wish Apple understood the idea choice paralysis! 😂
2024.05.14 17:37 No_Sir9518 Pregnant and in need of a car
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Again I am forever thankful. Anything would help.
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2024.05.14 17:30 agentbunnybee On coming out to your parents as a minor - probably don't?
This is probably going to be a little controversial, and this probably isn't the perfect sub for it, but I feel like it would be even less appropriate in main LGBTQIA subs, plus it's a situation that occurs in the raised-by-fundies community specifically a lot. Here goes.
I'm a bi ace woman. I understand that coming out is an extremely healthy and freeing experience for a lot of people, and that it can be extremely difficult to hide aspects of yourself from those closest to you. I also understand that high school is both the shittiest part of your life, and the time that you're struggling with understanding your overall identity the most, and that all your emotions are bigger and harder then. I lived it.
But for the love of God Almighty, if you are under 18 and you aren't 100% certain that your parents are going to be safe and accepting don't fucking come out to them. If you're 15 or whatever I know 3 years seems like wayyy too long to wait if it's hurting you to keep it in.
I understand things are hard, but don't be stupid. If your parents have legal authority over you and they are moderate or conservative Christian you have no business telling them anything about your sexual or gender orientation. If they're right leaning politically on basically any topic and they have legal authority over you, you have no business telling them anything about your sexual or gender orientation. Use your common sense. If you aren't sure how it's going to go, zip it.
Frankly I know this is extreme but for safety I would venture if your parents aren't literally openly queer they shouldn't know preferably til you're moved out but definitely until you're legally an adult.
I keep seeing posts across different subs, particularly recently one in the Episcopalian sub(hey kid, if you're here I'm not trying to put you on blast I'm just worried about you), where teens are like "I came out to my parents and it went badly :/." How are 90% of you not hyper aware that that's how it was going to go???? Do your parents not make any mocking or disparaging commentary about current events related to identity politics before you come out? Why was this not an expected and avoidable outcome?
For me it's most mind-boggling when they're literally 17. If you couldn't wait 8 months to tell them this when you have at least some minor ability to escape and get a job if they try to kill you, and they can't legally send you to a camp, then I don't know how you're going to function in other areas of adulthood that require common sense.
I'm sorry to be harsh but I keep seeing it and I know teens are smart enough to know better than to put themselves in extremely unsafe home situations for no practical reason.
I know it's a little harder for trans kids because you can get on HRT if your parent approves, but you need to be able to gage when there's no chance in hell that they will approve of that, and a high chance that they will make your life hell until you move out or worse. Especially if you have less than a year left to wait until you don't need their permission and they have no right to your medical info. If you're 15-17 Im fairly certain you are past the point where puberty blockers would have taken effect, at that point there's no point in gambling rushing it if it isn't a sure thing, even taking into account the mental health benefits if you succeed.
I feel for you, I do, but I also promise that high school won't last forever and 1-4 years of waiting to be free and safe will be gone soon enough if you lean on your friends, keep your head up, and your mouth shut.
TLDR: if youre a queer teen and you arent 150% certain your parents will react completely positively to you coming out you need to wait until you're a queer adult to tell them, for safety reasons. I love you stay strong.
ETA: i also know your parent deadnaming you can be incredibly painful, but if there's not a very very very good chance that you telling them will actually result in your chosen name being used instead, I still don't think it's worth the risk over waiting a couple years til it's safe and you have legal autonomy.
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I'm a bi ace woman. I understand that coming out is an extremely healthy and freeing experience for a lot of people, and that it can be extremely difficult to hide aspects of yourself from those closest to you. I also understand that high school is both the shittiest part of your life, and the time that you're struggling with understanding your overall identity the most, and that all your emotions are bigger and harder then. I lived it.
But for the love of God Almighty, if you are under 18 and you aren't 100% certain that your parents are going to be safe and accepting don't fucking come out to them. If you're 15 or whatever I know 3 years seems like wayyy too long to wait if it's hurting you to keep it in.
I understand things are hard, but don't be stupid. If your parents have legal authority over you and they are moderate or conservative Christian you have no business telling them anything about your sexual or gender orientation. If they're right leaning politically on basically any topic and they have legal authority over you, you have no business telling them anything about your sexual or gender orientation. Use your common sense. If you aren't sure how it's going to go, zip it.
Frankly I know this is extreme but for safety I would venture if your parents aren't literally openly queer they shouldn't know preferably til you're moved out but definitely until you're legally an adult.
I keep seeing posts across different subs, particularly recently one in the Episcopalian sub(hey kid, if you're here I'm not trying to put you on blast I'm just worried about you), where teens are like "I came out to my parents and it went badly :/." How are 90% of you not hyper aware that that's how it was going to go???? Do your parents not make any mocking or disparaging commentary about current events related to identity politics before you come out? Why was this not an expected and avoidable outcome?
For me it's most mind-boggling when they're literally 17. If you couldn't wait 8 months to tell them this when you have at least some minor ability to escape and get a job if they try to kill you, and they can't legally send you to a camp, then I don't know how you're going to function in other areas of adulthood that require common sense.
I'm sorry to be harsh but I keep seeing it and I know teens are smart enough to know better than to put themselves in extremely unsafe home situations for no practical reason.
I know it's a little harder for trans kids because you can get on HRT if your parent approves, but you need to be able to gage when there's no chance in hell that they will approve of that, and a high chance that they will make your life hell until you move out or worse. Especially if you have less than a year left to wait until you don't need their permission and they have no right to your medical info. If you're 15-17 Im fairly certain you are past the point where puberty blockers would have taken effect, at that point there's no point in gambling rushing it if it isn't a sure thing, even taking into account the mental health benefits if you succeed.
I feel for you, I do, but I also promise that high school won't last forever and 1-4 years of waiting to be free and safe will be gone soon enough if you lean on your friends, keep your head up, and your mouth shut.
TLDR: if youre a queer teen and you arent 150% certain your parents will react completely positively to you coming out you need to wait until you're a queer adult to tell them, for safety reasons. I love you stay strong.
ETA: i also know your parent deadnaming you can be incredibly painful, but if there's not a very very very good chance that you telling them will actually result in your chosen name being used instead, I still don't think it's worth the risk over waiting a couple years til it's safe and you have legal autonomy.
2024.05.14 17:29 No_Sir9518 Pregnant and in need of a car
Im almost 6 months pregnant, my car that I had has been broken down since February and they can’t fix it. They say I need a new engine that’s going to cost me $12,000. However, I found online a cheap used car for $2,000 with a $500 down deposit to hold it. I have the deposit but need the extra 1,500 until I get paid in 2 weeks. My last day of working is June 1, and I won’t be able to work due to the heat and physical demand at my job. I have cashapp and am only asking if people could send me even $1 to help me reach my goal of getting that extra for help. My family is can’t help and I’ve lost a lot of friends since being pregnant, guess that means they weren’t my friends. But I am desperate and in need of help so bad. I do work so it’s not that I don’t but getting ready for the baby has been challenging and expensive. If anybody could help, I would be forever in your debt and grateful. My due date is September 17th and coming up quick, really need this car to help for transportation until I can get the car sold as is or for parts :/ My cash app is $PeyoteChief
Again I am forever thankful. Anything would help.
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Again I am forever thankful. Anything would help.
2024.05.14 17:18 OkPound7382 WIBTAH for divorcing my husband after he did absolutely nothing for Mother's Day
Warning: mention of pregnancy loss and death of family members by gun violence
I, 31 female, have been together with my husband, 37 male, for 10 years and married for almost 9. We have two beautiful children, a 4 yr old son and a 2 yr old daughter and he has two other children with two other women that he doesn’t get to see and pays child support for. Before my son we had 12 losses, one of which I hemorrhaged from and then I ending up almost hemorrhaging to death after our son was born. We also had one more miscarriage after our daughter was born and I’ve since decided to not try for anymore even though this breaks my heart a little because I always wanted a bigger family.
I recently lost my mother and 10 year old niece in August after they were unalived by a family friend who also unalived himself. Less than two months later, my sister tragically passed in a car accident. To say that broke me is truly an understatement. For months all I could do was cry everyday and feel excruciating pain. My mom and sister were extremely close. We messaged and called every day, multiple times a day even though we all live within a 10 mile radius. They were there for me through everything life had to spit at us. We already have lost every female on my dad’s side of the family. My sister and I were all that was left besides our own daughters. The future feels daunting knowing that there may very well be decades with them not here with me.
It’s been many months now and I feel like I am finally starting to feel happiness and I’m just doing my best to spend as much time with my kids and remaining niece and nephew. My oldest niece is my partner in crime especially now that we are in the no mom and no sister club. She’s only in her early teens and she had also been shot but thankfully survived.
On to the issue. My husband has honestly never really put in any effort for birthdays, anniversaries, holidays, etc. Usually my birthday I don’t give a crap for but it’s only because in the past I’ve been disappointed because no one ever did anything for it. And I’m talking about just like a card and cake. Nothing serious. I really have dirt floor standards to be frank because I just have learned throughout life not to expect anything. That said I am the person who no matter what kind of financial situation I am in will find a way to show love and appreciation no matter the budget. I’ll make you hand made cards, I’ll personally call you on your birthday or special holidays, and I’ll make cake or cupcakes from scratch. If I have a budget I’ll plan dinner and some time to spend out. I just love making people feel happy and special. I was just raised that way.
So of course I find and marry the one person who honestly could kind of care less. I don’t think he has ever gotten or done anything for my birthday, not for Christmas. I remember he got me something for Mothers Day a few years ago…AFTER I had said something. My mom and sister on the other hand always made sure I got a card and we all had a Mothers Day dinner where we would cook and just enjoy time with our kids and ourselves.
This is my first Mothers Day without them and tomorrow and my sisters birthday without her. I had already verbally mentioned how hard it was going to be and my husband fully knew that it was going to be a hard day for me. My friends even sent him ideas for me, like just cleaning up the house and waking up to make breakfast for me. Things he’s honestly never done ever, but hey those are free things anyone could do to make someone feel special. All he said to my best friend was “lol I don’t have any money.” She got pissed. She ended up buying me flowers, a wind chime, some NA beer (I’m sober), and spent extra time with me because she knew I needed my support people on Mother’s Day. My dad also came out in support and got me more NA beer, bought me lunch, and we picked up my oldest niece and I got to spend a ton of time with her. My husband? Slept in until 10:30am. Didn’t do anything all day. I was up at 6 am with the kids and made breakfast after I realized he was still sleeping because ya know, kids can’t starve and I’m not going to wait 4 hours to have breakfast myself.
The thing is, this is just the tip of the iceberg. He can’t stay employed and oftentimes will switch jobs to avoid paying child support. Sure he’s present for the kids now, but when the going gets tough he pretty much stops putting in effort. I bet if I lived even 20 minutes away from him he wouldn’t see the kids often. He has never ever done much around the house despite me working MULTIPLE jobs at times (at one point I was working 3 and going to school). I work full time for a Fortune 500 company and he can’t even schedule a damn doctors appointment for himself. Any time I try to bring things up he’s dismissive or just denies things. And now he’s also getting more angry and aggressive because child support is being taken out again and he ended up swatting our son so hard our son doubled over…in front of my whole family! This along with Mothers Day has got me just thinking I need to divorce him. He can’t hit our kids like that period. All our son did was throw a damn smore at him! And I have multiple witnesses including my niece, grandfather, brother and SIL. I want to protect our kids. I feel like after that happened if I stay with him I am essentially condoning his behavior. I absolutely confronted him about it and he says he feels bad and should never have done it but he felt justified in that moment. I can’t trust someone like that. And it’s not the first time he’s swatted at our son but this was certainly the worst. So I am ready to leave just for that but then our son would have to be with him unsupervised.
If I am overreacting I want to know. He says I am and constantly says I am. I just need some clarity and maybe just support because if I do this, this is something that once the ball is rolling you can’t really stop it. I’m just afraid…but I think I’m more afraid of what will happen if I stay.
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I, 31 female, have been together with my husband, 37 male, for 10 years and married for almost 9. We have two beautiful children, a 4 yr old son and a 2 yr old daughter and he has two other children with two other women that he doesn’t get to see and pays child support for. Before my son we had 12 losses, one of which I hemorrhaged from and then I ending up almost hemorrhaging to death after our son was born. We also had one more miscarriage after our daughter was born and I’ve since decided to not try for anymore even though this breaks my heart a little because I always wanted a bigger family.
I recently lost my mother and 10 year old niece in August after they were unalived by a family friend who also unalived himself. Less than two months later, my sister tragically passed in a car accident. To say that broke me is truly an understatement. For months all I could do was cry everyday and feel excruciating pain. My mom and sister were extremely close. We messaged and called every day, multiple times a day even though we all live within a 10 mile radius. They were there for me through everything life had to spit at us. We already have lost every female on my dad’s side of the family. My sister and I were all that was left besides our own daughters. The future feels daunting knowing that there may very well be decades with them not here with me.
It’s been many months now and I feel like I am finally starting to feel happiness and I’m just doing my best to spend as much time with my kids and remaining niece and nephew. My oldest niece is my partner in crime especially now that we are in the no mom and no sister club. She’s only in her early teens and she had also been shot but thankfully survived.
On to the issue. My husband has honestly never really put in any effort for birthdays, anniversaries, holidays, etc. Usually my birthday I don’t give a crap for but it’s only because in the past I’ve been disappointed because no one ever did anything for it. And I’m talking about just like a card and cake. Nothing serious. I really have dirt floor standards to be frank because I just have learned throughout life not to expect anything. That said I am the person who no matter what kind of financial situation I am in will find a way to show love and appreciation no matter the budget. I’ll make you hand made cards, I’ll personally call you on your birthday or special holidays, and I’ll make cake or cupcakes from scratch. If I have a budget I’ll plan dinner and some time to spend out. I just love making people feel happy and special. I was just raised that way.
So of course I find and marry the one person who honestly could kind of care less. I don’t think he has ever gotten or done anything for my birthday, not for Christmas. I remember he got me something for Mothers Day a few years ago…AFTER I had said something. My mom and sister on the other hand always made sure I got a card and we all had a Mothers Day dinner where we would cook and just enjoy time with our kids and ourselves.
This is my first Mothers Day without them and tomorrow and my sisters birthday without her. I had already verbally mentioned how hard it was going to be and my husband fully knew that it was going to be a hard day for me. My friends even sent him ideas for me, like just cleaning up the house and waking up to make breakfast for me. Things he’s honestly never done ever, but hey those are free things anyone could do to make someone feel special. All he said to my best friend was “lol I don’t have any money.” She got pissed. She ended up buying me flowers, a wind chime, some NA beer (I’m sober), and spent extra time with me because she knew I needed my support people on Mother’s Day. My dad also came out in support and got me more NA beer, bought me lunch, and we picked up my oldest niece and I got to spend a ton of time with her. My husband? Slept in until 10:30am. Didn’t do anything all day. I was up at 6 am with the kids and made breakfast after I realized he was still sleeping because ya know, kids can’t starve and I’m not going to wait 4 hours to have breakfast myself.
The thing is, this is just the tip of the iceberg. He can’t stay employed and oftentimes will switch jobs to avoid paying child support. Sure he’s present for the kids now, but when the going gets tough he pretty much stops putting in effort. I bet if I lived even 20 minutes away from him he wouldn’t see the kids often. He has never ever done much around the house despite me working MULTIPLE jobs at times (at one point I was working 3 and going to school). I work full time for a Fortune 500 company and he can’t even schedule a damn doctors appointment for himself. Any time I try to bring things up he’s dismissive or just denies things. And now he’s also getting more angry and aggressive because child support is being taken out again and he ended up swatting our son so hard our son doubled over…in front of my whole family! This along with Mothers Day has got me just thinking I need to divorce him. He can’t hit our kids like that period. All our son did was throw a damn smore at him! And I have multiple witnesses including my niece, grandfather, brother and SIL. I want to protect our kids. I feel like after that happened if I stay with him I am essentially condoning his behavior. I absolutely confronted him about it and he says he feels bad and should never have done it but he felt justified in that moment. I can’t trust someone like that. And it’s not the first time he’s swatted at our son but this was certainly the worst. So I am ready to leave just for that but then our son would have to be with him unsupervised.
If I am overreacting I want to know. He says I am and constantly says I am. I just need some clarity and maybe just support because if I do this, this is something that once the ball is rolling you can’t really stop it. I’m just afraid…but I think I’m more afraid of what will happen if I stay.
2024.05.14 17:02 Queen_Lea99 Prolific - Shaip Approval Audio Job??
 | Hello everyone. Luckily, I was accepted on Prolific 1-2 months ago, so I registered there and have solved a few tasks since then. I was also able to pay out 4 times about €6 to my PayPal. submitted by Queen_Lea99 to ProlificAc [link] [comments] The day before yesterday I suddenly had this "job" in my tasks for the first time, recording 235 German audio recordings in an app called Shaip Work. I finished it and even got this task again yesterday. In total, I got almost $50 in approval through these audio tasks. My question is, has anyone had any experience with how long it can take for it to be checked? and can I get the cash safely?? because I definitely made an effort to read aloud and I can read aloud really fluently and well. Thank you 🥰 |
2024.05.14 17:02 AlexandertheIght How do I find out what to do?
Hello, I'm sixteen and have never knew what I wanted to do. I know a lot will say that's okay but I would like to have some goal for outside of high-school, esspescially if it requires a school. If I don't like it I can always presue a diffrent path, but just getting a goal in mind would be nice.
Like I said I have no idea on what I want to do but I do have loose ideas I've been writing down on my notes app. I'll copy and paste them now: Police SWAT (childhood dream job) 911 operator Welder Mechanics History teacher Port worker (got this idea from GTAV so likely romantizcised) Commercial diving (very very slim maybe) Entrepreneur my creative ideas (likely wouldn't go anywhere) Entreprenuer a bar and live entertainment Entreprenur a little store Social media manager (seems easy)
As of now I do live in Florida but am open to moving to diffrent states (likely sticking to the South or North-West), I am introverted but can and would work with a team and, I could likely do anything but I know I wouldn't be happy in an office cubicle or in a postion where it would be hard to see friends and famliy (like a trucker).
Any advice on what I should focus on or do is what I'm after, I'm open to hearing other ideas if you have them. Just don't give me the "you'll figure it all out".
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Like I said I have no idea on what I want to do but I do have loose ideas I've been writing down on my notes app. I'll copy and paste them now: Police SWAT (childhood dream job) 911 operator Welder Mechanics History teacher Port worker (got this idea from GTAV so likely romantizcised) Commercial diving (very very slim maybe) Entrepreneur my creative ideas (likely wouldn't go anywhere) Entreprenuer a bar and live entertainment Entreprenur a little store Social media manager (seems easy)
As of now I do live in Florida but am open to moving to diffrent states (likely sticking to the South or North-West), I am introverted but can and would work with a team and, I could likely do anything but I know I wouldn't be happy in an office cubicle or in a postion where it would be hard to see friends and famliy (like a trucker).
Any advice on what I should focus on or do is what I'm after, I'm open to hearing other ideas if you have them. Just don't give me the "you'll figure it all out".
2024.05.14 16:55 DoraSchmora What hideous jobs do you have scheduled today?
Just helped my youngest teen suit up ready to prise poo off his trainers. He is wearing a bin bag like a voluminous pinafore, a disposable face mask, goggles and rubber gloves. He has instructions and a jeyes fluid bath for the shoe to fester in once he gets the worst of it off. He did suggest the possibility of just buying a new trainers and binning the filthy pair but, as a responsible adult, I only entertained that suggestion for half a minute, maybe a whole minute.
Anyway, he is out there doing his thing and I am sitting on the sofa writing this, making myself keep it together because I have a phobia when it comes to turds. My dad was blind in one eye since childhood from contact with dog poo and I was reminded of this fact every verse end throughout my childhood, to the point of phobia. Anyway, sharing with you chaps is helping.
So what hideous jobs do you have to do today?
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Anyway, he is out there doing his thing and I am sitting on the sofa writing this, making myself keep it together because I have a phobia when it comes to turds. My dad was blind in one eye since childhood from contact with dog poo and I was reminded of this fact every verse end throughout my childhood, to the point of phobia. Anyway, sharing with you chaps is helping.
So what hideous jobs do you have to do today?
2024.05.14 16:41 mahlalie 17/20 Paid Dynasty startup 20tm 1 Copy IDP Empire-ish Rolling bankroll Fantrax $30
1QB/1RB/3W1TE/2FLEX/2iDL/2LB/2EDGE/3CB/2S/1DB/2DFLX/1K/1P/26BENCH/6TAXI
All TEs are also QB eligible.
I've been commishing both redraft and dynasty for about a decade (my longest-running dynasty is going into its 10th season), and this is my first auction-only, rolling bankroll league. Please read the charter if you think you may want in. It's long, but the league has a lot of quirks you should be aware of before joining. Very custom scoring and lots of way to earn, spend, or lose bankroll (FAAB/auction) dollars.
We've got weekly bankroll payouts, lump sum bankroll payouts, a mulligan rule, taxi raiding, taxes, public trade counters, bankroll payouts for snitching on roster violations, bankroll bets on NFL win totals/Super Bowl winners, DFS bankroll wagers, postseason DFS contests for additional bankroll dollars, additional bankroll dollars for beating teams with better records, and a flex-scheduled double-header week.
Let me know if you're game after reading through or if you have any questions. $30 through Fantrax Treasurer.
Startup slow auction will begin around 24 hours after everyone is set up/paid. It will be held on League Tycoon because they do such a great job with their slow auction setup on mobile app, but the league will be played out on Fantrax.
Charter: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1cZ9keNhW1CXUl5CchBWC-uBMwXlE6h4WZl7loA00SLk/edit?usp=drivesdk
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All TEs are also QB eligible.
I've been commishing both redraft and dynasty for about a decade (my longest-running dynasty is going into its 10th season), and this is my first auction-only, rolling bankroll league. Please read the charter if you think you may want in. It's long, but the league has a lot of quirks you should be aware of before joining. Very custom scoring and lots of way to earn, spend, or lose bankroll (FAAB/auction) dollars.
We've got weekly bankroll payouts, lump sum bankroll payouts, a mulligan rule, taxi raiding, taxes, public trade counters, bankroll payouts for snitching on roster violations, bankroll bets on NFL win totals/Super Bowl winners, DFS bankroll wagers, postseason DFS contests for additional bankroll dollars, additional bankroll dollars for beating teams with better records, and a flex-scheduled double-header week.
Let me know if you're game after reading through or if you have any questions. $30 through Fantrax Treasurer.
Startup slow auction will begin around 24 hours after everyone is set up/paid. It will be held on League Tycoon because they do such a great job with their slow auction setup on mobile app, but the league will be played out on Fantrax.
Charter: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1cZ9keNhW1CXUl5CchBWC-uBMwXlE6h4WZl7loA00SLk/edit?usp=drivesdk
2024.05.14 16:41 princesskait666 UPDATE: this place is purgatory
hey friends. a few months ago i made a post in here under the same name “this place is purgatory” talking about how fucking awful this place is for your physical and mental health. there are situations involving my store and district that i so badly wish i could share in here but just know if the time comes where i can put my DM on blast it will happen 🩵 today is tuesday may 14 and i have been officially done with the siren for an entire week. leaving my store and the friends ive made was absolutely bittersweet but i know it’s the right choice for me. im still in between jobs (working on my art full time) but even that stress is less than that of working for the siren. my biggest piece of advice is to save up as much as you can and GTFO asap. i will share that today is day 45 of my store not having a manager. by my DM’s own negligence. my partners are my friends and we still talk daily and things have only gotten worse over the past week. i haven’t even gone to get my tips yet as i don’t think i could see her and not cuss her ou as im no longer her employee. i want you to know that it is NOT NORMAL the way this job makes us feel. there is capitalist hellscapes, and then there’s Starbucks. you are not lazy or incompetent or slow. you’re a human being and your body is having the proper reaction to the environment you are in. i believe in you. you all believed in me and i was able to move on. we’ve got this yall 🩵
EDIT TO ADD: customers thank you for making the job bearable. partners at my store were encouraging disgruntled customers to call corporate about our store ATP. leave reviews on the app, call the resources, let corporate know that you won’t give them your businesses until they treat their employees better.
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EDIT TO ADD: customers thank you for making the job bearable. partners at my store were encouraging disgruntled customers to call corporate about our store ATP. leave reviews on the app, call the resources, let corporate know that you won’t give them your businesses until they treat their employees better.
2024.05.14 16:39 Sweaty-Pea-527 Ex bf cheated on me throughout the relationship, I have given my all in that relationship, and I'm being punished with so much pain.
I (33,f) was with my ex bf (33,m) for a year and half. We met on Okcupid, and were very alike in many ways and hit it off right away, 4 months later, we decided to go steady. He came off as someone who was very family oriented, someone who cared about building a legacy, and was marriage minded, and that I was his first girlfriend.
Being together with him felt like a dream, he accepted me as a whole, encouraged me to improve, didn't leave when i went through surgery early on in our relationship, he took me to all his company's annual dinners, brought me to see his parents a month into getting official and I brought him to see mine a little later, he took us out on our first trip when we got intimate for the first time. Things were mostly peaceful and we hardly fought, i took care of him in every way I could, cooked, cleaned, took care of him when he was sick. I have never cared a single bit that he was earning lesser than I was, and I shared the dating expenses. I was nothing but grateful and happy to have found someone like him after all the prior unlucky encounters.
At one point in our relationship, he was having issues at work where his probation was being extended, I comforted him and worked together to pass the extension, i passed his cv to all the headhunters in my contacts and hoping it would help him securing a job opportunity elsewhere, he eventually passed and we celebrated it by taking a trip together.
After the trip, I found out that he's always had dating apps installed on his phone, i was devastated when I first found out and confronted him over it. He cried and begged that it was because he thought i would leave him as he was on the verge of losing his job at the time, he promised that he didn't swipe nor cheat on me, I broke down and promised him that I would always be by his side. He uninstalled the dating app after i found out and promised that we'll work towards our future, so we began our house hunting, and he eventually bought his first apartment for us.
A few months later, i realized my period stopped because of the pills, we discussed over it and agreed to stop the pills, and he'd be using condom moving forward. However, he was really undisciplined when it comes to contraception and i eventually got pregnant, i didn't want to abort the child at first and told him we should just get married, he said that he wasn't ready and talked me into having an abortion. I was sad, but I didn't want my child to live a life where the father didn't want him. He promised that we would have our children in the future when the time was right. And so we went with his decision, I was crying the whole night before the visit and cried in front of the doctor. It was beyond devastating for me.
Fast forward to 26th of December, I had a hunch that he was hiding something from me, so I went through his phone, turned out he had been cheating on me since day 1 with girls from dating apps, he had been taking them out on dates, attempting to sleep with them. He used all my favourite pictures that i took of him on dating apps, claimed that he was looking for long-term relationships. It killed me to know that he texted them on my birthday, flirted with them on Valentine's day, cheated on me even when I was helping him with job hunting while he lived a double life that I knew nothing of. I confronted him right away, and he claimed it was because his parents didn't like me, he begged me not to go, he claimed that he hadn't done anything physical with them and swore he will not cheat on me ever again, and we went for our first couple counselling on the same night. Life after that was hell, i couldn't trust him, i was fighting with my own self-respect, i fell into a deep depression. We tried our best at rebuilding the trust, and i acknowledged that he tried his best to reassure me and calmed me down whenever i was having a panic attack.
We decided to take a 3 week break after a month of trying to reconcile, the 3 weeks of no contact were brutal, i didn't know if he was cheating on me but I was so afraid of losing him at the same time. 3 weeks later, he came over to my house with gifts and broke up with me. I begged for him not to go, and that we can mend things. He wished me all the best and promised that i'll find my forever person one day and he then just left.
It's been 3 and a half months since the break up, and it still haunts me, i tried my best in that relationship, i gave in my all, i was a good girlfriend, i listened to him and was supportive. But this is what i'm being rewarded with, a very painful experience.
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Being together with him felt like a dream, he accepted me as a whole, encouraged me to improve, didn't leave when i went through surgery early on in our relationship, he took me to all his company's annual dinners, brought me to see his parents a month into getting official and I brought him to see mine a little later, he took us out on our first trip when we got intimate for the first time. Things were mostly peaceful and we hardly fought, i took care of him in every way I could, cooked, cleaned, took care of him when he was sick. I have never cared a single bit that he was earning lesser than I was, and I shared the dating expenses. I was nothing but grateful and happy to have found someone like him after all the prior unlucky encounters.
At one point in our relationship, he was having issues at work where his probation was being extended, I comforted him and worked together to pass the extension, i passed his cv to all the headhunters in my contacts and hoping it would help him securing a job opportunity elsewhere, he eventually passed and we celebrated it by taking a trip together.
After the trip, I found out that he's always had dating apps installed on his phone, i was devastated when I first found out and confronted him over it. He cried and begged that it was because he thought i would leave him as he was on the verge of losing his job at the time, he promised that he didn't swipe nor cheat on me, I broke down and promised him that I would always be by his side. He uninstalled the dating app after i found out and promised that we'll work towards our future, so we began our house hunting, and he eventually bought his first apartment for us.
A few months later, i realized my period stopped because of the pills, we discussed over it and agreed to stop the pills, and he'd be using condom moving forward. However, he was really undisciplined when it comes to contraception and i eventually got pregnant, i didn't want to abort the child at first and told him we should just get married, he said that he wasn't ready and talked me into having an abortion. I was sad, but I didn't want my child to live a life where the father didn't want him. He promised that we would have our children in the future when the time was right. And so we went with his decision, I was crying the whole night before the visit and cried in front of the doctor. It was beyond devastating for me.
Fast forward to 26th of December, I had a hunch that he was hiding something from me, so I went through his phone, turned out he had been cheating on me since day 1 with girls from dating apps, he had been taking them out on dates, attempting to sleep with them. He used all my favourite pictures that i took of him on dating apps, claimed that he was looking for long-term relationships. It killed me to know that he texted them on my birthday, flirted with them on Valentine's day, cheated on me even when I was helping him with job hunting while he lived a double life that I knew nothing of. I confronted him right away, and he claimed it was because his parents didn't like me, he begged me not to go, he claimed that he hadn't done anything physical with them and swore he will not cheat on me ever again, and we went for our first couple counselling on the same night. Life after that was hell, i couldn't trust him, i was fighting with my own self-respect, i fell into a deep depression. We tried our best at rebuilding the trust, and i acknowledged that he tried his best to reassure me and calmed me down whenever i was having a panic attack.
We decided to take a 3 week break after a month of trying to reconcile, the 3 weeks of no contact were brutal, i didn't know if he was cheating on me but I was so afraid of losing him at the same time. 3 weeks later, he came over to my house with gifts and broke up with me. I begged for him not to go, and that we can mend things. He wished me all the best and promised that i'll find my forever person one day and he then just left.
It's been 3 and a half months since the break up, and it still haunts me, i tried my best in that relationship, i gave in my all, i was a good girlfriend, i listened to him and was supportive. But this is what i'm being rewarded with, a very painful experience.
2024.05.14 16:38 ThenPoet9554 AITAH for hating my younger sister
Me (19M) and my younger sister (17F) both live at home with both our parents, along with my girlfriend, my older sister and my younger brother. My older sister and girlfriend both agree with me when it comes to disliking my sister.
It all kinda started when she got into highschool, she began hanging around the wrong people, just being a general delinquent, constant detentions, behavioural issues ect. That then turned into her an asshole, breaking peoples things like my neighbours wall, she once also through flour all over another neighbours garden for literally no reason, and then refused to apologise and denied it, going into supermarkets and breaking things giving the staff abuse just trying to make a living just general shit like that.
Anyways that was all years ago but as time has gone, she has just gotten worse and worse. She got kicked out of school and put into a kind of disciplinary school which she never tried in and failed all her exams getting no grades whatsoever. She then had to get a job, which she got fired from for constantly being late despite her shifts always starting in the afternoon. So now she does nothing while being at home. For example my dad works weekdays and my mum works Tuesdays Wednesdays, and on those days it’s only her at home and she doesn’t help around the house cleaning but instead leaves it for whoever comes home from work first which is me or my mum most of the time and it isn’t fair. So that’s one part of my hatred
The second part is her blatant ignorance and selfishness. She stays up on the phone with her shit friends till about 3-4am waking me and my dad up, playing music, singing just everything to be annoying. She purposely talks loud because she has to be the centre of attention. She goes live on multiple apps just to argue with people and act hard towards them which again is because she’s so attention hungry but then shows me and my family in those lives despite not wanting to be on camera to a bunch of strangers. That’s essentially the second part.
The third part is her horrible disgusting boyfriend Cameron (m19) this dude is no more than a dirty little rat who constantly cheats on my sister (and I’m serious when I say he cheated with a 14 year old when he was 18). Anyways she excuses everything he does, he once threatened my 11 year old brother, he’s threatened me also, and when I removed him from my house for threatening me I was the bad guy to her. She is so selfish that she’d let this low life wannabe druggie gangster threaten her 11 year old brother? But when one of my friends watched my sister get beaten up and her things smashed up, I cut ties with that friend for that. But no my sister can’t cut ties with someone who’s much worse.
The final part comes to her and other peoples property, I live in the UK so I’m legally allowed to drink, and I’m not a heavy drinker but have a stash of spirits for occasions which she constantly steals from, both her and her friend do. And when they drink they take my car key and drink and smoke in my car stinking it up with the smell of alcohol and smoke. And when telling my parents they say “she’s not doing any harm sat in your car” “it’s better her be there and not on the streets” and when I bring up the alcohol “you probably drank more than you thought” I never drink heavy enough to forget, and my older sister has the exact same issue with her alcohol being stolen.
That’s about everything
Am I the asshole?
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It all kinda started when she got into highschool, she began hanging around the wrong people, just being a general delinquent, constant detentions, behavioural issues ect. That then turned into her an asshole, breaking peoples things like my neighbours wall, she once also through flour all over another neighbours garden for literally no reason, and then refused to apologise and denied it, going into supermarkets and breaking things giving the staff abuse just trying to make a living just general shit like that.
Anyways that was all years ago but as time has gone, she has just gotten worse and worse. She got kicked out of school and put into a kind of disciplinary school which she never tried in and failed all her exams getting no grades whatsoever. She then had to get a job, which she got fired from for constantly being late despite her shifts always starting in the afternoon. So now she does nothing while being at home. For example my dad works weekdays and my mum works Tuesdays Wednesdays, and on those days it’s only her at home and she doesn’t help around the house cleaning but instead leaves it for whoever comes home from work first which is me or my mum most of the time and it isn’t fair. So that’s one part of my hatred
The second part is her blatant ignorance and selfishness. She stays up on the phone with her shit friends till about 3-4am waking me and my dad up, playing music, singing just everything to be annoying. She purposely talks loud because she has to be the centre of attention. She goes live on multiple apps just to argue with people and act hard towards them which again is because she’s so attention hungry but then shows me and my family in those lives despite not wanting to be on camera to a bunch of strangers. That’s essentially the second part.
The third part is her horrible disgusting boyfriend Cameron (m19) this dude is no more than a dirty little rat who constantly cheats on my sister (and I’m serious when I say he cheated with a 14 year old when he was 18). Anyways she excuses everything he does, he once threatened my 11 year old brother, he’s threatened me also, and when I removed him from my house for threatening me I was the bad guy to her. She is so selfish that she’d let this low life wannabe druggie gangster threaten her 11 year old brother? But when one of my friends watched my sister get beaten up and her things smashed up, I cut ties with that friend for that. But no my sister can’t cut ties with someone who’s much worse.
The final part comes to her and other peoples property, I live in the UK so I’m legally allowed to drink, and I’m not a heavy drinker but have a stash of spirits for occasions which she constantly steals from, both her and her friend do. And when they drink they take my car key and drink and smoke in my car stinking it up with the smell of alcohol and smoke. And when telling my parents they say “she’s not doing any harm sat in your car” “it’s better her be there and not on the streets” and when I bring up the alcohol “you probably drank more than you thought” I never drink heavy enough to forget, and my older sister has the exact same issue with her alcohol being stolen.
That’s about everything
Am I the asshole?
2024.05.14 16:35 Bengamey_974 Simplified Timeline of Canon Movies, Series and VideoGames
Here is a list I made to help me keep track of the chronology.
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Upcoming "Dawn of The Jedi" Movie
- Young Jedi Adventure (Targeted at very young audience)
- Upcoming : The Acolyte
- Tales of the Jedi (Season 1 Episode 2,3 &1)
Episode I : The Phantom Menace
- Tales of the Jedi (Season 1 Episode 4, happen concurrently to The Phantom Menace)
Episode II : Attack of the Clones
- Clone Wars (2003) is no longer canon, but it has elements that bridges AotC with 2008 show. Jibaro's 4 parts fan-edit on Youtube, made a great job at keeping the elements of the 2003 show that blend well with the new canon : The first 2 parts : Part One: The Master and the Apprentice & Part Two: Knight of the Republic are set before The Clone Wars movie and serve as prologue)
- The Clone Wars Movie
- The Clone Wars (Season 1 to 3) (Episodes in The Clone Wars were not released in Chronological Order. You can find detailled order here: Star Wars: The Clone Wars Chronological Episode Order StarWars.com)
- Clone Wars (2003) Fan-edit : Episode 52.5 : The Final Trial is set during season 3
- The Clone Wars (Season4)
- Tales of the Empire (Season 1 episode 1, happens concurrently to Clone Wars season 4 episode 19)
- The Clone Wars (Season 5, 6 and first 8 episodes of season 7)
- Clone Wars (2003) Fan-edit : Epilogue: The Labyrinth of Evil (serve as prologue to Revenge of the Sith)
Episode III : Revenge of the Sith
- The Clone Wars (last 4 episodes of season 7) (happens concurrently to Revenge of the Sith)
- Tales of the Empire (Season 1 episode 4) (happens concurrently to Revenge of the Sith)
- Tales of the Jedi (Season 1 Episode 5&6) (happens concurrently to Revenge of the Sith)
- The Bad Batch (first episode happens concurently to Revenge of the Sith)
- Tales of the Empire (Season 1 episode 5)
- Jedi Fallen Order (Video Game)
Solo : A Star Wars Story
- Obi-Wan Kenobi
- Jedi Survivor (Video Game)
- Tales of the Empire (Season 1 episode 2)
- Tales of the Empire (Season 1 episode 6)
- Andor (Andor and Rebels take place concurently, Andor Season 1 happens concurently to Rebels season 1, Andor season 2 is not yet released)
- Rebels
- Vader Immortal (Video Game)
Rogue One : A Star Wars Story
Episode IV : A New Hope
Episode V : The Empire Strikes Back
- Upcoming Star Wars Outlaws (Video Game)
Episode VI : Return Of the Jedi
- Battlefront 2 (Video Game)
- Squadrons (Video Game)
- The Mandalorian (Season 1)
- Tales of the Empire (Season 1 episode 3)
- The Mandalorian (Season 2)
- The Book of Boba Fett (Must be watched between season 2 and 3 of The Mandalorian, last 3 episodes include important element for the plot of the Mandalorian Season 3)
- The Mandalorian (Season 3)
- Ahsoka (continues the plot of the animated series Rebels)
- Upcoming Skeleton Crew
Upcoming : The Mandalorian and Grogu
- Resistance (Season 1 except last 2 episodes)
- Battlefront 2, Resurrection DLC (video game)
Episode VII : The Force Awakens
- Resistance (Last 2 episodes of Season 1)
Episode VIII : The Last Jedi
- Resistance (Season 2)
Episode IX : Rise of Skywalker
Upcoming : "New Jedi Order" Movie
Legend:Live Action Movie
- Live Action Serie
- Animated
- Video game
- fan-edit of Clone Wars (2003) to mesh with canon
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2024.05.14 16:23 TJ_RJ45 Hyper Backup to C2 causing major slowdown
The team I'm on at my job manages approximately 30 Synologys. Most are DS220+s. One we installed for a client a while back has been having some major issues and we are having trouble figuring out a fix.
Their primary use case is working out of SMB shares. We also have it set to do ABB + ABB 365 along with Hyper Backup to USB drive and to C2. I believe that when we initially set it up, we had the retention policy on the C2 backup too high, so it filled up. We since cleared it (save for a couple key versions) to start fresh. It seems now that whenever it tries to do that initial backup, it bogs down the NAS extremely, extremely hard. I have never seen a NAS get so painfully slow trying to do a backup. The customer calls and tells me they can't do any of their work. I try to connect and can't even log in via DSM. I end up having to kill the Hyper Backup package via SMB to even do anything.
Synology support was a bit helpful, but I didn't get a worthy answer. What I really want to do is have the initial backup run so that the delta backups can work fine, but they are open 7 days a week and I believe (in concurrence with their connection speeds to the C2 servers) that it will take 2-3 days to perform said backup. Is there any way to have the backup run in a specified window? There is no time-window block feature like other apps on DSM, but maybe there's a way to pause the backup via a scheduled task or something? Would love to hear what you guys think because this is driving us up a wall.
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Their primary use case is working out of SMB shares. We also have it set to do ABB + ABB 365 along with Hyper Backup to USB drive and to C2. I believe that when we initially set it up, we had the retention policy on the C2 backup too high, so it filled up. We since cleared it (save for a couple key versions) to start fresh. It seems now that whenever it tries to do that initial backup, it bogs down the NAS extremely, extremely hard. I have never seen a NAS get so painfully slow trying to do a backup. The customer calls and tells me they can't do any of their work. I try to connect and can't even log in via DSM. I end up having to kill the Hyper Backup package via SMB to even do anything.
Synology support was a bit helpful, but I didn't get a worthy answer. What I really want to do is have the initial backup run so that the delta backups can work fine, but they are open 7 days a week and I believe (in concurrence with their connection speeds to the C2 servers) that it will take 2-3 days to perform said backup. Is there any way to have the backup run in a specified window? There is no time-window block feature like other apps on DSM, but maybe there's a way to pause the backup via a scheduled task or something? Would love to hear what you guys think because this is driving us up a wall.