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2024.05.16 11:58 Fun-Custard9831 I don't wanna die but man, it hurts so fucking much to live.
I don't even know where to start. My life has been a living hell for as long as I can remember. The past few years especially have been extremely tough. Things were supposed to finally get better this year and I've been trying so hard to get back to normalcy, but as expected, life hates me. I'm never given a break. I've been told multiple times, even by people I've met for just one day, that I'm the unluckiest person they've ever met (makes me think my narcissistic abusive dad was right in calling me a jinx in the past lol). No matter how hard I try to do everything right, something will go wrong. Every. Single. Day. I can't catch a break. And it doesn't help that my OCD has worsened 100x in the past year due to various reasons and it's killing me. I've had OCD for a long time but it's never been this bad. 24 hours in a day, I'm ruminating for 25. I've always had contamination OCD but it got extremely bad recently it's consuming my life and eating me up. My OCD also continues to find new ways to manifest itself every day. I have no quality of life now because I am so damn drained and tired and it hurts to breathe. I do stupid things every day and it makes me hate myself so much. I hate myself and my mind so much it hurts.
I don't wanna die because there isn't a quick painless foolproof way, but also because I have a mother who loves me and tries her best for me, even though sometimes that might never be enough. And it doesn't help that my OCD is getting so bad it's affecting her as well and she's understandably starting to get frustrated, annoyed and tired of me. One day she's gonna hate me too.
I don't even know what I'm rambling about now. I'm extremely tired. I just came back from school after my school's power outlet fried my brand new laptop charger as I was trying to submit an exam that was due today. I still haven't completed that exam but I might just give up at this point. Did I mention I used to be in the top schools in an academically challenging country and then had to drop out because of my mental health. Yea, that's like a death sentence here. Disappointment. Used to be the smart kid every parent wanted but now I'd be glad if my mom doesn't hate me.
I don't know what to do anymore. Has anybody felt the same way, where death is not an option and life isn't either. So you're just stuck helpless with no where to go.
This was an incredibly incoherent post that I threw together because idk things are really getting a little too much but i somehow can't pen it into words but thanks for reading till here if you did.
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I don't wanna die because there isn't a quick painless foolproof way, but also because I have a mother who loves me and tries her best for me, even though sometimes that might never be enough. And it doesn't help that my OCD is getting so bad it's affecting her as well and she's understandably starting to get frustrated, annoyed and tired of me. One day she's gonna hate me too.
I don't even know what I'm rambling about now. I'm extremely tired. I just came back from school after my school's power outlet fried my brand new laptop charger as I was trying to submit an exam that was due today. I still haven't completed that exam but I might just give up at this point. Did I mention I used to be in the top schools in an academically challenging country and then had to drop out because of my mental health. Yea, that's like a death sentence here. Disappointment. Used to be the smart kid every parent wanted but now I'd be glad if my mom doesn't hate me.
I don't know what to do anymore. Has anybody felt the same way, where death is not an option and life isn't either. So you're just stuck helpless with no where to go.
This was an incredibly incoherent post that I threw together because idk things are really getting a little too much but i somehow can't pen it into words but thanks for reading till here if you did.
2024.05.16 11:57 Charli334 Am I wrong for leaving my boyfriend who has bipolar?
Hi, a few months ago I (16f) was in an online relationship with a guy (23m) who I met in an online video game. We were together for 5 months. He was very kind in the first month, but then he started to get really angry and yell at me a lot. He would also accuse me of cheating on him almost daily. After he started to show this behavior, I decided to end the relationship, but then he told me he had bipolar disorder, and that this was the reason he would get so angry. I asked him why he hadn’t told me this sooner, and he told me that he was scared I would break up with him for it. After this, I took him back. When I asked him what bipolar disorder was, he told me that it was a multiple personalities disorder, and that whenever he would get angry, he would blackout and wouldn’t remember anything that happened during the time that he was angry. But I found that every time he would come out of his angry state, he would miraculously remember everything that happened. I think he may have lied about what bipolar disorder was though, or maybe even lied about having it so he could excuse his abusive behaviour because shortly after I broke up with him, I looked up what bipolar disorder was. There was no mention of bipolar having anything to do with multiple personalities.
Anyway, back to the story. After a few months of constant minipulation and blackmail, I eventually got sick of it and tried to look for an escape. I initiated breakup multiple times, but every time, he would either threaten to hire someone to kill my family as he knew where I lived, threaten to post private photos of myself, make me feel bad about something, or he would threaten to kill himself. Now, before you say “Why didn’t you block him on everything?” Trust me, I did. But this wouldn’t stop him. He would just text or call my brothers and manipulate me through them, or he would spam my mums Xbox account with messages when she was online, and I didn’t want her to get involved so I would just unblock him. Every time he would threaten me, I would tell him that I didn’t mean what I said and that I still wanted to be with him. But eventually, being with him started to take a huge toll on my mental health. I started to act in ways that I never did before. I would throw temper tantrums every time he would text in the morning, letting me know that he was awake. I would punch the floor repeatedly as hard as I could whenever he called. I became extremely sensitive and cried over the dumbest reasons. My brother ate all my muffins and I bawled my eyes out. I never cry over things like that. Being with him was litterally driving me crazy.
And so, I planned on breaking up with him as soon as I moved countries, which was only a month away. On the day of my flight, I ghosted him. I was scared that he would post private pictures of myself online, but i ghosted him anyway because I was genuinely going insane being with him. After a few days, I forgot just how much I hated being with him, and out of fear and guilt I apologised for ghosting him and we got back together. I instantly regretted this when I woke up the following morning. He was nice again for about a day, but then he started to go back to his usual behavior. At this point, I hated myself and would have done anything to go back in time and not apologise to him, but of course that’s impossible. All I could do was wait for the right moment. I waited for him to say something. Something so bad that he couldn’t possibly make me feel bad about breaking up with him. And of course, that didn’t take long at all.
We were in the middle of a game, and my dog was hungry so I left to go feed her, he got angry. Later that night, he heard her yelp in pain (I think someone stepped on her paw?) and these were his exact words; “Was that Luna? Oh good. She’s dying. Now you won’t have to feed her anymore.” I asked him to repeat what he had just said, and he did as asked. I calmly left the game that we were in and I hung up the phone. He was very angry and instantly texted me, saying that I would regret it if I didn’t call him back immediately. But I didn’t care. I was way too angry to care. After he realised that I wasn’t going to call him back and that I was breaking up with him, his mood suddenly changed and he instantly started apologising and tried to make me feel guilty like he usually did. It was Wednesday when this happened, and every Wednesday he would spend time with his family and go out somewhere. He used this to try and make me feel guilty. “Wednesday is the only time I get to spend with my family, and you are taking it away from me! I can’t go out when I’m crying this much!” He said something along the lines of this. (Which is ridiculous of him to say, as he would literally make me spend every single minute of every single day day with him, and would get angry if I wanted to spend time with my family. For example; when my dad wanted to take me and my brothers on a 2 day holiday to the beach one last time as a goodbye present, he got very angry and said that he wanted my dad dead. I still went anyway, by the way.) I just laughed when he said this. I was so happy. Maybe the happiest I had been in my whole life. Possibly even the happiest person in the world at that moment. But not because he ‘couldn’t spend time with his family’, but because I knew that this time, we surely wouldn’t get back together. After a few days, he stopped texting me and eventually gave up. Finally, freedom!
But to this day I still wonder; was I wrong? If he really did have bipolar like he said he did and couldn’t control what he said or did when he was angry, would that make me wrong for leaving him?
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Anyway, back to the story. After a few months of constant minipulation and blackmail, I eventually got sick of it and tried to look for an escape. I initiated breakup multiple times, but every time, he would either threaten to hire someone to kill my family as he knew where I lived, threaten to post private photos of myself, make me feel bad about something, or he would threaten to kill himself. Now, before you say “Why didn’t you block him on everything?” Trust me, I did. But this wouldn’t stop him. He would just text or call my brothers and manipulate me through them, or he would spam my mums Xbox account with messages when she was online, and I didn’t want her to get involved so I would just unblock him. Every time he would threaten me, I would tell him that I didn’t mean what I said and that I still wanted to be with him. But eventually, being with him started to take a huge toll on my mental health. I started to act in ways that I never did before. I would throw temper tantrums every time he would text in the morning, letting me know that he was awake. I would punch the floor repeatedly as hard as I could whenever he called. I became extremely sensitive and cried over the dumbest reasons. My brother ate all my muffins and I bawled my eyes out. I never cry over things like that. Being with him was litterally driving me crazy.
And so, I planned on breaking up with him as soon as I moved countries, which was only a month away. On the day of my flight, I ghosted him. I was scared that he would post private pictures of myself online, but i ghosted him anyway because I was genuinely going insane being with him. After a few days, I forgot just how much I hated being with him, and out of fear and guilt I apologised for ghosting him and we got back together. I instantly regretted this when I woke up the following morning. He was nice again for about a day, but then he started to go back to his usual behavior. At this point, I hated myself and would have done anything to go back in time and not apologise to him, but of course that’s impossible. All I could do was wait for the right moment. I waited for him to say something. Something so bad that he couldn’t possibly make me feel bad about breaking up with him. And of course, that didn’t take long at all.
We were in the middle of a game, and my dog was hungry so I left to go feed her, he got angry. Later that night, he heard her yelp in pain (I think someone stepped on her paw?) and these were his exact words; “Was that Luna? Oh good. She’s dying. Now you won’t have to feed her anymore.” I asked him to repeat what he had just said, and he did as asked. I calmly left the game that we were in and I hung up the phone. He was very angry and instantly texted me, saying that I would regret it if I didn’t call him back immediately. But I didn’t care. I was way too angry to care. After he realised that I wasn’t going to call him back and that I was breaking up with him, his mood suddenly changed and he instantly started apologising and tried to make me feel guilty like he usually did. It was Wednesday when this happened, and every Wednesday he would spend time with his family and go out somewhere. He used this to try and make me feel guilty. “Wednesday is the only time I get to spend with my family, and you are taking it away from me! I can’t go out when I’m crying this much!” He said something along the lines of this. (Which is ridiculous of him to say, as he would literally make me spend every single minute of every single day day with him, and would get angry if I wanted to spend time with my family. For example; when my dad wanted to take me and my brothers on a 2 day holiday to the beach one last time as a goodbye present, he got very angry and said that he wanted my dad dead. I still went anyway, by the way.) I just laughed when he said this. I was so happy. Maybe the happiest I had been in my whole life. Possibly even the happiest person in the world at that moment. But not because he ‘couldn’t spend time with his family’, but because I knew that this time, we surely wouldn’t get back together. After a few days, he stopped texting me and eventually gave up. Finally, freedom!
But to this day I still wonder; was I wrong? If he really did have bipolar like he said he did and couldn’t control what he said or did when he was angry, would that make me wrong for leaving him?
2024.05.16 11:56 mc_xris people who never seem to care for you at all
genuine question, why do some people never care at all for you?? like they do if they have no one be with, but the second they find happiness in another person, they act as if you weren't the one there for them when they were at their lowest. At first I just let it go, I got hurt, really badly. I got into a fight with a lot of people, I DITCHED half of my friends for that person because i was defending them. Then the moment they became okay with other people, they EASILY ditched me like that. We aren't even close for that long yet I stuck to them cause i considered them as one of my closest friend already. To make it worse, the people I ditched are the one they are with now, how awesome is that ! How I wish I could turn back to the past and leave them be and have them suffer alone. I just really don't get it, I never once left their side when they needed me, but now that their happy with some other people, I BECAME INVISIBLE. I would ask them to hang out, they'll say they have things to do, their parents need them at home, I'm gonna go with my partner etc....BUT WHEN OTHER PEOPLE ASK THEM TO GO, they dont even think twice and just leaves me. There was one time where I was waiting for them so we could go home together I waited ALMOST AN HOUR for them just to say they were gonna go somewhere else with someone, KEEP IN MIND, i asked and they PROMISED to go home with me that day.
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2024.05.16 11:55 xSAM529x What pokedex should i use?
I have been using poketype for a long time and really liked its ui and it had absolutely everything i needed whether it be ability, items, or even the map. But i have recently gotten back into Pokemon and i still jave poketype but its not updated to the latest region. I tried to look it up on google play but it says app not available since it was made for an older version on Android. So i need a new pokedex app with all the things in poketype at least, if there are more features the better and its easy to use. Thanks in advance.
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2024.05.16 11:54 z3pp89 Winning the Ekstraklasa after 7 seasons pt.3
 | Season 6: submitted by z3pp89 to footballmanagergames [link] [comments] After losing the league on head to head recruitment plan was to add better attacking players. My scouts had some good suggestions and DoF had a few interesting suggestions as well. Also new addition to recruitment was bringing Polish players from other European Leagues. I had a decent transfer budget of €3,000,000 and for the first time wage budget was not that good. That left me in a situation where I had to sell some players that were just average in last couple of seasons, but had high wages. Transfers out: Lawrence Ennali, (left winger) - €1,400,000 to Korona Kielce Iwo Kaczmarski, (defensive midfielder) - €800,000 to Gaziantep FK Lamine Correa, (striker) - free to Prostejov Kacper Chelmecki, (striker) - €1,000,000 to Piast Gliwice - winter With 3 high earnes leaving in summer, there was much more flexibility with wage budget so I got into the transfer market. Players in: Dawid Bugaj, (right back) - free transfer from US Lecce Filip Rozga, (left winger) - €2,500,000 from Legia David Kurminowski, (striker) - €1,000,000 from Kocaelispor Sebastian Jorgensen, (right winger) - €2,000,000 from Malmo FF Catalin Cirjan, (attacking midfielder) - loan from AEK Athens Junior, (defensive midfielder) - free from NK Kustosija Zagreb Talles Wander, (striker) - free transfer from Sao Paolo FC - winter Season started early with Europa League qualifiers. We destroyed KR from Iceland 11-1 on aggregate. In between those two game, we played Legia in Polish Super Cup. I was expecting a difficult game, but it was nothing like that. We beat them 4-0 and TSP got their second major trophy. Penalty, two goals from corners and well executed counter attack and that was it. Legia did made a lot of chances in last 15 minutes but we kept the clean sheet. Super cup In Europe qualifying rounds we beat FC U Craiova (Romania), TSV Hartberg (Austria) and, FC Zurich (Switzerland) to book our spot in league phase of Europa League. We had a tough schedule in Europe League, but despite that we managed to get through Knock Out play off round with the record of 3 wins, 3 draws and two losses. https://preview.redd.it/wlxalr8njq0d1.png?width=1920&format=png&auto=webp&s=5445ebcb41bc1ae9301943255e4db1875bbbbbf7 In the Knock Out round we faced SK Rapid from Austria and beat them. First game at home TSP won 3-0, going into the away game with lot of optimism. Away game proved to be tricky, we scored first in first half but by the end of the half Rapid was 2-1 up. Second half started good, as we scored for to tie the game 2-2, but then Rapid got into another gear. They were creating a lot of chances and scored two goals in 80's minutes. Last few minutes of the game were very nervy. We advanced with that result and were to face Tottenham Hotspurs in Round of 16. First leg was at home. We drew the game 2-2, which wasn't encouraging. Game in London was one of the toughest games in this save so far. They scored in first 10 minutes of the game and just kept attacking. Our goalie was having the game of his life. That's how the first half ended, going into second half they immediately scored for 2-0. We managed to get the one goal, but the final result was 2-1 for Tottenham. We were eliminated from Europa League. Polish Cup, with good additions in transfer window plan was to go for domestic treble. Cup was taken really seriously even in the early stages of it, while playing teams from lower leagues. In quarter finals we faced Wisla Plock. Even though they were in division below us they played amazing. We had to comeback twice to draw the game 2-2, only to win on penalties. In semifinals we faced Lechia, dominated the game and somehow only beat them 2-1. It was time for Final of Polish cup for two straight seasons. We played against KGHM Zaglebie. They were the favourites to win the game, but we played another amazing game and destroyed them 4-1. That was the second Polish Cup in a row, and one step closer to domestic treble. Polish Cup finals Ekstraklas campaign was quite successful, but no trophy again. Even though we had a strong squad that could potentially player in three different competitions simultaneously, somehow we still lacked quality to win the league. First part of the season was really successful, we only lost two games, which of course one of them was to Legia. Second part of season was more trickier, slump in March where we lost two games. Drawing 4 a wining 3 in our last seven games did not help. Legia was champions of Ekstraklasa once again. Signing from couple seasons ago Juan Carlos Arana broke the club record of most goals scored in one season, with 31 goals. New signing Sebastian Jorgense broke the club record of assist in one season with 15 assist. Despite whole squad scoring plenty of goals, Legia was still untouchable. Season 6 League Best XI for this season: https://preview.redd.it/16ywduwjoq0d1.png?width=1920&format=png&auto=webp&s=10aceae9a9705347ef1b8a90b88c502737d262c4 Season 7: This was it, now or never. I had a clear idea what needed to be done, who to sell and who to bring. With an good transfer budget of €5,500,000 and sales of few players, good wage budget, my DoF and I went shopping. Players out: Dawid Kurminowski, (striker) - €1,000,000 to Ruch Chorzow Marcel Krayewski, (right back) - €600,000 to Slask Wroclaw Ziga Lipuscek, (central back) - €1,000,000 to Al-Shabab FC Ben Lederman, (defensive midfielder) - €3,000,000 to Al-Markhiya SC Talles Wander, (striker) - €5,000,000 to Bristol City - winter Players in: Ilaix Moriba, (attacking midfielder) - free transfer from RB Leipzig Ronaldo Deacounu, (attacking midfielder) - free transfer from Korona Kielce Efe Sarikaya, (central back) - €2,200,000 from Cracovia Nicola Profeta, (defensive midfielder) - €900,000 from Deportivo Cali Petar Serdarski, (right back) - €2,500,000 from Lokomotiv Plovdiv Kacper Tobiasz, (goalkeeper) - €1,100,000 from HSV Karol Sakwa, (striker ***wonderkid***) - €2,000,000 from Lechia Gdansk Mamadou Doumbia, (striker) - €3,000,000 from Cracovia - winter Vadik Murria, (central defender) - free transfer from Prostejov - winter I went into this season with one goal, win Ekstraklasa. First part of the season went really well, two losses and couple of draws rest were wins. I was extremely optimistic that this is the season. There was a problem, even though we were winning, our strikers were struggling to score. A lot of mediocre performances from strikers, despite me thinking this is the best 3 strikers throughout the save. Talles Wander was particularly disappointing. Plan was to sell him and buy whoever was top scorer of Ekstraklasa at the time. Out goes Talles Wander in comes Mamadou Doumbia. With already 14 goals scored in first half of the season, I thought he was the answer. But he also struggled, missing some easy one-on-ones. On the other hand, new goalkeeper and new central back pairing Hoyo-Kowalski and Efe Sarikaya were on fire. Troughout the season we were battling Legia, but surprisingly Widzew Lodz came out of nowhere and at one point they were 1st with five points clear. Second part of the season, started with mixed results. First three games we had one loss and two wins, after that there was no stopping us. In last 12 games lost one and won 11. Most impressive thing was that Kacper Tobiasz kept 10 clean sheets in those 12 games. In fact he was so good that he broke previous cleen sheet record (held by Lukasz Fabianski with 19 cleans sheets) with his 22. We have finally won the Ekstraklasa. Champions! My favorite part of this was the fact last game of the season was against Legia, so they had to give as a a proper champions walk out (and we beat them 4-3). Here is a photo of this: Champions! Super Cup was played in beginning of the season and we faced Legia. Really tough game, 0-0 in full time and no goals in extra time. Not a lot of chances for either team, and low XG's. Penalties were deciding who would win. They missed two, we missed one and scored the rest and trophy was ours. Super cup Polish Cup, dream of domestic treble was looking more possible than ever. We went easy through first few rounds until we met Lech Poznan in semi finals. We were the better team, scored multiple clear cut chances, but as mentioned earlier our strikers weren't scoring. In the end TSP got FM'd and we lost on penalties. European football was back, we beat AaB (Denmark), Dnipro-1 (Ukraine) and SK Rapid (Austria) to book our place in Europa League - league stage. There we had some good performances. Four wins, two draws and 2 losses and we ended in 15th position to advance to Knock Out Play off round. There we met FC Utrecht (Holland). They were one of the teams the we won against in leagues stage. In first leg, away, our strikes couldn't score, on the other hand Utrecht scored almost every good chance they had. Game ended 3-0 and it was time to prepare for the home game. TSP dominated the game, 17 shots to their 2, but we only scored one. In the end they advanced to the next round. Europa league Best XI for this season: XI Bonus - Season 8: After winning the Ekstraklasa, my plan was to resign and find another long term project. Playing in champions league, and in back of my head fact that we could do domestic treble was really appealing. So, I decided to stay for one more season. Immediately I knew that team needed players who previously have played in Champions league. In my opinion team was good, but not Champions League good. So I dove in deep in scouting reports and asked DoF for suggestions. Transfers out: Nicola Profeta, (defensive midfielder) - €2,000,000 to Abha Club Kristoffer Velde, (left winger) - €2,000,000 to Vitesse Petar Serdarski, (right back) - €4,000,000 to ESTAC Troyes Camilo Mena, (right wing) - €3,000,000 to Standard de Liege Fernando Fonseca, (right back) - free transfer to Karvina Vadik Murria, (central back) - €200,000 to Slask Wroclaw Ronaldo Deaconu, (attacking midfielder) - free transfer to Aris Salonika Transfers in: Aljoscha Kemlein, (defensive midfielder) - free transfer from FC Augsburg Myron Van Brederode, (left wing) - free transfer from Panathinaikos Sadiou Sow, (central defender) - free transfer from Antwerp FC Frederik Nyheim, (right back) - €2,500,000 from Molde FK Miguel Maga, (right back) - free transfer from AGF Karol Borys, (attacking midfielder) - €2,500,000 from Legia All the players that were brought in played in Champions League at some point, I was still not happy with the quality of the squad. Even though I had clear target and money to buy new right winger, just to check with my buddy Artur Platek (DoF) to see if he has any suggestions for right winger and attacking midfielder. Here comes the fun part! He suggest the 33-year old Ousmane Dembele as a right wing and 34-year old Marco Asensio as targets. Both of them were out of contract, so I check the with their agents and surprisingly they were interested in joining TSP. Problem were wages, even though I had money in transfer budget it was not enough cover their wages. Hard decision needed to be made, sell someone for a lot of money and adjust budgets to bring these two. This made sense, both experienced, played and won Champions League, so I got to work. Only player who could generate a lot of money was 21-year old, former wonderkid, Damian Urbanik. After transfer listing him, best offer came from VfB Stuttgart. After negotiations final offer was €17 million upfront, €7 million after 20 games, and cheeky 20% sell on clause was included. With this money I definitely had enough to offer both Dembele and Asensio contracts. Also team needed another left back. Transfers out: (part two) Damian Urbanik, (left back) - €17,000,000 to VfB Stuttgart Transfers in: (part two) Ousmane Dembele, (right winger) - free transfer from PSG Marco Asensio, (attacking midfielder) - free transfer from FC Girondins de Bordeaux Kamil Pestka, (left back) - €3,000,000 frm FC Luzern Everything was set for the new season. First up were qualifications for Champions League, Paide LM (Estonia) were brushed away with 13-1 aggregate. Next team was Dinamo Batumi (Georgia), 13-0 on aggregate. Final obstacle before the league phase of Champions League were IF Elfsborg (Sweden). Home TSP won 2-0, and with 2-2 draw away we were official playing Champions League football. We did surprisingly well in the league phase. Four wins, three draws and 5-3 defeat at home versus PSG put us 11th place. Next up was Knock Out Play off round versus Olympique de Marseille. Tough draw, but I was optimistic. League phase Optimism didn't last long. First game was away, I played 5-4-1 formation. They easily scored 3 goals in first half in what was dreadful performance by whole TSP team. After adjusting the formation, making couple of subs, pressing more we started of second half really good. Scored two goals, but then Marseille started attacking, in last five minutes they scored their 4th goal and final score was 4-2. Second leg, we played really well, had better XG and made lot of chances. Unfortunatly best we could do is draw 1-1. That was the end of TSP campaign in Champions League. I was satisfied how it went, got lot of money for participating and wins during the league phase. I still dreamed of winning the domestic treble. After first game of domestic season (Polish Super Cup) that stayed just a dream. We played Cup winner Lech. Totally dominated the game, made great chances, had better XG. Full time it was 2-2, game went to extra time and then to penalties. Two of our players missed their penalties and Lech won the thropy. Super Cup Polish Cup was another heart break. We went all the way to finals where we played versus Widzew. After finishing 2nd last season, they had an horrible league campaign, they were in relegation zone most of it. Saved them selfs in last two games of the season. Cup final was a boring game, TSP played horrible and we couldn't do anything right. Widzew scored a goal from a free kick in 78th minute and that was the final score. Polish Cup finals After realizing that domestic treble is going to stay just a dream, I was totally focused on winning the Ekstraklasa. In first part of the season, we had one defeat, two draws and rest of the games were wins. Strikers were scoring goals again, and so did the wingers. Second part of season was a bit more complicated. Due to playing in 3 different competitions team had to be rotated, and sometimes players that would step in didn't perform well. With that being said, 4 defeats 3 draws and rest wins were enough for TSP win the Ekstraklasa second year in row. Radomiak, Piast and Legia came close few times to almost taking over the first place, but somehow we would score important goals and win the games. One thing that we had this season compared to previous years was consistency. Defenders and strikers were finally all producing some good performances. Wingers were lethal from wide areas. In the end, nine players had double figure goals and Sebastian Jorgensen broke his own record for assists by providing 18 to his teammates. Only player who stayed with the club during this whole save is Marcel Misztal. He went from playing in Polish second tier to playing Champions League football. League table Champions! Best XI season 8: Best XI Full squad - season 8 This is the end of this amazing save. Probably had most fun in last couple of years playing manager. With (self imposed) transfer and recruitment restrictions, it was quite challenging sometimes but thoroughly enjoyable. This post probably won't be seen by many people but I had to share this save with someone. Trophies won during this save:
One last thing that would maybe be interesting to share is Overall Best XI: Overall XI THE END! |
2024.05.16 11:54 Repulsive_Sea_7643 I have no friends
Hello, im 24 year old and i have no friends... Ive never really had friends even in shcool, from preeschool to like 4 grade i had class mates and all but after 5th grade , now i see it , i had nobody, i mean i was a part of groups but not rly... I remember waiting outside of school when class was done to walk home with my class mates but when they would get out first nobody said "ah this guy (me) is not here lets wait for him" you know. So yeah after primary shool i didnt ,or they didnt, stay in touch with anybody... Even now after 10 years if i bump into someone i knew back then they dont say hi if i dont say it first. And in middle school for first 2/2and a half years i had 1 or 2 friends then we kind of split, its not like i didnt try to talk to them its more that i felt like they didnt want me to be there so again i was left alone, sitting alone in class. Long story short after middle school Ive felt like the bonds that i had with people i was around with were fake. Even now i have to make first moves like send mesages first. Ive been working for past 5 years after middle school and i dont have work buddies ,and yea i talk to people but its not talk talk its more small talk they dont know me for who i am ... Never had a girlfriend, stopped going out , my free time is games and series on hbo netfix whatever, no friends , nobody to talk to,no will to make any just to be left behind after one or two years....Btw this isnt a post about you have to feel bad for me. What can i do ? Im an introvert with no social life
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2024.05.16 11:54 Grass_Short Hair loss
I’m really concerned about hair loss. I have mid-back, thick beautiful naturally straight hair that I take a lot of pride in. I don’t want to lose it, obviously none of us do but I’m wondering if anyone out there didn’t lose their hair.
Did anyone have success with anything to prevent/lessen hair loss? I don’t think the ColdCap is for me, as I’m kind of a pansy when it comes to cold. I do have a wig consult/fitting just in case.
My current meds are: Perjeta, Herceptin, Abraxane, and Carboplatin. I will be starting radiation in a few weeks so they’ll be holding the Abraxane and Carboplatin (I think they’re holding this too) and substituting Dexitaxal (maybe?) while I’m doing that for one cycle. I’ve currently only had 1 dose of Abraxane. TIA
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Did anyone have success with anything to prevent/lessen hair loss? I don’t think the ColdCap is for me, as I’m kind of a pansy when it comes to cold. I do have a wig consult/fitting just in case.
My current meds are: Perjeta, Herceptin, Abraxane, and Carboplatin. I will be starting radiation in a few weeks so they’ll be holding the Abraxane and Carboplatin (I think they’re holding this too) and substituting Dexitaxal (maybe?) while I’m doing that for one cycle. I’ve currently only had 1 dose of Abraxane. TIA
2024.05.16 11:54 Educational_Fold_391 How often can I wear my wig, and how long will it last?
I’m new to wigs, and recently got a couple of Chelsey Smith Cosmetics pieces. One is a long brunette, and the other is a brunette headband wig. I plan on the long brunette being my “daily” wig and the headband wig being my “work” wig.
The work wig will be worn at work for 8 hours, 5 days a week. I work in manufacturing and wear a hard hat with my hair tucked up underneath for a good portion of my shift, so that’s something to keep in mind.
When I change at the end of my shift, I plan on putting on the daily wig and I’ll wear that home and basically whenever I leave the house to go anywhere other than work. I likely won’t wear it much if I’m home alone.
How long can I expect these to last? Am I supposed to have a couple of wigs and be rotating them? Is there anything I can do to extend their life?
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The work wig will be worn at work for 8 hours, 5 days a week. I work in manufacturing and wear a hard hat with my hair tucked up underneath for a good portion of my shift, so that’s something to keep in mind.
When I change at the end of my shift, I plan on putting on the daily wig and I’ll wear that home and basically whenever I leave the house to go anywhere other than work. I likely won’t wear it much if I’m home alone.
How long can I expect these to last? Am I supposed to have a couple of wigs and be rotating them? Is there anything I can do to extend their life?
2024.05.16 11:53 Dry_Wolverine_8776 AITH for thinking my cousin and his wife have a problem with my BF
My BF (32m) and I (28f) have been together for nearly 5 years now and have lived together for nearly 3 years. Yet my family keeps acting like he doesn't exist.
For some background: my mom and I have a rocky relationship since we started dating because "she felt like I was leaving her behind"(her words). My mom threw me out after an argument, so my bf and his family helped me pack my stuff and we moved in to our appartment together. It took a year for her and I to reconnect but during that time, my mom spread a whole lot of nonsense to anyone who would listen about how my BF was a villain and I was an ungrateful child that got swayed away to God knows where. Due to this there were a lot of family events where I would be invited but he would not even be mentionned even as we had already been living together and dating for over 3 years back then.
Now on to the actual story: My cousin (M29) who I grew up with got married last year to his wife (25f). My BF had already been officially introduced to them as my BF and they had been around eachother and all laughing together at small family gatherings. BUT Both of them knew and had met him long before I ever did. They weren't friends but my cousin met and saw him at several events and his wife actually went on a first date with him years ago through a dating app. They never saw eachother again after the one date due to personal preferences and because she was much younger than he thought she was.
They didn't invite him to their wedding claiming they didn't know him but there were people there that they didn't even know personally. No one said anything or asked why he wasn't invited. Don't get me wrong, I fully believe that you can and should invite only those you want on your big day, but them pretending they didn't know him did something to me.
Then a couple months after their wedding they had a baby. Despite sending messages I only met my nephew on new-years eve, nearly a year later after everyone else had met him. And then I heard stories about how they told other people that I never showed any interest in their baby. Now a month ago they sent me an invite for his 1st birthday, they did not include my BF and asked me if I knew if my family (mom and brothers) would be there. I had to remind them that I don't know since I haven't lived with my mom and brothers for over 2 years. My nephew got sick so the party got canceled. Now that baby is better and my cousin's bday is coming up they made a whatsapp group inviting their side of the family, my mom, brothers and me but again, no mention of my BF. My BF hasn't shown in anyway that he cares but I'm starting to be worried that there really is something wrong.
I don't know if maybe I should talk to my cousin and ask if something is going on or if I'm just missenterpreting things.
So, AITH?
Ps. Please be kind in the comments, I'm not trying to start an all out war.
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For some background: my mom and I have a rocky relationship since we started dating because "she felt like I was leaving her behind"(her words). My mom threw me out after an argument, so my bf and his family helped me pack my stuff and we moved in to our appartment together. It took a year for her and I to reconnect but during that time, my mom spread a whole lot of nonsense to anyone who would listen about how my BF was a villain and I was an ungrateful child that got swayed away to God knows where. Due to this there were a lot of family events where I would be invited but he would not even be mentionned even as we had already been living together and dating for over 3 years back then.
Now on to the actual story: My cousin (M29) who I grew up with got married last year to his wife (25f). My BF had already been officially introduced to them as my BF and they had been around eachother and all laughing together at small family gatherings. BUT Both of them knew and had met him long before I ever did. They weren't friends but my cousin met and saw him at several events and his wife actually went on a first date with him years ago through a dating app. They never saw eachother again after the one date due to personal preferences and because she was much younger than he thought she was.
They didn't invite him to their wedding claiming they didn't know him but there were people there that they didn't even know personally. No one said anything or asked why he wasn't invited. Don't get me wrong, I fully believe that you can and should invite only those you want on your big day, but them pretending they didn't know him did something to me.
Then a couple months after their wedding they had a baby. Despite sending messages I only met my nephew on new-years eve, nearly a year later after everyone else had met him. And then I heard stories about how they told other people that I never showed any interest in their baby. Now a month ago they sent me an invite for his 1st birthday, they did not include my BF and asked me if I knew if my family (mom and brothers) would be there. I had to remind them that I don't know since I haven't lived with my mom and brothers for over 2 years. My nephew got sick so the party got canceled. Now that baby is better and my cousin's bday is coming up they made a whatsapp group inviting their side of the family, my mom, brothers and me but again, no mention of my BF. My BF hasn't shown in anyway that he cares but I'm starting to be worried that there really is something wrong.
I don't know if maybe I should talk to my cousin and ask if something is going on or if I'm just missenterpreting things.
So, AITH?
Ps. Please be kind in the comments, I'm not trying to start an all out war.
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2024.05.16 11:53 NekoJubei Predict the New Family Member Design
Hopefully we get news of the new Family Member soon since we are actually going insane with the wait 😭 but had an idea for fun discussion so here it is.
Assuming the new Family Member is going to be a dude, I predict him wearing a buttoned shirt with overalls alongside long-ish shoulder length middle parted messy hair with a beard for design variety since we don’t have a Family Member with neither yet. Also guessing his build to be right in the middle in between Leatherface and Johnny’s size, something like Bobby Hackett from The Quarry .
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Assuming the new Family Member is going to be a dude, I predict him wearing a buttoned shirt with overalls alongside long-ish shoulder length middle parted messy hair with a beard for design variety since we don’t have a Family Member with neither yet. Also guessing his build to be right in the middle in between Leatherface and Johnny’s size, something like Bobby Hackett from The Quarry .
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2024.05.16 11:53 fantomas801 No more migraines with this routine
(22yo male)
Hey, I just wanted to share my last discovery.
Since many years i’ve had occular migraines, I would say 1x/week, and I’ve never found anything that could decrease this number except this year.
I’ve started to apply topical minoxidil 2x/day on my face to help beard growth, minoxidil is a vasodilator, which means that it makes blood vessels wider, it is originally used on the scalp to help with hair growth.
It has been more than 2 months since i’ve started applying minox and still didn’t experienced any occular migraine, which is a exceptionnally long period of time for me.
My theory is that minox is preventing blood vessels from being constricted around my eyes, and that could be leading to less / no occular migraines.
I will be updating the post here in a few months to see if this is still the case.
I will be answering every questions if you have some 👍
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Hey, I just wanted to share my last discovery.
Since many years i’ve had occular migraines, I would say 1x/week, and I’ve never found anything that could decrease this number except this year.
I’ve started to apply topical minoxidil 2x/day on my face to help beard growth, minoxidil is a vasodilator, which means that it makes blood vessels wider, it is originally used on the scalp to help with hair growth.
It has been more than 2 months since i’ve started applying minox and still didn’t experienced any occular migraine, which is a exceptionnally long period of time for me.
My theory is that minox is preventing blood vessels from being constricted around my eyes, and that could be leading to less / no occular migraines.
I will be updating the post here in a few months to see if this is still the case.
I will be answering every questions if you have some 👍
2024.05.16 11:51 JarethOfHouseGoblin A TERRIFYING thought occurred to me recently.
I've talked about this before but a couple years back when I was in grad school there was a group assignment and the teacher assigned the groups. Well, there was this very Christian Karen who was part of the group. The assignment was we were supposed to use the prompt we were given and make a treatment plan based around it. For context, I was in a masters program for psychology and I say "was" because I graduated a few months ago. I'm paraphrasing but the prompt said "Jose and Susie are in their early 20's. They report having to have fought a lot lately and both say that they're frustrated with each other for not communicating what's actually on their mind." We were coming up with questions which could be asked that could then be incorporated in a treatment plan. Basic questions like how long they have been dating, how busy they are with work, if they live together. Yada, yada, yada. Since no one said it and it is entirely appropriate (depending on how it's asked, of course) to ask about sexual activity, I went ahead and broke the ice on that. Well, at that point, Karen piped up. The exchange went like this.
Me: we could also ask them if they're sexually active and how often
Karen: nothing in the prompt said they were married
Me, visibly confused: what does that have to do with anything?
Karen: well, I'm a Christian. I can't ask them things like that.
She nearly derailed the entire assignment over what is an entirely appropriate and normal question. Someone had to calm her down and we were able to get through it and got a good grade on it. But........wow.
But my interactions with her, unfortunately, didn't stop there. The following day, several of us (including her) all ate lunch together and someone brought up the topic of everyone's parents providing a relationship example. People talked about their experiences and then I shared mine. I mentioned that I grew up in 2 parent household and that my parents were very conservative. The microsecond I mentioned that, Karen bitterly and defensive responded "what's wrong with that?!" Before angrily standing up from the table in a huff and walked away for a bit. The incredible irony of this is I was just mentioning that as a bit of coloring to introduce my overall point. Because I had talked about that, although my parents were both conservative, they didn't adhere to strict "traditional" gender roles; both worked and helped out equally around the house. And I was ultimately praising my parents for setting a positive relationship example. Karen didn't hear any of that part because she couldn't fucking get over herself. I went into total surprised Pikachu mode upon the realization that a deeply Christian Karen was also a partisan conservative dipshit. /s
I bring all this up because of the scary thought which occurred to me recently:
I think we were set to graduate around the same time. Which means she very well could be a practicing counselor right now. A licensed counselor, mind you.
Holy fucking shit!!
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Me: we could also ask them if they're sexually active and how often
Karen: nothing in the prompt said they were married
Me, visibly confused: what does that have to do with anything?
Karen: well, I'm a Christian. I can't ask them things like that.
She nearly derailed the entire assignment over what is an entirely appropriate and normal question. Someone had to calm her down and we were able to get through it and got a good grade on it. But........wow.
But my interactions with her, unfortunately, didn't stop there. The following day, several of us (including her) all ate lunch together and someone brought up the topic of everyone's parents providing a relationship example. People talked about their experiences and then I shared mine. I mentioned that I grew up in 2 parent household and that my parents were very conservative. The microsecond I mentioned that, Karen bitterly and defensive responded "what's wrong with that?!" Before angrily standing up from the table in a huff and walked away for a bit. The incredible irony of this is I was just mentioning that as a bit of coloring to introduce my overall point. Because I had talked about that, although my parents were both conservative, they didn't adhere to strict "traditional" gender roles; both worked and helped out equally around the house. And I was ultimately praising my parents for setting a positive relationship example. Karen didn't hear any of that part because she couldn't fucking get over herself. I went into total surprised Pikachu mode upon the realization that a deeply Christian Karen was also a partisan conservative dipshit. /s
I bring all this up because of the scary thought which occurred to me recently:
I think we were set to graduate around the same time. Which means she very well could be a practicing counselor right now. A licensed counselor, mind you.
Holy fucking shit!!
2024.05.16 11:50 Alive-Ad6072 FRIZZY Hair : Difference a day makes 🤔
 | In a previous post I was mentioning how on hair wash day my hair as it dries is frizzy but the following day my hair is back to flat. It's always been like this, I thought everyone's hair did this but some of the comments said my frizziness might be because my hair has a curl pattern. I'm curious to try a different haircare routine for curly hair to see if it works for me. Does your hair get frizzy while it dries? submitted by Alive-Ad6072 to longhair [link] [comments] |
2024.05.16 11:50 selldrugsonline SOS
Im a long time player but, however due to restrictions (old console that refused to die so I never was forced to replace, games just crashed a lot lol) I never played the incredible DLC this universe has to offer.
Said console recently gasped its last breath, and now with an upgraded ps5 I’m ready to experience all this world has to offer HOWEVERRR
My motivation is lacking. I need inspiration! I have replayed the beginning sections of this game so often (there were lots of crashes and not a lot of money during this time of my life LOL), and I feel like I’m going to be pulling teeth up until end game. Any advice on how I can freshen up the experience?
I’m mostly just kicking rocks here, but really any advice would be greatly appreciated. Even some jokes to fall back on when I’m going through the gwent tutorial for the twelfth time.
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Said console recently gasped its last breath, and now with an upgraded ps5 I’m ready to experience all this world has to offer HOWEVERRR
My motivation is lacking. I need inspiration! I have replayed the beginning sections of this game so often (there were lots of crashes and not a lot of money during this time of my life LOL), and I feel like I’m going to be pulling teeth up until end game. Any advice on how I can freshen up the experience?
I’m mostly just kicking rocks here, but really any advice would be greatly appreciated. Even some jokes to fall back on when I’m going through the gwent tutorial for the twelfth time.
2024.05.16 11:50 mc_xris connection with other people
genuine question, why do some people never care at all for you?? like they do if they have no one be with, but the second they find happiness in another person, they act as if you weren't the one there for them when they were at their lowest. At first I just let it go, I got hurt, really badly. I got into a fight with a lot of people, I DITCHED half of my friends for that person because i was defending them. Then the moment they became okay with other people, they EASILY ditched me like that. We aren't even close for that long yet I stuck to them cause i considered them as one of my closest friend already. To make it worse, the people I ditched are the one they are with now, how awesome is that ! How I wish I could turn back to the past and leave them be and have them suffer alone. I just really don't get it, I never once left their side when they needed me, but now that their happy with some other people, I BECAME INVISIBLE. I would ask them to hang out, they'll say they have things to do, their parents need them at home, I'm gonna go with my partner etc....BUT WHEN OTHER PEOPLE ASK THEM TO GO, they dont even think twice and just leaves me.
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2024.05.16 11:50 student_hopefully Travelled to Korea & Japan for a Month & Lost Weight!
Hi everyone, I just wanted to make a post to celebrate this win since I don't really have people I talk to about my weight loss journey.
For some background I'm 24F, 5'4" (165cm), I lost about 30 pounds and went from 250 to 220 in 2021, and gradually gained it back to be at my highest 253lbs earlier this year (2024). Decided I wanted to really get back into losing the weight for good in February 2024, and was at 231~ lbs by mid April! Did this through eating at a calorie deficit and being more mindful of what I put in my body.
From April to May I went on vacation I planned months ago to Korea and Japan and expected to hopefully not gain weight but I was not expecting to lose it either.
I did not track calories and ate however much I wanted everywhere I went especially since we were burning so many calories walking so much. (Although I will say I did kinda find myself looking at how many calories were in foods at the convenience stores/the ones I could see, but that didn't stop me from snacking/eating more of what I wanted if I felt hungry or wanted a little treat). I also indulged in alcohol occasionally but I'm not much of a drinker so I only drank a few cocktails/highballs a couple times during the trip at dinner or brunch.
We walked a LOT. On the first day we walked 40k steps, that was very overboard since I wasn't very active before this, but it peterred off to about 11k-20k average depending on our itinerary for the day since the trip was about 31 days in total. Definitely counteracted all the food I was intaking haha. Body is definitely hurting a bit now that I've had a break but going to try to keep this 10k step streak alive once jet lag isn't ruining my sleep schedule.
When I came home a couple days ago, I felt pretty bloated since I had eaten so much the day before (convenience store food, meal before flight, in flight meals etc) I weighed in at 233lbs. I was a Little bit disappointed because I felt like during the trip my clothes were fitting better and that my pants were looser around my waist (could be because I didn't walk in them long enough previously to notice they were loose).
After a day of eating as I did prior to the vacation, on a tracked calorie deficit, etc. I weighed in again today at 228.6 lbs! Pretty happy that I did end up losing a bit of weight during the vacation :) If you made it this far, thanks for reading!
edit: changed weight I was in mid April, put the wrong number previously.
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For some background I'm 24F, 5'4" (165cm), I lost about 30 pounds and went from 250 to 220 in 2021, and gradually gained it back to be at my highest 253lbs earlier this year (2024). Decided I wanted to really get back into losing the weight for good in February 2024, and was at 231~ lbs by mid April! Did this through eating at a calorie deficit and being more mindful of what I put in my body.
From April to May I went on vacation I planned months ago to Korea and Japan and expected to hopefully not gain weight but I was not expecting to lose it either.
I did not track calories and ate however much I wanted everywhere I went especially since we were burning so many calories walking so much. (Although I will say I did kinda find myself looking at how many calories were in foods at the convenience stores/the ones I could see, but that didn't stop me from snacking/eating more of what I wanted if I felt hungry or wanted a little treat). I also indulged in alcohol occasionally but I'm not much of a drinker so I only drank a few cocktails/highballs a couple times during the trip at dinner or brunch.
We walked a LOT. On the first day we walked 40k steps, that was very overboard since I wasn't very active before this, but it peterred off to about 11k-20k average depending on our itinerary for the day since the trip was about 31 days in total. Definitely counteracted all the food I was intaking haha. Body is definitely hurting a bit now that I've had a break but going to try to keep this 10k step streak alive once jet lag isn't ruining my sleep schedule.
When I came home a couple days ago, I felt pretty bloated since I had eaten so much the day before (convenience store food, meal before flight, in flight meals etc) I weighed in at 233lbs. I was a Little bit disappointed because I felt like during the trip my clothes were fitting better and that my pants were looser around my waist (could be because I didn't walk in them long enough previously to notice they were loose).
After a day of eating as I did prior to the vacation, on a tracked calorie deficit, etc. I weighed in again today at 228.6 lbs! Pretty happy that I did end up losing a bit of weight during the vacation :) If you made it this far, thanks for reading!
edit: changed weight I was in mid April, put the wrong number previously.
2024.05.16 11:49 Slow_Bed_9477 LDR relationship getting squeezed out
Hey, me and my ex girlfriend are in our twenties she’s a junior and I just graduated uni. I live on the west coast and she lives on the east coast. We were dating for 2 years happily with no issues and out of no where, she tells me she wants to break up because she’s losing feelings in the relationship. Like I understand this was built up over time.
I did a lot of asking and there were a lot of reasons like distance, her not being able to give me time, she doesn’t know where she would be, her feeling bad for making me travel, that I’m perfect and treasured her but she was feeling unsure about our future because she’s going to be going to med school. (That we’re on different parts of our lives because I just graduated and am no longer a student). Like these aren’t the root of the problem.
With her just starting at a 4 year, she also told me that she wanted to get involved more in school and clubs and social life which I don’t blame her and was ready to support her! Her last years of high school were spent in Covid and then spent some time at community college where she wasn’t part of clubs. Do you think this is what it is? That she’s in a new place discovering who she is and what she wants? I’m trying to understand the reason why she broke up with me so easily. 4 weeks of exams and hanging out a bunch with her friends gave her the doubt to throw a 2 year relationship. Like it just doesn’t make sense. I told her I still believed in the relationship and to give me a week to try but she refused. I said i could be flexiable to her schedule and close the distance but she insisted otherwise. She even said if I moved close to her, she wouldn’t want to date because shes in school but I’m not anymore (and she’d feel bad if we broke up because of her new doubts. are all excuses, it’s obvious she doesn’t want me in her life anymore.
At the start of this year, she didn’t like going out for the first half of the first semester and I would call her a lot to spend time with her, but half way made some good girlfriends who she started to go out more with. Additionally, she was really busy with exams and instead of her giving me 80%, she like instantly gave me 10% of her energy.
Like I’m graduated and discovered that she is who I want in my life. I know she’s in this completely new environment but I’m really confused why she suddenly changed her mind wanting to completely squeeze me out of her new life when I could give her room to grow.
Like the worst party is that she didn’t any to let me try to fix it which left me feel powerless. Additionally, her suggesting us breaking up came minutes after I expressed me wanting more attention because I let her know that feeling really lonely and wanted to spend more time with her and was hit with this. I feel like as a reward for telling her my true feelings, I was punished.
Shes discovering herself and what she wants, but to not even give me the chance. I wouldn’t be holding her back.
Should I move on and forget about her? I really love her and we were so compatible and we’re killing the long distance
I want to hold onto the hope that in discovering who she is and what she wants, shed discover that she regretted letting go of me because of how good I treated her
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I did a lot of asking and there were a lot of reasons like distance, her not being able to give me time, she doesn’t know where she would be, her feeling bad for making me travel, that I’m perfect and treasured her but she was feeling unsure about our future because she’s going to be going to med school. (That we’re on different parts of our lives because I just graduated and am no longer a student). Like these aren’t the root of the problem.
With her just starting at a 4 year, she also told me that she wanted to get involved more in school and clubs and social life which I don’t blame her and was ready to support her! Her last years of high school were spent in Covid and then spent some time at community college where she wasn’t part of clubs. Do you think this is what it is? That she’s in a new place discovering who she is and what she wants? I’m trying to understand the reason why she broke up with me so easily. 4 weeks of exams and hanging out a bunch with her friends gave her the doubt to throw a 2 year relationship. Like it just doesn’t make sense. I told her I still believed in the relationship and to give me a week to try but she refused. I said i could be flexiable to her schedule and close the distance but she insisted otherwise. She even said if I moved close to her, she wouldn’t want to date because shes in school but I’m not anymore (and she’d feel bad if we broke up because of her new doubts. are all excuses, it’s obvious she doesn’t want me in her life anymore.
At the start of this year, she didn’t like going out for the first half of the first semester and I would call her a lot to spend time with her, but half way made some good girlfriends who she started to go out more with. Additionally, she was really busy with exams and instead of her giving me 80%, she like instantly gave me 10% of her energy.
Like I’m graduated and discovered that she is who I want in my life. I know she’s in this completely new environment but I’m really confused why she suddenly changed her mind wanting to completely squeeze me out of her new life when I could give her room to grow.
Like the worst party is that she didn’t any to let me try to fix it which left me feel powerless. Additionally, her suggesting us breaking up came minutes after I expressed me wanting more attention because I let her know that feeling really lonely and wanted to spend more time with her and was hit with this. I feel like as a reward for telling her my true feelings, I was punished.
Shes discovering herself and what she wants, but to not even give me the chance. I wouldn’t be holding her back.
Should I move on and forget about her? I really love her and we were so compatible and we’re killing the long distance
I want to hold onto the hope that in discovering who she is and what she wants, shed discover that she regretted letting go of me because of how good I treated her
2024.05.16 11:49 acmaverick00 Should I tell my boss I could be working harder?
I’m currently working in a role that I would call “a gun for hire”. I work in an office setting doing clerical work. Scanning, digitizing, organizing, odd jobs, etc. and I’m pretty good at my job. I have a main supervisor, but most of the work I do is for other people, and I have EXTREMELY little day-to-day supervision. I have a check-in maybe every other month, but beyond that, I’m on my own and I can come and go as I please(as long as I don’t work over 40 hours a week and my work is meeting expectations.) I have projects that I work on for multiple different departments in the organization. Everyone I’ve ever done work for in my 3 years here has given me glowing reviews. Not just to myself, as I hear from other employees that I’m being well spoken of. For a while now, I’ve had this dilemma. I HATE working a 9-5. It feels like such a waste of time, especially in my position. When I’m putting in 40 hours a week, I’m honestly on my phone or spacing out half the time because it’s just so monotonous. Yet, the work that I bring back to my supervisors is always met with “Oh, wow! You finished that already? I don’t even have a new project for you to work on yet!” From everything I can tell, I’m consistently outpacing expectations while slacking off. I have ADHD and I get bored sitting in an office for 8 hours. From my perspective, I feel like everyone would be better served if my pay was doubled, my hours were halved, and I could just really lock in for those 20 hours. Then, my productivity would stay the same-probably even increase-I could cut my work week to two days and potentially get a second job that more aligns with my passions(music), and I wouldn’t ~really~ be getting a raise, so the organization’s budget wouldn’t even really notice the difference. I know this is unusual, but to be honest, my current situation is already unusual so it doesn’t seem like that much of a leap. This idea seems like a win-win to me, am I crazy?
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2024.05.16 11:48 tellietubbies_444 carson, bakit mo ako hinila sa patibong???
stated sa title, isa din akong tao na matagal nang mahal ang best friend niya. (close friend lang pala) 6 years na, naks malapit nang maka-tie yung pitong taon ni carson 🥰
little backstory: (let's call him j)
J was just an acquaintance at first, a friend of a friend. we met when we were in senior high school, fresh from break up ako noon from my biggest nightmare of an ex, iba kami ng school pero classmates niya childhood friends ko, kaya ayon naging close din kami. we meet up every fiesta dito samin, yes every fiesta lang kasi hindi ako pinapayagan gumala. we message every day tapos we do phone call every night. then, biglang hindi na niya ako kinausap, nalaman ko he was dating one of my closest friends. ayon, natigil. for more than a year, J and i didn't talk with each other. i had a little crush on him that time na talaga but i pushed that attraction away kasi nga syota niya isa sa mga kaibigan ko.
one day he reached out to me, begging me to help him reconcile with my friend kasi blinock siya, they broke up. he was in shambles that time, he did everything for her. as a concerned friend kinausap ko din yung kaibigan ko about him, ayaw na niya talaga. wala naman ako magagawa, he confided on me. and foolish din ako to help him, siya yung tipo na gagawin niyang mundo yung syota niya kaya he was friendless. i made urged him to go back skate boarding, play basketball and coninue playing ML kasi he enjoyed those things pero pinagbawalan siya ng kaibigan ko. i made him slowly reconcile with our friends, i help him sa school works niya kahit wala akong alam sa I.T hahahaha. i brought him food sa campus nila kahit na 1hr away siya from my place. he's funny, gentle, may depth and masipag, he'd usually tuck my hair behind my ear, pill shrimp for me, tie my schoelaces, punas pawis, its the littlest of things talaga. ewan, after a year of those things, he asked permission to court me pero ni-reject ko siya kahit hulog na ako kasi ex siya ng kaibigan ko.
don't get me wrong, my friend and him both confided in me when the break up happened, siguro kasi nurturer talaga akong type of person hahahaha kahit ako napapagod noon sa gitna nila hinayaan ko lang kasi break ups are hard. (tanga moments)
tapos after a few months he courted me again, hindi na siya nagpaalam kasi sabi niya he'll court me whether i say yes or no kasi he wants to prove himself. pero i was adamant na ayaw ko. kahit umiiyak ako everytime he told me he likes me, everytime i rejected him, my heart bleeds out for us. wala akong magawa but to say no dahil nirerespeto ko yung kaibigan ko. tapos nalaman ko pa na sinabihan niya si J na to never talk to me kasi iba daw ugali ko. i was hurt, kasi naiipit ako sa sitwasyon na hindi ko naman ginusto pero alam ko na pinili ko. after that rejection naging mailap na siya, sabi niya he needed space to cope with the heartbreak. hanggang sa ilang buwan na kaming hindi nagkausap kasi iniiwasan niya ako. tapos ayon, nalaman ko may girlfriend na siya. no apologies, i understand naman kasi he didn't owe me one. so i acted like nothing happened, we remained good friends. we still talk, we still hangout, we're still confidants of each other.
yesterday was his and his girl's 3 year anniversary. i congratulated him.
I'm a hypocrite, lagi ko sinasabi na reason ay dahil sa trauma ko sa last ex ko, o kaya naman ay hindi pa ako ready, o kaya naman ay i enjoy being single. pero ang totoo mahal ko parin siya. i still think of him whenever i eat kwek-kwek, remember his face when i listen to the songs he used to play on his guitar, i remember him from every laugh that i let out. he's everywhere from the very nook and crannies of my heart. mahal na mahal ko siya.
i don't cling to this love because of what ifs and the idea of him, but i love just love him. hindi ko wini-wish na maghiwalay sila ng jowa niya because nakikita ko naman na mahal niya yung tao. i can see the way his eyes lit up sa tuwing napag-uusapan o nababanggit niya yung pangalan ng mahal niya. i hope he knows he's loved, unknowingly. ayon lang shuta napahaba na, iiyakan ko nanaman 'to mamaya.
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little backstory: (let's call him j)
J was just an acquaintance at first, a friend of a friend. we met when we were in senior high school, fresh from break up ako noon from my biggest nightmare of an ex, iba kami ng school pero classmates niya childhood friends ko, kaya ayon naging close din kami. we meet up every fiesta dito samin, yes every fiesta lang kasi hindi ako pinapayagan gumala. we message every day tapos we do phone call every night. then, biglang hindi na niya ako kinausap, nalaman ko he was dating one of my closest friends. ayon, natigil. for more than a year, J and i didn't talk with each other. i had a little crush on him that time na talaga but i pushed that attraction away kasi nga syota niya isa sa mga kaibigan ko.
one day he reached out to me, begging me to help him reconcile with my friend kasi blinock siya, they broke up. he was in shambles that time, he did everything for her. as a concerned friend kinausap ko din yung kaibigan ko about him, ayaw na niya talaga. wala naman ako magagawa, he confided on me. and foolish din ako to help him, siya yung tipo na gagawin niyang mundo yung syota niya kaya he was friendless. i made urged him to go back skate boarding, play basketball and coninue playing ML kasi he enjoyed those things pero pinagbawalan siya ng kaibigan ko. i made him slowly reconcile with our friends, i help him sa school works niya kahit wala akong alam sa I.T hahahaha. i brought him food sa campus nila kahit na 1hr away siya from my place. he's funny, gentle, may depth and masipag, he'd usually tuck my hair behind my ear, pill shrimp for me, tie my schoelaces, punas pawis, its the littlest of things talaga. ewan, after a year of those things, he asked permission to court me pero ni-reject ko siya kahit hulog na ako kasi ex siya ng kaibigan ko.
don't get me wrong, my friend and him both confided in me when the break up happened, siguro kasi nurturer talaga akong type of person hahahaha kahit ako napapagod noon sa gitna nila hinayaan ko lang kasi break ups are hard. (tanga moments)
tapos after a few months he courted me again, hindi na siya nagpaalam kasi sabi niya he'll court me whether i say yes or no kasi he wants to prove himself. pero i was adamant na ayaw ko. kahit umiiyak ako everytime he told me he likes me, everytime i rejected him, my heart bleeds out for us. wala akong magawa but to say no dahil nirerespeto ko yung kaibigan ko. tapos nalaman ko pa na sinabihan niya si J na to never talk to me kasi iba daw ugali ko. i was hurt, kasi naiipit ako sa sitwasyon na hindi ko naman ginusto pero alam ko na pinili ko. after that rejection naging mailap na siya, sabi niya he needed space to cope with the heartbreak. hanggang sa ilang buwan na kaming hindi nagkausap kasi iniiwasan niya ako. tapos ayon, nalaman ko may girlfriend na siya. no apologies, i understand naman kasi he didn't owe me one. so i acted like nothing happened, we remained good friends. we still talk, we still hangout, we're still confidants of each other.
yesterday was his and his girl's 3 year anniversary. i congratulated him.
I'm a hypocrite, lagi ko sinasabi na reason ay dahil sa trauma ko sa last ex ko, o kaya naman ay hindi pa ako ready, o kaya naman ay i enjoy being single. pero ang totoo mahal ko parin siya. i still think of him whenever i eat kwek-kwek, remember his face when i listen to the songs he used to play on his guitar, i remember him from every laugh that i let out. he's everywhere from the very nook and crannies of my heart. mahal na mahal ko siya.
i don't cling to this love because of what ifs and the idea of him, but i love just love him. hindi ko wini-wish na maghiwalay sila ng jowa niya because nakikita ko naman na mahal niya yung tao. i can see the way his eyes lit up sa tuwing napag-uusapan o nababanggit niya yung pangalan ng mahal niya. i hope he knows he's loved, unknowingly. ayon lang shuta napahaba na, iiyakan ko nanaman 'to mamaya.
2024.05.16 11:48 Mister_Ape_1 On the possible survival of Homo erectus in Eurasia
Regardless of whatever the Almas from Caucasus, Central Asia and Mongolia is real or not, regardless if it is a bear, a feral human, a hominid or another kind of great ape, where small pockets of Eurasian Homo erectus could have plausibly survived, whatever they evolved into a different species or not ?
Homo erectus lasted 2 million years long in a very large world area, I believe there is indeed the chance competition with other hominids did not put an end to it. The Denisovans were way more evolved and yet they lived in the same areas for hundreds of thousands of years, I believe there is the chance it even survived Homo sapiens.
Neanderthals and Denisovans were both very close to humans and very dangerous competing forces, they were either defeated and killed or assimilated, on the other hand Homo erectus would have been quite different both in look and in behavior, especially the more primitive subspecies which were even covered in body hair.
And anyway, do you think if Homo erectus indeed lives, are the more humanlike and smaller kinds of Almas/Almasti the best match, or is there a closer cryptid ?
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Homo erectus lasted 2 million years long in a very large world area, I believe there is indeed the chance competition with other hominids did not put an end to it. The Denisovans were way more evolved and yet they lived in the same areas for hundreds of thousands of years, I believe there is the chance it even survived Homo sapiens.
Neanderthals and Denisovans were both very close to humans and very dangerous competing forces, they were either defeated and killed or assimilated, on the other hand Homo erectus would have been quite different both in look and in behavior, especially the more primitive subspecies which were even covered in body hair.
And anyway, do you think if Homo erectus indeed lives, are the more humanlike and smaller kinds of Almas/Almasti the best match, or is there a closer cryptid ?
2024.05.16 11:48 Ambitious-Battle8091 Am I the only paranoid ?
My husband got his vasectomy in January and we are still waiting for the sperm count result. Meanwhile I’m still taking the pill and if I forget it’s either abstinence or condoms (mostly abstinence) and I buy pregnancy tests each month. My pill cut my period so each time it come I panic. Does it happen to anyone else ?
I can’t go back to my obgyn to ask for different pill because she’s a bitch but I have my BISALP in two months now so all in all I won’t be panicking for too long now.
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I can’t go back to my obgyn to ask for different pill because she’s a bitch but I have my BISALP in two months now so all in all I won’t be panicking for too long now.