Halimbawa ng transaksyunal na sulatin

1 day nalang sabado linggo na naman. Ang bilis ng araw no? Ano ginagawa mo pang alis antok? I usually listen to music while working. Share mo naman go to spotify playlist or sabay natin pakinggan sa discord while working. I play dota during weekends kababalik ko lang din after how many yrs. Sabay tayo maggain ng candies for crownfall? or manood anime/kdrama sa discord.
About me: 26F 5'0 wfh gy shift
About you: 25-32M 5'7 up good vibes lang kausap at hindi yung kinulang sa aruga haha
If interested, tell me ano greatest accomplishment mo this week?

ABYG If I out with my straight guy friend while being in a situationship
I have a guy friend (26M) whom I met 1 year ago and we always hang out together going for drinks and eating dinner if our schedule allows. However, recently got into a situationship who I really like the guy (28M), but the problem is we don't define the relationship yet cause he wants to take things slow. We didn't really define yet if we were exclusive and I'm still not really sure if he really was into me in the same level as I am cause he goes on and off. Recently, he goes off the radar and ghosted me. I learned that he left me cause I always go out with my guy friend and got really jealous when he learned we went on a day trip to a city (just a spontaneous drunk trip). He never opened it up to me and the trip happened when we were still in early stage of talking (probably a month or less). Now, everyone was blaming me cause it was my fault and I shouldn't have went on a trip with my friend.
P.S. I just wanna know your opinions regarding this and to learn as well. Hopefully, if I went back to dating and put in this kind of situation again I'll know what to do and not be ignorant anymore. Also the guy (28M) ghosted me completely and ignored me even if I tried to share my side. (I honestly really likes him and a really really nice person)
Ako Ba Ang Gago If I go out with my other straight guy friend while being in situationship? Honestly for me hindi kasi he knows the guy din naman and mutual namin kaya akala ko they were both cool to each other. Also, I know sa sarili ko na I know my boundaries and genuine feelings ko sa situationship ko. However, lahat kasi ng tao sa paligid ko tingin na gago ako for doing that kaya tingin ko na din gago ako and naiirita na din kasi ako.
Thank you!

Last post ko na to about this man.
I just caught my husband (soon to be ex-husband) 33(M), checking out petite girls here in reddit. Ni hindi ko nga alam kung baka may kachat na to.
May post ako nung isang araw regarding our matumal sex life. Narealize ko na ako siguro talaga may kasalanan.
I'm a mom of one, 28(F). Fulltime mom. Pinangarap ko na magkaanak at magkaasawa ng matino, kaso una palang red flag na to. Bilang mahal ko nga, hinayaan ko lang.
BF/GF days palang, naging kami, not knowing na meron pa pala siyang girlfriend. He insisted na break na daw sila, nakipagbreak na nga daw, at hindi naman ako yung dahilan ng kanilang break-up, pero yun ang naging depensa nung girl.
Nakipagmeet saakin si girl, that time. Teacher na siya and ako, estudyante palang. Imagine how she mocked me and all pero I was younger then, and hindi ako sumagot. I tried explaining things to her and hindi niya naaccept siguro ng maayos kaya dumikit siya saakin, she even insisted to sleep sa bahay namin and after nun, parang may kinalaman siya sa pagkasira ng relationship ko sa Family ko since merong rumor na pumatol daw ako sa lalakeng mas matanda saakin at may anak na.
After a year, magkahawak kami ng kamay when all of a sudden, binitawan niya yung kamay ko with force na as in pabato, na parang may malagkit sa kamay niya na nakakapit, paulit ulit. Yun pala, nakasalubong namin yung kapatid nung ex niya, na apparently, "gusto/type at love" niya pala.
Na kesyo jinowa pala niya si Ex para mapalapit din sa kapatid ni ex. Haha. Gulo ba? Sorry na.
Marami pang nangyare. Mga iniistalk, etc. Maya maya, makikita mo siyang tumitingin sa pwet ng mga future atty. na nakaminidress, naklabas ang cleavage etc. Well, sa lalaki, talaga g head turner naman talaga yung dumadaan, pero yung halos maglaway kana, sundan mo ng mata mo hanggang sa hagdanan, nakakabastos kase yun.
Hindi ako insecure dati, pero with his actions, naopen ko mata ko.
Buntis ako nung 2022. We went to Boracay, may tour kase nun. Kasama ko buong Fam niya. pinauna niya lahat kami bumaba sa cave para makapagswim. Imagine, 6months pregnant ako nun, hindi man lang ako inalalayan sa pababa sa hagdanan. Nainis ako, sinundan ko siya sa taas. Nagpapahuli pala para makita niya yung nakayellow bikini na mejo nasa chubby side para makita yung pwet. Hindi niya alam na bumalik ako sa taas and nawitness ko yun.nakita din ng Father in law ko yung nangyare pero hindi na siya nakialam.
Then this year, iniistalk niya yung atty na niyang senior daw. Kesyo finafollow daw niya yung page para saw may mapuntahan kaming new spot sa Baguio kase nga food blog keme si Atty mo girl. Pero alam mo, wala naman siyang nirecommend na puntahan namin last April 27 na namdun kami. Haha.
So ayun na nga, matumal ang sex life namin. Sabi ko nga maswerte kana sa once a month dahil nga once lang halos sa dalawang buwan. Nagtataka ako, inpossible naman na wala kang need na ganun to satisfy. At eto na nga, natatambay pala sa mga community dito ng mga petite sa Pinas pa ngagusto.
Malay ko ba kung ano na ginagawa neto dito.
Hindi pa ba siya tapos sa phase na ganun? Nakailang babae na siya eh. Ako kase date to marry akong type. I regret, hindi ako nag explore. . Prro alam mo yun, napabayaan ko na kase sarili ko, sa totoo lang. halos parang sa bata ko nalang ibinibigay ngayon sarili ko. Minsan iniisip ko, magpapayat na rin ba ako, gayahin ko ba yung kinababaliwan niya? Kaso iniisip ko palang,"hindi kase ako to". Iniisip ko palang,nasusuka na ako. Tsaka hindi ko rin magawang magpapayat dahil nagbebreastfeed ako ng baby ko.
May kailangan din naman ako, pero bakit hindi niya hanapin saakin yung kailangan niya. Bakit kailangang sa iba. Ahhh. Well, artista nga, naipagpapalit. Paano nalang ako diba?

Sobrang na-adik ako sa Catfish these days. Wala akong planong magbayad ng isa pang streaming platform kaya pinapanood ko lang mga runthrough ni Jayda Hope on youtube. As in ginagawa ko lang siyang background noise kapag may ginagawa akong chores. Sitcoms who?
Iniisip ko tuloy what if they make a PH Edition HAJAHSHAHAHAHAHA. I think it’ll be so fun considering how Filipinos love chismis and drama. Ma-w-weed out pa mga good-for-nothing catfishes diyan. Panoorin niyo rin kasi ang entertaining promise.

Hi! I’m looking for kasama sana bumili ng tix sa fanmeet ni kim soo hyun mismo sa physical outlet. I know pwede naman ako mag purchase thru online pero gusto ko makapili ng desired seat huhu. I will avail VIP so anyone po na VIP din? first time ko aattend ng fan meet. sana meron ditooo huhu

Mahal kita alam mo yan ... Oo may mga mali ako ... Oo nagkulang ako pero inaayos ko na yon para Sayo at sa mga anak natin...
Pero bat ganun sa tuwing nag ii love you ka sa tuwing niyayakap mo ko parang sinasabi ng mga Mata mo na sana sya nalang ako...
Ilang beses na natin pinagusapan na Layuan mo sya pero Sige ka pa din sa pagchat... Sa pag I love you... Sa pag video call... Sa pag lapit sa kanya...
Ilang beses ko nang tinanong kung sino b talaga samin... Pero Kung paano mo sya idepensa sakin ... Kung paaano mo sya pahalagahan ... Sobra
Sana ako nalang ulit... Sana Makita ko ulit ung mga mata mo na ako lang ang mahal... Ung mga yakap at halik mo may purong pagmamahal ...
Madalas naiisip ko nalang mawala ng tuluyan ... Tumalon sa overpass or magtravel sa malayo at dun tapusin ang lahat sakin... Tutal parang mas gusto mong maging ama sya mga mga anak ko... Na mas gusto mo syang maging asawa kesa sakin.
Tigin ko naman magiging Masaya ka sa kanya...
Pero bakit ganun... Kahit Anong Gawin ko Ikaw pa din sinisigaw ng puso ko... Sobrang nasasaktan na ako sa mga ginagawa mo pero pinipilit ko pa din kumapit Sayo...
Cguro sana baka....

We need to realize; sometimes you cannot fit into places because you are meant to STAND OUT. In case you are wondering why are u feel drained after hanging out with your friends, well you are in the wrong circle and you are just trying to fit yourself to them. be alone rather than being in the wrong circle.
This is based on my experience; in my first year of being college student 2023-2024, I HAVE NO FRIENDS. even now, i cannot even name 1 person that want to be friends with me.
One time i prayed to God "pls give me friends i want to have friends especially this college", I tried to fit in sa classmates ko and other people around the campus but never ako nagkaron ng friends, at first i was sad kase hindi natupad wish ko, but then i realized; kaya wala akong kaibigan kase kaya ko gawin lahat independently and, all of the groupings activities, projects, exam. is nag SOSOLO ako for a reason na "ayoko ng pabigat na groupmates" but hindi ko na rerealize na kaya ko naman mag isa and I WAS MEANT TO STAND OUT. i can cheer myself, uplift my own self. so why do i try to fit in when i have my self?

hi, just wanted to let this out so i’m writing this.
i’m sad that i’ve never been in a relationship pa and it looks like i won’t be in one anytime soon. i know there are things tulad ng timing, preparedness, etc. but i just struggle to understand sometimes bakit yung ibang mga kaedad ko, mga kaibigan ko, they’ve all experienced na na magkaron ng MU, maligawan, magkaron ng bf/gf.. pero ako wala
i think i’m fairly pretty naman, i make an effort to be presentable and clean sa katawan ko. i think i have a pleasing personality din naman pero no guy is ever genuinely interested in me.
meron naman before, may mga nakausap ako na like may potential kami pero always hanggang infatuation lang. if not infatuation, gusto lang nila sakin is sex & those kinds of things. di naman ako pang ganun lang :< i think i deserve din naman nung genuine at cute na nararanasan ng iba.
idk lately it’s been making me question myself. hanggang kelan ako ganto, umabot na nga sa point na nanay ko na nagtutulak sakin na mag bf ako.
gusto ko rin po nun, i just want that genuine relationship na nakikita ko with others. pagod na ko na hanggang infatuation nalang ako, na pang sexual things nalang ako. i just want to experience yung totoo, pero parang never ko na makukuha

pa rant lang saglit! open din ako for suggestions anong magandang gawin haha!
everytime na maagang makatulog gf ko, ako na yung nagseset ng alarm niya tapos ako na rin yung nagcloclose ng apps niya to preserve battery (for iphone users: swipe up swipe up ganern)
by the way, kakabili lang niya ng phone niya around march ata for Eras tour. my gf and i have been together for 4 years na
so eto na nga hahaha we met thru bumble and she was still using her old phone that time tapos alam ko naman na whenever you use a new device nagrerestart lahat ng dinowload mo so mawawala yung cloud sign ng app.
as i was closing her apps, nakita kong nasa appstore tapos di ko alam nag search nalang ako ng dating apps bigla. Bumble was okay walang cloud sign then to Tinder and pakshet may cloud sign, meaning, nag install siya and deleted it. HAHAHAH di ko alam anong dapat kong maramdaman. katabi ko siya ngayong natutulog. sarap pa naman ng tulog niya samantalang ako di na makatulog kakaoverthink.
awit mga pare.

I'm currently studying as 1st year college, and ako lang nagpapaaral sa sarili ko.
This week, enrollment namin sa school pero ayaw ko na sana tumuloy kasi I feel like hindi ako natututo. Hindi kasi halos magagaling yung mga profs, halos nauuwi lang ako sa pagseself study. Now, balak ko sana lumipat na ng ibang school na mas incline sa medicine since I'm taking up BS Psych.
Kaso kanina, pagtingin ko ng payment history, halos naka-100K na pala ako for 37 units. Nagdadalawang isip tuloy ako if tutuloy pa ako kasi una sa lahat, ang mahal na pala ng gastos ko at nakakahinayang if itatapon ko lang kahit pa sabihin nating hindi ako natututo. Sa lilipatan ko kasi, hindi raw macecredit yung lahat ng courses na natake ko (minor or major) kasi pioneer batch daw sa kanila yung BS Psych. Ang other option ko naman is to transfer pa rin doon sa school na 'yon and shift to Nursing kung saan makecredit mga minor ko then ang mga itetake ko na lang is more on major courses.
Anong dapat kong gawin? 2nd school na 'to, yung unang school ko, winork ko rin yung tuition kaso nagpandemic, kaya huminto ako.
Gusto ko ng matapos sa pag-aaral, pero gusto ko rin maassure na makukuha ko yung kalidad na equivalent ng binabayaran ko.

I (F25) finally moved out of my parents' house. Ang sarap sa feeling na nakawala ka na sa narc parents mo and I moved in with my bf (M25). We've been together for almost 3 years na and we're living together since January 2024.
When we started dating, he said na he doesn't want to get married and I honestly felt sad about it and thought he'll change his mind so we continued our relationship but when I opened up earlier this week the thought of marriage ganun pa rin desisyon nya. I cried about it akala ko kasi he can see me as someone he'll get married to pero I was wrong. He said he's happy kung ano meron kami at sa set up namin. Gusto ko ikasal, magkaroon ng sariling pamilya, at mga anak. I told him na hindi naman kami agad-agaran magpapakasal (hindi this year, next year...) pero ayun wala pa rin. Until, he opened up na he's not happy anymore na and we're incompatible which I cried hard because naalala ko ex ko and how traumatized I was with my past relationships. Ako ang iniiwanan, ako laging dehado. I really can't move out of our place since we mutually agreed staying here until early next year (when the lease ends) and hindi rin biro yung renta if isang tao lang magstay. We talked about it and asked if maybe we can still fix it or maybe change his mind (pero I guess alam ko na rin sagot sa katangunan ako).
I cried yesterday morning while on shift kasi ang tanga tanga ko. Bakit pa ba ako umaasa na magbago isip nya. Okay naman kami ngayon but I was thinking maybe if I slowly move on starting today while being with him tapos we'll break up after our lease ends. I honestly don't know gulong-gulo pa rin ako. It's hard to unlove someone. After my shift, tumabi ako sakanya para matulog but he hugged me while asleep which was very unusual and I cried silently. Sobrang sakit.
I haven't opened up this to my friends kaya dito na lang kasi sobrang bigat sa dibdib.

I really need advice. I have a guy friend (26M) whom I met 1 year ago and we always hang out together going for drinks and eating dinner if our schedule allows. However, recently got into a situationship who I really like the guy (28M), but the problem is we don't define the relationship yet cause he wants to take things slow. We didn't really define yet if we were exclusive and I'm still not really sure if he really was into me in the same level as I am cause he goes on and off. Recently, he goes off the radar and ghosted me. I learned that he left me cause I always go out with my guy friend and got really jealous when he learned we went on a day trip to a city (just a spontaneous drunk trip). He never opened it up to me and the trip happened when we were still in early stage of talking (probably a month or less). Now, everyone was blaming me cause it was my fault and I shouldn't have went on a trip with my friend.
P.S. I just wanna know your opinions regarding this and to learn as well. Hopefully, if I went back to dating and put in this kind of situation again I'll know what to do and not be ignorant anymore. Also the guy (28M) ghosted me completely and ignored me even if I tried to share my side. (I honestly really likes him and a really really nice person)
Honestly I really thought everything is okay kasi he knows the guy din naman and mutual namin kaya akala ko they were both cool to each other. Also, I know sa sarili ko na I know my boundaries and genuine feelings ko sa situationship ko. However, lahat kasi ng tao sa paligid ko tingin na I did something bad and considered as cheating daw yun. I really like him and tried to talk to him for months but he completely blocked me na.
Thank you!

I have an outstanding debt sa isang online loaning app and hindi ko nababayaran over 6months na. Alam kong mali pero walang wala ako pag pasok ng year na to at hirap na hirap financially. Ngayon, I want to clear my name and nagreachout ako sa customer support ng lending company to settle the balance and dun ko nalaman na wala na sakanila yung account ko at nasa debt collection service na daw. Hindi ko alam kung trusted ko yun debt collection na yun or hindi hahaha kakapanood ko to ng movie na Bufalloed eh 😅. Anyway, should I reach out dun sa debt collector or what? Wala na din kasi akong narereceive na harrass calls or email about this loan eh (about 11k na lang remaining bal.)

Hi, everyone and mga kababayan. I prefer to be anon and I'd like to share a concern about sa invalid student loan for my college til now. Late at night and I'm worrying bad how to earn more money aside from doing commissions. It's not working but I'll get there.. I just want to know what can I do more when I'm struggling financially for my tuition yet the school does not accept student loan from banks? I have researched for ways how to deal with such trouble like this pero wala. I haven't found any suitable part time jobs and whenever I find one, I stress both financially and mentally. It's just wasn't right, the salary is so low it's not enough to cover my tuition eventho I have a scholarship too and the stress is the one that is increasing.
(Don't bash me too sudddenliii) I was put in this position because I thought a program/org would help me and the other students to be able to study in this College. But all was just a disappointment, ang dami na ngang nagsisialisan because they couldn't afford it any longer. College na G-Centered with no consideration for Students Loan. Hayss.
Kung meron po kayong scholarship pa po na pwede applyan para sa mga ganito po, I'm willing to take it and if you want to support me po, you could support me by having a commissions with me. I do line arts, sketches, ideas, and bases. (These aren't perfectly done but a frag to your final output) I sell them ranging from ₱100-175. Worth it pag sa akin, kindly d m if you are willing to support. Third year already sana palarin with the internet red's help.

Hello! I'm a graduating BSMA student from UST. I'm not going to take the CMA exam yet, work muna. Balak ko sana is BPO / Shared Services. How much po yung starting salary sa mga fresh grad? Also, please recommend some companies na tumatanggap ng fresh grad with competitive salary.
Thank you!

Anything goes! I'm starved of adult friendships and I just want to have that connection again with someone or a lot of people. We all know busy na buhay natin at this stage but iba pa din if you have bffs right?
About me: 1. Single parent 2. Working in the creative field 3. Music, books, games? G! 4. Chismis? Sure!
About you: 1. Naghahanap din ng BFF haha
Talk to you soon, BFF!

Hello! Natanggal ang friend ko sa work and she's super devastated :( 20 silang na-layoff at binigyan naman sila ng 30 days notice. Everyone in the PH Team including the leaders are not expecting them to be really productive at all and that's okay. Yung letter pa nga ng HR nakalagay na puwede na silang mag leave once tapos na ang turn over at TAPOS NA ANG TURNOVER SO DAPAT OKAY NA. Kaya lang yung counterpart nila sa North America (which is mga boss din nila) ay gusto silang papasukin hanggang sa last day nila sa office dahil kailangan ng support nila.
Ano bang tama dito? Nalulungkot na ako para sa friend ko lagi siyang galit sa mundo tapos sinasabi niya na gusto na niya m4m4t4y 😭 Their PH leaders value their mental health pero yung mga kano na boss parang walang pake sa kanila.
Puwede ba sundin yung letter from HR o dapat sundin padin yung boss nilang kano? Meron bang law na entitled gamitin ng retrenched employees ang mga remaining leaves nila? Hindi din naman kasi convertible to cash yung mga leave credits nila kaya sayang naman kung hindi nila yung magagamit :(
Salamat!

For me, mas maganda kung may prenup, pang formality sa bagay bagay, bakit negative agad yung feeling pag naririnig yung prenup sa pinas. Lugi yung parent na hindi nakapag work kasi nagfocus sa pagpapalaki ng anak at hindi nakaipon para sa sarili🤷‍♂️

1. nagbibigay po ba ng ppt or materials ‘yung mga profs? as in lahat po or depende sa kanila?
   
2. what is shifting exams po and when po usually?
   
3. are the quizzes based on the materials talaga or parang u have to research pa to know more abt the topic (ust shs trauma) 😔
   
4. is it like shs na 1 peta and 2 written works/quizzes? if not, ilan po usually quizzes per subject?
   
5. how’s the workload po, kaya naman po ba as long as gagawin agad / hindi magccram?
   
6. ano po mas oki na tackle box ‘yung maliit lng para madaling bitbitin or ‘yung malaki para marami mailagay? 😔
   
7. lf 1st year notes po hehe
   

Diagnosed ng breast cancer stage2A ang mama ko, naoperahan na rin sya last April 8, and for chemo na ang next step. Kaso nanggaling kami sa private hospital and hindi na namin kakayanin magpatuloy don for chemo kaya we decided na lumipat sa public hospital. For now, naghahanap pa rin kami ng hospital, ang usual suggestion na payo sa amin ay PGH, Jose Reyes, at East Ave. Among the 3 or kung may iba alam pa kayong other public hospital, alin ang mas magandang lipatan? Thank you so much !!