I kind of just view them as adjacent to egoists in the sense that they are individualistic and reject collectivism. They also reject both right and left wing variants of anarchy. They are very similar to egoists, and many of them are also post-leftists. I would say that the main difference between them and egoists is that they don’t consciously choose to dismantle their fixed ideas to liberate their ego. Many AnInds will likely be some form of moralist. Egoists, on the other hand, base their decisions on their instincts for their long term survival and pleasure. The decisions and attitudes of egoists and individualists are similar, but are distinguished from each other by one major factor in their respective worldviews.

I can't recall if it was stated anywhere that I just missed but it took me until Cosmo Canyon until I finally realized bunnies hung out around the chocobo hot/cold treasure spots. That's 5 regions in of 8, and only 6 of those have treasure spots. 😭🤣
It didn't matter much in terms of me missing anything, but I still can't believe how long it took me to notice that detail considering the amount of treasure spots I collected up until that point, hahaha. The bunnies are adorable.
So I was just wondering if it's only me.

I Can’t believe I am in this position my life feels so messed up. I just want to feel validated or told I am overreacting
I just moved in with my boyfriend after a year of dating. As soon as we did, he seems to be having some sort of episode that results in me being constantly emotionally abused.
I feel like he treats everyone else but me with his kind go lucky attitude that he showed me at the the start of the relationship. We would have little bickerments and these “tantrums” would only be a monthly occurrence and I could handle them. He has had a tough upbringing and abandonment issues that I try to be conscious of but they just seem out of my reach.
I will give and example of an extreme tantrum:
We went to Costa Rica and I planned the whole trip for us. I LOVE to travel and was so excited to go together and enjoy. Things were busy with him in life and he didn’t show much interest in planning. So, I was happy to take the reigns. During the trip he had two temper tantrums. I’ll discuss the one on the last night. During the whole trip I had to drive the rental car because he is too young. I didn’t mind but it was my first time driving in a foreign country and it was exhausting. Our last night I set up a beach day, sunset boat ride, and then a nice dinner at a well known restaurant. After dinner I was feeling exhausted from the whole trip and was ready to go back, pack, play cards, and go to bed. He wanted to go to a bar. He wanted to go to a bar that we’ve already been to for a few nights and I was just kinda over it. Right when I expressed my preference is when the tantrum started. Wouldn’t talk to me, and just kept telling me how I’m ruining the last night of our trip. Once I saw how upset he was I offered to get a drink and play a game of pool. He refused saying he will know I just don’t want to be there. I even pulled I to the parking lot before going home ready and willing to go (it really wasn’t a huge deal to me I just preferred going home to prepare for our flight and long drive to the airport). He refused to get out of the car so I took us home. The tantrum lasted all night. He wouldn’t let me sleep. I threw up becase he kept pushing me telling me how bad I am. He even went as far as to say he didn’t have any say in the trip and all we did was what I wanted to do (I planned a beautiful trip, it is literally my hobby and I’m open to any suggestions). I’m a sleeper and a morning bird and every time I closed my eyes he told me how neglectful I was being to him and baffled at how I could sleep after upsetting him and how I ruined the last night. He then threatened to leave and go to the bars himself which hurt me becase i volunteered to go. He left and I kinda felt relieved because the constant stream of silent treatment and nasty comments stopped. I started to feel bad for hurting him and regretting my dumb decision to deny his offer for a drink. He came back and the comments wouldn’t end and he wouldn’t let me sleep. Then he all of a sudden started wailing and I had to comfort him to go to sleep. This all lasted hours. The confusing part for me is he doesn’t yell but it is constant pushing and commentary about how bad I am and I start to feel like I am a bad person
This was in January and we moved in in April
The tantrums are everyday and I can’t even talk to him on the phone. I think he projects his insecurities onto me and places the blame on me. I never know what triggers them and he sometimes says that he blacks out and doesn’t remember what he has said .
During my everyday life he paints a picture like how I think he is incompetent, he harps on every word I say, he doesn’t like it when I close the bathroom door, whenever I express of point of contempt or worry he says to stop screaming at him (I promise I do not yell, he just doesn’t like me expressing discomfort), we are having sexual problems and instead of addressing them he just says I value myself too much through sex, I made him eggs as a surprise one morning becase he is trying to eat more and he didn’t want them (I was not upset I ate them myself) but he freaked out and kept telling me how angry I was no matter how many times I said I didn’t care , he has three alarms go off before I have to get up and I asked him if he could make it one. he responded that he doesn’t appreciate getting screamed at in the morning (I did not scream maybe had slight aggravated tone as he knows I hate alarms), he had to use he bathroom while walking in the city I said “choose a bar and I’ll wait outside” (I didn’t want to buy another drink) he claimed I was keeping him from peeing and I am selfish
Anyway I am basically just a monster and it’s confusing becase i am feeling like one . As a child I was around a lot of yelling and view that as abuse this is why this is so confusing for me because he never yells and I believe the things he says. He tells me he doesn’t know why he does it and blacks out sometimes. The words are so persistent and negative. Sometimes I don’t say a word during these tantrums and he is somehow still a victim. If I say I need to take breather in an argument because I feel overwhelmed I am avoidant and don’t care about him. If I ask what I’ve done to hurt him he says I always make everything about me and it’s not about me.
Some other notable behaviors is eating until he is sick every night which is effecting our sex life - of course it’s my fault becase “I only want him at night” I work in office 9-5 and we go in at different times lol it is the only time we have
Whenever I say no, a tantrum starts and I’m a monster
He is obsessed with emotionally monitoring me
And has started to get jealous of those close to me like friends and family. He gets offended he can’t fill all my wants and needs (like my love for girl time or a day date with my mother)
I know that these probably aren’t right but why do I feel like such a bad person. Am I crazy for thinking this is too much emotional baggage to deal with. I really don’t want to abandon him but I’m walking on eggshells and cry almost everyday I’m scared to set him off and find my self profusely apologizing and not knowing what for.
WHAT ARE THESE TANTRUMS WILL THEY CHANGE
Is this a weird breakdown? Why is it everyday now? I’ve lost trust :(

Need to round up the girls for this one.
I, 19F (I feel like age is relevant) used to have a thing for this boy when we were younger. I was going to his footy games and hanging out with him at his house, although nothing physical ever came of it. He has always been in my life one way or another in terms of messaging. My best friend and I got in a pretty serious fight 2023, but 6 months later when we had made up she was talking to that boy. I didn’t care at the time, because we were younger when I was interested in him. He ended things with her after 3 months just due to them not clicking in person and that was that.
So this brings me to AITA. Last weekend, 5 months afterwards, an opportunity came up with the boy and I ended up hooking up with him. I didn’t go back to his, just purely a kiss at a club. I let my best friend know the next day, and she said she wasn’t angry just taken back by it. He messaged me a few days later saying he wants to give it a go with me but I said I couldn’t due to her.
I spoke to my friend regarding the messages and her response was “I don’t think I would even care because I’m seeing __ now but it’s just awkward”. However I spoke to our mutual friend and apparently she was saying otherwise to her in regards to it.
I saw him again last night, although nothing happened there was definitely some sort of tension between us and he asked me to go back to his house with him.
Would I be TA if I see where things go with this guy considering my friend? She works for my family business now so I feel like I shouldn’t be rocking the boat, but I was super interested in him back in the day and feel like I could be missing out on something good if I don’t give it a shot.
Thank you!!

Hi team. Thanks for reading my post. I’m going to Seoul for 6 days in early August (first time in Korea) and have a bunch of questions. Anything you can help with or point me in the right direction for existing guidance would be very much appreciated. I’m staying near Nopsagyeon metro. Also I’m travelling with someone who used to live in Seoul a long time ago, but I don’t want to be entirely reliant on them in terms of being prepared.

1. Bookings—Are there any activities or attractions I might miss out on if I don’t book them in advance? I prefer not having highly structured plans but also don’t want to accidentally miss something great.
   
2. August—I’m going in August for unavoidable reasons, but I’ve read that it’s going to be hot and sticky. Any survival tips, wisdom, or unexpected things I should look out for? Is everything still open as normal? (I come from a place with a very moderate climate.)
   
3. Food—Any tips for finding the best food? I’ve got Michelin’s Bib Gourmand list, and I’m using a bit of Google Maps, but I’ve found NAVER Maps a little tricky to use even when set to English. Plus Seoul is massive. Any strategies you’d recommend? I’m not looking for fine dining, just great Korean restaurants / food experiences. Happy to travel for food but also like to have strategies for finding great stuff around where I am.
   
4. Foodie—I’m a big foodie, is there anything you’d recommend to me other than restaurants and spending way too long in Korean supermarkets?
   
5. Sauna—Have you had a good sauna experience as a tourist? Struggling to find good info online and saunas can be bit intimidating as an outsider if you don’t speak the language, in my experience.
   
6. Tips—I’ve been reading this subreddit for tips but would be very happy to receive any of your favourite Seoul wisdom!
   

Many thanks again for reading, and for your help :)

I apologize if this has been answered anywhere before, if so let me know and I’ll delete it
I feel repulsed by sex.
I do feel some sort of sexual drive, but never really have the desire to act on it, especially with strangers. I could go without sex and not really care. Anything sexual makes me nervous. Though when I have been with long term partners in the past, I would initiate things out of desire, but very very often feel gross during/afterwards.
I can’t figure if i am asexual or if I just have deep sexual insecurity. How do I tell? It’s all so intertwined and hard to decipher I need outside opinions

The Crew <> are LGTBQ, 18+ FC that is looking to grow with our laid back chill group. We are a small but very active FC with new, and long term players that love helping out each other out. Our time zone is CST USA where we run events and raids in the evenings, with raids being Sunday 2pm and looking to schedule a second raid day in the week. Our goals as an FC is to grow and clear High-end raids together. https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/community_finde99e8a6d73f608b5f53709d353880649ed2eb1fa6/

This is not my original summary. I found this while searching high and low for this webtoon on the internet. It more accurately describes it than my original post did, but the person who asked this question never got the correct answer, sadly. I was directed here by someone who thought maybe you guys could help 😭.
“This story involves a female lead as the main character (MC). She had a sad first life. She was married off by her father. This first marriage did not last; I'm not sure why, as I can't remember.
Her second partnehusband was a mage. Through the female lead's memories, it's revealed they seemed to be happy and had a child together. After two years, however, he had lost interest in her and disappeared/ran off with their child, a son.
She is married a third time, to a man that she had known since her first husband. It again seemed to be a political marriage. She was surprised that her family even agreed to it. However, she believed that he was disinterested in her and there was a divide between them, even though he would visit her at night time (wink wink) but he wouldn't speak to her.
(From my personal recollection of her second husband, she described him as kind and a prince, I think. Their marriage didn’t last long because he soon died (assassination, I think?). Since he was older than her and she was so young, he treated her more like a friend or sibling. And she didn’t kind being married to him).
At some point, she ends up imprisoned, probably for a crime that she did not commit, I believe orchestrated by her family. As she was getting ready for the end, her current third husband was coming to her just as she reincarnated/regressed/died. I remember her seeing him reaching out to her asking her to wait.” (And I think FL hearing a voice/him saying he’ll give her the world and calling her my love).
(From my personal recollection, he was not initially respected as much or maybe not even recognized as a prince for some reason. He was finally recognized because he either engaged in a coupe and won or was victorious in the battlefield—or something. Plus, he was younger than FL, and there was some brief mention of disrespect towards their relationship because she was considered “old”).
More from my personal recollection, the third husband seems to have actually cared for her. When she goes back in time, she meets all her husbands, including her third husband, who’s younger than her. I think he had brownish hair. Since he’s a bastard child or whatever the case was, he wasn’t treated as royalty like the second blonde husband who was also his brother. I think the FL invites the second husband (and I believe their sister, whom she was friends with) to some event or to reveal some secret to them, and they brought along the neglected third husband, who was dressed like a peasant/not like royalty like his siblings. It’s clear from the interactions of her younger self and the third husband towards her that he is not as cold and uncaring as he seemed in their past life, but I didn’t get much further than that.

As pretty much every reddit user I’m alone and in need of friends so HMU! No matter your age, gender or location. Stuff about me:
I love videogames, movies and books.
I’ve been playing bass for 3 years and guitar for almost a year.
I speak spanish, english and italian.
I’ve got plenty of free time so I’m able to chat basically 24/7.

As pretty much every reddit user I’m alone and in need of friends so HMU! No matter your age, gender or location. Stuff about me:
I love videogames, movies and books.
I’ve been playing bass for 3 years and guitar for almost a year.
I speak spanish, english and italian.
I’ve got plenty of free time so I’m able to chat basically 24/7.

This would allow you to observe the clams and know straight away if they had died. However I am unsure how they would fare long term without substrate. Thoughts?

This is not my original summary. I found this while searching high and low for this webtoon on the internet. It more accurately describes it than my original post did, but the person who asked this question never got the correct answer, sadly. I was directed here by someone who thought maybe you guys could help 😭.
“This story involves a female lead as the main character (MC). She had a sad first life. She was married off by her father. This first marriage did not last; I'm not sure why, as I can't remember.
Her second partnehusband was a mage. Through the female lead's memories, it's revealed they seemed to be happy and had a child together. After two years, however, he had lost interest in her and disappeared/ran off with their child, a son.
She is married a third time, to a man that she had known since her first husband. It again seemed to be a political marriage. She was surprised that her family even agreed to it. However, she believed that he was disinterested in her and there was a divide between them, even though he would visit her at night time (wink wink) but he wouldn't speak to her.
(From my personal recollection of her second husband, she described him as kind and a prince, I think. Their marriage didn’t last long because he soon died (assassination, I think?). Since he was older than her and she was so young, he treated her more like a friend or sibling. And she didn’t kind being married to him).
At some point, she ends up imprisoned, probably for a crime that she did not commit, I believe orchestrated by her family. As she was getting ready for the end, her current third husband was coming to her just as she reincarnated/regressed/died. I remember her seeing him reaching out to her asking her to wait.” (And I think FL hearing a voice/him saying he’ll give her the world and calling her my love).
(From my personal recollection, he was not initially respected as much or maybe not even recognized as a prince for some reason. He was finally recognized because he either engaged in a coupe and won or was victorious in the battlefield—or something. Plus, he was younger than FL, and there was some brief mention of disrespect towards their relationship because she was considered “old”).
More from my personal recollection, the third husband seems to have actually cared for her. When she goes back in time, she meets all her husbands, including her third husband, who’s younger than her. I think he had brownish hair. Since he’s a bastard child or whatever the case was, he wasn’t treated as royalty like the second blonde husband who was also his brother. I think the FL invites the second husband (and I believe their sister, whom she was friends with) to some event or to reveal some secret to them, and they brought along the neglected third husband, who was dressed like a peasant/not like royalty like his siblings. It’s clear from the interactions of her younger self and the third husband towards her that he is not as cold and uncaring as he seemed in their past life, but I didn’t get much further than that.

I thought of this the other day, I have been with a company for around 15 years, if I were to get back into the job market who would I put as my referees? You would not use your current employer as you don't want to tip your hand to let them know you are looking, but your past employers are so long ago that they may not even remember you?
Do companies still want/need referees nowadays?

it’s been afew months since me n my ex split for stupid reasons it was all unfair and his mum played a part in it and there’s another person in the picture and i’m still trying to talk to him and want us to try again we aren’t talking at the moment as he needs space but i rly wanna try with him like i genuinely will never be able to move on from him and im not just saying that cause im hurt but it’s cause it’s the truth he’s my first love and everything was amazing we did everything together and saw eachother so often and i was so emotionally invested and everything just idk we were so happy things were perfect and now iv been shattered and played about with cause of his confusion of feelings and im in a low place but i only rly want him i can only see myself with him it hurts me to think about him with someone else like im always gonna wait about for him and it sucks n hurts cause he’s just my person but idk if im his person and it hurts so bad we have dated on and off before our long term relationship and we have been good friends too so it just all hurts ill never be able to love someone properly ill never trust them properly i can’t give my all to someone else when iv gave it all to another im broken and useless im never gonna find someone else there will never be someone else and the love wouldn’t be the same im tired i wanna give up hes all i had i wish i wasn’t a person that loved too much that was so silly to think there was a forever with someone i hate that i put in my all i don’t ever wanna be like that again i don’t even wanna be here at all really just ill never move on from him at all no matter how hard id try because he has everything and i have nothing now he’s doing okay while i drown in a crying pit of shame and misery🙁

Not financial advice, just wanted to give people some food for though about GWAV. Seen it in other threads and people with hopes it does well on Monday and the rest of the week, which it might very well. If you’re in it for a quick gain that might be your best option, but it might not come.
Anyway the reason I error on the side of caution with this one is because the CEO Danny Meeks did a debt/equity swap. Exchanging 17.22 million in debt to equity to his lenders. 10 mill in series d preferred stock and 7.22 mill in common stock. He says it “further aligns him with the shareholders” and reflects the confidence he has within the business and its growth.
If this company wasn’t a pennystock and was turning over good profits year over year I’d say it was poised for growth, but I think they are burning at both ends and are just trying to stay solvent. That being said I would not want to hold this one long term. They only have 1.55 million cash on hand as well. Just my 2 cents.

Engineer from east coast US looking for long term friends. I'm into movies, tv shows, soccer and audiobooks (mostly non-fiction history recently). Love a good argument.
Not great at flirting but willing to give it a shot if you want, haha.

Since Oct 7 I tried my very best to stay clear off of what is happening in the war on Gaza, I don't keep up with the casualties, I don't follow the news, except for a solution driven discussions or short debates here and there.
One of them was Norman Finkelstein he was stating the usual, that when he said something that shattered my soul.
Cut to young me, a young orphan living in a foreign city, away from home, my extended family, outcasted fall of hopes and dreams, I made few of it, working on achieving more, I remember the very first time someone bought me a football with its carrying net, I was so happy, but terrified when I was crossing a bridge to lose it to the water below, since then I gave up on few of my dreams, but I had even bigger dreams, owning a house of my own, a car, a long term partner, so many other things.
I can't imagine my life without dreams and hopes, back then I had a roof above my head and 3 meals a day, few friends and tight small family, no worries other than my bleak future.
"They had no past, they had no present, they were born in concentration camp [..] they had no feature, all they had was the expectations to languish and die" Finkelstein said.
And then.. boom, Oct 7, barely living people are getting killed, their loved ones getting buried under the rubble, their children are getting bombed in their cribs, people losing bothers, sisters, fathers and mothers, daughters and sons, wives and husbands, what was barely resembling world is collapsing around them, everywhere, dreams and bodies, hopes mixed with blood and dust, under falling buildings.
For many years I had no partners, no money and basically none functioning supporting system but I had my dreams, this is what carried me to this very moment, the cozy air conditioned room, the not so bad internet connation, my well sepced pc, my car, but above all few friends I won't trade for the world.
But who or what is left for a Palestinian?

But not as much as this subreddit…
HO-LEE-SHIT
I unplug for a bit and now we yearn for FDB and Valentino (Rob’s awesome btw but there is 0 indication he wants to be HC here or anywhere)?!
We’ve suffered from a checked-out Eales and an even-dumber-than-these-recent-takes Bocanegra who knee-jerk reacted this club to the hole we’re slowly climbing out of.
I get it if you’re frustrated with Garth not chopping heads off but he’s been here all of one year trying to figure out what the fuck is going which we haven’t been able to do for 5 years.
The thing we need right now is a guy like Garth who will forsake myopic knee-jerk moves for long term success. He’s a process person and we’re starting to see some real hits with signings—signings that swing above their price tag.
Yes, Gonzo’s tenure has been terrible. Yes, I’d like him gone yesterday (even though I root for his success) but this FO fucked themselves so hard post McDonough and pre Garth that it’s going to take some time to unfuck the past 5 years. But firing Gonzo now without a locked in replacement is not good for long term success.
Hate to say it, but we might not be back on track until next year but I trust Garth to make us perennial contenders eventually just like he did for Seattle.
It sucks we have to suffer a little longer, but it’s better than forever

Not financial advice, just wanted to give people some food for though about GWAV. Seen it in other threads and people with hopes it does well on Monday and the rest of the week, which it might very well. If you’re in it for a quick gain that might be your best option, but it might not come.
Anyway the reason I error on the side of caution with this one is because the CEO Danny Meeks did a debt/equity swap. Exchanging 17.22 million in debt to equity to his lenders. 10 mill in series d preferred stock and 7.22 mill in common stock. He says it “further aligns him with the shareholders” and reflects the confidence he has within the business and its growth.
If this company wasn’t a pennystock and was turning over good profits year over year I’d say it was poised for growth, but I think they are burning at both ends and are just trying to stay solvent. That being said I would not want to hold this one long term. They only have 1.55 million cash on hand as well. Just my 2 cents.

We work in a small close knit technical field, reputations are earned quickly. This person has a long, stellar history of raising issues quickly to supervisory/authority figures instead of talking things out to with the person she has an issue with.
In a course in 2023, she allegedly suffered sexual harassment from a classmate, she immediately reported him instead of telling to stop, etc. an investigation quickly took place where no one at the school knew anything of the sort was occurring or had occurred, two of his direct coworkers were in the class were shocked by the allegation and said he’d never stray from his marriage or want to make anyone feel uncomfortable. I say this as a male who has suffered sexual assault and harassment. As stated, she has a history of reporting things without talking to the person first.
A few weeks later, the individual who was accused offed themselves in a parking lot by shooting themselves in the chest, leaving behind a wife and 3 kids, and traumatizing the police officer who found him.
I still with work with the person who reported the issue, and has since betrayed me on other lesser issues, and in the last few months has been getting heat from other teams who refuse to work with us because of her. She, along with another person has ruined our team and many people on our team now under investigation for a stupid rumors she and another person created, all without remorse.
I refuse to intervene and defend her as she sorts out her personal life in dealing with her new reputation as an unintentional (multi)home wrecker and coming to terms with her behavior of running to authority figures first instead of talking to people, which led directly to someone ending their life. I want her to leave my team and the entire industry before she ruins more lives.
AITAH?
Edited for grammar, probably more I missed, sorry.