Lesson plans for teaching reading inflections

My uncle works for a big hedge place and says they're backed into a corner. They've been having secret closed door meetings discussing strategies all weekend. They are so angry that their short is being thwarted and really want to teach us a lesson.

Background: I never once thought I’d go down the accounting career path. It just kinda landed on my lap. I was working at a hotel 10 yrs ago while going to school for Business Admin(CC). I was working as a night auditor & was promoted to an accounting manager but I never really managed anyone. I did AP/AHR. After 2 years, I had to relocate. Since I was young & never thought or had the confidence to apply for another accounting manager job, I applied for Night Audit again and went on to become an A/R. I did A/R for 2 years & switched job because I wanted something more. I am currently working as an accounting III (59k). It started fine, i was doing more A/P, some AR, tax filling, etc. 5 years in, they made me manage the whole AR system & I feel like I’m just chasing people for payment over & over. I’ve totally forgotten everything I’ve learned about accounting. We don’t even do month-end or year-end!! I’m so bored at work & my brain is just slowly dying, literally. I want to explore more and I’m planning on getting my Bachelor’s starting this fall. I’m just so scared because 1) I feel I’m too old & I feel like i’m starting from the bottom again & 2) I might regret this “I need a new adventure in my life” phase because my current job is sooooo easy & I could probably use the free time for school.
I’m at a point where I think maybe accounting is not meant for me. I’m just so confused right now. I’m 34, no mortgage, paid off car, & no kids so maybe I’m just trying to look for the meaning of my life aka quarter life crisis.
Anyway, did anyone here start their accounting career late? Or did anyone leave accounting & switched to a different path?
Thanks for reading.

I’m in a predicament. I’ve recently decided to go for a nursing degree. And I don’t know which would be a smarter option. I’m extremely eager to start working as a nurse and I really want to do the ABSN program. However, I’ve read the ADN programs are a better move financially. Which I am concerned about the prices of most ABSN programs. But I think I could pay the ABSN program off within 2 years or so if i went that route. My plan is to live with my parents until the loans are paid off. Or to live as cheap as possible or to work as a tavel nurse. But I also hear that it’s smarter financially to do the ADN route than bridge for BSN. Since most hospitals will either fully or help l pay for it. My only issue is that it’ll take 2 years. And I’m extremely impatient and want to make big money now. I know I shouldn’t be turning to the internet for a major decision, but please I would love to hear some good advice!

Its was 2:26 one night.For some reason i couldnt find myself tired or able to fall asleep. It was the weekend anyways so it really wasnt a big deal.! didnt really have plans tommorow except going shopping with my friends.i mainly just stayed up watching tik tok but since my parents room was right next to mines and everyones was asleep i had my light off door closed and i was just on my phone.Everything around me was pitch black.As im scrolling i hear my mom talking downstairs.l think nothing of it.But then i realized.Everyones asleep?That cant be her?! I brush it off cause im tired anyways so my minds just playing tricks on me.l began falling asleep and right before i fell into a deep sleep i hear my mom screaming for help downstairs in the kitchen.i rush downstairs through my dark house, but realize, once again.My moms asleep.every light is off.Including the kitchen light. there i stood in the middle of the kitchen, alone, in the dark. As i was about to walk back upstairs i feel something, someone, staring. At this point im scared and creeped out. trying not to look behind me but i just keep getting even more nervous and creeped out when i got up the stairs i turned the hallway light on from the top and nobody is behind me, but all the way down the hallway, where the balcony door is,i seen a tall, black figure with a hat.i just stared. After being in shock for so long the figure began knocking on the glass door. I just stared.It seemed like the longer i stared the louder the knocking became. After staring for what felt like 15 minutes i snapped out of the fear and ran to my parents room to tell them.Only to find out, when i entered the room, a stuffed animal and a note reading, “Hey sweetie,me and your father didnt want to wake you so late but we took a shift to help out at the hospital tonight, we need the extra money for some of the bills. We should be back no later than 10:30 am tommorow morning,i left the key underneath the plant outside the front door for when you leave tommorow morning with your friends. Sorry for the short notice love.We love you, stay safe, call us if you need anything." They were gone.What was i supposed to do?i dropped the note on the floor and cried, when all of the sudden i hear the front door creak open.Whatever,and whoever it was, was inside my house.The footsteps climbed up the stairs as i ran to my older sisters room (who had been in collage for a bit so she wasnt home) and locked the door and hid in the closet.i heard the footsteps reach the top step and stop. I listened out for the footsteps but heard nothing else for the next 20 minutes. felt a little better and calmed down at that moment.I needed to get a hold of my mom but I didnt have my phone and was too scared to get up and get it from my room.Then i heard the footsteps reach the room i was in.Whoever it was tried to open the door but as soon as they realized it was locked.They began banging, kicking,scratching,and screaming.The screams sounded like a mans scream.I cried silently in the closet until it stopped.The voice suddenly said."josie.i know your in there.Come out. im not here to hurt you." and it followed with a deep, stomach twisting laugh.But that wasnt what was important.It was that they knew my name. An hour or so had passed by but the figure was still outside the door making no noises.then i heard my mothers and fathers couces call my name but i knew it wasnt them. Eventually the figure left when sunrise came.l ended up falling asleep in the closet.When i woke up i checked the whole house.Nothing.i called my mom and her and my father rushed home.I told her everything that happned.My mother called the cops and told them everything as well.We were watching the news later on that day,and we seen news about a local skinwalker breaking into houses.Suddenly a call from the police station.They explained to my mom they had caught the guy. He had been stalking me for years making plans to murder me and keep me “all to himself” after that my parents a left me at home alone nor did I look at that glass window again, thinking he will appear and wined up keeping me for himself… successfully this time.

Me (20MtF) and my boyfriend (25FtM) believe that I am emotionally unavailable. How can I be more mentally present and make him feel like a priority in my life?
My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year, and are getting ready to move into an apartment together next month. I have somewhat severe ADHD, and I believe it is partially to blame for my inability to make him genuinely happy despite us both being in love with each other. When I make new friends, I often fixate on talking to them and spending time with them excessively, and this has at times taken away from time him and I can spend together. This started at the beginning of our relationship and has led to me stopping any attempts to meet new people until we get this sorted out, because we don't get much time together and I wanted to stop cutting into our time together with a random person who I don't actually care about. However, I still do things with my roommates some nights, but it usually turns out that that particular night was the night he wanted to spend with me, but I didn't ask if that's what he wanted to do, so he's just upset and says that I don't care about spending time with him and don't take our relationship seriously.
He works full time at a retail position and I have significantly more free time as a (now just graduated) college student. So I try to prioritize his days off to see him, but I tend to forget to ask about specifics, leading to misunderstandings. I told him last night (Friday) that I was going to head home to my house that night so I could continue packing for when we move, which should have been fine because he worked at 9 this morning (Saturday) anyways. Then tomorrow (Sunday), he has the whole day off so I can come over tonight and spend the night and all of tomorrow with him. However I didn't check this plan with him and it turned out that was not what he wanted me to do and was upset that I went home last night, leading to him texting me that he doesn't want to see me on Sunday either because he's bothered by how little time I attempt to spend with him. I clearly know that very clear communication is needed in this relationship, but my ADHD makes it difficult to remember to do this.
When we do get time together, we have days where I am fully mentally present and these are absolutely wonderful. Neither of us have ever been as in love with someone else as we are with each other. But on other days, my ADHD flares up even when I take my medication, and I end up being mentally completely distant from him during that time. This makes him feel like he isn't good enough to get my attention and is taken extremely personally. This breaks my heart because I of course don't want him to feel this way. I love him and love spending time with him, but my ways of interacting with him differ on certain days and don't always give him what he needs to be happy in our relationship. This leads him to feel like even when we do get time together, that a large amount of it is wasted doing nothing that is productive to our relationship or strengthening our bond as partners. He says he's been closer emotionally with past partners after a month than we currently are after a year. I reassure him that I have intentions to work on these things and I genuinely do try, but things haven't been completely fixed yet and it leads to recurring arguments over the same things.
So, sorry if any of that was unclear or rambling. What I'm wondering is a couple of things: What can I do to work on my emotional availability and being mentally present in our relationship and our time together, if anything? And, considering that this will take a decent amount of time to fully fix, what can I do to reassure him in the meantime and prove to him that I'm making progress? Thanks for reading <3

I'm not sure where to post this, as time passes, I doubt my issue is really AvPD, although some issues are quite similar. For instance, the reason I procrastinate is to avoid difficult emotions and feelings.
This week, up until today (as I had anticipated) has gone quite well. Except for Monday, because I was suffering the consequences of not sleeping enough on Sunday.
There are some almost constant issues with my life that I'm trying to work on. I'll try to be brief:

• I have trouble sleeping. I feel a lot of anxiety and guilt at night, I don't want the day to end because I don't want next day to begin. I think this happens mainly because I know I'm not spending my time wisely and I waste a lot of time doing nothing (well, not really "nothing", I'm actually avoiding).
• I'm trying to lose weight and it's been incredibly difficult. I'm an emotional eater and I'm always anxious. Eating something I shouldn't eat causes a brief feeling of pleasure followed by guilt and anxiety, which makes me want to eat more. On top of guilt and anxiety, I tend to eat when I'm bored, which happens a lot if I'm wasting my time.
• I procrastinate a lot. I don't want to do boring tasks, I don't want to do tedious tasks, I don't want to face the idea that I'm not smart enough, which happens when I read something and I don't instantly understand it. In an attempt to not procrastinate, I keep myself from doing things I know will absorb too much of my time, like playing videogames I actually like. So I end up doing nothing productive (as in good for me, including having fun).
• My death drive is usually too strong, so I don't really feel like doing things, even if I enjoy them. I mean, one reason of not playing videogames I would enjoy playing is being sensible and knowing I wouldn't be able to control myself, spend too much time playing and then not doing other things I need to do; but this is another important reason. Overcoming this everyday is a huge effort for me. This obviously doesn't help with any of the above. It leads me to procrastinate more, that increases anxiety and guilt, so I eat more and then I can't sleep because of the piled up guilt and anxiety.

And it's a vicious cycle, because the following day, after not sleeping enough, I actually have an "excuse": I'm sleepy and tired.
Some more context: I'm currently working full time and studying a master's part time. I have three subjects this semester and I find all of them interesting, but there is one I love, one that is difficult and one that is boring (the subject is interesting, the assignments are boring). The next deadline is next week for all three (Monday, Friday and Sunday respectively). My uncle is visiting next weekend, so I have to finish them all before the weekend if I want to spend time with him.
A friend helped me with the difficult one, he doesn't know it but thanks to him I have some external pressure to finish it early and discuss it.
This week I planned on working on the one I like. I managed to do something everyday, my plan was to finish it on Friday but I was done on Thursday. I managed to be productive and finish the assignment way before the deadline. This means I wasn't bored, I didn't overeat and I slept better than any other week.
This is huge for me. I mean, I'm sure I could have also taken some time to exercise, but I don't expect to completely fix a problem I've been having for half of my life all of a sudden. I'm being realistic.
I also know this doesn't mean I am half fixed either. I managed to do this only because it was the subject I like. And I knew I would procrastinate again as soon as I started "working" on the boring assignment. Which is what happened today (is knowing yourself too well a "self-fulfilling prophecy"?).
It was a peek of what I can do, of what my life can be. It's a small step on the right direction. And the best part: even though it was an effort on my part, it wasn't a huge one. I feel like it was just the right amount to feel satisfaction after it's done.

I recently moved to Caraguatuba, Sao Paulo and I am struggling with my Portuguese self taught lessons. My primary language is English. I can read Portt pretty well but speaking and comprehension is very slow. I would like to find a local tutor. Does anyone know where I can start toook for one?

I teach middle school. For 25 years I have been letting my kids (about 2 dozen a year) fly a plane, for real, for free. It is all part of the Young Eagles program and it is open to any kid aged 8-17. Here is a link. Ask me any questions you like about it, but I likely won't read them until tomorrow. I just spent the day at the local airport with 20 kids (and their parents) and am kind of beat. They have given well over 2 million kids a free flight since they started in 1992! https://www.eaa.org/eaa/youth/free-ye-flights

Hello! I just started working at a charter school (1st teaching job) and it seems their first line of defense for students who cannot get it together with the traditional behavior ladder are given breaks. However the breaks are just the kid leaves class wanders the hallway possibly disrupting other people/classes and maybe comes back 5 minutes later.
I don’t hate the idea of a break for a select few students however just wandering doesn’t help them learn new coping mechanisms that will help them stay in class.
Does your school do this? If they do give kids breaks what is the plan for them?

(Before I begin to explain this park, note that this is a little side quest passion project of mine that I've been planning for 2 years from now, and I'll always keep you guys interested)
The whole point of the park is about progress in the human civilization or the earth itself, and how unique each time period was to its creativity and design. These areas include: Celebrating different cultures and religion with the small Japanese village of Ritorubirejji, venturing into the uncharted with the Scarlet Jungle and its secrets, the clashing of the ancient and the modern into one (creating the symbolism of the eclipse, 2 solar bodies combining for an spectacle, the old being the moon and the new being the sun) with Eclipse Kingdom, the possibility of what the future might become with Apollyon, the nature and how we should preserve it with the Heartlands National Park, the dangers of nuclear world wars with "No Man's Land", architecture in the renaissance period with "Crystal Bay", and teaching the kids the evolution of the human creations such as the airplane through "Little Pilots" and its family-friendly attractions!

Received this letter from my Nmom April 15, personal info redacted and annotated in bold italicized square brackets:

Dear [my name],
I am writing this letter to apologize to you. I did not know when I would send this to you as I did not want to disrespect your request of no contact. As the situation with Daddy’s health has brought us near, I I decided to give it to you. [For context, she was near because 6 months ago she bought an apartment down the road from my dad’s who literally lives in a different country. I was there because my dad recently had the palliative care talk from his doctor]
Firstly, I know you would not have cut off contact with me last year unless you felt like it was the healthiest thing fore you to do. I understand my contribution to your pain, and the triggers that made it hard to spend time with me.
I have read your text many times [I sent a text outlining some of my issues before going NC], and I understand how my actions, poor listening skills, invalidation, and minimization have caused you pain, loneliness, and despair. I am truly sorry for the ways I have let you down as a mother. I am sorry that I was hurtful to you. As a parent, I should have protected you more and been more aware of, and more empathetic to, your needs. You have a right to feel disappointed in my that I didn’t do a better job.
I Las understand your needs regarding parents processing their past trauma separately from adult children. I want you to know that I have been seeing a good therapist, [therapist’s name] at [practice name] regularly this past year and have also done webinars and podcasts specific to parent/adult child relationships to help myself and hopefully to learn how to be a healthier parent and person.
I love you dearly and want you to be happy and healthy. I am proud of you for all that you are. I have missed you, [my dog] and [my partner] and being apart of your lives. I want you to know that I am open to do whatever is needed to mend our relationship moving forward.
If you want to talk, I promise to listen purely from the perspective of listening and learning, and not in any way to defend myself. Or, if you would feel more comfortable to do that in the presence of a therapist, I would welcome that also, as well, if there are things you would like me to specifically work on in my own therapy, I would appreciate that input as well.
I love you lots, thanks for reading.
xx Mommy

In contrast, here are some recent emails I discovered between her and my Ndad. Keep in mind these aren’t the only emails I found, just some recent highlights. They’re divorced for 10+ years btw.
2/22/2024

Nmom: fyl I tried to put in a request for session with him [J\shua C*leman], waitlisted untl 2025 but may be helpful regardless of how long this drags out. Provide guidance for amends letter, contact AC, email follow up etc so 995 worth It considering I am now paying 225 per session in *[nmom's city] with not a lot of help as no clue about estrangement logistics [so much for seeing a “good therapist”]
Ndad: Same problem here. Estrangement is an area of expertise not normally covered by therapists which I understand although a relatively new phenomenon. Listening to some of the examples on Monday made me worried e.g. the son in law accusing his wife parents of murdering his 90 year old grandfather. The situations are growing more extreme and therapists seem to be "egging on" their patients. So I agree, stay on the waiting list, for [my brother] as much as anyone.
Nmom: Even assuming [my name] comes around before 2025 we will forever be on eggshells for another episode until proper therapy - I am hoping as in sf she could go to see him +- with me to enlighten herself. We were not perfect parents but the influence from whomever incl [best friend] has to be squashed as not dealing with issues is stonewalling and abusive to us.
I admit that I am having suicidal thoughts about it myself, that is not good but 80% of mothers do.
From his teachings we just have to suck it up or else things get worse - it is not fair but that is the best way.
if I had known I would have kept quite and not defended us - her calling me narcissist triggered me and I even said that despite your tendencies you were not a card carrying narcissist either.
the physical abuse memory I think is exaggerated, I asked her point blank and said i never witnessed it then she back tracked saying emotional abuse is worse than physical anyway. There was emotional abuse but also a lot of good things and I tried to reason that I was under duress and you were not in right mind eep bearing your childhood. She said she had empathy but I got impression it didn't matter we are the parents and she was a child.

3/7/2024

Nmom: I linked in from josh site, looks like his interview not on the free 20+ but interesting to see the garbage out there, mainly spouted by lay people for what it's worth to get behind enemy lines I am listening to some, limited time airing next 8 hours or "buy now” promotional buttons: https://www.avaiya.com/heal-your-past/0305replays/ [link to a website on healing from narcissistic parents]
Ndad: I know, trust me, it's very depressing to see how this has turned out given all the efforts we put in to give them a nice home, schooling and entertainment which we never had. From my own past, I know parents take some blame, but at some point, the kids need to get on with life and stop deflecting all their own character flaws on failed parenting, whether real or catastrophized by therapists.

4/1/24 (a few weeks after reinitiating contact with ndad after not talking for 5 months)

Nmom: Yesterday was a year+ 1 day since I got the email from [my husband about setting NC].
I have been thinking about how odd it is that [my name] cannot appraise any information and critically assess better from the internet or whomever. I thought the whole point of [a high school program I went through 10+ years ago] was world harmony and peace through conflict resolution - didn't she even have classes on all that? Her relationship with [my high school friend group] obsession also odd, she got upset at me once as I could not say [my friend who does not have a stereotypically white name] name right, took offense etc like If's Mary or John. She seems to have to protect [my best friend] or prove that she's independent from us and their interactions last March i was there were trivial and frivolous kinda immature like hard to describe. There was another example earlier I thought of when she was quick to adopt polyamory etc that I thought was not thought thru at the time. Of course I did not debate etc. That was pre-[my husband], soon switched so idk it was like after she saw the NetFlix show on it saying monogamy was abnormal.
Ndad: Yesterday's show was good, and it was fair to say that men and women react differently to the same situation which, I think did create conflict between us e.g. Soft approach vs hard-line approach and then we also had your mother to contend with which didn’t help. But most of these are fairy common childhoods, nothing terrible like the children being physically, sexually abused or even picked on [lies]. In fact, they were privileged, not even helping clean, cook, helping for the most part.
I also feel that therapy is a double-edged sword from my own experiences. A person in emotional turmoil needs careful handling and too often, my therapists would focus on outcomes without looking at context. For example, I don't like XYZ because they erotionally abused me is the outcome, and a biased outcome as well. But the context would be, CYX told the child off because they were rude and offensive. Many therapists don’t care about context, just the outcome. This is wrong and all it does is reinforce the resentment in their patient and does not help the patient be compassionate to another’s position.
Both are mentally ill and not getting proper treatment, [my name] is getting reinforcement from people that are not well themselves and [my brother] is desperate for acceptance from friends to the point of casting everything else aside e.g. family, career, education, ambition, etc. and excusing his behavior as a product of childhood abuse (reinforced by others who have their own agendas). I invited him to visit three times, and each time he didn't call back but instead he decided to help a friend's friend whose mother died while ironically, his own father is seriously ill, hospitalized and unable to walk. [My name]’s obsession with how great other parents are compared to us is also ignorant and seemed to begin around age 14.
Personally, I am on the point of giving up on them. They cause more anguish during this time than all the medical stuff combined, it's distracting, heartbreaking and it's making me sicker. My primary doctor agrees. I gave [my brother] $6000 and $50000 in 2023 and in both cases, he neither called to say thanks or did anything constructive with it. Similarly with [my name], I was hospitalized, seriously ill and she decided it was a good time to cut me off for reasons I don't understand [took a 6 month break from talking and re-initiated contact before this email was sent]. its too much dealing with adult children.

I’m sure some of the letter was taken from something that scummy money grab “therapist” J*shua C*leman has put out, who she seems to have discovered per the emails (censoring his name because I wouldn't be surprised if his deranged ass had notifications for mentions online and who knows if he's working with my nparents or not). Can't wait for him to have his license revoked.

yo bootlickers! I'm planning on making a video guide and wanna fact check this summery of him and his best stats :]
set: shooting meteor 4pc and low invest and 2pc with watchmaker for low investment. then 2 pc Talia for orb and rope
body: crit rate you can also go defensive (hp/def)
boots: speed almost always
orb: physical dmg or defensive (hp/def)
rope: break always
substats; always aim for at least 300& break effect. After go for: break effect = speed > crit stats = defensive (depending on teams) > attack = effect res > effect hit rate (useless)
lightcones dont really matter but his signature is by far the best with subscribe and swordplay being good alts. adversarial being a GREAT 3 star light cone too for speed. (not sure if its better than the 4 stars)
team mates would be, Ruan Mei (best by far), Bronya, harmony trail blazer, Pela and Robin. mashing any of those together with one sustain should work preferably Gallagher but its not too big of a deal.
and for eidolons; e1 is very good (and a good stopping point for most), e2 being good not great, e3 being meh, e4 is ok, e5 is very good and e6 being holy moley broken.
thanks for reading, let me know if you think the info is right or if something is wrong! :] <3

No matter what I do to get better, it just constantly feels like I fuck things up.
I'm currently on vacation and usually when I travel, I take trips for about 1 week maximum and it's always local to home. But this trip is 3 weeks long (2 weeks in) and across the globe. And I've had a lot of fun. But im.reaching thst point where I'm starting to get angsty, I cant fall into my comforts because I dont have them and I'm getting really overwhelmed. My boyfriend (who is such an amazing man) has been unwell the past few days. I ended up spiralling and logged out of all my social media to just remove myself from everything before i said or did something I regretted. But I got a text from a friend saying that he's now in hospital. I feel awful for taking a step back when he probably needed me most. I did it to look after myself but I now feel selfish.
Also, the friend I am on this trip with had plans to visit a particular place today. Its been the thing she's been looking forward to the most on this trip. But after a really bad episode last night, chronic illness which makes walking difficult and a lack of sleep, I made the decision to back out and let her see it herself. I said whilst she was out, it would be really beneficial for me to just have some time to myself for the first time in 2 weeks and some time alone to just ride this out. But now, she won't go. She's upset about not being able to go. And whilst I know logically, I'm not stopping her, it feels like my fault.
Finally, things are going south with my mum. For context, my mum is terminally ill. I moved out last year, as caring for her full time when she was downright horrible to me was too much for me to handle. Her behaviour, her attitude and her neglect is a lot of the reason I am the way I am the reason I have to feel like this and the reason I react the way I do and the reason I cant just have a normal day. I need to remove her from my life, for my benefit, but some part of me just keeps hoping she'll come around when I know she won't.
Logically, I know I am doing better. I used to have episodes daily and now, I barely have them weekly. I've gotten better at expressing my feelings and putting myself first.
But I feel like I fuck everything up and im hurting everyone around me for doing things for myself. I dont want this feeling to ruin the last week of my trip. I mean, I'm in Japan for fucks sake. But everything is just going wrong and it is so difficult to handle right now. Thanks for reading, dont forget to hydrate today <33

Idk I didn’t think I could not like this girl anymore. It’s just so unauthentic. Can’t even say mom but knows all these other words but there’s no vids of her trying to actively teach him these words and u know if she did she would be recording it showing the camera in his face. You see Jacob and c teaching words and repeating them … just to take credit. I fear for Grayson learning. I can’t see her whipping out books or little letters or sitting there trying to teach him anything. Like does she even read to him?! She just makes videos w him on her couch and she’s the “best mom ever” she’s going to be too busy bcus she has to remember “her life didn’t end when she became a mom and she can still have fun” none of her 23 year old friends r going to want to sit there while she has to teach him stuff bcus their 23 year old single people which makes sense … she’s just honestly such a bad mom. And just using him for content is so sad bcus all these other lost people just gas jer or they talk ab thier own random children stories like she gives af … I promise u she doesn’t she only care ab herself cnot even her kid like does anyone remember how she left him a day or two early w c a women she hates while he was sick and had to go to the hospital to go f maysen on spring break. She didn’t even look stressed on the trip just jumping on top of him and showing off her botched boob job. And she can’t even change his diapers I saw a baby the other day w a full diaper and it was so horrible and it’s just weird how people think it’s normal… no u go change ur baby right away! There is literally no excuses ..none!

Hi, I work at a resell store. I have for a few years now and steadily get employee of the month. The manager has even admitted I’m better than organizing than him. I love the store and do my best to keep it tidy as well as keep customers as happy as I can. One person that was hired a couple of years ago was not a great worker. He was rude to most customers, and often did not work to the extent that was needed as an employee. The customers that liked him, loved him. But it got to the point that many customers would start to all together avoid the store if he was working, that how off putting the experience was. People would call first to see if he was there. Or peek their head in them back out if they saw him. It didn’t seem like he was intentionally being rude usually, but obviously the stress from the job made him buckle easily and unfortunately, near constantly. When he was finally fired, he was at the store for so long that most of our small town had heard of how bad of a worker he is at this point. So it is my understanding that he was or may even still be having a hard time finding another job. Now, for some reason, both this ex worker and a friend of his that used to be a regular at the store, are either lying about or actually have the impression that it is solely me who got him fired, and that I just have this personal vendetta against him. I stand by saying that he is not a good worker, and was often openly bigoted, and rude to many customers as well as employees. I do not know him personally and do not have a personal vendetta. The only thing I have against him is that he is now trying to go to other locations of our stores and try to get me banned through them. They are also stopping people I know outside of the store at other places to check if i’m still working there and telling them that I must be higher up than a manager secretly, that am a loose cannon and to not be trusted. There are new customers coming to the store quietly cursing me out because they are newer friends of theirs and they have heard made up stories about me. I am not sure what I can do about this legally, if anything at all. It is hard enough to explain situations as is because im autistic and don’t do well with social interactions. That being said, I always greet customers, help them when wanted/needed, and do everything that makes an employee a good one. They are telling other people that I am rude and a bad worker now. I do plan to keep this job as long as possible, but if I ever do try to get another job I’m afraid their lies will have found their way to other companies to the point that I won’t get hired, similar to his situation, like an eye for an eye sort of thing.. my company itself says that they will back me up in terms of the store. If they don’t stop saying things at our actual locations they will be banned. But they are mostly going to stores of ours that don’t even know me, as well as obviously telling the town we’re actually in that I am this terrible monster. I am wondering how much of this is legal or what I can do about it. Thank you to anyone who reads this, I apologize for the length… and for a bit of vagueness… because as dedicated as they are currently, I wouldn’t be surprised if they were to find this post.

Around 6 months ago I built a pc, it’s been a bit laggy with simple tasks, which was a surprise considering the specs. Last night I got fed up with it and decided to do some research. I read that I could try turning on xmp in the bios. I turned xmp on and tried booting my pc up but after I enter in my pin the screen is just black, every time. I tried turning xmp off, but it’s still a black screen. I restored to default in the bios and it’s still a black screen. I then took the battery out of my motherboard for 5 minutes and put it back in, still black. I just did a system reset, cleared all my files and it’s still a black screen. I tried taking my ram out and putting it back in but nothing is working. I just diid startup repair but it says unable to repair. Specs Cpu: I9 14th gen Gpu: asus rog strix gtx 1070 (ik i planned on upgrading) Ram: G.skill ddr5 2 sticks of 16gb Motherboard: asus z790-v wifi

I’ve been lurking in this sub for so long, reading a lot of your posts. I’m glad to announce I finally passed the AWS MLS certification last week with a 890, got my results around 5 hours after the exam.
My primary source to study for the exam was the AWS MLS Study Guide (available in O’Reilly), the AWS ML services docs and the Udemy course by Frank Kane and Stephane Maarek.
I took the section based practice exams in Tutorials Dojo and the quizzes in AWS exam preparedness course in SkillBuilder. I wasn’t really confident on the day before the exam ( I got several questions wrong in the practice tests) but somehow things went well.
For the ones planning to take up the cert, I strongly recommend going through practice exams in TD. The questions there were similar to the ones in the exam in terms of difficulty and relevance.
Some topics to study in detail: Kinesis Firehose vs Data Streams, AWS Glue, SageMaker built-in algorithms, metrics(Recall, Precision, RSME, AUC etc), A/B Deployment, NLP, RCF, SageMaker Debugger etc.
It took me about a month to study for the exam. I’ve worked with AWS services for around 6 months and have an academic background in ML, the only domain entirely new to me was the data engineering part and that’s what I spent most time studying for.
I was wondering how much of an overlap there is (data engineering) with the data engineer associate cert? I’m thinking of taking it up next, would help to know from someone who has an idea.
Thanks for reading and good luck!!

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hello everyone , this is my first time posting here i'm usually here just to read posts and occasionally interact. first i want to apologise if my english is bad its my 2nd language. secondly i want to introduce myself i'm a 22yo(M) medical student 1 more year to go so i can graduate. i have ocd and i deal with perfectionism a lot which in the early years it was benefitial for me it got to where i am i was always praised by my teachers and family but deep down i felt like i didnt do enough work to be having all this good feedback and that i needed to do more so i stayed on this mentality of doing everything perfectly to avoid judgement / failure and feelings of inferiority. moving forwards this mindset became toxic for me as i started med school [ which for context : its a journey where you get tons of informations in a short amount of time and you have to learn the best you can from it and the reality is that its impossible to be able to be perfect in it; yes thats what i think .. me the perfectionist... words easy to say but very hard to apply and internalise in my mind] it started giving me anxiety in the first years but i managed to keep holding on thru it without burning out which means i did the best work i can so i can shut down the voice of "you didnt do well" ... i worked hard in the first years i was so productive but this didnt stay like this over the years i started running out of energy and started losing interest and my perfectionism started to manifest as procrastinating my tasks because in my mind ; if u start it i won't be able to give my best in it ; i will feel bad for not understanding it from one take or i will forget it anyway or i won't be able to understand perfectly the whole chapter for exemple and i won't be able to be good in it and therefore i will be "mid" "judged" "inferior" comparing to my peers who i percieve as ppl who are productive and loving what they are doing and they are hard working and deserves the scores they get. and somehow with all of this i manage to buckle up in few weeks and work hard to get a score that will satisfy the inner perfectionist in me. BUT so to sum it up : its like this procrastination made my feelings of "you don't deserve those scores and this places" even worse cuz if i had it when i was ACTUALLY doing efforts and working hard ... then automatically i still have it ... but even worse than before when i'm a chronic procrastinator.
these thoughts didn't let me enjoy the med school experience i don't feel like i satisfied the "little kid me" who always dreamed abt it.
perfectionism is a hell of a personality trait it gives you what you need in early stages of your life but as you move forwards and you meet the real life it becomes your enemy and destroy your self-esteem.
as for now ; i'm in a freezing mode i have 4 weeks left to study for an exam and its been 3 weekq that ive been planning to start studying it but i couldnt cause of this problem i did well all year long but i burned out and i can't bring myself to do anything but i NEED to pass this exam and my brain won't stop criticising me abt how i wasted 3 weeks (again the perfectionism shit).
please if there's any medical student who relate to me. comment or dm me and tell me how do you cope what solution you found for yourself or at least lets have a conversation about this.
also my final exams are in 3 weeks and i have A HUGE AMPOUNT of lectures to study and i'm having so much anxiety because ik once i start studying i will get more anxious about not doing it effectively and start the loop again !!

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Around 6 months ago I built a pc, it’s been a bit laggy with simple tasks, which was a surprise considering the specs. Last night I got fed up with it and decided to do some research. I read that I could try turning on xmp in the bios. I turned xmp on and tried booting my pc up but after I enter in my pin the screen is just black, every time. I tried turning xmp off, but it’s still a black screen. I restored to default in the bios and it’s still a black screen. I then took the battery out of my motherboard for 5 minutes and put it back in, still black. I just did a system reset, cleared all my files and it’s still a black screen. I tried taking my ram out and putting it back in but nothing is working. I just diid startup repair but it says unable to repair. Specs Cpu: I9 14th gen Gpu: asus rog strix gtx 1070 (ik i planned on upgrading) Ram: G.skill ddr5 2 sticks of 16gb Motherboard: asus z790-v wifi

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