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Met someone when traveling and it was fun and we hooked up but have been continuing to chat and send PG13 pics to each other almost every day. I’m back to my home country, but we were planning to meet up again soon in his or a nearby country. He’s a bit of a love bomber but always sounded enthusiastic etc. and said we should call soon and were planning to do so.
Suddenly, out of nowhere, he ghosted for the past week. I saw he has followed new girls, so I assume he is just busy dating and screwing around in his home country, but why would he stop talking to me if it’s not like we are anything serious? Like why drop a girl from the roster and the potential to get sex again? Makes zero sense
Should I ping him / double text closer to the date i’m thinking of going to see if he’s still down? Like i don’t really care about being shameless, he’s that attractive

I’ve been in a relation for over 1yr. My boyfriend is more open minded than me. We’ve had several conversations about fantasies, sleeping with other people etc.
He likes to watch me when I’m playing with a toy(dildo) He likes to hear me when I’m playing and when I cum. It’s the first time in my life doing all this. And I like it most of the time, but sometimes I want to have sex with him and he just wants to watch me play instead and then make him finish. He likes to watch me and hear me, more than having sex with me. And there are sometimes that I want to be with HIM not a toy. I’ve thought about having sex with another guy and maybe let my boyfriend watch or send him pictures, but at the same time I’m not sure on how I would feel ? How I would feel if he wants to sleep with another girl ? What if he likes that other person more than me? He has been in this kind of relationships in the past he is not new in all this, he allowed his ex girlfriends to sleep with other guys and go out on dates with them and then send him pics of tell him how it was. I have a lot of questions, a lot of things in my mind. I’ve never been in any relationship like this. I’ve asked him how he feels about this relationship not being that open and he says is fine, but I don’t know for sure if that’s true or not… It’s confusing for me because I like watching porn and masturbate while watching, it turns me on to think about having sex with another guy. I like to watch porn with him. But sometimes I think this kind of things can open a door of cheating. I’ve been in past relationships where they cheated on me. I have cheated in past relationships as well… And don’t know if this can open that door.. I’m confused and would like to hear other opinions, maybe someone going through the same situation? Someone that was in a situation like this and tried it ? Or any thoughts/advice.

Met someone when traveling and it was fun and we hooked up but have been continuing to chat and send PG13 pics to each other almost every day. I’m back to my home country, but we were planning to meet up again soon in his or a nearby country. He’s a bit of a love bomber but always sounded enthusiastic etc. and said we should call soon and were planning to do so.
Suddenly, out of nowhere, he ghosted for the past week. I saw he has followed new girls, so I assume he is just busy dating and screwing around in his home country, but why would he stop talking to me if it’s not like we are anything serious? Like why drop a girl from the roster and the potential to get sex again? Makes zero sense
Should I ping him / double text closer to the date i’m thinking of going to see if he’s still down? Like i don’t really care about being shameless, he’s that attractive

Level 1 here. I actually am relatively lucky even being ''mildly autistic''. Don't even have sensory issues(maybe sensory seeking to an extent), obviously no intellectual disability, can socialize normally now without masking, no dyspraxia, don't even have meltdowns really. However, ASD(and even ADHD) for me is definitely an inherent disability. Yeah sure, the times in school when I was misunderstood, viewed as the weird kid, had teachers get annoyed or angry with me wasn't fun(though not seriously bullied) but I still struggled alot regardless of those things:
-I did not communicate any better with autistic people than with my neurotypical classmates. When I was 15/16 I spent several months going to a weekly ASD group at a local hospital. Most of the kids were also level 1/aspies and several were homeschooled. They weren't mean nor was I but I just had the same problem of not knowing how to build off the initial start of a conversation, talking about my restrictive interests in a narrow manner or just not being able to connect. I eventually stopped going due to getting nothing out of it.
-I was(still am) a massive overthinker. So even when it came to my restrictive interests I sabotaged myself by making things overly complicated(style hopping with martial arts, deep diving into the rants/analysis about pop culture, etc). Also because during the 2016 mess I got deep into the anti-social justice stuff(not alt right or anything like that, but critiques of third wave feminism, reverse racism semantics, etc) which contributed to some cringe moments and another barrier to connecting with others due to them having differing opinions(black and white thinking). Also even in terms of being a nerd there's works I didn't and still haven't gotten too since even in that regard I was focused on a narrow range of things.
-While generally a decent person, I was legit an ass at times like most people in general, and ASD amplified this. Particularly my black and white thinking also makes me prone to being argumentative since I can be really passionate about certain ideas but in the past I've been less than tactful. Once told a (skinny) girl in 7th grade to lay off Pop-Tarts(they had somehow come up in a conversation) and she legit was upset and hurt with some nearby classmates even rightfully looking at me shocked for how out of pocket that was. Also have fat shamed in a couple instances despite being a skinny fat myself, which was definitely wrong and I fully oppose that fully now.
At the end of the day, I'll even say that I don't feel a super strong solidarity towards autistic people in general. To be clear, that isnt to say I think I am better than/above the rest of you or that I don't relate at all, but for me the constant loneliness I feel isn't about being neurodivergent in a neurotypical world, but just the fact autism(and ADHD) inherently hold me back from things I genuinely wanted in life and it's made worst by how much toxic positivity there is around disabilities(or ''different abilities as some say) especially autism. And even if I can function normally now, I still deal with the resulting anxiety, depression and while misunderstandings sucked I don't expect folks to have a grad school level understanding of mental health.
Besides that, it would be interesting if there was an actual survey on how many people feel inherently disabled by ASD, those who feel it's society's fault, and then somewhere inbetween both. Obviously it would be tricky given how many high support needs people can't give input due to the severity of their condition but at least give more perspective from those of us who's experiences/feelings don't fit the mainstream.
Thoughts?

I have this coworker, pamilyadong tao na sya her wife recently gave birth to a beautiful baby girl, they were like more than 7 years na ata together, from what i'd sa iba naming katrabaho.
Baka nagtataka kayo bakit alam ko haha. Konti lang kasi kami sa coffee shop so mabilis lang talaga yung flow ng info.
Itong guy na to whenever kasi na kakaduty namin siya wala siya bukambibig kundi BABAE despite of having a wife and a child. May times pa na pinapakita niya yung mga babae na "KILALA" niya "DAW" sa iba naming kawork namin male (may mga jowa pa ha). Tapos minsan kapag may nakita syang random girl lang sa socmed ifflex niya sa mga kawork ko sasabihin niya na "uy gar! Ito maganda oh!" "gar, pwede sayo to!" Like??? Gar may anak ka na pero di pa rin matigil yung bisyo? I know having a child comes with a big responsibility pero grabe na kasi yung sakanya.
Tapos ulit ulit na lang yung mga kwento niya about sa girls, minsan nagco-cross na siya ng line kahit na sabihin mong "pic lang naman yan" hindi pa rin appropriate na pinagchachansingan yung babae.
Ayun lang it turns me off kasi araw araw na nakakaduty namin siya ulit ulit yung mga stories niya. Tapos madalas petiks pa siya like???? Hayst.
I've had a conversation kasi with my other male collegues, akala ko talaga nung una ako lang nakapansin pati rin pala sila. Teh isipin mo mas bata pa sakanya yung nakakapnsin ah. Ayun lang. Lakas lang ng loob niya gumimik ng patakas.
Minsan talaga sinasakyan na lang namin siya hahaha. Ewan may defect ata talaga sya. Nastock sya sa pagiging binata huhuh

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TDLR: Ex texted a bestfriend behind my back ending of last year ruining the friendship. Broke up with her, during that time I rekindled with someone else while occasionally texting my ex still not back together. Felt like I missed the warmth of my ex and dropped the new girl going back to my ex fully beginning of this year. Missed the support and love from my ex that I never truly got. Girl told me ex about our dirty laundry, causing trust issues in the whole relationship. Tried fixing them by removing girls, sharing location, etc. I felt scared my ex is gonna get revenge and started being distant at the end which pushed her away as well. We broke up beginning of May. I thought we would get back together as always, found out she’s been adding guys she removed a long time ago. I got upset and texted her ugly nasty shit, and texted her dad saying his daughter is nasty etc. I thought by doing this I’d move on quicker, he told me to leave them alone. I understand I fucked up and want to apologize to the parents for the lack of character I had but feel like it’s too late to backtrack on the stupid shit I said. Am I being selfish by sending a text?
Hello all, This is gonna be long. I really appreciate anyone who takes time to read and help with some words. I have no therapist or friends this seems like the best option.
I have never posted on here but seriously feel torn up. I know that I have been in the wrong in all this but I truly was dealing with a weed addiction till I finally sobered up and realized how fucked I am. This relationship has been a rollercoaster, but something I didn’t want to get off. She showed me many first things and it was my longest relationship of three years. She cared for me when I had no job, to every job, skinny fat, etc and I did the same with her struggles. To make a long story short back in August of 2023 I found my ex texting one of my bestfriends that worked with her at the time(I had quit that spot and found another job). No lust or crazy texts just work laughing but I confronted her about it it was jealousy and she said it was nothing.
After a few weeks come September I kept feeling this jealousy boil over. If she had texted anybody else I wouldn’t have said much but I felt like cause it was MY friend she should have brought up the convo they had even if it was light and funny. I was pestering her about him, she then decided to text him behind my back saying I’m being jealous. They text back and forth and he’s calling me a kid and disrespecting me even though he’s known me for longer, and she was laughing sending him laughing emojis and stuff. He then texted me asking me to fight because somehow she told him I threatened him. I got pissed she ruined a friendship and told her I’m done blocked her on everything. From September to December 2023 I was all alone focused on work and meeting new people. In December I rekindled with a girl I knew no feelings just stupid lust. While talking to the new girl, my ex sends me a heartfelt email since I had blocked her on everything, saying she’s sorry and understands I don’t want to hear from her but wishes me the best. I softened up and began texting her here and there, but still was talking to the new girl.
After a while in Jan/Feb 2024 I met with the girl I had rekindled with and we had done some things. However during this time I started seriously missing my ex and the way I felt comfortable around her. So I was talking to my ex again fully and wanted to make it work again. The problem came when my ex wanted to visit me since she’s long distance. She flew all the way to me and everything was good, till that new girl decided she wasn’t getting my attention anymore and texted my ex lying to her telling her I was begging for her etc. My ex broke down and asked why and I childishly said because of what she had done by texting my bestfriend and that we weren’t together. She cried in my arms and I balled with her cause I truly didn’t want to hurt this girl like this. I offered her to leave me and understood I fucked up. But to my surprise she wanted to stay and asked to fix our trust. I tried my hardest to fix it, I gave her my social passwords, she had my location, everything she wanted she got, even removed all girl friends to gain trust and she removed guys. However after some time around March 2024 I felt like all that I did wasn’t building up that trust again, and I began having flashbacks to trauma where I got left and cheated on within a week. I felt like my ex got back with me to seek revenge. So I started pushing her away scared.
During April she came again to visit me and booked a flight without asking me to pay or anything and genuinely asked to spend every minute of the day with me. I should have taken her coming to see me without me asking as her sign of true love but I ignored it.
Beginning of May 2024 came and our problems began. I started seeing her go out with friends to bars, even to houses I didn’t know and she would take a little longer to respond. I began thinking something is up due to my trauma and started being distant with her. She kept asking me to stop doing this, and cried a few times but I was truly scared of behind hurt and thought by being distant I’m protecting myself. She told me this once and it’s stuck with me “you’re gonna regret doing this”. After that convo she became cold with me too to the point where I didn’t even know who she was anymore. Our final convo was May10. We argued on the phone, and she blamed me for everything, I brought my ex bestfriend and her and how they hurt me she said she had already apologized and I said I did too for cheating but I knew what I did hurt more. She told me to leave her tf alone that I haven’t been the man she needs saying she’s seen better guys treat gfs better etc. That she wants time alone that she wouldn’t go around like I did with girls fucking randoms guys. I blocked her but I genuinely thought we would breakup and get back together as always.
However a week passed and I heard nothing. For some reason I felt like I deserved an apology cause during our arguments I was being more respectful and it felt like she kept saying stuff on purpose to hurt me. I saw she had logged onto my socials and I locked her out and logged out of her accounts cause I felt like it was better. However I was still stalking her Instagram following number and began seeing it go up fast. I started getting guys being suggested to me that follow her and I noticed it was all guys she used to work with and removed for “trust”. I felt broken cause it felt like she did what my first ex with the trauma did , just move on within a week. I felt sad, but the sadness turned to anger. I thought by burning bridges I could move on quicker. And I began blowing her up with calls to no answer, so I switched to texting and said some of the most heinous shit I’ve said to anyone. I then texted her mom telling her her daughter got a new type being childish but nothing too disrespectful to the mom. I texted the dad however and called his daughter names, which he got back at me with a threat and called me childish and that he’s happy his daughter isn’t with someone like me and to lose their numbers. I said lmao cool being even more childish.
I genuinely felt bad the same day I texted the parents this. I felt like bringing them into childish arguments and saying what I said made me look like a true child which I try not to be fast in situations but I was impatient and dumb. I felt like I was the one being stubborn in the relationship and pushed her away, then got upset when she did walk away I just didn’t appreciate her at the end and it hurts my soul I’ve felt this heaviness on my chest ever since like I lost the person for me. I know blaming it on the weed is childish but I feel like it game me that I don’t give a F feeling till it bit me in the ass. I spoke to my only friend and my parents who didn’t even accept the relationship at first due to culture, but they told me I had fucked up and told me with time they will heal, and that in time I can send a message to the parents if I wanted to to get my conscious clear and be able to move on with a better image.
Is it smart to reach back out to the parents to show respect as an adult or just let them be? I know this was a lot but it’s on my heart and brain everyday since. A part of me says apologize in the hopes of getting this girl back one day which I know is selfish, the bigger part of me just hates the image I left of myself cause I have never left a relationship in this manner

Well am a f (21yo) and my bf is (25) we r together for more than 10 months .we were cool and loving till one day he texted me that an account on instagram messaged him And asked me should i reply or not, this ast got me confused and i was like why is he asking me an obvious question after that we got into an argument like any argument after that he went replied on that account asked if it was a fake account and also asked if he can see her face After she sent him her pic he called her gorgeous And how he's flattered that she likes but he replied "unfortunately i have a gf " When i saw these msgs i was numb i felt stupid cause we agreed on not replying to dms on instagram but still he did and called a girl gorgeous and all . And he didnt even bother himself to tell me It is actually a big deal to me cause we agreed on telling each other if we get any dms or anything So am so confused on what to do idk if i can trust him no more and am only thinking of breaking up with him.

I was 5 He was 15 years old. One day he showed me a pic of sex and asked if we could do this together and i being a stupid idiot said yes. He removed my pants and started rubbing his penis on my vagina. He ran to the corner of the room moaning which i didnt knew back then he was ejaculating. This happend a lot of times since we were in the same house. He once closed my eyes and sticked his penis inside my mouth. During those times i used to say yes to everything he said since i coudnt understand shit. It all came to an end when the nanny opened the door without knocking and found him raping me. Now me being a big girl regrets saying yes to him being dumb.

So i was at the gym for a quick workout (like a walk on the treadmill cause the weather is shit today ugh), and after a while a girl came to the treadmill next to mine. She was a bit pale and very skinny(like I don’t know if my judgement is right) but she was very focused on the cals, look tried and sad. So taking the benefit of doubt, I did something odd and hid my treadmill stats(like the cals I burnt, but more like speed,time, etc) by throwing a towel on the screen (which seemed very odd btw as it’s a small towel so had to place it specifically there). She seemed overall sad and maybe annoyed idk but do you guys think I did the right thing? As I didn’t want that poor baby to compare or think of restricting(incase she burnt less than me by chance which is absolutely normal imo). She then went to the elliptical and when I glanced again , she disappeared! So what do you guys think?
Edit: Just saw her, she’s doing something else now

hi!
i‘ll keep it short—i‘m looking for people that are willing to create more than just a superficial relationship, something like a friends to lovers type of connection. (i might be a bit delusional but idc) in other words—i’d go with the flow and see where things are going!
about me: i‘m 24, 1,66m tall and uhhhhh yea i‘m just a girl. 🥰 i‘ve got a pixie cut so if that‘s a turn off for you, then feel free to keep scrolling. my interests are reading, drawing, watching shows and studying japanese. i love to have conversations about anything, but especially about my special interests/hyperfixations and just about life itself. i also love to share my thoughts about any interesting topics that i pick up from reading books (big fan of classical literature).
what i‘m seeking: ppl between 23-35 years old who are seeking new connections and are open to make it become more if the vibe fits. i am NOT open for any kinds of fwb/situationships. please be from germany, preferably nordrhein-westfalen. i‘m a big fan of men who do the bare minimum of self-care, no need to be a body builder and be super extreme, a good solid foundation of you taking care of yourself is enough.
i‘d only share pics of myself after a while of chatting once some trust will be established.
and also, please write more than just „hi nice to meet you“ in your first message, i‘d really appreciate some effort! :)
that‘s it, see you then!

Well am a f (21yo) and my bf is (25) we r together for more than 10 months .we were cool and loving till one day he texted me that an account on instagram messaged him And asked me should i reply or not , this qst got me confused and i was like why is he asking me an obvious question after that we got into an argument like any argument after that he went replied on that account asked if it was a fake account and also asked if he can see her face After she sent him her pic he called her gorgeous And how he’s flattered that she likes but he replied “unfortunately i have a gf “ When i saw these msgs i was numb i felt stupid cause we agreed on not replying to dms on instagram but still he did and called a girl gorgeous and all . And he didnt even bother himself to tell me It is actually a big deal to me cause we agreed on telling each other if we get any dms or anything So am so confused on what to do idk if i can trust him no more and am only thinking of breaking up with him .

Do girls find kinda chubby or skinny fattish guys attractive

TDLR: Ex texted a bestfriend behind my back ending of last year ruining the friendship. Broke up with her, during that time I rekindled with someone else while occasionally texting my ex still not back together. Felt like I missed the warmth of my ex and dropped the new girl going back to my ex fully beginning of this year. Missed the support and love from my ex that I never truly got. Girl told me ex about our dirty laundry, causing trust issues in the whole relationship. Tried fixing them by removing girls, sharing location, etc. I felt scared my ex is gonna get revenge and started being distant at the end which pushed her away as well. We broke up begging of May this year. I thought we would get back together as always, found out she’s been adding guys she removed a long time ago. I got upset and texted her ugly nasty shit, and texted her dad saying his daughter is a sl*t childish. I thought by doing this I’d move on quicker, he told me I’m childish and to leave them alone. I understand I fucked up if I received a text like this from a a daughters ex I’d be fuming. I want to apologize to the parents for the lack of character I had but feel like it’s too late to backtrack on the stupid shit I said. Am I being selfish by sending a text?
Hello all, This is gonna be long. I really appreciate anyone who takes time to read and help with some words. I have no therapist or friends this seems like the best option.
I have never posted on here but seriously feel torn up. I know that I have been in the wrong in all this but I truly was dealing with a weed addiction till I finally sobered up and realized how fucked I am. This relationship has been a rollercoaster, but something I didn’t want to get off. She showed me many first things and it was my longest relationship of three years. She cared for me when I had no job, to every job, skinny fat, etc and I did the same with her struggles. To make a long story short back in August of 2023 I found my ex texting one of my bestfriends that worked with her at the time(I had quit that spot and found another job). No lust or crazy texts just work laughing but I confronted her about it it was jealousy and she said it was nothing.
After a few weeks come September I kept feeling this jealousy boil over. If she had texted anybody else I wouldn’t have said much but I felt like cause it was MY friend she should have brought up the convo they had even if it was light and funny. I was pestering her about him, she then decided to text him behind my back saying I’m being jealous. They text back and forth and he’s calling me a kid and disrespecting me even though he’s known me for longer, and she was laughing sending him laughing emojis and stuff. He then texted me asking me to fight because somehow she told him I threatened him. I got pissed she ruined a friendship and told her I’m done blocked her on everything. From September to December 2023 I was all alone focused on work and meeting new people. In December I rekindled with a girl I knew no feelings just stupid lust. While talking to the new girl, my ex sends me a heartfelt email since I had blocked her on everything, saying she’s sorry and understands I don’t want to hear from her but wishes me the best. I softened up and began texting her here and there, but still was talking to the new girl.
After a while in Jan/Feb 2024 I met with the girl I had rekindled with and we had done some things. However during this time I started seriously missing my ex and the way I felt comfortable around her. So I was talking to my ex again fully and wanted to make it work again. The problem came when my ex wanted to visit me since she’s long distance. She flew all the way to me and everything was good, till that new girl decided she wasn’t getting my attention anymore and texted my ex lying to her telling her I was begging for her etc. My ex broke down and asked why and I childishly said because of what she had done by texting my bestfriend and that we weren’t together. She cried in my arms and I balled with her cause I truly didn’t want to hurt this girl like this. I offered her to leave me and understood I fucked up. But to my surprise she wanted to stay and asked to fix our trust. I tried my hardest to fix it, I gave her my social passwords, she had my location, everything she wanted she got, even removed all girl friends to gain trust and she removed guys. However after some time around March 2024 I felt like all that I did wasn’t building up that trust again, and I began having flashbacks to trauma where I got left and cheated on within a week. I felt like my ex got back with me to seek revenge. So I started pushing her away scared.
During April she came again to visit me and booked a flight without asking me to pay or anything and genuinely asked to spend every minute of the day with me. I should have taken her coming to see me without me asking as her sign of true love but I ignored it.
Beginning of May 2024 came and our problems began. I started seeing her go out with friends to bars, even to houses I didn’t know and she would take a little longer to respond. I began thinking something is up due to my trauma and started being distant with her. She kept asking me to stop doing this, and cried a few times but I was truly scared of behind hurt and thought by being distant I’m protecting myself. She told me this once and it’s stuck with me “you’re gonna regret doing this”. After that convo she became cold with me too to the point where I didn’t even know who she was anymore. Our final convo was May10. We argued on the phone, and she blamed me for everything, I brought my ex bestfriend and her and how they hurt me she said she had already apologized and I said I did too for cheating but I knew what I did hurt more. She told me to leave her tf alone that I haven’t been the man she needs saying she’s seen better guys treat gfs better etc. That she wants time alone that she wouldn’t go around like I did with girls fucking randoms guys. I blocked her but I genuinely thought we would breakup and get back together as always.
However a week passed and I heard nothing. For some reason I felt like I deserved an apology cause during our arguments I was being more respectful and it felt like she kept saying stuff on purpose to hurt me. I saw she had logged onto my socials and I locked her out and logged out of her accounts cause I felt like it was better. However I was still stalking her Instagram following number and began seeing it go up fast. I started getting guys being suggested to me that follow her and I noticed it was all guys she used to work with and removed for “trust”. I felt broken cause it felt like she did what my first ex with the trauma did , just move on within a week. I felt sad, but the sadness turned to anger. I thought by burning bridges I could move on quicker. And I began blowing her up with calls to no answer, so I switched to texting and said some of the most heinous shit I’ve said to anyone. I then texted her mom telling her her daughter got a new type being childish but nothing too disrespectful to the mom. I texted the dad however and called his daughter names, which he got back at me with a threat and called me childish and that he’s happy his daughter isn’t with someone like me and to lose their numbers. I said lmao cool being even more childish.
I genuinely felt bad the same day I texted the parents this. I felt like bringing them into childish arguments and saying what I said made me look like a true child which I try not to be fast in situations but I was impatient and dumb. I felt like I was the one being stubborn in the relationship and pushed her away, then got upset when she did walk away I just didn’t appreciate her at the end and it hurts my soul I’ve felt this heaviness on my chest ever since like I lost the person for me. I know blaming it on the weed is childish but I feel like it game me that I don’t give a F feeling till it bit me in the ass. I spoke to my only friend and my parents who didn’t even accept the relationship at first due to culture, but they told me I had fucked up and told me with time they will heal, and that in time I can send a message to the parents if I wanted to to get my conscious clear and be able to move on with a better image.
Is it smart to reach back out to the parents to show respect as an adult or just let them be? I know this was a lot but it’s on my heart and brain everyday since. A part of me says apologize in the hopes of getting this girl back one day which I know is selfish, the bigger part of me just hates the image I left of myself cause I have never left a relationship in this manner

I am a victim of sextortion, so I met this girl on a dating app (she has a local area) we swap numbers then after a few messages we swap pics. After a few hours she had my Facebook with the iMessage thread. She was threatening me to pay her the money so she won’t send it to my friends. Help what should do! I’ll feel embarrassed cause she sent messages to my close friends and family. I posted a status saying my account got hacked then deactivated my Facebook and block her. I literally scrub the internet so there’s no trace of me. What else should I do ?

I’m not that violent I just like bill burr <3
Hi I’m 19 I’m just a girl (queue the song) sometimes I’m funny (no don’t ask me to tell a joke it doesn’t work like that bro ) a lot of people describe me as chaotic and chill at the same time . I have adhd and I just like doing alot of shit but I wouldn’t consider them hobbies. I’m just looking for someone to text on the daily that has somewhat of a personality and can put in a sprinkle of effort into talking and ofc I will do the same in return .
Text me if you like

• random rambles about stupid dumbass things
• dog and cats pics and ccasionally forest pics too
• Mac de Marco or dad music
• cringe playlists and maybe some good ones too
• stupid out of context YouTube videos and memes
• complaints about nonsensical things

********If you just text me hi /hey/hello I won’t answer (no not even if you do it as a stupid ironic joke ) send me a little intro about about you or just random things about about you or your day . Hope to hear from ya ! *would definitely prefer if you’re from Europe

TDLR: Ex texted a bestfriend behind my back ending of last year ruining the friendship. Broke up with her, during that time I rekindled with someone else while occasionally texting my ex still not back together. Felt like I missed the warmth of my ex and dropped the new girl going back to my ex fully beginning of this year. Missed the support and love from my ex that I never truly got. Girl told me ex about our dirty laundry, causing trust issues in the whole relationship. Tried fixing them by removing girls, sharing location, etc. I felt scared my ex is gonna get revenge and started being distant at the end which pushed her away as well. We broke up beginning of May this year. I thought we would get back together as always, found out she’s been adding guys she removed a long time ago. I got upset and texted her ugly nasty shit, and texted her dad saying his daughter is a “sl*t” etc. I thought by doing this I’d move on quicker, he told me to leave them alone. I understand I fucked up if I had received a message like this from my daughter ex I’d be fuming too. I want to apologize to the parents for the lack of character I had but feel like it’s too late to backtrack on the stupid shit I said. Am I being selfish by sending a text?
Hello all, This is gonna be long. I really appreciate anyone who takes time to read and help with some words. I have no therapist or friends this seems like the best option.
I have never posted on here but seriously feel torn up. I know that I have been in the wrong in all this but I truly was dealing with a weed addiction till I finally sobered up and realized how fucked I am. This relationship has been a rollercoaster, but something I didn’t want to get off. She showed me many first things and it was my longest relationship of three years. She cared for me when I had no job, to every job, skinny fat, etc and I did the same with her struggles. To make a long story short back in August of 2023 I found my ex texting one of my bestfriends that worked with her at the time(I had quit that spot and found another job). No lust or crazy texts just work laughing but I confronted her about it it was jealousy and she said it was nothing.
After a few weeks come September I kept feeling this jealousy boil over. If she had texted anybody else I wouldn’t have said much but I felt like cause it was MY friend she should have brought up the convo they had even if it was light and funny. I was pestering her about him, she then decided to text him behind my back saying I’m being jealous. They text back and forth and he’s calling me a kid and disrespecting me even though he’s known me for longer, and she was laughing sending him laughing emojis and stuff. He then texted me asking me to fight because somehow she told him I threatened him. I got pissed she ruined a friendship and told her I’m done blocked her on everything. From September to December 2023 I was all alone focused on work and meeting new people. In December I rekindled with a girl I knew no feelings just stupid lust. While talking to the new girl, my ex sends me a heartfelt email since I had blocked her on everything, saying she’s sorry and understands I don’t want to hear from her but wishes me the best. I softened up and began texting her here and there, but still was talking to the new girl.
After a while in Jan/Feb 2024 I met with the girl I had rekindled with and we had done some things. However during this time I started seriously missing my ex and the way I felt comfortable around her. So I was talking to my ex again fully and wanted to make it work again. The problem came when my ex wanted to visit me since she’s long distance. She flew all the way to me and everything was good, till that new girl decided she wasn’t getting my attention anymore and texted my ex lying to her telling her I was begging for her etc. My ex broke down and asked why and I childishly said because of what she had done by texting my bestfriend and that we weren’t together. She cried in my arms and I balled with her cause I truly didn’t want to hurt this girl like this. I offered her to leave me and understood I fucked up. But to my surprise she wanted to stay and asked to fix our trust. I tried my hardest to fix it, I gave her my social passwords, she had my location, everything she wanted she got, even removed all girl friends to gain trust and she removed guys. However after some time around March 2024 I felt like all that I did wasn’t building up that trust again, and I began having flashbacks to trauma where I got left and cheated on within a week. I felt like my ex got back with me to seek revenge. So I started pushing her away scared.
During April she came again to visit me and booked a flight without asking me to pay or anything and genuinely asked to spend every minute of the day with me. I should have taken her coming to see me without me asking as her sign of true love but I ignored it.
Beginning of May 2024 came and our problems began. I started seeing her go out with friends to bars, even to houses I didn’t know and she would take a little longer to respond. I began thinking something is up due to my trauma and started being distant with her. She kept asking me to stop doing this, and cried a few times but I was truly scared of behind hurt and thought by being distant I’m protecting myself. She told me this once and it’s stuck with me “you’re gonna regret doing this”. After that convo she became cold with me too to the point where I didn’t even know who she was anymore. Our final convo was May10. We argued on the phone, and she blamed me for everything, I brought my ex bestfriend and her and how they hurt me she said she had already apologized and I said I did too for cheating but I knew what I did hurt more. She told me to leave her tf alone that I haven’t been the man she needs saying she’s seen better guys treat gfs better etc. That she wants time alone that she wouldn’t go around like I did with girls fucking randoms guys. I blocked her but I genuinely thought we would breakup and get back together as always.
However a week passed and I heard nothing. For some reason I felt like I deserved an apology cause during our arguments I was being more respectful and it felt like she kept saying stuff on purpose to hurt me. I saw she had logged onto my socials and I locked her out and logged out of her accounts cause I felt like it was better. However I was still stalking her Instagram following number and began seeing it go up fast. I started getting guys being suggested to me that follow her and I noticed it was all guys she used to work with and removed for “trust”. I felt broken cause it felt like she did what my first ex with the trauma did , just move on within a week. I felt sad, but the sadness turned to anger. I thought by burning bridges I could move on quicker. And I began blowing her up with calls to no answer, so I switched to texting and said some of the most heinous shit I’ve said to anyone. I then texted her mom telling her her daughter got a new type being childish but nothing too disrespectful to the mom. I texted the dad however and called his daughter names, which he got back at me with a threat and called me childish and that he’s happy his daughter isn’t with someone like me and to lose their numbers. I said lmao cool being even more childish.
I genuinely felt bad the same day I texted the parents this. I felt like bringing them into childish arguments and saying what I said made me look like a true child which I try not to be fast in situations but I was impatient and dumb. I felt like I was the one being stubborn in the relationship and pushed her away, then got upset when she did walk away I just didn’t appreciate her at the end and it hurts my soul I’ve felt this heaviness on my chest ever since like I lost the person for me. I know blaming it on the weed is childish but I feel like it game me that I don’t give a F feeling till it bit me in the ass. I spoke to my only friend and my parents who didn’t even accept the relationship at first due to culture, but they told me I had fucked up and told me with time they will heal, and that in time I can send a message to the parents if I wanted to to get my conscious clear and be able to move on with a better image.
Is it smart to reach back out to the parents to show respect as an adult or just let them be? I know this was a lot but it’s on my heart and brain everyday since. A part of me says apologize in the hopes of getting this girl back one day which I know is selfish, the bigger part of me just hates the image I left of myself cause I have never left a relationship in this manner

I don’t have a super specific question, but I am kinda new to the hybrid athlete world and figured I would just describe my background, where my head is at, and what I’m currently doing and just sorta crowdsource feedback from the community.
I’m a 29 year old male, 5’11 and weigh 180 lbs. Always been pretty active but never been a total stud or anything. Spent most of my teenage and early adult years going between getting into and out of shape. Did 6 years in the national guard and never had a problem with the PT test. I’m a firefighter now and soon to be girl dad and those two things give me a reason to take my fitness seriously. Plus I just hate being out of shape in general and I’ll be 30 soon. So I’ve been a lot more consistent the past year and a half or so and have recently cleaned up my diet a lot too.
I don’t have any super specific goals right now other than I just want to be strong and also have good cardio. My wife and I both enjoy running so naturally that’s kinda how I gauge my cardio.
Where I’m at now in terms of fitness level:
I ran my first marathon in February and came in at 3:48:00 despite bonking super hard at mile 21. I was holding a sub-8 minute pace for the first 20 miles. I haven’t been training for anything specific since then, but I’ve still been running approximately 20 miles a week with a mix of speed work and slower easy runs.
Some of my stats are as follows:
Bench press 1RM: 215-225 lbs Squat 1RM: ~235 lbs Deadlift 1RM (hex bar): 350 lbs Pull-ups: 12 good ones, 15 if we not being picky
One mile run: 5:45 Two mile run: 12:33 5k: ~20 flat (estimating, haven’t tested recently)
I know, my squat is weak. The highest it’s ever been is like 260 and that was 5 years ago when I was hanging out in Afghanistan with nothing to do but workout. I was doing more light weight/high reps and single leg stuff during marathon training, and I don’t have great balance at the bottom which kinda hinders me some.
I only deadlift on the hex bar because I don’t trust my form on conventional.
Like I said, I don’t have any super specific goals but something like a 250 lb bench, 405 deadlift, 275 squat, along with a 5:30 mile and sub-20 5k would be awesome. I might train for another marathon later this year and try to hit 3:30, but idk yet.
What I’m doing right now:
Running ~4 times a week, approximately 20 miles total. One of those sessions is speed work either intervals or tempo run. The rest are 4-5 mile easy runs. Usually do a 20 minute low impact plyometrics HIIT workout followed by 10 minutes on a stair climber once a week as well. And go on walks with my wife a few times a week.
For weight lifting, I recently changed up my split from push/pull/leg to more of a bro split.
Chest day: bench press, incline dumbbell bench, chest flies (usually using cables), push-ups
Back day: Pull-ups, pull downs, bent over barbell rows, face pulls, back extensions
Arms and shoulders: shoulder press (usually seated barbell, sometimes seated dumbbell), lateral raises, curl ups, bicep curls (alternate straight bar and dumbbell), dips, tricep extensions.
Leg A: barbell back squats, leg extensions, hamstring curls, hip thrusters, standing calf raises
Leg B: deadlifts, Bulgarian split squats (holding dumbbells), step ups/step downs, walking lunges (holding dumbbells), standing calf raises.
I work my core on my leg days. I don’t do speed work the day of or day after my A leg workout. I usually don’t run at all the day after it. I have two separate leg days so that I can do both heavy bi-lateral leg exercises and more running-specific single leg stuff. I also don’t know when else I would do deadlifts because i don’t want to do them with squats on the same day.
The main reason I structured my split this way is because when I was doing chest, triceps and shoulders on the same day I was 1.) in the gym for a long time and 2.) didn’t have as much energy for triceps and shoulders after hitting chest.
I generally take one day completely off per week and have at least one day where all I do is an easy pace run, so it takes me a little over a week to work all the way through my split. And I avoid doing chest or back day with arm day consecutively because I know I’m kinda hitting biceps and triceps twice.
So, based on what I’ve said here, is there anything that sticks out to you guys that is obviously terrible? Anything y’all would change? Anything y’all would tell me to make sure I do or don’t do?

I M23 recently got matched with a girl F21. It was a weird profile but curiosity got the better of me. Since girls make the first move on Bumble she started the conversation with a "Hi" followed by a "Supp". Not sure how this could be a great conversation starter but I tried to initiate a conversation by checking her profile for her interests and BAM. We ended up talking about movies. In a great momentum of flirtatious conversation, I asked her out for a movie and she was astonished. But it backfired, Remember how you see some profiles with multiple people and assume one of them is the owner but look at some signs. That's where I made a mistake. I assumed the girl taking selfies in most of the pictures was the one using the profile. She asked me if I knew which one of the girls she was in the pics and I swiftly responded by mentioning the one taking the selfies. WRONG ANSWER!
She started being mysterious leading me to guess who she was and it went on for a while. Somehow we got to a point where I gave her my number and she called me, I wasn't able to pick up cause I had to go somewhere so I simply asked her to that I would be calling later on. Now, I am a tech guy, and somehow I got her details using her number, simply her profile picture, profession, vague address(Area), and more.
Well, I played along for a while cause we were having the same discussion about professions and stuff once we were on a call, and guess what we started playing an MCQ game and I guessed all the answers correctly (Cause I knew 🤷‍♂️). But it creeped me out because, on the first call, she demanded some attention, not directly but you get the idea when conversing. I do WFH and sleep late most of the time. Before she went to sleep she called me again before midnight, and I didn't want to take any immediate steps so I talked to her for a few minutes and got out of it.
The following day I didn't text since I wanted it to settle down automatically and till evening everything seemed fine. But then she video-called me again and I avoided the call. I don't like to ghost since I feel it's rude. The second option was the send her a text to clear things out but I was not sure what to say. I talked to one of my friends and he advised me to simply tell her what I assumed and how it's making me feel weird and that is what I did.
The text I sent her:
Hey I hope you are doing well I have been thinking about mentioning this since yesterday when we matched on Bumble I was under the assumption that your friend owned the profile i.e. my first guess. I found her cute. I am finding it weird to talk, cause of the way I assumed things previously. So I am not sure if I can move forward. Though I enjoyed the conversation and the vibe, I wish you the best moving forward. Thank you
Her response:
Okay Sorry for everything No issues Nice to meet u
Final Outcome: She blocked me immediately and unmatched me on the App 🤷‍♂️ (PS. I am okay with that)
Not sure if my response hurt her, offended her, or gave her a reality check but I am glad that I came out of this situation clean and square.
From my perspective, I swiped right based on the assumption I made that went wrong (I found the girl I assumed cute). Also, I noticed that in every picture she posted she was on the side and even partially trimmed in some. So initially it was nearly impossible for me to guess who she was. And why do I even need to play Russian Roulette on a dating app. Now some of you might wonder the reason I didn't want to move forward with her since at the end of the day she is a girl. Simply saying it felt like I was catfished by the way her dating profile was set and also she didn't seem very enthusiastic about her fitness (Not body shaming)...
I might have missed some details but if it clicked to someone I will try to add them.
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Hi I’m 19 I’m just a girl (queue the song) sometimes I’m funny (no don’t ask me to tell a joke it doesn’t work like that bro ) a lot of people describe me as chaotic and chill at the same time . I have adhd and I just like doing alot of shit but I wouldn’t consider them hobbies. I’m just looking for someone to text on the daily that has somewhat of a personality and can put in a sprinkle of effort into talking and ofc I will do the same in return .
Text me if you like

• random rambles
• dog and cats pics
• Mac de Marco
• cringe playlists and maybe some good ones too
• stupid out of context YouTube videos
• complaints about nonsensical things

If you just text me hi /hey/hello I won’t answer (no not even if you do it as a stupid ironic joke ) send me a little intro about about you or just random things about about you or your day . Hope to hear from ya ! would definitely prefer if you’re from Europe