Restaurant fixed menu
Vintage Menus: Eat Just What You Want
2016.07.22 00:28 sverdrupian Vintage Menus: Eat Just What You Want
Old menus - pre-1990.
2013.02.12 00:29 Dewaska Rare or secret restaurant menu items
A place to share interesting food choices at common restaurants.
2012.05.01 22:04 Transition timelines
A subreddit for sharing your transition timelines.
2024.05.21 22:17 Solid_Engineering186 RP4P: Retro Arch and Sleep/Standbye mode issues.
The title says it all. But to explain further; I recently activated retroid achievements on the device as a whole (Daijisho front end). Due to it, Anything Retro arch was booting up as it typically would with the console screen and loading up, rather than loading up the previous save state. Cool. I turned it off on all ends (Retroid achievements) Now, when I put my device to sleep or on standby mode, it boots up into the menu rather than the game I was playing. I've already switched my lock settings to swipe. Any tips or ideas as to how to fix this?
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2024.05.21 22:17 beautyfashionaccount Are there any habit apps that work like the habit-tracking in Habitica?
I used to use Habitica, and kind of dropped off over time. I'd like to re-implement some kind of system but at the moment for habits only. I fully acknowledge I'm not the target audience and this is a me-issue (I never played RPGs) but the design and art in Habitica are unappealing to me and I'd prefer something that basically functions the same as the habits section, but is sleeker or more modern in design, if it's out there. I'm guessing that I'll end up using Habitica again with all of the to-dos and dailies deleted but figured that if an alternative exists, someone here might know about it.
I just want to be able to come up with a list of habits (ideally organized into categories, but I know I may not find that) and have a button that I can click for a sense of satisfaction every time I do them, multiple times per day if needed. I don't want to set a target frequency for these tasks, I don't want a broken streak or any other kind of punishment for missing a day. (The button gradually turning green or red depending on overall frequency is fine.) Ideally I would like both iOS and browsePC format but one or the other would work. I don't want to use Notion unless there's already a cheap or free template that does exactly this with no customization from me.
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Background, which is unnecessary to the question so feel free to skip (just posting in case it clarifies why I want or don't want certain features): I want to use this as a tool to subvert online shopping urges and other unhealthy coping mechanisms. When I'm feeling frustrated with an area of my life but the prospect of changing it is overwhelming, instead of opening Amazon to shop for the magical product that will allow future me to fix everything, I can open this app and see a menu of tiny tangible actions that will actually help, and instead of putting something in my cart for a sense of control, I complete one action and click a button that records it somehow. These aren't necessarily tasks that need to be done at a certain frequency and some will also be so small that there isn't really a limit to how often they can be done, so trackers that just recur once per day or make you choose a goal frequency are useless for my purposes. I also want it to be more of a feel-good thing and contain no reminders of to-dos or daily tasks that I may not have completed, those can go in other apps.
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I just want to be able to come up with a list of habits (ideally organized into categories, but I know I may not find that) and have a button that I can click for a sense of satisfaction every time I do them, multiple times per day if needed. I don't want to set a target frequency for these tasks, I don't want a broken streak or any other kind of punishment for missing a day. (The button gradually turning green or red depending on overall frequency is fine.) Ideally I would like both iOS and browsePC format but one or the other would work. I don't want to use Notion unless there's already a cheap or free template that does exactly this with no customization from me.
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Background, which is unnecessary to the question so feel free to skip (just posting in case it clarifies why I want or don't want certain features): I want to use this as a tool to subvert online shopping urges and other unhealthy coping mechanisms. When I'm feeling frustrated with an area of my life but the prospect of changing it is overwhelming, instead of opening Amazon to shop for the magical product that will allow future me to fix everything, I can open this app and see a menu of tiny tangible actions that will actually help, and instead of putting something in my cart for a sense of control, I complete one action and click a button that records it somehow. These aren't necessarily tasks that need to be done at a certain frequency and some will also be so small that there isn't really a limit to how often they can be done, so trackers that just recur once per day or make you choose a goal frequency are useless for my purposes. I also want it to be more of a feel-good thing and contain no reminders of to-dos or daily tasks that I may not have completed, those can go in other apps.
2024.05.21 22:06 jcammyb Skyrim custom modpack help with crash log
Hello fellow gamers, i love Skyrim and i've been playing with a custom modpack , everything was perfectly fine until i loaded my game save again and i cant even start, none of the existing saves work and this is driving me crazy! if any one can help me i would totally appreciate it.
Here's the pastebin for the crash log: https://pastebin.com/XdbDGRUd and here is the loadOrder i've been using:
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Here's the pastebin for the crash log: https://pastebin.com/XdbDGRUd and here is the loadOrder i've been using:
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2024.05.21 22:01 Admirable-Location24 Progressives with distance and reader only? Is it possible?
I am 52 and think I am ready to try progressives. My distance prescription is great for very far away up to as close as about 3 feet from me. Then things get blurry from 3 feet and closer if I have those distance glasses on. (My sight is okay from about 2 feet from me up to maybe 10 feet away without any glasses on). Then I also need to use cheap readers these days rated at either 1.25 or 1.5.
I plan to get some dedicated computer glasses so really don’t need that intermediate distance in the progressives.
Maybe I should hold off on progressives?
The main times I think I need them are walking around the grocery store or at the theaterestaurant. I would like to see well distance wise but also sometimes need to read labels, menu, or a program. For the grocery store, so far my solution is to not wear the distance glasses and just have readers handy. Lately though, I feel like I would really like to be also wearing distance glasses in this situation. Sometimes I don’t recognize friends I run into unless they are pretty close to me.
Same thing happens when going out to a restaurant or the theater (my daughter is a dancer so we are there quite a bit). I need the distance to watch the stage or walk through the lobby and recognize friends, but then need readers to look at the program.
I am tired of fumbling with multiple pairs of glasses but still trying to understand how progressives work.
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I plan to get some dedicated computer glasses so really don’t need that intermediate distance in the progressives.
Maybe I should hold off on progressives?
The main times I think I need them are walking around the grocery store or at the theaterestaurant. I would like to see well distance wise but also sometimes need to read labels, menu, or a program. For the grocery store, so far my solution is to not wear the distance glasses and just have readers handy. Lately though, I feel like I would really like to be also wearing distance glasses in this situation. Sometimes I don’t recognize friends I run into unless they are pretty close to me.
Same thing happens when going out to a restaurant or the theater (my daughter is a dancer so we are there quite a bit). I need the distance to watch the stage or walk through the lobby and recognize friends, but then need readers to look at the program.
I am tired of fumbling with multiple pairs of glasses but still trying to understand how progressives work.
2024.05.21 21:57 XPORShaun New XPOR Version Available - v5.8.5.0
Major Feature Improvements:
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- Allow passing fields into show message/ask question
- Break Point Block needs to be able to Manually skip - like F8
- New Dx Back End
- Add a way to order back end panels
- Add copy form to visions forms/lists
- Advanced Filter Panel - Move to the top of the grid
- Allow user to choose the styling mode for grid buttons
- Change tablenames to start with XPOR_
- Composite Field Builder - Output to variable
- Context Menu Icons
- Custom group by for date columns
- Download feature required on file field control
- Email Campaign Manager - Send dry run live
- Email Manager - Cant view a batch recipients content
- Grid height to accept VH and offset
- Grids total records - give option to show/hide
- Have a LOCAL Clear Cache button on Modeller
- Image and link options on HTML editors
- Manual refresh button for Back end Panels
- New Panel - My Recent Items
- Object Browser COUNT of objects missing
- Object selectors for Objects should only return permitted object types
- ON ERROR block
- Option to delete an object when it is open in the backend
- Remove Inheritance Option for Object Types
- TinyMCE menu bar does not have "xpor image" or "xpor link" in
- Xflow history diagrams only update when the page is refreshed
- Appointment Object Types Interface is broken
- Back end navigation list not obeying "obsolete"
- Can't add Close Shadowbox after an Ask Question block.
- Can't clear out a Date Field control
- Diary Manager - Speed Optimisation and improvements
- Email - Preview in campaign manager should NOT contribute to links clicked / images viewed for that email
- Handling Deleted items that are included on Models
- HTML Atom editor toolbar disappears under top bar - cannot use it.
- html on login atom
- Image field not showing new image after save
- Jump to not ignoring surrounding spaces
- Mobile hidden should only hide the column
- Render login Link builder
- showing a minimised form breaks the HTML fields
2024.05.21 21:56 Sweet-Count2557 Ventanas Restaurant & Bar Restaurant in Pasadena,CA,United States
 | Ventanas Restaurant & Bar Restaurant in Pasadena,CA,United States submitted by Sweet-Count2557 to worldkidstravel [link] [comments] Ventanas Restaurant & Bar: A Culinary Delight in the Heart of the City Pasadena, CA, United States Price Level: $$ - $$$ Ventanas Restaurant & Bar: A Culinary Delight in the Heart of the CityWelcome to Ventanas Restaurant & Bar, a hidden gem nestled in the heart of the city. As a travel blogger, I have had the pleasure of exploring various restaurants around the world, and Ventanas truly stands out. With its charming ambiance and delectable menu, this restaurant offers an unforgettable dining experience.At Ventanas, you can indulge in a wide array of culinary delights. From mouthwatering appetizers to exquisite main courses, their menu caters to all taste buds. Whether you are a seafood lover or a vegetarian, you will find something to satisfy your cravings. The chefs at Ventanas are known for their creativity and attention to detail, ensuring that each dish is a work of art.What sets Ventanas apart from other restaurants is its breathtaking view. Situated on the top floor of a high-rise building, the restaurant offers panoramic views of the city skyline. As you savor your meal, you can enjoy the stunning vistas, creating a truly immersive dining experience.In addition to its exceptional food and view, Ventanas also boasts a well-stocked bar. Their skilled mixologists craft unique and refreshing cocktails that perfectly complement the flavors of the dishes. Whether you prefer a classic martini or a tropical concoction, the bar at Ventanas has something for everyone.If you are looking for a memorable dining experience during your travels, look no further than Ventanas Restaurant & Bar. With its delectable menu, breathtaking views, and inviting ambiance, this restaurant is a must-visit for any food enthusiast. Make sure to add Ventanas to your itinerary and prepare to be amazed by the culinary delights that await you. Cuisines of Ventanas Restaurant & Bar in Pasadena,CA,United States Ventanas Restaurant & Bar is a culinary haven for those seeking a taste of American cuisine at its finest. With a menu that showcases the diverse flavors and culinary traditions of the United States, this restaurant offers a delightful array of dishes that are sure to satisfy any palate. From classic comfort foods like juicy burgers and crispy fried chicken to sophisticated seafood creations and mouthwatering steaks, Ventanas Restaurant & Bar has something for everyone. Whether you're craving a hearty brunch, a leisurely lunch, or an elegant dinner, this establishment is the perfect destination to indulge in the rich and diverse flavors of American cuisine. Features of Ventanas Restaurant & Bar in Pasadena,CA,United States Outdoor SeatingSeatingWheelchair AccessibleReservationsServes AlcoholTable Service Menu of Ventanas Restaurant & Bar in Pasadena,CA,United States Location of Ventanas Restaurant & Bar in Pasadena,CA,United States Contact of Ventanas Restaurant & Bar in Pasadena,CA,United States +1 626-792-2727 191 N Los Robles Ave The Westin Pasadena, Pasadena, CA 91101-1707 http://www.starwoodhotels.com/westin/property/dining/attraction_detail.html?propertyID=1453&attractionId=20847 Tags |
2024.05.21 21:47 Hulkenstein10 Possible to make the loot/container menu larger with FallUI? [FO4]
Using FallUI and wish that the looting/container menu displayed more than 4 items at a time. Any way to fix that?
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2024.05.21 21:41 Sweet-Count2557 Fleming's Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar Restaurant in Los Angeles,CA,United States
 | Fleming's Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar Restaurant in Los Angeles,CA,United States submitted by Sweet-Count2557 to worldkidstravel [link] [comments] Fleming's Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar: The Best Dining Experience in Woodland Hills, Los Angeles, CA Price Level: $$$$ Fleming's Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar is a renowned restaurant located in Woodland Hills, just north of the 101 Freeway. Situated near the Warner Center Business Complex, this Fleming's location is conveniently accessible to West Valley, Calabasas, Thousand Oaks, and Malibu. With its exceptional Prime steak, extensive wine selection, and handcrafted cocktails, Fleming's in Woodland Hills is an excellent choice for any occasion. Whether you're celebrating a special event, hosting a business dinner, or simply looking for a night out, our Dining Room guarantees a safe and memorable experience. If you prefer to enjoy our fine dining experience at home, you can conveniently order and pay for lunch or dinner online. You can then either pick up your order curbside or choose from one of our trusted delivery partners. Cuisines of Fleming's Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar in Los Angeles,CA,United States Fleming's Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar Restaurant is a culinary haven for those seeking a delectable American dining experience. With a focus on steakhouse cuisine, this upscale establishment offers a wide array of mouthwatering dishes that are sure to satisfy even the most discerning palates. From perfectly cooked prime cuts of beef to succulent seafood options, Fleming's takes pride in delivering exceptional quality and flavor in every bite. Additionally, for those with dietary restrictions, the restaurant also offers a variety of gluten-free options, ensuring that everyone can indulge in the culinary delights on offer. Whether you're a steak enthusiast or simply looking for a memorable dining experience, Fleming's Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar Restaurant is the perfect destination to savor the best of American cuisine. Features of Fleming's Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar in Los Angeles,CA,United States ReservationsSeatingParking AvailableValet ParkingWheelchair AccessibleServes AlcoholFull BarTable ServicePrivate DiningTelevision Menu of Fleming's Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar in Los Angeles,CA,United States Location of Fleming's Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar in Los Angeles,CA,United States Contact of Fleming's Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar in Los Angeles,CA,United States +1 818-346-1005 6373 Topanga Canyon Blvd. Woodland Hills, Los Angeles, CA 91367 woodlandhills@FlemingsSteakhouse.com https://www.flemingssteakhouse.com/Locations/CA/Woodland-Hills?y_source=1_MTU1MDMxODgtNzY5LWxvY2F0aW9uLndlYnNpdGU%3D Tags |
2024.05.21 21:26 Sweet-Count2557 Ice Rolls Marrakech Restaurant in Marrakech,Morocco
 | Ice Rolls Marrakech Restaurant in Marrakech,Morocco submitted by Sweet-Count2557 to worldkidstravel [link] [comments] Ice Rolls Marrakech: Indulge in Authentic Thai Rolled Ice Cream with Customized Flavors Marrakech, Morocco Price Level: $ Ice Rolls Marrakech is a restaurant that is sure to delight both food lovers and connoisseurs with its unique concept imported all the way from Thailand. To surprise your eyes and taste buds, this establishment uses an innovative technique to offer you ice cream rolled up with original flavors. At Ice Rolls, come and experience the joy of Thai rolled ice cream while bidding farewell to artificial colors and preservatives. You can create customized ice creams on the spot, using any ingredient you desire, be it fruits or chocolate. Cuisines of Ice Rolls Marrakech in Marrakech,Morocco Ice Rolls Marrakech Restaurant offers a unique dining experience with its delectable selection of Asian and Thai cuisines. From the moment you step into the restaurant, you are transported to the vibrant streets of Asia, with the aroma of exotic spices filling the air. The menu boasts an array of authentic dishes, carefully crafted by skilled chefs who have mastered the art of Asian and Thai cooking. Whether you are craving the bold flavors of Pad Thai, the comforting warmth of Tom Yum soup, or the delicate balance of flavors in a sushi roll, Ice Rolls Marrakech Restaurant has something to satisfy every palate. Each dish is prepared with the freshest ingredients, ensuring a burst of flavors in every bite. So, if you are in the mood for an unforgettable culinary journey through Asia, look no further than Ice Rolls Marrakech Restaurant. Contact of Ice Rolls Marrakech in Marrakech,Morocco +212 609-013763 6 Avenue Mohammed VI Menara Mall, Chez le café Elite En Face de la fontaine, Marrakech 40020 Morocco icerollsmaroc@gmail.com http://www.icerolls.ma Features of Ice Rolls Marrakech in Marrakech,Morocco Parking Available- Street Parking- Accepts Mastercard- Accepts Visa- Digital Payments- Cash Only- Free Wifi- Outdoor Seating Location of Ice Rolls Marrakech in Marrakech,Morocco Reviews of Ice Rolls Marrakech in Marrakech,Morocco Tags |
2024.05.21 21:22 Erwinblackthorn OPC: City in the Clouds by JB Williams
Today’s one page challenge is for The City in the Clouds by J.B. Williams. Finally, a requested challenge, rather than the usual cycle of me finding a story and the person being triggered that I did so. At 234 pages and a whopping price tag of $20.99 for a paperback, it’s a wonder why it looks untouched. Flip some burgers for an hour to pay for this… whatever it is. I was told the editor is good, so let’s see how he gummed up the works.
The rules of the one page challenge are simple: I go through the first page of the book(about 300 words or 3 paragraphs) and say where the average reader would stop. These reviews are short, sweet, and to the point (unlike most of these books). The main things we look for are things like tension, a hint at the plot existing, good feng shui, a feeling like the blurb is accurate, a lack of obfuscation, and the story fulfilling its role as a story. As we go along, I’ll explain why readers love or hate certain elements and we’ll see what straws break the camel’s back.
The title, The City in the Clouds, makes me think of fantasy, but it’s meant to be sci-fi. Clouds symbolize knowledge beyond our reach or something like daydreaming, treated as water in air(mystery in knowledge). Saying the title this way makes it seem like the focus is the city itself, which would be cool if it was something like a dystopian or utopian story. Maybe a tech noir or detective story, but… it’s not. This story is actually about a woman, and it’s a comedy, completely conflicting with the genre in two ways.
I didn’t want to say this but Huston… we’re already having problems.
The ebook cover is a drawing of curly haired woman staring at the camera like she’s constipated, while the paperback version is of an anime girl holding a gun and looking like she has diarrhea. Both versions have her in a suit, with a giant gas planet behind her. Both have similar fonts for the title and name, but the ebook version is so blurred and darkened that it reads like a secret message; the physical version being slightly less blurry. If I saw this on a shelf, I wouldn’t recognize this as a book or know what it was called. I find it strange because the back of the book is very clear, given a blue box for clarity, and has a sun with a red sky that would have made more sense than these frumpy women.
I guess the title and name are made illegible because we’re supposed to zoom our eyes straight to the blurb:
At this point, the average reader would probably not give it a shot, unless the idea of pirates and an ironic Die Hard premise is their cup of tea.
No prologue, no maps, no glossary, just a simple chapter 1 to greet us. Ok, I’m liking this already. I know this is a small thing, but the simplicity of just starting a story is a blessing that should be the norm, and isn’t. I haven’t read a single word and this is already the best OPC so far. Yes, it’s that easy.
Don’t ruin the experience with all your fancy try-hard nonsense and the reader will be in hog heaven.
We are told the planet, sector, system, and date. Very effective in establishing the sci-fi element in this single aside, which also lets us know it’s 400 years in the future. The planet is named Andromeda, which is a well known galaxy, so if this is in that galaxy, I assume it’s going for a “New York, New York” type of gag. The editor did a good job, with the first page establishing a scene in a restaurant. What he messed up on was… everything that’s not the scene itself, which makes up 90% of the words.
The protagonist, Robin Alia Brook has her day off described as “shot in the face”, being delivered in present tense and this has it come out awkwardly. I say this because the second sentence is past tense, then it shifts back to present, back to past. This is why people stick with past tense to avoid the headache, and present tense is now used as a hipster novelty to act as if things are more important because they’re happening as they’re written. Most readers just find it as a distraction and it causes something niche to become more niche in the process. The first paragraph ends with us being told that she’s in a restaurant that is 500 feet under the sea, of a planet called Andromeda.
She is to be dining, but she is NOT dining because her date didn’t show. Cue the audience gasping, because this is a travesty. The part that really kills this opening is the sentence “She is currently obtaining nutrients through Poseidon's generous supply of free lemons water and cheesy garlic biscuits.” This was the perfect chance for worldbuilding, to express something futuristic and fresh. Instead, it tied itself to Earth, talked about mundane food like lemon water, and it didn’t use any of these for a punchline.
This is meant to be a comedy, but is absent of comedy. We don’t need a bunch of humor in the first paragraph, but we do expect a comedy to present a tone that can lead to humor occurring. Every scene for a comedy is a setup for gags and punchlines. Much like horror, the scene is built around the mood, which is brought to a peak around half way. The introduction of a comedy book is going to hold a joke in relation to the entire book.
I believe the blurb when it says this Robin character can kill things by accident, because this book dies right after she’s introduced, around the second paragraph. The third paragraph changes the subject to be about other people in the restaurant, acting as a distraction that leads to infodumps of Robin’s outfit and such. I understand that the “joke” is that this woman is stood up on her date and we are to feel her anguish, but the reader shouldn’t be suffering through the opening this soon. Starting here is either far too late or far too soon. If anything, this is something I expect in chapter 2 or something we hear about as she’s on her way to Bellona.
A good way to put it is that this scene is a non-sequitur done in order to give fashion statements, with the important exposition ignored for window dressing.
The average reader needs tension to get sunk into a sci-fi story, because this is a planet we don’t know about with a character we’ve never seen before. What is the point of having this restaurant so deep underwater? There is a city underwater? She has a job, but where does she work? At the Krusty Krab?
Non-sequitur is a distraction that removes us from the scene and the plot to explain things that don’t serve a purpose to either. If I changed the first sentence to only hold what was part of the scene, it would be the characters name and nothing more. To strengthen an opening like this, we would have to set it up for a punchline, reinforce the sardonic tone, and tie the scene with the situation. The first sentence would go like:
For a story like this, the rejection comes from a lack of being straightforward. We can always fix up a sentence and how it sounds, but this doesn’t mean much when the bones are disjointed. Thankfully, for this one, a lot of readers are used to openings like this from online serials, so there is hope that a lot of it will get a pass. It’s that first hump that it has to get over in order to shine. Sadly, for little Robin, that hump was not achieved, so her journey through the city in the cloud might as well not exist.
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The rules of the one page challenge are simple: I go through the first page of the book(about 300 words or 3 paragraphs) and say where the average reader would stop. These reviews are short, sweet, and to the point (unlike most of these books). The main things we look for are things like tension, a hint at the plot existing, good feng shui, a feeling like the blurb is accurate, a lack of obfuscation, and the story fulfilling its role as a story. As we go along, I’ll explain why readers love or hate certain elements and we’ll see what straws break the camel’s back.
The title, The City in the Clouds, makes me think of fantasy, but it’s meant to be sci-fi. Clouds symbolize knowledge beyond our reach or something like daydreaming, treated as water in air(mystery in knowledge). Saying the title this way makes it seem like the focus is the city itself, which would be cool if it was something like a dystopian or utopian story. Maybe a tech noir or detective story, but… it’s not. This story is actually about a woman, and it’s a comedy, completely conflicting with the genre in two ways.
I didn’t want to say this but Huston… we’re already having problems.
The ebook cover is a drawing of curly haired woman staring at the camera like she’s constipated, while the paperback version is of an anime girl holding a gun and looking like she has diarrhea. Both versions have her in a suit, with a giant gas planet behind her. Both have similar fonts for the title and name, but the ebook version is so blurred and darkened that it reads like a secret message; the physical version being slightly less blurry. If I saw this on a shelf, I wouldn’t recognize this as a book or know what it was called. I find it strange because the back of the book is very clear, given a blue box for clarity, and has a sun with a red sky that would have made more sense than these frumpy women.
I guess the title and name are made illegible because we’re supposed to zoom our eyes straight to the blurb:
Robin Alia Brook is considered a loser. She works at customer service for one of the largest companies in humanity's interstellar empire, gets stood up on dates, and accidentally kills people. Then when her ex-online boyfriend gives her the winning vacation lottery ticket to the famed habitat, The City of Clouds, she reluctantly accepts it.Slight grammar issues here and there, but most wouldn’t notice that “ex-online boyfriend” would mean the boyfriend was online and not anymore. The delivery is a little bouncy, almost appropriate, but doesn’t give much tone from how much info it tries to cram in. Something I noticed is that very little sci-fi is mentioned, with the only thing giving a sci-fi vibe being the idea of traveling to another planet. If this was a vacation to an island, very little would change from how it’s described. Like the title and name on the cover, a lot of what makes this book a book is hidden from us, in plain sight.
Upon arrival, she is greeted by the massive, beautiful gas giant Bellona, and all the glamour and prospects of expansion for the famous habitat. And it is the beginning of a celebration, too! For the election of the new habitat captain! But the celebration and vacation are ruined when pirates attack, seeking the captain's riches.
They are ruthless, they are bloodthirsty, and they won't stop until they get what they want. Unfortunately for the pirates, Robin is really good at accidentally killing people, and with her is a rag tag team of a pilot recruit, an egotistical journalist, a veteran photographer, and the captain himself.
It will be a long battle for The City of Clouds, and the outcome is unknown, but one thing is certain... This is the worst vacation ever.
At this point, the average reader would probably not give it a shot, unless the idea of pirates and an ironic Die Hard premise is their cup of tea.
No prologue, no maps, no glossary, just a simple chapter 1 to greet us. Ok, I’m liking this already. I know this is a small thing, but the simplicity of just starting a story is a blessing that should be the norm, and isn’t. I haven’t read a single word and this is already the best OPC so far. Yes, it’s that easy.
Don’t ruin the experience with all your fancy try-hard nonsense and the reader will be in hog heaven.
We are told the planet, sector, system, and date. Very effective in establishing the sci-fi element in this single aside, which also lets us know it’s 400 years in the future. The planet is named Andromeda, which is a well known galaxy, so if this is in that galaxy, I assume it’s going for a “New York, New York” type of gag. The editor did a good job, with the first page establishing a scene in a restaurant. What he messed up on was… everything that’s not the scene itself, which makes up 90% of the words.
The protagonist, Robin Alia Brook has her day off described as “shot in the face”, being delivered in present tense and this has it come out awkwardly. I say this because the second sentence is past tense, then it shifts back to present, back to past. This is why people stick with past tense to avoid the headache, and present tense is now used as a hipster novelty to act as if things are more important because they’re happening as they’re written. Most readers just find it as a distraction and it causes something niche to become more niche in the process. The first paragraph ends with us being told that she’s in a restaurant that is 500 feet under the sea, of a planet called Andromeda.
She is to be dining, but she is NOT dining because her date didn’t show. Cue the audience gasping, because this is a travesty. The part that really kills this opening is the sentence “She is currently obtaining nutrients through Poseidon's generous supply of free lemons water and cheesy garlic biscuits.” This was the perfect chance for worldbuilding, to express something futuristic and fresh. Instead, it tied itself to Earth, talked about mundane food like lemon water, and it didn’t use any of these for a punchline.
This is meant to be a comedy, but is absent of comedy. We don’t need a bunch of humor in the first paragraph, but we do expect a comedy to present a tone that can lead to humor occurring. Every scene for a comedy is a setup for gags and punchlines. Much like horror, the scene is built around the mood, which is brought to a peak around half way. The introduction of a comedy book is going to hold a joke in relation to the entire book.
I believe the blurb when it says this Robin character can kill things by accident, because this book dies right after she’s introduced, around the second paragraph. The third paragraph changes the subject to be about other people in the restaurant, acting as a distraction that leads to infodumps of Robin’s outfit and such. I understand that the “joke” is that this woman is stood up on her date and we are to feel her anguish, but the reader shouldn’t be suffering through the opening this soon. Starting here is either far too late or far too soon. If anything, this is something I expect in chapter 2 or something we hear about as she’s on her way to Bellona.
A good way to put it is that this scene is a non-sequitur done in order to give fashion statements, with the important exposition ignored for window dressing.
The average reader needs tension to get sunk into a sci-fi story, because this is a planet we don’t know about with a character we’ve never seen before. What is the point of having this restaurant so deep underwater? There is a city underwater? She has a job, but where does she work? At the Krusty Krab?
Non-sequitur is a distraction that removes us from the scene and the plot to explain things that don’t serve a purpose to either. If I changed the first sentence to only hold what was part of the scene, it would be the characters name and nothing more. To strengthen an opening like this, we would have to set it up for a punchline, reinforce the sardonic tone, and tie the scene with the situation. The first sentence would go like:
Five hundred feet below the sea’s surface, Robin could not stop drinking.This will give the impression that she’s getting drunk, while attaching her drinking to the sea outside, giving the impression that she’s drowning. But even then, I wouldn’t start here, I would begin with a comedic amount of assurance that she’s going to have her date show up, then the next scene is her waiting with this. That, or I would have her doing the walk of shame, allowing the plot to begin sooner when she gets her golden ticket, which would be like:
The ocean floor outside was slowly swallowed by darkness as the elevator pod took Robin away from Poseidon.Here, we have a moment for her to think back to the situation, and the word “darkness” gives hint to her current feeling about the restaurant. This is a setup for the punchline that follows, already skipping the failed date and able to move forward to the poster she sees in the elevator. Movies tend to do this type of exposition with the main character telling the situation to another person, who is helpless to escape. That can add more humor and make the main character express their personality quirks. The goal is for less opening to be used up for non-sequitur and to focus it on moving forward in relation to the plot.
For a story like this, the rejection comes from a lack of being straightforward. We can always fix up a sentence and how it sounds, but this doesn’t mean much when the bones are disjointed. Thankfully, for this one, a lot of readers are used to openings like this from online serials, so there is hope that a lot of it will get a pass. It’s that first hump that it has to get over in order to shine. Sadly, for little Robin, that hump was not achieved, so her journey through the city in the cloud might as well not exist.
2024.05.21 21:16 GintoSenju Mod Configuration Menu saying that plugins are missing when they enabled in the plugins section.
Recently started modding fallout 4 and installed a couple mods using vortex, but when I got to the MCM menu in the pause screen and click on a mod, it says that the plugins are missing, but when I go to the plugins section, the plugins are there and enabled. Does anyone know how to fix this or if there is a fix?
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2024.05.21 21:05 CrivensAndShips A collection of vintage menus
 | These menus, from vintagemenus and going back to the 1850s, feature a variety of graphic design principles including typography, hierarchy, color, arrangement, chunking, and more. I think they’re fascinating examples of the design trends from their respective eras while also showing delightful creativity and forward-thinking experimentation. submitted by CrivensAndShips to graphic_design [link] [comments]
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2024.05.21 20:58 JessiQValentine Why is GOT Unplayable on My Laptop?
Hi, I've been having a lot of trouble with getting this game to be playable on my laptop since launch day and I don't know what else to do so I'm reaching out for some troubleshooting advice and help if anyone would be so kind.
My current setup is an AMD Ryzen 5 7520U, with 16GB of RAM (15.2GB usable), using Windows 11 (not in S mode) as the operating system. I have a Toshiba Canvio 4TB external hard drive with the Steam version of the game installed on it like all of my other PC games. My AMD drivers are up to date at version 24.5.1 too. Aside from that I'm not sure what else I should specify about my laptop/setup but if more information is needed let me know. I just got into PC gaming this year and so far it's been great for Guardians of the Galaxy, GTA V, several Assassin's Creed games, and even heavily modded Skyrim and Fallout 4,
My current issues: - The game is stuttering or lagging to the point where everything looks and feels like it's in slow motion. I can't even rotate the camera or move around without extreme delay and stuttering. This caused issues with combat and timing in the intro level and I couldn't even attempt to sneak through the village at the beginning of the game. - There are blue and white flashes coming from different light sources like torches that keep randomly popping up (like a lighting/texture glitch?) and it is apparent as soon as I load in the game since the main menu is pausing every few seconds and the tall grass is flickering blue. - These issues are happening in gameplay and during cinematics.
"Fixes" I've tried: - Adjusted all in-game graphics and display settings to match several different "optimized" lists I've found listed in this subreddit, as well as Steam Communties, and other gaming websites. Most of the time I've set these to low or medium specific layouts or layouts specific for low end PCs but I've tried high and very high several times too. -Adjusted V-Sync, anti-aliasing, frame generation, dynamic resolution scaling and upscale methods in different capacities - Disabled full-screen optimizations, and ran the program as an administrator - Switched between windowed, full-screen, and exclusive full-screen modes with the aforementioned different "optimized settings". - Disabled Steam overlays, and I don't think I have GeForce Experience or Nvidia as far as I know. But I haven't deleted the folder containing the PSN overlays just in case I do decide to try Legends mode but if that's the only fix I'll give it a shot. - Turned off Windows Defender and whatever default anti-virus was on my laptop. I don't have MalwareBytes and never even heard of it until people started suggesting to disable it in other support threads so that can't be it either.. - I've restarted my laptop in between different major setting changes - Quit or turned off unnecessary background processes and apps And that's pretty much everything I can remember.
I'm sorry for such a long post that may sound negative but I've tried to be as specific as possible so I don't waste anyone's time. It's just like every solution that worked for someone else isn't doing anything at all to affect gameplay for me and I'm almost ready to give up on playing this game. I just don't want to though because I keep seeing how praised it's been and how beautiful it can actually look and play on low end systems and even the SteamDeck. I don't want to assume but I'd hope my laptop is just as capable as a SteamDeck if not more. I just don't want to miss out on this amazing experience everyone else seems to be having. I've waited for years to get into this because I don't own a Playstation and didn't plan to pick it up for just this game and now that I finally have a chance it's not working properly. Could anyone, please, help me figure this out and what's going wrong or what I'm doing wrong?
Thanks for your time!
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My current setup is an AMD Ryzen 5 7520U, with 16GB of RAM (15.2GB usable), using Windows 11 (not in S mode) as the operating system. I have a Toshiba Canvio 4TB external hard drive with the Steam version of the game installed on it like all of my other PC games. My AMD drivers are up to date at version 24.5.1 too. Aside from that I'm not sure what else I should specify about my laptop/setup but if more information is needed let me know. I just got into PC gaming this year and so far it's been great for Guardians of the Galaxy, GTA V, several Assassin's Creed games, and even heavily modded Skyrim and Fallout 4,
My current issues: - The game is stuttering or lagging to the point where everything looks and feels like it's in slow motion. I can't even rotate the camera or move around without extreme delay and stuttering. This caused issues with combat and timing in the intro level and I couldn't even attempt to sneak through the village at the beginning of the game. - There are blue and white flashes coming from different light sources like torches that keep randomly popping up (like a lighting/texture glitch?) and it is apparent as soon as I load in the game since the main menu is pausing every few seconds and the tall grass is flickering blue. - These issues are happening in gameplay and during cinematics.
"Fixes" I've tried: - Adjusted all in-game graphics and display settings to match several different "optimized" lists I've found listed in this subreddit, as well as Steam Communties, and other gaming websites. Most of the time I've set these to low or medium specific layouts or layouts specific for low end PCs but I've tried high and very high several times too. -Adjusted V-Sync, anti-aliasing, frame generation, dynamic resolution scaling and upscale methods in different capacities - Disabled full-screen optimizations, and ran the program as an administrator - Switched between windowed, full-screen, and exclusive full-screen modes with the aforementioned different "optimized settings". - Disabled Steam overlays, and I don't think I have GeForce Experience or Nvidia as far as I know. But I haven't deleted the folder containing the PSN overlays just in case I do decide to try Legends mode but if that's the only fix I'll give it a shot. - Turned off Windows Defender and whatever default anti-virus was on my laptop. I don't have MalwareBytes and never even heard of it until people started suggesting to disable it in other support threads so that can't be it either.. - I've restarted my laptop in between different major setting changes - Quit or turned off unnecessary background processes and apps And that's pretty much everything I can remember.
I'm sorry for such a long post that may sound negative but I've tried to be as specific as possible so I don't waste anyone's time. It's just like every solution that worked for someone else isn't doing anything at all to affect gameplay for me and I'm almost ready to give up on playing this game. I just don't want to though because I keep seeing how praised it's been and how beautiful it can actually look and play on low end systems and even the SteamDeck. I don't want to assume but I'd hope my laptop is just as capable as a SteamDeck if not more. I just don't want to miss out on this amazing experience everyone else seems to be having. I've waited for years to get into this because I don't own a Playstation and didn't plan to pick it up for just this game and now that I finally have a chance it's not working properly. Could anyone, please, help me figure this out and what's going wrong or what I'm doing wrong?
Thanks for your time!
2024.05.21 20:54 lundylizard Can I buy any drive for my PS2?
Hello everyone!
I have a PS2 Fat (Model: SCPH-50004) with a (probably) broken disk drive. When I put in a game it shows a menu with a CD on it, when I press X it boots me back to that menu.
Now I want to buy a new drive and put it in to hopefully fix this issue.
Can I buy a drive from any PS2 Fat model or does it need to be for my specific model?
Thank you
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I have a PS2 Fat (Model: SCPH-50004) with a (probably) broken disk drive. When I put in a game it shows a menu with a CD on it, when I press X it boots me back to that menu.
Now I want to buy a new drive and put it in to hopefully fix this issue.
Can I buy a drive from any PS2 Fat model or does it need to be for my specific model?
Thank you
2024.05.21 20:53 Abyzed Lag in Menu and loading the game
Anyone else having problems starting the game? (PC)
I have 3 Fps starting the game and in Menu.
Didnt try tof find a match yet i get this fixed.
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I have 3 Fps starting the game and in Menu.
Didnt try tof find a match yet i get this fixed.
2024.05.21 20:49 okryea Gluten and non-gluten sensitivities - forever or just a stopgap?
Has anyone (with CIRS) been able to reverse non-Celiac sensitivities to gluten and non-gluten proteins found in wheat (diagnosed via the Vibrant Wheat Zoomer test)? From what I see, once you have them, you need to go gluten and grain-free for life or is that a stopgap temporarily until the immune system is back on track? I show a few elevated antibodies and have been (mostly) gluten free for a while now but not sure how often should one retest and is there a light at the end of this gluten free tunnel? I genuinely miss good real bread and being able to order from a restaurant menu again. Please tell me it has been done and it is possible to get your antibodies back on track. Not sure if CIRS is the only condition this question applies to, but given the CIRS process and protocol cover this, I’m hoping folks here have at least a historical perspective to share from their experience.
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2024.05.21 20:37 danygarcia69 Asus X512JA intel I5 - Blue screen LOOP
 | Hi there lovely community, I acquired this model 2 years ago and it stopped working after receiving a Windows 11 update. I reinstalled Windows 11 and Windows 10 but it was useless, I got the same blue screen asking me to reinstall Windows, start the troubleshooting manager or repair the system but none of them worked. submitted by danygarcia69 to ASUS [link] [comments] Yesterday, something incredible happened, after 8 months of having the laptop collect dust, I downloaded Windows 11 again. I thought that maybe there was some error in the installation file in the past that has now been fixed so I installed everything through the BIOS menu and it worked! Everything was working just fine and then... it crashed again. I left the laptop downloading the missing drivers, and went to have dinner, and when I came back the blue screen was there again. I'm unable to pass it. So it is probably because of a driver that does not function as it should. I thought about going through the same process and turning off the wifi, downloading the drivers in a USB, and installing them, but what will happen if the computer downloads the driver anyway? Has anyone else experienced this with the exact model or any similar model? How do you solve the issue? What can I do? Please help. I https://preview.redd.it/rk2zro94qt1d1.jpg?width=899&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e73ddba1fef53059fda2498cedb2f2838727dfcb |
2024.05.21 20:33 TheBoyisBackinTown Andy Reid reveals why he loves KC, including his favorite restaurants
 | Skip the click: submitted by TheBoyisBackinTown to KansasCityChiefs [link] [comments] "Reid relishes an absurd work schedule that typically has him in the office by 3/3:30 a.m. during the season. So he prefaced what he has to say about Kansas City by suggesting he doesn’t get out much. Still, he’s been out enough over the last 11 years to have a feel for the community and know what he likes about it. And it’s not just barbecue, though he’s got a thing or two to say about that. And it’s not simply that GEHA Field at Arrowhead Stadium “should be on everybody’s bucket list.” It’s the “down to earth people,” he tells friends, who make Kansas City special. Something he had a sense of when he was an assistant coach at the University of Missouri from 1989-1991. Part of that feeling is because it remains the sort of place where someone of his high-profile status can be out in public and chat with people but also be treated respectfully and given room. In fact, he said, going out to meals is where he meets most people. “Even though it’s a big city, it’s still got kind of a small-town presence,” Reid said in a recent phone interview with The Star (shortly before the Harrison Butker controversy erupted). “That’s a neat appeal. But there’s also a lot of things to do here.” Reid is most quick to speak about the Town Topic version. “I love places like that; I sneak in and sneak out,” he said. “It’s just a good cheeseburger, and the black-and-white milkshake is awesome. Vanilla with chocolate syrup. In a blender. They actually do it the old-fashioned way.” As for his favorite restaurants, Reid said he loves Eddie V’s and the Capital Grille steakhouses and Stock Hill. He’s also a fan of Pigwich in the River Market, which he called the “greatest sandwich shop you’ve ever eaten at” during a 2019 episode of “Diners, Drive-ins and Dives.” While Reid didn’t go out to eat upon the team’s return to Kansas City from winning Super Bowl LVIII in February, he celebrated the previous two at a couple of his go-tos: After Super Bowl LVII, Reid went to Pizza 51 for a mushroom-and-sausage pizza. “And a salad,” he said then, “just to make my chubbiness feel good.” After Super Bowl LIV, Reid went to Q39, where the “Andy Reid special” features burnt ends, spiced onion straws and macaroni and cheese. It doesn’t appear on the current menu, but you can ask for it. Reid raves about Q39, but he also tells friends this about the barbecue scene here: “Every one of the places is great …,” he said. “So you can’t go wrong.” Not at Fiorella’s Jack Stack, Joe’s Kansas City or LC’s, among others. And certainly not at Arthur Bryant’s or Gates, which Reid said often caters for visiting teams at Arrowhead. “They always have a big platter for me when I come out,” he said. “Which I take home and just destroy.” |
2024.05.21 20:27 Babyfart_McGeezacks I just want to browse the damn menu!
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2024.05.21 20:26 Sweet-Count2557 Ciccio Mio Restaurant in Chicago,IL,United States
 | Ciccio Mio Restaurant in Chicago,IL,United States submitted by Sweet-Count2557 to worldkidstravel [link] [comments] Ciccio Mio: A Culinary Delight in the Heart of Italy Experience Authentic Italian Cuisine in Chicago, IL Price Level: $$$$ Ciccio Mio: A Culinary Delight in the Heart of ItalyWelcome to Ciccio Mio, a hidden gem nestled in the picturesque streets of Italy. As a travel blogger, I have had the pleasure of exploring various restaurants around the world, but Ciccio Mio truly stands out. This charming eatery offers a unique dining experience that combines traditional Italian flavors with a modern twist.At Ciccio Mio, you can expect to indulge in a wide array of mouthwatering dishes that showcase the rich culinary heritage of Italy. From classic pasta dishes like homemade tagliatelle with truffle sauce to delectable seafood specialties such as grilled octopus, every bite at Ciccio Mio is a celebration of authentic Italian flavors.What sets Ciccio Mio apart from other restaurants is their commitment to using only the freshest, locally sourced ingredients. The chefs at Ciccio Mio take great pride in creating dishes that not only tantalize your taste buds but also support local farmers and producers. This farm-to-table approach ensures that every dish is bursting with flavor and showcases the true essence of Italian cuisine.In addition to their exceptional food, Ciccio Mio also offers a warm and inviting ambiance. The rustic decor, combined with friendly and attentive staff, creates an atmosphere that instantly makes you feel at home. Whether you're enjoying a romantic dinner for two or a gathering with friends, Ciccio Mio provides the perfect setting for a memorable dining experience.So, if you find yourself in Italy, make sure to visit Ciccio Mio. This hidden culinary gem promises to take you on a gastronomic journey through the flavors of Italy, leaving you craving for more. Don't miss out on the opportunity to savor the best of Italian cuisine at Ciccio Mio a true delight for any food lover. Cuisines of Ciccio Mio in Chicago,IL,United States When it comes to authentic Italian cuisine, Ciccio Mio Restaurant stands out as a true gem. With a menu that exclusively focuses on Italian dishes, this restaurant takes diners on a culinary journey through the diverse regions of Italy. From classic pasta dishes like spaghetti carbonara and lasagna to mouthwatering pizzas topped with fresh ingredients, Ciccio Mio offers a wide range of options to satisfy every palate. The chefs at this restaurant are dedicated to using only the finest and freshest ingredients, ensuring that each dish is bursting with flavor. Whether you're craving a traditional Margherita pizza or a hearty plate of homemade gnocchi, Ciccio Mio is the perfect destination for an authentic Italian dining experience. Features of Ciccio Mio in Chicago,IL,United States DeliveryTakeoutWheelchair AccessibleServes AlcoholFull BarWine and BeerDigital PaymentsAccepts Credit CardsNon-smoking restaurantsGift Cards Available Menu of Ciccio Mio in Chicago,IL,United States Location of Ciccio Mio in Chicago,IL,United States Contact of Ciccio Mio in Chicago,IL,United States +1 312-796-3316 226 W Kinzie St, Chicago, IL 60654-4908 http://cicciomio.com Tags |
2024.05.21 20:18 djames2992 My wife (32F) hates my (33M) mother (67F), causing huge issues between us. Is there a fix or is this unfixable?
Hello all -- first time poster here. Sorry for the really long post, I guess part of this is therapeutic for me just to write out.
I've really been struggling recently, as my wife has come to absolutely despise by 67 year old mother, and I'm not sure if there's anything that can fix it.
A little bit of my history. I've always been very close with my family. I grew up in a south Asian household (although I always felt we integrated nicely with a lot of American culture -- both me and my sibling have lived in a large US city our entire lives and consider ourselves American both in culture as well as nationality). However, as in many Asian cultures, respect for elders is extremely important. I always had a parent-child relationship with my parents (meaning that they were in charge, and not interested in being my friend, but rather my mentors and provided invaluable guidance over the years). Both of my parents sacrificed a lot for me and mysibling, but especially my mom who chose to forgo advancing her own career, and to work part time in order to raise my sibling and I. I've always had a good relationship with my mom, although we've had our share of fights over the years (we're both pretty stubborn), but they typically last no more than a 3-5 days on average and then things are completely back to normal. I would say this happens an average of 1-2 times per year at most. I do feel very close with my mom (& my dad as well, but my wife doesn't seem to have any issues with my dad so I'm not focussing on that part). I do believe that much of the success I have achieved in life is directly attributable to the sacrifices my mom made as well as the time she spent raising and teaching me. I have always respected my parents, which is typical of Asian culture. By respect, I mean things like not talking back, valuing their opinions, and trying to make their life easier or happier in small ways (visiting them on weekends, going out to dinner together -- we live roughly 40 minutes apart).
A bit of my wife's history -- she grew up with her parents being divorced from a young age. Both of her parents are wonderful people who I really adore, but they were extremely lenient with her growing up (they were not on top of her with regards to schoolwork, she would talk back to them at times without getting in much trouble, she was able to sneak out of her house as a teen, etc.). These are by no means egregious offenses, and I suspect many kids do the same at that age. However, there was a clear difference in her relationship with her parents -- there was no real enforcement of rules or punishment for breaking rules. Through my lens, it seems that this has manifested as a lack of respect for her own parents, as well as her elders. She mostly has a good relationship with both of her parents, but when she does disagree with them, she talks to them in ways I could never imagine speaking to my own parents (talks back, hangs up on them, etc.). She says that she needs to "put them in their place" at times, which I also find rude. Overall, I would say she grew up much less "family-oriented" than I did, for what it's worth.
My wife is also somewhat of a nomad (mostly not by choice). She moved a few times growing up (within the same state, but different areas), and then went out of state for college, only to leave after 1.5 years and finish at a local state school (in a different state) where her mother lived at the time. Because of this, she has very few close friends, and the ones that she does have are spread out all across the country on different coasts. This is in stark contrast to me. I've been lucky to maintain the same group of friends that I've had since we were 8 or 9 years old. On top of that, most of them have stayed in the same area that we grew up in (where my wife and I now live). I think the lack of a social circle has affected my wife since she moved to my city, but I'm not sure what solution there is for that since there is no city we could live in where she would have a group of close friends or family (her parents live in different states and split time between different states, her 3 closest friends live in 3 different states).
I've known my wife for 8 years and we've been married for 2.5. I love her. She is a great person; she is kind, compassionate, loving, and at her core truly does care deeply about others (though I feel that this does not always come across in the way she talks to her own parents). She's funny, adventurous, and up until recently, I was always happier around her. We were recently blessed with the birth of our son, who is now 11 months old. Our son is the best thing that has ever happened to us, but his arrival seems to have simultaneously strained our relationship in ways I did not anticipate. I knew that the sleep deprivation would be hard, and our lives would change drastically. What I did not envision was a deepening hatred that my wife has developed for my mom.
Prior to the birth of our son, my wife did not have much of an issue with my mom other than thinking she was "needy" for wanting to see myself and my sibling once a week, even if it was just for a dinner (again, we live roughly 40 minutes apart, and my parents are typically willing to drive to us, meet us at a restaurant, or have us over). My mom does tend to be picky with where we eat out (she doesn't eat most meat, and prefers vegetarian options), but that never really bothered me, though it seems to bother my wife that my mom is "getting her way", even though this was at most 1 meal in the week.
I know that my mom can certainly be stubborn and hard to deal with at times, but I know her very well, and I always felt that she was inclusive of my wife, and never did anything that warranted being strongly disliked. The one exception to this was during our son's baby shower. We had planned a large party with a lot of family and friends that my parents hosted (their house is large enough to accomodate a party of that size). During the baby shower, my mom helped arrange catering of food, ordering tables, chairs, tablecloths, and hiring a bartender (my parents also paid for all of this). My wife did not like my mom's taste with regards to tablecloths and chair decorations and she was irritated that my mom wanted to help and be involved in the planning (though to her credit, my wife did not outwardly show this discontent to my mom, though it was certainly made known to me). My wife handled the floral arrangements and other decorative pieces such as a backdrop, and spent a lot of time and effort getting them exactly how she wanted. I kind of sensed that my mom felt that she was being taken for granted and underappreciated by my wife (she did take care and pay for a lot), and my wife felt that my mom was being overbearing with planning, and also felt that my mom was purposefully spiteful (my wife claims that every other member of my family commented on how nice the floral arrangements were, but my mom never did). This culminated in a "fight" where my wife wanted a decorative piece in one part of the yard and my mom wanted it in another part. There was some exchange of words at the time, though I did not witness this. This left my mom feeling that my wife was "disrespectful" and left my wife hating my mom for not honoring her decision about where to place the decorative piece, since this was her baby shower. This led to a very upsetting experience for my wife and I as we really did not enjoy the baby shower at all (although this was not evident to our guests or other family members, as we were able to "fake it"). My wife was particularly upset after the baby shower when we drove home since she felt that it was supposed to be a special day for her, and my mom ruined it, which I mostly agreed with. To her credit, my mom did apologize to both my wife and me the following day, and told us that she had been under a lot of stress with many family members staying at their house, taking care of meals, sleeping arrangements, etc., and her stress got the better of her. I was willing to accept her apology and move on, but my wife has always held a grudge since that time, and feels that the apology wasn't genuine. Again, I've known my mom for a long time and she would rather not apologize at all than do so disingenuously. My wife however insists that she can read my mom better than me, since I'm biased. Nonetheless, we moved forward.
After the birth of our son, my parents and my wife's parents were overjoyed (he is all of their first grandchild). Again, we live near where I grew up so my parents are much closer to us than my wife's parents are. After the birth of our son, my wife's mom rented a place near us for 4 months to help with the baby and chores, etc. I never had any issue with this, even when she would come over multiple times a day, or even unannounced at times (this was not something that bothered me). My parents were (& are) also very eager to spend time with their grandchild, and initially were coming over every other day to see the baby, which then decreased to about twice a week, since he has been 3 months old. My wife has begun having major issues with my parents coming to see our son twice a week now. Perhaps what is most irritating to me is the fact that I anticipated this issue beforehand. I specifically asked my wife when our son was 1 or 2 months old "how often would you be okay with my parents coming to see him?", and her answer was "I would be so happy if it was just twice a week", (which she felt would be a huge improvement over the every other day they were initially coming when our son was a newborn). I assured her that twice a week was very reasonable and she said she'd be happy with that.
Fast forward to now -- my mom comes to visit twice a week for 3-4 hours and my wife says its too much. She says it's suffocating, that she shouldn't have to live her life around my mom seeing our son (which my wife does not, she always tells my mom which days to come, and they are different each week depending on what my wife wants to do), that she feels like she had a kid just for my mom to play with. Again, my mom is never insistent on what days or even times to see our son. She certainly appreciates seeing him regularly, and I always wanted my son to have a close relationship with his grandparents (both sides), as both myself and my wife did growing up. However, my wife's parents do not live near us (and don't come to visit that often). I think this plays a role in terms of her being irritated that my family sees him regularly, but I don't see any solution. Her family is financially able to visit us (very regularly) if they wanted to, but they don't make it a priority. Again, her parents are wonderful people, but they seem to be more interested in their own lives and relationships than they are in forging a deep connection with our son, their grandson (I'm not saying there is anything wrong with it, but it's the opposite of my family who really want to be close with their grandson, even if it's at the expense of time with their own friends).
I should also add that for the past 3 years my wife has not worked. This started prior to us getting married. She left her job because she hated it, and I am lucky to be in a position to financially support us on my own. However, she always told me she would (& wanted to) get a job in a field that she was more interested in, though she has never been able to articulate what that field would be (actually she was adamant that she would have a job before we got married). I tried to encourage her to find fields that appealed to her, even advised her to take risks with entrepreneurship, to see if she could make a career out of something she considers a hobby. I've paid for countless courses, certifications, etc. (90% of which she did not complete -- things like real estate certifications, social media certifications, photography lessons, camera lenses, etc.). Furthermore, I paid for her to see a therapist of her choosing for a few months hoping it would help her gain clarity with regards to what she wants to do career-wise (it did not). All in all, I've probably spent in the neighborhood of 7-8K on online courses, certifications, and she does not have anything to show for it. Once we got pregnant, we agreed that she would take on more of a domestic role (which is what she said she wanted as well, I did not force her into this -- and she was also not doing anything else for work anyway). The point I'm making here is not that I feel she needs to work, it is just that she gets to see our son all the time (it's not like she's going to work and handing our son off to my mom). Also, many times my wife will say "Oh why don't you come on Monday" when we see my mom (which my mom will then do). Then Monday rolls around and my wife is texting me at work all day constantly complaining about how my mom is interacting with our son (she doesn't watch him closely enough, or she doesn't put him in his crib to nap, or she feeds him when she's not supposed to, etc.), how long my mom is staying, how she feels trapped in the house when my mom is there, etc. She basically wants my mom to come over for no more than 2 hours and then leave (again we live about 40 minutes apart).
This issue she has with my mom seeing our son a couple of times a week for a few hours, has started to cause bigger and bigger fights between us. Part of me understands that my wife's lack of her own social circle of close friends, and not having family nearby is contributing to her unhappiness with our current situation. But the other part of me can't help but feel like I've done everything in my power to help, and it feels that she is just complaining about my mom because she's unhappy with where she is in life. I have tried helping her find a career that she would like, I have tried telling her she can remain a stay at home mom if she wants, I have tried getting her a therapist to help her work through her issues, I have tried encouraging her to join mom & baby classes to meet new friends (which she now attends, but hasn't made any real friends during them), I have offered to joint local couples meetups with her to meet new friends if that would make her more comfortable, I have encouraged her to invite the few local friends she does have over for dinner or even go out with them while I watch the baby, I have offered to move to a part of the city that is even further from my parents, and I've even offered to move cities altogether to be closer to her own family (although her family does not reside in just 1 city, they split time between a few). I've also told her to voice her issues to my mom and hash out whatever the issues are, but she says my mom will see it as disrespectful and "make things even more awkward" (which may in fact be true, but in that case I've told her we would just see my mom less, which is what she wants anyway...). Each time I suggest something, I feel that it is met with resistance or some excuse as to why it won't work (for instance when I suggest moving cities, she says no because I'll "use that against her" in the future if we fight). I'm just not sure where I can take it from here. I'm sure couples counseling has to be a part of the solution in some way, but I'm not sure what they are going to be able to offer that I haven't already tried.
I guess I'm just looking for advice. My guess is my wife wants me to just straight up tell my mom she can't come over twice a week anymore (but I could see my wife having a problem even if it was just once a week), for no good reason. My mom has no idea my wife despises her, and me just randomly telling my parents they can't come over anymore for no apparent reason would cause a rift between me & them. I love my parents and they're only getting older. They're not going to live forever, and I would feel awful if I told them they just can't come to see their grandson because my wife doesn't like my mom for no particularly legitimate reason.
Thanks in advance to whoever read through this, and for whatever advice you can provide.
TLDR - I feel like I've bent over backwards to make my wife happy but she still has a major issue with my mom that I don't know how to resolve.
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I've really been struggling recently, as my wife has come to absolutely despise by 67 year old mother, and I'm not sure if there's anything that can fix it.
A little bit of my history. I've always been very close with my family. I grew up in a south Asian household (although I always felt we integrated nicely with a lot of American culture -- both me and my sibling have lived in a large US city our entire lives and consider ourselves American both in culture as well as nationality). However, as in many Asian cultures, respect for elders is extremely important. I always had a parent-child relationship with my parents (meaning that they were in charge, and not interested in being my friend, but rather my mentors and provided invaluable guidance over the years). Both of my parents sacrificed a lot for me and mysibling, but especially my mom who chose to forgo advancing her own career, and to work part time in order to raise my sibling and I. I've always had a good relationship with my mom, although we've had our share of fights over the years (we're both pretty stubborn), but they typically last no more than a 3-5 days on average and then things are completely back to normal. I would say this happens an average of 1-2 times per year at most. I do feel very close with my mom (& my dad as well, but my wife doesn't seem to have any issues with my dad so I'm not focussing on that part). I do believe that much of the success I have achieved in life is directly attributable to the sacrifices my mom made as well as the time she spent raising and teaching me. I have always respected my parents, which is typical of Asian culture. By respect, I mean things like not talking back, valuing their opinions, and trying to make their life easier or happier in small ways (visiting them on weekends, going out to dinner together -- we live roughly 40 minutes apart).
A bit of my wife's history -- she grew up with her parents being divorced from a young age. Both of her parents are wonderful people who I really adore, but they were extremely lenient with her growing up (they were not on top of her with regards to schoolwork, she would talk back to them at times without getting in much trouble, she was able to sneak out of her house as a teen, etc.). These are by no means egregious offenses, and I suspect many kids do the same at that age. However, there was a clear difference in her relationship with her parents -- there was no real enforcement of rules or punishment for breaking rules. Through my lens, it seems that this has manifested as a lack of respect for her own parents, as well as her elders. She mostly has a good relationship with both of her parents, but when she does disagree with them, she talks to them in ways I could never imagine speaking to my own parents (talks back, hangs up on them, etc.). She says that she needs to "put them in their place" at times, which I also find rude. Overall, I would say she grew up much less "family-oriented" than I did, for what it's worth.
My wife is also somewhat of a nomad (mostly not by choice). She moved a few times growing up (within the same state, but different areas), and then went out of state for college, only to leave after 1.5 years and finish at a local state school (in a different state) where her mother lived at the time. Because of this, she has very few close friends, and the ones that she does have are spread out all across the country on different coasts. This is in stark contrast to me. I've been lucky to maintain the same group of friends that I've had since we were 8 or 9 years old. On top of that, most of them have stayed in the same area that we grew up in (where my wife and I now live). I think the lack of a social circle has affected my wife since she moved to my city, but I'm not sure what solution there is for that since there is no city we could live in where she would have a group of close friends or family (her parents live in different states and split time between different states, her 3 closest friends live in 3 different states).
I've known my wife for 8 years and we've been married for 2.5. I love her. She is a great person; she is kind, compassionate, loving, and at her core truly does care deeply about others (though I feel that this does not always come across in the way she talks to her own parents). She's funny, adventurous, and up until recently, I was always happier around her. We were recently blessed with the birth of our son, who is now 11 months old. Our son is the best thing that has ever happened to us, but his arrival seems to have simultaneously strained our relationship in ways I did not anticipate. I knew that the sleep deprivation would be hard, and our lives would change drastically. What I did not envision was a deepening hatred that my wife has developed for my mom.
Prior to the birth of our son, my wife did not have much of an issue with my mom other than thinking she was "needy" for wanting to see myself and my sibling once a week, even if it was just for a dinner (again, we live roughly 40 minutes apart, and my parents are typically willing to drive to us, meet us at a restaurant, or have us over). My mom does tend to be picky with where we eat out (she doesn't eat most meat, and prefers vegetarian options), but that never really bothered me, though it seems to bother my wife that my mom is "getting her way", even though this was at most 1 meal in the week.
I know that my mom can certainly be stubborn and hard to deal with at times, but I know her very well, and I always felt that she was inclusive of my wife, and never did anything that warranted being strongly disliked. The one exception to this was during our son's baby shower. We had planned a large party with a lot of family and friends that my parents hosted (their house is large enough to accomodate a party of that size). During the baby shower, my mom helped arrange catering of food, ordering tables, chairs, tablecloths, and hiring a bartender (my parents also paid for all of this). My wife did not like my mom's taste with regards to tablecloths and chair decorations and she was irritated that my mom wanted to help and be involved in the planning (though to her credit, my wife did not outwardly show this discontent to my mom, though it was certainly made known to me). My wife handled the floral arrangements and other decorative pieces such as a backdrop, and spent a lot of time and effort getting them exactly how she wanted. I kind of sensed that my mom felt that she was being taken for granted and underappreciated by my wife (she did take care and pay for a lot), and my wife felt that my mom was being overbearing with planning, and also felt that my mom was purposefully spiteful (my wife claims that every other member of my family commented on how nice the floral arrangements were, but my mom never did). This culminated in a "fight" where my wife wanted a decorative piece in one part of the yard and my mom wanted it in another part. There was some exchange of words at the time, though I did not witness this. This left my mom feeling that my wife was "disrespectful" and left my wife hating my mom for not honoring her decision about where to place the decorative piece, since this was her baby shower. This led to a very upsetting experience for my wife and I as we really did not enjoy the baby shower at all (although this was not evident to our guests or other family members, as we were able to "fake it"). My wife was particularly upset after the baby shower when we drove home since she felt that it was supposed to be a special day for her, and my mom ruined it, which I mostly agreed with. To her credit, my mom did apologize to both my wife and me the following day, and told us that she had been under a lot of stress with many family members staying at their house, taking care of meals, sleeping arrangements, etc., and her stress got the better of her. I was willing to accept her apology and move on, but my wife has always held a grudge since that time, and feels that the apology wasn't genuine. Again, I've known my mom for a long time and she would rather not apologize at all than do so disingenuously. My wife however insists that she can read my mom better than me, since I'm biased. Nonetheless, we moved forward.
After the birth of our son, my parents and my wife's parents were overjoyed (he is all of their first grandchild). Again, we live near where I grew up so my parents are much closer to us than my wife's parents are. After the birth of our son, my wife's mom rented a place near us for 4 months to help with the baby and chores, etc. I never had any issue with this, even when she would come over multiple times a day, or even unannounced at times (this was not something that bothered me). My parents were (& are) also very eager to spend time with their grandchild, and initially were coming over every other day to see the baby, which then decreased to about twice a week, since he has been 3 months old. My wife has begun having major issues with my parents coming to see our son twice a week now. Perhaps what is most irritating to me is the fact that I anticipated this issue beforehand. I specifically asked my wife when our son was 1 or 2 months old "how often would you be okay with my parents coming to see him?", and her answer was "I would be so happy if it was just twice a week", (which she felt would be a huge improvement over the every other day they were initially coming when our son was a newborn). I assured her that twice a week was very reasonable and she said she'd be happy with that.
Fast forward to now -- my mom comes to visit twice a week for 3-4 hours and my wife says its too much. She says it's suffocating, that she shouldn't have to live her life around my mom seeing our son (which my wife does not, she always tells my mom which days to come, and they are different each week depending on what my wife wants to do), that she feels like she had a kid just for my mom to play with. Again, my mom is never insistent on what days or even times to see our son. She certainly appreciates seeing him regularly, and I always wanted my son to have a close relationship with his grandparents (both sides), as both myself and my wife did growing up. However, my wife's parents do not live near us (and don't come to visit that often). I think this plays a role in terms of her being irritated that my family sees him regularly, but I don't see any solution. Her family is financially able to visit us (very regularly) if they wanted to, but they don't make it a priority. Again, her parents are wonderful people, but they seem to be more interested in their own lives and relationships than they are in forging a deep connection with our son, their grandson (I'm not saying there is anything wrong with it, but it's the opposite of my family who really want to be close with their grandson, even if it's at the expense of time with their own friends).
I should also add that for the past 3 years my wife has not worked. This started prior to us getting married. She left her job because she hated it, and I am lucky to be in a position to financially support us on my own. However, she always told me she would (& wanted to) get a job in a field that she was more interested in, though she has never been able to articulate what that field would be (actually she was adamant that she would have a job before we got married). I tried to encourage her to find fields that appealed to her, even advised her to take risks with entrepreneurship, to see if she could make a career out of something she considers a hobby. I've paid for countless courses, certifications, etc. (90% of which she did not complete -- things like real estate certifications, social media certifications, photography lessons, camera lenses, etc.). Furthermore, I paid for her to see a therapist of her choosing for a few months hoping it would help her gain clarity with regards to what she wants to do career-wise (it did not). All in all, I've probably spent in the neighborhood of 7-8K on online courses, certifications, and she does not have anything to show for it. Once we got pregnant, we agreed that she would take on more of a domestic role (which is what she said she wanted as well, I did not force her into this -- and she was also not doing anything else for work anyway). The point I'm making here is not that I feel she needs to work, it is just that she gets to see our son all the time (it's not like she's going to work and handing our son off to my mom). Also, many times my wife will say "Oh why don't you come on Monday" when we see my mom (which my mom will then do). Then Monday rolls around and my wife is texting me at work all day constantly complaining about how my mom is interacting with our son (she doesn't watch him closely enough, or she doesn't put him in his crib to nap, or she feeds him when she's not supposed to, etc.), how long my mom is staying, how she feels trapped in the house when my mom is there, etc. She basically wants my mom to come over for no more than 2 hours and then leave (again we live about 40 minutes apart).
This issue she has with my mom seeing our son a couple of times a week for a few hours, has started to cause bigger and bigger fights between us. Part of me understands that my wife's lack of her own social circle of close friends, and not having family nearby is contributing to her unhappiness with our current situation. But the other part of me can't help but feel like I've done everything in my power to help, and it feels that she is just complaining about my mom because she's unhappy with where she is in life. I have tried helping her find a career that she would like, I have tried telling her she can remain a stay at home mom if she wants, I have tried getting her a therapist to help her work through her issues, I have tried encouraging her to join mom & baby classes to meet new friends (which she now attends, but hasn't made any real friends during them), I have offered to joint local couples meetups with her to meet new friends if that would make her more comfortable, I have encouraged her to invite the few local friends she does have over for dinner or even go out with them while I watch the baby, I have offered to move to a part of the city that is even further from my parents, and I've even offered to move cities altogether to be closer to her own family (although her family does not reside in just 1 city, they split time between a few). I've also told her to voice her issues to my mom and hash out whatever the issues are, but she says my mom will see it as disrespectful and "make things even more awkward" (which may in fact be true, but in that case I've told her we would just see my mom less, which is what she wants anyway...). Each time I suggest something, I feel that it is met with resistance or some excuse as to why it won't work (for instance when I suggest moving cities, she says no because I'll "use that against her" in the future if we fight). I'm just not sure where I can take it from here. I'm sure couples counseling has to be a part of the solution in some way, but I'm not sure what they are going to be able to offer that I haven't already tried.
I guess I'm just looking for advice. My guess is my wife wants me to just straight up tell my mom she can't come over twice a week anymore (but I could see my wife having a problem even if it was just once a week), for no good reason. My mom has no idea my wife despises her, and me just randomly telling my parents they can't come over anymore for no apparent reason would cause a rift between me & them. I love my parents and they're only getting older. They're not going to live forever, and I would feel awful if I told them they just can't come to see their grandson because my wife doesn't like my mom for no particularly legitimate reason.
Thanks in advance to whoever read through this, and for whatever advice you can provide.
TLDR - I feel like I've bent over backwards to make my wife happy but she still has a major issue with my mom that I don't know how to resolve.
2024.05.21 20:11 Sweet-Count2557 The Best Barcelona Restaurants In Spain: 2023 Guide
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Often served with fish or shellfish.Moderate popularityPatatas BravasCrispy potatoes smothered in a spicy tomato sauce. Perfectly salty and full of flavor!Very high popularityCalçotsGrilled scallions are often served with romesco sauce as an appetizer or side dish.Low to moderate popularityEscalivadaRoasted peppers, eggplant, onions, garlic, and olive oil; usually served cold as a salad or tapaModerate popularity The flavors from this local cuisine reflect the culture of Catalonia - one that is passionate about its unique gastronomy yet open to sharing it with the world. Whether you're looking for something sweet like crema Catalana or savory such as Botifarra amb mongetes (sausage cooked with white beans), you can experience this rich Catalan culture through food when visiting Barcelona. By trying out some popular dishes from around the city, visitors will be able to get a real taste of what eating out in Barcelona is all about - sharing stories while connecting over amazing flavors! Top-Rated Restaurants Barcelona is home to some of the most celebrated restaurants in Spain, and visitors looking for a culinary experience won't be disappointed. From top-rated restaurants that have been awarded Michelin stars to highly-rated local establishments offering inventive cuisine, there are so many options when it comes to finding the best Barcelona restaurants. When visiting Barcelona, foodies should head directly to one of the award-winning restaurants in town. These eateries serve up an array of traditional dishes with modern touches, making them popular among locals and tourists alike. Some offer creative takes on classic Spanish fare while others focus on international flavors from around the world - all served up with exceptional hospitality. No matter what type of restaurant you choose, you can expect quality ingredients and masterful preparation at any of the city's best spots. From haute cuisine to humble bistros, Barcelona has something for everyone who appreciates great food. With such variety available, it's no wonder why this vibrant city draws diners from far and wide. From savoring exquisite Catalan specialties to sampling innovative global dishes, dining out in Barcelona promises a truly unforgettable experience. Now more than ever before, chefs across the city are pushing boundaries as they craft unique menus that draw upon both regional and international flavors – ready to be explored by curious taste buds! Vegetarian And Vegan Options Barcelona offers a wide array of vegan and vegetarian options that are sure to satisfy any palette. Whether you’re looking for an extensive plant-based diet or simply wanting something vegan-friendly, Barcelona is the place to be. The city boasts many fine restaurants dedicated to providing delicious meals without compromising on taste or nutrition. Vegetarian delights such as hummus platters, falafel sandwiches, and fresh salads are all made with locally sourced ingredients - guaranteeing only the best quality dishes. If you’d prefer something more indulgent, there are plenty of vegan desserts available too! From ice cream sundaes to churros filled with chocolate sauce, it's hard not to find something to suit your sweet tooth cravings. For those who want something beyond just great food, Barcelona provides some amazing romantic dining spots where couples can enjoy each other’s company in peace. The warm Mediterranean ambiance will add even more charm to the already delectable delicacies served here – making this experience truly unforgettable. With so much variety available for vegetarians and vegans alike – every meal in Barcelona promises to be nothing short of extraordinary. Taking a break from the hustle and bustle of everyday life has never been easier when there are so many unique culinary experiences waiting around every corner! Ready for romance? Let's explore the next section about romantic dining spots in Barcelona… Family-Friendly Venues Barcelona has plenty of family-friendly venues for a memorable, enjoyable meal. Whether your visit is for business or pleasure with the kids in tow, you’ll find several options to keep everyone happy and full! Kid-Friendly RestaurantsFamily RestaurantsPescaítoLa FondaOne Fish Two FishEl XiringuitoIpanemaCasa JuanchoYayaboCan LluisPetit ComitéEstimat These restaurants offer delicious food that can be enjoyed by all ages, making them ideal places to bring the whole family. From casual seafood spots like Pescaito, where you can get fried fish platters served up on newspaper print tables, to more upscale eateries like La Fonda which features Mediterranean cuisine in an elegant setting - there's something to suit every taste and budget. If you're looking for traditional Spanish fare then El Xiringuito offers delicious tapas dishes such as patatas bravas and croquetas. For some more international flavors head over to Ipanema - their Brazilian menu includes picanha steak and feijoada stew. With so many wonderful family-friendly eateries around Barcelona it's easy to have a great time and fill up without breaking the bank! Plus, each restaurant provides a unique atmosphere perfect for creating lasting memories with your loved ones. So why wait? Go out and explore the city together while enjoying some delectable eats at one of these fantastic family-friendly dining establishments! Street Food Scene In Barcelona As if the world was a playground, Barcelona's streets are lined with mouth-watering aromas of Spain's famous dishes. The city is renowned for its vibrant street food scene and night markets that fill up their narrow cobblestone alleyways. From paella to churros con chocolate, there’s something for all tastes in this bustling metropolis. Some of the most popular spots include La Boqueria market on Las Ramblas, where locals and tourists alike can find freshly grilled seafood, cured meats, and cheeses from across the country. El Born is also a great spot for traditional Spanish tapas such as patatas bravas or croquetas de jamon. For those who want an even more immersive culinary experience, Barcelona has no shortage of small restaurants tucked away in winding side alleys and courtyards serving authentic Catalan cuisine like pan con tomate y jamón serrano—a simple yet delicious combination of tomato rubbed onto toast topped with thinly sliced cured ham. There are also some amazing hidden gems scattered throughout the city offering international flavors like Mexican tacos or Indian curries. No matter what type of cuisine you crave, it won't be too hard to find something satisfying in Barcelona! The endless array of options available makes it easy to plan your own gastronomic tour through this beautiful Mediterranean city. Whether you're looking for quick bites while exploring during the day or late-night snacks after hitting up one of Barcelona's famed clubs, there's always something tantalizingly tasty waiting around every corner. Gastronomic Tours Barcelona's restaurants offer a wide variety of gastronomic experiences for every kind of foodie. Tourists can enjoy an array of culinary tours, tapas tours, cooking classes, and more to get the full flavor of Barcelona. Here are some unique activities that will tantalize your taste buds: Foodie Tours – Visit local markets or go on guided tastings with experts who specialize in Catalan cuisine. Tapas Tours – Sample various traditional tapas while exploring the city’s historical streets and monuments. Culinary Classes – Learn how to prepare authentic Spanish dishes from professional chefs in Barcelona's renowned kitchens. Cooking Experiences - Take a hands-on approach to learning about Catalan culture by preparing typical meals with experienced locals in their homes. These gastronomic tours provide visitors with an unforgettable opportunity to savor all that Barcelona has to offer. With its atmosphere and varied flavors, it is no wonder why this Mediterranean metropolis is one of Europe's top culinary destinations. Visitors can explore the rich history behind the region’s diverse cuisine while discovering new tastes and cultures along the way. From succulent seafood paella to sweet churros con chocolate, there are endless possibilities for creating lasting memories through these delightful dining experiences! Frequently Asked Questions Are Reservations Necessary To Dine In Barcelona Restaurants? Asking the age-old question of whether reservations are necessary to dine in Barcelona restaurants is like trying to solve a Rubik's cube. It can take some skill and finesse but, with patience and practice, the answer can be revealed! To begin with, it generally depends on what kind of restaurant you're planning on visiting. For instance, if you choose to visit a high-end establishment downtown then making a reservation may be essential; however, many smaller restaurants don't require one. In Spain specifically, most local eateries will not insist upon an advanced booking - particularly for lunchtime meals or during off-peak hours. Here are three tips that could help: Look up reviews online – they often indicate if reservations are recommended Check out the restaurant website – this should have more information about their policies Give them a call directly – speaking to staff members might give you the clearest insight into their practices Ultimately though, there’s no need to worry unduly about making bookings since Barcelona has so much delicious food and friendly service readily available! Whether it's tapas bars, seafood cafes or traditional bistros customers just walk right in and enjoy themselves without any hassle. There’s something wonderfully freeing in knowing exactly where your next meal is coming from without having to plan ahead too far in advance. If freedom and spontaneity sound appealing when exploring this vibrant city then luckily there are plenty of options out there which don't require reservations! What Is The Average Cost Per Person For A Meal In Barcelona? When it comes to dining out, one of the first questions we all have is what it will cost. When considering Barcelona restaurants, this question becomes even more pertinent. But how much does a meal in Barcelona typically set you back? The average cost per person for a meal at a restaurant in Barcelona can vary depending on the type of establishment and food chosen. Generally speaking, however, diners can expect to pay anywhere between: €15 - 20 for an economical lunch or dinner €25 - 40 for mid-range meals €50+ for fine dining experiences It's possible to enjoy delicious Catalan cuisine without breaking your budget; many eateries offer good value sets menus that include starter, main course & dessert from around €20/person. For those looking to save even more money but still eat well, there are numerous tapas bars offering small plates at relatively low prices. It's also worth noting that many establishments offer discounts during certain times such as early bird specials and happy hours where drinks may be heavily discounted or buy one get one free offer. So if you're planning a trip to Barcelona and want to experience its amazing culinary culture without spending too much money then make sure you do some research ahead of time so you know exactly what kind of deals are available before heading out into town! Are There Any Restaurants That Serve Traditional Catalan Cuisine? Are there any restaurants that serve traditional Catalan cuisine? The answer is a resounding yes! Anyone looking for an authentic taste of Catalonia's culinary heritage will find plenty of options in Barcelona. From cozy family-run eateries to Michelin-starred establishments, the city offers something for everyone seeking out unique and delicious dishes. Catalan cuisine has evolved over centuries and incorporates influences from all corners of the Mediterranean. Traditionally, it is richly seasoned with olive oil, garlic, onions, peppers, and tomatoes. Common ingredients include fish like anchovies and sardines cooked in different ways; vegetables such as aubergines roasted on charcoal or stewed in sauces; meats including pork sausages and grilled lamb; plus stews thickened with almonds or hazelnuts called 'Suquet'. All this can be accompanied by local wines from Penedès and Priorat regions. In search of these regional specialties, you'll find no shortage of charming restaurants around town offering up some of the best examples of Catalan cooking. Whether it's rustic tapas bars tucked away down cobbled alleys or chic bistros overlooking the port - each one promises you a tantalizing journey through Spain’s most celebrated gastronomic region. So why not embark on your own adventure today – savor the flavors of Catalan culture while exploring its vibrant streets? What Are The Best Places To Find Street Food In Barcelona? Finding the best street food in Barcelona is a great way to experience Spain's culture. From traditional Catalan dishes to classic Spanish flavors, there are plenty of options for anyone seeking an authentic culinary adventure. Whether you're looking for a romantic dinner or just want to try something new and exciting, Barcelona has some of the best street food around! From tapas bars and restaurants serving up delicious paellas to small carts with mouth-watering churros, there is no shortage of incredible places to eat when exploring this vibrant city. One popular option is La Boqueria - one of the oldest markets in Barcelona filled with stalls selling all kinds of tasty treats from fruits and vegetables to cured meats and cheeses. Not only does it offer a variety of local delicacies but also international cuisines like Mexican tacos and Italian pasta. When it comes to trying out Barcelona's famous street food, here's what you should look for: Catalan Street Food: Some examples include Pan Bagnat (a sandwich made with tuna), Calçotada (barbecue onion dish), and Escalivada (roasted peppers). Spanish Street Food: Popular items include Patatas Bravas (fried potatoes topped with spicy sauce), Croquetas de Jamón (ham croquettes), and Tapas de Chorizo (sliced sausage). Best Street Food in Barcelona: A few top picks are Focaccia con Tomate y Queso Manchego (focaccia bread topped with tomato & cheese), Albóndigas en Salsa Verde (meatballs cooked in green sauce) and Crema Catalana (custard dessert). These foods represent the country’s rich history and bring people together from all walks of life. Each bite offers a tantalizing mix of flavors that can be enjoyed any time, day or night. So why not take your taste buds on a journey through Spain’s streets by sampling some of its most iconic dishes? With so many unique eateries offering excellent quality fare at affordable prices, you won't be disappointed! Conclusion It is clear that Barcelona's culinary scene offers something for everyone. Whether you're looking for traditional Catalan cuisine, a romantic evening out, or just some delicious street food, reservations are not always necessary and the average cost per person seems quite reasonable. But what about the theory that there is no better place to find authentic Spanish fare than in Barcelona? After all of this research, I believe it may be true. The variety and quality of dishes available here really can't be found anywhere else in Spain. If you want to truly experience the best of Spanish cooking, then Barcelona restaurants should definitely be at the top of your list. With so many amazing options to choose from, why go anywhere else? |