Hi all!
So my fiancé and I decided to elope in January of this year. We hired a company to coordinate our elopement for us and four guests (our parents).
This is where it gets tricky- my fiancés parents have been divorced for some time and are both remarried. My fiancé advised them both of our plans and that he can only have two guests for the ceremony (since the other two will be my parents). At this point, his dad tells him to just let his mom and her husband go. My fiancé is fine with this but later gets a call back from his dad that he spoke with fiancés mom and stepdad won’t be going so he will be there and stepmom will just hang out at the hotel during the short ceremony. Great- we can all get a nice dinner afterwards and everything is set nice and easy as I hoped.
Fast forward a month to February and step dad is now coming again. No problem, we can add him to the dinner reservation but remember he will not be able to come to the ceremony due to size limits.
Fast forward to last week- MIL comes over while my fiancé is at work to tell me she won’t be coming bec stepdad is mad that he can’t go to the ceremony. I was little taken aback but told her I understand and asked if she’d told my fiancé- she says no that she wanted to tell me face to face first because she loves me and wants to make sure I know that (very sweet). I break the news to my fiancé and he is LIVID. He calls his mom very upset and we explain the dinner plans after the ceremony to stepdad- they are both on board again.
Yesterday my fiancé calls MIL to confirm her and her husband are still planning to come to dinner after to confirm our reservations. She confirms.
Today I get a call from MY mother saying that MIL called her about the dinner reservations saying she might just bring 2 of my future stepchildren instead and will be calling their mom to plan it out. Now before anyone gets upset that we didn’t invite our children- my fiancé has 5 kids and 3 of them live across the country. It didn’t feel right to only have the kids who lived with us part time there and we have had a discussion with all the kids about our plans and they are very happy for us; however, if MIL brings them then who will be watching them at the hotel, paying for their meals, paying for their outfits, etc (not to mention we are eloping on a school day) My mom told me she just thought I should know and that she didn’t want to overstep so she just reminded MIL that they can’t come to the ceremony and the place we are dining is very expensive.
I told my fiancé about this new revelation when he got home and he tried to call his mom to discuss but she ignored his call. I don’t want all these what ifs the week of my wedding and don’t really know how my fiancé and I should handle this.
*sorry if this got confusing- it’s confusing for me too and the main reason why I wanted to elope

As we know virtually nothing about Rocks, Dragon, and Imu, I will leave them as honorable mentions. 1. Gold Roger 2. Whitebeard 3. Prime Garp 4. Shanks 5. Mihawk 6. Kaido 7. Akainu 8. Blackbeard 9. Big Mom 10. Kuzan (Aokiji)
Honorable Mentions Imu-San Monkey D. Dragon Rocks D. Xebec - possibly number 1 on this list

trigger warning for: suicide and sexual assault mentioned
to start off, i’m freshly 20 so i’m technically not a teen anymore, but other subreddits no one has responded yet and i wanted to try my luck on here
i(20F) and my friend(18F) have been friends for almost two years. i consider her my best friend. she’s been on and off with this guy(18M) since before we were friends, and he’s a complete asshole to her. he’s manipulative, toxic, narcissistic, and has even done stuff to her without her consent. overall, this guy is bad news.
recently, he broke it off with her and said it was for good, and blocked her. she attempted to overdose, called me, and i drove her to the emergency room and stayed by her side the whole time. she was discharged without being sent to a mental hospital, and i would try to check up on her everyday. this got very overwhelming for me, as i have PTSD from my own suicide attempt and it’s been triggering me. i’ve been having nightmares every night, and it seems it’s triggered a mental breakdown of my own.
she keeps trying to reach him through ways he doesn’t realize she’s not blocked on, then he says something mean and blocks her. she still defends him 100%, and through conversations with her she told me she’s never planning to move on and would rather die than be with him. i’ve done my everything to support her and be there for her, i’ve thrown my mental health in the trash to be there for her(i realize it’s bad).
recently, she found out that her ex found a new girl(not even a week after her attempt) and she told me that she was going to take every pill possible in her cabinet that night when everyone went to bed. i asked her multiple times if she was joking, if it was only a thought, but she said she was one hundred percent sure she was going to attempt and die that night. i asked if she was willing to come to my house, and she agreed.
as she drove over to my house, i called 911 and had police and an ambulance come to my house to do an intervention. she went to the emergency room, i went with her, and she was sent to a mental hospital where she’s been for around a week.
her mom was upset that i called 911, and i soon found out that she had lied to her mom about what she had told me. she told her mom that i had tricked her, that she just was having thoughts and wanted to talk, but i was sending her away against her will. i quickly showed her mom the texts she had sent, proving that this was much more serious.
i was like, okay, maybe in the moment she was just scared of her mom finding out and i got thrown under the bus, i can live with that. but i found out that her friends were calling my dad and i weird for calling 911. she had asked me to update one of her friends for her, and i did, he told me that she said she wasn’t going to do anything. i clarified again, explaining i was 100% sure she would be dead if nothing was done. she also posted on reddit, saying that “she didn’t even do anything” etc.
in the hospital she said she thought everyone was overreacting and was just annoyed. meanwhile i just cried my eyes out for thirty minutes because of PTSD and stress.
to everyone else she’s making it seem like i just wanted her to be sent away and she didn’t do or say ANYTHING that warranted this to happen. either she’s lying to me, or she’s lying to everyone else.
i feel hurt and betrayed, after all this she tells me i overreacted and made me out to be the bad guy to everyone.
i plan to talk to her when she gets out about what had happened and how i feel, but im not sure what to even think about this all.

So for context -my partner and I have been dating for half a decade. Our relationship is strong and we are enjoying our time together immensely - he's the love of my life, my favourite laughing partner and just a really special human being I'm honoured to know so deeply. My MIL came accross as a strong personality but seemed delightful and embraced me at first. Over the last few years it has become suspected she has a personality disorder with her "incidents" and behaviour. My partner and I are planning on getting engaged this year and have had this timeline for a very long time. While this should be a very exciting time in my life - I am instead feeling worried, stressed, and down. This MIL is constantly bringing up the concepts of engagement, weddings, and babies at get-togethers which sure is fine but the thing is it feels like she makes an effort to leave me out of it. My partners brother is also proposing this year to his partner which have been dating a few years less than us (super happy for them). My partner also has another sibling that isn't planning on proposing anytime soon and is younger. I have a really good relationship with everyone else in the family including the father (says i'm like a daughter), the siblings, and the partners (we have become friends). My MIL is not only making the maintenance of these relationships hard, but she is making me feel like abolute crap on a consistent basis at family events with how she blatenly treats me poorly compared to others. Here's some examples:

• At family events the MIL will bring up the topic of marriage, babies, moving in, etc. talk about it happening for both other siblings and then completely disregard me and my partner. For instance recently she went on about who shes inviting to the one siblings wedding and then talked about how the other sibling (one not proposing anytime soon)'s would be and then (I kid you not) looked at me, said my partner and I's names and laughed.
• Im telling you at every.single. event. for the past 3 years from the first few months of them dating she is bringing up the other siblings future engagement and how they deserve it so much etc. Cute at first but its very very excessive at this point (and thats me underexagerating). Im talking about begging, and not letting the topic go when no one in the room is reciprocating. Not a peep has been heard about me and my partner in this half a decade of being in the family. - Would I every want it to the extent of the other sibling? no. Do i find it odd and a bit rude? Yes. especially considering the fact that she has known my partner is proposing this year.
• one day she brought down her mothers gold jewlery and was passing it to the other siblings partners and asking what type of ring she wants. Then when that sibling's partner asked me (attempting to include me in the conversation) and I showed pictures of the the ones I tried on and the MIL immediatly went quiet then interrupted and changed the conversation back to the other siblings partner. She acted like I wasn't there and afterwards the other siblings partner said they noticed too.
• when leaving a get together she went out of her way to hug every partner but me.

-When the other sibling's partners arrive an excited voice and questions about work/life are had. Meanwhile, when I arrive it’s a short embrace with very little effort/interest in my life anymore unless it has to do with something that impacts my partner like whether we are going to my house this weekend.

• After not saying a word to me in a room she calls over other siblings partners and has private conversations in the other conjoining room about non-private things.
• (this is wild that im even saying this) I noticed she covers our picture on the mantel up by either putting other siblings and their partners photos in front or a nick nack like a bible verse plaque.

Efforts I have made over the past few years that I think qualify me as a good DIL /her response:

• I have tried doing activities she enjoys with her -making an effort to let her know I care about her and her interests. - a lot out of my comfort zone.
• One of my love languages is gifts/acts of service (I don't expect it in return but I would think she would atleast treat me kindly) - I hand-made the whole family including partners sweaters (while other partners go nothing), every year I make the family yearly recap videos, I also make every family member including her birthday videos where I spend hours collecting photos, and videos from the past with their favourite music - started as something just for my partner but my FIL was so appreciative of it I thought i would do it for everyone. I do something special for her for international womens day and mothers day every year.
• I thank her in cards and have told her many times for raising very kind respectable humans.
• I ask her questions/ listen to her vents about conflicts with friends or family - (which btw she can be very negative about people).
• Myself and my partner both do the most activities with her and go out of our way to visit/help her the most. (ie. going shopping together, visiting her at work)
• I have cleaned her whole kitchen/ made food for the family on my own dime and time.
• Even when we first started dating and I was a broke university student - I would go out of my way to spend money on her and her family because i wanted to and I love them.
• When she would have mental "incidents" ie. leaving the house for a few days, calling family members really horrible names etc. I was the one who would speak sense to my partner and his siblings about how this is a mental health issue and she doesn't really mean it. - I have defended her at her worst.

Most recently:

• invited her to two outings/events things we have done together before - denied
• Asking her about life/work - not holding conversation
• Used to hug me good morning/goodbye - not anymore.
• Blatantly ignoring my prescence in the room when other siblings partners are there/not including me in conversation
• didn't respond to my mothers text and makes very little effort with my family (despite my family having them to our cottage and visiting/checking in - my dad and the FIL are friends) - meanwhile when we are in big groups she is constantly talkig about the other siblings partners parents and going out of her way to invite them to fancy dinners - buy them the most expensive bottle of wine etc. (bc she "wants to make a good impression"). - lol i guess my family wasn't important these past 5 years.

I feel as though my family is treated as less important and I myself am treated as less worthy of engagement or marriage when I have tried my hardest to just be accepted and respected by their family. I have made many efforts to show my care and loyalty to their family but the events I used to look forward to have just turned into sour reminders of how vastly different I am treated.
Some of these things above I have cried, laughed, or both about. There are many more things she has done that have hurt me these past few years of our relationship which I haven't mentioned above by myself and my partner thought were unintentional at the time and not necesary to address. She has love bombed me before which has confused me and made me think i'm over reacting to feeling like she wasn't treating me well/ doesn't like me -but most recently its gotten to the point where I am crying when I get home from every family event because of how prominent her efforts to exclude and bellttle me are.
Me and my partner have great communication and have agreed on the implementation of boundaries such as increased distance if her behaviour progresses etc. and he has offered to say something but I am scared. No matter what, I will have to attend family get to-gethers and I am marrying into this family that I really do love. I get along with the siblings partners so well it's such a shame that her presence leads to her making me feel poorly around them because of how she acts/things she says. I have also suggested she gets more mental support but right now shes attending therapy alone where I don't think she is fully honesst about her incidents/treatment of others. My partner knows she is unwell and we are both upset and tired of this being a thing. I definitely don't want to be overly embraced and put on a pedestal but I think what shes doing currently takes more effort than just acknowledging me and treating me with an ounce of the kindness she gives the others. I am scared to get engaged after her reaction to hearing we have been ring shopping and I am also more scared about the concept of a wedding or having kids as I find she has a tendency to be controlling and I don't want my future kids to see their mom being treated like this or possibly be treated the same. That of course made my partner upset and now don't know where to go from here (hence me referring to reddit) but I know a life with this is not a happy one for me or my partner and I don't deserve it but I love the family and I do love her for who she may be when shes mentally more well and her perseverence in life.

hi guys, i'm trying to find this old teddy bear i used to have. it was from my grandpa.
mid 2000s. he had burgundy/maroon/reddish purple DARK fur, he could've been maybe a foot or more long. he had a shorter body and LONG LEGS. i mean, a good 5 inches of LEG. his legs were a little skinny, as was the rest of him. i think he had a bow but i don't remember. his fur visually looked almost like crushed velvet but i don't think it was??
the closest thing i can find is a GUND Mohair Collection bear. but i haven't had luck with search terms. "vintage burgundy bear long legs" "2000s teddy bear long legs" "velvet teddy bear 90s"
i was so, so upset when Mom got rid of him without my permission/knowing. i can't stop crying. i can try to make a drawing upon request but i don't know.

Sorry, big vent incoming. Just want to get it out somewhere.
Our house got the stomach bug last week. My daughter picked it up at a local mom get together (why do you go to those if you are/were just sick??? UGH) So it was 5 days of me, my husband and my toddler girl being sick with all the gross stuff. Luckily my husband and I got over the stomach things, but the diarrhea is lingering in my toddler (to my understanding this is relatively normal, but it still makes me anxious).
I hated those 5 days. I felt like crap, I felt bad for my sweet husband who felt like even worse crap and I still feel so bad for my little baby girl who is still dealing with stuff.
And just when my gut started feeling better I picked up a sore throat which luckily wasn’t strep, doc thought it was just something viral, but that quickly turned into laryngitis and now I’ve lost my voice and my nose is starting to get stuffed and I’m worried I have a sinus infection coming on. And oh yeah I’m 20 weeks pregnant 😭 (don’t worry I’ve been in touch with my medical provider this whole time and baby isn’t in any danger, it’s just a little icing on this cake of discomfort). And I’m only three days into this nose/throat thing, and it could easily last another week.
I just hate losing more sleep than I already am due to not being able to breathe + throat pain. I hate that I can’t communicate with my daughter or my husband. I hate not being able to swallow without pain. I hate that I feel like crap.
I realize I have a LOT to be thankful for, I just want to be back to my normal so I can be a happiebetter mom and wife.
So yeah, being sick with a sick toddler is definitely top 3 least favorite part about parenthood. It might take spot number one but I’m saving that for something worse that may come along 🙃

So in the middle of the day I had a new client come in for a walk in nail trimming. She tells me her dog has been bad for his for his nails in the past and the last person that worked on him at another salon told him to go to the vet.(80 to 100 pound chocolate lab). And working in a pet supplies plus franchise that told me I couldn’t turn away nail trims I took the dog to see if we could possibly do the nail trim. It was only me(5’5)and a coworker who was about 5’3 or 5’2 in height. The dog fought hard and I clipped a couple quicks on accident. The dog fought so hard the groomers arm clamp slid off the table.(The franchise owners needed to replace the washers to keep the clamp on the table and have been told multiple times but haven’t replace them)and when I tried to hold the dog’s legs in places on the table while my other coworker was trying to put it back on the Groomer’s arm the dog jumped off the table full force with the groomers arm attached lead and I was still holding on in shock and I tried to get the dog the calm down while he was excitedly jumping all over the gate his mom looked at me with rage and told me I could’ve broken his leg. And yelled at really loud told she was gonna sue me and my manager stepped in and took care of it. I felt absolutely horrible. She took her dog to the vet immediately and he was fine just needing some quick powder. AITAH?

Hello,
I wanted to ask for some opinions on the financial situation I’m in. My mom passed away and I will be coming into an inheritance of around 80-100k and I don’t know how to best allocate the money. My partner and I would like to buy a larger house this summer for our growing family but that is a pipe dream at this point.
-I make just over 100k a year and my partner makes 60k after taxes. -I have 74k left on a vehicle loan that is financially sinking me. Partner has 38k left on their manageable vehicle loan. -We have 140k in equity in our current house. Our current mortgage is quite cheap at a 2.78% rate with 3.5 years left. -We have 17k in credit line debt. -We have 5k in student loan debt.
I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read this post. Any ideas will be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,

Hey everyone...first time poster on Reddit. I've cruised the history forums before in the past, but I've never dove too deep into what kinds of communities Reddit has to offer. I stumbled across this forum from Google while looking for step parenting advice. I had posted on a different parenting forum but was sort of ostracized when I mentioned I was in a step parent role. I haven't found many places for step parent support, so I'm glad to have found this one. My SO and I are only dating so I guess I'm not a step parent in a technical sense, but I'm on a path that could lead me there.
I'm still pretty new to all of this. I'm a male, in my early 30's. My SO is around the same age and has a son who is under the age of 10.
My SO and I have been together for close to 1.5 years. We don't live together, but we have talked about it.
The first 8 months of the relationship was pure bliss. I'm sure many here can relate to this. So much so, I was willing to jump in to dating a single mother without any hesitation. I didn't know what exactly I was getting myself in to, but I knew it wouldn't be like any of the traditional relationships I have been in prior. My SO is a very special person in my eyes and I have deep, passionate feelings for her. On the other side of that coin is what comes with a single mother. The child, the child's bio-dad, and bio-dad's family.
I'm just going to come right out and say it all. This is all starting to really wear me down. My anxiety is through the roof whenever I'm around her son and the other family that comes with him. The idea of going to watch him play sports sounds great, until I realize we're going to be sitting next to her son's dad's family. His Dad is engaged to a wonderful woman who is also very supportive and her immediate family also joins in. Plus the bio-dad's immediate family. So it's all of them, my gf, and then me. You want to talk about feeling out of place. Holy smokes. And it seems like no matter how hard I try, I cannot get comfortable. I have talked to a therapist who thought maybe more exposure could help. Maybe try putting myself in those uncomfortable situations and see if it eventually gets better. It sounded great on paper and in our sessions, but when I put it to practice it is absolutely miserable and it hasn't gotten much better.
I've gone to plenty of his games through various sports and I've gone to a couple of his school functions and each time it feels like a little more gets taken out of me. This past Saturday was kind of the boiling point for me. We had an early morning baseball game and then we were invited to bio-dad's family home for lunch. I knew deep down it probably wasn't going to be enjoyable for me but I wanted to support my SO and her son, and thought maybe it would help with the anxiety I've been experiencing. Yeah, not the case. I very much felt all alone, and miserable. I was able to converse with people and act like I was doing ok, but inside was a different picture. I literally had to sit their with bio-dad and his Mom while my SO played with her son, out in the yard. Probably the most awkward position I've ever been in. Having to watch bio-dad and my SO parent their son together was just kind of...I don't know...it was a shock and not a good one. I feel like a terrible person for not enjoying my time in this relationship. My SO is a great mom and bio-dad is a great dad. They are both very supportive of their son and have built a wonderful family unit for him to grow up and thrive in, even though mom and dad aren't together. I feel like anyone else would be enjoying this, but I just can't bring myself to be happy.
I don't know if I should wait it out and push through and see if it gets better and I can become mentally stronger. Or if I should consider removing myself from the situation. I'm still having what I've come to call "anxiety after shocks" from Saturday so I'm not in a good state of mind to make big decisions. I just wanted to come here and kind of talk about my experiences and see if anyone had any advice, or if anyone has been in this situation and was able to persevere while continuing their relationship.
Thanks

So in the middle of the day I had a new client come in for a walk in nail trimming. She tells me her dog has been bad for his for his nails in the past and the last person that worked on him at another salon told him to go to the vet.(80 to 100 pound chocolate lab). And working in a pet supplies plus franchise that told me I couldn’t turn away nail trims I took the dog to see if we could possibly do the nail trim. It was only me(5’5)and a coworker who was about 5’3 or 5’2 in height. The dog fought hard and I clipped a couple quicks on accident. The dog fought so hard the groomers arm clamp slid off the table.(The franchise owners needed to replace the washers to keep the clamp on the table and have been told multiple times but haven’t replace them)and when I tried to hold the dog’s legs in places on the table while my other coworker was trying to put it back on the Groomer’s arm the dog jumped off the table full force with the groomers arm attached lead and I was still holding on in shock and I tried to get the dog the calm down while he was excitedly jumping all over the gate his mom looked at me with rage and told me I could’ve broken his leg. And yelled at really loud told she was gonna sue me and my manager stepped in and took care of it. I felt absolutely horrible. She took her dog to the vet immediately and he was fine just needing some quick powder. AITAH?

TLDR: My sister is young and in her golden age but put on 80 lbs in the past 2 years probably pushing 210lbs. She is not great at taking advice and is a very sensitive person. My mom is constantly thinking about it and doesn’t know what to do to get her to turn her life around. Please help, how does me or my parents get her to lose weight and what would be the best way of tackling this?
So my sister is almost 19 years old and a freshman in college and has put on maybe 80 lbs in the past 2 years. She went from being one of the prettiest girls at school to being the largest in her friend group. She is very ignorant about it and just keeps eating her life away. When she goes to the doctor’s office and they weigh her she asks them to not tell her because she doesn’t want to know. This whole thing is destroying my mom and my family because if you try to talk to her about it she completely shuts down and will not talk to us for days. I have a decently in shape family which is why we are trying to get on her about losing some weight. For reference she is about 5’6” and pushing 210 so she’s pretty big. My mom will make dinner and she will eat all of her portion, then go make more food. The reason I am asking for advice is because she will not listen to my mom whom she is very close with and I am not very close with her so if I try to talk to her about it she’s just going to push me away more. My mom has come to me very upset at the fact that she doesn’t know what to do about it. My sister is now scared to be in public and goes home from college every chance she gets to be alone and most likely stress/depression eat. Seems like her whole life turned around and she lost self control.
She just got off of anti anxiety/depression medication and is now taking Ritalin 54mg which doesn’t seem to kill her appetite at all. She also vapes so I’m not sure if that affects anything.
Any advice would help. She is very sensitive and no she does not know/ will ever know about this post.

SPONGEBOB SQUAREPANTS NUMEROLOGY DECODE

Since we all know exactly who and what Spongebob is, I am going to do a Numerology decode.
When it comes to Numerology, there are many different things you can look into. I am going to look into the letters, patterns, and Numerology personality numbers.
SPONGEBOB has a personality #6. 6 is the number of compassion, work ethic, criticism, cleanliness, and productivity. In the funny show, we see that Spongebob is a workaholic. He has a 5 destiny number which shapes who you are overall. 5 is connected to youthfulness which explains the silliness of the Spongebob character. He is always laughing and doing things funny. The 5 energy indicates this. 5 also points to people, places, and things that are unique. He has an 8 soul urge which explains his undying ambition and creativity.
We can see that SPONGEBOB has 2 O's which has the numeric energy of 15 and numeric value of 6. 15 is the creative use of energy for productivity. Again, 6 is the number of routine, work ethic and productivity goes with this. This energy is not only his personality number, but also it is within his name. It's really in him.
SPONGEBOB HAS DOUBLE NUMERIC VALUES IN HIS NAME WHICH ARE, 7,6,5, AND 2. This explains why he is able to show his emotions and have moments of sensitivity(2). Very compassionate(2) but also childish and silly(5) and able to come up with plans that work(7). Since these #s has double influence, we must considered what they equal. 7 twice equals 14/5 which shows how he is responsible and can make work fun even though it is a duty(6). 6 twice equals 12/3 which shows his social skills, life, and creativity. Another youthful energy as well. 5 twice equals 10/1 which points to his bravery and capability to take action. 2 twice equals 4 which is home,family,responsibility, and structure on the home front and he would make everyone feel comfortable for the most part.
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I literally don’t know what too do with my life I have a girl friend I have a job I have a car that’s really it I live with my mom and regret it everyday love my mom to death btw I just need my own space I dropped out of high school and literally been working jobs since I got 5 years till 30 and I wanna make them count idk if I should drop everything and focus on me continuing my relationship even tho I’m not financially available for a relationship at all I love my girl but it just feels like I’ll never get to where I wanna be to do enough for her I wanna go back to school but I don’t know what would be a good idea starting a clothing brand or being a influencer but I’m really not social Idk man I just don’t wanna end up being the guy living with his mom that never enjoyed life

https://www.reddit.com/GriefSupport/comments/1bykm11/anaia/
https://www.reddit.com/GriefSupport/comments/1bxzqi4/siste
About a month ago, I posted two separate posts on this subreddit about my younger sister, Anaia, who passed away on March 17th, 2024. In one post I gave photos, and in the other I wrote about her addiction, but I don't think I've really talked about myself.
It has been nearly two months since my little sister passed away, and I wouldn't describe it as grueling or depressing, just unusual. On April 22nd, it was confirmed to my family that Anaia died as a result of fentanyl toxicity, which was the reason I always assumed but to have it confirmed was very depressing. Yesterday, I went to my grandmother's house and there were a few copies of Anaia's death certificate, in the onset interval to death section, I said minutes. When talking to my mother (me and my parents talk all the time, my dad sits in my room and plays games while we talk about Anaia or something random, and me and my mother will talk about random things as well as Anaia too.), she told me her perspective of that morning. Long story short, around 11:45AM, I woke up to my mother screaming my sister's name and she soon realized she was unresponsive, me and my father woke up soon after and I called 911, and that's the short version. I assumed my sister was in her covers sleeping and fentanyl overrid her system, but no, my mom told me that when she walked into Anaia's room, she was laid flat out on top of all of her covers, arms outstretched to the side. Learning that was a major shock to me, and I'll explain why.
Sure, Anaia's death was nearly instant. But hearing the details of what my mom said really drove him that once it happened, it didn't matter whether we went into there at the right time or later, there was likely nothing that could've been done. From my understanding, it was almost as if she was up one second and collapsed the next. There was dried vomit on clothes next to her bed, making me assume that after vomiting, she just collapsed instantly after and died. After calling 911, my mother demanded out of fear for me to help her perform CPR, and I didn't hesitate to do so. But, anyone in that situation could tell, with no details given, that there was nothing that could've been done. The typical signs of a deceased body were very present, and even I (doing the mouth resuscitation) knew that if I felt no air coming back onto me, and touching her neck didn't give a pulse, I quickly understood that this was it, like there was nothing me or my parents could've done. When the paramedics arrived at 12 exactly, it took them a minute or two for them to tell us that there was nothing to be done, and ultimately, Anaia had died long, long before we got to her. They said roughly 6-8 hours, meaning at the earliest 3am, and at the latest 5am. It's a disheartening fact for him, and even my father expressed to me too a few nights ago, but we wished that at least there was a chance for us to get to her beforehand. Maybe if he and I or my mom went into her room for no real reason in the middle of the night, we would've been able to save her. What really struck me when my dad was telling me that was him acknowledging that while he and my mom were watching TV, he couldn't bare to imagine that simultaneously Anaia was dying. I felt the same way, I was awake around 3-3:30AM, and if she died during that time, I was totally unaware scrolling through my phone.
I wish that there was something to be done. During her time alive, and when she started doing street dealt percocets, I warned her about fentanyl, and ultimately I wish she had heeded my warning and stayed off them when she did quit in December. I'm a sociable person, and I'm one of those people that have a wide different variety of groups and friends I hang out with, and I may not be in extracurricular activities but even those that are popular in my school know me. As a result of being so sociable, I know people that do drugs, and only a set few who do percocets, one of my closest friends used to be a heavy percocet user and I used to tell her as much as I did my sister to quit. My friend and my sister quit, but one returned and one didn't. One is still here, and one is not. It doesn't matter how many people I told not to do percocets, of course I would've wanted my sister to be the one to really listen to me. But ultimately, the person I wanted to save the most didn't make it. I've saved others, but with my sister, it almost made my words feel like nothing after she died. No matter however many times I told her to please find something less dangerous and more beneficial, to not risk her life, she kept using and lost her life. Said friend and two other friends of my sister (I know both of them) were also at some point active percocet users, and they told me that they felt it like it should've been them, seeing my mother made them see that that could've been their parents, their siblings, their friends and relatives, etc. I told them bluntly that it in fact could've been them in Anaia's position, I told them that just because Anaia's clock stopping running doesn't mean there's has to, they can avoid being in her position. Then it got me thinking, there's plenty of other people who overdose on purpose, who overdose 9 times, who overdose and suffer long term effects like paralyzation, but still remain. Anaia overdosed once, and that was the final time. I believe in God and Jesus but I'm not a preacher, I believe and keep it pushing but I'm not religiously based. I believe in the concept of everyone having a time and a date, but sometimes I find myself questioning that if that's the case, are we just here to live a predetermined fate that we have no control over? At the end of the day, was I meant to go through this? Thinking like that plagues my mind, but I settle for it being her time to go, as seeing other drug users made me wonder what they may be here to prove on earth that Anaia could not. I don't like questioning others' lives and why they get to live longer, that's not me, and I'm glad they've been granted more chances, it just sucks my sister wasn't granted that chance in the grand scheme of things. Predetermined or not, there was so much she could've lived for, but I believe there's a reason time can't be reversed, and there's many unexplained miracles that somehow eases me into thinking that I shouldn't throw myself into a hole of questioning why she didn't get a chance, and just accepting that her race ended earlier than mine. I believe things happen for a reason, it's an insensitive statement depending on the situation, but things happen for people to learn and grow from them, but no one really knows why. I've just had to come to the conclusion hat my sister is okay, she's safe, and I have no reason to continue to question her life and worry about her if she's not here with me anymore, you feel?
From a brother perspective, it sucks. It feels somewhat lonely, to live and breathe as an only child. I've become accustomed to being an older brother to a younger sister, but I turned 16 without her, and that's how it'll be for the rest of my life. At her visitation on March 30th, I didn't cry, but seeing her body just made me shake my head. She looked very nice, the funeral home did an amazing job, but it hit me that this was really her. There were distinct things I saw that she had in life that made me come to that conclusion that that was what was left my little sister, and at the funeral + burial the next day, watching her being lowered into the ground left my head empty. No thoughts, she watching as her casket covered in a white sheet was lowered into the ground, and that'd be it. I grew up with this person, and now I have to look down on this person and go through life without this amazing person. I never imagine something like this happening, especially not like this. I always wanted to die first because I was older, a thought I feared ever since I was a child. That didn't get to happen, and milestones man. She'll never get to graduate the year after me, never get to have that lovely relationship with that special one that she always wanted, she never got to be an aunt, a mom, nothing. One day, I hope to have children and I will tell them about Anaia, but do I wish they'd have been able to meet her if that time came. Everyday, I walk past her room, sometimes I go in there and sometimes I don't. Two weeks after her death, her mattress was taken out by me and my dad's friend, up until a few weeks ago, her room was left scattered the way it was when she died minus the mattress, and now, everything has been cleaned up. It's empty, and the emptiness is another reality check. I'll never see Anaia again, and in the potential next life I believe I will, but the fact I can't now is a hard concept to grasp. No more walking to the bus stop, no more barging into her room or vice versa, no more waiting forever for her to complete her makeup, no more random room hangouts, no more of her asking me to flash a light for her Instagram pictures for an excruciating ten minutes, none of them. Her physical presence is gone, I come home everyday and instantly the thought of her being gone hits me. Riding in the car with my parents, being at school, going out, it doesn't feel the same knowing in the back of my head she's gone, no matter how much fun I have. Regardless, I've returned to normal life, matter of fact, I started going to school every day instantly after the funeral, and during the two weeks of March 17th-March 31st, I showed up to school here and there. It didn't take a toll to do so, because I've accepted that though Anaia died, I'm still alive? I don't stop when she does, that'll have more of an effect. Life still goes on, time doesn't stop for no one no matter how much I may want it to. I honestly sit my current happiness at like a 6.5-7, higher than one may expect. I still have my parents, my friends, and all of my relatives, an important chunk is just missing but I still have my people. I only feel alone in the sibling aspect, but in reality, people make me happy everyday and still continue to. I joke how I've always joked, people have said I look much better than how I did initially, there's notable sadness on my face, but I look happier. If that's true, then I hope it stays that way. I still go out to these afterschool events, outside friend hangous, they bring joy. I just miss my sister 25/8, but I've learned to appreciate life just a little bit more now. If she's okay, I'm okay.
Lastly, I wanted to mention dreams. People say they have dreams of deceased loved ones all the time, I personally haven't yet, would like to, but until then that hasn't been the case. I'm not talking dreams with the person in them, I mean direct communication dreams. My mother has had two, my dad's friend has had one, and my close friend mentioned earlier has had one, but the one that sticks out the most is my little cousin's dream. My mom has a younger sister herself and in 2018, she had her first child, his nickname is JP. During 2021-2022, me and Anaia lived with my grandmother due to losing our apartment (our parents stayed separately at a grouphome my dad worked at, they work for my grandmother's company), and my aunt as well as JP stayed with my grandma. JP essentially became me and Anaia's little brother that we didn't have, and vice versa for him, he sees me and Anaia has his older siblings. Seeing him seem so heartbroken after Anaia died was very sad, as you can see written on this five-year-old's face that Anaia was someone who truly mattered to him and he was so sad about it. However, in his dream, Anaia came to him and told him she loved all of us, that she regretted not seeing him grow older, and that what happened to her was an accident. The part that got me was that Anaia told him that where she was was beautiful, he asked to see it, and she told him he couldn't see it yet. Kids just don't make things like that up in my opinion, and he worded it very detailed for a kindergartener, and JP is at the age where his words don't conflict with other things he's said, he's consistent with it and he tells me the same thing he told me the first time when I ask him here and then. He can see it one day, but he can't see it, not yet. What that tells me is that if life is so hard, death must be so beautiful afterwards, and that there is an afterlife. Even if I believed in a separate religion, or if my current religion isn't the truth, I will always believe in an afterlife. I refuse to believe that this world is it, and kids just don't pull stuff out their butt in a serious situation. I believe him. If that's the case, then I'll gladly wait. It doesn't matter how many people die during my lifetime, whatever remains of it, and how many new people I might meet in my life. If my hope of living to elder age and I meet someone and create a family, and even if said wife and or children die before me if that plan does happen, there's only one person I wish to greet me. I hear that people see a loved one before they die, and I hope Anaia is the one that comes to see me when it's all over. Forever, no matter who else passes before me, Anaia's will stay the worst, the most impactful, and that's a strong statement to make but I'm sure of that. I have plenty of goals I have for myself, but my end goal once the others are done is to get past 70, pass peacefully, and have my sister wait for me there. I hope that wouldn't be much to ask for.
That's it.

I tried to get the engagement ring back and I’ve been blocked everywhere….she cheated on me after a 3.5 year relationship. She didn’t show any signs of remorse and chose to end things after ’trying’ to fix things for a week back in early February. Her birthday was last week and I did my very best to not contact her and I didn’t. No gifts letters nothing.
However, I did text her mom happy Mother’s Day and she did respond. We’ve kept in touch with each other and we’ve met once to exchange things.
Last time we’ve talked I asked her for the ring and she said she couldn’t find it. I texted her maybe three weeks ago for it and didn’t respond?
Why does she not want to return the engagement ring back? It wasn’t expensive so it doesn’t have a lot of resale value…maybe 250-300 if that. I just want it for closure. And if maybe she tossed it or whatever , why won’t her mom just say that?

I got my cat Nala from my neighbor when she was 5 weeks old, she was the runt and only girl and was getting pushed off by her bother’s during feeding time so I was told I could take her since she was weaned to wet food. She was spayed at 7 months and vaccinated, she had her first seizure at 1 years old and I took her to the vet right after and her they said she was fine, I told vet I heard hissing and meowing from my cat weeks before her “first seizure” and she hid behind the couch for a while, when I told them she NEVER hisses they just said that it was probably her getting mad at my other cat but I knew it was something else. She had seizures though out her 2 year but some months she wouldn’t have any, the most she had was 3 times a month. I took her off her seizure medication because I wanted to try CBD oil for cats since I had heard it help peoples pet with seizures, we tried it and it seemed she was having less seizures and then I took her off after a few months because we couldn’t afford it and I had thought she was getting better. I woke up to my mom shouting for me saying that Nala was seizing under her bed, my mom had to lift to the bed for me to get her I had my aunt take me to the hospital vet bc she wouldn’t stop seizing, she got liver damage and brain swelling and I was just praying to god they would tell me she was stable but she wasn’t, they told me to go home and they’ll call if anything happens i even had to sign a DNR because I couldn’t put my cat though cpr even if she was not conscious, they called and said she had another seizure and it’s best we prepare to say goodbye. She was my first cat and was just purring on me the day before I just couldn’t believe it. They tested her and said felv test were negative but yet when I got the paper it says the diagnosis is felv and it caused lymphoma. RIP NALA you deserved to live more than 3 years💜💜

(My brother 18m graduated over the weekend. He also turned 18 1.5 weeks ago.) So, I 16m have autism. It was diagnosed 5 months ago, but we suspected it for a couple years. I have a hard time being social, and sometimes I have a breakdown if I am overwhelmed by it. I've learned to mask it over the years, but sometimes it's impossible to control. My brother turned 18 on May 2nd, and I wanted to get him a gift. So I sold all my expensive Pokemon cards(worth over a hundred dollars) at vintage stock for ten dollars. I've had them for my entire life, and cherish them to my core. They held a lot of memories of my past, and it was hard to give them up. But I pushed through it, wanting to make his 18th birthday special. Fast forward a week, and he's graduating. It's his graduation weekend, and I'm determined to make it special as well. I've been practicing his graduation music in band, even though I don't play anymore because of my social anxiety. Playing a trumpet kinda feels like yelling in a room where everyone else is only talking. On Saturday, we hold his graduation party. I'm woke up by my mom, and I spend the entire morning cleaning the house while being yelled at by my panicking mom. I then spend 3 hours decorating for him, all while he wanders around dwadlleing. People start showing up, and I retreat to my parents room where I proceed to babysit my dogs. The few times I did leave, they didn't stop barking until I came back. After a couple hours of sitting there, I get bored. I asked my brother if he is going to be on his vr headset. He tells me no, but says I can't play on it anyways, as he wants me to socialize. I tell him I'm going to play on my Xbox, only to be told not to. I'm kind of surprised, as it's my Xbox. There's no reason why I shouldn't be able to play. He then says I can either sit with the dogs or socialize. I'm taken a back, as he doesn't usually have the right to order me around. I shrug it off, and go back to sit with the dogs. I don't want to ruin his graduation party. I sit there for the rest of the party, only coming out to say goodbye to everyone. The next day, I'm woken up by mom again. This time though, I can tell is going to be a bad social day. But I play along, getting dressed so I can play for the graduation ceremony. Once I get to school, I try to avoid all contact with people. I mostly make it to the gymnasium, where the ceremony is being held, without losing my shit. That's when I see the seating arrangements. The entire band is shoved in a corner. Luckily though, some people didn't show up. This left a big gap, letting me sit two seats away from the people on my right, and four seats away from the people on my left. Then the principal decides he doesn't like how we look, and squishes us further into the corner and putting everyone shoulder to shoulder. I'm borderline breaking down now, but I get through the agonizing hour without breaking down completely. Eventually, we're let out. I walk over to my parents car, where my brother is standing with them. I ask if I can go home with him, because they're going shopping. Remember, I mask very well. They tell me that I'm coming shopping with them, and that my brother wants the house to himself. I tell them that I can't take going shopping right now, and I need to go home. They ignore my pleas, insisting that I'll come with them. Then they try a different tactic, saying the choice is up to my brother. He recognizes it's not fair for me, and says I can go home with him. They then try to pull every card in the book. "You used to be mean to him when you guys were home alone!" I haven't done that in over a month. The only reason I did it was because I was frustrated that my brother just got to order me around. I told them that I haven't done that in a month, but they go onto the next excuse. "It's his graduation day, it should be special" at this point, my mask is falling apart. I start raising my voice trying to convince them that I can't go with them. They then try bribing me with the offer to go to Petco so I could look at the animals, but my breakdown couldn't be fixed with that. Eventually I get in the truck, throwing my trumpet in and slamming the door behind me. Then dad, who is stubborn and petty, turns on the music at a very high volume. When we had first set out, mom told him to turn it off because it was too loud. Now she sat in silence, content with making my ride hell. I then curl up in the backseat, with my fingers in my ears. Eventually, they get out to go shopping. I stay in the car without argument, because we all know it would get worse if I was forced to go with them.When they come back, dad turns the radio on full blast again, and I go into a full meltdown. I start screaming at them to shut it off, and mom decides it's time to shut it off now. But dad, wanting to instigate me, decides to turn it back on at a slightly lower volume. Even mom recognizes this as instigating but before she can do anything about it, I open the car door. Keep In mind, we're still moving at about 30mph. I'm fully prepared to launch myself out of the car, and the only reason I don't is because I have to unbuckle my seatbelt. In that timeframe of me unbuckling myself, mom yells at me to shut the door. That snaps me out of my tantrum enough for me to shut the door. Mom then yells at dad to take her home. I yell at him to take me to the mental hospital. Both of them refuse because of how much money it takes. Once we get home, I get on my phone and calm down. Then I get on my Xbox and start playing powerwash simulator to calm me down even more. After I'm calm enough, I start playing multiplayer games. Today, mom wanted to take away all my electronics for the way I acted, saying that I was super selfish. I eventually argued my way into getting my phone back, leading to me making this. Her reasoning behind me being selfish is that I "made my brother feel guilty". She also brought up the fact that Sunday was mother's day, and that I shouldn't have acted that way because it was her day as well. Are my parents right, or should I take this situation to medical professionals?

hello everyone! for the past year, i have had major issues with reoccurring uti’s, bv, and yeast infections. i think in the last year, the longest i’ve gone without any of these issues was about 5/6 weeks. other than that, it’s been a pretty constant rotation. over the past few months, the uti’s have gotten a little less routine, but still very reoccurring. it’s the bv and the yeast that’s the main issue. i ALWAYS get them at the same time. i’ve been on antibiotic after antibiotic, and now my obgyn wants to start me on something called suppression therapy. i’ve followed this sub for quite some time, read a bunch of different tips and tricks to help treat/prevent these issues, but i’ve never seen anyone mention this before! has anyone else done suppression therapy before? does it seem safer to take one antibiotic a week for bv every week for a minimum of four to six months than to just get a new dose of antibiotics every time it comes back? pros and cons of suppression therapy? just looking to hear people’s thoughts since i haven’t seen any about this yet.