The Pitch
It is an Age of Chaos.
Good King Omund is dead, and with him died the rule of law in the land. The Duke of Bedegar is dead, his family ambushed and murdered. The Wild seeks to take back everything that once belonged to it. The remaining dukes fight to preserve what civilization is left, but they are distant and isolated. The roads are in disrepair, danger lurks around every corner.
Ajax, called Invincible, now rules here. He pits the different peoples of Vasloria against each other. Elves and men and dwarves; no one quite trusts anyone. This is Ajax’s goal. Religious institutions are outlawed, their churches left in ruin. The old orders are disbanded or subjugated, few continue their attempts to keep the peace and protect the people. The Iron Saint binds the land.
You are a recently founded band of ratcatchers, problem solvers, necessary but apart from proper society. You overwintered in the inn of the Green Dragon, a quiet place in the town of Arlone, east of Bedegar Keep. Now, with the onset of spring, you can set out again towards fortune, glory, honor, hope, or any other grand imaginings. How did you come to be here? Why can’t you go home and live a normal life? What do you want to make of yourself?
The Caelian Road goes south, the way engulfed by two wodes, a savage wilderness where Elves hunt those who enter. Monsters walk the wood. Civilized people do not go there. To the east lies the Dutchy of Faroe, a narrow pass for fools and traders flanked by high mountains teeming with serpents and warring tribes. The Overmen watch keenly from their high aeries for dissidents and outlaws. The vast sea to the west is traveled rarely, only the Overlord’s ships and the less-sane of the Vanirmen dare the dark waters. Things dwell in the deep. North is the powerful Dutchy of Dalrath, with the impenetrable Great Wode beyond. There Civilization and the Wild fight in open war, stone and steel against fangs and demon-flames.
In Bedegar, many small towns sustain themselves against the ever encroaching wilderness, old traditions and ancient pacts seeing new light in the trying times. Some people band together for safety, others stand on the shoulders of the drowned. All will be tested soon enough.
The Campaign
I'm planning to start with a sandbox style of game seeded with lots of classic, modern, and homebrew adventures. Very much D&D-ish pulp fantasy, but with a bit more narrative bits and the pulpy Savage Worlds system.
Some self direction, some encroaching events, lots of interesting roleplay, delving into the wilderness, and the freedom to get yourself into trouble. It’s up to you which fires to put out or threads to pull, and there’s no way to solve every problem or get every treasure. Players will have the opportunity to become embroiled in duchy politics, build alliances, save enemies, join guilds, and fight lots of crazy shit. Later on the threads will turn more towards a linear adventure, as I want to run The Red Hand of Doom once the PC’s have gone around and have a reputation.
Player Buy-In: The pulpy style of play where the GM just drops you in a town with a bunch of hooks and a wild land, then you have to work out your own shit out has to sound cool. Being interested in having your own goals and ambitions and working to fulfill them is always helpful, but just wanting to pull on threads also works. Likewise, wanting to engage and invest in other player's characters and NPC's is the best. Your characters should give a shit, they don’t need to be selfless paragons, but they should be connected to the local area enough to care what happens to it.
Logistics
System: Savage Worlds Adventure Edition (SWADE), with some Fantasy Companion content and a bunch of my own homebrew. Those new to the system are welcome.
Format: Mostly over Discord voice with SavageBot to handle dice/cards. Owlbear Rodeo for battlemaps.
Date/Time: Looking to have a session zero on Friday the 17th, at 7:00 PM CST. Following sessions will be weekly on Friday's at the same time. Sessions will typically be around 4 hours long. This will be a long term campaign, so regular commitment will be required.
Number of Players: Currently three have joined up, two from old campaigns and one new player, looking for probably one or two more.
Feel free to ask questions, if interested DM me with your preferred name/pronouns, your level of experience, a bit about yourself, what you like in a game, and your Discord.

My Bf (20M) and I (22F) have been together since 1.5 year, and live together. He is a living bf, not enough romantic for my taste, but thoughtful, sweet, kind, and supportive. For some context, we are in two different situations. I have my exams, and I work a lot for them. I know that I already have my semester but like my bf, I have pretty big goals and need to have the better grades possible. My bf however finished his exams 2 weeks ago, and wait for the results. He has very big goals (think that like a very selective school, a dream school) and is in law school, so more difficult than my field (human sciences). We've both pretty stressed. In top of that, I face some health problems since October, and if that didn't impact the rest of my live, our sex life is basically very slow and insufficient for the both of us. Now, the problem : my bf stopped being supportive. It's kind of a nightmare to live with him, he is always stressed, and very sensitive. Normally, is these situations, I take some work out of his plate, and make his life easier. But right now I can't, I'm too busy for that. He asks me all the time to share time with him (but refuse dates, want to stay home and watch TV), pressed me to taking time off and seems down when I revise. He is a little bit too pushy, and I feel like he didn't understand when I explained that I need time to prepare my exams. Yesterday, I asked him if he knows where was an important paper for me (we both fucked up, and if I misplaced that paper, he throw it away when cleaning). He responded in a very defensive tone, saying that I misplace my things all the time, and if this paper was so important, I would place that better, and if I followed his advices, the paper will be online. I was stunned. He spoke to me very aggressively, and I respond that I just asked, and that he doesn't need to spoke to me like a dog. He respound that his tone was okay, and that's it. Today, after an exam, I take a nap, and played near him, while watching TV. I played 3 hours, discussing with him, a pleasant time. After 3 hours of playing, he jokingly pressed the play button of my computer. He's not dumb, and anyone can understand that this can make me lost my progression. I reacted immediately, telling him to stop while he pressed two other times the button. I lost it, and tell him that he acted like an idiot, that he basically loose 3 hours of my time, and that it was not funny. He said other and other that it was just a game. We argued 5 minutes and after that, I concentrated for taking my progression again. Now, he won't talk to me, even when I pressed him for resolving the conflict, so I go to sleep. He followed me and take his pillow, and said that he is going to sleep on the couch. I'm tired. I don't recognize him. I'm stressed bc of my exams, but I m also exhausted from the situation at home. What can I do ? Break up ?

My boyfriend (S, 35 male) and I (30 female) have been dating for a year and a half, and living together for 7 months. I have been considering breaking up with him following a few conflicts over the past months. When I brought this up to him, he apologized profusely for his attitude and promised he would start seeing a therapist and would never hurt me again. Is it reasonable to give him another chance? Am I overreacting? Am I overly sensitive?
Just to for a bit of context: I am neurodivergent and have some difficulty reading between the lines. I did ask my therapist what to do… but she doesn’t give me plain answers and wants me to come to realizations by myself… Also english is a third language for me, sorry for any mistakes.
So here are the conflicts I mentioned above: 1– A few weeks ago, S invited his parents and 3 brothers, as well as my sister, to our place for dinner. After a nice meal, we all sat down to watch TV. As the evening progressed, his brothers and my sister left one by one, but his parents did not budge. I eventually realized that they were going to spend the night. No one informed me of this, nor did they ask me if I had plans or if I agreed to it. I dont’t know if this changes anything, but this is my house, and my boyfriend lives in, rent-free, as I have a higher paying job. When we went to sleep, I told S that, in the future, when his parents decided to stay over, I wanted to be told in advance. He got defensive, raised his voice and said that he felt that I was telling him to ask for my permission to invite his parents. That I didn’t want to see them. That, in his culture, family doesn’t ask. That he didn’t know they would sleep over, etc. I slept on the couch that night. The next morning, I tried to deescalate the situation. I explained to him that I did not want him to ask for permission. That this was his home too and he could invite whoever he wanted, but that I preferred to know in advance. He said not to worry, because his parents would probably never want to come over again as he felt that I was cold to them and ignored them all night by being on my phone on the couch (which is true, I was upset). However, his parents never told him this… and did come back. I asked why he would say such a thing if they never mentioned it. He explained that he knew his parents by heart and knew that they would react this way. I then accused him of emotionally manipulating and gaslighting me. He thought about this for a few hours, then agreed that he did gaslight me, albeit unknowingly, because our fight brought back insecurities from a previous relationship. I forgave him and we moved on. He promised he’d see a therapist and would never hurt me this way again.
2–S borrowed a few thousand dollars for a failing family business owned by his brothers. As 6 weeks passed by and no one mentioned reimbursing me, I proposed that each of the brothers pay me 100$ a month until the debt was paid off. He agreed and fought with his brothers multiple times, but they would repeatedly say they have no money at the time, or change the subject. In the end, S took it upon himself to pay their debt, and does so by sending me 500$ every month. Following this, S’s work computer broke, and a new one would cost between 4 and 5K. He asked if I could help out, and this made me panic, as I wondered if he was using me, which I expressed to him. He comforted me in the moment, but a few hours later, he told me that he decided to get a loan from the bank to be able to pay his family’s debt as soon as possible, so that I don’t feel used. He seemed mad and raised his voice, but he denied being angry at me. “I am only angry at myself for putting myself in a situation to be told that I use someone.” I felt bad and apologized multiple times and the conflict deescalated. We ended up making up.
3– We went to visit my family for a week. He was a bit sick and did not socialize much. He spent most of his time on his phone, in my childhood room. My mom was worried about him. My sister tried to include him into activities with little success and later told me that he was participating in family conversations only in my presence, but that as soon as I stepped out of the room, he’d pick up his phone and ignore everyone else. I did not say anything to him, as I knew he was not feeling well. However, one evening, I had planned to see some childhood friends. And my mom asked S to have dinner with the family, but he refused, and went on a car ride and to McDonalds instead. Mom proposed different food options, worried that he didn’t like the food, but he refused. This made me very angry, but I did not want to seem accusatory, so I decided to let it go for the moment, until I was calmer and had found the right words to bring this up respectfully. He drove me to meet my friends later on, and blew up in the car, yelling that he felt I was cold and that he knew I was mad and that he knew I was about to explode but couldn’t handle the wait anymore. I cried and told him that I just needed some time to deal with my feelings and I had the right not to talk to him about everything that bothered me. He yelled at me the next day as well, saying that he was “worried he would get tired of my attitude”. I later asked my sister if I seemed cold towards S to her, and she said no. S and I later talked about all this, and he apologized profusely and said that he was tired and sick and worried.
4–He asked that I do not talk to my therapist about him because he doesn’t want people talking about him and knowing his business. We had an argument about it. I told him that this felt controlling and he recognized this and apologized dozens of times, explaining that he did not know about confidentiality, and that he overreacted because this brought back past trauma. He doesn’t mind my therapist anymore.
And other such little arguments where he reacts because of past trauma. Aside from these arguments, he is the sweetest man. Makes pancakes every morning. Massage twice a week. Kind. Very loving. Very generous. Sacrifices his own wellbeing for those he loves. Wears his heart on his sleeve. He left his better paying job to spend more time with me. We do a lot of activities together. Cleans. Cooks. Listens to me. Supports me. We have similar life goals. Drives 30 minutes into town if I want ice cream. Makes my lunchbox every morning. I really love the man. Plus, he’s sooooo good looking.
I was ready to leave him after the last argument (the yelling while at my parents’)… and I told him about it. He accepted the possibility of a break up, saying he only wants to know I am happy. But he asked for one last chance. I told him that I felt as if I couldn’t speak to him because of his reactions and that it felt somewhat abusive. He said that I was right and he understood that his reactions are not healthy and that he has to deal with his trauma. And he gave me examples where he thought he could’ve acted better, which showed that he really understood where the manipulation/overreaction occurred. He promised he’d never get upset at me again for no reason and things have been perfect for the past 2 weeks.
Even when I bring up something that upsets me, he listens and adresses the issue calmly and kindly.
Yet, I feel that I have trouble forgiving all the fights we’ve had where I felt muted. I don’t know if these are such grave offenses of if I’m just being overly sensitive. I tend to be very naive and I’ve been burned badly in the past, so now… am I being overly cautious. Are these incidents really so bad if he understands what he’s done?

As the title states, I am currently dating (1.5 years) a woman who still sometimes claims to be a lesbian. She mainly does this online or when meeting new (usually lesbian) women who she wants to make friends with. Before we dated, she had been in a long term relationship with a cis man - it ended badly though. Besides this, she has also dated some women casually.
When we last discussed this, she rationalised it as a label she believed in politically and socially because it just meant “non-men loving non-men”. While I would still identify as non-binary in terms of personality, my transition goal is to be a fully passing trans man. I’ve since voiced out my frustration that she still uses “lesbian” because it makes third-parties, especially strangers, think I’m still a woman. Additionally, she still finds it hard sometimes to say boyfriend as opposed to partner (which is also fine). In my opinion, the best label that would apply might just be bisexual or queer as she does not feel attracted to cis men anymore. She did mention as well that she would rather date a trans woman over a trans man, which made me shocked.
Has anyone had experience with dating a cis woman who has struggled to accept your “maleness”? She is otherwise really supportive of my transition and has been there for me physically and emotionally. We find each other physically attractive and have a good relationship. It’s just this label that has been making me feel as if she cannot take my gender identity seriously.

Hello there! QC life is pretty new to me since moving in recently. I'm looking to meet my special person from around here to go out on walks and dates with. Here's a bit about me and who I'm looking for:
About me: - 5'7" - normal bmi, lean build - fair-skinned - introverted - homebody - living in QC (balara area)
About you: - any height is fine - around my age or younger - normal bmi, lean/petite - pref an introvert and a homebody - also residing within QC
Send me an intro and feel free to DM!

I’ve been planning for about a year now a vacation during summer with my friends. Im the organizer since we will be at my house and they will pay nothing for it, just food and plane tickets.
I also have to put a disclaimer that my house is not completely mine, I share it with my uncle, aunt and cousins. My uncle said a couple of weeks ago the date the house will be free and I informed my friends and everyone said its ok. I’ve also said last year that the vacation will probably be around the end of July/beginning of August.
Now where the problem starts. In a neighboring country, a big concert is taking place in beginning of August and one of my friends wants to go there just to make sure her friend that is going to that concert will not be alone (my friend is not going to the concert, just will go on a trip with her friend ). She wants to be way less than expected with us and wants us to go earlier than planned even though Ive said multiple times its not possible. When I try to help her find a solution for her to stay longer, she is attacking me and says she doesn’t care, and that plan is perfect for her (going to the two locations for way less money). This will be our first vacation together and she makes zero effort to rearrange her plans, even though we’ve been planning that trip for a year.
I feel kinda like a fool for trying so hard to find a perfect solution for everybody and being annoying and angry with her. So AITA?

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so we met online and we've been talking for 3 weeks now. We have things in common and there were a few things I liked about her, so I pulled the trigger and asked if we could be exclusive, even during the talking stage. This is my personal preference - I don't mind starting conversations with multiple girls at a time, but if I like someone, I want us to both put in our 100% to see what could come out of it. She misunderstood that I was asking for us to jump straight into a relationship, so I had initially kicked her to the curb, but she had come back to clarify and once that misunderstanding was cleared, she agreed to be exclusively talking to each other.
that was at the 2 week mark. So now at the 3 week mark, I ask her to meetup next weekend. She's mentioned she's a bit cautious about meeting people you've never met. In my mind I'm going "okay... well everyone you know has been a stranger at some point," but I was not a dick and instead offered a first date at a coffee shop, then maybe a walk around a park. 2 very public places, so even if I was a bad person, there's not much I could get away with. Even this, she is not comfortable with, so I'm like "okay... why don't we start with phone calls then?" thinking we'll do a stepping stone method like text voice call facetime meetup. She's not even comfortable with phone calls.
what confuses me is that she's not even comfortable with phone calls, but she's fine with texting me stuff like "I want to be daddy's [me] good girl." I want to be nice and let her get comfortable at her own pace, but we've been talking for 3 weeks now and she's still not even comfortable with a phone call. Points/questions I have now

1. Would it be a bad idea to straight up ask her, why she is like this? In an effort not trying to attack her, but trying to understand her?
2. Should I just be patient, give her more time and not press it?
3. If anyone thinks I'm being strung along (even unintentionally), is that something I bring up to her or confront her about? Would that just put her in a higher plane of manipulating so she doesn't get caught? Or would I even get any straight answers out of bring that up to her?

I swear I ALWAYS keep my phone near me or hidden cause i never want my family or people at school to know i use subliminals. Especially cause my dumbass phone literally puts the video on my lockscreen and i cant disable it 😭😭 (thanks a lot apple for screwing us over this way)
Like if i ever see my online bf in person he would probably think im cheating cause i wouldnt want to give him my phone, but NO i dont want u knowing im into this stuff especially since my gallery has pics of my df. Especially my pinterest app is OFF LIMITS 💀

I have lately been researching depression to see if that is my next best bet. One thing i have seen is how basic tasks feel like so much and take more effort to do. That is how i really feel. I've tried telling my parents that I'm tired, and they don't care. Hell if i ever even mentioned therapy to them they might think i'm delusional, or just don't need it. Until November when i can start to take driving lessons, i cannot go to any therapy. Is there any free therapy online that anyone recommends? Anything is greatly appreciated.

I have an update to this horrendous life of mine and I am unable to find out what to do at this time, as I've been left floundering.
I've been informed this afternoon that my start date has moved to an as of yet unspecified date due to a death at the facility. It was not a malicious crime that occurred, but all the same I will not be going on May 21st as previously expressed to me.
While I do understand the position that the campus is in at this time, and I would love to give them time to mourn, I must now consider how my life compares in the balance. I have 8 days until I was supposed to leave to the location, and I only have secure shelter for that long.
I live in the desert, and already this week it has reached above 95°F, and it is only getting hotter. Soon, we will be reaching triple digits consistently. The city which I am in is currently cracking down more than ever on the homeless, loiterers, and even stopping those who have the misfortune to look a misfit, as I have discovered this month already. I will not even be secure within the heat relief centers - as those are being policed as well. I must consider my safety in this matter, because now I am back to wondering where will I stay? Will I be able to eat? Will I be medically sound? How long will I have to be on the streets again?
I do believe this to be an all around horrible matter, but, as crass as it is for me to say, life has already been lost - we should make sure another does not follow. I've expressed, in the past, the precariousness of my situation to my admissions counselor. He said he would ensure that I would not go back to the street - and yet here I am, anxiously waiting for a departure that isn't several hundred miles, but instead several hundred feet.
I've tried exhausting my options with the local hotlines for those in situations such as mine, however I've been informed that on such short notice - and for such an indefinite amount of time, which I likely cannot have a job for - they cannot assist me, as I do not fit the criteria that most shelters specify.
I feel physically weak and defeated, and though it is not anyone's fault to the best of my knowledge and it is absolutely disgusting of me - I can't help but feel hate towards the consequences of events.
Feel free to chime in with advice of any sort, or commiserate, or chide me. I do not have any current friends to stay with, my boyfriend is too far for me to live with, and I've no living family within 1,000 miles. What twisted luck has rolled the dice this way?

I don’t really know what to do about these situations. Maybe I’m irrational and paranoid or I deserve to be self-advocative, I wouldn’t know, so hear me out.
There’s a Dollarama I frequently visit less than 5 minutes away from my home. I live in a semi-ghetto part of Ottawa, so I’ve occasionally seen a security guard on duty, usually the same one.
One day, I had been wandering slowly, taking pictures of items I wanted to buy later, and when I had my phone down at my side for a moment to look at chocolate, she said: “Miss, your camera is left on.” While in any other situation this would have been a helpful thing to point out, I’m uncomfortable about it because she must have been watching me like a hawk to even notice or care about that.
Even though I’m at this store often, I have felt like she’s been trailing me every time I see her. I saw her leave her post at the candy section (it is possible to view the cashiers and entrance better from there) at the exact same time I left the aisle, I saw her right on my heels as I was turning. I slowed for a moment, forcing her to slow a bit too, made a slightly obvious backward glance at her, and as I went into the next aisle she left, but later on she stood on tiptoe to peek her head at me when I was in the checkout line (which is blocked slightly by the tall minifridges) when I went to pay.
This kind of close trailing doesn’t seem to happen to any other person in the store. Only me. I’m the only person that she watches sometimes, until I make it clear I’ve noticed and she’ll walk away like I said earlier. It feels like no coincidence or “just a part of the job” to stand at the end of the aisles I alone happen to be in, or to have her walk right behind me as often as she does.
I am not the only one though, as some online reviews dated from around the same time I first encountered her also had complaints of feeling singled out and followed. This guard even tried joining a conversation with a group of girls that she was silently following. I’m too socially anxious to speak up at a person with authority to potentially use force on me, nor do I feel comfortable speaking to management, because my young appearance always earns me condescending/unhelpful responses.
The big question from me is: Am I the problem, paranoid, or am I a victim?? I know retail employees are meant to look out for suspicious traits in a person that make them likely thieves, but I would have thought me being there so often, buying at least one item every time, would have cleared suspicions on me by now. I visually look young enough to pass as a teenaged female (18 intersex, soon 19), was born with a limp, have autism, and keep my appearance passably clean. Am I naturally a suspicious individual by sight because of those traits? Do I need to further change my appearance to get this to stop?

I '35F' ended a 9 year relationship in late January. We had been in bad sorts for a few years, and I have been processing and bracing for the inevitable end for a couple years. Once we finally split I felt free, ready to explore the world and all the men out there.
On the day before the eclipse (April 7) I was bailed on by 2 separate men for dates and went on Tinder to hate swipe lol. Well, I ended up matching with my high school crush '37M'. He messaged me almost instantly and we hit it off. Save one weekend, we have met up every Saturday since and the chemistry is incredible. This guy is really cool. What's been cooler is that during our dates he would say something about how he feels - like "it's so crazy that, poof, here we are right in front of each other and it's just... so insane" or something that is in line with thoughts I've had to myself about him. To me, I get the impression we are on the same page.
We finally had a "Netflix and chill" night over the weekend. It was incredible, better than I could've imagined. It almost made it worse, my feelings just went nuts. He went kinda quiet after all the fun too. I think we both got in our heads.
Now, to my question: I like this guy. I like the light in him and what he brings out in me. The BUT on both sides are, for him, he has a lot going on. My being able to see him once a week is a miracle, the guy is spread thin. My but, I don't want a bf. I don't want the obligation of meeting family, birthdays, commitment past making the choice to spend my free time with this person and when we're together we make the most of it. BUT I also dont want to date around/have multiple partners and would prefer if he didn't either.
Is what I want possible? Is there a name for it? How can I say to this guy, "I choose you, and want to keep choosing you, and I hope you choose me, but I don't want to add anymore obligations to our plates"? This feels way more than a friends with benefits thing but I'm in no rush to make anything official. I'm just trying to enforce boundaries and my one big one is being monogamous; for those of you wondering why I didn't address it beforehand, I was absolutely convinced there wasn't going to be great bedroom chemistry. Instead it was the opposite and now I don't know how to tell him "let's keep doing this regularly but don't make me meet your mom"?
Help! Lol.
TLDR: I want to see this new guy regularly but I don't want the commitment of being an official girlfriend. How do I say that to this guy? Is there a term for this relationship, something between fwb and gf/bf??

First, I've been in a committed relationship for two years, so when I say "truly platonic friend" - I mean it. PLEASE respect that. This means that being sexual, flirty, etc is the fastest way to get blocked.
Second, I prefer speaking to people close to my age, or older, whom reside in the USA (huge time differences are a pain); that said, if you're under 30 and do not live in my country, I'm not interested. This means that messaging me to tell me that you don't mind age and/or time differences, is blatantly disregarding my wishes. Don't be that person.
Finally, I do not spend all my time online or even on my phone, so if you expect immediate responses and can't understand that I have a life and priorities, we will not mesh well. I also will not send photos until I am comfortable and choose to do so... so please don't even mention it.
If you're a mature adult whom read and understands the above, read on to learn a little about me!

• I'm originally from and currently reside in one of the Mountain Time Zone states, though once upon a time, I briefly lived in the South. I have one nearly grown kid with whom I am wicked close, as well as a bunch of pets (I love animals)! As I said, I'm in a relationship, and I'm completely devoted to my significant other. I'm currently a full-time nanny, but as the family will soon be moving out-of-state, I'll be looking for a new job this summer; I'm not sure if I want to continue nannying or do something else, but I absolutely must and want to work.
  
• I don't have much free time, but the time I do have, I try to spend doing things I enjoy: spending time with my loved ones, taking long walks/little hikes, listening to my favorite comedy podcasts, taking care of my home, and watching Netflix. I also enjoy reading, but lack the attention and focus 99% of the time. Music and singing are a daily necessity for me! Road trips and driving aimlessly are almost as beneficial to my psyche as is being in nature.
  
• I have a fairly sarcastic, sometimes dark, and occasionally crude sense of humor... so not much offends me. I will not discuss politics or religion, as people tend to get ugly in those conversations, but also, they just don't interest me.
  

The bottom line: I just want to get to know someone and become friends, and hopefully it becomes a lifelong thing, 'cause I hate wasting what little time I have, on flaky, fake, and/or shitty people. My chat is open, so feel free to reach out if you actually took the time to read this and think we'll get along!

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I'm trying to use Zapier (free plan) to get a database in Notion to stay synced with a Google sheets document which fetches information on my own played games from the chess.com public API (JSON) on an hourly basis. The intention is to always have a pretty much up to date database of my games to run stats and visualisations from within the Notion workspace.
I've been able to set up the Gsheets document just fine, but whenever it fetches from the API and repopulates the information, the zap is entering everything into notion as new rows, resulting in duplicates of the game entries which have already been zapped over. This is undoubtedly a problem with my Zap. Does anyone know how to prevent this within the options given in the free Zapier plan?

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I’ve posted here many times to varying degrees of success but I am here once again to try my luck in finding a partner. My expectations are low, but I would love to meet and get to know someone over the course of a few months online to see if we’re compatible or not. I’m not looking for something low effort or short term, but something that is genuine and meaningful.
With that being said I guess I should say some things about myself to get the ball rolling.
If I had to boil down my entire existence into just a few words, I would say that I’m a shy introvert who also happens to be really passionate nerd about the things I enjoy. I also think it’s accurate to say that I’m understanding, kind, sweet, sensitive, passionate, considerate, empathetic, and maybe even funny depending on your sense of humor. Basically, I’m just an awkward nerdy guy but honestly who isn’t online.
Despite being very awkward generally I happen to think that I’m an excellent conversationalist, whether it’s through texting, voice calls, or in person. I usually put in a lot of effort when talking to folks and I’m hoping for the same in return if you decide to message me.
While I wouldn’t say that it’s a strict requirement, I would strongly prefer talking to someone who has similar interests. It’s not an automatic dealbreaker but I just find it much easier to build a connection with someone online when there are some shared interests. Personally, I adore video games, anime, comic books, horror, Star Wars, collecting, baseball, history, pro-wrestling, cats and a wide variety of music, movies, and tv shows. If I had to pick just one I would say that gaming is my biggest passion.
As for what I’m doing with my life; I recently graduated from college with a double major in political science and communication studies. I also have an associates degree in history and plan on getting a master’s degree one day. However, as of right now I still have no idea what career I want and I’m currently in the process of looking for a job. My lifestyle isn’t too crazy but I don’t drink, smoke, or do drugs. I’m also not into the idea of partying or casual sex. Politically I am very left-leaning/progressive and I don’t follow any religions but I’d say my beliefs fall under agnostic or atheist.
Possible dealbreakers
• I am a massive cat person so please be ok with cats.
• I don’t think I’m ugly but I am fat just so you’re aware. Absolutely willing to exchange pics ASAP.
• I have some history of diagnosed depression and anxiety but I’ve gotten much better in recent years.
About You
• I have a strong preference towards gamers but it’s not a requirement. I just think it makes the whole online dating thing easier if you can play video games
• Please be at least 21 or 22 years old. I’m fine with talking to older folks.
• Similar values and beliefs as me.
• Somewhat mentally and emotionally stable.
• Willing to hang out often online
• Be from the USA or Canada.
• Actually puts in the effort to get to know me.
• Any race or body type is fine. I am not super picky when it comes to looks but attraction is still important for me.
• Trans folks are welcome to message me.
That’s all for now folks. Feel free to send me a message introducing yourself! Take care!

I’ve posted here many times to varying degrees of success but I am here once again to try my luck in finding a partner. My expectations are low, but I would love to meet and get to know someone over the course of a few months online to see if we’re compatible or not. I’m not looking for something low effort or short term, but something that is genuine and meaningful.
With that being said I guess I should say some things about myself to get the ball rolling.
If I had to boil down my entire existence into just a few words, I would say that I’m a shy introvert who also happens to be really passionate nerd about the things I enjoy. I also think it’s accurate to say that I’m understanding, kind, sweet, sensitive, passionate, considerate, empathetic, and maybe even funny depending on your sense of humor. Basically, I’m just an awkward nerdy guy but honestly who isn’t online.
Despite being very awkward generally I happen to think that I’m an excellent conversationalist, whether it’s through texting, voice calls, or in person. I usually put in a lot of effort when talking to folks and I’m hoping for the same in return if you decide to message me.
While I wouldn’t say that it’s a strict requirement, I would strongly prefer talking to someone who has similar interests. It’s not an automatic dealbreaker but I just find it much easier to build a connection with someone online when there are some shared interests. Personally, I adore video games, anime, comic books, horror, Star Wars, collecting, baseball, history, pro-wrestling, cats and a wide variety of music, movies, and tv shows. If I had to pick just one I would say that gaming is my biggest passion.
As for what I’m doing with my life; I recently graduated from college with a double major in political science and communication studies. I also have an associates degree in history and plan on getting a master’s degree one day. However, as of right now I still have no idea what career I want and I’m currently in the process of looking for a job. My lifestyle isn’t too crazy but I don’t drink, smoke, or do drugs. I’m also not into the idea of partying or casual sex. Politically I am very left-leaning/progressive and I don’t follow any religions but I’d say my beliefs fall under agnostic or atheist.
Possible dealbreakers
• I am a massive cat person so please be ok with cats.
• I don’t think I’m ugly but I am fat just so you’re aware. Absolutely willing to exchange pics ASAP.
• I have some history of diagnosed depression and anxiety but I’ve gotten much better in recent years.
About You
• I have a strong preference towards gamers but it’s not a requirement. I just think it makes the whole online dating thing easier if you can play video games
• Please be at least 21 or 22 years old. I’m fine with talking to older folks.
• Similar values and beliefs as me.
• Somewhat mentally and emotionally stable.
• Willing to hang out often online
• Be from the USA or Canada.
• Actually puts in the effort to get to know me.
• Any race or body type is fine. I am not super picky when it comes to looks but attraction is still important for me.
• Trans folks are welcome to message me.
That’s all for now folks. Feel free to send me a message introducing yourself! Take care!

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