Militray girlfriend quotes

Hi guys. Firstly, burner account for obvious reasons. Secondly I want some.... outside perspective on this.
So I (31F) have been dating my boyfriend John (37M) for close to a year. John has a really great job but has a pet project living his dream of putting a music project together. You would never know he has no formal experience but he has a great ear and he found a really great musician to start off. A beautiful talented young woman by the name of Tammy (25F), whom John has no interest in romantically because, well... he is with me and is happy with me.
Now Tammy is bisexual and it's no secret she has a crush on me. Always hugging me, wanting to put her arm around me to take selfies with me, always complimenting me. I am not uncomfortable with it and neither is John because he feels it's just harmless affection between between two new besties.
One day I ask to speak to her in private and I tell her that John has this weird thing about wanting to lick my armpits during sex (I don't mind, just I never had a partner doing... that before and it actually feels good) and I asked her if she ever had a partner focus on it. She says no, but asks if I can raise my arms up. I do, and she says "I can see why John likes to lick them, even your armpits are gorgeous." She always makes a point to gush on me. Sorry for the TMI, btw.
When me and John got in the car later that day I tell him what I talked to Tammy about. He said, and I quote, "We all know her lesbian crush on you. I know you say you're hetero, but if you ever want to scratch that lesbian itch I am giving you a hall pass.... a lesbian hall pass where I will not consider it cheating as long as it's with another girl." I tell him thanks but it will never be used, and that's the end of it....
....Fast forward to a month later and John is out of town for a work thing. Tammy invites me out to go clubbing with her, and I accept. We go and have a great time, dancing, then she suddenly leans in and kisses me! At first I was taken aback, but then I remember the hall pass and decide to kiss her back. Well let's just say that we couldn't wait to get back to her place and just lay into each other.... she also got why my BF liked my armpits. It was my very first time doing anything with a woman and although I enjoyed the experience, I think I would rather be with my guy.
When John got back the next day, I couldn't hold back and told him I used the lesbian hall pass. He asked, "Who was the lucky lady?" When I tell him it was Tammy, he got quiet, then said "Of all the women you had to pick Tammy?" I told him he didn't say she was off limits or anything so why not? He told me, "What you did was like clicking the unsubscribe link in a spam email. It doesn't do what you think it does. By having sex with her, she is likely going to think she has a shot of being with you as her girlfriend." I tell him that's silly, she knows I am with you.
A couple of days later she comes to my house and tells me that she really likes me and that night confirmed her feelings for me. I tell her that our night together was a one-time only show and I am with John not to mention I am not really into women (Alcohol was involved). She burst into tears, left in a hurry and John said she called him and asked to take a break from the pet project. My friends that I told are saying I am the asshole not for using the hallpass but for deciding to use it on John's partner knowing her crush. But AITAH if John didn't tell me up from the start not to use it on her?

So, my brother is in an emotionally abusive relationship. I texted him this past weekend about a text his girlfriend sent to my mom (it was extremely disturbing and out of line) it was a mature message. She went through his phone and read the message (which he didn’t answer) then she physically threatened me to my brother who then told my dad. I then sent him a text message about how if she physically threatens me again I’ll escalate it legally and that physically threatening someone isn’t okay (I sent 4 texts in the span of 48 hours, he didn’t answer, but she went through his phone and read them). I decided to block his number because I’m conflicted with the situation and I said my part (conflict gives me anxiety). I then removed him and his girlfriend from my social media, so they could no longer view anything I post. I then received a dm from his girlfriend saying “if you don’t leave blank and I alone, I will be having you charged for harassment :)” that is a direct quote. 1. I’ve never texted her… I don’t have her number. 2. I’ve met her in person 1 time for maybe 5 minutes like months ago. 3. I asked for her number in the text to my brother prior to discuss what she was saying to and about my mother and sent the text about her physically threatening me (I’ve said her name 2 times over text and actually in my entire life). So, is her use of threatening to press charges a use of intimidation (illegally) to prevent communication between my brother and I (obviously abusive and controlling). Could she try to press charges for harassment and what would a legal office even think of that? (Also, yes I did say that I would legally escalate it if I she physically threatened me, but I feel as if that’s different than her making a baseless threat.)

So, my brother is in an emotionally abusive relationship. I texted him this past weekend about a text his girlfriend sent to my mom (it was extremely disturbing and out of line) it was a mature message. She went through his phone and read the message (which he didn’t answer) then she physically threatened me to my brother who then told my dad. I then sent him a text message about how if she physically threatens me again I’ll escalate it legally and that physically threatening someone isn’t okay (I sent 4 texts in the span of 48 hours, he didn’t answer, but she went through his phone and read them). I decided to block his number because I’m conflicted with the situation and I said my part (conflict gives me anxiety). I then removed him and his girlfriend from my social media, so they could no longer view anything I post. I then received a dm from his girlfriend saying “if you don’t leave blank and I alone, I will be having you charged for harassment :)” that is a direct quote. 1. I’ve never texted her… I don’t have her number. 2. I’ve met her in person 1 time for maybe 5 minutes like months ago. 3. I asked for her number in the text to my brother prior to discuss what she was saying to and about my mother and sent the text about her physically threatening me (I’ve said her name 2 times over text and actually in my entire life). So, is her use of threatening to press charges a use of intimidation (illegally) to prevent communication between my brother and I (obviously abusive and controlling). Could she try to press charges for harassment?

I (26M) caught my girlfriend (23F) in a web-of-lies.
I'm extremely devasted and my mind is clouded as I write this, but I have caught my girlfriend (23F), with which we have been dating for 6 years in a web-of-lies 3 Times in our dating period.
She has left me in my lowest point.
In the beginning of our releationship I caught her deleting a messages on her Iphone. I then confronted her and she told me that she deleted those messages because I would get the wrong impression of them and would end the releationship. She told me that she was scared to lose me, as I'm jealous of other males, which in fact is true, but I think my feelings were right all along.
I forgot the content of the message.
I let it slide, since we were in the beginning of our releationship (Maybe 1-2 years into it) and I also wasn't faithful at that time. I have even shared this with her at some points of the releationship, as I'm honest. The thing is that she said that she loves me so much that she would never do such a thing to me.
Slowly - I let my guard down, as she was with me during very hard moments in my life, where she could have easily left. As I let my guard down - I started adoring her and the thought of other girls started to dissappear.
She was extremely sweet, innocent and loving. No matter what I did - she was always there for me to support me and was always on my side.
I started focusing more on work, we were seeing each other everyday and everything was flourishing, but I never stopped being envious when she came with me at a disco/bar with friends or where there were other males.
I always felt as she had an eye out for some of them and always felt like I didn't satisfy her completely, as she had previously made remarks about our sexual encounters, which were above regular.
I slowly started to trust her more, as she continiously gained my trust by her action. Meanwhile I was 100% focused on my businesses and success.
She was working in a kid's playground and selling cakes. I was always there and supporting her.
As my success progressed - we started to go out on world trips on the most beautiful places and fell deeply in love (or so I thought)
4 years had passed by. She was still good an innocent (or so I thought).
On the 4th year - I made a project that made me life-changing money. I took her in Dubai with my whole family and spent a fortune to please them. Unfortunately - she was not happy there, I felt like she didn't support me at that moment. She didn't care what I did, she didn't care about my success. She tells me 'This is your success, not mine' 'This is your money, not mine' I told her I want to buy a house for us and she said 'This will be your house'
I then fell into an emotional pit, because everything I do is to support my family and create one wit her.
I got extremely mad, this feeling didn't fade away. I wanted to end it with her, because she didn't acknowledge anything.
The summer was approaching, we got into a fight over something (I Think I caught her again) - We separated for a month, she started crying and was working the whole month. - I went on a vacation with friends, where I cheated on her (Only kissing) and started approaching other girls. But while doing all this - My girlfriend never left my mind, I was extremely sad that I ended it with her.
I opened up her Instagram Account and saw on her story how she is on vacation with two good girls from her work and one baby (She was lonely by the looks of it and extremely sad)
I got back from the vacation and started working things out with her, I took her on a vaction, we had a bonding there, but something didn't feel right... She seemed sad.
I started gambling on crypto futures... I lost 20% of my networth... I got extremely mad.
We went back in our country and then I took her on another trip. I bought her everything she wanted, I took her everywhere she wanted, I did everything to please her. My focus at that time was entirely on her.
She wanted to go in the casino - we went. I lost money, but gave her, since she wanted to stack an amount for a nose operation.
(Not because the nose was broken or something, but because she wanted to look better)
Business started getting bad, my income vanished.....
I started trading more in order to get back to my previous amounts...
I lost it almost all.. I had 1 reserve fund which was locked and I waited a couple of months to take the funds out. She was there with me even when I lost.
She finished her operation.
I got the reserve fund. I started trading, I made half the amount back. She wanted me to buy her a car - I did. I bought a land as well, on which I wanted to start building our house.
After all that - I lost all my funds again...
She had been constantly in a fight with her parents and wanted to move out.
I had one small income left - with all the funds I had, I rented an apartment for 6 months.
During those 6 months - I focused on working, but was losing due to my gambling habbit.
She got a new job. She started going out with friends. Sexual intercourse decreased by a lot.
I told her that I don't like her going out till 6 AM in the morning. This just isn't right with me, so I got suspicious.
I hacked her laptop... she saw a notification and rushed to the house... I was able to see a lot of things, but it appears - she was deleting evidence, so I asked her to give her phone. - She gave it to me.
Unfortunately - I knew how to see deleted messages on an Iphone. I saw only one message, the content was:
'Don't message me anywhere again.'
I got filled with rage and we had a fight. She was fighting with me to get her phone back. I gave it and told her I want to end it.
As he was a famous greek singer - I was able to analyze when he had concerts and saw that on those dates - she had been visitng those concerts...
3 Days later - we talked and worked it out.... I was madly in love with her at this point. She told me that she arranges stages for him. (It's related to her new job)
My gambling habits were in full force. I lost a lot of money and couldn't afford a rent of a high-cost, so I told her - Let's move out to my mother's place and in the next 1 year I will make sure that I succeed again. (My mother isn't living inside the house, but my brother is)
She agreed roughly. So we moved and I started working, but unfortunately - The money I felt I was making was not enough, not nearly enough to buy an aparatament or build our house. She was acting kind, innocent.
I went out on a birthday party and my friend created a circumstance, where I would sleep with a girl next to me. I knew she really liked me and hooked up. We were going to have intercourse, but as I did anything - my girlfriend was on my mind and I couldn't bring myself to do anything other than kisses... I just couldn't.
She started going out with friends again. She was going nightclubbing with them, but assurred me - she was doing it for her own fun.
She was meanwhile stacking money to get a boob-job done. - She did it, made her boobs bigger. She assurred me that she was doing it for her own fun.
6 months have passed. - I stopped gambling, but she told me that she doesn't like my house, doesn't like that I'm living with my brother and she doesn't see a future with me.
She told me she would leave and go in her cousin's apartament, but he doesn't want me there.
I told her that I want to break up with her, because she doesn't want to be with me at my lowest point. I told her that she probably wants to leave the house to go out nightclubbing and find someone better than me. She felt offended (Or so It seemed), but I think that was the truth. She told me that she wants to have kids with me, she loves me, etc.
The next day: She goes out of city without telling me anything about her location. At night: she goes in a nightclub with her friends + other males.
I ask her in 2 AM - 'Where are you right now'? She comes in and out of 'Online' status. and at 4 AM I notice a follower increase on her Instagram, she follows him back - I send her a video and ask who the f is that? She responds 'What do you want', 'This is an old friend', 'Stop being envious'
I get extremely angry and stop responding. The next day I check the live photos of the nightclub and pray to god to give me a sign that I'm not delusional and exactly the next photo - She is on the same table, with the same guy, with her friends and other males. She told me she was sleeping.
1 Day passes - she starts messaging me and sending me photos with the quote 'Let's promise we will never leave each other and fix everything when things go wrong.' 2 Day passes - she starts messaging me, so I show her that I don't want to talk with her. 3 Day passes - no one messages. 4th day she messages me: "Are we breaking up?" and I told her "Do you think I want to be with someone, who constantly lies to me, goes out nightclubbing and adds some r*tards in Instagram?" She told me - "First of all - I'm not lying about anyhing" Then I ask her - "Why have you added this person in 4 AM in the morning"? She replies: "I have had him for some time now, he is an old friend" I told her that I monitor her followers and know if he is old or new" I told her that she looks like trash in my eyes at this point and she got angry She told me she isn't obligated to tell me anything and she hasn't added him in 4 AM, she will not be repeating her self.
I ask her: - Can you tell me where were you at that time (The night that this happened) ? She tells me: - Like every night - at home. I sent her a photo of the live nightclub photo where she is with him, her friends and other male friends. I tell her 'I hope this is gives you an answer for everything' 'My girlfriend died a long time ago' She starts sending laughing emojis and says: "It's good, right?" "You killed her more likely and made her what she is today" I tell her "It's possible" She responds "As you can see - he is with his girlfriend, DON'T THINK WRONG THINGS OF ME" I told her: "Don't explain yourself" "This was my last question." She is now telling: "This is a driver of... and some time ago my friend hooked up with him, this is from where I added him, I haven't added him now" I told her: "I don't think anything of you." She responds "The last two years you have not thought of me anyway" WHICH IS NOT TRUE. I tell her "I wish you all the best, I hope you find what you are looking for" She responds "Me too, be happy" I respond "I have only one question left" "When did my girl die?" She reponds "You can always contact me if you need any help" I respond: "Thank you, but I don't think of searching for contacting you anymore" She asks: "Which is your girl?" I respond "The good girl that loved me and was always with me or was this just a product of my imagination? Be honest" She said: "Whatever you feel like" I respond "Okay, good night" Then I forward the message "You can always contact me for help" and I say: "I really loved you and will miss you" She reponds: "I will never stop loving you. There is no way to stop loving a person with which you have been in a releationship for 6 years" "Good night, I will not upset myself anymore" I ask her "Why would you do this to me?" She ask "What did I do to you?" I told her "It's pointless to say, I have a lot more information that on the photo" She says "We were in this town for a doctor checkup, after that we went to a nightclub and accidentially met them (The person and his male friends)" I ask her "Will you stop with the lying?" She says "I'm telling you" I respond "Good night"
Now my question is:
I'm a sucker for her love. Maybe I'm just in love with the old her. I have never loved any girl as much as I love her. I feel absolutely terrible. Maybe part of this was my fault. Maybe it was my fault that she became like this..
What do I do from here? I don't think I will ever love a person this way.. I wanted her to carry my children and raise a family with her.

Girlfriend's 4 TB drive failed (soft buzzing or ticking sound) literally 20 minutes before she left to catch a flight overseas, so a well meaning family member took it to a "local specialist" for diagnostics, which of course was just a shill for securedatarecovery.com. They won the family member over with the "no risk, free" diagnosis and it was shipped to their lab (my girlfriend obviously signed the paperwork remotely, but wasn't in a position to do her due diligence).
When she returned, she read about Secure Data's shady practices, but it was too late. In the interim, they sent her the following diagnosis:
Failure Types: - Errors : Slow Read - Reallocation Errors - Errors : Read Errors - Mechanical : Failed Read/Write Heads
Make: Western Digital Model: WD40EDAZ-11SLVB0
Device Capacity: 4000 GB
After realizing that Secure Data Recovery engages in bait and switch tactics (naturally, her quote was on the higher end of what they promised), she wanted to get the drive back and work with a more reputable company instead. But she is also afraid that Secure Data will sabotage the drive (as per other posts on this subreddit), so she gave them the whole "not in a financial position currently to pay and would like the drive back until I save up enough to use your services in the future" spiel.
They countered that they would be willing to go as low as $1000 + $88 for a 1 tb drive (the salesperson failed to notice that she submitted a 4 TB drive!) + $38 shipping on the condition that she submit favorable reviews (BBB and Google), including a video testimonial PRIOR to them shipping her data back.
She has many concerns, including their requirement to pre-authorize the $1000 (they claim they won't charge her until the job is complete, but what if they suddenly come up with new reasons why the data is unrecoverable?), how does she even verify that the recovery was successful, how does she prevent more extortion, etc?
They also haven't given her a time frame, stating that it "will be worked on during off-peak hours in order to allow for this adjustment".
She is unsure how to respond. She really just wants the drive back because this job shouldn't cost more than 1k (assuming that it is a matter of replacing the heads via a donor drive) and she no longer trusts them, but is still afraid of what they might do to her drive if she declines.
Edit: the initial quote was 2,000 for 5-7 weeks or 4k for a faster option. So she was able to bargain them down to 1000, but that's only if she agrees to some questionable terms

I am now older (43f) and wiser and far more subtle in my petty revenge ...but, at this time? I was younger (21) angry, petty, spurred on my an equally petty friend (22f then), and he deserved it.
I had a get together for Halloween with a few friends. It was the usual early 20s social situation with drinks, cards and tequila shots. (I know... I know.)
A guy I had previously had a fling with (truly nothing serious--he was just tall, cute as all hell and had adorable dimples but our personalities didn't mesh) was invited as a friend. No big deal.
Card game turned into Texas Hold Em and bizarre dares after you were out of poker chips. My "ex" was losing BADLY. What started as us daring him to strip somehow escalated to him running outside, nude and in 2 feet of snow, to the pond behind the apartment buildings to acquire a cup of water... and then escalated to him going, in VERY sloppy drag, to the grocery store to buy an eggplant, lube, and condoms.
Now... this is all ridiculous already. (Tequila is a bad decision, kids!) A truly memorable but insane night that can ONLY be survived or created in your early 20s.
My friend (who spurred me on) and him began flirting and things escalated a bit between them. There were photos of him in drag taken, and photos of him with my friend as well.
They made plans to see a movie a couple days later after a few calls...
He never showed up and then ghosted her.
Could we have blown it off and moved on?
Absolutely.
Did we?
Hell freaking no.
We did a bit of online stalking and found out he not only HAD A GIRLFRIEND but was LIVING with her! (Where do these people find the time for this... and how do you NOT ask questions when your man doesn't come home?!)
We hatched a plan.
We took the photos and printed them... of him in drag flirting with my friend, nude with the cup, and doing lap dances on guys in drag.
We sent them, 1 by 1 in an order telling a story... every other day... by mail... to his girlfriend.
Did we stop there?
HELL NO.
We signed him up for drag clothing catalogs and sex toys created especially for gay men. We sent him about $200 worth of the most bizarre "eggplant" items we could find including straws, a hat that sort of resembled a penis shaped Pope hat, etc.
After 2 weeks of those packages... that we made sure would be delivered when HE was gone and SHE was home (but addressed to him and, in quotes, his goofy name from that night) we did 1 more thing...
20 lbs of the most powder fine glitter we could find in a glitter bomb.
She dumped him within a month... and he's a cheater to this day in his relationships.
The lesson?
Don't cheat... and don't piss off 2 petty women at the same time.

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Partners and their characters must be AT LEAST 23 and no older than 38
Your character is a well known celebrity! This could include a hockey player, race car driver, senator, musician, other athletes, movie star, etc. Lately he has been all over the media and not for the right reason. He’s been out partying, getting caught doing drugs, with a new woman every night, and / or getting into fights. The press has been laying into him with each new circumstance and it’s starting to affect his career, badly. And what’s the best way to make everyone think he’s not a huge playboy? Get a serious girlfriend that makes it look like he’s calmed down just for her. She’s the one that keeps him out of trouble.
Bad part is, he doesn’t have that, but he does have money and with an app made for sugar babies he might be able to find the right girl to get his reputation back in line with.
OR
Our characters are both celebrities and needing a boost in publicity somehow. Their managers come together to make them into some super cute power couple. The only issue is that the two of them cannot stand each other when they’re not in front of the cameras or out in public. Even then that’s a hard time for them to get along.
Hey there! I’m female and 26 years old. I’m looking for someone to roleplay this plot (or the others on my profile) with me! This will be safe for work and done via discord. You MUST be able to write in third person. I would like at least one good paragraph to two paragraphs per reply and someone that can reply daily. I get that people get busy, but please don’t leave me hanging. I love drama and romance in my stories while also making friends out of character. I like to send tons of references ranging from pictures to quotes to Tiktoks. Please send a message or chat with your age, writing sample, and any ideas you have or what your character will be like!

I f22 and my bf m27 were in a relationship for a year and a half. He moved into my apartment with me after a couple of months so we could save so we had been living with each other for the majority of the relationship. A few months ago, I recently bought a house and me and him moved into it. Things have been really difficult since buying the house. Before I bought the house, I had gotten a promotion at a new building that was closer to where we lived. Starting this new position, I had no experience whatsoever and really have been struggling with it. I have been having a hard time with a lot of things that have been happening in my life and have been struggling with a lot of depression and anxiety, which I have recently started taking medication for.
After getting the promotion, I was moved to a different shift and he was working for a different company. Due to the promotion, I did not have any control over what shift I would be working, so I suggested that he come work at the same place as me so we could be on the same schedule. After making the suggestion he applied and got accepted for the new building. Starting off, things were pretty OK, but after a while, things started going downhill. Due to my depression and the extreme amount of stress that I was placed under due to my new job, I wasn’t interested in leaving my house or doing activities that he liked doing which put strain on our relationship. We also had a great deal of debt and money issues that also contributed to the strain.
Onto the issue that caused the break up:
At break time we always eat lunch together so when I sat down, I checked my phone and messages. At work me ,him and a bunch of other coworkers were a part of a group chat and in the group chat he posted two pictures of himself replying to the group chat. At work, we have safety policies and one of those policies is to not be on our phones while driving machinery or while being on the floor because people can die, kinda like texting and driving . At work, phones can only be used in the break rooms or in other designated areas. If caught the end result is always termination.
Because of my position at work and him being my boyfriend, I have had multiple conversations with him about this because I did not want anything to happen and even one of our previous coworkers got fired for this exact reason as well. So when I found out what he did, I confronted him and when I did, he acted nonchalant about the entire thing and acted like it was no big deal. He said and I quote no one cares. I do not care. I will find another job. I was really upset by the way he acted and what he said, and I sat there in the break room for 30 minutes debating on what to do.
At my job if we see something unsafe, we report it especially when everyone knows the rules and deliberately chooses not to follow them. And this wouldn’t have been the first time that he did something, and didn’t care about it after I had coached him about it. Previous times when I would have to coach him, it was always met with an eye roll and no respect and I would have to go to my superior to ask them to coach him properly because he would not listen.
In the end, I decided to report to my superior which resulted in him losing his job and Me having a breakdown at work and having to talk to a counselor for over an hour. After this, he was dead silent and would not talk to me and the one day when I went to work and he did not, he moved some of his stuff out and moved back in with his mom without any discussion.
Now we are currently talking and hanging out and have discussed everything that has happened and he admits that he did something wrong and that he would not have cared if someone else had reported him, but because it was me and because I was his girlfriend I wasn’t supposed to report him.
He says that he forgives me, but does not accept what happened. he says that I broke his trust and can’t trust me and he kinda wants to get back together but everyone else is telling him not to bc of what happened. He blames me for the entire thing.
I still love him and I still see a future with him and want a future with him and I don’t know what to do to fix it. I have decided to take a leave of absence from my job due to all the stress and I am actively seeking out a therapist to help me with how I have been feeling. I have apologized for how things turned out and I did not want to report him, but I did. I don’t know what to do now. Any advice?

My kids father doesn’t respect himself, let alone his kids. A year and a half ago, him and his girlfriend got into a really bad argument, to the point where my kids literally called me and told me they didn’t feel safe. So me being the mother I am, I drove to his house late at night to come get them. He tried to convince me that “it’s normal for ppl to fight and argue,” but what he’s leaving out is she put her hands on him on more than one occasion and my kids have been a witness to it. They told me that he came downstairs that same night with blood on his head because she had hit him in the head with something. My kids, ages 13 and 9(twins) at the time, were scared and they told me they didn’t feel safe with his girlfriend in the house. Now he has always been a cheater. He’s never been good at relationships his entire life. His girlfriend found out that he was cheating, so she decided to burst his windows out of his car while my kids were in the back seat. They were TERRIFIED! And to this day, she still has access to my kids through him. My kids don’t like it, but because they love their dad so much they tolerate her. He thinks I’m making all of this up because I’m “bitter” and “angry” so he doesn’t care about how I feel in the matter, he only care about himself and having access to the kids. I feel as though him allowing her to have access to them shows that he doesn’t respect them and their feelings in the matter. I feel like he is being very selfish and only thinking about how he feels. Am I wrong for keeping the kids away from him until he gets rid of his girlfriend? Or should I just let it go, and let the courts deal with it?
UPDATE! He came over to my house and we all had a talk together as a family. He insisted that the kids never said they didn’t like his girlfriend or that they were afraid of her. He thought that was all coming from me because I’m mad and bitter towards him. The kids really let him have it. They told him everything they told me, expressed their feelings openly, and told him that they would prefer if she doesn’t come around anymore. He and I share joint custody of them and he has unlimited parenting time, so legally I can’t keep the kids from him. I talked to my attorney and she said that I have to go down to the friend of court in downtown Detroit to file a new parenting time motion and allow the courts to handle it from there. We live in Michigan. I apologize for not letting y’all know that before. Anyway, he agreed to never bring her around again and that he will quote “Keep her separate from them.” I still think it’s bullshit, because why would you continue to see her after learning about how your kids feel about her? But, that’s not my business. As long as she doesn’t come around them or communicate with them, I’m perfectly fine. I’m still gonna go downtown to file a new parenting time motion so we don’t run into anymore problems like this in the future. I appreciate all the feedback, whether if it was negative or positive. I definitely learned from this situation. Now if he continues to bring her around them after us having that family discussion, then that’s when I will take it to the next level and file a restraining order. Yes, I have texts and proof to get one, but I legally have to do this the right way or I could be held in contempt of court. That’ll just make it worse. My kids are fine, and they said they feel better now that their feelings are out in the open. Again, thank you all.

Please bear in mind that this topic will contain some very disturbing topics such as child abuse:
We learned last week that Steve Albini, the record producer and musician who is most known for producing Nirvana's "In Utero" and Pixies "Surfer Rosa" died last weekend of a suspected heart attack at the age of 61.
Tributes poured in and were forthcoming. Dave Grohl even dedicated a performance of My Hero to him.
Now, what Steve Albini actually was is being well and truly emphasized. He was:
A friend of Peter Soros, who wrote graphic stories about the sexual abuse and torture of children from the perspective of the abuser and referred to child abuse as a "sublime pleasure". Sotos was the first person convicted of producing child sexual abuse from a zine he created in the 80's.
Albini supported and advertised this zine, stood by Sotos and called him his friend up until his death. Sotos, sadly, is still alive.
Interested in child abuse himself. Albini admitted he had consumed Sotos' abhorrent material and gleefully described enjoying a toddler's pain after she'd been raped by an adult. He stated this excited him and also that children sodomizing each other with bottles was absolutely normal and something he got off on.
Albini produced an album Sotos made which had quote from the parents of child victims of sexual abuse or murder which Sotos admitted he hoped would taunt the parents, also.
His first band's name was Rapeman and he happily took part in the pile on on Courtney Love after Kurt died and was widely known as racist, homophobic and extremely misognyistic.
He tried to backtrack in later life stating that he was trying to be an "edgelord" and didn't mean any of it and was ashamed yet he never denounced Sotos and stated he would do anything for him.
Grohl dedicated My Hero to him at a gig the other night.
What is happening online?
Albini is being praised to the heavens as a genius and Courtney is taking flack for "insulting" him a few years ago. He called her "Kurt's psycho hose beast of a wife" and she responded with:
‘The only way Steve Albini would think I was a perfect girlfriend, would be if I was from the East Coast, played the cello, had small hoop earrings, wore black turtlenecks, had all matching luggage, and never said a word.'”
As Jawny talking about raping and killing Amber Heard was "guy humour", her calling him an old man was the route of all evil and Albini, the man who gleefully talked about abusing small children, was a "legend", Courtney is the root of all evil because she inferred he's a misogynist.
Yeah...

I just can’t help but feel I’ve victimised myself, exaggerating the severity so I can get sympathy from other people. I’ve had mental health issues before and my partner would always say I’ve had these issues longer than he’s been in my life. I want to list some things he has done so I can get some perspective, but I’ll explain why I doubt myself as well.
He would get insanely angry and abusive but it was mostly after I pushed him too far in an argument. He would ask to stop the argument and I would force him to keep going. I did this because he always asked to stop right away, every time, and I got sick of him never being able to have the conversation. But I also just wanted to carry on for some self-destructive reason. I would push him beyond what he could emotionally handle.. and he did try to warn me.
- He “strangled” me - the reason I put this in quotes is because he didn’t squeeze very hard or significantly impede my breathing. He did this about three times for extended periods (10 seconds roughly) but did it countless times for a second or two, or a threatening gesture, just as an intimidation thing. The reason I doubt whether this counts is because he didn’t cause me to actually suffocate. It just hurt a bit because he has strong hands. I feel like it’s my fault because I let him strangle me during sex, and maybe he got a bit confused. One time he was as angry and strangled me while calling me a bitch repeatedly, but he said he was “trying to be sexy”.
- He threatened to kill me - did this so many times, to the point that it happened about 15-20 times in a two week period.. that’s more than once a day. I felt he wasn’t really being serious, he would just use this as a tactic to get me to stop talking and obey him. I told the police about this and they took it really seriously, but I feel so bad because I know in the back of my mind that he was just trying to scare me, but probably wouldn’t actually do it. Again, I feel it’s my fault because I would push him too far in arguments. There was one time where he threatened to kill me while brandishing a knife, and barricading me inside a bathroom. He was belligerently drunk at the time, and he did it to try and frighten me into giving him back another knife I was hiding from him.
- He threatened to kill himself - he assured me he’d never actually follow through on this and to ignore him if he ever says it. But then he repeatedly said it. Recently he said he’d kill me and then himself, because there’s no point anymore since he’s already in trouble with the police. But it’s so hard to describe; his tone is SO not serious; I can tell he’s just trying to get attention and sympathy. I feel bad for taking it so seriously and getting him in real trouble with the law when he’s probably just talking shit.
- He threatened to cut my eyes out - this was while pinning me down, while holding a nifty new pocket knife he’d brought back from a recent trip. He really loves knives and survival gadgets and was happy about how good his new knife was. He delivered this threat like this “does it scare you when I hold you down like this, knowing I could just cut your eyeballs out if I wanted to?” but said it with such a happy, relaxed demeanour that I doubt it even happened. When I cried he said it was a joke and told me not to take those kind of things seriously. I sincerely doubt it was that serious.
- He threatened to shoot my kneecaps with a gun because I was scared of him getting his gun license - this was while we were driving in the car. I think this one was serious but I didn’t worry too much because he won’t be able to get a gun license in the country we live in. Thank god we don’t live in the states or I would probably be dead. But he said this because I doubted him and apparently I deserved it because I “didn’t trust him”.
- He locked me in a bathroom - shoved me inside and barricaded me in. This was for about 30 seconds. I was really afraid but maybe I'm just being dramatic?
- Bit me, slapped my ass, squeezed or shoved me slightly too hard - it was always a bit too painful but I felt I was too sensitive or overreactive. He would laugh at me or berate me for being so sensitive or flinching. I did experience violence in my childhood so I have a tendency to flinch, and I’m also a very sensitive person; sensitive to loud sounds, bright lights etc. He thinks I am autistic, and I think he might be right.
- He would scream derogatory things at me at the top of his lungs - I recall him towering over me as I’m laying on the bed, in foetal position, having a panic attack and kind of having a seizure, unable to move.. and he was screaming “you’re a pathetic loser! You’re a stupid bitch! You’re clinically retarded!” etc that sort of thing. It was because he had yelled at someone unfairly that day and I called him out about it. He said I undermined him. My job as his girlfriend was to be quiet and support him. He would yell at me like this a few times a week. It was so intense that his face would go bright red and he would be spitting everywhere.
- He spat on me - he did tell me one time that he hates me, and hoiked up a huge wad of spit, and then spat on my legs.
- He broke things, smashed things, threw my stuff away, punched walls, etc. - one time I was wearing a jumper that was given as a gift by a dear friend. He took it off me and said “this makes you look fat” and threw it in the trash bag right in front of me. He did this in a sexy, seductive way so I didn’t realise at first.
- He cheated on me, was mean and critical, called me names; bitch, slag, slug; kept me awake at night, general mean and demeaning comments a lot of the time, drove dangerously with me in the car, drove drunk with me in the car, abused alcohol and drugs, etc
The reason I doubt all these things is because his demeanour would often be so nice and sweet, even while saying he was going to kill me. It was so confusing … he was so nice and harmless-sounding that I doubted it was even happening. Sometimes he’d get really scary when he was yelling, but most of the time he’d be really nice. He’d take care of me, cook for me, give me money, buy me expensive gifts, proudly show me as his girlfriend, introduce me to people to help me get jobs/network, dedicate work projects to me, learn songs on the guitar that I loved, etc.. lots of lovely things.
Then he’d cry to me about how much he was struggling and he’d say I am so selfish, I only think about myself, and I make his life so much harder. I am so confused.
Why don’t I think this stuff is real??

I dont believe women enjoy sex, or think about sex, and mostly I kind of just view women as asexual beings. This is because of the things they say. "not with you" is just some troll stuff because I never had sex so women wouldnt know what sex with me is even like. This isnt sexist because I dont see women as inferior, I just dont think women are sexual beings. Its very different, and women are probably outpacing men in things like education because they dont desire sex. Ive become 100% more productive once i was prescribed meds that made me never horny.
The number one reason I feel this way though is womens intentional and collective effort to make sure men feel ashamed for even desiring women. "what? huh huh what?" is troll shit and disingenuous, you know exactly what im talking about, women even make communities just to hate men who dont get laid. like lets get real. They make communities just to shit on men who desire sex. I think women get particular pleasure from knowing they're the gatekeepers of sex, and that men desire them, and they "dont give it up" or whatever, which is why they whine and whine about "Entitled men". Theyre keeping something from these men, they tell themselves, and it gives them a rush. Its like having clout, its like "yeah im the shit, oh you want this? nah you dont get it! haha" subconsciously, which inflates the ego and induces a particular kind of narcissism and they circle jerk each other with dopamine hits. I wouldnt want any of these reddit women anyway because their personalities are atrocious. But im sure theyll claim this is all "creepy" or some nonsense instead of objectively looking at what im saying which is accurate and they know it is.
Female communities on reddit are inherently authoritarian, theyd put the NKVD and Gestapo to shame with the ideological ANTI sex and anti men rhetoric. Anti sex? yep. They hate sex. Unironically go to askwomennocensor, https://np.reddit.com/AskWomenNoCensocomments/1axhyw4/comment/krout1y/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button they claimed "if we allow men to participate freely it just turns into men wanting to know why they dont get sex!"
its a "we dont like sex" AT THE LEAST they definitely do not desire sex as much as men. This is a FACT that we need to face.
Male communities would never complain about women coming in to fuck them.
WOMEN complain about their guy friends trying to fuck them, MEN NEVER complain about their female friends wanting some dick. Women complain about their own husbands trying to have sex. np.reddit.com/TwoXChromosomes/s/loog567neX two Xchromosomes top posts are ALL about hating men lol and it has 14 million subscribers. Not everything on there is bad, the post about telling guys girlfriends about them cheating is cool ig. but anyway.... (this link was deleted conveniently as women hate when you reveal they hate sex, but the link was to a post where a woman complained her husband "desires her" yeah....)
Prostitutes are mostly female, BECAUSE women dont want sex, its in demand only FOR MEN! Even the few male prostitutes are for men.
this is in our face constantly, im tired of the disingenuous women in communities like this who pretend otherwise. And when confronted with this give VAGUE platitudes like "well some women maybe do and some women dont" this is NEVER a thing men have to say, MEN know they like sex.
https://np.reddit.com/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1cn70x2/this_probably_is_not_the_place_to_share_this_but/
To quote, ""To act like I feel your cock doing anything to me to be frank. Lots of women don’t even feel anything when a dick is inside them. It feels like a warm tampon just moving in and out lmao. It’s so frustrating to have to act like a porn star."
This is what sex is for most women.
Women constantly complain about the orgasm gap, because they arent sexual beings. Orgasms arent required for women to get pregnant and thats why they dont orgasm, the few orgasms they maybe get are accidental by nature and evolution. The clitoris isnt even part of the vagina, saying "clitoris stimulation" makes a woman orgasm is like saying picking your itchy nose makes you orgasm.

How can I get a girlfriend with only 1 Arkham quote (I will not be happy to drop my pants)

Today’s late installment of our Benedict focused rewatch is brought to you by wine. Lateness brought to you by Mother’s Day festivities for all of you American darlings. Also, side note, my Italian grandmother (Nonna, if you will) was over today and I introduced her to Bridgerton by watching the version dubbed over in Italian, which she loved. I might eventually watch the whole series in Italian to brush up on the language.
Anyhoot. Onto our regularly scheduled programming. “An Unthinkable Fate” finds the Bridgertons conflicted over Anthony’s choice of bride, especially after tensions run high at dinner with the Sheffields. Elsewhere, Eloise decides to engage with a new crowd, and Benedict starts art school. With that in mind, let’s get into it.
We first find Benedict soaking up his surroundings in his new art school. He looks elated as he first steps into class, maybe even more so as he catches Tessa’s eye. Later, he stretches languidly as Anthony insists everything at Bridgerton House is perfect in case they must entertain. He jokes with Anthony, asking if they must also he polished and braided, before adorably poking his brother in the cheek. It’s such a breath of fresh air to see him so happy in this episode. When Eloise tells Violet she is taking a class on flower arranging, Benedict is poking his face close to hers, lowering his voice to tease her about when she became so interested in such things. It’s moments like this that I wonder if their relationship will be more strained in season 3, with Eloise’s new interest in society, but perhaps Benedict will have more of an interest too?
Back at the Royal Academy, Benedict has rolled up his sleeves and taken notice in Tessa, who informs him that she poses for the Academy so she may learn from the lectures. He looks so good in this scene, as he shows yet again that he doesn’t discriminate based on anything, including gender, declaring he doesn’t doubt Tessa’s artistic ability. When she asks him to give posing a try, he strikes an overzealous position, before Tessa adjusts his gaze, in one of the best Benedict scenes ever. He then strips down at her insistence, because he is all for equality, and it’s such a great scene. He’s just so cute.
There’s a lot happening in this episode, so Benedict moments are fleeting. HOWEVER we are rewarded for our patience with a quick but HOT moment between Benedict and Tessa where we get to see his backside. What I’ll say regarding this quick love scene is I feel like people really blow the whole “Benedict is a sl*t” narrative entirely out of proportion. I’ve rewatched this series slowly, and, yes, he does have a threesome, but he continues to see Genevieve after that until she tells him she won’t see him anymore. Then he remains solo until Tessa comes around. It’s really nothing more than what any average person does at that age, tbh. I can only speak for myself and those I know, but I did not marry the first man I kissed, nor would I expect the man I marry to have remained abstinent. Anthony had a long winded affair with Siena, then almost married Edwina. I’m not really sure why people (most notably on the main sub) make Benedict out to be a huge rake. Even if he does go on to date Lady Tilley, having a few girlfriends over the span of three years really isn’t the huge sin some people make it out to be IMO. He’s more likely to know real love when it comes along I rather think.
Sadly, that concludes today’s rewatch. Tomorrow we dive into “The Choice,” which I will warn y’all now, is one of my least favorite episodes of the entire series. I’m not an enormous fan of episodes that exist in short pans of time as I find they drag, which this episode did for me. But, it does include one of my favorite Sassy Benedict moments, so I’ll forgive it. See everyone then!
Best Benedict quote from this episode: ”Another? Mm. You’re over counting.”

Hi, I’ve been reading through some old posts after this forum came up when I googled “mother in law wants to suck my baby’s toes”. I’m kind of in disbelief that this is what I’m here googling in the middle of the night but here we are.
For context: my first baby was born 13 weeks ago. I lost a tonne of blood during an emergency c-section and was very close to developing sepsis. OH is an only child, so this is his parents’ first grandchild. My mum has dementia sadly and so hasn’t been able to be with me as I’d like, and as my relationship with MiL previously has been good, I was really happy to have her involved.
Things started to turn when she announced her and FiL had rented a house opposite us for 8 weeks around my due date (further context we have been staying in her holiday home whilst waiting for completion on our own place the last 6 months). I was in shock tbh but thought perhaps they just wanted to help out. I sent a gentle message to her to say how grateful we were that they wanted to help, but to flag that once baby was here we would need time alone with her etc. MiL said she agreed and just wanted to be on hand.
When I was in labour and transferred to hospital she came to get our dog. Great. First day back from hospital, in extreme pain and not having slept for 5 days, she turned up at 9.30pm to deliver the dog back saying she couldn’t sleep because he flaps his ears. This was very frightening and stressful and not the way we planned to introduce him to the baby. I feel it put us all at risk (he’s fine with her now, was just terrified and stressed that night).
OH delivered dog back next morning. Mil and FiL decide to come round later that day with the dog for a visit, she immediately puts her feet up asks me to get her a cup of tea and demands the baby (saying how much she looks like OH, not me). I am trying to keep dog under control and make tea, when she starts saying OH’s ex girlfriend’s mother would be an extended grandma to our baby (ex is not in my life and he barely sees her. We’ve been together 7 years). The entire time she was here she kept undermining what I’d been through - “oh you’ll be driving again in a week” etc.
Naturally I’m hugely upset after this visit, my blood pressure goes scary high and I’m almost readmitted to hospital. OH says no more visits that week, my brother and SiL come at the weekend to check us out and give some support (he’s a GP). Said no more stress or I’d be back in hospital.
Mil manages to tame her behaviour a bit after this and is much more respectful for the few weeks they were still around.
Anyway, fast forward to now and she has started spontaneously turning up to stay in “her house” as she has “things to do”… she constantly pushes at my boundaries around showing up with a cold sore, head cold, etc and although she accepts no holding, she makes it clear it’s because she doesn’t want to “set me off”. She constantly talks about wanting to suck my baby’s toes, she shoved her face into her stomach when I was changing her and grabbed her out of my arms/lap twice (second time I was very direct and said “give her back now”). She constantly says we should be feeding her solid foods and whenever we’re eating she says to our 12 week old daughter “want a bit of this?”. She constantly disagrees with medical guidance we quote to back up our choices and is behaving as if I’m mentally unwell as the reason she grudgingly doesn’t kiss her when she eg has an active cold sore (but insists on touching her hair / feet - I was unable to speak up when she did it, I was alone with her and hadn’t slept for 2 days when this happened).
She has told OH that I’m not taking care of myself properly and it’ll affect our baby’s wellbeing (she’s exclusively breastfed).
I get standing up to her when she breaks a boundary but what do I do when she teases around them? I said eg “no one is going to be sucking anyone’s toes around here” and she replied it was just a sweet joke (it was not). When I have handed baby to her she says things like “let’s get that silly mummy out of the way shall we” and walks off.. she says she’s joking if I raise it and makes out that it’s my anxiety?! It’s much worse when just her and I as she behaves herself better when OH is around.
We’re moving out of her holiday home soon, so won’t have to deal with unwelcome extended stays, but she makes me want to crawl out of my skin when she says those gross things to my beautiful precious baby and I’m not sure how to stand up to her to make it stop each time we see her in future.
HAAALP

My [24F] boyfriend [26M] cheated on me with hookers on his friend’s bachelor trip. I found out a month later, right after the wedding. I’m in therapy but have not recovered psychologically months later. It affects my quality of life every day.
On the bachelor trip three other men cheated on their girlfriends (call them Moe, Larry, and Curly). I have proof that Moe and Larry definitely cheated. My boyfriend told me that Curly “picked” a hooker and backed out at the last minute and also alleges the groom didn’t cheat. Like with everything nowadays, I’m taking anything he’s said with a grain of salt in the absence of proof. However, one thing I do know is that Moe’s girlfriend is now pregnant by Moe.
I am not close with the girlfriends of Moe, Larry, and Curly but did get to know them at the wedding and exchanged instagrams, numbers, photos etc. Most of them went on the bachelorette trip (I was just a wedding guest). Along with the bride, this group has casually invited me out which I’ve found excuses to decline. Keeping their friendship is not a priority though they seem really great.
Despite the daily insecurity, anxiety, and paranoia I feel, I am glad I found out about my boyfriend. I think this is materially important information to have about your partner and it has informed my choices today. For these reasons, I want to tell these girls about their cheating boyfriends and share the proof with them and what my bf said about Curly.
My therapist thinks I should not disclose this as it’s not my place. Some (female if relevant) friends think I shouldn’t because, to quote unfaithful pig J Cole, “what’s done in the dark will always find a way to shine.” I assume that if I tell one girl, the rest will find out. Although it may instill doubt in the relationships including between bride and groom, I also feel that the men are at fault for any doubt instilled if they haven’t already let their partners know, half a year later, what happened.
This is something I have prayed and thought about every day for over half a year. I feel like I have to come to them “as a woman” and already failed that duty by not speaking up sooner. But I also know how painful it is to learn of your life partner’s infidelity and the ensuing doubt. I also wonder if I want this for the right reasons - is this vengeance? Is this to selfishly relieve my burden? What does that say about me, to me? I feel like I will let my fellow woman down by not disclosing what I know. I have a lot of shame about this and don’t know what to do. Reddit generally leans towards disclosure but in this case I’d like some other perspectives especially considering the pregnancy part and that we’re not close.
Is there anything I am not considering? Any advice is appreciated. Thank you for reading.

Throwaway my [24F] boyfriend [26M] cheated on me with hookers on his friend’s bachelor trip. I found out a month later, right after the wedding. I’m in therapy but have not recovered psychologically months later. It affects my quality of life every day.
On the bachelor trip three other men cheated on their girlfriends (call them Moe, Larry, and Curly). I have proof that Moe and Larry definitely cheated. My boyfriend told me that Curly “picked” a hooker and backed out at the last minute and also alleges the groom didn’t cheat. Like with everything nowadays, I’m taking anything he’s said with a grain of salt in the absence of proof. However, one thing I do know is that Moe’s girlfriend is now pregnant by Moe.
I am not close with the girlfriends of Moe, Larry, and Curly but did get to know them at the wedding and exchanged instagrams, numbers, photos etc. Most of them went on the bachelorette trip (I was just a wedding guest). Along with the bride, this group has casually invited me out which I’ve found excuses to decline. Keeping their friendship is not a priority though they seem really great.
Despite the daily insecurity, anxiety, and paranoia I feel, I am glad I found out about my boyfriend. I think this is materially important information to have about your partner and it has informed my choices today. For these reasons, I want to tell these girls about their cheating boyfriends and share the proof with them and what my bf said about Curly.
My therapist thinks I should not disclose this as it’s not my place. Some (female if relevant) friends think I shouldn’t because, to quote unfaithful pig J Cole, “what’s done in the dark will always find a way to shine.” I assume that if I tell one girl, the rest will find out. Although it may instill doubt in the relationships including between bride and groom, I also feel that the men are at fault for any doubt instilled if they haven’t already let their partners know, half a year later, what happened.
This is something I have prayed and thought about every day for over half a year. I feel like I have to come to them “as a woman” and already failed that duty by not speaking up sooner. But I also know how painful it is to learn of your life partner’s infidelity and the ensuing doubt. I also wonder if I want this for the right reasons - is this vengeance? Is this to selfishly relieve my burden? What does that say about me, to me? I feel like I will let my fellow woman down by not disclosing what I know. I have a lot of shame about this and don’t know what to do. Reddit generally leans towards disclosure but in this case I’d like some other perspectives especially considering the pregnancy part and that we’re not close.
Any and all advice is appreciated. Thank you for reading.

I've been quite obsessed with the Andes story because of its extremely complex human elements and I've been reading a lot about it and listening to a lot of interviews with the survivors. So of course I had to show the SOTS movie to my best friend, she liked it and even borrowed my book Alive and read it, and when she gave it back to me, she commented "that Canessa guy is a real asshole though", and I was like "shut up, he's one of my favourite human beings ever!" LOL
But thinking about it, if someone only saw the movie(s) and/or read Alive, I understand why Roberto comes across as a not so pleasant guy, so I decided I'll write a post of appreciation here in case anyone doesn't know what great things he has done in his life.
But let me start with two quotes about him from two of his fellow survivors, the first one of from Nando Parrado, who said this in a video interview a few months ago when the movie was released and they asked him what Roberto meant to him:
"I put him on the highest pedestal anyone can get to as a person, as a man, as a friend. And if there is a difficult situation on this planet, I want Roberto by my side."
And Bobby Francois said about him in the book Society of the Snow:
"Roberto Canessa is an extraordinary person. If we thought he had given so much on the mountain, how much he has given down here after we returned!" - and also: "Roberto just gives and gives. But he doesn’t talk about his gestures. And I’m sure that he wouldn’t like it if I were to bring up his generosity."
So some points to support that Roberto is awesome:

• I guess everyone here knows what an important person he was during those 72 days in the Andes, so I won't go into details here. Yes, he was grumpy, stubborn, hot-headed and volatile, but as a 19-year-old student, he suddenly found himself in the role of "chief doctor" in an airplane disaster, several of his own close friends and team-mates died and they were in a hopeless situation. He did the best he could to treat the injured and keep the uninjured ones as healthy as possible. He designed and made various inventions (like the hammocks) and of course he was one of the expeditioners, and one of the two people who walked out of the mountains.
  
• After returning to Montevideo, he immediately continued his studies as a medical student, and he became a very successful and well-respected doctor, who won several medical awards. He's been one of the leading pediatric cardiologists in Uruguay in the last decades. He treats babies and children with heart defects and it's much more than a job to him, he often goes out of his way to make sure they get the best treatment and he is extremely caring, the children and their parents love him and he is often in close contact with his former patients even when they are adults.
  
• He was basically Nando Parrado's biggest emotional support after they came back from the Andes. Nando was very lost at this time because for him, the real struggle and grieving started after the rescue; on the mountain, he could kind of block his emotions and concentrate on getting out but when he arrived home, he had to face the fact that his mother and sister were no longer there, as well as some of his best friends who also died in the crash. What's more, his father had started seeing another woman by the time of the rescue so Nando got home to half of his family gone and another woman already "replacing" his dead mother. He moved out of the family home and rented an apartment alone. Roberto made sure Nando didn't sink into depression, he spent a lot of time with him, invited him over a lot to his house and he was considered a family member even at Roberto's girlfriend's house. Nando spent the Christmas of 1973 with Roberto's family instead of his own. Roberto also vehemently defended Nando when the journalists were criticizing him for his lifestyle after the tragedy.
  
• He has been extremely caring about everyone involved in the Andes accident ever since the crash happened. And by everyone I don't just mean the other survivors, but also the families of those who didn't return. It was very important to him that the dead be treated with respect and he insisted that they should talk to every parent one-by-one about how they survived in the mountains (eating the dead), explaining that there was no other way and how their dead sons contributed to their survival, but of course the journalists came and they treated the matter with no respect at all.
  
• He kept in close touch with the families of the dead for many years after the accident, helping them in various ways. He was particularly concerned about the well-being of the four children of the team doctor Dr. Nicola and his wife, both of whom died immediately in the crash. Roberto helped the orphans financially, supported their education and built a close relationship with them over the years.
  
• Roberto has a huge house ("it's a labyrinth" according to Carlitos) and he invites all kinds of people all the time, often people who he doesn't even know well, but they are in need of help for some reason. He has often welcomed homeless people to his house and gives them accommodation in his own house for several months and helps them to turn their life around.
  
• After the book Alive came out in 1973, all the survivors got money from the sales. But later in 1974, Roberto and Nando were asked to promote the book in various countries through interviews etc, and they got much more money. They gave much of that money to the families involved in the crash and they also donated a lot of it to good causes like building new schools in poorer areas.
  
• Carlos Roque, the staff member of the plane who survived the initial crash (and later died in the avalanche) went to Roberto for comfort several times and cried on his shoulders and told him that he had a 1,5-year old little boy and how devastated he is that he may never see him again. Roberto often thought about this in the following years, and when Roque's son turned 18 years old, he wanted to know more about his father's story and he called Roberto. Roberto spoke to Bobby Francois who had a big ranch, and then he invited Roque's son to this ranch for a few days where he, Roberto and Bobby talked a lot about what happened in the Andes and the son was very grateful for this experience. They keep in touch ever since.
  
• He kept close contact with Sergio Catalan until the arriero's death and visited him almost every year for many years (often with Nando or Gustavo). They also helped Sergio when he needed a hip replacement surgery.
  
• Several years ago Bobby Francois had a massive heart attack. Roberto was very concerned about him and, as a cardiologist, made sure he got the best possible treatment, followed up on Bobby's condition closely for days, "didn't even sleep until I was out of danger" according to Bobby himself.
  
• He is a devoted family man; he has been together with his wife since they were 14 years old and got married when they were 22. They have 3 children and several grandchildren and Roberto adores his family.
  
• He devotes a lot of time and energy to keep the survivors' community together, he reaches out to everyone and makes sure they keep the spirit of the Andes alive. Despite his bad reputation on the mountain, he is a beloved and popular member of the survivors' group. And Carlitos even invites him to his barbecues. ;)
  

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Partners and their characters must be AT LEAST 23 and no older than 38
Your character is a well known celebrity! This could include a hockey player, race car driver, senator, musician, other athletes, movie star, etc. Lately he has been all over the media and not for the right reason. He’s been out partying, getting caught doing drugs, with a new woman every night, and / or getting into fights. The press has been laying into him with each new circumstance and it’s starting to affect his career, badly. And what’s the best way to make everyone think he’s not a huge playboy? Get a serious girlfriend that makes it look like he’s calmed down just for her. She’s the one that keeps him out of trouble.
Bad part is, he doesn’t have that, but he does have money and with an app made for sugar babies he might be able to find the right girl to get his reputation back in line with.
OR
Our characters are both celebrities and needing a boost in publicity somehow. Their managers come together to make them into some super cute power couple. The only issue is that the two of them cannot stand each other when they’re not in front of the cameras or out in public. Even then that’s a hard time for them to get along.
Hey there! I’m female and 26 years old. I’m looking for someone to roleplay this plot (or the others on my profile) with me! This will be safe for work and done via discord. You MUST be able to write in third person. I would like at least one good paragraph to two paragraphs per reply and someone that can reply daily. I get that people get busy, but please don’t leave me hanging. I love drama and romance in my stories while also making friends out of character. I like to send tons of references ranging from pictures to quotes to Tiktoks. Please send a message or chat with your age, writing sample, and any ideas you have or what your character will be like!

So me an my girlfriend moved into our apartment yesterday and we noticed it looked different, before we said anything the management person that was with us said, "oh I've just noticed, this is an ADA apartment", I immediately let them know that I was not happy, he then stated he was gonna contact the property manager and see what he can do.
After a few hours he called me back and said he's trying to get approval for us to transfer to another apartment, with the transfer fee waived but the rates are gonna be higher.
Idk what we can do rn or if their is anything we can do, when we toured the apartments we loved the model, and he gave us a quote that was good for 24 hours, the next day when I check the rates the apartment had gone up like $15 so me and my girlfriend decided to just apply since we liked it, it should also be noted I payed a lil extra to be on the first floor, but now if we transfer we would either be on the second or third floor with higher rates. Also we weren't inform of it being an ADA unit, not by the leasing agent or on the leasing agreement.
TL;DR - Our apartment complex rented us an ADA unit without ever mentioning it verbally or in our lease agreement.