My first time kene raba

I wanted to make this post to share what a complete flip sided difference it was for me after playing this game on Xbox One (first crusty version) and then the optimized for series x/s version.
I first bought BF2042 the year it came out in 2021 and I noticed it was buggy from the beginning. The detail of vehicles, buildings, and specialists would take forever to load.
After about three years of playing it on and off, it didn't really stop me from truly playing it until recently. I was playing a game and I get killed a player that had an octagon 8-bit pixelated face. I noticed when there was a lot of action in a game it felt like the One just couldn't take it all. I was constantly having issues like my aim would skip across the screen. Aiming would also feel heavy and sluggish at times, especially when live streaming. Getting shot 3 seconds after I turned a corner. I personally felt like things just got worse recently, maybe the ole crusty Xbox One couldn't take it any more maybe the old gen BF2042 game is depleting or is undergoing a buggy phase.
Anyways, I entered this phase of questions, what do I need to change? Do I need to upgrade my Internet? Am I suffering input lag? Latency? Insufficient bandwidth? Bitrate? Is my monitor not set up right? Do I need a new monitor with more Hz? Is my controllers thumstick worn out?
The point is that I could have went so many routes to try to fix the issue but I landed on this:
I upgraded to the series x this weekend. That solved ALL the problems and my go what beauty it is. Everything runs super smoothly and obviously looks pristine. Even the sound is more crisp. I'm in a match less than 30 seconds after starting the game from dashboard. From the very first BF2042 game till now. There isn't a single hiccup and, even streaming from it doesn't give me issues.
I am still stunned and even though it's the same game it feels like a completely different one. I know this isn't much news but my god yes it's a massive difference of you still haven't upgraded definitely do if you can.
What are your experiences when upgrading from previous Gen to current Gen BF2042?

My mom has had some recent issues going on as of late, specifically mental health issues. They’ve been going on since 2022, and I don’t know what to do. My family even says she needs to stop and possibly needs help.
First off, she is exceedingly paranoid. She thinks people want to kill her, thinks someone has a bounty set for her, thinks people are following and watching her, and talks about how she might have to kill someone. In addition to all of that, she thinks my dad is trying to get her killed, and she thinks my dad’s baby mother is trying to get her killed along with my dad’s baby mother’s family. I have not seen my dad in years, and he has no idea where we live. She thinks it’s one big organization conspiring and plotting against her. She also believes my aunt on our side of the family is one of her and my aunt’s daughters. She also believes my step-grandfather is part of "it.”
She thinks airplanes are following her and watching her. I even had a friend last year that she thought was part of it because he shared the same last name as my dad’s baby mother. She claims to have visions and premonitions of what’s going to "happen.” She believes she’s a prophetess and that God chose her as a messenger. She will talk to herself for hours and randomly hit herself repeatedly. She looks out the window 24/7. She is also extremely neglectful, lazy, sleeps all day, and is always on her phone instead of spending just an ounce of time with me. We have almost crashed twice because she was too busy looking at cars that she believed were following.
Anytime we go outside, she will see someone and say they are a private detective or agent. Whenever I try to tell her how I feel about anything or tell her that I am depressed, she gets mad and will eventually tell me to stop talking because people are listening. She doesn’t take me anywhere; she keeps me sheltered and in the house all the time. I was crying and had a panic attack today, and she just stood there watching me, appearing apathetic and lacking remorse. Her first instinct was to turn the bathroom fan on instead of comforting me because once again, “people are listening and the whole building can hear.” She will call our family daily and pay more attention to them and their kids than she does to me.
She slams the door, is childish, and today she literally told me she would buy me something to make me happier. She sent me money, but a while after the money, I cried for some other reason, and she caught me crying, got super pissed, told me, “I swear to God, I’m not buying you anything else,” and told me to send her the money back right now. I asked her, Do I not have a right to feel things? She got quiet and told me she was joking about sending the money back.
We will also miss important appointments for me and she will say it is because I overslept as if she’s not the adult and the parent.
Not to mention, she is very off-putting. One day, she asked me if I had a pad on, I said no and then continued to say my private area was “fat” in a surprised tone. I then told her to stop and she said “it’s a good thing, guys like that because- never mind.” Some other day day I was laying down with her and she literally bit my butt. One day, I was in my closet doing homework. My family was staying with us, stayed in my room and I wanted some space. She came in, lifted her gown (she had no underwear on) twerked, and said does it smell good. I know you’re probably thinking… what the fuck..? Yeah I was too.
She is very callous to me and will swear at me for the smallest things, and all she does is make up lies about me and say that I am gaslighting her. I ask her how I am gaslighting her because I genuinely want to know how she feels. She gets mad at me and says, forget about it Also, whenever I am okay with her and we cuddle or lay down together, she tries to rock me to sleep like I'm not fucking 15 years old?? She even told me that I was too young to get a job. I honestly don't know what to do. My family isn't any better, and they all suck. All I want to do is leave but obviously I cannot.

I do this one babysitting gig on top of my regular nanny job for 1 evening a week, about 3 hours.
Lovely family; baby is 4 months, mom is a single mom and first time mom.
Baby is entirely breastfeed so I can’t feed them and mom doesn’t leave those house when I’m over (small house so she’s working right beside us for all 3 hours I’m there).
My regular nannying job is for an infant just a bit younger and our days are great. This babe however is a lot fussier than my regular nanny job. That being said, I can’t feed them or even put them to sleep - they just cry their lungs out when I try, despite me doing everything their mom does.
I’ve been an infant nanny for 14 years now and used to work as a NICU nurse. I have a lot of experience with infants and have never had this happen.
My last few shifts I’ve ended up leaving early because baby is sobbing and mom will just take over and tell me I can go home (she still pays me for the full hour). I know that if mom wasn’t home and I could actually feed baby and get to know him more, things would go a lot smoother. But she just swoops in as soon as he’s upset and I end up getting sent home early.
What’s your advice on what to do? I end up leaving my shift early and feeling like a failure because I wasn’t fully given the chance to console the baby and by mom swooping in, it feels like she doesn’t think I’m capable. It’s also just awkward cause once I’ve completed some house chores, I stand around awkwardly while she feeds him or puts him to sleep.
I’m not too too bothered by it because I’m only there for 3 hours/week but it’s still not great.

My first solo trip and boy'o'boy did I find out how unworldly I am. I never knew how much of culture shock it would be. At home I am very friendly and outgoing, if i'm at the store or grabbing a coffee I naturally chat to everybody - this did not go down well. I guess I should have thought that not everyone would speak english but it was my first time traveling internationally and i never even thought about it before - Please don't laugh at me in trying to be as open and honest as possible - I know I was a total Idiot so shhhhh.
I WAS SO FREAKING LONELY - I thought I would meet ppl in the hostel, but I dont know if It was just me but the people who were staying- mostly Germans were not friendly at all. I spent the few days in france just walking around.
I might be totally late to the party here but of those of you like me who dont know about this -
I was crying in my hostel on day 3 thinking of booking flights home and one of the German girls in my dorm told me to try the Go Gaido tours I tried my first one in Paris then used them in every other city - They take you to friendly local places and its like texting a local friend - and super cheap like €12 - I also bumped into other people going the same tour in Lisbon and we ended up going for dinner and dancing.
So after doing the tours you feel like a local in every city - some of the venues offered free wine tasting or treats and then remembered you the next time you went made me feel like an instant local! then in the bar in Florence I made friends with another solo girl doing the tour - I asked her If she was doing the tour as she did the wine tasting and we had a glass of wine together - It was crazy like a little community of people all on a secret quest - there seo is terrible and so I'm linking it below
https://www.gogaido.com/

I recently got out of a 7 year long relationship and I’m utterly destroyed by it. It’s been a little over a month since we broke up and I’m still trying to find ways that we can be together in literally any way possible, but he doesn’t want that. We still want to be friends and be in each other’s lives but not as a couple. There are possibilities that we may get back together at some point in the future, but nothing is certain. One of the reasons he gave for wanting to break up was that he felt like I never got a chance to explore and experience things as a single man (we started dating when I was just starting college) so he wants me to go out and have fun and experience other people. I can’t do that anymore. We first met on Grindr and at that time I was just wanting to mess around and explore myself, but then we met and got into a long term relationship one that we never thought would actually end. Now that I’m older, I no longer have any desire to get back into that scene. When I was doing that stuff before I was at an incredibly low point in my life and hook up culture being so terrible made me feel even worse about myself. I never want to experience that again or put myself through that turmoil. I’ve decided that from now on, I will not be participating in any sexual intimacy with anyone unless we are committed to each other and are actively dating. Idk why I wanted to make this post (probably a cry for help because I’m drowning) but here it is. Take it or leave it. Stay safe out there.

Hello all! For the first time in my life i’ll be moving in to a rental and I want to ask, how do you make it feel like home with all the restrictions one has when renting?

Hi everyone! I am a new souls player and I dont even know why I started ahahah. I am more a farming sim / turn based player, but since I met my boyfriend I started watching him playing and listening to him talking a lot about those type of games, so I got interested. My first ever souls was Lies of P, but I soon realized it was kinda hard, so I switched to elden ring and I am having a lot of fun! A few days ago I asked my bf to stream ds3 to me, but he has already done everything so I bough him the first dark souls.
I wanted so bad to play with him, he even let me play his save file sometimes, so I decided to start ds3. At first I was absolutely discoraged and I'm gonna admit that I was SO close to quit and go back to Persona. But I soon realized that I was indeed willing to win that bossfight even tho I had already died thousands of times!
I am still on the first few area, so I already see myself crying for what is yet to come ahahah! But I am very pleased in myself when I am able to finally beat the bosses and enemies after all that spent time! I am really loving that game!!
❤️‍🩹Don't go hollow.❤️‍🩹

Hi—Confused Newbie here; please be gentle yet descriptive, if possible.
First, is there a simple way to access new templates or notebook covers using only the device itself?
Somehow—perhaps bc I started with Kindle Scribe—I envisioned that I might be able to use an app or a web link on the Supernote to look for such things, via a community forum or even a template store. I thought there might be at least a few “sample” covers or even templates preloaded into the “MyStyle” folder, to allow me to play around with the concept of personalization.
Second, is there any way to quickly send a self-made template via an email address? (Again, I am accustomed to Kindle Scribe).
Third— my other devices are an iPhone, a Windows 10 PC, an iPad, and a Kindle Scribe. Assuming I find (on reddit, or elsewhere online) or create what I need template-wise, what is the quickest/easiest way to get that over to my Supernote for use? I get confused among Supernote iOS app, Supernote cloud, Supernote partner app on PC etc.
I got the Supernote to help myself feel less scattered at a time when my bandwidth is limited, but I feel in serious need of a hand-holding tutorial (re: this basic stuff, as well as headings, TOC, links, keywords, stars, etc. ).
I’m not sure how to best use SN as an optimization tool, when figuring it out feels kind of DIY in a way I currently can’t swing. It’s like I have so many questions and can’t even find a basic organized place to write them down, never mind ask them.
(I think my ADHD doesn’t mix well with the user manual being buried onboard—I need like a programmed text or Socratic experiential workshop or something so it clicks. Not proud, not proud. )
Thank you all so much for your help.

I 24 Female have been with my 24 Male husband for a total of 5 years and married for 6 months. I moved in with him and his mother and step father in law about 1 to 2 years into the relationship. My relationship with his mother was really pleasant at first, we used to enjoy each others company and spent a lot of time outside in the morning drinking coffee. Our relationship didn’t start to sour until after I had my son two years ago, at first it started with small things such as crossing boundaries with how I wanted to raise my son or telling me how to do things the “right” way. I’ll admit I should have spoken to her from the beginning to let her know how much I didn’t appreciate the constant tweaking of my parenting style. At the same time I was a new mother and I was trying to fit into the role of mother hood and I wanted to figure things out as I go along. About two months after having my son, his father and I decided to get married and my mil was the first person we told before telling everyone else the news and diving into wedding planning. After about a few weeks into planning out the wedding, she had sat us down and said if we went through with it that she would kick us out on the street and she doubt anyone would take us in, especially with a newborn. At that moment all of my respect for her vanished, and I never completely got over it. I have so much resentment for her even now. From that moment on there was a shift in our relationship, the house was so tense and I knew it was because of mainly how I felt about everything. I couldn’t be a mother to my son while my mil played helicopter mom with my son and criticized every little thing I did, I couldn’t make the decision with my partner to finally seal the deal and become husband and wife. It felt she had completely taken over everything and I couldn’t escape any of it and my husband felt just as trapped as me. At the same time he would let anything she said get under his skin, like saying our son probably has autism, or that he is definitely on the spectrum. My son is talking and not showing any signs of that. I believe she was projecting her past relationship with my husbands father onto me because she left him before they could get married. After that it was little stupid things such as snapping at me over certain diapers, or snapping at me on my wedding night (a story for another time). When my husband and I finally got married, my sister in law told me that night that my mil didn’t even want us to get married and accused me of being ungrateful, disrespectful, lazy, and went as far to say that I treat mil and step fil like slaves. Later on I found out my mil would spend her time over at her house amongst other family to get drunk and just talk crap about me. My husband started calling her out on her insanity and then he started to realize just how crazy she really was. A week ago my son was sick and had woken us up in the middle of the night and just like always, mil came out to take control of everything and she was asking about a water bottle, to see what was in it. Mind you, during this time I was already under a lot of stress, I go to school and take care of my son, and on top of that my great gramps was dieing and my nana just found out she has a cancerous tumor. My mil was aware of everything, I told her there was nothing in it and she snapped. She asked again what the hell was in it and I told her it was just water, I corrected myself. My husband was trying to calm mil down but like always, it fell on deaf ears and she had a complete meltdown. She shouted how ungrateful we were for everything she has done for us and how she wanted us out by the end of the month along with all of our shit. I snapped because during this whole piss match, my son was sobbing in my arms because she couldn’t try to stay calm. I told her fuck that, we are getting the fuck out of here right now and you better say goodbye to “my sons name”. She left to go outside before saying how she is going to sue and get her lawyer involved. Which is not ganna happen because of how much debt they are in and besides, she would have to prove abuse or neglect which are not happening to my son. We packed up and left for my parents while she just continued her rant with my husband, and when I got to my parents I was a complete mess because I had so much respect and love for this woman and now I absolutely hate her. I wasn’t going to block her until I saw a post she had put on fb with the caption “what I’ll do to my kids place”, it was a video of a guy literally pissing all over the house. On that note I completely blocked her on everything and told my husband that I never want to see her again and that when we have our own place that she will never be welcomed there. I want to let my husband take our son over there to visit but it’s only been a week and I don’t think I’m ready to let our son go over there. Especially with how she acted, knowing our son was sick and he was sobbing the whole time. So AITA at all? Need some advice on how to move forward from this.

It has come to my attention that revisionists and falsifiers of this subreddit have turned their backs on the great socialist thinkers of Marx, Lenin, and Mussolini.
Was it not Marx who said, "Workers of the world unite"? Unite with who? Themselves? That's absurd - how can somebody team up with themselves? Thus it follows that true invariant Marxists must unite with another against the capitalist state - what other class has been more militant and revolutionary in character and action than the small business owners? They have staged farmers' riots against the governments of the Netherlands, engage in active political violence against social-democratic (fascist) politicians in Germany, and form the vanguard of a militant and organized anti-state class that attempted a revolutionary seizure of power - in the footsteps of the great Marxist Blanqui - on January 6th. The workers of the world must unite with the small business owners of the world for communism and against the bourgoise.
Did Lenin not say that "Being practical is good"? What is more practical than splitting the bourgeoise against each other - a bourgoise KKKracker though he may have been, the liberal splitter Abraham Lincoln once stated that "a house divided against itself cannot stand". The working class alone is outnumbered - it is alone when three classes, the haute bourgoise, the petite bourgoise, and the proletariat, stand against it - only an alliance with the petite bourgoiuse small business owners, a unity between the two, can rid the world of the bourgeoise.
Finally, did the great revolutionary Mussolini not establish the first actually existing socialist state against the splitter revisionist Lenin in 1922, and did he not do it with the aid of the small business owners? Where was the working class then? Where were the proletariat? Both the working class and the proletariat stood against Mussolini in his seizure of power, and in his formation of dual power structures beforehand in the blackshirts. Only a strong man like Mussolini could have wrangled Italy into socialism, and as a result the trains ran on time. Did he not establish the Italian SOCIAL Republic? Many more strong men are in the small business class, if only the proletariat and the state would stop oppressing them. Thus, the working class must unite together with them to destroy the proletariat, the bourgoise, the state, and capitalism.
One final point: If you disagree, read theory lib: https://archive.org/details/newsocialdemocra0000unse/mode/2up

Hi!
I'm trying to get the Reason value from the the Conditions slice of maps (as defined in v1 package - k8s.io/apimachinery/pkg/apis/meta/v1 - Go Packages) using a dynamic client to get an ExternalSecret custom resource.
What I get from the k8sclient.Resource().Get() is a *unstructured.Unstructured type where I can access the default Object as a map[string]interface{}.
Here from the docs I see a beautiful list of obscure and badly documented functions like

func NestedMap(obj map[string]interface{}, fields ...string) (map[string]interface{}, bool, error) func NestedSlice(obj map[string]interface{}, fields ...string) ([]interface{}, bool, error) ... 

so my first try was to access directly the inner field status.conditions[0].reason until I got a panic error since I can't access correctly the slice and I wasn't able to get an error message either.
Is there a nice idiomatic way to access inner fields in a unstructured object or am I doomed to make multiple calls to NestedXXX() functions until I get to my target?
Or would it be better instead to re-create a target struct type to assert the received interface{} and then access internal fields as usual?

type ExternalSecretStatus struct { Conditions []metav1.Condition `json:"conditions,omitempty" patchStrategy:"merge" patchMergeKey:"type" protobuf:"bytes,1,rep,name=conditions"` ... } unstructuredObject, err := k8sClient.Resource( schema.GroupVersionResource{ Group: "external-secrets.io", Version: "v1beta1", Resource: "externalsecrets", }).Namespace( kubectlOptions.Namespace, ).Get( context.TODO(), esoSecret, metav1.GetOptions{}, ) ... status, found, err := unstructured.NestedMap(unstructuredObject.Object, "status") checkErr(found, err) ... conditionsRaw, ok := status["conditions"].([]interface{}) if ok { for _, condRaw := range conditionsRaw { condMap, ok := condRaw.(map[string]interface{}) if ok { condition := metav1.Condition{ Reason: condMap["reason"].(string), } } } } got := externalStatus.Conditions[0].Reason 

The target ExternalSecret resource has this schema

kubectl explain externalsecrets.status.conditions GROUP: external-secrets.io KIND: ExternalSecret VERSION: v1beta1 FIELD: conditions <[]Object> DESCRIPTION:  FIELDS: lastTransitionTime   message   reason   status  -required-  type  -required-  

I love you so, so very much. Whenever I look at you, whenever I think of you, of us I feel a warm sense of comfort. I miss talking to you, I miss being excited to see you at the end of the week. I miss your smell, your warm and big hugs, your kisses on my forehead and lips. God I would give my soul for another minute of you hugging and missing me. I remember the first time we held hands, we hugged, we kissed. I miss the way you would look at me. Please hug me for one last time. Please kiss me. Hold my hand one last time. I never thought I'd love you this much. Please reassure me and tell me everythings going to be okay. Please, talk to me like the way you used to. I miss your letters, I miss your small gifts. I love you so much. I love you and im sorry. I hope you see this and text me. I love you so much I would do anything. I just wish things could have been different, because you are my first love. I wish we could have been together for more. I can't say goodbye, please don't go cause I'm not ready for you to go. I love you. I hope this post finds you.

Seems like no one has a clear answer on this but trying to find which watch is best for me. Open to other suggestions outside the Venu or vivoactive.
Currently have an Apple Watch that’s on its last legs so time to upgrade. Traditionally more of a lifter but training for my first marathon in October after a half last year. Workout splits tend to be 3-4 lifts and 3-4 runs a week, currently at 25-30 miles a week and will slowly increase through prep.
Tracking miles, hr, hrv, and the body battery are all attractive to me. Don’t use my Apple Watch for a lot of the smart features outside of checking texts.
Not afraid to spend $400-$450 on the Venu but is it worth it for the couple features it has comparatively?
Thanks

Hello everyone.
I just created my first account and leveled up to lvl 14.
I love everything about this game so far, it reminds me of the slow grind from WoW back in the 2000's.
Something however is bugging me : it is too easy. Fighting mobs is no challenge. Mobs deal around 1-5 damage per hit... I feel like I'm playing a maxed level Tank instead of a light lvl 14 Dps wearing robes.
For reminder, in vanilla WoW each mob was a challenge, and fighting two mobs at the same time was an actual risk at low levels.
Anybody here feels like the leveling is too easy ? At what point does the game really become challenging ?
This being said, I'll keep going, there is something about this game I really like. I play on the french server.
Wish you all the best.

Looking for advice and anecdotal experience. My LO is 9 weeks old today and something I’ve been struggling with is distinguishing the difference in behaviour of the infamous witching hour (which we’re been dealing with since week 5 I think) and when an earlier bedtime is needed.
Atm it seems most nights are the classic fussiness and cluster feeding of witching hour. Generally she’ll go down for her first solid block anywhere between 4 and 7 hours at 10/11pm.
But lately I’ve had a night where she settled at 8:15pm and another night she settled at her normal time of 10:20pm and slept for 11 hours. Both of which make think her sleep is consolidating and an earlier bedtime is needsd.
On the other hand, last night I attempted an early bedtime and started settling at 6:30pm as she was screaming bloody murder and looked so over-tired. I ended up trying to settle her in the dark nursery for seven hours. I seem to have at least one night like this every week but this was by far the worst.
My LO does not like napping during the day. She’ll sleep for longer than 20-40 mins if its a contact nap. So I’ve been dealing with some horrendously over-tired behaviour lately. I’ll be seeing a sleep doctor about this soon to hopefully come up with some strategies. But I’m curious as to what my peers have tried and tested too.

I moved in December and signed a leasing agreement with Meridia ‘Luxury’ apartments.
Ever since there has been a number of things that have made this decision regretful.
I am paying $2.2 monthly for a 1 bedroom in Linden, NJ.
Here are my concerns:
There’s constant mold in the sink, toilet and shower. It’s an everyday situation.
I didn’t have parking in my building for the first three months of my lease and still had to pay the $100 parking fee to park in another building across the street.
Then when I did get assigned to the parking lot in my building (spots opened up after people got evicted as I was told), the parking spaces are so tight my car has gotten hit multiple times. I have video footage, and photos of everything.
The laundry room is covered with ‘not working’ signs from other tenants. You put your clothes to dry and come back to check, the dryer is not working. As well as other machines that just take your credit. One time the laundry room was filled with these paper signs and were removed for an open house weekend.
There’s window drafts in the apartment. In the winter you could feel the cold drafts and this required to put the heater up high to keep the apartment warm.
When I first moved in I took photos of scratches on the floor from previous owners and noted down on a sign off sheet of any damages to the apartment that was required. I also noted that half of the outlets weren’t working. None of this was addressed as well.
Last, the lack of management or security in the buildings. There are always people hanging out in the lobby late at night and it reeks with the smell of weed. Tenants let their dogs pee in the lobby and don’t clean it up.
It is noticeable that several people have been through the same based on recent Google reviews. As well there are always people moving in and out.
I spoke with the leasing office managers and they just gave bs excuses to all of these problems.
For the parking situation I was told to: File a police report. To park across the street again in another building and still pay the $100.
For the mold: to put work orders for maintenance.
For the window drafts: that there is no proof and to put a work order.
For the laundry room: How much did I lose in credit and if I called to get a refund.
For the weed stench and dog pee odestains, that they will send out another email addressing this.
Leasing agreement asks for 60 days notice + two months rent.
I asked to negotiate based on the given conditions of living. I was willing to leave mid month and give one months rent.
I know the agreement has its rules. But this wasn’t what I signed up for nor were these problems part of any agreement.
They asked for another opportunity to address these situations but I don’t think will actually resolve anything because I am not the first to complain.
I have records of everything and what I’m looking for is any possible guidance of how I can go forward with this situation without having to pay the additional two months rent they are asking for to terminate the lease.

I am a college student and have recently started a summer job working for a large multinational shipping company as a package handler. This morning, in the middle of our shift, we had a weekly all station meeting. The person training me mentioned that these happen weekly and that they are unpaid. The meeting was about 10 minutes, but when another person runs them they supposedly take around 30 minutes.
I am classified as an employee and am paid hourly. I cannot fathom any way that having a required meeting, in the middle of the work day, is able to be unpaid. Once I get my first paystub I plan to confirm whether or not this was actually unpaid. This happened in Minnesota in case that affects anything.
Is there some loophole in the law that allows this? Or, assuming I am not paid for this time, should I contact the department of labor?

I (21F) have been friends with this girl (22F) since my childhood. My family is very close with her family so we basically grew up together. I would like to start this post off by addressing the fact that i don’t think she is a bad person. There have just been some changes in her behavior over the years that have become a little hard to ignore at this point. Specifically, i think she is starting to hate me/dislike me for some reason. Without getting into too much detail, some examples of her behavior include: making unnecessary jabs at me for things she knows i am sensitive about when we are with a bigger group of people; expecting me to cater to everything she asks me to and if i don’t do as she asks she will act condescending and rude in return; paints me out to be as “beneath her” in front of other people by making unnecessary comments; always tries to “compete” with me about almost everything (for example: i buy a specific laptop and she ends up buying an objectively better one and ends up rubbing it in my face about how hers is much better than mine); tries to make me feel dumb and guilty when i try to stand up to the way she treats me and always turns the conversation around as me being “overdramatic” and “why am i making such a big deal out of something so trivial”. I can think of endless more examples but i think these are enough to give context. For months, I have tried to look at this from her perspective, in the sense that maybe there is something specific that I am doing that is annoying to her that I can fix. But every time I have tried to be a better friend towards her I end up sacrificing more than I can give and i consistently get my dignity trampled on by her. I have asked her on multiple occasions whether there is something that I am doing that she has a problem with and every time she gives me a very vague and uninterested answer. I do have a history of friends taking advantage of me and using my generosity against me, and as much as I may be gaslighting myself by saying this, I really hope this isn’t the case. If anybody has any advice on what I can do about this situation I would greatly appreciate it. (Also, english isn’t my first language so if this post doesn’t make sense I am sorry in advance).

Hello. I am applying for a caseworker role at the Home Office. I am required to send evidence of my ability to make effective decisions (limited to 750 words). I was struggling to come up with evidence for this. But below is what I have so far (in the star format): Situation: At my first year of university I was unhappy as I was unable to find employment, and I did not feel engaged with the course I was doing. I had already committed to paying for a property for the following year which I could not renege on. My university was in Scotland and my family lived on Merseyside Task: I was unsure if I wanted to continue at the current university, switch university, or drop out of university. Action: To decide what the best option was for me I had to weigh up the financial cost of any decision. Regardless of the decision I made I would have to pay for the rent I had committed to. If I was to stay at my current university there was strong likelihood that I would not be able to get a job, as a year of applying had not been successful and had only limited my finances. If I was to drop out of university and move back to my parents, I knew I would be able to get my old job back and therefore have an incoming wage. However, dropping out would have meant that I would not receive student finance. I worked out this would then limit my ability to pay the rent as my weekly wages would have been slightly less than the cost of my rent. If I was to switch university there was no guarantee that I would be able to find myself a job, as the same situation could likely occur again. As such, I concluded that if I was to switch universities the best option for me, financially, would be to attend one of my local universities where I could then stay at my parents, get student finance, and receive wages. This would then resolve the issues that both other options had, financially speaking. I then had to consider what was the best option for me that I would enjoy and thrive at. Even though I did not enjoy my first year my grades were good, and I was happy with the work I was producing. There was the possibility that as my university life went on, I would get more enjoyment and feel fully engaged with my course and university. To better understand this, I had conversations with lecturers, students, and looked at the various pathways I could go down at that university. There was a limited number of modules that I could take that I had significant interest in. Therefore, I thought it was worthwhile to compare the modules I would do at one of my local universities. When looking at these modules I could see that there were multiple pathways I would be happy to go down, and multiple modules that actively excited me. Alongside this I also knew people who had gone to the local universities and worked at them. I sought to gain first hand accounts of what the university was like so that I could conclude if it was for me. The feedback I received was very positive and the prospect of attending that university seemed a lot better than my current one. I also had a look at the university rankings list for my specific degree and my local university was ranked a lot higher that the current one I attended. If I was to drop out of university I had to assess if this is the pathway I see myself going down. The job that I had was not in a field I wanted to end up in nor was it ever meant to be more than a part time job. This would that I would be applying for other jobs if I dropped. As concluded earlier there was not guarantee I would be able to get one. Result: I chose to switch university and attend my local one. The result was that I felt a lot more engaged and found a lot more enjoyment with my course. I was even able to study abroad in Canada, in an experience I will always cherish. I ended up pursuing it to both Bachelors and Masters level getting a 2.1 in each and getting a 1st on both of the dissertations. I was able to gain employment and have more finances available. Ultimately, it set me up in a lot better place and I have no doubt that had I not made that decision I would be in a much poorer place for it.
Any advice, feedback, or suggestions would be very much appreciated.
Thanks you.

I know that the 3d is just a reflection of the inner.
I know you guys probably seen me post about this a million times. I’m kinda having the worst anxiety right now.
But like I’m just a coworker and I have a crush on my supervisor(my sp)
We had a wonderful connection at first but there were a bunch of Barriers and he told me that he think it’s best for us to only talk at work and about work.
The 3d isn’t final but I feel kinda lost on how to change this. It just feels like soo much you know.
The way how the 3d is makes me think nothing will ever change.
My supervisor the one I had so much fun time with outside of work (that was only texting) just turned work related and I hate it. It’s just professional now , and I get it but like I want our relationship to not involve work.
What do I do? Please help.

Hello Everyone,
So i have just been hacked. I am online since 1998 and this is first time it happened to me. I need advise from experienced people. I lost my Netfix account which i recovered but i couldn't recover my Facebook yet. Yes i am old and my facebook groups are my scrolling content to kill time on smoke breaks etc. Life feels empty without cringey facebook content.
Attempts of entering my e-mail is not stopping. I have just set up 2FA. I am thinking that will stop all attempts?
I am trying to find who is doing this because i am suspicous of the IT guy of the company i am working. He is the prime suspect. He warned me about not logging to chrome with my personal account. He said an IT guy who doesn't like you can steal everything. I said who cares who will attempt that. He said it is so easy to do i can do it easily.
That IT guy and i had an argument. It hurt him quite a lot. He almost started a fight i didn't respond and i used that chance to tell HR all the shit he was doing. The company i got hired is opening a tourism agency on the side and that guy was claiming he knows tourism and he was bossing us and telling us what to do how to work and everything. He doesn't know shit. We are 2 people working to open the agency and he got the other guy fired after that guy shooed him. He showed HR his PC logs and that he surfs during company time. We are idle by the way we don't got any work to do. Other guy was a manager at medium departments of medium agencies and i worked as a regular guy at top departments of top agencies. Anyway i can tell a lot it is both hilarious and sad at the time. He was saying things like you need to press that button to open the pc or you can use right side of the keyboard to write numbers. He once told me 'you look like you got used to typing on the keyboard'. MF like wtf? I am 36 i am typing without looking since i am 15. This is not my first time seeing a pc. Damn i got triggered again.
So the first monday after that falling out when i opened my work pc CMD is opening for a second then closing again. 1 month after that i got hacked. They didn't tried to steal anything they just tried to hurt me. They got my facebook banned by linking that FB to an instagram account that is against the rules etc. It is think like that.
Me and everyone hearing this story is almost sure that guy did it. How can i uncover this? The guy he got fired was a newly wed less then 3 months. He got him fired cause he realized he won't be able to boss him around. Me on the other hand let him belittle me and showed patience because my life is fucked up and i have to create stability instead of keeping on jumping from company to company.
Please help me.