Hey Reddit,
So, I live with a roommate, and lately, things have gotten a little crowded. Her boyfriend seems to be at our place every single day, just hanging out and using the internet.
At first, it wasn't a big deal. He'd come over maybe once or twice a week, no problem. But now, it's like he's here everyday. It's honestly making me uncomfortable.
Sometimes my roommate asks if it's okay for him to come over, but I always feel stuck saying yes. We split the rent down the middle, so I don't know how to politely decline without seeming like a jerk.
Here's the kicker: we don't have separate rooms. So, I can hear and see pretty much everything that goes on (don't worry, nothing inappropriate, just noisy sometimes). The three of us are actually classmates and have the same group of friends, but the BF and I dont really interact much.
I'm an introvert by nature, and this whole situation is stressing me out. I really need some advice on how to address this with my roommate. What if she gets mad?
Any tips from fellow introverts (or anyone who's been in a similar situation) would be greatly appreciated!

[WEAPONS]
Anti armor:
AAE90rw - Handmade
AAE50dr - Railway
AAE15R - Gat gun
AA25Ws90Rw - Harpoon
AARap1S - Chainsaw
AA25Ws25Ap - Fixer
AA25Ws50Dr - Gat plasma
AAE1P - Fixer
AA25Ws50dr - Gamma
AA50C15R - Bolt Pipe (lvl 10)
AA25Ws90Rw - ult laser rifle
AAE100%MMS - 10MM Pistol
AAE - Pump shotgun
AA50C50B - Handmade
AA50C15R - 50 Cal*
AA50C90Rw - Crossbow*
AA25Ws25Ap - Assaultron*
AA25Ws25Ap - 44 Revolver*
AA25Ws25Ap - Pipe AutoRifle*
AA40Ss1S - Hachet*
AA40Ss1S - Pitchfork*
AA40Ss90Rw - Super Sledge*
AA40Ss50B - Chinese sword
AASs1S - Grognak
AA40Ss25Ap - Shepherd crook
AA40Ss40B - Golf club
Aristocrat:
A25Ws50B - AD
A50c25Ap - Fatman
AR250Dr - LMG*
A25Ws15C - Enclave*
A25Ws15C - Tesla*
AE100Ms - Fixer*
A25Aim25Ap - Alien
A40Ss50B - Cult dagger
Assassins:
As50c25Ap - Enclave rifle
As25Ws25Ap - Radium
As25Ws25Ap - Pepper*
As25Ws15C - Radium*
As25Ws15R - Gamma*
AsE250Dr - Fixer*
As50C15R - Fixer*
Berserker:
BerE25Ap - Fixer
Ber25Ws - Auto Granade*
BerE1A - Powder Rifle*
BerE25Ap - 10MM SMG*
Ber40Ss - Bone club
Ber40Ss - Shishkebab*
BerE15R - Fixer*
Ber50C15C - Fixer*
Bloodied:
B25ws90rw - Enclave pistol
BE - 10mm
B50c15r - AD
B40Pa40% - Chainsaw
B50c25Ap - Fixer
B25Ws25Ap - Railway
BE15R - Railway
B25Ws50Dr - Nu laser
B2550Dr - Ult laser
B50c25Ap - 50cal
BE50Dr - Handmade
BE - Gatling gun
B25Ws15C - enclave flamer (reflex)
B25Ws50Dr - Gamma
B50c25Ap - Harpoon
B50C15C - Railway
BE1A - Dragon
B25Aim50Dr - Bow*
B50Bash15R - MiniGun*
BE - Pipe Auto*
B25Ws - 50cal*
B50C15C - 50cal*
B25Ws25Ap - Assault rifle*
B25Ws250Dr - Plasma*
B40Ss1A - Baseball Bat*
B40Ss1E - Mole Gauntlet*
B40Ss15B - Sledge*
B40Ss1E - Shishkebab
B40Pa1S - Sheep club
Executioner:
EEGhost - Railway
EE15R - Handmade*
EE100MS - Powder rifle*
E50C15C - Crossbow*
EE - Railway*
E25Ws15C - Radium*
EE15C - Fixer*
E50C15C - Fixer*
EE250Dr - Fixer*
E50C15R - Fixer*
Exterminator:
Ex50C15R - Gauss*
ExE25Ap - Handmade*
Furious:
FEGhost - 50cal*
FE1P - Railway*
F50C15C - Handmade*
Ghoul Slayer:
GE25Ap - Western
GE25Ap - Submachine Gun
G25Ws25Ap - Tesla*
G40Ss15c - Revolutionary sword (no blade)
Hunter:
H25Ws25Ap - Assaultron
H15Ws15R - Fixer*
Instigating:
I50C15C - Hunting rifle
I50c25Ap - Broadsider
IE1P - Powder rifle*
I25Ws25Ap - Plasma*
Juggernaut:
JugE - Pipe bolt
JugE1A - 50cal*
JugE - Handmade*
Jug25Ws250Dr - Tesla*
JugE15R - Fixer*
Jug40ws - Power fist*
Junkie:
JE250Dr - Minigun
JE - 10MM Pistol
J50c15Rs - Nu laser
JE - Pump
JE50Dr - Fixer
JEGhost - Fixer
J25Ws25Ap - Broadsider*
J25Ws15R - Cryo*
JE - Railway*
J25Aim25Ap - Flamer*
JE50B - Handmade*
JE25Ap - Western*
J40Pa1A - BearArm
J40Ss40Pa - Grognak
J40Ss40Pa - Machete
J40Ss - Shishkebab
J40Ss15 - Sledgehammer
Medic:
Med25ws90rw - flamer
MedRap15c - AD
Med25ws25ap - 50cal
MedE25Ap - Dragon
Mutant:
ME - Lmg
M25ws50dr - AD
ME15R - Radium
M25Ws25Ap - 10MM SMG*
M50C25Ap - Handmade*
M25Ws15C - Fixer*
Mutant slayer:
MsE25Ap - Fixer
Troubleshooter:
TE15R - Fixer*
T25Ws25Ap - Tesla*
Quad:
Q25ws15c - Auto Enclave (all mods)
Q50vhc25ap - Nu Laser
Q25Ws - Nu Laser (lvl 15)
QEFms - Gat gun
Q25Fms - Enclave Auto Pistol (reflex)
Q25Ws - Assault rifle
Q50c90Rw - Handmade
Q25Aim - Ult laser
QE90Rw - 10MM Pistol
QE - 10MM SMG*
Q25Ws - Radium*
Stalkers:
SE15Ap - Dragon
Two Shot:
TsE - Lmg
Ts25Ws25Ap - Fixer
Ts25Ws - 10MM Pistol
TsE15R - 10MM Pistol
Ts25Ws1A - Nu laser
Ts50CGhost - Fixer*
Ts25Aim25Ap - Fixer*
Ts50c15Ap - Enclave Auto*
Ts25Aim50Dr - Gatling Plasma*
TsE100Ms - Lever*
Ts25Ws - Tesla*
Vampire:
V50C15R - AB
VBash25Ap - Minigun
V25Aim15R - AD
VE25Ap - Fixer
V50C25Ap - Flamer
V50c15c - Nu laser
V25Ws25Ap - Ult laser
VE25Ap - Powder Pistol*
V50C15C - Gatling Plasma*
VE - 10MM SMG*
VE - Lever*
V50C15R - Enclave Auto*
V40Ss15B - Boxing
V50c1S - Cult dagger
V40Pa1S - Mr.Handy
V40Ss1S - Meat hook
V - Revolutionary sword (no blade)
V40Ss - Shishkebab
V40Ss90Rw - Super Sledge
Zealot:
ZE15C - Fixer*
ZE15R - Fixer*
Z50C25Ap - Gatling laser*
Z25Ws25Ap - Cryo*
Blade-less Revolutionary Swords x4
[ARMOR]
Assassin:
AP - Light Metal RA x2
AP - Light Combat LL
A1ACav - Marine RL
A1iCav - Marine LA
APCav - Sturdy Combat Chest
APHtd - Heavy Leather RA
APDoc - Ultra Chest
APWwr - Light Raider LL
AutoStim:
Au1AWwr - Urban Scout Chest
Au1AWwr - Sturdy Combat LL
Au7%LedWwr Urban Scout LA
AuPJwr - Raider Power RL
Bolstering:
B1iSent - Ult RL
BPEnergy - T51 RA
BPAwr - Wood Chest
B1cSent - Urban Scout Chest
BFireWwr - T60 Chest
BHazWwr - Marine LL
BGlutWwr - Heavy Leather RA
BGlutSent - Heavy Leather RA
B1S - Heavy combat LL
B1cWwr - Excavator LL
B25RadresSent - CE LL
B1cCav - Heavy Combat LA
B1iSent - Sturdy Combat Chest
B1CSent - Heavy Combat RL
B1iSent - Urban Scout LA
B1LSent - Marine RA
B1iFdc - T45 Chest
B1iSent - Xo1 Chest
BAntiAwr - Ultra LL
B1LWwr - Ultra RA
B1EWwr - T45 Chest
B1iCryo - Ultra LL
BGlutAwr - Ultra RA
B1CFDCwr - Ultra RL
B1iSent Marine LL
BPS - Sturdy Metal LA
B1CC - Heavy Combat LA
BPAwr - Sturdy Combat Chest
BP - Light Combat LA
BP - Forest Scout
BPLock - Light Leather RA
BPFDCwr - Marine LA
B1SWwr - Wood LL
BP50B - Wood RL
Chameleon:
ChPHtd - Heavy combat Chest
ChHazSent - Heavy Robot RA
Lifesaving:
L1iSent - CE Chest
LPFdc - Sturdy Robot LA
L1iFdc - Heavy Robot RA
L7%LedAwr - Marine RA
L1EWwr - Heavy Metal RA
L1EWwr - Light Combat LA
L1AWwr - Forest Scout LA
L1PWwr - Forest Scout LL
L1EWwr - Forest Scout RL
L1EWwr - Heavy Metal RA
LP - Heavy Metal RA
LPWwr - Light Robot LA
LPSneak - Urban Scout RA
LPSent - Trapper Chest
Mutants:
M7%LedSent - Heavy combat LL
Mutant slayer:
MS1iSent - Ult LL
Overeater:
O1iFall - Light Combat RA
OPWwr - Heavy Robot RL
O1PWwr - Ult RA
O1iSent - Ult Chest
O1SWater - Urban Scout LA
O1iPoi - Heavy Raider LL
O1LWwr - Forest Scout RL
OCryoWwr - Trapper RL
OPBlock - Sturdy Combat LA
O1iRadRec - Urban Scout LL
O1iBlock - Forest Scout Chest
O1EFDCwr - Marine LA
OP - Marine RA
OP - Sturdy Metal RL
O25PoSent - Ult LL
O1iWwr - T45 LA
Op - Wood LA
Unyielding:
UPCav - Light Combat RA
UPBlock - Urban Scout RL
U7LedWwr - Urban Scout Chest
U1AFDCwr - Urban Scout LL
UP - Forest Scout LA
UPDef - Forest Scout RL
U1CSen - Heavy Leather LL
UPLock - Heavy Robot RL
U1CWwr - Light Leather Chest
U1PSen - Light Leather RA
UFireWwr - Marine RL
UCryoWwr - Light Metal Chest
UPFall - Heavy Robot Chest
UP - Heavy Robot RA
UPFDCwr - Wood LL
U7Led - Trapper Chest
UP - Urban Scout RL
UFireWwr - Wood Chest
UPBurn - Wood RL
Vanguard:
VPAwr - T51 Chest
VPStim - Forest Scout LA
V1iLimb - CE Chest
V7ledJunk - Light Combat RA
V1P - Heavy combat RL
VPLimb - Forest Scout chest
V1iWwr - Trapper LA
V1CSent - Excavator LL
V1iSent - Light Combat RA
V1CAwr - Forest Scout Chest
VPoisCav - Forest Scout Chest
V1iCav - Heavy Leather RA
VPSent - T45 LL
VPElec - Urban Scout LA
VPJwr - Urban Scout LL
Weightless:
W1iSent - Wood LL
W1iCav - Forest Scout LA
W1SWwr - Urban Scout LA
W1iWwr - Wood RA
W1SWwr - Heavy combat Chest
W1iFDCwr - Marine RL
WP - Sturdy Combat RA
WGlutFall - Heavy Robot LA
W1SAwr - Light Robot RL
W1iAwr - Sturdy Robot LA
WPCav - Wood LA
WP - Wood RL
Random:
Enclave aligned flamer barrel
Yellow bat
Legacy Shishkebab
Excavator Jetpack Chest ×2
PSA - Ultra Set
[APPAREL]
Bos Js
Brahman
Buffoon
Crazy guy
Deathclaw
Demon
Hag
Raven x2
Winter man x2
Skull lord set x2
[PLANS]
Behemoth Plushie x6
Pepper Shaker
Vintage Water cooler x8
Brahmin Plushie x8

Ive been homeschooled for like 5 years only and ive always been somewhat of a extrovert BUT BECAUSE OF HOMESCHOOL I WASNT ABLE TO GO OUT AND TALK TO ANYONE, OCCASIONALLY I GO OUT TO WALK???? BUT THATS SO BORING. whenever i bring up wanting to go back to public school my mom starts yapping about "If you get bullied again dont come to me crying blah blah blah" JUST BECAUSE I WAS BULLIED IN ELEMENTARY DONT MEAN ITS THE END OF THE WORLD. Everything i do she ALWAYS uses that against me like girl.... BUT I FEEL SO ISOLATED IM TIRED OF HEARING MY FAMILY ALL DAY... Like they get mad at me for having online friends...WHAT DO YOU EXPECT. I CANT GO OUT AND MAKE FRIENDS AND ITS BORING BEING FRIENDLESS LIKE LEAVE ME ALONE. ALL I DO IS SIT AT A LAPTOP SCREEN AND ROT AWAY IN MY STUPID ROOM AND NOW BECAUSE OF ALL THIS STUPID NO OTHER HUMAN INTERACTION OUTSIDE OF FAMILY WHENEVER I TRY TALKING TO ANYONE ELSE NOTHING COMES OUT, LIKE ILL BE WALIING AND SOMEONE SAYS EXCUSE ME ILL TRY SAYING SOMETHING BACK BUT NOTHING COMES OUT, JUST BEING IN PUBLIC MAKES MY STOMACH TURN LIKE IM ABOUT TO THROW UP, BUT STILL I YEARN FOR HUMAN INTERACTION ITS SO SKAGAKAV AHHGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHGGHHH ITS NOT FUN AT ALL GUYS RUN AWAY DONT DO IT UNLESS YOUR PARENTS WILL LET YOU GO BACK. I KNOW IT CAN PROBABLY BE BC SHE DOESN'T WANT ME TO GET BULLIED OR WTV BC IT AFFECTED ME I GUESS.....BUT IT WAS HER FUALT TOO💀 LIKE WHEN I WAS LITTLE SHE USED TO GET MAD AND BE LIKE "I WISH U WERENT BORN" OR "WHY CANT YOU BE LIKE BLAH BLAH BLAH" THAT'S WHY IM THE WAY I AM AND SHE WANNA GET MAD AT ME FOR IT😒 and now im on reddit ranting like some 40 yo man i need to stop.

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#Enable the "http" API on Computers. This also disables the "pastebin" and "wget" #programs, that many users rely on. It's recommended to leave this on and use the #"rules" config option to impose more fine-grained control. enabled = true #Enable use of http websockets. This requires the "http\_enable" option to also be true. websocket\_enabled = true #The number of http requests a computer can make at one time. Additional requests #will be queued, and sent when the running requests have finished. Set to 0 for #unlimited. #Range: > 0 max\_requests = 0 #The number of websockets a computer can have open at one time. Set to 0 for unlimited. #Range: > 1 max\_websockets = 4 #Limits bandwidth used by computers. \[http.bandwidth\] #The number of bytes which can be downloaded in a second. This is shared across all computers. (bytes/s). #Range: > 1 global\_download = 335544320 #The number of bytes which can be uploaded in a second. This is shared across all computers. (bytes/s). #Range: > 1 global\_upload = 335544320 #A list of rules which control behaviour of the "http" API for specific domains or #IPs. Each rule is an item with a 'host' to match against, and a series of #properties. Rules are evaluated in order, meaning earlier rules override later #ones. #The host may be a domain name ("pastebin.com"), wildcard ("\*.pastebin.com") or #CIDR notation ("127.0.0.0/8"). #If no rules, the domain is blocked. \[\[http.rules\]\] host = "$private" action = "allow" \[\[http.rules\]\] #The maximum size (in bytes) that a computer can send or receive in one websocket packet. max\_websocket\_message = 1310720 host = "\*" #The maximum size (in bytes) that a computer can upload in a single request. This #includes headers and POST text. max\_upload = 41943040 action = "allow" #The maximum size (in bytes) that a computer can download in a single request. #Note that responses may receive more data than allowed, but this data will not #be returned to the client. max\_download = 167772160 #The period of time (in milliseconds) to wait before a HTTP request times out. Set to 0 for unlimited. timeout = 0 

#Enable Command Block peripheral support command\_block\_enabled = false #The range of Wireless Modems at low altitude in clear weather, in meters. #Range: 0 \~ 100000 modem\_range = 64 #The range of Wireless Modems at maximum altitude in clear weather, in meters. #Range: 0 \~ 100000 modem\_high\_altitude\_range = 384 #The range of Wireless Modems at low altitude in stormy weather, in meters. #Range: 0 \~ 100000 modem\_range\_during\_storm = 64 #The range of Wireless Modems at maximum altitude in stormy weather, in meters. #Range: 0 \~ 100000 modem\_high\_altitude\_range\_during\_storm = 384 #Maximum amount of notes a speaker can play at once. #Range: > 1 max\_notes\_per\_tick = 8 #The limit to how much monitor data can be sent \*per tick\*. Note: # - Bandwidth is measured before compression, so the data sent to the client is # smaller. # - This ignores the number of players a packet is sent to. Updating a monitor for # one player consumes the same bandwidth limit as sending to 20. # - A full sized monitor sends \~25kb of data. So the default (1MB) allows for \~40 # monitors to be updated in a single tick. #Set to 0 to disable. #Range: > 0 monitor\_bandwidth = 1000000 

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Took a six month break from the game, played Cyberpunk with the new DLC, replayed Mass Effect (all 3), did a bunch of the Vampire Masquerade interactive novels, wasted a month on Starfield, futzed around with an epic new FO4 run, played the (somewhat dorky) Jedi Survival games ("Jump, bitch, jump!!"), spent many late nights in Crusader Kings III trying to establish my beautiful giant albino dynasty, and then came back to Skyrim a couple days ago. Skyrim still gets my vote for best game of all time (note to TW3 and RDR2: I love you too but you're not my bestie).
Licential Black Wabbajack download took two hours for 800+ mods, installed perfectly, played perfectly. Added another 1000 mods on top of it, including the 100+ epic mods from Serana Dead Sexy. I'm a couple hours into it, and apart from finding some new love for the vanilla start, I'm just amazed at all the new dialogue expansion mods using either AI or Elevenlabs. There are a ton of them, and they sound f*cking fabulous. And the Dragonborn Voiceover mods which add a player voice are incredible, and patched for virtually every popular mod -- now I'm Geralt in Skyrim, talking to everyone, swearing when I get smacked in battle, calling my horse Roach, asking where the hell Yennefer got to, etc. Seriously, the days of VA splicing are long gone. Just waiting for some crew of unknown modders to drop an entirely unthought-of new DLC into the game (think Vigilant) and it will be another year of gaming highs. In a worlld where today there are 68 new mods on Nexus, and 475 new mods this week, you know something epic is just around the corner. Pretty sure we'll have ChatGPT AI followers shortly and then everyone will be sitting openmouthed in their lazyboys going "WTF? How did she read my mind like that? Am I on camera? Moooooooooooom!"

Hi I just want to write this down here to express my feelings and yk Maka rant na din
So here's the thing, I am a transferry student. Nung first day ko super hiya Ako Kasi I'm an introvert person and talagang Hindi Ako lumilingon para kausapin Yung iba Kasi super mahiyain Ako, then One time Yung Babaeng president namin nakipag usap sakin and chika-chikahan kami until umabot sa point na naging komportable akong Kasama Siya and kalaunan naging mag bestfriend kami, and dahil naging magkaibigan kami Yung ibang friends Niya naging kaibigan ko na din...
Halos araw² kaming magkasama Kasi nga lunes-friday Yung pasok tapos maghapon pa, kapag sunday-friday bumabyahe Ako palagi papunta sa kanila para tumambay and magstudy together gawa ng mga Projects and Assignment..
Siguro masasabi ko na sa sobrang close talaga namin halos ma kabisado na namin kilos ng bawat Isa samin...Tapos kahit na like Maloko kaming dalawa pero Hindi naman namin pinapabayaan grades namin na umabot pa sa point na kapag may mga recitation palagi kaming sabay na nagtataas ng kamay and Yung report card namin is puro line of 9 (which is napaka thankful talaga) and super proud kami sa isat isa, ni Isang beses di namin binackstab or siniraan ang Isa sa Amin...
Pero Akala ko lahat ng yon magiging tunay talaga and magiging lifetime bestfriend ko na siya...not until after nung nag end Yung school year, nilipat ulit Ako sa ibang school dahil need sa business ng Tito ko so kailangan ulit na mag transfer Ako sa ibang school ulit, siguro Sabihin na nating nasa 3 or 4 months, halos araw² kaming nag uusap, kinakamusta Yung isat-isa and Inuupdate kalagayn namin sa school, nag tatalk kami about sa projects, subjects mga exam and etc....
Pero nung ilang months na busy Siya na umabot sa point na ilang minutes lang sa Isang araw kami nag uusap pero as her bestfriend naiintindihan ko naman Siya, then palagi ko siyang inaantay na Mag online kahit hating Gabi na para lang makamusta at Maka usap ko Siya, tapos niyang after mga 1 month mad Lalo siyang naging busy and nung una okay lang sakin understandable naman and sumunod na next week's okay lang din kahit Minsan nalang kami magkausap...
Then one day habang offline Siya Naisipan Kong I chat Yung Isa pa namin na kaibigan which is babae and mas nauna Siya na naging kaibigan nung bestfriend ko and Hanggang sa naging bestfriend ko na din Siya, tas Sabi ko sa kaniya jokingly "miss ko na siya, nagtatampo tuloy ako Kasi Minsan nalang kami magka usap". Then nag Sabi Siya sakin na "Kaya nga eh, busy na din Siya sa like boyfriend Niya". So Yung nag chikahan kami about life Hanggang sa kinahapunan nag chat sakin Yung bestfriend ko Sabi Niya "Galit ka daw sakin?". Tas Sabi ko "Ha? Sino may Sabi". And dun nag usap ang nag exchange kami ng words Hanggang sa umabot sa point na parang kinakausap na Niya Ako sa paraan na Hindi Niya naman ginanawa dati, and so Ako nag sorry Ako sa kaniya and Inexplain na Hindi naman ganun Yung sinabi ko....
Then chinat ko Yung friend ko na yon na kinausap ko last time and tinanong ko kung bakit naman Niya Ako siniraan dun and iniba Yung usapan and na shock Ako sa sinabi niya "Sorry, Wala na eh nangyari na siguro tanggapin nalang natin". And sa pagkasabi Niya nun Galit na Galit Ako na umabot sa point na umiiyak Ako and pati Yung pag aaral ko naapektuhan Kasi nga bestfriend ko Yun tas trinaydor Ako...
After nung mga 2 weeks siguro nalaman ko nalang na may sakit Ako sa kidney tas kidney stone anf ulcer tsaka sa Mattress ko, that time I was so devastated and frustrated at the same time, halos gabi² akong umiiyak habang nag susuffer mentally and physically...
After nung nalaman nung friend ko which is Yung nag betray sakin Sabi niya kaya do daw Yan laban lang...tas nung nalaman din ng bestfriend ko halos Wala man lang akong matanggap na message mula sa kaniya na kinamusta Niya ba Ako or nag hello man lang.....and natanong ko sa sarili ko bakit naman parang super laki ng kasalanan na nagawa ko sa kaniya na para I treat Niya Ako na parang Wala kaming pinagsamahan...
And After several days nalaman ko din na Silang dalawa parin Yung mag bestie and mas Pinaniwalaan Niya Siya kesa sakin...
Kaya natatanong ko nalang sa sarili ko why are they so unfair?....

If I won the lottery, I would buy KSP and finally run a decent game dev.
1) Development
>! I would hire the the sane team and bring in new people. Keep working on what they were working on. 1st meeting would be about the goals for KSP 2: EVERYTHING!.
Yup we are finally gonna give the community everything they want. Nothing is to big or to small to go on the punch list.
All ideas, suggestions and mods will be worked on. More planets. New systems. Interstellar travel. Custom Parts. Graphics upgrade. !<
2) Mods
>! No mod support. We don't want people to mod the game. We want to hire the modders. We want modders to bring their ideas and join the team to be able to use all the tools. Modders are a great source of creativity and works. Modding doesn't pay. They do it because they like the game.
Some people have great ideas but don't have skills to mod. Some modders produce high quality work. I want to contract these people and help them with their ideas.
We can't be a snobby dev. Once the modder has finished developing the feature we can throw more work their way and if they do well and want to stick with us, we have just found a new talent. One side of modding we can't do is IP. But we will partner with who we can to get the brands we love in the game !<
3) Deployment & Marketing
>! We would pull the game and work on the "EVERYTHING" frame work first. Make sure we have a structure that can support everything. We would release it once the bare bones is in and it has at least multiplayer, and 3 systems. Kerbol, a new system and RSS.
We would be open with the community on everything we are working on with weekly demos. We would expand our market to E-Sports and children. I want ads on YT and Tik-Tok and run yearly events. I want the game to make it easy to create and share content. !<
4) Monetization
>! I hate nickel and diming and GAAS. To cover the great endeavor we are going to have to go back to basics. Everyone is going to get everything and pay for it, upfront. There is some ceiling on game prices, we are going to break it.
No DLCs. No season passes. No skins. We have to accept the downsides of the strategy. Free to play gets more people in and benefits those who have little get to enjoy the base game.
Charging a huge price upfront means less people play at the start. We counter that by having a longer dev cycle. We should target KSP3 for 12-15 years down the line. The game will grow over time and then we will be in a better position for the next release. Higher prices also increases pirating. !<
5) Support
>! We want to be on consoles. But we are going to test the limits on PC. EVERYTHING has to be scalable. The base game has to be there for everyone even lower spec PCs. We would partner with a peripheral developer and get specific peripherals that are compatible with consoles. They should be cheap even if we have to subsidize them.
We will develop supporting apps so you can interact from mobile. Some features will be too complex, we should have features run from server side and pass the end result to the users. Even if it slows the game down.
Every customer support ticket will become a how to video. People are smart they just want the game to work. We will work to solve all issues even if we have to remote in. A problem for one person is a deal breaker for another person. We will have the highest quality game with the service and community to support it.!<
...if I won the lottery
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Build Help/Ready:

Have you read the sidebar and rules? (Please do)
Yes.
What is your intended use for this build? The more details the better.
My goal with the build for my new PC is to play the games I have on steam without hearing a very loud noise that the fan makes, on these recent times the sound started to annoy me when playing on my laptop. I want to be able to play games like Skyrim with mods (no graphic ones), DBXV2, .Hack//G.U. Last Recode, Digimon Masters Online, Mad Max, the metro games, Naruto games, Sunset Overdrive, and if possible The Witcher 3 and in the future Digimon World Next Order, Persona 3 Reload and Persona 5 Royal. I want to be able to play these and other games without hearing a turbine-like noise that the fan makes, I want one more quitter, and without feeling the heat that comes from the computer (laptop in my case right now).
If gaming, what kind of performance are you looking for?
Stable 30fps on the games I play; Low or medium settings, maybe higher if some requirements are met; I don’t care about RTX.
What is your budget (ballpark is okay)?
Around $180 per month.
In what country are you purchasing your parts?
México.
Post a draft of your potential build here (specific parts please). Consider formatting your parts list. Don't ask to be spoonfed a build (read the rules!).
PCPartPicker Part List

Type	Item	Price
CPU	AMD Ryzen 5 5500 3.6 GHz 6-Core Processor	$95.00 @ Amazon México
CPU Cooler	Amazon México says that processor comes with one.	$0.00
Motherboard	MSI B550M PRO-VDH WIFI Micro ATX AM4 Motherboard	$102.25 @ Amazon México
Memory	ADATA Memoria RAM DIMM XPG SPECTRIX D60G RGB 16GB DDR4 3200Mhz, Gris TUSTENO, Pequeño	$44.00 @ Amazon México
Storage	Kingston A400 960 GB 2.5" Solid State Drive	$55.40 @ Amazon México
Video Card	Sapphire PULSE Radeon RX 6500 XT 4 GB Video Card	€176.06 @ Amazon México
Case	Cylon White RGB ATX	$65.45 @ Amazon México
Power Supply	EVGA 550 N1, 550W, 2 Year, Power Supply 100-N1-0550-L1	$62.88 @ Amazon México
	Prices include shipping, taxes, rebates, and discounts
	Total	$ 601.04
	Generated by PCPartPicker 2024-05-14 04:55 CEST

Provide any additional details you wish below.
Sorry for bad English and redaction in advance.
With this build I can manage to fulfil or almost do the goal I want of the fan not making too much noise?
The RAM and case on the list I put links for them from Amazon México because I could not find them on pcpartpicker, also the case I put on the list is just a filler for the format, I don’t want the RBG/lights on the case, I would prefer to use no case or get a simplecheaper one, I hope someone could recommend one like that. The RAM I have from amazon is only one module of 16gb just in case.
Most of the pieces are on little discounts right now on Amazon México, but starting tomorrow there is a week of sales so maybe the prices that I listed (that I converted from pesos to dollars) may be cheaper, but I could only buy few pieces per month because I have to use part of the money I get for different things.
The monitor I plan to get is a cheap one with HDMI, 30ghz/60ghz and the same size as the one my laptop has, but for a time I would just use the tv as a monitor while I save some money to buy it.
If possible, I would like to know if the MB has Bluetooth, because some of the things I use needs it, so I want to know this detail.
My plan is to keep the build for many years, because I don’t think I could afford something much more expensive.
I would love, if possible, to receive advice on which piece to buy first to start making this build. Also would like to know if I could somehow save some money on any of the pieces.
Thanks in advance for your opinions and have a good night.
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Over the years I've become conflict avoidant with my parents to the point that I just barely interact with them anymore. My mom can be very paranoid and controlling and I usually let her get away with it because as a person with depression and anxiety I just don't have the energy to deal with an argument that I know will turn into a two hour monologue of her life story and how she's so right and I'm so wrong. But this time, it was different. I was heading out to college and as the controlling person she is she wants to go with me literally everywhere (like, I can't go to a different aisle at the supermarket on my own)This time I wanted to go on my own, that's it. We were at the door, I was already running late and I told her I was going on my own. SHE WAS SHOCKED and gave me this "how dare you even say that" look. She went between being mad, to guilt tripping me, to almost crying, trying to bargain by telling me she was just going to walk me to the bus station. She ended up telling me, with puppy eyes, that it was unfair, to just let her do this one thing, that it meant so much for her... When she literally said "but what about me 😭", that's when I snapped. I told her "what about you!? What about me! I've been letting you accompany me everywhere because if I even dare to make an objection I get hit with a "it's because you hate me, isn't it? You act like I've never, ever let you go with me. No, YOU let me have this one thing where I feel like a somewhat independent individual that knows how to get to college in their own". She still wasn't getting it and was still taking it as a personal attack but I managed to hold my ground and straight up tell her "NO. You will not come with me". After some attempts and her still going up to the door ready to ignore everything I said, I stopped her and told her for the last time "YOU ARE NOT GOING". And finally, finally I was able to go on my own to the damn bus station.

I am able to do anything without having someone do it for me. I’ve been known to fix or even mod whatever to bring it back k to life. That being said, I am full timing it in a class c (I think?) with my 3 teenage boys and a dog. My parents own the it, and basically needed someone to take care of it. Long story short, here I am. Inexperienced with no real help. I could use advice on everything. I have no clue what needs maintained, fixed, or what isn’t supposed to be, but is. My biggest problem right now is the water and toilet…winter MAYBE caused a pipe to burst, and when I turned the water supply on, it shot out of the bathrooms faucet handles like mad, and I shut it off again before flooding the place. Since then, we go to the public bathrooms to get water and shower. We are staying at a nice trailecamp ground close to the city. The toilet became clogged and I fixed it with some blue tank stuff (I have no idea what it is called exactly, but it breaks down bad things, while also neutralizing odors), and a special plunger, but not the snake kind. All was well until 4 days ago when the toilet clogged again. This time I’ve been plunging for hours day after day, and it is only draining a little. I was able to plunge out some napkins, which most likely fell in by accident. NOTHING gets put down the toilet EVER.Recently , whenever I plunge, water is coming out of the bathroom sink. Omg I’m overwhelmed with questions to ask what to do, what everything is, and how to do it. They mention emptying grey tanks. I thought our sewage was paid through what I pay the RV park to stay here. I don’t know what to do. Can anyone just begin telling me some of the tasks I am needing to do for maintenance?? My parents most likely hired someone, or didn’t understand what they were doing. One can only watch so many YouTube videos. Please no judgment. The situation that pulled me to this challenge was unavoidable, but I am determined to come out of this a pro. Thank you in advance, and sorry if I seem all over the place with my explanation. I just have no clue what I am doing, and I need as much help, tips, and advice I can get!

Engaged 8 years- with him for 10 years this August. Long story short - it’s not good. Hasnt been for over 7 years tbh. I know ya’ll know what that means basically. We are both 49. Both never been married before our engagement 8 years ago. No kids. I am downright trauma bonded I finally see for the last 8 yrs tho. Sure there’s polite talk, literally that’s all it is. Polite talk until I “freak out and get emotional” by asking if we can have a date night or take a walk together. Because he is sooooo far away from me today and all I’ve been doing is questioning myself, trying to be prettier, trying to cook more, trying to not show hurt feelings when he’s dismissive or worholding….. It’s apparent to anyone in the room and I’ve had feedback from concerned friends over the years. Basically my friends arent fans - haven’t been for years.
Ok sorry- usual daily- he comes home from work. Says hi. I say hi. He shows enormous amounts of love to the dog then goes to his computer to social media surf. I make dinner he eats it and goes to bed. Thats our interaction every day unless I’m working. I’m an semi successful artist. (I pay my own bills, rent and run my own art studio, make enough to survive as I try to grow but def couldn’t do it without a supportive partner. Which he was supportive in our 2 year together. He knew I owned my own townhouse then, and bartended twice a week to make whatever ends my art didn’t meet at the time. I was pretty well known in our little downtown from bartending and having my art in neighboring restaurant in the community. We reconnected through fb messenger- he tagged me in a lot of bartending themed posts- we dated and a year later he sold his condo and moved into my townhouse. I was ready for my life long partner. After a year of co living, he proposed - we made plans to get a larger home together so I sold my townhouse, put 15k downpayment on it because I had the recent liquid cash and he didn’t- he just had the good salaried job to get approved for financing. fast forward to today- I am on the deed not on the mortgage. I pay cash to my “fiancè” every month to contribute this house we own together. After a year of giving him straight cash every month at his request, I asked if he would just give me some or all utilities so my name would be back out in the credit space. And he said no. I asked if we could get a joint account so I could put that monthly cash money in a “house” account where we would both contribute and pay house stuff from that. He said “sure, but not right this second”. That was always his answer to me - “Not right this second”. Basically I went from having my own place, utilities, mortgage, credit, etc and being madly in love with this guy (who I’ve known since highschool but we never dated, just always shared mutual crossovers/crossed paths a lot since 1995) to living in a house that only had my name on the deed. I worried I was a ghost in the credit space. Like the only thing he allowed me to put my name on was the trash pickup service. (He said he’d rather not get trash service and use his jobs trashbin… like wtf?). But said of if I wanted to get trash service then I could pay for that. Ahhh usual me- not a short story and I’m rambling. I’ve also had drinks. Just trying to give context. Ok- We never go out together. He goes to his BF music studio most weekends and stays til 3-4am. We haven’t had sex in over two years. I sleep in the guest room for the same amount of time. (I went there one night after a fight because he said he was tired of being my crutch and I need to contribute more financially and it literally came after him being silent/bad mood for a week and I would ask “Hey, did you have a bad day at work? What’s wrong how can I help?” He doesn’t talk to me about “feelings”. Anytime I ask to sit down and talk about how to fix whatever is wrong his response is ALWAYS and defensive curtness “I don’t want to talk about it”. So we just had one of these outbursts. Where I say “hey, what’s going on. Why are you being so curt with me? Talk to me” and he said “ya know what’s wrong with me? You owe my $1100 because you haven’t paid xyz and it stems back to August. “ I was floored because it’s just not true. But I give him cash and I guess that’s where I fucked up. Sometimes I get paid in cash for my paintings and when I do, I put it aside and give him that cash when it comes due every month. Anyway it blew up to me crying being confused and asking him why he didn’t say anything in August or September why is he bringing it up now. Why is he talking to me like a dog and to please stop and just talk to me about why he’s so damn angry. It ended up with him telling me he’s tired of being my crutch and we haven’t been “good for 5 years” and he wants to sell the house, get his money and live the life that he wants. And I pointed out that all I’ve been doing is trying to fight for us, trying to get us to be together and be number one for one another. And why if he knew all this and yet was still unsatisfied with me why he has kept me around for so long without communicating his displeasure with me. And he said - “Because you won’t leave”. It ended with me saying we can get a mediator or lawyer and figure out the easiest way to sell, split whatever we agree on and move on. Ot all just hit me that I need to let him sell this house and I will figure it out. This all happened Saturday. Jesus this sucks. Anyway- it blew up to where I said I’m done. I felt done. He clapped. I went to my room and have basically been avoiding being in the house when he’s here and just going to my studio until he goes to bed. Thing is he took off work today. Dont know why. So when I got up and saw his car out front, I went to the studio all day and worked late on purpose. Came home at 10:30pm- he usually goes to bed around 9:30 but was still in living room watching tv. I walked in and went to the kitchen and he instantly said “I’m going to bed you can have the tv” and I didn’t respond. He went to bed. I was getting iced tea out of the fridge when after standing there for a min- I smelled gas. I look over to the stove and the knob is turned slightly to the left as if you were about to ignite it. I instinctively turned it back to the off position but then kinda freaked out a bit. Like why does it smell like gas. And why was that knob turned. Literally the gas was seeping ever so slightly out enough for me to smell it after about 30sec drinking my tea. Am I just being paranoid? There is no evidence of cooking - I even checked the trash for leftover or scrapings of food. This took me forever to write. But I just felt I had to document this without freaking out my mom or my friends.

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The rift between them has caused a lot of tension in my family and now my mom wants to be in the life of her newborn grandson but refuses to address or try to mend things with my wife.
Little history: I probably introduced them too quickly. My grandmother was in town in south Florida about to move here from Illinois for a retirement community. My wife, girlfriend at the time, came with cookies or some form of baked goods like she usually does when visiting someone as a sign of affection and respect. Where it went wrong from here I have no idea. I suppose the initial crack was when wife scheduled a skitrip for her and I to have as a 1 year of dating anniversary present. We are not rich, this is a huge gift that made sense to her since I refused to let her pay rent. Our combines salaries are barely over 120k. So wife calls mom 6 months in advance because she is a planner for the sole purpose of asking my mom to watch one of our four dogs. Wife has already paid in full for the trip. Yet Mom decides it is a great idea to instead use the opportunity to hop on and take a family trip because it is the last time the family will have for a family vacation - I am the oldest of two boys and two stepsisters, my mom married the guy she left my father for who has twin girls of his own that were in the womb during the infidelity. Anyway mom completely takes over and decides to make our one year gift a family vacation, so she books tickets for a hotel nearby. Wife is bold but at the time not bold enough to stop my mom in her tracks for overstepping a boundary. At this time she still respected my mother and kind of let herself get steamrolled.
Probably skippable Family history: Now I have always had issues with my mother, resentment for leaving my father for my stepdad behind my own fathers back and constantly trying to keep brother and I from seeing “Disneyland dad who doesn’t do any of the work but gets all the fun.” my mother was very strict growing up, always bringing us to church and making my father feel guilty for not bringing brother and I on his weekend. So mom marries stepdad age 11, divorces him around 13 after asking me advice for her relationship and i encourage her to move out. Then remarries him and moves us back into his house age 15. Here I begin rebellion and normal teeenager stuff but stepdad won’t butt in because he isn’t my “biological father” so would have my mom intervene brother and i from behind the scenes. For example, I am young and messing around on the piano because music is important and I never had any formal training and mom comes in to tell me stepdad “wants to know when the concert is going to end because it is a little annoying.” Anyway, they have me prescribed adderall at 16 and in the parking lot holding my first prescription I am told that they would like me to move out and in with my father, who had chased us every time mom and stepdad moved several miles away (5 moves from age 5-15 all in one county). Anyway, brother and I are recovering alcoholics with (my) slipups triggered from interactions or visiting my mom, which mom claims is genetics from my father alone and has nothing to do with her. Maternal grandfather, mother, and I have some nasty temper problems which certainly are exacerbated by drinking (at least mine and moms).
Skitrip revelations: Wife and I are on the way to brothers graduation in Chicago, and wife has yet to reveal to me that my mother has taken over her massive investment of a couples ski vacation and it will now be a family vacation for mom, stepdad, brother, two stepsisters who are all getting out of gradschool. On the way to the airport I am told the news by future wife of my one year surprise. So I get upset and call my mom to call it off. She obliges my request and now holds resentment against me and now wife for “ruining her last family vacation.” Fine, whatever. Mother never says a word about it for months until we are out for a distant family members birthday dinner and at a table of about 8-10 people that are having a group conversation and gets real close to my wife’s ear and tells her privately along the lines of “you deprived our family of our last family vacation.” During this time my wife is frantically tapping my leg under the table because my mom can get a little aggressive. My mom saw this and later (privately to me) mocked her for doing it to my leg under the table.
Christmas blessings: Closer to Christmas maybe 2/3 weeks later we went to go see my mom and my mom had a couple drinks in her (not an alcoholic like brother and I just very sensitive to a couple glasses of wine and occasionally some hidden sips of wine or something) and invites my wife to Christmas church and out to dinner after because the family needs photos for a Christmas card and future wife “will be the photographer for it.” Now this can easily be a nothing comment but given the way my mom had been making future wife feel, it was taken as an insult. So wife declined church and showed up to family dinner just in time for photography session to be over.
The distance: Then mom moves to a fancy house up the coast and invites us up to visit. At first it is ok to bring the 4 dogs then the day before she says they will not have dogs at the house and we can easily find a sitter. 2 Dogs don’t get along, they need to be separated always as there has been two attacks on one from the other, so we can’t trust someone to come to the house and keep them separate and we won’t board 4 dogs it’s too expensive for us. Anyway we go back and forth being invited with the dogs then they retract the offer and say pick one dog to bring and leave the others and it’s just annoying, so we say forget it and don’t go. But my brother becomes engaged and decides to throw his engagement party at my mom’s new place near the beach. Great. First all the dogs are welcome, then day before they say it is too chaotic and she will pay for a small hotel room for one night for future wife and her dogs and my one (the attack dog) can stay in a crate at the house with me but I may not leave the dog to stay with her. And no reasonable cheap hotel in the area is going to accommodate 4 dogs. Anyway wife is stressed but feels obligated to come because I am the best man and I stay at the house while she checks her dogs into the hotel. Wife had made a cheesecake and brought it up in a separate car from me, 4 hour drive by the way, and night of.. my mom says no desserts for engagement party dinner, the dessert is themed or some crazy stuff. Wife shows up to dinner a little later and very flustered because of the situation plus I had relapsed on a bottle of whiskey a couple days prior to seeing my mom. Related, I don’t know. Anyway. Mom has had a couple drinks and future wife and I are talking about having children and religion comes up. Mom asks what we were thinking of doing about baptism or not and I jokingly said (guiltily to get on my moms nerves a bit) that he would have a bris and would love it if she would come to the bar mitzvah. now my wife’s mom was forced to convert from Catholicism to Judaism for her own mother in laws acceptance for a failed marriage so wife is not religious, but it hurt my wife and reasonably so when my mom replied “oh, son, I raised you better than that.” Still no acknowlegement of fault from that comment and mom thinks wife is “overly sensitive, dramatic, and childish” for wanting an apology for it.
Weddings: Future wife becomes current wife. We had gotten engaged on our next anniversary trip she planned for us. I proposed on our bike and barge through tulip season in holland with our feet in the water of the North Sea after a picnic in the dunes. her family business manufactures photo albums for professional photographers, so aside from our families all being divorced, estranged, difficult, and us trying to save money, we did not have a wedding, we just did the paperwork within a month of the proposal. I had already decided to have a baby with her before the trip so we were trying. 2 weeks before brothers wedding in Tennessee we become pregnant, so we break news immediately as to not steal limelight from brothers expensive wedding. Mom says she will cover cost of rental car so we can save money. Ok great. She books the tiny car and we pack it and head up the Smokey mountains to the cabins we are staying at. Two cabins for grooms family, one for his mother and one for his father, ten paces from each other: they havnt spoken but twice im since divorce in 1995 but through lawyers. Grandmother, mother, stepdad, 2 stepsisters and one boyfriend stayed in mom’s side. Wife and I stay at father’s side cabin with just his wife. His Wife’s 3 daughters and family’s stayed a town away down the mountain among extended family. Anyway, beautiful wedding takes place. My wife is sent into town to collect flowers and run errands for my mom which she happily obliged to since she is a solitary person and did not want wedding day drama. Day after, we are loading our rental sedan with our bags. Mom and grandma need a ride to the airport and our flight is before theirs so they will drop off the car for us 4 hours or so after we go to the airport 5 hours from current time. We’re loading the car. Stepcousin passed out in mother’s cabin night before and needed a ride. Disorganized brunch for 20 people is trying to be made. Father’s wife’s daughter books a reservation for 10 people which include her family, her sisters, me, my wife, dad, and their mom. My stepdad had left for home at this point as he had taken his own suv instead of flying with my mom and 90 year old grandma. So mom is trying to pack grandma in the car with bags and my wife and stepcousin. At this point mother asks stepmother if she and grandma are on reservation for the brunch. Stepmom says no they are not, she wasn’t sure of their plans. Mom says under her breath “fucking assholes, so typical,” and she goes into a bit of a rage to which my stepmom says here “it’s ok I will call and add you two it’s no big deal.” So we continue packing the car and realize we won’t all fit. So my wife tells my stepcousin to go ride with my father to the restaurant 10 minutes away we will meet you there. Mom says to wife, “no you go with the father.” Wife says “no I am going to ride with my husband” mom gets close to her face with her finger and says “this is my car, you can fucking Uber!” Wife is 6 weeks pregnant at this point and it all escalated from here. wife and mother start yelling at each other swearing at each other and we get into the car, mom behind wife who was in shotgun. 2 occasions on the trip I had to stop the car because mom had taken off her seatbelt to stand over the seat and scream in my wife’s face with so much vigor that spit came on to her face multiple times. I’m trying to tell them both to behave and mom sit down shut the f up. Mom is telling wife to get the f out of the car and find a ride, she has no right to speak because she’s “new here” (dating and living together for 3 years at this point). The following brunch she apologized in a crowd with a hushed voice at a table of 20 people trying to have a group conversation again privately to my wife “I’m sorry you get so upset” and my wife told her “that is not an apology.” The following several hours in the car with grandma and stepcousin and wife were some of the most uncomfortable moments of my life. At a gas station I pulled my mom aside and said I need ther to give a huge apology, that it was so nasty and inappropriate, my brother and I are used to abusive language and aggressive behavior but to my pregnant wife and any other human being it is disgusting and unacceptable. Sitting in the car was quiet for many hours until we got to the airport. No speaking about what happened just mom happy go lucky about Tennessee and Dollywood and wife and I in shock, cousin still half in the bag from a fun wedding, grandma 90 years old probably confused about what happened.
The family groupchat: Im waiting on an apology from my mother to my wife who is extremely hurt and expressed to my mom loads of time she needs to reach out and apologize. We’re not talking until she will do so. It is bugging me and keeping me up at night. My appendix flares up and I am admitted to the hospital with emergency appendectomy. Still pregnant Wife suggests I reach out to mom to let her know what’s going on. So I text mom I’m at the hospital and will have surgery. I send a pic or something that on my end says hasn’t gone through. Mom group texts our family group with stepdad, his daughters, brother and his wife, and grandma that I am in the hospital and attaches the pic I sent of me in there. Then she continues to rave about the success of her startup company and how they got FDA approved clinical trials finally completed or some pivotal moment that made the text about her. Wife and I are in a hospital so the picture comes up on moms end as unable to have been sent. Mom assumes that my wife has blocked her phone, so mom removes my wife from the chat. Wife is rushing home to take care of the dogs at this point and is not alerted on her phone, but on everyone else’s phone it clearly reads “(mom) has removed (wife) from the chat.” Immediately I text my mom and basically say how dare you do that to her she is the one who insisted I let you know out of respect and mom responds with blah blah she did this she did that I will not have it. So I go back to the family chat and remove mother. At this point I let everyone in the chat know what my mother has done and how she refuses to take responsibility for how she made my wife feel, address her feelings, apologize or do anything at all to reach out about the wedding incident or even inquire about the wellbeing of the pregnancy for her first grandchild. Stepdad finally steps in and tells me “enough.” Grandma says “shame on you.” I am dumbfounded. This is a hush hush family that hates to have anything out in the open and likes to maintain a picture perfect image. For examples; 1) I and wife were on the family Christmas card of a photo taken at the wedding that the whole world received except for wife and I. 2)brothers alcoholism was to remain hidden from the family as was his rehab treatment and how it affected his career. Now understand that they like to keep things quiet but that is not how I want to handle my problems, these things trigger alcohol use and violent outbursts on my part that I no longer wish to live through. Now appendectomy’s are pretty simple so I recovered quickly (it don’t rupture we just took it out). But during the time I was scheduled to be under anesthesia, stepdad reaches out to wife to have a chat and clear the air. Wife waits until I come to so i can be there and I hear the conversation. He claims to be here as a middleman like a business meeting to fix things once and for all. Wife and I are like wow great. He then proceeds to double down on my moms behalf that they will not be apologizing or meet any of her demands as she had already apologized as confirmed by 90yo grandma who was in the car and my mother herself. The term he used was stalemate to describe the situation. Wife and I are shocked but she has me keep quiet to show me what he will say. He proceeds to yell at her and they were screaming at each other, again steamrolling the conversation assuring us that he was down the middle yet maintains that mom has made a sufficient apology that needs to be accepted and wife needs to grow up and move on, then wishing her luck with the baby and a nice life. Next day I call stepdad to see how it went. He reassures me that he has done all he can and everything is back to normal. At this point I call him out and tell him I was conscious and explain to him what an apology is. But there is no dialogue with this guy like there is no dialogue with my mother. He proceeds to talk loudly over me like she does and basically call me a piece of shit for the amount he and mother have done for me. I speak to him first time like I never have before by calling him a hands off father and a pussy of a man who finally reaches out while he thinks I am under anesthesia to yell at my wife then pretend it’s cool, and I basically tell him he has never done a single thing for me to try and develop me into a man or nurture me as a child into an adult, but he thinks taking me on fishing trips and ski vacations are equivalent to love and nurturing growth and development just like my mom does. I reassure him that he has no right to talk about family being that he ruined his own as well as mine and couldn’t even tell my dad to his face that it was him who was sleeping with my mom behind his back when my dad came to him very upset as a friend when he got an anonymous phone tip at work one day. Then him and my mom laughed about it in court when my dad brought it up during the divorce. We ended with swearing and I felt very happy for finally giving my true feelings to him.
The birth: Months go by and nobody has said a thing. I can’t sleep at night seeing how much love I am getting from my father and his side for the baby, and my wife’s family, then thinking about how my own mother hasn’t reached out a single time. I’m dreaming about beating up my stepdad and it’s driving me mad. So weeks before the due date I reach out to my mom begging her to clear things up and apologize to my wife. Nothing. A week later i tell her how disappointed and abandoned I feel and want her in the family. Nothing. Baby comes a couple days early. Everyone is excited. Mom texts me begging for photos and to let everyone know. I tell her my brother and two stepsisters have received photos. I ask her to please reach out to wife she still needs to make amends for what’s happened between them and all she needs to do is reach out. Mom’s responses have been defensive, derisive, projecting, playing victim and referring to herself as a kicked puppy. Telling me my wife needs to apologize to her and making the conversation about mother son instead. She is beating around the bush. And she is sending me photos of my own baby that I did not send her. Her friends are congratulating me that I did not tell. Again she is pretending that everything is ok and it is not. She asked me to apologize to her husband for what I said on the phone that day. I said ok, watch this. So I sent the guy a message that was very apologetic and not passive aggressive or backhanded comments in any way. Still my mom won’t say anything.
Now: Baby is 6 days old. He is the best thing in my life and I wish my family were involved but it seems like I am living in a fantasy world where everyone can be happy together. I can be a jerk and have a terrible relationship with my mom, but I want more than anything to just feel loved enough where she can swallow her pride and make amends with my wife. Thats it. And she asked the other day to put a family group chat so everyone can be involved… for real? I know she is stressed with a high pressure job, but it seems heartless to me. She asks what big items she can get for the baby. Mom, baby is here we have everything for a couple months already. I said the biggest thing you can do is reach out and have a heart to heart with my wife so this rift can end and we can at least be cordial if you two can’t get along. I don’t think it will happen.
How do I mend this relationship between my wife and my mother?

I don't expect the mods to let this through, and if they do then I expect to get a lot of down votes.
When I joined this sub, I expected to see lots of care tips and tricks for people with cats. The best litter boxes, best cheap toys, best expensive toys, best interactive toys, best vet schedules, best cat trees, healthiest food, healthiest treats, best health monitoring methods, best training methods,........ You know...... things that would help someone care for a cat properly.
Instead, it is consistent pictures of wounds on animals that should have already been to a doctor.
I believe that many people here feel this way, because these posts are always met with "take them to the vet" responses.
Maybe I'm just in the wrong sub?

i am rewatching season 4. i have been watching them again out of order recently. there is a common theme i want to bring up.
it’s the small things that really get me. u.s. americans can be lazy and expect others to just “get” their culture and language. for sure. i also just feel like, if you love someone…wouldn’t you want to learn as much as you can about them to better your interactions with them? like in all of these couples, a good majority of them don’t even take the time to understand anything about their partner’s home country, let alone visit it.
here’s an example that made me mad. watching the scene where pedro meets gege, chantel’s friend, he kisses her on the cheek. because that’s a cultural thing in latin america, people do that there when they greet each other. chantel jokingly was like “brooo why’d you do that” but i’m also like…if you knew even the most basic things about your partner’s culture that type of misunderstanding wouldn’t happen.
maybe i could’ve had a better example but that one really kinda made me mad. it’s one of the most basic understandings of how people greet each other in latin american countries. i learned that shit in like fifth grade.

Every year or so I decide to boot up Fallout 4. And every time I would use Vortex to manage the mod loading chores. When I heard about the new TV series and the game upgrade I decided to give it another go.
So I downloaded a bunch of mods with Vortex and as usual I experienced the occasional CTD and flickering textures. I can deal with that. But what I cannot deal with is micro stutter. It drives me mad, to the point that I would stop playing. The stutter appears to be related to Loading cells. Even with some great mods installed that would assist with this issue, and tweaking the ini files, the stutter persisted.
I was about to throw in the towel once again. Then i remembered MO2 and decided to give it a shot. Much to my surprise and delight I have not experienced one micro-stutter in the past week, since changing over to MO2. Not one. I don't know what MO2 does differently, but it works.
If anyone out there is using Vortex and is experiencing the same issues , I would highly suggest making the move over to MO2.