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prejudice against bisayas

2024.05.16 19:05 AltruisticAd5415 prejudice against bisayas

Grabe na bala subong ang prejudice saton no? kis a kapilikon kay gatan aw ka lang tiktok tas magkadto ka sa comments may makita ka degrading comments about sa mga bisaya pro mostly ml players man lang na sila nga gapasagod huhu gin himo nila ya trend ngik
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2024.05.16 18:59 Legitimate-Injury-47 Need recommendations for a monitor for the PS5

Hello, pa reco naman ng monitor for the ps5. Im not sure if better to go get the gigabyte m28u(around 35k) since hdmi 2.1 na siya. Or should i just settle for a 2k monitor from ROG(around 18k) but with hdmi 2.0 only. Im aware that most games cant really go 4k and lots of them are having a hard time maintaining 60fps. Malaki ba talaga ang difference ng hdmi 2.1? Thanks in advance gamers :)
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2024.05.16 18:59 Ok_Introduction6367 25F Middle child. How do you handle negative thoughts?

So Im the middle child of the 3 sisters. Ate is a very successful in both career and love. I just graduated and on the job hunt. Youngest just started college.
To make the story short, nag away kami ng bunso. Matagal na kaming magkaaway to the point na natrato ko sya na parang hangin sa buong high school life nya. Something happened when she was in grade 7 and that nailed the coffin na Im never gonna speak with her again. (I think it was when she used my one and only black shoes, and that day I didnt have pe so I have to wear my uniform. Hindi ako nakapasok that day kasi strict ang rules ng school ko regarding uniforms).
I saw her as a bratty spoiled bossy littleshit na dapat lahat ng gusto nya nasusunod. Lagi kaming nag aaway dahil sa ugali nya at sa lagi nyang pangunguha ng gamit ko na ginagamit ko. Ang malala pa ay mababalik nalang sa akin na sira pa. She never apologized, and she even has the gal to raise her tone than mine, as if I was the one in the wrong.
I am sensitive to my own things specially my personal and art materials cause I bought them with my own money/saved allowance. Im a crafty person so i buy a lot of things. Nakikita ko sya as luho so never akong nanghingi pambili ng something I liked.
There were many time na napuno ako and pinapatulan ko na sya. But as always, sya kinakampihan at binebaby ng mama. Every time she used something na consumable or nasira nya, si mama ang taga ayos nya. Para wala daw gulo at tumigil na ako sa immature acts ko. And I think that was not the point? Im talking about her shit personality and not being respected as an older sister. But as always, laging bukang bibig sa akin ay mabibili,mapapalitan yan, matanda ka na, intindihan mo mas bata sayo ganyan ka din dati. I adjusted and put locks on my desk, cabinet and drawer, to no avail. Minsan kinukuha nyang pataho susi ko, or pinipilit nyang buksan.
And sa kwarto, napaka bossy nya. Laging nakakalat yung pinagkainan nya, and it smells, laging nakatapat sa kannya yung electric fan, and all.
Whenever we fight, I was always seen in the wrong. Ako yung sinisigawan pabalik ni mama kapag nasasapak ko na minsan. I know Im a veryyyy patient person. May mga times lang na sobra na akong napupuno, and thats the only time I put her into her place.
And this time, things escalated, at ako na yung pinapalayas since tapos naman na daw ako. Dalhin ko na daw mga gamit ko para wala nang kumuha. To be honest, wala na akong pinipiling trabaho basta may tumanggap lang. Alis na alis na din naman talaga ako. All these time napaka negative nila. Job hunting is really tiring, rejections after rejections, to the point na nawawala na self confidence ko at sobrang negative na ako sa sarili ko. Then negative pa environment ko, which is not really helpful sa pag try ko sa self improvement plan ko. Ate thinks that Im just being too emotional, na i need to grow up since the earth is big and its nonsense.
Was it really my fault? Oa lang ba talaga ako? I also want to change. Ayaw ko naman na din isipin. But whenever I'm alone, not doing anything, like before going to bed... voices just keeps pouring and pouring and I really have no control over it. Lagi akong nagcoconcert ng happy rock songs sa isip ko para lang di ko marinig yung mga shit thoughts.
How can you handle this??
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2024.05.16 18:59 EulowInTheCrib bat ganorn

do u find if annoying pag iniindicate niyo sa note to driver sa GrabFood na 1k exact bill nyo and di makaka-bayad ng exact amount, then pag may nahanap na driver you’ll say the same thing (yung wala pambayad ng exact kasi buo pera), sasabihin nila na wala silang panukli or gcash nalang? sino ba talaga dapat ang mag adjust? na-curious lang ako since it happened to me rn hahahaha nagkaka-cognitive dissonance ako and just wanna hear other people’s opinion on this.
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2024.05.16 18:54 anarchpluto okay lang pala hayaang mamatay ang pusa no?

Gusto mo yon nagsisimba linggo linggo pero gusto mo hayaan kong mamatay yung pusa na inaalagaan ko for two years LOL
"pusa lang yan" and all that shit. wala kasing kaluluwa ang mga hayop no? just an animal and god made humans above all creatures so who gives a shit? They dont go to heaven right?????
tapos pag sinabihan kitang hindi maganda ang sinasabi mo, sasabihin mo galit ako at hindi ako perpektong anak... Ano konek? So okay lang hayaan mamatay ang pusa kasi hindi ka perpektong ina?
lakompake sa linggo linggo mong simba. mapapatawad ka ng diyos pero di ka mabuting ina. wala kang puso.
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2024.05.16 18:53 Sufficient_Remove123 COWD

Okay ra sainyo e privatize ang cowd para less gubot BUT SUPER INCREASE BILLS? Ka level na ang MANILA in terms of the bills hahahahah
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2024.05.16 18:53 wabisabi997 Always find reason

Ang tanong nga nila "para kanino ka bumabangon?". Everyday we always find a reason to wake up, to work, to push through, to survive the day/the week/ the month/ our whole life.
When I first met you, I found reasons para ma off sayo, para sabihin sa sarili ko na di na tayo magkaka 2nd meet. Until you gave me a reason to stay and to like you. And during the relationship, I always try my hardest to find reasons to still love you, para di ka sukuan.
And now that it's all gone and I need to move on, I am now finding reasons to not love you anymore. And I hope one day, I will find the reason why we dont work.
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2024.05.16 18:53 yerakish PHYSICAL EXAM

hello! can i take the vaccine boosters that was recommended nung doctor even if may pinapaulet po sa akin na test? medyo d ko kse naasikaso ung phys exam ko since jampacked ang gawain
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2024.05.16 18:53 _hatdawg inamin sakin ng gf ko na nabuntis sya ng ex nya not once but twice

pa vent out lang medyo nabigla lang sa revelation sakin ng gf ko na nabuntis sya ng ex nya twice pero wala kahit isang nag survive (nalaglag) sa una pa lang iniinsist ng ex na ipalaglag yung bata pero naulit pa. naniniwala naman akong gusto nya ikeep ang baby pero grabe yung love nya don base sa mga kwento nya. shes 18 ngayong taon and nangyari yon about 2021-2022. sya yung first love ko at gusto ko sya na magiging asawa ko ganon din sya sakin, pero nong nalaman ko yon inaamin kong medyo nawala feelings ko sa kanya kasi parang ang unfair. sa tingin nyo ang immature ko ba pag hiniwalayan ko sya o iintidihin ko na lang sya hanggang sa matanggap ko?
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2024.05.16 18:47 nars_elle Kainggit

Ang hirap nang hindi ko solo sahod ko. Mga kabatch ko nakapasa na as USRN, less than a year palang kameng nurse pero nasundan na agad nila at ready na lumipad, need nalang nila ng experience dito tas pwede na umalis.
Mga senior nurses ko rin dito sa work ngayon, since matagal na silang nurse, mga may ipon na. Sila rin nag aasikaso na mag NCLEX.
Ako, eto, nag aabang lage ng sahod para mabudget for myself and para sa bahay. Kada sahod ko, ubos, walang tira. Just enough to get by. Ni wala akong matabi para makapag asikaso ng papeles man lang kahit sa mismong pagtake ng exam.
Hirap ng ganto na nakapag trabaho ka lang, naging one day millionaire na ang pamilya. Yung tipong inaraw araw na mag aircon, halos buong araw nakabukas. Tapos hindi nagtitipid sa kuryente at tubig. Yung akala nakapag trabaho lang ang anak eh yumaman na.
Kakainggit. Gusto ko nang takasan tong buhay na to at mag abroad. Kaso pag naging selfish ako, nandun yung mentality ng mga pinoy na wala akong utang na loob sa magulang ko.
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2024.05.16 18:46 c_easyonme Let's Connect and Find Friends

Hi everyone! I'm new here and I'm looking for a group of people and want to connect and find friends. Gusto ko sana ng chat group or page group na mahilig sa virtual kuwentuhan or games quiz nights.
Naghahanap ako ng mga tao na open-minded at may respeto sa iba't ibang pagkakaiba within our community. I want to learn more about others' experiences, especially sa mga social media apps other than Reddit.
A bit about me, I'm a 31-year-old guy from a province in the Ilocos Region. I'm closeted and only my closest friend knows that I am gay. Mahirap din kasi mag-open up, but I'm hoping to find a safe space here.
I have one male LDR relationship a very long time ago na tumagal lang ng 6 months. Ako ang nakipaghiwalay dahil feeling ko hindi pa talaga ako ready at that time. Hindi ako naghahanap ng hookups, or a relationship right now. Gusto ko lang mag-focus sa sarili ko and be in good financial standing dahil lumaki ako sa hirap. Para kasing mas maganda if you're stable before jumping into something serious.
Often people are surprised when I tell them I'm gay. It’s kind of funny kasi parang hindi nila agad nahahalata. Pero okay lang din, I think it keeps things interesting.
My family/parents don't know that I'm gay, but I feel like they have an idea. Alam mo na, parents' instinct, which is usually spot on. Nung bata kasi ako, napapansin ko na ang daming bagay about me na nagpapakita ng hints. Like, I love dancing to girly songs, drawing anime and cartoon girl characters, my friends are mostly girls, and I never been drink or smoke dahil health conscious ako.
So, if you know any group or page na may mga virtual activities, quizzes, or even just casual chats, let me know!
Salamat!
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2024.05.16 18:44 benjaminbby06 lagi na lang ako

hi to my fellow first borns!
share ko lang yung struggles ko lately with my younger brother. I am 4 years older than him but he is still in college because he took k-12.
I stay in Manila during weekdays because commuting to work is not anymore advisable, kahit na kung tutuusin ang lapit lang naman talaga ng lugar namin sa Manila. Bukod kasi sa mahal na yung pamasahe, sobrang traffic na rin talaga lalo na sa kagaya kong sa Taguig pa papasok. Since lagi ako nasa Taguig, kapatid ko lang yung naiiwan sa bahay altho he goes to school din in Manila but north lang. Our parents naman are in the province.
Every Friday night after shift or Saturday morning naman, umuuwi ako to check our house situation and my brother.
To my dismay, palaging ang gulo ng bahay at iniipon niya ang dishes. Wala syang sense of responsibility. Lagi niya akong hinihintay at parang immune na rin siya sa sermon. Naiiyak na lang ako tuwing umuuwi kasi yung weekends ko naubos na kakalinis ng bahay. Minsan ayoko na umuwi but I cannot rant that much sa parents ko because I don't want to pass the stress to them.
Idk what to do with my brother. Tamad talaga siya. Minsan gusto ko na lang na magkusa sya pero I can't stand the sight of chores piling up! :(
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2024.05.16 18:44 No_Bathroom8174 ASCPi Exam Appointment Schedule

Hello!
May nakatry na po bang magtake ng ASCPi exam sa 5pm timeslot?
I just scheduled my ASCPi exam sa PearsonVUE however, ang concern ko lang is 5pm nalang yung available time slot for my desired date. I still pushed through with the 5pm schedule on that date pero ngayon napapaisip ako kung tama po ba yun? Outside office hours na po kasi siya pero tama po diba na okay lang yung 5pm (until 7:30PM) bilang kasali naman po siya don sa options?
Thank you! Please help an overthinking katusok huhu🥺
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2024.05.16 18:42 WritingAsleep3858 tarantadong dorm mate

so basically, may circle of friends akong nag decide mag dorm since malapit na ftf. so lahat kami don magkakakilala not until one day, yung dalawa sa circles namin (anim kami lahat sa dorm) nag decide umalis ng dorm for some personal reasons. edi need namin mapunan yung dalawa pang kulang. yung isang pumalit, hs classmates namin tapos yung pangalawa naman, hindi namin siya totally kilala since ni recruit lang sya nung hs classmates namin. nag-start talaga yung kalbaryo naming lahat nung dumating siya sa dorm.
  1. ang ingay at ang bigat niyang kumilos, walang ka pake pakealam sa mga kasama niya basta makagalaw siya
  2. nairereklamo na kami nung nasa ibabang room namin (2 floors dorm namin) na dati hindi naman. reason bat nagrereklamo, ang ingay raw namin. syempre siya yon kasi siya lang naman yung mabigat kumilos
  3. mga gamit namin na pinapakealaman ng putangina tapos kapag cinonfront mo magdadahilan na kesyo ganyan, bobo amputa di magets na bago mangealam ng gamit ng iba dapat magpapaalam muna
  4. dugyot in all aspects, yung ihi nakakalat sa bowl, yung tabo nasa floor ng cr, nagtatapon ng noodles sa sink ng banyo, hinahayaang mabulok yung mga ulam na niluluto niya sa rice cooker, hinahayaan munang amagin yung mga tambak niyang hugasin bago hugasan minsan kahit i call out mo na wala pa rin ang tigas ng mukha
  5. magnanakaw hahaha
  6. nagdadala ng lalaki sa dorm, magugulat ka wala pang 7AM may kumakatok na samin tapos yung bwisita niyang dala hindi mabawalan sa ingay ng bunganga, parehong mga walang hiya
hindi ko na maisa isa, tina type ko pa lang to kumukulo na dugo ko. ano bang pwedeng gawin sa ganyang klaseng tao/hayop? kahit kausapin namin, wala talagang epekto, lalo lang kumakapal ang mukha. not to mention na transwoman siya hahahaha may kilala akong mga trans pero hindi ganyan, ang lala niya HAHAHAHAHAHA
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2024.05.16 18:38 chicken_sinigang Medicine

Hello! May I ask kung kumusta naman ang BUCM in terms of 📌faculty. Magaling ba? Masipag? Tamad? 📌schedule. Nasusunod naman ba? May nakalatag na bang schedule prior at least 1 week before? 📌community. Masaya naman ba? Tulungan? Walang gatekeeping ng notes? May trans system?
Tska any tips sa incoming freshman please. 🙏🏻 Ano ba ang mga reference books ng 1st yr subjects? Book-based ba sila pag nagpapaquiz/exam, or yung sa handout na binibigay ng profs?
Thank you!
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2024.05.16 18:37 Any_Masterpiece3099 why is it hard to choose between love or money?

I know madali lang sainyo yung sagot "pera siyempre mas mahirap maging mahirap eh" because I've (28M) been there too. I used to work a 9 to 5 job and nakikipag sabayan sa stress ng commute everyday from Cavite to Pasay uwian. I used to earn 18k per month, which is not enough for me, sa mama ko and kapatid ko. I dreaded that life that I just wish to have a sugar daddy and I'll do anything and everything, magpaka alila, maging s£x slave, just get me out of this cycle.
I had to endure that for 5 fvcking years until my partner (32M) figured it out in life. He was promoted big time at his work. He also does a few side jobs and now he's earning a lot, enough to buy himself a condo, a car, expensive trips locally and internationally. Ofcourse kasama ako sa lahat ng plano niya. He took me in his condo, taught me how to drive and get a license, brought me to Japan, S.Korea, China, etc. and soon sa Europe. He buys anything and everything that I want like clothes, shoes, food. Pag may cravings ako, binibili niya agad. I don't even have a job anymore and all I need to do now is to cook good food for him, maintain a clean house, do laundry, take care of our cats, and most importantly, stay cute. Tinupad niya yung wish ko na magka sugar daddy. He loves me that much.
I always looked up and admired him kasi matalino talaga siya, very competitive, and an achiever. I always knew he could do it. I knew he was the one, the one who would get me out of poverty. My meal ticket.
That's why I never let him go. I never left him even though he fvcking deserved it. Even though paulit ulit niya akong ginagagago at nagsisinungaling all those years. He cheated on me multiple times and ilang beses ko din siya pinatawad. It's mental torture being with him, sobrang nakakabaliw na laging may iniisip na may ibang kasama ung mahal mo and now I fell out of love, though he still love me and defends himself by saying "libog lang yun pero ikaw lang talaga ang mahal ko" or sometimes "I'm literally gonna kill myself if you leave me".
Anyway, I installed the yellow app myself and went on destructive, revenge hook ups. It was hard at first. I felt so disgusted of myself doing that pero there's something thrilling and exciting about hiding a dirty little secret from your partner. I did that multiple times as well, gusto ko lang maging patas.
My hook ups always tell me the same thing, that I'm cute, I'm cool, I'm the type na binabahay haha. I don't really get attached easily, until I met this guy. I know what you're thinking, that it's clichè etc. pero eto kasi talaga yung nangyari. I met a guy, let's call him Ed (25M) on the app and apart from being MUCH BETTER in bed, I also noticed that he has similar personalities with my partner.
Eventually, we grew closer and gusto niya akong ligawan. He's definitely my type and I would've said yes in an instant but that would mean I'll have to let go of the life of comfort that my partner gave me so I told him the truth about my situation. He said he really likes me and he knows kaya niya din daw maachieve kung anung meron ung partner ko now. I didn't give a thought about that at first until I did a little background check (stalking) and I was mindblown. He has really GREAT, great achievements that is very hard for a regular person like me. I don't wanna be specific kasi baka ma doxx ko siya pero he's super smart and he's still young so I don't doubt he will achieve far better than my partner. Kaya pala I noticed some similarities between them during our talks. He's also super sweet and nice.
All I know now is that we really like each other and I wanna take a chance with him. I haven't felt this excitement in a while yung parang you don't know what's gonna happen next. Pero what about this comfortable life na binigay sakin ng partner ko? do I have to stay with someone I don't even love anymore para lang makapagtravel, makain at mabili ung mga gusto ko? Or pursue a relationship with Ed and find out if mas magiging masaya ba ako kahit maghirap basta magkasama kame? I don't know..
Akala ko dati sa mga drama lang sa tv nangyayari ung ganto at pera lagi ang tamang sagot. Hindi pala... but I wanna know if someone else ang nasa lagay ko, anung gagawin niyo? I'm trying to see something.
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2024.05.16 18:37 Wooden_Video_2258 Anxiety Attack

I just lost my job this week and I am not ok. Biglaan lang and I wasn't expecting it. Napakabigat ng feeling ko, ang sikip ng dibdib ko, bigla nalang akong umiiyak and hyperventilate. Di ako nagreply sa termination email, i don't even know what to say or where to start. Parang gusto kong magtanong kung bakit naging ganon. They didn't even have the decency to hop on a call or explain properly, biglang email nalang while I was still working on the project. Napakasakit. Wala akong mapagsabihan in real life kasi nahihiya ako and ayoko silang ma disappoint sakin. I posted dito sa reddit about it and I received kind words and support, and it help for a while. Bakit ang hirap maka move on? Nag aapply na ako everywhere hopefully makahanap ako soon. Ako main na inaasahan ng family ko financially since marami kaming mga problema, and ngayon di ko na alam pano kami. Pagod na talaga ako. If di pa ako makahanap ng work by the weekend, I would have to break my family's heart. Napaka bigat.
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2024.05.16 18:36 LateCommunication970 22 [M4F] Lf ka co-work/study online

Lf ka co-study/work online… na maganda haha Grabe ako makapagdemand?
Well, let’s just swap pics para malaman natin if warranted ba ang padedemand ko lol.
-5’7
-Slim Fit
-Working As A Digital Marketer for 3 years now
-Plays guitabass (baka trip nyo musician)
Abt u:
-maganda
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2024.05.16 18:33 GarbageEquivalent383 Richer Waje: A thread part 2

Siguro some of you hindi kilala kung sino to ano? admin lang naman siya dati at siya ang na gangbang ng grupo ni ~ oppps can't spill. Yan ang reason kaya siya nag resign 🤭🤭🤭 Brainy din siya e kasi she knows na may makakaalam kaya nag resign 🤭🤭 balita ko ngayon nagpopokpok na siya sa mga afam infairness ha lumelevel up ang hustle ni ateng 🤭🤭
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2024.05.16 18:33 No-Feedback-9786 Parenting advice badly needed. 28F Mom

I’m a mom of two. My eldest is now 6 years old. Ever since nagka sister sya, ang laki ng pinagbago nya. Siguro since nahati nga yung attention. Pero we really tried to make her feel na we love both of them equally. Almost 5 years gap nila. Ayokong ayoko lang na pinapatulan or sinasaktan nya yung kapatid nya physically.
Recently, napansin ko lang na di na okay ang ugali ng eldest ko. Sinasagot nya ko, na parang ka edad nya lang ako. Matigas ulo nya, like pag sasabihan sya for example na istop nya yung ginagawa nya (na mali) in a calm manner, di sya makikinig and tutuloy nya pa din. Ititigil nya lang once magalit or sumigaw na. Ayoko sana palaging sumigaw or magalit, pero I really don’t know what to do. Kung pano ididisiplina, etc.
Nakakaiyak, feeling ko I failed as a mom. Like bat kaya sya nagkaganito, ano bang mali, ano ba need kong gawin ☹️
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2024.05.16 18:32 Cautious-You-9328 Sobrang natatakot ako

pavent po ako ng medj mahaba😭
Incoming medtech student this school year, di ko alam kung tama ba yung course na pinili ko, nag medtech lang naman ako kase takot akong mag nurse. Andami kong tanong. Same lang ba sya sa nursing? Mahirap ba? Gaano kahirap yung boards? Pano makapag work sa ibang bansa after? Kasing indemand ba sya kagaya ng nursing? Gaano kahirap mamuhay overseas ng mag isa?
Sobrang natatakot ako kase baka di ko kayanin this is my only chance di ako pwede magkamali sa choice ko na ito, hinayaan ako ng parents ko napiliin ito kahit na nursing ang gusto nila na aralin ko, honestly di ko talaga alam anong gusto nag medtech lang ako kase sabi nila same lang sila ng nursing in terms of demand and salary(TOTOO PO BA?) pero ang alam ko lang gusto ko makaalis ng pilipinas. Pero sobrang natatakot ako as a below average student alam ko na di ako matalino baka di ko pala kaya. Stem strand ko now secured na g-graduate ako naigapang ko naman pero hirap na hirap ako, consistent honor naman ako buong shs ko idk lang ngayon last quarter kase nag sabay sabay pressure ko sa school tas sa family ko. Hirap na hirap akong i-achieve yan nakakainis kase kahit anong gawin ko laging not enough, ang bobo ko sa math hirap na hirap ako makahabol sa mga classmate ko, nakikinig naman ako pero di kaya ng attention span ko laging nauuwi sa daydreaming, slow learner na nga bilis pang makalimot.
Nakakatakot kase baka bumagsak ako yung ibabayad sa tuition ko na 30kplus sayang pinaghirapan ng mga magulang ko sa ibang bansa, nag papaalila sila dun tas ibabagsak ko lang nakakahiya sobra. Nag try naman ako sa mga state u pero di ako pumasa(bumagsak ako sa upcat expected ko naman na yun pero ansakit padin kase parang sinampal ako na ang bobo ko). Natatakot din ako na baka di ako maka pag abroad kapag medtech ako. Di ako nag nursing kase kinakabahan tasdi ako makahinga sa ako mga crowded places or sa kahit anong lugar basta there’s more than three person sobrang naiintimidate ako tas takot din ako masigawan but everytime na naiisip ko kalagayan ko ngayon mas natatakot ako na di na ako makaalis dito, na habang buhay nalang ganito ang buhay ko, na di ko na maranasan ang maginhawang buhay.
I know naman na di palaging giginhawa ang buhay pag nasa ibang bansa pero alam kong underpaid mga health care workers dito sa pilipinas di lang health care alam kong lahat kaya mas gusto ko sa ibang bansa nalang kase ang init init na nga under paid kapa dito, kaya pinili ng magulang ko mag paalila sa ibang lahi kase walang opportunity mga hs grad dito.
Sa totoo lang di ko makita sarili ko sa ibang career kase nakatanim na saakin bata palang ako na mag nurse daw ako para may secured na work na kaya akong buhayin ng di isang kahig isang tuka at makaalis ng bansa, buti nalang pinayagan ako sa medtech. Pero natatakot pa din ako. Di ako makatulog lagi nalang kase natatakot akong maging failure, na baka di ako makasurvive sa college at adulthood. Ang bigat bigat sa dibdib ng mga nangyayari sa akin at sa pamilya ko ngayon. Yung mama ko nasa ibang bansa gusto na umuwi kasi di na daw nya kaya (dh po sya, kakaalis lang last September) tas pag andito naman gustong umalis, pag nasa probinsya gusto dito tas magagalit kase walang trabaho. Laging galit sa akin lahat sila palaging galit pag galit sya sa kapatid ko sakin sya magagalit ganun din kay papa pati si papa ganun sa akin parang emotional punching bag ako dito, wala din akong makausap kase natatakot ako mag over share sa mga friends ko na di ko alam kung kaibigan ba tingin sa akin tas natatakot din ako na madrain sila sa akin tas baka ipag kalat or gawan akong ng kwento. Gustong gusto ko na umalis dito sa amin pero di ko alam san ako pupunta, alam ko din naman na di ko pa kaya sarili ko, natatakot din ako na baka pag umalis ako kailanganin ko pa din bumalik sa kanila dahil di ko pala talaga kaya. Gusto ko nalang mag laho kasama ng mga problema ko. Nalulungkot din ako kase alam ko na andami kong namimiss out sa kabataan ko dahil lang sobrang strict nila at wala kaming pera. Ang unfair kase may mga pinanganak na mayaman, matalino, talented, at maganda all in one person like lord anak mo po rin ako.
Ps. Bat ayaw tumanggap ng fast food ng minor? (Isa palang naapplyan ko) paano po mag apply ng work? kahit fastfood or bpo mag 18 na ako in 2months.TAS SANA PO MASAGOT YUNG QUESTIONS SA TAAS TANONG KO PO TALAGA YUN NA GUSTONG MASAGOT😭
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2024.05.16 18:30 Inside-Ad-3887 ABYG dahil naiinis ako everytime nanghihingi mga kapatid ng partner ko

We are both 24 years old. 4 years in a relationship, 3 years being a live in partner. From a broken family partner ko, mother nya at tatlong kapatid (half sister isa) nasa ibang lugar, while sya, yung father nya at dalawa pa nyang kapatid ay nandito sa province. May work partner ko pero below minimum ang sahod nya. Gets ko na panganay sya kaya may mga responsibilidad pa sya sa mga kapatid nya. Pero mga te, grabe mga kapatid nya, kung makahingi kala mo may pinatago lagi, Mag oorder sila online shops tapos pag malapit na delivery date hihingi sila sa partner ko ng pera kasi wala daw silang pambayad, ayaw ng second hand na phone kasi di pa daw nya nat-try gumamit ng brand new (yung partner ko ilang taon na yung gamit nyang phone, hindi makapagait kasi walang pera) Ang gastos nila kahit alam nilang di kayang isustain ng mother nila. There was a time na binilan namin ng regalo half sister nya dahil birthday nga, ang ending yung dalawang dalaga nyang kapatid nagtampo, bakit daw sila walang regalo. Worth 70 pesos na load, 5 days hindi pinansin ng jowa ko, hindi man lang sila nakaramdam talagang kinulit kulit nila. Ang kinakasama ng loob ko, hindi nila pinapansin partner ko pag wala silang kailangan, ni kumustahin di nila ginagawa, pag naka vc sila nag b-bad finger pa sakanya. Itong rant na to kapatid nya palang na nasa mama, mas grabe ugali nong kapatid nyang nandito.
Abyg kasi naiinis ako kasi ang unreasonable nila, hindi daw sila nanghihingi sa tatay nila dahil nahihiya daw sila, mind you guys mas malaki sahod ng papa nila kesa sa partner ko, kinsenas ng partner ko, isang byahe lang ng tatay nila.
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