I am M22 baru aja lulus, 2 bulan nganggur belum dapet kerja. Mau nanya buat bro and sis, kalau misal saya hidup sendirian, apakah nanti Net Income (Total Pemasukan dikurangi Spending) akan lebih gede dibanding punya pasangan dan beranak?
Asumsinya, kalau misal saya berpasangan, tentu income saya berasal dari dua sumber, yaitu saya dan istri, (saya gamau beristri IRT),
Tapi, di sisi lain, spending nya tentu lebih besar, antara lain:
Rumah harus lebih besar karena ane hidup berkeluarga. Kalau ane hidup sendiri, rumah kecil ga masalah.
Ada biaya buat ngurus dan sekolahin anak. Harus nyari lingkungan yang bagus buat perkembangan anak (yang mana cost lebih mahal juga, lol). Asumsi saya istri pasti mau punya anak, karena jarang perempuan mau childfree di Indonesia, gak kayak di USA.
Ditambah lagi, transfer ke ortu sama mertua.
Variabel waktu juga pertimbangan, kalau single, ane pulang dari kerja bisa pake waktu buat develop skill buat naikin value ane di mata bos, misal, kuliah sampe S3, atau ikut kursus biar, bisa naik jabatan.
Waktu ane juga bisa kepake buat hal lain di luar kerjaan, misal buat hobi di musik atau main game.
Kalau berkeluarga, waktu ane dipake buat interaksi dengan istri dan anak anak.
Kekurangan dari being single adalah sumber pemasukannya cuma ane sendiri, beda kalau punya istri yang kerja, sumber incomenya ada dua (as i said ane ga mau punya istri IRT). Tapi, hal tersebut dibarengi dengan spending yang makin gede jg.
Saya ga masalah hidup sendiri kalo emang net incomenya lebih banyak. Ada saran dari bros and sis? Thank you in advance
Edit: Gua cuma mau mutus rantai setan. Kakek nenek gua miskin. Bapak Ibu miskin. Kakak udah nikah skrng kepala 3 juga masih miskin. Kalau gua nikah dan punya anak, higher chance gua juga tetap miskin, kecuali istri gua kaya raya. Kalau gua punya anak, anak gua kemungkinan besar akan miskin juga, sama sepeti generasi pendahulu dia. Makanya gua mau mutus rantai dengan tidak menikah dan tidak punya anak

This is my first and most probably last post here,I have qualified for JEE Advanced but it was a close call as I got 94.5 percentile , this year was my first year appearing for JEE and will be my last at least I think so I had hope for advanced as my chemistry especially organic chem was strong but for a few weeks I had pain in my lower back and groin areas it was unbearable and when we did some tests guess what? I had kidney stones at 18 and the cherry on the top was that they were 10.7 mm and 7.7 mm each in the left and right ureter , that is in the middle of it so you can't remove it with lithotripsy that is a shockwave treatment thing which breaks down the stone into smaller fragments that you can easily pass this treatment is the most minimalistic way to treat kidney stones without entering the body,but it had to be stuck in the ureter. The doctor suggested that I should go for ureteroscopy that a small tube will be passed in the ureter that breaks down the stone making it easier to pass. My parents immediately took me out of the hospital and called every single relative of mine to ask for some bullshitty AYURVEDIC MEDICINE from some Baba of sorts they said " Tujhe kya bada aasan lagta hai operation krwana ? Mera kuch nhi jayega tera hai insurance, mujhe kya jab cheer faad krenge na tab pata chalega." I know that it is quite uncommon for people my age to have to be operated but what can I do now? Kr li galti. Now that things have come to this I have shifted my focus from Adv to BITSAT as that is the only good option I have rn. I feel degected due to this thing I'm not able sit straight for hours, they say go and walk outside , when I try to tell them it pains too much they say it will pain but it will come down slowly slowly and you'll be able to pass it. Well I can't do much about it but the absolute worst of the things I have to face in my life is my parents fighting each other Ik fights happen in household but you ever heard your mum say" Madarchod apni maa ko bicha deta hai na tu logon ke saamne main bhi bich jau kya?!!" Ye sab bolte hain while being loud as fuck saari gali main sunta hain logon ko , I feel ashamed when I see my friends literally next door and on the opposite side of my house,I feel their eyes on me my mom doesn't go out much often so mostly nobody knows her. She shouts so loudly with the most vulgar of things you can imagine she calls me Chakka, bhadwa, and all sorts of things when I try to stop her yelling by placing my hand on the mouth she says that I hit her and beat her. Whenever my dad's home that is my dad works in a company overseas so he goes for 2 months and comes back again after 2 months, she fights with him everyday I admit that many a times he is wrong but she makes it into complicated things and bringing his mother into it too, the fight like mad animals they hit each other swear at each other in the loudest voice possible and the things are so vulgar the mods might take this post down maybe they will cz of the things mentioned above well it was jjst rant in the end so np ig.My family is so fucked up my mother she had me when she was 19 she did not belong to a financially stable family, has 3 brothers and she is the youngest of all she was married to a 40 year old something guy and had me , the man left her after she had me I still don't know the reasons and everyone around her rejected her but my grandmother was different she left everyone for her came to my side she was there for me and my mother for 14 years during which my other met my dad( not the biological one but for me this man is my only father even if not biological) they fell in love and well several years passed everything was going well my father got ED( I came to know about thus cz of these two fighting amd cursing at each other)and my other cheated on him a guy quite younger than her, I came home one day and saw the man in my house I asked who he was my mum said he is some known guy that came here for some auditions and couldn't afford to stay and hotel. He slept with me in my bedroom and well I say my mother and him fucking each other on my bed and while I saw this I started crying while keeping my voice low and closed eyes but I did not turn on the light, I screamed and rushed outside to go and call my neighbour so that he woukd call my father overseas my mom and the guy stopped me and told me nothing had happened and my mom came out from the other bedroom, its been 8 years since then but my mother and that guy still tallk to each other video call eacb other and I can't say anything cz who am I to say? " Tu meri maa hai kya ki mera baap jo mujhe sikhayega??" Exact words of my mother even when I caught her redhanded and told that I would tell father this bitch said she whaf the fuck is your father gonna do huh? " Jisko tu baap bol rha hain na woh sirf meri wajah se pal rha hain tujhe jiss din ye hath hatt jayega na uss din pata lagega tujhe naali ka keeda kahin ka" She raised me in adversities Ik her struggle but should I listen to all of this the man who also although not from the very start took care of me should I let him live a bubble , today my father knows everything but still he believes in mother absolute fool of a man he is she has cheated on him multiple times but just because he has three kids he is not taking divorce because who will watch the kids when he is not here. Its also not possible for my dadi to see us as my mother has always had bitter relations with everyone close to my father Today as well my dad left sometime ago for airport he is flying today this women gave him so much stress he had had brainstroke at the age of 40, my grandmother that is my mum's mother is here with us so she told me to get her medicines while I was going out with my father , she gave me 500 rupees eventhough I wasn't going to take it my father's upi wasn't working well yesterday so I thought that I should take the money for emergencies. So I took the money and after everything was done I came home forgetting that I had to take medicines for my grandma too I dropped dad at home and went out to get medicines while getting the medicines the shop next to it was closing so I quickly got 3 pack of chips for me and my brothers I did not use upi there as I thought giving cash would be fast.I paid the shopkeeper 60 rupees and he handed over 440 to me after which I gave 100 to a istri wala the bill was 5p but we both did bit have change so I told him that he could just give me next time and today my other asks me about WHY I HAD ASKED MY GRANDMOTHER FOR MONEY FOR THE MEDICINES.Even when I told her she told me why didn't I use paytm why did I TAKE MONEY FROM HER. She says If I did not use the money I should pay it back. I her the remaining money she still made a big deal out of it and told my father" ITNI BHI AUKAAT NHI HAI HUMARI JO MERI MAA SE PAISE MANGNE PAD RHE HAIN USKI MEDICINE KE LIYE" and made a scene out of it my dad was about to cancel his job because she said she would leave rn this happened an hour or two ago before this post was posted. I'm fed up with this shit I really am I wish to get into BITS and leave this family after I graduate and keep minimal contact with thsi hellhole. When I leave I ain't coming back never again.

kasus suami mutilasi istri yg bilang beli daging yanti.
tolong netizen jangan salahkan 100% ke suami lah.
hutang gara2 anak goblok, sma, udah main judi & pinjol..
istrinya malah belain si anak.
suaminya pusing, pendapatan tidak menentu,
istri jadi pelampiasan..
anak kabur..

I don’t really watch max and silky so might be a bit biased so lmk
1) Lacy => actually fit his personality was funny and had some charm to it best actor in the group out of the 4 didn’t feel awkward at all 2) Max => All the budget went to this one was funny. Max’s aura was there no signs of fear and funny cameo of your rage Diddy being the main character and going to jail fits his personality . Felt like a movie 3) Jason’s => man lowkey had no aura corn level acting and had nothing to do with Jason’s stream / vibe if ba made the donation instead of banks it would’ve been a 10/10 but since no abgs at all it was cool ig but could’ve been better if Ron was in it or something best overall part was the end with the song and 0————-0 being brought up 4) silky => I deadass don’t know anything about silky but the party was the most weak party I’ve ever seen no aura no bad bitches the concept was cool like he funna lock in type shit but idk it was like whatever tbh nothing gained I feel like the TikTok rizz party looked way more fun than that party LMK y’all’s rankings mines 1)Lacy 2) Max 3) Jason 4) Silky

Hello,
My paludarium has essentially 2 sections, one is damn near sopping wet because of the splatter from the waterfall, and the other 1/3 is 'moist/damp'
Ive lost a lot of plants to the damp side, figured it was due to the water being splashed on the leaves, essentially only Monstera, pothos, and the bamboo plant survive over in that section, the pothos just thrives like crazy, and even into the water section.
Ive had the strawberry pegonias, even FERNS, wandering jews, persian shield, purple heart, spider plant , among other high humidity plants not survive in my paludarium, and the best conclusion is that the further they are from that waterfall section the better chance of survival lol. Also, I have tossed a bunch of pearl weed around the super moist areas and they have begun carpeting, which is funny because it is supposed to be an underwater carpeting plant lol
I even have a misting system that goes every 24 hours for a few seconds, this is to mainly water the plants in the pots in the background, even some of those dont survive either :-/ along with a fogger that runs every few hours for 10 minutes or so.
So Im wondering if there are any plants that just love watedamp substrate. Substrate is ABG mix with some potting soil, and little bit of charcoal.
I also have some inhabitants, vampire crabs, snails and shrimp, unsure if that matters for plants though.
The left side where the bamboo is where the waterfall is, so it's super damp there and gets dryer as you goto the right.
TLDR, want recommendations of plants that do fine in extremely damp/humid conditions

Hi! I'm a Nursing Student from Italy and our healthcare system is extremely different from yours so I'm just curious.
Is it just my perception or is nursing in the US extremely advanced from the rest of the world yet so oddly "limited"?
I mean why are there so many techs like phlebotomists, ECG techs, Health Techs, MAs, RTs?
Like what do nurses even do if others draw blood, manage things like mechanical ventilation, Oxygen therapy, change wound dressings etc?
In Italy there are a lot of health care professions but they don't "overlap" with our role.
In most hospital units there are just MDs, RNs and CNAs that's it. Our CNAs main focus is hygiene and assisting in ADL.
Nurses pretty much do everything, start IVs, draw blood, do ABGs, manage ventilation & oxygen therapy, do ECGs, wound care, administer medication, manage urinary catheters, enemas etc
And what I mean is that nobody else can do any of these things in Italy (excepts MDs of course & Midwives). For example in Italy only Nurses, Midwives and MDs can draw blood. It's is unthinkable that someone with a few months course can do that. (Also our healthcare professions education is much more standardized: all healthcare professions require a Bachelor's, there are no Associates or accelerated programs, vocational schools etc)
I'm asking you this because after a few months in this sub I read about nurses refusing to do ECGs (?), and I read that in NYC in some hospitals nurses don't draw blood etc because of the union policy, like what is this madness?
And personally I think RNs in the US are probably the best of the world for their education. Tha fact that a role like NP even exist is so wild to me, we will never reach that level in Italy in the near future; so I view you as a role model for nursing, I'm just confused about some things.
Also I know that nurses in the US do a lot, maybe the "what do nurses even do" is a bit provocative.

Good morning these are just some earnings. I checked since 7AM, for reports yesterday after the bell:
IBCP 85 ITGR 75 HESM 60 SHYF 65 GEV 70 FCN 90 UBSI 60 TSCO 60 SPGI 90 UNP 70 CMCSA 70 PHIN 75 HOUS 55 LYTS 65 HES 99 LECO 60
HTZ 50 EME 95 IMAX 70 CNOB 60 MPX 55 KEX 85 ABG 75 ULBI 90 BFH 55
VLY 60 KDP 65 TW 70 POOL 55 SRCL 60 OPRA 70 ARCH 65 NDAQ 60
AAL 60 [Strong Guidance] MO 60 BMY 65 VC 60 LH 65 AOS 60 GTX 65
ADT 55 HZO 50 HOG 70 NOC 80 STRA 75 RES 55 RS 65 CNX 20! YIKES!
FTI 80 SAH 60 IP 55 LUV 55 MBLY 60 CBZ 75 CARR 65 AIT 65 CAT 60
DAR 55 LAZ 90 FCNCA 70 IIIN 60 WEX 60 TXT 60 CMS 60 DOV 65 MRK 80
RCL 85 [Strong Guidance too] AMAL 65 TRU 75 VLO 60 PCG 60 BC 65 XEL 60
OSK 85 TPH 90 WTW 60 WNS 70 HON 65 FCFS 60 WST 65 DOW 65
SBSI 60 ALLE 60 CHKP 65 TAL 80 UXIN 60 OII 85 CDMO 55 HLX 55 AZN 90
STM 55 EQNR 60 FBMS 70 CLB 55 WM 60 TER 65 TCBX 65 OBK 65 CBAN 65
CLS 75 MEOH 70 VIST 55 ALRS 65 ORN 60 CHX 70 MORN 75 AGI 70
TOWN 60 INBK 70 PMT 60 AMED 65 CVBF 60 UHS 80 ATNI 55 HP 60
WCN 65 AMSF 65 GSHD 65 PEGA 60 LOB 60 SLM 85 KALU 70 PLXS 65
ORLY 60 FAF 55 MTH 90 SNBR 60 CNMD 70 EHC 75 STC 75 ICLR 60 URI 75
TX 95 MOH 75 TYL 75 WU 65 CMG 85 [But Tech valuation?] WHR 70 JAKK 55
NOW 80 [Valuation] IBM 60 ETD 50 LRCX 70 F 70
META 90 [Guidance and META AI spending]
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I am getting ready for 2 closings set for next Thursday or Friday so I will be doing a lot of that. I spent over 2 hours on earnings so I will have to cut this short.
GDP came in at 1.6%, lower than the 2.4% expected. To be honest I am shocked we are over flat! We have been running hot!
I am surprised that unemployment is still 3.8%-3.9%.
I expected with the rates high, inflation… that people would slow spending, sales would come down, earnings would slow or come down, GDP may go negative.. so I am surprised. I believe we are being funded by Debt.. That is my opinion.
I have not checked final earnings for SP500 2023, but I believe it will be near 220. I have 2024 at 235 or about 5% growth…. I do not know for sure so far if we will see that. Analysts have it about 243 now. [Start of year was 246] We are trading at near 22-23x and we may not achieve this earnings and sales…
META had very good earnings and sales… Awesome, especially for its size… maybe they are sand bagging on the 2nd quarter? They will be spending more in AI and META which the street doesn’t like… however this cash machine has been doing that already and putting out awesome earnings the last 3 quarters… I may buy the dip!
5 trade Ideas:
META – I do not want shares but may buy calls with time. [Leaps 1 year or more] Let me see
TSLA – When it flew to 168 I was looking at puts, let us see, the earnings were pathetic!
PGNY – I am in 500 at 32.05
MTCH – I did bid 31.25 yesterday, but it didn’t drop that much, let us see
YOU – They smashed earnings, dividend, special dividend, buyback and has come down
The contents of this post are for information and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute financial, accounting, or legal advice. ... By choosing to make a trade you are responsible for your own actions. Please do some due diligence. These are trades I am making and you can follow along. If you make a winning trade, I do not even expect a bravo or thanks but that’s fine, if you lose on a trade the same difference.. I do not even expect an upvote or reward… The Elite team is aware of the risks and volatility in the market.
Good luck everyone let’s make money. Share trades, ideas here during trading hours. Our main goal here is to make money so I hope we can help eachother. I will be in and out of here as well.
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Does anyone have personal experience or input with using ABG mix (like from Pangea or Josh's Frogs) for their sand boa? I've heard people using organic soils and play sand but I've always worried about accidently getting soils that weren't truly organic and ending up using something dangerous so I prefer to use mixes like ABG that I know is made for reptiles. But would it work for sand boas if I kept it relatively dry (or however dry you would recommend)? The main thing I worry about is the chunks of charcoal in it and how dusty the coco fibers can be sometimes. Would this really be a problem or am I overthinking it? My sand boa is currently on Aspen but it's not holding humidity well and she's having trouble shedding so I just wanted something that could hold a tiny bit more moisture.

General, Engineer, Male. Acads (9/8/7): 10th: 95%; 12th: 82%; Grad: 70.5% Work Ex: 34 months
I work with a global performance marketing agency (Dentsu). My CTC is 8LPA. I'm somewhat stuck here. I'm not seeing much growth. My main aim to do an MBA is to get into a FMCG /D2C marketing profile or any growth and marketing profile (also open to Gen Man roles like TAS or ABG or ITC) with decent pay (atleast 2.5 to 3 times of my current CTC)
A/B/C/L/K/I seems like a distant dream now. Considering my average acads and high cutoff required for GEM.
Considering the above caveats, would new IIMs be a good option for me? Guys help!

Jadi sore ini tadi setir pulang dari puncak ke arah jakarta. Seperti biasa macet parah. Pas sampai di pertigaan taman safari dihadang oleh pak ogah supaya satu mobil bisa masuk ke depan mobil saya. Saya kasi lewat. Kemudian saya mulai inching lagi. Tetapi belum juga satu meter, samping kiri mobil saya di tabrak oleh mobil lain yang ternyata mobil militer. Karena anak sudah kecapean rewel dan saya punya insurance jadi saya abaikan. Di benak saya saya pasti benar karena statusnya ditabrak samping.
Ternyata supir mobil tersebut turun mendatangi mobil dan mulai ngomel ke saya. Intinya saya ke puncak hanya main sementara si oknum ini mengejar waktu. Tentu saja saya membela diri loh bapak yg nabrak saya, apakah kl kejar waktu diperbolehkan menabrak mobil lain? Dari mana saya tau Bapak kejar waktu? Waktu kejadian tidak ada sirine dan lampu kedip. Walau bapak bisa masuk ke depan saya juga tetap saja kena macet. Hanya selisih satu mobil. Intinya saya berani larena merasa benar ya.
Kemudian karena diklakson dari belakang maka oknum tersebut kembali ke mobilnya. Kemudian menyalip dari kanan saya melanggar arus dan memepet mobil saya tetapi untungnya saya sempat mengerem sehingga tidak mengenai mobilnya. Setelah itu berjalan beberapa meter dia memarkir mobilnya dan meminta saya saya turun atau ke kantor polisi saja. Of course saya pilih ke kantor polisi. Maka dia kembali naik ke mobilnya. Baru beberapa meter kemudian dia parkir lagi pinggir jalan, turun dan kembali meyuruh saya turun, ketika saya tidak mau karena saya pikir harus ke kantor polisi, oknum tersebut mulai menggedor kap mobil saya supaya saya turun.
Akhirnya saya juga menepi dan turun karena cemas kap mobil saya ikut penyok. Terjadilah percekcokan. Kali ini saya lihat lampu biru berkedip di bemper mobilnya yang tadinya tidak menyala. Oknum tersebut masih mengatakan intinya bahwa saya tidak mengutamakan kepentingan negara dan bahwa dia sedang konvoi dengan kendaraan di depan yang saya beri lewat sebelumnya. Catatan: tidak ada lampu hazzard, tidak ada lampu biru, tidak ada sirine bagaimana saya tahu mereka convoi? Di benak saya kondisi macet saya beri satu mobil lewat kemudian giliran saya lewat. Saya juga tetap pada pendirian bahwa tidak ada sign bahwa mereka convoi, kemudian apakah jika tidak saya beri lewat mobil saya boleh ditabrak? Saya tunjukkan jelas bahwa mobil saya baret panjang di samping sementara mobil militer ini penyok di ujung bemper depan kanan.
Untungnya sebelum lebih lanjut ada polisi datang entah dari mana. Langsung saya ceritakan kejadiannya. Dan tunjukkan bahwa saya ditabrak samping. Seketika oknum tersebut berubah 180 derajad. Mengatakan bahwa tujuannya meminta saya berhenti adalah klarifikasi, sebagai umat Islam dia mengikuti pelajaran x (dalam bahasa arab saya tidak paham dan juga lupa tepanya apa yg disebut karena saya bukan Muslim) jika dia yg salah akan minta maaf dsb. Jangan sampai saya mengatakan bahwa aparat negara semena-mena…
Kemudian polisi menyela supaya selesai perkaranya bagaimana. Langsung saya katakan bahwa dari awal saya tidak berniat memperkarakan, saya ada asuransi dan memang ada niat untuk claim karena ada penyok juga di tempat lain hasil istri menyerempet island di pompa bensin. Justru si oknum ini yang mencari perkara. Kemudian si polisi mengatakan kl seperti itu sudah clear. Si oknum tiba-tiba minta maaf dan saya dipersilakan pergi.
Menurut pendapat redditor apa yang sebenarnya diinginkan si oknum? Saya ada sempat terpikir negatif thinking bahwa ujungnya pemerasan, bisa jadi saya sengaja ditabrak. Apakah betul sampai menggebrak kap mobil saya karena agar aparat negara tidak disebut semena-mena? Menurut kalian apakah posisi saya salah? How would you handle this situation? I clearly didn’t do well but it is best I can do under the circumstances.
Thanks!

Hi, my partner is an ICU-trained RN from the UK with one years experience in a cardiac ICU and completion of UK Step 1 Core Competencies.
My main questions are:

1. Does anyone have any knowledge of equivalence for UK Step competencies and Aus postgraduate studies? Most jobs highlight postgraduate diploma/certification as pre-requisite which doesn’t apply in UK.
   
2. Would completion of Step 1 have equivalence to postgraduate qualification for jobs?
   
3. What’s the scope of practice for ICU nurses in Aus? Lurking on here it seems things are a lot more senior-led whereas in UK she would be managing ventilators/ABG interpretation and electrolyte replacement independently.
   
4. How do ICU nurses in Aus start work if jobs require the PGCert? Do they do their studies before applying to their first job?
   

Any advice would be really appreciated thanks!

Hey guys, im planning on building my first paludarium and I want to avoid as much problems as possible. It has the measurements 60x45x90 cm and should hopefully be home to phelsumas, vampire crabs and guppys (I know about the dangers of having geckos and a water area though). Like many others, I was inspired by Dr. Plants paludarium tutorials, so his videos are what im basing my approach to this enclosure on. I most likely will return frequently to this sub reddit in the next months to seek help concerning other things but here are my first questions mainly regarding the smartest way to build the water feature.

1. Dr. Plants used leca as drainage layer but only filter foam sheets to „separate“ land from water area. Won’t you over-saturate the leca with water and face the risk of having soaked substrate if your barrier is water permeable? My idea would be to divide water and land area with a waterproof barrier so the drainage layer would only see the excess water coming from the soil. The water would run back to pump through an extra channel (see the pictures)
   
2. for the drainage layer: would you rather recommend leca or egg crate? Im learning more towards leca
   
3. speaking of the water proof barrier: which material would you prefer in that matter? Expanded PVC foam boards or corrugated PP boards (or any other that I dont know of yet)? On other channels like Asu, Mugen Woong or biotope gallery im never seeing the PP boards, only the PVC boards. Does this have particular reason? Apart from enclosing the water area I would use these plastic sheets to build the pump shaft and the course of the water fall.
   
4. have u got any ideas on how I can cleanly incorporate a fogger? I would prefer to hide it within the pump shaft but that would probably take up a lot of space?
   
5. For the substrate: in my region (germany) it seems like I cant get my handy on pre-mixed abg mix. Does anybody has experience with mixing the substrate themselves or have a recipe, respectively?
   

Thanks in advance for all the help and advice🙏🏼